WEBVTT - Will’s 50th Birthday Prom Recap 0:00:11.119 --> 0:00:12.160 Welcome to Pod Meets World. 0:00:12.160 --> 0:00:14.920 I'm Daniel Fishel, I'm right strong, and I'm Wilfredell. 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:19.840 Welcome back to another Pod Meets World on Disney Plus. 0:00:19.920 --> 0:00:22.720 I'm Daniel Fishal, I'm right strong, and I'm Wilfredell. 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:30.840 Just got a beautiful rendition of Chest Meats World wrong. 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:34.720 Strong Well was asking if he had one button too low, and. 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:35.400 I fixed it. 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:36.320 It looks great now. 0:00:36.440 --> 0:00:38.879 Now the chest is not meeting the woman. No one 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:47.839 wants to. Somebody wants a great chest. My god, don't. 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:53.040 Add that to the list things we won't say. 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:54.120 Yeah, I gotta find my list. 0:00:54.120 --> 0:00:56.280 I still have it in my best recond to bring 0:00:56.280 --> 0:01:01.160 out that list of things we said justicle, yes, festicles? Stop? 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:03.279 Is what about wax stinkholes? 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:06.440 No we have Oh my god, you guys actually just 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:07.080 gave me the chill. 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:10.280 Who are the other ones? They were all from Boyle 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:12.800 to Worldly episode laps? Oh yeah, lip flaps is a 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:13.200 good one. 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:14.959 Yeah, yeah, we had a but we'll have to look 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:16.199 at it wasn't okay? 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:19.039 Yeah anyway, Well, it is not every day that your 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:21.840 best friend turns fifty years old, and if it is 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:27.559 every day, you have too many friends. Happy birthday will 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:30.520 two weeks ago. For those of you who don't know, 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:36.520 Wilfredell turned fifty years old. It's a big milestone birthday 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:37.520 for this eleven brother. 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:39.959 Huh yeah, it is the play in the back nine now. 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:40.840 Yeah. 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:42.039 So yeah. 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:45.400 I read something the other day that said midlife is 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:49.840 generally characterized by between the ages of forty and sixty. 0:01:50.920 --> 0:01:54.720 So what fifties and new forty? Is that like fifties 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:57.880 one hundred and twenty is now elderly? I mean, yes, 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:02.040 you're not old, you are one hundred years though. 0:02:02.520 --> 0:02:05.000 No, it's weird. It's weird. It's all where do you 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:07.800 feel fine? I feel I mean, I feel fine. 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:11.200 The weird thing is because of my job. I live 0:02:11.280 --> 0:02:14.440 in the past. Yeah, because of our podcasts, of our 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:18.400 podcast and because I mean it's essentially I'm I'm spending 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:19.920 my life and I'm writing a book, and so I'm 0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:22.280 spending my life living in the past. Right, So in 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:24.760 my head I'm still talking about and looking at times 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:25.400 I'm seventeen. 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:26.120 I'm eighteen. I'm not. 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:28.200 So when I actually stop and I go liked, I'm 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:29.600 all gray, and everyone I'm like, well, yeah. 0:02:29.480 --> 0:02:31.080 I'm fifty. It's strange. 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:34.160 Well, so I heard like at some point someone explained 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:36.520 to me that there's like a there's like a curve 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:39.680 of happiness like that people go through and like the 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:42.960 hardest part is like thirty five to forty five, and 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:46.079 that you actually get happier, like you just get more content, 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:49.000 like more accepting of yourself. And I've definitely found that 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:52.079 to be you're the last year or two, I'm like, God, 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:54.280 do you remember, like even three years ago, I was 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:56.960 like really like not happy a lot of the time. 0:02:57.000 --> 0:02:59.040 I was really stressed down, and it's like, that's kind 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:01.600 of going down. I feel like that's what fifty. 0:03:01.360 --> 0:03:02.560 Means to me, is it's true. 