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Speaker 1: You know, um, I thought I think of my life

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Speaker 1: Hey Steve, good morning, Happy Valentine's Day. I love you guys. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry what happened started off this Valentine's Day

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Speaker 1: Come on, call it back, dog. Hey, this is ours.

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Speaker 1: Mr Tony Anthony, could you possibly tell me what's going on?

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Speaker 1: We're calling me something about some old lady. You call

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Speaker 1: This is Nephew Timing from the Steve Harvey Marning Show.

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Speaker 1: You have been pranked phone call by your girl that's

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Speaker 1: Why do you do that? Time? What's wrong with you? Man? Man?

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Speaker 1: You know this ain't no good time for me. Man,

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Speaker 1: I don't have time. Man, you messing with Man. I'm

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Speaker 1: i'm I'm I'm in the studio. I'm in New York City. Man,

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Speaker 1: I got yourself from Ms. Darth. Hey, I gotta ask

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Speaker 1: radio show in the land? Man? A man that is

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Speaker 1: It'll help your land through the good times, through the

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Speaker 1: And yes I will. I'm pranking church people. And you

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Speaker 1: want to get this. You want this in your car,

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Speaker 1: you want this in your home, you want to download,

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Speaker 1: you want to have it everywhere you go because I

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Speaker 1: do it. Won't I do it? Yes? I will prank

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: Miss Anna is gonna be here with today's national news

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Speaker 1: and we'll have our Winter Olympics Report. Steve sokay, ready,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Show. All right. Happy Valentine's

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Speaker 1: Day everyone, Steve. We still want to hear part two

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Speaker 1: of your romantic Day for your wife today, but before

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Speaker 1: we get to that, it is time for our Winter

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Speaker 1: Olympics Report. We all know about the endorsement deals Olympians

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Speaker 1: get for winning gold, but did you know the United

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Speaker 1: States Olympic Committee gives athletes a cash prize for each

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Speaker 1: winning medal. I don't know that each gold medal earns

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Speaker 1: an athlete about thirty seven grand, silver gets twenty two thousand,

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Speaker 1: five hundred and bronze gets fifteen thousand. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: So so can you explain curling again? Please? What is

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Speaker 1: it now? Tommy says, it's like shuffleboard on ice. Is

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Speaker 1: that pretty close? I look at it differently. I've actually

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Speaker 1: played it. I like it. It's a circle. Okay, it's

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Speaker 1: a nice You have to wear these pads on your

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Speaker 1: shoes to help you not slip so much. Okay. It

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Speaker 1: starts with the lunch like glide, similar to the way

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Speaker 1: I leave my house in the morning to get That's

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Speaker 1: how cool people look when they leave. So I just

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Speaker 1: ease out the dough now. It doesn't require a hard

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Speaker 1: throwing motion. It requires a glide slide with a very

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Speaker 1: soft release aimed at the circle. Oh, man, as the

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Speaker 1: stone it's perused. Your job is to god the people

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Speaker 1: out there. That's what they call sweeping, and you yell

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Speaker 1: instructions if you want to sweep harder, left, right, softer

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Speaker 1: r Oh, that's what they're saying what they were saying

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Speaker 1: her hot hard hard. I mean he got really really

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Speaker 1: brushed down him. Yeah to London, Okay, getting black people

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Speaker 1: doing this, so yeah, I was I was the only

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Speaker 1: black person out there that day. Okay, let me, let me,

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Speaker 1: let me ask this question. I damn sure. The Nigerian

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Speaker 1: stone curling too, letting it can the sport you told

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Speaker 1: me about where they lay down on their back and

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Speaker 1: they shoot this through this whole course. What is what

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Speaker 1: is the strategy of that once they push off? What's

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Speaker 1: what makes you go faster? Somebody got in jail that

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Speaker 1: damn ice. But I mean, but but what makes you

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Speaker 1: get faster than the other person? That's what I don't understand.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? You lean in a certain way,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. You ride the course faster than somebody else,

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Speaker 1: the opicists without scraping against them side. You scrape against

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Speaker 1: the side, you lose time. And don't you have to

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Speaker 1: lift your head up a little bit steam so you

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Speaker 1: can see where you're going? Well, Shelly, you all want

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Speaker 1: to just laid back in the enjoy the damn ride.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? You're looking back where you can

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Speaker 1: came from the now. You gotta look down there, throw

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Speaker 1: your ass something them staying somewhere at you post, lift

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Speaker 1: your head and a nobody just throwing the ass down,

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Speaker 1: just asking Suirley, surely you're gonna have to ask more

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Speaker 1: atletic questions. This is we don't want to, so we

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Speaker 1: don't want to land right, better look up. If you

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Speaker 1: don't look up in that curve coming, you ain't sitting

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Speaker 1: in the clinging your ass up in the North Korea something.

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Speaker 1: I don't want that. Alright, this is here with more

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Speaker 1: get your wife break Steve well, I guess we shoot

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Speaker 1: everybody head up here. She co heads up the lung

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Speaker 1: off into Korea's him. It's trip okay, thank you very much, everybody.

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Speaker 1: This is and trip. Yes, I am here. Top and

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Speaker 1: tel Just officials are issuing a warning to the nation's amakers.

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Speaker 1: Get up, listen to this everybody. They believe that the

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Speaker 1: Russians and the North Koreans are gearing up to interfere

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Speaker 1: in this year's midterm elections. National Intelligence Director Dan co

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Speaker 1: says the threat is real with respect to Russian influence efforts.

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Speaker 1: Let me be clear, the Russians utilized this tool because

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Speaker 1: it's relatively cheap. It's low risk, it offers what they

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Speaker 1: perceive as plausible deniability, and it's proven to be effective.

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Speaker 1: Intelige officials have already concluded that the Russians medal in

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Speaker 1: our last presidential election. And now with questions still swirling

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Speaker 1: about and how the now former White House Staff Secretary

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Speaker 1: Rob Porter and how he served the Trump administration with

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Speaker 1: not one but two x wives saying that he was

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Speaker 1: physically abusive, they had the FBI Christopher Ray is contradicting

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Speaker 1: the story that the White House has been putting out

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Speaker 1: that the FBI's background check of Porter was still in

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Speaker 1: the process of being completed. The FBI director has told

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Speaker 1: the Senate Committee that the agency's report on Porter was

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Speaker 1: completed last July. Soon thereafter, we received requests for follow up,

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Speaker 1: and we did the follow up uh and provided that

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Speaker 1: information in November, and that we administratively closed the file

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Speaker 1: in January. The Trump White House claims that they didn't

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Speaker 1: know about the domestic violence allegations for sure till last week,

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Speaker 1: and that as soon as they did, they did the

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Speaker 1: right thing. Israeli police are reportedly recommended to Prime Minister

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Speaker 1: Benjamin that Yeah will be charged with bribery and corruption

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Speaker 1: in two cases. The Israeli media, saying though it's up

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Speaker 1: to that country's attorney generals to decide whether or not

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Speaker 1: to indict him. Not not did not you insist on

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Speaker 1: his innocence. Two members of Congress to New York members

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Speaker 1: said that the Trump administration has told hundreds of Puerto

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Speaker 1: Rican families evacuated to hotels after her came Maria that

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Speaker 1: they have to go back to their homes will find

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Speaker 1: someone else to live after Today. Native Alaskis and Jose

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Speaker 1: Sano say that the about two hundred families have to go,

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Speaker 1: and they're asking the government to extend that hotel program

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Speaker 1: to at least June one. And yesterday is Frederick Douglas Day,

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Speaker 1: ash Wednesday and smooches for every one day. Okay, my

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Speaker 1: smooches are kind of funny. We'll back with more entertainment

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Speaker 1: in today's trending topics. That twenty minutes after the hour

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Speaker 1: on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Show. Former White House aid and reality TV

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Speaker 1: star Amarossa once again spoke up about President Trump in

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Speaker 1: the White House. You know she's on that show, Celebrity

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Speaker 1: Big Brother. I don't know if you guys had a

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Speaker 1: chance to see it. But during the episode, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: Rossa Warren that those hoping for Donald Trump's impeachment. Ah,

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Speaker 1: you better think twice about that, she says, because Vice

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Speaker 1: President Mike Pence is what she calls scary. Take a listen.

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Speaker 1: Can I just say this as badish, I don't think

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Speaker 1: Trump is. You would be worried about Pence. Everybody that's

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Speaker 1: wishing for impenent might want to reconsider their life. We

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Speaker 1: would be begging for days of Trump back if Pence

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Speaker 1: became president. That's all I'm saying. He's extreme. I'm Christian.

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Speaker 1: I love Jesus, but he thinks Jesus tells him to

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Speaker 1: say things like Jesus I say that I wish. Oh well,

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Speaker 1: that's the first thing she said. That's true. I agree

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Speaker 1: with that on the show. Yeah you have that. Yeah

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Speaker 1: my kids. Yes. Also, while talking to other CATS members

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Speaker 1: in the house, some A Rosa claimed that Trump's administration

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Speaker 1: crackdowns on immigrants are going to get worse. Check this out.

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Speaker 1: Barack Obama's administration said, if you sign up and basically

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Speaker 1: out yourself that you're here, I won't protect you. As

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Speaker 1: a result, all these people signed up, outed their families,

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Speaker 1: their children, people who were in hiding. Then Donald Trump

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Speaker 1: got in, it was like, yeah, that was his little

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Speaker 1: executive order, and now that someone else's charge, is that going? Well,

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Speaker 1: I look at this register. Now we know where you are,

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Speaker 1: we can find you. I guess what the crackdowns are happening,

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Speaker 1: and their aggressive and they're intentional, and they're to get worse.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's just weird them talking about politics period

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Speaker 1: on these reality shows. Now, it's just kind of strange,

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Speaker 1: especially to this degree. I'm surprised she can say as

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Speaker 1: much as she can say this because politics has changed.

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Speaker 1: The election of President Trump has changed the game, because

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Speaker 1: it's a new landscape now, It's never been done this way.

