WEBVTT - You've Been Naughty 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:23.200 What's up y'all? 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:25.759 Is your girl lex p And it's your girl Drey in. 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:28.360 The call and you are tuning in to another episode 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:33.240 of poor Mind. So ho ho ooh remis, we ain't 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:37.640 got no guests today. We walk down up Gil and slay. 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:42.560 Oh oh okay, you know that was cute, but yes, 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:46.240 we're a drunk. Mine speaks sober thought. All right, now, 0:00:47.040 --> 0:00:48.280 let's get the party start. 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:52.800 Let's get this party started, y'all. Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas, 0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:57.720 my Christmas episode. You know, everything is Christmas today, and 0:00:57.840 --> 0:01:00.920 I have to start with these I did not have. 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:03.280 I don't know. I ain't never seen that dress in 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:03.720 my life. 0:01:03.840 --> 0:01:07.640 Monie mine either, but mine is eating down. Look at 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:09.920 the little Christmas Ornament's only. 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:14.600 It's like and then your booty peeking out, your booty 0:01:14.640 --> 0:01:15.560 peeking out a little bit. 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:17.880 What one thing he's gonna do is that thing be poked? 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:20.360 One thing Hobby does the food with the AI do. 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:22.680 I got on my stana belt. 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:25.160 This is cute. It's cute. 0:01:25.400 --> 0:01:29.679 It's cute. So it's Christmas time. 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:30.760 How are you like? 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:32.600 I forgot I wasn't suposed to turn to the bag. 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:36.360 All right, they're gonna be like Mack on my head. Okay, 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:37.679 let me ask you. 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:38.680 This about to see all that. 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:41.840 Are you in the Christmas spirits you are? 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:43.160 Did you decorate your house? 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:44.240 You got a tree? What's up? 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:46.720 I am in the Christmas spirit this year, but no, 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:49.040 I didn't decorate. I just have a wreath on my 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:53.040 door because I didn't have time to put up my 0:01:53.120 --> 0:01:54.800 Christmas tree because I've been moving. 0:01:56.080 --> 0:01:58.360 So yeah, I just thought you've always had a wreath 0:01:58.480 --> 0:01:58.960 on your door. 0:01:59.600 --> 0:01:59.840 Huh. 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:02.080 I thought you've always had a reef on your door. 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:03.520 Well it's I put. 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:05.080 It up for Christmas, but I just lift it up 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:06.919 year round because it was a neutral color. 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:08.640 And that's how I'm saying. It's nice. 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:11.480 Yeah, but it's it's a Christmas wreath. Oh oh, I 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:14.040 didn't know that, but yeah, so I put it back 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:16.640 up on my new door. I know that's right, but 0:02:17.240 --> 0:02:19.200 I don't. I did not put my Christmas tree up 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:21.720 this year, y'all. And I'm like very much a Christmas person, 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:23.280 like I always put my Christmas tree up. 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:24.760 So I'm kind of sad about it. 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:27.000 But I just don't see your point because I'm going 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:30.400 home this year for Christmas, and then I just got 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:32.520 settled into my place and I'm literally leaving. 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:35.400 Yeah, so yeah, that makes I'm not. 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:37.400 Even gonna get to enjoy it because by the time 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:41.000 I come back, it'll be like a few days before 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:44.480 New Year's and then I'm one of them people. I 0:02:44.560 --> 0:02:46.400 like to have my tree down in January. You know 0:02:46.440 --> 0:02:48.959 people be leaving theirs up for Valentine's Day. 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:51.000 Well, you're supposed to leave it up for New Year's 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:53.440 and then after you're just supposed to take everything down. 0:02:53.600 --> 0:02:56.960 Yeah, yeah, so you can have the lights. 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:56.840 You know. 0:02:57.560 --> 0:02:59.800 And that's how it always was in my family growing up, 0:02:59.880 --> 0:03:01.800 Like me and my mom and my dad will always 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:06.359 take the tree down like after New Year's. But some 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:08.959 people be leaving are in like February, and they'll be 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:10.640 making it like a Valentine's tree. 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:15.040 That's tacky, that's tech. I think it's so tacky. I 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:18.399 like when people actually have those nice homes and decorate 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:22.160 them for each holiday, but don't try to carry over 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:24.280 your decorations for each holiday. 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:25.560 I agree, Like, if. 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:26.840 You don't do it, you gotta be one of the 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:30.880 day girls. What's the day girl? The Light Skinned Girl. 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:32.040 She's been on. 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:34.480 YouTube for years and she used to do like makeup, 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:37.760 but now she does all dall wa stuff. She's so good, 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:41.200 like she has to deal with like home depot. Oh 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:43.320 my gosh, I cannot think of her name. I have 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:44.640 to look up her name because I really want to 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:47.480 shot her out because she's so cute and I used 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:49.280 to watch her videos all the time. 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:52.200 But I'm getting a little bougie, I fear, What do 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:56.160 you mean? Because yeah, it's given. I'm not pleading no 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:57.480 Christmas tree up and taking it. 0:03:57.440 --> 0:04:00.960 Down, no mo so whatever, I think I'm. 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:02.920 About to hire start hiring somebody to come do my 0:04:03.000 --> 0:04:07.720 Christmas tree, okay, starting next year. Yeah, I think I'm 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:09.680 gonna start hiring somebody because I'm not gonna lie. That'd 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:12.920 be the thing too, like last year, I will right sorry. 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:15.840 Raven Elise Oh okay, raven Alise. 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:17.800 Is so oh she's so good. 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:18.080 Yeah. 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:20.240 I just had to get her name because I feel 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:22.200 like our platform is a little two bigs and I'll 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:25.480 be giving people. Yeah, so Raven Alist she has good 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:28.600 d y'all WI for the black girlies everybody, but she's 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:30.359 a I love when the black women be doing that. 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:32.320 So that's yeah, so go here. 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:34.640 I love that too. I love people who are like 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:37.960 super creative. Like I think I'm a creative person, but 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:39.719 I just don't be wanting to execute. 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:42.520 I rather hire. Okay, but I got the idea. 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:44.400 But this is what I want you to do, right, right, 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:47.279 But I just don't be having a patience. But like 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:49.240 I was saying, I'm gonna keep it real with you. 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:52.280 Last year, I probably kept my tree up till like 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:53.920 the end of January. 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:56.800 Okay, in a January, not bad, but that's the little 0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:57.400 was about to say. 0:04:57.600 --> 0:05:00.680 Watch, no, no, no, no, I it ain't no way. 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:04.680 It's springtime and the pollend is out and I still 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:04.960 have my. 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:07.280 You know, people be frost in the tree white if 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:10.560 your tree turn yellow from the Poland, bitch, take that 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:11.200 shit down. 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:13.480 Ain't no way to Poland. And the bees is out 0:05:13.680 --> 0:05:15.200 and my tree still it is. 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:16.719 But people be doing that. 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:19.240 But see to me, end of January, that's a little 0:05:19.279 --> 0:05:21.920 ode to have your Christmas tree still love You don't 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:22.240 think so? 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:25.039 Well, I do think so. But I also think it's 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.880 easier when you have help. So like if you have 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:30.960 like a roommate, or you live with family, or you 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:34.239 live with your partner, y'all can help each other put up. 0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:37.000 It's a family event. Y'all can help each other put 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:39.599 down and decorate. You know what I'm saying, It's like 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:42.800 a family act. I'm not gonna lie like I never 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:45.240 decorate my house for Christmas. I was going to do 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:47.240 it this year, you were. I was like, I really 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:48.960 want to get in the move. But honestly, like, I 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:51.000 haven't decided what I'm doing for Christmas. I'm either gonna 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:55.440 stay here with that man or I'm gonna go home 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:59.560 with my family. I haven't seen it yet. We're trying 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:02.640 to make it a very fucking Christmas bench. I hear you. 