1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: There's no denying that Ricky Martin changed the game for 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: Latino artists. 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 2: Without Ricky, Latin music wouldn't be what it is today. 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: He paved the way for so many He. 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 2: Said, yosoi Latino isoi gay is. 6 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 1: With that one sentence, he went from a Latino icon 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: to a Latino gay icon. This sentence wouldn't likely have 8 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: the same effect today as it did back then. But 9 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: remember this was twenty ten. Wait, Joseph, do you remember 10 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: when Barbara Walters tried to get him to come out 11 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 1: in two thousand during that interview. 12 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 2: Listen rest in Peace? 13 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: But she was shady, so shady, and the rest of 14 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: his career was so much greater back then. 15 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 2: Well, not much different, but okay, true, true, Well, we 16 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 2: have seen change with artists like Bad Bunny leading the 17 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 2: charge for a new generation. 18 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: We still have so much work to do when it 19 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: comes dismantling the many biases that are pervasive in Latino culture, 20 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: but we do have Ricky to think for part of 21 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: that early progress. 22 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 2: Ricky had reached a point in his career where he 23 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: was doing extremely well, but something was missing. 24 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 1: Authenticity. 25 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes. 26 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: On today's episode of Becoming an Icon, we're going to 27 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 1: take you from Ricky's hit Begata to present day Ricky. 28 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: We're looking back on his MTV Unpluged performance, his collab 29 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: with a little known TV producer named Ryan Murphy, and 30 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: his journey to becoming the activist he is. Today, I'm 31 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: your host Lilianavasquez. 32 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 2: And I'm Joseph Carrio and this is Becoming an Icon. 33 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: A weekly podcast where we give you the rundown on 34 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: how today's most famous LATINX stars have shaped pop culture. 35 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 2: And given the world some extress at all. 36 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: Sit back and get comfortable. 37 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 2: Because we are going in the. 38 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: Only way we know how, with who and a lot 39 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: of opinions as we relive their greatest achievements on our 40 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: journey to find out what makes them so iconic. You 41 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: know what's kind of amazing. 42 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 2: To me how much we know about space and the Adaman, 43 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 2: but how little we know about the sea and the 44 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 2: millions of creatures that inhabit it. 45 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: Okay, yes, orry all that too, but for the moment, 46 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: come back to me and focus on earthly beings, specifically 47 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: mister Martin and how consistent he's been throughout his life. 48 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: That too, sure, So After Life, his third English album, 49 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: Ricky was looking for a connection and a sort of 50 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 1: intimacy with his fans. So what did he do? 51 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 2: I know what I wish he did, But MTV unplugged 52 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 2: the raw sounds, the moodiness, the vibes with so nighties. 53 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: Ricky is the first singer to use unplugged as a 54 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: chance for reinvention. Lauren Hill and Shakira did it, and 55 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: now it was Ricky's turn. 56 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: It was a chance for everyone to see Ricky unmasked 57 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 2: who he truly was and underneath those tank tops and 58 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 2: tight leather pants. 59 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: It would strip back the overproduced tracks and leave nothing 60 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 1: but Ricky and his soul. 61 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 2: I mean he danced a bon bay blena bare foot. 62 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: I'm trembling. So. The set was. 63 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: Performed in Miami in August of two thousand and six, 64 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: featuring some of his iconic ballads as well as songs 65 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: taken from traditional Puerto Rican rhythms. Now during the performance, 66 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: two songs stood out and would become some of his 67 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: biggest hits to this day. The songs do ric guerdo 68 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: translated to your Memory and beg et it get closer? 69 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 2: Oh I love this one gets my hips moving. Can 70 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 2: someone get us a tambourine. 71 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:01,119 Speaker 1: These two songs were polar opposites, but both were inspired 72 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: by Puerto Rico's and musical influences. Priguerdo takes more from 73 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: Puerto Rican Aginaldo Hibato finishing with an aginaldo or rocovignon. 