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Speaker 2: I decided to take my friend to court after she

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Speaker 1: Get that bad girl, get it.

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Speaker 2: I thirty female and let's call her Amy twenty five female,

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Speaker 2: met through some mutual friends Bob twenty eight male, Sarah

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Speaker 2: thirty one female, and My twenty nine female. Bob and

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Speaker 2: Amy had moved in together as roommates. I live in

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Speaker 2: a city about two hours away from everyone in the group.

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Speaker 2: We try to hang out as much as we can

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Speaker 2: Time Star. But they were getting back on their feet

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Speaker 2: after some impossible roommate issues with their last homes. I

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Speaker 2: was doing well financially, so I spotted them some money

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Speaker 2: to get them into an apartment. That is a pretty

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Speaker 2: pretty generous thing to do. I had let Aims me

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was dumb. I regret it.

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Speaker 2: All in all, I was about eight hundred dollars deep

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Speaker 2: in with this friendship. It was very clear that it

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Speaker 2: was just alone and she could pay me back a

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Speaker 2: little by a little at a time. Bob paid me

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Speaker 2: back very quickly.

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Speaker 3: If you give your friends money.

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Speaker 1: It's a gift, it's gone. It goes yeap friends or family.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, that's even more family.

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Speaker 2: Over the last six months, we noticed that they were

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Speaker 2: always paying her way when we hung out, and she

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Speaker 2: was always saying, I feel so.

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Speaker 1: Bad you have to pay for me. I swear I'll

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Speaker 2: She's constantly posting on social media about her money troubles.

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Speaker 2: In other drama, I casually mentioned that she and Bob

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Speaker 2: should sell her tickets and get caught up. She insisted

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Speaker 2: ended up going to the event with me, my partner,

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Speaker 2: and Bob. Little did I know my partner was gonna propose,

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Speaker 2: and I said, yes, let's go.

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Speaker 3: Partner's name partner is partner, Partner, Okay, sweet partner.

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Speaker 2: At the event, she was way out of line with

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Speaker 2: are very worried about her. She insists that she can

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Speaker 2: handle herself. Tickets go on sale for a large event.

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Speaker 2: We go every year and get an airbnb for it.

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Speaker 2: Everyone buys their own tickets. I get the airbnb, but

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Speaker 2: we will split it evenly between the seven people. What

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Speaker 2: is this niche event? I'm guessing Coachella, That's what I'm guessing.

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Speaker 2: Stage coach, seven stage coach, something like that, Bonner Room,

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Speaker 2: some sort of some sort of big music festival. Seven people, Airbnb.

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Speaker 2: That's that's That's what I'm feeling. This will be the

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Speaker 1: Shoot. We set some boundaries since the last event with Amy.

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Speaker 2: One, everyone pays me back for the airbnbat before or

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Speaker 2: I think it's gotta be before. Oh, definitely got to

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Speaker 2: be before. Yeah, like what we did. Riley booked it boom.

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Speaker 2: Riley immediately paid me back. I booked an Airbnb for

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Speaker 1: So we'll get there. We'll get there, we'll get there.

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Speaker 3: Key. You could probably sit in a request like I

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Speaker 3: how much is it again?

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Speaker 2: You know, two hundred, But I appreciate you pay your

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Speaker 2: own way for food, souvenirs, et cetera. Number three, no

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Speaker 2: We aren't going to be up at four am playing

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Speaker 2: music and be wow again. I think it's a music question.

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Speaker 2: I started looking for a new job because the place

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Speaker 2: and didn't dig deeper.

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Speaker 3: This is not a good time for Amy to be

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Speaker 2: Dude, Amy, listen, op. He's trying to save up for

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Speaker 2: the marriage. That workplace is toxic. We cannot afford any

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Speaker 2: more stress. Yes, okay, we were already stressed enough.

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Speaker 3: I agree. Also, looking at the ages, Amy is about

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Speaker 2: Oh of why yeah, I mean it could be a

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Speaker 1: But I do think there could be a little bit

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Speaker 2: Yeah, at the end of the day, like, you know,

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Speaker 2: the group that I had approved a guy Josh, to

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Speaker 2: stay with us. No one except Bob has met him.

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Speaker 2: Bob doesn't like or trust Josh. Bob will back out

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Speaker 2: if Josh is staying at the Airbnb. Sarah and May

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Speaker 2: At this point, I had totally forgotten about Amy asking

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Speaker 2: it was a it was a mistake of negligence. Op

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Speaker 2: just thought that she had already gotten everyone else's approval,

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Speaker 2: and she was like the last Yes, God.

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Speaker 3: Did I see I see miscommunication?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I thought that it would have been discussed

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Speaker 2: Amy was mad, but I was put off by how

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Speaker 1: The answer is.

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Speaker 3: An that's one of the four rules.

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Speaker 2: Bob or Josh get on out of here, because Bob

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Speaker 2: It's now twenty twenty five. She hasn't paid me back

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Speaker 2: for what I lent her last year.

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Speaker 3: You were better off putting all that money into meme

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Speaker 1: That is true.

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Speaker 2: You were You were literally better taking seven hundred and

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Speaker 2: ninety nine dollars buying a giant can of vasoline, pouring

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Speaker 2: it on the seven ninety nine, lighting a match, throwing

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Speaker 2: the match in it, watching it explode. A car coage

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Speaker 2: crushing your burnt, crisp dollars.

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Speaker 1: You still have one more dollars than you do today.

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Speaker 1: That is true.

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Speaker 2: You would literally be better off doing it. You're literally better

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Speaker 2: off doing that. She had lost her job working at

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Speaker 2: the same company as Bob and May. She is behind

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Speaker 1: I've I think you can go home and figure out

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Speaker 1: how to pay for your home. Yeah, this is uh.

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Speaker 2: I'm getting some icy use of the financial situation, causing

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Speaker 3: And I know she's not just doing this to Op

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Speaker 3: because it hits it before every everyone pays Amy's way.

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Speaker 3: Right now, I feel Amy's about to be like no more.

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Speaker 3: Is everyone else gonna put that with her and be

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Speaker 3: like here's my line too?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Or ope to Amy like op. Yeah, I'm not Amy.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna let you do loans anymore.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm about to see.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like she's like ringing everyone else, like

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Speaker 3: how much money is she spent, like borrow from Bob Sarah,

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Speaker 3: how much may that's a.

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Speaker 2: Lot of people, you know eight Yeah, that's like that's money. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's money. Amounts thirty six hundred, Oh quick, maths.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of.

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Speaker 2: Her posting online asking for people to spot her money drama,

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Speaker 2: her best away bet and your mental breakdowns.

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Speaker 1: Now that's content. That is content. Now, that's content.

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Speaker 3: If you didn't, right, you wouldn't have to ask people

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Amy, Amy needs some help. It seems not

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Speaker 2: another loan. That's not gonna help for anything. I don't

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Speaker 2: Teacher to fish, you know what I'm saying. Along the way,

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Speaker 2: we're trying to comfort Amy. She just wants to relax

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Speaker 2: and party. Everyone including Amy, has their ticket. Now Bob

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Speaker 2: informed her that if Bob sells, so should she. It's

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Speaker 2: not fair to her to go if he's covering half

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Speaker 1: Amy is is.

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Speaker 3: Bob and Amy together? I kind of want to assume

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Speaker 2: I am a little bit confused on the Bob and

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Speaker 2: and I thought everyone could go out there and tickets.

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Speaker 1: I'm a little bit confused. Yeah, maybe you will get

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Speaker 1: some clarity. Clarity.

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Speaker 2: Amy is coming to me acting like everyone is just

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Speaker 2: bullying her over her getting a job. She's put in

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Speaker 2: thirty eight applications in over a month. I found out

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Speaker 2: me is adding up. I told Amy, that's not really enough.

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Speaker 2: I fill out two hundred applications over a few months.

