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Speaker 1: We'll be Baby.

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Speaker 2: Dead Ass podcast was like a woman who got a haircut, Baby,

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Speaker 2: she about to change a life.

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Speaker 3: Ellis ever After is live.

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Speaker 4: It all started with real talk, unfiltered, honest and straight

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Speaker 4: from the heart. Since then, we've gone on to become

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Speaker 4: Webby award winning podcasters in New York Times bestselling authors.

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Speaker 2: Dead Ass was more than a podcast for us. It

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Speaker 2: was about our growth, a place where we could be vulnerable,

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Speaker 2: be wrang.

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Speaker 1: Of course, but most apportly be us.

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Speaker 2: But as we know, life keeps evolving, and so do

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Speaker 2: we and through it all, one thing has never changed.

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Speaker 5: This is.

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Speaker 3: Because we got a lot to talk about.

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Speaker 1: So let's get for the Maybe we'll start with story time.

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Speaker 1: It's been such a long time.

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Speaker 2: It's been a long time. Yeah, story time is next.

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Speaker 1: Boom story Time.

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Speaker 4: I'm actually gonna take us back to twenty eighteen.

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Speaker 3: You typically take us back.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I got to take us back back in the time,

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Speaker 4: right twenty eighteen. Kadeen and I are in the mixt

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Speaker 4: of developing our social media presence. Yes, and we were

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Speaker 4: doing a bunch of battle of the sexist ideas. And

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Speaker 4: I remember I had did a video about resetting your freak. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and it went viral, and then from going viral. I

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Speaker 4: it was just like, have you guys ever thought about

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Speaker 1: And I was like, podcast, what's the podcast?

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Speaker 4: And then she explained to us what a podcast was,

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Speaker 4: and you and I were like, Yo, this would be

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Speaker 4: a dope way for us to give our perspectives on

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Speaker 4: marriage from a woman's perspective and then a man's perspective,

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Speaker 1: It was funny, it was supposed to be in jest.

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Speaker 3: It was like taking the comments section, yes the microphone.

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Speaker 4: You know, but literally taking the comment section to the microphone.

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Speaker 4: And we also had the idea of building this out

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Speaker 4: to become a talk show for you because you've always

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Speaker 4: had this dream of being a daytime TV host.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely still a dream.

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Speaker 1: Still it's still a dream.

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Speaker 4: But as technology changes, as the industry changes, as the

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Speaker 4: topics of conversation change, so have we. So welcome, everybody,

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Speaker 4: Welcome to the first episode of Elis Ever After.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, baby, all right, all right, first karaoke of the season.

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Speaker 3: Baby first.

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Speaker 1: Now, I'm gonna make it very clear.

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Speaker 4: We chose a very difficult song for karaoke because it

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Speaker 1: This is this is what we do, This is who

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Speaker 2: Absolutely kill people's songs for a living. You would think

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Speaker 2: it's my job at this point to do terrible.

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Speaker 1: Do we really kill people songs like that? I don't

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Speaker 3: I know sometimes I just don't know the words. Well,

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Speaker 3: you you'll be tend to a little pitchy, you know.

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Speaker 1: Well, pitchy is part of it. I mean, it's karaoke.

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Speaker 1: Pitchy is part of the karaoke experience.

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Speaker 2: Well, some person goes up to do karaokey, they're singing

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Speaker 3: Just like you did that on purpose, right, It's not

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Speaker 4: But I say all of that to say, give me

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Speaker 3: All right, go for it, practice and I'm gonna let

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Speaker 4: Shout out to the artist who sang this song, indeed,

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Speaker 6: There we go, birds flying high, you know how I feel?

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Speaker 6: Mm hmmmm hmm. Sun in the sky.

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Speaker 1: Breathe sifting on by? You know how I feel.

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Speaker 3: Hey, it's a new dawn. It's a new day.

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Speaker 1: It's a new life for me. Yeah, it's a new

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Speaker 4: Shout out to Oh my God, one of my favorite

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Speaker 1: But we are feeling good?

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Speaker 3: Man, You are not feeling good, dawn. It's a new.

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Speaker 1: Day, trouble. Are you're feeling good? I'm feeling alright.

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Speaker 3: Listen, you gotta feel bad than all right, That's what

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Speaker 5: Feeling good?

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Speaker 1: Y'all? Are you feeling good?

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Speaker 7: I'm tiring, y'all.

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Speaker 3: I knew that was coming. You're coming from the West

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Speaker 1: Okay, Josh got off of a flight this morning.

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Speaker 4: So what we're gonna do, right, now we're gonna take

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Speaker 4: a quick break's some bills.

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Speaker 1: And get back into the new format.

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Speaker 4: Is everybody knowing that some things are different around here

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Speaker 4: Deadass podcast because.

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Speaker 1: It's no longer dead Ass podcast.

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Speaker 2: It's not Baby Ellis After. Welcome, Welcome to the new sets.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to our home, new space, new energy, new vibes,

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Speaker 2: new topics. Baby, we're just getting started. Stick around, We'll

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Speaker 2: be back, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, So we're back.

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Speaker 4: We have a new segment as we introduce the crew,

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Speaker 4: who y'all really already know. Anybody who's been following dead

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Speaker 4: are going to know these people. We're gonna introduce, first

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Speaker 4: and foremost our producer, Extraordinary over there.

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Speaker 1: What's up, trouble, what's going on, y'all? I'm glad I

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Speaker 1: still have a job. You got, but what we're excited

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Speaker 4: How does it feel to actually be officially part of

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Speaker 4: the Ellis ever After podcasts?

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Speaker 1: You know what?

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Speaker 8: It feels like the best revenge in the world. When

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Speaker 8: I first started working on Dead Ass, my boss at

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Speaker 8: the time was like, You're not gonna have your own show,

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Speaker 1: I didn't even ask, like, I didn't even It's messed

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Speaker 1: up but cool. But look at me now, bitch that

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Speaker 1: I love that. I love that.

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Speaker 4: Yo, Matt, Yo, you gotta talk to us a little bit, man, Now,

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Speaker 4: let us know how we got here.

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Speaker 1: You don't talk ever, You always the down behind the camera.

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Speaker 5: Everybody when they see this's gonna be like I just happened.

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Speaker 7: People.

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Speaker 4: It is Elis ever After and you are officially an

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Speaker 1: But shout out to Matt Man.

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Speaker 4: Matt is going to start getting from the camera because

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Speaker 4: he has a couple of opinions he wanted to talk about,

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Speaker 4: and we've seen on the After Show and last but

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Speaker 4: certainly not least a person who actually is responsible for

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Speaker 4: curating the Look of Dead Ass podcast before our engagement

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Speaker 4: shoot in two thousand and nine.

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Speaker 3: How many years in are we Josh this, Josh?

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Speaker 4: How many years is it feels like the sixteen Josh?

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Speaker 1: Talk to us? How you feel officially be a part

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Speaker 1: of Ellis of Rafter podcast.

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Speaker 9: I feeling good, baby, Yeah. I like the evolution of

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Speaker 9: it all. I like the look. I like the grown

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Speaker 4: It's dope, man, grown and Sexy Baby were grown and

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Speaker 4: Sexy finalist point we are I'm still trying to grow up.

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Speaker 1: I feel like a kid, like I ain't even gonna

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Speaker 1: hold y'all. I feel like a kid A lot.

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Speaker 3: Of that's very true.

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Speaker 2: And if you take a look at those four young

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Speaker 2: my mind that I have four children, four sons, responsible

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Speaker 2: for four human beings.

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Speaker 3: It's so crazy to me.

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Speaker 1: Look at us, and look at you.

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Speaker 4: See the V, we the V and ever ever because

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Speaker 4: you were stuck with me forever, know that.

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Speaker 3: Four M V not M like Josh tried to say,

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Speaker 3: it's a V.

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Speaker 1: Bro. I never saw a M you saw. I never

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Speaker 9: I got a text message where Kadeen agreed with me,

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Speaker 3: It looks like an R.

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Speaker 1: Ellis raft.

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Speaker 2: I know it's Ellis ever After, but I can see

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Speaker 4: All right, I'll take it with you. Let's get back

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Speaker 4: OP or no opp. Now, it's not the OP that

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Speaker 4: talking about opinions right. The reason why we're introducing op

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Speaker 1: You have an opinion.

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Speaker 4: How about people start having opinions when they're educated on

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Speaker 3: Yes, but at some point people just can shut up,

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, and you don't have.

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Speaker 2: To always have something to say about everything. So that's

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Speaker 1: We want it to be as real as possible.

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Speaker 4: So Trible comes up with the ops the same way

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Speaker 1: So Trible's on you, baby, aren't you?

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Speaker 7: Y'all?

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Speaker 1: For us today for op no op.

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Speaker 8: The first topic. I think everybody will be having an

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Speaker 4: God, you see what I'm saying. I have an opinion

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Speaker 3: I'm proud of you, Trible. I mean, that was like

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Speaker 2: Was like, girl, like, I get it, but come on.

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Speaker 1: Now, it's not even like a queer thing. It's just lazy.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like doing it right.

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Speaker 4: So that I was gonna ask. I was gonna ask,

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Speaker 3: Because you don't even know the reason.

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Speaker 1: Because I know what the reason.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to feel like myself, you know what

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Speaker 4: I'm saying, matt op no op.

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Speaker 1: Something I found really interesting. Have you heard of Dave Ramsey.

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Speaker 8: He's a conservative radio host and he's a financial wizard.

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Speaker 10: I own I don't know, I don't even know fifteen

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Speaker 10: How is that not greed? Because I don't earn anything.

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Speaker 10: I'm a Christian and that means God owns it and

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Speaker 1: And unless you've done the.

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Speaker 4: Theological work necessary to be able to explain what the

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Speaker 4: As far as when it comes to greed, right, I

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Speaker 4: having too much of anything is greedy if your spirit

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Speaker 4: thing in order to help present an opportunity to other people,

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Speaker 4: you own the houses, but you're not being greedy. Being

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Speaker 2: you have a responsibility to help others, right, I agree.

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Speaker 1: I agree, trip.

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Speaker 8: I think that it was a clever way to defend

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Speaker 8: And I don't think Dave Ramsey is using any of

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Speaker 8: But the problem with the housing market is that everybody

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Speaker 4: Like what's happening, right, understandable, I get what I do,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, especially as a renter now too, like you can

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Speaker 8: The money I'm paying for rent and as many times

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Speaker 1: I should be able to do that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I was going to say that, Yeah, I

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Speaker 7: For me, greed is about your desire. That's your mindset,

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Speaker 9: It's not a number it is it is accumulating multiple things.

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Speaker 5: For you knew the podcast.

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Speaker 7: Oh my bad, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 9: you're collecting things and still sharing. But I'm I'm accumulating

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Speaker 9: things because of my talent, because of my business, because

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Speaker 1: I have a question. I'm gonna let you go, Matt.

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Speaker 5: My initial thought was similar on the lines of yours.

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Speaker 5: sometimes when I hear anybody reference Biblical stuff with anything

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Speaker 4: And even trouble, at what point does gaining enough resources

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Speaker 4: like like he said, it's inherently in your heart, you

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Speaker 1: You got an elevator. We live in a walk up.

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Speaker 1: You just being greedy. You see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: It's like someone else who has less can always say

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Speaker 4: And we have to start looking at people's hearts rather

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Speaker 1: So that's just my final.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well I have one more that's gonna lead us

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Speaker 1: Teriff then.

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Speaker 8: Saying and that post guy over twenty five hundred likes

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Speaker 8: of course we've all seen this on social media. People

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Speaker 1: And I think.

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Speaker 8: It's because of some of the bad takes and misogyny

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Speaker 1: I do have an opinion.

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Speaker 4: First thing is, though misogyny is always brought up, right,

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Speaker 5: Does it work?

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Speaker 4: And while we never use it because in our culture today,

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Speaker 8: Well, it's like we don't call people saying white people

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Speaker 8: Okay, but you know, so you get why because there's

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Speaker 4: But my thing is, as a person who's going on threads,

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Speaker 4: and that's not fair. So that what you're saying is

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Speaker 1: That's how pickny culture became a thing. Right. You don't

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Speaker 4: the popular culture of most women, what do they call

446
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Speaker 4: her a pigmy? Anytime a man has an opposing opinion

447
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Speaker 4: to what the popular culture of women think, what do

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Speaker 4: they call him misogynistic?

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Speaker 1: How come there is nothing like that for women? That's

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Speaker 1: my biggest part.

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Speaker 3: Well, apparently there is a word, but we just never

452
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Speaker 3: hear it.

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Speaker 4: But you see what I'm saying, People don't even know

454
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Speaker 4: what it is, the same way you have toxic masculinity.