74 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: I don't know what any of that means, but that 75 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 2: song gave me all the fields I know. 76 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: And Pegatta, on the other hand, is purely a Puerto 77 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: Rican blena. 78 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 2: I don't know what that is either, but that song 79 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 2: made me want to shake something Madre by Lando. 80 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: To It often features guitars at guadro and even bongos. 81 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 2: Do those farmers wear headbands and cargo pants? 82 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: I was waiting for you to bring up his look. 83 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 1: How would you describe it to our audience? 84 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Well, one I would say it's bringing 85 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 2: sexy back, Like if someone was wearing that now, I 86 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 2: still think that it would still be attractive. I mean, 87 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: cargo pants maybe not so much, but I'm. 88 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: Sorry, hold please, hold please. I'm putting on my style 89 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: exper hat and taking off my podcasting hat to correct 90 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 1: you on that, because there's literally no hotter thing in 91 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: fashion right now than cargo pants for both men. 92 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 2: And women. 93 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: So you stand corrected by me. 94 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 2: Okay, fine, it's still hot. That's why I said the 95 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 2: nineties are back. He can bring sexy back now if 96 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 2: he wants. And the headband is so soccer it's so 97 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,480 Speaker 2: like Latin hot. It was. It was everything. 98 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: I love that you just claimed headbands has only hot 99 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 1: on Latin men and women. Nobody else can be hot 100 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: in a headband. It's just latinos. Yeah, whatever, And we 101 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 1: are you letting the no shoes slide? 102 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 2: Like no, no, no, I wasn't, but I just knew 103 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 2: that you were going to say something about it because 104 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 2: he was freaking barefoot, Like what guys. 105 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: So, just to bring you into that moment, we have 106 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: Ricky Martin Brushy tattooed in a sleeveless vest type sleeveless shirt, 107 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: a headband his. 108 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 2: Deep v's is it a deep V? It was kind 109 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 2: of like middle chest Like they don't really make those anymore. Well, 110 00:05:58,440 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 2: I have them. 111 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: I don't know where you would buy a middle chest 112 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: deep beee either. 113 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 2: Hey, I'm not going to tell you my stores. 114 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 1: Let's take our listeners to the movement. So there was 115 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: the Latino hot headband, a very deep the sleeveless tea, 116 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 1: the cargo vent slung like loosely around his hips, and 117 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: then no. 118 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 2: Shoes and then no shoes. It was giving casually in 119 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 2: a jolie, you know what I mean. It was casual. Also, 120 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: I do want to say, what do you think is 121 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 2: stopping men from dressing like this again? And the way 122 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 2: that he moved, I mean, lor have mercy. 123 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 1: You know what's stopping them is that they would be 124 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: compared to Ricky in that look, and he's going to 125 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 1: win it forever and ever and ever, like there's no competition. 126 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 1: Nobody can do that look hotter than Ricky Martin. 127 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 2: His performance was so good it felt like he was back. 128 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 2: The way he was really truly moving his hips, and 129 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 2: just the way his hand language was happening, you could 130 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 2: just tell he was just really in it. 131 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: I agree with you one thousand percent the intimacy that 132 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: that stage and that venue and that medium allows him. 133 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 1: I felt watching it from home like we were on 134 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: vac with like our older cousin Ricky at his beachos 135 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: ending Golen and we were like just doing a jam session, 136 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: like out on the deck, and then we got Linny 137 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 1: and then it turned into a full living room fiesta. 138 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: That is what it felt like watching MTV Unplugged, and y'all, 139 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: if you haven't watched it, I highly suggest you YouTube 140 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: it and just skip right on through to begat Now 141 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: for his other song through Recuerdo, Martin sat down the 142 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: Spanish singer Maria del Marodrigues Garnerro or let's just call 143 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: her Le Matti as she's known, and Puerto Rican record 144 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: producer and singer Tommy Tois. This song was the most 145 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: popular song of the night and actually went on to 146 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: become his next lead single. 