WEBVTT - Mon Part 2: Blake Shelton Debunks Internet Myths 0:00:01.080 --> 0:00:13.080 Wake Up, Wake Up, the mall and the radio, the Dods, Lunchbox, 0:00:13.200 --> 0:00:17.400 Morgan too, sevree out of trying to put you through five, 0:00:17.560 --> 0:00:21.000 He's running this Whig's next bit. The Bobby's on the box, 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:29.440 so you know what this. 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:30.400 The Bobby vall time for the news. 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:32.520 Bobby's Story. 0:00:33.920 --> 0:00:38.520 Chuck Woollery of two and two. You know what that's from? Amy? 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:39.479 Oh yeah, I love connection. 0:00:39.640 --> 0:00:42.040 He died. He was also the original host of Will 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:45.320 of Fortune. He was eighty three years old. He was 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:47.680 in a country band when he first started like he 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:50.280 was a country singer in the pop duo, in the 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:53.680 half pop half country duo, the avant Garde, and then 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:55.640 he got hired as the Will of Fortune host, which 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:58.040 later was taken over by Pat Jack. But he died 0:00:58.080 --> 0:01:01.160 eighty three years old. Rest in peace to Chuck Woolery. 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:05.080 Do you have extended family visiting for the holidays? They say, 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:09.040 do not feel pressure to ask them to stay with you? 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:12.760 You have Wait what I would? I would not. I 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:14.920 don't feel pressure. I would be like, hey, you're welcome 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:15.560 to stay here. 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:17.600 But that's the pressure, especially if you don't like know 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:19.080 the or like love them. 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:20.840 I don't know. I just feel like the more the 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:22.240 mirror in the house for the holidays. 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:24.440 But I guess like extended family where you're like, eh, 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:27.920 like cousins and stuff like yeah, yeah. 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:30.960 Yeah, blow up mattresses, make room for everybody. Well well 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:33.360 yeah everybody. You go sleep with that person that will 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:34.960 just make more room sleep on the couch. 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:38.039 Yeah, like extended because you don't really know that. I 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:41.200 mean you like kind of know. Family members feel selfish 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:43.319 or wrong when they suggest that relatives stay at a 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:46.600 hotel or elsewhere. But mental experts say you should vanish 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:51.320 the thought. If it overstresses your marriage or your kids 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:53.920 to have different guests in your home, then ask your 0:01:53.920 --> 0:01:56.680 relatives to stay at a hotel. They mostly won't care either, 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:59.120 they say, And your ultimate goal is to have quality 0:01:59.160 --> 0:02:01.560 moments with the six tended family. They will understand that. 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:04.760 That support that. I agree with that like to release 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:07.560 yourself of any guilt you feel not inviting them, But 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:09.360 if you want to go for it. 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:13.600 That is from When Difficult Relatives Happen by Leonard Felder. 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:16.480 It's a difficult relatives. 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:18.680 I Here's how music has changed. In twenty twenty four. 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:21.800 More music is being released every single day than was 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:23.920 released in an entire year in like nineteen eighty nine 0:02:23.960 --> 0:02:24.560 or nineteen ninety. 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:26.520 Oh my gosh, that's because they's so much easier. 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:28.880 You just loaded up, send it to a DSP and 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:30.920 they load it right. You can do so much more 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:32.840 of it at home. It's so much easier to make. 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:35.919 But yeah, in twenty twenty four, they are making and 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:39.480 releasing more music than ever before. Again, it's easier to make, 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:43.400 it's easier to release when back in the day nineteen 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:46.720 eighty nine, nineteen ninety you had to create it, press 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:49.800 it onto a CD, get it to a place, hopefully 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:52.720 you get someone to distribute it. But yeah, there are 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:55.800 millions of songs that go up every single day that 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:59.000 is from consequence. It's hard to find. And I would 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:01.200 compare this to new TV. It's hard to find new 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:03.040 good music that you really like because again, there's just 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:05.320 so so much of it. So it's like, I don't 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:06.720 even know where to start. There's so much, and you 0:03:06.720 --> 0:03:08.000 know what, I give up. I'll go back and listen 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.320 to John Mayer. It's like a television show and you 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:12.480 have one hundred options up there, and you're like, oh, 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:15.440 I'm just gonna watch the office, you know, same kind 0:03:15.480 --> 0:03:19.280 of deal. Unless something unless somebody recommends it to you. 