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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 2: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 3: We wanted to do something that highlighted our.

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Speaker 2: Relationship and what it's like to be siblings. We are

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Speaker 2: a sibling. Railvalry.

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Speaker 4: No, no, sibling, you don't do that with your mouth, revelry.

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Speaker 3: That's good.

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Speaker 5: All.

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Speaker 3: I'm excited about this next. Well, there's three of them.

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Speaker 2: There's three these next peeps, right, the Winks, the Winkler,

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Speaker 2: the Winklers. Before we start, though, uh, I've been working

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Speaker 2: on a couple of stand up bits.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, this is.

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Speaker 2: Well, Oliver. No, I'm not going to do stand.

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Speaker 6: Up Wait wait, actually hold on, this is interesting, but okay,

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Speaker 6: hold on, I need to digest this pirsond Okay, why.

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Speaker 2: Well, they just float around in my mind and I thought, well,

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Speaker 2: these are probably interesting stand up bits, like that's the

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Speaker 2: only reason, wonder if.

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Speaker 7: You started doing stand.

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Speaker 2: Up it's too hard. If I can get enough bits

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Speaker 2: in my mind, maybe i'll do it like a tight five.

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Speaker 3: Oh God help us.

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Speaker 8: Okay, just real quick, maybe this is where you'll get canceled.

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Speaker 2: Finally, No, no, no, because this isn't even a dirty one.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm just saying I'm just saying if you became

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Speaker 6: a stand up oh yeah, you would definitely at some point.

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Speaker 2: Probably Well yeah, okay, just go what is it? Give

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Speaker 2: it to me, okay, or us give it to.

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Speaker 3: All of them?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so okay, Apple m innovations of Apple right. One

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Speaker 2: of the things, of course we all know now is

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Speaker 2: these Apple memories just pop up onto your phone and

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Speaker 2: it's supposed to elicit this sort of nostalgic response of

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Speaker 2: oh my god, do you remember, And it's supposed to

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Speaker 2: give us joy, when in fact is fucking devastating. It

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Speaker 2: makes me think that I am old. I look at

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Speaker 2: these pictures of my children. We're all going to die shortly.

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Speaker 2: The person who created this was pretty much diabolical, I believe.

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Speaker 2: And then it's about expanding on that. Okay, like give

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Speaker 2: it to me, Well, it's just a seed. It's just

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Speaker 2: a seed. It's a scent. I still have to get

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Speaker 2: into it. I like this, but but then I'm going

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Speaker 2: to keep you keep going, like you get specific with it,

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Speaker 2: you know, like I see something from like two thousand

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Speaker 2: and one, you know, two thousand and two where I'm

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Speaker 2: with my son Wilder. Now we's seventeen years old. It

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Speaker 2: does whatever's in your photos. All of a sudden, this

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Speaker 2: music comes up and it's like, yeah, we're a man,

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Speaker 2: but you and it's like, okay, holy shit, I'm gonna die.

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Speaker 2: And how did I look? And my kids were young

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Speaker 2: and they all loved me and hate me, and my

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Speaker 2: son must talk to me. You know, I'm supposed to

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Speaker 2: feel good right now like you Apple, well mine.

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Speaker 3: Just it's like all my past relationships.

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Speaker 2: That's a good one. That's a good one too, right fail.

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Speaker 3: Next Tom, like next to Danny, and like all this.

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Speaker 6: I was like me and Chris in Paris.

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Speaker 2: That's good your relationship.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, I love it. I love it.

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Speaker 7: I'm like different, I like look at I'm like, I

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Speaker 7: can't believe.

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Speaker 3: See my thing is is that I actually look at it.

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Speaker 6: Maybe this is a Maybe this is just a brain mechanism,

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Speaker 6: like a like a function of one's brain chemistry. When

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Speaker 6: I see it, I see like, wow, I've done so

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Speaker 6: much in five years.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, Yeah, I don't look back.

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Speaker 7: I don't look back, going like, oh my god, I'm

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Speaker 7: gonna die. I want to go.

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Speaker 2: It hurts, you know what I think? This, you know,

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Speaker 2: just painful to me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I can't think about.

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Speaker 7: It like that.

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Speaker 6: It's like, but if you know, you know, I think

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Speaker 6: the thing is is that if you think too hard

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Speaker 6: about what was, or if you think too hard about

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Speaker 6: how like how how insignificant and fast this life really

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Speaker 6: is in the big scheme of things, it's really so

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Speaker 6: profoundly sad that you just can't live in that. So

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Speaker 6: you don't you can't forget it, like just keep going

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Speaker 6: and love it, you know.

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Speaker 2: But it's great for Santa, and it's going, it's it's

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Speaker 2: it really is moving faster. I mean, as we get older,

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Speaker 2: shit gets fast. I know you hear that when you're

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Speaker 2: you're younger, like and you know, just remember it's all

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Speaker 2: going to move by quickly and.

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Speaker 7: You're like, okay, in your twenties and then.

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Speaker 8: Ho shit, yeah, I think you.

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Speaker 6: I think that one of the tricks is to continuously

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Speaker 6: do new things.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's okay, they're in the waiting room.

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Speaker 3: I love this, yes, and I love you.

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Speaker 2: I love you. Let's bring in because they have a

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Speaker 2: new podcast. We're going to talk about that too, That's right, Okay,

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Speaker 2: bring them in.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Hi, we are so happy to be doing this

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Speaker 3: interview because obviously, for well.

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Speaker 2: I feel uncomfortable well, let me. It's too close. Zoe

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Speaker 2: is like across the streets, and it's.

