1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,719 Speaker 1: It is time now for my Strawberry Letter for today, 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: and if you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:10,120 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to STEVEVARBFM dot 4 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're going 6 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: never know it could be yours. 8 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 2: Surely you'll have a subject on it. 9 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: Okay, Well it should say my husband has a type mine. 10 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: Don't say that, all right, Go ahead, nephew, it's not 11 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: your type. 12 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 2: A letter, then mug it up and hold on type. 13 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Hear it is straw. 14 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: Letter Type this in Steve subject my husband has a type? 15 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 2: Okay. 16 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a thirty seven year old 17 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 1: married nurse and my husband is a doctor. I've heard 18 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: that he's cheating on me with one of the nurses 19 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: he works with. When I asked him about it, he 20 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 1: tried to throw me off by saying he loves nurses, 21 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: that's why he's with me. I am so tired of 22 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: him gas when I try to question him about cheating. 23 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 1: I found out from his coworkers that He's given this 24 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: lady a ride home before, and they go to lunch 25 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: a few times a month. If I ask about her, 26 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: he pushes back by saying he's working and hangs with 27 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: several coworkers, not just her. In my hospital setting where 28 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: I work, I know that the doctors get really flirty 29 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: with the nurses and they hook up on long ships. 30 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,839 Speaker 1: He said, that's at my hospital, and that doesn't happen 31 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 1: where he works. I've seen pictures of the woman after. 32 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: Her scrubs are always and her scrubs are always tight, 33 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: and she wears different lace front wigs, which is so 34 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: far from my appearance, especially at work. He started wearing 35 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: cologne to work, and he bought new sneakers. He never 36 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: wore sneakers to work before these rumors started. He told 37 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: me that I can listen to gossip and assume whatever 38 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: I want to. The last big thing he did was 39 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: stay out late, and then picture surfaced of him with 40 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: the woman and her son at a high school basketball game. 41 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: Of course, he said that she wasn't the only adult 42 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 1: there and he was there to see his cousin's son play. 43 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: His cousin does have a son that plays basketball, so 44 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: with this just a coincidence. I am to the point 45 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: of following him around to find out what he's up to. 46 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: Why won't he calm my nerves if there's nothing really 47 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: going on with him and that woman, should I trust 48 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 1: my intuition and start tracking him. Well, you gotta always 49 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 1: always trust your intuition, no matter what it is. I mean, 50 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: these things he's telling you aren't lining up with what 51 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,799 Speaker 1: he's doing. Plus, you saw the post of him at 52 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: the game with that woman. You saw with your own eyes. 53 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: He's wearing cologne. Now he's wearing new sneakers. Listen, when 54 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: there's a change in a man's behavior, it's usually a 55 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: sign that something's going on. Okay, he didn't wear cologne before. 56 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: What was wrong with his old shoes? Okay, now everything's new, 57 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: because yeah, while all of a sudden is he's switching 58 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 1: things up or who is he switching things up for? 59 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: You're simply asking him what's going on, and he's being dismissive. Oh, 60 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: they might do that at your hospital, but not where 61 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: I work, he says. And he said, you can assume 62 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 1: whatever you want to. He knows you're upset, he knows 63 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: you're feeling a certain kind of way. And he knows 64 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 1: you need some reassurance, but he just ignores your feelings 65 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 1: and continues to lie and gaslight you. As your husband, 66 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: he should be doing whatever he can to put your 67 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: mind at ease, because once that trust is broken, you 68 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: may never ever get that back. Your husband's playing a 69 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: dangerous game. It's kind of crazy with this nurse, and 70 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: he's playing with your marriage. It's going to lead him 71 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: straight to divorce. 72 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:49,839 Speaker 3: Steve, Yeah, I'm sort of mixed about this letter here 73 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 3: because on one hand, it seems like I get an overall 74 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 3: sense that he's don't really care what you think. He 75 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 3: really don't because I've never seen a guy not try 76 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 3: to fix it any better than him. And then but 77 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 3: some of the things that you have, a couple of 78 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 3: the things don't make no sense to me. So your 79 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 3: thirty seven year old married nurse and your husband is 80 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 3: a doctor. This letter's kind of confusing to me. I 81 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 3: don't really know what's going on here because I kind 82 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 3: of feel like, for a minute, it sounds like you 83 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 3: had the wrong reasons to feel this way, But then 84 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 3: the rest of the letter makes me feel like this 85 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 3: guy's really really arrogant and he don't really care what 86 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 3: you feel. So your thirty seven year old married nurse. 