1 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Grace on Serious x M Triumph 2 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 1: Channel one thirty two. Dalia Dippolito caught on camera in 3 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: two thousand and nine ordering a hit on her husband 4 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 1: the solicitations did you hear what? David and loved Joying 5 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: inspired for about a month to kill her estranged husband. 6 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: When the verdict was read, it was just too much 7 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: for one of the defendants. At one point, Diana loved 8 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: joy completely passed out the puppet master that was killing 9 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:44,160 Speaker 1: all the strings it. You know what that whole till 10 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,840 Speaker 1: death do us part thing? You know, I've been thinking 11 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: about that, but apparently so have a lot of other people, 12 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: and they're focusing more on the death part. I'm talking 13 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: about women who kill. But oh no, no, no, they 14 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: don't want to mess up their French manicure and do 15 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:08,960 Speaker 1: it themselves. Uh, no way. They want to outsource, hire 16 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: somebody to do it. And that's where everything goes sideways. 17 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 1: And here in the studio with me, Jackie Howard, Jackie, 18 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: we know as moms and wives, and you, of course 19 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 1: an ex wife. Let me just point that out. I'm 20 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: still a wife at this moment, you know, you know, 21 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 1: just do it yourself. Don't ask somebody else to do it, 22 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: or it will not happen, and if it does, you'll 23 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: have to redo it. Okay, she's saying, yes, everybody, but 24 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: these ladies, these women locked and matrimonial bliss. Again, We're 25 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: focusing more on the death part of those vows. I, 26 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 1: Nancy Grace, this is Crime Stories. Thank you for being 27 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: with us. Whatever happened to d I v O r 28 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: c E. You know you can get one practically free. Sorry. 29 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: Brian clay Pool Uh joining me, national criminal defense attorney 30 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: and trial lawyer for um wife turned would be killer 31 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: Dahlia de Polito. Dr Brian Russell, lawyer psycho. Oh, Brian, 32 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: he just had to go out and do us with 33 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: his degrees. He's not only a lawyer but a psychologist. 34 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: I guess he told you. Okay, Oh yeah, me too. 35 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 1: Host of Investigation Discoveries Fatal Vows. Dr Brian Russell with us, 36 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: Bobby Maxwell, Crime Stories investigative reporter, and Cheryl McCullum, director 37 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: of the Cold Case Institute, joining me in l A. 38 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: Alan Duke here in the studio. Jackie Howard still shaking 39 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: her head. No, everybody, thank you for being with us. 40 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: Why did these women kill. Why do they hire hit man? Well, 41 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: the goal standard, of course. I'm sorry, Brian, but you 42 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: have the dubious honor of representing Dahlia di Polito. Now, 43 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 1: her husband said she tried to kill him before with 44 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: poisonous Chai tea from Starbucks. Can't prove that. We've heard reports. 45 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: Brian Claypool has the cup in his dishwasher right now 46 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: and is refusing to turn it over. But listen to 47 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 1: this now, listen to this. This is police sound and video, 48 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: police confronting Dona de Pilito over her dead husband. Listen, 49 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: we had a report of the disturbance at your house 50 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: and there were shots fired. Is your husband, Michael? Okay, 51 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to tell you man, he's been killed. He's 52 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: been killed. Try to find up right now. We need 53 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: to get We need to get police. I can't look now. 54 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: We have to do our job. You want for finest killer? Okay? 55 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: We need you to calm up. I need you to 56 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: go with these defectives. Okay, does you have enemies? Is 57 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: there anyone that would want to hurt Okay? Who would 58 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: want to hurt him? Waitness you said this? Blackmail? Running 59 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: from the cantless them? I cannot do this right now. 60 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: I need you. I need you to take to the station. 61 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: I can't go with these detectives. If you want to 62 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: help your husband, okay, if you want to help your husband, 63 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: you need to go with you. If that's not enough. 64 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: You see Dahlia Dippolito bending over in pain with the 65 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: anguish at the prospect of being a widow, her husband 66 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 1: dead in their home and cops come to tell her. 67 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: But wait a minute, what about this now and when 68 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: it's done, you know, culture changing your money. No, that's 69 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: not like like again, that's the goal. Standard to Bobby Maxwell, 70 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: Crime Stories investigative reporter. I've got so many women to 71 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: get to, so many female killers who want their husbands dead. 72 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 1: I don't have time, am my spot on serious accept 73 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: to stuff them all in. But I've got to start 74 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: with Dahlia Dippolito. I mean, this is the woman on 75 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: the house arrest. She was only supposed to go to 76 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: her lawyer's office and church. She got pregnant. You know, 77 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 1: I'll get back to you on that, Brian Claypool, But 78 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: fill me in on the murder plot. Bobby Well, Dohlia 79 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: met her her husband, Michael um and within six months, Bobby, Bobby, 80 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: you know how I love you, Bobby Maxwell. Now when 81 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: you say that Dahlia di Polito met and I'm saying 82 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: that with air quotes met her husband. What where did 83 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,919 Speaker 1: they meet? On match dot com? At church in Sunday school? 84 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: Where did they meet? Bobby? Well, they actually met. She 85 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: was an escort hooker. Oh, actually not a hunky she's 86 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: getting paid for it. Okay, Brian Claypool, I respect you 87 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: as a man for jumping in all right. Yeah, Nancy, 88 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: they met, Believe they or not. I know this is 89 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: gonna this is going to knock your your socks off. 90 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: But they met at a at a Starbucks coffee shot? 91 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 1: Is that? Is that where they agreed to meet? Okay? 92 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 1: Because that's not what he says, and that's not what 93 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: the state says, and not that's not what her ticks 94 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: say to various men where she's agreeing to have sex 95 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: with them. Brian, you there response. Do you really believe, 96 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 1: Brian that women just want to go have sex with 97 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: different men for fun? Did your wife tell you that? Well? 98 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: I I think I think what's important for all these 99 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 1: stories just to get the facts straight and what leads 100 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: up to these women allegedly doing this because there's obviously 101 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 1: there's something. In my opinion, there's the common thread is 102 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 1: there's something wrong in the marriage. And in Dolia's case, 103 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: you want to focus maybe a lot on Oh, she's 104 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:09,559 Speaker 1: allegedly in score she tried to I'm not worried about 105 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: who she sleeps tell you that. I'm more worried about 106 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: the murder aspect. Well, but nobody wants to talk about 107 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: is the domestic abuse and the police failure to investigate that. 108 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: So those are the elements that we tried to highlight 109 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 1: in the two trials that I did. Okay, can we 110 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: get back to the um correct me, Bobby, did Dahlia 111 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: Depilato ever tell anyone such as police battered women, mom, neighbor? 