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Speaker 1: I feel like, as long as you do the best

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go ahead and say that as mothers,

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Speaker 3: Get that luxury like our kids. Guilt me a lot.

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Speaker 3: Welcome back to good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 4: I'm Erica and I'm Nila. Happy Wednesday, Happy Wednesday, Honey.

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Speaker 3: How you doing?

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Speaker 4: I'm great? How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm great? You know.

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Speaker 4: I meditated this morning. Good you doing TANTR school at home?

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Speaker 4: You managing my feelings. I love that I cleaned my room.

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm a fucking badass superstar. I'm a badass, clean

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Speaker 4: and superstar.

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Speaker 3: I love this. How are you.

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Speaker 4: How's your your week going?

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Speaker 3: That's going good.

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Speaker 2: I did the same thing, meditated. I went to yoga

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Speaker 4: Oh I did yoga with my boyfriend. My boyfriend led

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Speaker 4: the yoga he has, he has a whole class. I

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Speaker 4: was like, I'm never going to yoga again. I'm just

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Speaker 4: gonna make you do it? Oh perfect, Yeah, I did

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Speaker 4: yoga and I meditated. He sat through one of my

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Speaker 4: element our Space Element Tantra meditations, and then we did it.

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Speaker 4: Yoga class in the living room is very nice. I

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Speaker 4: love that. Congratulations and I cleaned my room. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 4: a big win for me. Can't rare I do both

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Speaker 4: them one day, go to work, clean my room, and

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Speaker 4: meditate a lot of adulting. I'm winning a lot of adulting.

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Speaker 4: Oh well, we have a guest, you guys that this

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Speaker 4: is Should we go ahead and introduce our guests?

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Speaker 5: Go ahead, before you introduce us, can we just say

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Speaker 5: happy if you yesniversary to YouTube? Yank happy five years.

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Speaker 5: It's not that's a it's a rare feat in this space. Congratulations,

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Speaker 4: Thank you, I do it. Maybe that's what it is.

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Speaker 4: It's the it's the five year anniversary. It was a

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Speaker 4: full moon last night. I'm feeling very activated.

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Speaker 6: And it's International Women's then, and it's.

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Speaker 4: International Women's we die, And it's a Wednesday. We rarely

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Speaker 4: actually record on a Wednesday. We drop on Wednesdays, So

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Speaker 4: this it feels very aligned.

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Speaker 2: And we're back with some former guests of the show,

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Speaker 2: some guests that our audience really really loved way back

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Speaker 2: when we had you on, which was in the pandemic,

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Speaker 2: the Deep Pandemic.

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Speaker 4: What a dark time. Remember when everyone there was a

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Speaker 4: zombia a couple and now we're fine.

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Speaker 2: I'd love to introduce the show. Rashad and Troy have

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Speaker 2: earned your leisure.

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Speaker 3: Super stars themselves.

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Speaker 4: In live and action and l A. The plane, the

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Speaker 4: plane and you guys still looking fresh to death. Wow,

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Speaker 4: this is a that's how you know you're rich. You

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Speaker 4: got the we got the real nice sweats, you got,

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Speaker 2: Like I can't wear those color anything because they don't

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Speaker 3: Are really good at that.

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Speaker 4: No, I think it's only moms can't stay clean. Like

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Speaker 4: if you're if you're ring white and your mother, it

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Speaker 2: I'm not around my child, especially on the airplane, like

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Speaker 4: But not first class, first first class, first class.

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Speaker 3: That's private.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: My daughter keeps telling me like I want to I

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Speaker 4: want to ride private, like I want to ride in

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Speaker 3: I know, because well we were gonna we want to

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Speaker 2: And but Rashad was like, I'm not wearing the drip

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Speaker 3: You got the drip check. You see the blue suit.

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Speaker 4: He was wearing all this nice clothes. I was like,

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Speaker 3: Me too. This is my drip check.

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Speaker 1: Now we apologize, Like I said, I actually had something

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Speaker 4: So I apologize and Evans it's okay because that bitch

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Speaker 5: Early listeners in my room baby, right next.

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Speaker 4: Time, I told them they better start. You better use

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Speaker 2: Little is the theory that we should start using the

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Speaker 4: On this tree tests or hates on us, like the

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Speaker 4: business Backer. Fuck them. If you guys were ever thinking

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Speaker 4: don't do it. That motherfucking Andrew what's his last name?

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Speaker 4: I don't know Andrew, don't be Andrew and Jeffrey, Andrew

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Speaker 4: and Jeffrey from the bitch ass business Backer.

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Speaker 3: What's the other company that actually they're from direct funding?

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Speaker 4: From the bitch ass direct funding are bitch ass motherfuckers.

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Speaker 4: And if you know them, you send this motherfucking podcast

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Speaker 4: to them with the timestamp, because I hate you motherfuckers.

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Speaker 4: You lied to us and they're not for small businesses

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Speaker 4: or black women. Fuck you.

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Speaker 3: And now that no welcome to money.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, now that I get out that out the way,

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Speaker 6: Liberated you? Wow?

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Speaker 4: Do you guys wanting to throw in your hotel? What's

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Speaker 3: We might need to stay there one day? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Well, listen, anybody thinking about treating any of us about

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Speaker 4: up here, you better think about it before you do it. Millions,

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Speaker 3: Everyone goes and Google's business Backer right now, give.

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Speaker 4: Them hate mail I hope that you do. I really

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Speaker 2: If you're watching YouTube right now, you see that we're

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Speaker 3: Welcome to Good Good Media. Guys. We just opened We

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Speaker 3: just opened up our studio two months ago.

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Speaker 2: So if you ever need to come to LA you

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Speaker 4: Actually, we had someone from your podcast network recently, the

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Speaker 7: That episode.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, our people weren't. Our people weren't thrilled about some

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Speaker 4: But if you're in the LA area and you have

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Speaker 4: Good Media podcast, I mean the good Good Media and

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Speaker 4: you get your podcast on because we can help you

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Speaker 4: because we have millions of listeners.

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Speaker 6: Does Jim come with it? Huh?

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Speaker 4: And Jim, Jim comes with it. Jim is very handsome,

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Speaker 4: and so is Orlando. He's my boyfriend. He's taken, but

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Speaker 2: So you might even see Jamie Law taking tantra classes

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm a worldly woman, I'm in school, I'm educated.

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Speaker 6: I'm in school and studying.

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Speaker 4: I was in zoom. I had to get off class

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Speaker 4: Everybody knows if you're a you avoid the hard questions

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Speaker 4: a lesbian? I was like, what, why? She's like somebody

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Speaker 4: It's just a woman who marries a woman. It's ridiculous

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Speaker 2: She's like Mama, she spills her guts.

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Speaker 4: I love that.

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Speaker 3: Well, guys, I'm really happy to have you guys back.

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Speaker 3: This month.

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Speaker 2: We're focusing on finance and all things finance, whether it's money,

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Speaker 4: So inspiring, major inspiration. I'm like, look at these black

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Speaker 2: I know your friend was asking to be like, so,

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Speaker 3: I was like, this is how rumors really start. I

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Speaker 6: I don't even know what I'm trying to forget.

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Speaker 6: That's that's what okay, Because some people are.

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Speaker 2: We did not meet there. But where did you guys meet?

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Speaker 4: What about the podcast? Like, I know you guys, I

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Speaker 5: We just hit four years on January nineteen.

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Speaker 3: I'm put money in it.

446
00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes and I was like okay, cool, but like not

447
00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:15,080
Speaker 2: knowing how to balance shit, not knowing like how to

448
00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:16,000
Speaker 2: save anything.

449
00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,600
Speaker 3: And it's taken me till now.

450
00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:21,040
Speaker 2: Really even now today a clock, today a clock and

451
00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:23,040
Speaker 2: you know, me and Mila, she's not talking about the

452
00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,320
Speaker 2: business backer in this company that we you know.

453
00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,480
Speaker 3: We're just terrible loan from.

454
00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:30,919
Speaker 2: But again a lack of a lack of education on

455
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:32,080
Speaker 2: our part and ways too.

456
00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,240
Speaker 3: Just not really feeling I guess.

457
00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,560
Speaker 2: Secure and like really yeah, I guess secure, and in

458
00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:45,600
Speaker 2: knowing what to ask and what to look for when

459
00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:47,520
Speaker 2: you're going into these kind of spaces.

460
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,000
Speaker 4: And trust and trusting people that are not there to

461
00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:54,080
Speaker 4: fucking be trusted. And I think especially for like black

462
00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,600
Speaker 4: people and brown people, like this is I'm not this

463
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:58,720
Speaker 4: is new, but like we haven't really had access to

464
00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,720
Speaker 4: this information, Like our pay weren't giving us the game,

465
00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:03,360
Speaker 4: like they weren't like this is let's start at LLC

466
00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 4: and then go through these you know, go through these things.

467
00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,680
Speaker 4: So like even for us as our business has grown,

468
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,480
Speaker 4: because for us, like the podcast was not, it wasn't

469
00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:12,080
Speaker 4: when we started this, we were like, let's start a

470
00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,800
Speaker 4: business together. We just wanted to talk some shit and

471
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,440
Speaker 4: have a friend and as it's grown, we're like, oh shit,

472
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,240
Speaker 4: like like there's loans, there's finances, there's a team that

473
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 4: needs to be managed, there's all these at like you know,

474
00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,919
Speaker 4: we have one million businesses underneath this umbrella of podcasting,

475
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 4: but we haven't really had the uh, like we haven't

476
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,919
Speaker 4: inherited the knowledge to know how to necessarily like have

477
00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 4: you know, be well versed in being businesswomen. We're just

478
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:36,879
Speaker 4: learning as we go. So like it's such an asset

479
00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:39,240
Speaker 4: to have you guys, you know, in our community, speaking

480
00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:41,960
Speaker 4: our language and really like you know, leading the frontier

481
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,440
Speaker 4: on this. It's like such a blessing. And I see

482
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 4: you guys online doing the damn thing and London and

483
00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:50,560
Speaker 4: ride in private and with your drip check, and I'm

484
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:53,719
Speaker 4: like okay, And you know, I really love like I

485
00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:57,119
Speaker 4: love the name Earn your Leisure because I guess prior

486
00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 4: to like existing in my lead, I used to think,

487
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:03,680
Speaker 4: like how the fuck am I going to just live

488
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:05,919
Speaker 4: and be happy but be rich? Because I need to

489
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:07,359
Speaker 4: be rich, but I don't want to have Like what

490
00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:08,880
Speaker 4: am I going to do to get to this level

491
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,320
Speaker 4: of richness? And it's not something that I saw as

492
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Speaker 4: like necessarily obtainable while just being myself. And you know,

493
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,160
Speaker 4: we're all very lucky to be in the space where

494
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Speaker 4: we get to like earn our leisure all pundintented.

495
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,399
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean you're not alone in that, right, Like

496
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 5: even for us, I mean it takes humility, right to

497
00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:29,239
Speaker 5: understand that you don't know everything. And I think one

498
00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 5: of the things that has propelled us is being very

499
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 5: open about that and bringing on people who do right

500
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Speaker 5: and so like, as we're sitting with people who are

501
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,919
Speaker 5: experts in their feels, we're asking the questions because we

502
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 5: want to know, but.

503
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Speaker 6: We also know that the audience wants to know too,

504
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:42,320
Speaker 6: because if you.

505
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Speaker 5: Think about like wealth, especially in the Black community, like

506
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 5: who isn't first generation? If we think about all the

507
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 5: billionaires that are black, right we talk about Robert Smith,

508
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 5: or we talk about Oprah or Jay Z, aren't they

509
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 5: all first generation billionaires?

510
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Speaker 6: That's the fact, right?

511
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Speaker 5: So they're learning this process too, and they're learning things

512
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 5: on the fly, and so like we're not.

513
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Speaker 6: We shouldn't.

514
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 5: We're not any different, right, we're learning these things as

515
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 5: we go. The only difference I feel like what we've

516
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 5: done is that as we're learning, we're also telling you, right,

517
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 5: Like you know, this is what's happening.

518
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:11,679
Speaker 6: This is how we're doing it. And I think the

519
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:12,400
Speaker 6: advantage of.

520
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 5: The audience is that they get to see it happen

521
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,679
Speaker 5: and now it's like, wait, these guys are really doing it.

522
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 5: I know I can do it, so it becomes an

523
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Speaker 5: inspirational piece to it.