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Speaker 3: Not Halloween, and it's not all so for all of

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Speaker 3: the listeners out there, Oliver and Zoe are actually literally

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Speaker 3: and Zoe and I's sons are best best friends. So

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Speaker 3: with this is like, this is like a family affair.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 9: And you, Stacey and I have stood on the sideline

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Speaker 9: of many a football game.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god, many a football game.

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Speaker 9: And before we start, we have to say that we

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Speaker 9: saw you before the summer, I think just before the

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Speaker 9: summer on a talk show, sending your song out into

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Speaker 9: the world.

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Speaker 7: Singing, and you founded amazing.

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Speaker 3: Oh thanks, Henry. Yay?

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Speaker 2: He has anyone ever called you Hank?

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Speaker 10: You know what?

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Speaker 9: I only have one friend named Frank who calls me Hank,

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Speaker 9: but he's the lead in your boot I call the

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Speaker 9: lead character and Hank Zipzer Hank. But no one has

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Speaker 9: ever called me Hank. No except for Frank.

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Speaker 2: Damn it. I like Hank.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it. I think I I think we should

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Speaker 3: start calling you.

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Speaker 7: Hank to get a crew cut, and I'll be right back.

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Speaker 3: Well, Henry, I remember the first time I actually feel

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Speaker 3: like I met you I was twenty one years old,

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Speaker 3: and we stayed in the same hotel. And he loved

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Speaker 3: a suite in this hotel that he used to stay

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Speaker 3: in New York. And Chris and I, when I was

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Speaker 3: married to Chris, loved the same room. And I I

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Speaker 3: think I met you in the lobby. You might not

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Speaker 3: remember this, but then I but I could. We couldn't

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Speaker 3: get that room because you were in the room.

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Speaker 7: And then the burden happened again. Of course we don't

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Speaker 7: stay at that hotel anymore, none of us, do you.

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Speaker 7: That room is yours?

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Speaker 3: Okay, got it? But it was so, it was so

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Speaker 3: it was, and I I met you in the lobby

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Speaker 3: and we talked about the room, which was I think

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Speaker 3: the first time I had really ever talked to you

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Speaker 3: like that.

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Speaker 2: And what do we know with hotels?

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Speaker 3: I forget what the name it was on Park Regions.

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Speaker 3: It was the Regency, a lovely hotel. Yes, is it

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Speaker 3: still there now?

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Speaker 7: It's now called the Lows or something. Oh, it's true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Henry and Stacy, you met. You met in nineteen

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Speaker 3: seventy six in Beverly Hills.

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Speaker 7: Where at Jerry Magnin's at that time his very European

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Speaker 7: boutique Polo. It was Polo no before Polo.

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Speaker 9: He opened the Polo store, but it was called Jerry

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Speaker 9: Magnins and it was very Italian and I made enough

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Speaker 9: money to buy my own sport code. And Stacey, I thought,

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Speaker 9: worked there and was happy to see me. And of

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Speaker 9: course he was the publicist for the storm.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh and then what was so? What was your

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Speaker 3: first impression of each other?

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Speaker 7: Says?

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Speaker 5: You know what, My oldest son, Jed loved him like

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Speaker 5: a lunatic and had Henry and the six million dollar

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Speaker 5: Man on his fourth birthday cake that June. And this

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Speaker 5: was in August, so I definitely knew who he was

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Speaker 5: and he was adorable, it was cute, sexy. Oh well

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Speaker 5: he was also to sport jackets. Yes, I'm sure he

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Speaker 5: was sexy.

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Speaker 3: Well how did how did this turn into a date?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 9: Because when I went back the next week after it

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Speaker 9: was fitted, Stacy was there again and I thought, look,

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Speaker 9: she's there again.

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Speaker 7: She knew I was coming.

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Speaker 9: Then I found out she worked there, and I said,

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Speaker 9: do you want to go for a soda? And we

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Speaker 9: walked across the street to a Silver place because I

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Speaker 9: needed to buy a gift for somebody. I knew in

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Speaker 9: high school was getting married and she said, I'm not

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Speaker 9: a gift service. And I said, I understand. They said

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Speaker 9: the Beverly Wilshire Hotel and had a soda and I said,

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Speaker 7: I had no one to show it to.

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Speaker 2: M good mode.

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Speaker 3: Well that was fat good move.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, thank you? I no, no, no. She called her

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Speaker 7: mom and said, this is where I'm going.

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Speaker 9: If anything happens to me, you know where I am.

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Speaker 3: It was the seventies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and how is the how is the house? Did it?

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Speaker 2: I mean with Henry a gentleman?

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Speaker 8: Or was he totally? It was? It was very nice.

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Speaker 5: We had a good time and I had to leave

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Speaker 5: because I had a date that night.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 5: He was very actually surprised that once there I was leaving.

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Speaker 5: But we had a really good time. We got on

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Speaker 8: He was a total gentleman.

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Speaker 3: How long did you date until you were like a couple?

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Speaker 3: Tell the story.

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Speaker 7: About what happened that dad kept calling you.

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Speaker 8: I didn't know Daddy was calling me.

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Speaker 9: Okay, So we talked about Huey Lewis in the news. Yes,

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Speaker 9: and a book that Stacy saw I should buy ordinary People.

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Speaker 7: And at that time I didn't I couldn't.

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Speaker 9: Even conceive of being a producer. But the next morning

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Speaker 9: I was going to brunch at friend's house down the street.

