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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife,

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Speaker 1: and she couldn't. She cleaned and cared for her children

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Speaker 1: and the man of the house, and of course she

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Speaker 1: didn't talk back.

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Speaker 2: She was both obedient and soft by nature.

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Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 2: We're good Mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 3: Who's single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all

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Speaker 3: their bad choices.

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Speaker 2: And found out they were so bad after all.

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Speaker 3: We're experts, overshares and your new besties.

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Speaker 2: Sit back and enjoy the ride. Welcome back to good

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Speaker 2: Mom's bad Choices. I'm Erica and I'm Jamila.

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Speaker 3: Happy Wednesday, bitches, and DJ.

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Speaker 2: You love in the house, butes, Is that gonna your

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Speaker 2: DJ drop? I have a confession.

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Speaker 3: I think I know my next my next adventure, my

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Speaker 3: next talent. I'm gonna be a meditation MC. So it's

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Speaker 3: like I'm gonna just like talk over the yeah, but

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Speaker 3: but like live at a festival. Live, Yeah, everybody, breathe, everybody,

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Speaker 3: feel your pleasure, move your hips. I told DJ Niche

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Speaker 3: drop some tracks. I'm just send them over. I'm a

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Speaker 3: DJ Niche Niche Niche Niche Niche.

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Speaker 4: I think I think I think they told me this,

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Speaker 4: that you did this at the and on top of

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Speaker 4: the mountain the other day.

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Speaker 3: I didn't.

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Speaker 2: I'm feeling it.

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Speaker 3: I think I think I need to do some some

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Speaker 3: empty meditation.

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Speaker 2: Here goes, Actually do it? Do it? Pick up?

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Speaker 3: Just hands me the microphone and then I tell Orlando.

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Speaker 2: He's like, right now. I was like, you're a hater.

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Speaker 2: Stop in my dreams. So I knew not to fuck

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Speaker 2: with you. You're a hater. Meanwhile, as she's like do it,

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Speaker 2: do it, she turns it on.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, you know we all need that friend.

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Speaker 4: Speaking of friends, did you go out last night?

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Speaker 3: I did, But apparently every Wednesday my new friend and

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Speaker 3: I met on my hike touring and does his thing,

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Speaker 3: except yesterday.

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Speaker 2: So we went and we left. So it wasn't this.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't the right day. It was the right day.

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Speaker 4: He wasn't there that day of always, it wasn't. It

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Speaker 4: wasn't like a vibe, No, oh, it was like, what

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Speaker 4: was it like in there? It's Anderson Pack's Club or something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Andy's.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to tell everybody our spot, but Andy's

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Speaker 3: on Wednesdays has live music.

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Speaker 2: It's really bombed.

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Speaker 3: It's really cute in there too. It's like a little bar.

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Speaker 3: Apparently it was an upstairs. I didn't know there's upstairs,

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Speaker 3: Nisha told me, because you know, Nisha's outside and there's

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Speaker 3: a little patio. It's not like some crazy line. It's

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Speaker 3: not very La like usual, like who who's the list

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Speaker 3: day at?

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Speaker 2: Who invited you? It's not like that yet. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think, I think I don't know. I don't I

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Speaker 2: don't know Anderson Pack at all.

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Speaker 3: I would imagine his spot would be like I feel

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Speaker 3: like he's there. I think he did it on purpose.

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Speaker 3: So it's like just very chill like last night. I

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Speaker 3: wanted to just let us in last week too, But yeah,

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Speaker 3: I was on a hike last week and I was

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Speaker 3: just sitting there and this guy we started talking and

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Speaker 3: he's like, come to Andy said ten I'm performing. I'm

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Speaker 3: like okay, And then I went and it was like amazing.

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Speaker 3: I danced for like two hours straight. I don't know

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Speaker 3: if anybody's familiar with going out in the LA area Holly, Hollywood, y'all,

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Speaker 3: but nobody dances. Historically, nobody dances. It's just not fun.

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Speaker 3: There's barely even a dance floor, so it's like, why

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Speaker 3: and live music, and then you need to hold on

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Speaker 3: to it like a treasure. So this is if I'm

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Speaker 3: going to be outside, it's probably going to be on

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Speaker 3: a Wednesday at Andy's.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, what happened to you last night? Were you

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Speaker 2: going to what'd you guys do?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 2: My homegirls?

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Speaker 4: She just came over and we drank tequila and talked

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Speaker 2: I went to a stuff life stuff, former stuff.

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Speaker 3: I went to an event this week with somebody we

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Speaker 3: met at the mom Juice event, and.

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Speaker 2: Within like twenty minutes, all.

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Speaker 3: The women were gathered around talking about deep stuff. And

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Speaker 3: I was like, is this a bitches do?

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Speaker 2: Like strangers? Hi? What's your childhood drama?

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Speaker 1: Me?

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Speaker 2: So, what happened to you? Literally? I was like, is

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Speaker 2: this like? Women are so has? Like are just so deep?

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Speaker 3: I mean, at least the women I'm around, because within

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Speaker 3: literally fifteen minutes, we're just talking about childhood trauma and

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Speaker 3: for a fact men don't gather around in small crowds

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Speaker 3: and talk about these things, which is probably the problem. True, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but also I'm like, are we too deep? Also, like

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Speaker 3: I don't sometimes you know what it is. I think women,

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Speaker 3: I think what's important that we have spaces like that,

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Speaker 3: But I also think.

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Speaker 2: That we confuse each other because we.

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Speaker 4: Can't wait to insert our experience into someone else's experience.

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Speaker 4: Like oh, like if I say, oh, I'm going through

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Speaker 4: a hard time with my boyfriend, oh girl, I did that.

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Speaker 2: I had the same problem, and let me tell you

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Speaker 2: how that ended up.

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Speaker 4: And then now this bitch on the other side is like,

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Speaker 4: oh my god, is that's gonna end up?

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Speaker 2: It's like I sometimes I feel like we.

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Speaker 4: Plant unnecessary seeds by oversharing, you know, Like I.

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Speaker 3: Think it's it just depends who you're asking, who you're

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Speaker 2: Well, if you're at a fucking party with a bunch

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Speaker 2: of bitches.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm basically having discernment of like what information and

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Speaker 3: what advice you're you're taking in. And it also depends

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Speaker 3: like if it's a yeah, I guess if it's a

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Speaker 3: Like it's it is you have to have the discernment

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Speaker 3: because you're the bitch that knows him. If you're getting

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Speaker 3: have a better understanding of this person than like Susie

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Speaker 3: Q on the street. I think, I don't know, it's

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Speaker 3: a it's a balance because I do feel like you're friends.

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Speaker 3: of know you, and so I feel like their usually

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Speaker 2: You know, you know it's been in like E R

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Speaker 4: Did you get bad advice and you're no, I just

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Speaker 4: I just no, No, I didn't get bad advice. But

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Speaker 4: I you know, I just I think I listen to

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Speaker 4: people talk so much, and I listen to women share

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Speaker 4: they've had. You know, I think a lot of times

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Speaker 4: we do that because yes, we want to be in

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean some people just want to a listening ear.

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Speaker 3: I also feel like, just in general, as humans, it

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Speaker 3: is it is human nature. You share something with me,

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Speaker 3: no matter what you're talking about, no matter what I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm always because it's the human it's the human nature.

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Speaker 3: I'm always going to be looking at looking at said

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Speaker 3: we do. We have a conversation. We are listening aka

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Speaker 4: No, I know, I think I think it's I'm not

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Speaker 4: saying don't do it, but I think I think the

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Speaker 4: person who is the listener also has to have discernment on.

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Speaker 2: Who they're sharing this with.

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Speaker 4: So like if they know that someone is really impressionable

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Speaker 2: Was that the right choice for them? Maybe maybe not?

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Speaker 4: You know, like, I think we're also in a society

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Speaker 4: you know, like this isn't serving me. I've definitely been

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Speaker 4: And I've been in relationships where I'm like, okay, and

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Speaker 4: or are there other things in the relationship foundationally that

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Speaker 4: your relationship.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I said the thing about discernment. But honestly,

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Speaker 3: this is another thing I feel okay in this relationship.