524
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Speaker 2: I'm inspired with the success of everything you guys have done.

525
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Speaker 2: Is there like any sort of anxiety around it? Because

526
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,359
Speaker 2: it feels like it's grown so quickly, and like you

527
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,640
Speaker 2: guys are like, you know, I know you're a family man.

528
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 2: You have you know, kids at home, so do you

529
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Speaker 2: so do you? So I'm just wondering, like how is it,

530
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Speaker 2: How is it balancing all the things? And like does

531
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Speaker 2: it ever feel like completely overwhelming or is this just

532
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Speaker 2: like this is just the new this is my new shit,

533
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Speaker 2: this is what I'm in I'm in it now.

534
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Speaker 1: Yeah, the thing you get used to it, And for

535
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Speaker 1: me personally, I don't really feel overwhelmed. It's just like

536
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Speaker 1: you said, that's just the life that you chose. So

537
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,160
Speaker 1: it's just living it, like you know what I mean.

538
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Speaker 1: So you don't really have to even think about like

539
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 1: you and me, you just got your day to day.

540
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:03,400
Speaker 7: This is what you're doing.

541
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 1: We're flying over here, we're doing this interview, we're doing this,

542
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:08,400
Speaker 1: we're doing that, and that just become normalized and that's

543
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,360
Speaker 1: just your day to day routine. So I personally don't

544
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,919
Speaker 1: get overwhelmed with it. I just yeah, we're just in

545
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 1: it now, so this is what we gotta do.

546
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 6: We're here now.

547
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 5: I think for me, my dynamic is a little different, right,

548
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,159
Speaker 5: Like I have a wife, I have two kids. I

549
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 5: think the biggest thing is it's an adjustment. I don't

550
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Speaker 5: know if there's going to be balanced right, but there's

551
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,040
Speaker 5: an adjustment period where you know, Dad used to be

552
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Speaker 5: home from nine to three. He was working and he

553
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 5: was home and he was checking homework. To now it's

554
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 5: like I might not see him for a week because

555
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Speaker 5: he has to travel. But I think the most important

556
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 5: part of that adjustment, and I give my kids a

557
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Speaker 5: lot of credit. I was telling him, like, you gots

558
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:46,919
Speaker 5: doing really great with this. I don't know what it

559
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 5: would be like if I was on the other end

560
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 5: of this, and I don't even know the long term

561
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,880
Speaker 5: effects of it. But they've adjusted so nicely to it, right,

562
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 5: so that makes it easier for me. And then communicating

563
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 5: with them and let them understand like yo, I would

564
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Speaker 5: really want to be there and try I ain't to

565
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 5: be there for a lot of things, but communicating with

566
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Speaker 5: them consistently, like I don't change anything. So even when

567
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 5: we're here in La, if they get on the bus

568
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,439
Speaker 5: at seven thirty in the morning, I'm up at four

569
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 5: thirty FaceTime, like in the dark. Like you sound like

570
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 5: that long night what like? Yeah, So just trying to

571
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 5: be consistent with those things and communicating with them and

572
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Speaker 5: making sure that we show up as much as we

573
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:25,880
Speaker 5: can and being present when we're there, right, So like

574
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 5: last month we I many days were.

575
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Speaker 6: Home three three.

576
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Speaker 5: Days in the entire month of February, and so those

577
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 5: three days it was like, all right, let's lock off

578
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:35,719
Speaker 5: the phone for a little bit. Let's make sure that

579
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 5: we're present in this moment because they need this attention

580
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 5: to you.

581
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 4: Guys are like financial rock stars.

582
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Speaker 3: I think about that.

583
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Speaker 2: I mean, because you know me and me La travel

584
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Speaker 2: a lot too, Like we do our women's retreats. We

585
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 2: were just in Costa Rica for three weeks leading the

586
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Speaker 2: women's and away from our children.

587
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Speaker 6: We retreat, Yeah, we do.

588
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Speaker 3: We do two back to back.

589
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Speaker 4: So we're gone for like three weeks to a month.

590
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and uh, you know, you get back and you

591
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 2: know your kids want your attention and they want They

592
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,479
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck if you're tired. They don't care

593
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 2: that daddy's been gone for fucking twenty seven days, Like nigga,

594
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:12,880
Speaker 2: get up. But I guess I don't want to play tag,

595
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 2: you know, and I'm just and that can be, that

596
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 2: can be. I feel like it's it's you. Of course

597
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 2: you pray for these things, you ask for these things.

598
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 2: It's just like I guess you drink coffee and.

599
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 4: Well there's there's guilt that comes with the success, the

600
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 4: time away and like and even talking about like being

601
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 4: first generation is like there's an anxiety that comes with

602
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 4: even this level of success that is not spoken about

603
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 4: because we don't know yet until you're there and you're like,

604
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,360
Speaker 4: oh shit this people are relying on me. Oh, there's

605
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 4: a team, Oh there's the kids. You know, like, am

606
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 4: I doing this enough? Whereas before you're like, damn, I

607
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 4: hope I get to pay for college. I hope I

608
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 4: get to like you know what I mean. So there's

609
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,880
Speaker 4: always like it not an imbalance, but there's an anxiety

610
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 4: around either or and like as you're growing into this space,

611
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 4: even for us, like there's a balance and you know,

612
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,160
Speaker 4: like a fearlessness that you have to like tap into

613
00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 4: to be like Okay, fuck it, I've never done it before,

614
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 4: but I'm doing it. I'm doing it successfully, So do.

615
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 6: The best you can.

616
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 5: Yeah. It was like the other week I watched my

617
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 5: family go on vacation without me.

618
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 3: Oh damn.

619
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 4: At least you can send them off exactly the best way.

620
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 6: I'm not there, but the part of.

621
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 5: It it was like, Yo, we worked hard so they

622
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 5: can have some of these leasers, right so they can

623
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 5: go on vacation. The fact that I have to work

624
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 5: and I can't be there, yeah it sucks, but yeah,

625
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 5: at least they get to experience it.

626
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 1: I don't feel like there's other anxiety for me, like

627
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 1: there's always no life is never gonna be perfect, Like

628
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: you know, you just make the best of it, and

629
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: there's there's pros and cons of everything. You could be

630
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: home all day and there's cons to that, like you

631
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: know you're not providing enough money, and then it's like

632
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: you know there's causing issues in your household and you

633
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 1: and your children can't be provided for. Nothing, need to

634
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: be on or you could be out all day and

635
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: you work and you can provide and then you're not home.

636
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 1: Scott rolled with the punches. I feel like, you know,

637
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 1: it is what it is. Just make the best of it.

638
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: Like my son travels with me when he can. We

639
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 1: was a also all weekend together for a week, went

640
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: to London, went to Egypt. So he's experiencing things that

641
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 1: I didn't experience. So I was an adult, you know

642
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 1: what I mean. So of course there's trade offs for that.

643
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 1: You know, if he wants to experience that, then somebody

644
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: got to provide it for him. So I feel like,

645
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 1: as long as you do the best job that you

646
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 1: can possibly do, that's all you can really do. I

647
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 1: can't really like think about it too much or feel

648
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: guilty about something, because it's like, you know, you're doing

649
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: something positive at the end of the day, it's not negative.

650
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: If you're working to provide a life, if you're working

651
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 1: the better your life and better society's life, then ultimately

652
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 1: that's something that's positive. So I feel like, you know,

653
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 1: everybody should just be understanding of that.

654
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 2: I think that that's yes, I agree, but I think

655
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Speaker 2: that I'm just going to go ahead and say that

656
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 2: as mothers, we don't really get that luxury like our

657
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 2: kids at least I don't know.

658
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know your children.

659
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 2: I just know my child. I know my child. Guilt

660
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 2: me a lot, gilta My.

661
00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: Mother is always going to be the primary kid give up.

662
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: Not always, but most of the time. Most of the time,

663
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: in society, a mother is the primary caregiver. So your

664
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: responsibilities and your roles are going to be different than

665
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: a father, right.

666
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 4: Like they're perceived to be different. They're perceived to be bigger,

667
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 4: like the role like society perceives us.

668
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: To you know, like I don't even think it's perceived.

669
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 1: I feel like it is because it's like, all right,

670
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 1: it's not uncommon for men to travel a lot to

671
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:29,719
Speaker 1: be away, like you know, like you think of the NFL, NBA, artists, businessmen,

672
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 1: it's pretty common, right, and they can do that because

673
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 1: most of the time, all right, there's somebody at home

674
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: that's at home.

675
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 4: Well, that's historically been the standard. That that's why, like

676
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 4: there's not really a slow you don't really hear the

677
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 4: term dad guilt because historically, men have, you know, for

678
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 4: other reasons, been the main you know breadwinners, and so

679
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 4: maybe they're gone. But because that's the that's been the

680
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 4: norm in our society, there isn't anything wrong with it.

681
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 4: We don't associated with it being guilt. You're just providing.

682
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 4: But now in a place where like you know, obviously

683
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 4: things are, women are more in the workplace where you

684
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 4: know a lot of the head of the households. It

685
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 4: doesn't change the fact that you know, there's still guilt

686
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 4: associated with us, whereas with men, you know, it isn't

687
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 4: It's not perceived the same way if I leave my

688
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 4: kid and I was like, I didn't see him only

689
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 4: three days out of the thing.

690
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: But also, do you think that there is some level

691
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: of in grained psychological difference from parenting from women are

692
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: more nurturing with children than fathers. Most of the time

693
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: a child comes from the mother. So it is throughout

694
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: human history, as you said, throughout human history, the man

695
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: has traditionally been a provider and the woman has traditionally

696
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 1: been a caregiver. Now, of course, that's not to say

697
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: that there wasn't women kings, and of like, I'm not

698
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: saying that every woman's job is to stay at home,

699
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: not saying that, but I'm just saying women are more

700
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: nurturing and they're more hand on a lot of times

701
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: than men. So that plays a part in a psyche

702
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 1: as well. Right where it's like how men majority of

703
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 1: the time deal with children is different from how women

704
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 1: majority of the times.

705
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 7: Deal with children.

706
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 4: I think historically it has been and yes, we carry

707
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 4: and so there you know, innately there is a different

708
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 4: like connection to our child because we're carrying it before

709
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 4: you even get to meet you know what I mean.

710
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 4: But I do think that I think that historically it

711
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 4: was like a village. I think historically everyone it was

712
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 4: not even just like mom and dad, it was Grandma,

713
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 4: it was aunts, it was the village. It was like

714
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 4: everyone does their part, like you see a baby, pick

715
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 4: it up, you know. Like I think, I think the

716
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 4: Western world and how we've kind of been domesticated and

717
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 4: like the patriarchy has kind of pushed that that narrative

718
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 4: that women are supposed to be more nurturing and so

719
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 4: your role is more important and you the kid really

720
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 4: needs you more. And because just like I can feed

721
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 4: and shower and bathe in help with homework, so can dad.

722
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 4: Everything I can do, you can also do.

723
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 7: No that's a fact.

724
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 1: But you bring up a good point as far as

725
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: a village, and that's something like even for me, Like

726
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: I'm real big on family. So it's like when my son,

727
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 1: he's around his cousins, he's around my sister, he's around

728
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: my parents just as much as he's around me or

729
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: his mom, Like you know what I mean, that's important.

730
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: We all live in a very close geographic area. So

731
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: I feel like it is it takes a family to

732
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: raise a child. It takes a village to raise a child.

733
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: You got sports coaches, you got you know, different things

734
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: of that nature. So it's important. But ultimately, I feel

735
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: like women and men are different, right, and that's not

736
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 1: a bad thing.

737
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 3: They have to be different.

738
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 1: And I feel like, you know, there are roles and

739
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: responsibilities traditionally that women do better than men, and there's

740
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 1: roles and responsibility traditionally that men do better than women.

741
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: Not to say that it can never be a situation

742
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: where a woman can't do the role of a man

743
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 1: or a man can't do play, but it's like I

744
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 1: think we kind of fall into issue when throughout the

745
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: court of human society it's actually worked, right, Like this

746
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 1: has actually worked now of course it's been fine tuning it.

747
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: But I feel like we fall into problems when we

748
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 1: see something that has historically worked and now we're trying

749
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: to change the narrative completely. Like that's not something that

750
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: I don't think is an intelligent way to go about it.