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Speaker 1: Right, So there's nothing toxic about women. There's nothing.

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Speaker 4: There's no such word as toxic femininity. You want to

457
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Speaker 4: know why, because toxic masculinity was created by women, and

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Speaker 4: since they're the ones who are the only ones who

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Speaker 4: allowed to have podcasts equipment, Now this is what's going

460
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Speaker 4: to happen.

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Speaker 11: Wait, so why anything about No, she didn't say, But

462
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Speaker 11: they're famously been like Andrew Tate and a bunch of

463
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Speaker 11: men who just go on podcasts and bash women or

464
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Speaker 11: say things about about black.

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Speaker 1: Women or men who have been because Andrew.

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Speaker 8: Tate got accused of like sexual assault and then he

467
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Speaker 8: fled the country.

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Speaker 1: Those things are happening.

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Speaker 4: Forget the podcast about just being jailed like why and

470
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Speaker 4: he came back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but this is this is my biggest.

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Speaker 8: And I don't know exactly what podcasts she was talking about.

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Speaker 8: She didn't say anything about misogyny.

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Speaker 5: She just said.

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Speaker 1: All she said was tax podcast.

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Speaker 8: Mikes and a lot of what I think, what I

477
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Speaker 8: assume is because of some of the things that are

478
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Speaker 8: being spread on podcasts. A lot of times it is misogyny,

479
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Speaker 8: like the British dudes who let Andrew Schultz come on

480
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Speaker 8: and talk about black women on his show.

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Speaker 4: See but that's also that's also my point too, write

482
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Speaker 4: we can get rid of the podcast equipment. All we

483
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Speaker 4: want people have to use better discernment of what they

484
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Speaker 4: listen to. Yes, you know what I'm saying, So forget

485
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Speaker 4: the podcast equipment. Stop listening to stuff that it shows

486
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Speaker 4: people in a bad light.

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Speaker 2: It's also the clickbait worthy, you know, little thirty second

488
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Speaker 2: clips of people saying wow stuff. It's almost like a

489
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Speaker 2: competition for who could say the most fact you know,

490
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Speaker 2: reactive or the most abrasive thing just to get viral views.

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Speaker 4: But we can't tax podcast equipmentcause the ultimate we're doing

492
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Speaker 4: is we're taxing people's ability to have free speech, which

493
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Speaker 4: is anti American, which is part of the reason why

494
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Speaker 4: people come to America is that they can speak openly.

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Speaker 4: We don't even got to get started on that because

496
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Speaker 4: but the biggest thing is though, like people should be

497
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Speaker 4: allowed to have their opinions, other people should be smart

498
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Speaker 4: enough to say, is this opinion valuable?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: Andrew Tate comes on my screen, I automatically scrope up, like, like,

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Speaker 4: that's not someone I'm going to allow access to my

502
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Speaker 4: subconscious because I don't agree with what he says.

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Speaker 1: But there's a group of people who do.

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Speaker 3: Or what are the red balloons?

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Speaker 2: Now, like that's it's not a podcast, but it's just

506
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Speaker 2: like that's another thing.

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Speaker 3: The minute I see a.

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Speaker 1: Balloon, another every category has.

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Speaker 3: I feel like the jokes are gonna nice.

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Speaker 1: I do want to clarify something.

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Speaker 8: The term toxic masculinity was coined by a man. Pretty

512
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Speaker 8: sure it was, but you said women started it.

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Speaker 1: Who say it the most? It was coined by a man.

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Speaker 1: It was defined by a man.

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Speaker 8: You said women created it, so I wanted fair.

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Speaker 4: When you hear people talk about toxic masculinity, who says

517
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Speaker 4: it the most, who's made it famous?

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Speaker 1: I guess women.

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Speaker 4: And my point is podcasts can't always be just men

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Speaker 4: be talking bad on podcasts.

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Speaker 3: I don't think the case.

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Speaker 1: I agree with you.

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Speaker 4: But when you hear what Trouble just said when reading

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Speaker 4: the thing, it was misogyny, it was pick me culture.

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Speaker 4: And I chose those two because misogyny is anti men,

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Speaker 4: and pick me is also anti women who believe that

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Speaker 4: men are right. So it's like we use those two

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Speaker 4: examples as the reason why podcasts shouldn't be allowed. It's like,

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Speaker 4: so pretty much what we're saying is that anything has

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Speaker 4: anything to do with a men's perspective. A man's perspective

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Speaker 4: is the reason why we should have podcast I think

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Speaker 4: that's unfair.

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Speaker 3: I don't think anybody's perspective.

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Speaker 2: After a while, it's almost like when I was a

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Speaker 2: makeup artist, for example, right.

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Speaker 3: After a while, the.

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Speaker 2: Whole entire job of a makeup artist, I feel like,

538
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Speaker 2: or the value that should saying a makeup artist started

539
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Speaker 2: to diminish because it seemed like everybody that picked up

540
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Speaker 2: a brush had a little Box.

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Speaker 3: Was a makeup artist.

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Speaker 2: So when you are performing at the top of your

543
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Speaker 2: expertise and you want to demand a certain price tag

544
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Speaker 2: for or your service, you now are getting undercut in

545
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Speaker 2: the market because you have people who are now doing

546
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Speaker 2: a phase for fifty dollars and making that the standard.

547
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Speaker 2: Now your face don't look tore up. That's one thing,

548
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Speaker 2: because you're not paying for the level of expertise again,

549
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Speaker 2: but I think that that's the signum tanousy. What's happening

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Speaker 2: in the podcast market us renewing a deal with iHeartRadio.

551
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Speaker 2: It's like, can we demand the amount of money that

552
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Speaker 2: we feel like we deserve being veterans in the game,

553
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Speaker 2: Because now you have all these podcasts that they've poured

554
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Speaker 2: money into that are not reaping the benefits that they

555
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Speaker 2: thought they were going to get, not reaping the views

556
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Speaker 2: and the listens.

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Speaker 3: So now you're making it.

558
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Speaker 2: Bad for other people who have literally been putting the blood,

559
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Speaker 2: sweat and tears in for the.

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Speaker 3: Past almost decade.

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Speaker 2: We can't reap the benefits of that because now everyone

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Speaker 2: with a microphone is a podcaster.

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Speaker 4: I didn't think about that perspective, And to be honest,

564
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Speaker 4: you're thinking from a financial perspective.

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Speaker 3: I'm always thinking about the dollars.

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Speaker 1: Baby.

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Speaker 3: You gotta make sense.

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Speaker 4: If they put a premium on podcast equipment and can't

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Speaker 4: everybody get a podcast, then when people go to negotiate

570
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Speaker 4: their deals, you wouldn't have to compete with the fact

571
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Speaker 4: that everybody.

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Speaker 2: Has a podcast, absolutely, and that will start to sift

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Speaker 2: out all of the nonsense from people who really find

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Speaker 2: value in whatever your podcast is.

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Speaker 4: Never thought about it like that, I was thinking about

576
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Speaker 4: censoring people. I'm anti censorship, like I don't. I don't

577
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Speaker 4: think anybody should be censored, but I understand where you're

578
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Speaker 4: coming from from the business standpoint.

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Speaker 1: I do. I do feel you though, and I do

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Speaker 1: feel you with what's the man named Andrew? What Andrew take?

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Speaker 4: Certain people should not be allowed to say certain things,

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Speaker 4: especially if it causes harm to other people.

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Speaker 1: But like I said before, is that podcast equipment or

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Speaker 1: is that jail? Because there are rules.

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Speaker 4: And laws against that, right, Like, you should not be

586
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Speaker 4: able to go online and say things that's going to

587
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Speaker 4: cause harm to a different group of people, and they're

588
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Speaker 4: allowing people to do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, nobody's policing the internet. That's the problem.

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Speaker 4: So do we get that with getting rid of the

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Speaker 4: podcast equipment, or do we have like an FCC for

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Speaker 4: the Internet.

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Speaker 1: That's what I think.

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Speaker 5: I personally think there needs to be some type of

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Speaker 5: CC or some type of overseeing of the Internet in general,

597
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Speaker 5: not just podcasting overall, but the entire Internet is a

598
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Speaker 5: is a wild place and it's on now.

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Speaker 7: You need qualification. You should need qualifications to get a podcast.

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Speaker 1: I agree.

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Speaker 7: I agree, get a certificate or whatever you went to

602
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Speaker 7: school for it, or journalism or whatever.

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Speaker 1: She needs something, bro, you know what that Actually I'm happy.

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Speaker 4: I'm glad you brought this question up, because that's actually

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Speaker 4: a good freaking point. When we went to school for journalism,

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Speaker 4: there was prerequisite you had to in order to get

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Speaker 4: something published, right like you, Like you, You couldn't just

608
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Speaker 4: go I'm gonna go to the New York Times and

609
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Speaker 4: publish an article.

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Speaker 1: I think that's the issue with podcasts.

611
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can just jump on camera and just start

612
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Speaker 2: reporting without fact checks.

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Speaker 4: And all sorts of stuff and not for nothing. I

614
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Speaker 4: think that's what she's probably focusing on. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 4: that's more than that then censoring one side of the other.

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Speaker 4: She's probably just talking about there's no qualifications for people

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Speaker 4: to have a podcast.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and what what are the standards that you're holding

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Speaker 8: yourselves to as podcast hosts? What are the standards that

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Speaker 8: you hope your listeners hold themselves to as as consumers

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Speaker 8: a podcast.

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Speaker 4: That is a good point there, because that would take

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Speaker 4: that think about what's his name, Andrew take if he

624
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Speaker 4: had a responsibility that if someone off your podcast did

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Speaker 4: something based off of what you said, you would be

626
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Speaker 4: held responsible.

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Speaker 1: He wouldn't talk so recklessly. And that's the problem.

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Speaker 8: Well, there was one Landmark case. I can't remember the

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Speaker 8: guy's name, but he was a podcast host, radio host,

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Speaker 8: and he kept saying that Sandy Hook didn't happen.

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Speaker 1: I saw that one.

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Speaker 7: Alex Jones.

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Speaker 1: Alex Jones, Yeah, and.

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Speaker 8: I think twenty seventeen, twenty eighteen, maybe Stitcher made the

635
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Speaker 8: decision to take his show off of their platform. And

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Speaker 8: so all of these distribution channels have a choice about

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Speaker 8: what they put on their platforms. They just choose not

638
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Speaker 8: to exercise their choice. They were the first ones to

639
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Speaker 8: take Alex Jones's stuff off their platforms, and then the

640
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Speaker 8: other distribution channels followed, and then he ended up getting

641
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Speaker 8: sued and he can't make podcasts and stuff anymore because

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Speaker 8: he said, these white people's kids didn't die, you know,

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Speaker 8: So it doesn't matter what we say. In a lot

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Speaker 8: of times too, because people get so sensitive about the

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Speaker 8: term misogyny even stuff like that. They're like, you can't

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Speaker 8: censor that just because this man talks trash about women.

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Speaker 8: That's not harming anybody. And so then it makes it

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Speaker 8: harder for people to say, well, what can we decide

649
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Speaker 8: can't be.

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Speaker 4: Said, or well, then let me ask you that question,

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Speaker 4: because even misogyny is such a targeted word that it's

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Speaker 4: like men can't say things disparaging about women. Why is

653
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Speaker 4: it okay for women to get up there and to

654
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Speaker 4: speak disparagingly about men?

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Speaker 1: And that is okay?

656
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Speaker 3: Why it's okay.

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Speaker 4: Though now I'm not talking about you or Triple. I

658
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Speaker 4: know you guys don't think it's okay. What I'm saying

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Speaker 4: is think about the overarching idea of what podcasts are doing.

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Speaker 4: They're saying podcasts or damaging because misogyny exists in podcasting, right,

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Speaker 4: Misogyny exists in everything. Let's be real, Like that's what

662
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Speaker 4: Tripple said earlier, Like the power dynamic is off. That's

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Speaker 4: why women should be able to speak But my thing

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Speaker 4: is when we're talking about that, where a man can

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Speaker 4: say something that can damage a woman, it shouldn't be allowed.

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Speaker 4: It should be both ways, even if there is a

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Speaker 4: power in balance. For example, the young lady who told

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Speaker 4: her brothers and her friends that it was a New

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Speaker 4: York Giant player that he had an ex girlfriend or

670
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Speaker 4: something in the house and he was cheating on her.

671
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Speaker 4: So she told her homeboys and her brother. Her brother

672
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Speaker 4: went over there and do with his brother. She told,

673
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Speaker 4: I'm sending my brother.

674
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Speaker 1: Over there to kill you.

675
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 4: The dude sat in his house with a semi automatic weapon,

676
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Speaker 4: him and his brother, and when the dudes rolled up,

677
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Speaker 4: he shot them.

