1 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: Boody who. This is George with a very special announcement. 2 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: First of all, my debut stand up comedy special is 3 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: coming out officially on December second. It will be available 4 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: to rent or purchase on Amazon and Apple and various 5 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: other websites. But that is not what I'm here to announce, 6 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: because it is not available yet. I am merely saying 7 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: that because I wanted to tell everyone that I am 8 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: having a big special release show at the Bellhouse in Brooklyn, 9 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 1: New York on December third. That is the day after 10 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 1: the special comes out, So come to the Bellhouse, come celebrate. 11 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: It will be a big show. It'll be like a 12 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: George and Friends style show with some extra special guests 13 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: and surprises. And if you buy tickets now then you 14 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 1: won't have to buy them later when I announced the 15 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 1: lineup publicly, so you heard it here. First, Bellhouse, December third, 16 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: Special Release Georgian Friends show. And then the second thing 17 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: is that Sam and I are doing a sort of 18 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: last minute kind of industry adjacent show, a special edition 19 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: Stradio Lab Live at on Air Fest in Los Angeles 20 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: on November eleventh. It is a podcast festival and there 21 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: are a few tickets set aside for sort of the 22 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: ga general admission crowd. If you don't professionally work in podcasting, 23 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: you can still see us do our thing. So in conclusion, 24 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 1: come to my special release show at the Bellhouse in 25 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: Brooklyn on December third, and if you're in LA come 26 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: see us at on AirFest on November eleventh. The tickets 27 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 1: for that are on the Bellhouse website, on my link 28 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: tree on the Stradia lablink tree. Honey, if you look 29 00:01:56,120 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: for them, y'all find them. Enjoy The showcast starts now. 30 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 2: Hello all, we are coming at you bi coastally once again. 31 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 2: Our New York records have officially ended. We did six 32 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 2: weeks of New York recordings. 33 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: We did six weeks of New York recordings. And now 34 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: you know, also, I have to say those recordings were 35 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 1: recorded during such an optimistic time. We were both in 36 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: such good moods. We were frolicking around various food trucks 37 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: in the Dumbo, Brooklyn area. It was pretty much still 38 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: summer in the sense that it was, you know, September. Yeah, 39 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: and now I am first of all, let's get this 40 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: out of the way. I'm sick. It's okay, you don't 41 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: have semi flowers, but it is what it is. I 42 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: have what is known in the medical community as brain fog. 43 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: It is absolutely kicking my ass. I'm taking fifteen minutes 44 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: to complete one sentence. So that's one thing. Drop that down. 45 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: Second thing. It is a gloomy New York day. I 46 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: would say the light that is reflected on my face 47 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 1: is the color gray. 48 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 2: I have to say. I still follow like a New 49 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: York weather account, and it like every day like says 50 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 2: like ten out of ten, like Sonny and seventy five, 51 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 2: and today it was like two out of ten. Torrential downpours, 52 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 2: miserable energy, avoid at all costs, And I was like, 53 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 2: I really want to come back to New York and 54 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 2: I really forget, Like I'm like scared for that moment 55 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 2: when you're like, damn, today is just miserable. There's no 56 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 2: way around it. 57 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: You know what though it is, however, there is something 58 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: so almost there's this sort of joy and the self 59 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: flagellation of just being like I can't do anything. I'm 60 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: basically Sylvia Plath, and I'm gonna sit here and just 61 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 1: sort of sink deeper and deeper into my couch and 62 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: just be depressed doing emails I'm gonna make tea, but 63 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: then forget the tea bag and the tea thing and 64 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: then have one sip and be like this is absolutely disgusting, 65 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: and then throw it out and be like, you know 66 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: what I should get into tea? Finally, I can't keep 67 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: only drinking tea that's from the grocery store. But it's like, 68 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: that is such a high bar to entry. So then 69 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: of course you start googling tea. Next thing, you know, 70 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: you have seventeen tabs open, and you're like, I wonder 71 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: what my ex is up to, and then you go 72 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 1: on his Instagram, et cetera, et cetera. 73 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 2: No, I think, what's so at least in New York 74 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:28,359 Speaker 2: when you're when it's cloudy slash rainy and you're in 75 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 2: a bad mood, and you're like, well, of course I'm 76 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 2: gonna mood bad moods cloudy slash rainy today. I'm let's 77 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 2: let's be upfront. I'm in a horrible mood for seemingly. 78 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 2: I guess the reason is because I slept badly and 79 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 2: it's sunny and about eighty five degrees outside. I simply 80 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 2: have no excuse. I was mad that it was too sunny. 81 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 2: I was mad that it was nice out, and I'm like, 82 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 2: now this has to stop. You can't. The way that 83 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 2: La is turning me against sunny summary weather is shocking. 84 00:04:56,839 --> 00:05:00,159 Speaker 1: I used to because because yes, well exactly, because what 85 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 1: Ela does is infuse sunny summary weather with a sort 86 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 1: of like grim film noir element. It's like, it's like 87 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 1: did you It's very like David Lynch, It's like, did 88 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 1: you know that actually when it's sunny, that's because there's 89 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: darkness in the world and this is hiding it. 90 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really really bleak. 91 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: And I'm glad you mentioned being in a bad mood 92 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 1: because we are honestly both in pretty terrible moods today. 93 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: And I'm feeling that there's a there's a part of 94 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: me that wants to address each of our bad moods 95 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: or for me to be like what's wrong, Like is 96 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 1: everything okay? Blah blah blah. But I'm kind of like, 97 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: put your own mask on first. I'm literally like I 98 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:43,679 Speaker 1: can't think of anyone else's bad mood except except my own. 99 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 2: Well, and I just want to add to what's going 100 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 2: on with me? Is this so this will come out 101 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 2: after Halloween so I can say this now and it 102 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 2: won't be a spoiler, which why are to be a spoiler? 103 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 2: Who do I think I am? But for Halloween, Misha 104 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 2: and I've decided. First we were like, we're gonna be 105 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 2: Ham and Mitch. How funny. I bought a red wig, 106 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 2: I got red dye from my and I'm growing my beard. 107 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 2: Misha's got like a contrast cuff flowed shirt. Oh yeah, 108 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 2: and so we're like, okay, that's so fun. And then 109 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 2: we put the costumes on roughly and I was like, wait, 110 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: I kind of just like a normal guy in a 111 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 2: red wig, of course. And then it's like, okay, wait. 112 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 2: We were talking to some people and they were like, 113 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 2: what if you're sexy Camon Mitch? And I'm like, now 114 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 2: that's funny. And so I was like, okay, so it's 115 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 2: the same costume but like with like soft garters on 116 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 2: and like maybe like playing boxers on. 117 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 1: It's really good, but. 118 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 2: Still like sweater and like v nex sweater and collared 119 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 2: shirt up top for me. And but then I've been 120 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 2: on various websites all morning. I can't find st Garters 121 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 2: for the life of me. They they they don't have, 122 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 2: like there are none in Los Angeles that I can 123 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 2: find and Amazon sorry is not delivering until Saturday. 124 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: You know. This is of course when those things where 125 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: my instinct is to google it and think I'm gonna 126 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: find it in two seconds, and it's like, no, you're smart, 127 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 1: you've tried. You've tried what I'm about to try. 128 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 2: It's I mean, there is like I could like look 129 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 2: up like men's suiting stores and like call them and 130 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 2: be like do you have these? But it feels like 131 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 2: such a niche product at this point, or like even 132 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 2: like I'm like sex stores, Like I'm like, has it 133 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 2: just gone into full kink wear where like the sock 134 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 2: garter for men? 135 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: But I don't you think so. I mean, I understand 136 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: the desire for a sock garter, but there are other 137 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 1: ways to make a costume sexy, Like I think if 138 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: you can't find one, you will find other ways to 139 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: pull off the iconic costume sexy. 140 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: Cam and Mitch, of course, it's just a SoC guard 141 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 2: would really sell it. 142 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, are you gonna have a lily? 143 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 3: No? 144 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 2: Because we wanted to have like, you know, we're going 145 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 2: to a house party first, so we were like, oh, 146 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 2: we should like bring a bottle of something wrapped up 147 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 2: in a baby blanket. But then we were worried that 148 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 2: people would like, if we posted a picture of us 149 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 2: as Cam and Mitch with a baby, they would think 150 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 2: it was a baby innouncement, right I do. 151 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if that many people would think that, 152 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: but I respect it. I was more thinking that you 153 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: were worried that like libs of TikTok would pick it 154 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: up and then it would be like, look, these these 155 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: gays think that having a child is kink. 156 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's true. I mean, you're right, and I 157 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 2: should let go of the salt garter, but I really 158 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 2: committed to it in my mind. 159 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I get it, and it is the perfect 160 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: way to make It's the perfect way for something to 161 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: be kinky while also gesturing at preppy dad, which is 162 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,199 Speaker 1: basically what you're trying to do with them with your 163 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: Mitch costume. Yeah that's really good though, and I mean 164 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: Mitch is a little more challenging. But Cam, if you 165 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: have one of those contrast cuff shirts, it's like so 166 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 1: immediately clear what you're being. 167 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 2: I was honestly like jealous that got to be Cam, 168 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 2: and then I was like, we're both Cam, and then 169 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 2: I like no one of us has to be match. 170 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:03,839 Speaker 1: It would be really funny if you. 171 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 2: Were nine of one thousand cams. 172 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: So basically, this is a call an episode, and we 173 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: are having disagreements about which calls to. 174 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 2: Take, huge disagreements. 175 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: Huge disagreements to the point where I was actually like, 176 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 1: we have to start recording otherwise we'll get into a fight. 177 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 2: And it's kind of this ever happens to us. 178 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 1: I know it was a real I mean, I think 179 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: this has to do with both of us are not 180 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,719 Speaker 1: feeling great and are sleep deprived. I'm not going to 181 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: get into it, but when you mentioned sleep problems, I 182 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: wanted to also talk about how I've been having insane insomnia. 183 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 1: Like last night, I watched after we had watched TV 184 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 1: and went to bed by myself. I watched five episodes 185 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 1: of thirty Rock just in bed in the dark, like 186 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: with my laptop there, which usually would put me to sleep, 187 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: and I was just eyes wide open, staring into my screen. 188 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 1: And this has not been happening for like a week. 189 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: I'm just like being up until four am, not being 190 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 1: able to fall asleep, and I think it's stress related 191 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: and and I don't know. Also the like travel over 192 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 1: the summer didn't help, but I'm I'm so tired. 193 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, so. 194 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 1: We I'm gonna I like the idea of sort of 195 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: reading through we have. We get so many calls and 196 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: I want everyone to know that there are I put them. 197 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 1: We put them all in a spreadsheet. Then we like, 198 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 1: based on our whims that day, we highlight them that 199 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: we think are good. That we end up doing whatever 200 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: we feel like in the moment. There are questions that 201 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 1: keep getting asked over and over again, and we are 202 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 1: not sure if we've ever answered them. 203 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 4: We are. 204 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: It also depends on our mood. Sometimes we want to 205 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: do more advicey questions. Sometimes we want to do pop 206 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: culture questions. Sometimes we want to do more like conceptual questions. 207 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 1: What are the ones that we're sticking out to you? 208 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:00,559 Speaker 2: I wonder I was preferring the ones that were sort 209 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 2: of like either like very open ended pop culture. I 210 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 2: think I don't like when it feels like a quiz. Yeah, 211 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 2: And I also don't like when I feel like I 212 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 2: have to like speak from huge authority, because sometimes say 213 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 2: I find that to be like, I'm yeah, but I 214 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 2: was liking the open ended pop culture ones, which just like, 215 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 2: what are your thoughts? On this, and I was also 216 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 2: liking sort of the like maybe options, like I have 217 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,319 Speaker 2: I have a choice. I can either do this or this, 218 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:33,719 Speaker 2: Which should I do? Like that was really speaking to 219 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 2: me because I was like, it feels easiest, not that 220 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 2: not that it's all about ease. I'm just sort of 221 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,439 Speaker 2: like that was what was speaking to me. We was 222 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 2: speaking to you. 223 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 1: So here's what I think. Maybe this is a crutch 224 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: I'm falling on, but I think people generally like recommendation culture. 