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Speaker 1: Welcome back, y'all. Ain't no accent? Sorry, go ahead, sorry.

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Speaker 1: Every time we are white people lying, we we get

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Speaker 1: out this, but I guess we can't. She don't know

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Speaker 1: what to do right now? Is that? Is that? Is that?

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 3: Because you know what it is. We either got black gusts,

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Speaker 3: white guess or Latino one cent of blue.

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Speaker 1: We've got an Asian.

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Speaker 3: I don't think we've ever had an Asian guest. We

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Speaker 3: actually pre briefed with Danny like, how do you say it?

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Speaker 1: Jao Yang?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Oh my god, I am the first.

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Speaker 1: I think you're the first Asian on this podcast.

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Speaker 4: First yellow people?

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Speaker 1: Who? She said? First Yellow? I interviewed that Asian guy

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Speaker 1: who dated the black girl? Where on Patreon?

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Speaker 5: That?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm talking about regular episodes right now? Who we racist?

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Speaker 1: I'm here? You are not? Yeah? Hello, Okay, no, bro,

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Speaker 1: this isn't right. Okay wait technically no, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 3: The Asian dom the girl and she had a black boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: You guys met them at the sex club. She was

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Speaker 3: our first.

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Speaker 1: Oh we did. Hold on? Is it technically? Hold on?

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Speaker 1: Let's get it into geographics.

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Speaker 3: You had uh oh boy, that house with Andrew Schultz,

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Speaker 3: who what's his name?

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Speaker 1: You know it's Asian? Oh gosh, gosh, thing. Okay, Indians

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Speaker 1: are not Asian.

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Speaker 6: No, they're not it you know I'm talking about?

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Speaker 1: Is it my joke?

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Speaker 4: I'm not the Indians.

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Speaker 1: Y'all. Welcome to another episode of Poor This is y'all.

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Speaker 3: I'm your mad b I'm weezy, and we have jow

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Speaker 3: ying of the Tiger Milk podcast Tiger Milk Crazy.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so happy to be here. It actually kind

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Speaker 5: of feels racist last you said, Yeah, I literally I

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Speaker 5: drove directly. I got just got back from Arizona one

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Speaker 5: minute ago. I drove all day today.

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Speaker 1: I did my makeup in the car. It looks really good.

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Speaker 6: Mario's my host was driving. I'm I'm doing my makeup

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Speaker 6: and they're so dangerous.

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Speaker 1: You poke your eyes.

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Speaker 6: My eyes are so Tiny's chances I can buy a

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Speaker 6: lot of tickets.

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Speaker 1: But I poked my eye? Honey, Can I ask you?

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Speaker 1: What the hell? So I know what a milk is?

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Speaker 1: What is a tiger milk?

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Speaker 6: I think because the Asian moms are referred as tiger moms. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: con tighter mom be the kids like I'm tiger.

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Speaker 3: Mill I don't know if I ever knew that. So, okay,

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Speaker 3: this is about crouching tiger hitting dragon.

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Speaker 1: I know I've heard. Is it based on tiger moms? No?

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Speaker 6: No, it's like a movie. I think it's like a

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Speaker 6: comful movie. Right, people are playing in the bamboo that's

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Speaker 6: so Chinese.

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Speaker 1: Chinese making chop sticks. I think tighter moms like that

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Speaker 1: kind of mom that to be their kids.

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Speaker 4: If you don't, they don't get eight across the board.

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Speaker 1: This is why this is good. But you're so stupid

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Speaker 1: for the icebreakers.

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Speaker 3: I literally have Chinese versus black because I think we

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Speaker 1: So this is just Chinese moms or black moms.

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Speaker 3: What do you think is worse because black moms would

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Speaker 3: use anything to beat you. Yeah, Chinese moms, what do

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Speaker 6: I would have like I would have I think chairs

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Speaker 6: and uh like why when I cook?

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Speaker 4: What do you call it?

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Speaker 1: Like a walk? Walk? Yeah? Do not be no kids.

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Speaker 1: I don't do it in America. There's not ego here.

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Speaker 1: But in China.

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Speaker 3: Ah, okay, there's no there's no laws to protect children

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 1: If your family and your mom beat you, it's your fault.

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Speaker 1: You know you're probably doing something.

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Speaker 3: Humid and Okay that's kind of a black But can

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Speaker 3: I ask you but today in twenty twenty three, because

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Speaker 3: There's in China is mental health as as prominent as

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Speaker 1: Think people don't care. They just if you're weak.

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Speaker 6: You know, it's just like a Darwin you know, if

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Speaker 6: you are weak, you should be erased from human race.

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Speaker 7: The Darwin the Darwin system, Like yeah, if you're lazy,

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Speaker 4: It's better for the future.

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Speaker 3: Think about the entrepreneurship too, Like imagine being the Chinese

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Speaker 1: You don't own a store, which is crazy because when

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Speaker 6: Even ask you want a club, ball two club, want

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Speaker 6: to start a comedy.

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Speaker 1: Club?

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Speaker 4: Comedy sign up?

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Speaker 1: Oh I know that's right. I thought you've got strip clubs.

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Speaker 6: I wish I yeah, I just ball to clouds because

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Speaker 6: I'm saying though, like I have to go to my club.

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Speaker 1: Oh, he doesn't, he doesn't my shows.

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Speaker 3: So I made that joke because another Chinese guy I

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Speaker 3: met him, I was like, how mad are your parents?

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Speaker 1: He was like, they don't talk to me.

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Speaker 3: Wow, because I think they believe very similar to not

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Speaker 3: what is the Chinese stereotype?

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Speaker 1: Like, I want my like my kid to be this.

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Speaker 6: I think a doctor is noble career lawyers and also

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Speaker 6: like own business, learn business.

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Speaker 1: That's so many Chinese own businesses.

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Speaker 6: I think a Chinese culture lawyer and doctor is not

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Speaker 6: You can think of vacations, you'll make money. You talk,

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Speaker 3: Okay, now I got another one Chinese black chicken wings

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Speaker 3: because I'm a Chinese chicken.

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Speaker 1: I like the Korean ones.

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Speaker 6: The koream you know, I don't like them, but they

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Speaker 1: The Koreans are my hairdresser, and the bts and their food.

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Speaker 1: The Bobby kuels so good, which is crazy, like, and

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Speaker 1: the Chinese chicken wing is a full one. Yeah it's

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Speaker 1: and it got the hairs on it sometimes. That's yeah.

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Speaker 1: She like the you like the chicken wings with the leve.

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Speaker 4: Chicken feed is also good for you?

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 4: It's good for your skin and your pussy.

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Speaker 1: Chicken chicken for good for your pussy.

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Speaker 6: How the collagen in there is gonna be good for

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Speaker 6: you know what? They could be good for your Yeah,

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Speaker 6: it's good for everything. It's just good chicken feed's good

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Speaker 3: I have a question I just thought about when I

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Speaker 6: Uh Giao like Joanna, Johanna Johanna or Jolie Joline like

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Speaker 6: Julian while you still my man, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Like your man now the next one.

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Speaker 1: Chinese guys versus Black guys.

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Speaker 3: We've never had sex with a Chinese dude, but I'm

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Speaker 3: curious to know differences with sex. There's a big moment

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I never thought about that. Asian

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Speaker 1: The pen flop.

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Speaker 6: Well, it's just it's very different when they pay for everything.

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Speaker 6: You know, you just you kind of meditated when you

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Speaker 6: have sex, even though the dick's not good. I'm kidding,

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Speaker 6: I I I love I can't. I. Hey, my guy

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Speaker 6: has to be hot. I don't care about your skin couder.

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Speaker 1: You can be a purple red hot. I'm shallow.

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Speaker 6: My pussy operates un harnessed, like it will be wet.

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Speaker 6: It would be dripping. If the guy's hot, there's no

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Speaker 6: I'm locked. I kind of like ugly guys sometimes.

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Speaker 3: What makes you like an ugly I don't know, they'd

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Speaker 3: be funny and then I fee that makes your pussy word. Also,

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Speaker 3: I like them because I know nobody else wants to.

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Speaker 1: Oh so that's hard when they have the chance, they overdidiver.

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Speaker 3: But but yes, but it's long as they have money.

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Speaker 3: Even when they're ugly, they're cocky and they like they're

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like jay Z is hot.

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Speaker 6: He's so because he's so rich and the successful and talented.

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Speaker 1: But is Yeah, but if you if jay Z was

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Speaker 1: not jay Z, So you guys know, I would Beyonce

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Speaker 1: that one time. Oh my god, I hate to bring

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Speaker 1: it up again to do this, but he was, And

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. The hair.