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:21.760 We are in the space now of it's so hard 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.360 for anything to cut through and catch on that you 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:30.000 need somebody that you like and has similar sensibilities to go, hey, 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:32.960 this show is really good because then you go check 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.400 it out. Same thing with music, especially with me now, 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:37.840 like the times of me just going like, let me 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:41.200 just explore. There's just too much. There's too much. I'm 0:03:41.200 --> 0:03:43.040 probably missing more than i'm checking out. So I need 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:44.760 somebody to go, hey, I think you'd like this. 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:46.000 You know who's good at that. 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:49.600 TikTok TikTok feeds me a lot of music, and I'm like, 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:50.040 I like that. 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:53.360 It's called an algorithm. Yes, it's because you like other 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:56.480 things like that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, But like TV shows, 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:58.520 whenever do we see a commercial for a TV show 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:02.760 and then go watch it, I don't know, ten fifteen years, 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:04.360 I'm sure at some point I was like, oh, check 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:06.280 out this new show, friends, I should watch that. It 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:07.120 looks like a hot No. 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:09.839 I would say probably eighty percent of what I watched 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:11.960 on TV is something you've recommended. 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:14.280 Or just somebody that you trust to go, hey, this 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:14.920 is a good show. 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:16.440 I going to trust you and Caitlyn. 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:19.640 Yeah, well there's two people. Then I appreciate that. From 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:23.080 NBCLA this woman finds a naked dude living under her house. 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:24.479 Oh boy, another one. 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:27.039 Yeah, dude, I think this is the thing. I know. 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:31.919 She was ninety three years old, and I would imagine 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:35.760 this guy probably targeted somebody older. 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:37.200 You can't hear as well. 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:39.720 And yeah, see, not so much like going attacker or 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:42.400 take advantage of her. But yeah, course if her senses 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:45.120 are as good, Yeah, that's tough. 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:47.679 And why was he naked? He's just sleeping kind of sleeps. 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:49.760 He had a tear gas. You know, I didn't really 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:50.719 say why he's naked. 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:51.120 I don't know that. 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:52.799 I would have been naked under the under a house 0:04:53.160 --> 0:04:55.160 right a lot. I probably had extra clothes on under 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:55.559 a house. 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:56.240 Rats. 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:57.240 Bugs. 0:04:58.160 --> 0:04:59.600 Last thing I want to do is see like a 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.039 centipede on my centipedeum. 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:05.080 Me, I don't want that. 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:06.200 No, you don't want that. 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:07.280 Crazy. 0:05:07.720 --> 0:05:07.840 Uh. 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:12.160 Finally, this is from a Progressive Insurance survey. Studies found 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:15.159 that a majority of managers have quit on fantasy football 0:05:15.160 --> 0:05:17.800 by now because their team can't make the playoffs. Right 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:19.960 before Thanksgiving is the most popular time the season for 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:22.159 players to give up and they stop checking their team 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:25.120 because they don't care who starts. And so this is 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:29.240 with fantasy playoffs starting in mid December, most people that 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:32.040 are out of it just quit because they don't have 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:35.000 By the way, you're a loser if you do this, 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:37.120 because you owe it to the rest of your league 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:40.080 to continue to start your players, because there are still 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:42.760 positions that haven't been filled in the playoffs that are 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:43.719 depending on you not being. 