678
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 1: And it's like, that's the power of you know.

679
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,479
Speaker 4: What I'm saying, even a woman's voice, as much as

680
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 4: women don't want to own that when a woman says

681
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Speaker 4: something that shit matters, especially to.

682
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Speaker 8: The men around them. You know what I'm saying, there

683
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 8: should be good. My brother got set up by a

684
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Speaker 8: woman and that's how he got murdered.

685
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Speaker 4: So that's what and that's what I'm saying, Like that

686
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Speaker 4: shouldn't be pushed aside as the power and balance. If

687
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 4: we censor on people, we need to censor everybody. You

688
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, especially when it comes to violence.

689
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 1: Wellhad, I just.

690
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 8: Feel like what men say tends to lead more so

691
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 8: to beliefs, you know what I'm saying, And the beliefs

692
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 8: that women shouldn't have power or controlling their relationships. And

693
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 8: women are more likely to be abused in relationships by

694
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Speaker 8: a partner of the opposite sex, and women are more

695
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 8: likely to be killed by their male partners. There's stuff

696
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 8: like that. That, and women are more likely to be

697
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 8: sexually assaulted by men. So it's like all of those

698
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 8: things that are that come from beliefs that we hold

699
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 8: about other people. They're not necessarily things that come from

700
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 8: an inner personal relationship like I got this's not a

701
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 8: crime of passion. When you get raped by your neighbor

702
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,239
Speaker 8: in the dorms, you know what I'm saying, Or if

703
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 8: you get kidnapped from a random man on the street,

704
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 8: that's not an inner personal relationship that you had. Or

705
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 8: even when you get cat called, like walking down the street,

706
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 8: I had on some shorts one time.

707
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Speaker 1: I'm walking with a co work her and this is

708
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 1: now he said it relieved.

709
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 8: It says something extremely sexual about my butt, and I'm

710
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 8: walking with this innocent co worker of mine and it's

711
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 8: like the most embarrassing thing ever.

712
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 1: But you also feel violated. This is a stranger, this

713
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 1: isn't something.

714
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Speaker 8: Then this comes from him believing that he should be

715
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 8: able to talk to me that way because of how

716
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 8: toxic masculinity, misogyny is ingrained into the society. Rape culture

717
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 8: is ingrained into the society and the minds of men

718
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Speaker 8: who are influenced by some of these people. I don't

719
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 8: think misogyny or pick me culture is the only issue

720
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Speaker 8: on podcasts.

721
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Speaker 1: I think that, So why is there the only two

722
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Speaker 1: that you chose to put on it. I didn't. I

723
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Speaker 1: had a I'm saying when it came up there it

724
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Speaker 1: was it was misogyny in no, I.

725
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 8: Said, I said, bad takes, misogyny, pick me culture, and

726
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 8: all of the other isms and phobia is perpetrated by.

727
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 4: But you pointed out massogyny. That's the point though. The

728
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 4: point is is that you said bad takes. That doesn't

729
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 4: point at anything. Misogyny points that men, pick me culture

730
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 4: points women who agree with men, and then you said

731
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Speaker 4: all the other things.

732
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Speaker 1: That's my point.

733
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Speaker 8: I think those misogyny and pigmy culture are two of

734
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 8: the biggest things. I feel like that people get bothered by,

735
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Speaker 8: especially when it comes to the black pop.

736
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Speaker 1: People or women get bothered by. I think people. I

737
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 1: think people for sure.

738
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Speaker 4: I doubt men get bothered by pickmy culture, and I

739
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 4: doubt men be bothered by misogyny.

740
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Speaker 1: That's my point.

741
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Speaker 4: My point is that I feel like even the way

742
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 4: that the question was framed, I thought she said that,

743
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 4: But even when I hear people talk.

744
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: About it, that's what they talk about. They always talk.

745
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 3: About, like the term misogyny. Or you don't like to

746
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 3: feel like men are always under attack.

747
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: No, I don't.

748
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Speaker 4: It's not that I don't like that. I honestly feel

749
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 4: that right now there is attack on masculinity.

750
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Speaker 3: I do feel maculinity in general.

751
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 4: Masculinity in general. I feel like there is an attack.

752
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,719
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter what you do as a man right now.

753
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: It's wrong. Like if I.

754
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 4: Am kind and soft to my kids, then I'm gonna

755
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 4: raise a son who is not going to be masculine.

756
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 4: If I if I'm a heart on him and I scream,

757
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 4: then I'm too hard. I'm creating trauma. It's like there's

758
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 4: no way for men in this world. Seems like to

759
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 4: exist without offending someone. You understand what I'm saying. And

760
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 4: it just seems like that's becoming a trend where now

761
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:13,319
Speaker 4: more men is be like, you know what, I ain't

762
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 4: gonna say, you do nothing, and then women, like we've

763
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 4: heard before, it be like, well the men ain't men.

764
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

765
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Speaker 4: It's like, how do you want me to men when

766
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 4: you're taking away my power to do anything. Had a conversation,

767
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,319
Speaker 4: this is a true conversation with a bunch of women

768
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 4: who were single and one man. Right, it was one

769
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Speaker 4: man a bunch of women that were single, and they

770
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 4: were just like, Deval, do you think you, as a

771
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 4: husband should be able to control where Kadean goes? And

772
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,240
Speaker 4: I was just like, I don't think I should control,

773
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Speaker 4: but I would like to know where she's going because

774
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Speaker 4: I'm responsible for protecting her.

775
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: And they were just like, well, you don't have to

776
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: know what she's going to protect her.

777
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 4: And I said, wait a minute, it's my job to

778
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Speaker 4: protect you, and you don't feel like you should tell

779
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 4: me what you're doing, And they said no, But it.

780
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Speaker 8: Doesn't matter what those women think. No, what I'm saying

781
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 8: is the one in relationship.

782
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 1: And this my point, and that was exactly my point.

783
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: You had a bunch of women who are not.

784
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 4: In relationships with the overwhelming loud voice of I should

785
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 4: not have to do this, but you still have to

786
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 4: do this for me. And that's not called misogyny, that's

787
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 4: not called toxic femininity, that's not called anything. They're just saying,

788
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 4: I'm a woman, I have my opinion, and I'm like,

789
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 4: this should be a conversation here. It shouldn't be your

790
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 4: way is the only right way, and I have to

791
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 4: coward because I'm a man and say no, I'm never

792
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 4: gonna cow I'm never gonna do that. Like, that's just

793
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:31,839
Speaker 4: not I'm gonna have my opinion. I'm gonna raise my kids.

794
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 4: I'm a Chivalry is not dead to me. I'm going

795
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,720
Speaker 4: to teach my kids to walk on the outside open doors.

796
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 4: But at the same time, it's like, yo, you have

797
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 4: a responsibility to your wife is going here, find out

798
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:46,359
Speaker 4: where she's going, ask her what time she gonna be back,

799
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 4: get some information, you know what I'm saying. It just

800
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:52,720
Speaker 4: seems like at this point in humanity, men ain't allowed

801
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 4: to say nothing.

802
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 1: I don't think that's necessarily true. I feel like.

803
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Speaker 8: If we take a look at the people that we're around,

804
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 8: because I know of women who are in relationships with

805
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 8: men who enjoy, you know, having a masculine man.

806
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,720
Speaker 1: A golden retriever. I heard somebody call it recently, somebody that's.

807
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 8: Like sweet to them. They never have to open a

808
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 8: car door, you know, whatever this is. Some people really

809
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 8: enjoy that still, and you are allowed to do that

810
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 8: when they have a relationship where that's in the agreements

811
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Speaker 8: that they have.

812
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:23,720
Speaker 1: Absolutely, if you such.

813
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,760
Speaker 3: A beautiful golden retriever to me, baby, look.

814
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 1: Look, look you just called me a golden Retriever.

815
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Speaker 4: What if I called you a rott Waller, they would

816
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 4: say I was being misogynistated.

817
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 1: Like you me a dog?

818
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:38,360
Speaker 4: Like you openly called me a dog, and it was

819
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 4: okay right. If I called her any type of animal,

820
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 4: they would be on my ass.

821
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: You compared your wife to an animal.

822
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Speaker 3: Everybody loves the Golden retriever, though not me.

823
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 1: I like pit bulls, I like cane corsos. I like

824
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: aggressive dogs. That's what I like.

825
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,080
Speaker 4: But nah, but you understand what I'm saying, Like the

826
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 4: whole podcast not opinion thing to me just comes back.

827
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 4: It is like we don't want all these other people

828
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,879
Speaker 4: to have opinions. We only want our side to be heard,

829
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 4: and I just hate that for both sides.

830
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: To be honest.

831
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Speaker 2: Well, that's why we've evolved from dead ass podcasts being

832
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 2: a men versus women thing, which is what this conference.

833
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 4: But I do like the fact that we can have

834
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 4: this open conversation because it's more than just me and you.

835
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 4: Tripple has a very unique take on it, you know

836
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, even your take on it with the finances.

837
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 4: I never thought about that, and I was like, oh, shoot,

838
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 4: like that does make sense. We could have renegotiated our

839
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 4: deal way better if it weren't eight thousand podcasts popping

840
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 4: up every single day. And I didn't even I was

841
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 4: thinking about just censorship, and then said you would think

842
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,320
Speaker 4: about the business, which which also brings the point is

843
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 4: why you need to have more voices and not censor people.

844
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 4: Because here I got a different perspective from two women.

845
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 4: And if I sat up parent and be like, well,

846
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 4: women shouldn't have podcasts equipment, then I sound crazy, you

847
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 4: see what I'm saying. But if a woman is saying

848
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 4: niggas shouldn't have podcasts equipment, everybody saying yeah, I'm like, nah, no,

849
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 4: your opinion has opened my mind up, and I think

850
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 4: everybody's opinion, even even Anthony Tate Andrew.

851
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 8: It's making me so happy that you can't commit his

852
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 8: name to memory, though that is beautiful.

853
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 1: He not black. Neither is he Ah good good at

854
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: least at least he not black.

855
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 4: I could take away from that, but even him right

856
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 4: when you hear someone's takes is so outrageous, and you

857
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 4: hear that people really believe that.

858
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: At least I know who the ops are. You know

859
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

860
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 8: But I will push back and say, the reason why

861
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 8: people believe that is the same reason that you have.

862
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: Is that they hate that.

863
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,439
Speaker 8: They feel like there's an attack on masculinity and there's

864
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 8: a pushback. I think the New York Times just did

865
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 8: an article about this, and they did a survey asking

866
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 8: men if they feel masculine or not, and it was like,

867
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 8: most Republican men of a certain age feel more masculine

868
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 8: because of this power in this rhetoric around, you know,

869
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 8: controlling bodies, being able to say what you want, taking

870
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 8: away DEI programs, literally having power and control over things

871
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,320
Speaker 8: that do not serve you. And so I think the

872
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 8: reason why people gravitate towards Andrew Tata is because they're

873
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 8: trying to learn masculinity because they feel like they don't

874
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 8: know what it is or it's not being accepted, and

875
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,879
Speaker 8: they're trying to find a version of masculinity that they're

876
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 8: getting from him because they believe that it is having

877
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 8: power and control. I feel out of the loop now,

878
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 8: So do I not me not knowing Andrew tATu am

879
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 8: I old? Is he a young No, you shouldn't know him,

880
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 8: but I think kids watch him on YouTube like teenagers preteen.

881
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 3: That's also the thing, the impressionable mind.

882
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 4: I don't follow things that serve what I'm trying to

883
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 4: do purposefully, so I wouldn't even know check his we

884
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 4: check his history, so if I ever saw that, I

885
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 4: would have been like nah.

886
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,919
Speaker 8: But I will say there are globally, there's over three

887
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 8: million active podcasts out there right now, and I think

888
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 8: the stats that there's like four hundred and sixty thousand

889
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 8: active podcasts on Apple Podcasts right now.

890
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 5: Three million.

891
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 8: Yeah, so there's more than that available. There's more than

892
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 8: the Toxic show.

893
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's more than a toxic available. That's why

894
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,719
Speaker 1: I say you can't take away pot. That's why I

895
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: think you can't take away fast equipment.

896
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 5: I don't think you can. I think it's a new industry,

897
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 5: just like the music industry is a new industry. You

898
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 5: can't take away to top of music. I want to

899
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,879
Speaker 5: do that. Just choose not to listen to it. You're

900
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 5: going to have to choose not to listen to this

901
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 5: podcast if you don't want to listen to the podcast.

902
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 1: That's true.

903
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 5: It's just a new industry. So everybody's just up in

904
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 5: arms about there's no control on it.

905
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 4: You know what it's like everybody being in the studio. Correct,

906
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 4: everybody a rapper? But that body album.

907
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 5: Because the split Fighter.