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Speaker 2: The market is tough. She can door dash, she said

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Speaker 2: she has, but it's just enough to cover the gas

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Speaker 2: and update. Thank you everyone, their roommates, their roommates, Oh,

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Speaker 2: Bob and Amy, m.

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Speaker 3: Ooh, that gets old quick. I love you, Sophia, but

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Speaker 3: if I had to pay for a lot of your stuff.

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Speaker 3: It'd be hard to love you as much as I

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Speaker 3: you know, you don't.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying like, if this was the dynamic, oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: but probably vice versa. I know Sophia gets sick of

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Speaker 3: unloading and loading dishwasher, and I'm trying to be better

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Speaker 3: Who dashing?

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Speaker 2: And since you did this, give me fifty Yes? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: how dare you we need to interest?

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Speaker 1: That is why you.

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Speaker 3: Owe op so much money. But you're trying to get

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Speaker 1: I don't think they live together.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that yeah, no, no oh wait wait wait wait

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Speaker 2: Talk tonic might be there might be rugs, subs, there

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she does do that with the other two peeps.

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Speaker 2: We don't know what kind of substances she's doing. It

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Speaker 3: And I will say I have been simulating a game

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Speaker 1: Yes, and I do know what it's like to share.

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Speaker 3: She has a very severe gambling problem on that game. Wow,

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Speaker 3: then you know, sell it. Great. We but like you know,

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Speaker 2: Sure, can you can you choose your your uh, your things?

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Speaker 2: Can I like choose to be a gambling addict and then.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean there's a casino you can go.

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Speaker 4: No, I just went to the casino and I kept gambling.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just some pick up running the slots. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's natural, it's it's it's organic, it's yeah, it's okain

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Speaker 2: bad friends to let her spend her last thirty dollars

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Speaker 2: on a ticket quick pull tell tell her not. I'm

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Speaker 2: curious if if you guys agree that the friends should

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Speaker 1: Very curious to hear what you have today.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm gonna be taking a step. Could

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Speaker 3: you show me my friends and I'll show you who

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Speaker 3: I am? If I have someone not paying people bag

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Speaker 3: kind of not, you know, bettering themselves as a person,

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Speaker 3: Iron sharpens, iron brother Sharpen's a brother, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: And I.

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Speaker 3: Think it's time to take a couple of steps back here.

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Speaker 1: Oh trying to trying to sharpen a brother. Huh oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: always I'm right here.

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Speaker 3: Get over here, I'll sharpen you, sharpen your right up.

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Speaker 2: No, so let us know in the poll what you think. Now,

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Speaker 2: this is when things start getting bad. She starts applying

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Speaker 2: with well, if you don't want me there, I guess

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Speaker 2: I'll just miss out.

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Speaker 1: She was told to stop because it felt manipulative.

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Speaker 2: All along, she's been posting online asking to borrow money

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Speaker 2: just wants to have a good time. Birthday month, birthday month. Hey,

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Speaker 2: come on, Sophia, I mean back me up here.

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Speaker 5: Birthday I love a birthday month. I'm all for a

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Speaker 5: birthday month. Yes, I've got at least three birthday celebrations

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Speaker 2: If we have our last thirty dollars, that's one dollar

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Speaker 2: of birthday month gifts today. That's all I'm saying. Or

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Speaker 2: we could spend it all at once and then spend

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Speaker 2: another three thousand.

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Speaker 1: Dollars on a credit card.

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Speaker 2: By the way, Pole has voted and they said one

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're right, Chat exactly, I think you're right.

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Speaker 2: On to big concert weekend, she gets dropped off with

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Speaker 1: Why I am setting boundaries for her for the weekend.

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Speaker 1: She states that she.

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Speaker 2: Will not be doing anything crazy. She will be sober

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Speaker 2: besides booze, er Kanja and we will have long talks

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Speaker 1: It seems like we'll have a good weekend. Wait, that's

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Speaker 2: She's just guzzling booze and living in a cloud of

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Speaker 1: That's not so that's not sober though, right, But she's

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Speaker 2: It's a California's sober ah, I see, except except that's

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Speaker 2: when you don't drink bless you. This is this is

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Speaker 2: calif This is a California sober two point zero.

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Speaker 1: See to the to me, so Florida sober, Florida sober

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Speaker 1: I didn't know.

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Speaker 3: I thought that was the worst things you could do

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Speaker 1: No, you're not at all. One is not at all.

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Speaker 3: I see now this.

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Speaker 1: Is the new California is sober.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, I give Amy advice for life and being

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Speaker 2: Be careful because it does not look good, especially when

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Speaker 2: Sophia and Riley, super quick. I don't like.

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Speaker 1: The savior complex.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like the savior complex, the kind of like, uh,

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, I agree, Yeah he's big sistering her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it was kind of like unwarranted, and I

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Speaker 1: Quarantined May maybe a little bit much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but this is the timeline with everything we found

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Speaker 1: We are doing everything. That's that's insane. She she already

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Speaker 2: Amy claimed it was a gift for her birthday and

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Speaker 2: she didn't pay anything for it. Dude, you and Sam

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Speaker 2: it's kind of crazy.

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Speaker 3: I don't even read that. I couldn't read it.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 2: It was a large amount, and Amy gets a very

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Speaker 2: After the show, May wants to go to bed. Amy

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Speaker 3: Oh so she wasn't hurt, just one of her friends hurt.

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Speaker 1: I think she lied. Instead. Amy ends up in medical care,

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Speaker 2: Amy claims her friend Tye was one of the medical

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Speaker 1: Them for her birthday. Of course, she says she'll be

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Speaker 2: He doesn't seem okay, but we feel like it's not

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Speaker 1: He trusts them.

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Speaker 2: Day three, Amy returns in a complete spiral. Nice, what

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Rule number four broke in out. Honestly, I think we've

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Speaker 3: She hasn't invited anyone that they don't know Josh.

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Speaker 1: She invited Josh. Oh she did.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I missed that, and then she invited Josh. She's

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Speaker 2: like trying to stay from the party. Yeah, I think

446
00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:36,680
Speaker 2: I think she's broken all the rules. Bawling and refusing

447
00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:39,679
Speaker 2: to talk to anyone except May. She quickly packs up

448
00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,280
Speaker 2: her things and leaves with tie. We want to reach out,

449
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,159
Speaker 2: We don't hear much. We try to not let it

450
00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,919
Speaker 2: ruin our weekend. Bob goes home because he has to

451
00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:49,840
Speaker 2: work in the morning, and the rest of us go

452
00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:52,120
Speaker 2: to the event and have a great time. A week

453
00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:55,120
Speaker 2: or so after the concert, I hear nothing. I reach

454
00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,679
Speaker 2: out to inform her that I'm moving cities and I

455
00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,120
Speaker 2: need her to pay me back. I know that she

456
00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,879
Speaker 2: she lied and need to build back trust by paying

457
00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:05,840
Speaker 2: me back. She responds to inform that she has a

458
00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:08,439
Speaker 2: job lined up and she will pay me back. I

459
00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,720
Speaker 2: call it six hundred dollars. Even so, we're giving discounts. Right,

460
00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:15,880
Speaker 2: we're making deals over here with the airbnb she still

461
00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,720
Speaker 2: owes me for, so that's even lower. I'll take the

462
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:22,280
Speaker 2: two hundred dollars off for gas slash food because that's

463
00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 2: just what good friends do.

464
00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:27,359
Speaker 1: May Sarah and Bob have the talk. She's been avoiding.

465
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,280
Speaker 2: Amy's mental health is suffering, and she's losing the group

466
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 2: because of reactions. She swears she isn't buying anything, excuses

467
00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,920
Speaker 2: about Tye and Josh. When she was confronted about lying

468
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,159
Speaker 2: to us, she says that she didn't want us to

469
00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:43,359
Speaker 2: know because she was scared of the reactions. A and

470
00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:46,879
Speaker 2: regular user was being used. No one called her a

471
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,919
Speaker 2: regular user, just that her behavior is showing all the

472
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,000
Speaker 2: signs that she's not okay. Bottom line is we need

473
00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 2: to see the work she's putting in. Back off events

474
00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 2: and stuff, Stop posting everything online and getting caught up.