225 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 1: Right now, I have mixed feelings about how every single 226 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: thing now is like so and so is five favorite 227 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 1: skin care product, so and so is five favorite movies, 228 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: things you can't live without, Like that like questionnaire that 229 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:09,959 Speaker 1: people do on Instagram that's like things things Amanda Seifried 230 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: loves and things Amanda Siphreid hates, uh huh, or like 231 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: the perfectly imperfect newsletter where it's like all people recommending 232 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 1: things and you have to do two things that are 233 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: specific and then one thing that's like the feeling after 234 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: a rain when you have a burger, and you have 235 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 1: to like be just of Carrie Bradshaw enough about it 236 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 1: and be like like things you don't like compulsory child 237 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: are airing or whatever, and I and I think that 238 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: adds enough structure. Like, for example, we got a question 239 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: that was like, what is the last truly perfect movie 240 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: you watched? And I was like, Oh, that's fun because 241 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 1: I can It's limiting enough that I can go back 242 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:51,839 Speaker 1: through the movies I watched recently and just like pick 243 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: a few. And then you were like, why would anyone 244 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: want to listen to me talk about how I thought 245 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 1: one battle after another is good? Everyone think it's good. 246 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 2: Well, I was like, I'm not like reinventing the wheel here, 247 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 2: Like I was kind of like you could like to me, 248 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 2: and all respects to that caller, but I was like 249 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 2: the perfect what I think is the perfect movie that 250 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 2: I watched? 251 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:12,559 Speaker 1: Like a perfect movie. 252 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 2: To me? I was like, like, it's I also think 253 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 2: I'm sort of like maybe I don't believe in I 254 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 2: think for some reason, the phrasing of the question of 255 00:13:21,679 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 2: like what is a perfect movie you watched is like 256 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:27,560 Speaker 2: stressing me out because it invites like people to be 257 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 2: like you thought that was perfect? 258 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 1: Like don't you love just recklessly having an opinion? 259 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 2: And maybe part of it is like I don't think 260 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 2: I've ever thought any movie was perfect, like like it's 261 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 2: a wonderful life maybe, but I bet you could trim 262 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 2: a couple of mens, like like, I'm just sort of 263 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 2: like nothing's perfect. 264 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: No, that's tea I was. I recently randomly watched Invasion 265 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: of the Body Snatchers for the first time, the one 266 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: with like Donald Sutherland, and I guess I would say 267 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: I had low expectations, but I was like, this is 268 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 1: someone else, you know, Matthew put it on. I was like, 269 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 1: all right, I guess we'll watch it. And then by 270 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: the end, I was like having such a good time 271 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 1: and it was like so simple and not trying to 272 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: have like a million twists and turns and like really 273 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: well shot in this sort of fun seventies like paranoia way. 274 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 1: And I also recently watched in the Mood for Love 275 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: for the first time, and so those were gonna be 276 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 1: my two sorry, not interesting, and then the other and 277 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: then wait, so you you were drawn to? You were 278 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: drawn to for example, what celeb or what popstar right 279 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: now has the gay men, gay women and straight women 280 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 1: in a choke hold? 281 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 2: Well? And I thought the call behind that was very 282 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 2: smart when I read through it, a bit like. 283 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 1: Well, let's maybe do how about we do our first 284 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 1: how about we do our first call and start there 285 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 1: and then get the wheels turn in. 286 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I sayim and George. My name is Casey. 287 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 5: I'm calling from Massachusetts. My husband and I went to 288 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 5: your Summerville show. 289 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 6: We loved it. 290 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 5: He was really not too familiar with your work until then, 291 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 5: but he laughed the whole time, and I'll just say 292 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 5: he was particularly charmed by Sam. 293 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 1: My question for you is interesting. 294 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 5: This is a Lily Allen breakup album happening right now. 295 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 5: It's amazing, incredible. What was your perception of their relationship 296 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 5: pre breakup and now with this album post breakup? Did 297 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 5: you I'm curious what the gay community thought, particularly of 298 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 5: David Harbor during his height of like people loving this 299 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 5: sad dad thing and now knowing what we know now, 300 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 5: have things changed at all? Thanks for your thoughts and 301 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 5: your amazing. 302 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 2: Podcast by well, what can you say? Straight guys love me? 303 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: It was such an interesting choice to include in a 304 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 1: call that you know that had it all. It was complimentary. 305 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 1: You're building up to a great relevant question to want 306 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 1: to immediately create a rift between us by saying your 307 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 1: straight husband liked Sam Moore. 308 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 2: I mean this is there is a toxic desire among 309 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 2: all to pit gay podcasters against each other. 310 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: It's so the phrasing of and I'll. 311 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 2: Just say, don't just say, don't say he was. 312 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: Especially charmed by Sam. Why would you just say that? 313 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 2: Why would you say that? 314 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 1: Someone recently commented on a on one of our clips 315 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 1: with Adam Friedlanden was like, it's my duty to say. 316 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 1: I was like, no, it's not. Shut the hell up, 317 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: shut up, Go okay, what do you to? Obviously, David 318 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: Harbor is so comically your type that it is even 319 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: a cliche to bring him up. 320 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 2: So David Harper is a huge sex symbol in the 321 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 2: Barrack community. It is not just me, of course, that 322 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 2: finds him hot. It is anyone who finds Bear. He's 323 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:06,359 Speaker 2: like on Bear fan pages constantly, and it's like very 324 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 2: interesting for the Bears. I don't think this is gonna 325 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:12,159 Speaker 2: make a splash. I think everyone will still want to 326 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 2: have sex with him. For the general public, I'm interested 327 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 2: in how you feel, George about will people like turn 328 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 2: on him? 329 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 1: You know, I am so confused about where we are 330 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:32,400 Speaker 1: as a like mainstream, sort of straight leaning culture on 331 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,879 Speaker 1: men and women right now. And I'm saying that in 332 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 1: complete earnestness, like there is I believe this very kind 333 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 1: of predictable but grim backlash against it started out as 334 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:50,120 Speaker 1: being a backlash against quote unquote girl boss culture, which 335 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:52,640 Speaker 1: I hate to use a word that has never literally 336 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 1: meant anything. Literally. It is something that from the beginning 337 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 1: was a punch line that the book girl Boss by 338 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: Sophia Marusso came out and immediately was a punchline. This 339 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:05,119 Speaker 1: idea that we have in retrospect that at one point 340 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 1: we were in the girl Boss era and now we're 341 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 1: not is stupid and only people who write for digital 342 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 1: media believe it, So wake the fuck up and be 343 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 1: an adult. So anyway, first it started as a backlash 344 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 1: against girl boss culture, which is in its own way 345 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 1: completely like veiled misogyny and sexism. Then it became a 346 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 1: backlash in an even more dark way against like me too, 347 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:31,440 Speaker 1: because of course like people were like very confused how 348 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 1: to act, and so then you know, you suddenly had 349 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: like the random Babe dot net article about Azaz, which 350 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 1: everyone felt weird about blah, and so then every the 351 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:43,919 Speaker 1: water's got muddied so much that basically anytime, anytime a 352 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 1: woman speaks now she sort of is like not quite trusted. 353 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: Would you agree? 354 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:50,919 Speaker 2: I would agree. I think we're in a really complicated spot. 355 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:57,239 Speaker 2: And this particular drama is interesting too because it's like 356 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 2: both new and old. Yes, it's like sort of a 357 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 2: cheating scandal, which is classic vintage. She's not necessarily saying 358 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:08,679 Speaker 2: like he abused me. She's saying like he was like 359 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 2: a horrible partner and we've had a miserable couple of years, 360 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 2: and that makes it old. But then it's new because 361 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 2: it's like, well, we were open, so it wasn't like 362 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 2: fully illegal, and like it was just like he broke 363 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 2: the rules of our open agreement. 364 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. So there's something very very now about it. Yeah, 365 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 1: and there's also something very sorry, aging millennial about it. 366 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:33,360 Speaker 1: Like it is so Lily Allen is such a classic 367 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 1: millennial voice, and you know, I hate to talk about generations. Yeah, 368 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,159 Speaker 1: but you just have to, like she is. She is 369 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: someone who could only be the exact age she is. 370 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. 371 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 1: So when we were talking about like the status of 372 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 1: Data Harbor, I'm like, I don't think the quote unquote 373 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:57,160 Speaker 1: cancelation of a man has the same uh weight that 374 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 1: it did in like twenty eighteen, twenty nine. Yeah, but 375 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:05,439 Speaker 1: at the same time, this album is clearly making a 376 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: big impact. Yeah, but in my world, I'm seeing it 377 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: more as like you go girl, Lily Allen, than like 378 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: David Harbor is an asshole. 379 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's you go girl. 380 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 1: It's like it's almost beside the point who he is. 381 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like interesting. It adds a level of intrigue 382 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 2: that it's someone famous that we all can just like 383 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 2: recognize instantly. But it's not. It doesn't it's not the 384 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 2: whole story. It is more like you did that thing, 385 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 2: you got out of there, and your body looks amazing. 386 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,640 Speaker 2: I do feel like that's we're not talking about that. That 387 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 2: that's part of the album. Roll out is like her 388 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 2: being like and also, look at how my body looks amazing. 389 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 1: No. Yes, she's almost leaning into this sort of imperfect 390 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 1: victim narrative in a way that I actually find kind 391 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:54,880 Speaker 1: of fun because Lilyana Lily Allen is an insane. 392 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 2: Person, always has been. 393 00:20:56,000 --> 00:21:01,120 Speaker 1: Lily Allen is not like some innocent, you know wifey 394 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,880 Speaker 1: who like was so optimistic about this relationship and she's 395 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,239 Speaker 1: always been looking for love and then she got her 396 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 1: heart broken like Lily Allen is a psycho. 397 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's a bad girl. 398 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 1: She is a bad girl. She's a psycho. She's done 399 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:16,679 Speaker 1: insane things in the past. She I would say, like 400 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: partially owns it. Like I think, for example, she she's 401 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 1: openly being like, well, I was the bad person in 402 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 1: my previous marriage, so like I was able to relate 403 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 1: to him whatever. But then she hasn't quote unquote owned 404 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 1: some of the other insane shit she has said, you know, 405 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 1: over the year. She's very much a classic like celeb 406 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,719 Speaker 1: who is on social media, whether it's podcasting, whether it's 407 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:39,959 Speaker 1: the whole stunt sheeted where she like ran her own 408 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 1: only feet or whatever. 409 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 2: Oh sure, sure, is that what that website's called Wiki. 410 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:48,200 Speaker 1: Feet not only fee. 411 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,639 Speaker 2: I mean, I am impressed with the whole album in general. 412 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 2: I think if we're just talking about broad broadly, I'm 413 00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 2: sort of like I think we had we talked about 414 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 2: how like it's both like very interesting and you're like 415 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 2: the first few listens you're like, wow, this is great, 416 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 2: and then you were saying that you like kind of 417 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:08,639 Speaker 2: feel gross. 418 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 1: Now well I find oh wait, sorry. One more thing 419 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 1: about David Harber is that he has a sort of 420 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:19,959 Speaker 1: evil looking face. Yeah, And I actually sort of think 421 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 1: part of his appeal is this kind of villainous energy. 422 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 1: And so I think, if anything, in terms of my 423 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: attraction to him, for example, this album is not making 424 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 1: me less attracted to him or making him less of 425 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:36,360 Speaker 1: a desirable object if you are prone to be attracted 426 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 1: to him. If anything, I'm like, Wow, it's so hot 427 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 1: that he had a bag of dildos or whatever she 428 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: accused him of having. 429 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, butt plugs and stuff in the lube, and I'm 430 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,120 Speaker 2: literally like, wait, were you using them on yourself? Wait? 431 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait wait wait wait yeah, I e lube. 432 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 1: So wait, sorry, but you asked me a question. Oh yes. 433 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 1: I feel like there is something about the entire album, 434 00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,919 Speaker 1: the entire album being about the same thing. And I 435 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 1: know that it has a narrative arc to some extent, 436 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,879 Speaker 1: but honestly, it's mostly that every song is about the 437 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 1: same thing. And you know what, it almost feels like 438 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 1: it almost feels like being waterboarded with like pornography. Like 439 00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 1: it reminded me of the Goonerer article where it was like, yes, 440 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 1: like in small doses, it's like really cathartic to listen 441 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 1: to Lily Allen like say, like, fuck this guy and 442 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: he did this to me, and he did this to me. 443 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 1: But to listen to that for like fifteen songs straight 444 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 1: sort of makes you want to do something else. 445 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it can feel a little. It's it's just 446 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 2: so confessional that I'm sort of like you like you 447 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 2: let like a recording studio here, you do. 448 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:44,439 Speaker 1: This right, And I sort of respect that she is 449 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 1: not she's kind of avoid Well I haven't listened to 450 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 1: the final songs that many times to remember, but I 451 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 1: don't think she's sort of avoiding like a catharsist at 452 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,720 Speaker 1: the end, or like an empowerment narrative, right, Like, it's 453 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 1: really just like you're an asshole, You're an asshole, You're 454 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: an asshole, You're an asshole the end. Yeah, which I 455 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: do respect, like totally. Something like something like Lemonade, while 456 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:10,880 Speaker 1: being more artful, is also more calculated and can feel 457 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 1: too overwritten, Yeah, whereas this one really does feel like 458 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,160 Speaker 1: she just like put it all out there. 459 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's I respect that I respect to an extent. 460 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. So final thoughts on David Harbor. You know we 461 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 1: would both still have sex with him probably. 