WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Hey Pineapple

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. As a guy, the hardest thing about

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<v Speaker 1>online dating is figuring out how to capture a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>woman's attention right off the bat. Yeah, because when you're

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<v Speaker 1>one of fifty thousand thirsty dudes sliding into her dams,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you supposed to stand out? Nothing really works?

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<v Speaker 2>Must be hard for you, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>One person in this room might think sending her an

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<v Speaker 1>upside down eggplant might do the trick. And even though

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<v Speaker 1>that may sound prude and inappropriate, it also isn't far off.

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<v Speaker 1>Instead of showing her an eggplant, why not call her

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<v Speaker 1>one instead? Ay, that's not sexy at all. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Sean, would recommend doing. Let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him. Sean. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, guys, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you tell a woman she reminds you of an

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<v Speaker 2>egg plant?

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<v Speaker 3>Not an egg plant? But I like to use kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like fruit nicknames. It gets their attention a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>like little blueberry or mango mama.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I was a mango mom. You plump little

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<v Speaker 1>watermelon over there. He's come quiet, look at you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm having a hard time thinking before accomplished, to think

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<v Speaker 4>of what I want to be called.

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<v Speaker 1>Sherry pie. There's a strategy that works well for you, Sean.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean it kind of lets them remember you.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's like, uh, it's out. Yeah, it kind

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<v Speaker 3>of just makes you stand out a little bit, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's uh, it's it's cute, cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Like beautie oranges. Right, Yeah, I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Book's on board now.

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<v Speaker 2>So I worked for you, so you know, good job.

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<v Speaker 1>Who was the woman that it worked on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I met this girl named Hannah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care about her real name. What'd you call her?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, obvious name would be Hannah Banana, but I like,

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<v Speaker 3>I figured many people have called her that in her life. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>is that one with hate pineapple?

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<v Speaker 4>Pineapple and not a real catchy nickname?

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<v Speaker 1>Not the sexiest for you think? Did she see all

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<v Speaker 1>of that as a compliment?

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<v Speaker 3>Not really. We didn't really like a week she did

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<v Speaker 3>we talk to you? Yeah, so we we matched and

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<v Speaker 3>once I called her that we didn't. We didn't talk

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<v Speaker 3>for like a week after.

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<v Speaker 2>So did you apologize? Is that how you recovered?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually I kind of went in the opposite direction. I

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<v Speaker 3>sent her like a cool pineapple fact every day and

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<v Speaker 3>doubled down on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's why you are really a pineapple?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually? What fact got her?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? I think it was a combination of all the

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<v Speaker 3>facts together that really got her.

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<v Speaker 2>Respond, Just your extensive pineapple knowledge.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a book of pineapple facts showed your value

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<v Speaker 1>through pineapple.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yes, she.

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<v Speaker 3>Said, if you don't call me pineapple anymore, we can talk.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Oh my gosh, you I mean he must be attractive. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>worked like you said, you recommended this people. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>do that.

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<v Speaker 1>You annoyed her into a first case, and not a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people can do that. So how did it

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<v Speaker 1>go different? What did you do?

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<v Speaker 3>So? I laid off the pineapple talk, as she asked,

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<v Speaker 3>and I switched to calling her Kiwi, which she liked

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit better.

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<v Speaker 1>Now she's her key.

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<v Speaker 2>You just didn't leave that alone, but.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it.

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<v Speaker 2>Did.

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<v Speaker 3>She Yeah, but you guys don't understand. It was like

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<v Speaker 3>kind of a joke. It was like, I'm not going

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<v Speaker 3>to call you pineapple anymore, but I'm going to call

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<v Speaker 3>you a different person.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's put the fruit basket aside for a second, because

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<v Speaker 1>we need to talk about Hannah and your actual date

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<v Speaker 1>with her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, we decided to meet up at a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Not okay. I know you're gonna say juice bar, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, are in here? Oh god, So how

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<v Speaker 1>did the restaurant go?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? So, I honestly I was walking on eggshells. I

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<v Speaker 3>was trying hard to do everything right.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I was opening doors off, pulling out chairs, complimenting her,

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<v Speaker 3>but you know, also kind of playing it cool. And

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<v Speaker 3>I think it played I think it went really well.

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<v Speaker 3>We were talking and spent like an over an hour

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<v Speaker 3>in the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>That's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's kind of average time, but yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>Good for a pretty bad date.

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<v Speaker 2>And like that's how long code normally takes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, look, you're making me feel a little self conscious

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<v Speaker 3>over here.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean it that way, sorry, coconut, go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the story. What happened with the date? It was

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<v Speaker 1>an hour long?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was an hour long. We both finished eating.