112 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: I mean she lived with her mother on house arrest. 113 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 1: Did she tell anybody she had been abused before she 114 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: hired a hit man? Not that I'm aware of. And 115 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: let me get back to the hooker, the escort. And 116 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: again I'm not the church lady. She can sleep with 117 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: whoever she wants to. I am certainly not pointing the 118 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: moral finger because I don't want to one back at me. 119 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: But I'm more concerned about the murder for hire. She 120 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: can sleep wherever she wants to with whatever man is 121 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: not enough to pay enough pay her money to sleep with. 122 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: But it's very clear throughout all of the documentation in 123 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 1: court that he did hire her as an escort. I 124 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: mean that, that's in the court record. But you know what, 125 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: will pretend that's not true. Let's talk just about the 126 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: murder for hire, Bobby Maxwell. We just heard the sound 127 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: of her saying. What did she say? I'm five thousand 128 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: percent sure I want him dead? Not but five tell 129 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 1: me from the beginning, and don't bring up the hooker 130 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: park because her lawyer is gonna get mad. Go ahead, Well, Michael, 131 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: after meeting Dahlia, within a matter of months, was ready 132 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: to have him removed from her life, allegedly, and UM, 133 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: so she hired a hitman who turned to be an 134 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: undercover detective and someone that knew Michael Dippolito. UM, and 135 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 1: that's when they did a second conversation and she was 136 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: caught on tape saying five thousand percent sure she wanted 137 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: him dead. And UM actually went through one trial, and 138 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: then another one after an appeal, hung jury, and then 139 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: a third trial and UH finally were able to hand 140 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 1: a conviction down on Dahlia. Well, now the first one. 141 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: The jury was out for about um less than less 142 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 1: than an hour or less than two hours, and came 143 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 1: back with a guilty that was reversed on appeal because 144 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 1: the defense lawyers asked and were denied the right to 145 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: ask the jurars individually if they had heard about the 146 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: case or seen any pre trial publicity. That's what we 147 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:57,719 Speaker 1: call vodre, which coincidentally French to speak the truth. That's 148 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: what that means when you question the ur ours to 149 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: find out who you're putting in the jury box. Um, 150 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: Brian Claypool, let me tell you a funny story. As 151 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: my daughter says, Mom, you're off topic. I was getting 152 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: ready to strike at jury Brian and the defense attorney 153 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: all bravado. As some people say, full of piss and vinegar. 154 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 1: I would never say that, because we don't say piss 155 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: in our house. But um, he stands up in front 156 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,679 Speaker 1: of the whole Jeery Pool, in front of my judge, 157 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 1: who was eighty four years old at the time, and says, 158 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: I'll take anybody, any gerra will find my guy not guilty. 159 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 1: I'll take the first twelve you're afraid to do that, 160 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: Miss Grace, and everything in me scream, don't give in, 161 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: don't do this. But I went bring it on like 162 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 1: the fool that I was, and put the twelve in 163 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 1: the box. Okay, that's a bad idea. Now, luckily I 164 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: did manage to get a conviction through no fault of 165 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 1: my own. Okay, because that should have blown blew it 166 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 1: right there, taken his bait. But my point is, for dire, 167 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: I think once you strike the jury, Brian, that's your 168 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: verdict right there. I've always thought it's all injury selection. Brian. Well, 169 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: that's a great point. See jury selection is oftentimes the 170 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 1: most important part of the trial, and a lot of 171 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: trial lawyers, especially in the criminal forum, they don't they 172 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:34,079 Speaker 1: don't spend the required time and and research and and 173 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: and higher consultants and look at the psychological aspect of 174 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: selecting jurors. I mean, to our credit, Nancy, I know 175 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: you you have a lot of disdain towards Dahlia. But 176 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 1: the second trial that that you just mentioned, I mean, 177 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: we did a fantastic job in that case. I have 178 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: to say, you really did. I mean, but but for 179 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: getting back to your point, was it was primarily jury 180 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: selection I mean, we were so so vigilant, you know, 181 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: and and and looking at body. It's not only just 182 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: what jurors say, but their body. Lane. It's a vibe 183 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: and it's a vine. You got to really get in there. 184 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 1: And I never used a your consultant because I wanted 185 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: to get that vibe myself, because your jury consultants not 186 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: trying your case. You are. And if you get the 187 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,680 Speaker 1: idea the person doesn't like the stake, or the person 188 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: doesn't like you or whatever, you don't want them all 189 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: the jury, Nancy. And another thing, women, women are the 190 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 1: best u people to select jurors. I never ever pick 191 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 1: a jury without a female attorney in my office or 192 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: a female legal assistant. I mean, and I don't I'm 193 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 1: not doing this's a stroke because you know, I've always 194 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: had a had a crush on you know. I think 195 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 1: it's something intuitive and scientists would probably argue with me, 196 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 1: but you I think women are more just attune to 197 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: feelings and emotions nonverbal cues. I really do believe that, 198 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 1: no offense, I'm not saying we're smarter at which we are, 199 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 1: but I do think stop saying that, Jackie. I do 200 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: think that they pick up those cues, you know. But 201 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: long story short. The first trial, she was found guilty 202 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:25,560 Speaker 1: in a heartbeat. Yeah, yeah, it was reversed because, um, 203 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 1: the judge did not ask each individual juror. He asked 204 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: a blanket question, who's heard of this case before? You know? 205 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: And a few people raise their hands. The the appellate 206 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: court said he should have asked each one individually that question. Okay, 207 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: so it got reverse. Goes back mistrial, six member jury 208 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: splits it three to three. All right, goes back to trial. 209 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: The third time they take less than three hours to 210 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: convict her. So the third time was the charm. But 211 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: in this case, Dr Brian Russell, lawyer, psychologist and host 212 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:05,439 Speaker 1: of Investigation just Every's hit show, Fatal vows Dr Briant Um, 213 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 1: they hadn't been married very long. I still stand by 214 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: the assertation they met when she was an escort. But fine, 215 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:14,319 Speaker 1: they met in Sunday school. Say whatever you want, Claypool. 216 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: So they're married about six months and she starts move 217 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: trying to move his condo into her name and digging 218 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: into all of his checking accounts and banking accounts, and 219 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: almost immediately, let's just say, the bloom was not off 220 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: the rose. According to the States. She starts planning his 221 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 1: murder with a cup of chai. T what about it, Brian. 