WEBVTT - #22 Ask Dean Anything 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:03.239 All right, is everybody ready? We are so excited. Help 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:06.960 I Suck At Dating with Dean Angler and I heart 0:00:07.040 --> 0:00:12.200 radio podcast. Hello everyone, thank you so much for joining 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:14.760 me on this week's episode of Help I Suck At Dating. 0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:17.440 My name is still Dean Anglerts joined in studio by 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:20.760 a very lovely guest. The usual suspects Mark and Easton 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:23.279 are in here as well, but I'd love to hand 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:26.239 it over to this lovely human being sitting right next 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:30.200 to me if they wouldn't mind introducing themselves right now. Hello, Hello, 0:00:30.360 --> 0:00:34.880 I'm back. My name is My name is Leslie Murphy. 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:39.760 I am Dean Unglert's girlfriend back in your ears. She's 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:43.720 not imaginary, She's sitting right next to me. Yeah, I'm back. 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:45.040 I feel like the first time I was on here, 0:00:45.080 --> 0:00:47.800 I didn't do a great job because I felt like 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:50.640 I'm bad at keeping secrets and Bachelor Winner Games hadn't 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:54.600 all aired yet, and so I kind of kept quiet. 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:57.680 But not today, not today, Not today. Today, we are 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:01.120 doing a very special episode. This is the time Leslie 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:04.560 and I have been I guess on this podcast together 0:01:04.640 --> 0:01:06.760 post Bachelor Winter Games, of course, which is gonna be 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:10.800 great because up until now and I mean up until 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:13.400 I guess the last episode we had, We've had to 0:01:13.480 --> 0:01:14.920 keep a lot of things secret. And I know Winter 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:17.560 Games feels like forever ago. And I understand that Bachelor 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:19.720 takes precedent over that and the finale and that all 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:22.720 that kind of stuff was crazy, but Batchelor Winter Games 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:25.600 was still important to us. And although we do value 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:27.679 you as listeners, we don't care that you think that 0:01:27.680 --> 0:01:30.600 Bachelor Winter Games feels like forever ago. Okay, we're here 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:34.280 to answer your questions about our relationship. We want to, uh, 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:35.840 we want to let you in on I don't know 0:01:35.920 --> 0:01:38.240 kind of anything that that you might be wondering. I 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:39.880 know this is kind of a weird and wacky world 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:42.399 sometimes and you're only allowed to see such a little 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:45.640 part of it. Um, So yeah, we're gonna use this 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:47.760 time to to kind of dive in a little bit deeper. 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:52.120 And what else are we gonna do this episode? Mark, Well, 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.400 we're just gonna take calls. It's it's asked being and 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:57.040 Leslie anything. But I have a few questions. Just got 0:01:57.120 --> 0:01:59.120 to get the ball rolling. If you don't mind, please, 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:01.760 how well did you know each other before Winter Games? 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:05.400 I had never heard of this human Okay, well I 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:07.600 had heard of this human being, but I didn't know 0:02:07.640 --> 0:02:09.960 a lot about him. I just I just knew of him. 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:12.800 So when I saw him through the people of my 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:16.160 door in the hotel, um, I got really excited because 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:19.120 I was like, oh, Dean's here on Bachelor Winter Games. Um, 0:02:19.240 --> 0:02:20.920 so you didn't even know any of the cast before 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:23.640 you got there. I did not, not a single soul. 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:25.639 What did you know about him before you got there. 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:28.160 I didn't know the Paradise drama. I didn't know of 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:33.880 the love Triangle, stay away from anything, it's free. I 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:38.079 didn't watch Rachel's season, so I went in with clean. 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:41.280 He he actually came to me with the clean slate, no, 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:45.399 no preconceived notions, no judgments, easy on the eyes. Yeah, 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:49.680 and we can share our our I guess introduction story 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:52.240 later on if we want to do that. Okay, because 0:02:52.240 --> 0:02:54.240 that so I don't like leaving the colors waiting, and 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:57.840 we have we have a few, which is shocking. So 0:02:57.880 --> 0:03:00.560 it's not that shocking. This is a great show. Less 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.040 you're the best. You're so you're so down on yourself 0:03:04.520 --> 0:03:06.760 when you have when you give yourself no expectations, you 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:11.160 never let yourself down. That's my wife's all right. So 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:14.480 to start it off, we're gonna go to Megan in Atlanta. Um, 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:19.680 who is on the phone now? Megan? Are you there? Hi? 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:23.040 It's Dean. How are you hey? I'm good? How are you? 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:26.560 I'm doing well. I'm enjoined in studio by my lovely girlfriend, 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:28.840 Leslie Murphy. I understand you have a question for us. 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:34.359 I do, Hi, Leslie? Hi, Megan, thanks for colling, of course. UM, 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:36.360 I guess I just wanted to ask you, Poul, how 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:39.640 this relationship feels different than any relationship you've been in 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:42.240 in the past. Good question, Leslie. Start off with that one, 0:03:43.680 --> 0:03:46.720 um Field, how does it feel different? It feels different 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:49.839 because I feel like the past two relationships that I've 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:52.600 been in have been long distance. And I'm going to 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:54.880 start with yes, I'm a travel bugger and I don't 0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:58.520 currently have a home base. But UM, I don't feel 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:01.400 like this relationship is long distance at all, because I 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:04.560 feel like the longest Dean that I have been separated 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:07.000 has been like nine days I think. And so even 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:09.440 though we've been dating for three months, we've spent so 0:04:09.560 --> 0:04:16.279 much time together. Okay, UM, So I feel like that 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:20.320 is a really good first step. Um, just because it's 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:22.160 been so short term, but I feel like we've grown 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:27.480 a lot together, and um, yeah, I think that says 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:29.479 a lot about us too. I think that we've only 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:31.200 been together for three months, but I feel like, I 0:04:31.560 --> 0:04:32.760 don't know, I feel like I've known you for a 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:35.320 lot longer than that. This is a good thing. It's 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:36.800 a good thing. I like to think it's a good thing. 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:39.880 And now you're going to separate for two weeks Dean 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:41.880 is going to India. That'll be the longest time we've 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:44.120 been Do you think that's good for the relationship. Is 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:46.520 it a test for the relationship? Sure? I think I 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:49.520 really do believe that absence makes the heart grow fonder 0:04:51.240 --> 0:04:54.920 absence Just yeah, Um, does that answer the question, Megan? 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:57.400 I think it does. It's definitely different than any relationship 0:04:57.520 --> 0:04:59.520 I've been in. I know Ulessie has been removed from 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:01.000 the show a little longer than I have before she 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:03.400 went on Bachelor Winter Games, so she kind of restored 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:05.200 a bit of normality to her life for normalcy to 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:07.640 her life. Um, but for me, it's kind of like 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:10.320 the first public relationship I've ever been in my entire life, 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.640 and that just kind of comes with it with its differences. Well, 0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:16.000 I saw on Twitter that you were having brunch or 0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:19.039 breakfast in Colorado and you noticed a woman at the 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:22.160 table next to sneaking pictures of you with her turquoise iPhone. Yeah, 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:24.000 that's the kind of thing you gotta use to write 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:27.480 it's yeah, it's sad an airport pictures yesterday. It's there. 