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:04.599 You the one said you were single on the show. 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:08.200 Now look, I Harvey to take it out. Now, we 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.920 gotta take it out again. I don't know what I 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:15.320 am to tell the truth, I was like, that's why 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:17.560 it's funny. I said, I'm done, I'm through. I'm through, 0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:20.960 And then events seeing me, she said, oh hey girl, I. 0:06:20.920 --> 0:06:26.400 Said, I already be knowing that's you said that. I look, 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:29.760 I don't thin eyed you from the couch. I want 0:06:29.760 --> 0:06:32.720 to play, but yeah, I feel you. Maybe you'll do 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:33.279 it next year. 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:36.839 You know what, I'll say this I am, but like 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:40.800 I feel like, honestly, next year, I'm gonna be living up. 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:44.000 I am getting. I'm getting in my family bag next year. 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:47.000 I don't know who if it's you know, I don't 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.320 I'm not saying with who or whatever. I don't know, 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:52.400 but I'm gonna be in a home next year too, 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.600 Like I think once I get in the home, I'll 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:57.800 be more in the spirit, because I definitely want to 0:06:57.839 --> 0:07:00.640 start hosting, Like I want to be the person where 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:03.880 everybody comes to Atlanta come stay with me, and you know, 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:05.719 like I want to do that, and I feel like 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:09.000 I'm so I'm setting up my twenty twenty five to 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:11.800 be so good, Like I'm gonna put myself in the 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:15.240 position to be hosting Christmas next year for like my family, 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:17.480 my friends, whoever wants to come, because I do want 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:19.720 to do that because my mom used to do that, 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:22.520 so I really really want to do that. So I'm like, Okay, 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:24.360 I'm gonna be in the home next year, hopefully with 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:27.280 my family, and you know, my other family can come 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:31.080 in and we can have a time. But you know, 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:34.400 we gonna see how these holidays go. You know, the 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:37.520 holidays be a tricky time. Then everybody be announcing you'd 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:39.440 be fining out I didn't even know how these people 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:43.360 had girlfriends, boyfriends. They posting in the matching pajamas. You're 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:45.800 gonna be posting matching pajamas this year? Who me? 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:48.720 Yeah, I'm not posting a man until I'm engaged. 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:51.640 Okay. Well, are y'all gonna be in matching pajamas? 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:52.680 Possibly? 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:56.720 Okay, but I'm not posting a man on my social 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:59.560 media until I'm engaged, even when I'm pregnant. 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:02.800 Well, and I get pregnant before i'm age, I'm gonna 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:04.680 cut his head off. The pictures, well. 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:06.920 I don't mean like you don't have to post on socials, 0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:10.239 but a lot of times, like people will take pictures 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:11.840 and they don't post them. They'll post them like either 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:15.080 in their close friends and they're just for them for memories. Oh, 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.800 are y'all gonna take pictures in pajamas? 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:18.960 Yeah, but I probably still won't posting on my close 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:21.000 friends because I mean, it's still people in my close 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.440 friends that I just feel like, you know, but. 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:25.760 It'll be for you, but you gonna, yeah, y'all gonna 0:08:25.800 --> 0:08:26.960 take pictures, it'll just be. 0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:27.920 For you and your memory. 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:28.760 I don't know. 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.840 The weird thing about close friends is I just feeling like, 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:35.839 are these really your close friends, like sixty people? Cause 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:37.800 I got like sixty people in my close friends. Now 0:08:37.840 --> 0:08:41.400 I do know everybody and have met everybody in person, 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:44.800 but I don't know you like that. You might screeze 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:47.280 trying to show your friends you already have a life. 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:50.240 And then once I started posting, yeah, you used to 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.200 have a lot of people, and then I literally it's 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:53.160 like thirty people in there. 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:54.800 Now it's like nobody in there. 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:57.000 But I never posted my close friends, to be honest, 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:58.920 So I don't see why I still doing any for Christians. 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:02.640 Yeah, okay, that makes sense. That makes sense. So speaking 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:05.000 of since we're on the topic of Christmas, can I 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:07.800 tell y'all saw I just found out. Can now need 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:11.120 y'all to say, we listen and we don't judge. 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:16.520 We might judge, come on, depends on what it is. 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:19.600 We gotta get in the spirit. Say we listen and 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:23.040 we don't judge. Y'all say it, we listen and we 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:27.199 don't judge. Thank you. Okay, so we a little bit 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:29.360 we do me judge and little God I don't care 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:32.720 because I still be talking that. Okay, Okay, So y'all 0:09:32.760 --> 0:09:34.920 know the song I saw Mama kissing Santa Claus or whatever. 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:38.439 Like, growing up, I never liked that song. 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:40.920 Because it made me feel uncomfortable because I was just like, 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:45.280 the mother is a whore? How dare you? Like? What 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:48.040 are you doing? I didn't know the purpose of the 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:51.319 song was the daddy was dressing up as Santa. 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:56.280 The tea was hot. I did not know that. I 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:58.240 said that, now that's. 0:09:58.040 --> 0:10:00.400 Some good tea. I said, who wrote that? Cause you 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:03.320 created with it? You got in your Santa bag on 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:06.320 that shit. Because me, I was mad, I was like, 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:09.640 what a whore? How did you know that word? What? 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:13.040 When I was little? I didn't know that word then? 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:14.920 But like growing up, I just did not like the 0:10:14.960 --> 0:10:17.880 song because I was like, in my head, I'm like 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:23.000 Santa's cheating on Missus Claus and the mama cheating on 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:25.400 the daddy, like cause I thought saying, I mean, obviously, 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:28.040 at this point, I thought Santa was real. So as 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:30.640 I got older, I just never paid attention to the 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:34.160 song anymore. Yeah, and then I saw something on TIK 0:10:34.240 --> 0:10:35.840 like somebody had made a skit, like you know how 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:38.320 they be doing the skits and being funny, and you know, 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:40.160 they were like they had their little kid in it. 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:41.400 They were trying to be cute and like. 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:44.000 I saw Mama kiss and Santa Claus and then turn 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:45.640 around it was his dad. He was like, oh my god. 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:49.000 I was like, oh, this is so good. I said 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:51.880 this was really good, and that that's what it meant 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:52.360 the whole time. 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:55.120 Yeah, I figured that I didn't know that. 0:10:55.679 --> 0:10:56.600 Yeah, I mean. 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:00.880 All of our daddies was Santa Claus didn't have no daddy. 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:03.840 That's why I got damn it. I didn't know I 0:11:03.880 --> 0:11:08.199 didn't have no daddy. I was growing up that I 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:10.320 don't give up. Only Santas I knew, was at the 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:13.440 mall old at Nigga. I ain't know Santa was supposed 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:13.679 to be. 0:11:13.640 --> 0:11:20.000 Your daddy, bitch girl, good vine, Oh my god, oh 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:20.600 my goodness. 