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<v Speaker 3>I paid like a gentleman. I didn't ask her to

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<v Speaker 3>do anything, but most.

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<v Speaker 1>Men pay on days. Not really that big of a

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<v Speaker 1>deal about Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to know, like how you guys connected, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I feel like you're going through the list

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<v Speaker 4>of the timeline, but like about the day.

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<v Speaker 1>He was being an extra gentleman for her, pulling out

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<v Speaker 1>all the chairs and giving her compliments.

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<v Speaker 3>A complimentary We had a lot of similarities from the past.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we've ran in the same circles, same parents.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, no, that's something.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool to bond over, same circle Johnson family. Yeah, on

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<v Speaker 1>circle drive. We're just kidding, man, Like, that's a.

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<v Speaker 2>Big deal that you knew the same people from life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you should have met I mean these all sound

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<v Speaker 1>like really really positive things. How did the night end?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I walked into her car, we hugged goodbye at night.

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<v Speaker 3>I texted her after and told her I had a

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<v Speaker 3>great time, and that day asked her if she wants

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<v Speaker 3>to meet up again, and then she responded in big caps,

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<v Speaker 3>are you joking?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh what?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe she was like, are you joking? And you're like, no,

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<v Speaker 4>finally I'm being serious.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I wrote back, no, Kiwi, are you up for

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<v Speaker 3>a round two? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're still And did you get a response to that.

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't heard back at all. Man.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, like when she said, are you kidding me? It

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<v Speaker 4>feels like there's something that you should have understood.

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<v Speaker 1>Something that went wrong during the date can you think

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<v Speaker 1>of anything that would have happened that she could have

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<v Speaker 1>taken as a red flag?

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<v Speaker 3>It was a post pineapple world. You know, I wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>mentioning it as a as we talked about, and I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what I did. I'm confused.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I guess we're just gonna call her and

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<v Speaker 1>find out. We'll come back do your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right after this second date update. Women do not like

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who's too cheesy on a date but never

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<v Speaker 1>said anything about being too fruity, and our listener Sean

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<v Speaker 1>has used that to his advantage. Yeah, because his secret

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<v Speaker 1>to nabbing a beautiful woman's attention online is calling her

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<v Speaker 1>a cute sea fruit nickname Blueberry or nick Greene. See

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<v Speaker 1>it all works, That's how we love it. It's how

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<v Speaker 1>he ended up on a dinner date with Hannah aka Kiwied.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, he started with Pineapple and then she refused

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<v Speaker 4>to respond.

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<v Speaker 1>She kind of beat up that one. Yeah, and they

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<v Speaker 1>went with Kiwi. But they did go out together, and

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<v Speaker 1>how that date actually went kind of depends on who

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<v Speaker 1>you ask. If you ask Sean, it was great, amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>If you asked Brooke, it was meh pretty much like

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<v Speaker 1>any other date we've ever heard, nothing special.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I didn't mean to be rude.

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<v Speaker 3>True.

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<v Speaker 1>The real question is what did Hannah think? Because when

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<v Speaker 1>he hasked to meet up with her again, her response was,

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<v Speaker 1>are you joking?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and there's no smiley face emoji after.

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<v Speaker 1>It or frud emojis, which means something happened that we're

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<v Speaker 1>all missing that should be obvious to him. Right, Is

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<v Speaker 1>that where your head's at, Sean, Yeah, definitely, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean you do know, like we may get her

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<v Speaker 4>on the phone and she may say something kind of mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooks kind of hoping that she didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I just know how he's going.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, what are you saying? Why do you keep

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<v Speaker 3>putting me down?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not putting you down. I'm just trying to prepare you.

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<v Speaker 2>I still wanted to hurt your feelings.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't think she's going to hurt my feelings,

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<v Speaker 3>but you're definitely hurting my feelings right now.

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<v Speaker 1>For why are you smiling when he says that?

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<v Speaker 2>Trying to watch out for your just call her. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna say anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's save it here we go. I'm dialing

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah right now, Hello, Hi, We're gonna speak with Hannah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, this is Hannah. Who's calling?

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<v Speaker 1>This is a radio show calling called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. How do you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, Welcome to the show, Hannah, weird morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're calling on behalf of one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>who's been trying to get a hold of you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a guy that you went on a date with recently

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<v Speaker 1>named Sean. Oh.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, okay, do you no he's got a million

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<v Speaker 5>for me?