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:30.640 It presents its challenges. And at first when we were 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.479 like when Lesson I were out in public before Winter Games, 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:35.520 it aired since I was kind of like the fresh 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:38.760 fresher face, people would like ask me for pictures and 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:43.039 she was like not necessarily included in those sometimes, and 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:47.080 that was challenging the relationship. But it's it's just a 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:49.080 little bit different. It's just kind of like readjusting a 0:05:49.120 --> 0:05:51.279 little bit. But it's not bad. I mean, I've enjoyed 0:05:51.279 --> 0:05:52.760 every second of it. Yeah, I mean I think that's 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:55.400 a great answer. First public relationship, Um, I guess for 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:57.400 both of us. Yes, that's pressure though, Like you're in 0:05:57.480 --> 0:05:59.680 US weekly or you were before you were supposed to 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:02.760 be there. You are the park City thing. Yeah, and 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:05.240 that's got to be pressure on a relationship. Yeah, I 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:07.760 think a lot of pressure comes with it because you'll, 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:11.520 you know, I'll read things on social media and um, 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:13.760 that gets under my skin. And you have to have 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:16.640 tough skin to be in a public relationship, and will 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:20.040 I do. I'm only human and things definitely get to me. Um. 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:22.200 I won't say any specifics because it's only going to 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:29.840 make me mad right now. Um, how's that? Megan to that? Okay? Cool? Well, 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:32.000 thank thank you for calling in. And if you are 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:33.600 listening to this podcast, which I hope you are, thank 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:36.039 you for listening. Yeah. Thanks Megan, I am. I love 0:06:36.080 --> 0:06:39.080 it and I love Mark too, Thank you, and Eastern 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:43.400 America of course. Everyone. Okay, thank you guys, Thank you. Megan, 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:46.000 have a good day. Can you shield yourself from social media? 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:47.680 Because I think that would drive me nuts and people 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:49.800 were on their saying, you know, talking trash about me 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:51.840 or my wife. That would drive me insane. Can you 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:55.560 just shield yourself from that? It's you, Yes and no. 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:58.680 I think Dean did Um did a great thing the 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:01.400 other day when we were in hunder Us. I was 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:03.960 having a really rough time because that's when Winter Games 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:06.120 is airing, and he took my phone and turned all 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:12.480 UM notifications off, which helped immensely. This beautiful woman got 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:15.360 notified every single time someone commented on her Instagram post 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:18.680 or Twitter posts like all of this stuff. And you 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:20.320 get a lot of comments on some pictures like whether 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:22.720 the controversial whatever they are, and her phone was constantly 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:24.560 blown up and it was giving me and that he 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:26.480 just like, watch it continue to blow You have your 0:07:26.480 --> 0:07:28.200 you've had your nifications off for a long time and 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:30.560 I haven't. So I saw everything that was coming in, 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:34.000 anything that was good, everything that was bad from oh 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:36.360 you know, we liked you better with Christina, Like, that's 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:39.800 going to get to me that that's not good, that's 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:44.000 not healthy. There's a very useful filter on Instagram that 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:46.520 you can have certain words into. At any time a 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:48.880 comment with that word is placed on your Instagram post, 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:53.000 it's no, it's removed, nullified immediately. I introduced Leslie to 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:56.000 that feature, and a certain someone's name was put in 0:07:56.040 --> 0:07:58.400 that feature, and so you'll never even see that. They don't. 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:01.880 God know, she's gone forever. That's good. And trust me, 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:04.800 everyone on this show or any everyone uses that feature 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:07.760 regardless of what it is. Oh yeah, whoever the person is, 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:12.560 for sure, it's absolutely necessary necessary. Um okay, next, we're 0:08:12.600 --> 0:08:15.840 going to go, well, we're gonna stay in Georgia. We're 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:18.480 going to go to Maya, who is in Athens. Which 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:21.200 is funny enough actually because we were just in Athens. 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:26.640 What's up? How are you? How does night? Um? I 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:28.720 want to call you to ask you about your visit 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:32.400 to Athen. Well, so you live in Athens? I do, yeah. 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:34.840 I wanted to school here, um and I work for 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:39.480 a Y. I graduated from you g a best and 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:43.720 happiest place on earth. Go dogs? Yes, did Ryan seacreft 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:47.160 to studio right now? That's interesting? Um. It was my 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:49.360 first experience in Athens, which it was great. It was 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:51.360 on the tail end of our I guess, a couple 0:08:51.360 --> 0:08:55.199 of weeks long journey through Honduras and then up into Georgia. Um, 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:57.120 it was great. The wedding was beautiful. It was my 0:08:57.160 --> 0:08:59.400 first time meeting a lot of Leslie's friends, I guess 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.040 all of Leslie's friends, which is always kind of a 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:04.520 daunting experience, especially in a wedding, because everyone is so 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:09.640 high energy and very like communicative and outwardly I guess 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:12.360 expressing of feelings and all that kind of stuff. So 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:13.600 it was just like it was. It was a great 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:15.680 experience to go there and meet a lot of Leslie's 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:17.760 friends that she went to college with, and um, kind 0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:19.680 of see how successful all their relationships are. And I 0:09:19.760 --> 0:09:22.960 really enjoyed myself. Um, But I don't know, what do 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:25.960 you think less? I thought it was a perfect weekend, Um, 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:28.880 Dean has I think Dean has been to two weddings 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:32.240 in his life. I think that's what you said. Yeah, 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:37.760 which is not a lot. Um. And so to introduce 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:41.800 him to a wedding weekend and um rehearsal dinner and 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:46.240 kind of everything surrounding it was probably pretty daunting for him. Um. 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:49.320 And he did great. I mean I wasn't really worried 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:52.559 about it at all, but he was like, what's like, 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:55.200 what is the Southern food? What am I eating? Like, 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:58.000 Oh my gosh, all these people are dressed up. We 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:01.240 actually went and ran to a tux Yeah, I brought 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:02.840 I brought a dress, sure in a pair of slacks 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:06.040 because I was unfamiliar with Southern weddings. So everybody else 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:07.600 was dressed at the night. Yes, we had to make 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:10.079 an emergency pit stop at a tuxedo rental. Wow, we 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:12.920 sure did. He literally has holes all over his shirt today, 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:17.120 not in Athens, Georgia. He did not. La. La and 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:19.800 Athens are a little bit different in terms of but 0:10:19.840 --> 0:10:21.800 that's a big step meeting the friends. Have you guys 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:25.160 met each other's family members at some point? Yes and 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:29.040 no not all thumb, not at all. But to your point, 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:31.240 back to the Athens speaker, I didn't go. I didn't 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:33.040 walk into the arch. I understand that's bad luck if 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:36.240 you're not a you're not a graduate graduate. I did. 