222 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 1: So today's topic is right up my alley, because Fatal 223 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: Vows is about spouses who tried to murder their spouses 224 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: and uh and succeed if they made it onto fatal Vows. 225 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: And one of the things that a lot of people 226 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: find interesting is that we have so many female perpetrators 227 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: on this show because is I think people sort of 228 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 1: intuitively understand that in general when we're talking about murder, 229 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:11,359 Speaker 1: men seem to have the greater propensity among the two genders, 230 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: uh for violence in general, including murder. But when you 231 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 1: look at our fatal Vows cases, they break down about 232 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 1: equally with female and male perpetrators. And then if you 233 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 1: look at the reasons, you know, what are the top 234 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 1: two or three reasons why people end up on fatal Vows. 235 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: Number one is infidelity by far. Number two is financial 236 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: issues money, The third one probably is kids issues over 237 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 1: custody of children. And and you notice that abuse, being 238 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 1: a victim of abuse and and and trying to lash 239 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: back out at the abuser is not among those three. Uh. 240 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: And so so that's uh. Those are hopefully symmetrics to 241 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: facts that. Now, when you talk about this first attempt 242 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 1: of allegedly to murder UH Dahlia's husband with the poisoning, 243 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 1: I realized you were on a first name basis. Dr 244 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: Brian Russell. Please don't get too close to this woman. Well, hey, 245 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 1: she tried to murder. She she hired to hit man 246 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 1: to kill her husband. She also, according to him, tried 247 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 1: to poison him with chi t she's a hooker to boot. 248 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: Bryan Claypool denies that, and somehow, on house arrest, living 249 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: alone with her mother, she got pregnant. I guess the 250 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: guys hiding in a can of chicken soup. I don't 251 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: know how that happened. But Brian, please don't get too 252 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: close to her. Now, what were you saying the poisoning. 253 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 1: One of the things that we do note is is 254 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 1: UH men and women seem to take different different approaches 255 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 1: to this, and and the more up close and personal, 256 00:16:56,040 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 1: more violent methodologies seemed to be more associated with the 257 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:06,400 Speaker 1: male perpetrators and the hiring somebody else, getting somebody else 258 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 1: to do it, do using poison. Things like that that 259 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:12,880 Speaker 1: that are sort of more arms length seemed to be 260 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 1: more the methods of choice for the women. You would 261 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 1: not believe. We've had episodes of fatal vows where women 262 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 1: have even hired or persuaded or pimped out their own 263 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: children in order to solicit somebody else to murder their spouses. 264 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 1: It's just, uh, it's just morbidly disgustingly fascinating. And and 265 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: I'll I'll wrap up but with this, Uh, because I'm 266 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 1: as you know, I'm always trying to extract lessons for 267 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:46,719 Speaker 1: our listeners. Uh. A few months is not in any 268 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 1: universe enough time to get to know somebody, even if 269 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 1: they don't have anything like a propensity to murder you. Uh, 270 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 1: just just in terms of you having a decent shot 271 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 1: at a marriage that doesn't end in h does asters divorce, 272 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 1: A few months is nowhere close to enough time to 273 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: spend getting to know somebody. Well, I gotta tell you something, 274 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: Dr Brian Russell. I look back on other men that 275 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 1: I dated, no offense. Guys, you're all wonderful, but you 276 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: know what they taught me how great my husband is. 277 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: A lot of times I threatened to throw all his 278 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 1: clothes in the front yard and burned them, or slid 279 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:27,719 Speaker 1: his tires, or just something along that alley. But the 280 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 1: truth is it takes you've got to think it through. 281 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 1: You're so right, Dr Brian. It takes time. And you 282 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 1: know there's not a lot of guys out there, Bobby Jackie, 283 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 1: I think you'll agree with me that will be there 284 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 1: for you. I don't mean when you're young and cute 285 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: and your twenty one and you can slide into a 286 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:54,879 Speaker 1: side six and oh everything is so awful, awesome and 287 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 1: sparkly and shiny. You. I mean when you have children, 288 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 1: and when people get sick, and whether there's a death 289 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:05,160 Speaker 1: in your family or the old gray mare she ain't 290 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 1: what she used to be. That's when you find out 291 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: what real love is. That's what real love is. And 292 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 1: that's hard to take in when you're twenty or twenty 293 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:19,639 Speaker 1: five or even thirty, but you learn that and you 294 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 1: can't learn anything like that in just six months. Alan Duke, okay, Alan, 295 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:29,160 Speaker 1: I hope you're listening. I want to pause and thank 296 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: our partner who is making today's serious XM program possible. 297 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,880 Speaker 1: But before we do, I just want to hear Brian 298 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 1: Claypol's client Dollia di Polito, just one more time, just 299 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: for old Time's sake, roll it alan here, anything to 300 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: do anything, You're going to do anything, anything you didn't 301 00:19:55,520 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 1: do anything. You're going to jail today. They're gonna come 302 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:04,919 Speaker 1: with your hand of you to take you to the 303 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 1: Pommi's County Jail. 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And of course, Cheryl McCollum, you're 329 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:47,200 Speaker 1: the expert, you're the director of the Coal Case Institute. 330 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: I don't know why they just don't do it themselves 331 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,440 Speaker 1: or just get a divorce, you know, Cheryl, you can 332 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 1: practically get a divorce for freethers, even do it yourself. 333 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 1: D I y D do it yourself divorces, Cheryl. It 334 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 1: would save a whole lot of time and pain for 335 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 1: everybody if they would just get divorced, or walk out, 336 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 1: or even stage their own death. They don't have to 337 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,640 Speaker 1: kill anybody to get rid of a man. Can we 338 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:15,160 Speaker 1: just leave death as an option in any form out 339 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 1: of this scenario, Cheryl, I think I better call your 340 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 1: husband when we finish this. But listen to this. I 341 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: want you to hear about somebody other than Dahlia di 342 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 1: Polito the hooker, Okay, Brian whatever, She's not a hooker 343 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:30,880 Speaker 1: that it's five thousand percent sure she wants her husband dad. 344 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:36,160 Speaker 1: I want to talk about Diana love Joy, who, when 345 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:41,639 Speaker 1: confronted in court with her nasty deed, passes out of innocence. 346 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: Listen to me. The jury in the evolved entitled cause 347 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 1: find the defendant, Diana Gene love Joy guilty of the 348 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,160 Speaker 1: crime of conspiracy to commit murder in violation of Piano 349 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: pot Section oneing to par a. We the jury in 350 00:22:54,640 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 1: the above and cause the defendant. There she is. I 351 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: don't know if you could hear that thump, but that 352 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:08,640 Speaker 1: was Diana love Joy's hid hitting the chair at the announcement. 