1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: I refuse to give my sister a reference for her 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 1: job because I hate her. That's a good enough reason. 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: I guess my sister. Claudia and I are not close, 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: very low contact, always family related. Around fourteen her and 5 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: seventeen me, she stole my boyfriend sixteen male by giving 6 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: up more physically than I was willing to. That's yikes, 7 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: she was fourteen. 8 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 2: Excuse meohoo. 9 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: After that kind of betrayal, I've never trusted her fully 10 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: and I've kept my partners distant from her. I'd like 11 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: to be clear that it's not just this event alone, 12 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: but this was the major event that made me pull 13 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:37,959 Speaker 1: back from her. By the way, this comes from throat 14 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: job reference on the ur slash okay to storytime subreddit. 15 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: So this awful behavior has continued throughout Claudia's life. She's 16 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 1: stolen the boyfriends of several three that I know of 17 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 1: of her now ex friends, and always seem to get 18 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: bored as soon as the guy leaves his partner for her. 19 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: Claudia is not a very nice person, but she is 20 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: superficially charming and makes a good for Enid impression twice now. 21 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: At work, Claudia has seduced her married supervisor. Oh my goodness, 22 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: she has a track record. This has happened with two 23 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: different people at two different jobs and caused an absolute 24 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: crap show that ended up in the guys resigning. I 25 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: have no idea what happened to their home situations, but 26 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: it couldn't have been good. Laudia thrives on drama and 27 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,839 Speaker 1: absolutely loves it. I've suggested counseling but was shot down, 28 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: and she said I'd have to have a problem to 29 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 1: need counseling. Claudia likes the chase more than anything else, 30 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: and there's nothing wrong with that. She justifies her behavior 31 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: with anyone that didn't want to cheat, wouldn't cheat. You 32 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: can see why we don't talk much. 33 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 3: Yikes. 34 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: She sounds like a great person. 35 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, I hope she doesn't come around oh P's boyfriend. 36 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, you better not come around these parts 37 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: with your superficial charm. I don't trust her, clearly. My 38 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: friend Brennan, who I met through a previous job, is 39 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: now in the same industry as Claudia, and Claudia recently 40 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: found that Brennan's company is Oh no, Brennan is sort 41 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: of HR for the small company. Claudia is interested in 42 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: and Claudia has applied. Brennan sent an email I should 43 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: note it was from his personal address, not his company account, 44 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 1: asking if I could vouch for Claudia, and I'm stuck now. 45 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,239 Speaker 1: Laudia can absolutely do this job. She will be great 46 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: at it, except for the fact that she will probably 47 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: ruin someone's marriage in the process. The fact that she's 48 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: done this at two out of three places she's worked 49 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: long term since college is uncomfortable, and there are six 50 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: times I personally know of that she's done this. Laudia 51 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 1: is currently single. She's single and. 52 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 3: On the prow get a girl. 53 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't know what to do, but I'm 54 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: leaning to not replying to the email and calling Brennan 55 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: to give my honest opinion that she would be an 56 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: excellent technical fit but a disaster socially. That way, it's 57 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: not in writing, and Brennan can still be told. But 58 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 1: I'm directly sabotaging my sister's prospects if I do that. 59 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: But again, I'm directly sabotaging Brennan if I don't tell 60 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 1: him what c is liable to do. Claudia will pass 61 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: any screen they give her. She's charming, and has no 62 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: record of any kind. There is an update and some comments, 63 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: but OPI asks the question of would I be the 64 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 1: a hole if I told Brenn and my sister would 65 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: be a great technical fit, but would be a social disaster. 66 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 3: Sounds like honesty to me, like she did, You're not lying. 67 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 3: She's saying she's a good employee, Like if you want 68 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,679 Speaker 3: to hire her, then go for it. 69 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: She's like, she's great at her job, but she's a 70 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: lot of drama. 71 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 3: I feel like it's just a disclaimer. Yeah. 72 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: I think because this is her friend and not just 73 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: like a random company that's reaching out. And also she 74 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: doesn't really have a close relationship with Claudia. 75 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. 76 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: I think the not doing in writing but talking like 77 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: calling up her friend and saying this, I think that's. 78 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 2: A good idea. Yeah. 79 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 3: I don't feel like it's not super out of pocket. No, 80 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 3: I just made I contacted him and I was like, well, 81 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 3: we're in the mirror. Yeah, the mirror is freaky. What 82 00:03:57,960 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 3: were you saying? 83 00:03:59,440 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? 84 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 3: No, I feel like she's not being totally in a hole. 85 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 86 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: I think definitely tell the truth because it's your friend. Also, 87 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: if she didn't say anything, if she said, oh, no, 88 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: my sister's a great fit. And then months down the line, 89 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: all of this stuff blows up at work. Brennan comes 90 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: back to her and is like, why did you ever 91 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: recommend her? Yeah, and then it's kind of on her 92 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:19,799 Speaker 1: and it maybe strains their friendship. 93 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 2: Yeah. 94 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 3: I don't know this one. I mean, it is a 95 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 3: tough one because it's also like, well, at the end 96 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 3: of the day, like if she wants to flirt with 97 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 3: the with the people like and they fall. 98 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: For it, it is on them as much as her. But 99 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: I do think that I think when hiring people, you 100 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,239 Speaker 1: do hire in part for I mean certain jobs hire 101 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 1: for like are they able to work with people? 102 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 2: Wow? 103 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 3: For sure. I feel like that's most jobs. Now it's 104 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 3: just like can you like see yourself hanging out the 105 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 3: collaboration with people? 106 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? 107 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 108 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 109 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 1: Is this like it's like I think we like people 110 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 1: make a lot of jokes about personality hires, but I 111 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 1: think everyone is a lot of jobs are personality based. 112 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: I mean it's like looking at like do you meet 113 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: the qualifications personality hire? 114 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 2: Right now? Hey, that's time. This is why this is 115 00:04:58,560 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 2: so true. 116 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: But it's also like do we like you enough? Are 117 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 1: we going to be able to work with you effectively. Yeah, 118 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: I think OPI would not be the a hole if 119 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:06,559 Speaker 1: she told the truth. 120 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 3: Oh, people out here saying she thinks she has a 121 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 3: personality disorder. Honestly, maybe perhaps, But I think the fact 122 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:16,919 Speaker 3: that she started this at fourteen, I am a little 123 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 3: worried about their home life. I'm like, what, oh, what 124 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 3: was going on? Yeah, there's definitely like something, something's underneath 125 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 3: the surface. 126 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, but there are some relevant comments from Ope. Opie says, 127 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 1: my sister delights in ruining relationships. She gets satisfaction from it. 128 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: When she stole my boyfriend, he was sixteen, by the way, 129 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: not seventeen plus, So go on with your routrageous scenarios. 130 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 3: Lol. 131 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: She told me she just wanted to see if she 132 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: could do it. She likes the thrill of chasing someone 133 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: that already has someone and winning over their current partner. 134 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 1: She has said all of this to me over the years. 135 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 1: I find this fundamentally not okay. The way she seems 136 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 1: to see other people and their relationships as expendable is 137 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 1: really creepy to me. I personally think she might be 138 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: a narcissist. Yeah, there's lots wrong there, yop And I've tried. 139 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 1: I've done everything to try and get her help, counseling, 140 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: et cetera, and it's all met with nothing, or even 141 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 1: mocking and derision. I don't know about abuse, but it's 142 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: always possible. But at the end of the day, she's 143 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: a thirty year old woman that attempts to f up 144 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: people's lives for fun. Trying to help someone being mean 145 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: to you on a consistent base is something I'm not 146 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 1: willing to do. She's told me that she basically sees 147 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: people as aunts compared to her. 148 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 3: I think she might be a narcissist. 149 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, as actual words pews to be conquered. 150 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 3: That's wild. 151 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: That is an intense way to describe the people around you. 152 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: It leaves you feeling icky to know someone thinks of 153 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: you that way. The wanted to see if she could 154 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: do it is something she says quite frequently, by the way, 155 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 1: usually when doing something socially inappropriate. I don't think she's 156 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: spicy sleep obsessed. I think she sees spicy sleep as 157 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 1: a way to get power and feelings of being triumphant. 