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:22.680 This is why we didn't have a home. You did 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:26.960 have an uncle or nothing. So who did you think 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:27.600 Santa was? 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.280 Then in the mall, the white man. 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:32.720 I really thought Santa was just like I didn't know 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:36.600 people's father's dressed up as Santa. I really thought was 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:38.640 like coming in my house. I ain't know my mama 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:40.920 was doing all that. Yeah, and then my mom never 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:44.360 brought men around, yeah, like never, So it was never like, 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:46.400 oh this mama friend. 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:47.920 You never had no Uncle Leroy. 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:53.560 No. No, my mom dated one guy from like when 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:57.079 I was like young, like very young, like pre k 0:11:57.640 --> 0:11:59.840 until I was in like fourth or fifth grade and 0:11:59.880 --> 0:12:02.040 like but when they broke up the but he never 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:04.920 like dressed up like Santa Claus or did none of that. 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:08.640 You never called him uncle doll or you called him mister. 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:10.199 No, he had a nickname. 0:12:10.240 --> 0:12:11.240 I would I can't see. 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:18.640 In orange, you know orange. But no, I used to 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:20.480 call him by his nickname. I used to call him 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:23.640 by his nickname. So it was and my sister hated 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:27.600 him kids bad. I used to lock him out the house. 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:31.640 You know what my sister made me do one time. 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:34.560 So we used to have this playroom upstairs, right, So 0:12:35.240 --> 0:12:37.840 we had my room, my sister's room, then we had 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:39.199 the guest room, and then we had a loft. 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:41.600 It was our playroom. She made me sit there with 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:42.360 her right. 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:45.760 And it had a step up and it was carpet, 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:47.920 and we sat there and we put bobby pins in 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:52.240 the floor one by one, and she was like, scream, scream, 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:57.520 and so she was like screaming, call his name. So 0:12:57.640 --> 0:13:00.000 I screamed and I called his name. He came running upstairs. 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:03.480 He stepped on them bobby pins. Bruh, barefoot barefoot. 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:05.959 Oh they was fucking with each other real, So why 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:07.439 he was barefoot in the house. 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:09.400 I mean he used to be at the house. 0:13:10.120 --> 0:13:12.920 But my sister was like not playing, like she was 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:13.720 so bad. 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.559 Like when I think about that, y'all did miss the 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:17.439 Leroy wrong. 0:13:17.520 --> 0:13:20.160 We did miss Leroy wrong. We did locked him out 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:22.240 the house like it was so much stuff we used 0:13:22.240 --> 0:13:24.240 to do. And when I think about that as an 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:27.080 adult now, like if any guy I dated, like their 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:28.040 kids did that to. 0:13:27.960 --> 0:13:29.560 Me, I'm not coming back. 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.199 Imagine you just like running up the stairs because you 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:34.280 think something wrong and then you step on a whole 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:35.319 bunch of bobby pins. 0:13:36.720 --> 0:13:40.360 I will come back. I will come back, But I'm 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:42.360 a hot day toy girl. 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:44.040 Bad kids are bad. 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:46.280 Kids kids are bad. 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:48.079 But I feel like I feel like some kids, you 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:49.040 gotta play the game. 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:52.679 I'm not playing no game. I'm not doing that. 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:54.840 You gotta play that game with some of the kids. 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:56.920 What you gonna do back to a kid? I told 0:13:56.960 --> 0:13:58.160 you I'm the toys. 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:04.160 I can't do that with I can't you. 0:14:04.080 --> 0:14:06.440 Couldn't do that with I was about to look. 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:11.600 Oh oh yeah, I mean terrorists kids are funny like 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:13.760 because the thing is, I think we talked about these 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:16.679 on another episode, the thing about children, which I think 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:19.200 is a good way to discipline children. In my opinion, 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:21.800 you have to do back to them what they do 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:24.280 to you. Maybe not the exact same thing, because who's 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:26.320 gonna put bobby pins down for a child. 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:26.760 To step on? 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:30.840 But like you think that's funny, Okay, I'm gonna hide 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:33.320 your toy. Yeah, like how I said, when I was younger, 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:35.960 my mom, I used to bite people and until one 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:37.080 day my mom beat me. 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:38.920 You did look like you used to bite people. 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:40.920 No I did it, y'all. I did not have silver tea. 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:43.400 No I didn't say you had silver teeth. It's not okay, So, 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:45.800 and I think that's who looked like. But it's not 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:49.200 about it's just like you looked bad. I didn't look bad, 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:51.280 Yes you did. You were a very cute child, but 0:14:51.320 --> 0:14:53.840 you looked bad. You know they have this thing right 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:55.000 now where they call them low en. 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:56.360 How do you look bad? 0:14:57.200 --> 0:14:59.320 I'm telling you. So, they have this thing on TikTok 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:02.680 right now, y'all, i'd be scrolling. They call it low 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:05.680 income eyes. Right, So they say it's like a certain 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:08.080 look that certain white girls have and they just look 0:15:08.160 --> 0:15:11.400 like they low income from the trailer park. So what's 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:15.120 the girl's name that played on that movie Hustle and Flow. Yeah, 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:17.360 she was on Oranges and New Black, Orange is the 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:20.320 new Black. She's a great actress, alist actress. But they 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:23.160 say she got that that's why she always plays them roles. 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:25.560 They say, it's like, oh, it's just a certain type 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:28.880 of look and you cannot escape it, Like that's just 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:31.240 what you look like. I think certain kids, you just 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:35.200 look at them and they look bad. Penny looks bad. 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:37.000 He is bad. 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:39.720 He looks bad. He just got They just got a 0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:43.000 certain look in their eyes when they smile. It's something 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:45.800 in them eyes. I don't know what it is. 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:49.560 Well, I can confirm I was very bad, Yeah, but 0:15:50.040 --> 0:15:51.800 you know, I don't know. I think some kids that's 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:53.800 how you discipline them. Now, you gotta do back to 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:56.800 them this shit like yeah, cause when my mam wa beat. 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:57.760 Me, I'll stop biting people. 0:15:59.280 --> 0:15:59.480 More. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:01.920 So you want to put Bobby Pans down. I'm a 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:03.920 high joe too. So let me ask you this though, 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:06.360 But do you believe in not giving up. 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:08.720 If the kid has been bad all year, they're doing 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:11.400 bad in school, they acting up, cutting up. Do you 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:14.000 believe in not giving them Christmas presents? 0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:17.360 I would probably still give my kid at least one 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:18.240 Christmas present. 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:19.720 I think. I think I'm not. 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:21.680 Gonna go all out for you if you've been cutting 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:22.640 up in school here or. 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:23.960 Not, because you don't deserve that. 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:28.800 Okay, you don't deserve a grand Christmas, a grand Christmas. 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:30.920 You deserve the bare minimum. Like your ass was doing 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:31.400 in school. 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:34.560 You won't see that. That's one thing about you. You're 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:35.920 gonna be eating your kids up. 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:39.400 I am, because why are you playing with me? 0:16:40.200 --> 0:16:41.080 Why are you playing with me? 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:43.360 All you gotta do is go to school. All you 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:47.560 gotta do is study, go to school. That's all you 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:48.600 gotta do as a kid. 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:49.440 That's it. 