353 00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 1: You're guilty, Bobby Maxwell. Crime Stories investigative reporter, tell me 354 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,639 Speaker 1: what happened? How did she hook up with her co 355 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:23,399 Speaker 1: conspirator to murder uh her ex husband? Well, you know 356 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 1: they were going through her and her husband were going 357 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:30,119 Speaker 1: through a very very contentious divorce and especially a custody battle, 358 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,879 Speaker 1: and um it took over two years of this battle, 359 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 1: and when it was coming to the very end of 360 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: the uh the case, she was being faced with having 361 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 1: to give up of custody of her young son and 362 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 1: to pay her husband and dollars. I guess that was 363 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 1: a little bit too much. That's when she reached out 364 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:59,159 Speaker 1: to her firearms instructor. She took classes with Weldon McDavid 365 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 1: and he's been a marine. He of course knows about firearms, 366 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 1: and um plotted to take out her husband. So Sheryl McCollum, 367 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: there you go. The this guy trying to get custody 368 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 1: of the children and sticking it to his wife for 369 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 1: a hundred and twenty grand had no idea. His wife 370 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 1: with was like, okay, you know what, I'm not giving 371 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 1: you the kids or the money. All right, you're right, Nancy. 372 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 1: Here's the thing that amazes me though, when they go 373 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,919 Speaker 1: to find these quote hit men, and they go to 374 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 1: people that have a legitimate job. So she's not a criminal, 375 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 1: her instructor is not a criminal. But she thinks, hey, 376 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 1: this guy knows how to shoot, so I'll hire him 377 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: to murder someone. That's a great plan, right there. So 378 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: murder someone that actually knows my husband. That that's gonna work, 379 00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 1: you know, Cheryl. People think that murder is like it 380 00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: is on TV or in movies. It's not. I mean, 381 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 1: you and I know from going to actual homicide scenes 382 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 1: that it. First of all, it stinks, really unless you're 383 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 1: used to it. The first time you smell dead human 384 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 1: body that's been there a day or two throw up. 385 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 1: I've seen veteran cops just start vomiting uncontrollably just at 386 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: the smell. You go in. Blood is sticky, there's hair 387 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 1: stuck in it, It's everywhere. There's just something dank and 388 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 1: a natural and wrong when you go onto a murder scene. 389 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,679 Speaker 1: I mean, and once you've been in one, you know 390 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: it immediately when you smell that smell, when you get 391 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 1: that feeling that somebody has been killed. I can remember 392 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 1: you and I were I would say, a football filled 393 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 1: away from the crime scene, and we knew before we 394 00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,640 Speaker 1: even got there what we had the wait a minute, 395 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,360 Speaker 1: which one was that I don't I can't ever name 396 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 1: the names. Do you always want me to recall names? 397 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 1: When we were in the cut and we were literally 398 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,399 Speaker 1: a football field away near mechanics fille, and you and 399 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: I both knew exactly this person is Okay, what did 400 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 1: we say. I'm trying to remember it. I can't remember which. 401 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 1: You turned to me and you said, oh yeah, this this, 402 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 1: this could this could be the one that's been here 403 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 1: a minute. In other words, this person had already decomposed 404 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:33,680 Speaker 1: to the point where you could smell them that far away. 405 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 1: We were at least the football feeling away from the 406 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 1: blue lights. So again, okay, he knew what was happening before, 407 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 1: and I was complete Novice Cheryl. I mean, you know, 408 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 1: when I got into criminal law, I had to look 409 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,360 Speaker 1: up the definition of plane iff indefendant. I didn't know 410 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: anything about a dead body. I only knew how to 411 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 1: quote Shakespeare for Pete's sake. And I mean, if I 412 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,680 Speaker 1: know the president, it's of a dead body than anybody would. 413 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 1: What I'm saying is when people plan these things. Dr 414 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 1: Brian Russell. Dr Brian Russell, lawyer, psychologist, host of investigation Discoveries, 415 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 1: hit show Fatal Fatal vows you think it's going to 416 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: be insanitized, lab conditions, airbrushed murder. So to say, it's 417 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:24,239 Speaker 1: not like that. Dr Brian, It's not like that. And 418 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:28,159 Speaker 1: one of the big questions that we get is how 419 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 1: can somebody go from standing there at the altar, standing 420 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 1: there in front of whoever is officiating, and professing their 421 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 1: love for somebody and and you know, supposedly most of 422 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 1: the time feeling love at that moment, two seeing their 423 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 1: spouse as such an inhuman object that they could do 424 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:54,199 Speaker 1: something like that or have something like that done to 425 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 1: them and not feel, you know, just overwhelming guilt and 426 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 1: shame and remorse about it. And I think, uh, I 427 00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:08,920 Speaker 1: think what it speaks to is the critical importance of 428 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:14,679 Speaker 1: what you said earlier about really really getting to know somebody, 429 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: Because when somebody has that in them, they've got that 430 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 1: cold calculating capacity. Uh, it will show itself another way 431 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 1: that the murder that they commit is never the first 432 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:34,680 Speaker 1: time that trait came out. But you have to give 433 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 1: yourself enough time and enough situations with the person to 434 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 1: be able to see it. Another thing, and just as 435 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 1: I said earlier, there are many people who would not 436 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 1: have ended up on fatal vows had they given themselves 437 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 1: enough time to get to know somebody. Another thing is 438 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:52,760 Speaker 1: there are many people who who wouldn't have ended up 439 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 1: on fatal vows had they waited to be a little 440 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 1: bit older so they had a little bit more life 441 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: experience under their belt before they pick somebody. The other 442 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: big question that people ask me is what you asked 443 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 1: a few minutes ago. Why don't they just get divorced? 444 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 1: And the reason why they don't is because when they 445 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 1: think about the two options, well, I could commit murder 446 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,719 Speaker 1: or I could get divorced. If they get divorced, they 447 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 1: might have to share custody, they might have to give 448 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 1: up some money. It's always about this right there. Okay, 449 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 1: Dr Brian Russell, You're totally up under my skin right 450 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 1: now because the thought of giving away John, David and 451 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 1: Lucy fifty percent of the time. I'll just stay married, 452 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 1: you know what. Fine, Yes, yes, I'll just stay married 453 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 1: rather than give up fifty percent of the time with 454 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: the children. I mean, Brian Claypool. Now, true, Brian Russell 455 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: has out and done you anyway with degrees because you 456 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,080 Speaker 1: know I have my l M. Not to rub it in, Brian, 457 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 1: but we both have and one degree more than you. 458 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:14,880 Speaker 1: Don't feel don't feel inferior, Brian. Okay, Please I stroke 459 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 1: you a few minutes ago. Women are taking a jury 460 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 1: and then I just turned around and bit the hand 461 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 1: that stroked me. But Brian guys. Brian Claypool is with us. 462 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: He's a national criminal defense attorney and really shot to 463 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 1: fame struggling with the case of Dahlia to Polito and 464 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 1: managed to get a mistrial in the second case. So, 465 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 1: Brian Claypole, you're hearing what Brian Russell. Dr Russell fatal 466 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: vows and Sheryl McCollum was saying. Do you think that 467 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:51,120 Speaker 1: child custody is the main issue? Because you know what, 468 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna fight over the bank account or the 469 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 1: pots and the pans. You can have the picture frames 470 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 1: their rooms to go sofa take it. I'd be mad 471 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: if you didn't. But when it comes down to those children, 472 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, uh, you got a tiger by the tail. 473 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 1: You can't hold on and you can't let go and 474 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,080 Speaker 1: she I think I think what Brian Russell is saying. 