158 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: She never keeps her trophies. People she's rusted from relationships 159 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: longer than a month it's boring. Once I've won, she says, 160 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 1: I've never had anything to do with my ex again 161 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: after that. Tbh, she was way worse than my sister. 162 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: But my sister is related to me. I thought I 163 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: could expect her loyalty and learned at a young age 164 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: family is sometimes only in me. And there is an 165 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: update to finish this story off. But what do you 166 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: think OP does here? Because I don't think. I think 167 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 1: I think we all kind of agree OPI is not 168 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: the a whole if she tells the truth. But I 169 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: think maybe no contact with his sister. 170 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 4: Yeah. 171 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 3: I feel like maybe this is like a situation where 172 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 3: you have to set really clear boundaries, you know, like 173 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,559 Speaker 3: this is what I can tolerate and like that's all. Yeah, 174 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 3: and I feel like that's completely valid, and maybe this 175 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 3: person needs to be in therapy. Yeah, but there's only 176 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 3: so many times that OPE can say you need to 177 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 3: be there, Oh for sure. Yeah. I feel like this 178 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 3: is where like boundaries like I won't tolerate this. Yeah, 179 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 3: it's like. 180 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: You're either you're in therapy or we cannot continue relationship 181 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: because you are actively making my life much harder. 182 00:07:56,280 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, big yikee. 183 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: But there's an update, So let's see if OP gave 184 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: that recommendation letter or that reference. I called Brennan. It 185 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: had been nearly a day since his email when I posted. 186 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: Turns out the reason he reached out to me is 187 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: because Claudia passed her screening slash reference check with the company, 188 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: but Brennan had final say because he was going to 189 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: be working with her directly on some policy stuff, and 190 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: so we had to like who they were hiring. Brennan 191 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: had been hearing rumors going around about Claudia as well 192 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: and wanted to reach out to me to ask me 193 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: if I'd be honest with them and tell him if 194 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: they were true and if working with Claudia was going 195 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: to be a nightmare for him. How did the word 196 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: get out if people have been spreading rumors about her 197 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: from other jobs? Yeah, don't hire her. Don't hire her. 198 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: This is where my tightrope walk began. I said that 199 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: I couldn't discuss any rumors relating to my sister with 200 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 1: a potential new workplace, as that would be inappropriate. I 201 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 1: said that I refused to give a reference on her 202 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: as I've never worked with her and she is family. 203 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 1: I said, I hoped he understood, Okay, OPI didn't go 204 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 1: the rout of telling the full truth, just kind of said, 205 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm not going to give a reference. 206 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 3: That's kind of weird though, Like, what do you think 207 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 3: she should have been? 208 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 5: I feel like I think OPI is so far on 209 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 5: the rule following spectrum that like they won't sort of 210 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 5: stoop to any kind of level to talk badly about 211 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 5: their sister. 212 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 3: But yeah, at the end of the day, like you 213 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 3: gotta warn these people. 214 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 2: If you know, this is her. 215 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: Friend, Brennan is her friend, I feel like she should 216 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: warn him. 217 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like you don't need to 218 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 5: like walk some high road here, like you know the 219 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 5: truth yea, the. 220 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 3: Tea is out, that he got the tea. 221 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: Somehow, I think the fact that other people are talking 222 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: about it means that you can be like, yeah, I 223 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 1: have also experienced those you know things before. But I 224 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: do think she is a great technical fit, right, I 225 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 1: think that I honestly, I think she should have given a. 226 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 2: Little bit more information. 227 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, but there's a little bit more So maybe maybe 228 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 1: she tells him eventually, and then it's not like you 229 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: have to say, don't hire her. 230 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 4: No, all I have to do is tell what you know. 231 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, just say she's a great technical thing. I think 232 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 1: she'd be really good at the job. However, she's had 233 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: some past experiences where she's created drama at the workplace. 234 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. 235 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 3: Absolutely, I feel like that would have been very like 236 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 3: respectful and true. 237 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: And also she doesn't have a good relationship with her sisters, 238 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 1: so it's not like she's like. 239 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 4: You know, saving anything. 240 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:14,559 Speaker 2: Yeah. 241 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:14,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah. 242 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: Brennan thanked me and said he wouldn't be hiring her 243 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: after my refusal. I panicked a bit, realizing I may 244 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 1: have just cost her this job. Oh they love that. No, 245 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 1: he didn't literally didn't even give something that she could 246 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: like she made it so much worse and she didn't. 247 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,600 Speaker 3: Also, Brennan already was like obviously thinking like I don't 248 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 3: think I'm gonna hire this person. So this is just 249 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 3: the confirmation he needed. 250 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, other people had already talked to him about her. 251 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: This is OPI was just like a you know, nail 252 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: and coffin. I guess, but like not even really because 253 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: she didn't say anything. He said. It wasn't my refusal personally, 254 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: but the rumors flying around were too much of a risk. 255 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: When he has a candidate with ninety percent of Claudia's ability, 256 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 1: Slash experience, and none of the potential drama, so he 257 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: has another option. Anyway, Brennan said, if I'd been willing 258 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: to vouch for Claudia, or if either of the other 259 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 1: personal contacts he had panned out to reply about her, 260 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: he might have taken the leap. But everyone declined Slash refused, 261 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: and that was a pattern to him. 262 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 2: Well there you go. 263 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 3: It wasn't even like her only No. 264 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: He reached out to multiple people and they were like. 265 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:17,239 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm not going to comment on Claudia. 266 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 1: That's a red flag. 267 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 268 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: Brennan then freaked out a little that he might have 269 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: said too much. So both of us were just sort 270 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,079 Speaker 1: of in an anxiety hoe down for a bit, well 271 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 1: awkwardly comforting the other. They're like, no, no, you didn't 272 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: say anything wrong. He's like, no, no, no, you didn't 273 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: say anything wrong. Oh yeah, Like I'm sorry I should 274 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:35,079 Speaker 1: have said that. She's like, no, I shouldn't have said that. 275 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:35,680 Speaker 2: It's fine. 276 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: The end of the call was super cringey and embarrassing, 277 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: and I imagine it will be a while before we 278 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: speak again. So it appears my sister's drama has cost 279 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: her a job offer, but I now feel incredibly guilty 280 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 1: because I could have been the one to stand up 281 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: for her and make her get the job. 282 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 2: I didn't. 283 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: I haven't heard from my sister about it, and I 284 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,959 Speaker 1: doubt I will. Brennan was not the one to interview 285 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: or protect her. He met her on one group call. 286 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,439 Speaker 1: Don't think she will even consider him or me as 287 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:04,719 Speaker 1: the reason for this. Thanks to everyone for your help 288 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: and dealing with this Lee. 289 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, like what she worried about, Like she doesn't even 290 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:11,079 Speaker 5: know that they talk. 291 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, Peed, why are you stressing? Like 292 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 3: it's done? You're good girl. 293 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I can't do anything to hurt anyone, even 294 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: though this person has directly hurt me multiple times and 295 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: I know she has this pattern of behavior. Yeah, Opie 296 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: literally didn't even do what we said, Like literally did 297 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:32,079 Speaker 1: took a step back and you know, just said, oh, 298 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: I can't give you a response. 299 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 3: And also like the sister will never know that she 300 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 3: never gave the reference. 301 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, like she should feel so good that she did 302 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 5: the right thing and it worked out the way she wanted, 303 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 5: Like this is a win win win. 304 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: Like I'm a little bit confused. Did she want her 305 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: sister to work there. Yeah, I don't know, because she 306 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 1: knows that she would cause drama. It seems like she's 307 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: just having this guilty No. I think she's just guilty 308 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 1: and I get that. 309 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:57,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's valid. 310 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it seems like she's a little bit of a 311 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: people pleaser and she's like, I can't hurt like, I 312 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: can't hurt any clubs. 