87 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 3: Your husband's a doctor. I've heard that he's cheating on 88 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 3: me with one of the nurses he works with. 89 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 2: Now, right there, that was hearsay. 90 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 3: I wouldn't put a lot into that, but that kind 91 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 3: of puts your antennas back because that's a random thing 92 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 3: to hear, and especially when it's the person you with, 93 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:02,599 Speaker 3: right they say it about somebody else. When I asked 94 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 3: him about it, he tried to throw me off by 95 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 3: saying he loves nurses and that's why he's with me. 96 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 2: What that right there? That's crazy? Are you seeing the 97 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: nurse down there on your job? Girl? You know I 98 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 2: love nurses, That's why I'm with you. 99 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 3: So that also says that's why I'm with her, which 100 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 3: makes me think he's arrogant. 101 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 2: But he's stupid. 102 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 3: I'm tired of him gaslight me, so now I try 103 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 3: to question him about cheating. I found out from his 104 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,239 Speaker 3: co workers that he's giving the lady a ride home 105 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 3: before and they go to lunch a few times a week. 106 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 3: If I ask about it, he pushes back by saying 107 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 3: he's working at hangs with several coworkers. We not talking 108 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 3: about that. See, you don't know how to question your man. 109 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 3: He works with several coworkers. You're not talking about the sevil. 110 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 3: You're talking about her several co workers, not just her 111 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 3: and my Now the lady goes back to saying, my 112 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 3: hospital setting where I work, I know that the doctors 113 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 3: can get flooded with the nurses and they hook up 114 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 3: on long ships. He said that at my hospital. That 115 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 3: don't happen where he worked. Then you come back and say, 116 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 3: I've seen pictures of the woman, and her scrubs are 117 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 3: always tight, and she wears different lace front wigs, which 118 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 3: is so far from my appearance, especially at work. Well, 119 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 3: she'd work with a should work with a mission. Let 120 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 3: me get these scrubs a little bit tighter, and let 121 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 3: me put the I gotta give me. 122 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 2: Some more wheels. 123 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 3: He started wearing that this one, I'm gonna I wanna 124 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 3: come back. 125 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 1: To hang hang on, see we'll have part two. Just 126 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: keep it right there. We'll have part two of your 127 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 128 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject my husband has a type. We'll 129 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy. 130 00:06:53,600 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 4: Morning, show, or you went to video games celebrities are 131 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 4: just having a good time, then you need to get 132 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 4: familiar with the Global Gaming League. 133 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 2: The Global Gaming. 134 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 5: League is a new video game league with celebrity owned 135 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 5: teams from Flavor Flav to Tea Pain compete across everything 136 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 5: from Call of Duty to Pac Man. 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The subject is 144 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: my husband has the type. 145 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 2: Because of God. 146 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 3: The reasons you have don't add up, and then the 147 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 3: reasons you do have add up, but you don't want 148 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 3: to believe what they're adding up to. This doctor's arrogant. 149 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 3: He's arrogant, he's stupid, and he don't care. So you 150 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 3: got a problem, lady. Uh, I'm a married nurse thirty 151 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 3: seven years will the husband that's the doctor you hear 152 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 3: rumored that he's cheating on you. When I'm asking him 153 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 3: about it, he says he loves nurses. That's why he's 154 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 3: with me. Now, that's like what because all you just 155 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 3: said is yeah, I like nurses, that's why I'm with you. 156 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 3: But the other lady the rumor is a nurse. So 157 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 3: that was like an stupid admission of guilt, but then 158 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 3: a very arrogant. 159 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 2: Thing to say. 160 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 3: At the same time, I'm so tired of him gas 161 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 3: like me. When I questioned him about cheatings. I found 162 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 3: out from his coworkers he's giving his lady a ride 163 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 3: home before and they go to lunch a few times 164 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 3: of work a few times a month. If I ask 165 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 3: her about it, he pushs you back, saying he works 166 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 3: and hangs out with several coworkers. You're not talking about 167 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 3: several co workers were talking about her. Where you going 168 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 3: with this pond? Because he don't care and he can 169 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 3: get away with telling you little minimal information like this, 170 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 3: and you let it go because you don't even know 171 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 3: how to question your man. And then you say it 172 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 3: in your hospital. You know, doctors get with all the nurses. 