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Speaker 3: That's a different podcast. More More Better, More Better, More.

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Speaker 4: Better, More Welcome to More Better, the podcast where we

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Speaker 2: That's most of Marrow and that's Stephanie Beutru.

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Speaker 4: And here we are.

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Speaker 2: Here we are recording wait Meerson, we have coffee, we

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Speaker 2: bolo tie that I'm wearing today, it's if not, that's

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Speaker 3: How are you doing. I'm good.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited that we're doing my person together in the

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Speaker 2: I did my peloton ride this morning. It was very hard.

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Speaker 1: There's something about those endurance rides. It's like the doing

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Speaker 2: There are elements of this season that I think, I

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Speaker 2: It was absolutely hell on earth. I hate corn mazes

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Speaker 2: Just I really like that part of it, which is

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be told that it's time. You

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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't have anything orange.

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Speaker 2: I do have a lot of beige, but I don't

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Speaker 5: Like August this year, yes, like August first.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say, as somebody who does love Disneyland,

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like you don't. We went to Disneyland and

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Speaker 3: it was already Halloween.

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Speaker 1: Halloween, which is fine because let's go let's go stoked,

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Speaker 2: It's fantastic, sick that part of fall.

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Speaker 3: I'm all about it. I'm like one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: Let's embrace it because like there's for me, there's like

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Speaker 2: they call it, the the thinning of the veil between worlds.

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Speaker 2: Like listen, I'm not necessarily religious, but I am spiritual,

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Speaker 2: I don't know where it's from. Maybe I is could

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Speaker 2: I think it's called like Sam Sam Hi Sam, I'm again, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it's called but I like love

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Speaker 3: To remember everybody.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and like we make thee little more those altar

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Speaker 2: I have like pictures of my dog, my dog's ashes,

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Speaker 3: I love.

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Speaker 2: It's the it's the being forced into.

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Speaker 5: Pumpkin spicy.

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Speaker 2: I don't want it. I don't want it shoved down

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Speaker 3: And it's actually ramping.

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Speaker 2: Up to the holidays, which is like that part stressful

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that part too, I feel that, Like, yeah, when

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Speaker 1: September hits, I'm just like, oh God, here we go, Halloween, Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 1: Christmas is cann be here before we know it.

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Speaker 7: I found it, okay. Wheel of the Year the year

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Speaker 7: you know, includes like folk traditions, a lot of British

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Speaker 2: Yes, sinking with living with the seasons, living with the seasons,

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Speaker 2: celebrating the seasons, celebrate like and aligning like tour like

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Speaker 2: this is when we harvest, this is when we save food,

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Speaker 2: this is what the sky and the you know, like,

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Speaker 2: this is what the seasons are doing, this is what

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Speaker 2: with that as opposed to and now. I will say,

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Speaker 2: like I'm not trying to be like you know, I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I'm not trying to be like a summer

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Speaker 2: bunny when it's fall. Like I'm not going to force

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Speaker 2: myself to wear you know, haltertops and short shorts when.

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Speaker 3: It's you're not sixty degrees outside. No, oh not I do.

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Speaker 4: I will.

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Speaker 3: I will say.

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Speaker 2: The thing that I love about La fashion is that

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Speaker 2: you can wear like pants, flip flops in a trench

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Speaker 3: That that doesn't happen anywhere. That is true, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So fabulous. Like sometimes I'll be on my Pinterest board

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Speaker 2: looking at outfits, I'm like, I can wear these all year.

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Speaker 2: I can do this anytime. Yeah, and these poor other

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Speaker 2: people in other cities and seasons.

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Speaker 3: Y'all can't. You can't be wearing No, you can't.

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Speaker 1: Any other thing that maybe made fall like a bigger

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Speaker 1: thing to me is fall, at least when I was

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Speaker 1: or three weeks long, like it's so short, and then

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Speaker 1: it's just cold, and then you're just like, oh, winter

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Speaker 1: is here, and oh that's so interesting.

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Speaker 2: I kind of like was like, no, under the impression

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Speaker 2: that was like August, September, October.