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:46.880 A more on unless just like you can't quit right. 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:48.719 Well, there's I don't know if there's a rule ever 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:49.679 that you can't quit. 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:51.400 We do what do we do? A penalty or something? 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.560 If you miss and you you start up, you don't 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:55.640 start a player, or you do start a player that's out, 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:56.919 there's a five dollars penalty. 0:05:57.160 --> 0:06:00.320 Okay, yeah, so that's that's good. I think that holds 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:01.160 people accountable. 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:03.600 How y'all, how y'all take it under the house. 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:05.799 Are y'all still in your teams? 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:07.240 I've never not made the playoffs. 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:12.919 I don't think my history have never ever, But I care, No, 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:14.840 I care too, but I missed the playoffs all the time. 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:22.200 Bobby's story. There's a voicemail. We got over the. 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:26.640 Weekend, so I matched with a guy on a dating app. 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:27.880 And he was super cute. 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:31.159 You know, in his pictures he was throwing baseball, like 0:06:31.200 --> 0:06:35.200 pitching baseballs. He had knees on his shoulders, he was pitching. 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:35.480 On a boat. 0:06:36.080 --> 0:06:38.719 He pulls up to pick me up. He's in like 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:40.280 a little coop mustang. 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:41.359 All of a sudden, I'll. 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:43.560 Say, oh, yeah, I'm almost I'm getting ready, like, you know, 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:45.400 giving his sack that you can come up if you want. 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:48.400 Oh I can't. He nods to the back of his coop. 0:06:49.000 --> 0:06:51.800 It's a wheelchair. He did not disclose that he was 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:55.560 paralyzed permanently. What would you guys have done in the situation. 0:06:56.040 --> 0:06:56.920 Is that cat fishing? 0:06:57.200 --> 0:07:02.880 Let me know, Wow, I don't know that that's catfishing, 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:07.000 but definitely probably should be disclosed. 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:10.040 Let me think about this. It wasn't in any of 0:07:10.120 --> 0:07:13.720 the pictures that he is nothing so right, right, So 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:16.000 here's a question. Let's take it out out of this 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:21.080 because I think we obviously have sympathy for the guy 0:07:21.120 --> 0:07:22.880 because he's in a wheelchair, or that is going to 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:27.119 remove us from making an unbiased decision because we're feeling 0:07:27.160 --> 0:07:29.480 sympathy for a situation for a person. We don't know 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:33.720 what if the guy's seven foot three and never discloses 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:36.680 the seven foot three and everything is all the pictures 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:40.239 he's in. He is just like standing next to trees 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:43.120 and stuff and it looks normal sized and he's like 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:45.320 eating a sandwich, but he's sitting in a chair and 0:07:45.400 --> 0:07:48.320 you never know he's seven foot three. He knocks on 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:51.000 the door and you're like, holy crap, did you not 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:54.360 say you were seven foot three? Do you feel like 0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:56.440 that would have been some sort of catfishing? Because that 0:07:56.600 --> 0:08:04.800 is something that is not extremely common. It's a physical 0:08:04.960 --> 0:08:07.000 thing that's happening with him that he had that maybe 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:08.800 people wouldn't want to date him if they say seven 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:12.120 foot three. So he doesn't say it. There's nothing wrong 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:14.560 with it, but he's had bad luck on people giving 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:18.200 him a chance initially because he's seven foot three or 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:20.480 four foot ten. 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:25.000 So just so you know, on dating apps, there's a 0:08:25.120 --> 0:08:26.640 height option where you fill out your height. 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:28.920 I don't have to though, And then what do you 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:30.560 do with a this is your height if you're in 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:31.920 a wheelchair. I literally don't know the answer for R. 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:35.760 Yeah, I don't know either. But I have seen that guy. 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:39.160 So I have seen a guy on my when I 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:41.439 was on a dating app, like he was in a wheelchair, 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:43.880 and he showed himself living life in his wheelchair, even 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:46.840 dancing on a dance floor like someone spinning him around, 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:48.640 like it was a whole thing. So he was very 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:50.719 upfront about it, which I think is how you should be. 