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Speaker 3: His hair looks really good in person because he's in

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Speaker 3: his height because he's wealthy weazy?

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Speaker 6: Was it the billions money everything, billions, the billions.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, his joys.

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Speaker 3: Would have been given opa laka if it wasn't for

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Speaker 1: But I also wouldn't be like that.

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Speaker 3: It's okay, now give us the truth on the myth

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Speaker 3: Asian guys in their penis size totally bullshit or kind

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Speaker 6: I I my ex is a piece of ship, but

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Speaker 6: his dick is so good?

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Speaker 1: Really this wait? And what what was he? Like? He

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Speaker 1: was he was Chinese as well.

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Speaker 6: He's Chinese, but he's huge. But I'm seeing a Chinese

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Speaker 6: guy is Korea. I'm like, are gonna conter me?

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Speaker 1: Like what is this?

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Speaker 6: But then I see like a white guy, was like,

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Speaker 6: why guys a pencil? This is the pencil? So like

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Speaker 6: I see white guys big dicks. So I haven't fucked

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Speaker 6: never been with a black you actually don't give me

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Speaker 6: that at all.

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Speaker 1: I'm assure you've been.

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Speaker 6: I was very happy I was divorced because I have

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Speaker 6: always been long riddenships, like I have like a four

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Speaker 6: I was very ugly, so I'm never I was a

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Speaker 6: I was my first boyfriend in Kentucky. I went to

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Speaker 1: So you were fucking white guys athletes should have got

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Speaker 6: I was a math tutor for the basketball team, and

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Speaker 1: They try to be my friends.

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Speaker 3: Because oh yeah, Kentucky motherfuckers. Then went to the league

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Speaker 6: I'm so popular. They're like, we just need you to

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Speaker 6: You live in Kentucky.

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Speaker 1: I know there's not There can't be a lot of

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think it's it's me and and Bobby. It

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Speaker 6: They are so cute, They're so handsome. I feel so

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Speaker 6: I'll be honest. I have an Asian man type though.

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Speaker 3: You uh, the digga from Junetown, from Shower, I love that,

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Speaker 1: Hair, very so sexy. And I'm starting to get more

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Speaker 1: They are as fashionable as gay men.

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Speaker 3: But that as they she has all gay friends, so

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Speaker 3: gay men just Korean. They are very fashionable. They're very

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Speaker 3: you know what, I have a lot of Like all

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Speaker 6: So there, it's like, you know, when you're uger, you

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Speaker 6: And then when not, we'll find out the way that

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Speaker 6: Shias are the fox eyes. Now that was more business.

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Speaker 6: Look at this, How crazy is that?

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Speaker 1: Sizer are a thing.

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Speaker 6: When you think about that she is, people were like,

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Speaker 3: The white colonizers are not trying to have the fox

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Speaker 3: eyes to be and it's exotics in Bling Empire or

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Speaker 6: I think Bling Empire? Right, I have few friends on there.

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Speaker 1: What is it called sich Asians a movie? No? No,

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Speaker 4: What was it rich Kid in Body Hills?

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Speaker 3: I can't remember Anyway, one of the guys talked about

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Speaker 3: Just to think about that and now where we are

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Speaker 3: today with Fox Eye, did you ever want to change

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I think like the big eyes are attractive in Asian culture.

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Speaker 6: They want eyes to be bigger and more alert, and

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Speaker 6: everybody just like wish they have bigger eyes, build the standard.

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Speaker 4: But now people are like they want to Asian eyes.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 6: It's just it's very crazy. And people were making found

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Speaker 6: They want to how black.

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Speaker 1: It's like, we're all it's the dark lips. I know

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Speaker 1: like you are you know you are not you?

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Speaker 3: But what do you think is a stereotype maybe with

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Speaker 1: Maybe guys think you'll be submissive.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they think I would be submissive as fucked up.

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Speaker 1: That's the main thing that I like I because I'm

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Speaker 6: I mean like, I'm just like, I'm such a boss

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Speaker 6: I become so like, I just become me. I can't

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Speaker 6: I just have no power having sex. Then I just

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Speaker 1: Do you lead with that?

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Speaker 3: Do you have to lead as as someone that says, hey,

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Speaker 3: I like to be more dominant. Hey, I'm not maybe

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Speaker 6: I feel like when the guy I'm having sex with

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Speaker 4: Then I just like, can I slap him? He's like, oh,

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Speaker 6: I'm not to hear the tempo, Like what no.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just I surprise them.

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Speaker 6: But I don't like to talk about sex because I

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Speaker 6: She's like, okay, that's a big day. We have to

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Speaker 6: Do you like what you see? As a no, she

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Speaker 6: why she told you not to touch yourself? Yes, so

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Speaker 6: Sid but you told me that's not pass She's like,

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Speaker 4: I just don't get turned out, but I enjoy sex.

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Speaker 3: Do you think that she said that because she didn't

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I think so.

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Speaker 6: It's just like a stupid way because you don't educate that,

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Speaker 6: you don't have any sex education.

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Speaker 4: You just don't yourself, don't have sex, You're gonna die.

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Speaker 4: It's just it's so stupid.

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Speaker 1: Is that common? Yeah, there's no sex talk.

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Speaker 6: They don't say anything, and then you know, and then

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Speaker 6: and then you know, like when I'm like a twenty

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Speaker 4: I'm like no, she goes have a boyfriend.

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Speaker 6: I'm like how I'm in my big fucking glasses and

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Speaker 6: it's like this, like how do I have boyfriend?

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Speaker 1: So you never learn did you grow up in China? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I grew up in China?

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Speaker 6: And like you can't you can't talk to the boy,

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Speaker 6: like and I'm like, you are a horror want to

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Speaker 3: What is it like in China? Is it like more

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Speaker 6: It's just that you want to the family wants you

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Speaker 1: You know, was your family rich in China?

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Speaker 6: My mom's family, they are very wealthy, but they never

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Speaker 6: They did a lot of stuff, but my mom she

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Speaker 6: I just I think. So, yeah, own kid, My job

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Speaker 1: Do you think that you're so dominant? That funny? Do

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Speaker 3: Becausin China, women are I mean, I only know about

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Speaker 3: know a lot of Chinese girls are like giving up

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I was born during the one child policy and

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Speaker 6: you can only have one you also explain the one

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Speaker 3: Like like a home like it's like if like the

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, but sometimes if somebody want the girl, if

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Speaker 3: So normally in China, because we see so many Chinese

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Speaker 6: There are when people can't have kids, they would adopt

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Speaker 6: other kids. But they if you can only have one child,

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Speaker 6: to give away you never had.

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Speaker 4: It, you have another one.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, But my mother she was just like the plan

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Speaker 6: was if I was a girl, my father's gonna take

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Speaker 4: But she could do it. She's like, I'm keeping her.

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Speaker 6: But you know this as an adult, tell me every Tuesday,

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Speaker 6: I know it. Why was that kid? Yo?

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Speaker 3: you would have to be dumped in a gun?

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Speaker 1: Does they tell me?

443
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Speaker 6: It's tell me that, you know, like you have you

444
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Speaker 6: can't have Like whenever I have I have an r S.

445
00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,000
Speaker 6: My mom is like, I did not bring you back

446
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Speaker 6: in the dumpster, but oh my.

447
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Speaker 3: God, whoa Actually no, it's giving, bitch. I brought you

448
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Speaker 3: into this world. I'll take you out. That's what it's given. Yo.

449
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Speaker 1: Wow, I feel very weasy right now, y'all. That was good.

450
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Speaker 1: You got you got that. I'm carried in all right. Ship.

451
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Speaker 3: I want to know the one child policy. I've only

452
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Speaker 3: heard about this from like TV books.

453
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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's it?

454
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Speaker 6: Like?

455
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Speaker 1: What happens to you if you have another one? If

456
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Speaker 1: you keep the first one? It's serious.

457
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Speaker 6: You're you'll be fired from your job even yeah yeah,

458
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Speaker 6: and they'll take your house and find you a lot

459
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Speaker 6: of money. It's just also make it very hard, like

460
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Speaker 6: your relative is going to get affected, like your brother

461
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Speaker 6: is gonna get fired. It's just like it's the punishment

462
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Speaker 6: is so severe that you can't afford.

463
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Speaker 3: So then after you have one child, is there like

464
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Speaker 3: to the tire tube, we talk about tying too, we

465
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Speaker 3: talk about birth control.

466
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Speaker 4: Yeah, they put a woman forceful.

467
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Speaker 6: And also if you have a baby that's a second

468
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Speaker 6: baby and you are pregnant, that they can inject something

469
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Speaker 6: into the baby and it will be a steel birth.