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Speaker 1: First of all, no president has ever tweeted, No president

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Speaker 1: has outwardly said the things he said and been allowed

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Speaker 1: to get away with it. Because, like Van Jones said,

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Speaker 1: people are trying to make this out as normal. This

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Speaker 1: is not normal. It's abnormal. He has drained the swamp

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Speaker 1: as he promised it, but he has filled it with

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Speaker 1: new creatures that we have never seen before. And so

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Speaker 1: what she's saying is true. All of these people who

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Speaker 1: signed up, he go going down this list he going

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Speaker 1: to get to did you hear about that doctor that

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Speaker 1: he was a study in medicine or something, got of

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Speaker 1: family over here. They didn't took him. Oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that happened some yeah, a while ago. Yeah. He's been

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Speaker 1: a citizen all this time and he's ye yep, alright,

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Speaker 1: coming up next more of this craziness. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Valentine's Day, as

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Speaker 1: we've established, and it just is Valentine's Day. Love love, love, love, love,

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Speaker 1: and uh it's also ash Wednesday today, Steven, we wanna

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Speaker 1: do a version of asked Steve. Okay, let's go. I

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Speaker 1: gotta question, Yeah, okay, love is fill in the blank?

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Speaker 1: Love is? Can I give a description of it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Whatever you want your answer. I think that real love

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Speaker 1: is all encompassing me and it takes everything into consideration,

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Speaker 1: our person's qualities, of person's flaws, the good points to

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Speaker 1: bad points, the positive to negatives. I think real love

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Speaker 1: is all encompassing. If you really in love with somebody,

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Speaker 1: you become tolerant and you try to work through the

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Speaker 1: differences that you have, and you try to understand the

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Speaker 1: flaws of your partner, because everybody got them. Everybody got them,

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Speaker 1: And so I think real love is encompassing of it all.

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Speaker 1: You have the ability to try to be understanding and

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Speaker 1: work with and then the things you can tolerate, you

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Speaker 1: tolerate things you can't. You put it on table and

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Speaker 1: see if y'all can't come some type of company with wisdom,

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Speaker 1: some wis y'all want the other side of it, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: Love is filling the blade. It's what you tell else

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Speaker 1: somebody when you're trying to get something. Particularly, That's what love.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people said and don't mean it. It's

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Speaker 1: just something you say said you can get what you're

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Speaker 1: trying to get. That's what love is, just saying that.

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Speaker 1: Another question, Tommy, go ahead, Who do you love more

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Speaker 1: than anybody else? Is who I love? On it myself.

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Speaker 1: I don't love no about more than I love me.

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Speaker 1: I love me some me. I ain't never get in

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Speaker 1: the way of me. Why I'm gonna live at somebody

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Speaker 1: more than I love me? Why would I? Why would

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Speaker 1: I don't think put you first? Am I not gonna

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Speaker 1: love me first? That's just like when president just go vote,

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Speaker 1: they vote for themselves. They don't vote for the other

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Speaker 1: person time. No, you don't vote for the other person.

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Speaker 1: That's stupid, man, love you attitude any more questions? Let

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Speaker 1: me recover from that. No, that that you don't even

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Speaker 1: have to recover. All right, let's talk about commitment, Steve.

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Speaker 1: What's the difference between love and commitment. Well, you can

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00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 1: love a person and not be committed to him. That

634
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 1: that's done all the time. That's the commitment is you

635
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 1: has to be from your standpoint. The commitment has to

636
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: be come from your standpoint what you're willing to give

637
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 1: another person and how you really value yourself and not

638
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 1: only yourself, but what you have with the other person.

639
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:53,359
Speaker 1: That produces a stronger level of commitment, and it puts

640
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: it at a higher risk value. You take less risk.

641
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 1: You're more committed. You when you when you really involved

642
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: and you don't want to lose what you have you keep,

643
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: commitment increases. But you can't love a person to not

644
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 1: be committed to him. Though. Let's ask for real question.

645
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Speaker 1: Can you learn three people? Yes, you can, Tommy, thank you,

646
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 1: thank you, I knew it. Not I knew it, And

647
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,799
Speaker 1: you will get busted and you will have to pay.

648
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: All right, more from Steve. When we come back. We're

649
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 1: gonna have his dues and don'ts for Valentine's Day. You're

650
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the

651
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: top of the hour, right about four minutes after, it's

652
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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter. But up next, Fort Wayne, Indiana nephew

653
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: Tommy is here. That's him right there with today's prank

654
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: phone call. That's me. I'm giving up your wife for Lynn.

655
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: See right there. Sorry, Fort Wayne, but you know what,

656
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: ain't just supposed to give up some for yes Wednesday today,

657
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:05,280
Speaker 1: I'm giving up your wife for Lynn. It's ash Wednesday today. Yeah,

658
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 1: we'll talk about it that. He has a story about

659
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: that too, you know he does. He does. Oh, we

660
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 1: gotta I love that one. Let's right, giving up your

661
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:28,279
Speaker 1: wife for let Here it is Hello, Hey, I'm trying

662
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:31,879
Speaker 1: to reach Dorsey. Yeah, this was it. This cliff Man.

663
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 1: I work at the post office with your wife. How

664
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: you doing, bro? I'm doing all right? Everything cool? Yeah?

665
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 1: Everything good man? Everything good. Um. Like I said, my

666
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 1: name is cliff Man. I wanted to reach out and

667
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 1: holllet you about a couple of things if you if

668
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 1: you got a minute, you got a minute? Yeah, everything

669
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 1: all right with my wife. Is something wrong or something no? No, no, no, no, no, no,

670
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: your wife good? Man, your wife good. I wanted to

671
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,439
Speaker 1: hit you up. Man. We've been working the post office

672
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,919
Speaker 1: quite a while. We've probably been in the same room

673
00:45:57,960 --> 00:45:59,760
Speaker 1: a few times. Man, I don't know if you remember

674
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 1: me me or not, but okay, but what I wanted

675
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 1: to say, Man, is trying to do better with my life,

676
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: dog and you know, just just trying to do better,

677
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So you know, for for lift, Man,

678
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 1: I gave up a few things. You know what I'm saying.

679
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: I just thought that would be a good thing, man,

680
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 1: to try to do the things that matter the most, uh,

681
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 1: that you're addicted to, you know, you want to get

682
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 1: rid of you know what I'm saying, at least for

683
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:27,320
Speaker 1: Lent is what I'm trying to do. You feel me. Okay,

684
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 1: I'm kind of confused. But what they got to do

685
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 1: with me, well, basically, man, I'm I'm giving up for Lynn.

686
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 1: You know, I decided to give up uh, messing around

687
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: with your wife, you know, because because who who hold on? Man?

688
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,759
Speaker 1: Hold on? Man, I'm at work. I don't know what

689
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 1: you're come back, but back up and rephrase everything you

690
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 1: just said. Well, like I say, Man, for Lynn, I'm

691
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: trying to I'm trying to give up stuff that I'm

692
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:00,879
Speaker 1: that I'm addicted to, you know. And I just said

693
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 1: what they got to do with me and my wife

694
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: though and you. But that's what I'm trying to tell you, Man,

695
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:08,240
Speaker 1: I'm trying to give up messing around with your wife

696
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 1: for Lynn. I mean, that's what I have given up.

697
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 1: I've given up messing around with your wife for Lynn. Man,

698
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: we're talking about man, messing around with my wife. Man,

699
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:19,479
Speaker 1: got no time for no games right now? Who this man?

700
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:22,800
Speaker 1: What's what's your name? Again? This is Cliff Man I

701
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 1: actually worked with for the last ten twelve years. But

702
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 1: but what I wanted to really let you know is,

703
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 1: you know, her schedule probably gonna change because what we

704
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 1: used to be doing we ain't doing. So she's probably

705
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,359
Speaker 1: gonna be coming home a little bit earlier, things like that.

706
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 1: But I don't I don't want you getting addicted to it,

707
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 1: because you know, after Lynn is over, then you know

708
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,760
Speaker 1: we'll be back what we used to do. Man, what

709
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: is you talking about? Man? Hold on? Is my wife's

710
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 1: going to be home in a minute. We're gonna talk

711
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 1: about all this with me. Man, I'm about to go

712
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: Hold on, what what are you? Are you in the

713
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: city right now? Can I can I meet with you

714
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 1: right now? Cliff? Right? Okay? But what I'm what I'm

715
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: trying to say, Well, I'm saying I'm trying to do better.

716
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 1: You know, I gave up trying to do better. That

717
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:05,399
Speaker 1: sounds like a bunch of to me. I got something

718
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: for you and my wife? True? Okay, Okay, okay, man,

719
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:11,399
Speaker 1: I mean, ain't you feeling me? Don't trying to do better? Though?

720
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: I ain't feeling the thing you calling me telling me

721
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 1: my wife. I think we need to meet up and

722
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 1: talk about this face to face. Clip what you think?

723
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:20,840
Speaker 1: I mean? We talked right now? If you want to

724
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 1: have a conversation, No, no, no, you just tell me

725
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: your address and me and my wife's beend to just

726
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,359
Speaker 1: come on over there. How about that and we all

727
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: said down and have a little power. I don't know

728
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 1: who thank you is, man, but me and my wife

729
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,399
Speaker 1: been together over fifteen years and we ain't never had

730
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: no problems with no like this, like the you're telling

731
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,839
Speaker 1: me on this phone. It sounds like a bunch of

732
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 1: crazy to me. But somebody knick gonna today. If true,

733
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: So what you need to do You need to tell

734
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,919
Speaker 1: me your name, your number. And I don't know why

735
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 1: you come from this block phone, but you hear me, man,

736
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm hearing you. Man, what I'm saying, the reason for

737
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: the call was to let you know, you know, don't

738
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,760
Speaker 1: get used to her schedule because after litt it's gonna

739
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 1: be back to the way it used to beat. That's

740
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:10,399
Speaker 1: all the phone. What's the is you talking about? We're

741
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 1: getting on not what what's your what's your what's your

742
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 1: what's your last name? Cliff? I'm gonna come find you.

743
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come see you now. Jack. My name is Cliff.

744
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 1: Like I said, I work at the Cliff and I

745
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: work at the Post offic with So okay, well, how

746
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: come you call from a block number? Cliff? What's your

747
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 1: phone number? Man? Hey man, listen, I'm not trying to

748
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:32,280
Speaker 1: have no confrontation with you. Man, it's already a confrontation.

749
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: You can call my phone from a block number. I

750
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:37,840
Speaker 1: don't know you, you don't know me, and you're telling

751
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 1: me you be my wife? Are you serious? Did you

752
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: know she was married? I mean, what you mean? Did

753
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 1: you know he was married? Yes or no? I mean yeah,

754
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:49,840
Speaker 1: I know. I mean yeah, I knew she was married. Okay,

755
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 1: what it is you knew that from the jump, So

756
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,400
Speaker 1: that means you've been disrespecting me from the jump. So

757
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:58,280
Speaker 1: now I got to getting your Now you just cantroll

758
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 1: off on yourself. So here regards list. I'm coming to

759
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: see you today, Jack, Hey, and my name named Jack Man,

760
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: my name Clip. But you're not. I'm not gonna look here.