751
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 4: I think it depends on what you feel is historically worked,

752
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 4: because historically there have been you know, obviously there's been shifts,

753
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 4: Things evolve, things change, there's different oppressors, there's things that

754
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 4: shape the way history has like you know, take like

755
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 4: has evolved and played out. And I think because that

756
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 4: narrative has played out so strongly, and I'm not disagreeing

757
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 4: with you, men and women do have different like different

758
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 4: qualities that we you know, provide and do. We're different

759
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 4: fucking people, We're different humans. I think that that narrative

760
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 4: has given a lot of men the the luxury of

761
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 4: stepping away and going to work for weeks at a time.

762
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 4: Like I'm the provider, you're the nurturer, you know, Like,

763
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 4: I think we have to be careful with that, like

764
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 4: with with with like, oh, historically it's worked because there

765
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 4: was a time where historically, like you know, even right now,

766
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 4: women are waking up. It's like I have skills and

767
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 4: granted I could stay at home and that's great too,

768
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 4: and some women choose to do that, but there are

769
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 4: also you know that there's been a time where like

770
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 4: women weren't allowed to go to work, women didn't have

771
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 4: the option to do shit, they couldn't be educated. And

772
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 4: so I think we have to be careful with using

773
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 4: like historically things of work, because there was a time

774
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 4: in history where husbands could come home slap a woman

775
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 4: down as for the dinner, and like everybody went on gleefully.

776
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 4: You know, There's been a lot of different like segments

777
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 4: in history that reflected you know, negatively and positively. So

778
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 4: I think we just have to be like super careful

779
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,959
Speaker 4: with the words we use because there are men and

780
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 4: there are women who have used that as a as

781
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 4: a as an excuse to not be nurturing or to

782
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 4: not be present. Because I'm the man, and I'm throwing when.

783
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,719
Speaker 1: I say historically, of course, everything you say is you're right,

784
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: but I'm looking at like, we're black, right, so we

785
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 1: come from originally we come from Africa, right, So like

786
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 1: even when we went to the Louver Museum in Paris,

787
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 1: and it's interested because you see all of the European

788
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: paintings and they're all men naked or they're just women.

789
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 1: But when you see the Egyptian artifacts, there's always a

790
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,439
Speaker 1: man a woman next to each other, right, So there's

791
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: always been a power dynamic that's been shared. That's the

792
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 1: idea of being like just one person, and that's a

793
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 1: European idea. That's not an African idea. That was taught

794
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 1: to Africans by Europeans, but it's still not an African idea.

795
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 1: So when I say historically it has worked as far

796
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 1: as I say, like family structure, the dynamic between a

797
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: man and a woman, family, village, coming together, community, these

798
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 1: are things that we have gotten away from. And I

799
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 1: feel like that that has been to our detriment of

800
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 1: you know, I don't need a woman. A woman doesn't

801
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 1: a man. You should be doing this, you should be

802
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 1: doing that. I don't think that that's something that has

803
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 1: historically worked for us. So when I look at what

804
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: has what has historically worked for us, right, it's been

805
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:18,479
Speaker 1: an equal role. It's been people understanding their roles. It's

806
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 1: been not arguing with each other and not pointing a

807
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 1: finger at each other and not saying I'm stronger than

808
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: this person.

809
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:25,240
Speaker 7: I'm stronger than that person.

810
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,839
Speaker 1: It's not oppressing anybody, but it's understanding that you know,

811
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: I'm a woman, this is my comfort in my femininity.

812
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 1: I'm a man, this is my comfort in my masculinity.

813
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,320
Speaker 1: It's my job to protect a woman and it's the

814
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: woman's job to take care of the men. I don't

815
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 1: feel like there's anything wrong with that.

816
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:45,919
Speaker 4: I don't either know. I don't either.

817
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 6: Can we talk about something that you just brought up?

818
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 5: And I mean, being two black women, being two CEOs,

819
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 5: you talked about the mom guilt and that's not a

820
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 5: conversation that we've had on our show, but decisition now

821
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 5: that we're here with y'all, how do you combat that?

822
00:35:59,080 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 6: Right?

823
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 5: Because I've seen it from a standpoint obviously my wife

824
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 5: will feel that if she's traveled away from the kids

825
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 5: with too much And it's like, I don't want to

826
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 5: go on this one because that mom guilt.

827
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:09,959
Speaker 6: But as being like you know in.

828
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 5: Your roles here, right, what do y'all do, like what

829
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 5: do y'all do to like when that guilt sets in.

830
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:20,280
Speaker 4: Up the therapy session?

831
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 3: Hey, can we make a blunt no with.

832
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 2: A kid maybe one day, you know, I don't know

833
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 2: if the mom guilt is something that you ever fully escape.

834
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:37,839
Speaker 3: I mean, I think you make a choice.

835
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 2: You can make a choice about it, you know, and

836
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 2: say I just choose not to experience this. But there's

837
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 2: just so many factors that come at us as women

838
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:46,439
Speaker 2: and that work.

839
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 3: And you know, we're both single parents, so I.

840
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 2: Don't have a husband at home that can, you know,

841
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 2: take on the role of whatever it is that I'm

842
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:53,879
Speaker 2: not there to.

843
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 3: Do while I'm in Costa Rica for three weeks.

844
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 2: I'm my daughter is with my mom, who's also a CEO,

845
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 2: who doesn't have a lot of time to you know,

846
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 2: be a grandmother. She's a grandmother, but like she has

847
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 2: she's running a whole other business, and my father same shit, like,

848
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 2: you know, so it's kind of like and then my daughter's.

849
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:11,760
Speaker 3: Like, what are you coming home?

850
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 2: You know, and I'm like, I'm Mommy's working to provide, so,

851
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 2: you know. There, but then again, I do I do

852
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 2: have the village. I have the village, you know, and

853
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 2: I've made sure that she has a village. But I

854
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: think that it's not something that is easily just eliminated.

855
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 2: I think that you know, It takes a lot of

856
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 2: talking to with your child so that they really understand

857
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 2: why mommy's gone and what mommy's doing, talking to my

858
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 2: sister and talking to other moms to kind of like

859
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 2: talk me off the ledge, like girl, it's cool, Like, yeah,

860
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 2: it looks like you're on vacation right now in Costa Rica,

861
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 2: But bitch, we know you're working.

862
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 4: It's because you made your work your leisure.

863
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know.

864
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 2: So you know, you get that question a lot, and

865
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 2: you know, I think all women have different answers. You know,

866
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 2: some people combat it with self care. Some people combat

867
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 2: it with you know, never never leaving their children. I

868
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 2: don't know if there's a recipe for that, to be.

869
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 4: Honest, and I think so like socially, like even even

870
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 4: you know, no matter who your kids with, if it

871
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 4: is with grandma, if it is with the other parent,

872
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 4: is with the aunt or your you know, there's still

873
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 4: mom guilt. They're still like, oh, you know, you kept

874
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 4: dropping her off at your grandma's house or your mom's house.

875
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,879
Speaker 4: Like there's there's this like this guilt that like maybe

876
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be judged by the people around me that yeah,

877
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,720
Speaker 4: like it looks like I'm on vacation, so it's like, damn,

878
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 4: are you being a mom? Like it doesn't matter what

879
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 4: the fuck you're not present for. There's all it's there's

880
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 4: it's an underlying negative cognitation, Like it's underlying negative because

881
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 4: you're the mom and you're not there. Like my baby

882
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 4: dadd used to do that shit to me, like, oh,

883
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 4: but you're the mom. I'm like, nigga, I'm at work.

884
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 4: Like I know, it looks like fun, you know what

885
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 4: I'm saying. But it was almost like something he could

886
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 4: pull out, you know, like, well, you're supposed to be

887
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,439
Speaker 4: doing this, well, you're supposed to be doing homework because

888
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,839
Speaker 4: you're the mom. And I had to almost like deprogram

889
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 4: myself to remind myself, like, actually, it's good you're with

890
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 4: your grandparents. They love you equally as much. This is

891
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 4: a time like I wish I had more like the

892
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,400
Speaker 4: times I spent with my grandparents growing up are it's

893
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 4: lay you know, like dear to my heart because they're

894
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 4: no longer with me. So I'm like constantly reminding myself

895
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 4: that this is the experience that she's supposed to be having,

896
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 4: Like she is supposed to be spending this time with aunts.

897
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,760
Speaker 4: And uncles and you know, and the village. And also

898
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 4: like I get really proud when I were out and

899
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 4: I's like, oh, who made your sweatsuit? And she's like,

900
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 4: my mom, you know, my mom made this, or like

901
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 4: my mom's in target or whatever. She like, when I

902
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:43,399
Speaker 4: feel her like pride and understanding what we've built, then

903
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 4: I recognize that she has. She's gotten to see the

904
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 4: process and she's gotten to see the evolution. And like

905
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,320
Speaker 4: whether or not I'm there three, six, five and dropping

906
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 4: her off to school five days a week and pick

907
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 4: hering up, which I am most of the time, it's

908
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 4: still like, I know, you know, even if she feels

909
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,879
Speaker 4: sad or I miss that on one recital, overall, she's

910
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 4: gonna walk away and be like, damn, my mom did that?

911
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 4: You know. So I'm constantly trying to look like in hindsight,

912
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 4: in the future, the future her when she's eighteen, and

913
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 4: she'd be like, my mom's a CEO bitch, you know.

914
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:15,280
Speaker 4: So I just like that. Yeah.

915
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 5: What about from the standpoint, from like a financial standpoint, right,

916
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 5: has ever been a time where that feeling or that

917
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,720
Speaker 5: guilt that's associated with it has deterred you from making

918
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 5: a financial decision or not taking an opportunity because of it.

919
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 3: Absolutely all the.

920
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 6: Time, these are good conversations.

921
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like there's times where I'm like I can't go,

922
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 2: I can't go, or we need to switch some shit around,

923
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 2: or you know, like there's an I'm thinking of an

924
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 2: opportunity that we have on the table right now where

925
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 2: it's like this could change my life, but it's going

926
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 2: to take me away from her more. What's more important

927
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 2: is this opportunity where I don't have to take it,

928
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,359
Speaker 2: doesn't have to go necessarily this exact way.

929
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 3: There are other avenues where I can.

930
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 2: Probably still get what I want, but this will probably

931
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 2: make me shine more. So am I gonna take the shine?

932
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 2: Or am I going to take more time with my

933
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 2: daughter and my soul?

934
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: My thing is like, all right, men, nine times out

935
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 1: of ten don't have that scene. So this goes back

936
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: to the thing of women are the primary caregiver, right,

937
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: This goes back to that, So.

938
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 4: We shouldn't pass up the money. So we should pass

939
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:21,959
Speaker 4: up the money.

940
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm not saying that the woman's responsibility with

941
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: taken care of.

942
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 7: I'm not saying whether it's right or wrong. That's a

943
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 7: different conversation.

944
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 2: Okay, but see this question. He's asking me this. Okay,

945
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 2: So my response to this was this. It was if

946
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 2: I had a man in the house that was reliable,

947
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 2: I might say, fuck it, I'm gonna go take that

948
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 2: because I know that I have someone.

949
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 4: In home who is an extension is going to be

950
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 4: an extension of me.

951
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:47,319
Speaker 1: Or or what if you had a man in the

952
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 1: house who is paying for everything because he's out on

953
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 1: the road, then you can't take that because now nobody's

954
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: gonna be home, right, what about.

955
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 2: That baby's homeschooled, maybe coming on the road.

956
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 5: So we got your I mean I want to hear your.

957
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 2: Perspective too, about having passed up on opportunity for money.

958
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, there's definitely been times or the ship

959
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 4: we can't do like like we do two retreats back

960
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 4: to back. There might there's we're probably gonna have to

961
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 4: start doing one.

962
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 7: How old are your kids eight?

963
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,319
Speaker 1: And how is your so so you you at a

964
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: point now where you can almost start taking.

965
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 4: Them though too, Yes, but then their school and then

966
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 4: those public schools be calling you like they're gonna come

967
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 4: get your kid right up from under you from missing

968
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 4: ten days because they keep calling me the market period.

969
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 2: And we've taken our children a lot of places like

970
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:38,800
Speaker 2: we like even in the summertime, we had two retreats

971
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:39,359
Speaker 2: in Costa Rica.

972
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 4: They came, they came, and we had to pay for it.