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:53.160 I don't know. I think if I were the guy 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:55.000 and I'm putting myself in his place and people had 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:58.200 rejected meet, I was getting no matches because I showed 0:08:58.240 --> 0:09:00.600 I was in a wheelchair, I probably wouldn't just risk 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:03.600 it and show up and be like, you didn't say 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:06.480 no to me, not in a wheelchair, So you're already 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:09.959 feeling like no that I'm in a wheelchair. I think 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:12.040 that's a tough situation for the guy because he's probably 0:09:12.040 --> 0:09:16.439 not gonna get a lot of swipes. I don't is 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:20.640 it catfish, and I think it's like perch fishing. I 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:22.800 don't think it's as big a fish. And I think 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:27.120 just like the four foot ten guy or the seven 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:32.840 foot eight guy, because that's just not common, they're probably 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:38.000 tortured on the inside because they know they're like a 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:40.800 good person. And people aren't fairly giving them an opportunity. 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:42.760 So they think if they can just show up in 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:45.959 person and be given an opportunity, they can actually have 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:50.959 that opportunity. I see that, but do what. Yeah, that's 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:55.280 a tough one because also, if I'm the guy, I'm 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:58.400 probably gonna disclose it because it's like somebody who wears 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:02.000 a hat in every picture, but it's bald. Now are 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:06.000 they lying? No, they're not lying because they're not. They 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:08.360 don't have fake hair using young, younger picture. But all 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:10.400 of a sudden they get there and they're like, oh 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:12.120 what a day. They pull their head off and you're like, 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:15.480 oh my god, that's a bald head. They didn't lie, 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:19.160 but now you're having to deal with that later. Ah, 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:21.319 that's just a tough that's a tough one. 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:24.200 What I tend to see happen with that is they 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:27.280 all like, say, there's six photos total, and you're scrolling down. 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:29.920 The first five they have a hat, but then the 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:34.199 sixth one they reveal, you know, their hair color, or 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:37.680 their hair style or their hair head. 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:39.719 If I was bald, I did the same thing. I 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:42.040 would never show my head. Yeah, Espuch crops embarrassed of 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:43.400 it and they just hope they gave me the benefit 0:10:43.400 --> 0:10:46.040 of that. When I got there, I'm gonna say, was 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:49.440 a catfishing, No, because catfishing is often done with an 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:53.839 intent of screwing somebody over or misleading someone to the 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:57.760 point of getting something from them. Was a little perch fishing, 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:00.160 probably because he probably needed a perch fish or for 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:01.000 people to give him a shot. 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:03.800 Yeah, and you liked him so far. Yeah, you're like, 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:06.160 maybe you don't miss out on someone awesome. 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:07.360 But you said it was catfishing. 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:09.439 At first, I didn't say calfishing. No, I said, I 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:12.760 do think you should disclose it, And I also see 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:13.280 your point. 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:15.400 I don't think you should have to disclose it, because 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:17.319 we don't disclose everything on those apps. Trust me, you 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:20.439 don't disclose most stuff. You just disclose like your greatest 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:22.240 Hits album. And then you get there and you're like, 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:26.199 maybe you like some deeper cuts. Hopefully you do, but 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:29.520 I can understand everybody feeling a little awkward there. I 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:32.920 don't have an absolute answer on that, and I hope 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:36.000 that I need to know what happened. Did you go 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:36.400 out with them? 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:38.040 Yeah? What if they end up getting married? This would 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:39.480 be the greatest story would be so cool. 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:43.160 Yeah, but it can also be the opposite to where 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:44.440 she just never went outside. 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:46.959 Yeather than that frees him up to meet the right person. 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:50.160 Yeah, but that's just what people say whenever they've been 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:52.959 very unlucky so far. Morgan, what do you think about this? 