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Speaker 9: I went up to my car, I opened the car door,

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Speaker 9: and there on my front seat was ordinary People and

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Speaker 9: Vinyl Huey lewis in the news. How did she get

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Speaker 9: into my garage?

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Speaker 3: How did you get into the garage?

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Speaker 5: Very bizarre? My clicker when I his gate was locked

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Speaker 5: and I didn't want to get busted and come down

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Speaker 5: the stairs, but so I was trying to fit it

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Speaker 5: under it didn't fit, and by some stroke of insanity,

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Speaker 5: I pushed my gate opener and it opened.

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Speaker 8: The Wow, no idea.

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Speaker 2: That's like, that's like a metaphor.

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Speaker 3: I know everything.

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Speaker 5: Forty six years Yeah, and I and I put it

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Speaker 5: and his car also was unlocked, and I put it

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Speaker 9: So I went to my friend's house, and I then

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Speaker 8: Yes, I like that philosophy.

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Speaker 5: But no, and see if this really works, must have

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Speaker 3: Maybe physically it's like I physically can What about.

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Speaker 7: Featured my daughter making laws.

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Speaker 3: This is my favorite interview ever. Okay, I'm gonna button

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Speaker 8: I mean, the way it is. That's a relationships real life.

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Speaker 2: That's real life exactly.

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Speaker 8: But but so.

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Speaker 9: Be anybody that. But I would also tell you that

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Speaker 2: You know this is yeah, yeah, I love these sort

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Speaker 7: It started me when I was seven.

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Speaker 2: No, I know, Zoe, you and I are on we've

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Speaker 7: You know what?

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Speaker 9: Nine years ago, I I came to a place where

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Speaker 3: I love it. That's a great thing to meditate on.

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Speaker 2: Actually it is.

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Speaker 7: All the actors in the room are like, I love that.

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Speaker 2: Just say it's a great visual?

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 7: I know what I said.

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Speaker 3: I love it. No, I really understand.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I do too. And it's and it shifted you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's changed you.

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Speaker 9: I you can ask Stacy, ask my entire family I

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Speaker 2: Being, really amazing.

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Speaker 7: I am the human being I thought of being that

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Speaker 2: It just made you better all around.

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Speaker 9: You know, I saw myself was a block of Swiss cheese,

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Speaker 7: About me. When I was going to many things.

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Speaker 9: Oh oh, oh h, zoe was like a cupcake, you know,

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Speaker 3: It was always Zoey.

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Speaker 2: So when did you go to Like, how old were

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Speaker 7: I wasn't joking. I was maybe younger than seven.

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Speaker 8: It was no, for goodness sake, I was naughty yet.

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Speaker 11: From underneath the table, and at all times insisted because

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Speaker 7: Like, no, got to keep driving or get at table.

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Speaker 11: And I think at that point they were like, holy shit,

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Speaker 7: It is so scary.

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Speaker 11: It's going to happen, and that's so unsettling for someone

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm curious about you guys, you know, especially

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Speaker 9: It's not just mental health. I grew up in New

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Speaker 11: Max Room when I was having anxiety attacks, they just

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Speaker 7: What I'm just kidding, I will tell you.

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Speaker 8: We tied you up.

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Speaker 8: The color left their face.

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Speaker 7: It was a riddlin.

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Speaker 2: Do you still suffer from anxiety?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 5: I yes, I am an anxious person. I'm emotional. I

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Speaker 5: going so well, there must be something horrible. Yeah, from

449
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 5: the corner, because this is not normal. It's too good

450
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 5: right now.

451
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I have that, Aaron, my wife has

452
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: that more than I do. But I feel that too.

453
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 2: Someone's like, it's too good, something bad has gotten to happen.

454
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,919
Speaker 7: It's terraever induce my mind.

455
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 3: It's a mind that's so interesting. Henry just said, never

456
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 3: enters my mind. That's like my mother, my mother, it

457
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 3: just doesn't. It's just yeah, and.

458
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 8: Does not have that.

459
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:17,160
Speaker 11: He only has anxiety about germs and money and money,

460
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 11: which is so fucked.

461
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:26,239
Speaker 7: In him. She was also a grand larcenist.

462
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 2: Thief.

463
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,199
Speaker 8: He told me who was the thief? Me?

464
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 11: When I use his credit cardent Ron Herman friend segall Juliana.

465
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 7: Not use it, abuse it.

466
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 3: Okay. So there's there's three kids. There's there's uh Jad

467
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 3: who's the and Zoe and Max. And when you met Stacy?

468
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 3: How old was job for and Stacy? When did you

469
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 3: think it was appropriate to introduce him to Henry?

470
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 7: Like?

471
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 3: What was it? What was that?

472
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 2: Like?

473
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 7: You know what?

474
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 5: My parents were out of the country and we were

475
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 5: staying at their house like house sitting and Henry came

476
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 5: to pick me up like a date would come to

477
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 5: pick up. It wasn't like a relationship or anything.

478
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 7: And and we went to the movies.

479
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 5: We went to the movies and I I introduced, I

480
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 5: mean and and maybe it was because when I said,

481
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 5: I said to him, guess who I'm going out with?

482
00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 5: And it was, you know, his birthday cake person. He

483
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 5: opened the front door and said, FANSI and Henry, who

484
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 5: was at the time extremely serious. What did you say,

485
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 5: honey when Jenny I.

486
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 9: Was panicked at the time about being type cast, so

487
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 9: I would do nothing Phonsie off of the show. I

488
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 9: was Henry and that was my character. He opened the door.