462 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, send nudes David Harbor. I will do whatever you want. 463 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 1: And Lily Allen, it's like, you know, if nothing else, 464 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, good for you for still getting lips of flappen. 465 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 2: I fully agree. 466 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: I'm kind of like you know, I I obviously I'm 467 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 1: holding you at arm's length and I would never want 468 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: to be your close personal friend because I know you 469 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 1: would ultimately betray me and then potentially post screenshots of 470 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 1: our texts. But that said, you know you are kind 471 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 1: of one of the og And I love Lily Allen 472 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 1: when I was a teen, and as much as I 473 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 1: am being a little mean to her, I get defensive 474 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 1: if someone else is mean to her. 475 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:11,640 Speaker 2: Of course you've earned it. 476 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: Like she's she's kind of a legend. 477 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:15,719 Speaker 2: Yeah she is. 478 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: And I didn't know people cared so much about her. 479 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,159 Speaker 1: I was like, she's one of those people to me 480 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:21,879 Speaker 1: that I'm like, isn't it weird that I listened to 481 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,439 Speaker 1: Lily Allen when I was like seventeen, I am not 482 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 1: seventeen whatever, fourteen. 483 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 2: It's it's one of those things where I'm also surprised 484 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,159 Speaker 2: that everyone knows her, but I celebrate it. 485 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 3: You Sam and George love. 486 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 1: You girls, Love you down. 487 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 3: Okay, my question is for stand up comedians, which you. 488 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,360 Speaker 1: Guys are Clockett. 489 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 2: We're at like. 490 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 3: A really intimate venue or any venue, I guess, and 491 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:56,199 Speaker 3: you're performing in front of someone that is just like 492 00:25:56,520 --> 00:26:01,199 Speaker 3: so hot and sexy, and you're like you want to 493 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 3: maybe fuck them? Does it like improve your performance or 494 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 3: do you And yeah, I'm just curious what it's like 495 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 3: behind the scenes. 496 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 2: All right, love you, love you too. I try to 497 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:24,199 Speaker 2: remain professional for the most part, but it does distract me. 498 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 2: I will say I do notice, like if there's someone 499 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:28,879 Speaker 2: like you know, a lot of venues, it depends on 500 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 2: the lighting. Sometimes you can see the audience very clearly, 501 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 2: and sometimes you can't see them at all. And when 502 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:37,120 Speaker 2: you can see someone who's like very hot and you're 503 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 2: there's like I'm like, so, what's your deal? Like there's 504 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 2: there's a part of me it's like, what's your deal? 505 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,639 Speaker 2: And I know, like you know, it's I know, nothing 506 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,359 Speaker 2: can happen. You know, I'm on stage and they're in 507 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 2: the audience. That's like a barrier that can't. 508 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,919 Speaker 1: Be right, Like that going through your head. You're like, okay, 509 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,879 Speaker 1: like we could hook up now wait no, I'm on stage. 510 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 2: Fuck, But I'm like there's something but I do have 511 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 2: I have one story George about this where one time 512 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 2: I was doing like my very first like solo show 513 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 2: at the Annoyance Leader in Brooklyn, New York. And it 514 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,439 Speaker 2: was like a mixture of characters and stand up and 515 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:18,920 Speaker 2: I did a character then right at the beginning and 516 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,680 Speaker 2: I where I talked to an audience member, I picked 517 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 2: an audience member and there was a hot person there 518 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,720 Speaker 2: who you know, I think I told you the story 519 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 2: and I'll say, yes, you have you have yeah, okay, 520 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,639 Speaker 2: and I called on him and he immediately was like 521 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 2: mad at me, like right at the start, mad at me. 522 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 2: And I was like, damn, I shouldn't have called on 523 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 2: the one person that I found hot. And it was 524 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 2: like the first bit in the show, and it did 525 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 2: kind of ruin it slightly. 526 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: I actually think that's very you because you like giving 527 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 1: yourself a challenge, ah, like, because you know that's not 528 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 1: going to go as well as picking like a random 529 00:27:55,119 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 1: ugly person. It's so classic, this classic. 530 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 2: I was trying to have my cake and eat it too, Honestly. 531 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like when I see a hot person 532 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 1: in the audience, this is so humiliating. But rather than 533 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,360 Speaker 1: thinking wow, I'm in a position of power because I'm 534 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: the one with the mic and they must really like 535 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,920 Speaker 1: me and that's why they paid to see me. I'm 536 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 1: thinking the exact opposite, which is I'm thinking I'm the 537 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 1: theater kid loser on stage and this person is sitting 538 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,120 Speaker 1: there with her arms crossed, being like the hell does 539 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 1: this like idiot have to say, Like I'm going to 540 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,679 Speaker 1: go to football practice after Like, I revert back to the 541 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,159 Speaker 1: high school damage realm. You're you're the hot person and 542 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 1: I'm like the loser that is trying a draft of 543 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 1: my art project on stage. Wow, So I'm not. I 544 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 1: don't love when there are hot people that I can 545 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 1: see from stage, and it does not in any way 546 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: turn me on. What I do enjoy is a hot 547 00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: person potentially talking to me afterwards and complimenting the show, 548 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,719 Speaker 1: potentially sitting in the back so I don't see them 549 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 1: as I'm performing, and then coming up to me afterwards. 550 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,480 Speaker 1: I you know, I I'll enjoy that. Yeah, that's and 551 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: that's that's why we do it. 552 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 2: That's why we do it, folks. 553 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 1: So wait, I want to just quickly say one of 554 00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 1: the ones we disagreed on is what is a piece 555 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: of media we loved in our youth that we now hate. 556 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 1: And I want to say, get ready because this is 557 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 1: a shocking thing to say. I tried rewatching Austin Powers 558 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: recently and really could not get into it. You already 559 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 1: crazy such a bit. 560 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 2: You knew that would hurt my feelings, and I to 561 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 2: hurt my feelings. 562 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 1: I almost want to try again because I think maybe 563 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 1: I was in a bad mood. And then the other one, 564 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:36,480 Speaker 1: which I think I've talked about before, is the movie 565 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: rat Race. I have a memory of loving and I 566 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 1: watched it recently. Just stonefaced. Mmm. 567 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 4: Hey, my name's Jeff and my name's Connor. Long time 568 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 4: gay guys, first time callers. 569 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 7: We're calling today because of a debate that is absolutely 570 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 7: tearing our friends group apart. 571 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 4: We want to know is Lord a gay pop diva. 572 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:12,120 Speaker 7: I think Lord is absolutely a gay pop diva, but 573 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 7: I think she's not there yet. 574 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:14,960 Speaker 1: Now. 575 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 4: We agree that Charlie Mariah Resa, for example, are gay 576 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 4: pop difas, and we. 577 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 7: Also agree that Dua Lipa Pink and Atlant morsett as. 578 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 4: We have all kinds of arguments either way, but we 579 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 4: don't want to give them to you because we want 580 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 4: to sway your decision. But if we keep talking about this, 581 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 4: our friends are going to kill us. So we need 582 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 4: to call in professional help from the girls. So please respond. 583 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 7: We need this debate suttle. 584 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 4: Thank you so much, Diva and soon Hi. 585 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 2: Love you Diva, Love you divas. This is so interesting, 586 00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: you know it's it's I'm feeling a little bit like 587 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 2: when someone tells you who they are, believe them, and 588 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, so you think du A Lipa is not 589 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 2: a gay pop diva and I'm supposed to sort of 590 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:11,240 Speaker 2: listen to your rankings. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. If she's 591 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 2: not a gay pop diva, then what is she a 592 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 2: pop singer? 593 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:20,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sorry, but this is like, you know, 594 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 1: this is like, however, how everyone is over using iconic 595 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,719 Speaker 1: and legend and blah blah blah. I was you know 596 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 1: what my pet thieves is like when people are like, 597 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 1: happy birthday to this New York darling, It's like, what 598 00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: the hell are you talking about? That is? Jason? Yeah, 599 00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 1: so I like du A Liipa, but you know, give 600 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 1: her she's still cooking. 601 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 2: I couldn't disagree more. I'm like dou A Lipa like 602 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 2: with future nostalgia alone. I think she like has made 603 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 2: an impact, is so big and is so specifically like 604 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 2: for like the gay community. 605 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 1: Listen, I love dou A Lipa. I need more vulnerability 606 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 1: if I'm gonna call her a gay pop diva. The 607 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: whole point of being a gay pop diva is that 608 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 1: you are. You have this narrative of being the underdog 609 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 1: and then persevering you have gone through and I understand. 610 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 2: Does give vulnerability. 611 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 1: Well, she's Australian and she had cancer. Did how about 612 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 1: you check yourself? 613 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 2: Yes, I'm not seeing vulnerable from her. I'm seeing perfection. 614 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:45,440 Speaker 1: Listen. Ah, okay, hold on. So you're saying you don't 615 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 1: trust the people that made this call because they don't 616 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 1: think dou A Lipa is a gay. 617 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 2: A gay pop diva, That's what I'm saying. 618 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: But that actually doesn't really answer their question, which you know, 619 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: anyone can ask whether or not you agree with your 620 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: opinions or not, which is lord of a gay pop diva? 621 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 1: I hate this, by the way, this is an example 622 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 1: of a question you like and I don't like. 623 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, why don't you like it? 624 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 1: Because it I have because it it damns us into 625 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 1: being like chatty gay guys. 626 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 2: But that's what we are. I know, it's one part 627 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 2: of us. We have a multifaceted personality. 628 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 1: Is Lord a gay pop diva? 629 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think I kind of think. See 630 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 2: the thing is, I think you have to like consent 631 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 2: to being a gay pop diva, like, and I don't 632 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 2: know if she's consenting to that. I think that, Like, 633 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 2: I think that's sort of what what I'm talking about 634 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 2: with like dua lipa honestly is like she's like, I 635 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 2: think she kind of considers herself a gay pop diva, 636 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 2: like and Lord is sort of being like Lord thinks 637 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 2: she's the Strokes. She's not, but she thinks she is. 638 00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 2: And so that to me, like seeing her call answer 639 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 2: in Vegas famously was to die for let's start there. 640 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,880 Speaker 2: But she really wants to be like I'm a I'm 641 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:11,040 Speaker 2: a like I'm just like you. Like I'm like, yes, 642 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 2: I'm up here, Yes I write these songs, but I'm 643 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 2: merely a reflection of you. And I'm like, I don't 644 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:20,360 Speaker 2: see myself as larger than life. I see myself as life. 645 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:25,800 Speaker 2: And so I'm like, I think I don't I think no, 646 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 2: because she doesn't think yes, yeah. 647 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 1: I would say, I would say I'm sorry to this 648 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,400 Speaker 1: group chat. I would say self, evidently no is the 649 00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 1: correct answer. I just don't think that is what she 650 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 1: is striving to be or accomplishing being. And I also 651 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:47,280 Speaker 1: think part of the gay pop diva thing is obviously 652 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: overcoming adversity and at some point being an underdog and 653 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,879 Speaker 1: being crucified by the media whatever. But then another part 654 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:58,920 Speaker 1: of it is being kind of like difficult and having 655 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 1: literally diva bea. I mean, that is why Mariah Carey 656 00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 1: is a diva. That is why beyond uh Madonna is 657 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 1: a diva, Like that's the whole. And Beyonce, I'm not 658 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 1: not to say she's difficult and that she's like like 659 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 1: treats people poorly, but difficult in the sense that she's 660 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 1: famously particular and is like always with the laptop and 661 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 1: like calling the shots and like you gotta have some 662 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:26,240 Speaker 1: of that energy. And I'm not I think the pure 663 00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 1: joy of a dua lipa or the pure like emoness 664 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:32,879 Speaker 1: of a lord is not quite there. Like you got 665 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 1: to sort of combine it all and come out and 666 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 1: be and become like share, sure, share, But that doesn't. 667 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:48,960 Speaker 2: Mean gay guys don't like lord, it just means yeah. 668 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I'm even like, is what gay 669 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 1: pop diva? Maybe you know what, I'm being so old fashioned. 670 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 1: I'm kind of being old gay guy that is at 671 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,160 Speaker 1: the gay bar and is like reminiscing about the eighties. Like, 672 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:05,359 Speaker 1: to me, a gay pop diva is a very specific thing. 673 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 1: I don't even think Charlie is a gay pop diva, 674 00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 1: and I'm not saying that as a nock to her. 675 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 1: I love Charlie, but I think you need it's a 676 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 1: specific thing. 677 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 2: Well, I think that is. I think to fully answer 678 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:19,680 Speaker 2: this question, we would have to define what is a 679 00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 2: gay pop diva, because I think that's where the disagreement 680 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 2: is coming in, is that we have not defined the term. 681 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,839 Speaker 1: Well, I would say that a gay pop diva is 682 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 1: kind of dangerously close to the definition of a glamour girl, 683 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 1: which is someone who is glamorous, wounded and seeking truth. 684 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 2: But there's the added definition of like and also is 685 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 2: known for belting totally. 686 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,840 Speaker 1: Oh that's true. Yeah, Like, does a gay pop diva 687 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 1: need to be a vocalist? I would argue probably yes. 688 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:53,319 Speaker 2: I would argue probably yes, whereas maybe a gay pop girlye. 689 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,720 Speaker 1: That Wow, that's a really good point. And in fact, 690 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 1: I actually do think that's why the phrase gay pop 691 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,719 Speaker 1: girly was sort of on the rise, is because there 692 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:06,319 Speaker 1: was a crop of these gurly that were not quite 693 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:07,680 Speaker 1: diva status yet and. 694 00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 2: They don't want to be like they they don't they're 695 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:10,360 Speaker 2: not looking to be. 696 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 1: And also, you know, I gotta say there is an 697 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:16,320 Speaker 1: age element to the diva thing too, Like I'm a 698 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:20,719 Speaker 1: little bit like graduating towards diva status means, oh, you're 699 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,719 Speaker 1: about to age into Vegas residency. 