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:05.800 It's also I mean, a good ten years of my 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.560 life were taken from by anxiety, and that was so 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:12.720 miserable that everything after that is grav So couple that 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:15.000 now with the fact that at fifty, I'm kind of 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:18.440 like I'm really and I know people say that, especially actors, 0:03:18.440 --> 0:03:20.240 and get like, Hey, I can say I don't really 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:22.240 care what people think about me, But now that I've 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:26.000 hit fifty and even forty eight, forty nine, I really 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:28.120 kind of don't care what people are thinking about I'm 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:30.960 really starting to be like, wow, I don't care that 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:33.400 you don't like me on the internet, Like I really 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:37.640 don't care, And it's this wonderful kind of release, which 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:38.040 is great. 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:39.720 So yeah, it's it's pretty awesome. 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:43.400 I still care so so much. Just kidding, No, I 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:46.120 care less, but I agree with you. But I also 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.320 wonder how much of that is that thirty five to 0:03:48.320 --> 0:03:50.320 forty five for a lot of us, is when you 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:53.400 are in the thick of it with young kids, yes, 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:57.160 and you're trying to have a career and you're trying 0:03:57.160 --> 0:03:57.640 to keep with. 0:03:58.080 --> 0:04:00.200 I think it's more about like have I achieve the 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:02.960 things I wanted to and the pressure you feel from that, 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:05.000 like did I live the life I want? Whether that's 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:07.400 your kids or your partnership or whatever it is. It's 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:10.000 like you feel like there's like, oh a just and 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:11.960 then you just kind of accept like you just get 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:13.520 to a point where it's like, well, what's the alternative 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:15.600 that I'm dead? Like no, I think being alive. And 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:18.479 I think it's just a level of self acceptance that 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:21.240 kind of washes over you past forty five that I'm 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:23.480 stoked on. I'm like, you know, I'm just okay with 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:24.960 who I am and my life. 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:26.000 Is you do start to realize. 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:27.520 I mean, you hear these things all the time and 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:29.599 they're so cliche, but it's true. Where it's like, nobody 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:31.279 ever laid on their deathbed and said, I wish I 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:32.119 did better at work. 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:34.560 Nobody's I wish I had more money. 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:35.760 I'm going to. 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:43.520 That episode you a little better? Yeah, posted more more? 0:04:43.640 --> 0:04:46.560 Most you just wish I'm I'm I'm very content in 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:48.640 the time I spend with my partner and the time 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:51.360 I spend with my friends, and I love what I do, 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:53.600 and it's just kind of like, yeah, fifties so far 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:54.599 looking pretty great. 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:57.839 My hips are for no reason, but really are they? Really? 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:04.960 Celebrate Will's big milestone. He threw a party I had to, 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:09.760 but not just any party. This was a big party 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:14.760 you spent I would guess you spent more money on 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:17.479 this birthday or about the same as you did on 0:05:17.480 --> 0:05:18.839 this birthday as you did on your wedding. 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:21.599 Yeah, pretty close. Yeah, yeah, because you had a pretty 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:22.039 small wedding. 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:23.920 You have had fifty three people at the wedding, and 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:25.479 there's over one hundred and fifty people at the party, 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:27.159 so yeah, yeah. 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:30.800 So I fed them all, So yeah, I bet bar 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:34.120 and the room yeah, we rented. 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:37.560 That a gorgeous room by the way, So he rented 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:41.080 a space that was actually the location of my high 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:41.839 school prompt. 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:43.680 I invited your prom date. He couldn't come. 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:46.760 I sure did. He invited Lance and his husband Michael, 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:49.279 but they were unfortunately out of town. Lance was working, 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:50.560 so he wasn't able to come. 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:52.560 But left room for Jesus. 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:59.360 Yes, well to that point, Will took this. He took out. 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:01.640 He had a prom theme for his birthday party, not 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:06.400 any prom. Nineteen ninety four prom. Why you ask, because 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:08.640 that is the year that Will would have gone to 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:11.360 prom himself, and he never went to prom. 