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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl lix peak?

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Speaker 2: And is your girl drying the call?

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Speaker 1: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor

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Speaker 1: Months where Mine speaks sober thought, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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Speaker 1: You know what's so weird? Your boobs are bigger than mine.

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Speaker 1: I mean they look amazing, by the way, it's milky

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Speaker 1: Mommy today, not milky mom milky Mommy today. They look nice.

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Speaker 1: It's just weird because my boobs are so small. They're

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Speaker 1: like really, I mean they're not small, small, but they

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Speaker 1: little ant bites. I got up top to these things

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Speaker 1: and bites is a little dras.

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Speaker 2: They're not biting, No, they're not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're definitely like besides.

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Speaker 2: My boobs was before I got surgery, oh.

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Speaker 1: Not on pre op dream week. But you know what,

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Speaker 1: I need a little My city is maybe a little smaller,

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Speaker 1: just a little bit. Yeah, I mean they're still dropping.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, only I don't know what, almost a month

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Speaker 1: post stop. So I am just really really happy though,

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Speaker 1: Like I am so freaking happy. And if y'all aren't

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Speaker 1: Patreon members, I talked about the whole process from start

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Speaker 1: to finish on Patreon, so y'all make sure y'all go

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Speaker 1: subscribe to our Patreon. But yeah, it's just really different

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Speaker 1: like going into a store and buying whatever top I want.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to strategize how I'm a pull this

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Speaker 1: new merchandise. I am completely done with surgery, Okay, no

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Speaker 1: more going under the knight for me. Yell, I'm out

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Speaker 1: the game. I'm out the game. I mean, I'm done

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Speaker 1: with surgery unless, you know, until it's time for me

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Speaker 1: to get my boobs threads. Yeah, or like, you know,

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Speaker 1: we have a kid, you know you have to get

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Speaker 1: them redone like every ten years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a maintenance thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Fortunately it hasn't been ten years yet though, but

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Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna wait till after I have a

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Speaker 1: kid before I get my boobs. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Like at first, I was kind of like changing my

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Speaker 3: But now that I got the.

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Speaker 1: New bod, I have a completely new body. Because on

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Speaker 1: top of that, y'all, I've lost twenty eight pounds. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's so crazy, I think, thank you.

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Speaker 3: I think the reason I really really but.

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Speaker 1: You know what's crazy, y'all because one thing about me,

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Speaker 1: I just I carry myself very well. Let me say that.

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Speaker 1: So when I was.

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Speaker 2: At my biggest, I was like at two ten.

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Speaker 1: So if you go back and look at the episode

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Speaker 1: that we did with Ronnie Ronnie Jordan, that's when I

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Speaker 1: was like at my heaviest. And I didn't realize how

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Speaker 1: big I was till afterwards. And I was like looking

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Speaker 1: like you got to get this together. So, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm like my I feel like the old lexp back,

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we're outside.

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Speaker 1: Yay. I'm trying to lose like another seven pounds because

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get backing the one fifty. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: if I was if I was one fifty, I would

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Speaker 1: seven Okay, I think that's a good size for you.

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Speaker 1: But I would still look good right now. Yeah, yeah, you.

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Speaker 3: Still look good.

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Speaker 2: I think my main thing now is I want to

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Speaker 1: I want to get because I'm one eighty two right now,

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Speaker 1: you know, I tried the plates thing for a while.

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Speaker 1: But my friend Ali, she actually has a plate studio

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Speaker 1: the link in the bio, so y'all.

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Speaker 2: Make sure y'all go check her out.

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Speaker 1: But she told me what I was doing at Solid

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Speaker 1: Core isn't pilates.

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Speaker 1: And she was like, it's kind of like pilates, but

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Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna try.

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Speaker 1: To do hot yoga again. I did that, you know

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to like tone up now, get rid

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Speaker 1: of to sell you like, but I'm definitely keeping this body.

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Speaker 1: You gotta try orange theory. I like orange theory. I

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Speaker 3: So what do they do?

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Speaker 2: Atten city training?

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Speaker 1: Okay, see I could do a little hit, Yeah, a

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Speaker 1: little hit training. Solid core is basically like I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's like pilates, but it's like it's strengthening your cord better.

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Speaker 1: I'd be doing too much and that was what my

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Speaker 1: I used to have to unroll my titties too. My

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Speaker 3: That I just do not have.

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Speaker 1: All I got is ass an thighs with no muscle.

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Speaker 1: Right, not because you can have like healthy carbs.

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Speaker 1: I think for me, I think what I've realized works

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Speaker 2: It's doing really well.

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Speaker 1: Thank all of y'all. So lunch for all of the period,

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Speaker 1: Big music coming through with the orders and I appreciate

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of stipulations, right, Yeah, I'm not no.

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Speaker 1: Why? Do you have to go only go on day days?

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Speaker 1: Me call a nanny. Nanny. Shit, shit, I'm out of

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Speaker 1: I would never do that. I love the kids. Kid.

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Speaker 1: Me and daddy's been. I'm gonna be like you want

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Speaker 1: a goodies, give me a little mel Tony like Strawberry

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Speaker 1: I'm just looking at it from like me at this stage,

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Speaker 1: not one custy cussy of one child. I don't. I

435
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,959
Speaker 1: still don't think I could do it. But I don't know.

436
00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 1: But like I said, I'm talking from the beginning stage,

437
00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,359
Speaker 1: you know, like in the beginning stay easier to me.

438
00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:24,200
Speaker 1: It would get harder as time progressed, spending more time

439
00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,879
Speaker 1: to get there, right, But I don't like, I love kids.

440
00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm a kid person, so I actually want to meet

441
00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 1: your child. So I feel like once I meet your child,

442
00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:33,720
Speaker 1: that's gonna make it easier. So we can all hang

443
00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,720
Speaker 1: out together. I can come to the house. You know,

444
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:37,600
Speaker 1: I'm about to fuck your daddy, go to sleep, leave

445
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 1: us alone type shit. You know what I'm saying.

446
00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:40,639
Speaker 3: It's not no problem.

447
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:42,920
Speaker 1: Me and her ain't beefing. You done have had your

448
00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 1: time from fall to eight. It's big mama time, and

449
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:50,200
Speaker 1: we ain't gonna beef because I'm knock a kid out, bitch, squebh,

450
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:53,240
Speaker 1: none of it, yo, none of the single. Daddy's just

451
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 1: gonna want to fuck with you now, yo, Tuna and

452
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:59,399
Speaker 1: your crackers, and don't leave Lixty alone with your child.

453
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 3: No, honestly, y'all.

454
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:01,400
Speaker 2: Gonna come home.

455
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,640
Speaker 1: She's gonna be like he just he feeling down the stair.

456
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 1: Don't do that. I love kids, and you know what's crazy.

457
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,760
Speaker 1: Kids love me? No, kids love me? Oh my god,

458
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:12,359
Speaker 1: kids love me?

459
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:13,399
Speaker 3: But no, honestly me.

460
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 1: Having a blast with the children.

461
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 2: Two of my friends got like little cousins.

462
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:19,920
Speaker 1: And they are like obsessed with me. Yes, that's how

463
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 1: I mean my nephew. Like, I practically helped my sister

464
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 1: with my nephew. It was just us in the house

465
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:26,920
Speaker 1: for a long time when he was little. So I

466
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 1: really do love kids. So all jokes aside, I feel

467
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 1: like this in the beginning stages. That's when I like

468
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:33,960
Speaker 1: to kind of like, I'm getting to know you, let's

469
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:37,440
Speaker 1: spend some time. So I'm very spontaneous. I'm a spontaneous dater.

470
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,400
Speaker 1: I don't plan out dates. Like if somebody says, oh,

471
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,600
Speaker 1: let's hang out on Friday and it's Monday, I'm gonna

472
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 1: be like, I don't know, because I don't know what

473
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,160
Speaker 1: mood I'm gonna be in on Friday. Friday, I may

474
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 1: not want to hang out, but then Saturday pops up

475
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:49,760
Speaker 1: and I'm like, you know what, hey, let's go to

476
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 1: dinner tonight. You know what you're doing? Oh you know,

477
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 1: I got I got a little Shirley tonight, Shirley go

478
00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:01,200
Speaker 1: to Shirley, Little Charlie. Remember little Shirley Temple. So yeah,

479
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 1: bitch from like nineteen twenty. Well, you know what the

480
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 1: fuck I meant? He got nobody's naming a child little Shirley.

481
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:13,359
Speaker 1: They are there, They're not bro. There's people named two Yes, yes,

482
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 1: I know I know some people named Shirley. But we

483
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:19,479
Speaker 1: all around the same age. Yeah, I'm talking about in

484
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,640
Speaker 1: twenty twenty. Yes, yes, no, they't not. I was at

485
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:23,479
Speaker 1: the hospital the other day.

486
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,440
Speaker 3: I said, why hoob you did?

487
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 1: You're lying. No, you don't deliver what you're doing up there.

488
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,640
Speaker 3: I was volunteer doing volunteering to deliver babies.

489
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 1: You can't do that. I love the kid. Why are

490
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 1: you lying like these you cannot volunteer. They have a child.

491
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to I mean to bring a child into

492
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,240
Speaker 1: the wad, trying to market myself back to a single man. Yeah,

493
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,480
Speaker 1: that's you said that you would heat their child.

494
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,199
Speaker 3: I am not saying I said I.

495
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 1: Don't do like this. You said I heat children, And

496
00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:04,159
Speaker 1: that is not what you said. Bad Shirley, bad, and

497
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: you did that to me. I do it back.

498
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 3: No, Jackson definitely did that back to me. We will.

499
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 1: I would too. But anyway, it's like I was saying, no,

500
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 1: but honestly, all jokes aside. I'm a spontaneous dater, so

501
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,199
Speaker 1: a guy who has full custody of his children, it

502
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,640
Speaker 1: doesn't exactly work for me because, like you know, if

503
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 1: it's like fifty to fifty, you know, I know, okay,

504
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 1: he doesn't have his kids this weekend, so he can

505
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 1: kind of do whatever and play it by ear. But

506
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 1: full custy is a lot different. So I think for me,

507
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 1: like I said, if me and you are in love

508
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 1: and we're together, I've met your child, I can work

509
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 1: with that because we can hang out. You know, no

510
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:40,360
Speaker 1: different from men. I think it's no different, Like it's

511
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 1: the same shit. We always be talking about double standard stuff.

512
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,640
Speaker 1: But how is they any different from like women who

513
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 1: have children and they expect and have full custody of

514
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 1: their kids, and they expect men that they date who

515
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 1: don't have children or don't have full custody of eight

516
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: children to be okay with that.

517
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 2: It's the same thing.

518
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't date women with kids, but

519
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,199
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like it's normal for women whise. It's

520
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: so different for me. To me, it shows that you

521
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: were responsible dad. You feel like your child wasn't in

522
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: a position to be able to where that you know,

523
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 1: we're in a safe household or whatever the case I've

524
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 1: decided that you wanted to. So it's like shit, if

525
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,639
Speaker 1: anything to me that just let me know you're a

526
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 1: good daddy.

527
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 2: Be my daddy too.

528
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 1: Now he got two kids in the house now and

529
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: he about to have a third. He don't hate it there.

530
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:29,880
Speaker 1: Let me get you one. You such a good dad.

531
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:31,880
Speaker 3: But no, I do love.