173 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 3: He said at my hospital. That don't happen where he worked. 174 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 3: Then you say you saw some pictures of the woman. 175 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 3: Her scrubs is always tight, and you wear different lace 176 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 3: front wigs, which is so far from my opinions at work. 177 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 3: So how you going to work? How your hair? You 178 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 3: ain't putting you in makeup? You ain't went on to Okay, 179 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 3: so whatever, I don't know what's happening with you. Now 180 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 3: here's the part that threw me a little bit. Sureley, 181 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 3: he started wearing cologne to work, and he bought new sneakers. 182 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 2: Yeah he a doctor. He came by no new sneakers. 183 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, well. 184 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 2: He wear cologne. 185 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 3: He never wore sneakers to work before these rumors started. 186 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 3: Now I'm trying to figure out what your sneakers got 187 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 3: to do with cheating. He bought some new sneakers. He 188 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 3: didn't buy hunting no sneakers. He bought some new sneakers. 189 00:09:59,000 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 3: What shurey. 190 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: You know when men change their behavior, when they start 191 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 1: wearing coologne, when they start buying new underwear, all that 192 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: stuff is something. Something's up, you know. 193 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 3: I don't know what did. But he bought it unless 194 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 3: they creeping around and he can't hit it like what. 195 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 3: He been wearing tap shoes to work because now heat 196 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 3: when he got into some nikes, folks won. He told 197 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 3: me that I can listen to gospel and assume whatever 198 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 3: I wanted to. That's crazy. Hey, you can listen to 199 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 3: Gobs soon whatever you want to. That's how you say 200 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 3: that to your wife. That's why we having this conversation 201 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 3: because she didn't assume what she wanted to. The last 202 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 3: big thing he did was stay out late and near 203 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 3: picture surface of him with that woman and her son 204 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 3: at a high school basketball game. Of course, he said 205 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 3: that she wasn't the only adult there. Yeah, it was 206 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 3: a crowd. What why you let this man talk to 207 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 3: you like this way? She wasn't the only adult there, 208 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 3: and he was there to see his cousin son play. 209 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 2: When last time you went the basketball games to see your. 210 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:12,079 Speaker 1: Cousins son, change your behavior. 211 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 2: I ain't never. 212 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 3: Want to see my cousins child do nothing nothing. Then 213 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 3: you stupid? So he cousin do have a son to 214 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 3: play basketball? So was that just a coincidence? 215 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 2: Girl? 216 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 3: Why was he over that sitting with her? I'm at 217 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 3: the point of following him around to find out what 218 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 3: he's up to. Why won't he calm my nerves as 219 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 3: there's nothing going on with him and that woman? Well, 220 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 3: the question is why are you so gullible? Why are 221 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 3: you so stupid? Why you're not asking him to write things? 222 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:51,959 Speaker 3: And why are you letting him just tell you anything? 223 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 3: Should I trust my tuition and start tracking him? Why 224 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 3: don't you just trust your intuition. You ain't got to 225 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 3: track him. They sending you a him. But if you 226 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 3: want to go into blood hould mode, go ahead, Yeah, 227 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 3: go ahead and track it like life. 228 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 2: Ain't busy enough? Gone track it? 229 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, But I'm gonna tell you right now you are 230 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:22,559 Speaker 3: going to find whatever it is you're looking for. Yeah, 231 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 3: and then what you're gonna tell yourself and what he 232 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 3: gonna tell you? 233 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 2: Everybody have a fal what you're. 234 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: Trigging for with nurses? Because I like nurses. 235 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 2: Tell you know, I like nurses. 236 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:37,679 Speaker 1: What about the line that she says, Steve, I know 237 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: that doctors get really flirty with nurses and they hook 238 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 1: up on long shifts. She said that, Yeah, but. 239 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 2: Now he told her, we don't do that over in 240 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 2: my hospital. Yeah. They do that on all the shows 241 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 2: I done seen on TV. 242 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 3: Behave, They did it on grains Anatomy, they do it 243 00:12:56,320 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 3: on the House, They did it on a car. Yeah, 244 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 3: they do it on all it. They did it on Mash. 245 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 3: They got together in the hospital in Vietnam. 246 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 1: I know here, well yes, yes, yes, he's just being 247 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 1: dismissive and he is gaslighting her. 248 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 2: And you let him tell you anything. 249 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 1: Yeah and wow? 250 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:20,719 Speaker 2: All right. 251 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:24,079 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 252 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry 253 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded 254 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: so good. You can download it today now. 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