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:13.040 I did. I went to my junior prom with a 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:16.039 girl named Kelly as friends. But senior prom I was 0:06:16.040 --> 0:06:16.800 on Boy Met World. 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:17.600 I came back. 0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:19.960 And and nobody wanted to go with me. So I 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:21.880 went bowling with a bunch of guys that night. But 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:23.320 they were hippies and. 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:25.839 Were he went home. I guess he was just home. Yeah, 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:26.200 I was just home. 0:06:26.320 --> 0:06:27.680 Yeah, it was a show, and there were hippies and 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:31.920 they were wearing Teva's tiva or yeah, we call them 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:34.440 Teva's Tiva's, and so they didn't have socks on. So 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:36.240 they wouldn't run a bowling shoes, so they just. 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:37.240 Got high in the parking lot. 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.520 That was the That was the night of my prom 0:06:39.560 --> 0:06:40.960 ninety four or prom ninety four. 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:44.560 Well, how did you think about how did you feel 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:45.400 about this prom? 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:47.599 This was way better than that. Uh No, it was 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:48.160 so much fun. 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.039 I mean again, but the thing I talk about at 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:51.520 one point I gave a little speech. 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.000 I didn't I don't like to didn't want to talk 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:53.360 that much. 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:56.440 But looking at the different pockets of my life was 0:06:56.480 --> 0:06:58.960 really amazing. So I had my you know family there 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:01.600 who hadn't been out to California in a while. 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:03.559 And your parents made the trip. 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:05.320 They made the trip for the weekend. They were in 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:08.640 town for literally like forty eight hours. Oh wow, they 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:11.440 flew out. My family was here, and then people like 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:14.320 my best friend from camp when I was ten years 0:07:14.360 --> 0:07:17.200 old flew out, and friends I grew up with in 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:18.600 my town in Connecticut. 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:20.720 And then you know, half of the. 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:22.960 Cast from the first series I ever did at eleven 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:25.560 years old on Nickelodeon flew out for this and that 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:27.960 was don't that was don't just sit there. So yeah, 0:07:27.960 --> 0:07:31.200 there was different pockets of and friends of the podcast 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:34.040 and the Tanya Ross came and Christine Laken. 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:35.720 For me, it was a little bit of a tgif yeah, 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:37.720 because it was yeah Lauren Bros. 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:38.320 Lawrence. 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:40.800 I was like looking around being like, wow, this is 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:44.240 like that we've talked about the like strange like child 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:47.640 actor or teen actor camaraderie that we had. We don't 0:07:47.640 --> 0:07:49.680 even remember meeting these people. We just always saw each 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:52.080 other at advance. We'd be stuck at a table during 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:54.280 some ABC party or whatever, and it was like it 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:55.080 felt like that. 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:57.160 It's so good to see you. It was. 0:07:57.360 --> 0:07:59.200 It was so it was a ton of fun. It 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:01.560 went off without a hit, which not Quod Rider. Your 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:04.000 wife Alex was a huge help when he was putting 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:04.600 the party together. 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:06.720 He is a party planner extraordinary. 0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:10.200 She's an excellent producer and travel planner. 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:11.920 Well, they started at your birth I was. 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:13.720 Going to say, can we talk about when this started, 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:16.560 because it was writer had a birthday party in this 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:21.320 past December, and Will said, for my fiftieth in August, 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:24.480 I want to have a party, and Alex pulled out 0:08:24.480 --> 0:08:26.640 her phone and said, all right, let's pick the weekend 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:27.680 right now, and she. 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:30.120 Did and she went okay, so your birthdays the eleventh. 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:32.000 Okay, well you guys are at a con the weekend 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:34.480 after weekend before we're traveling, all right, so it's the 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:36.920 weekend of August fifteenth, and I went what she goes, Yeah, 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:37.840 your party's August fifteenth. 