WEBVTT - New Season For A Reason

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be Baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Dead Ass podcast was like a woman who got a haircut, Baby,

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<v Speaker 2>she about to change a life.

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<v Speaker 3>Ellis ever After is live.

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<v Speaker 4>It all started with real talk, unfiltered, honest and straight

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<v Speaker 4>from the heart. Since then, we've gone on to become

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<v Speaker 4>Webby award winning podcasters in New York Times bestselling authors.

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<v Speaker 2>Dead Ass was more than a podcast for us. It

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<v Speaker 2>was about our growth, a place where we could be vulnerable,

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<v Speaker 2>be wrang.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, but most apportly be us.

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<v Speaker 2>But as we know, life keeps evolving, and so do

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<v Speaker 2>we and through it all, one thing has never changed.

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<v Speaker 5>This is.

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<v Speaker 3>Because we got a lot to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's get for the Maybe we'll start with story time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been such a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been a long time. Yeah, story time is next.

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<v Speaker 1>Boom story Time.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm actually gonna take us back to twenty eighteen.

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<v Speaker 3>You typically take us back.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I got to take us back back in the time,

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<v Speaker 4>right twenty eighteen. Kadeen and I are in the mixt

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<v Speaker 4>of developing our social media presence. Yes, and we were

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<v Speaker 4>doing a bunch of battle of the sexist ideas. And

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<v Speaker 4>I remember I had did a video about resetting your freak. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and it went viral, and then from going viral. I

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<v Speaker 4>remember our manager at the time came to us and

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<v Speaker 4>it was just like, have you guys ever thought about

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<v Speaker 4>having a podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, podcast, what's the podcast?

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<v Speaker 4>And then she explained to us what a podcast was,

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<v Speaker 4>and you and I were like, Yo, this would be

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<v Speaker 4>a dope way for us to give our perspectives on

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<v Speaker 4>marriage from a woman's perspective and then a man's perspective,

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<v Speaker 4>and then we can actually have a little bit of

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<v Speaker 4>a battle.

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<v Speaker 1>It was funny, it was supposed to be in jest.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like taking the comments section, yes the microphone.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, but literally taking the comment section to the microphone.

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<v Speaker 4>And we also had the idea of building this out

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<v Speaker 4>to become a talk show for you because you've always

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<v Speaker 4>had this dream of being a daytime TV host.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely still a dream.

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<v Speaker 1>Still it's still a dream.

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<v Speaker 4>But as technology changes, as the industry changes, as the

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<v Speaker 4>topics of conversation change, so have we. So welcome, everybody,

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome to the first episode of Elis Ever After.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, baby, all right, all right, first karaoke of the season.

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<v Speaker 3>Baby first.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I'm gonna make it very clear.

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<v Speaker 4>We chose a very difficult song for karaoke because it

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<v Speaker 4>just fits us so perfectly.

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<v Speaker 1>This is this is what we do, This is who

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<v Speaker 1>we are. We challenge ourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely kill people's songs for a living. You would think

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<v Speaker 2>it's my job at this point to do terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>Do we really kill people songs like that? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we be killing the songs.

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<v Speaker 3>I know sometimes I just don't know the words. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>you you'll be tend to a little pitchy, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, pitchy is part of it. I mean, it's karaoke.

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<v Speaker 1>Pitchy is part of the karaoke experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, some person goes up to do karaokey, they're singing

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<v Speaker 2>like Mariah Carey, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Just like you did that on purpose, right, It's not

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<v Speaker 3>He's not supposed to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be You can't be a professional singer. I agree with

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<v Speaker 1>you on that.

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<v Speaker 4>But I say all of that to say, give me

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<v Speaker 4>some grace on this as I sing this.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, go for it, practice and I'm gonna let

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<v Speaker 3>you ride.

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<v Speaker 4>Shout out to the artist who sang this song, indeed,

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<v Speaker 4>because she is one of the greatest.

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<v Speaker 6>There we go, birds flying high, you know how I feel?

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<v Speaker 6>Mm hmmmm hmm. Sun in the sky.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how.

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<v Speaker 3>Healthy period breathing what.

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<v Speaker 1>Breathe sifting on by? You know how I feel.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, it's a new dawn. It's a new day.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a new life for me. Yeah, it's a new

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<v Speaker 1>this a new day. It goes to pitch period, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a new life for me. He was, and I'm feeling good.

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<v Speaker 4>Shout out to Oh my God, one of my favorite

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<v Speaker 4>whole songs. I'm not gonna say the other person because

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<v Speaker 4>he tripping right now. The whole song is otis Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I'm saying. Where they sampled Nina Simon

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<v Speaker 4>and shout out to Nina Simon.

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<v Speaker 1>But we are feeling good?

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<v Speaker 3>Man, You are not feeling good, dawn. It's a new.

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<v Speaker 1>Day, trouble. Are you're feeling good? I'm feeling alright.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen, you gotta feel bad than all right, That's what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta feel you gotta feel good, man. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>feeling good?

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<v Speaker 5>Feeling good?

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all? Are you feeling good?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm tiring, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew that was coming. You're coming from the West

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<v Speaker 3>coast time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Josh got off of a flight this morning.

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<v Speaker 4>So what we're gonna do, right, now we're gonna take

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<v Speaker 4>a quick break's some bills.

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<v Speaker 1>And get back into the new format.

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<v Speaker 4>Is everybody knowing that some things are different around here

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<v Speaker 4>Deadass podcast because.

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<v Speaker 1>It's no longer dead Ass podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not Baby Ellis After. Welcome, Welcome to the new sets.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to our home, new space, new energy, new vibes,

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<v Speaker 2>new topics. Baby, we're just getting started. Stick around, We'll

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<v Speaker 2>be back, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, So we're back.

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<v Speaker 4>We have a new segment as we introduce the crew,

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<v Speaker 4>who y'all really already know. Anybody who's been following dead

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<v Speaker 4>Ass podcasts and been a part of the Patreon y'all

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<v Speaker 4>are going to know these people. We're gonna introduce, first

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<v Speaker 4>and foremost our producer, Extraordinary over there.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, trouble, what's going on, y'all? I'm glad I

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<v Speaker 1>still have a job. You got, but what we're excited

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<v Speaker 1>to have you.

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<v Speaker 4>How does it feel to actually be officially part of

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<v Speaker 4>the Ellis ever After podcasts?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what?

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<v Speaker 8>It feels like the best revenge in the world. When

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<v Speaker 8>I first started working on Dead Ass, my boss at

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<v Speaker 8>the time was like, You're not gonna have your own show,

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<v Speaker 8>and I was like, dang.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even ask, like, I didn't even It's messed

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<v Speaker 1>up but cool. But look at me now, bitch that

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. I love that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yo, Matt, Yo, you gotta talk to us a little bit, man, Now,

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<v Speaker 4>let us know how we got here.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't talk ever, You always the down behind the camera.

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<v Speaker 5>Everybody when they see this's gonna be like I just happened.

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<v Speaker 7>People.

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<v Speaker 4>It is Elis ever After and you are officially an

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<v Speaker 4>Ellis not because we got married or anything but.

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<v Speaker 5>Birth.

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<v Speaker 1>But shout out to Matt Man.

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<v Speaker 4>Matt is going to start getting from the camera because

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<v Speaker 4>he has a couple of opinions he wanted to talk about,

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<v Speaker 4>and we've seen on the After Show and last but

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<v Speaker 4>certainly not least a person who actually is responsible for

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<v Speaker 4>curating the Look of Dead Ass podcast before our engagement

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<v Speaker 4>shoot in two thousand and nine.

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<v Speaker 3>How many years in are we Josh this, Josh?

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<v Speaker 4>How many years is it feels like the sixteen Josh?

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to us? How you feel officially be a part

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<v Speaker 1>of Ellis of Rafter podcast.

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<v Speaker 9>I feeling good, baby, Yeah. I like the evolution of

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<v Speaker 9>it all. I like the look. I like the grown

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<v Speaker 9>and sexy look.

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<v Speaker 4>It's dope, man, grown and Sexy Baby were grown and

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<v Speaker 4>Sexy finalist point we are I'm still trying to grow up.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a kid, like I ain't even gonna

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<v Speaker 1>hold y'all. I feel like a kid A lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Of that's very true.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you take a look at those four young

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<v Speaker 2>men standing in there, I still every day it blows

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<v Speaker 2>my mind that I have four children, four sons, responsible

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<v Speaker 2>for four human beings.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so crazy to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at us, and look at you.

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<v Speaker 4>See the V, we the V and ever ever because

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<v Speaker 4>you were stuck with me forever, know that.

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<v Speaker 3>Four M V not M like Josh tried to say,

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<v Speaker 3>it's a V.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro. I never saw a M you saw. I never

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<v Speaker 1>saw my only sor V.

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<v Speaker 9>I got a text message where Kadeen agreed with me,

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<v Speaker 9>so let's not play.

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<v Speaker 3>It looks like an R.

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<v Speaker 1>Ellis raft.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's Ellis ever After, but I can see

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<v Speaker 2>why somebody might say it's an M.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, I'll take it with you. Let's get back

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<v Speaker 4>to the show. We actually have a new segment, all right.

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<v Speaker 4>The new segment that we're going to include is called

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<v Speaker 4>OP or no opp. Now, it's not the OP that

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<v Speaker 4>y'all think. The thing the op y'all thinking of is

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<v Speaker 4>the ops right? No, we're not talking about opposition. We're

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<v Speaker 4>talking about opinions right. The reason why we're introducing op

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<v Speaker 4>or no opps because we want to start a new

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<v Speaker 4>trend here in LS ever after, and it's not always

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<v Speaker 4>having an opinion just because.

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<v Speaker 1>You have an opinion.

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<v Speaker 4>How about people start having opinions when they're educated on

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<v Speaker 4>the topic.

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<v Speaker 2>We love that. We kind of got the idea from

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<v Speaker 2>social media, right because people post. People say, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>free to comment in the comment section because if you

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<v Speaker 2>posted about it, I should be able to say what

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<v Speaker 2>I feel about it, which is entirely true.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but at some point people just can shut up,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm saying, and you don't have.

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<v Speaker 2>To always have something to say about everything. So that's

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<v Speaker 2>where OP and no op can Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're gonna allow Trible to get us started.

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<v Speaker 4>So with Opera no opp what we do is we

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<v Speaker 4>don't listen to the topics beforehand.

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<v Speaker 1>We want it to be as real as possible.

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<v Speaker 4>So Trible comes up with the ops the same way

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<v Speaker 4>she comes up with the facts and stats.

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<v Speaker 1>So Trible's on you, baby, aren't you?

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<v Speaker 7>Y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>For us today for op no op.

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<v Speaker 8>The first topic. I think everybody will be having an

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<v Speaker 8>opinion on this one. I shaved my legs recently.

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<v Speaker 4>God, you see what I'm saying. I have an opinion

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<v Speaker 4>about this. I am, I have an opinion, but I'm

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<v Speaker 4>gonna let you go first.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm proud of you, Trible. I mean, that was like

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<v Speaker 3>the one that was like the one thing that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, girl, like, I get it, but come on.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, it's not even like a queer thing. It's just lazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like doing it right.

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<v Speaker 4>So that I was gonna ask. I was gonna ask,

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<v Speaker 4>like missing my opinion, what's gonna be a question? Did

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<v Speaker 4>you not shave your legs in solidarity with your queerness or.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it just like I don't feel like fucking saving

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<v Speaker 1>my legs.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, it was definitely in solidarity with my lazyness.

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<v Speaker 1>This whole time, I thought she was making a bigger point.

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<v Speaker 1>This is why you can't have an opinion on anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you don't even know the reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I know what the reason.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen Trible, you know, come here and I'm like, hey, Trea,

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<v Speaker 2>listens de Voe's birthday, for example, make sure you bring

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<v Speaker 2>a little outfit to wear because we're gonna go out

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<v Speaker 2>for dinner. And I mean trible, beautiful face hit done here, done.

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<v Speaker 3>Dressed, body yachtying and all that. And then it's like

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<v Speaker 3>you do the skin down to the knee, wolf, kneecat

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<v Speaker 3>wolf and you got a little further down and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>trible girl. You know I'll be rocking with you. But baby,

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<v Speaker 3>that's the one thing so I am proud of. Is

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<v Speaker 3>it smooth? Is it better than you thought it would be?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I used to shame.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I might be a little little bit, a little.

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<v Speaker 1>Bit little hair, don't stop, nothing but a comb. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess the holes love it.

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<v Speaker 3>Love it. I mean I guess it's like a point

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<v Speaker 3>of like, you know, caressing for me. It's not me.

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<v Speaker 4>You you waxed, shave there, do whatever you gotta do

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<v Speaker 4>down there.

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<v Speaker 1>You let it, let it happen.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to feel like myself, you know what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying, matt op no op.

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<v Speaker 5>On, no opinion? Sorry, got nothing next.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Something I found really interesting. Have you heard of Dave Ramsey.

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<v Speaker 8>He's a conservative radio host and he's a financial wizard.

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<v Speaker 1>He's written a lot of books.

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<v Speaker 8>And he recently got a question on his radio show

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<v Speaker 8>about whether owning multiple properties is greed for a Christian,

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<v Speaker 8>and I thought his answer was very very interesting.

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<v Speaker 10>I own I don't know, I don't even know fifteen

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<v Speaker 10>twenty houses among a bunch of commercial real estate as well.

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<v Speaker 10>How is that not greed? Because I don't earn anything.

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<v Speaker 10>I'm a Christian and that means God owns it and

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<v Speaker 10>I'm managing it for him. So I guess you're calling

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<v Speaker 10>God greedy. Now, Wow, that's a good one.

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<v Speaker 3>That's loaded too.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually do have an opinion to have an opinion

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<v Speaker 4>that I find that people, not just Christians, because people

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<v Speaker 4>tend to say that Christians like to only use the

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<v Speaker 4>Bible when it's convenient. I feel like people in general

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<v Speaker 4>like to use the Bible when it's convenient.

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<v Speaker 1>And unless you've done the.

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<v Speaker 4>Theological work necessary to be able to explain what the

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<v Speaker 4>Bible meant, you shouldn't be given an opinion on the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 4>As far as when it comes to greed, right, I

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<v Speaker 4>agree with him on this. All of these big companies

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<v Speaker 4>buying up properties and raising the pricing market that the

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<v Speaker 4>housing market, that is affecting the housing market. But I

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<v Speaker 4>also agree TikTok, like every other format, tends to, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>sensationalize things. It may raise the housing market possibly three percent.

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<v Speaker 4>They're going to say it's thirty percent. And I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like his opinion does matter because you can't just blame

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<v Speaker 4>God for everything right. So when things don't go right

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<v Speaker 4>in your life, is God full. When things do go

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<v Speaker 4>right in your life is god ful. But God also

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<v Speaker 4>says what faith without works is dead, which means we

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<v Speaker 4>have to put the work in. So at some point,

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<v Speaker 4>as a person, you have to take accountability. Always blaming God,

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<v Speaker 4>whether it's good or bad. To me, it's just a

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<v Speaker 4>bad thing to do. You have to take accountability. He's right,

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<v Speaker 4>having too much of anything is greedy if your spirit

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<v Speaker 4>is greedy. But if you have too much of one

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<v Speaker 4>thing in order to help present an opportunity to other people,

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<v Speaker 4>what if you own these houses and you put it

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<v Speaker 4>for low income people where you're not making as much money. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you own the houses, but you're not being greedy. Being

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<v Speaker 4>greedy is owning all the houses and only making it

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<v Speaker 4>affordable to people who can afford it, and not helping people.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think the amount makes it greed. I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's the purpose behind it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think greed is a mindset. Like you said,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a spirit thing. And you know, you might just

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<v Speaker 2>have these homes and you don't know how much that

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<v Speaker 2>person is now able to tithe. You know, maybe they

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<v Speaker 2>can tie and offer more because they have income from

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<v Speaker 2>all these other all work to be able to sustain ourselves,

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<v Speaker 2>of course, and then when you are blessed in abundance,

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<v Speaker 2>you have a responsibility to help others, right, I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you are making residual income or you're making

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<v Speaker 2>more money off of these investments, which is that's the

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<v Speaker 2>point of business, right, then the way you go about

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<v Speaker 2>helping others really speaks more to your spirit than anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, trip.

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<v Speaker 8>I think that it was a clever way to defend

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<v Speaker 8>capitalism using Christianity. I don't think he mentioned the Bible

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<v Speaker 8>once because Jesus was famously a socialist, and there are

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<v Speaker 8>plenty of stories in the Bible that preach against greed

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<v Speaker 8>and selling your soul or your body for money or

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<v Speaker 8>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Just being a moral for capital gain.

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<v Speaker 8>And I don't think Dave Ramsey is using any of

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<v Speaker 8>those homes to help anybody.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm personally, not talking about Dave. Yeah, his purpose

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<v Speaker 4>is his purpose. But say, for example, Lebron James, he's

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<v Speaker 4>got billions of dollars, but he opens up the I

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<v Speaker 4>Promised School, so clearly he's gaining and using these resources

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<v Speaker 4>to pay it forward. And that's why I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>you can't use the Bible to bash capitalism, because you

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<v Speaker 4>can also use the Bible like or you can use

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<v Speaker 4>capitalism like Jesus did turn water into wine and shared

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<v Speaker 4>it as opposed to turning water into wine and drinking

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<v Speaker 4>it all himself.