489
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 9: I looked down this little guy. I said, my name

490
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 9: is Henry. Would you like it if I called you Ralph?

491
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 8: And then of course he went into therapy.

492
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, Oh you you're so concerned.

493
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 2: Oh no, not a four year old. You didn't want

494
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: to be typecast.

495
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 3: Now I know you went into therapy nine years nine

496
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 3: years ago. So okay, So you basically met Jeb right away,

497
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 3: and then how long was it until you were living together?

498
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 3: How old was how long?

499
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 7: How long was that that was?

500
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 8: I think a year? A year later.

501
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 5: We were living together, and that was like a major

502
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 5: thing because I was very nervous about that, about the

503
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 5: fact that it wasn't going to kind of feel as permanent.

504
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 5: But I mean, I believe that it was that we

505
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 5: would The first date that we went on, my parents,

506
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 5: as I said, were away and I wrote down that

507
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 5: this was who I was going to marry it on

508
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 5: a little piece of paper and folded it and put

509
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 5: it in my mother's jewelry box. I really felt that,

510
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 5: but I I it was a bigger deal with the

511
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 5: child to live together. That was that was a big

512
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 5: commitment mm hmm. But you know, fortunately it worked, but

513
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 5: it was a big.

514
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 2: Deal when you wrote that and put it in the

515
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 2: When you wrote that down, what were the things about

516
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 2: Henry that you knew that this was the guy?

517
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 8: Like?

518
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 2: What was what was like, Oh, this is the guy.

519
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 5: What's very funny is that being born and raised here

520
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 5: and growing up here, everybody knew that you don't necessarily

521
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 5: go out with or expect a relationship with someone who

522
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 5: was in the entertainment business.

523
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 8: I was taken with was that he just.

524
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 5: Felt more normal than anyone that I had ever met.

525
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 5: He just felt normal. He had a great sensibility, he

526
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 5: had a what a terrific demeanor, He felt calm and

527
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 5: laid back, and I just it just felt like, Wow,

528
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 5: this is someone really special.

529
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 3: At the time was Happy Days? Was that was it on?

530
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 8: Oh? Yeah, it was.

531
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 3: It was in its.

532
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 5: Second year, But I like, for instance, we went to

533
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:59,479
Speaker 5: the movies and Henry said, I think I think we

534
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 5: should in the back and I said why and he said,

535
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 5: I'm just Oh. As we were on our way to

536
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 5: the movies, someone waved in the car and Henry waved

537
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 5: back and I said, who is that? And he was

538
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 5: so surprised, He had no idea who was that? Was

539
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 5: the kind of thing that, as I got to know him,

540
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 5: became a reality that was nowhere close to a reality.

541
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 3: Well, and Happy Days was so huge, and you were

542
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 3: the I mean you're the Fox.

543
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 13: I mean I was like the one of the biggest,

544
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 13: biggest characters in everybody's home for years and years and years,

545
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 13: you know, one of the great loved What a joy

546
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 13: that you got to experience.

547
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 7: It was a joy for me to play him.

548
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,439
Speaker 9: Yeah, for me to be with those people who are

549
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:57,959
Speaker 9: still family, they're yeah, very very close to But when

550
00:34:57,960 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 9: we went to the movies, I said, you know, I

551
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 9: think it would be better if we sat in the back.

552
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 9: And Stacey said why And I said, I don't know

553
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 9: how to describe it to you, just I think it

554
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 9: would be better if we sat in the back. She

555
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 9: went why, And I wasn't okay, And we sat in the middle,

556
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 9: and the entire theater stood up and came over to

557
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 9: say hello.

558
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 2: Wow.

559
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 7: She looked at me and she went, oh.

560
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 2: Henry, what was your first gig after Happy Days? Because

561
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 2: you I totally get it, Like, of course you love it.

562
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 2: You owe everything to the funds, right, but at the

563
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 2: same time you're like, holy shit, fuck the fawns. I mean,

564
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 2: I've got to get out of this.

565
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 9: Yeah, But you know what I all I thought about

566
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:47,439
Speaker 9: was I need to get another job, not get out

567
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 9: of it, because I had so much fun, but I

568
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 9: couldn't get hired right and I had I literally had

569
00:35:56,680 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 9: psychic pain. I was sitting at my desk in my

570
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:05,800
Speaker 9: office at Paramount and I was paralyzed because I didn't

571
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 9: know what do I do? Will it be as powerful

572
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 9: as the funds? Will I ever be hired again? And

573
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 9: my lawyer, Skip Brittenham, said, I'm going to make you

574
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 9: a production company and I said, well, I'm so dyslexic.

575
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 9: I can't do that. And here's the lesson. You don't

576
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 9: know what you can do until you try. Because the

577
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 9: first show somebody came in, I went, oh my gosh,

578
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 9: I like that a lot. And my partner at the

579
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 9: time was a man named John Rich And the first

580
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 9: show we sold was Macgiver Really Wow.

581
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:48,760
Speaker 2: And then if you've been producing, that started producing career.

582
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 7: That started it.

583
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 9: Then we did a show called Sightings for seven years,

584
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 9: which was all things paranormal. We went all over the

585
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 9: world and either broke a myth or looked at something

586
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 9: that people were talking about on whether it was true

587
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 9: or not on a show called Sightings.

588
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 2: And then what about acting? What was your gig after.

589
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 9: Ard really hard? I did a television movie and eight

590
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 9: years later that was called Absolute Strangers, which is when

591
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:29,879
Speaker 9: I started to really act again. And then it took

592
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 9: me a long time, you know Adam Sandler.