908
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: But No actually actually was a great said. This is

909
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: why Triple is the producer, because Trip will be knowing.

910
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 4: This actually brings us into why we decided to change

911
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 4: Dead Ass podcast for today. We did have a travel

912
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 4: and this actually goes into the tech it does. Kadeen

913
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 4: and I started that Ass podcast with Jest. It was

914
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 4: supposed to be like just a prerequisite of how we

915
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 4: write man versus women and how we work on our

916
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 4: relationship through our opposing views as men and women.

917
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 2: A man and women, well, I mean in our line

918
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 2: when we enter the podcast saying that we kind of

919
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 2: like work things out as a form of therapy, but.

920
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, publicly with everywheel.

921
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 2: So yeah, because it was always my perspective, your perspective

922
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 2: as we grew over the past, where did we start

923
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 2: twenty eighteen eighteen man, almost seven years almost seven years ago?

924
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,439
Speaker 4: I think I think the evolution came where it's like, Okay,

925
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 4: we've spent the past seven years discussing, Like we just

926
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 4: discussed what are the issues we have as men in

927
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,479
Speaker 4: a marriage, as women in a marriage, and then it's like, okay,

928
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 4: we've discussed this, how do we move forward? So now

929
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 4: elis ever afterwards? Okay, we've discussed everything like we just

930
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 4: discussed here as a group, how do you and I

931
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 4: move forward? Word as a couple with a family with friends.

932
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 4: Because when we talk about our family, we don't only

933
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 4: talk about me, Kay, Jack, Kyro Kazdakota. We're also talking

934
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 4: about your parents, my parents, We're talking about.

935
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 1: Edible, Matt, Josh.

936
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 4: This is all our this is all of us, our

937
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 4: extended family, this is our ever after many of whom

938
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 4: we've asked to relocate. You know what I'm saying, Matt

939
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 4: now lives here, a triple now lives here, Josh is

940
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 4: going to come here at some point.

941
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 1: I want to.

942
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 4: I want to show people that a village of friends

943
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 4: who are all creatives, who can do something together and.

944
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 3: Built it together for the ground up.

945
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 2: It wasn't one person already, you know, being quote unquote

946
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,320
Speaker 2: on and trying to like bring people up. It's like no,

947
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 2: starting with people at a certain level and watching the

948
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 2: ascension happen because we all are invested in the common goal,

949
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 2: which is being great.

950
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:54,959
Speaker 5: Yeah.

951
00:42:55,320 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 3: For example, this podcast, Yeah, and I love that the

952
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:01,360
Speaker 3: space for us.

953
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 2: I think more recently, well dead ass podcasts at least

954
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,360
Speaker 2: started to kind of become deval and I kind of

955
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 2: keeping y'all up to date with what's been happening.

956
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 3: In our life because as things get.

957
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 2: Busy, as more businesses fall on our plate, you know,

958
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 2: devout filming me now new project, things.

959
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 3: Are going to get hectic. Yeah, I don't. Thanks, Thanks Matt,

960
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 3: big me out one more.

961
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 1: Time, one more time.

962
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:26,839
Speaker 4: The reason why we're not getting to hype is because

963
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,399
Speaker 4: we can't really still disclose what she's filming, not quite

964
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 4: so we kind of like holding it type.

965
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: But we're excited about.

966
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 2: It, so excited so this is going to be a

967
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 2: way as well for us to keep y'all who have

968
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 2: been so invested in us over the past seven years

969
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 2: up to date on all of kind of like behind

970
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 2: the scenes stuff as well, and still talking about how

971
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: life and family and business and parenthood impact us on

972
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 2: a regular basis.

973
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 1: I agree.

974
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 4: And we also chose to include our our I don't

975
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 4: even want to say friend group, because it at this

976
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 4: point we're not friends like before Tripple moved here and

977
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 4: Matt was here and Josh they lived here when we

978
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 4: did the podcast, Like, yeah, y'all don't realize this, but

979
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 4: we filmed the podcast and these three people will be

980
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 4: living here for a week and we will be filming

981
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 4: the podcast talking about guests and topics, and we just

982
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 4: felt like now is the time for us to elevate,

983
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 4: get to a new level for all you creative. This

984
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 4: is another thing that you have to think about marketability.

985
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 4: When Kadeena and I first started that, we didn't understand

986
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,399
Speaker 4: the scope of what podcasting was. I was like, well,

987
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 4: we get on mics and talk, I'll do that shit

988
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 4: all day, not realizing that it was going to become

989
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 4: its own medium and grow to what has become. So

990
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 4: we came up with dead ass podcasts because we were like, yo,

991
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 4: we're from New York, We're from Brooklyn. We being dead ass, Like,

992
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,399
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say exactly how I feel, Kay gonna say

993
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 4: exactly how she feel. At the time, they were just like,

994
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 4: we don't think we should call it dead ass. And

995
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 4: I was like why, It's like, what ass is a curse?

996
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 4: And I was like, well, as isn't a cursive if

997
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 4: you use it in succession behind dead colloquially from New York.

998
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: And they were like huh. I said, the bottom line

999
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:06,959
Speaker 1: is we're gonna call it dead ass, and you're gonna

1000
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: have to do with it. Yeah.

1001
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 4: So, after seven years, the same conversation we had about

1002
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 4: Battle of the sexist, we don't want to do that

1003
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 4: no more. We want to come to an understanding of

1004
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 4: the sexes and move forward so we can all be happily.

1005
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 4: Ever after you feel me, I like, I see what you.

1006
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: Did this, You know what I like to you? And

1007
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 1: I were told you were told you would never have

1008
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 1: a show. Yeah.

1009
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 4: I was told that I was going to never be

1010
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 4: on TV. Triple was told she was never going to

1011
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 4: have a podcast. I'm pretty sure Matt and Josh were

1012
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 4: both told that they wouldn't be able to do the

1013
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 4: things that they're doing, especially as directors. So it feels

1014
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 4: good to actually be able to show people that we're doing.

1015
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 2: This right and creating our own opportunities essentially, Like, yeah,

1016
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 2: you know, one thing we've never did was listen to you.

1017
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 1: Know everybody else do anything.

1018
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we still don't to this day. And I

1019
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 3: think that's why.

1020
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:58,280
Speaker 2: It's given us the courage and the permission for ourselves

1021
00:45:58,360 --> 00:45:59,720
Speaker 2: to just do something different.

1022
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 4: And it gives me the trip, the safety and the

1023
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 4: freedom to say trouble and know that she's going to

1024
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,439
Speaker 4: be on camera. There are some facts and stacks.

1025
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 1: That you have, right, Yeah, I mean I just have

1026
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 1: some facts about the podcast.

1027
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 2: Oh this is like.

1028
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 3: That's going to be interesting. I haven't heard about this.

1029
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 3: Let's listen.

1030
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,439
Speaker 8: This is just kind of a walk down memory lane

1031
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 8: because I started on the podcast in twenty nineteen. Yes,

1032
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 8: and I actually remember the first time I listened to

1033
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 8: the first episode. I was interviewing for the job, and

1034
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 8: I was like, man, why I got to do this

1035
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 8: podcast with these normies? But I loved it, and your

1036
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 8: chemistry was amazing. Earlier you mentioned y'all wanting to do

1037
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 8: the podcast to kind of grow into Cadeen's own day

1038
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 8: daytime TV show, And I remember in the studio, I'll

1039
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 8: be like, today, you need a daytime TV show and she.

1040
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 2: Was like that's the plan and I was like, wow,

1041
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 2: really look at you.

1042
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 8: But it just like it's very clear that you you

1043
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 8: have that talent. It comes through every time you're on

1044
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 8: the mic thank you trips. One of my favorite episodes

1045
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:18,240
Speaker 8: was prenup er Nod. Do you remember that judge? Remember

1046
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,760
Speaker 8: she came in, she was so honest.

1047
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 3: We were living in l A, l A at the time.

1048
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,400
Speaker 4: We used to come in every week into two podcasts

1049
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 4: every Wednesday. Yeah, this was pre pandemic.

1050
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 8: And then we also had a an episode that did

1051
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 8: make the cut with an unnamed influencer. I think that

1052
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 8: was that was when I met the Like I knew

1053
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 8: Devo for like six months at this point, but that's

1054
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:44,959
Speaker 8: when I met Val.

1055
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:52,839
Speaker 4: Real quick story, but this influencer pretty much made her

1056
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,959
Speaker 4: money and her ability to grow as an influencer talking

1057
00:47:57,040 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 4: about colorism. So Kadeena and I were like, Yo, let's

1058
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 4: have her come on here to talk about because she's

1059
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 4: a brown skinned woman.

1060
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 1: She came in here to talk about colorism. So first

1061
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 1: of all, she got there over an hour late. Over

1062
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: an hour late, and in a minute she came in.

1063
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 1: We didn't even meet her.

1064
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 4: First, we met her white male manager or handler. And

1065
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 4: then he came in after being an hour and a

1066
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 4: half late. Didn't apologize nothing that says she won't be

1067
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 4: discussing any of these things. All of the lists of

1068
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 4: things were discussing the things that made her very popular.

1069
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 4: And I was just like, well, where are we going

1070
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 4: to discuss it? And if she don't want to talk

1071
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 4: about it, and she has a whole bunch of other things.

1072
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 4: So we sat down for like what maybe twenty minutes. Yeah,

1073
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 4: and I started asking questions and then he stepped in

1074
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 4: one time and said, yeah, she won't talk about that.

1075
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 4: I said, we don't got to do this interview. And

1076
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 4: I was out like okay, come on, let's go. Like

1077
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 4: that's and that episode never aired. It's funny that you

1078
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 4: remember that. Were you laughing in the back?

1079
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 7: I really was.

1080
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 4: I was like, dang, Yeah, I was pissed because I

1081
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,399
Speaker 4: felt like it was it was a waste of time.

1082
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 4: I feel like she was being very distanging, like you're brown,

1083
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 4: skinned women who got famous talking about how brown skinned

1084
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 4: women don't get a fair shake in this industry.

1085
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 1: And here we are to lighter.

1086
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 4: Skinned people who understand how colorism is a problem. It's like, yo,

1087
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 4: let's talk about it, and she don't want to talk

1088
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 4: about it, or matter of fact, it wasn't her.

1089
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 1: He said she wasn't going to talk about it, and

1090
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: she was.

1091
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,360
Speaker 4: Like, I can't, and then he was just like no,

1092
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 4: and then she listened, and that's when I was just like, yeah, well,

1093
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 4: and if we're not talking about it, then there's no

1094
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 4: reason to have this.

1095
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 1: I was hot. Do you remember how I was? I

1096
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 1: I wanted to fight that.

1097
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 3: Man she got introduced to.

1098
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: Are you not about to tell this black woman she's

1099
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: not talking about colorism? Nigga? What the fuck you know about?

1100
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:48,279
Speaker 1: I was so mad. You're so mad right now? All

1101
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Speaker 1: my I look mad because we just talked about men

1102
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 1: cincining women.

1103
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 4: It's like, this is what made her famous, this, this

1104
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 4: is what got her the platform, and this is what

1105
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 4: our culture is still dealing with to this day. And you,

1106
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 4: a person who has no idea what this is about,

1107
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 4: it's going to tell her she shouldn't talk about this.

1108
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:11,840
Speaker 3: It pissed me off, which is, do you have a

1109
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 3: favorite episode or moment I have?

1110
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 1: I have a lot. I actually have a lot of favorites,

1111
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 1: favorite episodes and moments. One of my very, very very

1112
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 1: favorite moments I can't even say that once I got

1113
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:26,919
Speaker 1: another one I thought about.

1114
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 4: We did fifteen seasons, bro, I know, episode that's over

1115
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 4: two hundred and twenty five episodes.

1116
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 3: It's like a blur.

1117
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 2: I almost don't have anything that's surfacing for me right now.

1118
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 2: I have dead ass live show moments.

1119
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 5: That's my favorite.

1120
00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 3: That's the whole thing. I think. The live shows in

1121
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 3: general are just really like my thing. We all love

1122
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:47,280
Speaker 3: the stage.

1123
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,799
Speaker 4: Going to do another live show, but not a tour.

1124
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 4: We're not doing a tour. We're gonna do another live show.

1125
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 4: Our plan is doing the live show of course where.

1126
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 1: Brooklyn. We're gonna come back to New York.

1127
00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:58,360
Speaker 4: We gonna do a big live show and when we

1128
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 4: find the time, but it's gonna happen because we have

1129
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 4: to do an LS ever after live show.

1130
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 2: Oh for sure, now that we're here, you know, and

1131
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 2: y'all got to buy all this dead ass merch. Sidebar

1132
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 2: shout out to Kwame who's back.

1133
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 3: Behind the cameras as well.