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:53.080 You really don't have that many tasks. You really don't. 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:57.000 So to me, it's like, and if you have a 0:16:57.120 --> 0:16:59.320 learning issue, let me know. 0:17:01.680 --> 0:17:04.520 If you have any type of learning disability, well you 0:17:04.520 --> 0:17:08.400 wouldn't nobody in but no. Sometimes people find out later 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:09.120 down the line that. 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:11.840 Their kids be dyslexik and stuff like that, or your 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:14.080 child just may not be that great at math. It 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:16.080 might not even be anything wrong with them. They just 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:18.919 need a little extra help. They need a little extra. 0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:23.240 Helping doing yeah, doing bad in school and just being bad. Yeah. Yeah. 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:25.879 But it's like if you, yeah, if you need a 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:29.320 little help with your extra curriculars, let me know, we 0:17:29.359 --> 0:17:31.600 can get a tutor. But if y'all answer just cutting 0:17:31.640 --> 0:17:35.120 up in school, like going to detention every day, you're 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:37.000 getting one gift gift. 0:17:38.920 --> 0:17:41.879 If your kid being bad all year, you're getting a 0:17:41.920 --> 0:17:43.919 lump of cold, a lump of cold. 0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:52.760 They can't get one gift all year. No, not even'll 0:17:52.760 --> 0:17:54.160 be away from whooping kids. 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:55.960 So this is a nice. 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:56.560 Little let's see. 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:57.359 That's what I'm saying. 0:17:57.520 --> 0:17:59.800 You're not getting whoopings, and I'm showing you and you 0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:02.080 feel if you've been cutting up all year. I do 0:18:02.200 --> 0:18:07.520 believe that. Honestly, Christmas, Birthdays, all these things are earned. 0:18:08.440 --> 0:18:11.479 You gotta show because what do we say about Santa. 0:18:11.960 --> 0:18:14.960 You're naughty like you're nice, hole ad nigga, you've been naughty. 0:18:15.720 --> 0:18:19.920 You're being naughty. I'm telling you one thing I do, 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:22.399 this is what I do the kids, especially because I do, 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:25.680 you're naughty. 0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:30.240 Not I don't think that's how Santa says it. 0:18:30.400 --> 0:18:31.360 But this is what I do. 0:18:31.480 --> 0:18:35.160 I promise and it I do this to my nephews. 0:18:35.680 --> 0:18:36.560 I do this to like. 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:39.480 If I'm dating a guy, he got kids back. Mean 0:18:39.520 --> 0:18:41.159 when they start asking the um, I'm like, I'm calling 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:43.840 Sanna and you're not getting nothing, and may. 0:18:43.760 --> 0:18:50.199 Be it did, it's gone. It feel that's because it was. 0:18:51.000 --> 0:18:53.480 It's getting sad because I'm talking about them bad ass eat. 0:18:54.200 --> 0:18:57.800 Y'all got the call. Y'all got the call Santa, and 0:18:57.840 --> 0:19:00.439 you know they got the oh the YouTube videos, so 0:19:00.480 --> 0:19:03.120 it sounds like Santa picking up the phone and I'll 0:19:03.160 --> 0:19:04.960 be like, oh, who he answered, And then I'll and 0:19:05.000 --> 0:19:09.720 I'll get it off YouTube and I'll be like Santa. 0:19:08.600 --> 0:19:11.560 Yep, I don't think she need a gift either, and. 0:19:13.840 --> 0:19:17.159 Yeah, sit y'all at and but you gotta call Santa 0:19:17.280 --> 0:19:19.840 year round. See, y'all only want to play the Santa 0:19:19.920 --> 0:19:23.359 game when it starts getting cold. You gotta play Santa 0:19:23.480 --> 0:19:27.360 year round. So when the Christmas do come around, you 0:19:27.440 --> 0:19:31.080 already know you're not getting no gifts. So this ain't 0:19:31.119 --> 0:19:31.800 no surprise. 0:19:32.280 --> 0:19:34.399 I just don't want to hurt my kid feelings like that. 0:19:34.560 --> 0:19:36.840 Maybe I'm gonna just be a little softy because I'm like, damn, 0:19:36.880 --> 0:19:39.840 he need at least here or she need at least 0:19:40.280 --> 0:19:40.680 be good. 0:19:40.720 --> 0:19:42.800 What if it's some clo what about clothes, y'all? 0:19:43.040 --> 0:19:44.040 Little stuff like that. 0:19:44.280 --> 0:19:46.160 I think kids should have a good time at Christmas. 0:19:46.240 --> 0:19:47.720 Now they should have a good time. 0:19:47.880 --> 0:19:50.440 But I also want to teach my kids. 0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:53.960 The purpose of Christmas because I feel like growing up, 0:19:54.040 --> 0:19:56.600 Oh my god, I love Christmas. 0:19:57.800 --> 0:20:01.600 My family would come in town, we having a feast. 0:20:02.240 --> 0:20:05.880 Christmas is about family, It's about love and. 0:20:07.520 --> 0:20:10.439 Christmas without the one ange love. 0:20:11.040 --> 0:20:13.560 Okay, you heard the harmony. I heard. I've been working 0:20:13.560 --> 0:20:18.320 on it. I feel like, let's now. I feel like 0:20:18.359 --> 0:20:20.720 for the adults, we can do expensive, nice gifts, but 0:20:21.240 --> 0:20:24.760 let's get back to sentimental gifts too. When I think 0:20:24.800 --> 0:20:26.960 about all the gifts I've gotten in the past from 0:20:26.960 --> 0:20:29.480 like men, Don't get me wrong, I have a beautiful 0:20:29.520 --> 0:20:32.720 closet filled with beautiful things. But you know what's crazy. 0:20:33.040 --> 0:20:36.159 When I think about people, I think about the sentimental 0:20:36.160 --> 0:20:40.360 things that they got me, always, always, So I feel 0:20:40.400 --> 0:20:43.560 like we need to get back to talking to people, 0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:47.840 understanding what they want, what they like. Like, Don't get 0:20:47.840 --> 0:20:51.360 me wrong, the girls still want bags and shoes and diamonds, 0:20:51.359 --> 0:20:54.280 and cars, y'all do that. But if you can do that, 0:20:54.520 --> 0:20:57.720 you can figure out deep inside what's something that's gonna 0:20:57.760 --> 0:21:00.600 touch her that's gonna make her remember something or make 0:21:00.640 --> 0:21:01.760 her You know what I'm saying. 0:21:02.600 --> 0:21:05.359 Yeah, I like I like when men pay attention to detail. 0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:06.520 Yeah, Like I would. 0:21:06.600 --> 0:21:08.240 I like if I. 0:21:08.240 --> 0:21:10.760 Said something or I mentioned something and then you pop 0:21:10.880 --> 0:21:13.760 up and you do it. Like acts of service is 0:21:13.800 --> 0:21:16.200 like a big thing to me too, Like I would 0:21:16.240 --> 0:21:18.359 love for my men to like if I'm like, if 0:21:18.400 --> 0:21:21.719 we have a house together and I'm like, oh, I 0:21:21.760 --> 0:21:24.280 need some new shelves in my closet or some new 0:21:24.280 --> 0:21:27.720 shelves in my office or whatever, and then say I 0:21:27.840 --> 0:21:30.000 leave for a few days for work to go do something, 0:21:30.040 --> 0:21:32.680 and I come back and then the shelves are uh. 0:21:33.000 --> 0:21:42.280 Sa, I finna get that fix up? Okay, Now I 0:21:42.400 --> 0:21:43.400 feel you on that one. 0:21:44.040 --> 0:21:44.720 That's what I'm saying. 0:21:44.720 --> 0:21:48.440 It don't always got to be something super expensive. And 0:21:48.560 --> 0:21:50.000 I don't get me wrong, I do be like in 0:21:50.240 --> 0:21:53.320 expensive stuff too, but it doesn't always have to be there. 0:21:53.359 --> 0:21:55.359 Like that's the type of stuff that turn women on, 0:21:55.880 --> 0:21:58.440 and like let them know too that you'll be paying 0:21:58.480 --> 0:22:01.880 attention to what I be saying, y'all, yesterday, my man 0:22:02.880 --> 0:22:06.240 Rich havnets in my garage order and I couldn't do it. 0:22:06.280 --> 0:22:09.040 And it's really a two person job. I was so 0:22:09.200 --> 0:22:11.960 turned on. It was some chestnuts roasting on that I 0:22:11.960 --> 0:22:13.320 thought that period. 0:22:13.640 --> 0:22:22.119 That's why I say job. She jumped today speaking of 0:22:22.160 --> 0:22:24.080 being jolly, I'm jolly. 0:22:24.359 --> 0:22:25.240 Why are you jolly? 0:22:25.359 --> 0:22:29.920 You got some yesterday? I know I might, I'm not 0:22:30.000 --> 0:22:33.280 doing it. I'm trying to be like stiff right up. 0:22:33.840 --> 0:22:39.199 Why because niggas ain't been good? You ain't you know? 0:22:39.640 --> 0:22:43.680 If you spending Christmas with him? I was, I didn't 0:22:43.720 --> 0:22:44.479 say I was. 0:22:45.440 --> 0:22:48.520 I'm going most likely I'm going home. I'm gonna be 0:22:49.400 --> 0:22:52.119 not you, though, what was? 0:22:55.040 --> 0:22:57.800 It's so hard because I do not stand on Disney. 0:22:57.920 --> 0:23:04.800 That is so hard. It's so oh two sigabye. 0:23:05.280 --> 0:23:07.000 To that d. 0:23:12.600 --> 0:23:15.760 Anyways, it would be hard to say goodbye girl. 0:23:15.800 --> 0:23:17.240 Don't even get me started. 0:23:17.800 --> 0:23:22.080 Don't even get it has been a crazy, crazy past. 0:23:22.680 --> 0:23:23.520 It's been a love. 0:23:24.920 --> 0:23:28.840 That No, why she know? Because if that no, don't 0:23:28.920 --> 0:23:31.480 ask why she know? Just know that that No, God 0:23:31.600 --> 0:23:32.640 damn it. 0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:36.280 Okay, Okay, I know what I know. 0:23:37.440 --> 0:23:40.160 If y'all, if you know, everybody know, I ain't finna 0:23:40.240 --> 0:23:45.440 let that old go. Oh, that's my I don't know 0:23:45.720 --> 0:23:50.280 what y'all what I said. I'm not mad at it. 0:23:50.440 --> 0:23:51.880 I mean sometimes that's alright. 0:23:52.480 --> 0:23:55.359 You know, you gotta you gotta work through the mostions. 0:23:55.400 --> 0:23:59.600 You gotta work through the tough part. What a relationship is. 0:23:59.640 --> 0:24:02.320 Relations are not always easy. 0:24:02.520 --> 0:24:06.960 But you know, I'm growing. Your is killing me. 0:24:07.680 --> 0:24:09.840 I'm where my head at. 0:24:10.240 --> 0:24:10.760 It's okay. 0:24:10.960 --> 0:24:11.600 I fucked that. 0:24:12.119 --> 0:24:13.840 No, I couldn't hear anyway. 0:24:14.760 --> 0:24:18.280 You couldn't just because they really hear the it's not 0:24:18.400 --> 0:24:19.040 really a head. 0:24:20.960 --> 0:24:22.200 Well, we're gonna shut away. 0:24:22.240 --> 0:24:25.280 We got in call it today because that's cute as 0:24:25.280 --> 0:24:31.400 fugad man. We should have just got Oh. I didn't 0:24:31.400 --> 0:24:32.679 think you would have wanted it, because I didn't think 0:24:32.720 --> 0:24:33.760 it was gonna matter with your outfit. 0:24:33.880 --> 0:24:35.679 Well I had, okay, so let me explain my outfit, 0:24:35.680 --> 0:24:38.600 because you look very Christmas. Tyler's very Christmas, and I don't. 0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:40.679 I had a very cute thank you. I had a 0:24:40.800 --> 0:24:43.920 very cute green outfit on, and I had like some 0:24:44.000 --> 0:24:46.720 red little accents. But I was putting earl on my 0:24:46.840 --> 0:24:48.879 legs and it got all over my dress and it 0:24:48.960 --> 0:24:51.480 stained it. So I couldn't wear it. 0:24:51.640 --> 0:24:52.280 It was silk. 0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:54.000 Yeah, it was like that silk material. 0:24:54.160 --> 0:24:54.320 Yeah. 0:24:54.480 --> 0:24:56.960 One thing about that silk material you cannot play with 0:24:57.040 --> 0:24:57.800 no ool. 0:24:58.320 --> 0:25:00.320 You can't play with that earth play with it. Earl. 0:25:00.359 --> 0:25:03.399 When you're trying to put the silk on, you got to. 0:25:03.840 --> 0:25:06.040 I don't know what you need to do. Because I'm 0:25:06.040 --> 0:25:08.840 a person, I actually do like to. I prefer to 0:25:08.840 --> 0:25:11.920 put my oil on after. Yeah, I put my out 0:25:12.600 --> 0:25:14.240 after because I like to put it on the parts 0:25:14.240 --> 0:25:16.919 of my body that's exposed right right, because if you 0:25:16.920 --> 0:25:19.080 put it on before, it's gonna leave them streaks on 0:25:19.119 --> 0:25:19.560 your outfit. 