147 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 2: It made everyone the woon. Also saying the word swoon 148 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 2: just also takes it back to the nineties very on. 149 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: Brad, swoon might be post for a comeback, but let's 150 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: use it. 151 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 2: Are we bringing back swoon? 152 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: I challenge you to use it one more time in 153 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: this episode. 154 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 2: Put your butt game on Now. 155 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: This song allowed us to see a softer and more 156 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: paced Ricky with deeply emotional lyrics, and the official Unplugged 157 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: album was number one on the Top Latin Albums. It 158 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: also won two Latin Grammy Awards and was nominated for 159 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: Album of the Year. Ricky Martin then went on to 160 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: bring all the success and love back to his homeland. 161 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: He went on tour again on the Black and White 162 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: Tour in two thousand and seven, which had four sold 163 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: out shows at Elcholi. 164 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 2: Good Old Echoli, Ricky Martin paving the way for Bad 165 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 2: Benny to cause chaos in twenty twenty two, How Far 166 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 2: We've Come. 167 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: He then released his first Italian song, Non siamo soli 168 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: We are not Alone, which was a duet with Italian 169 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: singer Erros Rama Zoti. 170 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 2: Excuse me, why wasn't Ricky on season two of White Lotus? 171 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 2: I need to speak to the manager. 172 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 1: But with Ricky, as soon as he finds himself musically, 173 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: he finds himself tempted by another calling. 174 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 2: What oh he told you about that? I guess it's 175 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 2: not Dale anymore. So yeah, Ricky and I are. 176 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: I'm just ignoring you. 177 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:24,959 Speaker 2: I'm moving on. 178 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 1: Let's just say he went back to his first love 179 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 1: aka Not Joseph. In February twenty twelve, he had a 180 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:35,559 Speaker 1: guest role on Glee as Spanish teacher David Martinez. 181 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 2: Oh my god, stop remember when Glee was a thing. 182 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,599 Speaker 1: As soon as he wrapped the show, he took on 183 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 1: the role of Jay in the Broadway revival of the 184 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: musical A Vida. 185 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:53,079 Speaker 2: Now that was a look. The facial hair he had 186 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:56,599 Speaker 2: going on again, what's stopping men from looking like this? 187 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:00,199 Speaker 1: Clearly that look was working on more than just to you. 188 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 1: The theater's box office sales broke records six times. People 189 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 1: were lining up to say this once in a lifetime performance. 190 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: Ricky had found the career he'd always longed for. He 191 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: was making music for himself. Music had expressed his tast 192 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 1: and his culture, and he didn't need to chase fame 193 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:17,719 Speaker 1: or publicity. 194 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 2: And he was acting, which he loves more than me. 195 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: He was doing what he wanted to professionally, but he 196 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 1: felt unfulfilled personally. He longed to be a father, but 197 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: he wanted to be able to be honest with his children, 198 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: so he made the decision to be honest with the world. 199 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,839 Speaker 1: Despite all the success and strides made in the name 200 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: of Latino representation. 201 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 2: Ricky was not all that happy. 202 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:51,959 Speaker 1: I mean, can you ever really be happy if you 203 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 1: can't be yourself. 204 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:55,559 Speaker 2: It's one thing to feel so alone because of the 205 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 2: price of fame, you don't really know who to trust, 206 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 2: But it's another thing to not be able to share 207 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 2: yourself with who you really want to. 208 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 1: Love exactly, and Ricky was a very affectionate person by nature. 209 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 1: He was drawn to other people from a very young age. 210 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: According to an interview with Rolling Stone in nineteen ninety nine, 211 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 1: Martin experienced his first kiss at age thirteen. 212 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 2: Well he was dating women on and off throughout his career. 