0:08:37.840 --> 0:08:39.559 She was, give me your phone, and then she. 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:41.920 Laughed at me because my calendar every day it just 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:43.000 says taake pills. 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:47.120 That's all literally all he has in his calendar. 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:49.360 And the funny part is ninety percent of the time 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:54.040 I forget to take the game. So yeah, my vitamins 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:55.480 at all that kind of will take pills, take pill 0:08:55.840 --> 0:08:58.000 I don't have them. But yeah, so she like she's like, 0:08:58.000 --> 0:09:00.319 all right, I'm planning the day we're let's find us spot. 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:02.600 And then so she and my wife were coordinating and 0:09:02.640 --> 0:09:05.760 but yeah, your wife was a massive she gets stuff done. 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:08.319 So yes, she does very much. So yeah, she's got 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:10.720 that mind because it was one of those things where 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:14.080 I would have hemmed in had and Ben might have failed. 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:16.200 I feel like you might have failed or had it 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:17.560 at the house. That was the other possibility is just 0:09:17.559 --> 0:09:18.600 going to throw it at the house, and it would 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:21.560 have been the same. This was like prom So it 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:22.319 was so great. 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:26.679 Everyone everyone dressed up a lot of people fully committed 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:29.720 to the bit and took the bit even farther than 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:31.160 I ever could have anticipated. 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:34.680 You guys probably didn't even get the best costume of 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:38.440 the night. So my friend Roger Craig Smith and his 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:41.679 girlfriend Patricia came. Did you notice the two people with 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:43.280 the wigs on that were carrying the bikes? 0:09:43.280 --> 0:09:43.640 Oh yeah? 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:44.719 That so. 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:46.840 Our favorite movie of all time, or one of our 0:09:46.840 --> 0:09:49.559 favorite movies of all time is the greatest BMX movie ever. 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:52.000 It's called Rad Oh yes, yeah, I haven't seen it since 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:52.560 I was eight. 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:52.880 Yeah. 0:09:52.920 --> 0:09:56.920 Right, So there during their high school dance scene, the 0:09:56.960 --> 0:09:59.320 main guy and Laurie Laughlin ride in on bikes and 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:01.880 they do a damn to send me an angel on 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:03.840 the bike. So they brought they dressed like them and 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:06.400 brought the fake bikes like they were crashing the dance. 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:09.800 Oh yeah, God, it was so much fun. 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:12.920 That is really great. We did talk about it a 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:15.559 little bit on the podcast that you had invited Bill 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:18.360 Daniels and that Bill and Bonnie were coming. Did you 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:20.640 hear from them, because I ended up not making it 0:10:20.679 --> 0:10:21.160 to the party. 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:24.960 The greatest part about them not coming, and that's going 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:28.760 to sound Strange is ninety seven and ninety nine years old. 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:31.720 You know why they didn't come, Why they had another 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:32.400 party they. 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:34.080 Had committed to before. They're amazing. 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:35.720 They thought they were going to be able to do 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:38.520 both parties. And Bonnie had a party. It was like 0:10:38.800 --> 0:10:41.240 a Golden Girl's Emmy party. And she's like, I'm so sorry, 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:42.160 she wrote with this beautiful thing. 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:42.680 I'm so sorry. 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.360 We donated to pause for life for you, and we're 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:46.600 so sorry. But we'd committed to this months ago, and 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:49.120 I think two parties in the night's going to be 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:49.679 too much for us. 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:51.400 I was like, Bonnie, I get it. 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:54.640 It makes even more sense why she had originally called 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:57.440 and said, unfortunately, we will only be able to be 0:10:57.520 --> 0:11:00.960 there for two hours. She had worked it out where 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:03.360 she was like, all right, from seven thirty to nine thirty, 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:06.040 we will be at Will's. Then from nine to thirty 0:11:06.040 --> 0:11:07.800 we will leave and go unbelievable. 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:10.120 Well, so unfortunately they didn't make it, but literally because 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:13.040 they had better things to do, which is kind of awesome. 