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Speaker 1: Was no, No, August is still hot, September could still

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Speaker 1: first week of November.

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Speaker 5: And there's just gold.

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Speaker 1: Oh sniffs nap, but there's like two weeks of like

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Speaker 2: Is oh, no, wonder you love it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because it's yeah, it's like so.

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Speaker 2: No wonder people love Gilmore Girls because it's like fall

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: And one of the things I'm not walking something now, Yes,

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Speaker 2: And one of the things that made me like One

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Speaker 2: is like you get to like live and fall like

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Speaker 2: even winter here it feels like the fall.

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Speaker 5: It's yeah, for months and months and months and it's best.

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Speaker 3: Emma, are you changing my mind about getting.

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Speaker 1: To wear like fall clothes, like the light layers and

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Speaker 1: the little boots and like the I know we've got

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Speaker 1: this is discuss the boots for let's discuss Yes, so

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Speaker 1: not all boots are equal.

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Speaker 2: Obviously, No, not all boots are equal. We have cowboy

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Speaker 2: boots up here and then everything else below.

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Speaker 5: Let's agree to disagree.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you have the right pair of cowboy boots.

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Speaker 1: Listen, they're cute in the right don't even circumstance or location.

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Speaker 3: Circumstance, what circumstances not.

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Speaker 5: They're stiff.

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Speaker 1: They're like, well maybe not, they're all of them stiff,

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Speaker 1: but they don't like go with everything.

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Speaker 3: They're not as like versatile.

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Speaker 2: As what are you fucking talking about?

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Speaker 3: Where you know?

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Speaker 2: I just think that like a good Like you're telling

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Speaker 2: me you can wear a writing boot with shorts.

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Speaker 3: No, no, you can't.

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Speaker 1: No no, But I'm not trying to wear boots with

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Speaker 1: shorts like ever.

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Speaker 2: I did see some girls this summer wearing writing boots

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Speaker 2: with shorts, and I was.

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Speaker 5: Like, good for you. I was really push but I

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Speaker 5: really loved writing boots and I wore them all the time.

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Speaker 3: I do like a writing boot for a fall.

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Speaker 1: I like a writing yeah, I do like yeah, or

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Speaker 1: just like a really good like Chelsea boot, Like is

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Speaker 1: that what it's called.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a Chelsea boot For those of you don't know,

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Speaker 2: it's like a shorter boot, I'd say, not like an ankle,

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Speaker 2: but like maybe like a little a little duller. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it can have like a stacked or cone heel, but

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Speaker 2: it's really like a boot that you like pull on.

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Speaker 3: You should be able to pull it on you.

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Speaker 5: It looks good with everything, It's comfortable.

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Speaker 3: I have.

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Speaker 2: I have some of my closets that I maybe should

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Speaker 2: have brought today for you because I don't wear them really.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like, here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: Like what I don't like is the do you remember

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Speaker 2: the look that was very popular a couple of years

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Speaker 2: knee swayed boot with a stacked heel, a big white sweater.

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Speaker 3: And a big brown hat. Yeah, was like, why are

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Speaker 3: you wearing that hat?

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Speaker 5: Where you going?

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Speaker 4: What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Are you riding? Like yeah?

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Speaker 5: Or is it some protection? Oh my god, did you

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Speaker 5: don't wash your hair?

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Speaker 3: I don't like it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I bought one of those hats once

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I never wore it. It's probably still

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Speaker 3: That's what that.

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Speaker 2: What's it called the like fall uh like fall girl?

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, it's called we have it here. It's called

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Speaker 1: the Christian Christian Girl. And it's that famous picture, you know,

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Speaker 1: the one you know where I'm looking at it. Now,

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Speaker 1: six of these bitches are wearing the same exact boot,

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Speaker 1: and I have so many really.

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Speaker 3: Clear, we're not making fun of Christianity whatever.

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Speaker 1: I just have questions like did one girl buy the

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Speaker 3: Do you think they all called each other and were

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Speaker 3: like did they all? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Did they all happen to like own the same boot?

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Speaker 1: And that was the thing when they showed up a brunch, like,

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Speaker 5: But then there's two other pairs.