475 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 1: I partially agree with what he's saying about the child 476 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 1: custody issue. But here's what I want to say about 477 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: this issue of of women trying to have their husbands killed. 478 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: I lived and breathed one of the most famous cases 479 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 1: for what four or five years. I think the point 480 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: we're missing is that most of it, I actually choked 481 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: on it. But most of these women who try to 482 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 1: have their husbands killed when they get married are not 483 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 1: prewired to have their husbands killed. They don't they're not 484 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 1: on the they're not saying till death do us part, 485 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 1: and she whiz, I've already had a plan of contriving 486 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 1: in my head to have my husband killed. It's kind 487 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,080 Speaker 1: of right till death do us part. But here here's 488 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:54,400 Speaker 1: my point. I think in a lot of these cases 489 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 1: there's an element of desperation that permeates the woman's body. 490 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,680 Speaker 1: So something is happening in that marriage and not condoning 491 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 1: what they're doing, but something's happening that triggering them to 492 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 1: even have a thought of having their husband knocked off 493 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 1: in Dahlia's case, and Brian Russell might say that well 494 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 1: on his show, Uh, domestic abuse is not a big factor. 495 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 1: Well that that makes sense because in my case and 496 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 1: dealing with Dahlia, who who who was domestically abused? That's 497 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 1: that's kind of a silent thing women don't want to 498 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 1: often come for. Don't me understand something? Did you ever 499 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 1: did she ever file a police report on ab She 500 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 1: reported it to her her former lover, lover Mohammed. And 501 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,080 Speaker 1: then when she did call, didn't she ask him to 502 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 1: take part in the murder? No? No, but but b Nancy, 503 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 1: here's an important fact that that people are missing is 504 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 1: that first, the first phone call made by the confidential 505 00:32:55,360 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 1: informant to the police station was to report a mastic abuse. 506 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 1: So Dahlia had reached out to him, and then he 507 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,720 Speaker 1: did report that to the police department. The only point 508 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: was trying to make is all right, why white white Brian, 509 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 1: please please? I know you're slippery, is an eel, but 510 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 1: let me ask again. You say that Dahlia di Polito, 511 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 1: who has been convicted of hiring a hitman to murder 512 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 1: her husband by two juries, you're telling me she never 513 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 1: called police, Better Women's Center, told her mother relatives nothing. 514 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 1: She told a person named Mohammed that coincidentally she solicited 515 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:45,800 Speaker 1: in the murder scheme. That's a yes, no, that's that's true, right, 516 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 1: But that's not that's not uncommon with women who are 517 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:53,640 Speaker 1: being being abused by their husbands. That's not fine. I 518 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 1: worked as a volunteer and the Battered Women's Center. Husband's 519 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 1: abusing me. I work, Brian Brian. I represented battered women 520 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 1: and worked as a volunteer for nine years at the 521 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 1: Battered Women Center, very familiar with batter women and the 522 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: battered women syndrome. The batter women syndrome, Cheryl, you and 523 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,280 Speaker 1: I have dealt with many many times in court. When 524 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:25,359 Speaker 1: a woman kills after an extended period of time being abused, 525 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,279 Speaker 1: it is not a well thought out plan such as 526 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 1: poisoning or hiring a hitman. It is an instinct that 527 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:38,919 Speaker 1: comes akin to self defense. So that is by far 528 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:43,319 Speaker 1: not the defense in Dahlia to Polito, and was not 529 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:48,400 Speaker 1: the defense at trial at all. Listen, Dahlia was a 530 00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:51,799 Speaker 1: criminal before she tried to hire a hit man. She's 531 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 1: a criminal now. And Nasy, you were talking about Shakespeare 532 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,040 Speaker 1: a minute ago. One of my favorite quotes is hell 533 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 1: is empty, and all the devil or here. And the 534 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,120 Speaker 1: bottom line is when it comes to this type of crime, 535 00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 1: and you're gonna go out and seek somebody else to 536 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: do the devil's word that you don't have the backbone 537 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 1: to do yourself, which is killed him when he is 538 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:16,279 Speaker 1: beating you, which is not the case here again, you 539 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 1: go out and hire somebody to do it for you. 540 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 1: And like I tell people all the time, the devil 541 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:26,879 Speaker 1: is at the dinner table. Well, Nancy, Nancy, I think 542 00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 1: I can I just make one more point about are 543 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 1: you gonna tell me again? No? No, but I but 544 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:38,000 Speaker 1: I promise, you'll promise you. I'll take a shower after 545 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:43,120 Speaker 1: we do this. Okay, all right? But I find it 546 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,960 Speaker 1: interesting that that when we're talking about women who are 547 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:51,840 Speaker 1: who are allegedly hiring somebody else to commit the murder 548 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 1: of their husband, I think that tells me one important fact, 549 00:35:55,480 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 1: which is maybe they aren't sure it that really is 550 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,799 Speaker 1: the recourse they want to take, because if they were 551 00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:07,480 Speaker 1: so sure, why wouldn't they do it themselves? And that's 552 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:10,479 Speaker 1: that's really kind of what the subplot was in both 553 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,080 Speaker 1: of the trials that I did with Dahlia. And maybe 554 00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,360 Speaker 1: Brian could speak to this issue too. I don't know 555 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:19,000 Speaker 1: if he agrees with this or not, but but these 556 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 1: women are are thinking about options that they have to 557 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,719 Speaker 1: extricate from the marriage. You mentioned one Nancy being divorced. 558 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 1: But I think it's a process they're going through and 559 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:34,160 Speaker 1: and and they're they're in my opinion, they're not certain 560 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,399 Speaker 1: that they're killing is really the I'll tell you what 561 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:43,240 Speaker 1: she sounded certain on that recorded conversation those mini mini 562 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 1: recorded conversations where she was hiring a hit man. Those 563 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:58,040 Speaker 1: were played at try trying to convince herself. Why wouldn't okay, Okay, 564 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:02,959 Speaker 1: you know what I want to go to, Diane. They 565 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,719 Speaker 1: hire a hit man so that they have an alibi, 566 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 1: so they're nowhere near it, so they didn't commit the 567 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:13,400 Speaker 1: murder themselves, so they don't go to print. You're welcome, 568 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,920 Speaker 1: And that's not all. And I'm talking about Diana Lovejoy, 569 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,400 Speaker 1: the one that passed out in court when they called 570 00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 1: out that she was guilty. The jury and found her guilty. 