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:16.520 Now, we had said that it might be it might 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:19.800 end up being the largest Boy meets World reunion since 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:24.560 Matt Nelson's funeral. And this was a happy occasion. I'm 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:26.480 just did you invite yas mean. 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:29.880 Belief I did? And then she came and doesn't believe 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:31.680 she was there, Yeah, which is incredible. 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:33.559 Yeah, we had some great We had a ton of 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:35.600 boy meets for old people there, and unfortunately some that 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:38.400 canceled the day of, like one of our writers, Laura Roynolds, 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:40.760 wasn't able to make it. And then right as we 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:43.480 were leaving, I got a text from Alex Stays there 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:45.960 who was like, I'm so sorry, my girlfriend's ill. 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:48.480 We got to go out to lunch. I'm so sorry, 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:49.319 I'm not gonna be able to make it. 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:52.200 So we had a couple of cancelations last minute, but 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:54.400 it was We had a bunch of writers there, a 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:55.640 bunch of producers, a bunch of. 0:11:55.559 --> 0:12:00.839 Tracking came from Connecticut, from Connecticut, unbelievable. We had Jeff 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:04.160 Manel there. We had Jeff Sherman there. We had Bob 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:08.240 Young there. Yep, we had Mark Blutman there also. 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:10.240 I don't know if you saw David Brownfield. 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:11.800 Yes, I saw David Brownfield. 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:12.600 Yeah. 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:14.120 We had a whole lot of people there. And then 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:16.040 you know, Betsy was there and. 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.119 You guys were there her husband John. 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:22.959 Yeah, so Rusty wasn't able to make it, unfortunately, and 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:25.360 uh and I this is where like after the fact 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:28.400 that God can't believe I forgot to invite them, people. 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:30.719 Like Dede DeStefano and Steve Hayfer, I. 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:33.360 Just since I'm not in right and I'm not in 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:35.200 contact with him all like every day. 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:37.360 And then I was kicking myself, like I can't believe 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:40.160 I didn't. So did. I love you? I love you. 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.760 I'm so sorry you and Steve and all those guys. 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:44.120 They you would have all been on the list. I 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:45.920 just it wasn't in my head. So yeah, now I 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:47.880 wish I could have the lobster here in honor. 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:50.640 I know you, sure do I know lobs So yes, 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:52.120 So it was. But what a night. 0:12:52.640 --> 0:12:57.199 I would like to talk about your prep you really well? 0:12:57.240 --> 0:12:58.920 First of all, can we talk about what you and 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:02.640 Alex spotted on the way to Will's party? 0:13:03.320 --> 0:13:05.880 What are we talking? He took pictures of us Sky writing. 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:08.560 Oh yes, that's just crazy. So we're in the car 0:13:08.679 --> 0:13:12.320 and we look up and it says heart Sue, and 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:16.600 as you We're like, did Will pay for Susan skywriting? 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:18.000 Right there? Look at that? 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:22.080 There's quotable here for you, and I did, and I 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:25.200 saw the same sky writing coming from the opposite direction, 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:26.679 so I was coming from. 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:29.000 I paid for it. 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:33.480 Yeah, and we we Writer sent that photo and Will said, yes, 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:35.400 I did that, and then he was like, I didn't, 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:39.280 but I do want you to for one second you just. 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:41.240 Tell people that you that was not me, but that 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:42.240 was that was great. 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:44.600 So let's talk about your prep. We talked about the 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:47.640 facts that the fact that Alice really helped plan. You 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:50.000 set the internet ablaze with your outfit. 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:53.920 Because people were like, why didn't write book? It's so 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:58.120 like writer to just wear a bowling shirt? Okay people, Hello, 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:03.400 there was some real pension, There was some thought behind this. Actually, 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:05.640 mostly what happened is all right. There were a couple 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:06.600 ideas I had a right. 