761
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: I don't have no, I'm not trying to have no confrontation.

762
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 1: I just wanted you to be aware of the schedule. Yeah, okay,

763
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm definitely aware. Not Clip. Who that is you? Man?

764
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: Another thing? Man, I want to know this, like I know,

765
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,959
Speaker 1: I know your tattoo on your name on her lower back.

766
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 1: I've seen that. Uh it's a Dorsey right there. Whoa whoa, whoa,

767
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,760
Speaker 1: whoa whoa whoa? Hold on, hold on, man, you're telling

768
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: me you haven't seen the tattoo on her back? Is

769
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 1: that what your lower back? Man? Right right right right

770
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 1: on above a tail phone? Yeah, I've seen it. Dorsey?

771
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:41,479
Speaker 1: Your name Dorsey? Right? Man? Who is this man? What's

772
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: your real name? Hey? Man? They calm down, Man, are you.

773
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 1: Are you cool with you called my phone? Are you

774
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 1: school with the schedule changing? That's what I'm asking? What

775
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:53,919
Speaker 1: are you cool with her schedule change? And you see

776
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:55,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Her schedule are gonna come back to

777
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 1: normal once lit is over with. I gave up messing

778
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 1: around with her for man, But nothing, you man, I'm

779
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 1: not cool with the thing. I'm about to be cool

780
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: in your face in a minute. And then tell me

781
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 1: your name, tell me your number and your real address,

782
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,800
Speaker 1: and we're gonna talk about our lists in person. Okay,

783
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: all right, what my name? What's your name? My name Tommy? Man? Okay,

784
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 1: now we're getting somewhere. Tell me what I mean. I

785
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: mean while you need my last name because I'm gonna

786
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: come see you. What you mean? Why I need your

787
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: last name? Hold on? Hold on, somebody get in you

788
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 1: on the phone. Hey, hold on, don't go nowhere. We're

789
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 1: gonna get in on the phone right now and we're

790
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 1: gonna settle this right now. Hold on, you're on the phone,

791
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: color color for real? Yeah, tell me who what you're

792
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: scared up? Okay, man? They called me nephew Tommy? Oh

793
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 1: who my name? Nephew Tommy from Steve Harvey Morning Show.

794
00:51:54,160 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: What uh No, she didn't shut me up. Man, Man,

795
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 1: your wife got me to pray. Call you man, she

796
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 1: tell you so I left. I just left the house.

797
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: Call him now. That's why staying as in the phone.

798
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 1: It was over for you. Man. Y'all come on, man,

799
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 1: y'all wrong for this man. This needs to be a

800
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 1: gift a low man. Man. I gotta ask you, baby,

801
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:26,280
Speaker 1: what's the baddest radio show in the land? Man, Steve

802
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 1: Hardy Morning? So I guess I come a time. You

803
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: know what You're supposed to give up something around this

804
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 1: time of the year, and and but if you've been

805
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 1: holding on it at sure lets something go now after

806
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: this Now you know, just just after Lenten season, you're

807
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 1: back back over there one time. I'm sorry, My bad

808
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be in time. You get it out. Where

809
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: can we get your CDs? Quickly? Tommy, Walmart? Get him

810
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 1: in Walmart? Won'tly do it? Frank c D is on

811
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 1: sale right now. I'm franking church people. You can get

812
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 1: your very own copy in Walmart. They don't have it

813
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 1: telling the audisme mode because the nephew is selling Frank

814
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 1: c ds. So see there four who do well, you

815
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 1: only know the Lord ten percent. But alright, coming up

816
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, Today's Strawberry Letter. You're

817
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Happy Valentine's everyone,

818
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 1: and as we just mentioned, of course, it's also ash Wednesday. Steve,

819
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 1: right before we get to the Strawberry Letter. We would

820
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 1: love to hear this story, I mean, because we just

821
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 1: love it every year. So we have new affiliates to

822
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 1: some people that have never heard this story yea before.

823
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:55,400
Speaker 1: It's one of my favorite. We just got fort Wayne,

824
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 1: so you know, you gotta tell so they can get

825
00:53:57,280 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: to know us. I worked at Ford Motive coming and uh,

826
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 1: it's a windy which I knew nothing about. That's what

827
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: I said. So I don't know anything about this because

828
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:18,319
Speaker 1: I'm not Catholic. I had no idea what it was.

829
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: So I worked with this white dude. We was real

830
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 1: cool at the world a job. Man. We were like

831
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 1: best best boys, worked right next to each other in

832
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 1: all pits, all pumps, we should put all pumps on

833
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: and so you know that job, I just got it

834
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,720
Speaker 1: forward and that was kind of one of the jobs

835
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: you didn't want. But me and him alternated, so he

836
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:43,440
Speaker 1: was kind of cool with each other. So he had

837
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:49,720
Speaker 1: went to lunch. I didn't know. So he came back

838
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 1: from lunch and I'm standing there talking and I don't

839
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 1: see him come up, and he fittn't relieve me, and

840
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,479
Speaker 1: I got cover rolls on. He didn't put his cover

841
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: rolls back on. It's my time to go to lunch.

842
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 1: Because we relieved each other. Now he didn't unbeknownst to me,

843
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:11,239
Speaker 1: he didn't went to church on his lunch break. Called.

844
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:16,280
Speaker 1: He capped yes then and then got the all ash

845
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: put on his forehead. They nobody told me nothing about this.

846
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 1: So I'm doing all pumps. He's standing behind me and

847
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 1: I'm talking to the other dudes on a simili line.

848
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 1: He said, how if I'm back, man, I'm ready to

849
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 1: gonna let you gonna go. I said, I'll be with

850
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:33,960
Speaker 1: you mentor. I turned around and I look at him

851
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 1: and we're talking. And so I'm steady talking to the

852
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 1: other dude on us side line. So we started talking.

853
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 1: He kept talking, So I pulled my rag out out

854
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 1: my back pocket and kind of dabbed it, you know,

855
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 1: a little bit on my tongue and went on and

856
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 1: wipe that ash off his forehead. I thought it was

857
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:57,799
Speaker 1: all call were all we put on all pumps. So

858
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:01,479
Speaker 1: I said, my boy, it got this all on his head,

859
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 1: so I'll wipe it off with your whole head. He's

860
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:11,839
Speaker 1: standing he said, oh my god, what did you down?

861
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 1: And I'm standing there like damn. That's ungrateful sending them

862
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 1: in there with it all on your forehead. I'm your

863
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 1: boy on his girlfriend started walking bout down here. You

864
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 1: got this all on your he said, what did you do? Said?

865
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 1: Know what you're tripping for? Man? I just got this

866
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 1: all off your head. He said, wasn't oil. I said that, hell,

867
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: it was what you thought it was. I was looking

868
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: at the U can't see it. It's on your phone,

869
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 1: he said. Ash okay, ash all. What is on your forehead? Folk?

870
00:56:55,880 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: He said, because it's ash windstape. I said, don't what

871
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 1: it's ash Wednesday. I went to the cathedral at a

872
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: priest put this on me. What I'm so damn well

873
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 1: they had a priest put one on you, dog, and

874
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: it won't need more home cross your thumb, smooth man.

875
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:30,360
Speaker 1: We didn't, white boy, explain that to me. You were

876
00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 1: done with the other dudes across the similar line. When

877
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 1: the engine going by with nothing on it. They over

878
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 1: there hot. Uh so that's the last time. Wow, now

879
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:53,919
Speaker 1: you know all right, nephew, take us to the letter.

880
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: Now the letter, ladies and gentlemen, especially from Fort Wayne.

881
00:57:57,720 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 1: It's we invite our audience to write us letters, write

882
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 1: Steve and I letters, and we will give you advice

883
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 1: if you have an issue. Okay, and you'll check it out.

884
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 1: Bugle up, hold on tight, we got it for you.

885
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: Here it is the Strawberry Letter. Ready for the letter.

886
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:15,960
Speaker 1: Here we go. Subject. I am a mother and a

887
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: wife not amaze. Ready, Dear Shirley and Steve. I'm hoping

888
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 1: that you will choose this letter because at this point

889
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: I really don't know what to do. I've been married

890
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 1: for close to nine years to a wonderful man, have

891
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 1: one child and another child that will be born in

892
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 1: about two weeks. When my husband and I were dating,

893
00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 1: I did notice that he wasn't always the neatest person,

894
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 1: but I cut him some slack because it was a

895
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: bachelor and living on his own. When we got married

896
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 1: and moved into our apartment, he would help out, but

897
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 1: the majority of the housework fell on me. Shortly after

898
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 1: moving into our first home, I began to repeatedly ask

899
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: him for help around the house. It would usually take

900
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: me acting like a lunar tick before he would help,

901
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 1: but the help would only last for about two or

902
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 1: three weeks. Fast forward three years later, and I'm still

903
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 1: n responsible for the housework. Granted, my husband does not

904
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:13,640
Speaker 1: have a regular night of five like I do, but

905
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:16,200
Speaker 1: on the on his days off, I expect him to

906
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: do something anything. Am I wrong for asking him to

907
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:22,800
Speaker 1: take care of the yard, do a few loads of laundry,

908
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 1: to clean up the house if he saw them all

909
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: day without our child to take care of. As well,

910
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 1: when I'm off on the weekend, I get more done

911
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: in five hours than he does in two full days

912
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 1: of being off. And that's with having to take care

913
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 1: of our child and being pregnant. One more thing. Whenever

914
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 1: I asked him to do something that affects his family,

915
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:45,720
Speaker 1: I never asked him more than once. Please help me?

916
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 1: What should I do? Stephen Shirley? I respect your advice

917
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 1: and usually agree with the advice that you have given others.

918
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 1: I'm hoping that you will give me a solution that

919
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: no one else has already given me and didn't work. Signed.

920
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: My name is not Florence from the Jefferson's Dear Nut Florence.

921
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 1: You just married your opposite, your neat and he's a slob.