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Speaker 3: That look like guys, it's a bad.

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Speaker 5: Blue or green maybe it's bad.

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Speaker 1: And then there's a random pair of gray boots that

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Speaker 1: I'm guessing maybe she's the Queen Bee right because she

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Speaker 1: she was like, all you bitches are gonna wear everyone's.

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Speaker 2: Wearing their rest colored boots. Guys, everybody's wearing or the

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Speaker 1: And then she showed up on picture day in her

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Speaker 1: gray boots or silver boots.

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Speaker 3: He's let's go. Here's the thing I do like. I

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Speaker 3: like being a basic bitch.

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Speaker 2: I I really enjoy my basic things, Like I love

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Speaker 2: my I love my weighted blanket, I do drink a

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Speaker 2: pumpkin spice slatt sometimes.

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Speaker 3: I love a cold brew.

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Speaker 5: I love good prissy too. I never really zoomed in

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Speaker 2: These girls are not unfashionable. Oh no, it's like when

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Speaker 2: it's the same, but it's the it's just I just

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Speaker 2: you know what.

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Speaker 5: I just want someone to break down how this happened.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'll tell you how it happened.

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Speaker 2: I want homogeneous thought like it's like you want to

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Speaker 2: we all want to be part of the club, like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the high school thing like never really leaves.

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Speaker 2: It never goes away and like, I want to be

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Speaker 3: I want more friends, you know.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, so if you have a uniform that you

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Speaker 2: know that when you see someone else, you're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: those are my people, right, Like those girls with the

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Speaker 2: over the knee suede boots.

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Speaker 1: Those we're probably going to have other things in common. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I get that. So shout out to the two girls

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Speaker 1: chose no hat. I feel like, I mean, these.

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Speaker 3: Girls like each other. They like each other and they

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Speaker 2: And I'll be real honest when I see other girls

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00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 2: wearing cowboy boots and was yeah, you you're my girl, right.

451
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:54,680
Speaker 3: Like yeah, yeah.

452
00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 2: I read something the other day that was like it

453
00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,159
Speaker 2: was in a review of some cowboy boots because I

454
00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:00,480
Speaker 2: was shopping for new cows.

455
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 5: How many pairs of cowboys? Don't you need to discuss it.

456
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:11,360
Speaker 3: At this moment, it's seven or eight. Some of them

457
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:13,600
Speaker 3: are gifted to me, it's not an issue.

458
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,560
Speaker 2: But she was like, these boots are great for those

459
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:18,560
Speaker 2: those of y'all.

460
00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:20,240
Speaker 3: Those are those of you who.

461
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,720
Speaker 2: Are in they alternative look.

462
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 3: And I was like, that's me. I'm alternative it's me.

463
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:29,919
Speaker 3: I'm the alternative. Okay, I'm off topic.

464
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,159
Speaker 2: So I want to ask you a couple of these

465
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:39,120
Speaker 2: questions that we have written down. Do you have fall

466
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 2: activities that you do either yourself or your family that

467
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:45,840
Speaker 2: you do out of obligation versus versus joy, Like, I

468
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,240
Speaker 2: know you love the season, but like, are there things

469
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 2: for you that are like I have.

470
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 3: To do this, this this, This is the time of

471
00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 3: year when this thing happens. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I.

472
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 1: Hmm, I'm trying to think. I do love like a

473
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,359
Speaker 1: pumpkin spice latte. I will, like, for a while, I

474
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:07,640
Speaker 1: was really into it, and I would buy like the

475
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 1: Trader Joe's has like just pumpkins spice coffee. It's so good,

476
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:15,359
Speaker 1: really good, and I would buy it every year and

477
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 1: then I think I like burned myself out on it.

478
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 1: But I still weird it's such a small thing that

479
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 1: I weirdly feel obligated to have a few each cear house.

480
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,479
Speaker 1: Not in my house anymore, but like I have to

481
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,680
Speaker 1: like get a pumpkin space. You have to be part

482
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,360
Speaker 1: of the Yeah, I've got to Like, I'm like, it's

483
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 1: that time of year, this is when we do this. Yeah, yeah,

484
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 1: I gotta do it, but I don't know if it

485
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 1: brings me joy anymore.