532
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna lie. That's one of the

533
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 1: main things that turns me on about it.

534
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 4: Man.

535
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: I love a good father. But like I said, for me,

536
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 1: I don't have any kids yet. So I think the

537
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,639
Speaker 1: freedom that I have right now, like I'm not gonna lie.

538
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: I just started, you know, and really enjoying life, traveling

539
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 1: and being able to do what I want to do.

540
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: So I don't know if I would necessarily mess with

541
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 1: somebody who's tied down like he has to have a

542
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 1: stable home, right, I guess I.

543
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 2: Just don't look at it as being tied down.

544
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: No, and not tied down. But like when you have

545
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 1: a kid, you have to be like you have to

546
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 1: have a stable household because they got to go to school.

547
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 1: The me I'm thinking about, honestly, I was talking to

548
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: you about this. I think I'm thinking about moving to

549
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: New York next summer for like two months, like getting

550
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 1: the airbnb and just staying out there because I want

551
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: to you know what I'm saying, Like somebody with a

552
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,479
Speaker 1: kid can't come and do that with me. Like the

553
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: lifestyle that I'm living right now does not mess with

554
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,239
Speaker 1: somebody who has full custody of their kid. That's what

555
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like if I want to go live in

556
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 1: London right now for two three weeks or move out

557
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 1: there for I can go do that two three weeks

558
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: if you really like that person enough and they have

559
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 1: a kid, like a full.

560
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 2: Custody they kid.

561
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:38,879
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just saying it wouldn't be like

562
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 1: a deal breaker for me. Like if I want to

563
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,360
Speaker 1: go live in London for two three weeks, I could

564
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: still go do that. He just gonna be right. But

565
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 1: it's like at the time and then when I get mad.

566
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 1: But for me, it's like I want to experience that

567
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,360
Speaker 1: with my partner. There's certain things I want to experience

568
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 1: with my how if he ain't got no village or

569
00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 1: no nanny, and what if he got a job. Well,

570
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: do you need to choose niggas who got full custody wiser?

571
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 1: I'm not choosing the man off, cause I don't know

572
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: why you would have one that don't gotta be lead

573
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: or any I mean things. Shit life has now like

574
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: y'all gonna be getting into it all the time, I'm

575
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 1: gonna get into it with a nigga anyway.

576
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 3: That's how I am.

577
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:19,679
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know. I just feel like, you know,

578
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,199
Speaker 1: I feel like there's ways to work through it if

579
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 1: you like somebody enough. Now, I don't get me wrong,

580
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 1: I'm not out here looking for it. I'm not even farther,

581
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to be no baby got a

582
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 1: custody of their kids, Like I'm not taking applications niggas.

583
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 1: Be if I met somebody that I liked enough, I

584
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: wouldn't let that be the reason why we don't try

585
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 1: to see where he could go. But also men beginning

586
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 1: with women and they might have full custy of their children,

587
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 1: and then the girlfriend end up being a babysitter. He

588
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: ended up going out, going to the club or hanging

589
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 1: out with his homeboys, and you at home with your

590
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 1: step kids.

591
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 3: I ain't no babysitter, b no.

592
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 2: No, we gonna have a clear understanding about that.

593
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: If you go, I go, exactly a lot of girl

594
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 1: you go to the club, I'm coming. So that's what

595
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Drea. That's because that's how we are. It's

596
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 1: a lot of girls that be turning into glorified babysitter

597
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 1: problem because y'all dom But I'm not doing that. She

598
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 1: They'd be like, why I need a nammy when I

599
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: got you see la, pay me what you pay the nammy,

600
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 1: and maybe we can renegoti a lot of girls it

601
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 1: be them a little Shirley at home watching Netflix. Yeah,

602
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it.

603
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 2: It's just not happy.

604
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 1: I want to sew a little Shirley because what we're

605
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,880
Speaker 1: gonna do with little Shirley. I want to be outside

606
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 1: with you. If you're gonna be outside, I want to

607
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 1: be outside. Will make you think I want to be

608
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: inside baby seating a kid. You you wifey, You at home,

609
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: stay at home, wifey. I'm taking care of you. I'm

610
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: paying your bills.

611
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 2: I'm not never.

612
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: Gonna be dead because I'm gonna get my own money.

613
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: So where are we going?

614
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: Where are we going?

615
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 1: Nina can't pull that card with me. I hear you.

616
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 1: So where are we going? We we out? We out?

617
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 3: Why outside or no?

618
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: I feel you? I feel you. That's why I said

619
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: for me, I'll just where I'm at in life right now,

620
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: A man who has one hundred percent full custy eye.

621
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 1: I'm not holding that against you, because honestly, I wish

622
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: I had more men. Beautiful. I think that's beautiful, and

623
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: I wish more men would do that. I just would

624
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: have to. I have to.

625
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 3: First of all, I'll say this.

626
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: I'm not exing it out and saying it's impossible. I

627
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:19,640
Speaker 1: just don't know if it would be. But I've never

628
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: done it, so maybe I'll meet it. I can meet

629
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,640
Speaker 1: a man when I leave here right now who has

630
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 1: full custy of his kids, and I can end up

631
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,120
Speaker 1: falling in love with him and we end up working

632
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 1: it out. I don't know. I've never been in that situation.

633
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 1: So for me, what I do it? I don't think so,

634
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 1: just being that I don't have kids, But I commend

635
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: all the dads out there, first of all for having

636
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: full custy of your kids. So don't let this. You know,

637
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's a bad thing, because I think

638
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: it's an amazing thing when men have full custy of

639
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: their kids.

640
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 3: Let me just say that.

641
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: But for me, like I said, I'm a wild girl,

642
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: I'm a girl.

643
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 3: I'm just a little wild. I'm still a little wild

644
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 3: right now. That's all.

645
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 2: I don't know.

646
00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's beautiful because I think it's show

647
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: like the lengths you will go to make sure that

648
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 1: your kid is straight. And that's a nigga that can have.

649
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 2: That's a nigga that I can have my swing weed.

650
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Speaker 1: Okay, I like it. I like it. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: don't think I've kind of changed. I'm like, I'm back

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Speaker 1: and forth about the kids too. I kind of want

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Speaker 1: a kid now A little bit. A little bit you

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Speaker 1: said you do a little bit.

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Speaker 2: You ain't saying a little bit. You said a lot

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Speaker 2: of bee.

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Speaker 3: I mean, a lot of things have changed and transpired.

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Speaker 1: But when I tell you one thing about me, at

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Speaker 1: by my baby daddy.

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Speaker 2: And I feel like a kid is something that you

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Speaker 2: should know. You won't I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I really don't know. It's a lot

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Speaker 1: of responsibility. And you know, every time I go and

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Speaker 1: every time I go to Houston, I stay with my nephews.

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Speaker 3: Let me say something. I'm sorry, Jazz.

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Speaker 1: I love you, I love you, and I love my nephews.

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Speaker 3: And my nephews love me down.

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Speaker 1: Jackson Angel sent from God himself. Okay. When I was

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Speaker 3: I could do this.

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Speaker 1: That lor one pop.

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Speaker 3: God, God bless my sister and my brother in law.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Rod. Your nigga, your little son as

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Speaker 1: bad as fun. That little nigga bad. What he be doing? Dog,

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Speaker 1: the nigga just bad. He is bad. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: It's like he can't talk yet, and he'd be fussing

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Speaker 1: and trying to talk. I'd be like, nigga, what you

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Speaker 1: What you please? Take it?

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Speaker 3: And he partied all night long.

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Speaker 1: He gonna be on that I got. Oh girl. Let

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Speaker 1: me tell you one time. It was his nap time.

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Speaker 1: He loves rice. Okay, it was his naptime. We got

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Speaker 1: this time for you to take a nap. My sister

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Speaker 1: was cooking. She was making some rice. So when the

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Speaker 1: rice was done, we was all about to start eating.

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Speaker 1: She was like, oh, let me go put Pop down

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Speaker 1: for his nap. She gonna put him down for his nap.

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Speaker 1: He screamed, screamed because he was like, bitch, how are

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Speaker 1: you gonna cook the right leo? How you cooking rice?

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Speaker 1: And go?

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Speaker 5: Try to put me to bed when you notice my

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Speaker 5: ship throw a fucking fit.

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Speaker 1: Finally we let him.

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Speaker 3: He came out thron and he got him a ball.

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Speaker 1: He was just quiet ate. His little rice turned back

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Speaker 1: up again. I was I thought she was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: after he ate the rice, he went to sleep. Please,

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Speaker 1: hell no, I need to find some season in here.

702
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: Got a little of that on the rice. He needs

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Speaker 1: something because that motherfucker that that's a different breathe. What

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Speaker 1: y'all need to do?

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Speaker 2: Oh, he had different breathes, so don't even know he

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Speaker 2: gonna be.

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Speaker 1: Like, you put your foot in this b That's all

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Speaker 1: I need to do. So shout shout out to my nephews.

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Speaker 1: I love a both though I love him both all right,

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Speaker 1: I cannot wait to talk about this next topic. Beach

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Speaker 1: me too, you want to introduce you want? You go

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Speaker 1: ahead girl, Okay, So for the next topic, topic number two,

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Speaker 1: we want us to talk about when are regular girls

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Speaker 1: gonna come back in style? And the reason I want.

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Speaker 1: I know they went out of style, but this is

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Speaker 1: the first of all, thank you for saying that. This

764
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 1: is referring to the girls who be making tiktoks, uh tweets,

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Speaker 1: instagram reels, poems, essays talking about when are the girls

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Speaker 1: with regular bodies and nine to five gonna be back

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Speaker 1: in style? First of all, when y'all say stuff like

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Speaker 1: that you showing your hand, do you not have any

769
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Speaker 1: confidence about yourself?

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Speaker 3: Because you know what, a bad bitch.

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Speaker 1: Never goes out of style because if you that bitch,

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Speaker 1: you're not out of style period.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So stop saying that.

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Speaker 1: Whack ass shit. Yeah and shit, just really be about pray.

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Speaker 1: Friends like you got men who like women who still

776
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Speaker 1: do like women who have natural bodies. To be honest,

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Speaker 1: I don't think niggas really give a fuck about what

778
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Speaker 1: chall like as long as y'all pussy.

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Speaker 2: Ain't trash and as long as men.

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Speaker 1: And it's still over here like I'm talking about we're

781
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 1: talking about physical attributes. I really don't feel like a

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00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: lot of men just really care, Like you don't got

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Speaker 1: to have like a small ass waste and a fat

784
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Speaker 1: ass long as y'all pussy ain't trash and you cool

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Speaker 1: and you don't get on his nerves. I feel like she,

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Speaker 1: I have never had a guy be like oh talking

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Speaker 1: to me, and the first of all, they never asked

788
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Speaker 1: me this, but let's say it.

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Speaker 2: Did happen, Like I mean, this is now because you

790
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Speaker 2: don't have.

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Speaker 1: Like a bad, bad body, right, I mean, but even

792
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Speaker 1: if you do, there's somebody for everybody, first of all.

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Speaker 1: But it's always about confidence.

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Speaker 3: To me, I don't ever want to deal with a

795
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 3: nigga who.

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00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: Feel like, oh, well you like those type of niggash

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't like a nigga like me. I'm like, ew loser.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I'm saying for me, So it's

799
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Speaker 1: just like, now, this has never happened, but I'm saying

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00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: I've never had a god come up to me and

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Speaker 1: be like oh, and we're dealing with each other.