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:39.080 He did not, um. But yeah, that was a perfect weekend. 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:41.160 I it's one of my favorite places in the world. 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:42.920 I had such a great four years in Athens, so 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:45.000 it was a dream to be able to take Dean 0:10:45.040 --> 0:10:50.679 there and come around. Yeah, so were you nervous? I 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:54.080 am very admittedly an introvert, So I don't get nervous 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:58.360 with those situations. I just don't necessarily get very excited 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:00.680 about them. I'm always excited to obviously people that are 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:03.360 important to Leslie, like her friends and eventually her family 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:06.720 and all that kind of stuff. So it wasn't necessarily nerves. 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:09.079 It was just when you have to you know, when 0:11:09.080 --> 0:11:10.640 you have to go into a social setting like that 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:13.400 and like meet a hundred people, it can be very text. 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:16.160 There's a lot of whiskey involved. Um, but he did. 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:18.920 He did the nicest thing. So Um, it was Saturday. 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:20.920 We were just getting ready to walk down the aisle 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:23.600 go into the chapel. Everybody, you know, is if you're 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:26.160 in a wedding, you're with the bridesmaids and the groomsman, 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:29.280 and everybody's hungry. And I just happened to text Dean 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:32.080 that I wanted a pizza. Well, the next twenty minutes 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:34.439 came and a Domino's guy walks in with a full 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:36.800 pizza to feed the whole wedding party. It was the 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:40.439 nicest thing. He's He's so sweet. I was going for 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:45.120 the brownie points. You got him. That's amazing. Well, I'm 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:47.120 so happy you guys such a you have such a 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:49.600 good time, Leslie and a huge fan of your blog zine. 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:52.960 I love the podcast everybody in studio because they're amazing. 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:58.720 Good job, the best, we have every confidence. Please call 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:01.920 in every week. I'll be back. All right, thank you 0:12:01.960 --> 0:12:06.439 so much, take care? Ok by guys. All right, who's next? 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:10.000 Next up? We got Bell from San Francisco, and Bell's 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:13.360 question is directed towards Leslie. But Bell, how are you 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:15.880 I'm good. How are you. I'm good. Thank you so 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:18.920 much for calling in. UM, what's your question for us? 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:22.679 So my question is, um, if Leslie was kind of like, 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:25.720 I guess turned off by the podcast name because I 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:29.640 know when you're talking about your theoretical relationship before Winter 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:31.920 Games there that was something you were worried about. So 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:33.959 I want to know if it was like something that 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:40.400 was present bell, how much time do you have? No, UM, 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:43.640 thank you for calling in, Thanks for the question. I 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:45.679 I'm not a fan of the podcast name. UM, so 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:49.360 here is my official petition behind deed to change it. UM. 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:53.280 We can talk about potentials later, but that was something 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:56.040 we talked about early on. UM. Actually, no, I think 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:59.720 it was during the filming of Winter Games Ben Higgins. 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:02.520 Ben Higgins came up and he was like, so, Leslie 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:05.000 familiar that Dean has a podcast And I was like, no, 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:07.280 I had no idea. And he's like, well, you want 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:12.520 to know what it's called? And I was like, sure, 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:15.160 what's what's the name of it. He's like, help it. 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:17.600 I suck at dating and I just remember just looking 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:19.120 at Dean and I was like, this is going to 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:23.440 be an uphill battle. Um. No, but but I do 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:27.000 want to say officially that there Dean does not suck 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:30.319 at dating. I'm just gonna put that out there. He 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:34.200 does not suck whatsoever. So there are multiple there are 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:37.400 multiple reasons why I think this podcast needs to be changed, 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:41.920 and I'm just gonna he's progressed past the paradise. Oh 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:44.960 my gosh. I absolutely and I think that probably showed 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:48.320 up on screen too. It definitely did took the drop. 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:51.200 And I know we've talked about changing the name of 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:54.160 this podcast. I was left definitely lobbying for earlier on 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:57.480 I was I discussed last week on my podcast and well, 0:13:57.640 --> 0:13:59.760 Leslie and I listened to Yeah a little bit, and 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:02.400 I'm I'm getting a little bit more comfortable with the 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:05.240 name because of how comfortable and confident I am in 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:07.440 our relationship. And it's kind of more of a title 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:10.160 that now can be projected onto the listeners and less 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:12.240 so the host of the podcast. If that makes sense. 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:18.360 It does. I'm still for help dating stuck, but that's 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:23.200 just one opinion. I'm with you. At some point, help 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.320 by sucker dating the listeners sucker dating and they can 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:28.200 reach out and get help on this particular podcast. I 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:29.720 get where you're I get where you're going with that. 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:33.000 It's still a personalization when the word I is in 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:37.400 the title. True, but there's an iron it's ironic. It's 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:40.400 an ironic. See. To me, the title has always been satire, 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:43.600 but now right to everyone it can also be satized. 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:45.920 But it really the most important thing is whether or 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:47.840 not Leslie is okay and comfortable with it. And if 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:50.200 that's not the case, then we can Honestly, he's sweet 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.720 and he just reach over to hold my hand as 0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:58.560 he said that, Well, well, thank you for calling in. 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:02.440 I love the name, by the way, um, and we 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:05.520 hope that you keep listening to the podcast because we 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:13.560 appreciate you listening. And I'm trying to suck less dating. See, 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:15.440 there you go, There you go. That's all we can 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:18.520 all hope to. Did you feel like it lowered the 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:20.440 bar for being a little bit like, oh, he's gonna 0:15:20.480 --> 0:15:22.040 suck at dating and then it turns out he's not. 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:25.000 That's true. I guess that was in his his advantage, 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:28.800 I don't know, or my advantage. Yeah, all the expectations 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:32.120 were low, so he blew those out of the water. Still, 0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:36.360 I mean, I don't hate that, but I don't like it. 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:38.560 It's just it's just false. Do you want to know 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:42.240 something wrong. Some of my expectations that are low outside 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:46.600 of this relationship are usually my workout goals. But I 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:50.640 still I still do my best to try as hard 0:15:50.680 --> 0:15:53.000 as possible to make sure that I'm reaching those workout goals. 