700 00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:24,759 Speaker 2: Right right, right, right right. 701 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,920 Speaker 1: It is too early. Even if Lord was going for 702 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 1: a Mariah thing, which she obviously is not, it is 703 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 1: too early to graduate her into diva. 704 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:38,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. Diva is your masters that's right. 705 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:43,600 Speaker 1: And you know or PhD. We Curly is your master, 706 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,720 Speaker 1: Curly is your mass. Diva is your PhD. 707 00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 3: See. 708 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:53,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're just pop singer, you're you have a bachelor's. Yeah. Yeah, 709 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,400 Speaker 1: and I do think do It for the Record has 710 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 1: a master's. 711 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:58,240 Speaker 2: I'm glad you can agree. 712 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,759 Speaker 1: Yes, you know, she might be what she might be 713 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,680 Speaker 1: doing her PhD. You know, when you do a PhD, 714 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 1: part of it is getting a master's. Like anyone who 715 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 1: gets a PhD also gets some masters, so I think 716 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,800 Speaker 1: Dua is on the PhD track potentially. But she's presented 717 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,759 Speaker 1: her master's season. Everyone's saying, this is promising. Can't wait 718 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,160 Speaker 1: to see how you make it into you know, your 719 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 1: monogram monogram monograph. 720 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 2: Anyway, So since we're talking about the podcast, when we 721 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,120 Speaker 2: make the podcast, I have to say, see, that's why 722 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:26,759 Speaker 2: I like questions like that. Oh shot, What you're forgetting 723 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,480 Speaker 2: is that we will put the pop star diva question 724 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,840 Speaker 2: through our lens and we make it our own. 725 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:35,960 Speaker 1: Whereas you think if I were to ask you what 726 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 1: is a piece of media you love in your youth 727 00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,240 Speaker 1: that you now hate? Nothing would come out of that conversation. 728 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 1: It would be very straightforward, and your answer would just 729 00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:45,240 Speaker 1: be titanic George. 730 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:50,040 Speaker 2: When I say, when I say, my answer would be 731 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,120 Speaker 2: well nothing, because I respect the child that I was 732 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:54,480 Speaker 2: and the journey that I had. 733 00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:55,279 Speaker 1: Well, there you go. 734 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 2: That's not a fun answer. Oh that's a that's a 735 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:00,920 Speaker 2: void the question. 736 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:08,400 Speaker 8: Hey, good guys, calling from Miami. Yeah, yeah, you're je No. 737 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,520 Speaker 8: I know, I know nobody likes Maammy, but my question 738 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:15,600 Speaker 8: I should out to questions protein proteins everywhere, and I 739 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:20,680 Speaker 8: think we haven't really heard from you guys about protein 740 00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 8: and if it's gay or or what. I think it's 741 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,480 Speaker 8: straight in an obvious way, but you guys always come 742 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:34,719 Speaker 8: up with new perspectives and as where we listen and 743 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,320 Speaker 8: then yeah, never mind, that's gonna be my only question. 744 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:37,759 Speaker 9: Bye. 745 00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:38,560 Speaker 4: I love you guys. 746 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,600 Speaker 3: Keep doing great work saving the world. 747 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,680 Speaker 1: Something I love about gay guys is myself included is 748 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 1: that they will be giving you a straightforward compliment, but 749 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:50,560 Speaker 1: the tone of voice is like, but I could change 750 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 1: my mind at any second. 751 00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:56,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's it's comforting. It keeps me in line. 752 00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,680 Speaker 1: Is protein gay or straight? 753 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:05,240 Speaker 2: This is so complex because I like protein is everywhare 754 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 2: Like we all know this. This is not a hot take. 755 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 2: It is just like like when there's protein cold foam 756 00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,879 Speaker 2: at Starbucks, Like you have to take a step back. 757 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 2: I mean for me, I'm literally being like, okay, then 758 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,200 Speaker 2: what is protein? Like where are they getting all this stuff? 759 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:23,400 Speaker 2: What mine is this coming from? I guess I have 760 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,680 Speaker 2: no understanding what protein is. If you can just put 761 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:30,719 Speaker 2: it in anything, I find it like it's there's like 762 00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:34,319 Speaker 2: a curve or something where it's like I think ten 763 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,719 Speaker 2: years ago, protein was very straight and it was like 764 00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:40,759 Speaker 2: the stereotype of like the guy with the jug of 765 00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,839 Speaker 2: creatine powder and that's like the only food he has 766 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:47,040 Speaker 2: in his kitchen, and it's like the straightest guy in 767 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 2: the world. 768 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:51,839 Speaker 1: And then like muscle milk, muscle milk, Like muscle milk 769 00:40:51,920 --> 00:41:00,760 Speaker 1: is such a classic kind of straight phrase, straight combination. 770 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:04,960 Speaker 2: Yes, and even the branding of musclemilk it was very masculine, 771 00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,560 Speaker 2: and there was something like where it was like this 772 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:11,760 Speaker 2: is for straight guys, this this whole system, and now 773 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:16,200 Speaker 2: it's turning into like like again Starbucks cold foam with protein, 774 00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:21,160 Speaker 2: and I'm like, it's becoming queer, and for yoga girl. 775 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:24,440 Speaker 1: It's becoming feminized. I mean basically what happened with protein, 776 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 1: just on a literal level, Sorry to absolutely blow the 777 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:32,560 Speaker 1: alarm on this, is that the way capitalism works is 778 00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:36,240 Speaker 1: that one market was cornered fully all men were into protein, 779 00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,800 Speaker 1: so then they were like, how do we expand this market. 780 00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,640 Speaker 1: We feminize protein and make it also for women, And 781 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 1: then suddenly you have Goop and Gwyneth Paltrow promoting cottage 782 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:49,440 Speaker 1: cheese pancakes and Starbucks cold foam that's advertised by some 783 00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 1: brain dead influencer and you know you have like I 784 00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,200 Speaker 1: don't know, you can put proteins in your protein powder 785 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:03,160 Speaker 1: in your what's the smoothie place in La and your 786 00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:08,680 Speaker 1: ear wan smoothie. That's literally what it is. Yeah, that's 787 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:12,000 Speaker 1: what happened, and you all fell for it. And where 788 00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:13,960 Speaker 1: gay people come in is that there are both men 789 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,319 Speaker 1: and women who are gay, which is interesting, and so 790 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:17,560 Speaker 1: they are implicated in this. 791 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,760 Speaker 2: They are implicated in this. I will say, I still 792 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 2: on the whole think it is actually more straight male 793 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:27,080 Speaker 2: to have the big jug of protein powder in your kitchen, 794 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,280 Speaker 2: but gay guys do do it well. 795 00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 1: Yes, the protein powder and the protein maxing is obviously 796 00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,759 Speaker 1: very straight, but an attention to protein is also very 797 00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:44,080 Speaker 1: like just mom Like it's kind of like following, you 798 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 1: know what's very straight the food pyramid. Like that, like 799 00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 1: believing in and following the food pyramid and making three 800 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 1: plates for your three boys and making sure they get 801 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,160 Speaker 1: their chicken and their broccoli and their rice. That is 802 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:04,320 Speaker 1: also very mom and straight. Yeah, food is complicated obviously 803 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:10,319 Speaker 1: because it is such a third rail. It's like I 804 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,320 Speaker 1: feel like, honestly, in a post cancel culture world, food 805 00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 1: is still the one thing I don't quite know how 806 00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:20,360 Speaker 1: to talk about Yeah, because people are obsessed with pathologizing everything, 807 00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:23,239 Speaker 1: either accusing you of having an eating disorder, accusing you 808 00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:28,360 Speaker 1: of you know, in terms of meat, veganism, dietary restrictions, 809 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,760 Speaker 1: accusing you of being an ethical in any in whatever 810 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:35,759 Speaker 1: way they believe in that one moment, if you are 811 00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:40,920 Speaker 1: too ethical, then suddenly you're like a blue haired leftist cuck. Yeah, 812 00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,880 Speaker 1: so this is like I do find that nutrition wise, 813 00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 1: it is an interesting question. What is a straight versus 814 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,359 Speaker 1: gay outlook on nutrition? Like what do you think? 815 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:55,880 Speaker 2: Well, this is like such not to be completely insane, 816 00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,879 Speaker 2: but I'm like, this is why we need our institutions back. 817 00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,759 Speaker 2: Like we literally need like a standard of eating that 818 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,200 Speaker 2: is like so this is sort of what you should like. 819 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,480 Speaker 2: The food pyramid has fallen and we need to rebuild 820 00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,399 Speaker 2: it because we need just like a like here's sort 821 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:12,879 Speaker 2: of what you should be shooting for. It's neither good 822 00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:15,560 Speaker 2: nor bad. It's just average, like feel free to have 823 00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:18,600 Speaker 2: some of this, have some of that, And instead it's 824 00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,920 Speaker 2: like everyone is polarized and they're eating in ways that 825 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:22,879 Speaker 2: are insane. 826 00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 1: I know it's but again it has it goes back 827 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:33,600 Speaker 1: to marketing and moving product like, the reason all of 828 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:36,239 Speaker 1: this is happening is just so that people are so 829 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:40,840 Speaker 1: confused that they are convinced into doing whatever you know, 830 00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 1: Procter and Gamble wants them to do. There is no 831 00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:45,600 Speaker 1: And by the way, if the government were to step 832 00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:47,480 Speaker 1: into making new food pyramid, you know who that would be, 833 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:48,440 Speaker 1: RFK Junior. 834 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,080 Speaker 2: I know this is why it's not fair. We need 835 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 2: good government. I want government issued meals. 836 00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's literally my number one dream. 837 00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:58,239 Speaker 2: I would I would love that. 838 00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 1: Well, what's interesting about and also is this is a 839 00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,759 Speaker 1: known fact that people say, you know, when they're sort 840 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:09,560 Speaker 1: of debunking the protein craze. In general, Americans on average 841 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,799 Speaker 1: do get enough protein. It's not one of the it's 842 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,719 Speaker 1: not one of the things we need more on average, 843 00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:19,279 Speaker 1: and so it's a strange thing to have so much 844 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,040 Speaker 1: emphasis on it. To me, the reason why I became 845 00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 1: sort of obsessed with protein over the last couple of 846 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,880 Speaker 1: years because I was like, ooh, I'm like experimenting with 847 00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:29,560 Speaker 1: working out more and it's like fun to it's I 848 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:34,239 Speaker 1: want to gain muscle. I never thought of it as 849 00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:37,320 Speaker 1: something I'm doing for my general health. It was always 850 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:38,680 Speaker 1: a vanity thing, you. 851 00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 2: Know, I've heard that the next big craze is going 852 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:43,359 Speaker 2: to be fiber. Yes. 853 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,040 Speaker 1: No, everyone has been saying that, Yeah, it's. 854 00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:50,120 Speaker 2: The thing gay appropriation once again. 855 00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:55,279 Speaker 1: I know, No, I you know I have straight women 856 00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,799 Speaker 1: in my life have borrowed back when I would take 857 00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:00,120 Speaker 1: Pure for Men have borrowed my Pure for Men pill 858 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,759 Speaker 1: because they are apparently because they thought they were better 859 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,600 Speaker 1: than other fiberpills. I do think that's been debunked. Unfortunately. 860 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 1: I think it's the exact same as. 861 00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,839 Speaker 2: Any other thing. Yeah, I'm just taking them meta mucil. Now, 862 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:11,799 Speaker 2: what are you so? 863 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,839 Speaker 1: I have a I don't. I we need to move on. 864 00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:18,759 Speaker 1: But maybe there's no time for us to actually go 865 00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 1: into this. But I'm interested in the process of something 866 00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,880 Speaker 1: normal and conventional becoming a trend, because there are trends 867 00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:33,440 Speaker 1: that are new, unique, updated things Like a trend could be, 868 00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:38,000 Speaker 1: you know, tiny sunglasses. I'm not saying that's new and 869 00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,319 Speaker 1: has just been invented, but that is something that you 870 00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,480 Speaker 1: didn't see as much of before and now you're seeing 871 00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:45,560 Speaker 1: more of. But protein is something that is so classic. 872 00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,200 Speaker 1: It's like seeing the American flag is trending, Like it 873 00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 1: is something that is so classic that it really takes 874 00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:56,000 Speaker 1: a big push to make it into a trend. Yeah, 875 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:57,920 Speaker 1: And I think maybe that's what's straight about it. Like, 876 00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:01,200 Speaker 1: to me, a gay trend has to be niche that 877 00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:03,640 Speaker 1: then enters the mainstream. But as straight trend, it's like 878 00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,080 Speaker 1: the lack of imagination, you have to have to think 879 00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:12,319 Speaker 1: protein is an interesting thing to promote. Yeah, it's very 880 00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:14,400 Speaker 1: like Thursday Nights on NBC. 881 00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 2: Well, in that case, I love it period. 882 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:22,839 Speaker 1: How are you doing okay? Next call? Hi? 883 00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,399 Speaker 5: Sam? Did you ever finish the Shards? 884 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:28,520 Speaker 4: And George, what are you reading? 885 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:36,520 Speaker 2: I did finish The Shards last week, two weeks ago. Uh. 886 00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:41,839 Speaker 2: I really enjoyed it. I felt like it was I 887 00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:45,160 Speaker 2: haven't read like a quote unquote page turner in a while, 888 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,719 Speaker 2: and that one I felt like a little kid again, 889 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:52,359 Speaker 2: kind of glued to the book. And I will say 890 00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:55,480 Speaker 2: it didn't end as satisfyingly as I had hoped, and 891 00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:59,839 Speaker 2: that's all I'll say about that. I loved everything leading 892 00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:00,319 Speaker 2: up to that. 893 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 1: Did it make you want to read more Brett Easton Ellis? 894 00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:03,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? 895 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,960 Speaker 2: I actually did kind of like his vibe. It's my 896 00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:08,680 Speaker 2: first Brett Eastnelli's book, and. 897 00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,319 Speaker 1: It's such a hard one to start with. Because it's like, 898 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:11,640 Speaker 1: I feel like it's his longest. 899 00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:16,120 Speaker 2: It was long as hell, but it hit it was juicy. 900 00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:21,000 Speaker 1: I am actually rereading a book, which I'm ashamed to 901 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:22,080 Speaker 1: say I do very rarely. 902 00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:23,000 Speaker 2: I have very rarely. 