470
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Speaker 1: Wow.

471
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Speaker 4: Legal, it's legal, it's legal, but it has to be.

472
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: But the thing is like if you don't pay a

474
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Speaker 6: fine and you want to have a second child, how

475
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Speaker 6: much is the fine? I think it's like like a

476
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Speaker 6: like a lot of money, like a thirty grand Like it's.

477
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Speaker 4: A lot of money you can't afford. It's money you

478
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Speaker 4: can't afford. You got fired.

479
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Speaker 6: But the problem is like like your brother and sister

480
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Speaker 6: also got fired from.

481
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Speaker 1: Their jon, so your you can't give the kids to

482
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Speaker 1: your brother, like you can, Okay.

483
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Speaker 6: You can if you you know, but it's it's don't

484
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Speaker 6: have a Yeah, it's just it's this punishment is so severe.

485
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Speaker 6: So people just the kind of just like sometimes people

486
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Speaker 6: have a girl, they keep it a girl. They don't

487
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Speaker 6: have a son, and they feel reasonful, like why are

488
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Speaker 6: you a girl? So the girl just like, oh, they

489
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Speaker 6: have so much pressure, like I you know, my my

490
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Speaker 6: parents wish I was a boy, like Beyonce and her

491
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Speaker 6: song if I were.

492
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Speaker 1: A boy, Yo, this is a weird question, but it's.

493
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Speaker 6: Really fuck She's like, I think the story if I said,

494
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Speaker 6: my father told me he was taking me out, but

495
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Speaker 6: he dropped me because he was drunk. He's always drunk.

496
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Speaker 6: So I started screaming and crying. My mom took a

497
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Speaker 6: deep breath. She's like, she's ugly, but she's a fighter.

498
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Speaker 6: Let's bring her back. And then she gave up her

499
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Speaker 6: job and they took her job, took the house. She's like,

500
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Speaker 6: I'll be fine, I'll be fine. And she had a

501
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Speaker 6: second girl daughter. My sister is a girl. There's somebody

502
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Speaker 6: waiting outside the window to take her, because if it's

503
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Speaker 6: a girl, there's a arrangement. My mom is a little

504
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Speaker 6: softy bitch. She's like, I'm keeping her. So she had

505
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Speaker 6: no house. She just like then she was she give

506
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Speaker 6: births off my brothers think in the cornfield.

507
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Speaker 1: And then it's a son. So she's keeping this.

508
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Speaker 6: And she gave up her job and she she was

509
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Speaker 6: just start in her business and then she becomes successful

510
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Speaker 6: at what she does.

511
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Speaker 3: Do they not have the thing where they could see

512
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Speaker 3: the sex of the baby before?

513
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Speaker 6: It's not legal, that's legal, but the ulund yeah, because

514
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Speaker 6: if it's a girl, you will just aboard a baby immediately.

515
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Speaker 3: So you're having a blind birth ultra sounds and ship

516
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Speaker 3: it wasn't a lot because wait, that's not the case anymore, right, No, no, no,

517
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Speaker 3: you can have but you caring the one baby rule,

518
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Speaker 3: that's what now?

519
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Speaker 6: No, yeah, it is good and all the girls, all

520
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Speaker 6: the ugly bitches because the balance is off, like there's

521
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Speaker 6: twenty men one woman, ugly bitch. You'd be like, I

522
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Speaker 6: want one house, two cars by the house my grandma

523
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Speaker 6: because I have of me and.

524
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Speaker 1: A hunter of you guys, you dumb holle. So they

525
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Speaker 1: are sassy as fuck.

526
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Speaker 6: Wow for poor men to get a wife, we kind

527
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Speaker 6: of need we maybe we should still not better here.

528
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Speaker 1: Hey, that's that's interesting. Wow. Now this was what I

529
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Speaker 1: was gonna ask you that I said it might be

530
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Speaker 1: a weird question.

531
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Speaker 3: When you were growing up you having siblings, was it

532
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Speaker 3: like looked at front like what was school like?

533
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Speaker 1: Did were you ashamed to say you had siblings, like

534
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Speaker 1: I'm not.

535
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Speaker 4: Like because I'm always being shameless.

536
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Speaker 6: I just felt like my mom she had so much

537
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Speaker 6: pressure to make more money to take care of us,

538
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Speaker 6: and my father's drunk, so we're always left with my grandparents,

539
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Speaker 6: and I just I just go. I just study hard

540
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Speaker 6: and try to study hard, and people bully us, like

541
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Speaker 6: you know, like you have so many kids, and my

542
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 6: sister always get bullied because she's weak. And then there's

543
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Speaker 6: a guy who was like pushing her forehead on the

544
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Speaker 6: concrete floor, just like you're you're stupid. You know you

545
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Speaker 6: should you know they don't want you. You know they

546
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Speaker 6: don't want you. And then he beat her up and

547
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Speaker 6: then I just I bit her his finger off.

548
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Speaker 1: You bit his finger off?

549
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like, I was sick, it's off.

550
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Speaker 1: You said it's off this crouching time.

551
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Speaker 6: But the reattached it and his parents is like you,

552
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 6: my sign is not disabled because your daughters a finger.

553
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 6: So if he cannot find a wife, she hasn't marry him.

554
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 6: I'm gonna that is crazy.

555
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Speaker 3: And our vanilla ship for this episode, my goodness, let's.

556
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Speaker 4: I'll but his bick off.

557
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Speaker 1: I'm week and the director, let's give you a sister,

558
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Speaker 1: I believe you come down. I'm weak.

559
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Speaker 3: Our vanilla ship for this week, for those of you

560
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Speaker 3: listening for the first time, is our sex and the news,

561
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Speaker 3: and we are getting this from Hollywood Unlocked, y'all. Gen Z,

562
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Speaker 3: the generation born between the late nineteen nineties and early

563
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Speaker 3: two thousands, has been found to have some interesting preferences

564
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Speaker 3: when it comes to their daily routine. According to recent studies,

565
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Speaker 3: many individuals from this particular generation prefer to take long showers,

566
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Speaker 3: some lasting up to three hours, which I'm at it's

567
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Speaker 3: better than the whites. This tren that has been dubbed

568
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Speaker 3: the everything shower, where people use this time to reflect,

569
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,919
Speaker 3: listen to music, and take on their very long skinned thiery.

570
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Speaker 1: I don't think.

571
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Speaker 4: I don't even know what's the longest shower I've ever taken.

572
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: May never be. They don't pay bills yet, that's what's happening.

573
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Speaker 3: But no, keep going because it's almost like it's a

574
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Speaker 3: sexual thing. So what's more surprising is that some gen

575
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Speaker 3: Zers have reported that they prefer these extended showers over sex.

576
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 3: This preference for showers over physical intimacy has left many

577
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Speaker 3: people over on the ticker talker scratching their heads. However,

578
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Speaker 3: it's important to remember that this is just one group

579
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Speaker 3: of individuals from a vast averse generation. It should also

580
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Speaker 3: be noted that there could be many reasons for their

581
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:48,919
Speaker 3: desire in having lengthy showers, over intimacy and everything. Shower

582
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 3: with hot water and Taylor Swift is better than sex. Sorry,

583
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 3: so the twenty two year old I don't even want

584
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Speaker 3: to read.

585
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Speaker 1: Excuse me? Someone else said.

586
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Speaker 3: I washed my hair, shave my legs, shave my armpits,

587
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 3: deep condition, exfoliate, do my skin care.

588
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 1: I do everything in the shower. How does it get

589
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 1: stay hot for three hours? It don't. There's no fucking way.

590
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Speaker 3: I mean, well, I've noticed that the bad houses, in

591
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 3: the gyms, there's a lot of cold tups. People are

592
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 3: liking to take cold showers down. Apparently helps your heart.

593
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 3: So you know, I just got done dating a old nigga,

594
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 3: and apparently cold showers in the mornings help, like with

595
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Speaker 3: your heart rate or something.

596
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Speaker 1: It's science.

597
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Speaker 3: I can't believe someone would think three hour shower is

598
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Speaker 3: better than sex. I'd rather have three minute sex been

599
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 3: have a three hour shower. I don't want a three

600
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Speaker 3: hour shower. I'm coming out looking like approofe.

601
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Speaker 1: They're wasting water like that, that's what That's what I'm saying,

602
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: you're wasting water their asses.

603
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Speaker 3: Y' y'all are really out here outrage that Kylie Jenner

604
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Speaker 3: hops on a fucking helicopter or a private jet for

605
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Speaker 3: thirty minutes, But y'all are here taking thirty minute fucking shower.

606
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Speaker 1: Three hour showers. Three hours thirty is still long. What

607
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Speaker 1: do you think it's an average time show for me?