486
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 5: That's really interesting, So maybe I shouldn't do it anymore.

487
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,439
Speaker 3: Maybe I'll do it this year and see how you see.

488
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:45,919
Speaker 5: Right, I'll survive without my pumpkins spicy.

489
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

490
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,399
Speaker 2: They're also doing some other things now, and there's like

491
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 2: yeah pecans ye.

492
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:51,360
Speaker 5: Ever, Like.

493
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Speaker 1: I feel like when I was younger, apple picking was

494
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 1: a big one that happened every year and it was fun.

495
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 1: But I I feel like the last couple of times

496
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:02,720
Speaker 1: I did as a teenager, I was.

497
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 5: Like, where are we going to do? Free labor?

498
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 3: Like why? Okay?

499
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,399
Speaker 2: Good to remember from when my kid gets older. And

500
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, let's do the tradition and she's.

501
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, I just wasn't yeah as into it,

502
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 1: and I was just like, I don't know that this

503
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 1: is fun.

504
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, And you come home with way too many apples.

505
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 3: I've never done it.

506
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 2: This is not something I ever did because they I

507
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 2: didn't grow up around like apple orchards and stuff. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

508
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 2: foreign idea to me.

509
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 1: It's very much a Northeast thing. And but you come

510
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 1: home with a shit ton of apples, what do you.

511
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 3: Do with them?

512
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 1: Like make apple sauce, and like if you're not making

513
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: apple sauce and pies, half of them go bad because

514
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 1: you can't eat that many apples like so, and then

515
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 1: it's just like I did.

516
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:47,360
Speaker 2: A play once where I had to eat a whole

517
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 2: apple and a scene, and I was off apples for

518
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 2: like two years. Oh I bet green apples that used

519
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 2: to be my favorite. I can't have them anymore. Yep,

520
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 2: my favorite too.

521
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 1: I went through like a few years of childhood where

522
00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:01,479
Speaker 1: I green apple. Kids started to like make little like

523
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 1: teasing comments because I would, Uh, I walked home for

524
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 1: lunch every day and I would walk back to school

525
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 1: with a green apple.

526
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 5: That's so cute eating it?

527
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, everything so idyllic.

528
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, Nora Efron scene. I My obligation in the

529
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 2: Fall is that we go through the closet like we

530
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 2: go like I call all the clothes, like all the

531
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:27,920
Speaker 2: summer clothes that didn't get worn, Yeah, like you didn't

532
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 2: wear this is summer and you didn't wear this last summer.

533
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,479
Speaker 2: And then also all the jackets, which is like do

534
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,199
Speaker 2: you really like this? Did you wear it last year?

535
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 2: If you didn't wear it last.

536
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 1: Year, so it's time to get it out like yeah,

537
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 1: I find I like fall a better time to do

538
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 1: that than spring.

539
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did too.

540
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 2: It just feels like, Okay, let's let's get it done.

541
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 2: I do feel this sense of like, let's get it

542
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 2: done in the fall, like I start to get things

543
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,679
Speaker 2: ready for Christmas, I start to get things ready for

544
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 2: Halloween like this, Like I will say, yeah, there's like

545
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 2: a little bit of a bit of that.

546
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 5: Do you.

547
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 3: Okay? This is an interesting one.

548
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 2: What's the difference between seasonal joy for you and seasonal performance?

549
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 4: Ooh?

550
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 2: Because I do think like and this is maybe a

551
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 2: it's different for everyone. I will say, the thing that

552
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 2: you and I have in common is being mothers. And

553
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 2: I think sometimes around the fall there is a little

554
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 2: bit of performative for me at least of like Kates Palloween,

555
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, and like get the bunk in yeah,

556
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 2: or like oh, what do.

557
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 5: You want to be?

558
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 3: What do you want to be?