903 00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:27,560 Speaker 1: I have this need for newness at all times, even 904 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,080 Speaker 1: though I really think that, you know, much like the 905 00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:32,600 Speaker 1: second sip of a wine is more complex than the 906 00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,400 Speaker 1: first ship. I think the second time you read a 907 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,200 Speaker 1: book often you get way more out of it than 908 00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:40,200 Speaker 1: the first. But I am, no, that's amazing. 909 00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:40,960 Speaker 2: I think that's great. 910 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:45,880 Speaker 1: I am rereading this book called Satn Island by Tom McCarthy. 911 00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:50,319 Speaker 1: It is about it's very like my interest circa twenty 912 00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:53,240 Speaker 1: fifteen when I first picked it up. It's about someone 913 00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:56,239 Speaker 1: who is a corporate anthropologist. So his job is to 914 00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:59,920 Speaker 1: like study human behavior for a company that then you know, 915 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,640 Speaker 1: sells products to them. And he was working on the 916 00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,960 Speaker 1: Great Report, which is basically like a report on the 917 00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:10,839 Speaker 1: behavior of like the entire world. But it's very sort 918 00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,319 Speaker 1: of weird and avant garde and sort of post post 919 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:18,160 Speaker 1: post postmodern. And the reason I was inspired to reread 920 00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:21,200 Speaker 1: it is because, as listeners of the podcast might know, 921 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,759 Speaker 1: I was rereading or I was reading for the first 922 00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 1: time this book of Zadie Smith Essays that contained this 923 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:31,200 Speaker 1: famous essay she wrote that was called like two Directions 924 00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:33,840 Speaker 1: for the novel or something or two ways for the novel, 925 00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:39,959 Speaker 1: And one of them was like sort of a conventional 926 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:43,840 Speaker 1: realist novel with like a bunch of different characters and 927 00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:47,360 Speaker 1: different themes. And then the other one was this super 928 00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:50,000 Speaker 1: weird novel called Remainder by the same author, which I've 929 00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 1: also read and I liked less, and so that inspired 930 00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,239 Speaker 1: me to reread this book. And while we're on the 931 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:56,960 Speaker 1: topic of books, I just want to very quickly say, 932 00:49:56,960 --> 00:50:01,400 Speaker 1: we got another call asking us to recommend books that 933 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:07,480 Speaker 1: are similar to The Secret History, and I guess I 934 00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:11,400 Speaker 1: would say, what about Brideshead Revisited, which is kind of 935 00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 1: the og Secret History. 936 00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:13,680 Speaker 2: Oh, I've never read that. 937 00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:18,640 Speaker 1: And also, if you want a book set in academia, 938 00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:25,360 Speaker 1: I love the book Lucky Jim by Kingsley. Amus. Next call, Next. 939 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:26,680 Speaker 2: Call I Sam and George. 940 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,239 Speaker 6: Last time I called in I mumbled a ton, so 941 00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 6: I'm not going to do that this time. 942 00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:32,720 Speaker 1: Hamy. 943 00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:40,160 Speaker 6: I have a question about miss Charlie Xux. She you know, 944 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:44,240 Speaker 6: had a great brat era, but she's pivoting into acting. 945 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:47,759 Speaker 6: She's like going to be in like twenty movies and 946 00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 6: was on SML. So I want to hear YouTube geniuses 947 00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 6: come up with like what a movie is going to 948 00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:58,280 Speaker 6: win her the oscar? 949 00:50:58,680 --> 00:50:59,960 Speaker 3: Like, what is the campaign? 950 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,719 Speaker 6: What is the role? How are we going to get 951 00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:10,000 Speaker 6: her that little gold Man? Should she be the sexy 952 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:13,560 Speaker 6: step mom in a drama and she has tenants of 953 00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:16,759 Speaker 6: screen time steals the show? Should she fall into a 954 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:22,040 Speaker 6: magical world Narnie style? Should she have Sandra Bullock's role 955 00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:25,960 Speaker 6: in a reboot of Speed where that bus is zooming around? 956 00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:28,120 Speaker 9: Yeah? 957 00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:32,520 Speaker 6: I would love to know your guys, just thoughts. I 958 00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,399 Speaker 6: love you both, fearly love from Alaska. 959 00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:39,279 Speaker 1: Work it out, Wow, work it out out. 960 00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:45,480 Speaker 2: Shout out to Alaska. I like this question because I'm like, 961 00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:52,960 Speaker 2: I feel like Charlie as an actress. The Oscars loves 962 00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 2: someone to play against type, like people love to see 963 00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,520 Speaker 2: like a transformation. So I think she would have to 964 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:04,400 Speaker 2: play like a dowdy mother who was like dealing with 965 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,000 Speaker 2: intergenerational trauma and it's like very and maybe it's even 966 00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:14,600 Speaker 2: in like the Victorian era and like essentially like maybe 967 00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:18,160 Speaker 2: like her son is at war and she's like thinking 968 00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,520 Speaker 2: about him quietly for like two hours, like maybe you 969 00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:22,359 Speaker 2: never even see him. 970 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 1: So I'm sharing my screen with you, which I just remembered. 971 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:29,120 Speaker 1: So you did see me googling Mariah Carey Precious. Oh and. 972 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 2: My browser was blocking it, so I missed it. 973 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,920 Speaker 1: Got it? I wanted to address that in case you 974 00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,600 Speaker 1: had seen it. I was trying to remember what the 975 00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:44,760 Speaker 1: famous like, Okay, well it ended up just googling Mariah 976 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 1: Carey pr and it's now showing me who her publicity 977 00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 1: team is. 978 00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:51,400 Speaker 2: I have been wondering, Yeah, totally. 979 00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:56,880 Speaker 1: You know, recently, some a clip of Precious was randomly 980 00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:59,200 Speaker 1: going viral on my feet and it's the clip where 981 00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,400 Speaker 1: Precious goes to see Mariah Carey, who is playing a 982 00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 1: social worker. Now, of course, you know, there's an argument 983 00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 1: to be made that that movie is evil, and I 984 00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:12,719 Speaker 1: definitely recognize that argument. However, we have to admit that 985 00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,520 Speaker 1: every single woman in that film is giving the performance 986 00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,440 Speaker 1: of her career, and it sucks that it's all in 987 00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:20,920 Speaker 1: the service of this narrative. 988 00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,879 Speaker 2: But it's facts, fully right, You're fully right. 989 00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:28,320 Speaker 1: I mean, Monique, is that is like a generation defining 990 00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:30,880 Speaker 1: If the movie was more well written, that would be 991 00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:32,600 Speaker 1: a generation defining performance. 992 00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:34,759 Speaker 2: Well, literally, what was going on over there? How are 993 00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,040 Speaker 2: they all so? I know that acting over there? 994 00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,840 Speaker 1: No, it's crazy. I mean even Mariah who famously, I 995 00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,600 Speaker 1: mean her one movie flop, she's not you know, you 996 00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:44,439 Speaker 1: wouldn't think of her as someone who has acting range. 997 00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:47,319 Speaker 1: She's doing a great job Paul at Patton anyway. So 998 00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:52,560 Speaker 1: I was trying to think, like, should Charlie do something 999 00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:56,520 Speaker 1: that is sort of Mariah Carey? Im precious You're going 1000 00:53:56,520 --> 00:54:05,280 Speaker 1: more period drama. I'm going more rim like present day 1001 00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:11,080 Speaker 1: set movie in like in London that's about kind of 1002 00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:16,160 Speaker 1: like a working class community in London, and Charlie is 1003 00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,080 Speaker 1: you know, but this has not been filmed yet, and 1004 00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:20,840 Speaker 1: then it would take even longer to come out. So 1005 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm just thinking about her age. She could play a mother, 1006 00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:28,640 Speaker 1: she could play a teacher, she could play honestly, a 1007 00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:32,080 Speaker 1: reporter that is reporting a big story about, you know, 1008 00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,799 Speaker 1: water pollution in the community or something like that. I 1009 00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:39,200 Speaker 1: like that, And then I think, in a completely different direction, 1010 00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:45,120 Speaker 1: I think Charlie could be then you m in James Bond, Well, yes, 1011 00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:48,239 Speaker 1: because I that's fun, because I think both of us 1012 00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,480 Speaker 1: are going very obvious with this question. Which is like, okay, 1013 00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:55,320 Speaker 1: what's an oscary role? But I think and then of course, 1014 00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,279 Speaker 1: the less imaginative thing is being like, okay, well she 1015 00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:00,600 Speaker 1: should play an actress or a pop star, whatever she's 1016 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:03,200 Speaker 1: doing in that movie that she's writing herself. But I 1017 00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:07,600 Speaker 1: think if she were to do a cunty role that 1018 00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:11,359 Speaker 1: isn't someone in an entertainment industry, that would be fun, 1019 00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:15,160 Speaker 1: like a CEO, an editor in chief of a women's magazine, 1020 00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:19,000 Speaker 1: someone who is, you know, a weapons manufacturer. That's why 1021 00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:21,200 Speaker 1: I think being em and James Bond could be a 1022 00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:22,239 Speaker 1: real breakthrough for her. 1023 00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:25,200 Speaker 2: That could be a real breakthrough. Not Oscar worthy, but 1024 00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:27,799 Speaker 2: it would be a breakthrough. It would be fun for sure. 1025 00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:31,000 Speaker 1: Because I think people think people think playing against type 1026 00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:35,200 Speaker 1: for her would mean dressed down, but actually playing against 1027 00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:39,600 Speaker 1: type with her would mean not messy like super type 1028 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:44,040 Speaker 1: A and buttoned up. She plays Margaret Thatcher, Yes, exactly, 1029 00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:50,520 Speaker 1: she should play Margaret that It's called young the Iron 1030 00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:59,839 Speaker 1: Lady too. No more free handouts vibes. That's the full 1031 00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:00,920 Speaker 1: time idle vibes. 1032 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:04,920 Speaker 2: It would be like it would be about Margaret Thatcher, 1033 00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:09,400 Speaker 2: like when she's young, like being wronged by like people 1034 00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:12,760 Speaker 2: getting free stuff, and like it's sort of her villain 1035 00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:13,560 Speaker 2: origin story. 1036 00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:17,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, like there was one maybe she had one experience 1037 00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,480 Speaker 1: where everyone else got free stuff and she didn't. Or 1038 00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:22,800 Speaker 1: it's like everyone was handing out the free government tunics 1039 00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:25,840 Speaker 1: and all the rest of the people's fit and hers 1040 00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,720 Speaker 1: was like too small or too big, and she was like, wow, 1041 00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,320 Speaker 1: I've always thought that a one size fits all approach 1042 00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:33,760 Speaker 1: doesn't work. It turns out no one should have healthcare. 1043 00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:37,280 Speaker 2: I think that could really work. 1044 00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:41,080 Speaker 9: Hey, guys, what are your thoughts on dating someone who's 1045 00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:46,080 Speaker 9: really hot, has good morals, votes, loves you one conditionally, 1046 00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:50,720 Speaker 9: but just is a little bit dumb, Like you regularly 1047 00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:54,400 Speaker 9: get to a world events and history, et cetera. To 1048 00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:57,239 Speaker 9: this person. They have plenty of other skills, but just 1049 00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:00,200 Speaker 9: like general knowledge is not one of them. 1050 00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,560 Speaker 2: Okay, think that feeling when general knowledge is not one 1051 00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:04,200 Speaker 2: of the skills. 1052 00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:06,480 Speaker 1: Damn for general knowledge to not be one of the 1053 00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:12,600 Speaker 1: skills is tough. I also I do want to kind 1054 00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:18,840 Speaker 1: of make a draw a line between intelligence and general knowledge. 1055 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:25,800 Speaker 1: What you're describing is someone being uninformed, which in fact 1056 00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:29,960 Speaker 1: can be fixed and is not difficult. Like I think 1057 00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:32,920 Speaker 1: it can take a couple of years, but you know, 1058 00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:37,240 Speaker 1: you teach this person this is the morning news digest. 1059 00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:40,240 Speaker 1: You should read. These are a couple of books about 1060 00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:44,480 Speaker 1: world history. Maybe let's sit down together. You know, this 1061 00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:46,160 Speaker 1: is sort of like a big oaf of a man. 1062 00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:48,920 Speaker 1: He can barely like swing his limbs around without knocking 1063 00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:52,440 Speaker 1: over a picture of pink lemonade. You sit him down, 1064 00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:56,400 Speaker 1: You say, we're gonna watch the evening news. Yeah, so 1065 00:57:56,560 --> 00:58:00,000 Speaker 1: that to me is fixable. Intelligence is a tough one. 1066 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:03,920 Speaker 2: Well, I was I'm torn on I wish we had 1067 00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:06,360 Speaker 2: an example of the intelligence because right now I'm thinking 1068 00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:11,000 Speaker 2: I'm more on your first statement, where it sounds like 1069 00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:16,120 Speaker 2: he is the total package, except like so he doesn't 1070 00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:18,920 Speaker 2: know like about the Revolutionary War, like and I'm sort 1071 00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:22,120 Speaker 2: of like, like if the other skills are like he 1072 00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 2: knows how to cook, or like he knows how to 1073 00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:28,040 Speaker 2: like he has like a good sense of direction or something. Yeah, 1074 00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:30,920 Speaker 2: Like I'm like that counts too, That counts towards intelligence, 1075 00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:33,920 Speaker 2: Like being able to like win at trivial pursuit is 1076 00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:35,360 Speaker 2: not necessarily intelligence. 1077 00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:37,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're also saying, you know, he has good morals 1078 00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:42,840 Speaker 1: and he votes correctly without having general knowledge. That's emotional intelligence. 1079 00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:44,720 Speaker 2: To know you can't buy that. You can't you can't 1080 00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:45,120 Speaker 2: buy that. 1081 00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:47,560 Speaker 1: Like there are people that have so much general knowledge, 1082 00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:50,200 Speaker 1: too much in fact, and you know they are voting 1083 00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:55,200 Speaker 1: for insane things out there in the world. But I 1084 00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:58,200 Speaker 1: have to say, you know, I must admit that it 1085 00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:02,760 Speaker 1: would bother me if my significant other lacked general knowledge 1086 00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:05,600 Speaker 1: to use your terminology. So I understand where you're coming from, 1087 00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:09,640 Speaker 1: and I think it's something that can be taught. I 1088 00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:11,760 Speaker 1: am a little bit more interested in the question of 1089 00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:16,400 Speaker 1: genuinely if if someone is a little actually dumb, cause 1090 00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:18,880 Speaker 1: that is challenging. 1091 00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:24,640 Speaker 2: It's so specific because it's like how are you dumb? 1092 00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:27,680 Speaker 2: Like there are metrics in which I am dumb, But 1093 00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:32,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, like, I feel like if it's like sort 1094 00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:33,959 Speaker 2: of like if you were to tell me, like, hey, 1095 00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:41,320 Speaker 2: could you like take care of this child? Could you 1096 00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:43,160 Speaker 2: take care of my child for the day? My child 1097 00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:45,640 Speaker 2: is too could you take care of her for the day? 1098 00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:47,080 Speaker 1: You could figure it out. 1099 00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:48,440 Speaker 2: I'd figure it out, but I'd have a lot of 1100 00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:52,960 Speaker 2: questions and it wouldn't come naturally. Uh, And like like 1101 00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:56,120 Speaker 2: even if it was like okay, like, uh, there's a 1102 00:59:56,240 --> 01:00:01,120 Speaker 2: chicken in the fridge and you like my mother is 1103 01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:05,880 Speaker 2: coming over, Can you please prepare it a period? 1104 01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:09,200 Speaker 1: I'd be like, okay, well that is simply just cooking. 1105 01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:12,040 Speaker 1: That is I would say that falls under general knowledge. 