608
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 4: Five minutes, five minutes. Yeah, I'm I'm efficient that I

609
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 4: have to you got two kids. I have to make

610
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 4: sure that.

611
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't be gone too long. Yeah yeah, mine

612
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 3: is like twelve to fifteen. But that's when I do

613
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 3: a deep conditioner. That's when I shaved that your hair.

614
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:16,959
Speaker 4: It's so good. My hand needs more attention.

615
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 3: Listen, and I'll have a ball head at home. But

616
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Speaker 3: I do a deep conditioner. I shave, I do like

617
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 3: a body scrub. I have oils now with jajoba, even

618
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 3: though I know it's not pronounced that way, that's how

619
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Speaker 3: it spelled. But I do all my little like I'll

620
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Speaker 3: be trying.

621
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Speaker 4: I think I'm in the shower about three four songs.

622
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Speaker 1: That's it.

623
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Speaker 4: It's like that's a minute's good.

624
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Speaker 1: That's I think I noticed that, unless it's I always

625
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 1: saw it. Gen Z songs be like a minute and

626
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,880
Speaker 1: a half. Oh you just being here? I just want

627
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,680
Speaker 1: to rock three times. It's like, whoa did you shower?

628
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 1: I want to now.

629
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Speaker 3: I want to get into our hoard derve our sex

630
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Speaker 3: tip because I see a lot of your clips are

631
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Speaker 3: about sex and.

632
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,360
Speaker 4: I don't have them. But I won't talk about them yet.

633
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Speaker 1: You don't have a sex. I don't have so much.

634
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 4: I have sex tips. Oh yeah, I just don't have

635
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 4: sex currently.

636
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: But why not? I don't have a man. What about

637
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: casual sex?

638
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 6: I can't afford it because I I is free. Yeah,

639
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 6: but like I I catch feelings, which is disgusting. Yeah,

640
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 6: I'm not well and I know that because you know

641
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:14,719
Speaker 6: you are stupid.

642
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: You are smart?

643
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 4: I know, no, what's your sign? I am a capricorn? Okay,

644
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 4: I work. I just work honestly.

645
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 3: Casual sex even if it's like I go in there

646
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 3: thinking it's just sick. He's terrible, he's not even your type.

647
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,640
Speaker 3: He has no job. If sex is good, I'm like, I.

648
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: Can fix it. I could hire him. I know you

649
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 1: can get a haircuteah.

650
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Speaker 6: Next thing, you know, I'm taking the leadership. I can't

651
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 6: afford it. I catch feelings and I want to give.

652
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, but okay, what about this? Then what about sugar mama?

653
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 3: Shit like you own businesses, the money you're selling out shows?

654
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 1: But would you pay for dy No? It doesn't turn

655
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: me out, though I want to. I want to.

656
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 6: I want thataddy, but like young like I want I have,

657
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 6: I have daddy issues like I don't enjoy beautiful young man.

658
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 1: I just I want to.

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00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 6: I don't want them to be older, but I want

660
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 6: them to be more successful than me. Okay, that turns

661
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 6: me out.

662
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: That's very tough.

663
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 6: But they want lit't want me. They wanted a nice

664
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 6: hello kitty who doesn't talk back.

665
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: They don't want to. They don't want to do. They

666
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: don't want me look at me.

667
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 6: They they you know the their their dick is gonna

668
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 6: go soft the moment I open my mouth.

669
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 4: I know that, and so we don't know what's gonna happen.

670
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: Now.

671
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 4: We can't help.

672
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: We need it.

673
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 4: When you open your mouth, give us your tip.

674
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: I I feel like for me, I don't think a

675
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: blow job is a job. I just think it's I

676
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: enjoyed giving blow jobs. If I want a dick, I

677
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 1: want to suck that dick.

678
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 6: I know how to do it, Like I think my

679
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 6: chopstick out, I move the balls around and I left

680
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 6: pick up. It's a chopstick, and you know, I go

681
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 6: in there like it's for me. It's like it's it's

682
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 6: so much fun. I'm like, people are like, oh my god,

683
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 6: I'm getting what about then? I don't go there.

684
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: I just don't. I don't. I don't go there. I

685
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 1: don't think that's a perfect you lick under the balls

686
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: because if you lick under the balls, you lick the boothole,

687
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: the ball under the dock between the dick.

688
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 6: And I don't go there because I have I have.

689
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 6: I'm a I'm a I'm a pussy hunt. I have

690
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 6: a nose of a dog. I smell what you ate

691
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 6: for dinner last night, Like I can't help. But Danny's

692
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 6: cheating on me. I know which hole he's fucking from here.

693
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 6: So that's why I also like, I am just so smart.

694
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 6: I mean I had to be smart because I was

695
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 6: very ugly when I was a little kid. My nickname

696
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 6: was cage Fighter, So.

697
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 1: Id how did you get I just everything I had.

698
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 6: Everything I had is ugly in joining the big lips

699
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 6: is ugly, big joy is ugly, like a dark skin

700
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 6: is ugly. And then like everything about are you a

701
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 6: dark I'm a dark skinned Chinese. And then well I'm

702
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 6: in Kentucky all of a sudden, I'm not. I mean,

703
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 6: I was still ugly because I was like, you know,

704
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 6: I was, I was crazy. But then I start to

705
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 6: become a woman, like just put my hair back and

706
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 6: take my glasses off.

707
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm a girl. Can I ask you? Then?

708
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: Did you have self esteem issues with your features? Yes?

709
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 6: Yes, I have to like to do this, like try

710
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 6: to like make my lips smaller because all the kids

711
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 6: are bullying me.

712
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: I didn't think your lips were real.

713
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 4: Actually, oh it's real.

714
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: I have perfect dumpling lips.

715
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 6: That's what it's called, all them dumpling dumpling lips.

716
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you have the perfect it's the v it's

717
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 3: the QUI.

718
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: We all have good lips. Girls. Yeah.

719
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 3: Now wait, you didn't like your features at first? When

720
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 3: did you start to embrace them?

721
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 6: Well, Amartha, I'm just like trying to hide my skin

722
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 6: because when I wasn't trying to all the girls with

723
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 6: the bed skin make fun of me. They're like, you're

724
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 6: from the farm. You know you should be all servant.

725
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 6: You are so dark, you are like the farm workers.

726
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 6: We are like the princesses. I'm just trying to hide

727
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 6: my skin. And then in Kentucky, all the girls are

728
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 6: gonna go tanning. They were like, i'mn go tanning so

729
00:31:58,800 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 6: I can have your skin.

730
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, what, it's crazy because I didn't experience like

731
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 3: I didn't understand how prevalent that was. I mean, I

732
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 3: know we talk about blackness, you know what I mean,

733
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 3: African Americans, Africans period. But I lived in Singapore for

734
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 3: six months and everything from the soap to the lotion,

735
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 3: to the deodorant, everything.

736
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: Everything lightening it.

737
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 3: And it was really interesting being able to be in

738
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 3: Singapore and travel across Southeast Asia and hear the experiences

739
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 3: from the tie, the Malay and the Filipinos in their

740
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 3: treatment in Asia as a continent. Really yes, because they're

741
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 3: darker and their experiences is much like black people here

742
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 3: in America with white people. But I don't think people

743
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 3: understand what that.

744
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: So to hear how like.

745
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 3: To me, I wouldn't even think that you were dark

746
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 3: compared to even again in comparison to the Malay tie Filipinos.

747
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 3: So to know that that was your experience in China,

748
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 3: I had never heard of that.

749
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 6: So East Asians are lighter than Southeast Asians, and the

750
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 6: East Asians are like the Chinese, Japanese, Koreans. If you

751
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 6: look at the beauty standards the K pop stars, yes

752
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 6: they are translucent. They are whiter than that's whole. They

753
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 6: are white, and that's the beauty standard. They are all

754
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 6: of the things you're talking about. Everything is bleaching because

755
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 6: being like they are not white, there's there's no It's

756
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 6: like vampires.

757
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: Litigation does the white thing.

758
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it's like a vampires is translucent. That's the

759
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 6: standard bility. So my skin East Asian is dark. And

760
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 6: I was bullied my whole life being dark. So I

761
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 6: was very self conscious about my skin. But then I

762
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 6: realized people want the ten to have my skin. No,

763
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 6: I love my skin.

764
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: I know that's right.

765
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 3: It's crazy because even in terms of jobs, I know,

766
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 3: we talk about body types here, like especially like I

767
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 3: used to work in the clubs.

768
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: You have to be a certain size's and you are.

769
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm curry Chinese. I pay that they like

770
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 1: in the airlines, the flight attendant.