922
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 1: You like to clean up and he doesn't. You've already

923
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: said that he was a wonderful man, and just because

924
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 1: he's a slob and doesn't like to clean up doesn't

925
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 1: make him a bad person. But him not being supportive

926
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 1: of you when you're about to deliver his baby in

927
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: two weeks makes him lazy, lazy, lazy and selfish to me,

928
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 1: he needs to get up off his butt. He needs

929
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 1: to um, like you said, do something anything. You're pregnant.

930
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 1: You shouldn't have to lift a finger to do anything.

931
01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: You know, he wasn't He wasn't neat when you when

932
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: you were dating. You did notice that. I say, you know,

933
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 1: call a professional maide service, Mary maid, see if they're

934
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:47,560
Speaker 1: in your area. Okay, just call a professional maide service.

935
01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 1: You shouldn't have to do all this while you're pregnant.

936
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 1: Come on, this man needs to step up and help

937
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: you and be supportive. You're having his baby for God's say,

938
01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 1: twelve minutes. All right, let's get to hurt you, because

939
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:08,560
Speaker 1: at this point I really don't know what to do.

940
01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 1: I've been learned close to nine years too wonderful man

941
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 1: have one child and another one that would be born

942
01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 1: in about two weeks. When my husband and I were dating,

943
01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 1: I did notice that he wasn't the neatest person, but

944
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,680
Speaker 1: I cut him some slack because he was a bachelor

945
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 1: living on his own. When we got married and moved

946
01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 1: into our apartment, he would help out, but the majority

947
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 1: of the housework fell on me. Shortly after moving into

948
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:28,960
Speaker 1: our first home, I began to repletedly ask him to

949
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:31,160
Speaker 1: help around the house. I would usually take me acting

950
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 1: like a lunatic before he would help, but the help

951
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 1: would only last for about two or three weeks. Fast

952
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 1: forward three years later, and I'm still responsible for the housework. Granted,

953
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 1: my husband does not have a regular nine to five

954
01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:43,040
Speaker 1: like I do, but on his off days, I expect

955
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:45,920
Speaker 1: him to do something anything. Am I wrong for asking

956
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 1: him to take care of the yard, do a few

957
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 1: loads of laundry, or clean up the house if he's

958
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:52,360
Speaker 1: home all day without our child to take care of.

959
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 1: As well, When I'm off on the weekends, I get

960
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:56,720
Speaker 1: more done in five hours than he does in two

961
01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:59,240
Speaker 1: full days of being off and that's with having to

962
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:02,120
Speaker 1: take care of our child and being pregnant. One more thing,

963
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 1: whenever I asked him to do something that affects his family,

964
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:07,880
Speaker 1: I never have to ask him more than once. Please

965
01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:10,320
Speaker 1: help me what should I do? Stephen Sherley. I respect

966
01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: your advice and usually agree with the advice that you

967
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: have given others. I'm hoping that you give me an

968
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:16,680
Speaker 1: solution that no one else has already given me and

969
01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:22,480
Speaker 1: didn't work. Signed. My name is not Flauence from the Jeffersons. Well, uh, lady,

970
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 1: that ain't Flaunce from the Jeffersons. Let me help you out.

971
01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 1: I think the solution is in the way you look

972
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 1: at this letter. I think you your situation has to

973
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 1: be looked at a little bit different. Uh, this is

974
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 1: not a letter about pregnancy at all. I respect the

975
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 1: fact that you are pregnant. Now. I love women for

976
01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 1: that ability that God given gift, and you are to

977
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:47,440
Speaker 1: be honored and respected an uphill for that duty that

978
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: you all performed so eloquently. But this letter really ain't

979
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:54,360
Speaker 1: about your pregnancy. This letter really is about your man

980
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 1: that you knew prior to getting married was sloppy, So

981
01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 1: after you got married, see you say I cut him

982
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:04,959
Speaker 1: some slack because he was a bachelor living on his own,

983
01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:10,440
Speaker 1: and this was supposed to change because y'all did what

984
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: y'all exchange rings and vow to live and love and

985
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: richard for poor, better, for work, sickness, and in health.

986
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: Thus far, he is not breaking any of the vows

987
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 1: that he committed to. Thou shall clean the house is

988
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:33,080
Speaker 1: not a wedding val or commitment of any kind. You

989
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 1: have a wonderful man, it's just something about your man.

990
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 1: You don't like your man sloppy and you want him

991
01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 1: to be neat. Well, I got news for you. You

992
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 1: and all the ladies just having this problem. Your man

993
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be that for you. I began to repeatedly

994
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: ask him help around the house and usually take me

995
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:54,600
Speaker 1: acting like a lunatic before he would help. Okay, so

996
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 1: now you're snapping, going off with it. He cleaned straighten

997
01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 1: up for a couple of weeks, and that ain't good

998
01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 1: for you when you're pregnant. Know how he's straighten up

999
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,880
Speaker 1: for two weeks. Fast forward three years later, you still

1000
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:10,880
Speaker 1: ninety percent responsible for the housework. Granted, here's the key

1001
01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:13,960
Speaker 1: in the letter. Granted, my husband does not have a

1002
01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 1: regular nine to five like I do. Well, let's read

1003
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:20,080
Speaker 1: in between those lines for minute, folks. Does this mean

1004
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: that this man has a job that takes him away

1005
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 1: from the home a lot more than an eight hour job.

1006
01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: Is he in some type of running his own business?

1007
01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:32,720
Speaker 1: Is he in sales? Is he in a salary position

1008
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 1: that requires him to be a job until the job

1009
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 1: is through? What type of job does he had? What

1010
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 1: she admits? Granted, he does not have a nine to five,

1011
01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:45,160
Speaker 1: meaning he working more than eight hours. That's what I

1012
01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:48,360
Speaker 1: see in this letter. So when Dag come home, see

1013
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,840
Speaker 1: the man got to plug up and get rejuvenated for

1014
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 1: the next day. He fit to clean up your house.

1015
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: That ain't what he do. He wasn't cleaning up the

1016
01:04:57,000 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 1: house for he met you. He didn't sign up for

1017
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: the match to clean up the house. Now now you

1018
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 1: want some help or everybody say getting maid service. Everybody

1019
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 1: ain't got money for no maid service. So if I

1020
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:11,440
Speaker 1: was you, ma'am, so you can quit driving yourself crazy

1021
01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 1: with this wonderful man you'd have, who is number one

1022
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:17,919
Speaker 1: dude taking care of three p's. He's professing his love

1023
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,160
Speaker 1: for you because you know he's a wonderful man. He's

1024
01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:22,680
Speaker 1: providing for you because you are in a new house,

1025
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 1: somebody paying for it. And I bet it's got a

1026
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:27,560
Speaker 1: lot to do with that man that's got that job,

1027
01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 1: that ain't no regular nine to five. He turned in

1028
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 1: the change over and he willing to protect you. So

1029
01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:35,360
Speaker 1: this ain't about him cheating. This ain't about him not

1030
01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: being there for you emotionally. All you mad body, is

1031
01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 1: he won't clean up the house. Now you got the pregnant,

1032
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 1: the majority of woman will be in their life pregnant, well,

1033
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 1: had a baby, and then let's move on. I'm just

1034
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 1: telling you what you can quit expecting from your man

1035
01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 1: to do. I'm telling you the letter ain't about her pregnancy.

1036
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:00,640
Speaker 1: What do you want the man to do cause you regnant? Now?

1037
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 1: Is he taking care of prenatal care? Providing all the medicine?

1038
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:08,760
Speaker 1: And she said nothing about lifting, no fingers sharing it.

1039
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:11,160
Speaker 1: She don't want to do no housework. But what you

1040
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 1: cannot expect this man to do, it's scripping. Be something

1041
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:17,120
Speaker 1: that he ain't heating to do the housework. That ain't

1042
01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:19,280
Speaker 1: what you do. All right, Steve, we gotta get out

1043
01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:21,760
Speaker 1: of here. Email us or instagram us. Your thoughts on

1044
01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter at my girls, Shirley and please please

1045
01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:29,480
Speaker 1: join me this Thursday at one thirty pm Eastern time.

1046
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 1: I'll be on Facebook for the Strawberry Letter Live after show.

1047
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:36,480
Speaker 1: All right, I want to see you there now. Switching gears.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys heard about this, but

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01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:41,920
Speaker 1: Snoop Dogg is a little upset about b et s

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01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 1: Social Awards over the snub he did not get any awards.

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01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 1: Snoop Dogg awards. Yeah, I'm mad too, What you mad about?

1052
01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:59,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just want Yeah, we love him.

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01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: He's only not happy with b e T. He took

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01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 1: to Instagram to give the network a piece of his mind.

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01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 1: As you know, b ET held its two thousand eighteen

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01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:11,840
Speaker 1: Social Awards to honor social media influencers, and according to

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01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 1: the dog Father, they left out the King of social Media.

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01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 1: Take a listen, y'all gonna have a BT Social Awards,

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01:07:19,200 --> 01:07:22,000
Speaker 1: and I'm not invited and not in no categories because

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01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 1: going on in the King of social Media. When it

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01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:27,480
Speaker 1: comes to this Instagram, everybody loved my page. I keep

1062
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 1: you laughing, keep you thinking, keep good music on the

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01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:34,360
Speaker 1: BT Social Awards, saying do I need to turn into

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01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 1: that again? Go Kanye on, y'all, go snatch me an

1065
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:41,440
Speaker 1: award for BT. Get it together. I ain't tripping, y'all tripping.

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01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 1: I love Did you not love him? He's got like

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01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 1: twenty one point six million followers? Okay? Yeah, coming up

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01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:01,120
Speaker 1: in about ten and that you can call and tell

1069
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:04,439
Speaker 1: us what love is again and ask Steve some love

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01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:08,480
Speaker 1: questions on this Valentine's Day eight seven seven nine, Steve,

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01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:13,040
Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,

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01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:16,599
Speaker 1: here we are. We we tweeted out there, We put

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01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:18,640
Speaker 1: the question out there for people to call in and

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01:08:18,680 --> 01:08:21,479
Speaker 1: ask you love questions, as today is Valentine's Day and

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01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:24,479
Speaker 1: you're the love guru, the love doctor, all of that.

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01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:29,920
Speaker 1: So let's go to line one and love doctor. Okay,

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01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:37,559
Speaker 1: it's Lenara from New Jersey. Steve. Yes, Hello, darling, how

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01:08:37,600 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 1: are you? I'm yourself? Well, you know, I'm just fine, girl.