571 00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,600 Speaker 1: She looked around like what did they what me? And 572 00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:29,440 Speaker 1: then immediately passed out. But what happened before that, Bobby 573 00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:32,480 Speaker 1: Maxwell Crime Stories investigative reporter, correct me if I'm wrong, 574 00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:36,799 Speaker 1: is that the husband uh Movel Hill gets a call 575 00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 1: around eleven o'clock at night by someone claiming their private 576 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:48,239 Speaker 1: investigator that had incriminating evidence on the husband Mulva Hill, 577 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 1: to use against him in a custody battle, and that 578 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:57,480 Speaker 1: if he wanted that information um that he could go 579 00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 1: to this dirt road to the end of it, and 580 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:05,239 Speaker 1: the evidence there that he could use in his custody 581 00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:09,759 Speaker 1: battle would be take to a power poll. So movea hill, 582 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:13,720 Speaker 1: gets a friend, They go out there, they hear something, 583 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:17,040 Speaker 1: turn around and look in the bushes. They notice movement 584 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 1: as a person lying prone with a rifle pointed at them, 585 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:26,799 Speaker 1: and shots begin to ring out. All right, so that's 586 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 1: what happened in that case. Before I go to Julia Murfeld, 587 00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 1: a young mom of just about years old, her husband 588 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:41,800 Speaker 1: calls her godly, saintly, a wonderful woman. Yeah, she planned 589 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,359 Speaker 1: to have him killed. 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The intended murder victim, Jake Murfeld, just 618 00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:53,839 Speaker 1: twenty seven years old, spoke out and he says, I 619 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:57,279 Speaker 1: know my wife as a wonderful person. She is a 620 00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:01,520 Speaker 1: godly woman. The two had two little children, ages just 621 00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:06,200 Speaker 1: four in two and he says, quote, she's been nothing 622 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:13,439 Speaker 1: but a great mother to them. Okay, Um, I don't 623 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 1: quite understand where he's coming from. Tell me, Bobby Maxwell, 624 00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:26,399 Speaker 1: Crime Stories contributing investigative reporter, what happened. Well, they were 625 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: having a tough time at their marriage and um, they've 626 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 1: been fighting. And Murfield actually said that she was thinking 627 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:37,799 Speaker 1: about having him killed for a while because if he 628 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 1: was dead, she wouldn't have to worry about the family's 629 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 1: judgment or breaking his heart. That's how good of a person. 630 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:53,960 Speaker 1: Listen to this, she's shaking his hand the hit man 631 00:41:55,239 --> 00:42:00,880 Speaker 1: business to discross. She's laughing, Bobby Matt, So, I just 632 00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:03,640 Speaker 1: wanted you to hear her. And she's caught on tape, 633 00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:08,160 Speaker 1: of course, and she's in a detectives vehicle parked outside 634 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:13,479 Speaker 1: a store at Freeport Township, and she lays out why 635 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:17,360 Speaker 1: she wants her husband dad, and she said very clearly 636 00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 1: it was to get her husband's four hundred thousand dollar 637 00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:24,719 Speaker 1: life insurance policy. Do I have that right, Bobby Maxwell, Yes, 638 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,480 Speaker 1: you do. And fifty thousand of that would go to 639 00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 1: the hitman who was going to do it. WHOA, that's 640 00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 1: a that's an easy paycheck. Fifty grand for one bullet. 641 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,960 Speaker 1: On the video released by the County Prosecutor's office, she 642 00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 1: says she wants her husband kill because, quote as Bobby 643 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,160 Speaker 1: Maxwell just told us, it was easier than divorcing him. 644 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,800 Speaker 1: I didn't have to worry about the judgment of my family. 645 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,560 Speaker 1: I didn't have to worry about breaking his heart. All 646 00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:55,000 Speaker 1: that stuff Like this is like how I gotta clean getaway. 647 00:42:55,600 --> 00:43:00,799 Speaker 1: Dr Brian Russell, host of Investigation Discoveries fatal vows, this 648 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:05,839 Speaker 1: woman is so young and fresh and just cute. She 649 00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 1: looks like any woman I see walking along the aisles 650 00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 1: at Target or Walmart or Costco with her children in 651 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:15,920 Speaker 1: the buggy. How does it go so sideways? Well, this 652 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,320 Speaker 1: is an excellent illustration of what I was saying earlier 653 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:24,160 Speaker 1: about how there's always this sociopathic undercurrent of entitlement to 654 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,480 Speaker 1: have my cake and eat it too. If I get divorced, 655 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 1: then I'll have to make some sacrifices. I'll have to 656 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,960 Speaker 1: share custody, I'll have to split the money. But if 657 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 1: I go this route, then I can have everything that 658 00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 1: can be relieved of my spouse that that I'm no 659 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,200 Speaker 1: longer happy with, and I can have everything that I 660 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:47,160 Speaker 1: want in response, Uh, quickly, also to to what Brian 661 00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:50,640 Speaker 1: Claypool said, Uh, while we have not had a lot 662 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:54,120 Speaker 1: of episodes of Fatal Vows where the murder has boiled 663 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:57,000 Speaker 1: down to abuse, we've had a number of episodes where 664 00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:00,920 Speaker 1: women have told other guys they were being abused to 665 00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,680 Speaker 1: get the guys to participate in the murders of the husbands, 666 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:08,960 Speaker 1: and and so. Uh and and this phenomenon that Brian 667 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,960 Speaker 1: Claypool mentioned about, well, I think sometimes they hire men 668 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,160 Speaker 1: because they're trying to convince themselves they want to do it. 669 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:20,240 Speaker 1: That's something I have never seen. I have seen many 670 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,839 Speaker 1: times women hire men so that they will be at 671 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:27,879 Speaker 1: arms length from the transaction, and if the thing goes bad, 672 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,919 Speaker 1: they'll be able to say, well, I didn't really think 673 00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,000 Speaker 1: they were really gonna do it. I didn't mean for 674 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,560 Speaker 1: a murder to happen. I just talked about it with 675 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:37,920 Speaker 1: the person. They decided on their own to go off 676 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,240 Speaker 1: and do it because they wanted me or or something 677 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 1: like that. I've seen that in a number of Fatal 678 00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 1: vas episodes where I'm looking at this woman and I 679 00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,480 Speaker 1: know you can't judge a book by their cover. But 680 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 1: Brian Claypool, this woman. And I know you're defending Dahlia, 681 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,040 Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna go back into that. I'm not 682 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:58,040 Speaker 1: kidding around right now. I'm serious. This woman here, this 683 00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:04,319 Speaker 1: Julia Charlene Murfield, as a young girl. In my mind, 684 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:08,120 Speaker 1: she's just twenty one years old. She's got these two children, 685 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:13,279 Speaker 1: she's been the perfect mom, she's you know, always kept 686 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,520 Speaker 1: it in the middle of the road. And then out 687 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:20,480 Speaker 1: of the blue, she promises somebody fifty grand to kill 688 00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:25,520 Speaker 1: her husband. But you know, Brian, as much as part 689 00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:30,280 Speaker 1: of me feels bad for her, lady, justice is blind. 