1106 01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:15,080 Speaker 2: Well, and I think, yeah, I think I think there's 1107 01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:18,320 Speaker 2: a world in which yeah, I guess. How would you 1108 01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:19,280 Speaker 2: define a little dumb. 1109 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:24,200 Speaker 1: I think a little dumb is, to be honest, I 1110 01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:27,760 Speaker 1: define it as like someone who says something that is 1111 01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:34,280 Speaker 1: completely uninteresting and thinks it's groundbreaking, like I think of this. 1112 01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:37,000 Speaker 1: So this is honestly, I think about it so often 1113 01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:40,840 Speaker 1: when I go home degrease, Like you talk to Greek 1114 01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:43,600 Speaker 1: guys and they will have this like they'll just be like. 1115 01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:47,200 Speaker 10: The thing with men and women is like you have 1116 01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:51,680 Speaker 10: to like women expect you to be romantic, but they 1117 01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:53,720 Speaker 10: don't know how they want you to be a romantic, 1118 01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:55,840 Speaker 10: Like they just think of this thing. It's like, so 1119 01:00:56,160 --> 01:01:01,160 Speaker 10: what you're saying is sort of like a cliche line 1120 01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:03,840 Speaker 10: a guy would say in a movie before the woman 1121 01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:04,920 Speaker 10: broke up with him. 1122 01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:05,600 Speaker 2: Like or. 1123 01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:09,800 Speaker 1: I mean, here's an example. It's like when people have 1124 01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:14,680 Speaker 1: really lukewarm opinions about something like cancel culture and think 1125 01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:20,880 Speaker 1: it's interesting, or when people are really you know, inspired 1126 01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:26,240 Speaker 1: by by the show the newsroom, like just like things, 1127 01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:28,960 Speaker 1: just like your brain is simple and so it is 1128 01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:33,000 Speaker 1: easy to hit the right buttons and make it go off. 1129 01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:35,080 Speaker 2: No, I I now that you're saying that. I know 1130 01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:39,120 Speaker 2: exactly what you mean, and it's it. That is tough. 1131 01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:43,120 Speaker 2: If it's like dumb as in like uninteresting and uninspiring, 1132 01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:46,840 Speaker 2: that is kind of unfortunately they like fantasy of like 1133 01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:50,400 Speaker 2: the dumb guy who's like so sweet and good is 1134 01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:54,040 Speaker 2: like not like it's like if they're like really genuinely 1135 01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:57,120 Speaker 2: dumb like that, like it's kind of it's over for me. 1136 01:01:57,680 --> 01:02:01,840 Speaker 1: And it's also I do get I would get embarrassed, 1137 01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:04,120 Speaker 1: like in social situations, like it's not a nice thing 1138 01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:06,800 Speaker 1: to admit, but like I would hate to be in 1139 01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:12,400 Speaker 1: the position of having to like explain myself for dating 1140 01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:15,240 Speaker 1: someone who is saying dumb things in this company. Yeah 1141 01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:18,480 Speaker 1: I've been in those Yeah, yeah, I've been in those situations. 1142 01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:21,480 Speaker 1: Not with my but I've been I've had friends of 1143 01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:25,400 Speaker 1: mine dates someone who like clearly is a dummy, and 1144 01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:29,040 Speaker 1: everyone this sort of has to like pause when it's 1145 01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:31,360 Speaker 1: their turn to speak and be like share share a 1146 01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:32,240 Speaker 1: little cutie. 1147 01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:34,680 Speaker 2: That is tough. 1148 01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:35,800 Speaker 1: That is really tough. 1149 01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:39,360 Speaker 2: I is there anything that like I was trying to 1150 01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:42,800 Speaker 2: think of, Like this question was make me think about 1151 01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:46,480 Speaker 2: our partners, and I was kind of like like, like, 1152 01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:49,640 Speaker 2: is there any dumbness that you overlook? Because I was 1153 01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:53,160 Speaker 2: thinking about like like Misha is really unaware of like 1154 01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:57,640 Speaker 2: internet culture like at all, and mostly that's like fine, 1155 01:02:57,960 --> 01:02:59,280 Speaker 2: but it will be funny to be like have you 1156 01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:01,560 Speaker 2: heard about this? And he's like no, And it's just 1157 01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:04,240 Speaker 2: sort of that thing where it's like I'm I'm I'm 1158 01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:07,280 Speaker 2: just like it. My role is like always explaining what 1159 01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:08,480 Speaker 2: is on the internet. 1160 01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:12,200 Speaker 1: The thing is because I have also I have that 1161 01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:16,000 Speaker 1: role in various not necessarily with Matthew, but with friendships 1162 01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:19,920 Speaker 1: I have. It's easy to take that as meaning that 1163 01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:23,400 Speaker 1: you are somehow smarter, but in many ways it means 1164 01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:26,120 Speaker 1: you are dumber, you know what I mean. Like it 1165 01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:30,560 Speaker 1: is it's like I mean, it depends, of course what 1166 01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:32,280 Speaker 1: the other person is doing instead of being on the 1167 01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:34,240 Speaker 1: Internet at that time. But it's like I've had to 1168 01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:37,120 Speaker 1: explain stupid Internet things to someone knowing that they are 1169 01:03:37,160 --> 01:03:39,959 Speaker 1: smarter than me and spend their time reading books rather 1170 01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:42,840 Speaker 1: than you know, being online. Okay, I have an answer 1171 01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:46,080 Speaker 1: to what is the dumb things Matthew and I overlook 1172 01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:47,760 Speaker 1: on one another. I hope it doesn't get mad at this. 1173 01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:54,360 Speaker 1: For him, it is a lack of spatial reasoning in 1174 01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:58,040 Speaker 1: the on a small scale, so for example, trying to 1175 01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:00,520 Speaker 1: make a salad in a bowl that's too that's self 1176 01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:03,200 Speaker 1: evidently too small, just being like, yeah, I can definitely 1177 01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:05,920 Speaker 1: dress this salad in like a like a bowl. 1178 01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:08,720 Speaker 2: That's like for Cereal, that's so funny. 1179 01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,520 Speaker 1: And then for me it's actually spatial awareness on a 1180 01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:13,680 Speaker 1: larger scale, which I've talked about before, which is a 1181 01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:16,240 Speaker 1: lack of a sense of direction. Like I really am 1182 01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:18,760 Speaker 1: like a little child when I'm walking around in New 1183 01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:21,720 Speaker 1: York City even though it's a grid, like I just am. 1184 01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:24,960 Speaker 1: I always have a difficult time orienting myself knowing what 1185 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:27,000 Speaker 1: direction I'm going to. And I do think each of 1186 01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:30,400 Speaker 1: us has learned that it's not something the other person's 1187 01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:34,160 Speaker 1: gonna like learn, Yeah, and you just have to like 1188 01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:34,920 Speaker 1: be okay with it. 1189 01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:40,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I definitely have a horrible sense of direction, and 1190 01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:44,200 Speaker 2: I'm mostly I'm like inefficient in many ways in my life, 1191 01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:47,640 Speaker 2: like and I think Misha overlooks that, like where it's 1192 01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:50,080 Speaker 2: like he like cares about efficiency, like in the grocery store. 1193 01:04:50,080 --> 01:04:52,880 Speaker 2: He like has a plan, and I'm like, I'll get 1194 01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:55,240 Speaker 2: it done when I get it done, like it takes 1195 01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:56,480 Speaker 2: I have a different journey. 1196 01:04:56,880 --> 01:05:00,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. God, I'm just thinking that the top of the 1197 01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:05,160 Speaker 1: dumb boyfriend is really uh, there's a lot there. I 1198 01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:10,680 Speaker 1: also want to say, it's interesting that the two kinds 1199 01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:13,880 Speaker 1: of bad boyfriends are almost too dumb and too smart. Yeah, 1200 01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:16,479 Speaker 1: if you sort of think about it, because the too 1201 01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:21,080 Speaker 1: smart one is almost the stereotype of like a man 1202 01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:24,560 Speaker 1: that is so intellectual he becomes a misogynist, like he's 1203 01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:27,880 Speaker 1: so focused on his brain that he doesn't see his 1204 01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:31,280 Speaker 1: girlfriend as a full person yea. And then the dumb 1205 01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:33,400 Speaker 1: one is like so dumb that he doesn't get that 1206 01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:36,960 Speaker 1: he should. Like, it's like the dumb one doesn't buy 1207 01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:40,040 Speaker 1: a birthday gift because he's stupid. The smart one doesn't 1208 01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:42,160 Speaker 1: buy a birthday gift because he has some theory about 1209 01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:45,680 Speaker 1: like physical possessions. But both of them are ultimately not 1210 01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:46,640 Speaker 1: buying a birthday gift. 1211 01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:50,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like a really smart thing you just said. 1212 01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:51,560 Speaker 1: I think. 1213 01:05:57,560 --> 01:06:00,840 Speaker 11: Is sama, George. I did colin earlier about time, but 1214 01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:04,800 Speaker 11: I'm calling back with a different theory about pop girls 1215 01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:07,720 Speaker 11: and I would love for two of the greatest minds 1216 01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,680 Speaker 11: of our generation to weigh in. So my friends and 1217 01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:12,920 Speaker 11: I were at the Chapel Roon show in LA and 1218 01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:16,040 Speaker 11: it got me thinking that I think a big reason 1219 01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:19,600 Speaker 11: that why Chapel got so big so quickly is that 1220 01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:24,440 Speaker 11: she had really strong appeal to the big three demographics 1221 01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:29,480 Speaker 11: of pop girl fandom, so that is straight women, gay guys, 1222 01:06:29,520 --> 01:06:32,520 Speaker 11: and gay women. And I think my friends and I 1223 01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:34,920 Speaker 11: were actually struggling to think of another pop girl that 1224 01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:39,000 Speaker 11: really has all three of these demographics to. 1225 01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:40,280 Speaker 4: The same extent that Chapel has. 1226 01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:42,560 Speaker 11: I think it's common for people to have two of 1227 01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:44,919 Speaker 11: the three, like Dua Lipa as an example. I think 1228 01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:47,400 Speaker 11: straight women and gay guys she has, but I don't 1229 01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:51,120 Speaker 11: think lesbians cared about du Alipa. Lord is one that 1230 01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:53,640 Speaker 11: we were torn on. We were I think Lord actually 1231 01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:56,120 Speaker 11: has had all three over the course of her career, 1232 01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:58,680 Speaker 11: but I don't think she's had all three at the 1233 01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:02,240 Speaker 11: same time. But we were really split on that one. 1234 01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:04,640 Speaker 11: So yeah, I just wanted to get your guys thoughts. 1235 01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:05,200 Speaker 4: Do you agree? 1236 01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:07,760 Speaker 11: Can you think of other pop girls that have all 1237 01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:09,120 Speaker 11: three the way that Chappel does? 1238 01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:10,320 Speaker 3: Well? 1239 01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:12,200 Speaker 11: Love for you guys to win in all right, love 1240 01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:13,040 Speaker 11: you guys bye. 1241 01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:16,960 Speaker 2: I think this is very smart. I really like this call. 1242 01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:21,840 Speaker 2: I think I think the obvious one who has them 1243 01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:26,880 Speaker 2: all is Gaga true. I think you know who did 1244 01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:30,160 Speaker 2: who doesn't anymore. I think Casey Musgraves did with Golden 1245 01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:33,720 Speaker 2: Hour and then doesn't anymore. 1246 01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:36,920 Speaker 1: I have an answer that you're not gonna like, but 1247 01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:40,200 Speaker 1: it is objectively true. Hit me with it, Taylor Swift 1248 01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:45,080 Speaker 1: that it's just like we might not like it, but 1249 01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:47,919 Speaker 1: it is completely true that Taylor Swift has all three 1250 01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:53,600 Speaker 1: and has them bad. Like lesbians literally think she's gay. 1251 01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:56,920 Speaker 1: Straight women think they are her like, they're literally like 1252 01:07:56,960 --> 01:07:58,560 Speaker 1: she is writing these songs for me and we had 1253 01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:01,240 Speaker 1: the same exact experience growing up. And then gay men 1254 01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:03,960 Speaker 1: are of course like completely insane and basically like jumping 1255 01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:07,200 Speaker 1: off of various windows at all times. Yeah, and I 1256 01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:11,840 Speaker 1: just I do actually think it is an underdiscussed part 1257 01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:16,880 Speaker 1: of her story is that sort of despite the fact 1258 01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:19,160 Speaker 1: that she seems like a very specific kind of blonde 1259 01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:24,559 Speaker 1: woman performer, she has this near universal appeal. And of course, 1260 01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:28,320 Speaker 1: the thing with her brand of appeal to straight women 1261 01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:32,840 Speaker 1: is they will even like there's a sort of inoffensive 1262 01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:38,960 Speaker 1: kind of pop culture product that straight women can introduce 1263 01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:42,000 Speaker 1: to their boyfriends and husbands. Yeah, I think it's more 1264 01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:45,759 Speaker 1: challenging for them to introduce, I don't know, even something 1265 01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:49,400 Speaker 1: like Lord to their husbands, whereas I think Taylor Swift 1266 01:08:49,479 --> 01:08:52,800 Speaker 1: it reminds me of how straight men love to joke 1267 01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:55,520 Speaker 1: about how they watch like Love Island with their girlfriends. 1268 01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:56,440 Speaker 2: Uh huh. 1269 01:08:56,479 --> 01:09:01,840 Speaker 1: It's just it's actually like kind of the the barrier 1270 01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:04,160 Speaker 1: entry is low enough that they're able to kind of 1271 01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:08,040 Speaker 1: like hop on and understand it and do it half earnestly, 1272 01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:12,960 Speaker 1: half literally mocking their girlfriends and just sort of get 1273 01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:14,880 Speaker 1: on board. And so I think, honestly, that would be 1274 01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:15,320 Speaker 1: my answer. 1275 01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:17,679 Speaker 2: That's a good one. Beyonce I think has all three. 1276 01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:20,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, Beyonce has all three. 1277 01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:24,040 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of like who's close, Like I 1278 01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:28,599 Speaker 2: think it's interesting. I'm thinking about like Ariana Grande, and 1279 01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,160 Speaker 2: I actually think like doing Wicked is the closest she's 1280 01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:32,599 Speaker 2: gotten to like getting all three. 1281 01:09:33,320 --> 01:09:35,680 Speaker 1: That's true actually, because then it's like the whole her 1282 01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:41,439 Speaker 1: and Cynthia Revac connection and everyone loves her. I mean, 1283 01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:43,719 Speaker 1: does Demi have all three? 1284 01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:45,320 Speaker 2: Demi kind of might have all three. 1285 01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:49,040 Speaker 1: Actually might have all three, and I would even go 1286 01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:52,679 Speaker 1: so far as to say, okay, carry me out. Miley 1287 01:09:52,960 --> 01:09:56,000 Speaker 1: has all three, but it's like the niche. It's like 1288 01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:59,400 Speaker 1: a minority of all three. Yeah, like there are passion 1289 01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,760 Speaker 1: there's a passion memory of lesbian's, passionate minority of gay 1290 01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:03,280 Speaker 1: men and passionate minority of straight women. 1291 01:10:03,520 --> 01:10:05,559 Speaker 2: Yes, but it's not enough. We don't know it. 1292 01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:07,880 Speaker 1: It's not enough. And to be honest, I would even 1293 01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:10,800 Speaker 1: go so far as to say Pink has in her 1294 01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:12,640 Speaker 1: own way all three. It's just not the ones we 1295 01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:16,840 Speaker 1: would interact with. But I think lesbians love pink. 1296 01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:20,280 Speaker 2: Well, we actually got a comment somewhere that was like 1297 01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:20,960 Speaker 2: mad at. 1298 01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:23,639 Speaker 1: Us, that was like that we erased lesbian fandom. 1299 01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:26,360 Speaker 2: No, no, the opposite. They were like, lesbians don't love pink. 1300 01:10:26,479 --> 01:10:29,160 Speaker 2: Don't say that. And I was like, WHOA, Okay. 1301 01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:32,080 Speaker 1: That's interesting. I've known lesbians who love pink. So maybe 1302 01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:37,080 Speaker 1: you get your facts straight, Chica, Yeah, say Sam and George. 