213 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 1: One in particular, Alejandra Guzman, left him heartbroken. At the time, 214 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: Guzman was separated from her husband, and according to Ricky's 215 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: memoir Me, they began dating, but then Guzman got back 216 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 1: with her husband and pretended Martin was her assistant. 217 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 2: A damn Gina that is low Alejandra. 218 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: Later that year, Martin briefly dated gabrie La Sabatini, an 219 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,719 Speaker 1: Argentine tennis player. But it all changed when Ricky was 220 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 1: on general hospital, he met. 221 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 2: Someone and started dating him, and. 222 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: Boldened by this new relationship, he decided it was time 223 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: to come out to his mother. Ricky recalls his mom 224 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,199 Speaker 1: being very supportive at the time, saying to him, I 225 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: love you, my son, I'm so happy for you. Bring 226 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 1: it on. I'm right behind you. The relationship of fizzles, 227 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: and a heartbroken Ricky locked his feelings even deeper inside 228 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: and went back to dating women, ah clame. He recalls, 229 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 1: I already felt it was hard to be a Latino 230 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,199 Speaker 1: in Hollywood. What could have been more difficult than being 231 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 1: Latino and gay? His mother had the same concern. Martin 232 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 1: shared this. I think she thought, oh my god, it's Kiki, 233 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: it's his career. I'm sure every other mother reacts to 234 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: this in different ways. 235 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 2: So Martin went back to what was safe relationships with women. 236 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: Okay, Joseph, I needed your input here. As a gay 237 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: man who's come out in a Latino family, what are 238 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 1: your thoughts on hearing about Ricky going back and forth 239 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 1: between men and women. 240 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 2: Well, one, I'm going to say, he got his gay 241 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 2: in a Latino family, and his mom being there to 242 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 2: support him is really, really, really huge. That's a big deal, 243 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:09,559 Speaker 2: and that really does feel like all the support you 244 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 2: need for the most part, because you rely on home. 245 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: Back then, it couldn't have been easy. When you hear 246 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: that his mom was so accepting of his identity and 247 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: his sexuality, how does that make you feel. 248 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 2: I'm not going to say that it's easier to do 249 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:26,199 Speaker 2: it now. I don't necessarily think that for the people 250 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 2: that are still really not accepting of themselves is what 251 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 2: I'm going to say. But it's definitely there are more 252 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 2: openly gay people that it does feel a little safer 253 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 2: to come out. 254 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 1: Ricky couldn't be honest with the world, but he wasn't 255 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:44,839 Speaker 1: going to let that stop him from realizing one of 256 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: his greatest desires becoming an icon. Oh, becoming a parent. 257 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 1: Side note that should be a podcast, because Lord knows, 258 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: we transcend every day just to survive. 259 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 2: Okay, what I was back to this show, becoming a 260 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 2: par at yourself. Ricky, with seemingly no partner in his 261 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 2: near future, googled how to be a single parent. 262 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: I wonder if he was clearing that search history when 263 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 1: he brought dates home, because that could be a little 264 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: scary for some partners. 265 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 2: Dayline keeps giving life lessons, always clear the search history. 266 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: Wait a second, Joseph, can we stop computers? I am 267 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 1: dying to know. 268 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 2: Let's him keep it move of being correct well. 269 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: His research delivered in August two thousand and eight through 270 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: Suriusy Martin became a father to twin boys, Mattel and Valentino. 271 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: I have never imagined myself being a dad, so I 272 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 2: cannot wrap my brain around what it is so like, 273 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 2: you have a baby. What is that maternal desire like 274 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 2: to want to have a baby. Why do you feel 275 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 2: like you need to be a parent? 