1134
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, Deadass Merch is now going to be on sale

1135
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 2: and it's going to be a collector's item at this

1136
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 2: point because there's no more dead Ass. So make sure

1137
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 2: you get right, makes sure you get your hoodie, your

1138
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 2: T shirt, your hats. Yeah, because once they're gone, they're gone.

1139
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:24,879
Speaker 2: They're like collector's items at this point.

1140
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:27,879
Speaker 4: I feel like I was balancing between episodes. I think

1141
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:32,280
Speaker 4: one of my favorite episode is with Angel and Marcus

1142
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 4: was talking about marriage. But Angel is a clown right, like,

1143
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 4: she's hilarious and Marcus is so like straight And this

1144
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 4: was before Marcus started to become more personality, and Marcus

1145
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 4: is kind of sitting there like, I don't really know

1146
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 4: why she had me come on here. I know there's

1147
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 4: a couple of things, but it was just so funny

1148
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 4: because throughout the episode he started to open up and

1149
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 4: we realized how much we had in common because they

1150
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 4: have four kids. At the time, we only had three.

1151
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 4: It was only boys, so there was so much synergy

1152
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 4: between them. But I also loved Melissa and Kevin on stage,

1153
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:09,399
Speaker 4: Like I think it's the relationship aspect and seeing people

1154
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 4: who have been in relationships just as long as we

1155
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 4: and we talked about like our issues and it's.

1156
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 1: Like, wait a minute, you go through that. Oh, you

1157
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: go through that too.

1158
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,360
Speaker 4: And then seeing Melissa, it's like, wait a minute, you

1159
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 4: and I are the same and yeah, that to me

1160
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 4: those and I think this. Me and Tripple had talked

1161
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 4: about this growing up. I had believed that all men

1162
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 4: thought the same way and all women thought the same way,

1163
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 4: especially in relationships. And this is why I loved doing

1164
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 4: dead Ass podcast when we sat down with so many

1165
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:42,240
Speaker 4: different couples and I realized that some of the issues

1166
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 4: I have women have those issues with their spouse and

1167
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, so that's not a man thing. So

1168
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 4: me trying to fix this with testosterone ain't gonna work.

1169
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 4: I gotta fix this with another you know. I have

1170
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 4: to open up a different eye to have empathy for

1171
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 4: my wife in a different way other than saying, well,

1172
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 4: I'm just a man and she just a and that's

1173
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 4: how it is. Those relationships, those relationship podcasts really like.

1174
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 4: I love those, even though the after shows when Me

1175
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:10,040
Speaker 4: and Trouble be arguing and I can get a different

1176
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:12,439
Speaker 4: perspective from someone in a different walk of life.

1177
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 1: Those are my favorites.

1178
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was going to say the ones that I've

1179
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 2: learned from I think were my favorite. So for example,

1180
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 2: like I felt like after a while, I was like,

1181
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:22,799
Speaker 2: oh my god, we having all these topics about sex,

1182
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 2: all these conversations about sex, and I'm just like, man, like,

1183
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 2: I'm tired of talking about it. People are probably tired

1184
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:31,359
Speaker 2: listening to it. But then no, people will like talk

1185
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 2: about it more because I have the same issues. But

1186
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 2: I think it's the self discovery through those episodes as

1187
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 2: well as the parenting episodes when we had all this

1188
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 2: where I was just like, oh my god, I can't

1189
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 2: believe I did that, or it's like I've taken something

1190
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 2: that I maybe didn't understand with your way of parenting

1191
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 2: and realize like, damn, that's something that actually could be

1192
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 2: applicable to me too. Like those self discovery moments over

1193
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 2: the past seven years, I think has really helped my

1194
00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 2: growth as an individual, as a wife, as a mode,

1195
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 2: as a friend, as a daughter, as a career woman.

1196
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 2: You know, those teachable learning moments. And I think that's

1197
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,399
Speaker 2: why so many people resonate to begin with with dead

1198
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:09,799
Speaker 2: Ass podcast, because.

1199
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:14,800
Speaker 3: Through talking about our experiences, sometimes having vent sessions, sometimes

1200
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 3: calling it an expert.

1201
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes have we vented a lot?

1202
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 4: Like I honestly feel like people got a chance to

1203
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 4: know who we really are through listening to the podcast.

1204
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,839
Speaker 4: Like I've always been honest about how I feel about things,

1205
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 4: backlash or not, because I only get one chance at life,

1206
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 4: and I'm not gonna pretend to do something else that

1207
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 4: I really don't believe in, because then I got to

1208
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 4: pretend that for the rest of my life.

1209
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,719
Speaker 1: So I just say how I feel. My favorite guest

1210
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: to date is gonna always.

1211
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:44,439
Speaker 4: Be Tiffany elij the budgetista, Like, yeah, yeah, I've learned

1212
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 4: so much from her financially that's helped create I mean,

1213
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 4: even these opportunities about and people think the budget Nisa,

1214
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 4: She's gonna tell you how to put your money. No,

1215
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,400
Speaker 4: she explains to you the importance difference between having a

1216
00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 4: certified financial planner and an accountant.

1217
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:01,720
Speaker 1: Small little things that you're like, oh, shoot, that is different.

1218
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,280
Speaker 4: Well maybe I should focus more on my financial planning

1219
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 4: than accountant. Yeah, you know, like she Tiffany budgeanista, I

1220
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:12,359
Speaker 4: love you girl, like you. I think she's probably one

1221
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,720
Speaker 4: of the fan favorites as well. On then A's podcast,

1222
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 4: A Guess that they always say we should have on

1223
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 4: because so many people have.

1224
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 1: Learned a lot.

1225
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 3: My favorite guess is Shan.

1226
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 4: It's funny you say you hate talking about sex with

1227
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 4: the sham Boudram is one of your favorite guests, But

1228
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:27,239
Speaker 4: I understand why.

1229
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 2: Oh no, I just love her candor. I love how

1230
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:32,040
Speaker 2: she's just so honest. Something about her whole energy and

1231
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 2: her heart spirit is super calming. I love that she

1232
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 2: always speaks from a place of like, no judgment. She's

1233
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 2: just kind of like it is what it is. But

1234
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 2: she also comes with an educational background that's a legitimate

1235
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 2: when we talk about someone having a podcast and speaking

1236
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:46,400
Speaker 2: as an expert because they've actually studied their field.

1237
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 3: She is exactly that.

1238
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 4: She's also the exact example of a woman having a

1239
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 4: podcast where I would tell my friends I've said this

1240
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:56,759
Speaker 4: all the time on other podcasts, like my boys who

1241
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 4: have issues with sex and stuff, I tell them, listen

1242
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 4: to Shane. That's why I listen to to learn about

1243
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 4: your body, your mentality, what you were going through. That's

1244
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 4: a perfect example of if we limited people from having

1245
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 4: podcasts that wild person, Like, if y'all limit Shan, it's

1246
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 4: gonna be a problem, right because she definitely. She definitely

1247
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:15,360
Speaker 4: saved us from a lot of things because I was

1248
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 4: able to see and hear what she was saying from

1249
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 4: a different you know, from a different woman's perspective, and

1250
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 4: it was like, oh, I never thought about that.

1251
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: Shannon is a good one.

1252
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 4: My favorite episode because people say it's theirs, it's selling ground.

1253
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:34,240
Speaker 4: And the only reason why I say it's my favorite

1254
00:56:34,239 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 4: is because people always say I changed the trajectory of

1255
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,879
Speaker 4: my family by just listening to that, because I could

1256
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:43,080
Speaker 4: explain to them why we didn't don't need to hold

1257
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 4: on to this property, use it as an asset so

1258
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 4: that we can get more properties. So that's also one

1259
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 4: of my Now I'm going over to I got so

1260
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 4: many favorite episodes.

1261
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 3: Any other favorites.

1262
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 5: I got her favorite moment. It's from a life show

1263
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,440
Speaker 5: when you brought the boy, when the boys introduced you.

1264
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:02,279
Speaker 4: Ah yeah, yeah, literally was just I said I wasn't

1265
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 4: gonna cry, and I cried like a little bit happily too.

1266
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 2: I was back there so like you were, and it

1267
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,359
Speaker 2: was wanting his own microphone. He was just like, wait

1268
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 2: a second, my brothers haven't couldn't talk talk.

1269
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 4: Was pointing at it like yo yo, and I was like, Yo,

1270
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 4: my man. It was mister Mike. Like, mister Mike, you

1271
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 4: to give him a mic, and they gave him one.

1272
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 4: Turns it on everything. He ain't say nothing, but he

1273
00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 4: danced around with it. That's a good That's a good moment, Josh.

1274
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 9: No, no opinion, Josh, first and last day on the

1275
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 9: I mean they're all memorable.

1276
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 7: Well, the funniest one was when disclosed her.

1277
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 3: The moment, Oh oh, who was that episode with?

1278
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 5: I was with Kid.

1279
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 3: Yes, that was listening letters episode. Shout out to kids.

1280
00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 3: I feel they're like our fairy god parents in the

1281
00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 3: in the him and Crystal.

1282
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: They're not liked they are. Yeah.

1283
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 3: They literally introduced us like to this the world. Essentially.

1284
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 1: The first podcast read we did was the Read.

1285
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, the Reads.

1286
00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 4: And then I think that's how I started to get

1287
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 4: more interested in podcasts. People were tagging us and saying, like, Yo,

1288
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 4: they y'all want to read. They talked about y'all want

1289
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 4: to read, which also helped boost our following on social

1290
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 4: media forever. We went to their show, their live show,

1291
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 4: and that's when we were just like, yo, we should

1292
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,520
Speaker 4: do some podcast live. So so shout out to Chrissy

1293
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 4: and Kid Ferry, what's your favorite episode Triple.

1294
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 8: Well, I said mine first, Mine was prenup or Nah,

1295
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 8: oh yeah, that's right, that's right, that's right from back

1296
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 8: in the day. I did also like Kadeen's poop story.

1297
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 8: It's something like something about a hot lady saying something

1298
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 8: disgusting about herself that.

1299
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 3: I'm like and just not caring.

1300
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 2: It humanizes I feel like, because everyone probably has had

1301
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 2: a moment, you've expressed.

1302
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 5: It or not.

1303
00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 8: If somebody I'm dating, if somebody I'm dating is like, oh, Kadeen, fine,

1304
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 8: I'd be like, you know she's on.

1305
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 1: The oh yeah, oh yeah, I have that now in

1306
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 1: my back brock. So thank you.

1307
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 3: You're welcome. Y'all are welcome.

1308
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 8: I do have another favorite moment that uh would be

1309
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:18,440
Speaker 8: the first live show I feel like. It was February

1310
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 8: twenty twenty. I was at a film festival. I had

1311
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 8: a short film in a film festival. Is a really

1312
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 8: exciting moment for me. First time helping them produce a

1313
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 8: live show. Very exciting. Y'all were having an exciting moment.

1314
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 8: We're in two different cities. Your manager at the time

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Speaker 8: calls me and says, you need some cue cards, and

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Speaker 8: I'm in Boston.

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Speaker 1: Y'all are in Philly, Yeah.

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Speaker 8: At the film festival, and I'm yeah, I'm busy, bro,

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Speaker 8: I'm off the clock, off the class. It's like eight

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Speaker 8: o'clock at night, the snow storm outside. I hustle and

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Speaker 8: make these cue cards and send them to your manager

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Speaker 8: so she can get them printed, so she can get

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Speaker 8: them in your hands before stage time.

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Speaker 1: Get them in your hand, and then I don't find

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Speaker 1: out until.

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Speaker 3: Weeks later.

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Speaker 8: Later they run the footage back and DEVO first thirty

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Speaker 8: seconds of the show.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't even take that long.

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Speaker 8: I would say fifteen seconds in Devao tosses the fucking

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Speaker 8: Q cards to I don't I don't need them. I

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Speaker 8: don't need them. That is a favorite memory of mine.

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Speaker 8: I think about it every time I print a que card. So, yeah,

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Speaker 8: thank you, We're going to take a break and pay

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Speaker 8: some bills. That is That's like the fourth time you

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01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 8: brought that story. But I had to tell the story

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01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 8: again because I think starting there, that was the first

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Speaker 8: live show, and the live shows have evolved so much

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01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 8: like then then. I feel like, was it it was

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Speaker 8: video recorded, but you maybe had one camera camera. Yeah,

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01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:56,640
Speaker 8: the DJ was there and.

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Speaker 1: It was just young no guests.

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Speaker 4: No, it was an executive at that time. It was

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Speaker 4: we didn't have exact they had a house DJ. They

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Speaker 4: had a house DJ. We had to meet and greet beforehand.

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Speaker 7: Yes, then come to Brooklyn.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's right. Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 2: So that was essentially started that to a live shows.