1303 01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:40,559 Speaker 11: So, my friends and I were at the Heim show 1304 01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:43,799 Speaker 11: in La a few days ago. We had one observation 1305 01:10:44,120 --> 01:10:48,240 Speaker 11: and one question. So the observation was that we were 1306 01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:52,320 Speaker 11: all really surprised that Alana was actually the main talker 1307 01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:55,240 Speaker 11: in between songs. She was like big bits and telling 1308 01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:58,759 Speaker 11: stories and jokes, whereas we thought that would be SD's 1309 01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:01,240 Speaker 11: role as like the stand up comedia in so they 1310 01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:05,000 Speaker 11: kind of subverted our expectations on that one. And now 1311 01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:07,800 Speaker 11: the question, so we have we wanted to bring back 1312 01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:11,839 Speaker 11: the Heimlich game. We're thinking about other bands with three 1313 01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:18,280 Speaker 11: women and non binary people. So of these three bands, Heim, Muna, 1314 01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:22,439 Speaker 11: and Boy Genius, which one is the Danielle, which one 1315 01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:25,719 Speaker 11: is st and which one is Alana? This might break 1316 01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:28,400 Speaker 11: the game, but we have our ideas of who's who. 1317 01:11:28,400 --> 01:11:30,120 Speaker 11: Would love to hear your take. 1318 01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:32,799 Speaker 5: All right, love you guys. Bye. 1319 01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:35,439 Speaker 2: Okay, First of all, this is the same color of 1320 01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:36,719 Speaker 2: the chapel roone call. 1321 01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:38,559 Speaker 1: Oh no is it? 1322 01:11:38,560 --> 01:11:42,479 Speaker 2: It's yeah? Because she said, like I just called in 1323 01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:44,000 Speaker 2: about him, But I have another question. 1324 01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:45,480 Speaker 1: Oh whiopsis? 1325 01:11:45,640 --> 01:11:54,920 Speaker 2: Well, I mean shout out. I think I think Muna 1326 01:11:54,960 --> 01:11:59,400 Speaker 2: is SD because Muna loves comedy and Muna has a podcast, 1327 01:11:59,479 --> 01:12:04,920 Speaker 2: and Muna has a podcast. I think you know what though, 1328 01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:11,760 Speaker 2: what Heim's vertical video output is nearing st levels? Oh 1329 01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:14,320 Speaker 2: my god, you know what I mean? Not really, but 1330 01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:14,920 Speaker 2: I'm listening. 1331 01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:18,120 Speaker 1: Wait, you don't I feel like I'm all Heim does 1332 01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:21,519 Speaker 1: is do vertical videos that are like various dance challenges 1333 01:12:21,520 --> 01:12:23,599 Speaker 1: and memes, and like they're being so silly and they're 1334 01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:28,000 Speaker 1: always making funny faces together and I almost think they're 1335 01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:33,600 Speaker 1: like outsilly ing Muna, really, is this not like so 1336 01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:34,439 Speaker 1: much of your feed? 1337 01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:35,680 Speaker 2: No, it's not. 1338 01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:39,280 Speaker 1: That's so funny. I'm doing the very unhelpful thing of 1339 01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:41,000 Speaker 1: being like, don't you know, don't you know this? 1340 01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:43,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm looking, I'm looking at their Instagram now 1341 01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:44,320 Speaker 2: is that you're talking? 1342 01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:46,360 Speaker 1: I just feel like it's always some It's always some 1343 01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:48,799 Speaker 1: dance challenge with Jimmy fallon with them. 1344 01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:54,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, legit, like not seeing that on their on 1345 01:12:54,960 --> 01:12:55,599 Speaker 2: their ig. 1346 01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:58,960 Speaker 1: That is shocking to me. To me, I mean, listen, 1347 01:12:59,040 --> 01:13:01,839 Speaker 1: maybe they maybe they've regretted their choices and have deleted 1348 01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:06,439 Speaker 1: the videos. To me, when I when I envisioned Heim, okay, 1349 01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:09,280 Speaker 1: time to me the music aside, because I like the 1350 01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:14,080 Speaker 1: music of all three bands. Iim is doing a vertical 1351 01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:16,960 Speaker 1: video dance that ends in them doing a funny face. 1352 01:13:17,320 --> 01:13:20,400 Speaker 1: Muna is they have a podcast and their guest is 1353 01:13:20,439 --> 01:13:27,400 Speaker 1: Caleb Herron and boy Genius is they're randomly dating one another. Yeah, 1354 01:13:28,520 --> 01:13:31,599 Speaker 1: boy Genius is like the two It's like Lucy and 1355 01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:36,479 Speaker 1: uh Julian are dating and then Phoebe Bridgers is dating 1356 01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:39,240 Speaker 1: you know, Harris Dick consider or something. 1357 01:13:39,479 --> 01:13:42,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean I think we have to at 1358 01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:45,160 Speaker 2: least agree that boy Genius is Danielle. 1359 01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:47,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. 1360 01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:52,960 Speaker 2: And so the question is Alana or Muna is wait? 1361 01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:57,400 Speaker 1: Sorry, Alana arresty. Well, I do think in a sense, 1362 01:13:57,560 --> 01:14:02,840 Speaker 1: Muna is a Lana because they're like younger coded hmm, 1363 01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:09,000 Speaker 1: that's true, and more like they're like care free and 1364 01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:14,800 Speaker 1: uh music, you know, like soundtrack soundtrack to like a 1365 01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:19,120 Speaker 1: cool movie. Sure, sure, sure, but then that would make 1366 01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:25,240 Speaker 1: I'm esty. I'm telling you. Heim is going Esti mode. 1367 01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:28,640 Speaker 2: Okay, So him is Esti I'm okay. I mean I 1368 01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:31,560 Speaker 2: see what you mean. Like they're they're silly. They're like 1369 01:14:31,560 --> 01:14:36,559 Speaker 2: like Muna likes comedy, but like in a sort of 1370 01:14:36,600 --> 01:14:38,120 Speaker 2: prestige way, like. 1371 01:14:38,040 --> 01:14:40,599 Speaker 1: They like part of the comedy community. Muna is part 1372 01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:43,320 Speaker 1: of the comedy community, right, Like they've been accepted into 1373 01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:44,600 Speaker 1: the comedy community. 1374 01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:52,400 Speaker 2: Right, whereas Heime is doing comedy like like Estie would. 1375 01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:57,120 Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, I'm sorry, Sam. Go to Heim's Instagram and 1376 01:14:57,160 --> 01:15:00,120 Speaker 1: go on the reels. Tab you are gaslaighting me boots, 1377 01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:01,439 Speaker 1: well the reel and. 1378 01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:03,479 Speaker 3: They're not. 1379 01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:06,960 Speaker 1: Go to the reels, tap and tell me what you're seeing. 1380 01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:14,479 Speaker 1: Is every single one of them not a dance challenge. 1381 01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:27,720 Speaker 2: They're literally not. They're making videos, but they're I'm I'm 1382 01:15:27,760 --> 01:15:31,439 Speaker 2: not seeing any I'm okay, here's a dance challenge after 1383 01:15:31,479 --> 01:15:36,639 Speaker 2: I've scrolled. Okay, the first one's dance challenge. Okay, the 1384 01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:44,519 Speaker 2: fourth ones a dance challenge. I mean, they exist. I'm 1385 01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:47,360 Speaker 2: just saying it's not it's not as prominent as what 1386 01:15:47,479 --> 01:15:48,599 Speaker 2: you were saying. 1387 01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:52,960 Speaker 1: Okay, let's well, I'm looking at the rest of these. 1388 01:15:53,880 --> 01:15:56,160 Speaker 1: I'm loving. First of all, I love the question we 1389 01:15:56,240 --> 01:15:58,679 Speaker 1: got that was just dew. We like penises. I would 1390 01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:00,160 Speaker 1: say for me, it's a yes. 1391 01:16:00,360 --> 01:16:01,280 Speaker 2: It's a yes for me. 1392 01:16:03,360 --> 01:16:06,200 Speaker 1: I like the question. You know, we get this one 1393 01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:07,600 Speaker 1: a lot, which is what do you do if you 1394 01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:10,960 Speaker 1: hate your job? Yeah, we have answered it a lot 1395 01:16:10,960 --> 01:16:12,800 Speaker 1: in the past that I'm afraid that we don't have 1396 01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:14,960 Speaker 1: any new insights in that vein. 1397 01:16:15,600 --> 01:16:19,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, but listen to him's new album, but I quit. 1398 01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:22,720 Speaker 1: Listen to him's album. Might quit. Someone called about the 1399 01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:28,800 Speaker 1: content versus context binary, which I wanna this is maybe 1400 01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:30,640 Speaker 1: not the time for it, but I'm it's like one 1401 01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:33,400 Speaker 1: of my favorite things we've talked about is that we 1402 01:16:33,439 --> 01:16:35,880 Speaker 1: are going from an era of content to an era 1403 01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:40,679 Speaker 1: of context. Like what's more valuable now is not more content, 1404 01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:43,439 Speaker 1: it's more context because there's so much content out there 1405 01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:46,000 Speaker 1: that the person that's actually offering something new as a 1406 01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:50,600 Speaker 1: person who's able to recontextualize it. So that's fun, but 1407 01:16:50,680 --> 01:16:51,120 Speaker 1: it does. 1408 01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:55,240 Speaker 2: Get complicated when contextualization becomes content becomes content. 1409 01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:58,120 Speaker 1: That's the thing because then if you're, for example, if 1410 01:16:58,160 --> 01:17:02,920 Speaker 1: you are doing a let's say you're releasing a voter 1411 01:17:03,040 --> 01:17:06,760 Speaker 1: guide or let's say you're releasing a breakdown of a 1412 01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:09,840 Speaker 1: recent US story, you have to ask yourself, are you 1413 01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:13,759 Speaker 1: actually providing context or are you just creating content. 1414 01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:17,840 Speaker 2: My least favorite context is people that are like, did 1415 01:17:17,880 --> 01:17:20,599 Speaker 2: you know that in two thousand and three this happened 1416 01:17:20,600 --> 01:17:24,840 Speaker 2: and it caused this. I'm like okay, Like I'm sort 1417 01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:27,479 Speaker 2: of like, yeah, we can all pull like random things 1418 01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:31,400 Speaker 2: that have happened, Like what is the broader arc that 1419 01:17:31,439 --> 01:17:33,599 Speaker 2: you're trying to write, Like, is this like a six 1420 01:17:33,680 --> 01:17:36,559 Speaker 2: week course on like yeah, two thousand and three, or 1421 01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:38,760 Speaker 2: are you just like saying, like, isn't it crazy that 1422 01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:39,719 Speaker 2: this boat crashed? 1423 01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:42,599 Speaker 1: I know, well, what you're talking about also is very 1424 01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:51,200 Speaker 1: like the There's been a huge increase in celebrating anniversaries 1425 01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:54,519 Speaker 1: of pop culture events. It's always like today, Mark's the 1426 01:17:54,600 --> 01:17:58,639 Speaker 1: seventeenth anniversary of Demita Joe. I'm like, I love Dmia Joe, 1427 01:17:58,640 --> 01:18:00,000 Speaker 1: but I actually don't need to know about the seven 1428 01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:00,960 Speaker 1: teenth anniversary. 1429 01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:04,000 Speaker 2: That is unfortunately one of my favorite things. 1430 01:18:04,120 --> 01:18:04,760 Speaker 1: Where they're like. 1431 01:18:05,080 --> 01:18:09,120 Speaker 2: Twenty second anniversary of Blank Yeah, and I'm like, damn slow. 1432 01:18:08,920 --> 01:18:11,760 Speaker 1: News dash And I know that it's also like sort 1433 01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:14,920 Speaker 1: of like they're doing it because they want people to 1434 01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:15,639 Speaker 1: make fun of them. 1435 01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:17,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1436 01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:21,479 Speaker 1: Very quickly. People have been really asking your thoughts on 1437 01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:24,960 Speaker 1: Tyra Banks releasing hot ice cream, which is something you've 1438 01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:27,120 Speaker 1: always wished what happened? 1439 01:18:27,360 --> 01:18:30,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I've always I thought ice cream was far 1440 01:18:30,840 --> 01:18:34,000 Speaker 2: too cold. This is a known opinion of mine, and 1441 01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:36,280 Speaker 2: I stand by it. That being said, do I want 1442 01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:39,000 Speaker 2: to be hot? Not necessarily. I've always said I want 1443 01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:43,560 Speaker 2: lukewarm ice cream that it still has its texture. 1444 01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:47,080 Speaker 1: So you don't want like a crembulet or like a. 1445 01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:51,880 Speaker 2: God No, if anything, the closest thing that I want 1446 01:18:52,200 --> 01:18:54,559 Speaker 2: is a soft cookie. Like a soft cookie to me, 1447 01:18:54,640 --> 01:18:56,920 Speaker 2: is the closest thing we have to warm ice cream. 1448 01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:59,759 Speaker 2: I see, I see, And. 1449 01:18:59,680 --> 01:19:02,720 Speaker 1: So don't you don't like like a panacatta or like 1450 01:19:02,760 --> 01:19:08,840 Speaker 1: a custardy dessert. I mean cheesecake. Okay, cheese cake, I 1451 01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:11,599 Speaker 1: would say, is pretty close to room temperature ice cream. 1452 01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:16,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's you know, You're right, You're right, it's close, 1453 01:19:16,320 --> 01:19:19,920 Speaker 2: but it's not exactly on the nose. And I don't 1454 01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:21,880 Speaker 2: know what science she's cooking up. I have not like 1455 01:19:22,000 --> 01:19:25,040 Speaker 2: watched the full video, even though people have sent it 1456 01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:28,120 Speaker 2: to me. I was just like, I don't want to support, oh, 1457 01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:29,599 Speaker 2: someone losing their mind. 1458 01:19:29,880 --> 01:19:33,479 Speaker 1: Yeah. You know, there's a whole genre of things people 1459 01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:36,840 Speaker 1: send to us that we just never address, and this 1460 01:19:36,960 --> 01:19:41,000 Speaker 1: is one of them. And I actually think that's I 1461 01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:43,080 Speaker 1: think there's a way to drive yourself crazy where you're 1462 01:19:43,120 --> 01:19:45,080 Speaker 1: like interacting with something like that and constantly being like 1463 01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:48,680 Speaker 1: stop sending please, we've seen it, and then you it 1464 01:19:48,840 --> 01:19:52,160 Speaker 1: like makes you drive yourself crazy. Honestly, one thing like that, 1465 01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:53,920 Speaker 1: And I want to say this publicly because we've never 1466 01:19:53,920 --> 01:19:55,519 Speaker 1: addressed this. The meme. 1467 01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:56,280 Speaker 2: Address it. 1468 01:19:57,000 --> 01:20:00,400 Speaker 1: The meme where there are two doors once they one 1469 01:20:00,439 --> 01:20:02,880 Speaker 1: says top a twink, and the other one says stop 1470 01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:05,639 Speaker 1: and think, and there are a lot of people lined 1471 01:20:05,720 --> 01:20:08,639 Speaker 1: up behind the door that says top a twink. Okay, 1472 01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:12,040 Speaker 1: So this is sent to us once a day. It 1473 01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:16,680 Speaker 1: has been happening for pretty much five years. Yeah, and 1474 01:20:16,760 --> 01:20:19,479 Speaker 1: I just want to say, all of we've seen it. 1475 01:20:21,400 --> 01:20:24,880 Speaker 1: You don't understand the frequency with which it is sent 1476 01:20:24,920 --> 01:20:27,240 Speaker 1: to us. This is something that is reposted by meme 1477 01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:30,679 Speaker 1: accounts daily, like it is something that has existed out there. 1478 01:20:30,920 --> 01:20:34,479 Speaker 1: Every day, someone discovers it and sends it and says, oh, 1479 01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:36,240 Speaker 1: there's a straight shooter if I've ever heard one. 1480 01:20:36,920 --> 01:20:40,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, they do do that, and we appreciate support. But 1481 01:20:40,600 --> 01:20:41,320 Speaker 2: we have seen it. 1482 01:20:41,800 --> 01:20:45,280 Speaker 1: We have seen it, and we think it's high hilarious. 1483 01:20:47,200 --> 01:20:49,639 Speaker 2: As we're wrapping up, I'm like, yes, what's your mood 1484 01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:50,360 Speaker 2: like right now? 1485 01:20:51,280 --> 01:20:53,680 Speaker 1: It's not good, But it has nothing to do with 1486 01:20:53,880 --> 01:20:56,000 Speaker 1: you or this recording. It has to do with like 1487 01:20:56,360 --> 01:20:57,360 Speaker 1: me being in a bad mood. 1488 01:20:57,479 --> 01:21:01,840 Speaker 2: How is your mood the same? I guess. I was like, sometimes, 1489 01:21:01,880 --> 01:21:04,000 Speaker 2: if I'm being honest, when we do these and we 1490 01:21:04,160 --> 01:21:07,280 Speaker 2: both start in bad moods, we end in amazing moods. 1491 01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:09,800 Speaker 2: And I was like kind of hoping for that, like 1492 01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:16,720 Speaker 2: take off, I know, but we will push through. And 1493 01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:20,439 Speaker 2: I'm coming to New York next week. We're going to 1494 01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:22,479 Speaker 2: start and then you're coming to LA. We're gonna do 1495 01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:23,880 Speaker 2: a lot of amazing records. 1496 01:21:24,200 --> 01:21:27,040 Speaker 1: I'm trying to pull up our straighter lab email because 1497 01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:29,679 Speaker 1: there were some written ones, and of course my internet 1498 01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:30,559 Speaker 1: is like not loading. 1499 01:21:30,680 --> 01:21:34,760 Speaker 2: Oh I can do that. This one is from Toronto. 1500 01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:35,720 Speaker 1: We can. 1501 01:21:35,840 --> 01:21:37,960 Speaker 2: I can just read it out loud, me to side, Okay. 1502 01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:41,080 Speaker 2: I'm taking trans vocal lessons and in these classes usually 1503 01:21:41,120 --> 01:21:43,080 Speaker 2: your first assignment is to find out who your voice 1504 01:21:43,080 --> 01:21:46,599 Speaker 2: inspiration is a celebrity or a podcaster whose tone rasp 1505 01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:50,000 Speaker 2: intonation you like to work towards your men? Who's your 1506 01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:53,720 Speaker 2: vocal inspiration or if you were to transition mask or 1507 01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:55,320 Speaker 2: fem you pick who would it be. 1508 01:21:56,680 --> 01:21:57,720 Speaker 1: Oh that's a good one. 1509 01:21:57,760 --> 01:21:58,559 Speaker 2: That is a good question. 1510 01:21:59,080 --> 01:22:02,000 Speaker 1: What is yours? This is a fun one to end on. 1511 01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:05,960 Speaker 2: Well, this is an interesting one as especially considering our 1512 01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:13,120 Speaker 2: voices are our jobs for this podcast currently. And I 1513 01:22:13,160 --> 01:22:15,640 Speaker 2: think it's weird because I've never considered my voice to 1514 01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:19,960 Speaker 2: be particularly good like I have, Like when I was 1515 01:22:19,960 --> 01:22:22,160 Speaker 2: a kid, I went to like speech therapy because I have, 1516 01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:25,680 Speaker 2: like a something in my nasal path is weird that 1517 01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:27,760 Speaker 2: makes my voice sound nasally, so I had to like 1518 01:22:28,400 --> 01:22:31,200 Speaker 2: go to speech therapy to like it' stop talking like 1519 01:22:31,479 --> 01:22:35,920 Speaker 2: this and and so I'm like, I even feel like 1520 01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:38,120 Speaker 2: what I do already is put on, but I don't 1521 01:22:38,160 --> 01:22:42,840 Speaker 2: know how. I think it's sort of like a I 1522 01:22:42,880 --> 01:22:47,160 Speaker 2: also think you have a potentially interesting answer similar because 1523 01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:49,479 Speaker 2: I had, like, because I moved around to different regions 1524 01:22:49,479 --> 01:22:53,720 Speaker 2: of the US, I never like got one accent. Like 1525 01:22:53,920 --> 01:22:55,280 Speaker 2: there was a point when I was in Midwest long 1526 01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:57,120 Speaker 2: enough where I got a Midwestern accent, but then I 1527 01:22:57,160 --> 01:22:59,639 Speaker 2: moved and but I never picked up like a Southern accent. 