973
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,879
Speaker 4: We had to pay for the nanny to come with us,

974
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 4: and like that brings me joy, Like it does bring

975
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 4: me joy, Like we work really hard and then they're

976
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 4: like you said, you get to you brought your kid

977
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 4: to Egypt into the All Star Game and I saw

978
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 4: you understand. I was like overshad you know, Like I'm

979
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 4: happy that you know what I mean? Like that brings

980
00:42:56,800 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 4: like providing my child with experiences is price, and I

981
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 4: I try to keep that inbound. Like that that mindset

982
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 4: is like I'll pay you know, the nanny and to

983
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 4: come on the trip and get the bigger house so

984
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:12,360
Speaker 4: we can all do it together. Like I'll pay to

985
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 4: have you here so you can see what that looks like,

986
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 4: because I think that's important, you know. And I just

987
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 4: think like when they're when you're a single mom versus

988
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:23,879
Speaker 4: a single dad, there are different like there are there's

989
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 4: going to be time, like there are business opportunities that

990
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 4: you won't be able to take because because you have

991
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 4: to choose. You don't have a choice but to do

992
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 4: what you need to do for your child. And I

993
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 4: think that dads are like like less likely faced with

994
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 4: having to choose. Did you guys see the Best Man series?

995
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:41,439
Speaker 3: Okay, I have a question.

996
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,799
Speaker 4: Have you guys ever passed up any money for Yeah?

997
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 3: As parents, I.

998
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 7: Look at like this, it's not even so much money.

999
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 7: I look this opportunity. This is my personal philosophy on life.

1000
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 1: Right, you only get in one shot at this thing life.

1001
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 5: And.

1002
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 1: The worst thing you can do is live with regret.

1003
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: And I feel like we like evenough I told him

1004
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: before and he was teaching. I said, look, and it's

1005
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 1: not direspect to anybody that's a physical education teacher. But

1006
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 1: I saw I said, anybody can be a gym teacher.

1007
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 1: But now everybody can change the world. You're in a

1008
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 1: position to change the world. Sometimes our missions is bigger

1009
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:12,240
Speaker 1: than ourselves, bigger than our family.

1010
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 3: I agree.

1011
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: It's like you look at people like Malcolm X and

1012
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 1: warlud They died for what they believed in. It's unfortunate

1013
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: that their children have to grow without a father. What

1014
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: is the world a better place for that?

1015
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1016
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: They affected millions of people, right, So I feel like

1017
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 1: I'm not turned down anything because I feel like, ultimately

1018
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 1: it's not only going to affect my family, but it

1019
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 1: would be selfish of me to just think of one

1020
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: person when there's millions of people that need help. There's

1021
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 1: billions of people that could potentially make the world a

1022
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 1: better place, right outside of just money. Like it's like,

1023
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: what's your purpose, what's your mission? The sacrifices that.

1024
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 7: Come with that.

1025
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 4: I resonate with that, and I think you can only

1026
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 4: really understand that when you genuinely feel like what you're

1027
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,800
Speaker 4: doing is what you're supposed to be doing. Understanding the

1028
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 4: purpose when when you find like hone into your purpose

1029
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 4: and you feel that, like that energy is like oh

1030
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 4: oh okay, I get it, Like okay, God, Like this

1031
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 4: is what I'm supposed to be doing. And and even

1032
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:12,360
Speaker 4: for us like as women, another thing, like it's kids

1033
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 4: are one thing, the guilt. But even I've had this

1034
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 4: conversation with her, I've talked to her, We've talked to

1035
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 4: each other off of many ledges, but as women and

1036
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 4: being in this space where we're talking a lot and

1037
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 4: on our podcast we're talking about personal things about our

1038
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 4: lives about bad choices we've made, about like ratchet things

1039
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:31,399
Speaker 4: we've done, you know, for entertainment, laughter, and for relatability,

1040
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:35,840
Speaker 4: because that's ultimately our our like our space here is

1041
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 4: like letting people know, like you can fuck up and

1042
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 4: you'll be fine and you can still be a good mom.

1043
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 4: And like a part of that is us being super transparent.

1044
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:45,439
Speaker 4: And there have been times even in our careers where

1045
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 4: like from our moms, from guys we've dated and it's like, damn,

1046
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 4: should we tone down? And we've come to each other

1047
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 4: like are we ever gonna get married? And this doing

1048
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 4: this fucking shit like we're laughing, but like Nigga's are not,

1049
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 4: and like and I've told Erica like fuck them, you know,

1050
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 4: like this is bigger than all that, you know, Like

1051
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 4: when I go when I go to a city and

1052
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 4: a woman is tearfully crying and telling me she had

1053
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 4: divorced and she listened to the story and like it

1054
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 4: helped her and it pulled her out of a dark place.

1055
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 4: Or I'm so happy I can relate to this because

1056
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,799
Speaker 4: whatever the story is, however, like the reach goes when

1057
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 4: I feel that and I and I understand, like, like

1058
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:25,879
Speaker 4: you said this is so much bigger than me. It's

1059
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 4: so much bigger than just us, and like it's this

1060
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 4: is an entity, like this is a spiritual path that

1061
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 4: we've chosen to like to surrender to and kind of

1062
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:37,479
Speaker 4: like like the Christians say, like let God use us,

1063
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 4: you know, And you can only really tap into that

1064
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 4: when you're really truly in alignment with your purpose and

1065
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 4: what you're supposed to be doing. So like and that's

1066
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 4: and that's been a lot of the things I've told Erica,

1067
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 4: like listen, bitch, that might not be your man, okay,

1068
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 4: And he has that if he does he doesn't understand

1069
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 4: that they gas need to rub on us on the jungle,

1070
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:59,240
Speaker 4: okay for other women to want to come to the jungle,

1071
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 4: then he's got a go. This is this is marketing.

1072
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 4: It means that like our jobs are not traditional, like

1073
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 4: what we do is not ideal, Like we are not.

1074
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 3: He's like, what does that mean? You have niggas reb.

1075
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, in Costa Rica at our wonderful retreats, there are

1076
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 4: all women retreats, but women like Eye Candy, so Erica

1077
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:26,360
Speaker 4: and I have cultivated the perfect amount of male energy

1078
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 4: as a welcome committee, and they come well oiled up

1079
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 4: and topless with six packs at the friends. Here's fine.

1080
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 2: Just they have joints ready for the like Basically, when

1081
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:39,400
Speaker 2: you come to Costa Rica, it's a long journey to

1082
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 2: where you to where we are at. So when they arrive,

1083
00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 2: they are greeted by two sexy men with joints and

1084
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,799
Speaker 2: they light their weed and they give them back massages

1085
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 2: while we run through you know what's happening.

1086
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 4: Put their luggage in their room, and then they leave.

1087
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 4: So there was a time where I mean there is

1088
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 4: a few videos. Well we have to advertise the Welcome Committee.

1089
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,800
Speaker 4: So in order to advertise the Welcome Committee, there have

1090
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 4: been a few clips surfacing the internet. Eric and I,

1091
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 4: you know, being oiled down and catered to by the

1092
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 4: Welcome Committee, just so we can show the people like

1093
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,239
Speaker 4: this is what you can get if you come. Come on.

1094
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 4: It's marketing. And you know, some boyfriends don't understand. Some do.

1095
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 4: But those that don't under don't get it. They got

1096
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 4: to get lost, you know. Like it's just some men

1097
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:29,439
Speaker 4: don't want to hear about their women, maybe talking about

1098
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 4: a past sexual experience or whatever we've been talking about,

1099
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 4: talking about their past period. Men like to think that

1100
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:36,840
Speaker 4: they're the first and we know that's not true. We

1101
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,800
Speaker 4: are talking about it extremely explicitly, and I can understand

1102
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 4: why someone may not want to tune in, but ultimately

1103
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 4: that's not that can't change our trajectory because we have

1104
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 4: a purpose here and we've built a show, a successful

1105
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 4: show based on our transparency that's helped other people. So

1106
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,360
Speaker 4: whether it be Joe Schmo or the nigga who we

1107
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 4: think we're in love with at the time. But like,

1108
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 4: if you're on my team, you're going to understand my

1109
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,920
Speaker 4: purpose and all the things that come with it, and

1110
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 4: then you're gonna accept me despite it.

1111
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 1: I think it's a I think it's two way street though,

1112
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: right It's life is about compromise, So I don't think

1113
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: it's the best way to go by and to say, like, yo,

1114
00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 1: this is what I'm You know, you might if you

1115
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,840
Speaker 1: really really want to be with somebody and something is bothering,

1116
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:20,760
Speaker 1: though I think you know, being reasonable about certain things

1117
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: rub into jungle.

1118
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 4: I'm not saying we're not reasonable. I'm just saying I'm

1119
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 4: just saying I agree with somebody. No, listen, I think

1120
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 4: it's a small price. It's a small price to pay

1121
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 4: to have a pop and rock star girlfriend.

1122
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 2: I mean, listen, I think that I don't disagree with you.

1123
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,399
Speaker 2: I think there is compromise. And I've I mean, even

1124
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 2: for me, I've learned a lot in my journey in

1125
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 2: podcasting and even my boundaries and what I what what

1126
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,799
Speaker 2: I want versus like how I show up versus how

1127
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 2: Jamila shows up versus how what my partner wants versus

1128
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 2: what her her partner feels comfortable with, Like it's it's

1129
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 2: va you know, like it is just different. And so

1130
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 2: I've had to really have conversations with myself too of

1131
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 2: like hey, do I is this me?

1132
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 3: Or is this performative? Do I like this? Or is

1133
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:13,879
Speaker 3: this you know, is this.

1134
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:17,319
Speaker 2: Worth sacrificing my relationship? Like is this moment gonna really

1135
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 2: bring the bitches to Costa Rica? Or is this really

1136
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 2: like just show women that like, hey, you can you

1137
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 2: can ask for whatever you want? And is that what

1138
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 2: really the messages? And ultimately, for me, that is what

1139
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,320
Speaker 2: the message is. And I and I don't regret. I

1140
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 2: don't regret what I what I've done. I don't this

1141
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 2: this is not a bad decision. And he's he's fine,

1142
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 2: but I.

1143
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 6: Trust me.

1144
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,800
Speaker 2: But getting back to I mean, just the bigger purpose

1145
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 2: and the calling. I think, like, yeah, it's it's very

1146
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 2: true though, like when you do have a bigger purpose

1147
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 2: and a bigger calling. I think that too goes back

1148
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 2: to the mom guilt. Is like me having to explain

1149
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 2: that to my daughter too, of like I have to

1150
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,799
Speaker 2: do this and one day you will understand. You're sad

1151
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 2: right now and you're upset right now. You might be

1152
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,320
Speaker 2: in therapy in like four years for this shit.

1153
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 5: You're telling somebody like you'll understand, you'll understand this later,

1154
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 5: but they're living in it right now right So it's

1155
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 5: I know what you're talking about, Like I've seen that, Like, Yo,

1156
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 5: how come you have to go?

1157
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 6: Well, I have to go because we got to do is.

1158
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 5: Okay, And it feels like they get it, but on

1159
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 5: the bed you're like, I don't think they really understand

1160
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 5: it just yet, you know what I mean. So that's

1161
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 5: when I was asking that question. It was like there's

1162
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,799
Speaker 5: that dynamic of it. It was like, Yo, from that the

1163
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 5: mom's perspective, it is like.

1164
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 4: I was talking to one of our friends this week

1165
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 4: and she's also a badass CEO and she's a divorced

1166
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:42,799
Speaker 4: mom and she has two kids, and she was like,

1167
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 4: you know, one thing, one thing for me is that

1168
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 4: I'm going to be happy. And she's like, no matter what,

1169
00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:53,239
Speaker 4: I'm going to be happy, married, not married, I'm going

1170
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 4: to be happy. And she was even talking about her kids.

1171
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 4: She was like, I hope that he understands this later,

1172
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 4: but either way, I'm going to be happy. And I

1173
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 4: was like, no, that's a fact.

1174
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,239
Speaker 1: I mean, I have to cut you off. But that's

1175
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:09,760
Speaker 1: one thing. It's an unfortunate situation by sea. All the time.

1176
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 1: Kids at a certain point, they're going to become their

1177
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: own person, and the worst thing you can do is

1178
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 1: do everything for the kid, sacrifice your life, and then the.

1179
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:23,880
Speaker 7: Kid doesn't complete one eighty anyway, you know what I'm saying.