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<v Speaker 8>But the problem with the housing market is that everybody

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<v Speaker 8>needs housing, yes, and everybody doesn't have housing because housing

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<v Speaker 8>is privatized and people are using it to make a profit,

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<v Speaker 8>to make their millions. So I think that being a

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<v Speaker 8>landlord is almost inherently greedy unless you are giving people

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<v Speaker 8>housing for what they can afford and not like driving

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<v Speaker 8>housing prices through the roof.

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<v Speaker 4>Like what's happening, right, understandable, I get what I do,

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<v Speaker 4>get what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, especially as a renter now too, like you can

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<v Speaker 2>probably see and be like, damn, you know you really

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<v Speaker 2>don't have to be charged all this for rent?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sir, Yeah, because all.

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<v Speaker 8>The money I'm paying for rent and as many times

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<v Speaker 8>as I've seen dog piss an elevator, I'll be wanting

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<v Speaker 8>to go down to the rental office and beat up somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>I should be able to do that.

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<v Speaker 7>If you want to see dog piss. If your br

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<v Speaker 7>is low, regardless.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I was going to say that, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>agree with you on that.

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<v Speaker 7>For me, greed is about your desire. That's your mindset,

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<v Speaker 7>your desire.

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<v Speaker 9>It's not a number it is it is accumulating multiple things.

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<v Speaker 5>For you knew the podcast.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my bad, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Help them out, man, help my.

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<v Speaker 9>First day on the job. But but like I said,

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<v Speaker 9>greed is about a mindset. It's about your desires and

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<v Speaker 9>what your ultimate goal is. If your ultimate goal is

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<v Speaker 9>to hoard and and not share, then that's greed. If

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<v Speaker 9>you're collecting things and still sharing. But I'm I'm accumulating

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<v Speaker 9>things because of my talent, because of my business, because

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<v Speaker 9>of these things are coming to me because of what

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<v Speaker 9>I've earned and what I've done to get them. Right,

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<v Speaker 9>I'm not doing this to be poor. But at the

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<v Speaker 9>same time, like if you're just like not sharing wealth

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<v Speaker 9>or spreading it around or just doing it inherently like

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<v Speaker 9>the corporations just to just to drive a market and

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<v Speaker 9>to be profitable, and that that's great to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a question. I'm gonna let you go, Matt.

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<v Speaker 5>My initial thought was similar on the lines of yours.

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<v Speaker 5>I think a lot of people try to weaponize the

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<v Speaker 5>Bible and only use it to make their point. So

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<v Speaker 5>sometimes when I hear anybody reference Biblical stuff with anything

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<v Speaker 5>that's happened in the world to now. So he started

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<v Speaker 5>talking about it once he started telling the Bible, I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know how I feel because I, like you said,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not researching on that theory party theology part to

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<v Speaker 5>actually understand and go back and forth on that discussion.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you brought up a good point, though, Josh.

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<v Speaker 4>And even trouble, at what point does gaining enough resources

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<v Speaker 4>to pay it for become greedy? Or is this something

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<v Speaker 4>like like he said, it's inherently in your heart, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I'm saying, Like, if I want to live nice,

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<v Speaker 4>other people's projection of that could be that I'm greedy

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<v Speaker 4>because I want to live nice, right, Like some people

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<v Speaker 4>may say, even for trouble, why do you care about

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<v Speaker 4>dogs pissing in the elevator.

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<v Speaker 1>You got an elevator. We live in a walk up.

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<v Speaker 1>You just being greedy. You see what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like someone else who has less can always say

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<v Speaker 4>to you, you're being greedy because you have more, right,

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<v Speaker 4>And we have to start looking at people's hearts rather

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<v Speaker 4>than the numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's just my final.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>You got one more trip, but that's it.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, well I have one more that's gonna lead us

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<v Speaker 8>into the topic. Let us get it so on threads, recently,

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<v Speaker 8>author and speaker Lovia Jay Jones posted tax podcast mics.

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<v Speaker 1>Teriff then.

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<v Speaker 8>Saying and that post guy over twenty five hundred likes

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<v Speaker 8>and more than one hundred and seventy five reposts. And

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<v Speaker 8>of course we've all seen this on social media. People

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<v Speaker 8>say this all the time. People say shit like podcast equipment,

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<v Speaker 8>she costs a million dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think.

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<v Speaker 8>It's because of some of the bad takes and misogyny

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<v Speaker 8>and pigmy culture and all of the isms and phobias

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<v Speaker 8>that are being spread on podcasts. And so it makes

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<v Speaker 8>me wonder, what do you think about well continuing to

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<v Speaker 8>be podcasters with this type of sentiment going around or no, ip.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have an opinion.

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<v Speaker 4>First thing is, though misogyny is always brought up, right,

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<v Speaker 4>what's the female.

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<v Speaker 1>Word for misogyny? Miss Andrey? How can we never talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that? Wait?

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<v Speaker 5>Does it work?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>And while we never use it because in our culture today,

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<v Speaker 4>men are not allowed to have opinions about anything, it's misogyny,

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<v Speaker 4>but women can say whatever they want about anything.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, it's like we don't call people saying white people

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<v Speaker 8>smell like dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't call that racism. That don't mean that it's

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<v Speaker 1>not racist though.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, but you know, so you get why because there's

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<v Speaker 8>an imbalance of power.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, there's definitely an imbalance of power.

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<v Speaker 4>But my thing is, as a person who's going on threads,

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<v Speaker 4>who is making a comment about podcasts but only directing

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<v Speaker 4>it towards one group of people, that's a problem because

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<v Speaker 4>ultimately what she's saying is that men shouldn't have podcasts,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's not fair. So that what you're saying is

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<v Speaker 4>only women should have podcasts, mikes and opinions about things.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you look at history, in the last couple

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<v Speaker 4>of decades, women have had the most to say about things, right,

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<v Speaker 4>and then women are also getting mad at other women

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<v Speaker 4>for having things.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how pickny culture became a thing. Right. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>hear them call men pigmies, it's women picknies.

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<v Speaker 4>But anytime a woman has an opinion that differs from

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<v Speaker 4>the popular culture of most women, what do they call

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<v Speaker 4>her a pigmy? Anytime a man has an opposing opinion

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<v Speaker 4>to what the popular culture of women think, what do

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<v Speaker 4>they call him misogynistic?

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<v Speaker 1>How come there is nothing like that for women? That's

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<v Speaker 1>my biggest part.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, apparently there is a word, but we just never

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<v Speaker 3>hear it.

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<v Speaker 4>But you see what I'm saying, People don't even know

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<v Speaker 4>what it is, the same way you have toxic masculinity.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, So there's nothing toxic about women. There's nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>There's no such word as toxic femininity. You want to

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<v Speaker 4>know why, because toxic masculinity was created by women, and

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<v Speaker 4>since they're the ones who are the only ones who

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<v Speaker 4>allowed to have podcasts equipment, Now this is what's going

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<v Speaker 4>to happen.

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<v Speaker 11>Wait, so why anything about No, she didn't say, But

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<v Speaker 11>they're famously been like Andrew Tate and a bunch of

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<v Speaker 11>men who just go on podcasts and bash women or

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<v Speaker 11>say things about about black.

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<v Speaker 1>Women or men who have been because Andrew.

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<v Speaker 8>Tate got accused of like sexual assault and then he

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<v Speaker 8>fled the country.

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<v Speaker 1>Those things are happening.

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<v Speaker 4>Forget the podcast about just being jailed like why and

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<v Speaker 4>he came back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but this is this is my biggest.

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<v Speaker 8>And I don't know exactly what podcasts she was talking about.

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<v Speaker 8>She didn't say anything about misogyny.

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<v Speaker 5>She just said.

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<v Speaker 1>All she said was tax podcast.

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<v Speaker 8>Mikes and a lot of what I think, what I

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<v Speaker 8>assume is because of some of the things that are

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<v Speaker 8>being spread on podcasts. A lot of times it is misogyny,

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<v Speaker 8>like the British dudes who let Andrew Schultz come on

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<v Speaker 8>and talk about black women on his show.

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<v Speaker 4>See but that's also that's also my point too, write

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<v Speaker 4>we can get rid of the podcast equipment. All we

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<v Speaker 4>want people have to use better discernment of what they

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<v Speaker 4>listen to. Yes, you know what I'm saying, So forget

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<v Speaker 4>the podcast equipment. Stop listening to stuff that it shows

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<v Speaker 4>people in a bad light.

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<v Speaker 2>It's also the clickbait worthy, you know, little thirty second

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<v Speaker 2>clips of people saying wow stuff. It's almost like a

0:22:15.160 --> 0:22:17.960
<v Speaker 2>competition for who could say the most fact you know,

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<v Speaker 2>reactive or the most abrasive thing just to get viral views.

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<v Speaker 4>But we can't tax podcast equipmentcause the ultimate we're doing

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<v Speaker 4>is we're taxing people's ability to have free speech, which

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<v Speaker 4>is anti American, which is part of the reason why

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<v Speaker 4>people come to America is that they can speak openly.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't even got to get started on that because

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<v Speaker 4>but the biggest thing is though, like people should be

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<v Speaker 4>allowed to have their opinions, other people should be smart

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<v Speaker 4>enough to say, is this opinion valuable?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Andrew Tate comes on my screen, I automatically scrope up, like, like,

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<v Speaker 4>that's not someone I'm going to allow access to my

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<v Speaker 4>subconscious because I don't agree with what he says.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's a group of people who do.

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<v Speaker 3>Or what are the red balloons?

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<v Speaker 2>Now, like that's it's not a podcast, but it's just

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<v Speaker 2>like that's another thing.

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<v Speaker 3>The minute I see a.

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<v Speaker 1>Balloon, another every category has.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like the jokes are gonna nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to clarify something.

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<v Speaker 8>The term toxic masculinity was coined by a man. Pretty

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<v Speaker 8>sure it was, but you said women started it.

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<v Speaker 1>Who say it the most? It was coined by a man.

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<v Speaker 1>It was defined by a man.

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<v Speaker 8>You said women created it, so I wanted fair.

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<v Speaker 4>When you hear people talk about toxic masculinity, who says

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<v Speaker 4>it the most, who's made it famous?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess women.

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<v Speaker 4>And my point is podcasts can't always be just men

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<v Speaker 4>be talking bad on podcasts.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think the case.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with you.

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<v Speaker 4>But when you hear what Trouble just said when reading

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<v Speaker 4>the thing, it was misogyny, it was pick me culture.

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<v Speaker 4>And I chose those two because misogyny is anti men,

0:24:11.160 --> 0:24:13.960
<v Speaker 4>and pick me is also anti women who believe that

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<v Speaker 4>men are right. So it's like we use those two

0:24:16.320 --> 0:24:20.520
<v Speaker 4>examples as the reason why podcasts shouldn't be allowed. It's like,

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<v Speaker 4>so pretty much what we're saying is that anything has

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<v Speaker 4>anything to do with a men's perspective. A man's perspective

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<v Speaker 4>is the reason why we should have podcast I think

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<v Speaker 4>that's unfair.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think anybody's perspective.

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<v Speaker 2>After a while, it's almost like when I was a

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<v Speaker 2>makeup artist, for example, right.

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<v Speaker 3>After a while, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Whole entire job of a makeup artist, I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>or the value that should saying a makeup artist started

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<v Speaker 2>to diminish because it seemed like everybody that picked up

0:24:48.560 --> 0:24:50.840
<v Speaker 2>a brush had a little Box.

0:24:50.920 --> 0:24:51.760
<v Speaker 3>Was a makeup artist.

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<v Speaker 2>So when you are performing at the top of your

0:24:55.560 --> 0:24:59.080
<v Speaker 2>expertise and you want to demand a certain price tag

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<v Speaker 2>for or your service, you now are getting undercut in

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<v Speaker 2>the market because you have people who are now doing

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<v Speaker 2>a phase for fifty dollars and making that the standard.

0:25:08.680 --> 0:25:11.440
<v Speaker 2>Now your face don't look tore up. That's one thing,

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<v Speaker 2>because you're not paying for the level of expertise again,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think that that's the signum tanousy. What's happening

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<v Speaker 2>in the podcast market us renewing a deal with iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, can we demand the amount of money that

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<v Speaker 2>we feel like we deserve being veterans in the game,

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<v Speaker 2>Because now you have all these podcasts that they've poured

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<v Speaker 2>money into that are not reaping the benefits that they

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<v Speaker 2>thought they were going to get, not reaping the views

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<v Speaker 2>and the listens.

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<v Speaker 3>So now you're making it.

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<v Speaker 2>Bad for other people who have literally been putting the blood,

0:25:38.359 --> 0:25:39.679
<v Speaker 2>sweat and tears in for the.

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<v Speaker 3>Past almost decade.

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<v Speaker 2>We can't reap the benefits of that because now everyone

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<v Speaker 2>with a microphone is a podcaster.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't think about that perspective, And to be honest,

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<v Speaker 4>you're thinking from a financial perspective.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm always thinking about the dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Baby.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta make sense.

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<v Speaker 4>If they put a premium on podcast equipment and can't

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<v Speaker 4>everybody get a podcast, then when people go to negotiate

0:25:59.440 --> 0:26:01.200
<v Speaker 4>their deals, you wouldn't have to compete with the fact

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<v Speaker 4>that everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Has a podcast, absolutely, and that will start to sift

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<v Speaker 2>out all of the nonsense from people who really find

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<v Speaker 2>value in whatever your podcast is.

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<v Speaker 4>Never thought about it like that, I was thinking about

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<v Speaker 4>censoring people. I'm anti censorship, like I don't. I don't

0:26:16.640 --> 0:26:19.399
<v Speaker 4>think anybody should be censored, but I understand where you're

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<v Speaker 4>coming from from the business standpoint.

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I do feel you though, and I do

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<v Speaker 1>feel you with what's the man named Andrew? What Andrew take?

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<v Speaker 4>Certain people should not be allowed to say certain things,

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<v Speaker 4>especially if it causes harm to other people.

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<v Speaker 1>But like I said before, is that podcast equipment or

0:26:39.359 --> 0:26:41.560
<v Speaker 1>is that jail? Because there are rules.

0:26:41.359 --> 0:26:43.240
<v Speaker 4>And laws against that, right, Like, you should not be

0:26:43.320 --> 0:26:45.639
<v Speaker 4>able to go online and say things that's going to

0:26:45.720 --> 0:26:48.000
<v Speaker 4>cause harm to a different group of people, and they're

0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:49.280
<v Speaker 4>allowing people to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, nobody's policing the internet. That's the problem.

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<v Speaker 4>So do we get that with getting rid of the

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<v Speaker 4>podcast equipment, or do we have like an FCC for

0:26:56.119 --> 0:26:56.560
<v Speaker 4>the Internet.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I think.

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<v Speaker 5>I personally think there needs to be some type of

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<v Speaker 5>CC or some type of overseeing of the Internet in general,

0:27:03.520 --> 0:27:08.480
<v Speaker 5>not just podcasting overall, but the entire Internet is a

0:27:08.800 --> 0:27:11.280
<v Speaker 5>is a wild place and it's on now.

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<v Speaker 7>You need qualification. You should need qualifications to get a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree.

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<v Speaker 7>I agree, get a certificate or whatever you went to

0:27:19.520 --> 0:27:21.280
<v Speaker 7>school for it, or journalism or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>She needs something, bro, you know what that Actually I'm happy.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm glad you brought this question up, because that's actually

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<v Speaker 4>a good freaking point. When we went to school for journalism,

0:27:31.119 --> 0:27:33.359
<v Speaker 4>there was prerequisite you had to in order to get

0:27:33.440 --> 0:27:36.600
<v Speaker 4>something published, right like you, Like you, You couldn't just

0:27:36.640 --> 0:27:38.080
<v Speaker 4>go I'm gonna go to the New York Times and

0:27:38.240 --> 0:27:39.080
<v Speaker 4>publish an article.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's the issue with podcasts.

0:27:41.000 --> 0:27:42.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you can just jump on camera and just start

0:27:42.760 --> 0:27:45.080
<v Speaker 2>reporting without fact checks.

0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:47.200
<v Speaker 4>And all sorts of stuff and not for nothing. I

0:27:47.240 --> 0:27:49.760
<v Speaker 4>think that's what she's probably focusing on. Yeah, I think

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:52.640
<v Speaker 4>that's more than that then censoring one side of the other.

0:27:52.760 --> 0:27:55.800
<v Speaker 4>She's probably just talking about there's no qualifications for people

0:27:55.880 --> 0:27:56.800
<v Speaker 4>to have a podcast.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, and what what are the standards that you're holding

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<v Speaker 8>yourselves to as podcast hosts? What are the standards that

0:28:03.680 --> 0:28:07.119
<v Speaker 8>you hope your listeners hold themselves to as as consumers

0:28:07.160 --> 0:28:07.680
<v Speaker 8>a podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>That is a good point there, because that would take

0:28:11.480 --> 0:28:15.440
<v Speaker 4>that think about what's his name, Andrew take if he

0:28:15.600 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 4>had a responsibility that if someone off your podcast did

0:28:18.359 --> 0:28:20.240
<v Speaker 4>something based off of what you said, you would be

0:28:20.240 --> 0:28:20.920
<v Speaker 4>held responsible.

0:28:20.920 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 1>He wouldn't talk so recklessly. And that's the problem.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, there was one Landmark case. I can't remember the

0:28:27.440 --> 0:28:29.760
<v Speaker 8>guy's name, but he was a podcast host, radio host,

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:33.840
<v Speaker 8>and he kept saying that Sandy Hook didn't happen.