475
00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,320
Speaker 2: Everyone will be for her and we want to see

476
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,680
Speaker 2: her thrive. It's hard work, but it does need to

477
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 2: be done. She hits up the friend she accused of

478
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,439
Speaker 2: selling for a birthday gift earlier.

479
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,399
Speaker 3: Remember the bike scenario thing, Yeah yeah, yeah.

480
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:12,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah.

481
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,959
Speaker 2: This friend doesn't sell anything and has uh ann has

482
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,359
Speaker 2: been sober for eight years.

483
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,679
Speaker 1: So this person literally not even sell anything. It's just

484
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:22,200
Speaker 1: like you sold your toast of it, and I'd need

485
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 1: a part of it.

486
00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 3: Pints of her not being being all there.

487
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,720
Speaker 2: That's great call out. Amy goes to more events. Nothing

488
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:33,560
Speaker 2: has changed. Everyone just starts getting distant. Amy is removed

489
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 2: from a chat for a bachelorette party we're invited to.

490
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 2: She freaks out and starts complaining to May and Bob.

491
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 2: She was uninvited because it's a huge financial burden. The

492
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,240
Speaker 2: bride didn't want to push that on her because she

493
00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 2: is posting about having no money.

494
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:46,439
Speaker 1: You know.

495
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 2: That kind of tracks, kind of tracks another week. Amy

496
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 2: reaches out a few days before she knows we will

497
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,399
Speaker 2: all be hanging out at Sars birthday. We're going to

498
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 2: a local bar just to chill. Unfortunately, I don't know

499
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:01,720
Speaker 2: if Amy is in a chill mode right now. I

500
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,159
Speaker 2: don't know if Amy's on some chow vibes, so.

501
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 3: I don't think she needs to be around a bar

502
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 3: right now.

503
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 2: That is another great point, Sir Riley. Amy wants us

504
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 2: to know that she's trying and just wants to update us.

505
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 2: She sends me a fifty dollars payment because that's all

506
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 2: she can afford. My response was, your balance is five

507
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,959
Speaker 2: hundred and fifty dollars. I felt like she was fishing

508
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 2: for an invite so she could come and we would

509
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:24,120
Speaker 2: pay for her drinks.

510
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:25,640
Speaker 1: Ooh, break even.

511
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah that was the story. Yeah last night. Actually

512
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,640
Speaker 2: one done. Millennial will send it a story And basically

513
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 2: this this friend kept being like, hey, could you loan

514
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 2: me like two thousand dollars. I'll give you a two

515
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 2: hundred dollars down payment. It's like, no, stupid, like that is?

516
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,440
Speaker 2: I know what you're doing. Yeah, you're investing. Yeah, you're

517
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 2: getting a ten x return out of me. You're not

518
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:52,199
Speaker 2: a Nigerian prince. I know what this is. Not today baby.

519
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 2: On Sarah's birthday weekend, I drive down to hang out

520
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 2: with the group. She posts things like at least three

521
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 2: at least these tacos never hurt me like people do,

522
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,359
Speaker 2: and lip syncing to super emotional songs about being better

523
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,360
Speaker 2: off alone. Posting a picture at a different gar at

524
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 2: a different bar with another group, Amy reaches out again.

525
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: I confronted her.

526
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:14,160
Speaker 2: About the posts, trying to ruin Sarah's birthday by making

527
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 2: her feel guilty. As a new loaf for her. The

528
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 2: only thing Amy is saying is that she is not

529
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 2: trying to be that way. Those aren't her intentions. People

530
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 2: are wanting to take her out because they just want

531
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 2: to hang out. They only brought her one drink. Why

532
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 2: are you being so mean? Everyone has gotten on my

533
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,719
Speaker 2: case for that already. The lip syncing was because of

534
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 2: a guy.

535
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 1: What is it? Is it a crime to lip sing? Now?

536
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:38,360
Speaker 1: I don't understand.

537
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, libru alone, Opie, let let her go.

538
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm getting kind of more and more like, oh,

539
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,360
Speaker 2: let me like sit you down and give me advice.

540
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: I'll let me like, you know, it's it is. It's

541
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 1: a bit much. Op.

542
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 3: He's very frustrated with this person and anything this person

543
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 3: does she's complaining about.

544
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 4: Now she's lip syncing.

545
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, ridiculous tacos.

546
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 2: I think, Op, you need to stop the the ted

547
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,360
Speaker 2: talk lectures and starts just giving yourself a little distance

548
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 2: to hang out with. Yeah, someone who's maybe not constantly

549
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:09,399
Speaker 2: hitting go for a long give.

550
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:12,120
Speaker 3: Yourself some peace. Cause I don't know. If you give

551
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 3: someone advice and they don't take it, and you keep

552
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 3: giving advice and they don't take it, what are we what.

553
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 1: Are we doing here? What are we doing? What are

554
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 1: we doing?

555
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 2: This? This is this method doesn't make sense. It doesn't

556
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 2: matter if she's not trying to be that way. It's

557
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 2: how it's coming across. It's all super immature and she

558
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 2: needs to stop again. OP, I don't know.

559
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: This must end. The tacos have gone too far. It's

560
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,959
Speaker 1: now Caso Taco Tuesday. They're full of cheese.

561
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:42,640
Speaker 2: I'm done with it all right, OP, you're you're you're,

562
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 2: You're losing us with every sentence, OPI I can't lost.

563
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 1: Just blocker bro, just fo yes, yes, come on, it's

564
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 1: not that deep. It's like, so not that deep.

565
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 2: Although there is a six hundred and that I mean, listen,

566
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 2: six hundred dollars is a lot of money. It is

567
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 2: so and maybe Op's in the position she's like, yo,

568
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,120
Speaker 2: I kind of really need that six hundred back.

569
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 1: Maybe that helps make rent her stuff.

570
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, if if, if six hundred dollars is not make

571
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 2: her break, give yourself a piece of space, like you know,

572
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 2: I think it's worth it. We found out that there

573
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 2: are all reasons why she fell out with her last group. Oh,

574
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 2: she would borrow money and have people take her out

575
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 2: and never pay them back, begging for stuff and spending

576
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,880
Speaker 2: money on things that she doesn't need. The lies pile

577
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 2: up quickly. The last group stepped away quietly from all

578
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 2: of the manipulation. We fell for her crap, hook line

579
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 2: and sinker. Today, she posts on Snapchat that she was

580
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 2: doing better and was thinking about doing a going to

581
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 2: a three day festival. I mean, I will say it

582
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 2: does seem like she's addicted to it.

583
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:46,479
Speaker 1: Bro the festival tickets. The festival tickets, I mean they

584
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: used to be like they used to be. I was

585
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 1: gonna say, they.

586
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 2: Used to be like one last year, one, two, three

587
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 2: hundred dollars and some of them are some of them.

588
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:55,719
Speaker 2: I've actually found a lot of cheap pundser tickets out

589
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:58,360
Speaker 2: so Weezer Dominic, fine, but is that a festival. It's

590
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 2: a one one day so it'd probably three or four hundred,

591
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 2: but that's a festival. Yeah, multiple artist Anderson Packers there

592
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 2: you go, that's a festival.

593
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 1: Chance.

594
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 2: It was great, yeah, but now tickets are like getting

595
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 2: I feel like four hundred to like seven fifty is

596
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 2: what some of what I've been thinking.

597
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 3: I think I know Yinschlsco though.

598
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, she's.

599
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 2: Uh Yeah, for all our visual are non visual viewers

600
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 2: and helding through noses. Yeah, she's she's sniffing, sniffing the good,

601
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 2: the good, the good Lord's sugar. Yeah, you know what

602
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe maybe who know, who knows? Who knows?