313 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 3: I get you. 314 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: I think the question of this story is not are 315 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: you the a hole for you know, calling out your sister? Yeah, 316 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: I think the moral of the story or not the 317 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: moral of the story. I think that what you should 318 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 1: do is go no contact with your sister. Yeah, because 319 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 1: if you're this worried about her reaction, and also you 320 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: have this pastor Yeah, you have all this history with her, not. 321 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 3: Good, tricky, tricky, tricky, tricky tricky. 322 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: But that is the end of that story. You want 323 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: to read the next one? 324 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:33,679 Speaker 3: Sure, get into it. 325 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 2: Here you go. 326 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: And also, this comes from one of our fans. This 327 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 1: comes from our slash Okay storytime sub reddit, specifically from 328 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 1: one of you guys. I don't know if you're here, 329 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 1: but let's get into it. 330 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 3: I kicked my sister out because she ruined my house, 331 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 3: but she says it should be her house. 332 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 2: What all right? 333 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 1: Interesting? You can't just call DIBs on it? 334 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 3: All right? So I'm twenty seven mail, my sister is thirty. 335 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 3: Are great grandfather helped build our town. He literally swung 336 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:07,239 Speaker 3: that hammer that built town hall and most of downtown 337 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 3: and built our family home in what is now a 338 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 3: booming suburban area. Our grandfather and dad were also in 339 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 3: the construction industry. So am I technically? 340 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 2: Okay? 341 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 1: Pee okay, mumble brag, you just built the whole town. 342 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from you routine tourists nine 343 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 3: six three six on the r Oka storytime subreddit. 344 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 2: And if you're here found off. 345 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 3: So hello human if you are present. So, my mom 346 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 3: got sick when I was fourteen and died a year later. 347 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 3: By that point, my sister had already moved in with 348 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 3: her boyfriend. My dad and I built a two bedroom 349 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 3: apartment above the garage and lived in it while we 350 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 3: fixed everything that was wrong with our home, updating plumbing, electrical, 351 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 3: a new roof, and making it modern without losing the charm. 352 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 3: We put in solar panels, in a new electric well pump, 353 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 3: and updated the septic system too. My father sold his 354 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 3: company and used my mother's life insurance policy, so the 355 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 3: house was amazing. When I turned eighteen, my father put 356 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 3: me on the title, but really we had made the 357 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 3: house so awesome for my sister. When my dad got sick, 358 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 3: he said I was in charge of the house, which 359 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 3: had no mortgage or Leans, so I stayed in the apartment. 360 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 3: He also convinced my sister to move in, which I 361 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 3: supported because her and her boyfriend were struggling financially. What 362 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 3: a kind brother. Yeah, she was living in an unfinished 363 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 3: garage with her two kids and boyfriend, and I never 364 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 3: wanted to make my sister homeless. 365 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 2: They're really nice. 366 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: They so Opie and the dad fix this house up. 367 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: Opie's dad said the house is going to be in 368 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: your name, but they both agreed to let the sister 369 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 1: live there. 370 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 3: I guess, yeah, which is really really It also seems 371 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 3: like a lot going on in this family, Like. 372 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the they lost their mom and then 373 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: the dad is sick. 374 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a lot to deal with. 375 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 3: Five years ago, I met and married my wife. I 376 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 3: moved out of the garage apartment, and my wife and 377 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 3: I got a nice little home. By then, I was 378 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 3: a supervisor at a small construction firm. But my sister 379 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 3: often called my wife about problems at the house, saying 380 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 3: I needed to take my name off the title so 381 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 3: she could handle repairs. 382 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 4: Mmmm. 383 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 1: I don't think you knew unless she's saying because we 384 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: don't know yet if she's on the title, it seems 385 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 1: like it was just ope. In which case, is she 386 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 1: just saying that she wants the house now? 387 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 3: Ound like my To be fair, the home is paid 388 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 3: off as the solar array provides enough power to run 389 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 3: the whole house all year. 390 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 1: Such a nice situation that the sister is in. He's 391 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: like in a house that she's not paying for with 392 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 1: dolar and aw. 393 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, so the home is paid off because of the 394 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 3: solar array. You love that amazing? All right? So she 395 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 3: kept calling me about different things, though, once about the 396 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 3: county wanting to put a meter on the house and 397 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 3: how they were threatening to arrest her for stealing utilities. 398 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 3: Another time, she said a plumber told her the plumbing 399 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 3: needed upgrades in the tune of six thousand dollars and 400 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 3: she couldn't get alone because my name was also on 401 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 3: the title. But my name is the only one on 402 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 3: the title since my dad died. 403 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 1: Okay, so she keeps making it sound like she's, you know, 404 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 1: got a claim to this house. Yeah, but it's Op's house, 405 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 1: and she's making up all of these things about like 406 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 1: it's like I need all of this money and you 407 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:16,360 Speaker 1: have to like it seems like she's trying to put 408 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 1: pressure on Op to give her name to the house. 409 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 3: Hmm, okay. Interesting. I asked for the plumber report, then 410 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 3: hired a few of the guys from the company to verify. 411 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 3: They came back and said exactly what I thought. The 412 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,439 Speaker 3: plumber my sister had hired was wrong, and the work 413 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 3: my dad and I did was perfect. Same with electrical 414 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 3: and roof. 415 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 1: I think that what she's trying to do is just. 416 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 3: Trying to get the name on the title. She's just 417 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 3: making up stuff like there's nothing wrong with this house. 418 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, which is kind of ridiculous. She's living in the 419 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 1: house for free. I don't know why she's making up 420 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: all of these things. 421 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 3: Interesting. I was also concerned the developer was trying to 422 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 3: pressure my sister to sell, as they had tried with 423 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 3: me and even with my dad. The house is on 424 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 3: four acres and spans the end of two streets, all 425 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 3: built within the last ten years. They were trying to 426 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:09,399 Speaker 3: force us to join their hoa or sell so they 427 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 3: can build four home This is the developer. They want 428 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 3: them to sell and build more houses on this property. 429 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so OP is kind of thinking their sister's 430 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 1: trying to get the house in her name so she 431 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 1: can maybe sell it to these developers for money, because 432 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 1: right now she's not getting anything out of the house 433 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 1: because it's in Op's name. 434 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 3: And apparently one acre is a football field, so excellent, 435 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 3: So that's a lot of four football field. That's crazy. Whoa, 436 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 3: I would want my name on that title. Te She's 437 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:42,919 Speaker 3: living there for free, all right. My wife was getting 438 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 3: irritated that my sister had asked me for permission to 439 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 3: repair the house and said I should just sign it 440 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 3: over to her. I said, I wasn't going to let 441 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 3: my sister take out a loan or ruin my family's 442 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 3: hard work. 443 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't I think it would be kind of ridiculous 444 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: to sign over a four acre house? 445 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 2: Ever? 446 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a lot. Ever, that's a lot. Two years ago, 447 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 3: I was planning on moving in because my wife found 448 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 3: out I'm pan sexual and finds me disgusting. Oh my God, 449 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 3: what that was. Oh, such a switch up, Such a 450 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 3: switch up. OPI your wife saw what happened? 451 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:18,879 Speaker 2: Uh? I hope this is your ex wife? 452 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,680 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. Okay, because I've been with men and 453 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 3: trans people before we got married. But I found out 454 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:29,159 Speaker 3: that my sister had rented the garage apartment to a friend. 455 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 3: She explained her friend was leaving an abusive husband, and 456 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 3: I agreed she could stay. So instead I rented a 457 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 3: little apartment by my job HQ and continued to feeld 458 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 3: continuous repair issues from my sister that were bogus. 459 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: Okay, So I think what just happened here is that 460 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:50,439 Speaker 1: OPI separated from their partner and then was going to 461 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:53,159 Speaker 1: move back into the old apartment at their house that 462 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:56,120 Speaker 1: they own. This is your hat someone living there even 463 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 1: though she does not own this house and should not 464 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 1: be able to legally give out, you know, any of 465 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 1: the space to people. 