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01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:44,599
Speaker 1: I'm really What can I do for you? Any questions

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01:08:44,680 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 1: or comments? Today? Ah? Yeah? Question? Um? What do you

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01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:59,200
Speaker 1: get someone if they don't like candy cards, roses, balloon animals?

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01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:05,760
Speaker 1: Not Tommy? I'm sorry, this is a woman talking. Now,

1083
01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:07,600
Speaker 1: are you trying to get something for a man, or

1084
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 1: you trying to suggest to a man because you don't

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01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:14,760
Speaker 1: like these things. I don't like the right. See that's

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01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:20,560
Speaker 1: the one of the two. Well, you gotta tell them

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01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:24,599
Speaker 1: Marjorie is not a candy girl at all. Marjorie don't

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01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:27,639
Speaker 1: like care for roses. I know what her favorite favorite

1089
01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:33,280
Speaker 1: flowers are. So I've made the switch years ago. Uh, Bars,

1090
01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 1: is hard to get a woman, fellas, because a lot

1091
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 1: of times y'all think the bigger, the bad and better.

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01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:43,080
Speaker 1: And then they got to set the bath up somewhere

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01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:44,880
Speaker 1: and then forget the bay in there, and then they

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01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:46,559
Speaker 1: come around the corner, and any time they come around,

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01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: they're scared as hell. Then you didn't got look like

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01:09:52,840 --> 01:10:02,400
Speaker 1: a dead man standing ver. I think what you should

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01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:04,599
Speaker 1: do is you're just gonna have to point blank tell

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01:10:04,680 --> 01:10:06,400
Speaker 1: him this is not what I don't care for. If

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01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:10,280
Speaker 1: you want to do something nice for me, you know,

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01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:17,719
Speaker 1: I would you miss what's happening. She rarely have a stuff, man.

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01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 1: I think this is what she's saying. Help that out.

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01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:32,280
Speaker 1: Well I heard it, but yeah, but she got a man,

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01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:37,200
Speaker 1: and she don't like the stuff she's been getting, and

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01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 1: so what you gotta do is you gotta suggest to

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01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 1: the man. We gotta tell him. Look, we've been together.

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01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 1: I don't want you to waste your money. Just now

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01:10:44,640 --> 01:10:47,719
Speaker 1: what I do? Would like for Valentine? If you took

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01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 1: me somewhere nice because most women like to go nice places.

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01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:56,280
Speaker 1: Would that be a correct assumption to eat? Right? So

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01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 1: you love to go to dinner? Would you like? Uh?

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01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:02,880
Speaker 1: Do you care for cards? What's cards on that long list?

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01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 1: Don't like? No, because he don't like the buy cards

1113
01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 1: because I send to hang on them to them too long,

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01:11:11,200 --> 01:11:15,280
Speaker 1: So he don't. He not a card person, so I

1115
01:11:15,280 --> 01:11:17,880
Speaker 1: won't get a card anyway. But he likes to get

1116
01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:23,719
Speaker 1: stuff like you know, the other stuff, the other stuff.

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01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:38,439
Speaker 1: She said, like, well, you know, but I think you

1118
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:40,240
Speaker 1: just got to share with him what it is you

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01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:46,599
Speaker 1: do like a nice dinner somewhere is nice? Uh? You know,

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01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:50,400
Speaker 1: just a gift, a trinket, you know a type of

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01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 1: gift like that. You know, maybe you like ink pens

1122
01:11:53,560 --> 01:12:06,760
Speaker 1: or you know, purse shoes, you know broach scar She hard, no,

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01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:09,840
Speaker 1: Google Boy, she too old for that cause they like

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01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:12,479
Speaker 1: Epps and salt bad. So yeah, she needs something help

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01:12:12,520 --> 01:12:21,360
Speaker 1: get that swelling down. That's what she though, Steve, I

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01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:24,360
Speaker 1: ain't got no Louis yet, So that's what I'm waiting for. Yeah,

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01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:27,080
Speaker 1: she say that. Where are you from? Jersey, New York,

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01:12:27,120 --> 01:12:33,360
Speaker 1: New Jersey, New Jersey? Now you know sal Yeah? I know?

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01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 1: Have you priced them? Which one you're looking at? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just want to Louis. I really

1131
01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:42,760
Speaker 1: don't care what kind of is or how old it is?

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01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:49,840
Speaker 1: What it is? I got one my wife. Okay, you

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01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:54,439
Speaker 1: got on. Yeah, Tommy, you gotta Louis. Go ahead. My

1134
01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:58,000
Speaker 1: wife got it's good old. When she got she don't

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01:12:58,280 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: she don't you know more? You just one, just to

1136
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:04,839
Speaker 1: have one. Yeah, you can give it to me. Okay,

1137
01:13:04,960 --> 01:13:06,960
Speaker 1: I talked to it because we need to clean this closet.

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01:13:06,960 --> 01:13:09,120
Speaker 1: I so I got plenty of Louis. He wants a

1139
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:13,479
Speaker 1: couple of Louis. Yeah, is your man gonna bude in

1140
01:13:13,560 --> 01:13:15,920
Speaker 1: Louis from me? I thought you was gonna give it

1141
01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, that's what you said. That's what you said.

1142
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 1: You got so many, why sell it? You can just

1143
01:13:23,240 --> 01:13:25,960
Speaker 1: give it an Come on boy, come on, big player,

1144
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:35,600
Speaker 1: rich boy, come on y'all. Damn. Yeah, you have to

1145
01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 1: clean it out. Your wife clause is selling stuff out

1146
01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 1: of it. I want to see how this go. Well, Baby,

1147
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:48,000
Speaker 1: we got to take another call. Happy to baby and

1148
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 1: the clue have a good one. Vale's stupid. You'd be

1149
01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:59,559
Speaker 1: just getting yourself and I ain't never seen than you.

1150
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 1: You're the I'm this person that's mad. Clean up your smartest.

1151
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 1: You say genius, it's genius. Can't be giving away your

1152
01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:13,760
Speaker 1: wife stuff without talking to her first. Well he's not

1153
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:18,439
Speaker 1: talking to her. That's the thing is, you ain't divorced yet.

1154
01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 1: If I take that periods out that cloud, he is

1155
01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:30,160
Speaker 1: not gonna miss that peris. Yes, you know, yes, we know.

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01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:35,639
Speaker 1: Won't tell me do it? Yeah, we know our bags alright,

1157
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 1: keep the calls coming. Eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve,

1158
01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:42,800
Speaker 1: we'll be right back. It was going on with your boy,

1159
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 1: Kevin Hard at KA People's champ at k A Mr

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01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:48,040
Speaker 1: box Office a k A Mr Comedy at KA make

1161
01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:50,559
Speaker 1: the world laugh at KA God Danger. I can do

1162
01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 1: what I want because I feel good at K, A

1163
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:56,640
Speaker 1: little swag at K, A little needs at K, A

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01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:59,360
Speaker 1: long thing attips, big thing and nails a k A.

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01:14:59,720 --> 01:15:02,559
Speaker 1: I smell you, but do you smell me? Hey K.

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01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:05,680
Speaker 1: My hair used to be longer than this until I

1167
01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:08,479
Speaker 1: stopped cutting it. Okay would that be? And said, I

1168
01:15:08,600 --> 01:15:10,960
Speaker 1: love you, you love me, but keep it locked where

1169
01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:13,559
Speaker 1: I love the most, and that's here Steve Harden Morning Shows.

1170
01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:18,880
Speaker 1: You're listening to stew all Right, Today is Valentine's Day,

1171
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 1: and for some of us, it'll just be like any

1172
01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 1: other night with Netflix and some comfy jammies. You know

1173
01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 1: how that goes. However, lots and lots of couples will

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01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 1: be heading to restaurants tonight. Here are a few of

1175
01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:34,040
Speaker 1: the twosomes you'll see celebrating. You'll see this couple, the

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01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:37,479
Speaker 1: couple that are celebrating, that's celebrating for the very first time,

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01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:42,400
Speaker 1: like their first date. Yeah, that's sweet, isn't it. You

1178
01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:46,160
Speaker 1: know they're gonna go huh, what'd you say, Steve? Yeah,

1179
01:15:46,200 --> 01:15:51,840
Speaker 1: they'll have candles and flowers, fancy bottles of wine. But

1180
01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 1: they're in love and this is their first Valentine's Day

1181
01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:57,680
Speaker 1: to gain See that's how mine go, look though, like

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01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:00,680
Speaker 1: it's your first time because I'm gonna lay it out

1183
01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:02,599
Speaker 1: though I did I tell y'all what I was doing

1184
01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:09,400
Speaker 1: because it's probably mote. Why did I leave off at

1185
01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 1: That's what I don't know? Didn't hear it, three different

1186
01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:18,760
Speaker 1: kinds of flowers, birds of paradise. Oh, that's all over

1187
01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:21,559
Speaker 1: the house. The van pull up at the house. Then

1188
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 1: later on today that's happening. Now, that's happening now. So

1189
01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:29,040
Speaker 1: when she comes from her appointments, when she get back

1190
01:16:29,080 --> 01:16:34,720
Speaker 1: to the house and the house will be do then

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01:16:34,880 --> 01:16:41,000
Speaker 1: uh pick up. I'm gonna take up to Valentine lunch

1192
01:16:42,200 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 1: and it's gonna be uh gotta sweet somewhere. That's when

1193
01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:50,160
Speaker 1: I had to stop. That's when Tim said, but y'all

1194
01:16:50,200 --> 01:16:54,479
Speaker 1: got a house. Okay, so that's because he there's folk

1195
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:58,680
Speaker 1: sweets in the house. But well we're gonna be outside

1196
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:01,840
Speaker 1: the house because it's sure get a little sweet that's

1197
01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:04,200
Speaker 1: got a private patio on it with a swimming pool

1198
01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:08,360
Speaker 1: to it, in a fireplace having it you can get

1199
01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 1: all that in one sweep U huh. Fireplace, pool and patio. Yeah,

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01:17:14,320 --> 01:17:19,600
Speaker 1: you know like a bungalow. Sweet man, you're in l

1201
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:21,800
Speaker 1: a that got that there? What is you're talking about?