771
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 4: There is beauty pageant.

772
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: You have a great beauty pageant. Be size zero to two.

773
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 6: You have to be a chopstick skinny, and you have

774
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 6: to have like a pale skin.

775
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 3: A certain jobs that a woman will not hire you

776
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 3: unless you're very thin, very pale.

777
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,399
Speaker 1: Your hair has to be like.

778
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 3: I'm thinking, I've flown a lot of a lot of

779
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 3: Asian airlines and now that I'm thinking about it.

780
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 4: Think about it, they are like, I can't get that job.

781
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: That's just crazy. But luck guy, Now wait, I want to.

782
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 1: I want to.

783
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 4: I am divorced.

784
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: Market aren't you going tour with Godfrey? He got?

785
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 6: I love Godfrey and we we we the Polocaust?

786
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 1: So funny? Is I teach him to speak Chinese? He

787
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,360
Speaker 1: teaches me? Is the impressions his impression?

788
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 4: He teaches me Steve Hobby, Oh my god, I need

789
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 4: to hear you.

790
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: What that's your Steve Harvey impression? He's laughing.

791
00:34:54,360 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 3: Okay, that was good. I'm now okay. You said your

792
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 3: ex husband had a big your ex husband with Chinese? Yes,

793
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 3: I have the two husbands just too. It's not like

794
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:11,319
Speaker 3: you have been divorced twice.

795
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just one. Is is a white guy.

796
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 6: Is a is a Russian American guy who is my

797
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 6: collegees with heart, which he is an angel, and I

798
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 6: kind of sucked up.

799
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 4: I was young.

800
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 6: He's an angel, He's like an angel.

801
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 1: Angel. I was like, angel, y'all know, I'll do problem.

802
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 3: Did y'all see her in jail?

803
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: A wait, so he's an angel watching? I was stupid.

804
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 6: I just I was young and I didn't know, like

805
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 6: he's the one, Like he was so nice to me,

806
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 6: like you know, like you you're dumb, you want that boy,

807
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 6: you have a nice man, You're like.

808
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 4: But then now I'm like, oh, wait, is he the

809
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 4: father of your kids?

810
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 1: No, he is not.

811
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 4: My father is a Chinese man, which is older than me.

812
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: You met him in Kentucky.

813
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 4: I met my first one in Kentucky. We were we

814
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 4: were friend.

815
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: It was one of the one.

816
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 4: My second one is my second husband, my last husband.

817
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 1: Is.

818
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 6: I met him in Shanghai festival in China. Oh okay,

819
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 6: I was hosting something.

820
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: Even.

821
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 3: I was, so, you've been married twice and you're so

822
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 3: fucking young. Did you ever have like a single hoe face?

823
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 3: I hope it's now, she said, now flatten these veo.

824
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 3: Do you like some women want to be married immediately?

825
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 3: How is it that you got too meant to propose

826
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 3: to you?

827
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: Like, oh, they can't help. But that's why I don't

828
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 1: cook anymore because these men want to give me a ring.

829
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,720
Speaker 6: I can't cook anymore. I can't do it just because

830
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 6: I'm good at sucking dicks. I'm fucking like.

831
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: I'm like.

832
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 6: We were like, Okay, she's gonna be sucking in the kitchen.

833
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,839
Speaker 6: I just like go there and be like, and then,

834
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 6: what's the best thing?

835
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 1: You make? Everything? I make everything.

836
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 6: I wouldn't make lamp chops, Chinese food, Japanese food, cream food.

837
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 6: I can rose sushi out of my fucking kitchen vis bamboo.

838
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding. I know how to go. You make

839
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: sushi braw fish into my kitchen. Me too.

840
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 6: That's why I thought about sushi like, that's why I

841
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 6: was so offended. People were like very angry. The little

842
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 6: murmury is black. I'm like, are you kidding me? The

843
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 6: murmury the fish? Like, what are talking about is the

844
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 6: fiction is a fish? Why can't you be black? Don't

845
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,240
Speaker 6: you wish us when you see anything? And don't you wish.

846
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 3: To get an American boys, SEBASTIONI instead of a Jamaican

847
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 3: exactly that fake as Jamaican accents, Sebastian.

848
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: Are we not going to see it? I mean I'm yeah,

849
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go because the Laddin now beef and winter.

850
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 6: I just don't think like the little murmur should be Asian.

851
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 6: Like when I have a fish owl, I'm like, where's

852
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,320
Speaker 6: I be here? Eat my fishtail?

853
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: Do you really think cooking is what God guys to be? Like?

854
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 6: Oh, ship, I think my cooking is like I can

855
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 6: do thanks living dinner by myself. I can do everything.

856
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 6: I just love to cook. It's like I like to

857
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 6: pink and to critically. It's just something I enjoy and

858
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:04,840
Speaker 6: I happen to be good at it. That's why I

859
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:06,400
Speaker 6: just don't cook anymore. I know that's a problem.

860
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 3: Do you think that the cooking with men is something

861
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 3: that might be a lost art with younger girls or

862
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:13,399
Speaker 3: with girls that maybe don't come from as deep as

863
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 3: a cultural background, like they're just I mean, let's be honest,

864
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:16,720
Speaker 3: white girls.

865
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: White people can't really cook. But I was like, yeah,

866
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: there's well, yeah, do you think that because they know

867
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 1: they have moneys, they have mayonnaise. They do, I just

868
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: feel like fancy.

869
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, because I I just like, I'm so crazy

870
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 6: and aggressive and I am I just I a workholic.

871
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 1: I work, I make money.

872
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 4: I don't need a man to make money.

873
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 1: And then like I'm also I love sex. I'm very sexual.

874
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 6: If I am, I love somebody, I enjoy sex and

875
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 6: they're record she can't she can't cook.

876
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: Then I cook.

877
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 6: And I cook for like a you know, I just

878
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 6: cook everything. I didn't do everything, and it looks like

879
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 6: it's legit. And oh maybe I should put a ring

880
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 6: on that.

881
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 1: Tell me what's the difference between married sex and single sex? Like,

882
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 1: did you see a difference. I'm a whore, so I

883
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:59,320
Speaker 1: don't really know, like when I'm a scare you, Ah,

884
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: you've been married twice? Yeah, I enjoy sex though, like

885
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 1: it is a man. If I want that man, I

886
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:08,760
Speaker 1: want how sex? Sweet times a day? At least? Really?

887
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: If I don't want you, I just hi, bye, I

888
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 1: just don't you were having sex like that even when

889
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 1: you were married? Yeah? I do that. So wait, did

890
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 1: you call for the divorce and they filed?

891
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 6: I did it because he is very very angry about

892
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,760
Speaker 6: me trying to trying to become a comedian.

893
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:25,320
Speaker 1: To be a career.

894
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 6: You don't want me, yeah, exactly. He didn't want to

895
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 6: work at all, and he just like he's very mentally

896
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 6: verbally abusive towards me, just like a controlling Chinese man.

897
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 6: But not all Chinese men are that. There's that good

898
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 6: Chinese man. I just don't have one. Gave me one.

899
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 4: I'm singing.

900
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 3: Tell tell us about that, because a lot of women

901
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 3: that are listening probably have experienced a guy, you know,

902
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 3: being controlling. But that's very specific because we think we

903
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 3: want to be taken care of.

904
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,839
Speaker 6: But you know, I wish, I mean I thought I did,

905
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 6: but I realized that I'm just There's some women that

906
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 6: they love a man, men who like take care of

907
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 6: them and then they can do their own thing, like

908
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 6: go to the spa and go shopping.

909
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 4: But like I am just stupid.

910
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 1: I want to open. You enjoy working? Yeah, I enjoy working.

911
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 1: Working turns me out, like my pussy can't be wet

912
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 1: if I'm in the spa among stage it could, But

913
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 1: I hear you, I get just like I got.

914
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 6: I got really bored to be like to to stay

915
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 6: home just like go shopping and go to spa and

916
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 6: just go hang out with housewives.

917
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 4: But you know, but but.

918
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 1: You had two kids. Tell me how about that?

919
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:34,399
Speaker 4: Like I didn't learn from my mistakes. You know, she's

920
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 4: still had one.

921
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: Do you want more? It depends on the man. Actually,

922
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 1: I don't learn from the miss Also, like I did

923
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:43,359
Speaker 1: not have a door?

924
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 6: What I I rawed off that ship? I I just said,

925
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 6: like I heard that's the most paying human indoor.

926
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 1: I want. I want.

927
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 4: I wanted to experience that.

928
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 3: That's what one of our friends shout out to Lady

929
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 3: w Fatima. She literally said, I was like, I don't

930
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 3: understand how you didn't use an epidural. She's like the

931
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 3: slaves did it? Like I can do it.