466 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 3: This is weird. Yeah, it's like not even the apartment. No, 467 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,679 Speaker 3: is this like a monopoly? What do you mean, like 468 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,239 Speaker 3: the sister's just trying to like take over everything and 469 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 3: like kick them out. 470 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it seems like well she so she is living 471 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 1: in the house, or at least part of the house 472 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 1: and then gave the garage apartment to someone else. I'm 473 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 1: wondering if she's renting it, because it seems like right 474 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 1: now she's just like making money. Yeah, I think that 475 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: she might be making money off her house. What sister 476 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 1: living there for free and is literally trying to make 477 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 1: money off that. That's my conspiracy theory. I think she's 478 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 1: saying that, oh, I'm just like letting her have a 479 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 1: place to stay because she's leaving an abusive situation. I 480 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: think she's renting. 481 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 2: At the house. 482 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 3: My conspiracy is that she's actually a secret murder and 483 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,640 Speaker 3: that's where she's keeping her bodies, and so that's where 484 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 3: she doesn't want anybody to go to that apartment. That's 485 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 3: such an amazing conspiracy theory. Yeah, because clearly she like, 486 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 3: you can't rely on you can't trust her. All right, 487 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 3: let's see what the story says. Six months ago, my 488 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 3: new apartment manager found out that I am in quote 489 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,919 Speaker 3: by and tried to ask me out. I declined and 490 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 3: went about my life. Then I got hurt at work 491 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,679 Speaker 3: pretty bad. I will never be the same. I'm in 492 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 3: a lot of pain and will never be able to 493 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 3: climb a ladder again. Oh pay oh, give this guy 494 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:19,439 Speaker 3: a break, please. I've had several procedures to try and 495 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 3: help the pain. One night, after a medical procedure, I 496 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 3: woke up to my apartment manager trying to attack me. 497 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 3: So I immediately moved out and went back to the 498 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:32,959 Speaker 3: house and to the little garage apartment I owned, and 499 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 3: told my sister I wasn't asking for the big house, 500 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 3: but I needed the apartment and she needed to move 501 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 3: her friend out. 502 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god, sorry, that was a lot, a lot one. 503 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, Opie, because that's a lot to go through. 504 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 1: But also the only answer that your sister should be 505 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 1: giving you is absolutely this is your house that you own, 506 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 1: and I shouldn't be giving out any space to other people. 507 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 3: And this is like a time of need and kind 508 00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 3: of an emergency. Honestly, it is an immergent. 509 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: Opie does not have a place to live and literally 510 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,640 Speaker 1: owns a four acre house. That would be ridiculous if 511 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 1: I think it is a little bit ridiculous that Opie 512 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: is expected to like rent an apartment, stay in hotel 513 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 1: while owning a house. 514 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, this is weird, all right, But when I got there, 515 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:22,239 Speaker 3: the friend she told me about wasn't there. Instead, it 516 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 3: was some college kids that my sister had been renting 517 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 3: the apartment out too. Ah, she is making that money, 518 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:31,360 Speaker 3: she's renting it out. 519 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: That's not even legal. She legally can't rent out the 520 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,439 Speaker 1: apartment because she's not on the title. 521 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 2: Yikes. 522 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,640 Speaker 3: She had also done updates in the house and rented 523 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 3: some of those rooms out as apartments as well, which 524 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 3: is why she wanted to put meters on the house. 525 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:49,199 Speaker 3: She was making over three thousand a month on my 526 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 3: family home and I was still paying the taxes and trash. 527 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 3: I told my sister she had no right to do 528 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,679 Speaker 3: anything like what she did, and if she didn't remove 529 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 3: the unlawful tenant, I would take her to court as well. 530 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 3: And that's now what I'm forced to do. I told 531 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 3: her she and her kids could continue to live in 532 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 3: the apartment above the garage for seventy five dollars a 533 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:14,400 Speaker 3: month a steal steal. But she said she would rather 534 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 3: be homeless. What what this woman who is in a 535 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:24,399 Speaker 3: four acre house said she would rather be thrown to 536 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 3: the street. 537 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Well, she would be in the apartment 538 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: with the garage, which it's. 539 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:29,879 Speaker 3: So, but she said she doesn't even want to go 540 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 3: to the apartment garage. He's offering the apartment garage for 541 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 3: seventy five dollars, and she's saying I would rather be homeless. 542 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 3: This is literally ridiculous. See grays red Flat sisters. 543 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, like, oh my god, oh my god. 544 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 3: All right, my ex boyfriend who I'm still friends with, 545 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 3: says I'm being in a SS and I should just 546 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 3: evictim the college students and stay in the apartment. But 547 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,199 Speaker 3: after what she did to our family home, all the 548 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,239 Speaker 3: work my dad and I put in, she's not going 549 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,880 Speaker 3: to destroy it. I decided to leave to third floor 550 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 3: apartments as they were because I may need a nurse 551 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,439 Speaker 3: at times to help when I have surgeries, as my 552 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 3: neck and back are in pretty bad shape. 553 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: It sucks that OPE has to deal with all of 554 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: this while also going through like a you know, injury 555 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: and trying to get better. Uh yeah, kick your sister out. 556 00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: Tick your Sister're out. 557 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,399 Speaker 3: If my sister doesn't want the others for herself. I 558 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 3: know a lot of guys in construction end up living 559 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 3: in their trucks, so having company housing is a great move. 560 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 3: The college kids were removed from the three apartments last week. 561 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,919 Speaker 3: I did have some money to help them find a 562 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 3: better place in town. I'm not trying to be heartless here. 563 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 1: Opie gave literally every other solution and the sister doesn't 564 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 1: want to take it. So at this point, you can't 565 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 1: do anything else. 566 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,439 Speaker 3: Like, what is she doing with the three thousand dollars 567 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 3: that she made? 568 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 1: Did she make three thousand dollars total or three thousand 569 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 1: dollars a month monthly? Yeah, exactly her mom and she's 570 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 1: been living there for a while, so this is kind 571 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 1: of ridiculous. Yeah, definitely. I think that you've tried your 572 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 1: best with your sister. At this point, she's a lost cause. 573 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 3: The eviction process for my sister is more complicated, but 574 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 3: it was ruled she would have to leave. But because 575 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,360 Speaker 3: I just let her live there for free and it's 576 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 3: been years, they're giving her more time. Well, I was 577 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 3: still living in the hotel. My sister's boyfriend came over 578 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:22,239 Speaker 3: and asked me to reconsider because she doesn't work and 579 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,119 Speaker 3: he doesn't make enough money to provide the kind of 580 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 3: life his kids are used to in my family's home. 581 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 1: Well, then maybe they shouldn't have been freaking like using op. 582 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 3: Yeah to get money, And why can't they use one 583 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 3: of the apartments. I mean, it seems like he offered 584 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 3: the apartment offered seventy five dollars. 585 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 5: I think you might have offered the one like above 586 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 5: it or something. 587 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 1: Else, the garage garage apartment, but that was already like 588 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: they've already established that's where he used to live, and 589 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: it's like nice and stuff, and also like the exp 590 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 1: or the boyfriend saying, oh, we can't afford this. You 591 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,760 Speaker 1: can't afford seventy five dollars a month. Yeah, that is 592 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: the cheapest place you will find. They can't afford something 593 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 1: new like finding their own place. Oh okay, well, I 594 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: mean the offer is already there for them to take 595 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 1: the seventy five dollars, so I don't know why they're making. 596 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, and Opie even said, I said, I 597 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,439 Speaker 3: offered one for seventy five dollars a month, which I 598 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 3: think is extremely reasonable considering they were charging fifteen hundred 599 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 3: for the one above the garage. He said they could 600 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,360 Speaker 3: not afford that because the rental income was really how 601 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 3: they were making any money. So they can't afford seventy 602 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:24,880 Speaker 3: five dollars. 603 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 2: Get a job. 604 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,120 Speaker 3: I then offered him a position in the company. I'm 605 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 3: building to help pay and I was going to see 606 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:35,680 Speaker 3: if my sister wanted to manage a daycare for my employees. 607 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,919 Speaker 3: Also as my workman's comp claim would be enough to 608 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 3: build a small daycare center on the property, as well 609 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 3: as fix the damages they had caused in the home, 610 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 3: plus all of my startup costs. This guy is doing 611 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 3: everything literally ever this family you. 612 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,400 Speaker 1: Could possibly think of. Op is providing. 