0:28:33.880 --> 0:28:34.439
<v Speaker 1>I saw that one.

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<v Speaker 7>Alex Jones.

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<v Speaker 1>Alex Jones, Yeah, and.

0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:40.800
<v Speaker 8>I think twenty seventeen, twenty eighteen, maybe Stitcher made the

0:28:40.880 --> 0:28:44.280
<v Speaker 8>decision to take his show off of their platform. And

0:28:44.360 --> 0:28:47.320
<v Speaker 8>so all of these distribution channels have a choice about

0:28:47.360 --> 0:28:50.000
<v Speaker 8>what they put on their platforms. They just choose not

0:28:50.200 --> 0:28:52.880
<v Speaker 8>to exercise their choice. They were the first ones to

0:28:52.920 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 8>take Alex Jones's stuff off their platforms, and then the

0:28:56.400 --> 0:28:59.480
<v Speaker 8>other distribution channels followed, and then he ended up getting

0:28:59.520 --> 0:29:04.240
<v Speaker 8>sued and he can't make podcasts and stuff anymore because

0:29:04.520 --> 0:29:07.960
<v Speaker 8>he said, these white people's kids didn't die, you know,

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:10.640
<v Speaker 8>So it doesn't matter what we say. In a lot

0:29:10.680 --> 0:29:14.520
<v Speaker 8>of times too, because people get so sensitive about the

0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:17.760
<v Speaker 8>term misogyny even stuff like that. They're like, you can't

0:29:17.800 --> 0:29:20.120
<v Speaker 8>censor that just because this man talks trash about women.

0:29:20.280 --> 0:29:23.080
<v Speaker 8>That's not harming anybody. And so then it makes it

0:29:23.160 --> 0:29:25.720
<v Speaker 8>harder for people to say, well, what can we decide

0:29:25.960 --> 0:29:26.320
<v Speaker 8>can't be.

0:29:26.400 --> 0:29:28.400
<v Speaker 4>Said, or well, then let me ask you that question,

0:29:28.800 --> 0:29:31.800
<v Speaker 4>because even misogyny is such a targeted word that it's

0:29:31.840 --> 0:29:34.920
<v Speaker 4>like men can't say things disparaging about women. Why is

0:29:34.960 --> 0:29:36.440
<v Speaker 4>it okay for women to get up there and to

0:29:36.480 --> 0:29:38.040
<v Speaker 4>speak disparagingly about men?

0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:38.920
<v Speaker 1>And that is okay?

0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:39.960
<v Speaker 3>Why it's okay.

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:41.960
<v Speaker 4>Though now I'm not talking about you or Triple. I

0:29:42.120 --> 0:29:44.440
<v Speaker 4>know you guys don't think it's okay. What I'm saying

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:48.120
<v Speaker 4>is think about the overarching idea of what podcasts are doing.

0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:53.640
<v Speaker 4>They're saying podcasts or damaging because misogyny exists in podcasting, right,

0:29:53.720 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 4>Misogyny exists in everything. Let's be real, Like that's what

0:29:56.840 --> 0:30:00.320
<v Speaker 4>Tripple said earlier, Like the power dynamic is off. That's

0:30:00.320 --> 0:30:02.360
<v Speaker 4>why women should be able to speak But my thing

0:30:02.480 --> 0:30:05.239
<v Speaker 4>is when we're talking about that, where a man can

0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:07.959
<v Speaker 4>say something that can damage a woman, it shouldn't be allowed.

0:30:08.320 --> 0:30:10.320
<v Speaker 4>It should be both ways, even if there is a

0:30:10.400 --> 0:30:15.440
<v Speaker 4>power in balance. For example, the young lady who told

0:30:15.480 --> 0:30:18.280
<v Speaker 4>her brothers and her friends that it was a New

0:30:18.400 --> 0:30:21.240
<v Speaker 4>York Giant player that he had an ex girlfriend or

0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:22.640
<v Speaker 4>something in the house and he was cheating on her.

0:30:23.480 --> 0:30:25.840
<v Speaker 4>So she told her homeboys and her brother. Her brother

0:30:25.920 --> 0:30:28.120
<v Speaker 4>went over there and do with his brother. She told,

0:30:28.120 --> 0:30:29.040
<v Speaker 4>I'm sending my brother.

0:30:28.960 --> 0:30:29.640
<v Speaker 1>Over there to kill you.

0:30:30.520 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 4>The dude sat in his house with a semi automatic weapon,

0:30:34.520 --> 0:30:36.920
<v Speaker 4>him and his brother, and when the dudes rolled up,

0:30:37.240 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 4>he shot them.

0:30:39.440 --> 0:30:41.520
<v Speaker 1>And it's like, that's the power of you know.

0:30:41.520 --> 0:30:43.479
<v Speaker 4>What I'm saying, even a woman's voice, as much as

0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:46.480
<v Speaker 4>women don't want to own that when a woman says

0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:48.840
<v Speaker 4>something that shit matters, especially to.

0:30:48.920 --> 0:30:52.080
<v Speaker 8>The men around them. You know what I'm saying, there

0:30:52.120 --> 0:30:54.400
<v Speaker 8>should be good. My brother got set up by a

0:30:54.440 --> 0:30:56.200
<v Speaker 8>woman and that's how he got murdered.

0:30:56.240 --> 0:30:59.280
<v Speaker 4>So that's what and that's what I'm saying, Like that

0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:02.719
<v Speaker 4>shouldn't be pushed aside as the power and balance. If

0:31:02.760 --> 0:31:06.360
<v Speaker 4>we censor on people, we need to censor everybody. You

0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:08.520
<v Speaker 4>know what I'm saying, especially when it comes to violence.

0:31:08.520 --> 0:31:09.840
<v Speaker 1>Wellhad, I just.

0:31:09.880 --> 0:31:13.760
<v Speaker 8>Feel like what men say tends to lead more so

0:31:14.160 --> 0:31:17.400
<v Speaker 8>to beliefs, you know what I'm saying, And the beliefs

0:31:17.440 --> 0:31:21.360
<v Speaker 8>that women shouldn't have power or controlling their relationships. And

0:31:21.440 --> 0:31:24.120
<v Speaker 8>women are more likely to be abused in relationships by

0:31:24.160 --> 0:31:26.760
<v Speaker 8>a partner of the opposite sex, and women are more

0:31:26.880 --> 0:31:29.680
<v Speaker 8>likely to be killed by their male partners. There's stuff

0:31:29.760 --> 0:31:31.440
<v Speaker 8>like that. That, and women are more likely to be

0:31:31.960 --> 0:31:34.680
<v Speaker 8>sexually assaulted by men. So it's like all of those

0:31:34.960 --> 0:31:38.280
<v Speaker 8>things that are that come from beliefs that we hold

0:31:38.320 --> 0:31:40.880
<v Speaker 8>about other people. They're not necessarily things that come from

0:31:41.320 --> 0:31:43.800
<v Speaker 8>an inner personal relationship like I got this's not a

0:31:43.880 --> 0:31:48.080
<v Speaker 8>crime of passion. When you get raped by your neighbor

0:31:48.120 --> 0:31:50.239
<v Speaker 8>in the dorms, you know what I'm saying, Or if

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:52.400
<v Speaker 8>you get kidnapped from a random man on the street,

0:31:52.480 --> 0:31:54.680
<v Speaker 8>that's not an inner personal relationship that you had. Or

0:31:54.760 --> 0:31:57.520
<v Speaker 8>even when you get cat called, like walking down the street,

0:31:57.520 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 8>I had on some shorts one time.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm walking with a co work her and this is

0:32:02.760 --> 0:32:04.440
<v Speaker 1>now he said it relieved.

0:32:04.480 --> 0:32:08.840
<v Speaker 8>It says something extremely sexual about my butt, and I'm

0:32:08.880 --> 0:32:11.800
<v Speaker 8>walking with this innocent co worker of mine and it's

0:32:11.880 --> 0:32:13.240
<v Speaker 8>like the most embarrassing thing ever.

0:32:13.400 --> 0:32:16.120
<v Speaker 1>But you also feel violated. This is a stranger, this

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<v Speaker 1>isn't something.

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<v Speaker 8>Then this comes from him believing that he should be

0:32:19.280 --> 0:32:21.480
<v Speaker 8>able to talk to me that way because of how

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<v Speaker 8>toxic masculinity, misogyny is ingrained into the society. Rape culture

0:32:26.160 --> 0:32:29.360
<v Speaker 8>is ingrained into the society and the minds of men

0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:32.560
<v Speaker 8>who are influenced by some of these people. I don't

0:32:32.560 --> 0:32:35.440
<v Speaker 8>think misogyny or pick me culture is the only issue

0:32:35.560 --> 0:32:36.320
<v Speaker 8>on podcasts.

0:32:36.360 --> 0:32:38.600
<v Speaker 1>I think that, So why is there the only two

0:32:39.560 --> 0:32:41.560
<v Speaker 1>that you chose to put on it. I didn't. I

0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:43.720
<v Speaker 1>had a I'm saying when it came up there it

0:32:43.760 --> 0:32:45.200
<v Speaker 1>was it was misogyny in no, I.

0:32:45.320 --> 0:32:49.600
<v Speaker 8>Said, I said, bad takes, misogyny, pick me culture, and

0:32:49.720 --> 0:32:52.400
<v Speaker 8>all of the other isms and phobia is perpetrated by.

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<v Speaker 4>But you pointed out massogyny. That's the point though. The

0:32:54.640 --> 0:32:56.640
<v Speaker 4>point is is that you said bad takes. That doesn't

0:32:56.680 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 4>point at anything. Misogyny points that men, pick me culture

0:32:59.680 --> 0:33:02.400
<v Speaker 4>points women who agree with men, and then you said

0:33:02.440 --> 0:33:03.280
<v Speaker 4>all the other things.

0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:04.040
<v Speaker 1>That's my point.

0:33:04.200 --> 0:33:06.720
<v Speaker 8>I think those misogyny and pigmy culture are two of

0:33:06.840 --> 0:33:09.960
<v Speaker 8>the biggest things. I feel like that people get bothered by,

0:33:10.080 --> 0:33:11.880
<v Speaker 8>especially when it comes to the black pop.

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:15.040
<v Speaker 1>People or women get bothered by. I think people. I

0:33:15.120 --> 0:33:16.000
<v Speaker 1>think people for sure.

0:33:16.120 --> 0:33:18.720
<v Speaker 4>I doubt men get bothered by pickmy culture, and I

0:33:18.800 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 4>doubt men be bothered by misogyny.

0:33:20.720 --> 0:33:21.320
<v Speaker 1>That's my point.

0:33:21.720 --> 0:33:23.360
<v Speaker 4>My point is that I feel like even the way

0:33:23.400 --> 0:33:26.080
<v Speaker 4>that the question was framed, I thought she said that,

0:33:26.840 --> 0:33:28.520
<v Speaker 4>But even when I hear people talk.

0:33:28.360 --> 0:33:30.920
<v Speaker 1>About it, that's what they talk about. They always talk.

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:33.120
<v Speaker 3>About, like the term misogyny. Or you don't like to

0:33:33.200 --> 0:33:35.160
<v Speaker 3>feel like men are always under attack.

0:33:35.400 --> 0:33:36.040
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't.

0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:38.320
<v Speaker 4>It's not that I don't like that. I honestly feel

0:33:38.400 --> 0:33:41.200
<v Speaker 4>that right now there is attack on masculinity.

0:33:41.280 --> 0:33:43.000
<v Speaker 3>I do feel maculinity in general.

0:33:42.880 --> 0:33:44.880
<v Speaker 4>Masculinity in general. I feel like there is an attack.

0:33:44.880 --> 0:33:47.719
<v Speaker 4>It doesn't matter what you do as a man right now.

0:33:47.920 --> 0:33:49.840
<v Speaker 1>It's wrong. Like if I.

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:55.320
<v Speaker 4>Am kind and soft to my kids, then I'm gonna

0:33:55.360 --> 0:33:57.200
<v Speaker 4>raise a son who is not going to be masculine.

0:33:57.760 --> 0:33:59.880
<v Speaker 4>If I if I'm a heart on him and I scream,

0:34:00.200 --> 0:34:02.600
<v Speaker 4>then I'm too hard. I'm creating trauma. It's like there's

0:34:02.680 --> 0:34:05.320
<v Speaker 4>no way for men in this world. Seems like to

0:34:05.480 --> 0:34:08.920
<v Speaker 4>exist without offending someone. You understand what I'm saying. And

0:34:08.920 --> 0:34:11.839
<v Speaker 4>it just seems like that's becoming a trend where now

0:34:11.960 --> 0:34:13.319
<v Speaker 4>more men is be like, you know what, I ain't

0:34:13.320 --> 0:34:16.000
<v Speaker 4>gonna say, you do nothing, and then women, like we've

0:34:16.080 --> 0:34:17.560
<v Speaker 4>heard before, it be like, well the men ain't men.

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:19.719
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying.

0:34:19.760 --> 0:34:21.359
<v Speaker 4>It's like, how do you want me to men when

0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:24.120
<v Speaker 4>you're taking away my power to do anything. Had a conversation,

0:34:24.440 --> 0:34:26.319
<v Speaker 4>this is a true conversation with a bunch of women

0:34:26.400 --> 0:34:29.200
<v Speaker 4>who were single and one man. Right, it was one

0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:31.200
<v Speaker 4>man a bunch of women that were single, and they

0:34:31.239 --> 0:34:34.840
<v Speaker 4>were just like, Deval, do you think you, as a

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:38.239
<v Speaker 4>husband should be able to control where Kadean goes? And

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:40.240
<v Speaker 4>I was just like, I don't think I should control,

0:34:40.360 --> 0:34:42.200
<v Speaker 4>but I would like to know where she's going because

0:34:42.640 --> 0:34:44.400
<v Speaker 4>I'm responsible for protecting her.

0:34:44.920 --> 0:34:46.200
<v Speaker 1>And they were just like, well, you don't have to

0:34:46.280 --> 0:34:47.520
<v Speaker 1>know what she's going to protect her.

0:34:48.200 --> 0:34:49.759
<v Speaker 4>And I said, wait a minute, it's my job to

0:34:49.840 --> 0:34:51.719
<v Speaker 4>protect you, and you don't feel like you should tell

0:34:51.760 --> 0:34:55.319
<v Speaker 4>me what you're doing, And they said no, But it.

0:34:55.400 --> 0:34:58.200
<v Speaker 8>Doesn't matter what those women think. No, what I'm saying

0:34:58.320 --> 0:35:00.200
<v Speaker 8>is the one in relationship.

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:01.799
<v Speaker 1>And this my point, and that was exactly my point.

0:35:01.880 --> 0:35:03.279
<v Speaker 1>You had a bunch of women who are not.

0:35:03.360 --> 0:35:08.360
<v Speaker 4>In relationships with the overwhelming loud voice of I should

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:10.640
<v Speaker 4>not have to do this, but you still have to

0:35:10.760 --> 0:35:14.120
<v Speaker 4>do this for me. And that's not called misogyny, that's

0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:17.600
<v Speaker 4>not called toxic femininity, that's not called anything. They're just saying,

0:35:17.640 --> 0:35:19.440
<v Speaker 4>I'm a woman, I have my opinion, and I'm like,

0:35:19.920 --> 0:35:22.000
<v Speaker 4>this should be a conversation here. It shouldn't be your

0:35:22.040 --> 0:35:23.600
<v Speaker 4>way is the only right way, and I have to

0:35:24.040 --> 0:35:26.680
<v Speaker 4>coward because I'm a man and say no, I'm never

0:35:26.760 --> 0:35:28.520
<v Speaker 4>gonna cow I'm never gonna do that. Like, that's just

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:31.839
<v Speaker 4>not I'm gonna have my opinion. I'm gonna raise my kids.

0:35:31.920 --> 0:35:34.879
<v Speaker 4>I'm a Chivalry is not dead to me. I'm going

0:35:34.960 --> 0:35:37.720
<v Speaker 4>to teach my kids to walk on the outside open doors.

0:35:38.000 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 4>But at the same time, it's like, yo, you have

0:35:39.640 --> 0:35:43.319
<v Speaker 4>a responsibility to your wife is going here, find out

0:35:43.320 --> 0:35:46.359
<v Speaker 4>where she's going, ask her what time she gonna be back,

0:35:46.440 --> 0:35:49.080
<v Speaker 4>get some information, you know what I'm saying. It just

0:35:49.120 --> 0:35:52.720
<v Speaker 4>seems like at this point in humanity, men ain't allowed

0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:53.360
<v Speaker 4>to say nothing.

0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's necessarily true. I feel like.

0:35:57.120 --> 0:35:59.320
<v Speaker 8>If we take a look at the people that we're around,

0:35:59.360 --> 0:36:01.400
<v Speaker 8>because I know of women who are in relationships with

0:36:01.520 --> 0:36:05.120
<v Speaker 8>men who enjoy, you know, having a masculine man.

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:08.720
<v Speaker 1>A golden retriever. I heard somebody call it recently, somebody that's.

0:36:08.560 --> 0:36:10.960
<v Speaker 8>Like sweet to them. They never have to open a

0:36:11.000 --> 0:36:15.520
<v Speaker 8>car door, you know, whatever this is. Some people really

0:36:15.680 --> 0:36:18.560
<v Speaker 8>enjoy that still, and you are allowed to do that

0:36:18.719 --> 0:36:21.719
<v Speaker 8>when they have a relationship where that's in the agreements

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:22.239
<v Speaker 8>that they have.