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Speaker 2: Like think about everyone doing live shows now podcast shows.

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Speaker 2: It's like there's all sorts of stuff happening.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: That So that's what I was going to say with

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01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 8: the live shows, with the setup, especially since that that

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Speaker 8: show was right before the pandemic and since post pandemic,

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Speaker 8: I feel like you've gotten to kind of innovate the

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Speaker 8: way that we do the podcast, and it's been very influential,

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01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 8: if I do say so myself. But we've gone from

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Speaker 8: not being able to get the go pros to work

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Speaker 8: at the studio.

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Speaker 3: We did that, y'all.

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Speaker 10: We did that.

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Speaker 1: We've gone from trying to use go pro.

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Speaker 4: I remember that get them to work go pro and

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01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 4: we were in the studio and we had go pros

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Speaker 4: one on k Oh my God to do video of

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Speaker 4: the podcast.

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Speaker 5: I remember watching those episod It's terrible them go pros

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Speaker 5: its like there.

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Speaker 1: Was like the fish bowl like my face.

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Speaker 3: I was like, what is this? This is not flattering.

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Speaker 4: Well, before we go pay some bills, I do have

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01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 4: to say I appreciate y'all because everything y'all see here, cameras, lights,

1373
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,440
Speaker 4: run of shows, creative direction have been from those three

1374
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 4: people you're watching on camera right now and Kadeen and

1375
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:28,880
Speaker 4: I honestly feel like it's about time y'all get in

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01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 4: front of cameras so people can see who y'all are,

1377
01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 4: and like when they see this whole set up and

1378
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 4: realize what this is, they're going to be like, Wow,

1379
01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:39,680
Speaker 4: this is no longer just a podcast. This is an experience,

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01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 4: and this is an experience that we want to win

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01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 4: awards for and we want to be critically acclaimed, so

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01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 4: we're gonna do everything in our power. Also, shout out

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01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 4: to the Patreon people. Pay your membership every money for

1384
01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 4: a lady asked why Patreon? This is why Patreon. The

1385
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 4: people who have invested in the Patreon you are now

1386
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 4: seeing and reaping the benefits of your little four dollars

1387
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:06,160
Speaker 4: a month. It don't seem like a lot before the

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01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 4: five dollars a month. And now we have cameras, and

1389
01:03:09,920 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 4: now we have a camera crew.

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Speaker 1: Now we have life.

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Speaker 4: It's not little now. Yeah, we don't think it's We

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01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 4: don't think it's little. But I know a lot of

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01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 4: people is like, what are they going to do with

1394
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 4: my little four dollars? This is what we're doing with

1395
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:24,480
Speaker 4: your little four dollars. It's called group economics.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 4: You got a bunch of people put together, and now

1398
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 4: we're able to provide y'all better content because y'all invested

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01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 4: in us.

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Speaker 1: So first and foremost, Triple.

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01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:38,320
Speaker 4: Josh Matt, we love y'all, yes, like like seriously, like

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01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:41,360
Speaker 4: we really really love y'all. We love y'all back, and

1403
01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 4: we appreciate y'all taking this journey with us. Patreon family,

1404
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 4: shout out to yourself. Round of applause for yourself, because

1405
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 4: you're part of the reason why we're able to do

1406
01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 4: what we're doing in our home. Yes, thank you Patreon.

1407
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 4: All of the equipment you see on your top TV

1408
01:03:57,080 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 4: shows we have now because of you, So thank you.

1409
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 2: So you just want to elevate the experience for y'all, Yes, ma'am.

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01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:04,760
Speaker 2: Ever after I see a little tear at the side

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01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 2: of your eye.

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01:04:05,920 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 4: No, this is a laugh tier because because it's Triple

1413
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 4: we're telling the story here. It literally was as soon

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01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 4: as I got on, I was like, what's up that

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01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:14,680
Speaker 4: ass podcast?

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01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 1: Triple got me these que cars? Fuck these que cars?

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01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:20,080
Speaker 4: And I threw them ships just like that. And I

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01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 4: remember Triple said afterwards like, yeah, you know how long

1419
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:23,760
Speaker 4: I took. I was somewhere to go make the Q

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01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 4: cars and ever since then I give kt Q cars.

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01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:30,840
Speaker 3: So nobody thought, let's go pay So you should throw

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01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 3: the bills like you throw the Q cars.

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01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 1: Wish I could. You can catch them now, money bags

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01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 1: Eli period.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll be back y'all, And we're back, yes,

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01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,280
Speaker 2: yeah to my favorite part of the show. That's something

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01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:00,560
Speaker 2: that hasn't changed still, like to getting y'all business evolution.

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01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:03,640
Speaker 1: You don't even have a iPad, no more laptop. You

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01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 1: got cars.

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Speaker 7: I do, I do.

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01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:07,920
Speaker 2: I felt like the laptop after a while was just

1432
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 2: cumbersome and well I had the laugh you could use

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01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 2: your iPad you because yeah.

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01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:17,960
Speaker 5: You did that before I did.

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01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, remember memories, bro, I'm trying to remember. Trying to

1436
01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 1: forget certain things. You leave it up to your friends.

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01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 3: A certain iPad into the off the balcony.

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Speaker 4: Off you co signed the triple that's messed up and Josh,

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01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 4: don't remember none of that. Josh, you remember that? No

1440
01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 4: bro see no opinion, It didn't have no.

1441
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 2: While we're gonna get paddles sidebar, you got to get

1442
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:52,920
Speaker 2: those I love that.

1443
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:58,200
Speaker 4: Things to do you using the pot jist no trauma

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01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 4: Capital easy, Oh my goodness.

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01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 2: All right, Well, yeah, I'm still nosy, still like to

1446
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 2: hear what you got to say, and we're always gonna

1447
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 2: give our two cents as you continue to write in.

1448
01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 2: We're going to give the new email address at the

1449
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 2: end of this episode where you're write into for advice

1450
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 2: or to just chit chat with us. Well, triple, here's

1451
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 2: the first one listener letter of Ellis ever after Hey

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01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:27,640
Speaker 2: kay and Deval, It's Kayla here. Hey Kayla, I wanted

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01:06:27,680 --> 01:06:29,960
Speaker 2: to give you your flowers and wanted to share some

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01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:31,840
Speaker 2: seriously amazing news.

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01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:32,919
Speaker 3: I love amazing news.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:35,120
Speaker 2: Last year I wrote in, and you guys featured my

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01:06:35,240 --> 01:06:38,120
Speaker 2: letter both on the podcast and Patreon.

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01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 3: Seriously, you all were life savers. Your advice helped me.

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01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:47,200
Speaker 2: So much, Capitals Oh in navigating my eight year relationship.

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01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:49,920
Speaker 2: I absorbed every single piece of wisdom that you shared

1462
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:52,160
Speaker 2: and it all paid off big time.

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Speaker 3: This past October. My boyfriend proposed.

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Speaker 4: This.

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Speaker 3: I'm engaged. Our wedding is October eleventh. I feel like

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01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:06,480
Speaker 3: we need to be there. Drop the invitation.

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Speaker 2: My now fiance and I are huge fans and we're

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01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 2: religiously listening to the podcast and Patreon together. We just

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01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:16,440
Speaker 2: wanted to express our sincere gratitude for everything you do.

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01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:19,880
Speaker 2: You've created something truly special and we're so grateful to

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01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 2: be a part of the dead Ass community and Patreon gang.

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Speaker 2: Huge love to Kadeen, Devout and the whole dead ask

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Speaker 2: for you guys are top tier. Sincerely, Kayla, Come on,

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01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 2: that's why we do it.

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Speaker 1: This is stop, y'all.

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01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 2: Where If there are tariffs on the MIC, I guess

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01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:38,640
Speaker 2: we'll have to pay them. I don't know, because this

1478
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:40,000
Speaker 2: is the reason we keep going.

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Speaker 3: Babe. Look at that.

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01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 1: Ya just makes me wow happy.

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01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:45,880
Speaker 2: And here we are a lot of times saying like

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01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:48,680
Speaker 2: we don't have all the answers we really give advice.

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01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:52,080
Speaker 2: We still don't, but I'm happy to hear that our

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Speaker 2: two sins have now multiplied for you and you guys

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01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:55,520
Speaker 2: are engaged.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 1: That's what's wow.

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Speaker 3: Keep us posted, Kayla on all the HAPs Okay, that's awesome.

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Speaker 4: That's what's up man. All right, prid of you guys

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01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 4: much love, and let us know when the wedding is.

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01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 4: You know, if we free October level if it's in Atlanta,

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01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:13,400
Speaker 4: we'll stop through all right now Number two, Dear Kadeen

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01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:14,920
Speaker 4: and Daval, I want to start off by saying I

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01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:16,559
Speaker 4: love your platform and whatever represents.

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01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:18,719
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Now my problem.

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Speaker 4: I am a thirty year old medical professional married to

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01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 4: a thirty four year old fitness professional. We met online

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01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:27,080
Speaker 4: and fell for each other emotionally, spiritually and intellectually.

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Speaker 1: I love that. So the problem is money.

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Speaker 4: Of course, I make six figures, but it definitely doesn't

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01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:34,760
Speaker 4: feel like it after taxes and blessed student loans if

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01:08:34,800 --> 01:08:36,960
Speaker 4: they live in New York. I understand that my husband

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01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 4: makes less than fifty k a year. I was okay

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01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:41,640
Speaker 4: with it at first, but now that we have a

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01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:43,760
Speaker 4: house and are trying to start having a baby, I

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01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:46,160
Speaker 4: am worried. I honestly got a second job so we

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01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 4: could furnish and renovate our home because I can't count

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01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 4: on him to supply money because he does pay for

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01:08:51,520 --> 01:08:53,720
Speaker 4: all the utilities and half of the mortgage with what

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Speaker 4: he makes. He's been in fitness for ten plus years

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01:08:56,680 --> 01:08:59,839
Speaker 4: and has a gentle soul that caters to middle aged adults.

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01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:03,120
Speaker 4: He's dabbled a little in the online space, but hasn't

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Speaker 4: gotten any clients.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say he's grinding there.

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Speaker 4: I also feel like he is okay with what he

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01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 4: makes because I feel there's very little sense of urgency,

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01:09:12,080 --> 01:09:14,280
Speaker 4: Like when he's home, he's relaxing on video games.

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Speaker 1: I hate that.

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01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:17,000
Speaker 4: On my day off, I'm trying to figure out how

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01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 4: I can make more to live more comfortably, which has

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01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:21,439
Speaker 4: made me realize I need to get him to have

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01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 4: online clients. He has no interest in getting any job

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01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 4: that would require him to have a boss, even though

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01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:29,040
Speaker 4: he would make more. I understand, because yes, he has

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01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:32,160
Speaker 4: more liberties being self employed. However, taking off more than

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Speaker 4: a week per month is a problem for my husband

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01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 4: because he can't because then he can't make money because

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Speaker 4: he doesn't have an online presence. Mind you, it's not

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01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:43,120
Speaker 4: like I'm a gold digger wanting to go I don't

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Speaker 4: think you're gold digger. Neither want to go on lovest vacations.

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01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:47,559
Speaker 4: I barely have time for that. I just want when

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01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:49,439
Speaker 4: we go on vacation. He's not trying to figure out

1533
01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 4: how to rebound. I want to help him make more

1534
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:54,799
Speaker 4: of an online presence, so we're both not at a strain.

1535
01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:57,320
Speaker 4: What are your suggestions to grab more clients and build

1536
01:09:57,320 --> 01:09:58,759
Speaker 4: an online fitness empire.

1537
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:03,000
Speaker 3: Well, that's something that you've done kind of that is online.

1538
01:10:02,680 --> 01:10:05,720
Speaker 1: Space, not in an online space, but but yes, there

1539
01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 1: are ways.

1540
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 4: First and foremost, shout out to y'all for working together

1541
01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 4: as an entrepreneur and also in a medical space. I

1542
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:15,799
Speaker 4: do also understand her mentality because she works based on salary,

1543
01:10:15,840 --> 01:10:17,639
Speaker 4: so she's used to getting a certain amount of money.

1544
01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 4: He doesn't work on salary, so he's not used to

1545
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:22,439
Speaker 4: getting a certain amount of money. This is my first issue.

1546
01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:26,400
Speaker 4: If you make less than fifty thousand dollars and you

1547
01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 4: want to make more money, there should be no reason

1548
01:10:28,360 --> 01:10:29,960
Speaker 4: in the world why you wann video games at any

1549
01:10:29,960 --> 01:10:31,960
Speaker 4: point in your life. I just had this argument with

1550
01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:33,800
Speaker 4: someone very close to me, and I screamed at him,

1551
01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:35,200
Speaker 4: get off the fucking video games.