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:09.240 First of all, I thought about wearing the kilt that 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:13.480 I graduated high school, and we both I thought that 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:17.520 that would have been very, very funny to YouTube, right, 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:19.720 and nobody else would have gotten it. You two would 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:21.960 know that, oh writer graduating in a kilt. We remember 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:24.320 that and I still have it. But then I was like, 0:14:24.360 --> 0:14:26.240 everyone else is going to just be baffled. I'm going 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:28.320 to be explaining this all night, like oh, this is 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:32.200 the kilt I graduated in Why this is killed? Yeah, 0:14:32.280 --> 0:14:34.160 it was a weird. So I was then like, oh, 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:36.640 I'll just get a tux. So that I was on 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:39.320 the road and getting the tucks, you have to like 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:42.800 go somewhere and try. And we came home the day 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:45.920 before your birthday party. We came home for your birthday party. 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:47.920 I'd been on the road for six weeks and a cameraman, 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:50.360 so I was like, not, I could have done. 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:51.760 Like a virtual trying on. 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:56.440 And then it struck me, why don't I just dress 0:14:56.720 --> 0:15:01.400 like I did in the nineties on your ad Ridge Tuesday, 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:06.600 which is Jenko jeans with my books in the back pocket. Yeah, 0:15:06.840 --> 0:15:09.560 and a bowling shirt like a sort of sort of 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:10.560 like trendy cool. 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:12.840 And I was able to put this in the perfect 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:15.280 middle park. Don't forget the middle the middle park, perfect 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:15.720 middle park. 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:19.080 So I basically just time traveled, went back and embraced 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:23.040 the full nineties this and then the the fake Djenkos 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:23.440 that I got. 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:24.600 I couldn't get actual Jenkos. 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:25.960 I just had to get like, you know, whatever the 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:28.640 modern equivalent is fancos. 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:31.640 They they didn't have the giant pockets. 0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:33.000 In the back, so I had to find books that 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:35.480 were small enough to cram in there. But luckily Catcher 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:37.400 in the Rye, which made perfect sound, of course, because 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:39.080 I did read that in the stead of for the 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:41.400 first time, and it was the addition that I actually read. 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:44.120 And then I was able to find a Kerouak poetry book, 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:47.240 which just because it had Kraak, that's actually what I 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:49.520 would have been carrying around in my back pocket every 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:50.680 day for years. 0:15:50.880 --> 0:15:53.040 So yeah, worked out, Yeah, it worked out. But I 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:55.240 think a lot of the Internet was like wooden to 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.120 dress up everyone. But the people that got it really 0:15:58.120 --> 0:15:58.320 got it. 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:01.560 Come on those of us who know you at all 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:03.160 from the nineties walked in and were. 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:07.640 Like, oh ye, perfect, great, and what about you, Danielle. 0:16:07.760 --> 0:16:12.440 I went on to Poshmark and found a dress from 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:18.280 the nineties. Absolutely loved it. It was sparkly, it was 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:21.560 blue satiny. I probably should have had it hemmed. The 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:23.840 only alterations I did were up at the top end 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:26.680 the sequence. They were it was rather voluminous up here, 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:28.120 and so I had it taken in a little bit. 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:30.280 I probably should have also had it altered, maybe a 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:32.320 tiny bit, but anyway, it was. 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:35.240 It was great that Pashmark. 0:16:36.760 --> 0:16:39.400 And got her dress. She looked spectacular. She was wearing 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:47.680 a black strapless gown. I would also like to talk about, uh, 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:55.960 your outfit will Okay, you wore a beautiful blue velvet tuxedo. 0:16:56.440 --> 0:16:58.400 You also had a boot near. Do you know how 0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:01.080 mad I am that I did think about a boot 0:17:01.160 --> 0:17:02.400 near and a corsage. 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:03.880 Yeah, we did so, and I did the whole thing 0:17:03.880 --> 0:17:05.320 where I got to she pinned it on me and 0:17:05.359 --> 0:17:06.800 I got to put it on her wrists and all 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:07.440