603
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: We don't know what substances are involved here, but I

604
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 1: don't know.

605
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 3: And she may be very skilled at finding this and

606
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 3: getting it for free.

607
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:40,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

608
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 2: People do be loving to give that stuff away. Yeah,

609
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 2: I mean, that's not my parents meant. Somehow, sometimes it

610
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 2: brings deal together beautiful.

611
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 3: My dad was not in doing the best thing and

612
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 3: selling the best things to people. And my mom was like, oh,

613
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 3: what's up your tall glass of water? And he's like,

614
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 3: there you go.

615
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 1: I mean he is a tall glass of water. You

616
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: cannot deny that man six'. Eight Oh.

617
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 2: GOD i responded to that with when will you be

618
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 2: making another payment and how much will it? Be amy,

619
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 2: responds right, Right, oh the three day festival money is

620
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 2: going not going to my? Loan what's going? On amy

621
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 2: responds with a bunch of excuses on why she. Can't

622
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 2: her car needs new, tires she needs, food she's behind on.

623
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,160
Speaker 1: Bills bob's been on her case about.

624
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 2: It old old Roommate bob just back at it, again

625
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 2: asking her for. Rent she was only thinking about. Going

626
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 2: she wasn't sure. YET i take a screenshot of. Everything

627
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 2: i'm keeping track just in CASE i take her To Small.

628
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 1: Claims.

629
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 2: Wow amy panics and Sends sarah an update message.

630
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: That she is still.

631
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 2: Trying sarah calls her out too about how she feels

632
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 2: manipulated and her behavior hasn't. Changed what she posts online

633
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: is crazy and we can't see that she's. Trying sarah

634
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 2: has been feeling so bad about being hard on. Her

635
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 2: everyone has been worried That amy might hurt herself because

636
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 2: of what she posts and the things That amy has

637
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 2: said in the. Past amy posts again minutes After sarah finished.

638
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 2: Talking i'm going to disappear, FOREVER i, SNAPPED i replied

639
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 2: to the story, girl what the actual F amy. Says

640
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 2: it's about her grandma passing, Away. Colley she has been

641
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 2: so far away from her. Family she has missed, Weddings,

642
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 2: bursten the, family and now she will never see her grandma. Again,

643
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 2: okay we gotta stop right. Here yeah. AGAIN i think

644
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 2: like as we've gone throughout the, story we've seen That

645
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 2: op has kind of become more and. More she feels

646
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 2: a little little on her high, horse, like if, anything

647
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 2: why isn't OP i feel like the advice That opie

648
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 2: thinks she, gives which is what she needs to, receive is, like,

649
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 2: listen this friend is like driving around. Circles we don't

650
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: Know opie's financial, status but is it worth to collect

651
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 2: all this evidence take her to small claims court for

652
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 2: this six hundred dollars you?

653
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 1: WANT i just don't know is WHAT i? See, yeah tell,

654
00:28:56,120 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: me please? Please she's loving, THIS opi feeding off.

655
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 3: This you know What i'm Gonna i'm gonna sit her

656
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 3: down And i'm gonna tell her everything that she needs

657
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,239
Speaker 3: to do and how she needs to change your.

658
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 1: Life i'm gonna fix. Her i'm gonna fix. Her i'm

659
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 1: gonna fix. Her oh, no she's she's spending money on other.

660
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 3: Things i'm gonna write down every single thing she, she you,

661
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 3: know spend money.

662
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 2: On i'm gonna make a, spreadsheet including the taco she

663
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 2: did or did she not even get? Those i'm not even,

664
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,719
Speaker 2: sure BUT i know she went to a festival and

665
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 2: according to the festival after tax four.

666
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 1: Thirteen, dude that means going, on she's she's LOVING.

667
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 2: I THINK i Think i'm, curious sofia like, one if

668
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 2: this is If amy is your, friend are you gonna

669
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 2: kind of just like distance yourself even with the six hundred?

670
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:37,719
Speaker 3: Dollars?

671
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, Road, well how would you how would you how

672
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: would you approach? That, like what's the how would you tell?

673
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: Her would you send a? Message? Like what would you?

674
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 2: Do?

675
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 4: Wait, wait she owes me?

676
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: Money she owes you six hundred. Dollars oh that's a.

677
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 1: Lot but it's been a whole rigama.

678
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 2: Role it's been a, year and basically at this point

679
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 2: it's looking highly unlikely you'll get you'll get your.

680
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: Money what do You what do you?

681
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 5: Mean If i'm not even getting My i'd just be, Like,

682
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 5: okay it's not gonna talk to this person.

683
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: Anymore, yeah let it, go let yourself. Grow no more.

684
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 3: Party favors from me to. YOU i don't have a

685
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 3: lot of good party.

686
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 2: Favors oh, god he sure. Does i've seen, him by the.

687
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 2: Way you want a party. Favor you want a party.

688
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: Favor you're listening right, Now you're, like, OH i want

689
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 2: to PART i want to get it. Crazy, yeah well

690
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 2: guess what go to spotify able podcast or iHeartRadio app and. Search,

691
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 2: okay story time because we have two thousand episodes for

692
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 2: your listening. Pleasure, okay, okay let's let's let's get into

693
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 2: the last part of this episode. Here SO i told

694
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 2: her posting stuff online is a huge part of the.

695
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 2: Problem the timing was. IMPECCABLE i can only see it

696
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 2: in the context that she posted it and the timing

697
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 2: of our. Issues AND i don't really believe her since

698
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 2: she broke all the TRUST i had in. Her big

699
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 2: posts like this are not, okay what are you gonna?

700
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 2: Do like install install like a app blocker on her

701
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 2: phone so she can't like what?

702
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: What what are? We we're we're TikTok. Police now you.

703
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: Know my, gosh she either wants to manipulate us or

704
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 2: feel bad slash or have us feel bad slash. Scared

705
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 2: if she stops, posting especially right after she reaches out

706
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 2: and we haven't dropped the problems with her, Behavior i'm

707
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 2: done with this. Friendship she needs to pay me back

708
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 2: asap Or i'll take.

709
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: Her to small claims. Court AM i the a? Hole

710
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 1: this is an interesting.

711
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 2: One it's not often where we have you, know the

712
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 2: op potentially being the a.

713
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: Hole but, yeah what do you think IS.

714
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 2: OPI i THINK i Think amy first, off any everyone

715
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 2: everyone sucks, here everyone's a hill.

716
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 1: Here amy and OP I i.

717
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: AGREE i THINK i think LIKE opi is just going

718
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 2: about all these things all the.

719
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: Wrong op could have totally been in the. Right you,

720
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 1: know she lent the.

721
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 2: Money, uh she's like seems kind of like kind of

722
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 2: like a mom of the, group you, know like organizing the,

723
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 2: trips and she's you, know doing her fair share to

724
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 2: contribute to the friend.

725
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: Family. Yeah, yeah she's just holding it over her head

726
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: and just. Lecturing she likes to.

727
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 3: Control, yes have you seen those not saying like all

728
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 3: girl groups, are but LIKE i don't, Know i'm just

729
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 3: thinking of like this one girl group in my head

730
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 3: where one of them is just like you're gonna do

731
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 3: this and that and this and, that just like very

732
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 3: controlling and it's LIKE whoa just.

733
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 2: Thinks, like, Oh i've got all the, answers And i'm, like,

734
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: dude you you keep you kept lending her money like

735
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 2: that seems like the type of advice she thinks she. Gives,

736
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 2: yeah it's, like, hey stop lending a friend's, money give

737
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 2: it some. Space you wouldn't have been out all this

738
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 2: money if you if you had done us up.

739
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 1: Anyways, YEAH i.

740
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 2: AGREE i think everyone's the a hole, here AND i

741
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 2: THINK i am the a hole for ending this story

742
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 2: because it's.