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00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, it is your body real.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, I got to b bl. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, you gotta BBL.

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Speaker 3: I need to go find a natural girl.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if he liked me, he liked me. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You've never seen a nigga dealing with

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Speaker 1: a girl who's natural. Oh have you gotten surgery? She'd

809
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,319
Speaker 1: be like, no, I'm natural, Oh my god, natural disgusting.

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Speaker 1: It's just like, have some.

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Speaker 3: More confidence about yourself.

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Speaker 1: If y'all would surround yourself with people who like you

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Speaker 1: and appreciate you, that.

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't even come out of your mouth.

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Speaker 1: You're so focused on people who don't who aren't You,

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Speaker 1: aren't their preference no matter what you said a word,

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Speaker 1: because I really do feel like that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: When people say stuff like that, it's like women and

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Speaker 1: men always trying to go.

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Speaker 2: After people that don't want them.

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Speaker 1: Ryan, you want to say that you feel like you're

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Speaker 1: not being desired or they're putting other people on a

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Speaker 1: pedestal above you. They not putting nobody on a pedestal

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Speaker 1: above you. They just don't like you. They go date

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Speaker 1: somebody didn't like your ass.

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Speaker 3: Say yo, hello, let's say.

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Speaker 1: No corona seriously, because you do have certain groups of

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Speaker 1: men out here who they do prefer a woman who

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Speaker 1: has you know, enhanced me. But if that's the type

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Speaker 1: of man and you going after and you don't have none,

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Speaker 1: of course you're gonna feel like, well we are. When

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Speaker 1: are people gonna like regular girls? Oh my god? What

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Speaker 1: are men gonna like girls who don't have an only fans? Girls?

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Speaker 1: Shut up? There's a lot of men out there. You

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Speaker 1: don't have no confidence. You don't know all the niggas

836
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Speaker 1: out there. But not only that, Like I said, you're

837
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Speaker 1: going for the type of man you low key despised.

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Speaker 1: Why do you want to be accepted by somebody who

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Speaker 1: doesn't prefer you? Let me tell you. I think people

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Speaker 1: like to prove a point today stuff that like, oh

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Speaker 1: but I could get him, right, Like I'm different and

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Speaker 1: I might not be his type, but I could get here.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you what happened. So this TikTok just

844
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Speaker 1: went viral of this. He's a white guy, blonde hair,

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Speaker 1: blue eyes. He said he was going on fifty dates

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Speaker 1: in fifty states, right with fifty different women. So he

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Speaker 1: posted every single state and every single woman he went

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Speaker 1: out with in each state, right, and they were all

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Speaker 1: they kind of looked similar, all pretty much white women,

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Speaker 1: blonde hair, blue eyes, dark hair, dark eyes, but they

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Speaker 1: were all white. And it was so shocking at how

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Speaker 1: much backlash he got from black women, like, oh, there's

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Speaker 1: no melanin. Oh, you went to Hawaii and got a

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Speaker 1: blond Why the fuck do you care about what Connor likes?

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Speaker 1: What if y'all and no offense to him if he

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Speaker 1: watches this, if y'all saw the clip of him talking,

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Speaker 1: why do you care if this man is attracted to you,

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Speaker 1: He's not even your type. Because let me tell you something.

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Speaker 1: If I went to fifty states with fifty niggas, they

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Speaker 1: all gonna be Nigerian. I'm a finder Nigerian Idaho, bitch,

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Speaker 1: my radar goes the fuck off Idaho. I will, I will.

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Speaker 1: So it's like if somebody has a preferen Valley showed

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Speaker 1: me that they everywhere, and I love it. I did

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Speaker 1: lista ooh, and.

866
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 3: I'm gonna find them every time I did it.

867
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 1: But why is that a problem when somebody has a preference.

868
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: If if this is this man's preference, do you think

869
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: I'm about to sit here and be like, oh, well,

870
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,919
Speaker 1: you don't like tall women or you feel some type

871
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: of way about me. No, nigga, I don't give a

872
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,240
Speaker 1: fuck because it's a lot of niggas who love me down. Yeah,

873
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 1: it's too many people who love and appreciate me. How

874
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 1: to fuck with who? Yeah, people care too much about

875
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: other people opinions. If I was a natural girl and

876
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 1: I like my body, I wouldn't give a fuck about

877
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: who don't like natural bodies? Right, So I'm gonna go

878
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 1: find you. Man, they like somebody with a natural body.

879
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: I just think it be too much back and forth

880
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: the body, and I feel like girls who say that

881
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 1: type of stuff all the time online they really just

882
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: be projecting, cause it's like, are you really do you

883
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: really want the natural girls to come back in stall?

884
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 2: Or do you really want to get surgery and you

885
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 2: can't right now and.

886
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 3: Not all of that?

887
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: Are you really just want attention and you're hoping somebody

888
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 1: feel sorry for you. I don't want nobody talking to

889
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 1: me because they feel sorry for me, or niggas will

890
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 1: be like, oh yeah, baby, they're still install I'll love

891
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 1: you down because I remember back in the day, everybody

892
00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: used to be so oh I'm natural. I'm natural, and

893
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: that's cool. But then more people they started getting surgery.

894
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: Now a lot of the same people be getting surgery, right,

895
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: and not only that, nothing is wrong with it, whether

896
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,879
Speaker 1: you're natural or whether your body is done. I think

897
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:12,879
Speaker 1: it really doesn't matter long as y'all body looks good.

898
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: As long as it looks good, because these niggas don't care.

899
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 3: They like to act like they care.

900
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you, the same niggas that be trying

901
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: to like pander, be like unda, be the same niggas

902
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,240
Speaker 1: in our dms. And when I tell you this body

903
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: to men chopped and screwed. Bitch. Okay, don't girl, just

904
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: do you tune ups to myself? You know what? You

905
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I just feel like even

906
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 1: the sometimes I'll see women and they'll post those memes

907
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: and it'll be like a thick girl, but she got

908
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: a little belly on her and they'll be like, I'm

909
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: built like this, don't DM me first of all, And

910
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 1: I would respond to be like I won't. That's such

911
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: a loser thing to say, because first of all, like

912
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,479
Speaker 1: it's not a bad body shape, Like what are y'all?

913
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 1: It's like y'all be reaching for attention and it's so

914
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 1: cringey because they basic we want somebody to DM them like, no,

915
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: I feel you. But I just would have retweeted and said,

916
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: don't worry. You don't got no problem. I'm gonna start

917
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 1: doing that. Don't worry. They not. I'm gonna get jumped.

918
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: They gonna pull off my picture be like, bitch, this

919
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 1: was you don't act funny. I'm like, hold on up,

920
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 1: that's what you need to say to me. Love to troll.

921
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 1: I A'm fucking weak, But yeah, I feel like the

922
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 1: main thing about being a woman and being in your.

923
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 3: Just being feminine and being that.

924
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: Attractive woman that attracts men. And I'm not saying that's

925
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: that's your goal because it shouldn't be. But confidence. Where

926
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:42,280
Speaker 1: has the confidence gone? I feel like everybody is searching

927
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,840
Speaker 1: to be accepted by all these other things. It's like,

928
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 1: if you don't love yourself, let me tell you something.

929
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 1: When I said I was getting my t's done, I

930
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 1: literally probably had fifty people tell me don't do it,

931
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: and maybe like three or four people tell me to

932
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: do it. I didn't make that decision off of anything

933
00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: everybody told me not to get my t's done. I'm

934
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm not doing anything for y'all. I'm doing it for myself.

935
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 1: I want to feel good about myself. I don't give

936
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 1: a fuck what nobody say. So I think we need

937
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: to get back into that of like just feeling good

938
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 1: about yourself and feeling confident. I would never get online

939
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: and be like I hope BBLS and Breast Production stay

940
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 1: in style so people, so I can still be attracted

941
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,760
Speaker 1: to y'all, because that's basically what you're saying. That's basically

942
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 1: what you're saying. Now, listen to how ridiculous that sounds like.

943
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:32,240
Speaker 1: It sounds crazy as fuck. So all these little memes

944
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: and shit y'all creating stopping from be understanding what people

945
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: say when they say regular girls. To me, everybody regularly.

946
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 1: Everybody is regular. First of all, we all are what

947
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 1: is a regular girl? Like?

948
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 2: Do you mean like in terms of.

949
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 1: Like, I guess, like followers, Instagram models. Yeah, but it's

950
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,720
Speaker 1: a lot of girls who got for five hundred thousand

951
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: followers and they very much regular, They very much are

952
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: still struggling and mentally struggling, struggling in every way. Every

953
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: So it's like, what do you mean regular? I feel

954
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 1: like social media has really made a lot of people

955
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: think that they're not regular people just because they have

956
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: a lot of followers, and followers don't mean nothing right,

957
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 1: And I feel like that's really strange. Like we actually

958
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: seen somebody say that a few months ago on social media.

959
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,959
Speaker 2: Remember this girl had got into it with this other girl.

960
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 1: It was like, I'm giving you cloud or something, and

961
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 1: it's like, how you giving somebody cloud when you ain't

962
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:27,279
Speaker 1: got nothing. I be so confused. She just got more followers?

963
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: What guse girls? It's like, give a bitch one hundred

964
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: thousand followers? She swears, she bend. Oh fucking what did

965
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: she swear? She's influencer extraordinary influenza extraordinaries. Why where they

966
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 1: need to make that a head If y'all make that

967
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 1: a motherfucking uh category on East Warm Mama, know where

968
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: y'all got it from? Extraordinary them hoss be swearing? They

969
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: used to do a little flat to me, t ed, Oh.

970
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,839
Speaker 3: My god, please, I have.

971
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: Had a No. I'm just saying, like, so to me,

972
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 1: what is a regular girl? Everybody's to meet?

973
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 3: There's only two people.

974
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 1: In the world that aren't regular, only two. Beyonce Rihanna,

975
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 1: that's it. It's more people than.

976
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 3: No, it's not it is no, it's not.

977
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 1: But to me, like even with me and you like,

978
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 1: I feel like I had a lot of followers before

979
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: we started Poor my Arm, but.

980
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 3: I didn't really been influence extraordinary.

981
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 1: I wasn't an influencer. FLT on me. T used to

982
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: have me fucked up telling me they wanted me to

983
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: do three post of seventy five dollars. I been o

984
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: y'all caught me all the way fucked.

985
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 3: Up in the wal time.

986
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:47,919
Speaker 1: I got me a nice little chick. I will say,

987
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: you the only like Instagram girl who's like been having

988
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 1: followers that like does not do like the fashion noah

989
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 1: ads Like you don't do the t ads do they?

990
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: I mean I used to, but they don't pay you

991
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 1: enough for it to be worth your while, right right right.