1552
01:10:35,240 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 1: Literally right.

1553
01:10:36,080 --> 01:10:38,000
Speaker 4: If you have time in the day, that time in

1554
01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:40,080
Speaker 4: the day should be going towards how you are going

1555
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 4: to create more money or more revenue to help supplement

1556
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:45,800
Speaker 4: your wife or your partner, whoever that is.

1557
01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:50,080
Speaker 1: That's number one, number two in the fitness space.

1558
01:10:50,120 --> 01:10:53,120
Speaker 4: You have to understand that the greatest way for you

1559
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:55,880
Speaker 4: to make money isn't only in customer retention.

1560
01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 1: It's also in small group training. And it's just for

1561
01:10:58,360 --> 01:10:59,000
Speaker 1: me from knowing.

1562
01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 4: If you tell one of your clients, right, hey, I'll

1563
01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:04,920
Speaker 4: give you half four off your session if you bring

1564
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:06,400
Speaker 4: three people to your session.

1565
01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:09,040
Speaker 1: Right, this is what I use a marketing strategy. And

1566
01:11:09,080 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 1: they're like, wait a minute.

1567
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:12,280
Speaker 4: I pay At the time, it wasn't super expensive, but

1568
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:14,680
Speaker 4: it was sixty dollars per session, and they're like, wait,

1569
01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:16,559
Speaker 4: I can do thirty dollars per session if I bring

1570
01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:17,120
Speaker 4: three people.

1571
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:19,600
Speaker 1: They were like yeah, They're like, but how does that

1572
01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 1: work for me?

1573
01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:22,240
Speaker 4: I said, it's going to help you because you pay less,

1574
01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:24,600
Speaker 4: but also you have people to compete with. And what

1575
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:27,280
Speaker 4: people don't realize about losing weight or losing body fat,

1576
01:11:27,360 --> 01:11:29,560
Speaker 4: most of it is motivation. If you have someone in

1577
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:32,639
Speaker 4: your group that's doing the same thing as you. You guys,

1578
01:11:32,720 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 4: work harder, iron sharpens iron. If you come there every

1579
01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:37,479
Speaker 4: day for an hour to work harder, you'll lose more weight.

1580
01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 4: But here comes the economics. You bring one person and

1581
01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:42,840
Speaker 4: they pay half off, it's the same price you bring

1582
01:11:42,960 --> 01:11:46,519
Speaker 4: three people. Now you're doubling your quota for the hour.

1583
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:49,960
Speaker 4: So from sixty dollars an hour down to thirty for

1584
01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:54,240
Speaker 4: that person, and all those other people are paying thirty dollars. Now,

1585
01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:56,920
Speaker 4: how much we got one hundred and twenty dollars per hour.

1586
01:11:57,040 --> 01:11:59,240
Speaker 4: Now you just doubled what you make. Plus you doubled

1587
01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:01,559
Speaker 4: your reach because you have four people that you can

1588
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:04,040
Speaker 4: tell them, Hey, if you have anyone else who wants

1589
01:12:04,080 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 4: to train, let them know I can give them a

1590
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:09,559
Speaker 4: discount rate. That's the first thing, maxt in your time, yes,

1591
01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:14,360
Speaker 4: because when you duplicate yourself, you give yourself autonomy over

1592
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 4: that time.

1593
01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:17,240
Speaker 1: The other thing is online training.

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01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 4: Online training is imperfect if you create programs before you

1595
01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:24,400
Speaker 4: create online training, create online programs that you can sell

1596
01:12:24,479 --> 01:12:28,560
Speaker 4: to people. I've seen people make hundreds of thousands of

1597
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:29,439
Speaker 4: dollars per quarter.

1598
01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:30,080
Speaker 1: Am I lying?

1599
01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 3: Yeah? I know two people that come right off the

1600
01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:33,719
Speaker 3: bat to mine from online.

1601
01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:36,599
Speaker 2: I mean in an online program that's like twenty nine

1602
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:38,839
Speaker 2: ninety nine yes, or like an eight week program.

1603
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:39,200
Speaker 1: Yes.

1604
01:12:39,479 --> 01:12:44,160
Speaker 3: And you think about that times how many people we have.

1605
01:12:44,240 --> 01:12:46,679
Speaker 1: I mean, you had a large following on social media.

1606
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:49,880
Speaker 2: Right, but you get a thousand people that following, you know,

1607
01:12:49,920 --> 01:12:51,200
Speaker 2: and the proof is in the pudding. Like be a

1608
01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:51,719
Speaker 2: good trainer.

1609
01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:53,360
Speaker 3: That's also a part of it too.

1610
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:56,439
Speaker 2: You want to have people that are actually making a

1611
01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:59,120
Speaker 2: change and you can see the difference in the before

1612
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:01,479
Speaker 2: and after. Sometimes help with that as well, to you

1613
01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:03,360
Speaker 2: to keep people motivated, to say, I want to look

1614
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:07,000
Speaker 2: like that. It's a fickle industry because you have people

1615
01:13:07,040 --> 01:13:08,840
Speaker 2: who are you know, on again, off again.

1616
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:11,960
Speaker 3: But if you're a good trainer, there's potential there for sure.

1617
01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:13,880
Speaker 4: Most of the trainers I know now making their money

1618
01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:16,599
Speaker 4: on online programs or a program that I was thinking

1619
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:19,240
Speaker 4: about called Prototype on Demand when I was doing Prototype

1620
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 4: Sports Performance where you can train people virtually and you

1621
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:25,080
Speaker 4: do virtual classes. That's another way if you've never thought

1622
01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:28,799
Speaker 4: about it. So you have online programs, virtual classes, online

1623
01:13:28,840 --> 01:13:31,360
Speaker 4: sessions for one on one, online group classes.

1624
01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:32,080
Speaker 1: That's always for.

1625
01:13:32,120 --> 01:13:34,599
Speaker 4: You to get autonomy over your time rather than losing

1626
01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:37,560
Speaker 4: time going from place to place a personal person. This

1627
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:39,519
Speaker 4: is the most important thing, though, I think I have

1628
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:43,960
Speaker 4: to say, gentlemen, this may sound very old school, but

1629
01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 4: this is something that my father had always said to me.

1630
01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:48,720
Speaker 4: If you decide to marry a woman and you want

1631
01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:51,560
Speaker 4: that woman to have your child or your children, it

1632
01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:55,719
Speaker 4: is not her responsibility to be an earner. The reason

1633
01:13:55,800 --> 01:13:58,040
Speaker 4: why is because there's a lot that comes with carrying

1634
01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:01,679
Speaker 4: a child, and then half after carrying a child, nurturing

1635
01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,920
Speaker 4: that child and asking a person to balance a career

1636
01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:09,360
Speaker 4: and nurturing a child is very difficult. So, as a man,

1637
01:14:09,760 --> 01:14:12,679
Speaker 4: if you're asking your wife or your girl to have children,

1638
01:14:13,040 --> 01:14:18,200
Speaker 4: be prepared fiscally to handle that responsibility on your own. Now,

1639
01:14:18,240 --> 01:14:20,000
Speaker 4: if she finds a way to balance, it can help you.

1640
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:20,360
Speaker 1: Cool.

1641
01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:23,880
Speaker 4: It's a surplus, that's extra. But as a dude, this

1642
01:14:24,040 --> 01:14:25,959
Speaker 4: is one thing my dad told me, and my grandfather

1643
01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:28,160
Speaker 4: told me. If you have a child, and what if

1644
01:14:28,200 --> 01:14:31,439
Speaker 4: that woman can't work? What if she has a baby

1645
01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:34,400
Speaker 4: like you had and had twenty four stitches in your

1646
01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:37,719
Speaker 4: cervix and you can't work, what are you then gonna

1647
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:40,200
Speaker 4: tell your wife and you going to suck that up?

1648
01:14:40,880 --> 01:14:41,400
Speaker 1: Get out there?

1649
01:14:41,479 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 4: No, what if she's dealing with postpartum depression? What if

1650
01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:46,000
Speaker 4: she has hormone and balance? You know what I'm saying,

1651
01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 4: there are things that happen to women. As a man,

1652
01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:52,360
Speaker 4: any man, young man, older man, if you're looking to

1653
01:14:52,479 --> 01:14:54,920
Speaker 4: have kids, make sure that you and your wallet can

1654
01:14:55,000 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 4: handle that responsibility.

1655
01:14:56,439 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 1: Don't try to pass that on.

1656
01:14:57,479 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 4: As we're gonna split this fifty to fifty mortgage can

1657
01:14:59,760 --> 01:15:01,760
Speaker 4: be f less up, but when it comes time to

1658
01:15:01,840 --> 01:15:03,680
Speaker 4: have kids, she got to carry it.

1659
01:15:03,760 --> 01:15:05,479
Speaker 1: She can't pass that fifty to fifty, right.

1660
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:06,200
Speaker 3: Sure can't.

1661
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:09,320
Speaker 1: She got a birth for right that she can't pass

1662
01:15:09,360 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 1: the birth and thing right now. So you can't pass that, bro.

1663
01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:15,840
Speaker 4: Sorry, it may seem old school or I'm jumping on

1664
01:15:15,920 --> 01:15:18,240
Speaker 4: you as a man, but got to deal with that.

1665
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:20,120
Speaker 1: I can't tell her to pass on the placenter.

1666
01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:22,720
Speaker 3: Sure can't.

1667
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:26,479
Speaker 2: Good stuff, all right, Good luck to y'all as y'all navigate,

1668
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:31,040
Speaker 2: and yeah, try to figure this out. They're married, they

1669
01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 2: say they're married. Yeah, yeah, I mean it's a good

1670
01:15:34,200 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 2: conversation to have to at least y'all have in the conversation.

1671
01:15:36,960 --> 01:15:38,280
Speaker 2: Hopefully he's recepted.

1672
01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:41,479
Speaker 1: To get off the games, bro, seriously, like that's just

1673
01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:43,080
Speaker 1: killing your brain and your time.

1674
01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 3: Indeed.

1675
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:46,000
Speaker 2: All right, So if you want to be featured as

1676
01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:48,599
Speaker 2: a listener, y'all, we have a new email address. Okay,

1677
01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:52,519
Speaker 2: it's the Ellis Advice at gmail dot com.

1678
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 1: That's t h E E L L I S A

1679
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:57,719
Speaker 1: d V I C E at Gmail.

1680
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 3: So moment of truth time.

1681
01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:04,360
Speaker 1: This is the first moment of truth for us ever.

1682
01:16:04,439 --> 01:16:05,759
Speaker 3: A moment of truth.

1683
01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 2: Yes, I thought, we go back to a question that

1684
01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 2: we didn't quite get to as the moment of truth

1685
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:14,800
Speaker 2: and we can have everybody answer it.

1686
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:16,240
Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about it.

1687
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:20,640
Speaker 3: What are you looking forward to as a team with

1688
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:21,559
Speaker 3: Elis ever After?

1689
01:16:24,560 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 4: Much like we did in a live space, I'm looking

1690
01:16:28,479 --> 01:16:32,240
Speaker 4: forward to changing the way people consume podcasts because we

1691
01:16:32,360 --> 01:16:33,679
Speaker 4: are about to elevate the game.

1692
01:16:34,560 --> 01:16:37,719
Speaker 1: That's what I'm looking forward to. That was a great question, Pardoner, Thank.

1693
01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:38,439
Speaker 3: You all good.

1694
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:40,400
Speaker 2: Actually you kind of stole a part of mine, but

1695
01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:43,840
Speaker 2: I was going to say, I'm looking forward to collectively

1696
01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:48,400
Speaker 2: elevating the Ellis ever After experience. We saw what we

1697
01:16:48,479 --> 01:16:51,599
Speaker 2: were able to do with dead Ass starting seven years

1698
01:16:51,640 --> 01:16:55,600
Speaker 2: ago when we almost had no idea what podcasting was

1699
01:16:55,720 --> 01:16:58,840
Speaker 2: at the time, and I think that dead Ass really

1700
01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 2: was able to set the tone and raise the bar

1701
01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:06,760
Speaker 2: and change the way people consume podcasting audio wise but

1702
01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:11,000
Speaker 2: also visually and then in the live show space. I

1703
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:13,000
Speaker 2: want to give us our flowers and say that we

1704
01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:16,479
Speaker 2: were pioneers in that, you know, in that space, So I'm.

1705
01:17:17,880 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 3: Period you know what I'm saying.

1706
01:17:19,400 --> 01:17:21,640
Speaker 2: So I'm looking forward to the heights that we can

1707
01:17:21,720 --> 01:17:24,360
Speaker 2: go to with Ellis ever after, now that we are

1708
01:17:24,479 --> 01:17:30,040
Speaker 2: in a new space with new energy, getting input formally Trouble,

1709
01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:33,680
Speaker 2: Josh and Matt, and collectively finding a way to make

1710
01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:35,640
Speaker 2: sure that this is going to be the experience that

1711
01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:37,560
Speaker 2: you guys have been waiting for.