743
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: Over. Wow But i'm not the a hole because this

744
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 1: episode is not. Over ha that. Trick. Two we got more,

745
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: Guys let's get into. It Hey's john og.

746
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 2: Hillst we're gonna get back to the, stories but a

747
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 2: quick three minute break of ads from our.

748
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 3: Sponsors my friend lied about, me SO i expose the

749
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 3: truth about. Her the truth ARTS, i twenty five, female

750
00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 3: had been friends With, cammy twenty five females since kindergarten

751
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 3: when her family moved next door to mine and we

752
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 3: were both. Six we've been through everything together and once

753
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 3: considered the other as a. Sister we both have even

754
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 3: moved to the same state to be closer to one.

755
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 3: Another by the, way this comes From Okay big eighty,

756
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 3: six and if you want to smit your old, stories

757
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 3: go to our Slash okay storytime. Subreddit so about two years,

758
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 3: Ago cammy started Dating, andrew thirty, six, male WHO i

759
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 3: did not. Like he was a lot older than her

760
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 3: and just did not seem like the right guy for.

761
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 3: Her she once asked me WHAT i thought of him

762
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 3: at the beginning of their, relationship AND i told her

763
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 3: my opinion of him being too, old but she told

764
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 3: me that everything was fine and that age was just a.

765
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 2: NUMBER i know someone else who said, that and that

766
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 2: did not end. Well another, YouTuber not another YouTuber a,

767
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 2: musician a.

768
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: Musician So i'm gonna, Say, Leah, okay now Now i'm. Lost.

769
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 3: SORRY i honestly didn't see anything else it's bad about,

770
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 3: Him SO i eventually learned to let that, go but

771
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 3: always had that uneasy feeling about. Him we told onto

772
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 3: that gut. Feeling eight months, Ago andrew proposed To cammy

773
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 3: and she immediately asked me to be a. BRIDESMAID i said,

774
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 3: yes AND i was happy for. Her her wedding was

775
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 3: in Late february of this. Year in Early, November hammy

776
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 3: comes over to my apartment to tell me that she

777
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 3: had been actively cheating On andrew for the past six

778
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 3: months with some guy from her.

779
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 1: Work oh that's not. Good that's not a good. Thing

780
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 1: it's not. Good oh. Boy oh, NO i.

781
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 3: Thought andrew was going to complain with. This it's kind of.

782
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:44,320
Speaker 1: SHOCKING i was it ready for. That, yeah this is

783
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,840
Speaker 1: a total plot. Twist oh, oh, man she told.

784
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 3: Me That andrew Found oh wait what she told me

785
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 3: That andrew found, out and instead of getting angry with,

786
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 3: her asked for her forgiveness and wanted to know as

787
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 3: to how he could be a better partner to her

788
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 3: because he was failing. Her oh, no this is even more.

789
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 2: Dangerous oh, no, oh dear, dude he's gonna oh, no

790
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 2: gonna haven't wrapped around her.

791
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 1: Finger, dude that's not. Good run my, brother, run she.

792
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 3: Said the reason she was telling me was to go

793
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 3: ahead and get off her chest BEFORE i found out

794
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,479
Speaker 3: from someone else and thought badly of. Her when she told,

795
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 3: ME i could tell she had no remorse and didn't

796
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 3: even regret her.

797
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 2: Cheating, dude this is the worst case. Scenario, dude this

798
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 2: is your. FRIEND i don't, know, BRO i. DON'T i

799
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 2: don't know friends with this. Person, yeah this is.

800
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 1: KINDERGARTEN i can name one friend of yours that you've

801
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: had since.

802
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 3: Kindergarten.

803
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,720
Speaker 5: Yeah BUT i think if they like were like doing,

804
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 5: this like you, know doing this, BEHAVIOR i.

805
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 4: Wouldn't i'd be, LIKE i don't know you.

806
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 5: Anymore, YEAH i, asked B yeah NO I i, yeah

807
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 5: but that's like so opposite to who they.

808
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 1: Are that is, true but what if that.

809
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 5: Happened BUT i feel, like you, know people grow, Apart

810
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 5: i'd be, like, oh you're not the same.

811
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: Person, yeah that's. Tough that's that's a tough.

812
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 3: ONE i was shocked and asked if she regretted what she,

813
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 3: did and she said it hurt her to See andrew so,

814
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 3: upset but she explained that things were so hot at

815
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 3: work that the tension was too much for her and

816
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 3: her coworker to.

817
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 2: Ignore there's never an, excuse and that's, maybe honestly one

818
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 2: of the worst excuses at least at least if you're

819
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 2: gonna spout off an excuse, me it.

820
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 3: GOOD i don't, know, MAN i get some pretty Hodd

821
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 3: tinson with my coworkers at.

822
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: Work oh, GOD i mean like it is toasty in. Here,

823
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 1: yeah it's, freezing literally. Sweating.

824
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 3: Dude we can't put we can't take more clothes off

825
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 3: because we're, streaming but you could put more, on. RIGHT

826
00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 3: i told HER i was no longer going to be

827
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 3: her bridesmaid and wasn't going to attend her wedding BECAUSE

828
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 3: i don't associate myself with cheaters AND i no longer

829
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 3: support her, marriage especially since she did not think what

830
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 3: she did was.

831
00:36:56,160 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: Wrong let's go so we like to. See that's all

832
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: we like to. See Cam we.

833
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 3: Got very mad at me and told me off and

834
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 3: eventually blocked me on. EVERYTHING i never explained to anyone

835
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 3: about her cheating for my reason as to WHY i

836
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 3: chose not to, go AND i made sure not to

837
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 3: talk bad About cammy to anyone who, asked BECAUSE i

838
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 3: did consider her to be a. Sister we have not

839
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 3: talked since that, day AND i know she And andrew

840
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 3: got married. Married, OKAY i just Know andrew's gonna be

841
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 3: coming home seeing someone else in his bed with his

842
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 3: wife and being, like, oh what's your? Name SO i

843
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 3: couldn't do this for your.

844
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 1: Girl But andrew's, like, listen, BABE i know you're cheating.

845
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 1: Again tell me WHAT i? Did what kind of? Kid

846
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: what do we?

847
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 2: Do?

848
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: Need a euro? Trip? Like do you wanna go To Disney?

849
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 3: World?

850
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: Like what CAN i? Do? Oh you want to go by?

851
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 1: Yourself totally totally makes so much.

852
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 2: Sense, yeah oh oh you want you want a second

853
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 2: seat just just for room on the, airplane just to

854
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 2: oh oh, okay, yeah, gohea go, Ahead, yeah, YEAH i

855
00:37:58,640 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 2: want you to have space.

856
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 3: On fast forward to last week And i'm out with

857
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 3: my boyfriend at a coffee shop WHERE i run into

858
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 3: one Of cammy's bride'smaids that is also one of her.

859
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 1: Coworkers.

860
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 3: Oh she walked up to me and asked HOW i,

861
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 3: was AND i SAID i was fine and told her

862
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 3: it was good to see. Her then she apologized for

863
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 3: being two, forward but wanted to know If cammy AND

864
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:25,320
Speaker 3: i ever made up after our incident before her. Wedding. Hmmm,

865
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 3: CONFUSED i asked what the incident, was and she eventually

866
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 3: told me THAT cammi explained to the bridal party THAT

867
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 3: i chose to leave because of my feelings For andrew

868
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 3: and THAT i couldn't see him get married because HOW i.

869
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 1: Felt, dude, dude, no, wait, no, no, no, no this

870
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: is a.

871
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 3: Good this is a good BECAUSE i got excited BECAUSE

872
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 3: i was, like, oh clot back.

873
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: Easy we have no. Evidence it was all.

874
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 2: Verbal, yeah well well, well, well well well.

875
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 1: Wait Really andrew knows that.