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Speaker 3: Of course, things are there's gonna be things that bother

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Speaker 3: me and things and I'm like, fuck this, nigga, fuck

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Speaker 2: I'm blowing it up.

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Speaker 3: But at my coreus core, I'm never leaving Orlando, and

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Speaker 3: I know that there's nothing anyone could tell me, even

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Speaker 3: I think I told one of our friends you just

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Speaker 2: And I was like, no, nigga, I'm just telling you

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Speaker 3: So I think I've never I've never been in a

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Speaker 4: But there also is a I think a need for

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Speaker 2: We're going to figure this out.

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Speaker 2: All right, well's not working. Oh you don't think it's

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Speaker 3: He was like, I'll call you back those times, Yes,

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Speaker 3: those were important that he say, bitch, have a seat

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Speaker 3: I know that I cannot see my life with this

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Speaker 3: I'll do it. I'm the friend. I'm like, hey, bitch,

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, I will sometimes I feel like.

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Speaker 3: I will be the voice of hey, bitch, you're wasting

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Speaker 3: you want to have another kid? Because this is not it? Like,

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Speaker 3: I sometimes think it's important to have a friend that's

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Speaker 3: going to reiterate the shit that you said that you

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Speaker 3: and I'm sure you can attest to this too. And

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Speaker 3: divorce at fifty, you know, eight years old, and I

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Speaker 2: Hey, girl, this is crazy.

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Speaker 4: What about when you hear about long term marriages that

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Speaker 4: the people that have stayed in those long term marriages

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Speaker 2: Right. Well, Well, I'm also like, was it always like this?

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Speaker 3: So I think I think women get into relationships and

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Speaker 3: which is inevitable. If you live with someone, you're changing,

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Speaker 3: you're growing, you're working. That's inevitable. But I always come

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Speaker 3: back to, well, was there ever passion? Was there ever?

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Speaker 3: Was there ever reassurance? Like you have to ask yourself realistically,

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Speaker 2: So I think those are important things too.

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Speaker 3: But again, like I think everyone should have discerned enough,

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Speaker 3: We poor, we become, we grow, we water and like,

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Speaker 3: just think there's a level of like honesty, like brutal

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Speaker 3: for some reason, we're just people pleasing or whatever.

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Speaker 3: We just tend not to have, But I don't believe

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Speaker 3: I wish I could say their names and call those

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Speaker 2: What the fuck are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Like and I and I and I have balance because

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Speaker 2: Then?

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Speaker 3: I'm patient, but I'm always going to be like, you

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Speaker 3: know you said this last week and the week before that.

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Speaker 3: Are you tired yet? I'm always gonna I try to

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Speaker 2: Are you telling?

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Speaker 3: Are you tired of this yet? Because this is what

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Speaker 3: it's important to like not insert yourself, but to reiterate

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I think that's what friend I think that's

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Speaker 4: what friendships are for.

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Speaker 2: But also, do you feel like you talk like.

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Speaker 3: I feel like women have a problem of telling the

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that's what we think about.

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Speaker 4: Like we think about like you saying you went to

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Speaker 4: very deep. I don't know if it got very dark, but

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Speaker 4: a familiarityness. But I I do notice that I noticed

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Speaker 4: think generally, No, I think women specifically do not always

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Speaker 4: maybe like it's just supposed to be, so there's nothing

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Speaker 3: I feel it feels like cheesy or braggy. I feel

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Speaker 3: like women like it's easy. Like I feel like women

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Speaker 3: have been told this lie that like the like it's

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Speaker 3: more relatable to complain, like, oh, my husband's such an

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Speaker 3: asshole like mine too, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: It's not like, oh my god, you know my man

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Speaker 3: Think it's so much he's so crazy did the dishes,

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Speaker 3: there's a level of oh, she's bragging or she's like

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Speaker 3: I tend to not downplay, but I'm not like I

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Speaker 3: I realized that, just in this relationship, that it's just

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Speaker 2: And I'm just wondering, what is that and.

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Speaker 3: What can we do to like switch that, Yeah, shift

439
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Speaker 3: that in our friendships and our and in the circles

440
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Speaker 3: of like our conversation because I think that's important.

441
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Speaker 4: No, I think that's I think that is important too,

442
00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:41,680
Speaker 4: because I think whenever someone asks you, so, how's Brian.

443
00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:46,000
Speaker 2: Like, you're gonna like maybe sprinkle a little positive. Just

444
00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:46,800
Speaker 2: got a new job.

445
00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:53,160
Speaker 4: But girl, you know, like that's because there is it's

446
00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:56,280
Speaker 4: like I don't want to sound too braggadocious, or maybe

447
00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,119
Speaker 4: we can relate more on this level because you're not

448
00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,359
Speaker 4: in a relationship, so like I want to really to

449
00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,600
Speaker 4: you where maybe like there's something negative happening in your

450
00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 4: you know, like I don't know, but why do.

451
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:09,600
Speaker 3: We think that negativity is the common place of relatability

452
00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:10,399
Speaker 3: for some reason?

453
00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I think I don't know. We gotta work

454
00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:13,639
Speaker 2: on that, ladies.

455
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Speaker 3: I mean yeah, because I and I think just in general,

456
00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,959
Speaker 3: I read this and for those that are doing fucking

457
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 3: keep going, tell your friends.

458
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Speaker 2: I mean. But also I think.

459
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Speaker 3: I remember that girl online she's getting high that we

460
00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,200
Speaker 3: got annoyed withent because she got that boyfriend, and she

461
00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,200
Speaker 3: would have shut the fuck up about it, that one

462
00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,480
Speaker 3: you loved it loved to hat online. And then there's

463
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Speaker 3: sometimes I'm like, you know what, I think there's also

464
00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,159
Speaker 3: an underlying thing about like women breaking up, no, like women.

465
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:49,119
Speaker 2: Being so desperate, like I want a man so bad when.

466
00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:52,359
Speaker 3: My husband, Like, I believe in manifesting what you want,

467
00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 3: but I don't believe in forcing it. I believe, like

468
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Speaker 3: I think I wrote this in my notes, This was

469
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Speaker 3: a good one. What did I say? Oh, I said,

470
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Speaker 3: desperation reads.

471
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Speaker 2: Well.

472
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Speaker 4: I think there's a difference between desperation and doing what

473
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:08,000
Speaker 4: you just said, which is like talking positively about your

474
00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:11,160
Speaker 4: partner or your partner that's on the way, and being

475
00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 4: like I want my man, well my mom man gets here,

476
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:15,200
Speaker 4: he's gonna be dead. Da da da he We're gonna

477
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 4: do dad d Like there's nothing wrong with that.

478
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 3: Like Rosa who wrote who's writing letters to her husband?

479
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:21,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think.

480
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 4: I mean, I'll even admit, like maybe I was triggered

481
00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 4: by that girl because I wanted something that she that

482
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Speaker 4: she had, even though it was a little corny, even

483
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Speaker 4: though she's just you know what I'm saying, But at

484
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 4: at its core, like that shouldn't really bother me, you know.

485
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:38,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, why then there's a question why is it bothering?

486
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:38,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

487
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Speaker 4: I think I think for me, I just was. It's

488
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 4: more so like I think about the I'm always thinking

489
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Speaker 4: about the end. I'm like, damn, I'm gonna have to

490
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:49,959
Speaker 4: lead all those photos, all those sunset reels of eating

491
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:54,119
Speaker 4: oysters by the water and the rose petals to the beach.

492
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Speaker 4: And but then it's like, well, but like that's her

493
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Speaker 4: fucking life and its right, you know. So I think

494
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:01,879
Speaker 4: a lot of times when we feel triggered by what

495
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,880
Speaker 4: we see on Instagram, yes there's the discernment of us

496
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 4: knowing like okay, bitch, like this is not for real,

497
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,119
Speaker 4: and then also like okay, well I kind of I

498
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Speaker 4: want that. I kind of want that. I want that

499
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Speaker 4: to be for real for me.

500
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Unfortunately update they broke up. It

501
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 2: didn't work out, ended up.