0:25:19.880 --> 0:25:22.199 So what I did was I oil. I put it on, 0:25:22.280 --> 0:25:24.040 then I led up my legs. But guess what I did. 0:25:24.080 --> 0:25:26.919 I was fixing my hair and I went over and 0:25:27.000 --> 0:25:28.240 it was all over that titty. 0:25:28.760 --> 0:25:29.840 It was all on that titted me. 0:25:29.960 --> 0:25:31.760 You ain't even have time to go wash that hand. 0:25:31.920 --> 0:25:32.320 I didn't. 0:25:32.760 --> 0:25:34.000 It's crazy, Damn. 0:25:34.040 --> 0:25:35.880 I was about to say something and I totally forgot. 0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:37.800 But to what are we drinking today? What we drinking? 0:25:37.840 --> 0:25:39.439 What are we drinking? Because I'm almost done with my 0:25:39.720 --> 0:25:44.360 Oh I'm getting lit today. Gave me another cookie shout 0:25:44.400 --> 0:25:44.879 out to this? 0:25:45.080 --> 0:25:50.600 Oh oh uh, gotn't exposed us. Did you cut hers 0:25:50.640 --> 0:25:56.040 our heads? Y'all? I think these are kid hats? These 0:25:57.280 --> 0:25:59.919 and Jack's drink? Is that? Okay? 0:26:00.560 --> 0:26:03.919 Come on now help me out, tyb. What are we drinking? 0:26:04.200 --> 0:26:06.960 So this one is called jingle juice? All right, We 0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:08.960 jingling all the way, and we mixed it up with 0:26:09.040 --> 0:26:12.160 some fun ingredients. Today we included your spirit of choice, 0:26:12.160 --> 0:26:15.080 so whether that's tequila or vodka. We use some hypnotic. 0:26:15.119 --> 0:26:16.959 I know y'all ain't hurt that in a minute, but 0:26:17.000 --> 0:26:20.440 it's like another liqueur. We use some hypnotics, some pineapple 0:26:20.480 --> 0:26:22.800 and some lime juice, and then we garnish it with 0:26:22.840 --> 0:26:24.960 some cranberries and rosemary. So what I did is just 0:26:25.000 --> 0:26:27.359 put kind of the cranberries and rosemaries throughout the ice 0:26:27.600 --> 0:26:29.879 and that way, it's just a natural garnish for the cocktail. 0:26:31.080 --> 0:26:36.480 Mary Cray, Hello. That jingle juice? Yeah, that jingle juice? Yeah, 0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:37.640 this is that jingle juice. 0:26:37.880 --> 0:26:38.879 That jingle juice? 0:26:39.640 --> 0:26:41.960 What's up y'all at your girl xpe and is shrgarl 0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:43.520 jery and the call when you're here. 0:26:43.400 --> 0:26:45.400 To tell y'all about kickoff dot com. 0:26:45.440 --> 0:26:47.480 It is a holiday season and I know y'all running 0:26:47.520 --> 0:26:50.480 it up on y'all's credit card. 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Because 0:29:06.960 --> 0:29:09.720 there's a TikTok recipe going on right now, or they're 0:29:09.760 --> 0:29:12.120 like poking through the cranberries and they're soaking it in 0:29:12.120 --> 0:29:17.440 the orange juice and covering it in powdered sugar, Yeah, 0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:18.560 and all that stuff. 0:29:18.600 --> 0:29:21.160 But I'm like, does cranberries actually soak up juice? 0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:24.320 Yeah, it's porous, so like like I had these at first, 0:29:24.360 --> 0:29:26.200 I was gonna garnish it this way, like on a skewer, 0:29:26.320 --> 0:29:27.840 so when you open it up, yeah, you can just 0:29:27.920 --> 0:29:29.360 kind of get in there. It's just like a strawberry 0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:31.480 or any other ok berry that you might have. But 0:29:31.520 --> 0:29:34.680 we did the sugar coated cranberries last year too. 0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:37.280 Yeah, we did they copied off the time. Y'all know 0:29:37.280 --> 0:29:39.320 that y'all started here first. Y'all just don't remember them. 0:29:39.640 --> 0:29:40.920 Yeah, but see cranberries. 0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:42.800 To think about cranberries for me ease, They be a 0:29:42.840 --> 0:29:44.240 little toots, but. 0:29:44.240 --> 0:29:46.160 That's why they cover them in the powdered sugar. Then 0:29:46.160 --> 0:29:47.920 they pop them in the oven for like five They 0:29:47.920 --> 0:29:49.880 put them in the oven and then like kind of 0:29:50.000 --> 0:29:51.240 soaks up that sugar. 0:29:51.400 --> 0:29:54.560 And and you can buy those at publics. They have 0:29:54.720 --> 0:29:56.920 like in the little packages, like in the deli section. 0:29:56.920 --> 0:29:58.520 It's under or you get the sandwiches, but it's like 0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:00.800 a little pack of cranberries that are I don't want 0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:03.520 to say pickled because it's not briny, but it's like 0:30:03.560 --> 0:30:05.360 a sweetener to your to that point. 0:30:05.400 --> 0:30:09.520 But you think as a snack, y'all. 0:30:09.040 --> 0:30:12.120 Remember how Eve was my barber sauce who drank my 0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:14.560 apple juice. That's how I am about cranberry juice. 0:30:14.560 --> 0:30:16.200 You do love cranberry, Oh, I love it. 0:30:16.360 --> 0:30:21.040 I love but it gotta be you know what's crazy. 0:30:21.040 --> 0:30:24.360 I just take cranberry pews because I just know you 0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:28.040 gotta have it raw. You're real fine, well, because you 0:30:28.080 --> 0:30:32.360 know cranberries are good. Ray or you're urinary tracks. So 0:30:32.800 --> 0:30:35.800 I just be taking like the a's old cranberry pews 0:30:36.000 --> 0:30:39.680 because I just cannot love because the way. But see, 0:30:39.720 --> 0:30:44.960 you like ocean spray, No, you like real cranberry. 0:30:45.000 --> 0:30:48.360 I like no part, Yes, I like so. I used 0:30:48.400 --> 0:30:49.920 to when I was younger, drink that one. Now if 0:30:49.960 --> 0:30:52.320 I'm stopping at the corner store and that's all they have, 0:30:52.480 --> 0:30:54.440 I will grab it. With the stuff I buy at 0:30:54.520 --> 0:30:59.400 my house. The ingredients have to say cranberry, and. 0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:01.920 They see and sc I like it, so you like 0:31:02.000 --> 0:31:03.600 it's hard for me. 0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:07.160 I think most people drink the ocean spray heranberry juice 0:31:07.760 --> 0:31:09.400 that has. 0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:12.080 That has so much sugar and preservative. Yeah, that's not 0:31:12.120 --> 0:31:15.240 the real cram. That's not real real cranberry drink. Yeah 0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:18.400 you're not a real cran drinker. But neither am I. 0:31:18.480 --> 0:31:20.840 Because I don't like the tart one that don't have 0:31:21.000 --> 0:31:24.280 no sugar. So I just take the pills. 0:31:24.400 --> 0:31:27.600 But what I'll say is this though this coat, you 0:31:27.640 --> 0:31:28.600 ain't seen the ut. 0:31:28.680 --> 0:31:33.000 I yeah, no, mine neither, right, Yeah, but I feel 0:31:33.000 --> 0:31:34.880 like it's because I take you take the pills. 0:31:34.920 --> 0:31:36.600 I just you gotta do something to supply. 0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:38.960 But when I said I said, I tweeted that. I said, 0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:40.960 I love cranberry juice, and it was like, oh yeah, 0:31:41.000 --> 0:31:43.720 the cran apple, the crab pineapple. I said, see, y'all, 0:31:43.720 --> 0:31:48.280 ain't no, I don't want that cran grape crean apple pineapple. 0:31:48.320 --> 0:31:51.160 I don't want that cran grape used to bust it. 0:31:51.200 --> 0:31:54.760 Instead, in my household, they win number one triple platinum 0:31:54.800 --> 0:31:55.600 in my household. 0:31:56.640 --> 0:31:57.400 I'm serious. 0:31:57.560 --> 0:31:59.520 Me and my mama used to fuck up some cream 0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:00.640 did too. 0:32:00.520 --> 0:32:03.040 But as I got older, like I wanted pure. When 0:32:03.080 --> 0:32:05.520 they came out with that cram mango, I said. 0:32:05.360 --> 0:32:12.080 Oh see, I want that pure. I like my crambers. 0:32:12.320 --> 0:32:14.440 Well, well, I mean that's what it is with you 0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:16.760 over there drinking. I don't know, Like, how do you 0:32:16.800 --> 0:32:18.960 feel about people that don't like to drink water? Because 0:32:18.960 --> 0:32:22.360 nothing trump's water? Like you could drink all the cranberry 0:32:22.400 --> 0:32:24.200 juice that you want to drink, but your ass still 0:32:24.240 --> 0:32:26.440 need to drink. I'm glad you at least half your 0:32:26.480 --> 0:32:27.920 body weight in water a day. 0:32:28.400 --> 0:32:29.400 I've been influenced. 0:32:29.520 --> 0:32:32.760 I was influenced, So bado, can I have another one time? 0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:36.120 So this is so off topic, y'all know, if y'all 0:32:36.160 --> 0:32:37.800 don't well, if y'all don't know this about me. 0:32:37.840 --> 0:32:40.760 I know we're over here, couldn't up. 0:32:41.240 --> 0:32:46.400 I love horror movies, like I horror movie ror, Oh 0:32:46.720 --> 0:32:48.600 not horror. 0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:51.160 You have a lot of horror movies in your phone. 0:32:51.320 --> 0:32:51.400 Me. 0:32:53.360 --> 0:32:56.880 You know I do a little one too, but you 0:32:56.960 --> 0:32:58.320 know that's between. 0:32:57.920 --> 0:33:01.520 Me and my phone. But I love horror movies. So 0:33:01.840 --> 0:33:05.320 I love scary movies. And every time I either have friends, 0:33:05.400 --> 0:33:08.160 none of my friends like scary movies. I don't. None 0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:10.240 of my people that I usually have dated in the 0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:13.760 past whatever like scary movies. But my girl, be Ling 0:33:14.600 --> 0:33:17.720 love scary movies for real, she loves all my That's 0:33:17.720 --> 0:33:20.440 how we first got really really cool, because like we're 0:33:20.440 --> 0:33:22.320 talking and I was like, oh my god, you love 0:33:22.360 --> 0:33:24.520 scary movies. So do I. So anyways, me and be 0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:26.200 Lynn went to the movies and we seen that movie 0:33:26.200 --> 0:33:31.720 Smile too. Okay, so Fire, so Fire. If you haven't 0:33:31.760 --> 0:33:34.239 followed the Smile, it's only on the second one, but 0:33:34.280 --> 0:33:36.120 you gotta go back. Did you watch the first one? 0:33:36.360 --> 0:33:40.000 It's like an eleven minute short film that inspired everything. 0:33:44.240 --> 0:33:46.560 Oh it's so good. Now I want to say this 0:33:47.040 --> 0:33:49.239 to the man who directed I can't think of his name, 0:33:49.320 --> 0:33:52.240 right now please change how the monster looked. I don't 0:33:52.280 --> 0:33:55.480 like how the monster look but anyways, I got influenced, right, Okay, 0:33:56.400 --> 0:33:58.640 I'm not a person who is easily influenced. Like if 0:33:58.680 --> 0:34:00.840 I if you post, I'm thinking I go buy it. 0:34:00.920 --> 0:34:05.920 You did your big one smile too. The whole movie 0:34:06.000 --> 0:34:10.840 was sponsored by Boss Water, not the regular plastic bottles, 0:34:10.880 --> 0:34:14.080 the glass Boss Waters because every time she was like panicking, 0:34:14.400 --> 0:34:17.600 she would drink Boss Water in the glass bottle and 0:34:18.560 --> 0:34:22.400 it just looked so refreshing and then it looks so 0:34:22.760 --> 0:34:25.439 like nice and neat in the fridge, and Boss Water 0:34:25.520 --> 0:34:27.120 in the glass bottles is expensive. 0:34:27.760 --> 0:34:28.279 It is. 0:34:28.440 --> 0:34:30.440 I'm not gonna lie. I'm gonna need y'all. I have 0:34:30.520 --> 0:34:32.919 an Amazon wish list that I'm gonna do this year 0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:34.319 for like little things that I want. 0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:37.840 So what I want you to buy me is my 0:34:37.920 --> 0:34:38.800 Barista pods. 0:34:38.800 --> 0:34:40.120 That's what I want for Christmas. 0:34:40.440 --> 0:34:43.879 I need some pod duty because that's what I want. 0:34:43.880 --> 0:34:45.399 But I want like a whole bunch, like at least 0:34:45.400 --> 0:34:48.239 two hundred dollars worth, but they have to all be 0:34:48.360 --> 0:34:49.640 vodka based drinks. 