876
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 3: Happened he an't gonna, say you, think because he wants

877
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 3: to be married To, Cammy he's not gonna tell say.

878
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 2: YEAH i mean an, Opie opie really is back into

879
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 2: a corner. Here, also it's just it's just it just

880
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 2: blows my mind Because cammy like got away with, it

881
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 2: Like cammy was Like. ANDREW i, GUESS i guess no

882
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 2: one else. Knew andrew let it. Slide they had the,

883
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 2: wedding And opie, disappeared Like cammy literally could have gotten

884
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 2: away with. It but now by by saying all this

885
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 2: crap ABOUT, opi you're Inviting opie to come back and

886
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 2: start telling the truth about.

887
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: THAT i don't, know it's.

888
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 2: Tough i'll, say right at this point in the, Story i'll,

889
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 2: say you want to like clear your name and tell,

890
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 2: people especially, uh this.

891
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: This friend of the.

892
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 2: Truth, yeah it's just because you're right there on that. Moment,

893
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 2: yeah but this is. Tough cam, dude get, smarter think

894
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 2: of a better. Excuse, yeah be a be a better,

895
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 2: villain you, know don't be a bad. Villain my, God, Like.

896
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 3: Oh she's gonna make it because her grandma.

897
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: Died, well, no there's something like. That come, on, dolly he's. Vengeful,

898
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: okay what is? So? Pee? BUBBY i was a.

899
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 3: Paulp not only DID i not have any romantic failings For,

900
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 3: ANDREW i never even really liked. HIM i told the

901
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 3: bridesmaid that the REASON i left was Because cammy's affair

902
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 3: with her, coworker who she knows as, well because they

903
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 3: all work. Together Right WHEN i told her, that the

904
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 3: bridesmaid said she Remembered cammy and the coworker being close

905
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 3: didn't know about the.

906
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 1: Affair she left the coffee shop.

907
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 3: Not long after the, Conversation AND i feel guilty about

908
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:38,359
Speaker 3: telling her that SINCE i haven't told. Anyone my boyfriend says,

909
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,399
Speaker 3: me telling her that makes it look as If i'm

910
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 3: trying to Hurt cammy And, andrew therefore making it seem

911
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 3: as IF i do Like. Andrew AM i the a

912
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 3: hole for telling her? THAT i don't know if she

913
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 3: Told cammy WHAT i. SAID i don't know How cammy

914
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 3: And andrew are, doing BUT i do feel bad THAT

915
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 3: i shared her business to someone she works.

916
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: With we got. Calm this is so. TOUGH i don't, Know,

917
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: sophia what what what do you? THINK i?

918
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 2: Mean this is this is kind of a really tough.

919
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 2: Scenario you're so you're basically you stepped out of the

920
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 2: wedding because you're, like all, right she's like cheating and

921
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 2: all this and. Whatever step away from the, friendship right

922
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 2: then you find out that your Friend cammy has been saying, like,

923
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 2: oh you had feelings for my, fiance that's why you

924
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 2: didn't show, up and you were like secretly pining for,

925
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 2: him you, know the truth that she, cheated and like

926
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 2: it was just like she didn't even, Care LIKE i don't,

927
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 2: know what are?

928
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: You what are your? Thoughts i'm like lost, here. HONESTLY i,

929
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: well it's.

930
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 4: Like you're not even friends with her.

931
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 5: Anymore but if you have any mutual, friends maybe, like,

932
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 5: hey that's not true.

933
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: At, All, yeah WHICH i think they.

934
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 5: Do, yeah maybe just telling like anyone you're, like, hey

935
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,919
Speaker 5: oh my, GOD i heard That cammy was saying this.

936
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: About, Me like just say it's not. True, yeah because you.

937
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 2: Can, yeah because you can, say, hey that's absolutely not the.

938
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 2: Case she's like kind of spreading this rumor about, me

939
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 2: and you don't have to.

940
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 4: Reveal, yeah you don't have to do any.

941
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 2: Other.

942
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:02,800
Speaker 4: Yeah it's, like, ooh that's like a weird thing for

943
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 4: her to say it's not.

944
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 3: True, Yeah emma SAYS opi was backed into a. Corner

945
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 3: she had no choice but to say the. TRUTH i

946
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 3: will say saying the truth is the right thing to. Do,

947
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 3: yeah just does make her look bad because the boyfriend

948
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 3: makes a pretty good. Point it kind of seemed like

949
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 3: she did Like andrew in the first. Place she's trying

950
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 3: to Hurt.

951
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 2: Cammy, YEAH i, think AND i Think cammy knew, that

952
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 2: and that's why she spread that specific lie because she's, like,

953
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 2: Oh i'm Gonna i'm gonna say this And opie is

954
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 2: now f't because If opie tells anyone the, truth it

955
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 2: just looks, like, oh she was the one that made

956
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:34,399
Speaker 2: it up and she's.

957
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:35,399
Speaker 1: JEALOUS i think it's mean.

958
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 2: Girl DID i Think cammy totally mean girled? It, HONESTLY

959
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 2: i THINK i was like. DEBATING i Think i'm at

960
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 2: least as of right now aligning With, sophia but just, say,

961
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 2: hey that's not. True it sucks because people still might

962
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 2: think it is Because camy said it. First, like, HONESTLY

963
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 2: i think because of the, way you, know Cam cammy evily.

964
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: MASTERMINDED i do.

965
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:01,959
Speaker 4: Think that's a certain Point cammi will just reveal.

966
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 5: Her true nature to these people and then they'll be,

967
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 5: like oh that you know that was a lie because

968
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 5: that's happened to me where someone was like spreading lines about,

969
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 5: me and LIKE i had some people who were, like

970
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 5: that doesn't sound, right BUT i guess that's. True and

971
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,479
Speaker 5: then like months later we're, like, oh, yeah she said

972
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 5: that about, you and like Now i'm realizing that was

973
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 5: a total.

974
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 2: Lie, okay so the truth will find a. Way, yeah

975
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 2: what a great real life. Example my.

976
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 3: GOODNESS i JUST i just wish you had a little

977
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 3: bit more, evidence, like, oh look at, This.

978
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 2: Yeah it's it's we're now trapped in the corner we're. In,

979
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 2: YEAH i, think, say, hey that's not true about, me

980
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:33,479
Speaker 2: and then just let, it let it brief.

981
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 1: Them there.

982
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 3: Agreed we got, Comments Oh god coming number, one not

983
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 3: the a. Hole you were simply correcting a. Lie hammy

984
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 3: didn't need to come up with a lie to explain

985
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 3: your departure from the bridal. Party you have every right

986
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 3: to defend. YOURSELF i feel sorry For. Andrew hopefully he

987
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 3: will one day realize his worth and accept that his

988
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 3: wife's infidelity is not his.

989
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 1: Fault we got an.

990
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 3: Update oh head, First i'm, Diving oh, god in a

991
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 3: very shallow.

992
00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:58,919
Speaker 1: Pool hey It's jean.

993
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 2: Here we're gonna get back to this, episode but a

994
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 2: quick three minute break with as.

995
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 3: SPONSORS i feel like WHENEVER i post on, here something immediately,

996
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 3: happens resulting in an. Update cammy's other, bridesmaid WHO i

997
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,959
Speaker 3: saw the coffee, shop reached out to me last night Through.

998
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: Facebook this this coffee? Shop is this coffee shop is

999
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 1: teaming with?

1000
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:23,439
Speaker 3: Bridesmaids is it this the uh Other cammi's other brides?

1001
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 3: MAID i think it's the same.

1002
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:24,919
Speaker 1: Chick, oh same.

1003
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 3: CHICK i think so you're, Good you're, good but that

1004
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:30,840
Speaker 3: would have been another. One i'll call It. Jenna guess

1005
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 3: whose mug shot was posted on our local news. Site

1006
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 3: Andrew andrew is the bad? Guy waitude what it?