0:36:22.480 --> 0:36:23.720
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, if you such.

0:36:23.560 --> 0:36:25.760
<v Speaker 3>A beautiful golden retriever to me, baby, look.

0:36:25.640 --> 0:36:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Look, look you just called me a golden Retriever.

0:36:27.480 --> 0:36:29.479
<v Speaker 4>What if I called you a rott Waller, they would

0:36:29.480 --> 0:36:31.759
<v Speaker 4>say I was being misogynistated.

0:36:31.280 --> 0:36:33.280
<v Speaker 1>Like you me a dog?

0:36:33.560 --> 0:36:38.360
<v Speaker 4>Like you openly called me a dog, and it was

0:36:38.480 --> 0:36:42.520
<v Speaker 4>okay right. If I called her any type of animal,

0:36:42.920 --> 0:36:44.680
<v Speaker 4>they would be on my ass.

0:36:45.440 --> 0:36:48.000
<v Speaker 1>You compared your wife to an animal.

0:36:48.160 --> 0:36:51.239
<v Speaker 3>Everybody loves the Golden retriever, though not me.

0:36:51.760 --> 0:36:55.440
<v Speaker 1>I like pit bulls, I like cane corsos. I like

0:36:55.520 --> 0:36:57.160
<v Speaker 1>aggressive dogs. That's what I like.

0:36:57.719 --> 0:37:00.080
<v Speaker 4>But nah, but you understand what I'm saying, Like the

0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:02.600
<v Speaker 4>whole podcast not opinion thing to me just comes back.

0:37:02.680 --> 0:37:04.120
<v Speaker 4>It is like we don't want all these other people

0:37:04.160 --> 0:37:06.879
<v Speaker 4>to have opinions. We only want our side to be heard,

0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:08.880
<v Speaker 4>and I just hate that for both sides.

0:37:08.640 --> 0:37:09.120
<v Speaker 1>To be honest.

0:37:09.160 --> 0:37:11.279
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's why we've evolved from dead ass podcasts being

0:37:11.320 --> 0:37:13.400
<v Speaker 2>a men versus women thing, which is what this conference.

0:37:14.920 --> 0:37:17.080
<v Speaker 4>But I do like the fact that we can have

0:37:17.200 --> 0:37:19.400
<v Speaker 4>this open conversation because it's more than just me and you.

0:37:19.760 --> 0:37:22.200
<v Speaker 4>Tripple has a very unique take on it, you know

0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:24.520
<v Speaker 4>what I'm saying, even your take on it with the finances.

0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:26.200
<v Speaker 4>I never thought about that, and I was like, oh, shoot,

0:37:26.280 --> 0:37:28.840
<v Speaker 4>like that does make sense. We could have renegotiated our

0:37:28.880 --> 0:37:31.960
<v Speaker 4>deal way better if it weren't eight thousand podcasts popping

0:37:32.040 --> 0:37:34.360
<v Speaker 4>up every single day. And I didn't even I was

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:37.120
<v Speaker 4>thinking about just censorship, and then said you would think

0:37:37.120 --> 0:37:39.320
<v Speaker 4>about the business, which which also brings the point is

0:37:39.560 --> 0:37:42.080
<v Speaker 4>why you need to have more voices and not censor people.

0:37:42.480 --> 0:37:44.640
<v Speaker 4>Because here I got a different perspective from two women.

0:37:44.960 --> 0:37:46.200
<v Speaker 4>And if I sat up parent and be like, well,

0:37:46.239 --> 0:37:49.360
<v Speaker 4>women shouldn't have podcasts equipment, then I sound crazy, you

0:37:49.400 --> 0:37:51.600
<v Speaker 4>see what I'm saying. But if a woman is saying

0:37:51.680 --> 0:37:56.400
<v Speaker 4>niggas shouldn't have podcasts equipment, everybody saying yeah, I'm like, nah, no,

0:37:56.719 --> 0:37:58.600
<v Speaker 4>your opinion has opened my mind up, and I think

0:37:58.680 --> 0:38:04.120
<v Speaker 4>everybody's opinion, even even Anthony Tate Andrew.

0:38:05.520 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 8>It's making me so happy that you can't commit his

0:38:08.200 --> 0:38:09.640
<v Speaker 8>name to memory, though that is beautiful.

0:38:10.080 --> 0:38:13.359
<v Speaker 1>He not black. Neither is he Ah good good at

0:38:13.400 --> 0:38:17.680
<v Speaker 1>least at least he not black.

0:38:18.040 --> 0:38:20.600
<v Speaker 4>I could take away from that, but even him right

0:38:20.680 --> 0:38:24.120
<v Speaker 4>when you hear someone's takes is so outrageous, and you

0:38:24.280 --> 0:38:25.759
<v Speaker 4>hear that people really believe that.

0:38:26.400 --> 0:38:29.200
<v Speaker 1>At least I know who the ops are. You know

0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:29.759
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying.

0:38:30.000 --> 0:38:32.680
<v Speaker 8>But I will push back and say, the reason why

0:38:32.760 --> 0:38:35.000
<v Speaker 8>people believe that is the same reason that you have.

0:38:35.760 --> 0:38:36.719
<v Speaker 1>Is that they hate that.

0:38:37.280 --> 0:38:39.439
<v Speaker 8>They feel like there's an attack on masculinity and there's

0:38:39.480 --> 0:38:42.160
<v Speaker 8>a pushback. I think the New York Times just did

0:38:42.200 --> 0:38:45.760
<v Speaker 8>an article about this, and they did a survey asking

0:38:46.440 --> 0:38:50.560
<v Speaker 8>men if they feel masculine or not, and it was like,

0:38:50.800 --> 0:38:54.880
<v Speaker 8>most Republican men of a certain age feel more masculine

0:38:55.000 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 8>because of this power in this rhetoric around, you know,

0:38:59.400 --> 0:39:02.239
<v Speaker 8>controlling bodies, being able to say what you want, taking

0:39:02.280 --> 0:39:06.000
<v Speaker 8>away DEI programs, literally having power and control over things

0:39:06.040 --> 0:39:09.320
<v Speaker 8>that do not serve you. And so I think the

0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:12.960
<v Speaker 8>reason why people gravitate towards Andrew Tata is because they're

0:39:13.040 --> 0:39:17.359
<v Speaker 8>trying to learn masculinity because they feel like they don't

0:39:17.440 --> 0:39:19.360
<v Speaker 8>know what it is or it's not being accepted, and

0:39:19.400 --> 0:39:21.879
<v Speaker 8>they're trying to find a version of masculinity that they're

0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:24.520
<v Speaker 8>getting from him because they believe that it is having

0:39:24.600 --> 0:39:27.400
<v Speaker 8>power and control. I feel out of the loop now,

0:39:27.480 --> 0:39:30.000
<v Speaker 8>So do I not me not knowing Andrew tATu am

0:39:30.040 --> 0:39:32.120
<v Speaker 8>I old? Is he a young No, you shouldn't know him,

0:39:32.160 --> 0:39:36.920
<v Speaker 8>but I think kids watch him on YouTube like teenagers preteen.

0:39:39.760 --> 0:39:41.600
<v Speaker 3>That's also the thing, the impressionable mind.

0:39:41.920 --> 0:39:45.000
<v Speaker 4>I don't follow things that serve what I'm trying to

0:39:45.120 --> 0:39:49.160
<v Speaker 4>do purposefully, so I wouldn't even know check his we

0:39:49.320 --> 0:39:51.040
<v Speaker 4>check his history, so if I ever saw that, I

0:39:51.080 --> 0:39:52.000
<v Speaker 4>would have been like nah.

0:39:52.920 --> 0:39:55.919
<v Speaker 8>But I will say there are globally, there's over three

0:39:56.160 --> 0:39:59.480
<v Speaker 8>million active podcasts out there right now, and I think

0:39:59.520 --> 0:40:02.120
<v Speaker 8>the stats that there's like four hundred and sixty thousand

0:40:02.520 --> 0:40:05.279
<v Speaker 8>active podcasts on Apple Podcasts right now.

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:06.440
<v Speaker 5>Three million.

0:40:06.800 --> 0:40:10.319
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, so there's more than that available. There's more than

0:40:10.400 --> 0:40:12.160
<v Speaker 8>the Toxic show.

0:40:12.719 --> 0:40:14.839
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, there's more than a toxic available. That's why

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:16.719
<v Speaker 1>I say you can't take away pot. That's why I

0:40:16.760 --> 0:40:18.680
<v Speaker 1>think you can't take away fast equipment.

0:40:18.760 --> 0:40:20.920
<v Speaker 5>I don't think you can. I think it's a new industry,

0:40:21.080 --> 0:40:22.719
<v Speaker 5>just like the music industry is a new industry. You

0:40:22.760 --> 0:40:24.279
<v Speaker 5>can't take away to top of music. I want to

0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:26.879
<v Speaker 5>do that. Just choose not to listen to it. You're

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:28.200
<v Speaker 5>going to have to choose not to listen to this

0:40:28.280 --> 0:40:29.880
<v Speaker 5>podcast if you don't want to listen to the podcast.

0:40:30.400 --> 0:40:30.799
<v Speaker 1>That's true.

0:40:30.880 --> 0:40:33.600
<v Speaker 5>It's just a new industry. So everybody's just up in

0:40:33.719 --> 0:40:35.560
<v Speaker 5>arms about there's no control on it.

0:40:35.719 --> 0:40:38.560
<v Speaker 4>You know what it's like everybody being in the studio. Correct,

0:40:38.600 --> 0:40:42.239
<v Speaker 4>everybody a rapper? But that body album.

0:40:45.320 --> 0:40:46.920
<v Speaker 5>Because the split Fighter.

0:40:48.520 --> 0:40:51.560
<v Speaker 1>But No actually actually was a great said. This is

0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:53.680
<v Speaker 1>why Triple is the producer, because Trip will be knowing.

0:40:54.040 --> 0:40:56.880
<v Speaker 4>This actually brings us into why we decided to change

0:40:57.880 --> 0:41:00.920
<v Speaker 4>Dead Ass podcast for today. We did have a travel

0:41:01.800 --> 0:41:04.880
<v Speaker 4>and this actually goes into the tech it does. Kadeen

0:41:04.920 --> 0:41:08.040
<v Speaker 4>and I started that Ass podcast with Jest. It was

0:41:08.080 --> 0:41:11.440
<v Speaker 4>supposed to be like just a prerequisite of how we

0:41:11.600 --> 0:41:16.000
<v Speaker 4>write man versus women and how we work on our

0:41:16.239 --> 0:41:19.120
<v Speaker 4>relationship through our opposing views as men and women.

0:41:19.520 --> 0:41:22.160
<v Speaker 2>A man and women, well, I mean in our line

0:41:22.520 --> 0:41:25.000
<v Speaker 2>when we enter the podcast saying that we kind of

0:41:25.120 --> 0:41:27.120
<v Speaker 2>like work things out as a form of therapy, but.

0:41:27.239 --> 0:41:28.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, publicly with everywheel.

0:41:28.840 --> 0:41:31.719
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, because it was always my perspective, your perspective

0:41:31.800 --> 0:41:34.839
<v Speaker 2>as we grew over the past, where did we start

0:41:34.880 --> 0:41:38.799
<v Speaker 2>twenty eighteen eighteen man, almost seven years almost seven years ago?

0:41:39.280 --> 0:41:41.439
<v Speaker 4>I think I think the evolution came where it's like, Okay,

0:41:41.520 --> 0:41:44.440
<v Speaker 4>we've spent the past seven years discussing, Like we just

0:41:44.560 --> 0:41:47.440
<v Speaker 4>discussed what are the issues we have as men in

0:41:47.719 --> 0:41:50.479
<v Speaker 4>a marriage, as women in a marriage, and then it's like, okay,

0:41:50.520 --> 0:41:53.960
<v Speaker 4>we've discussed this, how do we move forward? So now

0:41:54.040 --> 0:41:56.640
<v Speaker 4>elis ever afterwards? Okay, we've discussed everything like we just

0:41:56.719 --> 0:41:59.120
<v Speaker 4>discussed here as a group, how do you and I

0:41:59.560 --> 0:42:03.000
<v Speaker 4>move forward? Word as a couple with a family with friends.

0:42:03.120 --> 0:42:05.279
<v Speaker 4>Because when we talk about our family, we don't only

0:42:05.360 --> 0:42:10.040
<v Speaker 4>talk about me, Kay, Jack, Kyro Kazdakota. We're also talking

0:42:10.080 --> 0:42:12.960
<v Speaker 4>about your parents, my parents, We're talking about.

0:42:13.160 --> 0:42:14.520
<v Speaker 1>Edible, Matt, Josh.

0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 4>This is all our this is all of us, our

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:20.799
<v Speaker 4>extended family, this is our ever after many of whom

0:42:21.360 --> 0:42:23.759
<v Speaker 4>we've asked to relocate. You know what I'm saying, Matt

0:42:23.800 --> 0:42:25.640
<v Speaker 4>now lives here, a triple now lives here, Josh is

0:42:25.680 --> 0:42:26.759
<v Speaker 4>going to come here at some point.

0:42:27.640 --> 0:42:28.400
<v Speaker 1>I want to.

0:42:29.360 --> 0:42:32.680
<v Speaker 4>I want to show people that a village of friends

0:42:32.800 --> 0:42:35.560
<v Speaker 4>who are all creatives, who can do something together and.

0:42:35.640 --> 0:42:37.480
<v Speaker 3>Built it together for the ground up.

0:42:37.840 --> 0:42:41.040
<v Speaker 2>It wasn't one person already, you know, being quote unquote

0:42:41.080 --> 0:42:44.320
<v Speaker 2>on and trying to like bring people up. It's like no,

0:42:44.600 --> 0:42:48.600
<v Speaker 2>starting with people at a certain level and watching the

0:42:48.680 --> 0:42:52.279
<v Speaker 2>ascension happen because we all are invested in the common goal,

0:42:52.400 --> 0:42:54.120
<v Speaker 2>which is being great.

0:42:54.719 --> 0:42:54.959
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

0:42:55.320 --> 0:43:00.560
<v Speaker 3>For example, this podcast, Yeah, and I love that the

0:43:00.680 --> 0:43:01.360
<v Speaker 3>space for us.

0:43:01.440 --> 0:43:04.359
<v Speaker 2>I think more recently, well dead ass podcasts at least

0:43:04.760 --> 0:43:07.360
<v Speaker 2>started to kind of become deval and I kind of

0:43:07.440 --> 0:43:09.680
<v Speaker 2>keeping y'all up to date with what's been happening.

0:43:09.960 --> 0:43:12.640
<v Speaker 3>In our life because as things get.

0:43:12.520 --> 0:43:15.520
<v Speaker 2>Busy, as more businesses fall on our plate, you know,

0:43:15.680 --> 0:43:20.080
<v Speaker 2>devout filming me now new project, things.

0:43:19.920 --> 0:43:22.480
<v Speaker 3>Are going to get hectic. Yeah, I don't. Thanks, Thanks Matt,

0:43:22.520 --> 0:43:23.239
<v Speaker 3>big me out one more.

0:43:23.160 --> 0:43:23.799
<v Speaker 1>Time, one more time.

0:43:25.080 --> 0:43:26.839
<v Speaker 4>The reason why we're not getting to hype is because

0:43:26.880 --> 0:43:30.399
<v Speaker 4>we can't really still disclose what she's filming, not quite

0:43:30.440 --> 0:43:32.000
<v Speaker 4>so we kind of like holding it type.

0:43:32.040 --> 0:43:33.200
<v Speaker 1>But we're excited about.

0:43:33.000 --> 0:43:36.680
<v Speaker 2>It, so excited so this is going to be a

0:43:36.760 --> 0:43:39.239
<v Speaker 2>way as well for us to keep y'all who have

0:43:39.360 --> 0:43:42.600
<v Speaker 2>been so invested in us over the past seven years

0:43:43.200 --> 0:43:45.520
<v Speaker 2>up to date on all of kind of like behind

0:43:45.560 --> 0:43:48.480
<v Speaker 2>the scenes stuff as well, and still talking about how

0:43:48.840 --> 0:43:53.200
<v Speaker 2>life and family and business and parenthood impact us on

0:43:53.320 --> 0:43:54.320
<v Speaker 2>a regular basis.

0:43:54.480 --> 0:43:54.839
<v Speaker 1>I agree.

0:43:54.880 --> 0:43:58.120
<v Speaker 4>And we also chose to include our our I don't

0:43:58.160 --> 0:44:00.120
<v Speaker 4>even want to say friend group, because it at this

0:44:00.160 --> 0:44:04.520
<v Speaker 4>point we're not friends like before Tripple moved here and

0:44:04.600 --> 0:44:06.239
<v Speaker 4>Matt was here and Josh they lived here when we

0:44:06.320 --> 0:44:08.920
<v Speaker 4>did the podcast, Like, yeah, y'all don't realize this, but

0:44:09.000 --> 0:44:11.400
<v Speaker 4>we filmed the podcast and these three people will be

0:44:11.480 --> 0:44:13.880
<v Speaker 4>living here for a week and we will be filming

0:44:13.920 --> 0:44:17.080
<v Speaker 4>the podcast talking about guests and topics, and we just

0:44:17.120 --> 0:44:19.440
<v Speaker 4>felt like now is the time for us to elevate,

0:44:19.840 --> 0:44:22.560
<v Speaker 4>get to a new level for all you creative. This

0:44:22.719 --> 0:44:26.000
<v Speaker 4>is another thing that you have to think about marketability.