593
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 2: Movies, Yeah, water Boy right right.

594
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 10: Then.

595
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 7: Arrested Development, yeah right, and then Scream Yeah.

596
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 9: Then, you know, so slowly I worked my way back.

597
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 2: And then and then Barry, Barry, what a blessing Barry.

598
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 7: I'm knocking Wood.

599
00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 2: I mean, you were so fucking great. I I'm not

600
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 2: just saying that I loved it so much. I loved

601
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: that show so much. I thought it was just an

602
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 2: amazing show. Just tonally. You know how you can sort of,

603
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 2: you know, marry those two tones.

604
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 7: That's all Bill and Alex.

605
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 9: When you do a television show, when you do anything,

606
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 9: you need the people who are running it to have

607
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 9: a point of view. And then in that point of view,

608
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 9: in the structure, comes your freedom.

609
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 2: So real quickly, going back to your anxieties, which is

610
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:34,240
Speaker 2: finance and germs. Okay, you know you play the phones,

611
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 2: so you you have some financial freedom from that, but

612
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 2: that's not going to sustain you right then, because it's

613
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 2: so hard to get an acting gig or to find

614
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 2: your way in that world. You're now a producer. I

615
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 2: actually am producing now. I have a deal with Fox

616
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 2: and it's really really fun from a creative place, But

617
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 2: the only way you're going to make money is if

618
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,879
Speaker 2: that show actually goes. That's exactly produced. So were you

619
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,720
Speaker 2: financially strained for a while?

620
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 7: In my mind? And I am always financially.

621
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 12: So I feel I'm not kidding I I am relaxing

622
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 12: a little bit.

623
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 9: But now with my partner, I have written forty children's novels,

624
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 9: Aren't News.

625
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 7: One comes out in October.

626
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 2: Amazing.

627
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 9: That was a time filler and it became another profession.

628
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 5: But it's also Henry. It is who you are because

629
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 5: you reinvent in all these different areas. It's an amazing

630
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 5: quality because you can't bear to be still.

631
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 7: His work ethic is the craziest thing I've I.

632
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 8: Mean beyond, I don't really beyond beyond.

633
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 7: Follow?

634
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 3: May I ask Zoe as you sit there and you

635
00:39:59,920 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 3: know I can't help but think, like, what do you

636
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 3: ever feel the pressure of like what your parents have done?

637
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 3: As like the matriarch and patriarch as the family and

638
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 3: being together. I mean, you have a You've had a

639
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 3: very long relationship with your husband. You guys are solid

640
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 3: and awesome and great, but like, just sometimes does it

641
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 3: ever feel like hard to live up to?

642
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 11: First of all, I have to be amazing, so I

643
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 11: already I feel like everyone I live up to it.

644
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 7: But no, I swear, and I think it's because of

645
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:35,720
Speaker 7: the way they raised us. I really do. And also

646
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:36,720
Speaker 7: I didn't go into.

647
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 11: That business, so I think that that's something I followed

648
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 11: my mom's footsteps, and that my mom, you know, started

649
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:48,879
Speaker 11: two nonprofits and you know, worked on the Commission under

650
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 11: Clinton and did all of this amazing stuff.

651
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 7: So I followed in her footsteps. But I never wanted

652
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:57,320
Speaker 7: to be an actress ever. Ever. Ever, I almost made.

653
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 11: A mistake when I was offered the Bachelorette and I

654
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 11: said yes, and then my dad was like, no, she

655
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 11: won't do that, and then I, like, you.

656
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 7: Know, I.

657
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 3: Would have given anything to see that.

658
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,720
Speaker 11: It's do a show with Kim Kardashian and Sarah Howard

659
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 11: called Quarter Life Crisis.

660
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 7: The producer flew out.

661
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 11: Here, not Hannah, and I shot the sizzle reel and

662
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 11: then my dad said, please come to our house.

663
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 7: I'd like to meet you.

664
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 11: And my dad said, please go inside, and I went

665
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 11: inside and I came back out and Matt Hanna said, Okay,

666
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 11: I gues we're all done.

667
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 7: I guess you're not doing the show. And I was like,

668
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 7: what do you mean?

669
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 11: And my Dad's like, So my parents protected me in

670
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 11: that way because I think that that would have been

671
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 11: such a disaster. But I feel no pressure ever. I

672
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 11: feel only pride in them. I do want to say,

673
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 11: I think sometimes like for Max, my brother was a

674
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 11: director and a writer.

675
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 7: Who told us that he was going to do that

676
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 7: at ten.

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00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

678
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 11: And by the way, when my dad was auditioning for Barry,

679
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 11: he ran all the lines with Max, and Max tell it.

680
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 11: I really feel like I could see like him feeling

681
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 11: pressure maybe, and he doesn't either, And I think that

682
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 11: that's because, like my parents always told us, from the

683
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 11: time we could understand, like you can do and be

684
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 11: anything you can. You know, like it was always like

685
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 11: we were. They were very very strict, but we could

686
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 11: have any conversation with them. If you tell the truth,

687
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,399
Speaker 11: you never get in trouble. And they never made us

688
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 11: feel like you know, my dad's life was very much

689
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 11: like it wasn't it was because of the work that

690
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 11: he did. It had nothing to do with us, and

691
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:31,320
Speaker 11: it wasn't ours and we never took it on really,

692
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 11: I mean I would use it.

693
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 3: What about emotionally? What about in terms of their relationship

694
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 3: like your mom and dad being together for forty six years?