992
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people do that in hopes

993
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: of trying to get more sponsorships and stuff, because I

994
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of girls feel like, Okay, well,

995
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 1: if I'm doing this for fashion, no, but even if

996
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,919
Speaker 1: I'm on leave and pay one hundred dollars, if otherence,

997
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: if other companies see this, they might want me to

998
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: be a brand ambassador for they company too, Like I

999
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 1: feel like people who are trying to be full time influencers,

1000
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: that's why they do it well honestly, But to me,

1001
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 1: it just was never worth my while And I knew

1002
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be No, It'stagram model, right. But

1003
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 1: I also feel like these companies have caught on too,

1004
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: Like you can have five hundred thousand followers and have

1005
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: zero influence, right, you can have ten thousand followers and

1006
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:43,879
Speaker 1: have influence on seventy percent of your followers, and that's

1007
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: way more valuable than the girl with five hundred thousand

1008
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: likes that's getting I mean five hundred thousand followers, that's

1009
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 1: getting a hundred likes. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

1010
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,399
Speaker 1: But I said that to say, like, followers don't make

1011
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 1: a person not regular. Everybody is regular. Everybody is regular

1012
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 1: to me. Now people's jobs may not be regular. Yeah,

1013
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 1: I feel like we don't have a were Like I

1014
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 1: don't have a regular job per se. But to say,

1015
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,839
Speaker 1: like I'm not a regular person, I still.

1016
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 2: We still go through life.

1017
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: And I think that's the beauty about this show too,

1018
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 1: never stop going through Yeah, Like I think we're we're

1019
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: so blunt and honest about things that we go through,

1020
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: and I think that's what's appreciated. Like we don't try

1021
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 1: to make it seem like we're above anything, like we

1022
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 1: be going through it with these niggas. We gotta deal

1023
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 1: with death, we gotta deal with friendship drama. You know,

1024
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:32,720
Speaker 1: we still have to deal with life. And I feel

1025
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: like we gotta stop saying that regular girls stuff versus

1026
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:38,439
Speaker 1: Instagram models, because that shit take. I feel like it's

1027
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 1: only a divide because the regular girls make it a divide. No,

1028
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 1: but the Instagram girls be making it a divide too.

1029
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 1: Just like you said, that girl was like, oh, I'm

1030
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: giving you clout, baby, you're very regular to another girl

1031
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 1: who was not regular in their minds, let me take

1032
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: a sip ofthy yet, like she was like VI shann

1033
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 1: more popping the U beach I got.

1034
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 2: I got fifty five thousand followers and you got.

1035
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: Forty five, which girl, it was like on some ship

1036
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 1: like that. But I know, I mean, I feel like

1037
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 1: I get you though it's definitely both ends, but I

1038
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: definitely feel like it more so be like the regular

1039
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 1: girls coming for like cause they be hating a little

1040
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: bit sometime sometimes they be hating a little bit, it'd

1041
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:21,720
Speaker 1: be a little hate.

1042
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 3: It'd be a little bit, it'd be.

1043
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 1: A little hate. Sometimes. I think every girl that doesn't

1044
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 1: have a lot of followers on social media cares about

1045
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 1: that she because you genuinely do have people that don't care.

1046
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: Like one of my best friends, her name is Jazzmy

1047
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:37,359
Speaker 1: Jazzmine don't give two folks about Instagram and posting on

1048
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:39,719
Speaker 1: Instagram and being an influencer and all that type of shit.

1049
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:41,319
Speaker 2: But when you see her, she's gonna be.

1050
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: Huge put that shish like she cares about I guess

1051
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: things they don't that that's crazy. I'm sorry, I don't

1052
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: mean interrupt you. But my friend Brooke is the same

1053
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 1: way because she had a lot of followers on one

1054
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 1: of her accounts and she's just like, I don't want well,

1055
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: Jasmine never cares yeah followers period, So I don't like

1056
00:47:59,600 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 1: that's a.

1057
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 3: Litt well, yeah, it was a little different.

1058
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 1: Br Brook has always been fine. So she just automatically

1059
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:07,280
Speaker 1: like she was like she been fine. So when Instagram

1060
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 1: first started coming out, like she had all the followers

1061
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: and this, but like she she really only posting her

1062
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 1: close friends. But she's been like that from probably since

1063
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,359
Speaker 1: close friends came out. She was like, yes I can.

1064
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 1: And it's like, but some people really they just be

1065
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 1: fine and they're not looking for the extra attention yet

1066
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Yeah, because Jazz is super fine. Yeah,

1067
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: so yeah, my best friends. She just she don't care

1068
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 1: about all this. She she just I guess what she

1069
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 1: would call like a regular girl by the definition of

1070
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:35,919
Speaker 1: what a regular girl is. But she just doesn't care

1071
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: about social media and stuff. But she's confident in herself

1072
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: and she doesn't feel no type of way about other

1073
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: girls that have followers or what right you and I

1074
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:46,359
Speaker 1: do think that you would have some girls out there

1075
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: who they be trying to be influencers or they be

1076
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,080
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Speaker 2: Good.

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Speaker 3: So now we're gonna get into the.

1144
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Speaker 1: BA B Bowl bow bow by bow about. I can't

1145
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1146
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1147
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1148
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1153
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Speaker 1: So today I wanted to talk about men using sex toys. Now.

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Speaker 1: I talked about this topic a little bit before, a

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Speaker 1: long time ago with Orlando. Shout out to Orlando, y'all

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Speaker 1: know him. He used to be on the Harder Soft

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Speaker 1: sex industry and he does all that good. Orlando just

1159
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Speaker 1: does a lot. I love Orlando. So yeah, we talked

1160
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 1: about men using sex toys, but we were talking about

1161
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,440
Speaker 1: like a penis extender, so he was kind of explaining

1162
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 1: that to me. But I wanted to talk about this

1163
00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: from an angle of men using sex toys versus women

1164
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 1: using sex toys because I feel like it's normal. You know,

1165
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: if you walk in the girl room and you see

1166
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 1: a vibrator on your bed, on her bed, you're gonna

1167
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:10,760
Speaker 1: feel like, oh shit, she's trying to get it popping, Like, oh,

1168
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 1: you was getting that thing ready for me. Like if

1169
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 1: I walk to the nigga room and I see like

1170
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 1: a pocket rocket or something or an ass, yeah, with

1171
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 1: the holy nit that you could fuck, I'm gonna be like, Nigga,

1172
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 1: what is your own? I would be so freaked out.

1173
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: I've seen some crazy shit. It was like a cub

1174
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:32,759
Speaker 1: like it looked like a cub and it's like when

1175
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:35,879
Speaker 1: you unscrew it open, it's like a pussy in Oh

1176
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 1: you thinking he walking around with gatorade pocket pussy nigga

1177
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Speaker 1: talk about can I get a refilled? See pockey? That

1178
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: is discussion. I'm not gonna lie though. This is why,

1179
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: why though, this is why though.

1180
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 3: For me, I'm not gonna lie.

1181
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 1: I believe in double standards, double standard me down. Okay,

1182
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:03,720
Speaker 1: I love it because I'm not gonna lie. I feel

1183
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 1: like with men, we've always talked about this, the the

1184
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: sensation that men can get versus women. It's like it's

1185
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:13,839
Speaker 1: harder for us, so we can't really just I mean,

1186
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,240
Speaker 1: you can use your fingers to masturbate as a woman,

1187
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: but the vibration it feels way better than just rubbing

1188
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:23,880
Speaker 1: your fingers. We all know that, I think. I mean,

1189
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: I can't speak for other women. I can speak for me,

1190
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Speaker 1: Like I have to use a vibrator. My fingers don't work. Niggas,

1191
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Speaker 1: y'all like fingers, I feel like vibrators.

1192
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Speaker 2: Sometimes somebod always be too fucking strong.

1193
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 1: I mean, like that motherfucking Rose toy bit y'all almost

1194
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Speaker 1: went to the upper room used you know what's crazy.

1195
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Speaker 1: I'm no, hell no, absolutely the fuck that bitch. I

1196
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Speaker 1: never want to come.

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Speaker 2: Thear hard again.

1198
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Speaker 1: I feel like now I don't. I never use my

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Speaker 1: vibrators on like the highest setting. It wasn't on the

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Speaker 1: highest city. Who uses the vibr on the highest city?

1201
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 1: I mean the highest setting is there for a reason?

1202
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 1: Yokuchiese numb is fucked strong in that ass pussy? Hell no.

1203
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 3: So but I feel like with men, it's just like,

1204
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Speaker 3: you know, they just.

1205
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Speaker 1: Need a little this. So I feel like you can do.

1206
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 2: That with your hands.

1207
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 3: So if you're men could just beat their meat.

1208
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 1: But what is the difference between you walking in the

1209
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 1: room and a nigga beating his meat or him using

1210
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: a pisty pocket. I just think that's a little extreme.

1211
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:35,280
Speaker 1: That's a little extreme. How was it extreme?

1212
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 3: Because okay, but let me tell you.

1213
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Speaker 1: Let me tell you why it's a little extreme. Now,

1214
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Speaker 1: when you start getting into the ones, the little molds

1215
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Speaker 1: of the ass, that's a little wild. Let me tell

1216
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Speaker 1: you why it's extreme though, Right when the type of

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Speaker 1: toys that I use, I never use dildos that are

1218
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Speaker 1: shaped like dicks, I never use I never really insert

1219
00:55:56,880 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 1: stuff into myself and doing all that I'm never like,

1220
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: you know how the girls and I think those girls

1221
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:05,399
Speaker 1: areware that have those little shower toys and put them

1222
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:08,320
Speaker 1: on their bathroom wall, be in the shower, like fucking

1223
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 1: the little thing on the wall.

1224
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, weirdo.

1225
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:16,359
Speaker 1: You're a weirdo because why are you having like full

1226
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 1: fledged on sex with something plastic. That's weird to me.

1227
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:25,840
Speaker 1: It's like, why are you fucking your bathroom walls? Because

1228
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 1: I was making a video? Well, that's different. That's different video.

1229
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:33,720
Speaker 1: You're making a video for somebody, So that's extremely different

1230
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:39,879
Speaker 1: if you're just like steal the sad work. I mean,

1231
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,319
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like people like to do

1232
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: what they like to do. I don't really care what

1233
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 1: people do. I just don't think it's that strange. Though.

1234
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:50,839
Speaker 1: I feel like that's no different from like a woman

1235
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Speaker 1: having a deal. Though you don't use dealing, right, but

1236
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 1: I know plenty of women that have deal. But But

1237
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 1: this is why I say it's different for me, because,

1238
00:56:57,960 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 1: like I said, at the end of the day, if

1239
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 1: I want some I'm gonna go get some dicks. Sometimes

1240
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 1: I want the feel of a vibrator. If I want dick,

1241
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:06,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and get some dick. So I

1242
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 1: feel like, if I walk into a man's room and

1243
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:10,759
Speaker 1: he got a pocket pussy, why don't you just go

1244
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 1: get some pussy, because maybe he don't want the risk

1245
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 1: of kitchen is TD somebody. Oh God, God, God, there

1246
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Speaker 1: are some responsible kings out here. Let me take a

1247
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Speaker 1: city yet and don't talk back. I'm just saying, maybe

1248
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 1: he just don't want the headache they come with mold

1249
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 1: So okay. So just like if I walked in your

1250
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:35,919
Speaker 1: room and I seen like a molded dick, I would

1251
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: be freaked out. You've seen one a molded dick like,

1252
00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 1: but that's a little different from like a molded dick

1253
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: like Safari. You know, he sells things of his molded penis.

1254
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 1: Like if I walked in your room and you had

1255
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: Safaris molded penis in your room, I would be like,

1256
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 1: that's very fucking weird because that's too specific. Beach, Why

1257
00:57:56,240 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: would I want Safaris moldy penis? It's sold out and

1258
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 1: so all that. But what I'm saying is that's very specific, though,

1259
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 1: Like I go get somebody's molded penies, that's weird.