1180
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: That was like, damn, I just wasted my whole life

1181
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 1: to try to you know what I'm saying, make sure

1182
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,399
Speaker 1: that you did everything. And then it's like, but it's

1183
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: like that's one of the hardest things that we have

1184
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: to understand too, is a lot of things that's out

1185
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 1: of our control, right And it's like whether you believe

1186
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 1: in God whatever, Like it's like, ultimately there's a lot

1187
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 1: of things that we can only just do the best

1188
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,320
Speaker 1: job that we possibly can. Eventually, kids are going to

1189
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 1: become their own individual people no matter what. And I've

1190
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 1: seen it happen before where it's like you make a

1191
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 1: tremendous sacrifice, you do everything, and do everything, and then

1192
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: the kid A is not even grateful for that, and

1193
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: then B does the complete opposite. It doesn't even make

1194
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 1: them a bad person, but it's like that's their life journey.

1195
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 1: So it's like, what's your life journey?

1196
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 6: Now?

1197
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 1: Of course, it's your responsibility to take care of your

1198
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,319
Speaker 1: child the best way that you possibly can. But I

1199
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 1: think you definitely it's a thin line. It's a thin

1200
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 1: line between being your own person, maintaining your own happiness

1201
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 1: and sacrificing everything because I don't think that because then

1202
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:19,320
Speaker 1: you're gonna end up in therapy.

1203
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 5: But it also it also shows from the other aspect,

1204
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 5: right we're thinking about like yo, wait, they didn't understand it.

1205
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 5: But it also shows on what it looks like to

1206
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:27,720
Speaker 5: go chase your passion.

1207
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 4: And also chase your purpose, prioritize.

1208
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 5: Prioritizing, Like yo, there are going to be sacrifices you

1209
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:33,479
Speaker 5: have to make, and there are going to be people

1210
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 5: that you're going to disappoint but you're showing them.

1211
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 6: That at a very young age.

1212
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 5: And that's the other lesson that they're you know, they're

1213
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 5: not knowing that they're learning, but that's happening like intrinsically, right,

1214
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 5: it's a part of the process.

1215
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 6: You know what I mean.

1216
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:47,320
Speaker 4: Right, it's like not not not like co signing, being

1217
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 4: like selfish and saying fuck them kids, not all the time.

1218
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 4: You know, obviously we have responsibilities.

1219
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 6: But I feel like you've said that before.

1220
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 4: I've never said that. That's my first time saying that.

1221
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 4: I usually don't say that. I say that much nicer place,

1222
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:06,399
Speaker 4: the most nice, most much nicer way. But I think

1223
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 4: historically we've seen a women be like self sacrificial because

1224
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 4: they think that's the old that's how they're supposed to

1225
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 4: be as mothers. If I'm a good mom, I'm gonna

1226
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 4: sacrifice everything. But the truth is is you show your

1227
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:21,479
Speaker 4: children that you can, you'll sacrifice yourself for everybody else,

1228
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:24,320
Speaker 4: And that's not a good lesson, like for for marriages

1229
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,399
Speaker 4: and for this and for that. And sometimes you got

1230
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 4: to prioritize your fucking self. You got to prioritize your happiness,

1231
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 4: because that's what I hope. I'm instilling in my daughter

1232
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:33,760
Speaker 4: that you make the rules and you make yourself happy,

1233
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:37,280
Speaker 4: not from no man and not from laying down having kids.

1234
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 4: Like there are requirements of ourselves for ourselves, and only

1235
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 4: you can do that.

1236
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 6: You're example of it.

1237
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,360
Speaker 7: Right, Yeah, yeah, that's a good point for sure.

1238
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:52,799
Speaker 4: Speaking of like other people, how has like I mean,

1239
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 4: me and Erica's friendship in our business, like our partnership

1240
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 4: has you know, shifted my entire shap you know that,

1241
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:03,319
Speaker 4: like partnership has blossomed me in a way I had

1242
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 4: no idea what like And she's my wife and like

1243
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 4: my work wife.

1244
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:10,799
Speaker 7: Never know.

1245
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 3: Tell you tell me.

1246
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:15,880
Speaker 2: You told me we got rubbed down. Now he's and

1247
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 2: you had Dix in the living room, so now he's.

1248
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 4: Everybody everybody calmed down. Everyone's gotten a rub down and

1249
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 4: seen a little dick. Everybody keep calm like, oh man,

1250
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 4: but like even for wife, let's just let's be clear,

1251
00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 4: we're not lesbian me and Erica your mommy's Oh my goodness,

1252
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 4: but for real, like like I didn't understand the value

1253
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:02,239
Speaker 4: of like partnership and like uh network until this relationship.

1254
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 4: Like we always say that our friendship created an entity

1255
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 4: like obviously a business entity, but it's taken on a

1256
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 4: life of itself. And like obviously for you guys too,

1257
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 4: you guys have an entity and it's like tenfold you know.

1258
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:20,920
Speaker 4: So like, how has like partnerships been like an asset

1259
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 4: in your business? And even for you I know you're married.

1260
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 4: I don't know if you're in a relationship yet, but

1261
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 4: how have for Sean left I know? But how has

1262
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 4: partnership you know, been an asset in your journey? And

1263
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 4: like even you know, being having a wife. And I know,

1264
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:44,319
Speaker 4: like we're in an era where people are coming farther

1265
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 4: and farther away from marriage, but how you know, how

1266
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,799
Speaker 4: is like being married and having a supportive wife benefited

1267
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:51,920
Speaker 4: you in this this process?

1268
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 5: So that has been the number one asset for all

1269
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 5: the reason we just spoke about, right, like having a

1270
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 5: partner who understands a vision but trusting it one thousand percent.

1271
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 5: There's never been a question, never been a waiver of doubt.

1272
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:07,799
Speaker 5: It's like, I believe in what you're doing right, So

1273
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 5: it's I always say that as right, Like she knows

1274
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 5: that I can lead the family because God is leading

1275
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 5: on us, right, So she just she's always been super supportive,

1276
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 5: even when we didn't have earnier leisure.

1277
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:19,120
Speaker 6: She's always been that way.

1278
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 5: I told her that the other day, like, You've become

1279
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 5: my favorite person in the world because I can't do

1280
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 5: any of these things to the fullest extent without having

1281
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 5: your support. And so that's been great. As far as

1282
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 5: me and him, I feel like this has just been

1283
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 5: a natural thing, like we've been. People always say like,

1284
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 5: how do you duplicate thiss you? What's the magic? And

1285
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 5: I'm like, all right, try to talk to somebody every

1286
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 5: day for twenty five years and then like see what

1287
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 5: the outcome is. So like I've always spoken to him

1288
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 5: every single day for the over like probably twenty five years.

1289
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:51,080
Speaker 6: It's always just a natural thing.

1290
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 5: We've had businesses before, but before we did that, we

1291
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 5: were brothers, right, there was a brotherhood, there was a friendship,

1292
00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:57,920
Speaker 5: and now as a business. We never came into it

1293
00:57:57,960 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 5: as a business, but we've developed that over time. And

1294
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 5: was like, I know his strengths, he knows my strengths.

1295
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 5: I know his weaknesses, he knows my weaknesses, and so

1296
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 5: like anytime I can see something that he needs helping,

1297
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 5: I'm ready there to step in and vice versa. Right, like,

1298
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 5: I know certain things he's great at certain things he's

1299
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 5: not great at he may not say that.

1300
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 2: I'm curious to know what do you guys, What do

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00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 2: you guys think each other's weaknesses are?

1302
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 6: My weakness? I want him sakness.

1303
00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:24,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you think Troy's weaknesses?

1304
00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 4: And what do you think for strengths and weaknesses his strengths.

1305
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 5: He's relentless. He's like, he's like this guy is like

1306
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 5: super determined. There's never gonna be like he's running through

1307
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 5: a wall if he believes in what he something like,

1308
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 5: I mean like he'll tell you like I'm willing to

1309
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 5: die for this. And first I used to say, like

1310
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 5: he's trippingly We've done shows like yo, bro, you know

1311
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 5: you could sit this one out, and he's like, nah,

1312
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do it.

1313
00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 6: I'm like, nah, you might die. He's like, no, I'm

1314
00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 6: gonna diet for this.

1315
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 5: So like he's super relentless, Uh determined. Uh, he sticks

1316
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 5: to his beliefs. Man, it's tough. He's very argumentative, but

1317
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 5: that's just I think the pisces in us with both

1318
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 5: pis but also the third the third child, and so

1319
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:18,880
Speaker 5: like being in the household when you're the youngest. Like

1320
00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 5: to get your point, hurdt, you better make sure you

1321
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 5: can defend it.

1322
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 6: And so like we have we both have that.

1323
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:30,439
Speaker 5: His weaknesses uh communication always tell him that right. People

1324
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 5: always see him be like yo, he never speaks.

1325
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 4: The quiet one between.

1326
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 6: He's always a quiet I'm like, no, bro, like you

1327
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:37,600
Speaker 6: get around he does a.

1328
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:41,440
Speaker 5: South talk, just having uh communication. Like I was like,

1329
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 5: we had this conversation yesterday. I'm like, yo, bro, we

1330
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 5: got we could be better at communicating, Like there's no

1331
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 5: reason like we should be having any mishiapps because what

1332
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 5: it does is if we don't commit communicate at an

1333
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 5: effective level, it affects the entire company. So like I

1334
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 5: always like, yo, bro, we gotta have this. We got

1335
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 5: to make sure that we don't miss anything. So that

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00:59:57,800 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 5: that's it.

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Speaker 7: H Oh you want me to go for him? I think.

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Speaker 1: Strength is uh people person like you know, as far

1339
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:13,440
Speaker 1: as like welcoming people and making them feel uh welcome,

1340
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 1: making them feel good. You know, that's that's important, especially

1341
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:17,479
Speaker 1: in business, Like you know, you got to be able

1342
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:21,720
Speaker 1: to be diplomatic. And I think that he's very diplomatic

1343
01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 1: and very welcoming and a very much a people person.

1344
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 1: So that's that's a strong trait of his and also detailed.

1345
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 1: You know, he's kind of like a very organized person,

1346
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 1: like when it comes to looking at numbers and different

1347
01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 1: things of that nature. Like you know, he's very like organized,

1348
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:43,440
Speaker 1: and I think that that's that's important also especially in

1349
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:46,600
Speaker 1: business obviously for a variety of different reasons. So those

1350
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 1: definitely two two strong characteristics of him. As far as

1351
01:00:53,920 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 1: a weakness.

1352
01:00:58,840 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 5: After this.

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01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 1: My kids listening, I mean, you know, it's not to

1354
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:08,960
Speaker 1: say like anything, it's just like real strong I think,

1355
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:10,840
Speaker 1: I think, you know, everything that's the strength could be

1356
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 1: a weakness as well. I feel like, you know, he's

1357
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:15,439
Speaker 1: a very he's a very nice person, and I feel

1358
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,360
Speaker 1: like that could potentially be a weakness at times, like

1359
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: because sometimes you have to be a little bit more aggressive,

1360
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean. I just personally feel

1361
01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:25,880
Speaker 1: like that I might be wrong, but that's just why

1362
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes he not really.

1363
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 7: That when you know what I.

1364
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 6: Mean, Like tell him say it.

1365
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 5: He's not gonna rip nobody's head off, you know, But

1366
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 5: that's I think that's cool, right because like I know

1367
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 5: he's gonna So he's.

1368
01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:42,480
Speaker 3: Bad cop and you're a good cop.

1369
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 4: We did that too in our in our business, I'm.

1370
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 3: Bad cop all the time, but sometimes I'm like, can

1371
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:49,440
Speaker 3: you send this text? Because I can't. I can't tell

1372
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:50,520
Speaker 3: them again you have to know.

1373
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 6: But that's it's the truth, right, Like that's it.

1374
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 5: It's like, yo, I know, like if this ship gets

1375
01:01:56,400 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 5: too I know it's about to happen to these people. Yeah,

1376
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 5: we can go through me, or we can do it.

1377
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 4: Here.

1378
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 6: Otherwise we gonna have a zoom call. If y'all want,

1379
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:09,520
Speaker 6: I'm telling you should just do this it now. Let's

1380
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 6: get this deal done now.

1381
01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 4: Then then when you do get a little little fightsy

1382
01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:16,919
Speaker 4: like what the funk? Who is this Troy, I'd never

1383
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 4: seen this that happened. One time they were like the Paul,

1384
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 4: They couldn't believe it.

1385
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 5: I was on the it's always over like so like

1386
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 5: were were We do good business. We stand on that,

1387
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 5: like we don't treat anybody. You've never taken money for anybody,

1388
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 5: But I'm high on respect. So when people disrespect our

1389
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 5: time and disrespect us with money, with the lack of

1390
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 5: paying money, it's personal.