695
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 3: And I mean that.

696
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Speaker 11: I feel like I think I had like such a

697
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 11: beautiful model and I'm so grateful. And my husband's family

698
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 11: same thing, you know, high school, see arts, they've been married,

699
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 11: and I feel I feel very lucky, like I but

700
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 11: I am so close to my parents that you know,

701
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 11: when I have a fight with my husband, I call

702
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 11: them crying and I'm like, you know, I'm so angry,

703
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 11: and you know, like.

704
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 2: How many times a day do you call them?

705
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 11: Not that I'm very reactive, and so I feel like,

706
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 11: you know, it's like a very good but I don't.

707
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 11: I feel like they've shown they've set a bar. But

708
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 11: I feel like when even if I've made mistakes, they've

709
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 11: never made me feel shame about.

710
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,720
Speaker 3: What are the things that you take from being raised

711
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 3: by them that you implement in your family with your Children's.

712
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:43,919
Speaker 11: Question, Highness like that comes first. The mental well being

713
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 11: of my children and their ability. They're like that is

714
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:52,439
Speaker 11: before grades, before anything else. Treating people with respect, being

715
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:56,879
Speaker 11: kind to everyone. Nobody is better than you, and also

716
00:43:56,920 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 11: you're not better than anyone. And family dinners. We sat down,

717
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 11: you know, Monday through Thursday, we had dinner together, and

718
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 11: that's something we do giving back that my kids can,

719
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 11: you know, talk to me about anything. It doesn't mean

720
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 11: that I'm necessarily going to change my mind, but i

721
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 11: want them to always feel And I've always said to

722
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:18,839
Speaker 11: my kids, if you tell the truth, you won't get

723
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:19,280
Speaker 11: in trouble.

724
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 7: I mean so many things, so many things that I you.

725
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 9: Know, and Zoe is very close also with Stacy, and

726
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 9: they are very funny together, and so they're going to

727
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,320
Speaker 9: try and do this wonderful podcast together.

728
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 3: That's we were going to get into that, which is.

729
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, it's so great. Even watching your you know,

730
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 2: stories and your all your Instagram stuff, it's almost a

731
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 2: natural progression into an actual plod unst you're.

732
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:50,800
Speaker 7: The one who's being filmed.

733
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 11: I like to be like the dark horse, like I'm

734
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 11: actually the comedic genius in the family and the director

735
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 11: because all my stories are.

736
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 5: Our house was not like you know, Saint Mary's. It

737
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:14,399
Speaker 5: was we were all doing the best we could. So

738
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 5: it was that our kids also saw that we blew it.

739
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 5: Many times we would be over reactive. We would you know,

740
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 5: go to your grounded or whatever it was.

741
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 11: And they would have disagreements, which I think is like

742
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 11: the best thing because I saw that, like you can

743
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 11: fight and.

744
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 7: And the world isn't going to end, you know.

745
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 11: She would have disagreements and there would and so my

746
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 11: dad would mediate the disagreements between my mom and I.

747
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 11: He would sit in the middle in their bedroom. He

748
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 11: would sit here, she would sit in the bed, and

749
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 11: he would sit on the chf's lounge and you would

750
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:50,799
Speaker 11: he would be like, I think what you're trying to say,

751
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 11: you know, and my mom and I would just like, oh.

752
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 3: My god, that would never happen in our family.

753
00:45:58,040 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 8: It barely did in ours.

754
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

755
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 3: So, but your podcast is on iHeart on on our

756
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 3: lovely iHeart Radio and it's called What in the Winkler.

757
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:10,720
Speaker 2: Released October thirtieth.

758
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 13: October thirtieth, my birthday birthday, that's your birthday.

759
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh was that on purpose?

760
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,719
Speaker 11: I wanted it to be called Seeing Red because my

761
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:23,800
Speaker 11: mom and I are both redheads and super fiery.

762
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 8: I like that.

763
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 7: I know.

764
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 3: We like What in the Winkler too, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

765
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 3: What in the Winkler's cute?

766
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 2: I like it. It's cute, it's cute. I love seeing

767
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 2: Red is a great title though, for what nobody saw.

768
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:39,320
Speaker 11: Hollie Meyershire actually came up with What in the Winkler

769
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 11: Nancy Meyer's daughter.

770
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 3: Oh wow, So why did you want to start a podcast?

771
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 8: Well?

772
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 11: People, so some people saw my Instagram and they were like,

773
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 11: this is so funny.

774
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 7: You should do a show, you know, you should a

775
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:50,959
Speaker 7: reality show.

776
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 11: And it didn't really like that wasn't really like comfortable

777
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 11: for any of us.

778
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 7: So we were thinking, like how could we do it?

779
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 11: And then my mom and I and our relationship has

780
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 11: had so many different seasons.

781
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 5: Seasons, multi season.

782
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 3: Listen, Oliver, just get with the new seasons.

783
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 2: It's the season buzz thing been around like like no,

784
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 2: like two years.

785
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 11: Literally, actually just said this to Rob about like our

786
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 11: relationship and like how we have three young kids and

787
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 11: we're just like so in it right now and this

788
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 11: is the season.

789
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 7: And he was like, where the fuck did you hear that?

790
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 7: I know, and I thought it was great.

791
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 3: I kind of like it because I mean it's look,

792
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:46,359
Speaker 3: it's a good it's a good way to communicate a

793
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 3: change in direction or energy.

794
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:52,280
Speaker 2: But you can have a season like three, three seasons

795
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 2: in a day. You can go through.