613 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:58,400 Speaker 3: He's like creating a company, creating the jobs I will need, 614 00:26:58,560 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 3: give you a job. 615 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 1: I will charge you seventy five dollars for rent, And 616 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 1: they still are saying they're still being ridiculous about this. 617 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 3: But with all of that, he's still refused, saying I 618 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 3: was being unfair and that the house was meant to 619 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:15,400 Speaker 3: go to my sister and she shouldn't have to pay 620 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 3: to live in her own home or be forced to 621 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,159 Speaker 3: move to the apartment and pay for it. They have 622 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:23,400 Speaker 3: three kids, The homeless five bedrooms with a fully finished 623 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 3: basement and attic, and my mom's sewing space. The attic 624 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 3: was split into two tiny apartments. The garage fits three cars, 625 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:34,119 Speaker 3: and there's the two bedroom apartment above it. There's also 626 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 3: a hot tub and pool, both of which my sister 627 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:38,119 Speaker 3: had damaged. 628 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,439 Speaker 1: I understand saying, like two bedrooms is pretty small for 629 00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 1: three kids. However, they kind of caused this. They took 630 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:49,200 Speaker 1: advantage of op and op is charging seventy five dollars. 631 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,919 Speaker 3: I'd take that on high. Yeah, I would absolutely. 632 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,719 Speaker 1: If you can't afford that, you're not gonna be able 633 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 1: to afford anything close to like. 634 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 3: That's more than groceries. 635 00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, you're probably gonna be able to afford 636 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 1: like fIF teen hundred dollars for a studio or something, 637 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: depending on where you live, like maybe four hundred dollars 638 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 1: if you live in a cheap place. 639 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 3: But like, at the end of the day, I'm a 640 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 3: little upset I was paying those bills while my sister 641 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 3: was making money off the home, and I'm very upset 642 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 3: I was lied to about the garage apartment, which was 643 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 3: always intended to be mine, And I'm even more upset 644 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 3: about the damage to the property. I will not let 645 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 3: my sister just ruin what my family has built. The 646 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,640 Speaker 3: seventy dollars a month is so she is an actual 647 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 3: tenant and I will have rights. I'd let her keep 648 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 3: living in the house, but the damage is so bad 649 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 3: and I can't physically do it myself right now, so 650 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 3: read it. What should I do? Am I being an 651 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 3: a hole? 652 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 1: You're being an angel and your sister's and her family 653 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: is taking advantage of you. And I think at this 654 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 1: point there's nothing else that you can do. You've done everything, 655 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 1: done everything you could possibly think of. Yeah, like you're 656 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: an angel. Actually you're not an a hole at all. 657 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 4: No. 658 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 3: What's the opposite of an a hole an angel? Like 659 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:09,719 Speaker 3: a mouth? Like the opposite direction? Yes, correct, that's what 660 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 3: that's the Reddit lingo. 661 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: All right, kick her out? 662 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 2: Yep. 663 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, you are going through too much right now in 664 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: your life to have to also put her whole deal, 665 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:23,240 Speaker 1: stack that whole thing on top of your problems. You 666 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 1: know you don't deserve that. 667 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, take care of your health and take care of 668 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 3: your mental health. 669 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, keep your peace, and if she's disturbing it, pick 670 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:30,880 Speaker 1: her out. 671 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 2: She's gone. 672 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 1: You're giving her the sweetest deal, and if she doesn't 673 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: want to take a bite out of that, then he's gone. 674 00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:38,760 Speaker 3: But that is the end of that story. 675 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 6: Correct, it is h This is an episode from Deep 676 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 6: Within the Archives. Time for okop re lash. My coworker 677 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,600 Speaker 6: is blackmailing me. So I can't have a honeymoon. But 678 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 6: I have a trick up my sleeve. 679 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 7: You know, Sam, I would send them on a honeymoon. 680 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 6: Ooh, that's the trick. It's a good trick. It's an 681 00:29:59,360 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 6: outpraah trick. 682 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 7: Honeymoon to hell. 683 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 4: Oh. 684 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 6: I work in an office where I'm the only person 685 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 6: who can do seventy five percent of my job. I 686 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:13,200 Speaker 6: don't know what that means, where it's like like I 687 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 6: can only do my job, but there's a second person 688 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 6: who can do essential functions. We have a policy that 689 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 6: only one of the two of us is allowed to 690 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 6: request advanced time off at a given time, so one 691 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 6: of us is always in barring emergencies. So basically like 692 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 6: there's twenty five percent of opiece job that is essential 693 00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 6: and that other person has to be there or op 694 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 6: has to be there. Right anyway, I'm getting married in October, 695 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 6: and in relation to that, I requested and it was 696 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 6: approved for two days before the wedding and two weeks following. 697 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 6: I don't take much time off, and I have had 698 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 6: more than enough in the bank to cover that with 699 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 6: some leftover. I was approved immediately by the supervisor. 700 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 4: Hey yo, Since. 701 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 6: Then, my clothes. Coworker Jane, who covers some of my 702 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 6: essential duties, started asking if I really needed that much 703 00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,720 Speaker 6: time off. Do you need that much time off here 704 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 6: honeymoon or do you really need that much time off 705 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 6: for your. 706 00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 4: Wedding? Looks at notes your husband Jeff. You need that 707 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 4: much time with Jeff? 708 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, dude, trust me, no one needs that much time 709 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 6: with Jeff. Jeff is a basket case. I'm a surpriser 710 00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 6: even marrying that kid. She then dropped a bit of 711 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 6: a bombshell on me. She said she really needs to 712 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 6: go to Florida the following weekend. She said, I really 713 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 6: need to go to Florida the following weekend after my 714 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 6: wedding for my cousin's wedding. She asked if I could 715 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 6: be in for the second half of that week as 716 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 6: well as the following Monday. Why she's on her freaking honeymoon. 717 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 6: I told her that my plans weren't certain yet, but 718 00:31:57,880 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 6: that I didn't want to commit to that and lee 719 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 6: those requested days open. So that's like I feel like 720 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 6: she I think Opie should have just been like nope, 721 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 6: for real, Like she already got the time off. Yeah, 722 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 6: she already got the time off, she requested it. Come on, 723 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 6: she did everything exactly. It should have been fine, right, 724 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,520 Speaker 6: We should have been good, We should have been golden. 725 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,959 Speaker 6: But this is not how reddit stories work. No, that 726 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 6: was met with a tirade about how she always about 727 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 6: how she quote always is looking out for me, and 728 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 6: that I need to do this one thing for her. 729 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 6: We normally have a cordial, if not especially friendly relationship, 730 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 6: but she is turned nasty and has threatened to black 731 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:40,239 Speaker 6: mirror me over a sick day where she claims I 732 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 6: wasn't really sick. So she's like, she's like going through 733 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,880 Speaker 6: all the sick days that Opie has taken and be like, actually, 734 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:48,960 Speaker 6: this one, I'm pretty sure you went to Disneyland, but 735 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:53,600 Speaker 6: I'm pretty sure. Apparently she had seen me at the 736 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 6: grocery store where I was mostly picking up prescription for 737 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 6: my sickness, but also doing. 738 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 4: Some general groceries. 739 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 6: But when push comes to shove, I actually don't have 740 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 6: the doctors now, so she's bribing a blackmail OPI right now. 741 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 6: So when she brought it up, she said, that day 742 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 6: I saw you at the grocery store, I know you 743 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 6: weren't really sick. You were just goofing off for the day. 744 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 6: I'll report you for that. 745 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 7: I'm so sorry I had to pick up medication for 746 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 7: my illness. 747 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 6: Also, like, I feel like this is very short sighted 748 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 6: of this girl. Be like, I'm blackmailing you right now 749 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 6: over your freaking wedding days off. 750 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 4: It's not like like, oh, you're you're going for some like, uh, 751 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 4: you know, to watch a movie premiere and I want 752 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,480 Speaker 4: to go to yeah, you know, my wedding, or it's 753 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 4: like this is such a like a cousin's wedding versus 754 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:41,240 Speaker 4: Opie's own wedding. 755 00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, come on, one of those is a priority. I 756 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 6: responded with, I was there to pick up a prescription, 757 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 6: even though I bought some other things because I didn't 758 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 6: have anything at home that sounded good. She responded, if 759 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 6: you don't let me have this, I'm still going to 760 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 6: report its coworker sucks certifiably real. This has gone on 761 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 6: for a week and she's not dropping it. She's saying 762 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 6: I need to be in those specific days, but I'm 763 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 6: not relentsing. 764 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 4: Don't give it, Opie. 765 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,719 Speaker 6: There's a possibility that, for a variety of reasons, I 766 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 6: won't even be working there in October. But at the 767 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 6: same time, I don't know how to handle this. I 768 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 6: mentioned it in passing to my supervisor, who wasn't overly interested, 769 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,320 Speaker 6: I guess in the drama that's unfolding between these people. 