559
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 2: For I can't even tell you how much girl googling

560
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 2: I've been doing to try to put together this K

561
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 2: pop demon Hunter's outfit that she wants and like, I'm

562
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 2: very stressed about it and I don't and I'm like

563
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,679
Speaker 2: and I can't show it like that to me is

564
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,479
Speaker 2: performative of me to my four year old being like

565
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 2: yeah and so exciting, And I internally what I feel

566
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 2: is like I wish that I could do what my

567
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: mom mom did, which was devastating at the time, but

568
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 2: just like throw me the same pair of ears and

569
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 2: tail right every year and just be like figure it out,

570
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 2: you know, like, because that's what my mom did. She

571
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 2: was like, I don't have time for this, and she

572
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 2: literally would recycle the stupid the mouse costume and mouth

573
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 2: the mouse headband broke Melissa, oh no, until it snapped

574
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 2: one year when we were trigger treating.

575
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 3: Devastating, awful.

576
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 2: So that's what I'm doing for my kid, But I'm

577
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 2: also like, you're paying the ass is the pain in

578
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 2: the ass.

579
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 1: I made a mistake of asking what do you guys

580
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:28,880
Speaker 1: think you want to be Valloween?

581
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 2: And I thought I aided the topic number one.

582
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,439
Speaker 1: I phrased it in a way of like, hey, we

583
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 1: should start thinking about this so we could decide and

584
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: the next you know, a couple of weeks maybe, and

585
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 1: then it just like I've said before, Axel's spooky kid

586
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: loves Halloween.

587
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 5: This is his super Bowl. You can't wait to hear

588
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 5: it one day.

589
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: He was like watching a toddler spiral, Like he went

590
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: from my god, what were all the costumes he said

591
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: he was going to be. He started as a Stormtrooper,

592
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: then he said maybe a Jedi. Then he was going

593
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 1: to be a Teddy Bear. Then he was going to

594
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 1: be a skeleton. Then he landed on skeleton and I

595
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: saw like a glow and a dark skeleton.

596
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 5: He was like pumped.

597
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: But now he's gone back to and now he wants

598
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 1: to be Chewbacca.

599
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 5: But and no, and he wants like a real mask

600
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 5: and then he'll.

601
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 3: Take it off halfway through.

602
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 2: Georgereatm because it'll be hot, because that's.

603
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 3: What I said.

604
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: And then half the Chewbacca masks look like a dog

605
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: and he was like, it just looks like a dog.

606
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,440
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't do you can't say, but

607
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 1: this is what's available. I don't I don't know, so

608
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: I'm not buying anything until he decides.

609
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, which is going to be hard.

610
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 2: I asked Roz last year. We were in Toronto last

611
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 2: year for Twisted Metal, and I asked her what she

612
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 2: wanted to be and she was like, I want to

613
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 2: be a fairy. I was like okay, and she was like, no,

614
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 2: I want to be a dragon fairy. And I was

615
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 2: like fuck. So I'm like damn.

616
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 3: I was going to every children's costume shop in Toronto

617
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 3: being like.

618
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: Do you have a dragon costume? And do you have

619
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 2: fairy accessories? Sound a fairy dress and a dragon like

620
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 2: head with a cake, and then I so lights into

621
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 2: I cut the head open, I sewed lights into it,

622
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 2: so like the minute the sun went down and turned

623
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 2: the lights on, everyone was losing their shit. And I

624
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 2: was like mentally behind her as every every door opened

625
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 2: and everyone was like, oh my god, you're a dragon fairy.

626
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 2: She kept turning around and looking at me like we

627
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 2: did it, and I in my head, I was like,

628
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 2: uh no, I now I've set the bar so high. Yeah,

629
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: I've said it so high that I never can fail again,

630
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 2: Like I'm fucked.

631
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, anyway, Uh yeah, I literally did that.

632
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 5: With Enzo.

633
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: He started combining Halloween costumes and what was the first

634
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 1: one I nail. I think it was he wanted to

635
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 1: be a vampire ninja, and which was a very cool

636
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: idea and we nailed it. And then the next year

637
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: he was like still on that train and he was

638
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: like I want to be a kid from the future

639
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: and I was like, no, I want to be a

640
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: cyberpunk and I was like, what does that mean?

641
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 3: Oh, show me pictures showing references.