1391
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 6: It's like yo, no.

1392
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 5: And so one time I was just like I got

1393
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 5: it black just because they got to see the principality

1394
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 5: and then we shot our camera guy he's not here

1395
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 5: with us being he was like yo.

1396
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 6: He told he was like.

1397
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:56,280
Speaker 5: Yo, and I walked over.

1398
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 6: I'm like, yo, what's good. Yeah, he was like you.

1399
01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:00,920
Speaker 6: I'm like, oh yeah, just see it.

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01:03:00,840 --> 01:03:03,800
Speaker 1: Every now and yeah, I mean, some people only respect

1401
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 1: violence essonally. That's the thing that's like, That's what I

1402
01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:09,480
Speaker 1: learned that early on. And it's like, you don't ever

1403
01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 1: want to resort to just being a you know, a

1404
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:16,040
Speaker 1: confrontational person all the time. But I feel like sometimes

1405
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 1: there's need his need for it, like you know what

1406
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:22,480
Speaker 1: I mean. And it's like some people, you could be

1407
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 1: as nice to them as you want, and they don't

1408
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:26,960
Speaker 1: get it. And then it's like when you show the

1409
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 1: other side, they get it immediately.

1410
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 2: So well, I would imagine that you would just find

1411
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 2: that all the time and in the in finance and

1412
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:35,000
Speaker 2: in business that you do, especially being a black man

1413
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 2: in the space, and and I mean I think, granted

1414
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:43,520
Speaker 2: I could be wrong, but I imagine that you you

1415
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 2: probably work with a lot of people in the community,

1416
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 2: but you also probably have to encounter a lot of

1417
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:52,240
Speaker 2: white people for finances and for other things and opportunities

1418
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 2: so like, how do you how do you, I guess,

1419
01:03:56,280 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 2: navigating those spaces.

1420
01:03:57,480 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 1: I mean, most of the time, it's no problem for

1421
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 1: the most part, you know, I think that. And it's interesting,

1422
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 1: he said, like one of my weaknesses is communication, and

1423
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 1: I feel like I am I've always been an introvert.

1424
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 1: I don't like to talk, like just for no reason.

1425
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:11,440
Speaker 1: But I also feel like, you know, I'm a great

1426
01:04:11,480 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 1: communicator when I want to. And he's also so it's like,

1427
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 1: I think that we do a good job as far

1428
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 1: as communicating when it comes to business and executing on time.

1429
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:22,840
Speaker 1: So for the most part, I think people kind of

1430
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 1: give the same energy that you give them. So they

1431
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 1: see like, okay, they only shit, you know what I'm saying,

1432
01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:30,440
Speaker 1: Like they're talking in a way that I understand it.

1433
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:32,800
Speaker 1: They have everything laid out, they got the information, and

1434
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:34,880
Speaker 1: we got a great team around us as well from

1435
01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 1: maybe variety of different people that we have around us,

1436
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 1: and everybody kind of executes on a very high level.

1437
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 1: So for the most part, to answer your question, business

1438
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 1: has always been pretty good. Now, of course, there's always

1439
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 1: gonna be things that don't go as courting to plan,

1440
01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 1: but that's more.

1441
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 7: On the minority not the majority.

1442
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:56,479
Speaker 1: The majority of the stuff that we do hasn't really

1443
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: been too much of a hassle. You always gotta stay

1444
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 1: on top of things. You always gotta make make sure

1445
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:03,440
Speaker 1: that everything is moving according to plan. But I feel

1446
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 1: like we've we've felt we've done great business with a

1447
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 1: lot of great people from our partnerships. Will revolt like

1448
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: there's a bunch of different people that we have strong,

1449
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 1: solid relationships with. That's really how we got to this

1450
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 1: point now, even Steve Harvey, it's all been relationships, keeping

1451
01:05:18,040 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: good relationships and you know, us doing good business, them

1452
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: doing good business, us helping them out, them helping us out.

1453
01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 7: So that's really like the key. A lot of people

1454
01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:29,760
Speaker 7: like how did y'all get to this point?

1455
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 1: How y'all doing this? How y'all doing all of that?

1456
01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:34,560
Speaker 1: And it's really through relationships. That's like the most important

1457
01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 1: thing that we've been able to curate is very very strong,

1458
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 1: solid relationships. I think we've probably got more relationships than

1459
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 1: anybody like that I've ever met. Like we just know everybody,

1460
01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 1: and that's something that's a blessing and that's unrule, you know,

1461
01:05:49,760 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 1: just being a good person.

1462
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 5: Can I tell you another strength and I've actually learned

1463
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:56,280
Speaker 5: it from him because he comes from that financial world

1464
01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:58,600
Speaker 5: where it was like he needed referrals. But like his

1465
01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 5: follow up, this follow up like you know, you get

1466
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:04,920
Speaker 5: somebody's number, and it's like like I watched him like

1467
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 5: how he curates it like it's a follow up. It's like, yeah,

1468
01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 5: I'm hitting you the next day, I hit you three days.

1469
01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 5: It was like super like relentless. Like I said, relentless,

1470
01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:15,280
Speaker 5: and I'm like damn. But then approaching people too, like

1471
01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 5: you're talking about a guy who was like a teacher,

1472
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:20,120
Speaker 5: Like this is a guy who's coming from the financial world,

1473
01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 5: so to even approach people on businesses, like I gotta

1474
01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 5: sit back and listen and really learn it. So I'm

1475
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 5: watching him do it even til the point was like

1476
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:28,640
Speaker 5: what am I going to say when I go to

1477
01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:30,600
Speaker 5: this person like you? I mean like how do I

1478
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:31,760
Speaker 5: how do you get in?

1479
01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 3: Yeah? I think a lot of times that's the hardest party.

1480
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,440
Speaker 5: Like after after a while, like you watch it, you

1481
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:40,640
Speaker 5: watch it and it's like I'm going for it. I'm

1482
01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 5: going for it because I've seen like he always just

1483
01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 5: like Yo, what's the worst is gonna happen?

1484
01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:47,480
Speaker 7: No, I'm like, yeah, you know what.

1485
01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 1: You're not going to die, You're not going to feel

1486
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 1: like everybody should work sales at some point that last,

1487
01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 1: even if you don't want to be a salesperson, it

1488
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:57,439
Speaker 1: teaches you. It teaches you so much and it makes

1489
01:06:57,480 --> 01:07:00,440
Speaker 1: you overcome so much fear because that's like the number

1490
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:04,040
Speaker 1: one thing. Nobody wants to cold call somebody. Nobody wants

1491
01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 1: to knock on a business and ask them to buy something.

1492
01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 1: But it's like if you can overcome that level of anxiety,

1493
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 1: like it's going to really help you out in life.

1494
01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:13,040
Speaker 7: And that's what I did earlier.

1495
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:15,600
Speaker 1: I was in sales, so you know that was just

1496
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:19,600
Speaker 1: like every single day a panic attack every day. I mean,

1497
01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:23,480
Speaker 1: but ultimately you realize, like it's not that bad. You know,

1498
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 1: somebody says no, life, life still goes on. You don't

1499
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:29,920
Speaker 1: die because somebody brushes you off. But what if they say, yes,

1500
01:07:30,880 --> 01:07:31,560
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

1501
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:35,320
Speaker 4: There's no successful business without asking someone along the way

1502
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 4: for something. Yeah, unless you're.

1503
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 6: Breakings are.

1504
01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 3: Find out.

1505
01:07:54,840 --> 01:08:01,800
Speaker 6: Version so curious what profession is it?

1506
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:06,120
Speaker 4: But there was a general statement it was not nice

1507
01:08:06,160 --> 01:08:08,000
Speaker 4: I should this is you're going to say, you know,

1508
01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 4: I think I got it. I'm going to say, but

1509
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:14,520
Speaker 4: that's not that's not I have to ask for help,

1510
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:20,200
Speaker 4: Jamila from Daddy. I know, I'm just joking kind of

1511
01:08:20,200 --> 01:08:22,599
Speaker 4: a little bit, not all.

1512
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:26,200
Speaker 3: Just so specific ones just.

1513
01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 4: I'm just joking. You gotta have a good sense of

1514
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 4: humor to turn in here.

1515
01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 3: Go to Patreon. Hear what Jamila said.

1516
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 4: Everybody gets a little bit talked about.

1517
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 3: First of all, I know that you said you guys

1518
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,320
Speaker 3: don't have an affirmation, but maybe you do. Now where

1519
01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:43,640
Speaker 3: is it this?

1520
01:08:44,720 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 6: It's your affirmation, manifest that ship.

1521
01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:49,240
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I believe in manifesting.

1522
01:08:50,240 --> 01:08:52,160
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, speaking things into asistance. We do it all

1523
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:52,479
Speaker 6: the time.

1524
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:56,519
Speaker 5: It's crazy even this, all of this obviously not earned

1525
01:08:56,560 --> 01:08:59,599
Speaker 5: alsia as detailed and specific. But you know, my mom,

1526
01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 5: as we've going through this process, she you know, your

1527
01:09:02,240 --> 01:09:04,320
Speaker 5: parents keep everything, Like my mom used to keep like

1528
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 5: the letters I would write to Santa Claus and she

1529
01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 5: kept one of these letters I wrote in third grade

1530
01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 5: about being a millionaire, and it was very specific like

1531
01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,080
Speaker 5: when I'm becoming a millionaire'm gonna do this, and by

1532
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:18,640
Speaker 5: I mentioned I'm gonna get my mama mansion. And I

1533
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 5: was like, damn, Like even at that point in life,

1534
01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 5: like nine years old, I'm looking like, yo, this is

1535
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 5: where I'm headed.

1536
01:09:24,240 --> 01:09:26,560
Speaker 6: And so she was like look at this. She was like,

1537
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:27,799
Speaker 6: where the fuck is my mansion?

1538
01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 4: I found this contract you signed.

1539
01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:33,400
Speaker 5: But it was like it was just one of those

1540
01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:35,960
Speaker 5: points of times I'm like, yo, damn, Like I've every

1541
01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:39,439
Speaker 5: moment in life appears you for this moment, right. So,

1542
01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 5: like whether it was you know, student teaching and being

1543
01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:45,200
Speaker 5: a hall monitor, I had to talk to people or

1544
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 5: you know, writing lesson plans which would create financial literacy

1545
01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:51,719
Speaker 5: lesson plans, it was like all these moments in life.

1546
01:09:51,960 --> 01:09:55,000
Speaker 5: It was like just preparing me, even down to the audio.

1547
01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:57,560
Speaker 5: I remember being in church and they was like, we

1548
01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:00,840
Speaker 5: need somebody to make CDs for the sermon. I'm like, yeah,

1549
01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:03,600
Speaker 5: I was blutleg and CD. This is crazy, right, But

1550
01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:05,360
Speaker 5: that was the first time I used garage band. So

1551
01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 5: now when we record a podcast, I'm like, oh, well

1552
01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:09,760
Speaker 5: all those moments, but pay you for the next. So

1553
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,720
Speaker 5: just speaking things into existence and really understanding there's a

1554
01:10:12,760 --> 01:10:13,760
Speaker 5: bigger purpose for you.

1555
01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:16,000
Speaker 6: But like don't cheat it and you.

1556
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:18,480
Speaker 4: Don't have at you don't have another details.

1557
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:19,640
Speaker 6: Special in it.

1558
01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:21,840
Speaker 5: You're in it, and like that skill make pay off later,

1559
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 5: manifest that ship manifest that.

1560
01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 3: I love that.

1561
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:29,000
Speaker 2: That that understanding that there's a bigger purpose, but don't

1562
01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 2: cheat it. I love that because I think a lot

1563
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:32,679
Speaker 2: of people think you can skip steps.

1564
01:10:32,760 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 6: You're like, why am I doing this?

1565
01:10:34,280 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't.

1566
01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:37,320
Speaker 2: You can't skip steps, and if you do, you're gonna

1567
01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:39,120
Speaker 2: get there and you have nothing to stand on and

1568
01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 2: you'd be like, wait, oh shit, how do.

1569
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:40,760
Speaker 6: I do this?

1570
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:44,639
Speaker 4: Everything leads to the bigger picture, even if you don't

1571
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:47,320
Speaker 4: really understand the bigger picture yet. You didn't know how

1572
01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:49,280
Speaker 4: you're going to be a millionaire and by your mama mansion,

1573
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 4: but you knew you were going to do it. I'm saying,

1574
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:55,360
Speaker 4: am I, there's I didn't know how it's gonna be

1575
01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:58,560
Speaker 4: frolicking topless in the jungle and also be working.