276 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: Well, I think I think it's different for everybody, so 277 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: I can only speak to my experience. You know, I'm 278 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: different in the sense that there was a version of 279 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: my life that could be joyful and rich and fulfilled 280 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: without children, Like I was fully accepting of that, but 281 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: I knew that having a child would also be something 282 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 1: that could bring me so much joy, so much love, 283 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: and so much fulfillment. And you know, there was a 284 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: time in my life when I was like, you know what, 285 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 1: maybe we're not going to be able to have a baby, 286 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: and I came to full acceptance with that. So I 287 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 1: think for me, it wasn't like this need like, oh 288 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: my god, I need to be a parent. My life 289 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: will fail if I'm not a parent, So I think 290 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: everybody comes at it very differently. 291 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 2: Becoming a father seemed to have been the security and 292 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 2: reassurance Martin needed to be comfortable with himself in private 293 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 2: and in public, because two years later, in March twenty ten, 294 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 2: he came out via message on his website stating I'm 295 00:15:56,560 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 2: proud to say that I'm a fortunate homosexual man, very 296 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 2: blessed to be who I am, But the. 297 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 1: Lines weren't always so clear for him. He would often ask, 298 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 1: am I gay? Am I bisexual? Am I confused? What 299 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 1: am I? Explaining? Sexuality is one complicated thing. It's not 300 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 1: black and white. It's filled with colors. When I was 301 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: dating women, I was in love with women. It felt right, 302 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 1: it felt beautiful. During an interview with FAMA, Martin mentioned, 303 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: I know that I like both men and women. I'm 304 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: against sexual labels. We're simply human beings with emotional and 305 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 1: sexual needs, like to enjoy sex and total freedom. So 306 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: I'm open to having sex with a woman if I 307 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 1: feel desired. But despite this, he expressed that he would 308 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: not be interested in an ongoing relationship with women, stating 309 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 1: men are my thing. 310 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 2: Girl, Men are my thing too, Bitch life, what's good? 311 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 2: RIGHI was now out and about and ready to get 312 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 2: on the apps. 313 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 1: This was twenty ten, so I'm pretty sure the apps 314 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:10,120 Speaker 1: were not out just yet, you know what I mean. 315 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: His first relationship after coming out was with the Puerto 316 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:19,119 Speaker 1: Rican economist named Carlos Gonzalez abeam. 317 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, glasses bond markets, macro never micro economics. I'm 318 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 2: getting all hot and bothered. 319 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 1: Wait, I didn't know finance bros where you're tight. 320 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 2: Uh they're not. 321 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 1: Okay, well they're not Ricky's type either, and all that 322 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 1: steamy talk about the FED didn't work. So when that 323 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:36,879 Speaker 1: relationship fizzled. 324 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 2: He bowed up with Juan, Yes, bitch, you heard me right, 325 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 2: Juan yoursef so close to Joseph, so close? I know, 326 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 2: funny how that is? Huh? Ricky closet to a photo 327 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 2: of the two and captioned it, obviously we're starting a band. 328 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 2: Oh soon. 329 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 1: The Syrian Swedish painter and Martin were a pair, and 330 00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 1: they made their red carpet debut as a couple at 331 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: the am Far Inspiration Gallup. 332 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 2: Okay, hold up, bitch. So wait, there was actually one 333 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:10,640 Speaker 2: app involved, Instagram. They met on Instagram hashtag not sponsored. 334 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 2: According to Martin, they were talking for like six months 335 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 2: without hearing each other's voice. He later decided to take 336 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 2: their online flirtation i RL and flew to London to 337 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:23,439 Speaker 2: meet Joseph in person. 338 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:25,439 Speaker 1: Now they're married. 339 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 2: I get cute. After all those heartbreaks, he found his 340 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 2: happily ever after. 341 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 1: The couple then welcomed more children into their life, this 342 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 1: time as a couple with Lucia Martin Joseph and Wren 343 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 1: Martin Yosef. Since coming out, Martin has become a very 344 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 1: vocal advocac for queer rights worldwide. 345 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 2: But Ricky has been honest about his journey and even 346 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 2: admitted to having some good old internalized homophobia. 347 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: Now, both Joseph and I were obviously raised in Latino households. 