502
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Speaker 4: Not working out. My dream couple. Ye, dream moneration couple

503
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 4: didn't work out. But you know, she's she's you know,

504
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 4: she's a boss bitch. She'll figure it out.

505
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Speaker 2: You know.

506
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Speaker 3: I've never been the type of bit like I'll delete

507
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,720
Speaker 3: like if there's an overload, but I'll leave a couple

508
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Speaker 3: for memories.

509
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:37,440
Speaker 2: I really will.

510
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 3: If you scroll back and them, you'll see every scene

511
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:41,440
Speaker 3: I forget to hide.

512
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 2: And think I hit everything. I hide everything.

513
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 3: I maybe, but there's you'll see some niggas that got

514
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 3: got kept on there by mistake, just because I said,

515
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 3: this is what happened, and you see the jerks.

516
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Speaker 4: The only time it doesn't get deleted is a I

517
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 4: look really good and I'm like this. I think there

518
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 4: is one photo of an ex that where you just

519
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 4: see his mouth and like below and I was like, an,

520
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 4: I'm in the photo and I look really good, and

521
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 4: it's my birthday, so this is going to stay up.

522
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 4: This is an important image. It's the only picture of

523
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 4: my birthday.

524
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 2: So what has to day?

525
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Speaker 3: I guess it's just like we're human, We're gonna something

526
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 3: is gonna stick around. Some are and we're also human

527
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 3: and we're stupid. So we've decided to record every single

528
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:23,120
Speaker 3: detail and oyster beachside oyster of date of our lives.

529
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 2: So yeah, this is where we're at now.

530
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Speaker 4: So including our sex tapes and our hidden folders, like

531
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Speaker 4: at any time that at any moment could be retrieved

532
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:36,360
Speaker 4: by the government anyway, what do you mean the government

533
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 4: just you know, there's just no boundaries. We can anything

534
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 4: can happen. I don't think that.

535
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 2: I don't they can retrieve our photos from the iCloud.

536
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 2: What is the fucking iCloud?

537
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 4: At this point, they're buying. They're buying everything. They're buying TikTok,

538
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 4: they're about to go out by.

539
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 2: Not about that.

540
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 3: Like I started getting is when they feed me certain

541
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,919
Speaker 3: jokes about illegal things, and like, are they making a

542
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 3: profile on me my porn searches, like the secret memes

543
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 3: I send people like they're making a profile, like drinks

544
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:12,199
Speaker 3: tequila goes to the bar, she hates the government.

545
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 2: They're literally there's a profile.

546
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 3: They're like, she likes she likes this kind of porn,

547
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 3: telling you it's like the book The Circle.

548
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 2: Read the book the fucking stressed out in it.

549
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 4: Anyway, is there time for bad choice of the week?

550
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 4: She we have a bad choice of the week submission bad.

551
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Speaker 1: Mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom so good.

552
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 2: This is from a OG.

553
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 3: Listener shout out to I'm going to keep you anonymous,

554
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:51,199
Speaker 3: but you know who you are.

555
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 2: A baby. Her bad choice of the week is left

556
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Speaker 2: the baby with.

557
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Speaker 4: Grandma, so me and the wife could eat molly and

558
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:02,679
Speaker 4: have sex in the forest.

559
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 3: I think I know who this is. Do they live

560
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 3: in this state?

561
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 2: Molly?

562
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 4: What this says Molly and shoots in the forest? What

563
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 4: does mean have shoots like photo shoots?

564
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,199
Speaker 2: Well, I did see a picture, so I don't know.

565
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 2: I think of like mushroom shoots. I don't know.

566
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is an excellent choice. I love doing Molly

567
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 4: and Shoots in the store in the forest.

568
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 3: Molly in the Forest sounds like really fun.

569
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Speaker 2: I want it's a pretty magical camp again camp. Yeah,

570
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 2: camping was really fun. Yeah, I would.

571
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Speaker 3: I would go to Joshua Tree, or we could just

572
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Speaker 3: go Joshua Tree and stay in a nice house.

573
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 4: I would go yirding, you know, I'm go yirding. So

574
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 4: it's like a substantial tent. That's bit they built it.

575
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 4: There's maybe a flooring underneath.

576
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 2: There's canvas, but there's maybe camp or yeah, you know.

577
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, if I had to get down on my knees

578
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,479
Speaker 4: and get into the tent, I would if I had to,

579
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 4: But I don't have to.

580
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:56,199
Speaker 2: I don't want to.

581
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Speaker 3: Can we can we be really madice at this, but

582
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 3: can we podcast in the wild and go camping? Yeah?

583
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 2: You could? You need to bring back.

584
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 3: Podcasting in the wild. This is a question for you

585
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 3: to the people.

586
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, do we? I mean it was it was fun.

587
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 2: It's fun.

588
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 4: If you haven't checked out our podcasting in the wild,

589
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 4: would you call it a.

590
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:19,679
Speaker 2: Segment a.

591
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 3: Series called Podcasting in the Wild at the top of

592
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 3: this year, right last last year?

593
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, not this year, last year, last year. Yeah.

594
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 3: Sure, And we went to a soul food restaurant. We

595
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Speaker 3: got botox and very important, very important content.

596
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Speaker 2: The mountain.

597
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,640
Speaker 3: We walked through Santa Monica.

598
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 2: Where else did we do? We went to my mom's house.

599
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 2: We did go to your mom's house. Yeah, we laid

600
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Speaker 2: by the pool.

601
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Speaker 3: Actually, this was great. This We might need to bring

602
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 3: that back. I'm sick of I mean, I love the studio,

603
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 3: but maybe we need a new couch. But dms, if

604
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 3: you think we should go back to the wild because

605
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 3: I want to go camping or maybe the Joshua Tree,

606
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 3: which is kind of the same thing.

607
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 2: Do you have camping gear?

608
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:12,199
Speaker 1: Like?

609
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:13,639
Speaker 2: Do you have all the things that we're gonna are

610
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 2: you gonna know? I brought it from David. Oh, David,

611
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 2: do you have a grilled You have a grilled day?

612
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: Oh?

613
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 2: My god, we need to you have a whole kit?

614
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: He did?

615
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 3: I think we lost We lost the top to his tent,

616
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 3: so he may not ever let us borrow anything.

617
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 2: Ever, how did you lose the top? To know?

618
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 3: We had one from Nisha one from him and then

619
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,880
Speaker 3: they I think we have it. Just there's so many

620
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 3: there's so many bags. Like the only thing about camping.

621
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 3: I went with like seventy five people. It was insane,

622
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 3: but it was a lot of work. Like I felt

623
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 3: like a nature bitch, like peeing outside, like going up hills,

624
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 3: like going in the water in the morning and brushing it.

625
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 2: It just feels very nature. I don't know, I'm really immersed,

626
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 2: you know. And I did it for five days.

627
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 3: That's in an island like you couldn't get to.

628
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 2: I mean, there wasn't an island. That must have felt

629
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 2: really good for your nervous system. Yeah, to sleep outside

630
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 2: of me.

631
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 3: At the end, I was like, okay, this is a

632
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 3: small last ten I've been on the ground for five days.

633
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 3: But those first four day yeah, three and a half, yeah, half,

634
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 3: I was like, wow, we're fourth morning.

635
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. I went camping and Montana. It was beautiful. I

636
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,360
Speaker 2: know you did that thing right. It was so beautiful.

637
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 4: It was such a like important experience, and I think

638
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 4: every person should take, no matter what age.

639
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 3: Should we do a good mom's gone camping family trip.

640
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 2: Oh, good mom's gone camping like that.

641
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 3: I like that good mom's gone camping could be a

642
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 3: whole family trip.

643
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 2: We meet.

644
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 3: I have an idea to go exactly where I went. Okay,

645
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 3: and this we contribute. We all bring well, yeah, we'll

646
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 3: we'll provide the food. Papa oh will barbecue it. We'll

647
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 3: have a fire.

648
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: It'll be fun.

649
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 3: We'll sing camp songs to the window, to the wall.