642
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 2: Where's your pintustport seven year old?

643
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: I had to find like different parts from everywhere and

644
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: then I found this cool like silver puffy vest. But

645
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: then it was eighty degrees and it was like too

646
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 1: warm for it. Anyway, it was a disaster. So thankfully

647
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: he's back to just like a costume.

648
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 2: I do want them to have a great time. Yeah,

649
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 2: it does feel the most performative of the I.

650
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 1: Know, yeah, some moms love Halloween, but and there feels

651
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 1: pressure to like show a kid that, like, yeah, I

652
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: think there's gonna be a balance, like when she gets older.

653
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 2: It's like what you said, like this is what's available. Like,

654
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 2: I don't know what you want me to do. I

655
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 2: can't make magic out of thin air, but it is.

656
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 2: It does feel like I don't want to show her

657
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 2: that I hate this because I don't want her to

658
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 2: feel yeah bad for asking me, because I remember being

659
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 2: a kid and asking my mom and get thrown the

660
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 2: same tail and yeah, set of ears for four years

661
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 2: in a row.

662
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 3: You know, okay, the financial pressure of buying seasonal everything.

663
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 3: Now this one. Oh that's not me, that's not me.

664
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: I feel like my mom and I have a friend

665
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 1: who does this too, would like switch out parts of

666
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 1: that home decor, like the blankets, the candles, the pillows

667
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: on the sofa would yeah, like there would be winter

668
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 1: ones and spring ones.

669
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 6: That feels like so much fucking work, especially like do

670
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 6: you know how much time I take deciding on what

671
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 6: throw pillows I want to put on my couch and

672
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 6: then six months later I'm like, I need no.

673
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Speaker 1: One really, Yes, throw pillows for some reason are.

674
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Speaker 3: I don't know.

675
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Speaker 1: That's just like a really old one. Be cute, that's

676
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: so interesting. Yeah, I have the same throw.

677
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 2: Pillows for like, probably too long.

678
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Speaker 1: I the ones I have now are probably the ones

679
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Speaker 1: I like the most, and we've had them the longest.

680
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Speaker 1: But already the other day I was like, ooh, these

681
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: these other ones are kind of getting like a little.

682
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Speaker 5: I was like, oh man, what am I should just

683
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 5: buy that same one? I started a spiral like, oh

684
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 5: my god.

685
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Speaker 1: So the thought of like finding multiple throw pillows for

686
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Speaker 1: different seasons, for different seasons, also, where are you storing that?

687
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Speaker 1: I mean obviously you're getting the zipper kind and they're

688
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: going but like I've you know, like.

689
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Speaker 5: I got limited storage here.

690
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Speaker 2: Like I think, if it brings you, if you if

691
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 2: it brings you joy, you do you don't it's I

692
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 2: would say, it's cheerful. Don't go overboard because that's where

693
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 2: I get in trouble because I'm like, I'm in home

694
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 2: goods being like, oh my god, that's so cute.

695
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 5: Oh my god, that's cute. Oh my god, that's so cute.

696
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 2: And then suddenly my car is full and I'm like

697
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 2: I won't need any of this stuff and I'm never

698
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 2: gonna use it again, Like it's gonna you know, I

699
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Speaker 2: will do.

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Speaker 1: I love get My mom would always get the mini pumpkins.

701
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Speaker 1: I do get the mini pumpkins and I put them

702
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: on the dining table and like the coffee table like that.

703
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I also find this.

704
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Speaker 3: This is like a holiday tip.

705
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 2: But the the library is such an incredible resource for

706
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:20,719
Speaker 2: like craft books because Martha Stewart particularly has like a

707
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 2: line of like holiday craft right, and like there's so

708
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 2: much good stuff like this year we're gonna cut our

709
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 2: pumpkins are going to be little fairy houses, like We're

710
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 2: gonna my sister and I are gonna like stensle them

711
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 2: and like, you know, like make a little fairy houses

712
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 2: and stuff and like put little like like.

713
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 3: Like mushrooms and like little dolls and stuff.

714
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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So I want to like get to wrapping

715
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 2: this up because I feel.