0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:52.440 I'll send you the link, but. 0:34:52.480 --> 0:34:55.439 Anyone want to send you a link too, But we're 0:34:55.440 --> 0:34:56.399 doing cheap for. 0:34:56.600 --> 0:34:58.920 Christmas, expensive for birthdays. 0:34:59.239 --> 0:35:02.400 Grow two hundred dollars ain't cheat, Yes it is, No, 0:35:02.520 --> 0:35:04.600 it's not. That's how we know you don't have three 0:35:04.640 --> 0:35:07.560 dollars anymore, because two hundred dollars is not cheap for 0:35:07.719 --> 0:35:09.520 a give well, I feel like for me and you 0:35:09.640 --> 0:35:11.719 it is because the stuff that we usually get each 0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:15.760 other for Christmas, you just bought me like a twenty camera. 0:35:18.040 --> 0:35:21.880 I need the Lovelex pizza for food anyway. 0:35:22.040 --> 0:35:25.960 But yeah, so the Boss Water. I decided I'm filling 0:35:26.000 --> 0:35:28.920 up my fridge with Voss water. I am so I'm 0:35:28.920 --> 0:35:31.279 gonna put like an Amazon so y'all can send me 0:35:31.320 --> 0:35:35.040 the bottle singular, all of them if you want whatever, 0:35:35.120 --> 0:35:38.000 I'm ben give Amazon Wishless. I want to fill up 0:35:38.040 --> 0:35:40.960 my fridge with glass Boss water. I have to. 0:35:41.600 --> 0:35:43.960 I have to why it just looks so. 0:35:43.880 --> 0:35:48.040 Good Because how it looks I was influenced. Yeah, and 0:35:48.080 --> 0:35:50.640 then Boss water is actually good water. 0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:51.279 No, it is. 0:35:51.360 --> 0:35:54.120 It tastes great. It tastes great, but I'm just not 0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:55.760 fitting it for no glass bottle. 0:35:55.920 --> 0:35:57.360 I'm gonna throw away fun. 0:35:57.320 --> 0:35:59.840 Wishless, but no, I'm I'm probably gonna save my bottles 0:35:59.840 --> 0:36:01.440 and refill them so it still looks like that. 0:36:01.520 --> 0:36:04.560 I don't have not you gonna not You're gonna do 0:36:04.560 --> 0:36:06.200 what we need in college and put them on top 0:36:06.200 --> 0:36:08.520 of your cow news I mean on top of your cabinet. 0:36:09.440 --> 0:36:09.880 Have Boss. 0:36:10.400 --> 0:36:13.440 People have Boss water bottles all around her kitchen cabinet. 0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:15.160 But I will say that's the Boss. 0:36:15.400 --> 0:36:18.920 If anybody is watching that works with Boss, I'm serious, 0:36:19.560 --> 0:36:20.560 holler at us. 0:36:21.120 --> 0:36:22.440 We can work something map. 0:36:23.800 --> 0:36:26.040 Boss water is good. I mean any water company to 0:36:26.080 --> 0:36:29.160 be honest, because I love water. I have a water drinker, 0:36:29.400 --> 0:36:32.239 my Stanley Cup. Some will always word over there, oh 0:36:32.320 --> 0:36:35.080 you like you're a Stanley Cup girl. I absolutely am 0:36:35.239 --> 0:36:37.360 say are you like? I feel like girls who really 0:36:37.400 --> 0:36:37.839 work out? 0:36:37.880 --> 0:36:38.279 For real? 0:36:38.360 --> 0:36:39.520 It's Stanley Cup girls. 0:36:39.560 --> 0:36:41.600 Because at the end of the day, you gotta be 0:36:41.640 --> 0:36:44.239 able to put your supplements in a cup. Like it's 0:36:44.320 --> 0:36:45.120 hard to just. 0:36:45.040 --> 0:36:47.480 Do that in a regular water bottle. Why I say, 0:36:47.560 --> 0:36:49.799 are you like the Stanley Cup girl? Like you're at 0:36:49.920 --> 0:36:53.919 Target fighting for your life. They had the Wicked con 0:36:54.280 --> 0:36:57.040 they have the Tyler cups they target fighting. 0:36:57.800 --> 0:37:00.320 No, No, it's not that serious to me, Like I 0:37:00.440 --> 0:37:01.319 water collect them. 0:37:01.760 --> 0:37:04.080 No, I don't. Why do I need more than like two? 0:37:04.760 --> 0:37:05.120 Okay? 0:37:05.160 --> 0:37:06.120 Because that's what they do. 0:37:07.080 --> 0:37:10.320 I mean, no shade and no shade to the people 0:37:10.360 --> 0:37:13.320 who like to collect Stanley cups, Like I think everything. 0:37:13.840 --> 0:37:17.000 You know, different people have their different hobbies and they're 0:37:17.000 --> 0:37:21.279 different collectors items that they're like. I personally just like 0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:24.239 Stanley cups because, like I said, for me, I put 0:37:24.280 --> 0:37:27.000 supplements in my water, especially when I go work out, 0:37:27.320 --> 0:37:29.960 and it's just easier than having like an actual cause. 0:37:30.000 --> 0:37:31.640 I used to just drink my water out of like 0:37:31.680 --> 0:37:34.400 the Trader Joe's water bottles that they come in or 0:37:34.560 --> 0:37:37.279 the Whole Foods water bottles that they come in. Now 0:37:37.400 --> 0:37:39.399 I pour my water in there and then I put 0:37:39.400 --> 0:37:41.839 my supplements in. Okay, that's really it. But like some 0:37:41.880 --> 0:37:44.120 people do collect them, Yeah, they collect them, and they 0:37:44.160 --> 0:37:48.640 be dazzling them and sometimes sell them, yeah for. 0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:50.920 Like one hundred and one hundred and fifty dollars and 0:37:50.920 --> 0:37:52.040 maybe buying them the. 0:37:52.000 --> 0:37:53.360 Ones that are limited the dishes. 0:37:54.120 --> 0:37:56.840 Now, I will say this, I did see the Tyler 0:37:56.960 --> 0:37:59.759 Stanley cup and it was super cute, super cute because 0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:02.919 it was like tiger print or something. 0:38:02.360 --> 0:38:04.560 About Tyler because you know they say that she's. 0:38:04.320 --> 0:38:09.239 The the what she's the new Rihanna is what they're 0:38:09.239 --> 0:38:11.600 trying to give her what you think about that. I 0:38:11.680 --> 0:38:12.160 like Tyler. 0:38:12.719 --> 0:38:15.200 I like Tyler, but I hate when people compare people 0:38:15.200 --> 0:38:18.000 to other people or say they're the new anything, like 0:38:18.040 --> 0:38:19.839 you can only need one Rihanna, right. 0:38:21.800 --> 0:38:22.600 Is Rihanna? 0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:25.920 Like nobody can be Rihanna. It can't be a new Rihanna. 0:38:26.000 --> 0:38:26.840 It's one Rihanna. 0:38:27.480 --> 0:38:29.840 So this is the difference between Tyler and Rihanna. To me, 0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:35.480 though Tyler is she's fucking good. 0:38:35.680 --> 0:38:37.200 You don't think Rihanna is good. 0:38:37.920 --> 0:38:39.360 Bro. I am a Rihanna. 0:38:39.719 --> 0:38:43.959 I am in the navy. I'm the captain of the 0:38:44.280 --> 0:38:46.080 I am the captain of this I am the captain 0:38:46.120 --> 0:38:49.680 now I am. What I'm saying is Rihanna came up 0:38:49.719 --> 0:38:52.800 in a time where social media was different. So I 0:38:52.800 --> 0:38:56.879 don't like people drag Tyler a lot. But her team 0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:59.040 is doing a good job because they make her keep quiet. 0:38:59.040 --> 0:39:01.799 And I'm not saying that she's says crazy things. But 0:39:01.960 --> 0:39:06.000 nowadays you can say one thing like us, we say 0:39:06.080 --> 0:39:06.800 one thing wrong. 0:39:06.880 --> 0:39:09.040 We be on the couch drinking, drunk, having a good time. 0:39:09.080 --> 0:39:15.560 They be likes them drag about Remember how they was 0:39:15.960 --> 0:39:18.799 when ship Shrek was in the woods and they came 0:39:18.800 --> 0:39:19.239 to kill him. 0:39:19.239 --> 0:39:21.680 That's how they be doing me and Drea, right, But 0:39:21.760 --> 0:39:24.000 I feel like I be trying to But what I'm 0:39:24.040 --> 0:39:27.239 saying is the word. I think it's a good Her 0:39:27.280 --> 0:39:31.360 team is doing a good job. Tyler is really like Tyler, 0:39:32.520 --> 0:39:34.800 listen to me. I don't care what y'all say. Tyler 0:39:35.360 --> 0:39:39.720 has the components to be a huge superstar, like major 0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:43.200 like literally for years and years to come. So I 0:39:43.239 --> 0:39:46.360 want them to keep her on this path. Don't do interviews, 0:39:48.239 --> 0:39:50.399 don't come on part mind, Because'm gonna make it say something. 0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:55.719 See, I just have like a I had like that, 0:39:55.800 --> 0:39:58.440 but well, no, for I was just gonna like kind 0:39:58.440 --> 0:40:00.960 of going back to what you were saying. I just 0:40:01.440 --> 0:40:05.200 I have like a love hate type of like feeling 0:40:05.360 --> 0:40:08.680 towards that, Like I feel like you should be able 0:40:08.719 --> 0:40:11.759 to be yourself and it should be okay, Like I 0:40:11.800 --> 0:40:15.000 feel like Rihanna, Yeah, okay. 0:40:15.040 --> 0:40:16.560 Maybe she was doing. 0:40:16.360 --> 0:40:18.160 Interviews and she used to say crazy stuff and we 0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:20.880 all know she's a spats on people on Twitter and stuff, 0:40:21.120 --> 0:40:22.680 but at the end of the day, people had her 0:40:22.719 --> 0:40:25.160 fucked up and she should be able to say what 0:40:25.239 --> 0:40:27.560 she want to say. No, but you can because she's 0:40:27.600 --> 0:40:28.839 a billionaire. 0:40:28.640 --> 0:40:32.439 Now, But if Rihanna would have started in twenty twenty one, 0:40:33.680 --> 0:40:36.320 it would probably be a different story because cancel culture 0:40:36.440 --> 0:40:38.560 is so weird and it's crazier now. 0:40:38.719 --> 0:40:41.319 I mean yeah, but I truly also just feel like, 0:40:41.400 --> 0:40:44.000 and maybe that's just me being a faith based person. 0:40:44.160 --> 0:40:47.680 Nobody can't cancel me. Whatever is for me is for me. 0:40:47.760 --> 0:40:50.319 Whatever God says for me. If I'm supposed to be 0:40:50.719 --> 0:40:53.760 on a path to do great things and I'm supposed 0:40:53.800 --> 0:40:57.440 to get these opportunities, It's gonna happen either way. Nobody 0:40:57.440 --> 0:41:00.520 can stop anything for me. I feel like, course, it's 0:41:00.520 --> 0:41:02.760 certain shit that you should just have enough common sense 0:41:02.760 --> 0:41:05.760 to not get online and say, like, we'll never speak 0:41:05.920 --> 0:41:11.200 ill about the LGBTQ plus community. We'll never speak I'm serious. 0:41:11.280 --> 0:41:14.600 I mean, but we would we don't, and we wouldn't 0:41:14.640 --> 0:41:18.959 because like we would never talk shit about people who 0:41:19.040 --> 0:41:23.040 make who are in like lower income brackets like that. 0:41:23.080 --> 0:41:24.320 It's just certain things. 0:41:24.760 --> 0:41:27.719 We'll never talk shit about people who are obs, you 0:41:27.719 --> 0:41:29.800 know what I mean. It's just certain things we should 0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:34.440 just know not to speak on as humans as people 0:41:34.480 --> 0:41:37.839 with common sin. But I should still be able to 0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:40.400 say things that I want to say and I should 0:41:40.400 --> 0:41:41.600 still be able to clap. 0:41:41.360 --> 0:41:42.800 Back at a motherfucker that got. 0:41:42.680 --> 0:41:45.080 Me fucked up and not get canceled for it. 0:41:45.480 --> 0:41:47.200 But no, but you can. 0:41:48.719 --> 0:41:50.960 It's just up to you if you care that much, 0:41:51.040 --> 0:41:52.880 you know what I mean. I think some people really 0:41:52.960 --> 0:41:55.200 care about stuff like that, and I think some people don't. 0:41:55.239 --> 0:41:58.760 Cardi B came out after Rihanna. She very much started 0:41:58.840 --> 0:42:02.440 kind of getting popular stuff around like twenty nineteen, right, 0:42:02.719 --> 0:42:06.000 Cardi BB saying whatever the fuck she want to say. 0:42:06.280 --> 0:42:08.240 But that's because that was in the beginning of her career. 0:42:08.320 --> 0:42:10.600 I'm not gonna lie and I'm a I'm part of 0:42:10.719 --> 0:42:13.600 Barty Gang, I'm a bad party, I love, I'm a 0:42:13.680 --> 0:42:16.399 hot I'm everything. So this is not but I'll say this, 0:42:17.040 --> 0:42:20.080 I am very interested to see what that album does, though, 0:42:21.040 --> 0:42:22.960 because it's been a lot of crazy. It's been a 0:42:23.000 --> 0:42:26.160 lot of craziness going on. I'm gonna listen, I'm gonna support. 0:42:26.200 --> 0:42:27.719 I don't care if she's talking about sitting on the 0:42:27.719 --> 0:42:30.080 toilet taking a shit. I'm being a jam at home 0:42:30.200 --> 0:42:32.839 because I'm a Cardi fan. But what I'm saying is 0:42:33.400 --> 0:42:35.360 I don't know how other people are. A lot of 0:42:35.400 --> 0:42:40.720 times people can't just consume the art. That's all I'm saying. 