932
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,319
Speaker 1: You really wanted to just feel the baby come out

933
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 1: of here. I feel the pain.

934
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 6: I want to feel the pain. So I feel like

935
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 6: if I can handle that, then nothing can beat me.

936
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 6: Damn anybody who want to put me through hardship, I'll

937
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 6: be like, ugh, it's.

938
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, was it the worst thing ever?

939
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 6: And the worst thing ever wasn't marrying my husband, but

940
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 6: also finding out that my daughter didn't helppinisright, I love her,

941
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 6: but like I'm just honest that I'm a feminist but

942
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 6: life is not fair. She just had to work harder,

943
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 6: but she No, I'll be crying right now. No my

944
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 6: signs first?

945
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: Can I ask you though?

946
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 3: Even so, I understand how you grew up in China,

947
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 3: but with the error we're in now, even being able

948
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,760
Speaker 3: to say feminists the way we do the Me Too movement,

949
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 3: women being able to be independent and me any any

950
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 3: literal career path that they want to take they can do.

951
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 3: You still feel like a woman is not like a

952
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 3: daughter is not as I love.

953
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: I love her equally as I love my son.

954
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 6: But I just feel like my son can be a dumb,

955
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:14,720
Speaker 6: little asshole and get a better opportunity than my daughter

956
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 6: just because he has a penis even and then she

957
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 6: I look at her, I'm just like a girl. You

958
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 6: just have to work twenty times harder than him to

959
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 6: get what he gets, and it's not fair. But I

960
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 6: just I want to implant that to her heart to understand,

961
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 6: so she's.

962
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 1: Not the Ian. Look at your mom and look at you.

963
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 6: I know she's gonna achieve a lot, but I just

964
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:36,439
Speaker 6: want her to expect the life is not fair. Don't

965
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 6: expect fairness. I agree, don't don't be like I have

966
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:41,839
Speaker 6: the same grade. Why he's getting No, he's gonna get

967
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:44,320
Speaker 6: better opportunities than you, because that's society.

968
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:44,879
Speaker 1: He's a man.

969
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 6: So if you work harder, he worked for you, so

970
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:50,439
Speaker 6: you can be abusive towards anybody you want. It's work

971
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 6: harder and be on top so you don't have to

972
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 6: swallow sorrow like I did it because my broken English

973
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 6: will call me is horror.

974
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 4: You know she has good English, so she'll be fine.

975
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: Wow, wait, you're English bad. I didn't.

976
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't speak on the anglsih I came here.

977
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 4: It was said I was seventeen.

978
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,800
Speaker 1: I just didn't speak on the English. Damn.

979
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 3: So you learned English at seventeen. Yeah, and you're only

980
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 3: thirty three. Yeah, that's late.

981
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: Because they say that language. I think it's the language

982
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 1: are so hard it's optimal, like and once you turn

983
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 1: like eleven, I think I read it's like your fox.

984
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 1: What words do you talk?

985
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 3: I took four years of Spanish camle.

986
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 1: That's all you're getting out of me.

987
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 3: I told, y'are and I just know all to cuss

988
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 3: words in Creole.

989
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 6: Nice, that's it. What other languages do you speak? I

990
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 6: just speak Amander. I learned some of Japanese. I can

991
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 6: read Japanese, but I don't. I can't speak anymore. I

992
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:51,479
Speaker 6: just don't speak, which is so hard.

993
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: I tried. Yeah, tell me a little bit about like

994
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 1: motherhood and your sexual Like did you you fuck three

995
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 1: times a day? Were you doing that when you had

996
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: the baby? Oh?

997
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I if I'm in love, I'll be fucking.

998
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: Damn you were? You might be a price? Can I

999
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:10,839
Speaker 1: ask you? So?

1000
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 3: I got now as a as someone who's divorced. Right

1001
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 3: when dating?

1002
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 1: Do men.

1003
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 3: Have placed higher value on you because you've been married twice?

1004
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 3: Even though you're a single mother. We talk about like

1005
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 3: the stigma of women being single mothers all the time,

1006
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 3: but you having two husbands under your belt? Do you

1007
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 3: still do you come across you think to men is

1008
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:36,760
Speaker 3: more valuable because you've been married twice?

1009
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:40,879
Speaker 4: You think, I think they think they think is intimidating.

1010
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 1: They think it's intimidating that you've been married twice.

1011
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 4: All I think?

1012
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 6: So why I think they think I am not easy

1013
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 6: to maybet it because like when my first man, he's

1014
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:55,399
Speaker 6: he's just he's a wonderful human.

1015
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I just I love you. Do you want to?

1016
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 6: That's what I don't I don't want me though, and

1017
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 6: he's like he's dumb with me. I give him panic

1018
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 6: text again psd oh no, yeah, I feel bad, but

1019
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 6: like he's no, I know, like he is a scientist,

1020
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 6: he's brilliant, he's two years younger than me, and he's

1021
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 6: just he's doing well without.

1022
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 1: Me with help me. Yeah.

1023
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:25,720
Speaker 6: The second one is just very controlling, you know, very verbally,

1024
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 6: mentally abusive, slowly try to like basically control me.

1025
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 1: Did you feel like you had to be with the

1026
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:32,879
Speaker 1: Chinese guy. No, I never.

1027
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:34,479
Speaker 4: That's the first Chinese man I ever dated.

1028
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 1: I'm never. I don't.

1029
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 6: I don't want to date any Asian man because they

1030
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 6: traumatized me in China. They were like my, my, my

1031
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 6: cute middle school like a crush, you know. I'm just

1032
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 6: in love with him, such a cute agent, Chinese man,

1033
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,800
Speaker 6: Chinese boy, and he just like he's like, I would

1034
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 6: date you if you are lighter.

1035
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 1: I can't afford to.

1036
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 4: Feel like there's already this, like I feel like it's

1037
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 4: all Asian men.

1038
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 1: The Asian girl.

1039
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, so, I just when I was in the Asian

1040
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 6: boys won't dave me. I'm gonna a fuck off. I

1041
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 6: just I'm traumatized. But then I realized that, oh, it's

1042
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:07,919
Speaker 6: not a case. The Asian men in America. They don't

1043
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 6: they don't find me unattractive.

1044
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,959
Speaker 3: I mean, it's so many layers to just where you're from,

1045
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 3: your environment. Because I'm that way myself, just because of

1046
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 3: my family. I won't date a Jamaican man. I won't

1047
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:24,760
Speaker 3: be with an Island man. I do not want anything

1048
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 3: actually close to my dad. And so while I love

1049
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 3: and have only been with black men, I won't date

1050
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 3: Jamaican men for certain reasons and how I know they cheat,

1051
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 3: and how they're very into the patriarch, and just the

1052
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 3: way that I viewed men and how they treat women.

1053
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: I was like, that ain't me.

1054
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 3: And so hearing you say that is interesting, but also

1055
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 3: for you to say I won't date Asian man, but

1056
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 3: I realize also they're so different here in America.

1057
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 6: I didn't know that until I realized they generally don't

1058
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 6: think of I'm unattractive, I'm undesirable. It's just my childhood

1059
00:46:56,480 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 6: trauma being this unattractive girl being the beauties. Then that's weird,

1060
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 6: and I was avoiding Asian man. I never want date one.

1061
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: Did you have Asian friends women. Yes, did you have

1062
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:10,720
Speaker 1: mainly Asian women friends?

1063
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 6: No? I have. My best friend in Kentucky is a

1064
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 6: black girl and a girl I've wondered because like Asian friends,

1065
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 6: they just the kind of did that.

1066
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:22,439
Speaker 1: Make you feel like you were the ugly?

1067
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 6: That was why I asked that the Asian girls, they

1068
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 6: are very confused in Kentucky because the skinny, chopstick white ones.

1069
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:30,839
Speaker 6: They think they are the queen in China and then

1070
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 6: then in Kentucky they don't.

1071
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 4: No, no, no no.

1072
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 6: Guy was dat them only Asian man, wi't day them

1073
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 6: like a like a China like a from China, like

1074
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 6: because they you know, they don't. They were like, what's wrong?

1075
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 6: Like a guy is asking my number? She's like is

1076
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 6: he blind?

1077
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, and you're It's so crazy to hear

1078
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 3: that you felt ugly, because even just seeing you on Instagram,

1079
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 3: I'm like, you're very glamy, like you're pretty, like you're

1080
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 3: you're very sexy on stage two, Like I it's crazy

1081
00:47:57,600 --> 00:47:58,720
Speaker 3: to think that you had that face.

1082
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: I honestly felt like that too.