0:44:26.719 --> 0:44:30.320
<v Speaker 4>When Kadeena and I first started that, we didn't understand

0:44:31.280 --> 0:44:34.399
<v Speaker 4>the scope of what podcasting was. I was like, well,

0:44:34.400 --> 0:44:35.960
<v Speaker 4>we get on mics and talk, I'll do that shit

0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:38.279
<v Speaker 4>all day, not realizing that it was going to become

0:44:38.320 --> 0:44:40.880
<v Speaker 4>its own medium and grow to what has become. So

0:44:41.320 --> 0:44:43.719
<v Speaker 4>we came up with dead ass podcasts because we were like, yo,

0:44:43.760 --> 0:44:45.960
<v Speaker 4>we're from New York, We're from Brooklyn. We being dead ass, Like,

0:44:45.960 --> 0:44:48.399
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna say exactly how I feel, Kay gonna say

0:44:48.440 --> 0:44:51.440
<v Speaker 4>exactly how she feel. At the time, they were just like,

0:44:52.440 --> 0:44:55.160
<v Speaker 4>we don't think we should call it dead ass. And

0:44:55.239 --> 0:44:57.040
<v Speaker 4>I was like why, It's like, what ass is a curse?

0:44:57.920 --> 0:45:00.080
<v Speaker 4>And I was like, well, as isn't a cursive if

0:45:00.080 --> 0:45:03.680
<v Speaker 4>you use it in succession behind dead colloquially from New York.

0:45:03.800 --> 0:45:05.680
<v Speaker 1>And they were like huh. I said, the bottom line

0:45:05.719 --> 0:45:06.959
<v Speaker 1>is we're gonna call it dead ass, and you're gonna

0:45:06.960 --> 0:45:08.120
<v Speaker 1>have to do with it. Yeah.

0:45:08.600 --> 0:45:12.759
<v Speaker 4>So, after seven years, the same conversation we had about

0:45:12.760 --> 0:45:15.160
<v Speaker 4>Battle of the sexist, we don't want to do that

0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:17.360
<v Speaker 4>no more. We want to come to an understanding of

0:45:17.480 --> 0:45:21.040
<v Speaker 4>the sexes and move forward so we can all be happily.

0:45:21.800 --> 0:45:24.560
<v Speaker 4>Ever after you feel me, I like, I see what you.

0:45:24.600 --> 0:45:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Did this, You know what I like to you? And

0:45:27.280 --> 0:45:28.680
<v Speaker 1>I were told you were told you would never have

0:45:28.760 --> 0:45:29.799
<v Speaker 1>a show. Yeah.

0:45:29.880 --> 0:45:31.080
<v Speaker 4>I was told that I was going to never be

0:45:31.160 --> 0:45:32.880
<v Speaker 4>on TV. Triple was told she was never going to

0:45:32.920 --> 0:45:35.520
<v Speaker 4>have a podcast. I'm pretty sure Matt and Josh were

0:45:35.560 --> 0:45:37.600
<v Speaker 4>both told that they wouldn't be able to do the

0:45:37.680 --> 0:45:40.920
<v Speaker 4>things that they're doing, especially as directors. So it feels

0:45:41.000 --> 0:45:43.719
<v Speaker 4>good to actually be able to show people that we're doing.

0:45:43.560 --> 0:45:46.759
<v Speaker 2>This right and creating our own opportunities essentially, Like, yeah,

0:45:47.040 --> 0:45:49.880
<v Speaker 2>you know, one thing we've never did was listen to you.

0:45:49.960 --> 0:45:52.040
<v Speaker 1>Know everybody else do anything.

0:45:52.160 --> 0:45:54.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and we still don't to this day. And I

0:45:54.320 --> 0:45:54.920
<v Speaker 3>think that's why.

0:45:55.200 --> 0:45:58.280
<v Speaker 2>It's given us the courage and the permission for ourselves

0:45:58.360 --> 0:45:59.720
<v Speaker 2>to just do something different.

0:46:00.280 --> 0:46:04.440
<v Speaker 4>And it gives me the trip, the safety and the

0:46:04.520 --> 0:46:06.560
<v Speaker 4>freedom to say trouble and know that she's going to

0:46:06.600 --> 0:46:09.439
<v Speaker 4>be on camera. There are some facts and stacks.

0:46:09.120 --> 0:46:12.360
<v Speaker 1>That you have, right, Yeah, I mean I just have

0:46:12.560 --> 0:46:14.400
<v Speaker 1>some facts about the podcast.

0:46:15.480 --> 0:46:16.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh this is like.

0:46:18.239 --> 0:46:20.640
<v Speaker 3>That's going to be interesting. I haven't heard about this.

0:46:21.600 --> 0:46:22.000
<v Speaker 3>Let's listen.

0:46:22.040 --> 0:46:24.439
<v Speaker 8>This is just kind of a walk down memory lane

0:46:24.600 --> 0:46:27.799
<v Speaker 8>because I started on the podcast in twenty nineteen. Yes,

0:46:28.239 --> 0:46:30.759
<v Speaker 8>and I actually remember the first time I listened to

0:46:30.840 --> 0:46:34.560
<v Speaker 8>the first episode. I was interviewing for the job, and

0:46:36.400 --> 0:46:38.279
<v Speaker 8>I was like, man, why I got to do this

0:46:38.440 --> 0:46:45.200
<v Speaker 8>podcast with these normies? But I loved it, and your

0:46:45.280 --> 0:46:49.840
<v Speaker 8>chemistry was amazing. Earlier you mentioned y'all wanting to do

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:53.680
<v Speaker 8>the podcast to kind of grow into Cadeen's own day

0:46:53.880 --> 0:46:56.359
<v Speaker 8>daytime TV show, And I remember in the studio, I'll

0:46:56.360 --> 0:46:59.080
<v Speaker 8>be like, today, you need a daytime TV show and she.

0:46:59.239 --> 0:47:02.120
<v Speaker 2>Was like that's the plan and I was like, wow,

0:47:02.320 --> 0:47:04.000
<v Speaker 2>really look at you.

0:47:04.280 --> 0:47:06.880
<v Speaker 8>But it just like it's very clear that you you

0:47:07.160 --> 0:47:09.440
<v Speaker 8>have that talent. It comes through every time you're on

0:47:09.480 --> 0:47:13.040
<v Speaker 8>the mic thank you trips. One of my favorite episodes

0:47:13.200 --> 0:47:18.240
<v Speaker 8>was prenup er Nod. Do you remember that judge? Remember

0:47:18.320 --> 0:47:20.760
<v Speaker 8>she came in, she was so honest.

0:47:22.000 --> 0:47:23.759
<v Speaker 3>We were living in l A, l A at the time.

0:47:24.200 --> 0:47:26.400
<v Speaker 4>We used to come in every week into two podcasts

0:47:26.440 --> 0:47:29.360
<v Speaker 4>every Wednesday. Yeah, this was pre pandemic.

0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:32.920
<v Speaker 8>And then we also had a an episode that did

0:47:33.080 --> 0:47:37.960
<v Speaker 8>make the cut with an unnamed influencer. I think that

0:47:38.160 --> 0:47:41.960
<v Speaker 8>was that was when I met the Like I knew

0:47:42.040 --> 0:47:44.080
<v Speaker 8>Devo for like six months at this point, but that's

0:47:44.080 --> 0:47:44.959
<v Speaker 8>when I met Val.

0:47:48.160 --> 0:47:52.839
<v Speaker 4>Real quick story, but this influencer pretty much made her

0:47:52.960 --> 0:47:56.959
<v Speaker 4>money and her ability to grow as an influencer talking

0:47:57.040 --> 0:48:00.239
<v Speaker 4>about colorism. So Kadeena and I were like, Yo, let's

0:48:00.239 --> 0:48:02.239
<v Speaker 4>have her come on here to talk about because she's

0:48:02.239 --> 0:48:03.040
<v Speaker 4>a brown skinned woman.

0:48:03.560 --> 0:48:05.719
<v Speaker 1>She came in here to talk about colorism. So first

0:48:05.719 --> 0:48:09.400
<v Speaker 1>of all, she got there over an hour late. Over

0:48:09.440 --> 0:48:11.000
<v Speaker 1>an hour late, and in a minute she came in.

0:48:11.080 --> 0:48:11.759
<v Speaker 1>We didn't even meet her.

0:48:11.800 --> 0:48:16.640
<v Speaker 4>First, we met her white male manager or handler. And

0:48:16.719 --> 0:48:18.759
<v Speaker 4>then he came in after being an hour and a

0:48:18.760 --> 0:48:20.880
<v Speaker 4>half late. Didn't apologize nothing that says she won't be

0:48:20.920 --> 0:48:23.600
<v Speaker 4>discussing any of these things. All of the lists of

0:48:23.680 --> 0:48:26.920
<v Speaker 4>things were discussing the things that made her very popular.

0:48:27.640 --> 0:48:30.680
<v Speaker 4>And I was just like, well, where are we going

0:48:30.800 --> 0:48:32.279
<v Speaker 4>to discuss it? And if she don't want to talk

0:48:32.320 --> 0:48:34.239
<v Speaker 4>about it, and she has a whole bunch of other things.

0:48:34.320 --> 0:48:37.160
<v Speaker 4>So we sat down for like what maybe twenty minutes. Yeah,

0:48:37.880 --> 0:48:40.000
<v Speaker 4>and I started asking questions and then he stepped in

0:48:40.160 --> 0:48:41.759
<v Speaker 4>one time and said, yeah, she won't talk about that.

0:48:41.800 --> 0:48:43.640
<v Speaker 4>I said, we don't got to do this interview. And

0:48:43.760 --> 0:48:45.759
<v Speaker 4>I was out like okay, come on, let's go. Like

0:48:45.880 --> 0:48:49.680
<v Speaker 4>that's and that episode never aired. It's funny that you

0:48:49.800 --> 0:48:52.279
<v Speaker 4>remember that. Were you laughing in the back?

0:48:52.560 --> 0:48:53.239
<v Speaker 7>I really was.

0:48:53.360 --> 0:48:56.080
<v Speaker 4>I was like, dang, Yeah, I was pissed because I

0:48:56.120 --> 0:48:58.399
<v Speaker 4>felt like it was it was a waste of time.

0:48:58.400 --> 0:49:01.680
<v Speaker 4>I feel like she was being very distanging, like you're brown,

0:49:01.719 --> 0:49:04.080
<v Speaker 4>skinned women who got famous talking about how brown skinned

0:49:04.080 --> 0:49:06.920
<v Speaker 4>women don't get a fair shake in this industry.

0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:09.719
<v Speaker 1>And here we are to lighter.

0:49:09.560 --> 0:49:13.640
<v Speaker 4>Skinned people who understand how colorism is a problem. It's like, yo,

0:49:13.760 --> 0:49:15.960
<v Speaker 4>let's talk about it, and she don't want to talk

0:49:16.000 --> 0:49:18.000
<v Speaker 4>about it, or matter of fact, it wasn't her.

0:49:18.680 --> 0:49:21.080
<v Speaker 1>He said she wasn't going to talk about it, and

0:49:21.160 --> 0:49:21.480
<v Speaker 1>she was.

0:49:21.520 --> 0:49:23.360
<v Speaker 4>Like, I can't, and then he was just like no,

0:49:24.480 --> 0:49:27.000
<v Speaker 4>and then she listened, and that's when I was just like, yeah, well,

0:49:27.000 --> 0:49:29.440
<v Speaker 4>and if we're not talking about it, then there's no

0:49:29.560 --> 0:49:30.200
<v Speaker 4>reason to have this.

0:49:32.680 --> 0:49:34.920
<v Speaker 1>I was hot. Do you remember how I was? I

0:49:36.680 --> 0:49:37.360
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to fight that.

0:49:37.440 --> 0:49:38.600
<v Speaker 3>Man she got introduced to.

0:49:41.480 --> 0:49:43.040
<v Speaker 1>Are you not about to tell this black woman she's

0:49:43.080 --> 0:49:45.200
<v Speaker 1>not talking about colorism? Nigga? What the fuck you know about?

0:49:45.520 --> 0:49:48.279
<v Speaker 1>I was so mad. You're so mad right now? All

0:49:48.440 --> 0:49:55.560
<v Speaker 1>my I look mad because we just talked about men

0:49:55.680 --> 0:49:56.359
<v Speaker 1>cincining women.

0:49:56.440 --> 0:49:58.960
<v Speaker 4>It's like, this is what made her famous, this, this

0:49:59.160 --> 0:50:01.040
<v Speaker 4>is what got her the platform, and this is what

0:50:01.200 --> 0:50:04.719
<v Speaker 4>our culture is still dealing with to this day. And you,

0:50:05.040 --> 0:50:07.200
<v Speaker 4>a person who has no idea what this is about,

0:50:07.400 --> 0:50:09.160
<v Speaker 4>it's going to tell her she shouldn't talk about this.

0:50:09.600 --> 0:50:11.840
<v Speaker 3>It pissed me off, which is, do you have a

0:50:11.880 --> 0:50:13.920
<v Speaker 3>favorite episode or moment I have?

0:50:14.160 --> 0:50:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I have a lot. I actually have a lot of favorites,

0:50:16.960 --> 0:50:22.719
<v Speaker 1>favorite episodes and moments. One of my very, very very

0:50:23.800 --> 0:50:25.960
<v Speaker 1>favorite moments I can't even say that once I got

0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:26.919
<v Speaker 1>another one I thought about.

0:50:29.440 --> 0:50:32.680
<v Speaker 4>We did fifteen seasons, bro, I know, episode that's over

0:50:32.719 --> 0:50:34.160
<v Speaker 4>two hundred and twenty five episodes.

0:50:34.160 --> 0:50:34.680
<v Speaker 3>It's like a blur.

0:50:34.800 --> 0:50:37.319
<v Speaker 2>I almost don't have anything that's surfacing for me right now.

0:50:37.320 --> 0:50:39.400
<v Speaker 2>I have dead ass live show moments.

0:50:39.520 --> 0:50:40.400
<v Speaker 5>That's my favorite.

0:50:40.520 --> 0:50:43.000
<v Speaker 3>That's the whole thing. I think. The live shows in

0:50:43.080 --> 0:50:46.719
<v Speaker 3>general are just really like my thing. We all love

0:50:46.840 --> 0:50:47.280
<v Speaker 3>the stage.

0:50:47.520 --> 0:50:49.799
<v Speaker 4>Going to do another live show, but not a tour.

0:50:50.160 --> 0:50:52.000
<v Speaker 4>We're not doing a tour. We're gonna do another live show.

0:50:52.000 --> 0:50:54.040
<v Speaker 4>Our plan is doing the live show of course where.

0:50:55.440 --> 0:50:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Brooklyn. We're gonna come back to New York.

0:50:56.640 --> 0:50:58.360
<v Speaker 4>We gonna do a big live show and when we

0:50:58.480 --> 0:51:00.000
<v Speaker 4>find the time, but it's gonna happen because we have

0:51:00.160 --> 0:51:01.799
<v Speaker 4>to do an LS ever after live show.

0:51:01.840 --> 0:51:04.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh for sure, now that we're here, you know, and

0:51:04.960 --> 0:51:06.960
<v Speaker 2>y'all got to buy all this dead ass merch. Sidebar

0:51:07.080 --> 0:51:08.640
<v Speaker 2>shout out to Kwame who's back.

0:51:08.760 --> 0:51:09.920
<v Speaker 3>Behind the cameras as well.

0:51:10.760 --> 0:51:13.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Deadass Merch is now going to be on sale

0:51:13.440 --> 0:51:14.960
<v Speaker 2>and it's going to be a collector's item at this

0:51:14.960 --> 0:51:17.120
<v Speaker 2>point because there's no more dead Ass. So make sure

0:51:17.120 --> 0:51:19.400
<v Speaker 2>you get right, makes sure you get your hoodie, your

0:51:19.440 --> 0:51:23.319
<v Speaker 2>T shirt, your hats. Yeah, because once they're gone, they're gone.

0:51:23.360 --> 0:51:24.879
<v Speaker 2>They're like collector's items at this point.

0:51:24.920 --> 0:51:27.879
<v Speaker 4>I feel like I was balancing between episodes. I think

0:51:27.920 --> 0:51:32.280
<v Speaker 4>one of my favorite episode is with Angel and Marcus

0:51:34.040 --> 0:51:37.600
<v Speaker 4>was talking about marriage. But Angel is a clown right, like,

0:51:37.719 --> 0:51:41.160
<v Speaker 4>she's hilarious and Marcus is so like straight And this

0:51:41.360 --> 0:51:44.600
<v Speaker 4>was before Marcus started to become more personality, and Marcus

0:51:44.680 --> 0:51:46.400
<v Speaker 4>is kind of sitting there like, I don't really know

0:51:46.440 --> 0:51:47.680
<v Speaker 4>why she had me come on here. I know there's

0:51:47.680 --> 0:51:49.680
<v Speaker 4>a couple of things, but it was just so funny

0:51:49.680 --> 0:51:52.239
<v Speaker 4>because throughout the episode he started to open up and

0:51:52.360 --> 0:51:54.520
<v Speaker 4>we realized how much we had in common because they

0:51:54.640 --> 0:51:56.640
<v Speaker 4>have four kids. At the time, we only had three.