770 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 6: He indicated that I was okay, since I'd requested the 771 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 6: time nine plus months in advance. 772 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:28,880 Speaker 7: Thank you. 773 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,399 Speaker 6: Still, though, I feel the battle isn't over it yet, 774 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,959 Speaker 6: and it's negatively affecting my ability to actually do my job, 775 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 6: as Jane is refusing to do the small part of 776 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:42,319 Speaker 6: her job that I don't have the proper training credentials 777 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 6: ability to do so. Jane is turning that blackmail up 778 00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:49,839 Speaker 6: a notch truly. In addition, there are logistics that if 779 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 6: our supervisor agrees to let us both off, I'm no 780 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 6: doubt going to have two dozen calls texts a day 781 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 6: on my honeymoon from people who are persistent enough to 782 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:00,800 Speaker 6: call me ten times in a row if I don't answer, 783 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,600 Speaker 6: which does not seem like the ideal honeymoon background music. 784 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 7: Honey, it's it's okay. 785 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 4: I just got to answer these forty eight voicemails real 786 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,239 Speaker 4: real quick, real real quick, real quick. 787 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:19,720 Speaker 6: I swear we'll get back to bed soon, baby, Honey. 788 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,440 Speaker 6: I thought we turned the vibrator off. Needless to say, 789 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 6: that's not a situation that I want to deal with. 790 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 6: But it happens any other day when both of us 791 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,319 Speaker 6: are off. Heck, it happens when I'm off. Just because 792 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,400 Speaker 6: of the sheer volume of stuff. She doesn't care to 793 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 6: learn to be able to answer. Okay, John, there is 794 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 6: an update. So what is your prediction? 795 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 4: You know, honestly, I don't know if there's much much 796 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 4: more of anything that can happen on planet Earth that 797 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,359 Speaker 4: would not convince me that Opie is not the a hole. 798 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, Opie definitely not the a hole. Jane fucking sucks. 799 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 4: Jane. 800 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 6: What do you think is gonna happen to Jane? What 801 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:53,920 Speaker 6: does How does this beef gnna get resolved? 802 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:54,480 Speaker 7: All Right? 803 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 4: So, if I had to throw something down, I'm gonna 804 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 4: say I'm gonna I'm gonna say that Jane goes full send, 805 00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,000 Speaker 4: she goes nuclear, and she's like, not only am I 806 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:08,759 Speaker 4: gonna like try and get you out of your honeymoon time. 807 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 7: Now I just need to get you fired. 808 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 4: Because you get in the way of my precious cousin's weddings. 809 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 6: All right, John, there is an update, So we'll get 810 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 6: to the bottom of this all. 811 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:19,000 Speaker 7: Right, Sam. 812 00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,320 Speaker 4: You know, we talk about a lot of really hard 813 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:26,800 Speaker 4: situations on this podcast. 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The meeting was open by saying that, 845 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,000 Speaker 6: as we all knew, they had discussed with all of 846 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:57,920 Speaker 6: us our actual day to day responsibilities, not our job descriptions, 847 00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,360 Speaker 6: but what we were doing. It was then an ounce 848 00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,880 Speaker 6: that as of three to twenty March twentieth, end of 849 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:07,800 Speaker 6: next pay period, the position which Jane is currently occupying 850 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 6: has been marked r IF reduction in force, or put. 851 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:15,759 Speaker 4: Another way, she's fired. 852 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,440 Speaker 6: Jane, Come get so what's go. The rest of the 853 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,839 Speaker 6: meeting was relatively short, as it was a discussion of 854 00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,799 Speaker 6: what Jane's description currently assigns to her and who will 855 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 6: do those duties. The net result of that is that 856 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 6: I'm actually ending up with less work to do not 857 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 6: by a dramatic amount, but a few things off as 858 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 6: some of Jane's duties that I'm currently doing are being 859 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 6: assigned to others. We were informed that starting next Monday, 860 00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 6: Jane will no longer be coming in as she will 861 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,920 Speaker 6: be using a crude vacation time in lieu of working 862 00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 6: until RIF is official. We are directed to help her 863 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:54,480 Speaker 6: worre necessary to finish out any remaining business this week. 864 00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 6: So that's that. Looks like Jane will indeed get to 865 00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,000 Speaker 6: a tender cousin's wedding in Florida. 866 00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:01,800 Speaker 4: Sweet revenge, bro. 867 00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 7: Yes we we when this happens. 868 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 6: So before we go into who's the a hole, who's 869 00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:11,719 Speaker 6: the angel, who's that fall, who's it not, who's not? 870 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:13,759 Speaker 6: And what we would do? Who do you think the 871 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:17,000 Speaker 6: a hole is here? Are there any angels? What would 872 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,480 Speaker 6: you do in the situation? Please put in the comments. 873 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 6: But John and I are about to get into the breakdown. John, 874 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 6: what do you think? 875 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:23,600 Speaker 7: You know? 876 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 4: I think Jane was a raging, puckered a hole and 877 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 4: to the max. You know, I think I think she 878 00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:33,440 Speaker 4: got the hernia of justice. 879 00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:34,480 Speaker 7: That's what I said. 880 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:39,160 Speaker 6: I wish the justice, Petrike more goodness. The pull up 881 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:40,839 Speaker 6: of perpetual pertrusion. 882 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 7: What's another P word that like fits. 883 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:51,080 Speaker 6: It's like justice, yeah, of punishing the petul punisher. 884 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 4: Punishment. 885 00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:56,239 Speaker 6: Yeah, Jane definitely deserves it. Also, just like you got 886 00:39:56,239 --> 00:40:00,720 Speaker 6: to learn something. Business relationships are for the law long term. 887 00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 6: Jane's playing a short term game here, and like getting 888 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,439 Speaker 6: revenge in this way is just gonna fuck her over 889 00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:09,880 Speaker 6: long term. And she got like justice pretty quick. But 890 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 6: don't blackmail your coworkers because it will come right back 891 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,800 Speaker 6: up and bite you in your butt. Ohp did everything 892 00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:20,840 Speaker 6: right here, Like Op freakin' is a saint. Didn't like, 893 00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 6: didn't get mad at Jane, didn't didn't budge like like 894 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,719 Speaker 6: she deserves her honeymoon, She deserves her wedding. Jane was 895 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:29,840 Speaker 6: out of line for like asking her to reduce it, 896 00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 6: especially because Op asked for the time off like nine 897 00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,160 Speaker 6: plus months in advance. So Jane goes, suck a fat one, 898 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,279 Speaker 6: let's go ope all the way. 899 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:43,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, well you're you're forgetting one important thing here, Sam, 900 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:45,560 Speaker 4: you know you're saying that, Yeah, this is you know, 901 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,239 Speaker 4: the long term. You have to build these relationships to 902 00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 4: be to be successful in business. But the cousin was 903 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 4: having a bachelor rep party at hard Rock Miami. I mean, 904 00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,040 Speaker 4: does it get more you can't better that long term 905 00:40:59,040 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 4: decision than that. 906 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,759 Speaker 6: You're right, You're right, You're right. You can't even put 907 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,799 Speaker 6: a price on the hard rock in Miami. I don't 908 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,440 Speaker 6: think you can. I don't think you can. 909 00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:07,439 Speaker 7: You can't, man. 910 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:11,839 Speaker 6: I feel I feel bad for Jane because she has 911 00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 6: a long, hard road ahead of her of getting fucked 912 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,440 Speaker 6: over because she wants to funk out to people over 913 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:21,200 Speaker 6: and that's how the cookie crumblest Do. 914 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:25,840 Speaker 4: You agree with her decision? Let us know. Karen steals 915 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:29,600 Speaker 4: my blind friend's guide dog because she thinks my friend 916 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,600 Speaker 4: is lying about being blind. 917 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:36,960 Speaker 6: Okyop, this is Okayop, I'm Sayinguel daughter, and I'm John Fry, 918 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:40,840 Speaker 6: and we tell the funniest freaking stories on the internet. 919 00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:43,680 Speaker 4: I don't know anyone who's funnier. I don't either, No, 920 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,239 Speaker 4: no one. Who's Kevin Hart? 921 00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:45,520 Speaker 2: Who? 922 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,160 Speaker 4: No? Yeah, I've never heard of him. Steve Carrell? Do 923 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 4: you know? Steve can't l he can't take El's big L. 924 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:56,880 Speaker 4: We else you know? 925 00:41:56,880 --> 00:42:01,240 Speaker 6: I don't think there is anyone else you know except us, John, Brian, 926 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:02,120 Speaker 6: Samuel not. 927 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 4: We just replaced every comedian ever known to man. Yeah, yeah, sorry, 928 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:07,360 Speaker 4: I'm sorry about that. 929 00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:09,880 Speaker 6: It was It's like it's like the snap, you know, 930 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 6: and uh yeah with the club, only two comedians left, 931 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,000 Speaker 6: bes comedians around. 932 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 4: We're your only choice of entertainment. Now you're welcome. Yeah. 933 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,320 Speaker 6: Also we're like we've been seeing a lot of comments 934 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:25,200 Speaker 6: recently from from TikTok and and YouTube saying like like, oh, 935 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,719 Speaker 6: like I watch your show every day, like it means 936 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,120 Speaker 6: so much to watch it, and you know, like like 937 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:32,319 Speaker 6: I guess it's just making John and I feel like, 938 00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 6: you know, we're making a difference exactly. So what we've 939 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,479 Speaker 6: decided is we should be nominated for a Nobel Peace 940 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:40,480 Speaker 6: Prize exactly. 941 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 4: I mean, if you think about it, global hunger, you know, famine, 942 00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:48,760 Speaker 4: Like what about jokes, what about what about Reddit stories? 