1007
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: Is WHAT i? AM i thought we had this. FACE

1008
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: i thought it was gonna Be.

1009
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 4: Cammy, yeah Unless cammy set him. UP i have the Idea.

1010
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:55,439
Speaker 4: Andrew she was like it was, him. OFFICER i don't

1011
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 4: know what he did, yet but it was.

1012
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 3: Him BECAUSE i really would like to know more about

1013
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 3: like Who andrew, is how much money Does andrew? Have

1014
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 3: and Then, cammy and then what her intentions. Are she

1015
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 3: may have mean girled it sure to be and girl

1016
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 3: once she did very. Successful she may be like mean girlded,

1017
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 3: again gobbled the other, guy stole All andrew's, money framed.

1018
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:13,280
Speaker 1: Him i'm not gonna.

1019
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 2: Lie this curve ball has me totally thrown And i'm

1020
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 2: Not usually we can kind of see if that to.

1021
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 1: Happen i'm lost now for you do, wow, okay let's

1022
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 1: tell usually you can see it. Done you're lost.

1023
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 2: Now reading comprehension one hundred and ten, percent just as

1024
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 2: The facebook.

1025
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 3: Comments oh, MAN i won't exactly say what he, did

1026
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 3: but it involves his work, computer personal, computer and, phone

1027
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 3: so you can make your assumptions from.

1028
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 1: That i'm.

1029
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 6: Afraid ooh, okay so that was a good feeling you've

1030
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,439
Speaker 6: had all, Along op Cam we reached out To jenn

1031
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 6: a few nights, ago, crying saying That andrew had been

1032
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 6: interested while on shift because of what the it guy

1033
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:54,399
Speaker 6: found on his work.

1034
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 3: Computer ooh, wait what was that comment about the ages and?

1035
00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: Number, Yep andrew took THAT i think very. Literally oh.

1036
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 3: Yeah jenna decided to tell me Because cammy mentioned to

1037
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 3: her HOW i always felt uneasy About andrew and how

1038
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 3: she should have. Listened jenna Asked, cammy why WOULD i

1039
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:14,479
Speaker 3: CAUSE i was so in love with, Him and that's

1040
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 3: When cammy came clean and told her about the lie

1041
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 3: and about her affair with their. Coworker so now she's

1042
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:24,319
Speaker 3: telling the probably Because andrew's a horrible, person and her

1043
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 3: horrible act is not as bad As andrew's horrible.

1044
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 1: Act she looks, like okay in. Comparison she's, like, YEAH i.

1045
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 4: Cheated On, andrew but because he.

1046
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 2: Sucks, ah, dude how Is camy keep getting away with?

1047
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 4: It and she's, like isn't it crazy that op likes

1048
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,439
Speaker 4: him even though he? Sucks? Wow bad.

1049
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 3: Taste, No i'm not gonna say. THAT i was just, saying,

1050
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 3: like it's a. Computer anyone could acts as a computer

1051
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:54,399
Speaker 3: and plant things on a computer if they're messed. Up conspiracy.

1052
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 2: DUDE i, Mean cammy is, crazy but, uh hopefully not.

1053
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 2: That hopefully we can only praise she's not that.

1054
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 1: Crazy oh.

1055
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:06,479
Speaker 3: God emmy went on to explain that ever since her

1056
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 3: And andrew, Married andrew became very physical with her because

1057
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 3: of her. Affair he waited until there was a ring

1058
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 3: on her finger to really tell her how he felt

1059
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 3: about the. CHEATING i Asked jenna If cammy said anything

1060
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 3: about still seeing the coworker while they were, married And jenna,

1061
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 3: Said cammy is still seeing, him but swears it's just a. Friendship,

1062
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 3: now that's Why andrew was so upset with. Her they're friends, Now,

1063
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 3: uh you could do stuff and definitely become friends.

1064
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 1: Afterwards come, on oh, man, okay.

1065
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:42,919
Speaker 3: Right, No jenna did admit to me that she Told

1066
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 3: cammy he saw me the other. Day she Made cammy

1067
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 3: ask if he'd Think i'd be willing to talk to.

1068
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 3: Her jenna told her that she didn't, know but could

1069
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 3: try to see what would. Happen cammy hasn't reached out

1070
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 3: to me, yet AND i don't know if she. WILL

1071
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,479
Speaker 3: i don't know WHAT i will do if she. Does

1072
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:04,800
Speaker 3: but that's the update about her for. Now i've noticed

1073
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 3: there were a few people in my last post talking

1074
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 3: about my boyfriend's response to let you. KNOW i did

1075
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 3: ask him about, it and he did say he was

1076
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 3: more worried about how it made me look in that.

1077
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,479
Speaker 3: Moment i'll accept that answer for, now but if he acts,

1078
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:24,320
Speaker 3: UP i will definitely think about. Things so, far he's been, great.

1079
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:27,240
Speaker 3: Dude every own boyfriend ever says anything in These reddit,

1080
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 3: posts everyone's, like, ahh, no. HORRIBLE i will, wait but

1081
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:37,800
Speaker 3: if he acts, UP i will definitely think about. Things

1082
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 3: that's ALSO i don't know about. That just bring up

1083
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:41,800
Speaker 3: with whom if you feel that, way.

1084
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 4: Mmm right, right keeping an eye on.

1085
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: HIM i got my eye on, you. Buddy but that's.

1086
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 3: It Hopefully i'll probably update If cammy ever reaches, out

1087
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 3: But i'm kind of hoping she.

1088
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: Does we got an, update So kammy reaches.

1089
00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 2: Out, dude how the curveballs in the story have been

1090
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 2: crazy AND I i'm afraid we're in for like another

1091
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 2: completely just like, reverse who, know just.

1092
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 3: Unexpected, yeah And i'm kind of scared About cammy not

1093
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 3: gonna lie because have you ever Seen Gone?

1094
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: Girl answers? Now but you got mean girls In Gone?

1095
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: Girl this woman does crazy things.

1096
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 3: To basically like bake a death or, whatever, wow and

1097
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:29,359
Speaker 3: gets away with it and just manipulates the max max

1098
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 3: manipulating and It's kemmy A Gone girl or she Mean

1099
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 3: girl because mean. Girls you, know it's only high.

1100
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 2: School it's like, petty petty, gossip like, yeah, yeah this

1101
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 2: whole computer.

1102
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 3: Thing if this is actually true and there's no conspiracy

1103
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 3: That cammy did, Anything, mike you're getting into.

1104
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 2: SOMETHING i mean that's like truly just like insanely. Insidious

1105
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 2: LIKE i hope she's just like a like a regular you,

1106
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 2: know regular regular.

1107
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:57,879
Speaker 1: Old bad, person you know. WHAT i, MEAN i hate

1108
00:49:57,880 --> 00:49:58,279
Speaker 1: to say.

1109
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 3: THAT i just don't know what to, think thank, A,

1110
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 3: cammy because she said that lie TO, ok AND i

1111
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 3: just don't, know LIKE I i want to.

1112
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: BELIEVE i, like it's probably True andrew did treat her.

1113
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 3: HORRIBLY i just AND i don't want to like, Now i'm,

1114
00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 3: like NOW i have someone's truth on the, line like

1115
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 3: they telling the truth or.

1116
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: Not BUT i just don't know what to think about this.

1117
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 2: Woman, YEAH i, mean she like she's definitely like all

1118
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 2: over the place and not like you, know before all

1119
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 2: this the cheating was it was not. Good but, YEAH

1120
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 2: i THINK i THINK i Think andrew's probably also doing

1121
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 2: some horrendous things that we have that have come.

1122
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 1: Up andrew's a bad. Guy.

1123
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,319
Speaker 3: Honestly after reading, THAT i feel, like CHECK, Cammi.

1124
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 2: Yeah they're just both terrible in their own. Ways, yeah, agreed,

1125
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:44,720
Speaker 2: agree But andrew was much more. Terrible, yeah stop wondering

1126
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 2: if she'll reach out to, you and just block her

1127
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 2: already unless you enjoy eating popcorn as you watch her drama.