650
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 4: When I did when I went into a on a

651
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 4: ship camp like we were on like a pirate ship.

652
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 2: We learned pirate songs. I forgot.

653
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 3: You told me that. And Martha Stewart right vineyard, Martha

654
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 3: Steward and Martha Stewart. You couldn't tell me that Martha's

655
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 3: vineyard wasn't Martha Stewart.

656
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 2: I thought it was just.

657
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 3: Her property, like that was her property, and we're going

658
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 3: to go see Martha.

659
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 2: That's a whole other Martha.

660
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 4: Martha's yeah, right, same vibes Martha's. Martha's mineyard might have

661
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 4: inspired Martha Stewart her aesthetic.

662
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 2: And Martha's a bad bitch. Fucking love her, God, I

663
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 2: really do.

664
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 3: She's vicious. She is vicious, She's fierce, She's can Martha

665
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 3: Stewart come? I think I damned her and no one

666
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 3: else wanted who Martha Stewart.

667
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to just you know, we need to

668
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 2: put a list together, write them down. We have a

669
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: list together. We need to have it on the wall

670
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 2: right there.

671
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 3: Maybe we need to put it in the middle and

672
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 3: like masturbate close to each other and then.

673
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 2: And then they'll call us.

674
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 4: She kem asked me the day, He's like, what would

675
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 4: mean one thing that would make you feel like you've

676
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 4: made it? And I was like, Eric abaud do on

677
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 4: my show and he was like, are you serious? Like,

678
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 4: I'm dead ass serious, I'm dead ass serious.

679
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 2: Yes.

680
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 4: Wait, did you see the thing I sent you about

681
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 4: the Chelsea Handler scam?

682
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 1: Oh?

683
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, we saw it. We got scammed.

684
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 3: We got scammed by Chelsea Handler. Guys, we were scammed.

685
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 3: I was so mad.

686
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 2: I still it really made.

687
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 4: My fucking day. We sent it to the group chat.

688
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 4: That's how serious this this scam was.

689
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 2: We emailed us.

690
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 3: Chelsea can you come on the show because Sammed, it's

691
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 3: not your fault or anything, but I just think it

692
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 3: would be a great collab and we can we can ski,

693
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 3: we can smoke.

694
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 2: Did you see the comment I wrote her? What you say?

695
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 4: I said, we were a product of your scamming and

696
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 4: I was like, we got really fucking excited, so can

697
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 4: you just come on the show. We can't wait to

698
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 4: ski down mountains with our tits out.

699
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 3: I was gonna see it, so anyway, eventually someone's gonna see.

700
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 2: There's a lot of scam.

701
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 4: When she broke down that scam, it made me think

702
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 4: of the other scam we're.

703
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 2: Also called scam.

704
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, people are scamming us right now, we're getting scammed.

705
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 2: Do we look like we should? Everyone else getting scammed?

706
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 3: But I really look like I don't feel like my

707
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 3: face says scam me. I feel like I say fuck off.

708
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 2: I don't know.

709
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 4: I don't think they give a fuck what you look like.

710
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,239
Speaker 4: It's just anyone who get scammed out here.

711
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 2: Wait, let me tell you.

712
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 3: We're in Costa Rica and we get offered like about

713
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 3: like a couple thousand dollars. It just seemed too good

714
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 3: to be true to do a pot live podcast. And

715
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 3: then we look at it and it's like a Christian

716
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 3: We're like, are they are they fucking with us? It

717
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 3: was like a very black Christian woman and she was

718
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 3: a real person. My cousin, my Christian cousin, was following her.

719
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, who's this, and she I was like, do

720
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 3: you think that this is real? She's like, probably not

721
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 3: because because she don't be talking about what you'll be

722
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 3: talking about. And I was Me and Erica really had

723
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 3: to have a serious conversation with it with ourselves, like

724
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 3: I don't think she's reaching out to us.

725
00:31:58,640 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 2: I don't.

726
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 4: I don't think it's really it's not. We're not doing this.

727
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 4: Come to find out, people are scamming you for your Facebook.

728
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 2: Then we got in the call.

729
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 3: So it's like a black woman in DC and we

730
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 3: get in the call and it's like an englishman ausy

731
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 3: like yeah, yeah, so she just does a Facebook live

732
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 3: and we're like what he I think he knew we

733
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 3: were on to him, so he was like, let me follow.

734
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 2: I was just like, why would this Christian black woman

735
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 2: asking many questions. I was like, because we're not stupid.

736
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 2: I don't have scammed me.

737
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 3: On my face, but but the money almost scammed me.

738
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 3: I know, crazy, what money will do?

739
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 2: I know?

740
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 3: I was like yeah, I was like Eric Canty slaves.

741
00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 3: So this was like Eric, no, yeah, I know. I'm

742
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 3: glad we didn't fall for those who.

743
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 2: Were too smart. Our intuition are spidey isn't too strong.

744
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 3: We've done lives where we got paid easily and it

745
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:51,959
Speaker 3: wasn't a scam, so I understand, but it didn't seems.

746
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 2: I mean, I really believe.

747
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 3: Chelseat watch out people. I believe Chelsea handler that really.

748
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 4: But you know what, I'm glad that she spoke. Thank you, Chelsea,

749
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 4: because we were waiting still. I was gonna wait forever.

750
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 2: Literally, I was gonna wait.

751
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 4: I was willing to wait forever. Now I know I

752
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 4: just have to keep trying follow back up. At least

753
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 4: now I know I'm gonna start dming you again, and

754
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 4: you know, we'll start there again.

755
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 3: I feel like we're gonna I'm gonna see her like

756
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 3: in La somewhere in an event, and I'm just gonna

757
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 3: pull up.

758
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 2: Like, hey, do you want to take a shot? Yeah?

759
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 2: I know, I do. I know you do. Come on? Also,

760
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,480
Speaker 2: do you want to come on my podcast? Yeah? That's

761
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 2: what I feel like. It's going to be a run in.

762
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 2: It's going to be a running situation. You know what.

763
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 3: We're not in a good season for podcasts, Like it

764
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 3: doesn't sound cool. There's so many podcasts if you like,

765
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 3: slide up next to someone and they don't know you're

766
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 3: got to part and you're like, hey, do you want

767
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 3: to go on my podcast?

768
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 2: They're like, you know, like next to the wrong girl

769
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 2: at the party.

770
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 4: No, you gotta just be you gotta be people's friends.

771
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 4: You gotta be cool, be people's friends. You actually might

772
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 4: have to get to know Chelsea hand the first.

773
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:57,719
Speaker 3: Oh, I feel like we are going to be really

774
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 3: good friends. That's like half the reason that I should

775
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 3: go on your show.

776
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, she probably already seen us. Most people have seen us. Yeah.

777
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 2: Does that sound bragadocis No, it's the internet. See.

778
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 4: I think we just have to be honest with ourselves

779
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 4: and speak even if most people haven't seen us.

780
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 2: Now and you're gonna see us. You can see us.

781
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 2: You will see us. You see us? Do you see us?

782
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 2: Recognize us? Listen to us? Look at this face? Do

783
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 2: you see me? Remember? I see you? I see you,

784
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 2: I see you? You see me? I really see you?

785
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 2: I see you too? Do you see me? I see

786
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:39,760
Speaker 2: how do I look? You look great? Great? Oh my god?

787
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 2: They say, I know. Wait, we had some horries. Oh

788
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 2: the bad choices.

789
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 3: Oh I named one, I did one, I read one.

790
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:50,760
Speaker 3: Oh it was our og listeners. Oh right, I'm high

791
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 3: speaking of bad choices. Last week, we had a caller,

792
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 3: I mean a caller, yeah, rite someone write in and

793
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 3: he said he gave another bitch some money. Even has

794
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 3: a girlfriend, and I I said how much money? And

795
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 3: so we followed up, and I thought that we should

796
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 3: let you guys know, because when she messaged me, I

797
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 3: was pissed, like I was the girlfriend.

798
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 2: How much was it? Eighteen hundred? Eighteen fucking hundreds?

799
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 3: I found out my man gave another bitch eighteen hundred dollars.

800
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 2: I told you last week.