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:55.079 I don't know that it's hat fishing, but I do 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:58.319 think anytime you lie about any version of you that's 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:00.360 like a permanent part of your life, I think is 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:00.920 not a good thing. 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:03.280 Just like with kids, you want somebody to be upfront 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.160 that they have kids. I would never show I had 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:07.000 kids on it on a dating end because he didn't lie. 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.920 I would. You guys wrong, you don't have to. 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:14.400 There's you don't have to, Okay, Well, good luck out there. 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:17.640 I think it's it's a version of line, and I 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:21.160 do think it could be I mean, dishonest, but I 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:23.199 don't feel like he's cat fishing for the sake of 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:25.840 like getting something. Cat fishing to me is somebody tricking 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:27.360 somebody with like a different motive. 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:33.840 There is hat fishing, but fishing in general just means 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:37.040 you're you're tricking somebody to do something, And technically he 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:39.679 did because if she wouldn't have gone with it. 0:12:39.880 --> 0:12:42.360 Then she did trick her to go on the date 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:42.719 with him. 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:44.760 He didn't show anything that wasn't real. There was nothing 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:45.640 real that he didn't show. 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:47.280 No, but he's not one hundred percent. 0:12:47.400 --> 0:12:49.520 And it also shows let me like, when I see 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:51.560 somebody lying about big things like this, it shows. 0:12:51.800 --> 0:12:54.600 He's lying secure about it, yes, because he's probably been 0:12:54.640 --> 0:12:56.719 rejected for it so many times. But I don't think 0:12:56.760 --> 0:12:59.240 he's lying. If he's literally posting pictures from his life, 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:01.760 I don't think he's lying. And now you could be 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:03.200 omitting if you think lying. 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:06.079 Iss youmt Yes, you're paralyzed. 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:09.040 What I'm pro the guy that's paralyzed and you guys aren't. 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:12.280 You guys are haters for know what, there's a hat fishing. 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:14.600 Man. 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:15.400 I'd have fish like. 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:18.640 Crazy, Okay, I wouldn't have any kids. I'd have a 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:21.280 hat on and I would never sure, dude, I would 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:23.839 be just I'd get there and be like, Okay, you've 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:26.520 seen everything the best. So I'm trying to convince you 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:28.800 now because you were going to say no beforehand. Okay, 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:30.599 we got to take a break. That's tough, and thank you. 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:32.000 Hey, let us know if you went on the date 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:33.800 or if you didn't go on the date. 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:35.280 Thanks, that's a crazy one. 0:13:35.200 --> 0:13:35.679 All right, thank you. 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:41.920 So I mastered with a guy on a dating app, and. 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:43.160 He was super cute. 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:46.360 You know in his pictures he was throwing baseball, like 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:49.480 pitching baseballs. He had knees on his shoulders. He was 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:50.720 fishing on the boat. 0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:52.760 He pulls up to. 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:53.320 Pick me up. 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:56.240 He's in like a little coop Mustang. All of a sudden, 0:13:56.240 --> 0:13:56.720 I'm say. 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:58.440 Oh, yeah, I'm almost then getting ready, like. 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:00.679 You know, give me us like eating love if you want. 0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:01.559 Oh I can't. 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:05.240 He nods to the back of his coop. It's a wheelchair. 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:08.800 He did not disclose that he was paralyzed permanently. What 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:11.480 would you guys have done in this situation? Is that 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:12.120 cat fish? 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:12.839 Let me know. 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:15.280 That was a call we got a minute ago. I 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:18.160 want to go to Heather in Boston. Heather, welcome to 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:19.080 the show. What do you want to say? 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:21.240 Hey, good morning studio. 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:22.680 What I. 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:24.200 So? 0:14:24.480 --> 0:14:27.200 I am a wheelchair user also on a dating PAP. 