0:51:56.920 --> 0:51:59.680
<v Speaker 4>It was only boys, so there was so much synergy

0:51:59.760 --> 0:52:04.480
<v Speaker 4>between them. But I also loved Melissa and Kevin on stage,

0:52:05.640 --> 0:52:09.399
<v Speaker 4>Like I think it's the relationship aspect and seeing people

0:52:09.440 --> 0:52:12.040
<v Speaker 4>who have been in relationships just as long as we

0:52:12.680 --> 0:52:15.279
<v Speaker 4>and we talked about like our issues and it's.

0:52:15.200 --> 0:52:17.400
<v Speaker 1>Like, wait a minute, you go through that. Oh, you

0:52:17.480 --> 0:52:18.040
<v Speaker 1>go through that too.

0:52:18.080 --> 0:52:20.360
<v Speaker 4>And then seeing Melissa, it's like, wait a minute, you

0:52:20.400 --> 0:52:24.520
<v Speaker 4>and I are the same and yeah, that to me

0:52:25.680 --> 0:52:27.680
<v Speaker 4>those and I think this. Me and Tripple had talked

0:52:27.719 --> 0:52:31.600
<v Speaker 4>about this growing up. I had believed that all men

0:52:31.719 --> 0:52:34.040
<v Speaker 4>thought the same way and all women thought the same way,

0:52:34.160 --> 0:52:37.520
<v Speaker 4>especially in relationships. And this is why I loved doing

0:52:37.600 --> 0:52:39.640
<v Speaker 4>dead Ass podcast when we sat down with so many

0:52:39.680 --> 0:52:42.240
<v Speaker 4>different couples and I realized that some of the issues

0:52:42.280 --> 0:52:45.680
<v Speaker 4>I have women have those issues with their spouse and

0:52:45.719 --> 0:52:48.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, oh, so that's not a man thing. So

0:52:48.160 --> 0:52:51.680
<v Speaker 4>me trying to fix this with testosterone ain't gonna work.

0:52:52.040 --> 0:52:53.640
<v Speaker 4>I gotta fix this with another you know. I have

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<v Speaker 4>to open up a different eye to have empathy for

0:52:56.560 --> 0:52:58.759
<v Speaker 4>my wife in a different way other than saying, well,

0:52:58.760 --> 0:53:00.520
<v Speaker 4>I'm just a man and she just a and that's

0:53:00.560 --> 0:53:05.279
<v Speaker 4>how it is. Those relationships, those relationship podcasts really like.

0:53:05.400 --> 0:53:07.360
<v Speaker 4>I love those, even though the after shows when Me

0:53:07.440 --> 0:53:10.040
<v Speaker 4>and Trouble be arguing and I can get a different

0:53:10.120 --> 0:53:12.439
<v Speaker 4>perspective from someone in a different walk of life.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are my favorites.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was going to say the ones that I've

0:53:15.280 --> 0:53:17.960
<v Speaker 2>learned from I think were my favorite. So for example,

0:53:18.120 --> 0:53:20.560
<v Speaker 2>like I felt like after a while, I was like,

0:53:20.600 --> 0:53:22.799
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, we having all these topics about sex,

0:53:23.040 --> 0:53:26.040
<v Speaker 2>all these conversations about sex, and I'm just like, man, like,

0:53:26.200 --> 0:53:28.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm tired of talking about it. People are probably tired

0:53:28.320 --> 0:53:31.359
<v Speaker 2>listening to it. But then no, people will like talk

0:53:31.400 --> 0:53:33.480
<v Speaker 2>about it more because I have the same issues. But

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's the self discovery through those episodes as

0:53:37.239 --> 0:53:40.239
<v Speaker 2>well as the parenting episodes when we had all this

0:53:40.400 --> 0:53:42.279
<v Speaker 2>where I was just like, oh my god, I can't

0:53:42.320 --> 0:53:45.040
<v Speaker 2>believe I did that, or it's like I've taken something

0:53:45.080 --> 0:53:47.600
<v Speaker 2>that I maybe didn't understand with your way of parenting

0:53:47.680 --> 0:53:50.880
<v Speaker 2>and realize like, damn, that's something that actually could be

0:53:51.160 --> 0:53:54.560
<v Speaker 2>applicable to me too. Like those self discovery moments over

0:53:54.640 --> 0:53:57.360
<v Speaker 2>the past seven years, I think has really helped my

0:53:57.480 --> 0:54:00.000
<v Speaker 2>growth as an individual, as a wife, as a mode,

0:54:00.280 --> 0:54:02.680
<v Speaker 2>as a friend, as a daughter, as a career woman.

0:54:03.000 --> 0:54:05.920
<v Speaker 2>You know, those teachable learning moments. And I think that's

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<v Speaker 2>why so many people resonate to begin with with dead

0:54:08.440 --> 0:54:09.799
<v Speaker 2>Ass podcast, because.

0:54:10.040 --> 0:54:14.800
<v Speaker 3>Through talking about our experiences, sometimes having vent sessions, sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>calling it an expert.

0:54:16.040 --> 0:54:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes have we vented a lot?

0:54:17.840 --> 0:54:20.080
<v Speaker 4>Like I honestly feel like people got a chance to

0:54:20.120 --> 0:54:23.000
<v Speaker 4>know who we really are through listening to the podcast.

0:54:23.120 --> 0:54:25.839
<v Speaker 4>Like I've always been honest about how I feel about things,

0:54:26.280 --> 0:54:29.759
<v Speaker 4>backlash or not, because I only get one chance at life,

0:54:30.280 --> 0:54:32.400
<v Speaker 4>and I'm not gonna pretend to do something else that

0:54:32.480 --> 0:54:33.840
<v Speaker 4>I really don't believe in, because then I got to

0:54:33.880 --> 0:54:35.040
<v Speaker 4>pretend that for the rest of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just say how I feel. My favorite guest

0:54:38.520 --> 0:54:40.239
<v Speaker 1>to date is gonna always.

0:54:40.000 --> 0:54:44.439
<v Speaker 4>Be Tiffany elij the budgetista, Like, yeah, yeah, I've learned

0:54:44.560 --> 0:54:48.560
<v Speaker 4>so much from her financially that's helped create I mean,

0:54:48.760 --> 0:54:52.000
<v Speaker 4>even these opportunities about and people think the budget Nisa,

0:54:52.040 --> 0:54:53.440
<v Speaker 4>She's gonna tell you how to put your money. No,

0:54:53.600 --> 0:54:56.400
<v Speaker 4>she explains to you the importance difference between having a

0:54:56.520 --> 0:54:58.880
<v Speaker 4>certified financial planner and an accountant.

0:54:59.400 --> 0:55:01.720
<v Speaker 1>Small little things that you're like, oh, shoot, that is different.

0:55:01.719 --> 0:55:04.280
<v Speaker 4>Well maybe I should focus more on my financial planning

0:55:04.320 --> 0:55:09.279
<v Speaker 4>than accountant. Yeah, you know, like she Tiffany budgeanista, I

0:55:09.400 --> 0:55:12.359
<v Speaker 4>love you girl, like you. I think she's probably one

0:55:12.400 --> 0:55:14.720
<v Speaker 4>of the fan favorites as well. On then A's podcast,

0:55:14.800 --> 0:55:16.719
<v Speaker 4>A Guess that they always say we should have on

0:55:16.880 --> 0:55:18.560
<v Speaker 4>because so many people have.

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<v Speaker 1>Learned a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>My favorite guess is Shan.

0:55:22.280 --> 0:55:24.160
<v Speaker 4>It's funny you say you hate talking about sex with

0:55:24.200 --> 0:55:26.239
<v Speaker 4>the sham Boudram is one of your favorite guests, But

0:55:26.440 --> 0:55:27.239
<v Speaker 4>I understand why.

0:55:27.400 --> 0:55:29.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I just love her candor. I love how

0:55:29.239 --> 0:55:32.040
<v Speaker 2>she's just so honest. Something about her whole energy and

0:55:32.080 --> 0:55:34.920
<v Speaker 2>her heart spirit is super calming. I love that she

0:55:34.960 --> 0:55:37.160
<v Speaker 2>always speaks from a place of like, no judgment. She's

0:55:37.239 --> 0:55:38.480
<v Speaker 2>just kind of like it is what it is. But

0:55:38.560 --> 0:55:41.600
<v Speaker 2>she also comes with an educational background that's a legitimate

0:55:41.840 --> 0:55:44.080
<v Speaker 2>when we talk about someone having a podcast and speaking

0:55:44.120 --> 0:55:46.400
<v Speaker 2>as an expert because they've actually studied their field.

0:55:46.880 --> 0:55:47.759
<v Speaker 3>She is exactly that.

0:55:48.200 --> 0:55:51.640
<v Speaker 4>She's also the exact example of a woman having a

0:55:51.719 --> 0:55:54.520
<v Speaker 4>podcast where I would tell my friends I've said this

0:55:54.600 --> 0:55:56.759
<v Speaker 4>all the time on other podcasts, like my boys who

0:55:56.800 --> 0:55:58.480
<v Speaker 4>have issues with sex and stuff, I tell them, listen

0:55:58.520 --> 0:56:00.799
<v Speaker 4>to Shane. That's why I listen to to learn about

0:56:00.840 --> 0:56:03.600
<v Speaker 4>your body, your mentality, what you were going through. That's

0:56:03.640 --> 0:56:06.200
<v Speaker 4>a perfect example of if we limited people from having

0:56:06.880 --> 0:56:09.719
<v Speaker 4>podcasts that wild person, Like, if y'all limit Shan, it's

0:56:09.719 --> 0:56:12.520
<v Speaker 4>gonna be a problem, right because she definitely. She definitely

0:56:13.320 --> 0:56:15.360
<v Speaker 4>saved us from a lot of things because I was

0:56:15.400 --> 0:56:19.359
<v Speaker 4>able to see and hear what she was saying from

0:56:19.400 --> 0:56:21.880
<v Speaker 4>a different you know, from a different woman's perspective, and

0:56:21.960 --> 0:56:24.560
<v Speaker 4>it was like, oh, I never thought about that.

0:56:25.280 --> 0:56:26.560
<v Speaker 1>Shannon is a good one.

0:56:26.760 --> 0:56:31.120
<v Speaker 4>My favorite episode because people say it's theirs, it's selling ground.

0:56:32.560 --> 0:56:34.240
<v Speaker 4>And the only reason why I say it's my favorite

0:56:34.239 --> 0:56:38.279
<v Speaker 4>is because people always say I changed the trajectory of

0:56:38.360 --> 0:56:40.879
<v Speaker 4>my family by just listening to that, because I could

0:56:40.920 --> 0:56:43.080
<v Speaker 4>explain to them why we didn't don't need to hold

0:56:43.120 --> 0:56:45.440
<v Speaker 4>on to this property, use it as an asset so

0:56:45.560 --> 0:56:47.520
<v Speaker 4>that we can get more properties. So that's also one

0:56:47.560 --> 0:56:49.480
<v Speaker 4>of my Now I'm going over to I got so

0:56:49.560 --> 0:56:50.520
<v Speaker 4>many favorite episodes.

0:56:51.320 --> 0:56:52.160
<v Speaker 3>Any other favorites.

0:56:52.480 --> 0:56:55.279
<v Speaker 5>I got her favorite moment. It's from a life show

0:56:55.600 --> 0:56:57.440
<v Speaker 5>when you brought the boy, when the boys introduced you.

0:56:57.960 --> 0:57:02.279
<v Speaker 4>Ah yeah, yeah, literally was just I said I wasn't

0:57:02.280 --> 0:57:05.520
<v Speaker 4>gonna cry, and I cried like a little bit happily too.

0:57:05.680 --> 0:57:08.960
<v Speaker 2>I was back there so like you were, and it

0:57:09.040 --> 0:57:11.359
<v Speaker 2>was wanting his own microphone. He was just like, wait

0:57:11.400 --> 0:57:14.080
<v Speaker 2>a second, my brothers haven't couldn't talk talk.

0:57:14.960 --> 0:57:17.640
<v Speaker 4>Was pointing at it like yo yo, and I was like, Yo,

0:57:17.760 --> 0:57:19.880
<v Speaker 4>my man. It was mister Mike. Like, mister Mike, you

0:57:20.120 --> 0:57:22.040
<v Speaker 4>to give him a mic, and they gave him one.

0:57:22.080 --> 0:57:24.120
<v Speaker 4>Turns it on everything. He ain't say nothing, but he

0:57:24.200 --> 0:57:27.480
<v Speaker 4>danced around with it. That's a good That's a good moment, Josh.

0:57:29.040 --> 0:57:34.600
<v Speaker 9>No, no opinion, Josh, first and last day on the

0:57:35.880 --> 0:57:38.280
<v Speaker 9>I mean they're all memorable.

0:57:38.480 --> 0:57:42.280
<v Speaker 7>Well, the funniest one was when disclosed her.

0:57:42.480 --> 0:57:47.600
<v Speaker 3>The moment, Oh oh, who was that episode with?

0:57:47.760 --> 0:57:49.040
<v Speaker 5>I was with Kid.

0:57:50.760 --> 0:57:55.000
<v Speaker 3>Yes, that was listening letters episode. Shout out to kids.

0:57:55.200 --> 0:57:57.360
<v Speaker 3>I feel they're like our fairy god parents in the

0:57:57.480 --> 0:57:58.840
<v Speaker 3>in the him and Crystal.

0:57:59.200 --> 0:58:00.800
<v Speaker 1>They're not liked they are. Yeah.

0:58:00.920 --> 0:58:04.600
<v Speaker 3>They literally introduced us like to this the world. Essentially.

0:58:04.840 --> 0:58:07.080
<v Speaker 1>The first podcast read we did was the Read.

0:58:07.240 --> 0:58:08.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the Reads.

0:58:08.120 --> 0:58:10.400
<v Speaker 4>And then I think that's how I started to get

0:58:10.480 --> 0:58:13.840
<v Speaker 4>more interested in podcasts. People were tagging us and saying, like, Yo,

0:58:13.880 --> 0:58:15.800
<v Speaker 4>they y'all want to read. They talked about y'all want

0:58:15.840 --> 0:58:19.120
<v Speaker 4>to read, which also helped boost our following on social

0:58:19.200 --> 0:58:24.040
<v Speaker 4>media forever. We went to their show, their live show,

0:58:24.560 --> 0:58:26.000
<v Speaker 4>and that's when we were just like, yo, we should

0:58:26.000 --> 0:58:28.520
<v Speaker 4>do some podcast live. So so shout out to Chrissy

0:58:28.840 --> 0:58:31.880
<v Speaker 4>and Kid Ferry, what's your favorite episode Triple.

0:58:33.160 --> 0:58:35.520
<v Speaker 8>Well, I said mine first, Mine was prenup or Nah,

0:58:36.040 --> 0:58:37.760
<v Speaker 8>oh yeah, that's right, that's right, that's right from back

0:58:37.800 --> 0:58:40.400
<v Speaker 8>in the day. I did also like Kadeen's poop story.

0:58:40.640 --> 0:58:44.640
<v Speaker 8>It's something like something about a hot lady saying something

0:58:44.720 --> 0:58:46.080
<v Speaker 8>disgusting about herself that.

0:58:46.120 --> 0:58:48.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm like and just not caring.

0:58:48.520 --> 0:58:51.960
<v Speaker 2>It humanizes I feel like, because everyone probably has had

0:58:51.960 --> 0:58:54.000
<v Speaker 2>a moment, you've expressed.

0:58:53.640 --> 0:58:53.920
<v Speaker 5>It or not.

0:58:55.280 --> 0:58:59.000
<v Speaker 8>If somebody I'm dating, if somebody I'm dating is like, oh, Kadeen, fine,

0:58:59.040 --> 0:59:00.320
<v Speaker 8>I'd be like, you know she's on.

0:59:00.320 --> 0:59:06.880
<v Speaker 1>The oh yeah, oh yeah, I have that now in

0:59:06.960 --> 0:59:08.200
<v Speaker 1>my back brock. So thank you.

0:59:08.800 --> 0:59:10.960
<v Speaker 3>You're welcome. Y'all are welcome.

0:59:11.080 --> 0:59:14.880
<v Speaker 8>I do have another favorite moment that uh would be

0:59:14.960 --> 0:59:18.440
<v Speaker 8>the first live show I feel like. It was February

0:59:18.480 --> 0:59:22.080
<v Speaker 8>twenty twenty. I was at a film festival. I had

0:59:22.120 --> 0:59:24.000
<v Speaker 8>a short film in a film festival. Is a really

0:59:24.040 --> 0:59:27.040
<v Speaker 8>exciting moment for me. First time helping them produce a

0:59:27.120 --> 0:59:29.480
<v Speaker 8>live show. Very exciting. Y'all were having an exciting moment.

0:59:29.520 --> 0:59:32.680
<v Speaker 8>We're in two different cities. Your manager at the time

0:59:32.760 --> 0:59:36.960
<v Speaker 8>calls me and says, you need some cue cards, and

0:59:37.080 --> 0:59:38.040
<v Speaker 8>I'm in Boston.

0:59:38.280 --> 0:59:39.960
<v Speaker 1>Y'all are in Philly, Yeah.

0:59:40.120 --> 0:59:43.920
<v Speaker 8>At the film festival, and I'm yeah, I'm busy, bro,

0:59:46.080 --> 0:59:48.200
<v Speaker 8>I'm off the clock, off the class. It's like eight

0:59:48.200 --> 0:59:51.720
<v Speaker 8>o'clock at night, the snow storm outside. I hustle and

0:59:51.880 --> 0:59:54.560
<v Speaker 8>make these cue cards and send them to your manager

0:59:54.640 --> 0:59:56.280
<v Speaker 8>so she can get them printed, so she can get

0:59:56.320 --> 0:59:58.160
<v Speaker 8>them in your hands before stage time.