690 00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,920 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter that she's this young soccer mom with 691 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,040 Speaker 1: a four year old and a two year old. We're 692 00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:42,400 Speaker 1: talking about murder, Brian. Murder. Yeah, Nancy, real quick. I 693 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:46,759 Speaker 1: think with Julia's case, um, and with other women who 694 00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,759 Speaker 1: are are very attractive, And I don't mean to bring 695 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,440 Speaker 1: that looks up again, but I think it's important. I 696 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,600 Speaker 1: think some of these younger women who are very beautiful, 697 00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:58,160 Speaker 1: who have their whole lives ahead of them, and who 698 00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:02,640 Speaker 1: have a perception in society, especially with men, men looking 699 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,000 Speaker 1: at them like and I'll be honest with you, when 700 00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,400 Speaker 1: I look, when I look at a beautiful woman, like 701 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:13,400 Speaker 1: Julia right, and I see her, I have trouble, even 702 00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 1: though you might have a mountain of evidence that support 703 00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:20,359 Speaker 1: that she tried to have her husband killed, I as 704 00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:25,319 Speaker 1: a man, have some degree of difficulty believing that a 705 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:29,480 Speaker 1: beautiful young woman like that is capable of doing that. 706 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,399 Speaker 1: And I think some of these hold it right there, Ryan, 707 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:38,640 Speaker 1: because Cheryl McCollum, it's true. What Claypool is saying is true, 708 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:44,200 Speaker 1: and it works to the benefit of female defendants, especially 709 00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:47,640 Speaker 1: when they're a mother. Because when you tell a jury 710 00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,279 Speaker 1: this young mom, when they hear the word mom, I 711 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:55,680 Speaker 1: think of my mother. You know, my mother literally put 712 00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,640 Speaker 1: her own life in danger to save my life when 713 00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:02,680 Speaker 1: I was a toddler and I can still remember it. 714 00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:06,200 Speaker 1: It was at age three. I mean, when you say mother, 715 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,920 Speaker 1: I think of my mother, and it would be a 716 00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:12,040 Speaker 1: cold day and you know where before I would want 717 00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:18,680 Speaker 1: to convict a mother. Cheryl, He's absolutely right, He's dead accurate. 718 00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:21,640 Speaker 1: And the thing it goes even beyond that, because everybody 719 00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:25,600 Speaker 1: has a preconceived notion of what somebody's about when they 720 00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 1: meet them. Well, when you see somebody young and extremely 721 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 1: pretty and you think, God, she's gotten the world by 722 00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,200 Speaker 1: the tail right, and she's married, and it looks like 723 00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,960 Speaker 1: everything is just going beautifully. You do not see this 724 00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,760 Speaker 1: person coming when they all of a sudden say hey, 725 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,200 Speaker 1: she tried to hire it it man mob style. That 726 00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,960 Speaker 1: goes against everything you're looking at. The two things don't 727 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:53,360 Speaker 1: fit for a lot of people. But again, that's some 728 00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:56,279 Speaker 1: of the most dangerous type of criminals, the ones you 729 00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:59,239 Speaker 1: never see coming. Well, this is what I always say. 730 00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:02,840 Speaker 1: It's as if the mind is tricking the eye. Okay, 731 00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 1: because you see the young mom, you see pictures of 732 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:09,880 Speaker 1: the children, blah blah blah, and then you hear the evidence. 733 00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,680 Speaker 1: And I always could use the Scott Peterson case as 734 00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:18,480 Speaker 1: an example. Because you see this young some people say attractive. 735 00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:23,279 Speaker 1: He was never attractive to me. Okay. In fact, you 736 00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,160 Speaker 1: know you can help me with this, Dr Russell, you're 737 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,000 Speaker 1: the shrink. The only man that's attractive to me is 738 00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,600 Speaker 1: my husband, because he's the one that helps me take 739 00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:31,399 Speaker 1: care of the children and goes to the grocery store 740 00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 1: and helps with my mom. Okay, that is attractive to me. 741 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,440 Speaker 1: I don't give a fig how young or buff somebody is, 742 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:40,640 Speaker 1: and I do not want to see anybody else without 743 00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:44,200 Speaker 1: their shirt on. Just save it. Okay, So Cheryl, it's 744 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:48,400 Speaker 1: like you see this young mom or this beautiful young lady, 745 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:53,000 Speaker 1: as Brian Claypool said, and you think wow. Like in 746 00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:57,480 Speaker 1: Scott Peterson, he was young, some people thought attractive, college degree, 747 00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:04,680 Speaker 1: golf scholarship, alleged of lee um, loving family job, beautiful home. 748 00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,600 Speaker 1: Why would he do such a thing. It just doesn't 749 00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:10,319 Speaker 1: even make sense. Awesome, straight teeth, nice smile, blah blah. 750 00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:12,920 Speaker 1: He had it all right, and nobody wants to believe it. 751 00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,560 Speaker 1: Same thing, but more so with a young woman, as 752 00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:21,600 Speaker 1: Claypool is saying, right, Well, women traditionally, they don't think 753 00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,320 Speaker 1: of women as being violent. They don't think of women 754 00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:28,600 Speaker 1: are being you know, killers of the time. They're gonna 755 00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:31,200 Speaker 1: be right. It's gonna be a man that harms the woman. 756 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,400 Speaker 1: So when they get this thing twisted and it's a 757 00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:39,359 Speaker 1: three sixty, you're like, what the heck has happened? And again, Cheryl, yeah, 758 00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,719 Speaker 1: I used to hate having to try women. Well, of 759 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,960 Speaker 1: course it helped me a lot. When one woman, her 760 00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,960 Speaker 1: a Ka was newdi Pride, that helped me a lot. 761 00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:50,560 Speaker 1: She burned down the whole whole apartment complex because she 762 00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:53,240 Speaker 1: was mad at her girlfriend all right, So that helped 763 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,120 Speaker 1: with the name. Right at the beginning, when I yelled 764 00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 1: out Nuty pride in court, all right, that was a 765 00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:01,560 Speaker 1: strike against her, all right, then let's say, um what Oh? 766 00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:05,319 Speaker 1: Then I tried. I believe the oldest woman ever in 767 00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 1: Fulton County. I believe she was almost eighty uh for 768 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:13,120 Speaker 1: grand larceny. And I didn't want to try her. I 769 00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,719 Speaker 1: tried to make her take probation and pay the people back. 770 00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,600 Speaker 1: She wouldn't do it, so I had to try the 771 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 1: old lady. By that time in her life, she's about 772 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:25,280 Speaker 1: four ft nine, she was wearing a wig and um. 773 00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:27,359 Speaker 1: She pretended to have a heart attack at the end 774 00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:28,799 Speaker 1: of the trial and had to drag her out by 775 00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:32,319 Speaker 1: her little armpits. But even after that, the judge was 776 00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:35,600 Speaker 1: setting to give her jail time. I was such a softie. 777 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,120 Speaker 1: I asked for probation. I think he did give her 778 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:39,960 Speaker 1: a couple of days in jail, just to scare the 779 00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:44,360 Speaker 1: mean old thing. But it's always tough when you try 780 00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:47,480 Speaker 1: a woman. That's just a given. Eryl, it is a given. 781 00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:51,600 Speaker 1: But Nancy, these women are so diabolical. And again I've 782 00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:54,880 Speaker 1: heard you say in court you meet with this hit 783 00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:58,720 Speaker 1: man on a Wednesday, and it's set and take place 784 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:03,320 Speaker 1: on a Friday. During that entire time, at no point 785 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:07,000 Speaker 1: did you attempt to call it all. At no point 786 00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:11,000 Speaker 1: did your heart or your compassion or your do the 787 00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:15,880 Speaker 1: right thing mechanism kick in and call off the murder 788 00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:20,520 Speaker 1: of your children's father. So you can hate him as 789 00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:24,920 Speaker 1: your husband, but your children deserve that man in their life, 790 00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:28,959 Speaker 1: and that's what you took from them forever. You're gonna 791 00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:32,600 Speaker 1: let them live with the stigma that their father was murdered. 