348 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: I was raised Catholic early on. Joseph wasn't. But I 349 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 1: think it doesn't even matter what religion we were raised. 350 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 1: I believe culturally I was definitely raised to think that 351 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 1: being gay was wrong, Like, who are you telling? 352 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,879 Speaker 2: And I was gay? So and you know where you 353 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 2: grew up and where I grew up is very different, 354 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 2: I feel like, and I'll pass it. It was very 355 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 2: everyone is super Mexican and Latino that I felt the 356 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 2: wrath of God. 357 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,639 Speaker 1: Well, at least your family wanted you to think that 358 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 1: you were going to feel the wrath of God. I mean, 359 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 1: that's what they did to us. They made us think 360 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: that being one way was bad and by way. It 361 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 1: didn't stop at homophobia, Like you couldn't even have premarital 362 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: sex or you were going straight on the. 363 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 2: Express train to jail, Straight to jail, you know that meme. 364 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 1: As Latinos, so much of the ideas that we have 365 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 1: around sexuality is informed by how we were raised. And 366 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm so happy that we're doing so much to dismantle that. 367 00:19:56,560 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 2: Now Ricky is older, like not to black my boo 368 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 2: that I love, but he's older, so that older generation. 369 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 2: He's thinking about his mom and now look at him, 370 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 2: he's a gay icon. 371 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: Pink News actually labeled him a strong advocate of LGBT 372 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 1: rights who expressed support for equal marriage since coming out. 373 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 1: During the Ricky Renuncia protest in Puerto Rico, he was 374 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: spotted with Bad Bunny and Residente. He instantly became the 375 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 1: poster child for the protest as he was seen waving 376 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:29,920 Speaker 1: the Pride flag on top of the moving vehicle during 377 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 1: the march. 378 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 2: Talk about living la vida loca. I mean he was 379 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 2: giving total rockstar moves and Martin's. 380 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 1: Coming out was a game changer for Latin Pride billboards, 381 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 1: Lucas Via wrote. With Martin's announcement, gay artists who had 382 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 1: long kept their sexual identity as a secret finally had 383 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 1: a beacon of hope. If Martin could come out with 384 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: his career unscathed, there was hope for other artists in 385 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: Latin music to start doing the same. He added that 386 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 1: since then, a growing number of Latin artists either come 387 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 1: out after years in the spotlight, or many have simply 388 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:08,200 Speaker 1: started their careers by embracing their gay identities. When we 389 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 1: started talking about Ricky, we started with Menulo. 390 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:14,880 Speaker 2: Every one of my days starts with men of them. 391 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,359 Speaker 2: I thought you only d it on Sundays, Loki, I 392 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 2: buy it on Sundays and eat it the rest of 393 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 2: the week. 394 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 1: So it's only fitting that he went back to mentoring 395 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: a new generation of boy bands. He started by mentoring 396 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 1: contestants on The Voice Australia in twenty thirteen, which was 397 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 1: really just prep work for Labanda. Labanda was a singing 398 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: competition that began airing on Univision in twenty fifteen that 399 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 1: was focused on finding the next members of the world's 400 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 1: next great boy band. 401 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:46,399 Speaker 2: They were basically trying to find the next Latino One 402 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:49,400 Speaker 2: Direction or bts Ah. 403 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: By the way, we love bts on becoming an icon. 404 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:56,880 Speaker 2: We are here for that. However, Ricky was an executive 405 00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:02,360 Speaker 2: producer and judge alongside at the sns I Love Him 406 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 2: and louder Baucini. 407 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: Can we talk about how thirsty Lauda was that entire season, 408 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 1: The way she was looking at those boys that can't 409 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 1: be legal. 410 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 2: Oh angry yys lil's. Don't even get me started on 411 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 2: those effing rumors. 