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:31.280 So I wanted to give you some perspective and as 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:35.560 someone who is showing up on the dates in a wheelchair. Okay, 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:40.760 So I when I first started dating, I said you know, 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:43.160 I want people to get to know my personality first. 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:46.400 I want to have people get to know who I 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:50.480 am and not physically what I look like. And that 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:53.560 got me into some trouble because as soon as guys 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:57.320 found out it would they would fade away. They really 0:14:57.920 --> 0:14:59.680 it was like, I don't want to get into this. 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:02.600 I don't really know if I can take this on. 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:05.880 I don't know what they thought they would be taking on. 0:15:06.160 --> 0:15:10.480 There's a lot of assumption around wheelchair users. And so 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:13.400 then I started putting pictures of myself in a wheelchair 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:16.040 and just like kind of disposing it in like a 0:15:16.120 --> 0:15:17.720 funny way, like right now, I think I have on 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:21.120 my app that like I have amazing parking spaces, but 0:15:21.240 --> 0:15:23.040 you might have to reach something on the top shelf. 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:25.640 So I'm just trying to like kind of bring some 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:29.560 humor to it because I feel like I don't want 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:32.040 anybody feeling bad for me, Like I don't want sympathy. 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:35.320 I want empathy. I want people to understand that everyone 0:15:35.520 --> 0:15:38.880 has challenges that they are that they go through in 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:42.720 their life, whether it's permanent or temporary, and wheelchair users 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:47.960 can be very sexy and we have lives that are intimate, 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:50.600 and we want lives that are intimate, and we can 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:53.480 have very fulfilling lives like I'm a mom, I work 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:56.640 full time. I drive, it's amazing. I love my life. 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:58.280 And I use a wheelchair and it's okay. 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:01.200 I was thinking about this more during break. I don't 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:03.600 say I was missing a right foot. I wouldn't disclose that. 0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:07.480 I want to just close it. Let's say I's missing 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:11.200 a left arm, my right eye doesn't work. 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:11.520 I don't know. 0:16:11.560 --> 0:16:14.520 Close that crap. I just if I don't hate the 0:16:14.560 --> 0:16:16.280 guy for not disclosing it. I don't think it's cat 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:22.400 fishing again, perch fishing, I can get like hat fishing. 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:24.520 I think it's perch fishing. I don't think it's cat fishing, 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:26.400 which is why it's not called cat fishing. It's messed up. 0:16:26.440 --> 0:16:28.880 But I just think if you're probably told no so 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:31.000 many times without even giving a chance, you'd probably get 0:16:31.040 --> 0:16:32.800 to the point where you're like, all right, I'm gonna 0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:36.800 go into this, and I'm gonna not have this preconceived 0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:38.480 notion of what I can and can't do. I'm gonna 0:16:38.480 --> 0:16:40.840 show up and then then if they want to say no, 0:16:41.200 --> 0:16:43.000 but they're probably gonna feel so guilty when I get 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:44.200 there to say no, they're going to go on the 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:46.240 date with me, and then I have a chance. Once 0:16:46.320 --> 0:16:49.680 you're in the room, you got a chance. Yeah, that's 0:16:49.680 --> 0:16:50.360 how I feel after the. 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:54.720 Break, even after what she said about just that she 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:56.960 used to do that but then it didn't really work 0:16:57.000 --> 0:16:57.480 out for her. 0:16:57.880 --> 0:17:01.120 Yeah, oh okay, yeah, because I don't really feel like 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:06.000 she was pro or anti my feeling. I just know 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:08.280 me as my feeling, I would have been like, man, 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:09.879 if I've been told no so many times because it's 0:17:09.880 --> 0:17:12.200 something unfairly happened to me, I'm not even gonna allow 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:17.160 this to be a barrier until it's a barrier. So yeah, 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:19.320 I mean even then, I may even lie, may even 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:26.040 do like aim Heather, I really appreciate the call. Thank 0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:27.199 you for sharing your story with us. 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:28.840 Thank you. 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:31.200 All right, I have a great day. Let's go to 0:17:31.400 --> 0:17:32.440 Eric and Oklahoma City. 0:17:32.680 --> 0:17:32.840 Eric. 0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:37.240 Let's go Eric, You're on what's up? 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:37.520 Buddy? 0:17:38.960 --> 0:17:41.119 Hey Bobby? First of all, morning studio. 0:17:43.760 --> 0:17:46.000 So Bobby, I have a question for you, sir. 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:51.280 Were you at the OU Alabama? 0:17:51.359 --> 0:17:51.520 Gag? 0:17:51.880 --> 0:17:52.720