792 00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:36,879 Speaker 1: That's horrifying. So you're not talking about, Hey, I met 793 00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:38,640 Speaker 1: with a hit man at three thirty and he shot 794 00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,920 Speaker 1: my husband at four these this was in the making 795 00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:45,200 Speaker 1: for weeks and weeks and days and days and hour 796 00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:48,359 Speaker 1: by hour. You don't call it at all, and you 797 00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:51,200 Speaker 1: know the countdowns and you get up and you get 798 00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:54,640 Speaker 1: dressed and you leave the house knowing that man is 799 00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:58,080 Speaker 1: gonna be dead today and you did nothing to stop it, 800 00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:02,680 Speaker 1: you know, just hearing you laying out like that, like 801 00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:07,319 Speaker 1: I've laid it out in court before, it's absolutely it's 802 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:10,920 Speaker 1: just who's jumping in? Is that Brian or Bryan Russell? 803 00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,439 Speaker 1: And Nancy Can? I? Yeah? Can? I wanted to share 804 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,000 Speaker 1: a quick story please. You made a great point. If 805 00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 1: you message about about the mind tricking the eye with 806 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,560 Speaker 1: these beautiful young women, women who are are allegedly trying 807 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 1: other husbands killed, you are so spot on because in 808 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:28,600 Speaker 1: the third trial that I that I that I did 809 00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:31,960 Speaker 1: for Dahlia Dip, the lead up in the in the 810 00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,160 Speaker 1: middle of that trial, I had to hear I had 811 00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:37,120 Speaker 1: to hear those video tapes again, the audioce and and 812 00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:39,560 Speaker 1: and then there were audio tapes, you know, the undercover 813 00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:43,359 Speaker 1: audio tapes where you're hearing Dahlia talk, you know, and 814 00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:48,359 Speaker 1: with foul language, and and and saying terrible things. You're 815 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,160 Speaker 1: so right because at that point I've never shared this before. 816 00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:54,960 Speaker 1: At that point in time, I had I brought earplugs 817 00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:58,120 Speaker 1: into the courtroom. I had my assistant by them for 818 00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:01,879 Speaker 1: me the night before because I simply could not hear 819 00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:05,560 Speaker 1: those tapes again because I was fighting myself. Like another 820 00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:09,400 Speaker 1: reason I wasn't denial. I was saying to myself, this 821 00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:12,960 Speaker 1: is not what I'm hearing, is not what I believe 822 00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:18,760 Speaker 1: about this woman, beautiful, young lady, attractive, comes from a loving, 823 00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:22,480 Speaker 1: beautiful family like I was. I felt like my mind 824 00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,799 Speaker 1: was playing tricks on myself, and I just didn't want 825 00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:29,799 Speaker 1: to hear those tapes again, so I literally put earplugs 826 00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,840 Speaker 1: in while the prosecution was playing them. Isn't that something 827 00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:35,759 Speaker 1: you Brian? You're You're really touching my heart right now, 828 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:40,200 Speaker 1: because when you get to know somebody, you see the 829 00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:42,920 Speaker 1: good in them. Like if somebody were to try to 830 00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:47,200 Speaker 1: tell me something about my mom. You know, Brian, my 831 00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:49,920 Speaker 1: mom has never touched alcohol or hold life. Now, I 832 00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,000 Speaker 1: can't say that that that about my dear dad. He 833 00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:56,960 Speaker 1: was not afraid of cottail, but she never curse. I 834 00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:00,200 Speaker 1: heard a curse one time, and guess when it was him? 835 00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:05,240 Speaker 1: When we were going over to practice and the door, 836 00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:09,480 Speaker 1: the front door to the church was locked. She said. 837 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:14,279 Speaker 1: I think she said damnin or hell one time in 838 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:18,160 Speaker 1: her whole life. She just turned eighties six yesterday. She is, 839 00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:22,880 Speaker 1: in my mind like a saint. Nothing but love and 840 00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:28,520 Speaker 1: hard work her whole life. And when you love somebody, 841 00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:33,560 Speaker 1: you you don't want to hear anything bad about them. 842 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:34,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I will go to the map with my 843 00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:36,800 Speaker 1: husband if he says one thing about my mother or 844 00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:39,320 Speaker 1: the twins. I mean, that's a war between the gods. 845 00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 1: You know. He just like goes outside sits with the dog. Seriously, 846 00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 1: I mean, and you're saying you couldn't stand it so 847 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,560 Speaker 1: much because you've gotten to know her, and that's not 848 00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:53,600 Speaker 1: the person you think you know. So when it boils 849 00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:57,800 Speaker 1: down to it, Brian Russell, I wonder you're the shrink 850 00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,600 Speaker 1: and host of discoveries face a vows. I wonder if 851 00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:06,000 Speaker 1: there's that part in all of us. I wonder how 852 00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:10,160 Speaker 1: far any of us aren't away from doing something evil, 853 00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:12,920 Speaker 1: something bad. Well, the good news is, I think most 854 00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,480 Speaker 1: of us are pretty far away from doing something evil. 855 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:19,000 Speaker 1: I think that that many of us are close to 856 00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:24,400 Speaker 1: doing something violent if it is in the furtherance of 857 00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:27,840 Speaker 1: protection of, you know, those that we love and care about. 858 00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,919 Speaker 1: So I think people who would never be capable of 859 00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:34,640 Speaker 1: going up and punching somebody in the face normally would 860 00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:37,400 Speaker 1: have no problem doing it if the person were, you know, 861 00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:40,720 Speaker 1: striking out at their child or their spouse or something 862 00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:45,360 Speaker 1: like that. Cheryl, let me hear your thoughts on women 863 00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:50,920 Speaker 1: that kill Nancy for the murder for higher their corn artists. 864 00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,359 Speaker 1: And I think when you hear the defense attorney when 865 00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:57,200 Speaker 1: he was talking about having to get earplugs, that's just 866 00:55:57,480 --> 00:56:00,719 Speaker 1: how good she was at the corn and you keep 867 00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:03,799 Speaker 1: the con going. You've got the one woman that love 868 00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:06,680 Speaker 1: joy that you know faith at the end of it, 869 00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:10,759 Speaker 1: when she sent it, she's keeping the con going. They 870 00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:14,640 Speaker 1: are devils, and this isn't the first time they've put 871 00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:17,000 Speaker 1: on a ruse. This is the first time they've lied that. 872 00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:19,640 Speaker 1: This the first time they've just led people. It's just 873 00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,480 Speaker 1: the first time they've done it at this level. But 874 00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:25,680 Speaker 1: they are straight up carn artists that use whatever, whether 875 00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:29,000 Speaker 1: it's their body, whether it's a lie, whether it's a 876 00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,200 Speaker 1: hit man, to get their way. I think it's only 877 00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:36,640 Speaker 1: fitting that we go out with another tiny, tiny SoundBite 878 00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:42,920 Speaker 1: from our favorite hit girl, Dahlia di Polito. Brian Claypool, 879 00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:47,960 Speaker 1: put in your ear plugs. Take a listen. Come here, 880 00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:58,560 Speaker 1: come here, coming here, please here, like come here, please 881 00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 1: come here. Brian Claypool, nationally known criminal defense attorney. Dr 882 00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:09,040 Speaker 1: Brian Russell, lawyer, psychologist and host of the hit show 883 00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:15,680 Speaker 1: on Investigation Discovery, Fatal Vows. Bobby Maxwell, investigative reporter and 884 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:20,120 Speaker 1: my friend and colleague RYL. McCullum, crime scene expert and 885 00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,760 Speaker 1: director of the Cold Case Institute. You guys are awesome, 886 00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:27,360 Speaker 1: all of you. Thank you for being with me. Thank 887 00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:31,080 Speaker 1: you for being with us. Nancy Gray's Crime Story, signing 888 00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:32,800 Speaker 1: off goodbye friend,