796
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:55,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and maybe I will.

797
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 2: That's that's what I'm saying. But a season, it says,

798
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, there's a period of time as a season,

799
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 2: but we don't exist seasons come back saying Zoe is

800
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,400
Speaker 2: you can be you can be in a season this

801
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 2: season today, and your season is shifted tomorrow.

802
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 7: No one has there's seasons don't have a time limit.

803
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 2: Yes, but it's also like, how do you have a

804
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 2: time limit that's not around three to four months?

805
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 3: But you're you're creating. That's not how you speak of it.

806
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 11: It's more just like it's more just like a broader

807
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 11: you gotta got to look beyond.

808
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 3: I think he knows. He just hates.

809
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,399
Speaker 2: I think it's wrong. It doesn't It kind of takes

810
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:35,360
Speaker 2: it makes no sense.

811
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 5: Well, we have also been known to have three or

812
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 5: four seasons within an hour's time exact, So I get

813
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 5: I get where you're both coming from. But it's a

814
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 5: nice definition.

815
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm.

816
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 3: What things do you want to tackle in the podcast,

817
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,320
Speaker 3: like what what are you excited about getting into?

818
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 11: Like for me and for my mom, I think it's

819
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 11: such an amazing thing that we get to have this

820
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 11: memory together and that we get to sit we talk,

821
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 11: we talk. I sit in that in her dressing room

822
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 11: which you see behind her, and we just talk. And

823
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 11: that's where we all come My dad comes in there,

824
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 11: my brothers come in there, we all come in, the wives,

825
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 11: the husbands, the kids, and we just sort of like

826
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:21,959
Speaker 11: talk in there.

827
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 7: And I think we have.

828
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,399
Speaker 11: The ability to be really honest with each other and

829
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 11: so our life and I think you guys can relate

830
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 11: to this was bizarre and also normal and also you know, wild.

831
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 11: And I think people always ask like, what was it

832
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 11: like having you know? And I think my answer was

833
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:46,759
Speaker 11: always like, oh, what's it like having your dad?

834
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:47,359
Speaker 7: Is your dad?

835
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 3: You know?

836
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 11: And then I realized that maybe that wasn't like the

837
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 11: nicest way to respond, because I.

838
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 2: Was Zobe, Actually were you were you? Did you embrace

839
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 2: your dad being famous? Or was it were.

840
00:49:58,800 --> 00:49:59,240
Speaker 7: For her?

841
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:06,800
Speaker 2: Oh really like a garden tools to really yeah, clubs.

842
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 7: Oh yeah.

843
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 11: But then when somebody like when I would be in

844
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,800
Speaker 11: the middle of a conversation. Someone would come up to

845
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 11: him and I'd be like, oh, and he would be

846
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 11: like watch your mouth, like how do you think you

847
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 11: get to you know?

848
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 8: You know?

849
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 7: And so I But yeah, I loved it, I very much.

850
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 7: I didn't. I mean I when I went.

851
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 11: To college, I hated it and that I felt like,

852
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 11: you have this thing where like everybody knows you, but

853
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 11: you don't know everybody because everyone like you're going to

854
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 11: be this way, and then you spent I spent all

855
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 11: this time proving I was some other way that it

856
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 11: was almost like about it.

857
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 2: Well, what about you? STA's like, wow, what do you

858
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:41,359
Speaker 2: want to get out of this? What do you love

859
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:41,879
Speaker 2: about it?

860
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:42,799
Speaker 3: You know what?

861
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 5: To be utterly totally honest, I really have not gone there.

862
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 5: I love the fact that I get to have this

863
00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:04,240
Speaker 5: time with so she that's it makes me laugh so hard.

864
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 5: And I just take each thing kind of as it comes.

865
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 5: I don't want to overthink it because it feels like

866
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 5: I don't want to take it so seriously. I think,

867
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 5: whatever is the situation, somehow it will evolve or it won't.

868
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 8: But I love right now just having.

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00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 2: I get that. I totally get that, because you know,

870
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 2: we've been doing this for years now. We love talking

871
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 2: to you guys. We love talking to our various guests.

872
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 2: But I think the greatest gift of the podcast, other

873
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 2: than the small amount of money that I get to survive,

874
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 2: it's about having time with Kate and having an hour

875
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:54,439
Speaker 2: or two hours or however long it is to sort

876
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:58,839
Speaker 2: of converse, to talk to people, to learn even more

877
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 2: about each other than we didn't know. I think the

878
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:03,919
Speaker 2: great angle for you guys is the mother daughter thing

879
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 2: as well. I mean, I think that's an important relationship

880
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:10,279
Speaker 2: talks hearing how authentic and how candid you guys are

881
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:11,240
Speaker 2: about your life.

882
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and how you're like, especially when it comes to

883
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 3: raising kids and raising kids and environments that can be challenging,

884
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:23,879
Speaker 3: or keeping your kids, you know, grounded. Also talking about

885
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 3: all the work that you do, all of the important

886
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 3: work that you're doing. I think it's going to be wonderful.

887
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 3: I can't wait to listen.

888
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then just throw your dad under the bus

889
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 2: for some headlines.

890
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 3: Related has to make a He has to have his

891
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 3: own little section. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

892
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 2: It's called wink wink. And that's when Dad comes in.

893
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 2: Wink wink, wink wink and then Dad comes in to

894
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,240
Speaker 2: give a little like truth serum.

895
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 3: Right, hold on, let's ask wink wink.