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:54.440 And I think one of the issues that I struggle 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:56.520 most with is just getting my butt up out the 0:15:56.560 --> 0:15:59.080 door into the gym. So one way that I've learned 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:01.280 to kind of curb that and get away from that 0:16:01.320 --> 0:16:04.520 whole process in logistical nuisance of even getting there, it's 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:06.840 just using beach Body on Demand. Have you heard of 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:08.680 beach Body on Demand? Yeah? I have. I think I 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:10.960 think it would be really good for you, because, um, 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:14.640 even this morning, it was what seven thirty, and I 0:16:14.680 --> 0:16:17.640 was like, Dean, wake up to the gym right, And 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:18.720 then I was like, I don't want to go to 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:20.120 the gym. So what we did instead of going to 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:21.960 the gym was just turn on beach Body on Demand 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:24.760 on our TV in the living room. It's fun. Um, 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:27.040 it's pretty great. It's it's basically an online fitness streaming 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:29.240 service that gives you unlimited access to a variety of 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:31.960 highly effective, world class workouts and they're all personalized to 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:34.320 meet your needs. Um. So whether you want to burn 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:37.520 some fat, built and muscle, train for and durance, whatever 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:39.800 it is, it's it'll have your back and and basically 0:16:39.880 --> 0:16:41.400 on demand. Like I said, so you you can do 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:44.640 it on your TV, um, your xbox, whatever you use, 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:47.600 basically your your tablet um. So some of the programs 0:16:47.720 --> 0:16:50.040 that Leslie really enjoys and so as long as she's 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:52.440 enjoying it, I'm enjoying it as well. Is the the 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:57.720 yoga section of Beach Body on Demand. Because I'm not flexible, 0:16:57.800 --> 0:16:59.920 I don't necessarily like to do things that I'm bad at, 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:02.480 and yoga is one of those things. But Leslie really 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:04.360 finds a lot of joy from it. So I try 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:05.879 and do as best as I possibly can to make 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:08.120 sure that you know, we're doing it together and we're 0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:11.399 enjoying that yoga as much as possible. And that's what's 0:17:11.400 --> 0:17:12.760 great about be each Body on Demand. You don't have 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:14.680 to even go out and um, you know, kind of 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:16.520 embarrass yourself in front of a class because you're doing 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:19.520 everything in your house, on your own time, in your 0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:24.240 own privacy, etcetera, etcetera. So if you have some current 0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:26.280 health goals that are to lose weight, get more flexible, 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:28.280 build muscle, whatever it is, like I'm pretty sure most 0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:30.600 of us do, especially with the New Year's resolution. If 0:17:30.640 --> 0:17:31.840 you want to give it a truck, if you want 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:33.440 to give it a try, just go ahead and text 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:36.639 Dean to thirty thirty that's d E A and two 0:17:36.720 --> 0:17:39.680 three zero three zero three zero. You'll get a free 0:17:39.720 --> 0:17:42.840 trial membership. Um. You'll get full access the entire platform, 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:45.720 all the workouts, all of the nutritional information as well 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:48.080 as I'm sure Leslie can attest. I'm not maybe not 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:51.879 the most nutritional balanced. Uh don't have the most balanced diet. 0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:54.919 And so it's great ter at the airport and it 0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:56.800 was delicious and android every second of it, So it's 0:17:56.800 --> 0:17:59.240 great with that is they kind of both do both sides, 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:01.840 you know, both of the the workouts and the nutrition 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:03.720 shide of it. So go ahead and texting D E 0:18:03.840 --> 0:18:06.760 A N TOT and you can get a free child 0:18:06.760 --> 0:18:09.800 membership to beach Body on Demand. I like beach Body 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:11.640 on Demand personally because I hate going to the gym 0:18:11.960 --> 0:18:14.720 because they don't like other people. I always feel like 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:16.399 they know how to work everything and I have no 0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:18.160 idea what I'm doing there, and so I always feel 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:19.320 like a fish out of water at the gym, and 0:18:19.359 --> 0:18:21.280 maybe everyone does. But that's why I hate going to 0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:22.960 the gym. You have to wait for the machines. Wait 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:25.440 for the machines. They're sweat, there's wiping stuff off, there's 0:18:25.560 --> 0:18:29.120 there's germs, there's odors. Also, when I watch a video, 0:18:29.200 --> 0:18:30.600 I get bored of the same video over and over 0:18:30.600 --> 0:18:32.160 and over and over again. So this is great. It's 0:18:32.160 --> 0:18:34.840 on demand. It's all these different options for me. Every 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:36.840 day can be something different. That's why I love it. 0:18:36.880 --> 0:18:38.600 If I may, It's kind of like the reverse problem 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:40.440 with Netflix. When I got on Netflix, all I do 0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:42.280 was watch the same thing over and over again you do. 0:18:42.440 --> 0:18:44.399 But with Beach Body on demand, I have like the 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:46.440 reverse problem. I like to try new things every single time. 0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:48.159 So that's great, and you can go back to it 0:18:48.160 --> 0:18:49.480 again if it's you, if you liked it, if you 0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:51.320 like it, which you will like it, but you also 0:18:51.320 --> 0:18:53.160 want to try everything else. And it's great for travelers 0:18:53.160 --> 0:18:54.919 out there. You can just do it and get it 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:57.760 over with in a hotel room, phone, your tablet, whatever 0:18:57.800 --> 0:19:01.160 you got on laptop. It's great. Exactly we all love 0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:03.360 each body on demand. It's the best. We have more 0:19:03.359 --> 0:19:05.119 calls lined up for you and a lot of questions 0:19:05.119 --> 0:19:06.960 from Twitter, but I don't want to keep the callers waiting, 0:19:07.000 --> 0:19:08.720 so let's keep going with those. We're going to jump 0:19:08.800 --> 0:19:13.360 over to Madison from Alabama. Madison, are you there? Hi? 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:16.040 And here? What's up? Hi? It's Dean and Leslie. How 0:19:16.080 --> 0:19:18.359 are you? Hi'm Madison? Good? How are you? You're here 0:19:18.400 --> 0:19:21.920 with me and my friend Ashton? Oh wait Ashton? Yes, 0:19:22.160 --> 0:19:24.880 all right, thanks for calling in. Guys, Well we'll question 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:28.240 do you. We're so excited. Um, So we both watched 0:19:28.280 --> 0:19:32.119 back to winner James along stalytic um and we're just wondering, like, 0:19:32.480 --> 0:19:33.960 and they all had like a one on one, But 0:19:34.040 --> 0:19:36.040 what did all do outside of just that one on 0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:39.080 one that was planned? Um? Just special between you two, 0:19:39.160 --> 0:19:42.800 like not like film or ever. Um we made out 0:19:42.800 --> 0:19:48.439 a lot. Yeah, we kissed a lot um probably in 0:19:48.480 --> 0:19:53.440 every crevice of that house. Um. Yeah, that's awesome. I mean, yeah, 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:56.480 we There was one time I think they didn't air 0:19:56.520 --> 0:19:58.119 the date at all, but our second day that we 0:19:58.119 --> 0:20:00.199 went on there was a bowling portion to it. And 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:02.800 on that day we bet the loser had to make 0:20:02.800 --> 0:20:05.040 the winter breakfast, and I don't think they. I don't 0:20:05.040 --> 0:20:07.520 think they aired this. But the following morning, um, I 0:20:07.520 --> 0:20:09.879 get out of the shower and Leslie is waiting in 0:20:10.000 --> 0:20:13.639 like the communal bedroom with a ginormous bowl of Lucky 0:20:13.720 --> 0:20:22.680 charms Zy Charms. He hated it. He was not impressed 0:20:22.840 --> 0:20:24.960 at all. I mean, and I don't I don't cook. 0:20:25.000 --> 0:20:27.480 I travel for a living, so I don't have a kitchen. 