801
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 3: I get mad at my man gave him bitch twenty dollars.

802
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 3: Why the fuck are you sending this bitch twenty dollars

803
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:27,800
Speaker 3: for one drink?

804
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 4: I mean wait, wait he said. I said, do better, sir.

805
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 4: I responded, you were pissed. I said, do better, sir.

806
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 4: He said no, because the other girl was into pegging

807
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:40,400
Speaker 4: men and my girl is not.

808
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:42,760
Speaker 2: That's the full update.

809
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,399
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, let's talk about this.

810
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, there was Yeah.

811
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 3: Women, I feel like, well, obviously he's asked her and

812
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 3: she said no, Well then maybe you need to flip,

813
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 3: like if that's something you need in the relationship.

814
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 4: Wait, this person is following two thousand people, but only

815
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 4: has five followers, and it's like a hidden like it's

816
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 4: like a secret page.

817
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 2: Let mess ite like, do I know this person?

818
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 3: Is it your crazy stalker? Who the one who's emailing everybody?

819
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 2: Is it? Maybe? He emailed me again? He responded, He

820
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 2: responded to this, Actually.

821
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 3: That's one who said he gave someone.

822
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't believe it. Why you thought because

823
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 2: it's not a real page the stalker? I mean, people

824
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 2: are weird. I feel like it's someone different.

825
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,800
Speaker 3: We've had some pretty interesting online relationships in the DMS.

826
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 2: We are wait live update. Are you ready?

827
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:45,800
Speaker 4: I just opened INSTAGRAMA Cardi B just snatched a getting

828
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 4: snatched a Guinness World record after selling the most signed

829
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 4: items in eight hours for who for I.

830
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 2: Am the Drama.

831
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,479
Speaker 3: She's the most signed items in eight hours? She set

832
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 3: the record. Her hand is she okay? She likes shit,

833
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 3: I'm pregnant. Let me sit down and break some records

834
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 3: and makes something to drink. Yeah, us, it's fine.

835
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 2: Why would they have a sign?

836
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 3: I love her? This is just feeding into the am

837
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 3: I the Drama. This is this is this is excellent marketing.

838
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 2: Did you see the best market I've ever seen? In

839
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 2: the video, I said to you. She was like, he oh,

840
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 2: baby daddy, my baby daddy too.

841
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 3: I'm stopping it out. They're making mac and cheese for kids.

842
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 3: Maybe daddy on me too. She's like, oh, well, and congratulations,

843
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 3: you're right.

844
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 2: Ship.

845
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 3: She is over here setting Guinness World Records for random

846
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 3: ship because she is, in fact the drama and I

847
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 3: fucking love it. Can We said, is there something we

848
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,240
Speaker 3: got to think of? Something random to sead of Guinness

849
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 3: reel records. I could just add that to my list

850
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 3: of like, what's something like?

851
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,760
Speaker 2: Uh, I on a podcast? Do you have a podcast?

852
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 3: I'm on the Guinness World Records for sucking the most

853
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:57,759
Speaker 3: lollipops in twenty minutes and.

854
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 2: Get in get into the gam fastest. Hurry me, like,

855
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 2: go harder, harder. Look at I've eaten.

856
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 3: I may I've sucked a blow pop to the gum

857
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 3: the fastest in all history of America.

858
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. The apple flavor? Is that your favorite? Yeah?

859
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 2: That is a good flavor. I like the apple flavor.

860
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 2: I like blow pops. I don't like titsy pops.

861
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 4: I don't want tisty pops either. That that goes together

862
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 4: first of all, Yeah, that filling is not it it

863
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 4: tastes like what a motherfucking owl would want to eat

864
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 4: some fucking some bullshit.

865
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 2: I like apple Jolly, I like Jolly ranchers. I also like,

866
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 2: what are those airheads? My god, is so sour?

867
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 4: Like this, the long ones that they're like, oh, oh,

868
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 4: you know what I'm talking about, right, those little airhead balls,

869
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 4: like they're like you suck.

870
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 2: On them, and they're super super sour. They're called sour

871
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 2: sour heads. Sourheads. They're not sour. E didn't try as

872
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 2: an adult. They're like a little sour. Are some of

873
00:38:56,719 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 2: these candies retired never to be eaten again? No, there's

874
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 2: so there. We could like find them on the internet. Yeah.

875
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 3: Maybe we're talking like this because Halloween, our favorite season,

876
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 3: is coming up.

877
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 2: It's a coming. Oh, by the way, do you know

878
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 2: what you're gonna be for Halloween?

879
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 3: I was actually thinking about running back the costume really

880
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 3: actually I have me and Orlando have one that's I'm

881
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 3: really excited about.

882
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,919
Speaker 2: What is it? I can't tell you why? What the fuck?

883
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 3: It's not gonna be as fun. Oh okay, that's what

884
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 3: we're at. Whoa we're not I'm sharing Halloween costumes together?

885
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 2: Wow? Well, this is just one.

886
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 3: We're gonna have like we should have five, Okay.

887
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:35,479
Speaker 2: Just get away. I seen the movie, so it doesn't

888
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 2: even fucking matter, is yes? Oh yeah, I can't, like,

889
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 2: how are we even? I watched some of it.

890
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,359
Speaker 4: I fall asleep. You know, TV turns like my brain off.

891
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 4: So I'll try again.

892
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:50,839
Speaker 2: I'll try again. This is for the yeah. Oh.

893
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 3: Also, I don't know if I told you that I

894
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 3: bought us tickets to the Craft Hollywood Cemetery.

895
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 2: Thank God, What day is that? I don't know. It's

896
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 2: in my It's in October. It's in my phone. You

897
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 2: gotta look for it. Light up. Yeah, if you.

898
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 3: Guys are in the LA area Hollywood, we meet us

899
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 3: at Hollywood Cemetery to watch the Craft. I don't know

900
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 3: if you guys are just joining us. But October the fall,

901
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,320
Speaker 3: we just hit the fall equinox. This is our season

902
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,720
Speaker 3: outside of Hot Girls Summer, which is my birthday.

903
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 2: Scary spooky witch season. Fall is our other spooky bitch witch. Yeah,

904
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 2: scoop spooky witchat up the Brew.

905
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is our other timer, Like I don't know,

906
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 3: it's going to watch scary movies and buy skeletons and

907
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 3: do spooky shit and eat soup even though it's eighty

908
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 3: seven degrees and it's important.

909
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 2: I know.

910
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 4: I was just I was just saying that I wish

911
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 4: it would be. I was like, can it just be

912
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 4: like sixty seven today? I just need it to be

913
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 4: a nice sixty seven. I can wear a hoodie if

914
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 4: it's gloomy in the morning. Need be it's like cool

915
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 4: enough in LA, but not hot and left to make

916
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 4: me sweat in a sweatshirt.

917
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 3: It will probably be baser until February here.

918
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 2: Is that sweatshirt season anywhere else? Definitely? I don't know,

919
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 2: but with like global warming, maybe not.

920
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 4: Well, you know what my friend who came over was

921
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 4: basically said, by twenty fifty, like LA basically only like Sweden, Denmark,

922
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 4: Canada all these other countries are going to be the

923
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 4: last man standing because everything else is going to like

924
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 4: be so hot and unlivable below.

925
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 3: The equator in twenty five years. Yeah, like soon, you

926
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 3: know when you tell me things like that. And then

927
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 3: I said, the rocking was also last week, and I

928
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 3: think working out.

929
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 2: We don't we really don't even want to live to

930
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 2: one hundred. What are we working out?

931
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 3: Yeah?

932
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 2: Why are we even? Like because because like I honestly,

933
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 2: one hundred might be pushing it. Working at first feels good.

934
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 2: We just have to reframe.

935
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 3: Working out doesn't have to be going to the gym,

936
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 3: you know, moving our bodies.

937
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 2: And this shit really blowed down. That's an option also,

938
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 2: I think we should.

939
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 4: Can we find a balance between like in the middle,

940
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 4: so that like by the time we die, where our

941
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 4: bodies are not in bad.

942
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 2: How long Ozzie Osborne lived. It's rare though.