896
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 2: Or how about wink wink is a segment of he's

897
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 2: telling either a true story about his life or it's

898
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 2: may or he's made and you have to guess.

899
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 3: And sure, Oliver is filled with ideas.

900
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:02,720
Speaker 2: I got ideas.

901
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 11: Kids are obsessed with Ollie. Like they just show up

902
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 11: and they're like, any bikes that we could ride, any

903
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:09,720
Speaker 11: any ramps, any.

904
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I love my garage. They said they

905
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 2: have my bike for years they have it now. I think, right, yeah,

906
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 2: you have my bike. He's like, so I know, and

907
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 2: then giving Max a shout out. Though Max is directing

908
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 2: a cool movie, right.

909
00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:24,920
Speaker 7: No, he is.

910
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 9: He's been running a television show show and he did

911
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 9: American horror stories.

912
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, he in Feud.

913
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:36,760
Speaker 2: That's right. Ryan Murphy's not the Uh.

914
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 9: Oh he works for Ryan a lot and now and

915
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 9: and pretty soon.

916
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 7: Oh.

917
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 9: He he directed Javier Bardem, that's it. And then Javier

918
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 9: Bardem invited him for dinner and I said, can I drive,

919
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:59,280
Speaker 9: I'll wear hats, I'll ring the bell.

920
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 2: That's cool. He's killing it, you know.

921
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:09,320
Speaker 7: Whatever his name is, he's a really good actor.

922
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 3: Oh, that's so nice to hear. That's great. He's been

923
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,880
Speaker 3: working so hard at it for so long. He deserves that.

924
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 3: That's so awesome. Well, I love you guys. This is

925
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 3: so great. And October thirtieth.

926
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:26,720
Speaker 2: What a winkler?

927
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 3: What is a winkler?

928
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:33,200
Speaker 2: What in the wink winkler? October thirtieth? Everyone checked that out?

929
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 3: Exactly.

930
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 2: Are you having guests at all?

931
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,240
Speaker 7: We'll have guests once in a while, I'll have guests.

932
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 7: All right, Well, I want to be only I want

933
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 7: you to be good, lovely conversation.

934
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 3: This was so much fun.

935
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 2: It was great.

936
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:49,879
Speaker 3: I don't have to overcompensate for Oliver because you know him,

937
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 3: but I will apologize for how inappropriate he was in

938
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 3: the beginning.

939
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:58,319
Speaker 2: Well, Zoe, how long before you and Rob made love?

940
00:54:58,680 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 7: Okay, we're done.

941
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:03,799
Speaker 3: He was in this house.

942
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:11,400
Speaker 7: Actually, I'm just kidding. I'm set.

943
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 5: Max, thank you for We love you much.

944
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 7: Do you think I thank you on Halloween?

945
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 3: Halloween?

946
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 2: Oh? So sweet family.

947
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 7: I know.

948
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 2: Henry is just the sweetest, the sweetest.

949
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 3: He's the sweetest man, and.

950
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 2: I love that he's been nine years ago. He's like,

951
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do therapy, I know, but it's just great.

952
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,799
Speaker 2: It speaks to this idea that it's never too late

953
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:46,720
Speaker 2: to get better work on yourself.

954
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 3: I love his metaphors.

955
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 2: He loves it. I love the coffee and the cream

956
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 2: on the cupcakes. Yeah, it's always baking. I wanted to

957
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 2: say it. I was like, wet, You're is always moist

958
00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 2: or wet. But I didn't I know that really said that.

959
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 2: I didn't say very inappropriate. Stacy said that I didn't

960
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:04,399
Speaker 2: say that.

961
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 3: I know, I know, but I wasn't even thinking that.

962
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 2: That's just to show what.

963
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:12,919
Speaker 3: Your your male the male brain. No, I wasn't thinking

964
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 3: that at all. But now I am.

965
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 2: Thanks.

966
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 3: Yes, But honestly, we know them so well. They're a

967
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 3: wonderful family.

968
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

969
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 3: And uh and really, you know, honestly, Henry and Stacy,

970
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:28,280
Speaker 3: how do He's so wholesome?

971
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 2: You know?

972
00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 3: But but then when you get to know him, you realize,

973
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 3: you know, he had he's.

974
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 1: Had such an interesting life and and and as as

975
00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 1: time goes on, yeah, I mean, but as time goes on,

976
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 1: he realized, what does the younger generation even.

977
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 8: Know of happy days?

978
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 2: Probably not, you know, it's.

979
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:51,840
Speaker 3: Really our generation, maybe some maligious twenty right gen z,

980
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 3: Like I don't think Ryder knows who the Phsan says

981
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 3: he was such on a novel.

982
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 7: It was huge, huge, Like it.

983
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 2: Was like and think about it, there was like three

984
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 2: TV stations back there. Yeah, forty million people watching a TV.

985
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 3: Show and happy days Gary Marshall. Yeah, Gary Marshall, my man.

986
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 6: Yeah, if you're in the Gary Marshall family, it's a thing.

987
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:15,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was the best.

988
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 6: He was such a brilliant man and like such a loving.

989
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 3: Gary was the best.

990
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh, good family. It's funny. They're they're so entertaining. Yes,

991
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 2: they're just nuts. They're all nuts and in the best

992
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 2: possible way, and it's just so fun to watch them.

993
00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 2: I knew that's why they started the podcast, because Zoe

994
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 2: would do on on our Instagram, would always have these

995
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 2: funny ass stories with her and her mother. You know.

996
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 3: Well, I'm excited to see how it translates into the podcast.

997
00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 3: I Love You Love