1202
01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:26,880
Speaker 1: Got a tenant? Fireplaces you know, have shelves come out,

1203
01:17:26,920 --> 01:17:29,320
Speaker 1: bring food out on the back, private deck, world, be

1204
01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:33,840
Speaker 1: in private heat lamps out there. Everything. Then after that,

1205
01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna retire for a little while. You know, we'll

1206
01:17:39,160 --> 01:17:42,840
Speaker 1: retire me. That probably ain't your business, but you know

1207
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 1: we're in a week and then uh, Route four thirty

1208
01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:53,240
Speaker 1: got a special appointment, got surprised for flew some people

1209
01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:56,760
Speaker 1: in the town. Uh gonna do a little fitting for

1210
01:17:57,280 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 1: private fitting. Shell my mother about oh that she knows

1211
01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:07,760
Speaker 1: nothing about. After that? Are you taking notes? Going back

1212
01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:11,519
Speaker 1: to the hotel. Won't gonna go back to the suite

1213
01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:15,320
Speaker 1: to change, So she bring her dinner outfit with her.

1214
01:18:15,360 --> 01:18:18,000
Speaker 1: She's gonna change. Then we're gonna go down there. And

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01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:22,519
Speaker 1: I got the wine room reserved. I had special tables

1216
01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:26,760
Speaker 1: and booths put in it, flowers, candles and everything. Go

1217
01:18:26,960 --> 01:18:30,720
Speaker 1: have a private dinner with a selected menu down in

1218
01:18:30,760 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 1: the wine room, just us. Then after the wine room

1219
01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:42,360
Speaker 1: dinner's over with, then we retire upstairs for the evening.

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01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 1: Different locations. Now that's the same suite tub, but it's

1221
01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:52,960
Speaker 1: two different top, two different things. Right here, there's all this,

1222
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:56,200
Speaker 1: all the baby oilers involved in it. Okay, let's go,

1223
01:18:56,320 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 1: let's go back. Take me back there, let's go the fitting.

1224
01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:04,599
Speaker 1: Take me to the fitting. The fitting. Yeah, you said

1225
01:19:04,640 --> 01:19:07,759
Speaker 1: we're gonna private surprise. I know it was something she wanted,

1226
01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:11,559
Speaker 1: but she couldn't get it, and so I found the

1227
01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:14,719
Speaker 1: people found out what she really wanted, and they're gonna

1228
01:19:14,760 --> 01:19:16,719
Speaker 1: just come in and do a fitting for a fitting,

1229
01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:22,439
Speaker 1: just measurements, that's all. Oh, they don't just have her side,

1230
01:19:22,880 --> 01:19:25,280
Speaker 1: but they're not like, well, it's getting made what I

1231
01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:27,800
Speaker 1: already already knew what she wanted, but they didn't have

1232
01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:30,360
Speaker 1: it at the time. So a few months ago I

1233
01:19:30,400 --> 01:19:32,559
Speaker 1: had them try to find it. They said they found it.

1234
01:19:33,080 --> 01:19:35,040
Speaker 1: Now they even started making it, but they got to

1235
01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:36,840
Speaker 1: bring it in and put it on and do a fitting.

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01:19:37,600 --> 01:19:41,599
Speaker 1: So we're fitting you're doing. That's different from the fitting

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01:19:41,600 --> 01:19:45,280
Speaker 1: I beginning. Huh no, this is you just getting off.

1238
01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:48,840
Speaker 1: But it's still different when I do my fittings, yes,

1239
01:19:48,920 --> 01:19:51,559
Speaker 1: probably might be a little bit different to yours. With me.

1240
01:19:51,680 --> 01:19:53,679
Speaker 1: Is where they put the thing up under my chest

1241
01:19:53,760 --> 01:20:00,120
Speaker 1: and say for the folks, yeah, you know, we're try

1242
01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:01,600
Speaker 1: to shirt you. Where he put the thing down my

1243
01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:07,880
Speaker 1: sleeve and is after caol, let me see if I

1244
01:20:07,960 --> 01:20:13,439
Speaker 1: get it. Sixty one sixty one measurements. They called it

1245
01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:20,200
Speaker 1: alter s that's not so sorrow. It's alt Sria and

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01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:24,080
Speaker 1: al to sora. Alt Sorria is women alter sora is

1247
01:20:24,160 --> 01:20:29,719
Speaker 1: men wrong one? I thought that's when you look up worries.

1248
01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:44,559
Speaker 1: We don't have a man. Cannot with this, dude, get

1249
01:20:44,600 --> 01:20:47,920
Speaker 1: your nephew. I don't want to get and quick calling

1250
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:53,720
Speaker 1: me my nephew. I'm just asking y'all that for the

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Speaker 1: rest of the year, don't do not call him? Are

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01:20:57,240 --> 01:21:00,240
Speaker 1: you just owning me? What that? What's that about? I've

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01:21:00,240 --> 01:21:04,800
Speaker 1: been trying to do that. This ain't nothing new, okay.

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01:21:04,800 --> 01:21:07,200
Speaker 1: Get you left your bike down at the store that time.

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01:21:07,200 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 1: I told you ain't know your ass? Then oh, don't

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01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 1: bring up back down. Let's not go back. How you

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01:21:13,560 --> 01:21:15,920
Speaker 1: getting your bike and walk home and leave it at

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01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:19,720
Speaker 1: the store because it was new. I forgot I had it. Okay,

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01:21:20,080 --> 01:21:24,160
Speaker 1: Who do that? Right? Lad you forget? Who do that?

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01:21:24,240 --> 01:21:26,920
Speaker 1: Who get a new bike? Riding to the store, then

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01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:29,960
Speaker 1: walk home licking a popsicle? And then I look at

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01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 1: this food and I go, hey, man, where your bike?

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01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:37,960
Speaker 1: What bike? The new damn bike your mama bought you?

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01:21:39,880 --> 01:21:46,040
Speaker 1: I left it at the store in the hood. It

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01:21:46,240 --> 01:21:49,479
Speaker 1: was gone when we got back up. Knock downs down.

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01:21:49,680 --> 01:21:52,360
Speaker 1: I'm seven teen, I go down there, he's seven. Ain't

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01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:56,040
Speaker 1: no damn bike. He started crying. That's your brock ass crying, funk,

1268
01:21:58,080 --> 01:22:03,080
Speaker 1: what's your thought? The bike was gonna be here, good

1269
01:22:03,400 --> 01:22:05,720
Speaker 1: brand new bike on the kickstand. They locked up a

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01:22:05,840 --> 01:22:11,400
Speaker 1: nothing but got but came out to stop, walked right

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01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:19,559
Speaker 1: past the bike. Just okay, more of this craziness right

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Speaker 1: after this. Okay, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Alright,

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01:22:26,400 --> 01:22:29,639
Speaker 1: Happy Valentine's Day, everyone, and welcome to our brand new

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01:22:29,680 --> 01:22:36,040
Speaker 1: affiliate Fort Wayne, Indiana. Steve A lot about Fort Wayne. Yeah,

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01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:38,479
Speaker 1: I got one more Fort Wayne story for you, got

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01:22:38,520 --> 01:22:41,679
Speaker 1: a minute for Yeah, let's go. I was a young

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01:22:41,800 --> 01:22:44,679
Speaker 1: act and Kevin Ferguson had a TV show on there

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01:22:44,680 --> 01:22:49,360
Speaker 1: called Nightshill, and so I had to pick up. I

1279
01:22:49,400 --> 01:22:52,240
Speaker 1: mean when I got off. When I got there, I

1280
01:22:52,280 --> 01:22:55,519
Speaker 1: had to do an interview with the publicist for the show.

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01:22:56,160 --> 01:22:58,640
Speaker 1: And the publicist for the show was as white lady

1282
01:22:59,360 --> 01:23:02,080
Speaker 1: really attract the woman and I had to meet her

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01:23:02,080 --> 01:23:05,880
Speaker 1: at a restaurant for this pre show interview. So we're

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01:23:05,880 --> 01:23:09,040
Speaker 1: sitting at the restaurant, me and her. You know, I'm poe.

1285
01:23:09,040 --> 01:23:10,479
Speaker 1: I ain't got no money for none of this here,

1286
01:23:10,520 --> 01:23:14,360
Speaker 1: they're paying for it. So we at a restaurant. So

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01:23:14,479 --> 01:23:18,120
Speaker 1: as we're sitting there. All these black women started coming in,

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01:23:19,120 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: single black women, and the restaurant and the restaurant just

1289
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:26,719
Speaker 1: filled up with just all black women. Now I'm sitting

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01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:29,080
Speaker 1: in the Miller restaurant with this white lady with this

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01:23:29,200 --> 01:23:33,840
Speaker 1: blonde hair, trying to do this interview. My ass was

1292
01:23:33,920 --> 01:23:39,400
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. Them black women was looking at me. Now

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01:23:39,520 --> 01:23:42,759
Speaker 1: keep in mind, I'm about twenty nine, thirty years old

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01:23:42,840 --> 01:23:47,720
Speaker 1: somewhere like that. These black women just looking at me,

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01:23:47,840 --> 01:23:50,840
Speaker 1: and I knew they was talking about me, and so

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01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:54,840
Speaker 1: I couldn't take it no more. So I gotta went

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01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:56,840
Speaker 1: to the bathroom because man, I was just in there,

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01:23:56,840 --> 01:23:59,920
Speaker 1: just sweating like bullets. Man, I could I could feel

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01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:03,760
Speaker 1: them eyes piercing at me. I'm telling man, this was

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01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:06,280
Speaker 1: the only white person in the restaurant and it was her,

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01:24:06,439 --> 01:24:08,439
Speaker 1: and I'm sitting with her, and I'm the only black

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01:24:08,520 --> 01:24:12,759
Speaker 1: man in the restaurant. I'm sitting with her. Them sisters

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01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:16,040
Speaker 1: was doing my ask. So I get up and I

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01:24:16,080 --> 01:24:19,120
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom and I speak to a lady.

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01:24:19,200 --> 01:24:22,479
Speaker 1: I said, sister, how you doing this morning? She looked

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01:24:22,479 --> 01:24:24,599
Speaker 1: at me and what now, how you doing? And went

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01:24:24,680 --> 01:24:26,840
Speaker 1: on in the bathroom. I'm like Okay, that's funky, but

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01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:31,599
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be right here when your ass come out there. Yeah, hood,

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01:24:31,600 --> 01:24:33,120
Speaker 1: I ain't got what I what I got to lose,

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01:24:33,120 --> 01:24:36,479
Speaker 1: I ain't famous. Came out the bathroom, Sis, sister, hold

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01:24:36,479 --> 01:24:40,000
Speaker 1: on one second. I said, do me a favor. I said,

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01:24:40,000 --> 01:24:44,080
Speaker 1: listen to me. Tell your girlfriend please stop staring at

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01:24:44,120 --> 01:24:46,559
Speaker 1: me like that. I saw. I'm here because I'm a

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01:24:46,600 --> 01:24:50,400
Speaker 1: comedian and I'm performing at uh Snickers Comedy Bar, and

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01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:53,320
Speaker 1: I'm performing with night Ship. Kevin Ferguson got me doing

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01:24:53,320 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 1: this interview with this lady. And this is why I

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01:24:54,960 --> 01:24:57,519
Speaker 1: had it. This is a reporter doing an interview on me.