943
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 4: There's a few people that preserve by drug, you know,

944
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 4: like there's people created to preserve by drug. He's one

945
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:15,240
Speaker 4: of them.

946
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 3: I feel like, what's the other guy.

947
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 4: Mick Jagger is one of them? Like there's some people

948
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 4: that have preserved by drugs.

949
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 2: Like the alcohol has for mel to hide at their

950
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 2: body like.

951
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 4: Yay Yang twins. Like these are a few people that

952
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 4: have preserved. Trick Daddy, I mean, rest in peace. But

953
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 4: like you, Trick Daddy, Trick Dady is not dead. Oh wait,

954
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:34,440
Speaker 4: never mind, He's like.

955
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 2: Why would you kill what the fuck you sick bitch?

956
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 2: I didn't know. I thought he died. Maybe it's a'm I.

957
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 3: Thinking, I don't know, Notady, wrong, you are killing Oliver,

958
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 3: all of our legenes Okay, who's the like this coolioh Okay,

959
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 3: sorry Coolio.

960
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 4: He died, Yeah, he died. That's what I was thinking

961
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,240
Speaker 4: about for trick Daddy the braids. But no, trick Daddy

962
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 4: did not die.

963
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 2: But trick Daddy was looking like he was about to die.

964
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 2: He was looking yad, he's nice. Think he has some

965
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 2: kind of Oh my pad.

966
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:19,919
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, very very very very sorry, trick Daddy, I hope.

967
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 3: And then there's Chaer who got young Dick to preserve her.

968
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 3: I think it's the black young Dick. There are vampires

969
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 3: among us, and we are watching them like shares of vampire.

970
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 2: Christian is a vampire.

971
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 4: Like we see how they become youthful with like melanated there.

972
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 4: I feel like there's living vampires and there we see them.

973
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 4: They like culture vulture from society, but they're kind of likable.

974
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 4: They're getting younger somehow, they're getting younger and more successful

975
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:54,720
Speaker 4: and richer.

976
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 2: They're literally vampires period.

977
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 3: There's organ harvesting, there's a lot, there's sex traffickings in

978
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 3: all time.

979
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 2: I there's a lot of crazy shit. You know what.

980
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 3: I realized, we're gonna have to talk all of our

981
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 3: crazy me all of our crazy conspiracy theory things on Patreon.

982
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 3: You can say like full sentences and we should just

983
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 3: not get scared and like censored and maybe they're gonna

984
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 3: come for us.

985
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 2: So maybe I don't know. No, I think you're right.

986
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 2: I think I was not about that. I can't even

987
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 2: speak freely. I'm scared, you know. Sweet.

988
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 4: After last week's episode, David comes in, he goes, what word?

989
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:36,919
Speaker 4: And I was thinking, like, how many people last week

990
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 4: are like, what is the c K word?

991
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, y'all don't know what the K word is?

992
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 3: I think they know it was only David because he

993
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 3: lives under rock. Oh, they speaking of censorship. They brought

994
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 3: Jimmy Kimble back, right, What did you think about that?

995
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 4: I'm still unsubscribed even though my account goes told.

996
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:58,919
Speaker 2: I don't know. I told I like, had this whole

997
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 2: talk with ire. I was like, saturd down. I was like, honey,

998
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 2: we're going to delete Disney. We're deleting Disney. Honey, it's

999
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 2: so breaking every child. I literally had this conversation with her.

1000
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 4: I sat down with her because I was like, I

1001
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 4: didn't want to just delete it and be like because

1002
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:10,879
Speaker 4: I said's out.

1003
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 2: You know, I was going to do that too. I mean,

1004
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 2: you're got to tell this.

1005
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 4: So I was like, so listen, we're deleting Disney, like

1006
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 4: free speech is under attack and we can't, like we

1007
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 4: have to start making these uncomfortable choices household and get

1008
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 4: used to it. That what like it's it's going to

1009
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 4: be required of us in this time, in a season

1010
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 4: of everybody wants to be comfortable.

1011
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 2: What is she said, and she said.

1012
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 4: But why She's like, mom, but why and then and

1013
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 4: then I said, because we have to. And then she

1014
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 4: said okay. She didn't really push back. I was like,

1015
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 4: all right, So I deleted it all proud of myself.

1016
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:49,280
Speaker 4: And it was like your subscription ends like November first,

1017
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 4: because you just paid four days ago or some shit.

1018
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, well we still have it, but

1019
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 4: I'm not going to resubscribe to it.

1020
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 2: I don't know, Like we talked about this before, about.

1021
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 4: Like protesting and like you know, just the impact of

1022
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:05,359
Speaker 4: like when then when the DEI stuff happened, and like

1023
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 4: seeing the impact has had on target and like if

1024
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 4: we did that more and it was a more collective effort,

1025
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 4: like the influence we have, not just black people, humans

1026
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 4: in general have over capitalism, which is really what runs America.

1027
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 4: But because they've groomed us to always need to be

1028
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 4: in comfort, it's so inconvenient, you know, and so and

1029
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 4: it feels like that what's my thing going to do?

1030
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 4: What's one what's one thing going to do? So now

1031
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 4: we see what it does, and we continue to see

1032
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 4: what it does, and hopefully like things happen in move

1033
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 4: because of it, and people I don't know, like I

1034
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 4: hope that people don't resubscribe, although like there are you know,

1035
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 4: it's it's going to impact people that have nothing to

1036
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 4: do with this, you know, like the Avid elementaries like

1037
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:52,840
Speaker 4: that were loved, like talking about like people have created

1038
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 4: who create creations on these channels, you know, the access,

1039
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 4: it's the access it's given communities like ours to like

1040
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 4: ribe and with so it's like, but I feel like

1041
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 4: things some people have to be casualties.

1042
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 2: Okay, elementary can go anywhere. And that's what I was saying,

1043
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 2: and that's what I was saying about Jimmy Kimmel.

1044
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 3: I was like, so are we resubscribing or are we encouraging.

1045
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,240
Speaker 2: People like Jimmy? I feel like creators to go create

1046
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 2: their people anymore. I don't be very I don't see

1047
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 2: these channels anymore.

1048
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 3: When he came with his speech, and I granted he cried,

1049
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 3: I'm sure it was very emotional when he's like, what

1050
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 3: the fuck I just lost my job overnight and having

1051
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 3: an after a job for having you know, twenty years.

1052
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 3: But I think that it's a little bit manufactured. I

1053
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 3: think now he is going to be.

1054
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 2: His comeback was manufactured. Did you watch it? I just

1055
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,840
Speaker 2: heard it. Yeah, I saw like a monologue. Yeah, it

1056
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 2: was his monologue and he cried and he cried. Yeah,

1057
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 2: oh I'm as that. Yeah, and what does he cry about?

1058
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 3: He never meant to make make light of somebody's death.

1059
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 4: Has he ever done that before? I'm just wondering if

1060
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 4: he's ever made a light of anyone's set before. And

1061
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 4: it wasn't the big I'm pretty sure. And but he

1062
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 4: wasn't making light of the guy's death.

1063
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 2: I know it.

1064
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 4: I mean he was talking about the guy's death in

1065
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 4: relation to it not being of Trump's priority at all.

1066
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 2: I was really saying that he wasn't really concerned. Yeah,

1067
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 2: but I don't know.

1068
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 3: I feel like when you work for those big conglomerates

1069
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 3: news news outlets, radio, like it's no secret, you guys,

1070
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 3: that everything is orchestrated to you know, control the masses.

1071
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 3: It's not like, it's not rocket science. And I think

1072
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,399
Speaker 3: that you have to always consider that there's a level

1073
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 3: of censorship that you know, if I say this was

1074
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 3: my fucking job, right, and because they just showed you

1075
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 3: last week, so you're going to tread lightly, you know.

1076
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 2: It's like, the reality is.

1077
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 3: We we we've been under the illusion that we live

1078
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 3: in a democracy and it hasn't been that in quite

1079
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 3: some time.

1080
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:57,280
Speaker 2: And that's what's really scary.