943 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:52,280 Speaker 6: Yeah it is any is food and like shelter really 944 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,759 Speaker 6: worth it if you're not laughing. Exactly as we said, 945 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:57,840 Speaker 6: the only two comedians left are. 946 00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:02,040 Speaker 4: So Maslow's Maslow's thing. It's you know, shelter, food, Reddit stories, 947 00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,399 Speaker 4: Reddit stories number one. You can't eat without Reddit story. 948 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,880 Speaker 4: So that is true. That is true. We have a 949 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:14,960 Speaker 4: great Reddit story for listeners. Your goddamn welcome. So shall 950 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 4: we dive into it? Shall we? Let's do it? Karen 951 00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:21,200 Speaker 4: steals my blind friend's guide dog because she thinks my 952 00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:26,359 Speaker 4: friend is lying about being blind, Like, even if she is, like, 953 00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:33,920 Speaker 4: who steals someone's dog? Bro? Bro, bro, Why it's just 954 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,799 Speaker 4: it's just painful sometimes. So I have a friend who 955 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 4: is blind and uses a guide dog to get around. 956 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 4: I have a friend who is blind and uses a 957 00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,840 Speaker 4: guide dog. She was on the train about to exit, 958 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:46,880 Speaker 4: and we were just texting, and I told her I 959 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,600 Speaker 4: was nearby. She called me and said I needed to 960 00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:53,400 Speaker 4: help her asap. While she was exiting the train, someone 961 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:57,799 Speaker 4: had forcefully ripped the harness out of her hand of 962 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:01,680 Speaker 4: her guide dog. What bro Like, She definitely didn't see 963 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 4: that coming. It took me like a solid two seconds 964 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:09,920 Speaker 4: to like put it all together. 965 00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:16,440 Speaker 6: Oh going, hell, oh god, all right, all right, come on, 966 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:21,600 Speaker 6: give us that. That's her ticket out of hell. 967 00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:24,799 Speaker 4: Nominate is already now. Opie's friend knew that her dog 968 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 4: was close by. She could still hear him barking, but 969 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,439 Speaker 4: he didn't return to her as he normally would in 970 00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:33,680 Speaker 4: instances when she would drop the harness. I ran over 971 00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:35,960 Speaker 4: to the platform that she was on and saw her 972 00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:40,799 Speaker 4: standing there helplessly. Oh no, that's so sad, truly, like 973 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:42,400 Speaker 4: this poor woman. She's like I don't know, you know, 974 00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 4: I can't find my dog, and god, just madness. And 975 00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,520 Speaker 4: then I saw the dog. He was held by a 976 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,880 Speaker 4: woman and a kid trying to pet him, but he 977 00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,640 Speaker 4: barked and barked trying to get away. You know, like 978 00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,680 Speaker 4: if you have a dog that's just like not about it, 979 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,799 Speaker 4: don't try to pet it. Yeah, and also like that's 980 00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:06,960 Speaker 4: no fun. Yeah, petting has to be consensual. 981 00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:13,360 Speaker 6: Go on, come on, CONCENTI we're putting up the billboards 982 00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,800 Speaker 6: right now. We need proper dog etiquette like that. Also, 983 00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:20,439 Speaker 6: you need to like you should probably ask every time 984 00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,520 Speaker 6: before you pet a dog, also for your. 985 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,960 Speaker 4: Own safety, like you don't know what that dog, you know. 986 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:33,200 Speaker 6: Has got short short story. So I have a friend 987 00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:39,080 Speaker 6: Jessica that has this devil worshiper of a freaking dog. 988 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 6: And she told me when we went over, like, hey, 989 00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,360 Speaker 6: you know, like my dog has a tendency to be 990 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,760 Speaker 6: like to like nip sometimes. Right, I'm like, okay, like whatever, 991 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 6: I've been around dogs. I've been around dogs all my life. 992 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:52,880 Speaker 6: I think it's fine. Right, I go over there, and 993 00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:53,719 Speaker 6: it's a cute dog. 994 00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:54,360 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie. 995 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 6: It's a cute dog, story dog, but it's freaking deranged. 996 00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,080 Speaker 6: And I went up and just give it a little 997 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,080 Speaker 6: bit of like a little pet all of a sudden, 998 00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 6: and it freaking goes for my eye and it just 999 00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:14,760 Speaker 6: lurches forward and it has permanently scarred my right eyeball. Really, 1000 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:18,160 Speaker 6: I can't close this eye fully anymore because the eyeline 1001 00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 6: is scarred. And so I'm like, bro, you gotta get 1002 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,520 Speaker 6: like you could not have your dog around people, like 1003 00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:27,680 Speaker 6: you know you sure like the warning is one thing, 1004 00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:29,719 Speaker 6: but to still have your dog around when you have 1005 00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:34,000 Speaker 6: guests over like you're asking for someone to to just 1006 00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:37,560 Speaker 6: get hurt, right, And so that happened right then. Isabelle, 1007 00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:40,560 Speaker 6: my roommate, a couple of days later, went over and 1008 00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,880 Speaker 6: the dog took a chunk out of her leg and 1009 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 6: she had to get go. She had to go to 1010 00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:51,840 Speaker 6: the er. This dog is Satan incarnates. So one, always 1011 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,280 Speaker 6: ask before you pet a dog. And two, if someone 1012 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:58,560 Speaker 6: says their dog nips, just assume that they are Satan 1013 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,640 Speaker 6: incarnate and that you should never go near it by 1014 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:03,600 Speaker 6: any means whatsoever. 1015 00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:05,759 Speaker 4: And it will kill you if it has a chance. 1016 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 4: Here's my question, though, how close was your face to 1017 00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:09,759 Speaker 4: the dog's face? Oh? 1018 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:14,920 Speaker 6: Super close? That's totally no, no, but no, you're right right, 1019 00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,400 Speaker 6: it was. It was my mistake. I should not have 1020 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,200 Speaker 6: trusted that spawn of satan dogs. 1021 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 4: Like, putting your face close to theirs is like a 1022 00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:26,719 Speaker 4: sign of aggression, not even if you're being like let 1023 00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,640 Speaker 4: me w potentially, So basically it was it was your fault, 1024 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:30,640 Speaker 4: John with. 1025 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:36,960 Speaker 6: All the dogs dog expert over here, idiot, I know 1026 00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:38,160 Speaker 6: that's crazy. 1027 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,239 Speaker 4: You can't close your right eye though, So how do 1028 00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 4: you sleep? No, no, I can't. I can't. 1029 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,879 Speaker 6: Sorry, I can't open it all the way. Oh okay, 1030 00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,640 Speaker 6: I can't. Like I can't. I guess I can't. That's 1031 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:51,360 Speaker 6: still like it's like slightly, it's slightly. 1032 00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 4: It's off, okay, okay off. Yeah close to wink at 1033 00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,640 Speaker 4: you all the time. You just never know. You're always 1034 00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,440 Speaker 4: always suspense, all right. Back to our Back to our 1035 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,759 Speaker 4: friend and her dog, her her good, well trained dog. 1036 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:07,640 Speaker 4: So I ran over to my friend and told her 1037 00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:09,839 Speaker 4: that I could see her dog, and I led her 1038 00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,319 Speaker 4: to a nearby bench where she could sit down, and 1039 00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 4: then I went over to the woman with a dog 1040 00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:18,319 Speaker 4: I said, hey, sorry, could you please give the dog back? 1041 00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,640 Speaker 4: It's a guide dog, which, like, honestly, you can be 1042 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 4: less polite than that. Dude, I would be going over like, 1043 00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:29,560 Speaker 4: what the hell is someone's dog? This person is blind, 1044 00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:37,360 Speaker 4: she needs the dog to move around? Good God. She 1045 00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,920 Speaker 4: snorted and said that she'd seen my friend use off phone, 1046 00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:46,280 Speaker 4: so she's obviously not blind and doesn't need the dog. 1047 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:48,480 Speaker 4: What are you talking about? 1048 00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,160 Speaker 6: You know, there's like there's like accessibility on your phone 1049 00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:52,880 Speaker 6: where you could you could like you could say if 1050 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:56,840 Speaker 6: you're blind or death or whatever. Exactly exactly, come on, Apples, 1051 00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:59,760 Speaker 6: thought of that ship apples on ahead of the game, ladies, 1052 00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,600 Speaker 6: what's about a phone in the hands of every man, woman, 1053 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,120 Speaker 6: and child in the world. Do you think blindness or 1054 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:07,839 Speaker 6: deafness is going to stop them? 1055 00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:11,760 Speaker 4: Truly? This Karen is not is not worried about Apple's 1056 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:17,480 Speaker 4: accessibility features. Obviously not. Now the dog knows me, so 1057 00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:19,799 Speaker 4: he tried to get to me. I told her that 1058 00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:23,759 Speaker 4: my friend uses special accessibility software on her phone, so 1059 00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:28,760 Speaker 4: she can use it. Oh called it, yea, and please 1060 00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:35,160 Speaker 4: give me the dog. Then the kids started throwing a 1061 00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:39,280 Speaker 4: tantrum that caught the eye of a trained service woman 1062 00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:42,200 Speaker 4: who came over and asked what all the fuss was about. 1063 00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:47,680 Speaker 4: The mother tried to claim that the dog was hers. 1064 00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:51,600 Speaker 4: Bro Bro, She's trying to dog nap right now, God my, 1065 00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:56,760 Speaker 4: oh gosh. I said, that's nonsense. It's obviously a guide 1066 00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:59,440 Speaker 4: dog like it has the hardest and everything on it. 1067 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:05,080 Speaker 4: And if he was theirs, then firstly, why would he 1068 00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:08,640 Speaker 4: be trying to get away from them? And secondly they 1069 00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,279 Speaker 4: should have the papers on them to prove it. Give 1070 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:14,880 Speaker 4: me the receipts, lay it down, op, And that my 1071 00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:18,400 Speaker 4: friend had all the papers on her. The train service 1072 00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,319 Speaker 4: woman said that the harness could also be a fake one, 1073 00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 4: and he was wearing it as a joke, and that 1074 00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:27,280 Speaker 4: maybe he was trying to get away because I frightened him. Okay, 1075 00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:31,279 Speaker 4: train service woman, not you two who said do you 1076 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:31,719 Speaker 4: want me? 1077 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:35,120 Speaker 6: So you're on the wrong side of history. History is 1078 00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:38,360 Speaker 6: going to look back at you and be like trade 1079 00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 6: service woman who looks who looks. 