1260
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 2: That's like me.

1261
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 1: Being obsessed with the idea of wanting to have six

1262
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 1: with that specific person, and I think that's a little strange.

1263
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 1: But if you like deal those like people like different

1264
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 1: types of toys in the bedroom, like some people like

1265
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 1: some women actually like buildos, like they like to put

1266
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 1: that ship up in them. I don't think nothing is wrong.

1267
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 3: I don't think nothing is wrong with that.

1268
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 1: I'm just it's a little what it's a lie because

1269
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 1: if I walked it, if you if I walked it, Okay,

1270
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 1: why are you walking in my bedroom without knocking? Bitch

1271
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 1: people wrong? I do, I'd be like this, Hi, oh good,

1272
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: he's the call first. So if I walk in the

1273
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: nigga room and he's fucking one of them little jiggly booties,

1274
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 1: that is weird to me. And he like, yeah, he's

1275
00:58:55,840 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 1: smacking and talking to it. You like that shit, that's weird.

1276
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 1: But that's on the extreme side talking about a nigga

1277
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 1: having toys, bro, like a nigga having like the little things,

1278
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 1: the little jackoff thing, or like a nigga who got

1279
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: a what about a nigga with a penis club? What's

1280
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 1: the penis clip? You know, I don't need that. I

1281
00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 1: don't like that. I don't want that extendole? Would you

1282
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 1: suck with a man who got a penis implant? Oh yeah, yeah,

1283
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: because I don't have to know, because I can lie

1284
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Speaker 1: to you about my ass vibrate. Like, what if you

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Speaker 1: got a remote? I like that too, make a vibe.

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00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 1: I like the way yr Dick b Arby. That's what

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Speaker 1: somebody needs to come up with. We need to figure

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Speaker 1: OUTT would that Patni.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't mind that little something like that.

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Speaker 1: Penis implanting that vibs. That's all you want to do

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00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:55,560
Speaker 1: is press a little. But what if you could put

1292
00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 1: the app on your phone? You don't even need the

1293
00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 1: remote because you know it's time to come home, Dick,

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Speaker 1: start vibe brighton and you could control yea, turn this

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Speaker 1: ship on. The niggas gonna be like and you.

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Speaker 3: Know y'all broke up when he blocked you from the app?

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Speaker 1: Why can't vibrate y'all? Dick? Baby shit get real? But no,

1298
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Speaker 1: for real? Okay, So you wouldn't So you wouldn't talk

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01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 1: to a man who has like a penis xtendo club. No,

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01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to extendo. I just don't like anybody

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01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 1: who's extremely, extremely horny. I told you I've always had

1302
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:31,760
Speaker 1: a problem. That's not horny. That's more of a length issue.

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01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 1: If you have a length issue, then you got a

1304
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: lex issue because I'm not gonna be here you hear me,

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Speaker 1: So you wouldn't play with your man penies with the tweet.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Now that's different because we're.

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01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 1: Participating in it together. So yeah, bro, it's a loud

1308
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 1: wild because I'm a wild girl wild get no pussy.

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01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:58,479
Speaker 1: You wouldn't like just watch him on he always gonna

1310
01:00:58,480 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 1: get pussy with me?

1311
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 2: What if y'all in different states?

1312
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 1: Now that's different because we're doing it. We're participating together.

1313
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 1: But if you fucking a pussy by yourself and your room,

1314
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 1: and so what if he wanted to fuck it you

1315
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 1: was on face, So that you're different because I'm participating,

1316
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 1: okay with him sucking the moldy booty, the boot Oh no,

1317
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 1: I'm never okay the little pocket pussy. I can deal

1318
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 1: with a little pocket pussy, but the whole jiggly moldy booty.

1319
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 1: Because what if you start liking the booty more than

1320
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:31,160
Speaker 1: me because the booty don't talk back, and it ain't

1321
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 1: it ain't judging you because I'm judging you. I'm judging you,

1322
01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 1: So you would never get a toy and put it

1323
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 1: against your shower. Oh for my man. Yes, but if

1324
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 1: I just these stipulations and rules are why hell, I

1325
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 1: don't like I told you, I am a very horny person. Yes,

1326
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 1: but I'm horny with like my man. I hate people

1327
01:01:57,280 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: who are extremely horny all the time, Like I'm going,

1328
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 1: why are you horn fun and being horny with limitations

1329
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 1: beach people, But that's a little fun about being horny.

1330
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 2: No, I don't like extremely horny people like mine.

1331
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 1: Like when I'm dealing with a man, my man makes

1332
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 1: me horny, like that's what turns me on. So if

1333
01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:24,320
Speaker 1: you're just sitting there at waffle house eating your grand slam,

1334
01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 1: why is your pussy leaking weird? Though?

1335
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 2: Why is y'all dig hard while you eating your eggs?

1336
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 1: You ain't never been sitting there having a conversation, bro,

1337
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 1: you are a liar. You're really sitting on You ain't

1338
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 1: never be on a day and sitting there having yes

1339
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 1: with a man because I'm interacting with a man sitting

1340
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 1: there and be waiting for no reasons of a lot

1341
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 1: of these I can't wait to finish breakfast.

1342
01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:51,480
Speaker 3: Someone go home and beat my meach. They do be

1343
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 3: like that.

1344
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:55,000
Speaker 1: That's fine. You could be thinking that in your head.

1345
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 1: But to get hard, yes, they be hard as funk

1346
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 1: niggas be hard for no reason. I don't know. I

1347
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:05,600
Speaker 1: feel like men using six toys and women using six

1348
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:08,320
Speaker 1: toys is the same thing. I don't. I just think

1349
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: for me, it's certain toys that women have and it's

1350
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:16,040
Speaker 1: certain toys that men have that are weird inquestionable. You

1351
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 1: need to have both sides. A woman needs to have

1352
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:21,280
Speaker 1: a vibrator. A man can have a pocket pussy and

1353
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:21,680
Speaker 1: that's it.

1354
01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:23,640
Speaker 3: That's it.

1355
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:24,160
Speaker 2: I think.

1356
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: No, what about a little penis ring. We can do

1357
01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 1: the penis ring because that involves the woman too, So

1358
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: I can do that. Anything that you can vibrator, pussy,

1359
01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 1: pocket and any toys that we can use together, they vibrate,

1360
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 1: that's for him, that's for us together to use. Right, No,

1361
01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 1: because why is you in that home doing work like this? Okay?

1362
01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:52,320
Speaker 1: So one more question? So one more question you on

1363
01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 1: your zoom call, like, so if your man had so,

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01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:59,080
Speaker 1: if your man had nipple vibrators, my man will never

1365
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:04,000
Speaker 1: have nipple vibrators. But go ahead, sound worring. So if

1366
01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 1: your man had nipple, this is sick. And he had

1367
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:10,480
Speaker 1: an app they was. It was an app that you

1368
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 1: could control it from. You wouldn't ConTroll it. No, you

1369
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 1: make them nipples vibrate unless I was pissed off, You

1370
01:04:19,280 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't make them click. Why are you wants? You know?

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01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes my niggas, Yeah, but you know some of my

1372
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:31,120
Speaker 1: niggas be a little chunky and thick. Why is your

1373
01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 1: TV shake? You gotta put it on the highest speed?

1374
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 1: Them nipples thick? You know what? Let me let me

1375
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 1: finish my drink. I hate it here. I like what

1376
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 1: I like, you like what you like.

1377
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 3: I'm very vanilla in the bedroom.

1378
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 1: I explain that I just like to have sex, and

1379
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:53,280
Speaker 1: I just like intimate sex.

1380
01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 3: I like passionate sex.

1381
01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:57,120
Speaker 1: I like all that, but all the extra shit I

1382
01:04:57,120 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 1: feel like when you bring in too many toys in

1383
01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:01,880
Speaker 1: the bedroom and away from the passion the intimacy.

1384
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:04,560
Speaker 3: To me, I don't want all that extra shit.

1385
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 1: I need that butty to but that's what I need.

1386
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 2: Maybe we don't need no scripts for this.

1387
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 1: You should have saved it. They need to be about

1388
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 1: but no, I don't know. Like I said to me,

1389
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 1: it's literally the same thing. I just think that certain

1390
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 1: things are off limits for me, like if you gotta.

1391
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think, what's something outside, Like the little

1392
01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:32,440
Speaker 1: molded booty. That's a little weird, the whole the whole

1393
01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 1: molded booty, because it sounds like he's moldy. You know,

1394
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:36,800
Speaker 1: the the whole dolls. You know they be having the

1395
01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 1: whole dolls, and those things are expensive. They're like four

1396
01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:43,439
Speaker 1: or five thousand dollars, not even kidding, those are five

1397
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 1: thousand dollars, yes, for the dolls, like the sex dolls,

1398
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:47,640
Speaker 1: they get really expensive.

1399
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 2: So like if you have a whole sex doll, that's strange.

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01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:52,440
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to.

1401
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:55,800
Speaker 2: Have said, but I'm saying, like.

1402
01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:58,080
Speaker 3: They be like sucking on their nipples.

1403
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:00,600
Speaker 1: Okay, that's too far. They got a whole in their mouth.

1404
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:03,480
Speaker 2: I can see that. The hole in the mouth makes it.

1405
01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 1: You're a sick, bitch. How about that. You're sick. You

1406
01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:12,040
Speaker 1: are sick every day that you bring around me.

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Speaker 3: From now on, we like, do we got nipple clamps on?

1408
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Speaker 1: Maybe if you see his shirts start.

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Speaker 2: Doing the.

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Speaker 1: of the week.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe I haven't made this a bop yet.

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Speaker 1: Fireboy DML dropped his album a few months ago. He

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Speaker 1: is an afrobeats artist. I really have always loved his music.

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Speaker 1: This is probably like the third time I have shouted

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Speaker 1: him out on the show. But he has a song

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Speaker 1: called Bandana on his new album, and it just gives

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Speaker 1: vacation vibes. You know how everybody was using Tims for

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Speaker 1: a long time for their vacation song. I feel like

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Speaker 1: this is a good vacation song and it just gives

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Speaker 1: all the good vibes. I love him as an artist.

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Speaker 1: I feel like he makes music that can cross over,

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Speaker 1: but he still stays true to like the afrobeat sound.

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Speaker 1: I feel like whiz Kid does a good job at

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Speaker 1: that times, does a good job at that burner boy,

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Speaker 1: you know, so it doesn't get like too too like

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Speaker 1: crazy to work like. It's hard to listen to afrobeats

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Speaker 1: because you don't understand what they're saying obviously, but you

1475
01:09:46,640 --> 01:09:49,080
Speaker 1: can catch the vibe. And that's what I like about

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Speaker 1: it so you can catch the vibe with it. Fireboy

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Speaker 1: DML Bandana. That's my bob of the week period. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so my bob for the week is called real Bitch's

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Speaker 1: Real Lukia and gloss Up.

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Speaker 3: I like that song, Okay, I haven't really real good.