0:20:27.960 --> 0:20:29.840 And I thought, you know, I like cereal. I thought 0:20:29.840 --> 0:20:32.520 maybe he like cereal. No, not a chance, So I 0:20:32.560 --> 0:20:34.240 went down. I went I went back down to the 0:20:34.320 --> 0:20:38.159 kitchen and made and pancakes so in the shape of 0:20:38.280 --> 0:20:41.920 in the shape of puppies. And then the following morning 0:20:41.920 --> 0:20:44.280 I decided to make her a begel with cottage cheese 0:20:44.280 --> 0:20:48.080 and peanut butter, which is an Australian I don't know. Yeah, 0:20:48.160 --> 0:20:49.600 it was really good. We need to bring that back, 0:20:49.680 --> 0:20:53.080 that cheese and peanut but it sounds rough, but it's 0:20:53.080 --> 0:20:55.880 actually not bad. All of those things. I've never had 0:20:55.880 --> 0:20:59.840 them together, right, Well, that's what it's like my favorite 0:20:59.840 --> 0:21:01.800 thing to do. You like, what's my boyfriends make breakfast? Like? 0:21:01.800 --> 0:21:06.479 I feel like such a really siding. Like yeah, and 0:21:06.520 --> 0:21:08.840 now I mean, I guess neither of us had really 0:21:08.840 --> 0:21:11.000 made breakfast for each other in a while, but check 0:21:11.359 --> 0:21:14.280 did we haven't? No, we did? Okay. Um. Other than 0:21:14.320 --> 0:21:16.040 those two things, I'm trying to think of what else 0:21:16.040 --> 0:21:18.120 we might have done for each other. We we spend 0:21:18.119 --> 0:21:19.760 a lot of time together just kind of sitting on 0:21:19.760 --> 0:21:22.800 the couch and right making and making out and talk 0:21:23.760 --> 0:21:26.440 and other cameras on you that whole time making out, 0:21:26.520 --> 0:21:29.639 talking the breakfast stuff. The tricky thing with games was 0:21:30.080 --> 0:21:32.520 like cameras around or do you just kind of like 0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:36.359 forget about it? You forget about it? You really do, Yeah, 0:21:36.480 --> 0:21:38.360 because they're I mean they're in front of you, they're 0:21:38.400 --> 0:21:41.000 on the walls. Sometimes the dates get a little awkward 0:21:41.040 --> 0:21:42.840 just because you become the focal point. Like when you're 0:21:42.880 --> 0:21:44.520 making out in the living room and there's cameras around, 0:21:44.560 --> 0:21:47.159 it's like you're like you're one of five couples that 0:21:47.200 --> 0:21:48.439 are making out. But when you're on a date, it's 0:21:48.480 --> 0:21:51.800 kind of like, I can't imagine that, it's so cool. 0:21:52.080 --> 0:21:53.720 Do you ever feel bad for the camera people? Like 0:21:53.760 --> 0:21:55.080 we've just been seening you're talking for an hour in 0:21:55.080 --> 0:21:57.760 twenty minutes, it's poor guy's been kneeling, poor guy. And 0:21:57.760 --> 0:21:59.720 and I don't know how they keep a straight face 0:21:59.800 --> 0:22:04.600 with drama Gallican like I feel like I would not 0:22:04.680 --> 0:22:06.040 be able to not say something if I was a 0:22:06.080 --> 0:22:07.560 camera man, like I would want to be a friend. 0:22:07.920 --> 0:22:09.840 You have a good poker face, Madison. Every once in 0:22:09.880 --> 0:22:11.919 a while you'll say something funny, and if you make 0:22:11.960 --> 0:22:13.800 a cameraman laugh, that's when you know what you said 0:22:13.840 --> 0:22:15.879 was actually funny, because they're not supposed to react to 0:22:15.880 --> 0:22:22.320 you at all, exactly. Um, alright, Madison, Well, thank you 0:22:22.320 --> 0:22:23.879 so much for calling in. Well, I guess you and 0:22:23.920 --> 0:22:32.760 Ashton for calling in. Thanks guys. We we love you, guys, Madison. 0:22:32.960 --> 0:22:36.920 All right, we're moving on to Katrina from Miami. Uh 0:22:37.119 --> 0:22:38.920 we have a friend that's from Miami as well. Baby 0:22:38.960 --> 0:22:42.359 on it. But Katrina are you there? Yes, I'm here. 0:22:42.520 --> 0:22:45.959 How are you today? I'm good at I'm doing all. 0:22:46.000 --> 0:22:47.680 Thank you so much for asking. You got Leslie me 0:22:47.880 --> 0:22:50.000 Eastern Mark, But I don't think you have questions for 0:22:50.040 --> 0:22:51.320 you sooner? Mark, So what do you got for me 0:22:51.359 --> 0:22:58.160 and him? I wanted to know how much change when 0:22:58.160 --> 0:23:01.439 you're on Winter Games and then when you're like you 0:23:01.560 --> 0:23:03.880 in real life, like in the real world, yeah, Well 0:23:04.040 --> 0:23:05.919 you're talking about the show airing, I assume, right, So 0:23:06.000 --> 0:23:08.520 it's kind of a it's kind of a bummer. Uh too, 0:23:08.760 --> 0:23:10.320 it's not a bummer, but it's difficult to be in 0:23:10.359 --> 0:23:12.359 a relationship while the show is airing and you quote 0:23:12.400 --> 0:23:15.359 unquote have to keep it secret. It's kind of like 0:23:15.400 --> 0:23:18.840 it's debilitating to a relationship at times because you have 0:23:18.920 --> 0:23:20.520 to be like cognizant of what you're posting on your 0:23:20.520 --> 0:23:22.879 Instagram store, your Snapchat, your Twitter, whatever it is. I 0:23:22.880 --> 0:23:24.560 don't think we were ever very good at keeping it 0:23:24.600 --> 0:23:26.720 a secret though. We were not good at it, but 0:23:26.760 --> 0:23:29.960 we at least had to consciously put effort into keeping 0:23:29.960 --> 0:23:31.960 it under wraps as best as possibly. Even we're bad 0:23:31.960 --> 0:23:34.440 at it. So what's nice about the show being over 0:23:34.720 --> 0:23:36.040 is that you don't have to do that anymore and 0:23:36.080 --> 0:23:38.240 you can just post whatever you want, whether it's cute 0:23:38.280 --> 0:23:40.280 too or just you know, someone sleeping on an airplane 0:23:40.320 --> 0:23:41.960 while they're pretending to read a book next to you. 0:23:41.960 --> 0:23:43.520 You don't necessarily have to like hide that kind of 0:23:43.560 --> 0:23:47.040 stuff anymore, which is great. Um, So that's that's kind 0:23:47.040 --> 0:23:51.240 of the biggest change about it in my opinion. Um, yeah, 0:23:51.400 --> 0:23:54.480 that's yeah. I mean, I guess that's a very service answer. Um, 0:23:54.520 --> 0:23:57.600 I think that. I think it's changed significantly since we 0:23:57.600 --> 0:24:01.040 were filming in Vermont in December, because as um, you know, 0:24:01.119 --> 0:24:04.920 everything is curated for you on the show, and it's 0:24:04.920 --> 0:24:09.159 such a romantic winter wonderland you're surrounded by, so everything 0:24:09.240 --> 0:24:10.840 is great, and we had we really didn't have much 0:24:10.880 --> 0:24:13.159 drama on the show at all. So then cut to 0:24:13.359 --> 0:24:17.360 the real world and um, you know, having to just 0:24:17.400 --> 0:24:19.760 rely on phones and face time for a while. That 0:24:19.840 --> 0:24:23.720 was interesting because for three weeks that in December, we 0:24:24.320 --> 0:24:26.280 ate breakfast, lunch, and dinner together and saw each other 0:24:26.720 --> 0:24:28.639 every day, and so we had a ton of time 0:24:28.680 --> 0:24:30.639 with one another, and then all of a sudden, we 0:24:30.680 --> 0:24:34.080 didn't and so that was interesting and and and also 0:24:34.240 --> 0:24:36.520 then we had our phone phones back on the internet, 0:24:36.600 --> 0:24:40.200 and um, you know, I'm I'm I always want to 0:24:40.240 --> 0:24:44.119 go in things with um zero preconceived notions and judgments. 0:24:44.160 --> 0:24:46.399 But then you know, all of a sudden, I had 0:24:46.400 --> 0:24:48.760 the Internet to tell me maybe what to think, and 0:24:48.880 --> 0:24:51.080 it's you know, you're only humans, so some of that 0:24:51.080 --> 0:24:55.119 stuff got to me and it was challenging for a while, 0:24:55.720 --> 0:24:58.640 I think. And there in December I did my best 0:24:58.680 --> 0:25:01.359 to prepare her for that while we're in that bubble. 0:25:01.440 --> 0:25:04.480 You don't necessarily know what Google has to say about someone. 0:25:04.480 --> 0:25:06.240 And I was telling Leslie constantly. I was like, you, 0:25:06.359 --> 0:25:08.600 I just want you to be prepared for this kind 0:25:08.640 --> 0:25:10.639 of mailstrom that you're gonna get when you leave the 0:25:10.640 --> 0:25:13.320 show and you're gonna see all this stuff and and 0:25:13.400 --> 0:25:15.359 it's you can only prepare someone so much until I 0:25:15.440 --> 0:25:17.760 see it firsthand. So it was definitely challenging. It's it's 0:25:17.760 --> 0:25:19.800 funny because you know your relationships, say it takes five 0:25:19.800 --> 0:25:22.600 steps forward during the filming a Bauchelor Winter Games, and 0:25:22.640 --> 0:25:23.720 then you get out and it kind of takes a 0:25:23.720 --> 0:25:26.000 couple of steps back because you're kind of relearning not 0:25:26.080 --> 0:25:27.919 only how to interact with that person, but also you're 0:25:28.000 --> 0:25:30.120 learning a lot more about that person just through third 0:25:30.119 --> 0:25:33.639 party media sources whatever it is. Um. Yeah, I remember 0:25:33.680 --> 0:25:35.240 going to visit Dean for the first time in l 0:25:35.280 --> 0:25:37.919 a um at the end of December, and it was 0:25:37.960 --> 0:25:40.840 interesting to see him in his environment in the real world, 0:25:40.960 --> 0:25:44.520 and I learned a lot more about him in that instance. 0:25:44.640 --> 0:25:46.600 And we just continue to do that everywhere we go. 0:25:47.040 --> 0:25:49.680 So it's, yeah, I think we we have progressed so 0:25:49.720 --> 0:25:53.040 far since that time, very far. Three months together. I 0:25:53.040 --> 0:25:56.200 mean that's I mean, that's not that's congratulations. I mean, 0:25:56.240 --> 0:25:59.560 actually I can Eddie, we just found out that's over now. 0:25:59.640 --> 0:26:01.080 I still haven't talk to ask you about this, but 0:26:01.119 --> 0:26:07.199 I heard I got the news. It's very sad. Yeah, so, 0:26:07.320 --> 0:26:08.920 but I mean good for you. I mean I think this, 0:26:08.920 --> 0:26:10.600 this is great. Three months going strong. I know that 0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:12.119 doesn't sound like much, but I think you should be. 0:26:12.119 --> 0:26:14.919 Probably we're stronger today than we were the day we 0:26:14.960 --> 0:26:16.600 left from two games. And I think we've got stronger 0:26:16.600 --> 0:26:22.119 every single day and not as strong as tomorrow. Profound. Um. Katrina, Well, 0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:23.680 thank you so much for calling in. It was great 0:26:23.720 --> 0:26:27.520 to have you and keep listening to the podcast. Um, yeah, 0:26:27.560 --> 0:26:30.440 thank you so much. Thanks Katrina, thank you so much. 0:26:30.560 --> 0:26:34.520 All Right, bye, I'm so bad at saying goodbye to people. Um, 0:26:34.520 --> 0:26:37.359 it's just it's a simple goodbye. And finally we have Emma, 0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:41.200 who is from Massachusetts. Emma, are you there? Yes, Oh 0:26:41.240 --> 0:26:43.359 my gosh, high, how the heck are you? It's Dean 0:26:43.400 --> 0:26:49.440 and Leslie. Hey, Emma, oh my god, hello, this is amazing. 0:26:49.840 --> 0:26:51.960 It's amazing that you called into the podcast. We're so 0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:54.640 happy to have you on. Oh my gosh, thank you. 0:26:55.160 --> 0:26:57.560 Um So, what's the question you have for us? So? 0:26:57.720 --> 0:27:01.359 I know you love dogs, and I was wondering, I 0:27:01.359 --> 0:27:03.760 don't know if you have a dog right now, but 0:27:04.440 --> 0:27:06.240 you got a dog, what kind of you get and 0:27:06.240 --> 0:27:08.520 what would you name it? Well? I do love dogs, 0:27:08.640 --> 0:27:10.480 and I don't know if I shared the story on 0:27:10.480 --> 0:27:12.159 the podcast, but I got a dog in college. I 0:27:12.160 --> 0:27:14.600 rescued a dog when she was eight weeks old as 0:27:14.640 --> 0:27:17.440 a sophomore in college with one of my great friends. 