1528 01:23:00,200 --> 01:23:03,400 Speaker 2: So I'm just like this sort of vague, but I 1529 01:23:03,439 --> 01:23:06,320 Speaker 2: don't know what my voice fantasy would be. 1530 01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:10,920 Speaker 1: Do you have one? I know it's I don't. I 1531 01:23:11,040 --> 01:23:13,880 Speaker 1: The dream, of course, is like a neutral voice that 1532 01:23:13,960 --> 01:23:17,800 Speaker 1: only sounds slightly sophisticated, because you don't because it's so 1533 01:23:17,840 --> 01:23:21,400 Speaker 1: easy to sound either quote too gay or too like pretentious, 1534 01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:26,600 Speaker 1: like there is just anytime you're expressing an opinion in 1535 01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:33,080 Speaker 1: an audio mode, it's easy to become obnoxious or sound condescending, 1536 01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:37,360 Speaker 1: or sound like you're way too sure of yourself. This 1537 01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:40,400 Speaker 1: is I m'd say it's a humiliating thing. But I 1538 01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:42,560 Speaker 1: think that because both of us have listened to this 1539 01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:45,759 Speaker 1: slave culture gap fest semi ironically for the last ten years, 1540 01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:50,080 Speaker 1: I do think often I will emulate Stephen Metcalf's vocal patterns. 1541 01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:54,000 Speaker 2: Oh interesting, or at least attempt to. 1542 01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:59,320 Speaker 1: I would say that it would be really nice for 1543 01:23:59,360 --> 01:24:02,080 Speaker 1: me to have a vote goal, because what ends up 1544 01:24:02,120 --> 01:24:04,240 Speaker 1: happening with me is there are so many people that 1545 01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:07,800 Speaker 1: don't want to sound like that. I'm constantly having to 1546 01:24:08,040 --> 01:24:12,519 Speaker 1: find my I'm constantly finding myself going a little too 1547 01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:14,280 Speaker 1: far in a direction I don't want to and then 1548 01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:16,559 Speaker 1: bringing it back such that I end up having an 1549 01:24:16,560 --> 01:24:20,360 Speaker 1: almost monotone, boring voice because I don't want to sound 1550 01:24:20,400 --> 01:24:24,680 Speaker 1: like too much like one or other person. And so 1551 01:24:26,240 --> 01:24:30,280 Speaker 1: this is definitely true and stand up. Yeah, Like, there 1552 01:24:30,320 --> 01:24:33,400 Speaker 1: are just certain other gay comedians that it is easy 1553 01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:35,840 Speaker 1: to emulate if you allow yourself. I think for straight people, 1554 01:24:36,200 --> 01:24:38,120 Speaker 1: so many of them fall into John Mulaney, so many 1555 01:24:38,120 --> 01:24:41,559 Speaker 1: of them fall into Luis c. K, so many of 1556 01:24:41,560 --> 01:24:49,760 Speaker 1: them fall into like like Bill Burr, like it's it's 1557 01:24:50,600 --> 01:24:53,680 Speaker 1: such a thing, or even like a lot of old 1558 01:24:53,720 --> 01:24:58,600 Speaker 1: comedians will fall into Maria Bamford. Yeah. Yeah, so so 1559 01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:00,599 Speaker 1: it would be nice. It would be nice to have 1560 01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:06,120 Speaker 1: a vocal a vocal goal. Okay, I'll say this. 1561 01:25:06,000 --> 01:25:11,040 Speaker 2: Is okay, here we go, let's hear it. I can't wait. 1562 01:25:11,360 --> 01:25:12,679 Speaker 1: Wait, did you have something you wanted to say? 1563 01:25:12,680 --> 01:25:15,240 Speaker 2: Well, I was gonna say that. Ever since I've moved 1564 01:25:15,280 --> 01:25:16,760 Speaker 2: to LA and of course I've been listening to How 1565 01:25:16,760 --> 01:25:19,840 Speaker 2: Long Gone constantly, I do find myself butchering it up 1566 01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:23,640 Speaker 2: a little bit more. Really, yeah, I hear myself like 1567 01:25:23,960 --> 01:25:28,400 Speaker 2: say more mask things that are like like I have 1568 01:25:28,520 --> 01:25:31,960 Speaker 2: like a little cadence of like slightly butcher. 1569 01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:34,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, like like like. 1570 01:25:35,400 --> 01:25:37,560 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of like it was hard to 1571 01:25:37,600 --> 01:25:41,400 Speaker 2: think of an example, but I do find myself like 1572 01:25:41,439 --> 01:25:44,080 Speaker 2: almost like it's sort of like a you're gonna want 1573 01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:47,320 Speaker 2: to go ahead and do that like that type of thing. Yeah, 1574 01:25:47,360 --> 01:25:49,880 Speaker 2: where it's it's not fully like I'm not pretending to 1575 01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:52,120 Speaker 2: be straight, but it is like a little bit of 1576 01:25:52,120 --> 01:25:54,880 Speaker 2: a straight eye cadence that I've picked up from listening 1577 01:25:54,880 --> 01:25:55,200 Speaker 2: to them. 1578 01:25:55,680 --> 01:25:57,200 Speaker 1: Do you listen to Doom Scroll? 1579 01:25:57,640 --> 01:25:57,720 Speaker 2: No? 1580 01:25:58,600 --> 01:26:02,479 Speaker 1: So it's the it's a it's an interview show. The 1581 01:26:02,479 --> 01:26:04,680 Speaker 1: host name is Joshua Ciderella. He like used to be 1582 01:26:04,720 --> 01:26:06,800 Speaker 1: an artist or maybe sell identify an artists I know, 1583 01:26:06,840 --> 01:26:10,200 Speaker 1: but is also does this podcast. He's had good people. 1584 01:26:10,240 --> 01:26:12,320 Speaker 1: Actually Grimes was just randomly just on it this way. 1585 01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:16,360 Speaker 1: But he has what I would describe as like a 1586 01:26:16,560 --> 01:26:21,160 Speaker 1: truly like neutral male voice. It's like not too mask 1587 01:26:21,400 --> 01:26:28,160 Speaker 1: and not too gay, and I almost think that's like 1588 01:26:28,240 --> 01:26:31,080 Speaker 1: best case scenario. And I think, honestly, and I'm sorry, 1589 01:26:31,120 --> 01:26:33,799 Speaker 1: if he's listening, it makes him sound a little less 1590 01:26:35,120 --> 01:26:37,599 Speaker 1: confident in what he's saying in a little and even 1591 01:26:37,640 --> 01:26:41,280 Speaker 1: sometimes a little less smart because he isn't like doming 1592 01:26:41,439 --> 01:26:44,640 Speaker 1: the interviewee, which I think is nice. It's nice to 1593 01:26:44,680 --> 01:26:49,879 Speaker 1: have a sense of curiosity and not immediately know exactly 1594 01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:52,720 Speaker 1: what you want to say. And it's almost like the 1595 01:26:52,800 --> 01:26:56,360 Speaker 1: less harmful, the less harmful version of like THEO Vaughn 1596 01:26:56,439 --> 01:26:58,160 Speaker 1: doing that but being like a complete moron. 1597 01:26:58,560 --> 01:27:01,320 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. 1598 01:27:01,400 --> 01:27:05,559 Speaker 1: So I guess that would be one of my vocal 1599 01:27:06,360 --> 01:27:07,640 Speaker 1: vocal role models. 1600 01:27:08,080 --> 01:27:10,439 Speaker 2: I definitely also when we started this podcast, I remember 1601 01:27:10,520 --> 01:27:13,080 Speaker 2: being like that being more of a pressing issue of 1602 01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:15,400 Speaker 2: being like how do we want to sound? 1603 01:27:15,720 --> 01:27:17,559 Speaker 1: I know, but then you just sort of like find 1604 01:27:17,600 --> 01:27:18,439 Speaker 1: all into a pattern. 1605 01:27:18,600 --> 01:27:21,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it was like I remember like always joking 1606 01:27:21,560 --> 01:27:24,360 Speaker 2: at the beginning and being like, we're being Mark Mayeron, 1607 01:27:24,400 --> 01:27:26,320 Speaker 2: We're being Pete Holmes, We're being. 1608 01:27:26,160 --> 01:27:32,560 Speaker 1: I know, we were so self aware parentheses derogatory sometimes 1609 01:27:32,600 --> 01:27:35,240 Speaker 1: like there was just I was so petrified of coming 1610 01:27:35,280 --> 01:27:40,920 Speaker 1: across as either stupid or unoriginal or whatever. And you 1611 01:27:41,040 --> 01:27:45,599 Speaker 1: just gotta gotta have faith that like on average, you're 1612 01:27:45,640 --> 01:27:47,439 Speaker 1: occasionally saying some insightful things. 1613 01:27:48,960 --> 01:27:51,960 Speaker 2: God. I also just. 1614 01:27:51,880 --> 01:27:54,320 Speaker 1: Want to say, just because this color is talking about transitioning, 1615 01:27:54,560 --> 01:27:59,200 Speaker 1: we get a lot of calls from callers who are transitioning. 1616 01:27:59,200 --> 01:28:01,439 Speaker 1: I will say it. And we had another one that 1617 01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:05,520 Speaker 1: was a trans guy that is wondering if he should, 1618 01:28:06,240 --> 01:28:08,920 Speaker 1: like he's a gay trans guy, and he's wondering if 1619 01:28:08,920 --> 01:28:13,120 Speaker 1: he needs to abandon indie rock because he needs to 1620 01:28:13,160 --> 01:28:15,600 Speaker 1: get into pop girlies because he's a gay guy. And 1621 01:28:15,640 --> 01:28:19,120 Speaker 1: I just want to say, no, you should. It's cool 1622 01:28:19,200 --> 01:28:21,479 Speaker 1: to like being a gay guy who likes indie rock. 1623 01:28:21,600 --> 01:28:24,080 Speaker 1: I think is honestly one of the most ethical things 1624 01:28:24,080 --> 01:28:25,280 Speaker 1: you can be at this moment in time. 1625 01:28:25,400 --> 01:28:26,680 Speaker 2: I completely disagree. 1626 01:28:26,920 --> 01:28:29,480 Speaker 1: Wow, really. 1627 01:28:30,640 --> 01:28:34,280 Speaker 2: I think you have to like let go of indie 1628 01:28:34,360 --> 01:28:38,840 Speaker 2: rock for like five years and like be the dumb 1629 01:28:38,960 --> 01:28:41,800 Speaker 2: gay guy you've heard about in the stories, and then 1630 01:28:42,000 --> 01:28:45,000 Speaker 2: you have to find your way back home like once 1631 01:28:45,040 --> 01:28:48,840 Speaker 2: you've fully immersed yourself. Yeah, I think it like hits 1632 01:28:48,840 --> 01:28:51,360 Speaker 2: harder when you like let go of the wall and 1633 01:28:51,439 --> 01:28:54,760 Speaker 2: are sort of like you'll never forget the indie rock 1634 01:28:54,800 --> 01:28:56,800 Speaker 2: and you can always you can always revisit and it 1635 01:28:56,880 --> 01:29:00,000 Speaker 2: will come back around. But to make the full commitment 1636 01:29:00,280 --> 01:29:04,839 Speaker 2: to the like and also just like you'll find yourself 1637 01:29:04,920 --> 01:29:08,680 Speaker 2: being like well to have a conversation with these like 1638 01:29:09,240 --> 01:29:11,519 Speaker 2: random gig guys I just met, I do actually need 1639 01:29:11,560 --> 01:29:15,759 Speaker 2: to know like what Sabrina Carpenter's fifth album was about, 1640 01:29:16,479 --> 01:29:19,360 Speaker 2: like rather than the one before, Short and Sweet, like, 1641 01:29:19,600 --> 01:29:23,240 Speaker 2: and so you find yourself like becoming encyclopedic about that, 1642 01:29:23,560 --> 01:29:27,000 Speaker 2: and I think it's a helpful tool. And then one 1643 01:29:27,040 --> 01:29:29,639 Speaker 2: day you'll you know, you'll go back home. 1644 01:29:30,200 --> 01:29:34,280 Speaker 1: Do you find yourself having constant conversations about pop stars 1645 01:29:34,960 --> 01:29:39,519 Speaker 1: outside of this podcast? Literally yes, Okay, because I don't, 1646 01:29:39,720 --> 01:29:43,120 Speaker 1: and it's it's actually always like, actually, something I've really 1647 01:29:43,160 --> 01:29:48,400 Speaker 1: like appreciated and enjoyed about our time together is that, 1648 01:29:48,479 --> 01:29:50,720 Speaker 1: like I because I know it's something we're going to 1649 01:29:50,800 --> 01:29:54,400 Speaker 1: talk about I'm becoming more informed, but I don't feel 1650 01:29:54,400 --> 01:29:56,120 Speaker 1: like with the other gay en in my life, that's 1651 01:29:56,160 --> 01:29:57,360 Speaker 1: like one of the main topics. 1652 01:29:57,800 --> 01:30:01,519 Speaker 2: It's kind of like like drag Race, where of like 1653 01:30:01,840 --> 01:30:04,120 Speaker 2: at this point, I watch it in the same way 1654 01:30:04,120 --> 01:30:06,679 Speaker 2: that like I think many straight men watch sports, where 1655 01:30:06,680 --> 01:30:08,080 Speaker 2: it's like I just need to be able to have 1656 01:30:08,120 --> 01:30:10,439 Speaker 2: a conversation with like the gig guy I just met. 1657 01:30:12,400 --> 01:30:15,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. That's true. Well, oh and by the way, 1658 01:30:16,080 --> 01:30:19,280 Speaker 1: another thing we keep getting calls about is our thoughts 1659 01:30:19,320 --> 01:30:23,600 Speaker 1: on marriage and open relationships, and I'm kind of like, hmmm. 1660 01:30:24,080 --> 01:30:33,400 Speaker 2: No, yeah, and mostly I have to agree. 1661 01:30:34,040 --> 01:30:39,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's pretty much it. I enjoyed the question 1662 01:30:39,439 --> 01:30:42,879 Speaker 1: that asked us if you got paid seven thousand dollars 1663 01:30:42,920 --> 01:30:46,559 Speaker 1: every time you gave Zach Braf a concussion, how many 1664 01:30:46,560 --> 01:30:48,240 Speaker 1: concussions would you give him. 1665 01:30:48,960 --> 01:30:51,479 Speaker 2: Enough concussions to have three million dollars? 1666 01:30:51,720 --> 01:30:54,800 Speaker 1: That's right, and rest in power, Zach Braf. 1667 01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:59,360 Speaker 2: Not because I particularly hate him. It's just a cruel, 1668 01:30:59,439 --> 01:31:01,840 Speaker 2: cruel world we live in, and of all the ways 1669 01:31:01,880 --> 01:31:04,080 Speaker 2: to make three million dollars, that's almost more ethical. 1670 01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:06,960 Speaker 1: It is a little bit like you would harm fewer 1671 01:31:07,200 --> 01:31:10,519 Speaker 1: people literally you would only in fact harm Zach Braff, 1672 01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:13,519 Speaker 1: who's had a pretty long, in full life, full career. 1673 01:31:13,560 --> 01:31:14,720 Speaker 1: He got to Dave Florence Pew. 1674 01:31:15,280 --> 01:31:16,080 Speaker 2: That must have been fun. 1675 01:31:16,479 --> 01:31:17,920 Speaker 1: That must have been great. Not a lot of people 1676 01:31:17,960 --> 01:31:19,840 Speaker 1: can say that. No, he was in a hit show. 1677 01:31:20,360 --> 01:31:23,760 Speaker 1: He got to literally become an indie Darling filmmaker. 1678 01:31:23,200 --> 01:31:26,320 Speaker 2: For a while. He pretty much invented the shins. 1679 01:31:26,560 --> 01:31:28,800 Speaker 1: He invented the shins and invented the idea of a 1680 01:31:28,840 --> 01:31:32,840 Speaker 1: manic Dixie dream girl. There's enough. If Zach Braff died 1681 01:31:33,080 --> 01:31:36,680 Speaker 1: of thirty five million concussions tomorrow, there would be so 1682 01:31:36,760 --> 01:31:37,639 Speaker 1: much in his oh bit. 1683 01:31:38,040 --> 01:31:40,880 Speaker 2: People would be and people it honestly would be good 1684 01:31:40,880 --> 01:31:44,200 Speaker 2: for his career because he could be like like that. 1685 01:31:44,240 --> 01:31:47,160 Speaker 2: People would come back around, because people really don't like 1686 01:31:47,240 --> 01:31:49,599 Speaker 2: him right now in a way that as soon as 1687 01:31:49,600 --> 01:31:53,120 Speaker 2: he were to get thirty five million concussions, he would 1688 01:31:53,160 --> 01:31:56,799 Speaker 2: be like a fucking saint. Move over, Charlie Kirk. 1689 01:31:57,080 --> 01:31:59,600 Speaker 1: No, completely, it would be. It would it would be 1690 01:31:59,680 --> 01:32:02,920 Speaker 1: the chart crcification of Zach Braff, and people would you know, 1691 01:32:02,960 --> 01:32:05,479 Speaker 1: Garden State is not a great movie, but it's good 1692 01:32:05,600 --> 01:32:07,960 Speaker 1: enough that people can read it like if he died, 1693 01:32:08,479 --> 01:32:12,120 Speaker 1: you know, young people who didn't live through the Manic 1694 01:32:12,160 --> 01:32:14,680 Speaker 1: Pixie Dream Wars would reclaim it and be like, this 1695 01:32:14,720 --> 01:32:17,439 Speaker 1: is actually like really aesthetic. Yeah, that's what they would say. 1696 01:32:17,439 --> 01:32:19,400 Speaker 1: They would say, that's really aesthetic, that's really aesthetic. 1697 01:32:20,040 --> 01:32:23,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Manic Pixie Dream Wars is one of that's an 1698 01:32:23,120 --> 01:32:23,920 Speaker 2: amazing sentence. 1699 01:32:24,200 --> 01:32:26,800 Speaker 1: I mean it's true that was the original Girl Boss. 1700 01:32:26,840 --> 01:32:28,720 Speaker 1: You know, they keep inventing archetypes so they can tear 1701 01:32:28,760 --> 01:32:29,280 Speaker 1: women down. 1702 01:32:29,960 --> 01:32:33,680 Speaker 2: George, I have to sincerely apologize about what because I 1703 01:32:34,000 --> 01:32:37,439 Speaker 2: was really against the Zach Braff question and that was 1704 01:32:37,479 --> 01:32:38,360 Speaker 2: my favorite one. 1705 01:32:38,920 --> 01:32:41,880 Speaker 1: Well, this is and I don't want to like create 1706 01:32:41,920 --> 01:32:45,080 Speaker 1: more drama. But but that's why I was like confused. 1707 01:32:45,160 --> 01:32:48,080 Speaker 1: I was like, you're not attracted to the fun ones. 1708 01:32:49,000 --> 01:32:51,200 Speaker 2: That's not that it's I was sort of like, he 1709 01:32:51,439 --> 01:32:54,519 Speaker 2: can I okay, sometimes we also need to stop. We 1710 01:32:54,640 --> 01:32:56,280 Speaker 2: literally need to stop. This is a This is an 1711 01:32:56,280 --> 01:32:59,920 Speaker 2: interesting exploration. Sometimes when people and shout out to the caller, 1712 01:33:00,160 --> 01:33:03,120 Speaker 2: nothing but love, nothing but respect, But when a call 1713 01:33:03,200 --> 01:33:05,840 Speaker 2: is trying too hard to be funny, I get turned off. 1714 01:33:06,120 --> 01:33:11,040 Speaker 1: Sure, no, I get it, and you're saying your happy 1715 01:33:11,080 --> 01:33:14,160 Speaker 1: medium is what movie would win. Charlie and Oscar because 1716 01:33:14,200 --> 01:33:17,559 Speaker 1: it's funny enough. But it's not like I'm the joker 1717 01:33:17,640 --> 01:33:20,120 Speaker 1: on stage with my notebook doing stand up in Todd 1718 01:33:20,120 --> 01:33:22,160 Speaker 1: Phillips as the joker, exactly. 1719 01:33:23,240 --> 01:33:23,840 Speaker 2: Exactly. 1720 01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:25,240 Speaker 1: That's fair. 1721 01:33:25,600 --> 01:33:28,599 Speaker 2: But what I forget is when I don't love a question, 1722 01:33:28,800 --> 01:33:33,559 Speaker 2: I can almost answer it with more disdain and more 1723 01:33:34,040 --> 01:33:37,639 Speaker 2: abandoned because it's less pressure. 1724 01:33:37,920 --> 01:33:41,479 Speaker 1: And and that's the other thing with like the non 1725 01:33:41,520 --> 01:33:44,240 Speaker 1: pop culture ones, because I don't want to be part 1726 01:33:44,240 --> 01:33:44,920 Speaker 1: of a discourse. 1727 01:33:46,160 --> 01:33:48,280 Speaker 2: Honey, you believe in discourse you're in. 1728 01:33:49,000 --> 01:33:52,479 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to. 1729 01:33:52,920 --> 01:33:54,000 Speaker 2: I don't want to. 1730 01:33:54,439 --> 01:33:56,240 Speaker 1: So that's it. 1731 01:33:56,360 --> 01:34:02,200 Speaker 2: Like this episode is amazing, of course I agree, it's 1732 01:34:02,240 --> 01:34:05,080 Speaker 2: going to be not amazing for our editor, shout out sorry, 1733 01:34:06,160 --> 01:34:10,519 Speaker 2: and other than that, thanks for listening, thanks for calling. 1734 01:34:10,920 --> 01:34:13,040 Speaker 1: And in conclusion, Sam, I was just wondering, what is 1735 01:34:13,080 --> 01:34:14,960 Speaker 1: a piece of media you loved in your youth that 1736 01:34:15,000 --> 01:34:18,040 Speaker 1: you now hate nothing. 1737 01:34:18,720 --> 01:34:21,880 Speaker 2: I the little boy that loved whatever was right, and 1738 01:34:21,960 --> 01:34:25,160 Speaker 2: while I'm not able to appreciate it now, it meant 1739 01:34:25,200 --> 01:34:29,160 Speaker 2: something then. And I guess I would have to say. 1740 01:34:29,360 --> 01:34:31,280 Speaker 2: You know, I will say I was gas lit by 1741 01:34:31,280 --> 01:34:32,280 Speaker 2: some things as a child. 1742 01:34:32,720 --> 01:34:34,400 Speaker 1: You know, it's funny, is I said that as a joke, 1743 01:34:34,439 --> 01:34:36,200 Speaker 1: so we would end there. But I love that you're 1744 01:34:36,200 --> 01:34:37,799 Speaker 1: answering question because. 1745 01:34:38,320 --> 01:34:41,760 Speaker 2: I never liked you liked I never liked Flubber. I 1746 01:34:41,840 --> 01:34:43,720 Speaker 2: was gaslate and just having to tell people that I 1747 01:34:43,800 --> 01:34:45,519 Speaker 2: like Flubber. I never liked Flubber. 1748 01:34:45,720 --> 01:34:47,720 Speaker 1: You know, this morning I had breakfast with my dear 1749 01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:52,320 Speaker 1: friend Jenna. She goes, she was like, it's like she 1750 01:34:52,439 --> 01:34:53,880 Speaker 1: was talking about something else, and she goes, it's like, 1751 01:34:53,920 --> 01:34:57,720 Speaker 1: how I hate Robin Williams. And I was like, excuse me, 1752 01:34:59,720 --> 01:35:00,360 Speaker 1: that's crazy. 1753 01:35:00,360 --> 01:35:01,080 Speaker 2: What was her take? 1754 01:35:01,160 --> 01:35:03,000 Speaker 1: Did she say? I don't know, but I think it's 1755 01:35:03,040 --> 01:35:05,519 Speaker 1: like he's doing too much and it like, which I get, 1756 01:35:05,600 --> 01:35:10,320 Speaker 1: and that's of course your first one's first reaction to 1757 01:35:10,360 --> 01:35:13,080 Speaker 1: Robin Williams. Then you have to like move past that 1758 01:35:13,200 --> 01:35:16,040 Speaker 1: in order to like understand his genius. But I guess, 1759 01:35:16,040 --> 01:35:18,360 Speaker 1: but I do think Flebber because you know, just on 1760 01:35:18,400 --> 01:35:20,479 Speaker 1: a script level, there's not much happening there. It is 1761 01:35:20,640 --> 01:35:21,679 Speaker 1: just him doing too much. 1762 01:35:22,280 --> 01:35:25,759 Speaker 2: No, that movie I went and saw in the theaters 1763 01:35:26,240 --> 01:35:27,840 Speaker 2: and it was that thing where you're a little kid 1764 01:35:27,880 --> 01:35:30,040 Speaker 2: and you're like, I know, I should have liked that more. 1765 01:35:30,080 --> 01:35:31,760 Speaker 2: So I'm just gonna say I liked this. 1766 01:35:32,280 --> 01:35:35,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, here's the thing. When we were little kids, 1767 01:35:35,160 --> 01:35:41,400 Speaker 1: seeing Robin Williams, Jim Carrey and Eddie Murphy overact could 1768 01:35:41,479 --> 01:35:45,839 Speaker 1: be scary. Yeah that's scary. 1769 01:35:46,040 --> 01:35:47,080 Speaker 2: That's a lot for a child. 1770 01:35:47,320 --> 01:35:49,559 Speaker 1: That's an adult man doing all that. 1771 01:35:50,120 --> 01:35:53,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not right, that's not okay. 1772 01:35:55,439 --> 01:35:58,759 Speaker 1: Those actors are not safe for children. Those actors should 1773 01:35:58,760 --> 01:35:59,439 Speaker 1: be for adults. 1774 01:36:00,280 --> 01:36:03,120 Speaker 2: The actor should be for adults. And then the other 1775 01:36:03,120 --> 01:36:05,160 Speaker 2: one I want to say is this is going to 1776 01:36:05,200 --> 01:36:09,599 Speaker 2: be really controversial, but I can't stop thinking it. I 1777 01:36:09,640 --> 01:36:12,080 Speaker 2: love Spice World as a child. I think Spice World 1778 01:36:12,160 --> 01:36:15,320 Speaker 2: has some amazing alt comedy bits and it's really impressive 1779 01:36:15,439 --> 01:36:17,840 Speaker 2: that the level of humor they were working with. But 1780 01:36:17,920 --> 01:36:21,920 Speaker 2: when you rewatch it, it is long as fuck. No, 1781 01:36:22,000 --> 01:36:25,920 Speaker 2: it's bad, and they should make a compilation of all 1782 01:36:25,960 --> 01:36:28,120 Speaker 2: the amazing bits in it and cut out all that 1783 01:36:28,240 --> 01:36:29,160 Speaker 2: fucking filler. 1784 01:36:29,840 --> 01:36:32,120 Speaker 1: Spicer wyl would be an amazing movie to cut into 1785 01:36:32,280 --> 01:36:36,280 Speaker 1: vertical videos that are shareable online and if anyone over 1786 01:36:36,320 --> 01:36:36,680 Speaker 1: there is. 1787 01:36:36,600 --> 01:36:39,639 Speaker 2: Thinking, and according to our Joe Sunday interview, the youth 1788 01:36:39,720 --> 01:36:40,120 Speaker 2: needs it. 1789 01:36:44,520 --> 01:36:46,360 Speaker 1: And I just want to say people are feel free 1790 01:36:46,400 --> 01:36:49,160 Speaker 1: to stop commenting on that specific video. I think we've 1791 01:36:49,160 --> 01:36:51,720 Speaker 1: heard all the takes we need and by the way, 1792 01:36:51,760 --> 01:36:52,759 Speaker 1: none of you are funny. 1793 01:36:53,560 --> 01:36:58,800 Speaker 2: Whoa Okay, love y'all, Love y'all, Happy November bye podcast and. 1794 01:36:58,840 --> 01:37:02,519 Speaker 1: Now want more more? Subscribe to our Patreon for two 1795 01:37:02,560 --> 01:37:06,280 Speaker 1: extra episodes a month, discord access and more by heading 1796 01:37:06,320 --> 01:37:09,280 Speaker 1: to patreon dot com. 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