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Speaker 1: It's like a real good summer end. I feel like

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Speaker 1: the girl's been coming with the summer. The girls are

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Speaker 1: the way we would have liked to be to enjoy

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Speaker 1: the vibes and enjoy the music. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: good summer in so, of course meg album, which we

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Speaker 1: discussed before, Glorilla Droplla coming. So what you think about

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Speaker 1: Glossop because I haven't listened to her really yet her Yeah,

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Speaker 1: to me, she kind of reminded me of Gloriala a

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Speaker 1: number one, pylexp Andre. My name is Sparkle. I'm twenty

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Speaker 1: three years old and wanting to boss up my life

1535
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:43,680
Speaker 1: aka get the bag and live it up. I've been

1536
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:46,840
Speaker 1: thinking about maybe bartending or even stripping at a big

1537
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:50,759
Speaker 1: name club, getting a sugar Daddy as well, what advice

1538
01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:52,920
Speaker 1: can you give me being young and trying to level

1539
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:55,559
Speaker 1: up my life? Take trips and be pretty and paid.

1540
01:12:55,960 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for your health. Well, I think

1541
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:03,519
Speaker 1: that bartending or maybe even stripping, if that's what you

1542
01:13:03,560 --> 01:13:05,680
Speaker 1: want to do, it's a good start, you know what

1543
01:13:05,720 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 1: I mean. I know a lot of girls who used

1544
01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:09,599
Speaker 1: to be speaking today and like now they have whole

1545
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:10,200
Speaker 1: bus and seeds.

1546
01:13:10,320 --> 01:13:12,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, are business owners.

1547
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 1: I feel like as long as you using barsteading and

1548
01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:18,040
Speaker 1: or stripping as a stepping stone and you don't get

1549
01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:21,840
Speaker 1: caught up in the life. But honestly and truly, that's

1550
01:13:21,880 --> 01:13:24,240
Speaker 1: easier said than done until you really end this sheep,

1551
01:13:24,520 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 1: because like you said, you need to get rid right.

1552
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:29,200
Speaker 1: You know a lot of girls that used to strip

1553
01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:32,759
Speaker 1: that are making money now. But more of the women

1554
01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:35,400
Speaker 1: I used to work in the strip club, y'all, More

1555
01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:37,959
Speaker 1: of the women I know are not running their businesses

1556
01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:40,720
Speaker 1: now and are not doing running it up. Yeah. No,

1557
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:43,760
Speaker 1: it's because you get lost in the sauce. I can

1558
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:47,600
Speaker 1: honestly name fifty strippers you know that I used to

1559
01:13:47,640 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 1: work with that Dreams back in the day, and I

1560
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 1: can probably name five of them. Who are still doing

1561
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:53,759
Speaker 1: well today. And that's no shade, it's just the truth,

1562
01:13:53,920 --> 01:13:55,760
Speaker 1: because it's hard not to get caught up in that

1563
01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 1: night life. So this is what I have to say

1564
01:13:58,240 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 1: for any young woman that trying to be young and paid.

1565
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:04,400
Speaker 1: Whatever you do, get your business in order and take

1566
01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 1: care of stop. Do not try to keep up with

1567
01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:09,760
Speaker 1: everybody else when you get certain types of money. Put

1568
01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:11,559
Speaker 1: some money to the side. I think that's where I

1569
01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:13,240
Speaker 1: fucked up at a lot too. When I was younger,

1570
01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:15,400
Speaker 1: I just was spending it, spending it, spending it because

1571
01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:16,840
Speaker 1: I knew I was gonna make it right back. And

1572
01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:19,920
Speaker 1: guess what when the club shut down and shit got

1573
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:23,599
Speaker 1: a little funny because club money is not consistent. Because

1574
01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:27,200
Speaker 1: dream club today seasons like even yeah, I've been club,

1575
01:14:27,320 --> 01:14:29,080
Speaker 1: you know where you're making a lot of money, it

1576
01:14:29,200 --> 01:14:31,479
Speaker 1: still have these slow seasons because for whatever reason, in

1577
01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:33,160
Speaker 1: the winter when you get call old people don't go

1578
01:14:33,200 --> 01:14:35,000
Speaker 1: out as much as they do right memory and stuff,

1579
01:14:35,080 --> 01:14:37,479
Speaker 1: So you definitely gotta stack your bread up.

1580
01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:40,080
Speaker 2: It was crazy because I have a plan.

1581
01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 1: The first time I got my body done, I had

1582
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:45,519
Speaker 1: got like some money from the dude I was kind

1583
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:49,000
Speaker 1: of talking to at the time, and I spent it

1584
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:51,560
Speaker 1: on that, and I was kind of working in the

1585
01:14:51,600 --> 01:14:53,559
Speaker 1: club and then I kind of had my job, and

1586
01:14:53,600 --> 01:14:55,519
Speaker 1: then like you know, shortly after that, I had moved

1587
01:14:55,520 --> 01:14:59,360
Speaker 1: to Atlanta, but I had to actually go back to

1588
01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:02,760
Speaker 1: Dreams because remember prime Time had shut down. That shit

1589
01:15:02,840 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 1: fucked me up. Yeah, it was I could not, y'all.

1590
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:08,960
Speaker 1: It was like I could not just catch a break.

1591
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:12,000
Speaker 1: It was like I missed like a while because I

1592
01:15:12,040 --> 01:15:14,559
Speaker 1: was healing from my surgery. Then prime Time had just

1593
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 1: like shut down out the blue. So I was missing

1594
01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:18,920
Speaker 1: out on that money. And I'm not lying to y'all.

1595
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:22,240
Speaker 1: Me missing out on that month of money. It put

1596
01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:24,760
Speaker 1: me behind for like two years because I didn't put

1597
01:15:24,800 --> 01:15:27,040
Speaker 1: no money to the side. I moved to Atlanta, I

1598
01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:30,320
Speaker 1: didn't have shit, and it took me two years y'all

1599
01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:33,559
Speaker 1: to get back on my feet. I'm not kidding. So

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Speaker 1: the best advice I have to if you're young, you're

1601
01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:38,280
Speaker 1: trying to level up your life is don't spend it

1602
01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:40,680
Speaker 1: on bullshit and stupid ass shit. Try to keep up

1603
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:44,080
Speaker 1: with people, stack find what you like and what you

1604
01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:46,920
Speaker 1: want to do, and start planning for the future. Work

1605
01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:48,960
Speaker 1: hard now so you don't have to work hard later.

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01:15:49,800 --> 01:15:51,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with that.

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01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:53,760
Speaker 1: I don't and I don't feel like you should get

1608
01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:59,240
Speaker 1: a sugar daddy. I don't nothing wrong with getting a

1609
01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:02,200
Speaker 1: sugar daddy, but I think that when you source me

1610
01:16:02,240 --> 01:16:05,720
Speaker 1: in out specifically for those reasons, you might not have

1611
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:12,000
Speaker 1: the biggest outcome, right, you know? It different. I know

1612
01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:14,639
Speaker 1: I've never I've never had like somebody was like strictly

1613
01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:16,479
Speaker 1: about sex for him and money for me.

1614
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:17,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:21,000
Speaker 1: No, it's like cause again, I think it's something completely

1616
01:16:21,000 --> 01:16:24,040
Speaker 1: different when you're dating somebody or you're in a relationship

1617
01:16:24,120 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 1: with somebody and they want to make sure that you're okay,

1618
01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:31,599
Speaker 1: pay your bills or take care. What's different from actually

1619
01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:35,920
Speaker 1: like looking for a man solely to pay your bills

1620
01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:39,040
Speaker 1: and do stuff for you. An exchange for something, whether

1621
01:16:39,080 --> 01:16:41,680
Speaker 1: it be or six or whatever, you can still have

1622
01:16:41,760 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 1: fun and like, if you like somebody, you know he

1623
01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 1: may not necessarily be boyfriend type, but you enjoy spending

1624
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:50,040
Speaker 1: time with him, have fun travel because that's what I

1625
01:16:50,080 --> 01:16:50,720
Speaker 1: definitely did.

1626
01:16:51,360 --> 01:16:52,680
Speaker 3: I'm and still doing it.

1627
01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 2: And you know, we like the unties now.

1628
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:56,519
Speaker 1: So it's like I just be world big on y'all

1629
01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:59,400
Speaker 1: being safe. Ye sure, And Daddy, they just don't sound

1630
01:16:59,439 --> 01:16:59,920
Speaker 1: safe to me.

1631
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,639
Speaker 3: It's not giving safe viob, so just be care of safety.

1632
01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:06,479
Speaker 1: Girl. I would try my hand at bartending or if

1633
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 1: you comfortable with streat me, striap me period.

1634
01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:13,000
Speaker 2: But I don't know though, I take that big.

1635
01:17:13,040 --> 01:17:14,720
Speaker 1: I would just try to be a bartender because I

1636
01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 1: went to strippers. Bartender making more money being a bartender.

1637
01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:23,720
Speaker 1: They making about the same now, if not the bartenders

1638
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:25,519
Speaker 1: making more. Stripping is not like it used to be,

1639
01:17:25,520 --> 01:17:28,360
Speaker 1: like when Black China was stripping. That's when the girls

1640
01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:30,639
Speaker 1: was leaving with like five six bands a night. Yeah,

1641
01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:33,000
Speaker 1: it ain't like that in a day. Yeah, I feel

1642
01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:34,840
Speaker 1: like I would try barteening because the girl can make

1643
01:17:34,840 --> 01:17:38,519
Speaker 1: just as much money egg as keep y'all clothes period. Okay,

1644
01:17:39,160 --> 01:17:42,160
Speaker 1: question too, Hey y'all, I have been having some family

1645
01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:44,519
Speaker 1: issues and I would love to hear your thoughts. About

1646
01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:47,240
Speaker 1: three years ago, my granddad convinced me to move down

1647
01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 1: south from up North, and honestly, it has been the

1648
01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 1: best decision I ever made. But now that I'm around

1649
01:17:52,600 --> 01:17:55,040
Speaker 1: him more than ever, we are bumping heads like crazy.

1650
01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:57,559
Speaker 1: When I first moved here, I stayed with him while

1651
01:17:57,600 --> 01:17:59,639
Speaker 1: I was getting my stuff in order, and we would

1652
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:02,240
Speaker 1: constant argue about me staying out late and who I

1653
01:18:02,280 --> 01:18:04,720
Speaker 1: was hanging out with. Mind you, I was twenty four

1654
01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 1: or twenty five when I came here, so I wasn't

1655
01:18:07,120 --> 01:18:09,360
Speaker 1: about to let him give me a curfew or dictate

1656
01:18:09,400 --> 01:18:11,679
Speaker 1: who I could hang out with. So I moved out

1657
01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:15,479
Speaker 1: after a year. Now, every time I come around, it's

1658
01:18:15,520 --> 01:18:17,439
Speaker 1: like he finds a reason to have a problem with me,

1659
01:18:17,560 --> 01:18:19,800
Speaker 1: and to me, it kind of feels like he wants

1660
01:18:19,840 --> 01:18:22,120
Speaker 1: me to be a child around him. I think it's

1661
01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:24,200
Speaker 1: because I was a child the last time we spent

1662
01:18:24,479 --> 01:18:26,800
Speaker 1: the last time we spent with each other, and it's

1663
01:18:26,800 --> 01:18:29,320
Speaker 1: like he can't understand that I'm adult now. But I'm

1664
01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:31,440
Speaker 1: tired of feeling like I have to walk on eggshells

1665
01:18:31,439 --> 01:18:33,320
Speaker 1: around him and watch how I talk so he won't

1666
01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:35,880
Speaker 1: feel away. We got into an argument today because he

1667
01:18:35,920 --> 01:18:38,559
Speaker 1: felt like I had an attitude, which I didn't. He

1668
01:18:38,640 --> 01:18:41,120
Speaker 1: made me pull over and got out and walked home.