0:59:59.160 --> 1:00:01.560
<v Speaker 1>Get them in your hand, and then I don't find

1:00:01.600 --> 1:00:02.400
<v Speaker 1>out until.

1:00:03.440 --> 1:00:04.320
<v Speaker 3>Weeks later.

1:00:06.680 --> 1:00:11.960
<v Speaker 8>Later they run the footage back and DEVO first thirty

1:00:12.040 --> 1:00:12.800
<v Speaker 8>seconds of the show.

1:00:12.840 --> 1:00:13.880
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't even take that long.

1:00:13.920 --> 1:00:18.160
<v Speaker 8>I would say fifteen seconds in Devao tosses the fucking

1:00:18.280 --> 1:00:22.240
<v Speaker 8>Q cards to I don't I don't need them. I

1:00:22.280 --> 1:00:24.760
<v Speaker 8>don't need them. That is a favorite memory of mine.

1:00:26.040 --> 1:00:30.160
<v Speaker 8>I think about it every time I print a que card. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>thank you, We're going to take a break and pay

1:00:32.280 --> 1:00:37.360
<v Speaker 8>some bills. That is That's like the fourth time you

1:00:37.480 --> 1:00:39.960
<v Speaker 8>brought that story. But I had to tell the story

1:00:40.000 --> 1:00:42.480
<v Speaker 8>again because I think starting there, that was the first

1:00:42.520 --> 1:00:46.600
<v Speaker 8>live show, and the live shows have evolved so much

1:00:46.800 --> 1:00:50.240
<v Speaker 8>like then then. I feel like, was it it was

1:00:50.360 --> 1:00:54.600
<v Speaker 8>video recorded, but you maybe had one camera camera. Yeah,

1:00:55.360 --> 1:00:56.640
<v Speaker 8>the DJ was there and.

1:00:56.720 --> 1:00:59.360
<v Speaker 1>It was just young no guests.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it was an executive at that time. It was

1:01:02.000 --> 1:01:04.640
<v Speaker 4>we didn't have exact they had a house DJ. They

1:01:04.680 --> 1:01:07.280
<v Speaker 4>had a house DJ. We had to meet and greet beforehand.

1:01:07.640 --> 1:01:09.320
<v Speaker 7>Yes, then come to Brooklyn.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's right. Yeah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was essentially started that to a live shows.

1:01:14.040 --> 1:01:16.560
<v Speaker 2>Like think about everyone doing live shows now podcast shows.

1:01:16.600 --> 1:01:19.120
<v Speaker 2>It's like there's all sorts of stuff happening.

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>That So that's what I was going to say with

1:01:22.040 --> 1:01:25.240
<v Speaker 8>the live shows, with the setup, especially since that that

1:01:25.400 --> 1:01:28.760
<v Speaker 8>show was right before the pandemic and since post pandemic,

1:01:28.800 --> 1:01:30.720
<v Speaker 8>I feel like you've gotten to kind of innovate the

1:01:30.800 --> 1:01:34.760
<v Speaker 8>way that we do the podcast, and it's been very influential,

1:01:34.840 --> 1:01:38.040
<v Speaker 8>if I do say so myself. But we've gone from

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<v Speaker 8>not being able to get the go pros to work

1:01:40.760 --> 1:01:41.480
<v Speaker 8>at the studio.

1:01:43.480 --> 1:01:44.479
<v Speaker 3>We did that, y'all.

1:01:44.720 --> 1:01:45.400
<v Speaker 10>We did that.

1:01:46.200 --> 1:01:47.880
<v Speaker 1>We've gone from trying to use go pro.

1:01:49.000 --> 1:01:52.360
<v Speaker 4>I remember that get them to work go pro and

1:01:52.800 --> 1:01:55.240
<v Speaker 4>we were in the studio and we had go pros

1:01:55.280 --> 1:01:58.360
<v Speaker 4>one on k Oh my God to do video of

1:01:58.480 --> 1:01:59.000
<v Speaker 4>the podcast.

1:01:59.000 --> 1:02:02.320
<v Speaker 5>I remember watching those episod It's terrible them go pros

1:02:02.360 --> 1:02:02.840
<v Speaker 5>its like there.

1:02:02.840 --> 1:02:04.240
<v Speaker 1>Was like the fish bowl like my face.

1:02:06.960 --> 1:02:09.040
<v Speaker 3>I was like, what is this? This is not flattering.

1:02:09.320 --> 1:02:12.520
<v Speaker 4>Well, before we go pay some bills, I do have

1:02:12.680 --> 1:02:20.120
<v Speaker 4>to say I appreciate y'all because everything y'all see here, cameras, lights,

1:02:20.960 --> 1:02:23.440
<v Speaker 4>run of shows, creative direction have been from those three

1:02:23.440 --> 1:02:25.800
<v Speaker 4>people you're watching on camera right now and Kadeen and

1:02:25.840 --> 1:02:28.880
<v Speaker 4>I honestly feel like it's about time y'all get in

1:02:28.960 --> 1:02:30.840
<v Speaker 4>front of cameras so people can see who y'all are,

1:02:31.040 --> 1:02:33.120
<v Speaker 4>and like when they see this whole set up and

1:02:33.240 --> 1:02:37.080
<v Speaker 4>realize what this is, they're going to be like, Wow,

1:02:37.160 --> 1:02:39.680
<v Speaker 4>this is no longer just a podcast. This is an experience,

1:02:40.160 --> 1:02:41.920
<v Speaker 4>and this is an experience that we want to win

1:02:42.000 --> 1:02:44.560
<v Speaker 4>awards for and we want to be critically acclaimed, so

1:02:45.000 --> 1:02:47.080
<v Speaker 4>we're gonna do everything in our power. Also, shout out

1:02:47.120 --> 1:02:51.520
<v Speaker 4>to the Patreon people. Pay your membership every money for

1:02:52.000 --> 1:02:58.080
<v Speaker 4>a lady asked why Patreon? This is why Patreon. The

1:02:58.160 --> 1:03:00.360
<v Speaker 4>people who have invested in the Patreon you are now

1:03:00.520 --> 1:03:04.120
<v Speaker 4>seeing and reaping the benefits of your little four dollars

1:03:04.160 --> 1:03:06.160
<v Speaker 4>a month. It don't seem like a lot before the

1:03:06.280 --> 1:03:09.840
<v Speaker 4>five dollars a month. And now we have cameras, and

1:03:09.920 --> 1:03:11.080
<v Speaker 4>now we have a camera crew.

1:03:11.240 --> 1:03:11.960
<v Speaker 1>Now we have life.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not little now. Yeah, we don't think it's We

1:03:16.080 --> 1:03:18.240
<v Speaker 4>don't think it's little. But I know a lot of

1:03:18.280 --> 1:03:19.720
<v Speaker 4>people is like, what are they going to do with

1:03:19.920 --> 1:03:22.320
<v Speaker 4>my little four dollars? This is what we're doing with

1:03:22.400 --> 1:03:24.480
<v Speaker 4>your little four dollars. It's called group economics.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>You got a bunch of people put together, and now

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<v Speaker 4>we're able to provide y'all better content because y'all invested

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<v Speaker 4>in us.

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<v Speaker 1>So first and foremost, Triple.

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<v Speaker 4>Josh Matt, we love y'all, yes, like like seriously, like

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<v Speaker 4>we really really love y'all. We love y'all back, and

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<v Speaker 4>we appreciate y'all taking this journey with us. Patreon family,

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<v Speaker 4>shout out to yourself. Round of applause for yourself, because

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<v Speaker 4>you're part of the reason why we're able to do

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<v Speaker 4>what we're doing in our home. Yes, thank you Patreon.

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<v Speaker 4>All of the equipment you see on your top TV

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<v Speaker 4>shows we have now because of you, So thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>So you just want to elevate the experience for y'all, Yes, ma'am.

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<v Speaker 2>Ever after I see a little tear at the side

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<v Speaker 2>of your eye.

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<v Speaker 4>No, this is a laugh tier because because it's Triple

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<v Speaker 4>we're telling the story here. It literally was as soon

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<v Speaker 4>as I got on, I was like, what's up that

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<v Speaker 4>ass podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>Triple got me these que cars? Fuck these que cars?

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<v Speaker 4>And I threw them ships just like that. And I

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<v Speaker 4>remember Triple said afterwards like, yeah, you know how long

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<v Speaker 4>I took. I was somewhere to go make the Q

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<v Speaker 4>cars and ever since then I give kt Q cars.

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<v Speaker 3>So nobody thought, let's go pay So you should throw

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<v Speaker 3>the bills like you throw the Q cars.

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<v Speaker 1>Wish I could. You can catch them now, money bags

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<v Speaker 1>Eli period.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we'll be back y'all, And we're back, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah to my favorite part of the show. That's something

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<v Speaker 2>that hasn't changed still, like to getting y'all business evolution.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even have a iPad, no more laptop. You

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<v Speaker 1>got cars.

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<v Speaker 7>I do, I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like the laptop after a while was just

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<v Speaker 2>cumbersome and well I had the laugh you could use

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<v Speaker 2>your iPad you because yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>You did that before I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, remember memories, bro, I'm trying to remember. Trying to

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<v Speaker 1>forget certain things. You leave it up to your friends.

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<v Speaker 3>A certain iPad into the off the balcony.

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<v Speaker 4>Off you co signed the triple that's messed up and Josh,

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<v Speaker 4>don't remember none of that. Josh, you remember that? No

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<v Speaker 4>bro see no opinion, It didn't have no.

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<v Speaker 2>While we're gonna get paddles sidebar, you got to get

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<v Speaker 2>those I love that.

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<v Speaker 4>Things to do you using the pot jist no trauma

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<v Speaker 4>Capital easy, Oh my goodness.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, yeah, I'm still nosy, still like to

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<v Speaker 2>hear what you got to say, and we're always gonna

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<v Speaker 2>give our two cents as you continue to write in.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to give the new email address at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of this episode where you're write into for advice

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<v Speaker 2>or to just chit chat with us. Well, triple, here's

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<v Speaker 2>the first one listener letter of Ellis ever after Hey

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<v Speaker 2>kay and Deval, It's Kayla here. Hey Kayla, I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to give you your flowers and wanted to share some

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<v Speaker 2>seriously amazing news.

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<v Speaker 3>I love amazing news.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Last year I wrote in, and you guys featured my

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<v Speaker 2>letter both on the podcast and Patreon.

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<v Speaker 3>Seriously, you all were life savers. Your advice helped me.

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<v Speaker 2>So much, Capitals Oh in navigating my eight year relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I absorbed every single piece of wisdom that you shared

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<v Speaker 2>and it all paid off big time.

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<v Speaker 3>This past October. My boyfriend proposed.

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<v Speaker 4>This.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm engaged. Our wedding is October eleventh. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>we need to be there. Drop the invitation.

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<v Speaker 2>My now fiance and I are huge fans and we're

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<v Speaker 2>religiously listening to the podcast and Patreon together. We just

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to express our sincere gratitude for everything you do.

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<v Speaker 2>You've created something truly special and we're so grateful to

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<v Speaker 2>be a part of the dead Ass community and Patreon gang.

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<v Speaker 2>Huge love to Kadeen, Devout and the whole dead ask

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<v Speaker 2>for you guys are top tier. Sincerely, Kayla, Come on,

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<v Speaker 2>that's why we do it.

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<v Speaker 1>This is stop, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Where If there are tariffs on the MIC, I guess

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<v Speaker 2>we'll have to pay them. I don't know, because this

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<v Speaker 2>is the reason we keep going.

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<v Speaker 3>Babe. Look at that.

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<v Speaker 1>Ya just makes me wow happy.

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<v Speaker 2>And here we are a lot of times saying like

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<v Speaker 2>we don't have all the answers we really give advice.

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<v Speaker 2>We still don't, but I'm happy to hear that our

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<v Speaker 2>two sins have now multiplied for you and you guys

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<v Speaker 2>are engaged.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what's wow.

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<v Speaker 3>Keep us posted, Kayla on all the HAPs Okay, that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what's up man. All right, prid of you guys

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<v Speaker 4>much love, and let us know when the wedding is.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, if we free October level if it's in Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 4>we'll stop through all right now Number two, Dear Kadeen

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<v Speaker 4>and Daval, I want to start off by saying I

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<v Speaker 4>love your platform and whatever represents.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much. Now my problem.

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<v Speaker 4>I am a thirty year old medical professional married to

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<v Speaker 4>a thirty four year old fitness professional. We met online

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<v Speaker 4>and fell for each other emotionally, spiritually and intellectually.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. So the problem is money.

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<v Speaker 4>Of course, I make six figures, but it definitely doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>feel like it after taxes and blessed student loans if

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<v Speaker 4>they live in New York. I understand that my husband

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<v Speaker 4>makes less than fifty k a year. I was okay

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<v Speaker 4>with it at first, but now that we have a

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<v Speaker 4>house and are trying to start having a baby, I

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<v Speaker 4>am worried. I honestly got a second job so we

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<v Speaker 4>could furnish and renovate our home because I can't count

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<v Speaker 4>on him to supply money because he does pay for

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<v Speaker 4>all the utilities and half of the mortgage with what

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<v Speaker 4>he makes. He's been in fitness for ten plus years

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<v Speaker 4>and has a gentle soul that caters to middle aged adults.

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<v Speaker 4>He's dabbled a little in the online space, but hasn't

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<v Speaker 4>gotten any clients.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say he's grinding there.

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<v Speaker 4>I also feel like he is okay with what he

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<v Speaker 4>makes because I feel there's very little sense of urgency,

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<v Speaker 4>Like when he's home, he's relaxing on video games.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that.

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<v Speaker 4>On my day off, I'm trying to figure out how

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<v Speaker 4>I can make more to live more comfortably, which has

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<v Speaker 4>made me realize I need to get him to have

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<v Speaker 4>online clients. He has no interest in getting any job

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<v Speaker 4>that would require him to have a boss, even though

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<v Speaker 4>he would make more. I understand, because yes, he has

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<v Speaker 4>more liberties being self employed. However, taking off more than

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<v Speaker 4>a week per month is a problem for my husband

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<v Speaker 4>because he can't because then he can't make money because

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<v Speaker 4>he doesn't have an online presence. Mind you, it's not

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<v Speaker 4>like I'm a gold digger wanting to go I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think you're gold digger. Neither want to go on lovest vacations.

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<v Speaker 4>I barely have time for that. I just want when

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<v Speaker 4>we go on vacation. He's not trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 4>how to rebound. I want to help him make more

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<v Speaker 4>of an online presence, so we're both not at a strain.

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<v Speaker 4>What are your suggestions to grab more clients and build

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<v Speaker 4>an online fitness empire.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that's something that you've done kind of that is online.

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<v Speaker 1>Space, not in an online space, but but yes, there

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<v Speaker 1>are ways.

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<v Speaker 4>First and foremost, shout out to y'all for working together

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<v Speaker 4>as an entrepreneur and also in a medical space. I

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<v Speaker 4>do also understand her mentality because she works based on salary,

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<v Speaker 4>so she's used to getting a certain amount of money.

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<v Speaker 4>He doesn't work on salary, so he's not used to

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<v Speaker 4>getting a certain amount of money. This is my first issue.

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<v Speaker 4>If you make less than fifty thousand dollars and you

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<v Speaker 4>want to make more money, there should be no reason

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<v Speaker 4>in the world why you wann video games at any

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<v Speaker 4>point in your life. I just had this argument with

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<v Speaker 4>someone very close to me, and I screamed at him,

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<v Speaker 4>get off the fucking video games.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally right.

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<v Speaker 4>If you have time in the day, that time in

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<v Speaker 4>the day should be going towards how you are going

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<v Speaker 4>to create more money or more revenue to help supplement

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<v Speaker 4>your wife or your partner, whoever that is.

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<v Speaker 1>That's number one, number two in the fitness space.

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<v Speaker 4>You have to understand that the greatest way for you

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<v Speaker 4>to make money isn't only in customer retention.

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<v Speaker 1>It's also in small group training. And it's just for

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<v Speaker 1>me from knowing.

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<v Speaker 4>If you tell one of your clients, right, hey, I'll

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<v Speaker 4>give you half four off your session if you bring

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<v Speaker 4>three people to your session.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, this is what I use a marketing strategy. And

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 4>I pay At the time, it wasn't super expensive, but

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<v Speaker 4>it was sixty dollars per session, and they're like, wait,

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<v Speaker 4>I can do thirty dollars per session if I bring

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<v Speaker 4>three people.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like yeah, They're like, but how does that

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<v Speaker 1>work for me?

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<v Speaker 4>I said, it's going to help you because you pay less,

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<v Speaker 4>but also you have people to compete with. And what

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<v Speaker 4>people don't realize about losing weight or losing body fat,

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<v Speaker 4>most of it is motivation. If you have someone in

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<v Speaker 4>your group that's doing the same thing as you. You guys,

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<v Speaker 4>work harder, iron sharpens iron. If you come there every

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<v Speaker 4>day for an hour to work harder, you'll lose more weight.

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<v Speaker 4>But here comes the economics. You bring one person and

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<v Speaker 4>they pay half off, it's the same price you bring

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<v Speaker 4>three people. Now you're doubling your quota for the hour.