1081
00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 3: When you're under the illusion and the masses of people

1082
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 3: are delusional enough to believe it and not recognize that

1083
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 3: this is orchestrated and controlled.

1084
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 2: And that there's a narrative and.

1085
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,879
Speaker 3: It looks like democracy and it's some other ship. It's

1086
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 3: some puppeteer shit. It's it's disappointing. But the truth is

1087
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 3: it's not.

1088
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 2: It's never been that, So stay woke, stay vigilant. It's true.

1089
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 2: So basically had the move to Switzerland, Denmark, Sweden.

1090
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:37,320
Speaker 3: Actually I was on a call with some other intimacy

1091
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 3: people and she was moving, Yeah, like Switzerland or something

1092
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,359
Speaker 3: over there was on the border of some other ship

1093
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:50,720
Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, that's random, but I write that down.

1094
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 2: I don't want to live there. I don't think I

1095
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:58,279
Speaker 2: meant what did she say? I don't know if I

1096
00:49:58,320 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 2: believe her. I don't want to.

1097
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:07,479
Speaker 3: I mean, maybe lovely, don't control cold. You can finally

1098
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 3: wear those first right now? You said you wanted seasons,

1099
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 3: not one. I mean, I guess I think there's seasons.

1100
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right. I don't know.

1101
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 4: I'm just whatever's gonna be is gonna be, you know

1102
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. So just fucking enjoy the ride.

1103
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:29,840
Speaker 2: Yeeha, yeehah. Yeah. Is that the affirmation whatever's gonna be

1104
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 2: is gonna be?

1105
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 3: Yeahah yeah, bitch yeah, bitch, rock out with your balls out.

1106
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 2: I think we already had. Okay, well, now.

1107
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 3: It's whatever's gonna be is gonna be.

1108
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna pick a card. Okay, there's a horror story

1109
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 2: stories horrorsh story if you could call it that. Oh gosh,

1110
00:50:59,080 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 2: don't disappoint me.

1111
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 4: Ended a relationship, and shortly after ended up having my

1112
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 4: first threesome with two gentlemen who owned a cannabis company

1113
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 4: together and were roommates in college. At three am when

1114
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 4: they realized there was only one condom left and both

1115
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 4: of them wanted to have sex with me. They rock

1116
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:18,840
Speaker 4: paper scissors, battled for three rounds. Wait, where's the rest

1117
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:20,480
Speaker 4: of the story, right?

1118
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 3: The rock paper scissors for the last condom is epics

1119
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:26,959
Speaker 3: and she's telling me in the middle like.

1120
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 4: Wait, I'm around, come on, it was just okay there

1121
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 4: it is okay, they okay, let's start this over horrors story,

1122
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:49,759
Speaker 4: if you could call it. That ended up ended a

1123
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 4: relationship and shortly after ended up having my first threesome

1124
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 4: with two gentlemen who owned a cannabis company together and

1125
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 4: were roommates in college. At three am, when they realized

1126
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 4: there was only one condom left and both of them

1127
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 4: wanted to have sex with me, they rock paper sais

1128
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 4: are battled for three rounds for who was going to

1129
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 4: go to the store?

1130
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:09,800
Speaker 2: Well, not not doing not do it?

1131
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 3: Like bye, niggae, I got it?

1132
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 4: No, because why why would we not want both? Come on,

1133
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 4: let's get this together. Someone's about to go get this

1134
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 4: condat go to the store.

1135
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 2: I want both.

1136
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 4: It went to sunrise and was equal part sexy and

1137
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 4: hilarious because of how attuned to each other and secure

1138
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 4: in the dynamic. Also not American, so that helps. It

1139
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 4: felt pretty great to experience that after being single for

1140
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 4: the first time in almost eleven years.

1141
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 3: That's a really nice way to pop your cheriot eleven

1142
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 3: year relationship. Hell yeah too, my motherfucking sex god is Yeah. Yeah,

1143
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 3: there's something about having sex with two men that are

1144
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 3: both like adorning you that I don't know Ulicia's like

1145
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 3: some kind of guy Like I feel like they do

1146
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 3: tell you not to do it on purpose, like there

1147
00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 3: is like a like an intuitiven sure, I'm.

1148
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 2: Like, oh, I'm supposed to do this rising oh the

1149
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:07,280
Speaker 2: sex goddess.

1150
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 4: I mean, that's how I thought of that sex party

1151
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:10,959
Speaker 4: when I was getting I didn't even have sex.

1152
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 2: They were pleasing me and massaging me, both.

1153
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 3: Of them, and I was just like, what the It's

1154
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 3: just like whomen are supposed to be served in that way. Yeah,

1155
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 3: it was a level of service that just yeah, I

1156
00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 3: didn't even know I could ask for had arrive, or

1157
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 3: it was even an option, or that they would care

1158
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:28,399
Speaker 3: that much. It's really that that you would even care

1159
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 3: that much about my pleasure, that you would move work together. Yeah,

1160
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 3: you would work together and remove any sort of like

1161
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 3: like societal expectation or story you might tell yourself and

1162
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 3: just fucking make it about me, because hello, yeah, like

1163
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 3: focus on what's important. This is about me. This is

1164
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 3: just do what needs to get done. I feel like

1165
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 3: that was a divine story, like only you know, people

1166
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 3: have like different ideas of God and how God shows

1167
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 3: up and like how God looks and like and I

1168
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 3: think we oftentimes in religion cut off like relating God

1169
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 3: to pleasure and actuality. But like that seems like God

1170
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,800
Speaker 3: assuring you into your single dim Like here you go, honey,

1171
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 3: this is this is a liberation you've been looking for.

1172
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 3: You made the right decision, and I'm escorting you out

1173
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 3: of your old relationship into a new this way, you know,

1174
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,839
Speaker 3: like it's like a not a rite of passage, but

1175
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 3: like there's something that it feels divinely aligned. And I

1176
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 3: know people would have some people have controversy over shit

1177
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 3: like that.

1178
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't get it. I literally don't

1179
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:29,879
Speaker 2: underget it. What why Like if it feels good, it's good.

1180
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 2: So anyway, that was beautiful. Thank you. It was a

1181
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:39,879
Speaker 2: beautiful horror story. That was beautiful. Tarot time, Terot time.

1182
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 2: I picked the two of wands and it looks pretty righteous.

1183
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 2: He's holding the world. He has two staffs.

1184
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 3: He looks like he's on his hassle, looking down at everyone.

1185
00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 3: The True of Wanes takes the spark of inspiration from

1186
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 3: the A Wands and turns it into a clear action plan.

1187
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 3: You went through the discovery phase and now and know

1188
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,240
Speaker 3: what you want to manifest. Now you need to figure

1189
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 3: out how you're exploring your options and carefully plotting out

1190
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 3: the path ahead, accounting for all possibilities and potential challenges.

1191
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 3: You are open to growth and exploring new territories. So

1192
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 3: long as you maintain a level of certainty, then your

1193
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 3: efforts will work out in the end. When the Two

1194
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 3: of Wands appears in the Tari reading, you are not

1195
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 3: ready to make your move. It is important that you

1196
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 3: established a clear plan before proceeding. We've got to make

1197
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 3: a clear plan if we're going to switcher in or

1198
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 3: The Two of Wands is also about discovery, particularly as

1199
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 3: you step outside of your comfort zone and explore new

1200
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 3: worlds and experiences. It may encourage you to set out,

1201
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 3: but this card gives you the confidence of self knowledge.

1202
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 3: You know what your goal is and are sure it's

1203
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 3: eventual fulfillment. Let your intuition and passion guide you as

1204
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 3: you confirm your next steps. I feel like that speaks

1205
00:55:57,680 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 3: to me or us right now.

1206
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 2: I think that.

1207
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,400
Speaker 3: We've done good moms for so long, and like doing

1208
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 3: things separately seems like uncomfortable and like.

1209
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 2: What alone me?