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<v Speaker 1>But my Yeah, we spoke to Sean a little earlier

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<v Speaker 1>and we heard about your guys's quote unquote relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>your date, your one date.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I wouldn't call it a relationship for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. We're not trying to put labels on it or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but I will tell you Sean is very confused, a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit disappointed that he hasn't been able to see

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<v Speaker 1>you one more time.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm honestly, I'm at a loss. How does this man

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<v Speaker 5>not understand he?

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, guy, this guy is totally clueless. I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>what happened. He seemed to think the date went great.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we've heard a few of the highlights from your

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<v Speaker 1>date night, and clearly he is missing something. We're just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help him figure out what that is.

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<v Speaker 5>I will say like, that was the most awkward end

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<v Speaker 5>of the date I've like ever ever had.

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<v Speaker 4>At the end the end, he didn't mention anything about

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<v Speaker 4>the end. He just said he walked you to your

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<v Speaker 4>car and gave you a hudge.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened?

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<v Speaker 5>So we're eating, you know, I think it was like

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<v Speaker 5>about an hour in and I had to go to

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<v Speaker 5>the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, can I ask real quick before you go to

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<v Speaker 4>the bathroom, I don't know, how is she feeling about

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<v Speaker 4>the date?

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<v Speaker 5>Then? You know, I was like, let me just go

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<v Speaker 5>to see what's happening. We know some of the same people.

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<v Speaker 1>He was also really persistent with his like attempts to

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<v Speaker 1>get you to go out with him. But sorry, you

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<v Speaker 1>were there for an hour. You went to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>and what right?

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<v Speaker 5>So I come back from the bathroom and my food,

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<v Speaker 5>which was like halfway finished, was bagged up and sitting

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<v Speaker 5>at the table, and I just thought, okay, like it

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<v Speaker 5>is a week night, maybe he has worked tomorrow or

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<v Speaker 5>early or something, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Or maybe the waitress or waiter came over and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes they just scoop it up real.

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<v Speaker 1>Quick, and you weren't finished with your food.

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<v Speaker 5>At that point, right, there was still enough left for seconds.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like this is a positive sign you wanted

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<v Speaker 4>the date to continue, you didn't want it to be over.

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<v Speaker 5>It sounds like yeah, I mean he was putting an effort,

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<v Speaker 5>so like I was willing to continue the date. It

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<v Speaker 5>wasn't it was we were having a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like a total loss from the beginning. So

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<v Speaker 1>what's like the worst part. Why is this so bad

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<v Speaker 1>that you wouldn't want to talk to him again or

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<v Speaker 1>see him again?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>So then he's like, should we go? I'm like, yeah, sure.

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<v Speaker 5>So he grabs my food and we walk out, and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, oh, a gentleman, I guess like I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 5>he's gonna walk me to my car and hand me

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<v Speaker 5>my things and send me.

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<v Speaker 1>Off right totally.

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<v Speaker 5>We get to my car, he hugs me, and he

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<v Speaker 5>keeps holding the food and says, oh, hey, thanks for this,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna split this with my roommate for lunch tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 5>Just like Ammedia Like, no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even think of that as.

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<v Speaker 2>In his mind, I'm cheap to like.

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<v Speaker 1>You would say that while he is listening on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line calling him cheap heating.

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<v Speaker 4>The food, Jeffrey, I'm trying to defend him by.

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<v Speaker 1>Calling him cheap.

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<v Speaker 5>Shawna's on the other line right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, maybe if he's not crying on the

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<v Speaker 1>floor right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm here, guys. Unfortunately you took her food.

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<v Speaker 1>What are your thoughts, dude?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I can't even believe this is even a

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<v Speaker 3>conversation right now. And I mean we were there for

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<v Speaker 3>over an hour and I just thought we were done eating.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was right etiquette to get them.

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<v Speaker 5>You just assumed then, like why didn't you say, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>are you done? And can me and my roommates eat this.

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<v Speaker 3>Follow up? I didn't see a problem with it. I

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<v Speaker 3>figured it was ours. You know, I paid for the bill,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, but.

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<v Speaker 1>It's my meal.

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<v Speaker 3>It's your meal when we're at the restaurant, but when

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<v Speaker 3>the date's over, it becomes my meal.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything, it's his possession because he paid for it.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is something you do all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is something everybody should do. I don't see

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<v Speaker 3>you're jumping.

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<v Speaker 1>Down Tana can you see his point of view?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I didn't even say I want this to go.

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<v Speaker 5>I went to the bathroom, like if I had said,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what, I'm done? Oh my god, maybe that's true,

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<v Speaker 5>but like, no, I was still hungry.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, can't you be a little bit more understanding there?