1128
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 2: Unfold there's really nothing for you, here is. There can

1129
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 2: you ever really truly respect her like you did before

1130
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 2: you find? Out because they were?

1131
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 3: Sisters m got an, update like a good old honest

1132
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 3: apology to go along ways From.

1133
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 2: CAMMY i, mean, yeah but, like is came he gonna do?

1134
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 2: That like, ALMOST i feels like not maybe MAYBE i don't?

1135
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:17,840
Speaker 3: Know they, too can we reached out to. ME i

1136
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 3: was starting to think she was going, to but she

1137
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:23,279
Speaker 3: texted me last night asking if we could talk. OKAY i,

1138
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 3: responded is this about your husband being in? Jail and

1139
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:30,479
Speaker 3: she immediately called. Me she was. Crying she kept saying

1140
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 3: she had no Idea andrew was like that and wished

1141
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 3: we paid more attention to about HOW i felt about.

1142
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 3: HIM i told her THAT i had no idea he

1143
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,279
Speaker 3: was doing, that And i'm sorry for how he. Was

1144
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 3: she said something about being a hot divorce hot.

1145
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 1: Divorcee she was saying something.

1146
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 3: About being a hot divorcee and a few other things about,

1147
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 3: this finally freeing her as if she wasn't actually cheating

1148
00:51:56,239 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 3: On andrew throughout most of their. Relationship she, asked HOW

1149
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 3: i was? Doing, wow he's, uh he's really looking for.

1150
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 2: THEM i, MEAN i feel bad for her in this

1151
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 2: sense of LIKE i do honestly believe that she didn't

1152
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 2: know he was doing all this.

1153
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 1: Stuff but then, yeah.

1154
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 2: Again it's, like, dude you were literally cheating on this

1155
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 2: guy the whole time you married. Him you didn't have

1156
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 2: to do any of. That you didn't have to do

1157
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,959
Speaker 2: any of, this just like be, like you know, What i'm.

1158
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 2: Cheating let me not do this to, you let me,

1159
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 2: Leave let me not only not just, leave let me

1160
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 2: not get married to. You let me not go to

1161
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 2: like the final boss after, anyways, agreed agreed anyways in the, fact.

1162
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,799
Speaker 3: Like you, know if my wife got put, GEL i

1163
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:40,720
Speaker 3: want to be, like, Man i'm. Hot i'm a silber.

1164
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 3: Fox Now i'm hot before says.

1165
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:44,919
Speaker 2: Silver i'm gonna go hit the. Town oh, dude, YEAH

1166
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 2: i can't give yourself some?

1167
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 1: Time? Yeah Please.

1168
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:49,799
Speaker 3: God she didn't even apologize for spreading that lie about

1169
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 3: me locking her. Husband, guys we will spread lines about

1170
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:56,320
Speaker 3: you unless you go to your favorite podcast platform searchow

1171
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 3: up okay Story tom and just listen to our stories

1172
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:01,320
Speaker 3: and we won't call you bad. Listener oh are you

1173
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 3: a good?

1174
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,799
Speaker 1: One i'm gonna mark you with the. Marker you don't do.

1175
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:07,240
Speaker 3: It she didn't. Apologize she hope he's what's this one's

1176
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,359
Speaker 3: name Not Jena, Cammy Cammy cammy's. Heart she just needs

1177
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 3: her sister right. Now should we wait for the apology

1178
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 3: kind of help her in this.

1179
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:18,600
Speaker 2: Moment my gut is SAYING i will console her in

1180
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 2: this moment because it's like that is a crazy thing

1181
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 2: to have happen With, Andrew, like, YEAH i, do like

1182
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 2: if we're like kind of like we can kind of

1183
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 2: like look at things a little, isolated you, know or

1184
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 2: like one by.

1185
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 1: ONE i guess you could say that does.

1186
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 2: Suck, YEAH i THINK i would console her on that

1187
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:36,800
Speaker 2: phone call and be, like you know that that is

1188
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 2: really hard and that like you, know like that does.

1189
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,800
Speaker 2: Suck WOULD i continue to console her WHEN i continue

1190
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 2: to answer more phone calls and like build a. FRIENDSHIP

1191
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,879
Speaker 2: i think after like shortly after, that you could be, like, hey,

1192
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 2: Look i'm glad that you KNOW i was able to

1193
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 2: be there for, you and you're kind of like you,

1194
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:53,839
Speaker 2: know like right after you, know when it was raw

1195
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 2: and and hopefully that was helpful to, have you, know

1196
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 2: have that.

1197
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: CONVERSATION i wanted to be there for you in that.

1198
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 2: Moment how, however like you're out, here you, know cheating

1199
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 2: on this, guy like all this stuff is going, on

1200
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 2: you speak this lie about, me never, apologize like that's.

1201
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,839
Speaker 1: TRUE i just need to protect my. Peace and, YEAH

1202
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:14,320
Speaker 1: i just need to keep, it keep it. PUSHING i

1203
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: don't THINK i can keep DOING.

1204
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 3: I forgot about the part WHERE opi was very like

1205
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:20,800
Speaker 3: uncomfortable with the.

1206
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 2: Cheatings, yeah, yeah she told her about, It. Cammy kimmy

1207
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 2: was like brushing her off for. That kimmy made up

1208
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 2: that crazy lie that also like basically Put op in

1209
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 2: a corner like If op told the truth and she

1210
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 2: would look like even more of the a. Hole So

1211
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 2: kimmy really did some some mean stuff To. OP i

1212
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 2: think we have one moment of of of uh, uh you,

1213
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 2: know mercy and, empathy and then after that we can be, like,

1214
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:45,800
Speaker 2: Hey i'm protecting my.

1215
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 1: PEACE i, Agree, SOPHIA i.

1216
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 3: Agree last little, BIT i asked if we were going

1217
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 3: to talk about what she said to the bridal party

1218
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 3: about my. Absence she, paused, laughed and asked me IF

1219
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 3: i was really upset over something that wasn't as bad

1220
00:54:58,640 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 3: as What andrew ended.

1221
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: Up, Cammy, okay, yes. GOODBYE i just hung.

1222
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 3: UP i probably wouldn't have had IF i didn't read

1223
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 3: your comment on my last update saying not to give

1224
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 3: her the time of, day and you were all, right

1225
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 3: she does not care about, me after all we've been through.

1226
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 3: TOGETHER i blocked her, number SO i don't know if

1227
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 3: she's tried to reach out, again But i'm. Done and

1228
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 3: that's the. Update all, Right well you, go, HEY i.

1229
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,359
Speaker 1: MEAN i love. That all's. Well that ends.

1230
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 2: Well andrew's out of her life because he's literally in.

1231
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 2: Jail cammy's out of her life because she realized, that, like,

1232
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:30,840
Speaker 2: hey you.

1233
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:35,560
Speaker 1: Suck, yeah all's, well that she has now removed all

1234
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 1: of these crazy people from her life and now she

1235
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: gets to pursue her.

1236
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:43,040
Speaker 3: Stuff, yeah just go be with the, coworker cheat on.

1237
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:47,359
Speaker 1: Him yeah yeah, yeah away from, me far far far.

1238
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:49,800
Speaker 3: Away and so one more quick, thing AND i know

1239
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 3: real quick THAT opi is definitely gonna be looking back

1240
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 3: and being, like oh, yeah She cammy definitely did this

1241
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 3: to me and used me in this, instance like once

1242
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 3: you see the red flags at flags.

1243
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 2: Were, yes, yes she now sees the, truth, uh AND

1244
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 2: i see a sad, truth and that is that this

1245
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 2: episode is absolutely over.

1246
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,799
Speaker 1: Right so if you love, us make sure to. Subscribe

1247
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 1: we love you and see you. Tomorrow