1083
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 3: But I think someone said something to me recently that

1084
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 3: I was like, wow, that was right on the money.

1085
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: It was questlov I.

1086
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 3: Posted a video of me and a bikini and I

1087
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 3: was like, well, I'm gonna take your man. I'm gonna

1088
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 3: take your man. I'm gonna take you a man. I

1089
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 3: think you commented on it and he was like, I'm

1090
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:15,880
Speaker 3: so onto you.

1091
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 1: He said, you know you're cute, but you need to

1092
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 1: cover it in this Oh, I'm just making fun of

1093
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: myself thing because you don't want to be vulnerable and

1094
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: saying yes, I am sexy. And I was like, ooh,

1095
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:28,800
Speaker 1: it's a very.

1096
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:32,399
Speaker 3: True thing, Like it's too much ownership of my attractivity.

1097
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 3: It's for some reason. I guess I might think someone

1098
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 3: will say, no, you're not so if I make fun

1099
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 3: of it, then you can't do that to me. And

1100
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 3: that was probably the first time a friend of mine is.

1101
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 1: So powerful, right, And it's a very very true.

1102
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 3: Anytime I post a sexy picture of myself, I make

1103
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 3: a joke all the time, and I guess I don't

1104
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 3: know how to do it otherwise. Maybe there is this

1105
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 3: part of me that's like someone's gonna think I'm prettier

1106
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 3: than I am, Like I don't know, I think that

1107
00:48:58,040 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 3: I think I'm hotter than I am, and I don't

1108
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 3: want that, which is crazy because we want to put

1109
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:02,760
Speaker 3: out this confidence.

1110
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 1: So it's this weird thing.

1111
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, but it just came to my mind,

1112
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 3: and I think we see so many women do that,

1113
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 3: the self deprecating shit.

1114
00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 6: I know, I know you're doing a little bit of

1115
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 6: it too, I know, I know women.

1116
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: Like it's a funny thing.

1117
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 6: Is like, we can look like it best, we can

1118
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 6: be like, oh, I wish I did were the color

1119
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 6: of the dress.

1120
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 1: I wish that urine was different, I wish my hair

1121
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 1: was different.

1122
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 6: The menu is there, betty, Damn, I look good like

1123
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 6: it's just so different, right, So true, they just.

1124
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 1: Really be working on their pocket. That's the thing.

1125
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 3: As men, their value, their value is in their pockets.

1126
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 1: It's never in these looks. Yeah.

1127
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:40,879
Speaker 3: And so as women it's crazy too though, because as

1128
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 3: we talk about the standards of beauty now, there's also

1129
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 3: a lot of things that women do to enhance themselves

1130
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 3: that men don't, like the lashes, some of the makeup

1131
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,919
Speaker 3: that we put on. A lot of men actually don't

1132
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 3: find all the things that we do to make ourselves

1133
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 3: so pretty pretty at all to them. Yes, So it's like,

1134
00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 3: now it's so many things are complated in what that's

1135
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 3: what's so weird about And I'm talking about black men

1136
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 3: dating black women.

1137
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 1: Right.

1138
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 3: We look at there was a girl walking down the

1139
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,879
Speaker 3: street and she was the battie I g girl, right,

1140
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 3: And my friend said to me, Oh, she's girl pretty.

1141
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 3: She's pretty to girls. That's what he said to me.

1142
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 3: I mean she was a bad bitch. And I was

1143
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 3: like what And he was like, I don't really want

1144
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 3: to like take a girl home that has all that

1145
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 3: makeup or the lace front and just too much shit

1146
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 3: going on. And when he said that, I thought about

1147
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 3: this Shade Room post that asked black men, what kind

1148
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 3: of hair do you like on black women? They said

1149
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 3: messy bun locks and braids? And I was like, huh,

1150
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 3: because what are we doing the fucking curly weave this

1151
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 3: that no one said that shit, They said messy bun

1152
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 3: locks and b That shocked me. I mean it was

1153
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 3: like by far. And I think that we do have

1154
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,400
Speaker 3: this weird fucking idea of what hot is.

1155
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,319
Speaker 6: Yes, And I think it's the I feel like the

1156
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 6: fashion industry and the companies who sell the weeks, they

1157
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,720
Speaker 6: had to make it it. It is desirable on the internet,

1158
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 6: so waste the money to buy it. And the think

1159
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 6: of that's attractive, but the actually the ah man, just

1160
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 6: the one that's natural.

1161
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:12,120
Speaker 1: I know, not too natural.

1162
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 4: They want to on the field atle bit.

1163
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:14,840
Speaker 1: You know they lie when they say that.

1164
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, a little bit.

1165
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:16,919
Speaker 1: Okay for our whole mail.

1166
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 3: Our question this week is actually about marriage, so it's

1167
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 3: perfect that you're here, Mandy and Weezy. I could really

1168
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 3: use your advice. I've been married to my husband for

1169
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 3: over ten years. We were high school sweethearts. We have

1170
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 3: what people would think is a great life. He's a

1171
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 3: great provider, a good husband, an amazing father, and the

1172
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:33,840
Speaker 3: only issue I have is that our sex is terrible.

1173
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:35,880
Speaker 3: I hate to say it, but he has a small

1174
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 3: dick and he comes quick. I thought I could get

1175
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 3: past it because I love him and he's a good guy,

1176
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:41,839
Speaker 3: but I can't. He can't even eat my pussy right.

1177
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 3: I have to sneak and masturbate because he can't make

1178
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 3: me come. And I did recently step out and mess

1179
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 3: with a guy from my past and the sex was

1180
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 3: so good.

1181
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: He ate my pussy legos his last meal. And I've

1182
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:55,879
Speaker 1: been really mean to my husband and denying him sex,

1183
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: and I can tell it's affecting him because he keeps

1184
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: asking questions? And am I still in love with him?

1185
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 1: Do I find him attractive? And now I feel guilty?

1186
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 3: And now that I'm thirty, I don't want to spend

1187
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 3: another ten years of my life not being satisfied. Would

1188
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 3: you stay with a man that can't satisfy you even

1189
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 3: though he's great at everything else? Or do you break

1190
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 3: up your family because you're not getting your needs met?

1191
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 3: I can't even got to answer what Like I, I

1192
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:23,439
Speaker 3: think that it's really hard to find assumate she said

1193
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 3: that he's great at everything else. So to me, if

1194
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 3: you're really this unsatisfied with the sex, we are in

1195
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 3: such a great time to introduce non traditional values to

1196
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 3: a relationship. Whether even you allow your partner you both

1197
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 3: go to a sex club and you become swingers. You

1198
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 3: open the relationship up. He allows you to go deal

1199
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 3: with someone that maybe he's aware of, that goes and

1200
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 3: pleases you in this way. I think that when you

1201
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,440
Speaker 3: love someone, you want them to truly be happy. And

1202
00:52:55,480 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 3: I think to be fair too, men used to be delusional.

1203
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 3: There are men now that know when their dicks are

1204
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 3: small and when they come fast, like they're not really

1205
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 3: in like the like the abyss with not knowing whether

1206
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 3: they're not pleasing.

1207
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: I think I was gonna say.

1208
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 3: Even if he's not comfortable with that, like you know,

1209
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:20,919
Speaker 3: we don't sit here and say cheat. I think they're

1210
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 3: the way though, to bring up you being able to

1211
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 3: sexually please yourself with other people, other partners, whether he's

1212
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 3: there or not, and bringing that to the forefront before

1213
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 3: leaving somebody. Because these niggas with good dick and good

1214
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:37,399
Speaker 3: at nothing else. I was gonna say, it is hard

1215
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 3: out here. These are three single bitches.

1216
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, we single on the calf and she hadn't been

1217
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 7: married twice as NUTI advice, I don't know why we

1218
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 7: I think my advice to you would be it sounds

1219
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 7: like you haven't said anything to him for one and

1220
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 7: for two I.

1221
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: And don't lead it with hey, I already cheated on you. No,

1222
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 1: that's already gonna hurt. I actually don't think you should

1223
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 1: just tuck that one. But I do agree.

1224
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 3: I remember I knew my ex was cheating on me

1225
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 3: because he was being mean to me. Not me and mean,

1226
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:09,760
Speaker 3: but just kind of like very frustrated with me, acting

1227
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,319
Speaker 3: like he could just didn't need it me or need

1228
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 3: attention from me or would want to leave, and I'm like, oh, okay.

1229
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 1: You're fucking something. Someone else is around.

1230
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 3: Because men generally want to work at whatever is going on, right,

1231
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 3: they kind of don't want this, like made him at

1232
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 3: home you speaking.