716
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 3: Like we could talk about this forever.

717
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 5: I know, I really could.

718
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Speaker 2: I do want to talk about the nerd stuff for

719
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Speaker 2: a second.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, while you look at it, you really thought

721
00:32:55,560 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: that was Lenny Kravitt in his our big scarf fall vibes.

722
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 5: Gods, such a good scarf. It's like a throw blend.

723
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 3: I don't know, a throb blend or is it.

724
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, It's like I like the way.

725
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: The top part looks, but that bottom part that's hanging

726
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: is a lot.

727
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 2: Okay, two things, okay. Homo temperous seasonal cycles as a

728
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 2: fundamental source of variation in human psychology. This is a

729
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 2: recent study that argued that, despite ample evidence that humans

730
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 2: are responsive to seasons, the impact of seasonal changes on

731
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 2: human psychology is underappreciated. So it's like, yes, oh yeah,

732
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 2: the seasons are changing, but it actually does.

733
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 3: Affect us in a pretty strong way.

734
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Speaker 2: The researchers made the case that seasonal variation should be

735
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Speaker 2: considered a fundamental factor in understanding human behavior, not just

736
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Speaker 2: an afterthought. So, like the vibe around the season is

737
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 2: a real thing. It's not just something imagined. It's not

738
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 2: just like a collective like weird trend, right, Like it

739
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 2: is an actual thing, like going back to school, getting

740
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 2: your house ready for the fall, Like feeling like you

741
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 2: need to like make sure that everything is kind of

742
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,359
Speaker 2: like ready is a real Like it's a real thing.

743
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Speaker 5: That makes sense.

744
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 2: And then this thing that I thought was really interesting,

745
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 2: cognitive performance in fall. So this goes back to the

746
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Speaker 2: first thing that you talked about, where you were like,

747
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 2: I'm on, I'm firing on all cylinders. Research showing that

748
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 2: people did significantly better on tests of thinking and concentration

749
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 2: in the late summer and early autumn versus the winter

750
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 2: and early spring. This wasn't related to mood or exercise levels,

751
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 2: suggesting that there's something inherently cognitively beneficial about fall, right.

752
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like all the things, like you know, the

753
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: things we do, like New Year's resolutions, making goals, making whatever,

754
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: spring cleaning, Like I feel that energy more in the fall. Yeah,

755
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 1: like I feel like I can set goals better, I

756
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: can be clearer, I can what do I want to

757
00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 1: like manifest or like.

758
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 5: Put energy towards. I'm all the like organizing.

759
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:09,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel because I feel like New Year's

760
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 1: you're like burnt out from all the fucking holidays. It's

761
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 1: like I wanna I just want to sleep. I want

762
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 1: to think about goals. I wanna do this right now

763
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 1: and then and then it's like cold, and when I

764
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 1: used to live on the East Coast, I used to

765
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 1: get like seasonal depression in winter and that would made

766
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 1: it really hard to be productive. And then spring is

767
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 1: like the idea of spring cleaning, like I might purge

768
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 1: in the spring, like get rid of a lot of shit.

769
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: But I'm not organizing. I'm not like doing something that's

770
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: necessarily productive because I feel like you just want to

771
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,399
Speaker 1: be outside because the weather is finally nice again and

772
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 1: you want to do like outdoor things, and it's like

773
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: I don't and I'm still.

774
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 5: Tired from winter.

775
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 1: I mean, so it makes sense. That makes sense to me.

776
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 1: That one makes a lot of sense to feel. Thank

777
00:35:58,800 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 1: you science.

778
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 2: I do think that this one's really interesting because I

779
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 2: do I know our audience is like a lot a

780
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 2: lot of different kinds of people hopefully, but I think

781
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:14,240
Speaker 2: a lot of our listeners are women. Consumer behavior changes

782
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 2: a lot with the seasons, and like it's influenced by

783
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 2: activities associated with the seasons, which makes a lot of

784
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 2: sense obviously. I think marketing wise, we've hit like peak marketing.