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<v Speaker 2>Kiwi yah, don't do that job.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry. I know that that's yours and Sean's nicknames, So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to like step on any toes here.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, Hannah, listen, whoever told this guy that it was

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<v Speaker 5>also cute to call people food names like no anything?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a minute, could I just ask?

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<v Speaker 4>It just kind of dawned on me, Sean, did you

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<v Speaker 4>really think she was done done? Or do you just

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<v Speaker 4>wanted a bigger portion to bring home to the house

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<v Speaker 4>an opportunity?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I thought she was done, Honestly, I thought it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Likely.

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<v Speaker 3>Story.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, sometimes you give off the signs of being done,

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<v Speaker 1>like you rub your belly a lot, like you're full.

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<v Speaker 1>You said she was.

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<v Speaker 2>Still hungry bathroom, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done, maybe over and he's like, can we get

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<v Speaker 1>a box please? You may have been giving full vibes, Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>Can you at least admit that a compliment?

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<v Speaker 5>No, because my thing is like, even if I was

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<v Speaker 5>giving full vibes, then what if I wanted to take

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<v Speaker 5>my leftovers home, and while I was eating them at home,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe I would think nice date, like I'll give.

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<v Speaker 1>She's gonna remember you. But if you had thought the

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<v Speaker 1>food was so good, wouldn't you've eaten all of it

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<v Speaker 1>there in one sitting? Yeah? That much? I think those.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like she would have eaten it all they boxed it.

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<v Speaker 1>Before she exactly. I think the whole room agrees, Hannah

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<v Speaker 1>that you're in the wrong here and you have a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to do with you over and make this date

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<v Speaker 1>done the right way, a date that we would pay for.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, then it's our food.

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<v Speaker 1>Mail it over to the station so we can eat it.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, Hannah, one more chance for show?

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<v Speaker 5>If you guys are going to pay for it, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>gonna request that then you also pay for another meal

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<v Speaker 5>for him in his roommate to take home afterwards. And

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<v Speaker 5>then maybe I consider.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well Brook can agree to cover that cost. She

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<v Speaker 1>wants to jump in, but we'll just cover the two

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<v Speaker 1>meals unless his.

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<v Speaker 2>Roommate brings food home for him, like maybe she made

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<v Speaker 2>a dog.

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<v Speaker 1>We we did not ask that.

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<v Speaker 3>To clarify, my roommates are real people. Oh okay, and they're.

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<v Speaker 2>My parents and your parents. Your parents are eating the leftover.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you don't want to take away food from his

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<v Speaker 1>mom and dad.

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<v Speaker 5>For me, this is like all starting to add up

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<v Speaker 5>of like how you were raised and stuff, because my

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<v Speaker 5>parents would never eat a stranger's leftovers and so like,

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<v Speaker 5>this is all just too much for me and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>respectfully going to pass.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, man, did this just evolve to my parents

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<v Speaker 1>are better than your parents.

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<v Speaker 2>My um bringing much stronger than yours.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, thanks anyway, guy, be honest. I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>my mom would have liked her anyway.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, all moms love me, I will say it.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. That's what really got her insultant brook

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<v Speaker 2>and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>If you pay for a meal, should the leftovers belong

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<v Speaker 1>to you? It's an interesting question, I know Brooks stances. Yes, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's because she buys us lunch sometimes. But and before

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<v Speaker 1>she goes home, she'll dig through the garbage cans trying

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<v Speaker 1>to find any scraps that we didn't to bring it

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<v Speaker 1>home to her family, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know you didn't like crust, Jeffrey, The crust

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<v Speaker 4>is the best part.

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<v Speaker 1>Take his cross home, Michael, I brought home some crust

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<v Speaker 1>for you for dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>You put it all in a casserole dish and cover

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<v Speaker 4>it and cheese.

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<v Speaker 2>By the end of the week he got enough to

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<v Speaker 2>feed a whole family.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, Brooke is already in an established relation ship,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can get away with it. Sean was on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date when he pulled that move.

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<v Speaker 2>Sean, he's not getting a call back.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone texting in. We understand the points he paid. It's

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<v Speaker 1>his food. I still don't think that's right. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just interesting that it's her food until the meal is over.

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<v Speaker 1>Then it changes.

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<v Speaker 2>Possession charge that rule. They do a better job at

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<v Speaker 2>dinner faster.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we need to take this matter right up

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<v Speaker 1>to the Supreme Court.

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<v Speaker 2>There we go.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't have anything else going on. No help us

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<v Speaker 1>decide that, And in the meantime we can continue to

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<v Speaker 1>help you with your dating life. Email the show. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>call that person who's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 2>Frooking Jeffrey in the morning,