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01:24:57,760 --> 01:25:00,120
Speaker 1: I need for all y'all to quick standing at me

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01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:04,200
Speaker 1: like I hadn't betrayed the whole black braces. I'm in

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01:25:04,240 --> 01:25:07,040
Speaker 1: here doing an interview. That lady started laughing and put

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01:25:07,040 --> 01:25:09,040
Speaker 1: her hand over mouth. She said, you know we're talking

1322
01:25:09,040 --> 01:25:12,439
Speaker 1: about you. I said, how the hell? I said, since

1323
01:25:12,479 --> 01:25:14,679
Speaker 1: I'm in here. I said, you go back in there

1324
01:25:14,840 --> 01:25:16,880
Speaker 1: and you tell all of them since what hell going on?

1325
01:25:16,960 --> 01:25:19,360
Speaker 1: Because y'all got to quit looking at me like I

1326
01:25:19,400 --> 01:25:23,240
Speaker 1: didn't just came in here and just man was it

1327
01:25:23,320 --> 01:25:27,040
Speaker 1: was a horrific. She went out there, and I said, listen,

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01:25:27,040 --> 01:25:30,040
Speaker 1: I'm performing. Let me make a phone call. How many

1329
01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:31,840
Speaker 1: of y'all want to come to the show tonight? She

1330
01:25:31,880 --> 01:25:33,680
Speaker 1: said no, no, let me just go to play. So

1331
01:25:33,720 --> 01:25:35,719
Speaker 1: I go back to the table. Then the sisters started

1332
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:38,759
Speaker 1: coming up to me. How you doing? Welcome to Fort Wayne.

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01:25:38,800 --> 01:25:44,040
Speaker 1: They were the Black Women's Business League at Indiana met.

1334
01:25:45,479 --> 01:25:47,360
Speaker 1: My ass was through, so I got on the phone

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01:25:47,400 --> 01:25:49,960
Speaker 1: and called Kevin Fergus. I said, hey, man, how many

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01:25:50,000 --> 01:25:52,599
Speaker 1: comps can I get tonight? He said, well, it's Thursday, nicety,

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01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:55,800
Speaker 1: so it's pretty open. You know we need people. I said,

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01:25:55,840 --> 01:25:58,680
Speaker 1: can I get thirty? He said, you can get forty?

1339
01:25:58,960 --> 01:26:00,880
Speaker 1: I went back out the tone since I said, hey,

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01:26:01,320 --> 01:26:03,680
Speaker 1: which forty? Because it looked about send me y'all in here?

1341
01:26:03,720 --> 01:26:05,719
Speaker 1: The forty y'all want to come to the show tonight?

1342
01:26:06,120 --> 01:26:08,920
Speaker 1: She said, we showed do. And so they was in

1343
01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:11,880
Speaker 1: town in the hotels and stelf. So about forty women

1344
01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:17,120
Speaker 1: came to the show. Boy, my aunts was funny that night, yes, lord,

1345
01:26:17,320 --> 01:26:21,439
Speaker 1: and fell in love with three of them. Good pr

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01:26:21,560 --> 01:26:25,000
Speaker 1: move on your part, though, bought him. Since eight my

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01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:28,320
Speaker 1: I was sitting up now, said boy, I don't if

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01:26:28,360 --> 01:26:30,840
Speaker 1: I ain't uncle Tom with a week sitting up in

1349
01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:36,720
Speaker 1: the hill. Man, I ain't the spook at the dough boy.

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01:26:37,200 --> 01:26:41,400
Speaker 1: He didn't Jimmy crack corn, and I don't care. I

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01:26:41,439 --> 01:26:45,360
Speaker 1: was in there, man, I said what she said when

1352
01:26:45,400 --> 01:26:50,880
Speaker 1: you spoke, see how you do? And I know that move?

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01:26:51,920 --> 01:26:54,240
Speaker 1: You know me? Asked me how you doing Today's sister?

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01:26:54,880 --> 01:26:58,320
Speaker 1: How you doing? I'm your sister? I said, okay. She

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01:26:58,400 --> 01:27:00,400
Speaker 1: came back out that said, man, hold on, let me

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01:27:00,400 --> 01:27:03,120
Speaker 1: stop you right now. All right, thank you, Steve. That

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01:27:03,240 --> 01:27:07,240
Speaker 1: was funny coming up. Valentine's Dudes, And don't get ready.

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01:27:07,640 --> 01:27:13,440
Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Morning Show. Valentine's Day, as we've established,

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01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:18,160
Speaker 1: and it just is Valentine's Day. Love love, love, love love. Alright,

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01:27:18,240 --> 01:27:20,719
Speaker 1: So um, Steve, you have some Valentine's dudes and don't

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01:27:20,800 --> 01:27:23,040
Speaker 1: for it. Well, I got some dudes and don't for

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01:27:23,160 --> 01:27:27,639
Speaker 1: you for Valentine's Day, mostly fellas. You need to play

1363
01:27:27,680 --> 01:27:31,040
Speaker 1: attention because some of y'all get it wrong year after year.

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01:27:32,160 --> 01:27:36,599
Speaker 1: Now this one's tricky. You won't believe this. Well, first first,

1365
01:27:36,680 --> 01:27:40,720
Speaker 1: let me do this. Don't underdo it. And what I

1366
01:27:40,760 --> 01:27:43,840
Speaker 1: mean by that he is, don't buy like a real

1367
01:27:44,160 --> 01:27:49,679
Speaker 1: small box of nothing, because let's that damn thing got

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01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:53,599
Speaker 1: a diamond ring in it? A small box? Going backfin

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01:27:53,680 --> 01:27:58,559
Speaker 1: only have your woman sitting there going really seriously, who

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01:27:58,640 --> 01:28:01,519
Speaker 1: is this fault? Because I don't know? You know, they

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01:28:01,560 --> 01:28:04,040
Speaker 1: don't have a ring in it. That's the only thing small.

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01:28:04,200 --> 01:28:07,599
Speaker 1: You can get up now on the flip side, don't

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01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:11,280
Speaker 1: overdo it. What you don't want to do is give

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01:28:11,320 --> 01:28:15,200
Speaker 1: her this big, giant boxing kid because I swear to God,

1375
01:28:15,280 --> 01:28:17,760
Speaker 1: she's gonna turn that on you. Oh so what you're

1376
01:28:17,760 --> 01:28:21,720
Speaker 1: trying to get me fat? That ain't gonna work out.

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01:28:23,240 --> 01:28:27,120
Speaker 1: Here's another one. Make sure fellas that she liked baths

1378
01:28:28,240 --> 01:28:30,680
Speaker 1: for you go out and buy what everybody don't like

1379
01:28:30,840 --> 01:28:35,560
Speaker 1: math like, yeah, people got phobias against that. Don't go

1380
01:28:35,680 --> 01:28:41,439
Speaker 1: out that don't gonna come on now, don't eat out

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01:28:41,479 --> 01:28:46,120
Speaker 1: the boxing kid. People don't want to have a full box.

1382
01:28:46,800 --> 01:28:49,680
Speaker 1: Don't lift that little crumbley brown piece and try to

1383
01:28:49,720 --> 01:28:54,360
Speaker 1: eat one out the bottom. They're gonna see it. They're

1384
01:28:54,400 --> 01:28:59,880
Speaker 1: gonna see that's funny right there. Now, if you go

1385
01:29:00,200 --> 01:29:03,720
Speaker 1: give out more than one box or candy on Valentine's

1386
01:29:03,760 --> 01:29:07,360
Speaker 1: listen to me carefully, fell and ladies, don't get tight

1387
01:29:07,400 --> 01:29:11,640
Speaker 1: because I ain't talking about for two different women. It's possible,

1388
01:29:11,720 --> 01:29:14,920
Speaker 1: like maybe your mom, your sister, of co worker or

1389
01:29:15,000 --> 01:29:20,719
Speaker 1: some hide them boxes. Don't have them on the back seat,

1390
01:29:21,520 --> 01:29:24,400
Speaker 1: just sitting there, because if your woman get in and

1391
01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:27,639
Speaker 1: see them three boxes and candy and she already got hurt,

1392
01:29:28,840 --> 01:29:31,240
Speaker 1: you're not gonna be able to explain this away, partner.

1393
01:29:34,200 --> 01:29:38,240
Speaker 1: These are Valentine's dudes, and don't from the sea. You'll

1394
01:29:38,280 --> 01:29:44,799
Speaker 1: know when it's time to see in sexy lingerie. Okay,

1395
01:29:44,840 --> 01:29:48,840
Speaker 1: but you just met this girl. You can't give a

1396
01:29:49,000 --> 01:29:55,519
Speaker 1: see through drawing. You just met and now you pull

1397
01:29:55,560 --> 01:29:59,479
Speaker 1: out a pair of sea through panics. Boy, I messed

1398
01:29:59,560 --> 01:30:05,439
Speaker 1: up me too soon, too soon. We just went one time.