1669
01:18:41,439 --> 01:18:43,679
Speaker 1: I am so close to cutting his old hass off.

1670
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:46,320
Speaker 1: What do y'all think? Keep in mind, he was not

1671
01:18:46,400 --> 01:18:48,599
Speaker 1: consistently in my life. This is the most we've ever

1672
01:18:48,640 --> 01:18:52,040
Speaker 1: been around each other, and he swears he's practically raised me.

1673
01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:57,519
Speaker 1: I just feel like I think everybody has went through this,

1674
01:18:57,840 --> 01:19:00,280
Speaker 1: you know, with older people in your family and them

1675
01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:02,640
Speaker 1: still trying to box you in and treat you like

1676
01:19:02,680 --> 01:19:05,240
Speaker 1: you're a child. Once you're an adult, I feel like,

1677
01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 1: you know, you just have to always be respectful because

1678
01:19:08,160 --> 01:19:12,120
Speaker 1: they show granddaddy and they show elder but still sitting

1679
01:19:12,200 --> 01:19:15,920
Speaker 1: boundaries and letting him know like I'm grown and I don't.

1680
01:19:15,680 --> 01:19:18,080
Speaker 1: I can do what I want to do. And if

1681
01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:21,080
Speaker 1: that means that y'all don't talk as much anymore, then

1682
01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:25,600
Speaker 1: I think that your happiness is more important than your granddaddy,

1683
01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:28,320
Speaker 1: And how do you feel about you? Like I feel like, again,

1684
01:19:29,080 --> 01:19:32,759
Speaker 1: be respectful of your grandfather, but this is your life,

1685
01:19:32,800 --> 01:19:35,080
Speaker 1: Like people really have to start living a life and

1686
01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:38,120
Speaker 1: realizing that it's about you. You gotta be happy. You

1687
01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:39,840
Speaker 1: got to make your own decisions and be able to

1688
01:19:39,840 --> 01:19:42,040
Speaker 1: sleep with your decisions and look in the mirror every day.

1689
01:19:42,040 --> 01:19:44,719
Speaker 1: It's your own self, So it's about what makes you happy.

1690
01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 1: And if your granddaddy can't understand that, then maybe you

1691
01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:52,559
Speaker 1: know y'all just won't talk as much. I think for me,

1692
01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:55,439
Speaker 1: I can speak on this too, because when I first

1693
01:19:55,479 --> 01:19:57,360
Speaker 1: moved to Atlanta, I didn't tell my mom to like

1694
01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,599
Speaker 1: a week before I can, because my mom was just

1695
01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 1: like I told you all this before, she did not

1696
01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:07,040
Speaker 1: really understand what I was trying to do. She was like, Okay,

1697
01:20:07,080 --> 01:20:08,720
Speaker 1: go to school, do this, and do that. So it

1698
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:11,320
Speaker 1: was like me and my mom, we were like butting

1699
01:20:11,400 --> 01:20:14,559
Speaker 1: heads for like a really really long time. So I

1700
01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:18,080
Speaker 1: made that decision to you know what, this is my mom.

1701
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:19,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna respect her and I'm gonna let her get

1702
01:20:19,760 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 1: out what she has to say. And not that I

1703
01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:23,720
Speaker 1: would let it go in through one ear and out

1704
01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:26,439
Speaker 1: the other, but I had to create that boundary and

1705
01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 1: let her know, Hey, you don't pay my bills no more.

1706
01:20:29,600 --> 01:20:32,800
Speaker 1: I'm not a baby anymore. I'm still your baby. I

1707
01:20:32,880 --> 01:20:35,160
Speaker 1: get that, but let me spread my wings. I gotta

1708
01:20:35,200 --> 01:20:37,880
Speaker 1: figure my life out. You got the chance to spread

1709
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:39,600
Speaker 1: your wings and figure out, and this is what you

1710
01:20:39,720 --> 01:20:42,679
Speaker 1: chose for your life. Let me have that decision for myself.

1711
01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:45,160
Speaker 1: I know you want to protect me and things like that,

1712
01:20:45,400 --> 01:20:47,120
Speaker 1: but I have to figure out what I want to do.

1713
01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:49,240
Speaker 1: And if I wouldn't have did that, poor minds even

1714
01:20:49,240 --> 01:20:51,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't be here right now. Cause I decided to, you

1715
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:53,880
Speaker 1: know what, I'm leaving and I'm not gonna try to

1716
01:20:54,200 --> 01:20:56,320
Speaker 1: get my mom's approval. So I feel like a lot

1717
01:20:56,320 --> 01:20:58,920
Speaker 1: of times we try to live for our elder's approval

1718
01:20:58,920 --> 01:21:00,599
Speaker 1: and you have to realize they live at a different

1719
01:21:00,640 --> 01:21:03,160
Speaker 1: time than you. Yeah, so I wasn't even combative with

1720
01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:05,679
Speaker 1: my mom, would tell me stuffs were even the last

1721
01:21:05,720 --> 01:21:07,439
Speaker 1: conversation I had with my mom, we was back and

1722
01:21:07,479 --> 01:21:10,439
Speaker 1: forth about something so silly, but it was just like

1723
01:21:10,479 --> 01:21:11,600
Speaker 1: that's how we would do. But I was like, you

1724
01:21:11,640 --> 01:21:13,240
Speaker 1: know what, let me just let her have her moment

1725
01:21:13,479 --> 01:21:15,680
Speaker 1: and I would just let her talk. So sometimes you

1726
01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:18,519
Speaker 1: just gotta let old people talk and don't take it personally,

1727
01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:22,760
Speaker 1: and sometimes people will come around, you know. She her

1728
01:21:22,800 --> 01:21:25,160
Speaker 1: and my dad didn't wasn't really well. My dad always

1729
01:21:25,200 --> 01:21:28,280
Speaker 1: is really super supportive, but my mom didn't really care

1730
01:21:28,600 --> 01:21:30,240
Speaker 1: for us to like do the show and stuff.

1731
01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:31,920
Speaker 2: When I decided that that's what I wanted to do.

1732
01:21:32,000 --> 01:21:33,600
Speaker 1: She wanted me to get a corporate job, and she

1733
01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:35,439
Speaker 1: just couldn't understand why I would go to school and

1734
01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:37,840
Speaker 1: get a degree and not use it. But like now

1735
01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:40,200
Speaker 1: that everything is going away, that it's going she's super

1736
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:43,120
Speaker 1: supportive and happy, you know about everything that I'm doing.

1737
01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:44,639
Speaker 1: So I feel like sometimes you just got to give

1738
01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:48,760
Speaker 1: people time to come around, but then also just respected respectfully,

1739
01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:51,120
Speaker 1: letting them know, like this is my life, because I

1740
01:21:51,160 --> 01:21:53,360
Speaker 1: used to respectfully tell my mom that all the time,

1741
01:21:53,360 --> 01:21:55,439
Speaker 1: like you don't got to see the vision. You don't

1742
01:21:55,479 --> 01:21:58,040
Speaker 1: have to see what it is that I'm trying to do,

1743
01:21:58,160 --> 01:21:59,800
Speaker 1: Like I would love for you to be along on

1744
01:21:59,840 --> 01:22:02,559
Speaker 1: the journey, but if you don't get it, then that's fine,

1745
01:22:02,600 --> 01:22:03,200
Speaker 1: I understand.

1746
01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:05,200
Speaker 2: But I'm still gonna do what I feel like.

1747
01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:07,600
Speaker 1: He's right for my own life. And I'm glad you

1748
01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:09,320
Speaker 1: said that, like they don't see the vision because my

1749
01:22:09,320 --> 01:22:12,240
Speaker 1: mom didn't see the vision, but once she did, oh baby,

1750
01:22:12,520 --> 01:22:14,280
Speaker 1: she would never stop posting poor minds.

1751
01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:16,519
Speaker 3: It was always like, oh.

1752
01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:19,519
Speaker 1: Check out dream and my baby, it was always that.

1753
01:22:19,680 --> 01:22:21,600
Speaker 1: So I feel like you just got to live for

1754
01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:26,720
Speaker 1: you create a respectful boundary, and you know, still be respectful, but.

1755
01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:30,320
Speaker 3: Let him have his way. Sometimes sometimes you all let

1756
01:22:30,320 --> 01:22:30,880
Speaker 3: o people tall.

1757
01:22:30,960 --> 01:22:33,320
Speaker 1: Sometimes don't even go back and forth with he Oh girl,

1758
01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:35,200
Speaker 1: you can't teach an old doll new tricks.

1759
01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:37,400
Speaker 2: Old people do not be man.

1760
01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:39,320
Speaker 1: So stop arguing with him. Just let him get it

1761
01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 1: off his chest and be like, okay, Grandpa, a line.

1762
01:22:42,760 --> 01:22:49,639
Speaker 1: Walk it up the question number three, Hey ladies, okay,

1763
01:22:49,680 --> 01:22:52,200
Speaker 1: real quick, how do you guys feel about or deal

1764
01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:54,880
Speaker 1: with women in public touching your butt? I have the

1765
01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:57,960
Speaker 1: same BBL body type as y'all, and I know I'm

1766
01:22:57,960 --> 01:23:00,320
Speaker 1: not the only one that goes through these. It's like

1767
01:23:00,400 --> 01:23:02,680
Speaker 1: girls feel like because we girls, you could touch it

1768
01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:05,040
Speaker 1: and compliment or touch it and say some shit like girl,

1769
01:23:05,080 --> 01:23:07,720
Speaker 1: I had to like, no, don't touch me. I had

1770
01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:09,920
Speaker 1: a girl literally wants to fight me in Miami after

1771
01:23:09,960 --> 01:23:12,080
Speaker 1: I dodged the feel and told her don't touch me.

1772
01:23:12,400 --> 01:23:14,639
Speaker 1: Do you guys go with it if the girl seems

1773
01:23:14,640 --> 01:23:17,120
Speaker 1: friendly or does it feel like a violation for me?

1774
01:23:17,160 --> 01:23:19,280
Speaker 1: It's no different than it for men or woman? Does it?

1775
01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:21,519
Speaker 1: I don't know you. If I don't know you, don't

1776
01:23:21,560 --> 01:23:25,320
Speaker 1: touch me? Just curious love the show girl. I ain't

1777
01:23:25,320 --> 01:23:27,160
Speaker 1: gonna lie that's like what sit, No happened to me?

1778
01:23:27,200 --> 01:23:28,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I'll be having a wrist in bitch face.

1779
01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:30,000
Speaker 2: People know, don't touch me.

1780
01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:33,240
Speaker 1: You know it's crazy. I have always went through this,

1781
01:23:33,320 --> 01:23:35,120
Speaker 1: I guess cause my boobs were I used to go

1782
01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 1: this on my boobs a lot. It's crazy because remember John,

1783
01:23:38,240 --> 01:23:40,360
Speaker 1: our friend John, John is the one who originally got

1784
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:43,599
Speaker 1: us our first mics when we first started Poor Mind shout.

1785
01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:44,120
Speaker 2: Out to John.