1576
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:02,559
Speaker 7: And one for dreams come true.

1577
01:11:03,640 --> 01:11:06,040
Speaker 4: Wow, this is my dream. I didn't know. Now I know.

1578
01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:08,640
Speaker 2: Speaking of frolicking topless in the jungle, You guys were

1579
01:11:08,680 --> 01:11:12,439
Speaker 2: just announced to our next retreat in Sayulita, Mexico, so

1580
01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 2: make sure you come join your girls July fifth and

1581
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:18,559
Speaker 2: July twelfth in Mexico. This is we're taking over an

1582
01:11:18,720 --> 01:11:23,640
Speaker 2: entire beautiful, amazing property. It's ocean front every room is

1583
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:27,560
Speaker 2: ocean View. It's all inclusive. The food is delicious, the

1584
01:11:27,680 --> 01:11:29,960
Speaker 2: drinks are bomb. We're gonna be doing Me and Mila

1585
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:32,879
Speaker 2: lead a few different workshops there. If you've been interested

1586
01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 2: in exploring with psilocybin, we do a really beautiful guided

1587
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:40,560
Speaker 2: psilocybin experience out there as well. If you're trying to

1588
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:42,840
Speaker 2: find your tribe, this is where you'll find it. All

1589
01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 2: of our past retreats are literally still meeting up, still friends,

1590
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 2: still chopping it up in the discord. So if you're

1591
01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:53,880
Speaker 2: looking for a summer vacation, make sure you click the

1592
01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:55,920
Speaker 2: link in this episode description and check out the Good

1593
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 2: Vibe Retreat July fifth.

1594
01:11:57,960 --> 01:11:59,280
Speaker 3: And July twelfth.

1595
01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:02,320
Speaker 7: How People Go, How People Go?

1596
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:04,080
Speaker 3: Twenty three women for each group.

1597
01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:07,080
Speaker 4: I think it's twenty six now. It's been a bit

1598
01:12:07,200 --> 01:12:08,320
Speaker 4: ranges between, like twenty.

1599
01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:09,720
Speaker 7: Three said philocybin.

1600
01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:11,759
Speaker 4: Psilocybin mushrooms or the mushrooms?

1601
01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:14,519
Speaker 3: Oh okay, you every do mushrooms? No mushrooms?

1602
01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:16,880
Speaker 6: I saw uh no, said the Best Man? Right?

1603
01:12:17,280 --> 01:12:17,479
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1604
01:12:17,600 --> 01:12:20,600
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, they was doing Why was it bring up

1605
01:12:20,600 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 4: the Best Man? Oh? Because he had to go do

1606
01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:23,840
Speaker 4: that movie and then everybody was pissed at him, and

1607
01:12:23,920 --> 01:12:25,000
Speaker 4: I was like the money.

1608
01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:27,760
Speaker 7: I was like, why is everybody mad the money?

1609
01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:29,720
Speaker 4: He has to go get the money. He's going to

1610
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 4: make a movie with your money. I was like, am

1611
01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:32,200
Speaker 4: I a man?

1612
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 7: What the hell?

1613
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:34,880
Speaker 4: I asked my man? I was like, what would you think?

1614
01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:36,439
Speaker 4: He's like, no, I think he should have went.

1615
01:12:36,520 --> 01:12:39,759
Speaker 6: I was like, whoa, Like what somebody grabbed my mushroom?

1616
01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 4: You should try mushrooms? I think you were like I should.

1617
01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:45,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1618
01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:48,120
Speaker 6: I saw somebody eat like they were like chocolate. Confused.

1619
01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:49,519
Speaker 3: You should?

1620
01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:51,080
Speaker 4: You guys have like on vacation or something, have a

1621
01:12:51,120 --> 01:12:52,360
Speaker 4: bomb time and then call us and.

1622
01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:53,599
Speaker 6: Tell us about what's going to happen.

1623
01:12:53,640 --> 01:12:55,920
Speaker 4: Though, Like you're just gonna feel free and like infinite

1624
01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:59,200
Speaker 4: love and like you're you're like like so uplifted, so

1625
01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:03,559
Speaker 4: connected with like spirit, so connected with sores, Like everything

1626
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 4: is going to be clear.

1627
01:13:04,960 --> 01:13:05,160
Speaker 7: Clear.

1628
01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:06,559
Speaker 3: It's not like you're out of your mind.

1629
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:09,840
Speaker 2: People like think mushrooms you're like out of your mind

1630
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:11,960
Speaker 2: and you're like, oh my god, Like no, it's very

1631
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:13,679
Speaker 2: ground you feel very grounded.

1632
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:17,280
Speaker 6: So after you take them, is the feeling like I

1633
01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:18,160
Speaker 6: need to do this again?

1634
01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:22,799
Speaker 4: Yes, not like a crackhead, but you're not like addicted

1635
01:13:22,840 --> 01:13:24,080
Speaker 4: to it, but you're like, oh wow, I could do

1636
01:13:24,120 --> 01:13:26,400
Speaker 4: this again. I could tap into like you get ideas,

1637
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:29,360
Speaker 4: you get like like create creative. You get connected with

1638
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 4: the earth, you get to create.

1639
01:13:35,240 --> 01:13:37,040
Speaker 3: I mean it's from the earth. It's not like some

1640
01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:38,240
Speaker 3: you know, man made drugs.

1641
01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:40,680
Speaker 4: So you get connected with your like the people around you,

1642
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:42,840
Speaker 4: like your kids, your wife. You're gonna be like, you're

1643
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:44,400
Speaker 4: so beautiful, I love you so much.

1644
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:51,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, let us know. If you need a mushroom connect

1645
01:13:51,360 --> 01:13:53,840
Speaker 3: in La, let us know. I'll send them to your hotel.

1646
01:13:56,760 --> 01:14:02,000
Speaker 4: Crying and ship like, what is your Yeah, that's your wife.

1647
01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:03,760
Speaker 4: You should send your wife. She would really like it.

1648
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:06,240
Speaker 4: I just think everyone's gonna love it. I don't know

1649
01:14:06,320 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 4: your wife, but I think she'll like it.

1650
01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:12,599
Speaker 2: We'll send you the links. Anyway, we pulled a card.

1651
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:14,639
Speaker 2: We had Rashad and Troy pull cards at the top

1652
01:14:14,680 --> 01:14:15,320
Speaker 2: of the show.

1653
01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:15,800
Speaker 3: And.

1654
01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:22,920
Speaker 4: Roy Troyce pulled Strength Strength. I'm not gonna I'm gonna

1655
01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:24,960
Speaker 4: read this, but I'm also gonna I know. It's about

1656
01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:27,960
Speaker 4: like tapping into your inner strength, your inner well of

1657
01:14:28,160 --> 01:14:31,120
Speaker 4: infinite strength. It's just about like conquering that. Let's see

1658
01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:34,560
Speaker 4: what it says here. The strength card represents strength determination,

1659
01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:37,959
Speaker 4: and power like the chariot. However, while the chariot signifies

1660
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 4: outer strength and will, the strength card speaks to the

1661
01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:44,240
Speaker 4: inner strength and the human spirit's ability to overcome any obstacle.

1662
01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:47,760
Speaker 4: Strength is about knowing you can endure life's obstacles. You

1663
01:14:47,840 --> 01:14:51,240
Speaker 4: have great stamina and persistence balance with underlying patience and

1664
01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 4: inner calm. You're committed to what you need to do,

1665
01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:55,639
Speaker 4: and you go about it in the way that shows

1666
01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 4: your composure and maturity. When the strength tarot card appears

1667
01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 4: into reading, you are a few by your inner strength,

1668
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:04,320
Speaker 4: personal power, strong will, and determination. You do not rule

1669
01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:08,080
Speaker 4: by trying to control others. You quietly influence and persuade others.

1670
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 4: The diplomat Others may underestimate your power because it is

1671
01:15:11,920 --> 01:15:14,680
Speaker 4: so invisible that you should see that it is an advantage.

1672
01:15:14,960 --> 01:15:18,439
Speaker 4: You can control a situation without excessive outward force. No

1673
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 4: one knows it's you calling the shots. Do you resonate

1674
01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:22,600
Speaker 4: with that?

1675
01:15:22,960 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 3: Was?

1676
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:23,960
Speaker 6: That was pretty spot on.

1677
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:27,320
Speaker 4: It says your confidence to overcome any growing fears, challenges,

1678
01:15:27,439 --> 01:15:29,880
Speaker 4: or doubts. Feel the fear and do it anyway.

1679
01:15:30,479 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 6: Yeah? Wow, that's pretty good.

1680
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:33,519
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1681
01:15:33,960 --> 01:15:38,759
Speaker 2: Did the cards always speak speaking and with shotful temperance,

1682
01:15:39,560 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 2: So temperance speaks to balance, moderation, patience, purpose. Temperance is

1683
01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:48,080
Speaker 2: the card for bringing balance, patience, and moderation into your life.

1684
01:15:48,120 --> 01:15:50,160
Speaker 2: You are being invited to stabilize your energy and to

1685
01:15:50,240 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 2: allow life force to flow through you without force or resistance.

1686
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:55,559
Speaker 3: It seems like this is that like the same.

1687
01:15:55,439 --> 01:15:57,360
Speaker 4: I'm similar if you look at them, movement that look

1688
01:15:57,400 --> 01:15:57,920
Speaker 4: like in heard.

1689
01:15:57,800 --> 01:15:59,920
Speaker 2: It's time to recover your flow and get your life

1690
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:02,800
Speaker 2: back into order and balance. This card calls you to

1691
01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:05,880
Speaker 2: remain calm. You are calm as a cucumber over there,

1692
01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 2: even when life feels stressful or frantic. He doesn't get

1693
01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:13,639
Speaker 2: stress y'all maintain an even temperament and manage your emotions.

1694
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:17,880
Speaker 2: You have learned to keep composed and stressful situations little

1695
01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:20,560
Speaker 2: things don't get to you thanks to your seemingly abundant

1696
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:24,080
Speaker 2: source of patience. Your respect for balance and tranquility is

1697
01:16:24,280 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 2: what will help you achieve and experience fulfillment in your life.

1698
01:16:27,760 --> 01:16:30,040
Speaker 2: The temperance card shows that you have clear long term

1699
01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:31,960
Speaker 2: vision of what you want to achieve. You are not

1700
01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:34,600
Speaker 2: rushing things along. Instead, you are taking your time to

1701
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:37,040
Speaker 2: ensure that you do the best job you can you

1702
01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:41,320
Speaker 2: know you need a moderate guided approach to reach your goals. Finally,

1703
01:16:41,400 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 2: this card reflects higher learning. You are learning a great

1704
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:46,280
Speaker 2: deal where you are now, and you are at peace

1705
01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:48,719
Speaker 2: with what you are doing. It is all coming together.

1706
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:55,280
Speaker 4: Well, it really is. It's beautiful. No, I've been emotional today.

1707
01:16:55,520 --> 01:16:55,840
Speaker 5: Cancer.

1708
01:16:58,000 --> 01:16:59,720
Speaker 4: First of all, we're all sensitive. We're all about your

1709
01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:02,400
Speaker 4: signs in here. Every single one of us is water signs.

1710
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 4: We could cry the drop of a hat. Okay, you know,

1711
01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:06,840
Speaker 4: I was just thinking about the last time I saw you.

1712
01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:08,760
Speaker 4: I was like, there's a building downtown and every time

1713
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:10,040
Speaker 4: I see it looks kind of like your logo. I

1714
01:17:10,080 --> 01:17:12,439
Speaker 4: think of you guys having a high rise in downtown.

1715
01:17:12,880 --> 01:17:15,880
Speaker 4: Do you remember telling you that? I think I was

1716
01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:17,080
Speaker 4: manifesting for you guys.

1717
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:19,680
Speaker 1: There it was there was that was probably at a

1718
01:17:20,680 --> 01:17:21,920
Speaker 1: That was crazy that you said that, because I was

1719
01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:25,200
Speaker 1: actually on the plane today and I was watching CNN

1720
01:17:25,320 --> 01:17:27,400
Speaker 1: and they were talking about Fox, like they having this

1721
01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:29,240
Speaker 1: whole thing about things point out faking news and all that,

1722
01:17:29,280 --> 01:17:31,120
Speaker 1: and they were showing like the Fox building in New

1723
01:17:31,200 --> 01:17:34,320
Speaker 1: York City, and I was just thinking, like, that's that's dobe.