0:27:17.920 --> 0:27:22.159 Um and we still have her. She the dog lives 0:27:22.200 --> 0:27:24.280 with the girl that I got her with in college 0:27:24.280 --> 0:27:26.000 in Pasadena, and I see her every once in a while, 0:27:28.080 --> 0:27:30.800 but mostly just like the lifestyle that I have now, 0:27:30.960 --> 0:27:34.760 I can't keep a dog with good graces knowing that 0:27:34.800 --> 0:27:37.760 I'm gone half the time. Um. She has a big 0:27:37.800 --> 0:27:39.760 yard in Pasadena and another dog to play with, and 0:27:39.800 --> 0:27:41.320 I just feel like she's probably happy over there for 0:27:41.359 --> 0:27:43.520 the time being. But her name is Nala. I'm a 0:27:43.560 --> 0:27:45.480 big Lion King fan. I've had a stuff Simba since 0:27:45.800 --> 0:27:49.720 I was about four years old, and so I've always yeah, 0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:52.000 so I've always loved that. Um. So that's why we 0:27:52.080 --> 0:27:55.520 named her Nala. She's like a flatcoat Retriever, which is 0:27:55.560 --> 0:27:58.680 like basically a golden Retriever, but um, she's darker coated 0:27:58.680 --> 0:28:00.680 and a little bit smaller. But what's funny is so 0:28:00.720 --> 0:28:03.679 we just took a trip to Colorado this past weekend 0:28:03.720 --> 0:28:05.960 and when we had to get like some itch cream 0:28:06.000 --> 0:28:07.840 at Walmart because I got some bug bites on me, 0:28:08.080 --> 0:28:10.560 and we saw the cutest little eight week old St. 0:28:10.600 --> 0:28:13.560 Bernard puppy and I like we left. I was like 0:28:13.760 --> 0:28:15.479 mind blown, and I was like, we need to go 0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:17.080 back on the way out of here and see if 0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:19.520 we can offer any amount of money to get that 0:28:19.560 --> 0:28:21.440 dog from that man that owned it. But the dog 0:28:21.480 --> 0:28:24.720 was gone when we got back. Yeah, it wasn't meant 0:28:24.760 --> 0:28:28.000 to be. But I swear any day now he could 0:28:28.040 --> 0:28:29.760 rescue a dog. I feel, I'm just I need to 0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:31.879 start fostering, because fostering, I think is the right approach, 0:28:31.920 --> 0:28:33.879 because if you're only in town for a week or 0:28:33.920 --> 0:28:36.040 two weeks out of the month's a bit selfish. It's 0:28:36.040 --> 0:28:38.280 not to get a dog when you're not here. I 0:28:38.320 --> 0:28:40.600 thought you're gonna say to foster, no, no, no no, 0:28:40.680 --> 0:28:42.520 but you you have trouble saying goodbye to the listeners. 0:28:42.520 --> 0:28:43.880 How could you say goodbye to a dog that you've 0:28:43.880 --> 0:28:46.840 been fostering. The way that I look at it, in 0:28:46.840 --> 0:28:48.960 the way that's been justified to me, is that week 0:28:49.080 --> 0:28:50.720 spent with you is better than a week spent in 0:28:50.720 --> 0:28:52.840 the shelter. Oh, that's for sure. Um, And it will 0:28:52.840 --> 0:28:54.440 be difficult to say goodbye. And I know, actually I can. 0:28:54.560 --> 0:28:57.040 Eddie has fostered two dogs and now owns those two 0:28:57.040 --> 0:29:00.720 dogs from a great place called Barking Bitches. If you're 0:29:00.760 --> 0:29:02.760 in the l A area. My sister got her dog 0:29:02.800 --> 0:29:05.240 from there and it's a great place. Um, it's in 0:29:05.240 --> 0:29:09.280 West Hollywood. Yeah, I do love Barking Bitches. Um. So yeah, 0:29:09.840 --> 0:29:12.440 do you have a dog, Emma? Yeah, I do. I 0:29:12.480 --> 0:29:15.760 have a black class between Studdy. How old is Buddy? 0:29:16.200 --> 0:29:18.800 I love Buddy. He's um, he's hate Oh he's an 0:29:18.840 --> 0:29:23.840 old one. Yeah, I know. I can't believe it's so. 0:29:23.960 --> 0:29:26.280 Nala is probably six or seven now, so right around 0:29:26.280 --> 0:29:28.440 the same age. I love. I love old fat dogs. 0:29:28.520 --> 0:29:31.640 I don't know why. I think it makes my personality 0:29:31.680 --> 0:29:32.960 better because I just want to set on the couch 0:29:32.960 --> 0:29:37.840 all day, introvert. He's like an old man and a 0:29:37.880 --> 0:29:39.920 puppy at the same time. I love it. I feel 0:29:39.920 --> 0:29:41.960 like I can kind of empathize with him there um emma, Well, 0:29:42.000 --> 0:29:43.240 thank you so much for calling in. Thank you for 0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:47.920 listening to the podcast. Uh, tell all your friends listening 0:29:48.120 --> 0:29:51.480 for answering my call. Yeah, of course we'll do this 0:29:51.480 --> 0:29:54.360 again sometime soon and maybe we can have your call back. Yes, 0:29:54.520 --> 0:29:57.240 thank you. Oh my gosh, have a great day. I'm 0:29:57.280 --> 0:29:59.840 so happy you guys are together to You're so cute. 0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:04.200 I have a great day. Thank you for calling in. Thanks, 0:30:04.560 --> 0:30:07.600 bye bye. All right, So next up we have another caller, 0:30:07.720 --> 0:30:10.160 Christie from New Jersey. How are you? This is Dean 0:30:10.160 --> 0:30:12.760 and Leslie. How are you? Hi, Christine Leslie? I love 0:30:12.760 --> 0:30:15.720 you guys to winter days. That was the st with 0:30:15.800 --> 0:30:20.480 you guys, Christie Warren Jersey. Are you from from North Bergen? Oh? Nice, 0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:22.600 I was born in Where was I born? New Brunswick? 0:30:22.640 --> 0:30:29.680 I think you think so? Hey, Jersey Jersey Jersey twins. Yes, 0:30:30.320 --> 0:30:33.320 what's the question for us? I have a question for Leslie. 0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:36.200 You just want to know, Leslie, did you watch Rachel's 0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:40.240 season and uh, the part where Dean had that confrontation 0:30:40.320 --> 0:30:42.320 with his dad. I want to know what you thought 0:30:42.320 --> 0:30:46.680 about that? You know, what. I did not watch Rachel's season. 0:30:46.720 --> 0:30:49.200 I think I watched the premiere in the finale, um, 0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:51.360 just because I I'm all over the place all the 0:30:51.400 --> 0:30:54.160 time and can't. I can't keep up with the Bachelor 0:30:54.280 --> 0:30:58.120 some some seasons, and so hers was not one that 0:30:58.160 --> 0:31:01.800 I watched. I've heard a lot about it. Um, and 0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:04.080 I don't I don't know if we're if we want 0:31:04.080 --> 0:31:07.200 to get into this, but I was, Um, I don't. 0:31:07.240 --> 0:31:11.080 I don't know any anything prior to when I met Dean, really, 0:31:11.200 --> 0:31:13.280 but I did. I was able to meet a few 0:31:13.320 --> 0:31:17.480 of his family members this past weekend in Colorado. Um. Yeah, 0:31:17.560 --> 0:31:21.720 it was cool. It was Yeah, I know it gave me, 0:31:22.360 --> 0:31:24.560 I think, a deeper perspective of where he came from 0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:28.680 and and um, so I know a lot of people 0:31:28.760 --> 0:31:34.040 have preconceived notions and judgment calls from his hometowns in um, 0:31:34.040 --> 0:31:36.760 from Rachel's season, and I was happy that I could 0:31:36.840 --> 0:31:40.400 just meet them on my own accord off camera. Um. 0:31:40.400 --> 0:31:43.840 And they're very, very very nice people. So I was 0:31:43.880 --> 0:31:45.280 really happy to be able to do that, and that 0:31:45.360 --> 0:31:48.480 Dean allowed me to do that. Yeah, that's amazing. I mean, Dean, 0:31:48.520 --> 0:31:50.760 I congratulate you. I saw a picture of you in 0:31:50.800 --> 0:31:53.760 your dad's on Instagram, which is great. You know, I'm 0:31:53.760 --> 0:31:55.920 happy to see you guys start together and you know, 0:31:56.000 --> 0:31:58.680 family's family, like you said, Thanks Christy. Yeah, that was 0:31:58.680 --> 0:32:00.640 the first time we had I guess even had a 0:32:00.680 --> 0:32:03.560 conversation since we filmed that in April of last year. 0:32:03.640 --> 0:32:07.160 So wow, congrats. I hope everything works out with you 0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:09.160 and your family and with Lovey as well, because she's 0:32:09.200 --> 0:32:15.480 a great, amazing person and she thanks Christie, thank you 0:32:15.560 --> 0:32:18.000 so much. Have to have a great time you too. Bye. 0:32:18.800 --> 0:32:20.760 We have so many questions on Twitter, so I'm going 0:32:20.840 --> 0:32:22.719 to kind of throw a match and see what you say. 0:32:22.720 --> 0:32:25.040 There's some really good ones here. So if you could 0:32:25.080 --> 0:32:28.080 have a joint wedding with anyone from the Bachelor franchise, 0:32:28.080 --> 0:32:31.680 who would you choose and why go for it? Dean 0:32:32.520 --> 0:32:37.920 joint wedding with anyone from the Bachelor franchise that's from 0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:41.120 Ursula by the way, Courtney and Lily Courtney and the 0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:44.640 two from Bachelor Winter, that would be one giant party. Yes, 0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:48.720 and I mean ours. I think our ceremony or our 0:32:48.800 --> 0:32:51.800 vow exchange would be second fiddle to theirs, which is 0:32:52.040 --> 0:32:54.800 of a shame. Yeah, but I'll give it to him 0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:58.760 because they got the shoey thing going on, and you know, yeah, 0:32:58.840 --> 0:33:01.280 we're fun. I think corney all to be both choice. 0:33:01.320 --> 0:33:03.680 That's a good choice Leslie. Of course, as a travel blogger, 0:33:03.800 --> 0:33:05.640 Julia wants to know if you can go anywhere in 0:33:05.640 --> 0:33:07.200 the world with Leslie, where would you go and what 0:33:07.240 --> 0:33:09.240 would y'all do? I would want to go to Antarticle 0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:11.320 with Leslie because I know she's been dying to get there. 0:33:12.280 --> 0:33:14.840 Have been. Yeah, it's number one on my bucket list. Um, 0:33:14.880 --> 0:33:16.480 I just think it's so unique and I've been to 0:33:16.600 --> 0:33:18.800 all other six continents, so this is my last one, 0:33:19.440 --> 0:33:22.560 and um, I think it's becoming more more popular to 0:33:22.600 --> 0:33:24.239 go there, so I want to get there, you know, 0:33:24.280 --> 0:33:27.200 before it becomes like the next Bolly of the world. 0:33:27.440 --> 0:33:31.000 What is there? Penguins? But that's all you need to 0:33:31.080 --> 0:33:34.600 know when you're there on a boat. Usually there's no hotels. 0:33:35.200 --> 0:33:37.320 I mean, there are scientists there, you know, and they're 0:33:37.320 --> 0:33:39.880 saying they're standing somewhere on the ice. But they just 0:33:39.920 --> 0:33:43.040 started instituting commercial flights to and from Antarctica to I 0:33:43.080 --> 0:33:45.040 think they're I think I want to say those are 0:33:45.080 --> 0:33:49.000 like day trips, right, They're like day trips you just 0:33:49.000 --> 0:33:51.960 fly from maybe Argentina. Yeah, but you could fly and 0:33:51.960 --> 0:33:54.720 probably set up. I mean there's probably places you can sleep. 0:33:54.800 --> 0:33:58.520 You can even bring your own like thermal camping equipment. Yeah, 0:33:58.800 --> 0:34:01.000 we could do that. But I think for the most 0:34:01.320 --> 0:34:03.680 most part, they've got um ships that go down and 0:34:03.720 --> 0:34:06.160 so they're they're cruises. But I hate the word cruise 0:34:06.160 --> 0:34:07.600 because I'm not a big fan. That's not how I 0:34:07.640 --> 0:34:09.799 like to travel. But this is different. I mean, these 0:34:09.840 --> 0:34:12.879 are like ex expeditions. If we've been everywhere, you've all 0:34:12.880 --> 0:34:15.920 six continents, what's a place that no one would think 0:34:15.960 --> 0:34:17.600 would be a great place to go? Because everyone goes 0:34:17.600 --> 0:34:19.000 to the same place as they go to Cabo, they 0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:20.839 go to Hawaii. Where's the place that they should go 0:34:20.920 --> 0:34:24.719 that they would never have thought of. Let's know what 0:34:24.719 --> 0:34:26.880 you're gonna say. You're gonna say Patagonia or somewhere in 0:34:26.880 --> 0:34:30.320 South America, But I mean I don't. Yeah, I think that. 0:34:30.480 --> 0:34:33.160 I think the whole continent of South America has been 0:34:33.239 --> 0:34:36.839 left undiscovered and it's a little bit more undeveloped than 0:34:37.040 --> 0:34:41.320 I think, um, like Europe or North America or Southeast 0:34:41.320 --> 0:34:45.120 Asia even so, um, I mean, yeah, my favorite place 0:34:45.120 --> 0:34:47.799 on the planet's Patagonia, and it's just so vast and 0:34:47.880 --> 0:34:51.440 so um unpopulated that you know you're never going to 0:34:51.520 --> 0:34:53.720 run into if you want to be alone in the world. 