1786
01:23:45,600 --> 01:23:47,200
Speaker 1: And I remember me and him were going to eat

1787
01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:51,000
Speaker 1: one time and we're walking through the parking lot going

1788
01:23:51,040 --> 01:23:53,280
Speaker 1: into the restaurant and a girl just watched. She's like,

1789
01:23:53,280 --> 01:23:54,559
Speaker 1: oh my god, you are so pretty.

1790
01:23:54,600 --> 01:23:55,519
Speaker 2: Are your boobs real?

1791
01:23:55,600 --> 01:23:56,880
Speaker 1: And I was like yeah. She was like, can I

1792
01:23:56,920 --> 01:24:00,240
Speaker 1: touch them? I was like, no, that's still sexual. Harassm me.

1793
01:24:00,800 --> 01:24:03,760
Speaker 1: No matter how you No, no, she asked. She was like,

1794
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:05,880
Speaker 1: can I touch them? I was like, no, Well that's different.

1795
01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:08,320
Speaker 3: Ask no. But what I'm saying is why would you

1796
01:24:08,360 --> 01:24:09,120
Speaker 3: feel comfortable?

1797
01:24:09,120 --> 01:24:11,759
Speaker 1: That's still weird. You don't walk up to a stranger

1798
01:24:11,760 --> 01:24:13,880
Speaker 1: and ask them if I if you can touch them?

1799
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:16,719
Speaker 1: I didn't. I mean, at least at least, she asked.

1800
01:24:16,800 --> 01:24:19,559
Speaker 1: But I feel like women and women get too comfortable

1801
01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:22,680
Speaker 1: with that shit. No. Yeah, but what that again? With

1802
01:24:22,760 --> 01:24:25,559
Speaker 1: that situation, I can appreciate at least she at least,

1803
01:24:25,560 --> 01:24:27,639
Speaker 1: she asked, But why did you feel talking about people

1804
01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:31,760
Speaker 1: just growing? Nora? I feel like it's all wrong at

1805
01:24:31,760 --> 01:24:33,200
Speaker 1: the end of the day, because I would never walk

1806
01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:34,920
Speaker 1: up to a complete stranger and be like, hey, can

1807
01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:37,000
Speaker 1: I touch on you because even though.

1808
01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:39,080
Speaker 3: You I think we people don't really have somebody.

1809
01:24:39,479 --> 01:24:42,759
Speaker 1: I get it though, because sometimes people might say, yes,

1810
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:44,360
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like when I first got

1811
01:24:44,360 --> 01:24:46,880
Speaker 1: my boobs done. I remember when we worked at the

1812
01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:49,439
Speaker 1: club that we worked at, Like it was girls who

1813
01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:51,000
Speaker 1: worked at the club, but this too would be like,

1814
01:24:51,080 --> 01:24:53,200
Speaker 1: oh can I because they were thinking about getting able,

1815
01:24:53,880 --> 01:24:56,679
Speaker 1: like can I touch your tds? Like? And I was like, yeah,

1816
01:24:56,720 --> 01:24:59,200
Speaker 1: because I know you, I'm cool with it. But I

1817
01:24:59,200 --> 01:25:02,040
Speaker 1: don't think anything is wrong with asking because you'll be surprised.

1818
01:25:02,080 --> 01:25:04,800
Speaker 1: Sometimes a person might say, I feel what you're saying.

1819
01:25:04,800 --> 01:25:07,080
Speaker 1: But I think people don't realize the spectrum of what

1820
01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:09,760
Speaker 1: sexual harassment is. I think we've been trained to think

1821
01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:12,600
Speaker 1: that sexual harassment is just when you physically touch somebody.

1822
01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:17,040
Speaker 1: Sexual harassment is when you feel harassed sexually. So even

1823
01:25:17,080 --> 01:25:19,639
Speaker 1: though you're okay with it and somebody might say yes,

1824
01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:22,920
Speaker 1: if I say something sexual to you and you don't

1825
01:25:23,000 --> 01:25:26,679
Speaker 1: like it, I'm harassing you. That's what harassment is. Harassment

1826
01:25:26,720 --> 01:25:29,639
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be me physically touching you. That's all

1827
01:25:29,680 --> 01:25:31,840
Speaker 1: that I'm saying. I mean, I get what you're saying,

1828
01:25:31,840 --> 01:25:33,800
Speaker 1: but to me, when I think of harassment. I think

1829
01:25:33,840 --> 01:25:37,200
Speaker 1: of you like egging the issue on, Like you keep

1830
01:25:37,240 --> 01:25:39,960
Speaker 1: pressing and if you ask me a question and I

1831
01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:41,800
Speaker 1: say no, when you go about your besiness, then I'll

1832
01:25:41,840 --> 01:25:43,640
Speaker 1: go about my basins. To me, that's not harassing me.

1833
01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:45,400
Speaker 1: You just ask me a question. I mean, but that's

1834
01:25:45,400 --> 01:25:49,280
Speaker 1: not the definition of harassment. If you feel uncomfortable, that's harassing.

1835
01:25:49,360 --> 01:25:51,519
Speaker 1: Not because you know what I'm saying, I keep on going.

1836
01:25:51,560 --> 01:25:55,320
Speaker 1: But either way, Yeah, I just feel like I've never

1837
01:25:55,360 --> 01:25:57,360
Speaker 1: had that happen to me before. But I would just

1838
01:25:57,520 --> 01:26:00,400
Speaker 1: tell people like, no, I don't like this, you feel

1839
01:26:00,400 --> 01:26:02,160
Speaker 1: bad about it, and you shouldn't feel bad about it

1840
01:26:02,160 --> 01:26:04,120
Speaker 1: because nobody has the right to touch you, if anything.

1841
01:26:04,160 --> 01:26:05,479
Speaker 1: When I used to work in the club, I used

1842
01:26:05,479 --> 01:26:08,160
Speaker 1: to have issues with like men doing anything, yeah, trying

1843
01:26:08,160 --> 01:26:09,800
Speaker 1: to do stuff like that, but like for me to

1844
01:26:09,960 --> 01:26:12,240
Speaker 1: just be out, even with men, like to just be

1845
01:26:12,360 --> 01:26:14,880
Speaker 1: out and about living my life and somebody just grabbed

1846
01:26:14,920 --> 01:26:17,559
Speaker 1: my ass or grab my TDS, Like, nah, I never

1847
01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:19,400
Speaker 1: really had that type of stuff happened to me. But

1848
01:26:19,439 --> 01:26:23,960
Speaker 1: I think that that sounds very frustrating and you just

1849
01:26:24,000 --> 01:26:28,559
Speaker 1: need to start sitting boundaries with people. When we were

1850
01:26:28,560 --> 01:26:31,600
Speaker 1: in Miami, security is around it, y'all would cause securities

1851
01:26:32,200 --> 01:26:35,960
Speaker 1: because nobody has the right to growth period upset when

1852
01:26:35,960 --> 01:26:38,679
Speaker 1: you want to defend yourself and defend your personal space.

1853
01:26:38,960 --> 01:26:40,759
Speaker 1: Do you remember we were in Miami for your birthday

1854
01:26:40,760 --> 01:26:44,120
Speaker 1: at that hookah lounge and that guy like grabbed my

1855
01:26:44,280 --> 01:26:47,040
Speaker 1: butt and it was y'all, he grabbed my butt so

1856
01:26:47,080 --> 01:26:48,799
Speaker 1: hard he did there picked me up off the ground.

1857
01:26:49,200 --> 01:26:52,280
Speaker 1: I was so shocked, like it just be weird. So

1858
01:26:52,360 --> 01:26:55,719
Speaker 1: but like I said, I don't care man, woman, don't

1859
01:26:55,760 --> 01:26:58,840
Speaker 1: fucking touch me. I don't like to be touched. So girl,

1860
01:26:58,920 --> 01:27:01,200
Speaker 1: you aren't wrong. I feel like people just need to

1861
01:27:01,240 --> 01:27:03,280
Speaker 1: keep their hands to theirself. Don't ask me if you

1862
01:27:03,320 --> 01:27:05,719
Speaker 1: can touch me. I don't want none of that stuff.

1863
01:27:05,720 --> 01:27:08,559
Speaker 1: If you're a stranger, don't touch me period. Like unless

1864
01:27:08,560 --> 01:27:10,439
Speaker 1: we have to meet and greet, you know, we can cool,

1865
01:27:10,479 --> 01:27:12,000
Speaker 1: we can have a little hug, but other than that.

1866
01:27:11,920 --> 01:27:13,880
Speaker 3: Don't touch me. I'm big on that though.

1867
01:27:14,080 --> 01:27:17,000
Speaker 1: I don't like being touched and I don't like feeling uncomfortable.

1868
01:27:17,439 --> 01:27:21,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, girl, you're not wrong. People be weird though. Okay,

1869
01:27:23,080 --> 01:27:24,240
Speaker 1: what else we got? Girl?

1870
01:27:24,600 --> 01:27:24,960
Speaker 2: That's it?

1871
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:26,360
Speaker 1: That's it.

1872
01:27:26,640 --> 01:27:28,040
Speaker 2: Yep, that's the last question.

1873
01:27:28,280 --> 01:27:30,320
Speaker 1: M you know what it's time to sing.

1874
01:27:31,080 --> 01:27:31,479
Speaker 2: I do not.

1875
01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:33,360
Speaker 1: You want to pick the song?

1876
01:27:33,400 --> 01:27:33,960
Speaker 3: You want me to pick?

1877
01:27:33,960 --> 01:27:37,439
Speaker 2: You don't, and you should have asked me earlier.

1878
01:27:37,600 --> 01:27:39,799
Speaker 1: I forgot Okay.

1879
01:27:39,600 --> 01:27:41,120
Speaker 3: We're gonna do this song? I got one, I got one,

1880
01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:43,080
Speaker 3: I got one? Okay, I got one.

1881
01:27:44,120 --> 01:27:47,120
Speaker 2: I think we sung this before we did Yes, were

1882
01:27:47,120 --> 01:27:51,320
Speaker 2: about to sing it again? Why why not? Because we

1883
01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:52,360
Speaker 2: already sung it before?

1884
01:27:52,680 --> 01:27:53,639
Speaker 1: They gonna get it again?

1885
01:27:53,920 --> 01:28:00,320
Speaker 5: Doing Max sing a really dumb care with people will

1886
01:28:00,360 --> 01:28:05,799
Speaker 5: sever at us some some I think dreaming. I preached

1887
01:28:05,960 --> 01:28:10,679
Speaker 5: myself just to see if I'm awake and is it real?

1888
01:28:11,800 --> 01:28:16,000
Speaker 1: What a few? Could it be? You and me until

1889
01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:22,799
Speaker 1: the end? And take my heart? Hold it time issue.

1890
01:28:27,040 --> 01:28:31,639
Speaker 1: I gotta be on one se Oh baby, I gotta

1891
01:28:31,640 --> 01:28:35,760
Speaker 1: be it. Don't want me? Oh, I gotta bean. You

1892
01:28:35,800 --> 01:28:39,680
Speaker 1: don't want your baby. I gotta be.

1893
01:28:39,760 --> 01:28:40,960
Speaker 3: You don't want your trouble.

1894
01:28:41,760 --> 01:28:44,960
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, shout out the jacket edge. You know what.

1895
01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:47,880
Speaker 1: See y'all next week