1233
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 1: So it's like when he started getting mean, I was like, oh.

1234
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 3: You have someone else, because when I cheated, that was why,

1235
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 3: Like I was cheating on old Bay and I remember

1236
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 3: like he would do somebody like fuck you and I

1237
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:40,839
Speaker 3: just hang up, like I don't fucking need this ship

1238
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 3: And it was because I had someone else, like even

1239
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 3: the other guy wasn't even doing anything. I'm broken up.

1240
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:49,840
Speaker 3: Not because that was how the last conversation ended a

1241
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:52,240
Speaker 3: fuck you want to hang up? And I blocked him immediately,

1242
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 3: don't want your paragraphs, don't talk to me.

1243
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 1: Were you cheating? No? I wasn't cheating.

1244
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:01,320
Speaker 3: We had no I didn't have I always have options,

1245
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 3: but his energy was that.

1246
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 1: But his energy was that.

1247
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 3: But after I'd already been like, oh, or it is,

1248
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 3: what'll we be doing back? And I think I had

1249
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 3: just gotten so nasty back to him because I'm like,

1250
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 3: we're now on time twelve and this is draining me.

1251
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: But literally the comment, who is she who is she?

1252
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:19,399
Speaker 1: To Nigga what's going on?

1253
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 3: And of course never got an answer, probably won't at

1254
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 3: this point.

1255
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 1: I don't care. But I think you're right.

1256
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 3: I think that when you're with somebody who really genuinely

1257
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:31,800
Speaker 3: cares about you and they see that you're frustrated or

1258
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:34,799
Speaker 3: hurt or they're not doing something right, they do want

1259
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 3: to try to short temper the short temperature short, I

1260
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:42,720
Speaker 3: mean that's the short temper. Partner probably has another option

1261
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 3: and don't want to deal with your bullshit.

1262
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 1: Now, Oh that's bitch. I'm right, he felt triggered.

1263
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:52,919
Speaker 3: Tell me, would you stay with him with the bad

1264
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:54,120
Speaker 3: sex or would you leave?

1265
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 1: What would you do?

1266
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 6: I wouldn't to stay as him if it's a sex

1267
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 6: is bad because I feel like I'm very driven. I

1268
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:03,280
Speaker 6: think sex is very important. I'm like a very poetic

1269
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 6: like I'm a romantic person. I probably will never find

1270
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 6: a good man, and I know that's the risk of it,

1271
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 6: but like I also want to find a little Yeah,

1272
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:14,800
Speaker 6: I just yeah, I'm also like being a female comedian,

1273
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 6: I will never get fucked, but I still have the

1274
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 6: dream of like finding a man is a good dick

1275
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 6: who's like good at everything.

1276
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: You Handah fell in love and he's cute.

1277
00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 4: Oh my god, yeah, I love this.

1278
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 1: I actually think Hannah's man is real cute. Sorry to you, handed,

1279
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 1: that's fine me.

1280
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 3: This is so hot Chinese, but you know he doesn't drink,

1281
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:33,919
Speaker 3: so something is wrong.

1282
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's speaking Chinese and you speak that?

1283
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: Why wever? Hannah see me? She asked me to.

1284
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 6: Speak thirty things in Chinese about where fucking in Chinese?

1285
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:45,760
Speaker 6: Me and her, Me and Hannah is fucking two deaths

1286
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:47,399
Speaker 6: and he would say something in Chinese back.

1287
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: It was just like very funny. Would you fuck them?

1288
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 4: Both of them?

1289
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:55,319
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, are you kidding me? Now? I would too? Yeah,

1290
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: oh yeah they are so we kind of lived near

1291
00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 1: each other. Oka anyway, Sorry and tell people think more

1292
00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:02,319
Speaker 1: to say.

1293
00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 3: I was so embarrassed about saying I wanted to fuck

1294
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 3: somebody that hasn't asked me and we know them, so

1295
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

1296
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 1: I keep going yeah because I feel bad.

1297
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 3: They just got married and we're like, well, well let's

1298
00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 3: let's suck him, and I'm like, yo, we don't even

1299
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:16,960
Speaker 3: know if they.

1300
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 6: But I think being good at business is to keep

1301
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 6: the man who is good at everything, the high school sweetheart.

1302
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 1: It is a small digg who come faster. Maybe have

1303
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 1: him buy the nicest strap.

1304
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 6: Pound and uh an extender extender and like also like

1305
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 6: he has to go to pussy one on one.

1306
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 1: He there's all that's unacceptable. He has to learn.

1307
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, pussy, he has a mouth. He had to learn pussy.

1308
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 6: You should definitely he has to learn that.

1309
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Speaker 1: And I really agree. I think that.

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Speaker 6: The queen said, you know, maybe there's a guy who

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Speaker 6: can bring into the to the leadership.

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Speaker 3: One other thing she said, she hides masturbating. Don't do

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Speaker 3: that anymore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't do that, just do it from him, do

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Speaker 1: it in front of him. I just did that last

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Speaker 1: night and it was fun as ship.

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Speaker 3: And it wasn't that he couldn't make me come fucking me, no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: it was just like I was so we were drunk,

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Speaker 3: and for some reason, like I don't know, just you know,

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Speaker 3: when your pussy can't get super well, I wanted to

1321
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Speaker 3: fuck him, but like literally it just wasn't getting there.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't get well enough, and like whatever, we stopped fucking,

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Speaker 3: but I was sucking his dick and just masturbated, and

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Speaker 3: it was very clear I may may not have come

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Speaker 3: from fucking, but.

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Speaker 1: Like no shame in there at all.

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Speaker 3: I literally remember he said to me, put two hands

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Speaker 3: on my dick and I was like, no, I can't,

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00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 3: and he was like okay, shit.

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Speaker 1: He grabbed the other like fuck it. I see why.

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00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:31,720
Speaker 1: Like I want you to come too.

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Speaker 3: I think that you can definitely make masturbating in front

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Speaker 3: of men hot, and for some reason we're so.

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Speaker 1: Scared to do it. Girl, I'd do it.

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Speaker 3: I'd be looking at him and fucking making it sexy

1336
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Speaker 3: like I very rarely have men tell me, don't so

1337
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Speaker 3: get over that.

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Speaker 1: That's a you thing. You can only blame yourselfself for that.

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Speaker 1: So everybody agrees, don't leave except for you.

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Speaker 4: I think good I would, but I don't think.

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Speaker 6: I think if she's modern than me, she can keep

1342
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 6: him because you can't find a good man they are. Yeah,

1343
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 6: it's I know, but I just really feel like we

1344
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Speaker 6: have the same face.

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Speaker 1: Am I being racist? I could be your sister. I'm

1346
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 1: not kidding. I got a whole lot of makeup on.

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Speaker 1: You see it? I really see you look at a

1348
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 1: before boom boom boom. Oh you see it? She said,

1349
00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 1: we got the same thing. I could be her sister,

1350
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:26,360
Speaker 1: like we have like the lips, the teeth, the lips,

1351
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 1: the tee, the teeth. I bought the cheek. Uh huh

1352
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 1: the cheek? Did she have the eyes? Yeah? Do y'all

1353
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 1: see y'all see it just a little bit. They're like, yeah, Na.

1354
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 4: Said, it's to be the half sister. Like for sure,

1355
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 4: I see it.

1356
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 1: Like we are doing a short blind here, get away

1357
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 1: with it. You tell people where to listen to you

1358
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 1: or to find you.

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00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 6: Giant Summers dot com is my website. That's where you

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00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 6: buy tickets to see me doing live shows. But the

1361
00:59:57,360 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 6: Giant Summers everywhere. TikTok is from everywhere.

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Speaker 3: And do you do some weekly shows at at your

1363
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 3: at your club?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean town.

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Speaker 4: I'll be there Fridays, Aday, Sunday, the Heart of the Comedy.

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Speaker 4: I'm touring us.

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01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: Hollywood Comedy Club is your club. Yeah, I'm not right right,

1368
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Speaker 1: I notice.

1369
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 3: And if you want to come and see us on tour,

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01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 3: support black Women First at horrhart dot com. We're on

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01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 3: our sixteen city tour seventeen. Make sure you come and

1372
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 3: see us again. That's horror Hive dot com. If you

1373
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 3: also want to support us, make sure you go to Patreon.

1374
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:37,760
Speaker 3: That's Patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions where you get

1375
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 3: bonus episodes. We do a town hall once a month,

1376
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 3: but more than anything, we are looking forward to seeing

1377
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 3: all of you guys on this tour, so get your

1378
01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 3: tickets down again. That's Horrorhive dot com. Thank you yet

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01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 3: again for joining us for another episode of Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys. Thank