0:34:53.760 --> 0:34:58.800 Like Dean, who's this big introvert over here, I think 0:34:59.000 --> 0:35:01.359 Patagonia is your place because I never knew I liked 0:35:01.360 --> 0:35:03.520 the mountain so much. It's the prettiest view I've ever seen. 0:35:04.040 --> 0:35:07.080 But um, I also hate that I'm saying this again 0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:09.640 and again because I don't I don't want the masses 0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:12.319 to go down. Yeah. I think if you do talk 0:35:12.360 --> 0:35:14.800 to people that are interested in traveling, you hear a 0:35:14.880 --> 0:35:16.880 lot of Europe. You hear a lot of Southeast Asia. 0:35:17.320 --> 0:35:19.760 I don't really hear much of South America. No, and 0:35:19.760 --> 0:35:22.240 and and people need to go there because it's pretty amazing. 0:35:23.760 --> 0:35:27.120 It's that too. It's that too. But yeah, it's also 0:35:27.160 --> 0:35:29.239 a region of the world and my favorite one at that. 0:35:29.640 --> 0:35:33.080 All right, next question, uh more questions about the podcast 0:35:33.160 --> 0:35:35.120 name We covered that a Leslie. How do you feel 0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:38.239 about Ari after seeing what went down in The Bachelor? Okay, 0:35:38.239 --> 0:35:42.080 I'm hi fa, I really like Ari. Uh. Let me 0:35:42.120 --> 0:35:44.960 take you back five years too, when I was on 0:35:45.000 --> 0:35:47.120 the show and Shan Low was my Bachelor, and it 0:35:47.160 --> 0:35:50.440 was kind of between Sean and Ari uh to be 0:35:50.520 --> 0:35:54.160 my bachelor, and I actually wanted Ari over Sean. It 0:35:54.320 --> 0:35:56.759 ended up working out great. I like Sean a lot, 0:35:56.800 --> 0:36:00.160 but um so it's interesting to see them bring are 0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:04.879 back from five years ago. Um And yeah, he had 0:36:04.920 --> 0:36:08.920 some questionable actions um this time around. But at the 0:36:09.040 --> 0:36:12.719 end of the day, you have to make yourself happy, 0:36:12.800 --> 0:36:15.560 and he can't fake being in love with somebody, and 0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:17.600 that's it's a shame that it ended the way it 0:36:17.640 --> 0:36:21.960 did with him proposing to Rebecca. Um And I think 0:36:21.960 --> 0:36:25.160 he just realized as time went on that he wasn't 0:36:25.200 --> 0:36:26.799 in love with her anymore. You know. We just talked 0:36:26.840 --> 0:36:29.520 a lot about what it's like to film the show 0:36:29.560 --> 0:36:31.800 and then get off the show, and they're kind of 0:36:31.840 --> 0:36:34.719 two different things. Um and so I think, you know, 0:36:34.719 --> 0:36:36.719 when filming wrapped and he had a month or two 0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:39.520 to really dig deep in this relationship with Becca, he 0:36:39.560 --> 0:36:43.440 realized that she wasn't his person and so he had 0:36:43.440 --> 0:36:45.400 to backtrack. And that's unfortunate, but you gotta do what 0:36:45.440 --> 0:36:47.520 you gotta do to make yourself happy at the end 0:36:47.520 --> 0:36:50.520 of the day. All right, Well, put this is a 0:36:50.520 --> 0:36:53.239 good one. This is from Megan. You're gonna to think 0:36:53.280 --> 0:36:54.920 about this. Indean, You're not gonna want to answer this, 0:36:54.960 --> 0:36:56.359 but I think you need to. Both of you need 0:36:56.400 --> 0:36:57.839 to answer this one because it is a good one. 0:36:57.880 --> 0:37:00.479 I'm just gonna go ahead and say it right now. Next, please, 0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:04.760 what's one thing you do Dean that annoys Leslie? And Leslie? 0:37:04.800 --> 0:37:07.520 What's one thing you do that it's actually a very 0:37:07.560 --> 0:37:11.279 appropriate question. Oh yeah, it really is. You want to 0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:13.040 do the background or what? Yeah? So you just spent 0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.640 a weekend in Aspen, and I guess I was over 0:37:15.760 --> 0:37:19.359 using the phrase that's annoying. And apparently a significant other 0:37:19.440 --> 0:37:22.000 does not appreciate when you call them out for doing things. 0:37:22.520 --> 0:37:25.920 It gives you a complex and it's unnecessary. Okay, but 0:37:25.960 --> 0:37:28.160 I for the record, I was saying I'm annoyed and 0:37:28.200 --> 0:37:30.719 not you're annoying. I was saying that I was I 0:37:30.760 --> 0:37:33.040 wasn't expressing it as an internal feeling and not an 0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:38.120 external influence. What do you do that annoys? Sorry? So 0:37:38.160 --> 0:37:39.759 that you can handle the other side. That's where my 0:37:39.800 --> 0:37:41.759 mind just went right away. What do I do that 0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:44.080 annoys Leslie? I mean, I think obviously a smnel list 0:37:44.120 --> 0:37:48.719 would be what don't I do that annoys leslie? Um? 0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:54.279 What do I do um to annoy me? You? You 0:37:54.320 --> 0:37:58.960 go to bed without alleviating an argument. Mm hmm, I 0:37:59.040 --> 0:38:01.800 went to bed one it without alleviating an argument. Sure, 0:38:01.960 --> 0:38:04.399 you said, I just need to sleep on it. Well, 0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:07.440 what do you think that does it to me? Think 0:38:07.480 --> 0:38:09.400 about that for a second. OK, you're making me go 0:38:09.480 --> 0:38:12.160 to bed just with so many questions. I just think 0:38:12.200 --> 0:38:14.399 that change starts from within and I can. I can 0:38:14.560 --> 0:38:17.040 change over the course of a great nap and wake 0:38:17.080 --> 0:38:19.799 up refreshed. This is interesting because I see both sides 0:38:19.840 --> 0:38:22.080 of this, because my wife likes to just go to 0:38:22.080 --> 0:38:23.680 sleep where I like to talk it out forever and 0:38:23.680 --> 0:38:25.800 ever and ever. But on the other side, once you sleep, 0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:28.759 it doesn't seem to matter as much anymore. Like the 0:38:28.760 --> 0:38:30.439 next day the sun's out. It's like, you know, sleep 0:38:30.440 --> 0:38:31.880 it off. Who cares? What was Why was that such 0:38:31.920 --> 0:38:34.160 a big deal about? I see where you going with that. 0:38:34.360 --> 0:38:36.319 But at the same time, it's like, okay, so you're 0:38:36.400 --> 0:38:38.480 we're basically just like putting a rug over that and 0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:41.040 not really facing it, and then it's going to snowball 0:38:41.080 --> 0:38:43.640 into something else and something else and something else. It's 0:38:43.680 --> 0:38:46.279 all about communication in the end, and that to me 0:38:46.440 --> 0:38:49.839 isn't the best way to communicate. Okay, but you we're 0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:51.279 obviously not going to get into this right now. But 0:38:51.320 --> 0:38:54.040 you've also done this too, where when something is clearly 0:38:54.040 --> 0:38:56.440 wrong and I ask you what's wrong and you just 0:38:56.719 --> 0:38:59.040 brush it aside, that's true. I'm not, Yeah, I I 0:38:59.120 --> 0:39:02.160 kind of. I'm a very positive, happy person and so 0:39:02.200 --> 0:39:06.080 when something goes wrong, I really just go to the 0:39:06.080 --> 0:39:09.160 pits of the earth, and um, don't do a good 0:39:09.239 --> 0:39:11.920 job of explaining why and explaining my emotions. I just 0:39:12.000 --> 0:39:14.920 kind of clam up. And yeah, I'll admit that's a 0:39:15.040 --> 0:39:17.280 that's a big flaw of mine. Anyways, back to the question, 0:39:17.280 --> 0:39:20.680 what do I do that annoys Leslie? But that's one 0:39:21.520 --> 0:39:24.440 going to bed. Also, him sleeping in this morning, was 0:39:24.440 --> 0:39:27.360 that a point of contention? He definitely likes his sleep, 0:39:27.360 --> 0:39:29.120 and I like my sleep too, but I like to 0:39:29.160 --> 0:39:31.840 get up if if I'm sleeping past seven thirty, I 0:39:31.840 --> 0:39:34.720 have a lot of anxiety. So you're a morning person. 0:39:34.840 --> 0:39:36.360 Dean may not be such a morning He's not a 0:39:36.400 --> 0:39:39.239 morning person at all. So maybe I'm changing that if 0:39:39.239 --> 0:39:46.520 I change it one minute at a time, that's okay, Tomorrow, Okay, 0:39:46.560 --> 0:39:48.840 so that's answered, right, Yes, I was. I wanted to 0:39:48.840 --> 0:39:52.880 have something more h more certain, but I guess that's okay. 0:39:53.239 --> 0:39:56.200 The huh I stopped that. Yeah, that what's great about 0:39:56.239 --> 0:39:58.760 Leslie is I get it's not that I get annoyed easily, 0:39:58.840 --> 0:40:01.080 but there are certain things like kind of like irritate 0:40:01.160 --> 0:40:03.600 me a little bit, and I'm like very vocal about 0:40:03.640 --> 0:40:06.840 those things, and for better or for worse, obviously, I 0:40:06.920 --> 0:40:09.560 like to at least be honest with my opinions. And 0:40:09.600 --> 0:40:12.200 what's great about Leslie is she takes all of those 0:40:12.239 --> 0:40:14.440 to heart in the best way possible, and she makes 0:40:14.480 --> 0:40:16.880 sure that she works on the things that are like 0:40:16.920 --> 0:40:21.200 small little things like um, you know, like certain little 0:40:21.320 --> 0:40:24.920 like mannerisms that are just not super I don't know, 0:40:25.000 --> 0:40:27.360 like like I would never notice, but you know that right, 0:40:27.400 --> 0:40:29.840 And they're not like super pivotal to your character and 0:40:29.880 --> 0:40:32.040 think that they're just like little things like reactionary things 0:40:32.040 --> 0:40:34.040 like that, that type of stuff that for some weird 0:40:34.080 --> 0:40:37.200 reach day. And again that's what I'm talking about, Like 0:40:37.200 --> 0:40:39.560 I get annoyed at myself for getting annoyed at certain things, 0:40:40.200 --> 0:40:42.319 not just so the change comes from within, I guess, 0:40:42.360 --> 0:40:44.200 not just with Leslie but with everyone, Like sometimes I 0:40:44.320 --> 0:40:47.080 like see myself getting annoyed like a bird chirping or something. 