785
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 2: I think we're gonna hit it every year. But I

786
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 2: do feel like that's part of my resistance to fall

787
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 2: is my own response to some of the marketing yeah,

788
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 2: is like I don't want to shove down my throat,

789
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 2: but also like it is happening anyway.

790
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:44,720
Speaker 3: They're just trying to make.

791
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 2: Their bags, so like, yeah, you know whatever, But yeah,

792
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 2: I get that, the like yeah, little rebel inside you

793
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 2: was like, no, yeah, I don't need to put on

794
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,479
Speaker 2: a spider or jacket the same time at the same time.

795
00:36:55,640 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 2: Like culturally, when I see when I'm like in the

796
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 2: Walmart and I see like Picado, you know what I mean,

797
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,439
Speaker 2: Like it makes me feel like, oh I'm here, I'm

798
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 2: like my people are here, you know, and it makes

799
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 2: me feel like a part of it. It makes me

800
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 2: feel like culturally and not being ignored and being like

801
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 2: catered to, which makes me very excited. Yeah, yeah, I do.

802
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 2: I really do love that about this time of year

803
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 2: when I see more of like my culture reflected in

804
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 2: like what's happening in marketing and stuff.

805
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 3: Like when I see like.

806
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 2: When we were at Disneyland and there's like altars for

807
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 2: the Ottos and there's like, oh, it was.

808
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: So Beauty's it's beautiful little Ganko murals right there, like

809
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 1: there's like stuff from Cocoa, and like it makes me

810
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: feel really like.

811
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like we are part of the fabric of

812
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 2: the United States, like our culture, and like we are part.

813
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 3: Of this season.

814
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 2: And I also want to invite other people to, like

815
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 2: if you haven't ever celebrated the little Martos, like maybe

816
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 2: this is your year to try it.

817
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 3: Like it's for every buddy. It is literally forever.

818
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: I didn't really celebrate it til I moved here. I

819
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: mean it's cause it's not really celebrated in New York,

820
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 1: New Jersey, right.

821
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 2: Like, and I think it's it's got deeply Mexican roots,

822
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 2: but I think like for everybody it can become a

823
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 2: part of your fall like celebration because like it's about family.

824
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 5: It's like beautiful tradition and yeah, more better.

825
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 2: What did you learn today? I'll tell you what I

826
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 2: learned that I maybe don't hate fall as much as

827
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 2: I thought. Yeah, you don't. I do hate an over

828
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 2: the knee suede boot, who I have worn them.

829
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 3: Before twenty sixteen.

830
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 2: I like feel I don't know, I like feel like

831
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 2: maybe I don't hate it as much as I thought

832
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 2: I did, or at least like I don't, I'm not

833
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 2: as resistant to it.

834
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, yeah, I love that.

835
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 1: I think my takeaway is I I, until this conversation,

836
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 1: didn't realize that like fall is when I'm really going

837
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 1: to get shit done, Like you know, I think I

838
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: just saw. I wasn't as conscious of it until this

839
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:04,359
Speaker 1: particular kind of fall and this conversation. And I think

840
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 1: it's good to notice that, to like be maybe even

841
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: more intentional every year.

842
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 2: It's you know, funny because like when I think of you,

843
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 2: I think of like fall jeans, a Chelsea boot, a

844
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 2: brown bag over your shoulder, a laser, and like a

845
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 2: coffee in your hand, like yes.

846
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:24,240
Speaker 1: Doing stuff, getting dun god, Yes, yeah yeah, been wearing

847
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 1: it since my twenties.

848
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 3: It's classic. It's classic for a reason. Do you feel

849
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 3: a little more better? Always feel a little more better.

850
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I do. I think I embracefall culture. Maybe

851
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,959
Speaker 2: not Christian Girl Autumn.

852
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: Maybe not, but that particular brand of alternative fall.

853
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 2: I like alternative fall, alternative Fall.

854
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 5: Okay, would mind be you guys? Alternative?

855
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 3: No?

856
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:53,439
Speaker 5: No, sorry, we'll see you next week.

857
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 3: Okay, bye bye.

858
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:58,279
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859
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Speaker 2: talk about in a future episode?

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862
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