1712
01:17:37,960 --> 01:17:39,040
Speaker 3: So I'm excited about that.

1713
01:17:39,680 --> 01:17:41,640
Speaker 4: Before we ask everybody else, I also just want to

1714
01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:44,120
Speaker 4: say I want to continue to share how we do

1715
01:17:44,240 --> 01:17:48,959
Speaker 4: things and build and continue to not gatekeep information absolutely,

1716
01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:51,000
Speaker 4: So I look forward to over these next couple of

1717
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 4: years letting you guys know how we're building and developed

1718
01:17:54,040 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 4: the podcast, the next live show, TV shows, films, books,

1719
01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:02,080
Speaker 4: We have so many things on the horizon and we

1720
01:18:02,200 --> 01:18:04,439
Speaker 4: look forward to showing you how we're doing it so

1721
01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:06,559
Speaker 4: that you guys can take that information and doing yourself.

1722
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:09,519
Speaker 4: You don't need nobody to give you an opportunity, go

1723
01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:10,280
Speaker 4: make it on your own.

1724
01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:13,639
Speaker 2: I'll tell you guys. Before I passed the mic twenty

1725
01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:15,880
Speaker 2: twenty four for us, I felt like was a very

1726
01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:21,280
Speaker 2: It was a trying year in that it was a

1727
01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:24,280
Speaker 2: transitional year from us change, a lot of change, a

1728
01:18:24,320 --> 01:18:28,360
Speaker 2: lot of trying to navigate things professionally and also from

1729
01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:32,360
Speaker 2: a personal perspective, and we were able to plant a

1730
01:18:32,439 --> 01:18:36,439
Speaker 2: lot of seeds in twenty twenty four. And I read

1731
01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:39,479
Speaker 2: somewhere recently through someone, It's just funny how God sends

1732
01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:42,560
Speaker 2: messages to you through people that this was going to

1733
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:44,839
Speaker 2: be collectively for you and I the year of harvest.

1734
01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:48,920
Speaker 2: And when I saw that, I almost got like supermo

1735
01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:50,920
Speaker 2: actually kind of did get really emotional because I'm like,

1736
01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:53,680
Speaker 2: that's exactly the conversation I had with God at the

1737
01:18:53,800 --> 01:18:56,400
Speaker 2: end of twenty twenty four, and I felt like he

1738
01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:59,320
Speaker 2: pushed us into a certain direction that forced us to

1739
01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:03,280
Speaker 2: kind of recalibrate plant those seeds and for twenty twenty

1740
01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:05,400
Speaker 2: five at the very top of the year, and this

1741
01:19:05,560 --> 01:19:07,479
Speaker 2: is a separate episode that I'm going to recant the

1742
01:19:07,560 --> 01:19:10,120
Speaker 2: story at the top of the year, getting a text

1743
01:19:10,160 --> 01:19:14,000
Speaker 2: message from someone that completely changed my life and further

1744
01:19:14,760 --> 01:19:17,599
Speaker 2: confirmed to me that this is going to be the year.

1745
01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:19,200
Speaker 3: Of harvest for us moving forward.

1746
01:19:19,960 --> 01:19:23,439
Speaker 2: So I'm super excited for the blessings that are on

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Speaker 2: en route and the ones that have already taken place.

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Speaker 2: I'm just super excited.

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Speaker 8: Trude, what are you looking forward to or elis after

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Speaker 8: ever After? Yeah, man, I'm looking forward to the new

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01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:40,439
Speaker 8: iteration of this podcast. I'm looking forward to talking more.

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01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:44,200
Speaker 8: I'm looking forward to the dms. You know what I'm

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01:19:44,200 --> 01:19:49,640
Speaker 8: saying if you out there, because only single one on

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01:19:49,760 --> 01:19:54,400
Speaker 8: the team you are. I'm looking forward to getting married

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01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:56,479
Speaker 8: later this year to one of y'all.

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Speaker 4: And stop asking me if Triple is really gay triple

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01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:02,640
Speaker 4: gay gay triple. Don't like dude, she loves women, so

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01:20:02,720 --> 01:20:03,439
Speaker 4: stop asking me.

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Speaker 1: I know she's fine.

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Speaker 3: She don't want y'all do eligible bachelor.

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Speaker 5: With her?

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Speaker 2: With her?

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Speaker 8: You like trible?

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01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:13,680
Speaker 1: Your hair?

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01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 8: No haird like I said earlier, a little hair and

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01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:18,400
Speaker 8: on stop nothing but comb.

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Speaker 1: You know I can tell you by your sweater. You

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01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:26,280
Speaker 1: like here, give me a little fun, So Trible looking

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Speaker 1: forward to the hose? Matt, what you looking forward.

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Speaker 5: To the hose? Uh? This is new for me, like

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Speaker 5: speaking in general, but I think it's gonna be fun.

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01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 5: I'm looking forward to this getting I'm getting used to

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01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:45,000
Speaker 5: the idea of people opening up and people getting to

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01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:47,680
Speaker 5: know me, learn the artists and stuff those things, so.

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Speaker 1: That Josh I ain't sign up for all of this, Josh,

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01:20:54,320 --> 01:20:55,280
Speaker 1: Josh exactly.

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Speaker 9: I ain't known this when it first, when the idea

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01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:03,000
Speaker 9: came about to do it in this format, I was like,

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01:21:03,400 --> 01:21:05,320
Speaker 9: I ain't gonna be on camera. I said that to Ma,

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01:21:05,479 --> 01:21:08,000
Speaker 9: say you get a camera and that that'll be your camera, right,

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01:21:08,000 --> 01:21:11,160
Speaker 9: and I'll be on the side. But the reality is

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01:21:11,560 --> 01:21:13,960
Speaker 9: I didn't understand what the division is. But you know,

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01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:17,040
Speaker 9: I got the vision today. Yeah, that's how you want.

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01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:23,680
Speaker 9: I gotta like that, you know, But I got the

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01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:28,639
Speaker 9: vision today, And the reality is, I'm looking forward to evolution, man,

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Speaker 9: it is.

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Speaker 7: It is a great thing to not be stagnant and

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01:21:33,240 --> 01:21:36,040
Speaker 7: not to want to be stagnant. So I love this.

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01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:37,559
Speaker 7: I love this for y'all.

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Speaker 9: I love this for myself, and I'm looking forward to

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01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:46,439
Speaker 9: most tempering myself and not embarrassing myself on camera.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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01:21:46,920 --> 01:21:48,559
Speaker 1: This is the ultimate test.

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01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:51,439
Speaker 7: It is to you know, think about what you say

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01:21:51,479 --> 01:21:52,160
Speaker 7: before you say it.

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Speaker 1: It is no bro, absolutely a moment for people to

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Speaker 1: understand that.

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Speaker 7: But yeah, so I'm looking forward to that. This is great, good.

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Speaker 3: Stuff, good stuff.

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Speaker 1: I love that for all of us.

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Speaker 3: I sure do.

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Speaker 2: Those were awesome moments of truth, all right, y'all. Let

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01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 2: me go to my que cons y'all. You know, I'm

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01:22:10,479 --> 01:22:13,200
Speaker 2: a little rust decent. We just come back all lot

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01:22:13,280 --> 01:22:16,200
Speaker 2: my place, and the sequence of what we got we.

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01:22:16,280 --> 01:22:18,120
Speaker 1: Having to say, y'all know about heart?

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01:22:18,640 --> 01:22:19,760
Speaker 3: Do you know by heart? And I just want to

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01:22:19,760 --> 01:22:20,880
Speaker 3: make sure nothing changed, do you know?

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Speaker 1: Cause what's that podcast name? Oh?

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01:22:25,120 --> 01:22:26,639
Speaker 3: Well, of course we know that that changed.

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01:22:26,680 --> 01:22:29,559
Speaker 2: So be sure to find us y'all on Patreon because

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01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:31,920
Speaker 2: we're still there and we are aiming to do some

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01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:33,280
Speaker 2: more lives on Patreon, y'all.

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Speaker 3: We just had to kind of get our footing.

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01:22:34,640 --> 01:22:36,880
Speaker 2: Like I said, twenty twenty four was a beast, but

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Speaker 2: now that we're kind of recalibrated and we're going to

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01:22:39,479 --> 01:22:41,680
Speaker 2: definitely jump on some more lives to connect with you

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Speaker 2: guys more. But you can find us on Patreon if

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01:22:43,560 --> 01:22:45,760
Speaker 2: you're not there yet for the after show, because we're

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01:22:45,760 --> 01:22:48,840
Speaker 2: still going to have the llis ever after after the show,

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01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:50,960
Speaker 2: so we're still building that out. And just so you

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01:22:51,040 --> 01:22:54,200
Speaker 2: know that our set, our new set we're super excited about.

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01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:56,720
Speaker 2: This is actually Devou's man cave space that we have

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01:22:56,960 --> 01:22:58,479
Speaker 2: turned into our set, So thank you.

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01:22:58,520 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 3: For loaning this to us.

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01:23:00,960 --> 01:23:03,680
Speaker 2: Pleasure, and we're still continuing to like put up the

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01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:06,160
Speaker 2: core pieces. We'll have some new furnisure coming in, so

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01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:08,519
Speaker 2: just be with us on the journey. You know, we

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01:23:08,600 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 2: want y'all to see this as it's unfolding in real time.

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01:23:11,840 --> 01:23:14,880
Speaker 2: But you can find more exclusive Ellis ever After video

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01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:17,320
Speaker 2: content on Patreon and you can find us, of course

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01:23:17,360 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 2: on social media. So the dead Ass podcast page, if

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01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:23,080
Speaker 2: you're on it now, it will eventually change to Ellis

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01:23:23,120 --> 01:23:25,160
Speaker 2: ever After, and then you can continue to find me

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01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:26,120
Speaker 2: at kadeen I am.

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Speaker 1: And I Am devout.

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01:23:27,439 --> 01:23:30,120
Speaker 4: And if you're listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate,

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01:23:30,560 --> 01:23:32,280
Speaker 4: review and subscribe.

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01:23:32,680 --> 01:23:36,240
Speaker 1: Please do. And as always, I'm gonna end every episode holo.

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Speaker 5: Hold hold, hold up, they can't find us at Underscore

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01:23:39,479 --> 01:23:42,800
Speaker 5: Matt dot l you absolute because I need it?

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01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:50,519
Speaker 3: Sure you know, Matt, I don't. I don't talk too much,

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01:23:50,600 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 3: but here's my hand as you should.

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01:23:58,960 --> 01:24:00,720
Speaker 7: You don't gotta find me on instag you can find

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01:24:00,760 --> 01:24:03,360
Speaker 7: me on email me for pricing.

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01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:07,280
Speaker 1: I n f O at Josh Doway dot com.

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01:24:07,960 --> 01:24:12,479
Speaker 7: Absolutely, I n f O at j O s h

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Speaker 7: u A d w A I N dot com.

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Speaker 5: There you go, y'all can.

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01:24:16,320 --> 01:24:18,840
Speaker 4: Tell Josh is new and I love to get the

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01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:22,320
Speaker 4: organic evolution of Josh, because I guarantee you a couple

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01:24:22,320 --> 01:24:23,479
Speaker 4: of weeks from now, we're gonna do this again.

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01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:25,680
Speaker 1: Josh's gonna be telling everybody what to do. That's what

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01:24:25,800 --> 01:24:27,919
Speaker 1: Josh like to do. He gonna have his whole Instagram

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01:24:28,080 --> 01:24:30,800
Speaker 1: name change pictures of it. I know, I know, Josh.

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01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:32,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, he got to feel his way through it. He

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01:24:32,960 --> 01:24:33,799
Speaker 3: has to be convinced.

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Speaker 8: You can find me on Instagram at Trips the Cool

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01:24:37,760 --> 01:24:40,000
Speaker 8: t R I B b Z t H E C

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Speaker 8: double O L. That's also my website and on TikTok.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and as always, I'm gonna finish every episode with

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Speaker 4: this dead ass.

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 1: That's episode.

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Speaker 8: Ellis ever After is an iHeartMedia podcast. It's hosted by

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01:25:06,000 --> 01:25:10,799
Speaker 8: Kadeen and Deval Ellis. It's produced by Triple Video, Production

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01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:15,800
Speaker 8: by Joshua Duane and Matthew Ellis, video editing by Lashan Rowe.

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Speaker 12: To gif had to give You, had to give Me

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Speaker 12: to give you has nothing to kids

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Speaker 4: Twenty