1210
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 3: I'm a human individual, and so it's like taking the

1211
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:18,799
Speaker 3: courage and study out and not like and stepping out

1212
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 3: of your comfort zone and exploring new worlds and experiences

1213
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,879
Speaker 3: and yeah, and the self knowledge, like acknowledging that we've

1214
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,440
Speaker 3: learned a lot in this process and giving ourselves like

1215
00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 3: credit and like not being so critical and saying, of

1216
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 3: course you could do anything you want and that's good,

1217
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:38,919
Speaker 3: and like sitting with that and not being I feel

1218
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:41,440
Speaker 3: like we live in a world that I feel like

1219
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 3: it makes sometimes expansion like so nerve wracking, like it

1220
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,400
Speaker 3: has to be perfect, it has to make money like

1221
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 3: or else. It's like I don't know, like there's a

1222
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:53,359
Speaker 3: perfectionism that comes with.

1223
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's definitely perfection, like the timing and the

1224
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 4: like yeah, like the.

1225
00:56:57,560 --> 00:57:01,319
Speaker 2: Rollout, what's the wrong? I don't know, I know what

1226
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 2: are the colors? I don't know what's the fun? FRANKT,

1227
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 2: How can I do it. If I don't have a

1228
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:08,360
Speaker 2: brand kit, What do you want to do with a

1229
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 2: brand kit? You don't have a fun so I want

1230
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 2: to make it up. That's an extra fee. That's an

1231
00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 2: extra fee because I don't know what your colors are.

1232
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 2: I can't do it. I don't know. I don't know.

1233
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm just like in the world of Canvaya.

1234
00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 4: I've been thinking a lot about like the reframing of

1235
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 4: gifts because like I've just that's that's where I've been lately,

1236
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,120
Speaker 4: like with me getting back into acting and like me,

1237
00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 4: you know, I went to New York Fashion Week and

1238
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 4: help my friend with with something that I was like.

1239
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 2: I could do this, Like I do this. I am

1240
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 2: a producer. I produce shows every.

1241
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 4: Stage behind the cameras, like I've I've done this in

1242
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 4: the yeah, like I've done this here, I've done this

1243
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 4: in other like other like realms, like with beauty, and

1244
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, what the fuck?

1245
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, like why am I?

1246
00:57:56,080 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 4: Why am I like putting these different even like almost

1247
00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:01,920
Speaker 4: like eras of my life and like I don't do

1248
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 4: that anymore. Now I do this and not really weaving

1249
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:06,920
Speaker 4: them together and seeing like how they can he make

1250
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 4: me multiple streets against streams of income because bitch, like, yeah,

1251
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 4: I don't.

1252
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the only way to really survive.

1253
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 2: And in the times we're in.

1254
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:18,520
Speaker 4: It's like my friend came over the other last night

1255
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 4: and she was telling me that she she's made like

1256
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 4: twelve thousand dollars doing this thing, this app called sniff

1257
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 4: Sniff Spot what okay?

1258
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 2: Sniff Spot is.

1259
00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 4: An app where people who don't have backyards can use

1260
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 4: your backyard to play with their dogs in the backyard.

1261
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 3: So play with their dogs.

1262
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like they live in apartments or maybe their dogs

1263
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 4: are aggressive, so they can't really go to like the

1264
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 4: park and run them around. And they live in an

1265
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:46,200
Speaker 4: apartment and they have nowhere, so there's a hole.

1266
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 3: She has like three hundred and fifty reviews. She's like

1267
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 3: top tiers. She made how many twelve thousand, how.

1268
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 2: Many dogs are in the backyard. They clean up their

1269
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 2: own shit. They clean up their own shit.

1270
00:58:57,000 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 4: But she's like a top like a cellar because she

1271
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 4: has like puppy treats since she has do chikabana like

1272
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 4: dog perfume, and she has bagels for the owners and

1273
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 4: like they.

1274
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:11,240
Speaker 2: Just be chilling.

1275
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 4: Sometimes they'll have she had a Great Dane party. There

1276
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 4: were seven Great Danes. Like people want to have puppy parties.

1277
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 2: I was only in La. I was like, damn do I.

1278
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 2: I brought her to my backyard. I'm like, She's like,

1279
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 2: it could be like a small puppy oasis. I could

1280
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 2: see it.

1281
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:31,760
Speaker 4: I was like, the branding that's happening for small Peppy

1282
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 4: and I.

1283
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 2: Was like, I could see it.

1284
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 4: And I was like, she said, she's like a dog lover,

1285
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 4: like she she saves dogs like every week from the shelter.

1286
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 2: And I told her. I was like, oh yeah, and

1287
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 2: then like my jacuzzie.

1288
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 4: She's like, oh my god. Yeah, the dogs could use

1289
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 4: the jaccuzzie. I was like, no, that's not what I met. Like,

1290
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 4: the humans could use the jacuzzie.

1291
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 2: What would the.

1292
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:52,480
Speaker 3: Dogs doing the jacuzzie? Bitch, it's too hot. They have

1293
00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 3: a fur car she has.

1294
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 2: She's a doggy pool for them in her backyard.

1295
00:59:56,520 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 4: She's top tier sniff spot Anyway, multiple streams of income.

1296
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 2: Is what I'm saying is.

1297
01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not thinking and I'm not I'm not

1298
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 3: thinking out of the box.

1299
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 2: You're not, We're not.

1300
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 4: Okay, we got to get creative and reframe our gifts.

1301
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 4: And that's kind of where I'm at right now in

1302
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 4: my life, is like really reframing the gifts because we

1303
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 4: have so many, so fucking many that can do so

1304
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 4: many different things. And I'm like, okay, and and and

1305
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Speaker 4: are creative and keep me creative.

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Speaker 2: So and thinking broader and yeah, So.

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Speaker 4: This is an invitation for you to reframe your gifts

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Speaker 4: if you're in a space in your life where you

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Speaker 4: feel stuck, or you want to shift careers, or you

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Speaker 4: just you need to like find the inspiration in the

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Speaker 4: thing that you used to love again, Like just think

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Speaker 4: about reframing the gift that you have, Like what does

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Speaker 4: it look like doing like having a different mechanism doing

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Speaker 4: something else, like being expressed in a different way, maybe

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Speaker 4: in behind the scenes role. Like for me, like I've

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Speaker 4: done so much in front of the camera over the

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Speaker 4: last few years that I forgot what it's like to.

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Speaker 2: Be behind the scenes. And I do enjoy that. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, it was great. I don't have I didn't

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Speaker 2: have to.

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Speaker 3: I was like, no pressure. I mean it's not like

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Speaker 3: it was great. I really enjoyed it.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, just being open to switching roles.

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Speaker 3: So as the season shifts you can just sit on

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Speaker 3: that and start to imitate on the new avenues of creativity,

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Speaker 3: the new ways of expression. Yes, yes, well anyway, y'all,

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Speaker 3: we love you. Thank you for joining us. Make sure

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Speaker 3: you rate and subscribe to our podcast. Follow us on

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Speaker 2: Year, and just click the links in the episode description.

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Speaker 2: Bitch okay, just go through them and look, look, look

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Speaker 2: at it, look at everything. Subscribe, review. There's a lot

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Speaker 2: of cool stuff there. There's discounts probably I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Just go look, love you bye bye.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so good, can't you sell? I went through a drought,

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Speaker 1: that's until I found out, Well may my have been

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Speaker 1: known earth? I used to be broken tail. Now I

1339
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Speaker 1: got the blues in ins like Beyonce J justa throat

1340
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Speaker 1: shot or pop in his cow wearing our voices. Patriarchy

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Speaker 1: kept it in the box to exploit it. Women put

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Speaker 1: the pee in power, so it's pointless. They want me

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Speaker 1: to be good, so I make bad choices. Bad mom,

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Speaker 1: not a bad mom, but a bad mom. It he's

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Speaker 1: in on the cannabis in their bathbon walked in Bosts

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Speaker 1: cap and I blew his cat ball, hop dog. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm immune to the cat called Herbie and no waisted

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Speaker 1: straight to it like a dollar sign. Mother, rent the

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Speaker 1: lover when too. It in like a water sumner where

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Speaker 1: you're rent the winter essential will when the summertime.

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Speaker 2: I do it all.

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Speaker 1: Ain't know when that needs to running by