412 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: Listen. Her words may have been about the singing, but 413 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:28,720 Speaker 1: her eyes were all Viva met Jessa. After getting ogled 414 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 1: for an entire season, five young men were crowned and 415 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 1: CNCO was born. 416 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 2: CNCO oh rot like sinko. Wait, they just dropped the ie. 417 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 2: So at CNCO nice work. 418 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: Ricky Martin went on to become their very own Simon 419 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 1: Cow and produce their debut album, Premtasita along with Puerto 420 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:54,199 Speaker 1: Rican reggae Doneto. In twenty ten, le La Goobo from 421 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:58,159 Speaker 1: Billboard compared the group with Manudo, noting not since Manudo 422 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: had a Latin boy band, melted ours or made a 423 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: dance quite like CNCO. Pop quiz Pop Quiz, Pop quiz, Joseph, 424 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 1: can you name a CNCO song? 425 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 2: One more? No? 426 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 1: Okay, So between the two of us, we can name 427 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 1: two CNCO songs and it doesn't matter because the boys, 428 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,440 Speaker 1: well they're kind of cute, right. 429 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 2: They were totally cute and I could totally see what 430 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 2: loud Out was thinking. 431 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 1: Okay, moving on before we get a lawsuit. Jumping from 432 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: Labanda to a new project, he reunited with his new bff, 433 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: Ryan Murphy. 434 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,640 Speaker 2: He's BFFs with Ryan Murphy two. 435 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 1: As we all know, when it comes to Murphy projects, 436 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 1: it has to be gay and there has to be crime. 437 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 2: So basically, Beka do crime. 438 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 1: Ricky scored the role of Antonio Demico Gianni's real life boo, who, 439 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 1: by the way, wasn't all too happy with the show. 440 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 2: Well, you know, nobody really likes being portrayed in a 441 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 2: bad light. 442 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,119 Speaker 1: You're not wrong, and hithaway, that's why we are not 443 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 1: selling becoming an Icon rights to Ryan Murphy. 444 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 2: The fuck yeah, we will write that check Ry Yan. 445 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 2: We hear it at cash Maining. 446 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: Ricky knew this was the best way to ride that 447 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 1: wave back into television. 448 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 2: I love how he was creating another manuval and then 449 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:24,359 Speaker 2: he was like, let me go give the people an 450 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 2: award worthy performance. You think you'd be tired of taking 451 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:32,639 Speaker 2: care of four kids, but no, he runs a caffeine 452 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:34,960 Speaker 2: and a dream. I'm sure how do you do it loth. 453 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 1: I mean I don't, but I will say that when 454 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,760 Speaker 1: you have kids, you're just like a better multitasker. I'm 455 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:43,160 Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I feel like my capacity before kids 456 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 1: was like at a seven, even though I felt like 457 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,119 Speaker 1: it was a ten, And now that I have a baby, 458 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh no, no, my capacity's a ten and 459 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,879 Speaker 1: I run at a ten. It's not easy, but you 460 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 1: know what, Let's also be honest and keep it real 461 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 1: because that's what we do here. He has help, Like 462 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: he's not watching his four kids every day from like 463 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: wake up to bedtime. You gotta have a village. You 464 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 1: need your peeps to help support you because you can't 465 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 1: be on set for months at a time and like 466 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,159 Speaker 1: not have somebody at home with your children. So I 467 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 1: think he's got a lot of help because we all do. 468 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 1: Maybe not Ricky Martin level help, but we all need 469 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,239 Speaker 1: help to make sure we're doing it all. 470 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 2: Ricky hasn't had many dull moments in his career. Sure 471 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 2: there were personal lows, but work wise, he has always 472 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 2: found a way to stay on top. 473 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 1: On the next becoming an icon. 474 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 2: There's so much we didn't get to cover or uncover 475 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 2: in Ricky's career. 476 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 1: So many songs we didn't even get to discuss, but 477 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 1: don't worry. Next episode, we're going to catch you up 478 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 1: on all of Ricky's life, all of. 479 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 2: It mm hmmmm. We're leaving no. 480 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 1: Crumbs, and we'll bring a very special guest on this 481 00:25:54,680 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: episode to discuss it all. Becoming an Icon is presented 482 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: by Sonoo and Iheart'smichael Kuda podcast Network. Listen to Becoming 483 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:11,359 Speaker 1: an Icon on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast, or wherever 484 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: you get your podcast