1080 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:44,759 Speaker 4: At a guide dog harness and is like, oh, that 1081 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,319 Speaker 4: might be fake. It could be a joke. Okay, Well, 1082 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:48,000 Speaker 4: I don't. 1083 00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 6: Know about the joke, but a lot of people actually 1084 00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,480 Speaker 6: do do that to sneak their dogs into places. 1085 00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:53,840 Speaker 4: Oh, I see, I say. 1086 00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:57,680 Speaker 6: That because I know someone who does that, not me. 1087 00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:01,360 Speaker 6: I don't have a dog. Yes, I know someone a 1088 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 6: friend or a family member. Oh, I won't say which, 1089 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:13,480 Speaker 6: keeth im guessing. I then said, okay, do they know 1090 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 6: his name? Nice one, that's a good one. 1091 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,879 Speaker 4: Let's go. He is trained to respond to his name 1092 00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:22,799 Speaker 4: in a special way. The tail points up, the ears 1093 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,239 Speaker 4: straightened up, and he comes to stand on the right 1094 00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:28,040 Speaker 4: side of you. And if they called him by his 1095 00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:31,399 Speaker 4: name and he did that, it would amaze me. Side note, 1096 00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:33,239 Speaker 4: I once made the mistake of calling him by his 1097 00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:35,279 Speaker 4: name when he was off duty and playing with me, 1098 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,919 Speaker 4: as he is allowed a few times a day when 1099 00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:39,880 Speaker 4: my friend says he's safe and will stay in the 1100 00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:41,960 Speaker 4: spot for a while. So basically she was playing with 1101 00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:42,600 Speaker 4: him and he's just. 1102 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:51,640 Speaker 6: Like him, playing some soldier, like, well, you're knowing. 1103 00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:55,840 Speaker 4: So now, obviously they did not know his name. But 1104 00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 4: when I called him, he put his ears up, put 1105 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:01,600 Speaker 4: up his jail and came to my side. Let's go. 1106 00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:07,480 Speaker 4: There's the proof trained service woman. Now. The train servicewoman 1107 00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:10,399 Speaker 4: then called the police, and first they handed the dog 1108 00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:12,600 Speaker 4: back to my friend, and then they had to look 1109 00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:16,040 Speaker 4: at the cameras they saw that the Karen snatched the 1110 00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:19,080 Speaker 4: harness away right as my friend was exiting the train. 1111 00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 4: I mean, just what like. 1112 00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:26,120 Speaker 6: You're cawing camera, bro, You're done for and just like again, 1113 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:31,640 Speaker 6: just like how awful and just ignorant of a human kid, 1114 00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:33,960 Speaker 6: like who just sees a guide dog and is just 1115 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,440 Speaker 6: like I'm going to take it while this like blind 1116 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:39,239 Speaker 6: person is at their most vulnerable. And also like you know, 1117 00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,880 Speaker 6: if you're on a train station, you're probably going somewhere 1118 00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:46,280 Speaker 6: to do something else, Like who in their right mind 1119 00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:49,680 Speaker 6: is going to do whatever they're doing in their life? 1120 00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:51,320 Speaker 4: And then pauses just like. 1121 00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:53,640 Speaker 6: You know, today's the day I'm going to steal some 1122 00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:58,240 Speaker 6: blind person's dog, Like just selfishly, how do you divert 1123 00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:00,680 Speaker 6: that much attention away from your or whatever you're gonna do, 1124 00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:02,319 Speaker 6: truly stealing a. 1125 00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:04,279 Speaker 4: Dog, like you don't have an appointment to get your 1126 00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:07,120 Speaker 4: kid to or like school or work or anything. 1127 00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,880 Speaker 6: And also you're just like is she just staying there? 1128 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,960 Speaker 6: She was just sitting there, sitting there with the dog. 1129 00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:15,640 Speaker 6: Why was she trying to leave? This is a bad 1130 00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:16,520 Speaker 6: dog thief. 1131 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 4: To maybe at least if you're going to be a dog, 1132 00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 4: execute it well you know what I mean. And honestly, 1133 00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:25,040 Speaker 4: looking at this tape, it's a wonder that my friend 1134 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 4: or the Karen didn't get hurt. And that's why my 1135 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,880 Speaker 4: blind friend press charges for assault. 1136 00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:34,000 Speaker 6: That is something I did see coming. All right, thank you, 1137 00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:36,880 Speaker 6: someone is actually making some sense. 1138 00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 4: But the Karen only had to pay a fine in 1139 00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:44,080 Speaker 4: the end because it was only her first offense. 1140 00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:46,840 Speaker 6: Okay, well, at least she isn't stealing dogs in the 1141 00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:49,880 Speaker 6: regular truly, or at least she hasn't been caught. 1142 00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:52,160 Speaker 4: It hasn't been caught. It is the first time. And 1143 00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:55,040 Speaker 4: Opie finishes off by saying what bugs me the most 1144 00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,759 Speaker 4: is that none of the other passengers did anything. They 1145 00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,719 Speaker 4: saw all of it happen, and no one stopped it. 1146 00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,080 Speaker 6: See I actually, I so I have a story related 1147 00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 6: with that too. I was I run it like five 1148 00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,319 Speaker 6: am right, yes, John John knows it well. And I 1149 00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,359 Speaker 6: jump in the water and then do just a couple 1150 00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:14,200 Speaker 6: of push ups, some pistol squats, and then I go back. 1151 00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,839 Speaker 6: And as I was running back, I see these two 1152 00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:21,000 Speaker 6: guys that are biking together, and I'm like, oh, like, 1153 00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:23,160 Speaker 6: you know, friends biking together in the morning. Fun, right, 1154 00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:27,000 Speaker 6: And then one of the guys crashes and falls, and 1155 00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,080 Speaker 6: the other guy keeps going like, oh shit, like I 1156 00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:31,680 Speaker 6: should I need to help this guy that that fell, right, 1157 00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:33,680 Speaker 6: But then I see the other guy turning around to 1158 00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:34,239 Speaker 6: help his friend. 1159 00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:38,879 Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, like you knows he's clearly going to yeah, 1160 00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:40,000 Speaker 4: I helped to help. 1161 00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,000 Speaker 6: The guy, right, And so then I continue to correct course, 1162 00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:47,279 Speaker 6: and then this this guy goes to this person on 1163 00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,080 Speaker 6: the ground and says, you took my. 1164 00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:52,359 Speaker 4: Drugs, man, and I'm like, oh my god. 1165 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:55,080 Speaker 6: And then like he starts like like roughing this dude 1166 00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,440 Speaker 6: up and like like taking like pill bottles and like 1167 00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:03,800 Speaker 6: syringes from this guy. And I'm like, you know, it's 1168 00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:07,120 Speaker 6: I realize that it is no longer in the morning. 1169 00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,000 Speaker 6: It is actually the wee hours of the night for 1170 00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:12,520 Speaker 6: these people. And I'm not sure whether I want to 1171 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:16,080 Speaker 6: get involved. And like now I'm having this moral quandary. 1172 00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:19,000 Speaker 6: Should I help this person on the ground. Should I 1173 00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:21,239 Speaker 6: keep going like do I want to get involved in 1174 00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:24,319 Speaker 6: a drug deal gone wrong? And as I'm walking, like 1175 00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:26,719 Speaker 6: you know, debating this, I'm walking you know, in these 1176 00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:28,319 Speaker 6: these houses and this is like right on the beach, 1177 00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:30,879 Speaker 6: so it's pretty it's pretty nice houses and I look 1178 00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:35,360 Speaker 6: to my right and then I hear or I keep walking, 1179 00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:36,840 Speaker 6: and then to my right I hear. 1180 00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:40,640 Speaker 4: And I'm like, what the fuck is that? And then 1181 00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:41,359 Speaker 4: I turned to my. 1182 00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:45,000 Speaker 6: Right and there was a six four like three hundred 1183 00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:48,760 Speaker 6: pound giant white dude looking at me going. 1184 00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:52,200 Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh my god. And then I look 1185 00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:57,840 Speaker 4: down and I realize he is completely naked, Like okay, 1186 00:55:57,880 --> 00:55:59,880 Speaker 4: I gotta get out of here. And then I start running. 1187 00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:02,480 Speaker 6: I actually, you know, I was just walking now actually 1188 00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:05,560 Speaker 6: running away getting my work at him. You know, thank 1189 00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:08,560 Speaker 6: you guy for making me run faster. But I'm like, 1190 00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:12,120 Speaker 6: holy crap, Like, why is the early morning is weird? 1191 00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:12,359 Speaker 4: Bro? 1192 00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:15,319 Speaker 6: The early morning is weird. And I'm not sure if 1193 00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:17,000 Speaker 6: I should have gotten involved in that. So, like, I 1194 00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:21,680 Speaker 6: understand that when you're in a large city where you 1195 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:26,360 Speaker 6: don't really understand the context of different uh uh different 1196 00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,719 Speaker 6: fights and such like, it's it's a it's a crapshoot. 1197 00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:31,000 Speaker 6: Whether you should get involved. 1198 00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:33,680 Speaker 4: Dude, that is absolutely insane. 1199 00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:36,040 Speaker 6: I know, I know I was. I was literally like 1200 00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:38,560 Speaker 6: I was scared by the noise. Yeah, and then I 1201 00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:40,640 Speaker 6: saw that he was naked. I'm like, okay, I I 1202 00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:42,400 Speaker 6: gotta get to I would have. 1203 00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:45,920 Speaker 4: I would have. I would have just like healed. 1204 00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:47,560 Speaker 6: I would just want what I did. I ran as 1205 00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:50,719 Speaker 6: fast as I could, did a did a six minute mile. 1206 00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:53,759 Speaker 4: And you don't know, like he bro is six foot four, 1207 00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:58,040 Speaker 4: like maybe he's some like x NFL person. He was big. 1208 00:56:58,280 --> 00:57:02,480 Speaker 6: He was big like big bulls both vertically and horizontally. 1209 00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:04,520 Speaker 4: Like this man was a good man. 1210 00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:08,200 Speaker 6: I understand not wanting to get involved in uh in 1211 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:09,480 Speaker 6: fights on the street, but. 1212 00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:11,879 Speaker 4: You know what you do want to get involved with? Yeah, 1213 00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:13,920 Speaker 4: get up all of that business you want to get 1214 00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:17,200 Speaker 4: involved with. 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