1724
01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:36,840
Speaker 7: We need to have to earn a leisure building, Eyo buildings.

1725
01:17:36,960 --> 01:17:39,360
Speaker 4: There's a building downtown in LA and it doesn't say

1726
01:17:39,560 --> 01:17:41,519
Speaker 4: E y L, but it's like, I don't know. I

1727
01:17:41,640 --> 01:17:43,120
Speaker 4: want to say it's a yellow logo, but it's E

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01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:46,519
Speaker 4: something L or something. It's two of the three. And

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Speaker 4: every time I see I think of you guys. I'm like,

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01:17:48,080 --> 01:17:50,960
Speaker 4: they're gonna have a building I'd like to manifest for

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01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 4: my friends. So I'm a witch.

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Speaker 6: We'll come back to this moment in.

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01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:56,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna be like i'd literally be invited to

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01:17:56,200 --> 01:18:00,800
Speaker 4: the high rise, the cutting of the ribbon moderator, bring

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Speaker 4: the cars.

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Speaker 3: Bring the cars. It will pass mushrooms up to everyone.

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Speaker 4: Everyone gets a mushroom. Go to the top floor with

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01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:08,240
Speaker 4: your wings.

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01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:10,240
Speaker 3: Please don't trap.

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Speaker 4: I have a question. We always ask our guests if

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Speaker 4: they have horries.

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01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:23,360
Speaker 2: Stories.

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01:18:24,160 --> 01:18:25,840
Speaker 4: Maybe you have like a new rich one with your

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01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:27,920
Speaker 4: wife and I've been traveling a lot of places. Maybe

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01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:29,439
Speaker 4: you have one with a new like you know, your

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01:18:29,680 --> 01:18:33,560
Speaker 4: financial rock star. Maybe you have some groupies, anything.

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01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:40,160
Speaker 2: Like a poor hotel, hotel highly any like any sexy

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01:18:40,240 --> 01:18:44,760
Speaker 2: stories in Abu Dhabi, Dubai, London, all the places.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like any like popping.

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01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:48,760
Speaker 5: I don't have any sexy stories. I know there's a

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01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 5: lot of Savage fenty that comes to my house. I

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01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 5: bet yeah, there's a lot that comes there.

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01:18:55,200 --> 01:18:56,679
Speaker 4: Get a lot of shows at a lot of Savage

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Speaker 4: twenty one.

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01:18:58,200 --> 01:19:00,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, man, I really appreciate them, especially on the road.

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01:19:01,680 --> 01:19:04,680
Speaker 5: They always help. I think we have a subscription service there.

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01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 5: So shout out to Rihanna, it's been great.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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01:19:09,560 --> 01:19:11,160
Speaker 4: Shout out to me, baby, want you on the show,

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Speaker 4: New Mama.

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01:19:13,600 --> 01:19:17,640
Speaker 7: Shout to Rihanna. I don't know, man, like I don't know.

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01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 4: I don't think he would tell us that ship. I

1763
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:25,120
Speaker 4: know you got some other fucking stories.

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01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:26,479
Speaker 6: Shot the story.

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01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:29,200
Speaker 4: I see you in your cardiers online.

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01:19:29,240 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 6: I know you.

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01:19:30,800 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 3: You ain't dripping check for nothing. I know you got

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01:19:32,920 --> 01:19:38,280
Speaker 3: some kind of drip. Isn't just for you for some bitches.

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Speaker 7: Man. You know a lot of ladies. Man, but I

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01:19:41,439 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 7: don't you know. Part of a major key is to

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01:19:45,560 --> 01:19:46,880
Speaker 7: never kissing south. That's a major.

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Speaker 4: You don't have to tell any names. You just want

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01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:49,280
Speaker 4: to tell a story.

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Speaker 7: Somebody.

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01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:53,840
Speaker 4: You know it's we're podcasters that does That's a fact.

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01:19:54,200 --> 01:19:54,800
Speaker 7: That's a fact.

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01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:56,280
Speaker 6: A million people listen.

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01:19:56,560 --> 01:20:00,439
Speaker 4: A million Fine, I won't hear that. Business backer here,

1779
01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:02,920
Speaker 4: your business is almost over direct funding. Your ship is

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01:20:03,000 --> 01:20:06,120
Speaker 4: going down direct fund because of good moms. Remember when

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01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:07,200
Speaker 4: fifty cent took out Jason?

1782
01:20:09,240 --> 01:20:09,840
Speaker 7: What did they do to you?

1783
01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 4: Did he heard it tremendously. I'm gonna hurt direct fundings,

1784
01:20:14,160 --> 01:20:14,719
Speaker 4: business careers.

1785
01:20:14,720 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 7: What did they do to you? What did they do?

1786
01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:20,760
Speaker 4: They lied to us blatantly over about alone, and they

1787
01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:22,880
Speaker 4: fucked us well, like.

1788
01:20:22,880 --> 01:20:27,439
Speaker 3: A high interest rate, crazy, crazy interest rate crazy? What

1789
01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:28,040
Speaker 3: was the other thing?

1790
01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:31,280
Speaker 4: Just lies, just like oh yeah, no, no, no, no, yeah,

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01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:33,800
Speaker 4: that's not what I just like blatant, like typed it out,

1792
01:20:33,880 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 4: lies like like it was in the email, like just

1793
01:20:36,320 --> 01:20:38,360
Speaker 4: blatant lies. And then tried to be like, oh well,

1794
01:20:38,400 --> 01:20:39,559
Speaker 4: I don't know what you're talking about. Got to pick

1795
01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:41,759
Speaker 4: up my kid from school. I would when I find Andrew,

1796
01:20:41,800 --> 01:20:42,680
Speaker 4: I swear to fucking god.

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01:20:42,760 --> 01:20:44,640
Speaker 6: I want to give a shout out to Sanelli. Is

1798
01:20:44,680 --> 01:20:47,120
Speaker 6: she producing this show right now? This ab is like.

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01:20:50,720 --> 01:20:51,640
Speaker 3: They're producing.

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01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:55,719
Speaker 4: The two headphones they have their own podcast.

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01:20:55,840 --> 01:21:01,400
Speaker 6: Happened Apparently the conversation like that he rubbed his waves.

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01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:02,360
Speaker 6: She's in trouble.

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01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:05,640
Speaker 4: She has her hand like up here, like what.

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01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:09,080
Speaker 3: Did you say? Troy s brought their friend and our

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01:21:09,520 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 3: our managers single. Also look at them. It's love connection

1806
01:21:11,960 --> 01:21:14,000
Speaker 3: is I don't know, I totally, I don't know.

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01:21:14,160 --> 01:21:16,439
Speaker 2: Just made that up, just made him sing he may

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01:21:16,520 --> 01:21:20,280
Speaker 2: be married single today he's under a sign that says

1809
01:21:20,320 --> 01:21:21,559
Speaker 2: bad choices make good stories.

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01:21:21,600 --> 01:21:22,280
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know.

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01:21:22,840 --> 01:21:25,639
Speaker 6: Somebody take a picture, don't take difference.

1812
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:29,040
Speaker 7: So are y'all single?

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01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:31,760
Speaker 4: My boyfriend's there right there on the left side, the

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01:21:31,800 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 4: black ones?

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01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:34,759
Speaker 7: You're not the black ones? Are you single?

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01:21:35,640 --> 01:21:36,439
Speaker 4: I am to single?

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01:21:37,680 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 7: She didn't you answer that?

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01:21:39,120 --> 01:21:40,120
Speaker 4: I'm answering it for her?

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01:21:41,120 --> 01:21:43,720
Speaker 7: Oh wow, the jungle major key here.

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01:21:43,760 --> 01:21:51,719
Speaker 3: I don't care. It's a major key. I don't I don't.

1821
01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:57,800
Speaker 4: You major one interview with Sean Now you've got new

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01:21:58,320 --> 01:22:01,599
Speaker 4: new lingo perspective life. Are you single?

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01:22:01,680 --> 01:22:03,479
Speaker 3: The people on to anyway? So so great to have

1824
01:22:03,600 --> 01:22:07,519
Speaker 3: you guys on the show. So where can our people

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Speaker 3: find you?

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Speaker 1: Are your Leisia across all channels, YouTube, Apple, Spotify, social

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Speaker 1: media platforms, Lisia dot com.

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Speaker 7: Thank you for having us.

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01:22:17,000 --> 01:22:20,080
Speaker 2: Appreciate patre Okay, yeah, we will make sure we link

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01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:23,439
Speaker 2: all the things in this podcast episode description and make

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01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:25,639
Speaker 2: sure you guys go and rate and review this episode

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Speaker 2: on Apple podcasts.

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Speaker 3: Please, and most.

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Speaker 4: Importantly, you guys, go pre order our book. It's our

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Speaker 4: debut author book, A Good Mom's Guide to making Bad Choices.

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Speaker 4: It comes out May second writ in time for Mother's Day.

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Speaker 4: Gift it to a friend, gifted to your husband. Thank you.

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Speaker 4: We designed it nice. It is out on pre order.

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Speaker 4: Please you, guys, support two single moms who are being

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Speaker 4: authors for the first time. And you need to have

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Speaker 4: a number one New York Times best selling. If you

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Speaker 4: are our tribe and you are hearing this, go to

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Speaker 4: all the book places and order our motherfucking book. And

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Speaker 4: we also just found out that we will be in

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Speaker 4: two hundred and seventy seven Target stores, so you may

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01:23:11,160 --> 01:23:12,639
Speaker 4: even be able to pick it up at the Target

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Speaker 4: near your till. Don't wait for that, pick it up

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Speaker 4: right now. It is major. It's very difficult to get

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01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:19,400
Speaker 4: into the Target store. I know it seems like there's

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01:23:19,400 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 4: a lot of stuff in there, but we are one

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01:23:21,040 --> 01:23:21,519
Speaker 4: of the stuff.

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01:23:21,600 --> 01:23:22,880
Speaker 3: Mother's fucking dream.

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01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:27,080
Speaker 4: Thank you Target, Thank you Targeting, and just please go

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Speaker 4: pick up our book and support us.

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Speaker 5: We got the book, we got the merge, we got

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01:23:29,840 --> 01:23:30,599
Speaker 5: pa what else we got?

1858
01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:31,479
Speaker 4: We got the retreat.

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01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:34,160
Speaker 3: We have a merge and we also have cash app.

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01:23:34,240 --> 01:23:38,519
Speaker 4: No, we also have patreons. We also have cash app,

1861
01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:41,080
Speaker 4: and we also have Discord. If you join our Patreon,

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01:23:41,120 --> 01:23:43,920
Speaker 4: you get access to our Discord and the Discord is popping.

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Speaker 3: Really.

1864
01:23:44,560 --> 01:23:46,559
Speaker 4: You find your friends, you find the people in your city.

1865
01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:49,280
Speaker 4: You can share your hories, you can ask for advice,

1866
01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:52,080
Speaker 4: you can vent, you can manifest. We have a really

1867
01:23:52,240 --> 01:23:55,080
Speaker 4: pop in collective, a magical collective of men and women

1868
01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:58,840
Speaker 4: on Discord, and there's a lot of conversations happening over there,

1869
01:23:59,040 --> 01:24:01,640
Speaker 4: so please join us us and you can find us.

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01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 4: I'm Nila with an h underscore map with two p's.

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01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:08,960
Speaker 2: That was really confusing, So we're just going to in

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01:24:09,040 --> 01:24:12,760
Speaker 2: the episode and I'm at watch Erica. But again, just

1873
01:24:12,880 --> 01:24:15,400
Speaker 2: check out the links and make sure you check us

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01:24:15,439 --> 01:24:17,760
Speaker 2: out on YouTube, subscribe to YouTube because we're kind of

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01:24:17,800 --> 01:24:18,559
Speaker 2: cute and so are they.

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01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 3: So till next time, guys.

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Speaker 7: There you have it.

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01:24:21,960 --> 01:24:24,719
Speaker 4: It's anniversary.

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01:24:25,640 --> 01:24:26,759
Speaker 3: You goodbye.

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Speaker 6: M h.

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Speaker 2: M hm.

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Speaker 5: Hm m hm.

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Speaker 7: Mm hmm

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Speaker 4: M