0:42:41.520 --> 0:42:43.600 I mean, and that's fair, But I feel like people 0:42:43.600 --> 0:42:47.000 who cannot consume I think I'm I think I'm the 0:42:47.040 --> 0:42:49.400 type of person where it's like I want the people 0:42:50.680 --> 0:42:53.560 who want to support me to be people who like 0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:55.279 like me and who fuck with me. 0:42:55.360 --> 0:42:56.560 I'm fuck with who I am. 0:42:56.680 --> 0:42:58.640 I don't want to have to conform myself or make 0:42:58.680 --> 0:43:03.759 myself fit asserting standard are fit in asserting bracket for 0:43:03.880 --> 0:43:05.839 you to like me and support me. If you don't 0:43:05.840 --> 0:43:07.279 want to support me, don't support me. 0:43:07.280 --> 0:43:08.719 But I also think we need to go back to 0:43:08.800 --> 0:43:10.839 media training. Let's go back. 0:43:11.000 --> 0:43:13.240 I think people do need to be media trained. 0:43:13.280 --> 0:43:15.040 But I think that one of the great things about 0:43:15.040 --> 0:43:17.359 social media, which I actually think has made a lot 0:43:17.360 --> 0:43:21.320 of celebrities even more popular and make even more money, 0:43:21.360 --> 0:43:22.920 is the fact that they're more accessible. 0:43:28.560 --> 0:43:31.240 I think that's the issue, do you That's the issue 0:43:31.320 --> 0:43:35.560 why I should not be able to say so, say 0:43:35.600 --> 0:43:39.160 you are a famous pop star. I should not be 0:43:39.239 --> 0:43:41.680 able to tweet you and get a reaction out of you. 0:43:42.280 --> 0:43:46.680 I should not why thou human? Are human? But I 0:43:46.800 --> 0:43:49.200 want to go back to the Whitney Houston days. I 0:43:49.320 --> 0:43:51.680 want to go back to the Tony Braxton days where 0:43:51.680 --> 0:43:54.239 we looked at these people because that's what made the 0:43:54.320 --> 0:43:57.680 music more good, and you could just feel something because 0:43:57.719 --> 0:44:01.600 you didn't necessarily know. Now, when a person drops a song, 0:44:02.080 --> 0:44:04.960 everybody trying to decipher it and break it down, how 0:44:05.000 --> 0:44:08.839 many how much did it sell? This this stand I'm 0:44:08.840 --> 0:44:10.480 a stand of her, I'm a stand of her. 0:44:10.719 --> 0:44:11.920 Man show all that shit up. 0:44:12.160 --> 0:44:14.359 This is why we're not getting good music because y'all 0:44:14.360 --> 0:44:18.080 are more concerned about who they fucking and who they dating, 0:44:18.120 --> 0:44:19.440 and who they like and don't like. 0:44:19.719 --> 0:44:22.359 I don't disagree, but I also just feel like it's 0:44:22.440 --> 0:44:25.120 unrealistic though to think that way, because you gotta get 0:44:25.120 --> 0:44:25.680 with the times. 0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:27.600 We're never going back to those times. 0:44:27.600 --> 0:44:29.400 So it's like, this is what shit is now, and 0:44:29.480 --> 0:44:32.280 it's probably only gonna get worse. It's probably only only 0:44:32.320 --> 0:44:35.480 gonna get more invasive and stuff in the future. You know, 0:44:35.480 --> 0:44:37.760 you're gonna be able to be in people business even more. 0:44:37.840 --> 0:44:41.440 Like I don't see it going backwards. 0:44:41.520 --> 0:44:41.840 It's not. 0:44:42.000 --> 0:44:44.840 So it's just kind of like, I think we have 0:44:44.960 --> 0:44:47.200 to let go to a certain extent of these old 0:44:47.280 --> 0:44:50.319 ideologies that we had of like Whitney Houston and so 0:44:50.440 --> 0:44:53.440 it was the fucking eighties. Nobody even had a cell phone. 0:44:53.560 --> 0:44:55.960 That's why everybody still had landlines. 0:44:56.280 --> 0:44:58.520 That's why LJ had a made head sprung. 0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:02.200 Why because he had to get with the times when 0:45:02.280 --> 0:45:05.320 Handsprun came out. He had never made music like that before. 0:45:05.600 --> 0:45:07.880 That was a good song on he Burst, Stay the 0:45:08.000 --> 0:45:09.080 brawns is thirst step. 0:45:09.480 --> 0:45:11.359 I had the man reinburst myth. 0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:13.160 No, he was. 0:45:13.120 --> 0:45:15.160 Serious, but that was a good song. It was a 0:45:15.160 --> 0:45:16.960 great song because everybody used to beat. 0:45:17.440 --> 0:45:19.280 We be up in the club. 0:45:22.120 --> 0:45:23.080 That was a good song. 0:45:23.120 --> 0:45:24.960 But whore I'm tied over there talking about them. 0:45:25.520 --> 0:45:28.160 It was a good song, but not a little sway. 0:45:28.360 --> 0:45:31.080 What I'm saying is he got you. I'm agreeing with 0:45:31.120 --> 0:45:33.560 you because you're right. He got with the time. So 0:45:34.040 --> 0:45:36.280 we gotta get back on these Christmas topics. 0:45:36.280 --> 0:45:38.480 Why I like this topic. I thought it was a 0:45:38.480 --> 0:45:40.680 good topic. But yeah, I just feel. 0:45:40.320 --> 0:45:44.360 Like Dressed up the South got something to say Cuz 0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:47.840 I just feel like I don't know, like I hate. 0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:51.080 I literally hate to a certain extent that people be 0:45:51.120 --> 0:45:53.719 wanting to silence people like let people say what the 0:45:53.719 --> 0:45:56.640 fuck they gotta say? It's the same shit, y'all. Host 0:45:56.640 --> 0:45:59.360 and y'all niggas be talking about their home. Y'all be 0:45:59.360 --> 0:46:01.320 having the same conversations in private. But sh I'll be 0:46:01.360 --> 0:46:03.759 mad when a celebrities say something publicly. Now y'all want 0:46:03.760 --> 0:46:04.680 to cancel somebody. 0:46:05.920 --> 0:46:07.720 Yeah, I just pray. 0:46:07.840 --> 0:46:11.560 I just think it's bullshit. M It's hard. 0:46:11.800 --> 0:46:14.279 It's a hard area to be in cause it's like, 0:46:14.719 --> 0:46:17.320 on one end, I do want to speak my mind 0:46:17.360 --> 0:46:19.600 and say things, but at the same time, and I 0:46:19.600 --> 0:46:21.520 feel like I do to a certain extent. 0:46:22.360 --> 0:46:24.840 You don't know, you don't really know more though not 0:46:24.880 --> 0:46:25.920 as much as you used to. 0:46:26.080 --> 0:46:28.759 Oh absolutely, But I feel like I'm the same way. 0:46:28.840 --> 0:46:31.919 I feel like, well, I think I do still say 0:46:31.960 --> 0:46:33.799 stuff that I know is gonna rually people the wrong 0:46:33.800 --> 0:46:36.680 way because it's just my opinion, and bitch, that's my opinion. 0:46:37.320 --> 0:46:43.080 But I do tread a little more lightly these days 0:46:43.120 --> 0:46:45.400 then I feel like I used to when we were younger, 0:46:45.680 --> 0:46:48.840 because I just wasn't even thinking about stuff is deeply, 0:46:48.920 --> 0:46:50.319 you know what I mean. It's like, Okay, if this 0:46:50.400 --> 0:46:51.560 is how I feel, if this is what. 0:46:51.480 --> 0:46:52.759 I think, I'm just say. 0:46:52.920 --> 0:46:54.319 It's like if I'm on the phone with you, I'm 0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:56.560 gonna just say how I feel. But now obviously we 0:46:56.640 --> 0:46:58.040 know the climate does. 0:46:57.920 --> 0:46:59.319 Not permit that off phone. 0:46:59.360 --> 0:47:01.960 Car on the phone like maybe like two weeks ago 0:47:02.000 --> 0:47:05.240 for like seven hours, and when I got off the phone, 0:47:05.400 --> 0:47:08.839 we would yes, literally I can't remember what day it was, 0:47:09.000 --> 0:47:11.040 and yes, we was on maybe not seven it was 0:47:11.040 --> 0:47:12.560 probably like maybe we did. 0:47:12.680 --> 0:47:15.160 We really used to be on the phone for seven hours. No, well, 0:47:15.160 --> 0:47:16.759 I'm saying it was literally like two weeks ago. 0:47:16.800 --> 0:47:18.360 And I was like, damn, we ain't been on the phone, 0:47:18.400 --> 0:47:21.600 Like we be on the phone for like two three hours, 0:47:21.680 --> 0:47:23.279 but like we was on the phone maybe like two 0:47:23.320 --> 0:47:25.320 or three years ago for like six or seven hours, 0:47:25.640 --> 0:47:27.680 and I was like, damn, we ain't been on the phone. 0:47:27.719 --> 0:47:31.279 But I was just cracking up because I'm like, if 0:47:31.360 --> 0:47:32.840 they can hear this. 0:47:33.680 --> 0:47:37.000 Yeah, bruh, but it's so much shit. We just it's 0:47:37.040 --> 0:47:38.640 just we can't. 0:47:39.000 --> 0:47:41.480 That's why we started the show because our conversations were 0:47:41.520 --> 0:47:43.000 so and I think that's why a lot of people 0:47:43.040 --> 0:47:45.799 be like, oh, the red and black background, because it 0:47:45.880 --> 0:47:49.200 was only like twenty thirty thousand, y'all tuned in. Now 0:47:49.200 --> 0:47:52.959 it's like one hundred thousand, two hundred thousand, and it's 0:47:53.040 --> 0:47:55.120 like we say something and a lot of people don't 0:47:55.120 --> 0:47:57.799 get her humor, they don't get my humor. I'm not 0:47:57.840 --> 0:48:01.239 gonna lie. And it was a comment other day. I 0:48:01.280 --> 0:48:03.319 hate when people try to clock rt of what's going 0:48:03.320 --> 0:48:05.399 on with us. Somebody was like, oh, you can tell 0:48:05.480 --> 0:48:08.040 Dre and Lex not fucking with each other. I said, goddamn. 0:48:08.080 --> 0:48:11.160 But the one time I ain't made or mad in months, y'all, 0:48:11.200 --> 0:48:14.560 tea is cold, Like what are you talking about? 0:48:14.960 --> 0:48:18.040 So I think just hang it up, Just hang it up, flat. 0:48:17.800 --> 0:48:20.160 Screen, because you're never gonna know whenever we're getting along 0:48:20.160 --> 0:48:20.759 and when we're not. 0:48:21.600 --> 0:48:24.719 I agree, and it shouldn't even matter to you. Do 0:48:24.760 --> 0:48:25.640 you get along with y'all? 0:48:25.680 --> 0:48:26.040 Friends? 0:48:26.040 --> 0:48:28.680 How are your relationships where y'all are y'all? 0:48:29.040 --> 0:48:29.719 What Laura is? 0:48:29.920 --> 0:48:32.440 Because when you get one, Because when you get. 0:48:32.200 --> 0:48:36.520 One, fracas on the present, furcas on purpose on you 0:48:37.239 --> 0:48:40.160 and focus on the present, don't focus on us. 0:48:40.280 --> 0:48:41.759 Okay, back to the Christmas. 0:48:42.680 --> 0:48:45.400 What's up y'all at your girl XP and it's Sugarl 0:48:45.480 --> 0:48:46.080 Dre and the call. 0:48:46.520 --> 0:48:49.080 Y'all know we have a segment on Poor Minds called 0:48:49.120 --> 0:48:51.080 Item of the Week. 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Send us an email and 0:49:23.120 --> 0:49:23.839 we'll work it out. 0:49:23.840 --> 0:49:24.960 We're gonna figure it out. 0:49:25.160 --> 0:49:28.799 Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make 0:49:28.840 --> 0:49:29.440 you some money. 0:49:30.400 --> 0:49:32.600 We love to some more to small business man. 0:49:32.520 --> 0:49:39.080 And a black business said that, but I mean any 0:49:39.160 --> 0:49:46.319 businesses welcome. Should you clock your UNTT for asking you 0:49:46.360 --> 0:49:49.439 about your love life? Because girl, why or you worried 0:49:49.480 --> 0:49:51.560 about my love life? You ain't been married since nineteen 0:49:51.600 --> 0:49:52.880 seventy three? 0:49:52.960 --> 0:49:54.359 Not you ain't have to take it there? 0:49:55.320 --> 0:49:56.080 Where's your men? 0:49:56.680 --> 0:49:57.359 What we just said? 0:49:57.480 --> 0:50:02.680 Furcus on you purpose. I don't know about y'all, but 0:50:02.840 --> 0:50:06.160 personally I hate when my family asked me questions about 0:50:06.160 --> 0:50:08.480 my love life, or about yes, or about when I 0:50:08.520 --> 0:50:10.400 may have a kid, any of that, because at the 0:50:10.440 --> 0:50:11.960 end of the day. Just because you had a baby 0:50:11.960 --> 0:50:14.680 in nineteen, that don't mean I want to do that. Okay, 0:50:14.719 --> 0:50:17.920 clearly I didn't because I'm far from nineteen. So why 0:50:17.920 --> 0:50:20.719 are you asking me? Like it's gonna happen when I'm 0:50:20.760 --> 0:50:22.200 ready for it to happen, and when I am with 0:50:22.400 --> 0:50:25.560 child and when I am engaged, y'all will be the. 0:50:25.520 --> 0:50:29.680 First cookies smell So they do. I'm sorry, I cannot 0:50:29.960 --> 0:50:30.760 fucking focus. 0:50:30.760 --> 0:50:35.200 They do smell good, but go ahead, he said, they's sweet. 