1399
01:30:05,880 --> 01:30:09,360
Speaker 1: Wonder that she don't come back. I didn't know why

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01:30:09,400 --> 01:30:16,120
Speaker 1: she didn't come back. You are so disrespectful. Now is

1401
01:30:16,160 --> 01:30:23,120
Speaker 1: for players out there, if you're going out with more

1402
01:30:23,280 --> 01:30:32,200
Speaker 1: than one person, all right, check these damn names. I

1403
01:30:32,240 --> 01:30:40,240
Speaker 1: can't stress this enough. I cannot stress this is from

1404
01:30:40,360 --> 01:30:43,720
Speaker 1: pride expery. You really happen, that's really happening. I have

1405
01:30:44,120 --> 01:30:47,920
Speaker 1: sent the Christmas gifts, same gift to two girls and

1406
01:30:47,960 --> 01:30:50,960
Speaker 1: put their damn names and mix them up on the pot,

1407
01:30:51,800 --> 01:30:59,040
Speaker 1: same paper. Everything learned from your mistakes. We'll be back

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01:30:59,080 --> 01:31:02,240
Speaker 1: with Steve's close remarks coming up at forty nine after

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01:31:02,280 --> 01:31:07,240
Speaker 1: the hour you're listening to show. All right, here we are,

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01:31:07,479 --> 01:31:10,439
Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Valentine's Day. Uh,

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01:31:10,720 --> 01:31:13,720
Speaker 1: you want to continue with ask Steve, Steve, because this

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01:31:14,120 --> 01:31:16,080
Speaker 1: is interesting on the day of love. You know, we

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01:31:16,160 --> 01:31:18,960
Speaker 1: celebrate love today. Junior, I think you had a question

1414
01:31:19,600 --> 01:31:23,840
Speaker 1: talked about sacrifice. What do you mean, Well, you know

1415
01:31:24,600 --> 01:31:27,680
Speaker 1: the decisions that you make for the pardon that you have. Well,

1416
01:31:27,720 --> 01:31:30,800
Speaker 1: I mean, you know it's important because if you're gonna

1417
01:31:30,840 --> 01:31:34,360
Speaker 1: be in love. If anybody that has ever been in

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01:31:34,360 --> 01:31:37,280
Speaker 1: love will tell you they've had to make sacrifices to

1419
01:31:37,400 --> 01:31:41,320
Speaker 1: stay in a relationship, because that's what it is. Love

1420
01:31:41,439 --> 01:31:45,000
Speaker 1: is a series of compromises with someone that you truly,

1421
01:31:45,080 --> 01:31:48,839
Speaker 1: truly cared deeply for. And if you care deeply for someone,

1422
01:31:49,120 --> 01:31:51,880
Speaker 1: you're going to have to make some form of sacrifice.

1423
01:31:52,600 --> 01:31:57,120
Speaker 1: It's impossible to be in love with somebody and not sacrifice,

1424
01:31:57,840 --> 01:32:00,599
Speaker 1: because love, like I said, it's all in oupossing. So

1425
01:32:00,640 --> 01:32:03,120
Speaker 1: it's a giving thing, right, and you want to give

1426
01:32:03,200 --> 01:32:05,960
Speaker 1: to the person. Sometimes in giving to the person, you

1427
01:32:06,040 --> 01:32:08,360
Speaker 1: gotta take a little bit from yourself, or you got

1428
01:32:08,360 --> 01:32:11,639
Speaker 1: to give of yourself sometimes to make the other person

1429
01:32:11,720 --> 01:32:14,040
Speaker 1: happy that day. You got to not do something that

1430
01:32:14,040 --> 01:32:17,080
Speaker 1: would make you happy that day. You know, I would

1431
01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:20,000
Speaker 1: love to have my officers free and clear, but to

1432
01:32:20,120 --> 01:32:23,439
Speaker 1: maintain a relationship after sacrifice some of them free and

1433
01:32:23,520 --> 01:32:28,240
Speaker 1: clear days to spend time with my significant other. It's everybody.

1434
01:32:28,520 --> 01:32:31,120
Speaker 1: The person who talked about I don't I'm I'll do

1435
01:32:31,160 --> 01:32:33,040
Speaker 1: what I want to do. Well, you're not gonna be

1436
01:32:33,080 --> 01:32:36,360
Speaker 1: in a relationship. You can say you in love, but

1437
01:32:36,400 --> 01:32:38,360
Speaker 1: you're not in the stay there because you can be

1438
01:32:38,360 --> 01:32:40,599
Speaker 1: in love and get out the relationship. It's a whole

1439
01:32:40,640 --> 01:32:42,639
Speaker 1: lot of people in love with some relationships that's gone.

1440
01:32:43,800 --> 01:32:46,240
Speaker 1: So you know, sacrifice is a part of it. It's

1441
01:32:46,280 --> 01:32:49,439
Speaker 1: just it's no way around the sacrifice of it. And

1442
01:32:49,479 --> 01:32:52,360
Speaker 1: that goes me and women. It's both ways. Women sacrifice

1443
01:32:52,600 --> 01:32:56,320
Speaker 1: a great deal to stay in relationships with men. They

1444
01:32:56,720 --> 01:32:59,439
Speaker 1: they they do for children, they do for their men,

1445
01:32:59,600 --> 01:33:02,880
Speaker 1: they do for the family, they do for the good

1446
01:33:02,960 --> 01:33:06,479
Speaker 1: of it. All women sacrifice so much to maintain so

1447
01:33:06,560 --> 01:33:09,920
Speaker 1: all of their relationships. If a child really understood what

1448
01:33:10,000 --> 01:33:12,559
Speaker 1: a mother sacrifice for them to be just the mother

1449
01:33:12,800 --> 01:33:14,160
Speaker 1: and for they has to walk out the door every

1450
01:33:14,240 --> 01:33:17,160
Speaker 1: day as a child to thrink, think freely and go

1451
01:33:17,240 --> 01:33:20,200
Speaker 1: to school, and had them sneakers on and all like that.

1452
01:33:20,479 --> 01:33:24,960
Speaker 1: They they yes, Lord, they wouldn't even they wouldn't even man,

1453
01:33:25,000 --> 01:33:27,280
Speaker 1: there would never be no pushback. But they don't get it.

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01:33:27,960 --> 01:33:31,640
Speaker 1: Sacrifice is real. What you got Tom? All right? This

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Speaker 1: is just Thomas Mins. And I asked a Thomas my course,

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Speaker 1: can I do that? Yeah? They together? What should me

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Speaker 1: and out there? Like like I got a little girl,

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Speaker 1: what should you do for your little girl on Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 1: She will know what so she will know what me

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Speaker 1: And like I got my little girl from flowers and

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Speaker 1: she loved God with covered strawberry. But what should men

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Speaker 1: do for their little girls? Out there? Well, I mean

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Speaker 1: that's perfect because that's the first man she's going to know.

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Speaker 1: And she shouldn't understand from her father if if she can,

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Speaker 1: how a man should treat her. That She's been the

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Speaker 1: problem for a lot of women who didn't grow up

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Speaker 1: with an active father in their life. They never had

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Speaker 1: a clear picture of what love looked like a man

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Speaker 1: sitting there treating their mother a certain way, So women

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Speaker 1: oftentimes look for love and all the wrong places because

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Speaker 1: they never saw it firsthand. You're describing that happens to

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Speaker 1: women all the time. So it's imperative for a man

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Speaker 1: who has daughters to demonstrate to them what it looks like.

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Speaker 1: You know, now three of my daughters are in committed

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Speaker 1: to a married, one of them engaged. You know, I

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Speaker 1: ain't look here, they ain't. My turn is up. You know,

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Speaker 1: these dudes got to be the one in here providing

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Speaker 1: all that stuff. Now, you know, now skipp or beat

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Speaker 1: on them and see what happened. I ain't even gonna

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Speaker 1: had to tell you, ain't nothing. I got to say.

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Speaker 1: They're looking forward, wild eyed bushel tail. The first thing

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Speaker 1: this morning, This this little the thing that I meant,

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Speaker 1: this this thing I'm mad too, this little green eye

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Speaker 1: thing that I'm mad too. At midnight, if I get

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Speaker 1: them go to bathroom and she awake, I gotta roll

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Speaker 1: over kids to say, I gotta beat there to it.

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Speaker 1: She can't beat me to it, No, son, I got

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Speaker 1: to beat her to it. Is that you're saying, that's

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Speaker 1: her rule or that's your rule. No, that's she'd be

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Speaker 1: looking for. Okay, Yeah, bright eyed bushy tail like a

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Speaker 1: fohio is she for real? But you know what, Steve,

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Speaker 1: there are a lot of guys, I mean, I know

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Speaker 1: guys that these kind of holidays like this, they don't

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Speaker 1: like to, uh for I guess the market to determine

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Speaker 1: what they do for their girl. They're they're like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I gave you some I give you flowers every day

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Speaker 1: out of the time. Yeah, I don't have to give

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Speaker 1: you flowers on Valentine's Day. I mean, I know, Fellas,

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Speaker 1: and that's and that's cool. You want to say it

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Speaker 1: like that, but in reality, that ain't the wear working

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Speaker 1: their head. See, we as man, we can rationalize that

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Speaker 1: I didn't kind of way we want to and tell

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Speaker 1: it to all the Fellas and we'll sit up there

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Speaker 1: and go, yeah, yeah, yeah, that makes sense. I would

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Speaker 1: I say that too. But they can't care that to

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Speaker 1: their house though. You know, some guy, though you stay

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Speaker 1: right here, you can take it to your house. But

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Speaker 1: now now you've done it your way, what you win?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I got it, Fellas. I mean cool. You know, man, Look,

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Speaker 1: you got to write the field of the all Steve.

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Speaker 1: You always on the women's side. I'm just saying player,

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Speaker 1: that's all. I'm just saying you can do it that way.

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Speaker 1: But if she would feel wonderful if you did this

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Speaker 1: one thing for her, why would you not do it.

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01:36:42,880 --> 01:36:46,840
Speaker 1: It doesn't make any sense not to do it. The payout,

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Speaker 1: the payback, the reward is so much greater. I don't

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Speaker 1: understand fighting the funk. Okay, you ain't. You ain't a

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Speaker 1: salmon trying to get back to the maiden ground. Why

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Speaker 1: you want to go back upstream like that? Women, when

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Speaker 1: you can just turn your air ground, let that current

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Speaker 1: k right on out to the ocean. It's easier. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you're right, Steve. A lot of a lot of

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Speaker 1: guys talk about the fact that it's a costly holiday

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Speaker 1: and all of that. So before we get out of here,

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Speaker 1: something inexpensive that a guy can do for It's the

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Speaker 1: thought that counts. Man, do something thoughtful. Women created the

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Speaker 1: phrase it's the thought that counts. Do some thought. Anybody

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Speaker 1: asking you to buy a bag because it's the holiday.

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Speaker 1: Candy don't cost much, A card don't cost much. Lighting

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Speaker 1: the candles running her bath water don't cost much. Put

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Speaker 1: some rose petals in the floor leading to the bath.

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Speaker 1: Let her give on her nightclothes. Man, fix us some

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Speaker 1: tea some wine. You gotta spend a lot of money.

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