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<v Speaker 4>So from sixty dollars an hour down to thirty for

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<v Speaker 4>that person, and all those other people are paying thirty dollars. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>how much we got one hundred and twenty dollars per hour.

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<v Speaker 4>Now you just doubled what you make. Plus you doubled

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<v Speaker 4>your reach because you have four people that you can

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<v Speaker 4>tell them, Hey, if you have anyone else who wants

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<v Speaker 4>to train, let them know I can give them a

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<v Speaker 4>discount rate. That's the first thing, maxt in your time, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>because when you duplicate yourself, you give yourself autonomy over

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<v Speaker 4>that time.

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<v Speaker 1>The other thing is online training.

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<v Speaker 4>Online training is imperfect if you create programs before you

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<v Speaker 4>create online training, create online programs that you can sell

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<v Speaker 4>to people. I've seen people make hundreds of thousands of

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<v Speaker 4>dollars per quarter.

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<v Speaker 1>Am I lying?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I know two people that come right off the

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<v Speaker 3>bat to mine from online.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean in an online program that's like twenty nine

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<v Speaker 2>ninety nine yes, or like an eight week program.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>And you think about that times how many people we have.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you had a large following on social media.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, but you get a thousand people that following, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and the proof is in the pudding. Like be a

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<v Speaker 2>good trainer.

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<v Speaker 3>That's also a part of it too.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to have people that are actually making a

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<v Speaker 2>change and you can see the difference in the before

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<v Speaker 2>and after. Sometimes help with that as well, to you

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<v Speaker 2>to keep people motivated, to say, I want to look

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<v Speaker 2>like that. It's a fickle industry because you have people

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<v Speaker 2>who are you know, on again, off again.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you're a good trainer, there's potential there for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Most of the trainers I know now making their money

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<v Speaker 4>on online programs or a program that I was thinking

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<v Speaker 4>about called Prototype on Demand when I was doing Prototype

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<v Speaker 4>Sports Performance where you can train people virtually and you

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<v Speaker 4>do virtual classes. That's another way if you've never thought

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<v Speaker 4>about it. So you have online programs, virtual classes, online

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<v Speaker 4>sessions for one on one, online group classes.

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<v Speaker 1>That's always for.

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<v Speaker 4>You to get autonomy over your time rather than losing

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<v Speaker 4>time going from place to place a personal person. This

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<v Speaker 4>is the most important thing, though, I think I have

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<v Speaker 4>to say, gentlemen, this may sound very old school, but

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<v Speaker 4>this is something that my father had always said to me.

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<v Speaker 4>If you decide to marry a woman and you want

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<v Speaker 4>that woman to have your child or your children, it

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<v Speaker 4>is not her responsibility to be an earner. The reason

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<v Speaker 4>why is because there's a lot that comes with carrying

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<v Speaker 4>a child, and then half after carrying a child, nurturing

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<v Speaker 4>that child and asking a person to balance a career

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<v Speaker 4>and nurturing a child is very difficult. So, as a man,

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<v Speaker 4>if you're asking your wife or your girl to have children,

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<v Speaker 4>be prepared fiscally to handle that responsibility on your own. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>if she finds a way to balance, it can help you.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a surplus, that's extra. But as a dude, this

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<v Speaker 4>is one thing my dad told me, and my grandfather

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<v Speaker 4>told me. If you have a child, and what if

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<v Speaker 4>that woman can't work? What if she has a baby

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<v Speaker 4>like you had and had twenty four stitches in your

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<v Speaker 4>cervix and you can't work, what are you then gonna

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<v Speaker 4>tell your wife and you going to suck that up?

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<v Speaker 1>Get out there?

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<v Speaker 4>No, what if she's dealing with postpartum depression? What if

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<v Speaker 4>she has hormone and balance? You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 4>there are things that happen to women. As a man,

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<v Speaker 4>any man, young man, older man, if you're looking to

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<v Speaker 4>have kids, make sure that you and your wallet can

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<v Speaker 4>handle that responsibility.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't try to pass that on.

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<v Speaker 4>As we're gonna split this fifty to fifty mortgage can

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<v Speaker 4>be f less up, but when it comes time to

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<v Speaker 4>have kids, she got to carry it.

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<v Speaker 1>She can't pass that fifty to fifty, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure can't.

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<v Speaker 1>She got a birth for right that she can't pass

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<v Speaker 1>the birth and thing right now. So you can't pass that, bro.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, it may seem old school or I'm jumping on

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<v Speaker 4>you as a man, but got to deal with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't tell her to pass on the placenter.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Good stuff, all right, Good luck to y'all as y'all navigate,

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<v Speaker 2>and yeah, try to figure this out. They're married, they

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<v Speaker 2>say they're married. Yeah, yeah, I mean it's a good

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<v Speaker 2>conversation to have to at least y'all have in the conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully he's recepted.

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<v Speaker 1>To get off the games, bro, seriously, like that's just

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<v Speaker 1>killing your brain and your time.

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<v Speaker 3>Indeed.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So if you want to be featured as

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<v Speaker 2>a listener, y'all, we have a new email address. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it's the Ellis Advice at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>That's t h E E L L I S A

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<v Speaker 1>d V I C E at Gmail.

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<v Speaker 3>So moment of truth time.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the first moment of truth for us ever.

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<v Speaker 3>A moment of truth.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I thought, we go back to a question that

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't quite get to as the moment of truth

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<v Speaker 2>and we can have everybody answer it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you looking forward to as a team with

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<v Speaker 3>Elis ever After?

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<v Speaker 4>Much like we did in a live space, I'm looking

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<v Speaker 4>forward to changing the way people consume podcasts because we

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<v Speaker 4>are about to elevate the game.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm looking forward to. That was a great question, Pardoner, Thank.

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<v Speaker 3>You all good.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually you kind of stole a part of mine, but

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to say, I'm looking forward to collectively

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<v Speaker 2>elevating the Ellis ever After experience. We saw what we

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<v Speaker 2>were able to do with dead Ass starting seven years

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<v Speaker 2>ago when we almost had no idea what podcasting was

1:16:55.720 --> 1:16:58.840
<v Speaker 2>at the time, and I think that dead Ass really

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<v Speaker 2>was able to set the tone and raise the bar

1:17:01.600 --> 1:17:06.760
<v Speaker 2>and change the way people consume podcasting audio wise but

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<v Speaker 2>also visually and then in the live show space. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to give us our flowers and say that we

1:17:13.080 --> 1:17:16.479
<v Speaker 2>were pioneers in that, you know, in that space, So I'm.

1:17:17.880 --> 1:17:18.960
<v Speaker 3>Period you know what I'm saying.

1:17:19.400 --> 1:17:21.640
<v Speaker 2>So I'm looking forward to the heights that we can

1:17:21.720 --> 1:17:24.360
<v Speaker 2>go to with Ellis ever after, now that we are

1:17:24.479 --> 1:17:30.040
<v Speaker 2>in a new space with new energy, getting input formally Trouble,

1:17:30.200 --> 1:17:33.680
<v Speaker 2>Josh and Matt, and collectively finding a way to make

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<v Speaker 2>sure that this is going to be the experience that

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<v Speaker 2>you guys have been waiting for.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm excited about that.

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<v Speaker 4>Before we ask everybody else, I also just want to

1:17:41.680 --> 1:17:44.120
<v Speaker 4>say I want to continue to share how we do

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<v Speaker 4>things and build and continue to not gatekeep information absolutely,

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<v Speaker 4>So I look forward to over these next couple of

1:17:51.080 --> 1:17:54.000
<v Speaker 4>years letting you guys know how we're building and developed

1:17:54.040 --> 1:17:59.280
<v Speaker 4>the podcast, the next live show, TV shows, films, books,

1:17:59.720 --> 1:18:02.080
<v Speaker 4>We have so many things on the horizon and we

1:18:02.200 --> 1:18:04.439
<v Speaker 4>look forward to showing you how we're doing it so

1:18:04.560 --> 1:18:06.559
<v Speaker 4>that you guys can take that information and doing yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't need nobody to give you an opportunity, go

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<v Speaker 4>make it on your own.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you guys. Before I passed the mic twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty four for us, I felt like was a very

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<v Speaker 2>It was a trying year in that it was a

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<v Speaker 2>transitional year from us change, a lot of change, a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of trying to navigate things professionally and also from

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<v Speaker 2>a personal perspective, and we were able to plant a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of seeds in twenty twenty four. And I read

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<v Speaker 2>somewhere recently through someone, It's just funny how God sends

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<v Speaker 2>messages to you through people that this was going to

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<v Speaker 2>be collectively for you and I the year of harvest.

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<v Speaker 2>And when I saw that, I almost got like supermo

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<v Speaker 2>actually kind of did get really emotional because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's exactly the conversation I had with God at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of twenty twenty four, and I felt like he

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<v Speaker 2>pushed us into a certain direction that forced us to

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<v Speaker 2>kind of recalibrate plant those seeds and for twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five at the very top of the year, and this

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<v Speaker 2>is a separate episode that I'm going to recant the

1:19:07.560 --> 1:19:10.120
<v Speaker 2>story at the top of the year, getting a text

1:19:10.160 --> 1:19:14.000
<v Speaker 2>message from someone that completely changed my life and further

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<v Speaker 2>confirmed to me that this is going to be the year.

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<v Speaker 3>Of harvest for us moving forward.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm super excited for the blessings that are on

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<v Speaker 2>en route and the ones that have already taken place.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just super excited.

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<v Speaker 8>Trude, what are you looking forward to or elis after

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<v Speaker 8>ever After? Yeah, man, I'm looking forward to the new

1:19:37.080 --> 1:19:40.439
<v Speaker 8>iteration of this podcast. I'm looking forward to talking more.

1:19:41.920 --> 1:19:44.200
<v Speaker 8>I'm looking forward to the dms. You know what I'm

1:19:44.200 --> 1:19:49.640
<v Speaker 8>saying if you out there, because only single one on

1:19:49.760 --> 1:19:54.400
<v Speaker 8>the team you are. I'm looking forward to getting married

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<v Speaker 8>later this year to one of y'all.

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<v Speaker 4>And stop asking me if Triple is really gay triple

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<v Speaker 4>gay gay triple. Don't like dude, she loves women, so

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<v Speaker 4>stop asking me.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>She don't want y'all do eligible bachelor.

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<v Speaker 5>With her?

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<v Speaker 2>With her?

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<v Speaker 8>You like trible?

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<v Speaker 1>Your hair?

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<v Speaker 8>No haird like I said earlier, a little hair and

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<v Speaker 8>on stop nothing but comb.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I can tell you by your sweater. You

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<v Speaker 1>like here, give me a little fun, So Trible looking

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<v Speaker 1>forward to the hose? Matt, what you looking forward.

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<v Speaker 5>To the hose? Uh? This is new for me, like

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<v Speaker 5>speaking in general, but I think it's gonna be fun.

1:20:39.040 --> 1:20:42.800
<v Speaker 5>I'm looking forward to this getting I'm getting used to

1:20:42.800 --> 1:20:45.000
<v Speaker 5>the idea of people opening up and people getting to

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<v Speaker 5>know me, learn the artists and stuff those things, so.

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<v Speaker 1>That Josh I ain't sign up for all of this, Josh,

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<v Speaker 1>Josh exactly.

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<v Speaker 9>I ain't known this when it first, when the idea

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<v Speaker 9>came about to do it in this format, I was like,

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<v Speaker 9>I ain't gonna be on camera. I said that to Ma,

1:21:05.479 --> 1:21:08.000
<v Speaker 9>say you get a camera and that that'll be your camera, right,

1:21:08.000 --> 1:21:11.160
<v Speaker 9>and I'll be on the side. But the reality is

1:21:11.560 --> 1:21:13.960
<v Speaker 9>I didn't understand what the division is. But you know,

1:21:14.080 --> 1:21:17.040
<v Speaker 9>I got the vision today. Yeah, that's how you want.

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<v Speaker 9>I gotta like that, you know, But I got the

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<v Speaker 9>vision today, And the reality is, I'm looking forward to evolution, man,

1:21:28.880 --> 1:21:29.120
<v Speaker 9>it is.

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<v Speaker 7>It is a great thing to not be stagnant and

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<v Speaker 7>not to want to be stagnant. So I love this.

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<v Speaker 7>I love this for y'all.

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<v Speaker 9>I love this for myself, and I'm looking forward to

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<v Speaker 9>most tempering myself and not embarrassing myself on camera.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the ultimate test.

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<v Speaker 7>It is to you know, think about what you say

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<v Speaker 7>before you say it.

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<v Speaker 1>It is no bro, absolutely a moment for people to

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<v Speaker 1>understand that.

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<v Speaker 7>But yeah, so I'm looking forward to that. This is great, good.

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<v Speaker 3>Stuff, good stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that for all of us.

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<v Speaker 3>I sure do.

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<v Speaker 2>Those were awesome moments of truth, all right, y'all. Let

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<v Speaker 2>me go to my que cons y'all. You know, I'm

1:22:10.479 --> 1:22:13.200
<v Speaker 2>a little rust decent. We just come back all lot

1:22:13.280 --> 1:22:16.200
<v Speaker 2>my place, and the sequence of what we got we.

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<v Speaker 1>Having to say, y'all know about heart?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know by heart? And I just want to

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<v Speaker 3>make sure nothing changed, do you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Cause what's that podcast name? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, of course we know that that changed.

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<v Speaker 2>So be sure to find us y'all on Patreon because

1:22:29.600 --> 1:22:31.920
<v Speaker 2>we're still there and we are aiming to do some

1:22:32.040 --> 1:22:33.280
<v Speaker 2>more lives on Patreon, y'all.

1:22:33.320 --> 1:22:34.599
<v Speaker 3>We just had to kind of get our footing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said, twenty twenty four was a beast, but

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<v Speaker 2>now that we're kind of recalibrated and we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>definitely jump on some more lives to connect with you

1:22:41.760 --> 1:22:43.519
<v Speaker 2>guys more. But you can find us on Patreon if

1:22:43.560 --> 1:22:45.760
<v Speaker 2>you're not there yet for the after show, because we're

1:22:45.760 --> 1:22:48.840
<v Speaker 2>still going to have the llis ever after after the show,

1:22:48.920 --> 1:22:50.960
<v Speaker 2>so we're still building that out. And just so you

1:22:51.040 --> 1:22:54.200
<v Speaker 2>know that our set, our new set we're super excited about.

1:22:54.240 --> 1:22:56.720
<v Speaker 2>This is actually Devou's man cave space that we have

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<v Speaker 2>turned into our set, So thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>For loaning this to us.

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<v Speaker 2>Pleasure, and we're still continuing to like put up the

1:23:03.760 --> 1:23:06.160
<v Speaker 2>core pieces. We'll have some new furnisure coming in, so

1:23:06.840 --> 1:23:08.519
<v Speaker 2>just be with us on the journey. You know, we

1:23:08.600 --> 1:23:11.200
<v Speaker 2>want y'all to see this as it's unfolding in real time.

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<v Speaker 2>But you can find more exclusive Ellis ever After video

1:23:15.000 --> 1:23:17.320
<v Speaker 2>content on Patreon and you can find us, of course

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<v Speaker 2>on social media. So the dead Ass podcast page, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're on it now, it will eventually change to Ellis

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<v Speaker 2>ever After, and then you can continue to find me

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<v Speaker 2>at kadeen I am.

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<v Speaker 1>And I Am devout.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you're listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate,

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<v Speaker 1>Please do. And as always, I'm gonna end every episode holo.

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<v Speaker 5>Hold hold, hold up, they can't find us at Underscore

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<v Speaker 5>Matt dot l you absolute because I need it?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure you know, Matt, I don't. I don't talk too much,

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<v Speaker 3>but here's my hand as you should.

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<v Speaker 7>You don't gotta find me on instag you can find

1:24:00.760 --> 1:24:03.360
<v Speaker 7>me on email me for pricing.

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<v Speaker 1>I n f O at Josh Doway dot com.

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<v Speaker 7>Absolutely, I n f O at j O s h

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<v Speaker 7>u A d w A I N dot com.

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<v Speaker 5>There you go, y'all can.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell Josh is new and I love to get the

1:24:19.080 --> 1:24:22.320
<v Speaker 4>organic evolution of Josh, because I guarantee you a couple

1:24:22.320 --> 1:24:23.479
<v Speaker 4>of weeks from now, we're gonna do this again.

1:24:23.560 --> 1:24:25.680
<v Speaker 1>Josh's gonna be telling everybody what to do. That's what

1:24:25.800 --> 1:24:27.919
<v Speaker 1>Josh like to do. He gonna have his whole Instagram

1:24:28.080 --> 1:24:30.800
<v Speaker 1>name change pictures of it. I know, I know, Josh.

1:24:31.120 --> 1:24:32.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he got to feel his way through it. He

1:24:32.960 --> 1:24:33.799
<v Speaker 3>has to be convinced.

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<v Speaker 8>You can find me on Instagram at Trips the Cool

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<v Speaker 8>t R I B b Z t H E C

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<v Speaker 8>double O L. That's also my website and on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and as always, I'm gonna finish every episode with

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<v Speaker 4>this dead ass.

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<v Speaker 7>No.

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<v Speaker 1>That's episode.

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<v Speaker 8>Ellis ever After is an iHeartMedia podcast. It's hosted by

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<v Speaker 8>Kadeen and Deval Ellis. It's produced by Triple Video, Production

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<v Speaker 8>by Joshua Duane and Matthew Ellis, video editing by Lashan Rowe.

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