0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:48.759 Why am I getting annoyed at this? I shouldn't be 0:40:48.800 --> 0:40:51.360 doing that. Um. So it's good with Leslie. She's very 0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:55.560 willing to work on those little things because it obviously 0:40:55.600 --> 0:40:58.719 improves a relationship, I think greatly. But so you haven't 0:40:58.719 --> 0:41:00.960 really answered the question what about you? Do you think, 0:41:00.960 --> 0:41:07.440 Annised Dean? I think, um, I think I think I 0:41:07.520 --> 0:41:09.560 just said one, but I changed it. I mean it 0:41:09.640 --> 0:41:12.120 was just the little nuances that how I would respond 0:41:12.120 --> 0:41:14.399 to things, and you didn't like that I changed that. 0:41:15.000 --> 0:41:20.000 Um m hmm. There's gotta be a lot of things 0:41:20.640 --> 0:41:22.400 you want. Do you want to answer this question? For me? 0:41:22.719 --> 0:41:24.880 That's not the question, that's not the exercise point of exercise. 0:41:25.239 --> 0:41:27.680 You just don't want to. You just don't want to 0:41:27.680 --> 0:41:31.319 get in trouble. All right, let's move on. Tests has 0:41:31.320 --> 0:41:34.520 a question that I don't think it's necessarily a three 0:41:34.560 --> 0:41:36.279 months into a relationship, you're not ready to talk about 0:41:36.280 --> 0:41:38.319 marriage and kids. So I'm just gonna kind of rephrase it, 0:41:38.400 --> 0:41:40.440 like how many kids would each of you like to have? 0:41:40.520 --> 0:41:44.360 Is there a compatibility there? Um? I would like to 0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:46.000 have two kids of my own, and I would like 0:41:46.040 --> 0:41:49.840 to adopt two kids in an ideal situation, which I 0:41:49.840 --> 0:41:52.080 didn't understand. It's never ideal, but if I had in 0:41:52.160 --> 0:41:53.759 my way, that's how it would you go. Mine's not 0:41:53.800 --> 0:41:56.080 too different. I think four is a lot. I have 0:41:56.160 --> 0:41:58.640 always wanted three because I grew up with two sisters. 0:41:58.640 --> 0:42:00.920 There were three of us total. Um, I want to 0:42:00.920 --> 0:42:03.960 adopt as well. And whether that's one of my own 0:42:04.000 --> 0:42:07.520 and two adoptions or two of my own and one adoption, 0:42:07.920 --> 0:42:09.279 I would go either way. It sounds like you're on 0:42:09.320 --> 0:42:11.960 a very similar page there. Uh. Megan would like to 0:42:12.000 --> 0:42:15.319 know if Chris Harrison is as cool as he seems. Absolutely. 0:42:15.480 --> 0:42:17.279 I spend a lot of time with him. I'm gonna 0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:25.200 say no because he's cooler than because because especially when 0:42:25.200 --> 0:42:26.759 you see it on the show, you always see him 0:42:26.800 --> 0:42:29.640 in work mode where he's you know, talking to the 0:42:29.680 --> 0:42:32.920 batchelor the Bachelor at or he's talking about the format 0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:34.960 of whatever the stupid thing that they have planned is 0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:37.839 going on. But behind the scenes, behind closed doors, he's 0:42:37.880 --> 0:42:39.839 like a regular guy that likes to just like hang 0:42:39.880 --> 0:42:42.360 out with people that he likes, like he loves Ben Higgins, 0:42:42.760 --> 0:42:45.520 and like there they interact like and I don't know, 0:42:45.560 --> 0:42:48.720 they just he he's a very normal guy. But also 0:42:49.200 --> 0:42:51.080 when he's on, he's on. When you strike up a 0:42:51.080 --> 0:42:53.799 conversation with him, he is witty as can be. So 0:42:53.920 --> 0:42:56.800 you've gotta you've gotta be ready for got on your tosta. 0:42:57.040 --> 0:42:59.400 He's great. All right, Let's say I think I can 0:42:59.440 --> 0:43:01.600 do one more here. How do you guys make the 0:43:01.640 --> 0:43:04.800 long distance work? This is from miss and will Leslie 0:43:04.880 --> 0:43:08.200 move to l A. How do we make long distance work? 0:43:08.640 --> 0:43:11.920 What's funny is when Leslie and I first started dating 0:43:11.920 --> 0:43:15.319 each other, she made this comment about something that she 0:43:15.400 --> 0:43:18.600 looks for a guy she and wants to be in 0:43:18.600 --> 0:43:21.600 a relationship with. She says, I want a guy with 0:43:21.680 --> 0:43:25.200 a stable job, a home, and some roots. And I 0:43:25.200 --> 0:43:27.160 looked at it. I was like, I quit my job 0:43:27.160 --> 0:43:31.640 a year ago, I rent a home with three of 0:43:31.680 --> 0:43:34.440 my friends, and I don't have any roots anywhere. So 0:43:34.440 --> 0:43:36.759 I'm sorry, but that's three strikes and the three swings in. 0:43:37.080 --> 0:43:39.960 He's still not out. Three strikes and you're not out, 0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:42.239 So you've got to be doing something right. And to 0:43:42.280 --> 0:43:45.200 the question how we make long distance work? Is because 0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:47.480 I don't have a nine to five office job at 0:43:47.480 --> 0:43:50.560 the moment, I don't have the roots that I need 0:43:50.600 --> 0:43:53.040 to be attached at all times. I e. Family, whatever 0:43:53.080 --> 0:43:56.799 it is. It allows me the ability to travel on 0:43:56.840 --> 0:43:59.319 a whim, just like she does, which allows us to 0:43:59.320 --> 0:44:02.080 spend more time together than apart. Yeah, and I think, 0:44:02.080 --> 0:44:04.399 you know, I think you get to know somebody better 0:44:04.560 --> 0:44:07.879 when you travel with him. Um. And so I'll say 0:44:07.960 --> 0:44:09.839 I feel like I've said this already. But we've only 0:44:09.880 --> 0:44:11.879 been together three months. But I feel like I've known 0:44:11.960 --> 0:44:15.239 him for longer than that because we have done so 0:44:15.320 --> 0:44:19.640 much together, whether that be scuba diving or jumping out 0:44:19.640 --> 0:44:23.040 of planes or having a ton of dinners together where 0:44:23.120 --> 0:44:25.239 we just talk and talk and talk. I don't know. 0:44:25.280 --> 0:44:27.320 I feel like we've done a lot, lots and lots 0:44:27.320 --> 0:44:29.239 of stuff. I've farted in front of Leslie for the 0:44:29.280 --> 0:44:32.520 first time. That was a while back. I feel like 0:44:32.560 --> 0:44:36.040 it was actually, I mean fine, Like I don't eet 0:44:36.040 --> 0:44:39.000 grossed out easily. I don't get uncomfortable very easily. Now 0:44:39.080 --> 0:44:43.120 if it was directed at him, you get uncomfortable pretty easily. 0:44:43.520 --> 0:44:47.239 I don't like farting parts I don't like. But not 0:44:47.280 --> 0:44:51.960 only that, but my request for Leslie is if she 0:44:52.000 --> 0:44:56.680 has to fart. That is so sexist, right sexist? It's 0:44:56.680 --> 0:44:59.520 not sexist. If I was dating a guy, I would 0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:01.200 not want to are in front of me either. I 0:45:01.280 --> 0:45:05.399 just that's not that. That is not a fair balance. Rip. 0:45:06.760 --> 0:45:09.640 You don't do it very often. I don't. It doesn't 0:45:09.640 --> 0:45:11.440 bother me. Sometimes I need to bring like a comedic 0:45:11.520 --> 0:45:13.560 light to the situation. So I'll just let a little 0:45:13.560 --> 0:45:15.759 fart fly lit a little squeak if you're if you're 0:45:15.760 --> 0:45:17.640 in a serious situation, I don't think that's going to 0:45:17.680 --> 0:45:19.359 go over very well. It's only happened once I think 0:45:19.440 --> 0:45:21.520 up till now. But all right, well, let me ask 0:45:21.520 --> 0:45:25.120 you this in a related question, what's the bathroom door policy? Closed? 0:45:25.520 --> 0:45:29.399 Both closed? I make her leave, Okay, to that point, 0:45:29.840 --> 0:45:32.399 if I do have to go number two, I make 0:45:32.440 --> 0:45:35.520 her leave the room entirely. He does. He does do that, 0:45:35.719 --> 0:45:39.719 which I'm totally fine with. Sometimes if we're in a 0:45:39.760 --> 0:45:41.360 hotel room, I'll be like, hey, can you put on 0:45:41.400 --> 0:45:43.000 the deck for like five or time minutes. He's asked 0:45:43.040 --> 0:45:44.640 that quite a few times. We've been in quite a 0:45:44.640 --> 0:45:47.320 few hotels together so far, and some of these strips, 0:45:47.320 --> 0:45:50.680 like Hondurious, a lot of those b ms were not solid, 0:45:53.800 --> 0:45:57.440 really out there. The best stuff comes at the end 0:45:57.440 --> 0:45:59.960 of the show. But I'm I, well, I wouldn't do 0:46:00.000 --> 0:46:02.600 that in front of you anyway, But I feel like 0:46:02.600 --> 0:46:06.440 I'm much more like open than you are. I sleep naked, 0:46:07.040 --> 0:46:09.600 I will pee in front of you, like it's not 0:46:09.640 --> 0:46:12.399 a big deal to me. I just there. I'm very 0:46:12.400 --> 0:46:15.040 open and person like that as well. But there are 0:46:15.080 --> 0:46:17.120 just certain things that I don't Number one in front 0:46:17.160 --> 0:46:19.359 of her is not okay either. He's done one time, 0:46:19.440 --> 0:46:22.160 maybe twice. I don't. I don't like to be in 0:46:22.200 --> 0:46:24.440 the same room as her while she's doing that stuff. 0:46:25.440 --> 0:46:27.799 I'm weird. I don't know, I'm really weird. I know 0:46:27.880 --> 0:46:30.960 that I'm weird. Let's put it out there. I'm weird. Okay, No, 0:46:31.000 --> 0:46:32.800 I don't think so. I think that's different from a 0:46:32.920 --> 0:46:34.919 person and have to do with your upbringing or whatever. Yeah, 0:46:35.000 --> 0:46:37.799 that's fine. I respect it, and that's all I can 0:46:37.800 --> 0:46:39.840 ask for you. It's free to respect it, which sometimes 0:46:39.880 --> 0:46:42.040 you do and sometimes you don't. Well, sometimes I have 0:46:42.080 --> 0:46:43.680 to pee and you're there, so it's going to happen, 0:46:44.560 --> 0:46:46.600 all right. Well, that that'll just about wrap up the 0:46:47.800 --> 0:46:51.000 ask Dean and Leslie anything episode Oh so bad, wasn't it? 0:46:51.080 --> 0:46:53.279 You were kind of dreading that. I wasn't dreading it 0:46:53.280 --> 0:46:54.840 by any means. You were a little worried about what 0:46:54.840 --> 0:46:56.880 people might ask. Well, there are certain things that I 0:46:56.920 --> 0:46:59.440 think are better left between the two of us, between 0:46:59.440 --> 0:47:01.080 the two of us, So that one, okay, didn't it? 0:47:01.080 --> 0:47:03.439 It was great that it was really fun. It was great. 0:47:03.520 --> 0:47:05.680 I love having Leslie in studio here. She really just 0:47:06.200 --> 0:47:09.680 exudes an air of confidence. She's got those big, beautiful 0:47:09.680 --> 0:47:13.440 meatball eyes for me to gaze at whenever. All right. 0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:15.200 He said that to me on Winter Games, and I 0:47:15.280 --> 0:47:18.040 was just like, what, Thank you so much for listening 0:47:18.080 --> 0:47:20.320 to this week's episode of Help I Suck at Dating. 0:47:20.760 --> 0:47:22.680 Big thank you to Beach Body. Don't forget to text 0:47:22.719 --> 0:47:25.359 Dean to three zero three zero three zero for your 0:47:25.400 --> 0:47:27.839 free trial membership. I promise you won't regret it. Big 0:47:27.880 --> 0:47:31.120 thank you to Leslie and Murphy thanks for having me. 0:47:31.200 --> 0:47:34.040 I'm sure you'll hear her again on this podcast. Um, 0:47:34.480 --> 0:47:38.120 we'll see obviously how it's responded to. But I mean, 0:47:38.120 --> 0:47:40.279 I think it's been going incredibly well. So this has 0:47:40.280 --> 0:47:42.840 been help I Suck at Dating. This is Dean Unglert, 0:47:42.960 --> 0:47:45.239 And maybe next week you'll all suck a little bit 0:47:45.320 --> 0:47:48.800 less at date. I Suck at Dating with Dean Anglert 0:47:48.880 --> 0:47:52.520 on I Heart Radio, or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.