0:50:36.560 --> 0:50:39.560 They fucking good, right a wall, they are good. 0:50:39.880 --> 0:50:43.640 If you left these cookies out, Santa's finna give you 0:50:43.680 --> 0:50:46.280 a fucking g wagon or the Bentley. 0:50:47.760 --> 0:50:52.760 M Jesus, oh you do. 0:50:52.760 --> 0:50:54.839 Don't wait? Can we agree that the thing I'm gonna cry. 0:50:54.960 --> 0:50:59.760 I'm emotional today all for the cookies. 0:51:00.160 --> 0:51:03.440 She thought it was a Christmas card beat by cards 0:51:03.719 --> 0:51:04.000 I love. 0:51:04.239 --> 0:51:05.600 She said, hold on, bitch. 0:51:06.200 --> 0:51:07.600 Bitch, ain't that type of card? 0:51:07.719 --> 0:51:11.520 Okay, keep going, keep going. I was just saying that 0:51:12.120 --> 0:51:12.560 my tea. 0:51:12.960 --> 0:51:15.840 Yeah, I was just saying like I don't like that, Like, 0:51:16.000 --> 0:51:18.319 don't ask me if I want to share. 0:51:18.400 --> 0:51:20.680 That's what people be having to realize. Family or not. 0:51:20.960 --> 0:51:23.959 UNTI your night, mama or not. It don't matter who 0:51:24.760 --> 0:51:25.440 if I want. 0:51:25.239 --> 0:51:28.160 To share with Lamario, cut your grandma if. 0:51:28.000 --> 0:51:30.120 She don't fucking see how I see? 0:51:32.040 --> 0:51:33.560 Ay? 0:51:33.840 --> 0:51:42.880 And I knew the lyrics because car Ken drink lamar A. No, seriously, 0:51:44.400 --> 0:51:47.600 I felt, but I felt that lyrics though I did, 0:51:47.719 --> 0:51:49.480 because at the end of the day, sometimes it don't 0:51:49.480 --> 0:51:52.680 matter who the fuck is. You gotta cut they ass off. 0:51:52.719 --> 0:51:56.520 Okay, what's up, y'all? 0:51:56.560 --> 0:51:58.840 As your girl like pe and it's your girl draining 0:51:58.840 --> 0:51:59.120 the call. 0:51:59.239 --> 0:51:59.919 And we have a. 0:52:00.120 --> 0:52:04.120 Very exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping. 0:52:04.480 --> 0:52:05.720 Yes, we have a brand. 0:52:05.520 --> 0:52:08.279 New shower dropping y'all on Patreon. It's gonna air on 0:52:08.360 --> 0:52:11.040 September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles. We're gonna be 0:52:11.080 --> 0:52:13.640 doing so much stuff on there. We're gonna be doing challenges. 0:52:13.760 --> 0:52:16.840 If you can't go to Bill and Roche, where the 0:52:16.880 --> 0:52:17.560 hell could you go? 0:52:18.760 --> 0:52:21.920 If you can't go to Belloche, what the hell. 0:52:22.560 --> 0:52:23.279 We're gonna be doing? 0:52:23.680 --> 0:52:25.759 Talk to me, chit chat with me. We're gonna be 0:52:25.760 --> 0:52:27.160 spilling a little little tea. 0:52:27.920 --> 0:52:30.840 Oh my god, no, you didn't. 0:52:33.080 --> 0:52:35.920 God, everything y'all been wanting to see, We're gonna be 0:52:35.960 --> 0:52:37.920 doing it right here on Patreon. 0:52:38.120 --> 0:52:40.520 Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well we've been 0:52:40.560 --> 0:52:44.080 to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's 0:52:44.080 --> 0:52:46.960 gonna be a time. Y'all know, Poor Minds has grown 0:52:47.200 --> 0:52:49.640 into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a 0:52:49.760 --> 0:52:53.680 lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So 0:52:53.760 --> 0:52:57.120 make sure y'all tune in September. Second it's going down, 0:52:57.360 --> 0:52:57.759 says Tu. 0:53:05.840 --> 0:53:08.560 Yeah, Like I just feel like sometimes you definitely just 0:53:08.680 --> 0:53:11.320 need to like cut people off of these and I 0:53:11.440 --> 0:53:14.600 talk to people. You have to set boundaries with people. 0:53:15.080 --> 0:53:16.920 Why are you all up in my bis? And a 0:53:16.920 --> 0:53:19.040 lot of the time. The thing about the older generations 0:53:19.040 --> 0:53:20.719 in our family, i'ma just say it that and I'm 0:53:20.719 --> 0:53:24.479 gonna just put it all on the floor. They shit 0:53:24.640 --> 0:53:28.760 do not be together. They've been married to Uncle Larry 0:53:29.360 --> 0:53:33.960 for fifty years. Theyve been married to uncle Leotis for fifty. 0:53:34.120 --> 0:53:36.239 Yotis is crazy. 0:53:36.320 --> 0:53:40.880 You ain't never met nobody names Leotis. I met Leorish chicks. 0:53:40.960 --> 0:53:43.560 I met a Leo, and I've met an Otis. Never 0:53:43.600 --> 0:53:44.880 met Lei Leotis. 0:53:45.000 --> 0:53:49.000 No, but old people be having some crazy ass names though, 0:53:49.080 --> 0:53:55.759 like Leoti's. Like I said earlier, Leroy cleotes Clifford, I 0:53:55.960 --> 0:53:59.200 like more old English name. 0:53:59.320 --> 0:54:01.080 No, old English names are the best. 0:54:01.600 --> 0:54:10.000 Bartholomew, Mitch, who do you Bartholomew eats down? Yeah? That 0:54:10.480 --> 0:54:14.799 dog English name? All English names be eating, y'all up. 0:54:15.760 --> 0:54:20.080 I thought Bartholomew was a dog. Name a dog named Bartholome. 0:54:20.200 --> 0:54:21.880 I had a dog because it was my dog. I 0:54:21.920 --> 0:54:23.360 told that story, and I used to call him a 0:54:23.360 --> 0:54:23.759 little bee. 0:54:23.960 --> 0:54:26.160 But I actually did meet the dog. I never met 0:54:26.239 --> 0:54:27.920 your dog. No, you never met my dog. 0:54:28.640 --> 0:54:29.000 You never. 0:54:29.880 --> 0:54:35.359 You didn't know nobody named Bartholomew Sinibald, You never knew 0:54:35.400 --> 0:54:41.960 nobody named Cennibal, Baldwin, Baldwin. 0:54:41.880 --> 0:54:50.760 Edmund, Edmund eats Edgar. Oh, Egbert, that's not Egbert eats 0:54:50.920 --> 0:54:57.719 down Goodwin Godderick bro this. I don't know what that 0:54:57.920 --> 0:55:01.320 was doing with William Shakespeare. Goddred. 0:55:01.400 --> 0:55:01.879 Kind of cute. 0:55:03.239 --> 0:55:07.799 That's probably where Rodrick derived from. Black people always got 0:55:07.800 --> 0:55:08.920 to make some ship our own. 0:55:09.120 --> 0:55:13.240 I'm telling you old English names. When I name my kid, 0:55:13.760 --> 0:55:17.480 he's getting a oh this is a good list. Ooh, 0:55:18.239 --> 0:55:21.120 all ThReD, I've never heard that. 0:55:21.440 --> 0:55:25.760 Let's get creative with it, she said, al ThReD, No, Alfridge. 0:55:26.960 --> 0:55:29.840 My mama used to watch Alfred all's wine. 0:55:30.560 --> 0:55:37.239 I'm fucking with oswine. Yes, I am, I am. Oh 0:55:37.320 --> 0:55:41.560 my god, this ship is so good. Eldred, I know 0:55:41.760 --> 0:55:45.720 now I do. I do know a nigganame Eldrid. Okay, 0:55:45.040 --> 0:55:46.680 I do know her. 0:55:46.719 --> 0:55:47.600 Nigganame Eldred. 0:55:47.719 --> 0:55:55.280 No, lie Bro, I'm telling you these names. But okay, sorry, 0:55:55.360 --> 0:55:58.080 back from the topic. But let me say this though, 0:55:58.200 --> 0:56:00.920 because let me give it to it. On the opposite end, 0:56:01.800 --> 0:56:05.320 I have a little cousin. Her name is Arianna. I 0:56:05.480 --> 0:56:08.080 never say her name on the shoke. Sorry, Arianna. I'm 0:56:08.080 --> 0:56:10.960 feel embarrass you because I love my little cousin. I 0:56:10.960 --> 0:56:13.360 think she maybe just turned twenty or twenty one. And 0:56:13.400 --> 0:56:17.200 when I tell you my cousin is gorgeous, gorgeous, I'm 0:56:17.200 --> 0:56:21.000 talking about model esque gorgeous, like if she really would 0:56:21.000 --> 0:56:26.080 focus and like hone in, she could really model. 0:56:26.320 --> 0:56:29.440 Yeah, I've met her. She's gorgeous. 0:56:29.600 --> 0:56:32.800 Like I felt like I used to be the Beyonce 0:56:32.880 --> 0:56:35.040 of the family. Arianna is the Beyonce of the family 0:56:35.040 --> 0:56:37.759 because sometimes you got to pass the torch, right, So 0:56:38.400 --> 0:56:40.279 I'm the aunty of the family now right, I'm the 0:56:40.360 --> 0:56:45.399 rich untie that comes around whatever I feel like. Sometimes 0:56:45.440 --> 0:56:48.120 when I'm asking if I'm looking at my twenty twenty 0:56:48.120 --> 0:56:50.600 one year old cousin, I'm asking her about her love life. 0:56:51.040 --> 0:56:54.600 I'm not asking to be mean though, I'm asking because 0:56:55.080 --> 0:56:58.000 let me help you, so you don't make lex P 0:56:58.239 --> 0:56:59.920 went through that, so you ain't got to go through that. 0:57:00.520 --> 0:57:04.280 So I feel like sometimes the older generation is asking 0:57:04.400 --> 0:57:07.319 us to either warn us or help us, but they don't. 0:57:07.440 --> 0:57:09.799 It's not about what you say, it's how you say it. 0:57:11.000 --> 0:57:13.719 I think it's different when you're asking somebody to like 0:57:14.600 --> 0:57:18.240 inquire and give them advice. My family don't be asking 0:57:18.280 --> 0:57:20.200 to give me advice. They just be trying to see 0:57:20.200 --> 0:57:23.120 what's going on. They don't be trying to give me advice. 0:57:23.160 --> 0:57:27.520 They just be like, so, who are you dating? Are 0:57:27.520 --> 0:57:28.440 you dating anyone? 0:57:28.960 --> 0:57:32.000 When you know the clock is tick, you know you're 0:57:32.000 --> 0:57:33.040 thinking about having the kid? 0:57:33.120 --> 0:57:36.160 Yet, like it be that type of conversation that ain't 0:57:36.160 --> 0:57:39.880 being concerned about me, but you're being nosy. You in 0:57:39.960 --> 0:57:42.919 my business, You and my coochie lips. 0:57:45.200 --> 0:57:46.120 In a lot of business. 0:57:46.120 --> 0:57:51.160 If you, you and my uteraries like worry about yourself, 0:57:51.840 --> 0:57:54.720 worry about you, like I don't. 0:57:55.040 --> 0:57:55.840 I don't like that. 0:57:56.560 --> 0:57:59.160 And I also feel like even when you asking like 0:57:59.200 --> 0:58:01.040 I get where you come from, but I also feel 0:58:01.080 --> 0:58:04.080 like even when you asking advice, don't need to be 0:58:04.160 --> 0:58:05.120 giving unless. 0:58:04.800 --> 0:58:09.400 Somebody ask forever. But I'm like year old when I. 0:58:09.320 --> 0:58:11.800 Was twenty one, twenty two year old, twenties one, twenty 0:58:11.800 --> 0:58:12.680 two years old. 0:58:13.440 --> 0:58:14.080 Don't give me. 0:58:14.040 --> 0:58:16.040 No unsolicited advice that I didn't ask for. 0:58:16.120 --> 0:58:18.720 Auntie, all right, but you don't know you need this 0:58:18.760 --> 0:58:19.800 advice because guess. 0:58:19.560 --> 0:58:20.680 What, I'm not gonna listen. 0:58:20.840 --> 0:58:24.320 Still, I wish I but I say this all the time, 0:58:25.160 --> 0:58:27.360 but I think me and you are different. Though I 0:58:27.560 --> 0:58:28.920 wish you didn't listen. 0:58:29.320 --> 0:58:29.760 I didn't. 0:58:29.760 --> 0:58:31.640 But guess what, because I didn't have a lex P, 0:58:31.880 --> 0:58:34.480 I didn't have a dray and a cold. Because we 0:58:34.560 --> 0:58:36.320 know how to say it and we know how to 0:58:36.520 --> 0:58:39.160 like because we older, but we're still a little cool 0:58:39.200 --> 0:58:43.680 with it. I could beef it up. That is not cool. 0:58:44.240 --> 0:58:46.960 It's no what the kids do? 0:58:47.840 --> 0:58:50.840 H what is that? 0:58:52.320 --> 0:58:54.880 We just we literally just did that thence a few 0:58:54.880 --> 0:59:03.200 weeks ago. I'm cool, Like man, hell, I'm cool as fuck. 0:59:04.040 --> 0:59:06.640 I'm cool as fuck. Bro, That's all I'd be telling. 0:59:06.680 --> 0:59:08.800 I'll say me so cool, I'm cool, and that's not 0:59:08.840 --> 0:59:11.120 My niece is my cousin But anyways, I say all 0:59:11.120 --> 0:59:14.120 that to say because I didn't have Alex Petero. I'm 0:59:14.160 --> 0:59:16.840 not hip. I'm really not, but I don't try to be. 0:59:17.400 --> 0:59:20.440 But I know I know enough to let you know 0:59:20.840 --> 0:59:23.080 because at the day, I may not be in tune 0:59:23.120 --> 0:59:24.880 with the twenty year olds because I'm not supposed to 0:59:24.880 --> 0:59:27.880 be the bitch. I'm a bad bitch. I guess money, 0:59:27.880 --> 0:59:29.680 I know what the fuck goes on in this world. 0:59:30.240 --> 0:59:32.560 You need to know what the fuck going on. I 0:59:32.560 --> 0:59:33.240 didn't have that. 0:59:33.880 --> 0:59:35.720 You do if you come ask me. 0:59:36.480 --> 0:59:38.840 If you come and ask me and you have questions 0:59:38.840 --> 0:59:41.280 about your man or you have questions about anything that's 0:59:41.320 --> 0:59:43.560 going on in your life, questions about how to navigate, 0:59:43.600 --> 0:59:45.479 what you should be doing, where you should be going, 0:59:45.680 --> 0:59:47.960 how you should be investing your money. If you want 0:59:47.960 --> 0:59:51.480 to come and ask me, then cool. But I'm not 0:59:51.560 --> 0:59:53.680 just gonna walk up to you and be like girl, 0:59:53.960 --> 0:59:56.560 and okay, what's going on in your love life? Like 0:59:56.600 --> 0:59:59.840 who you dated I got going on? What you had 0:59:59.880 --> 1:00:01.920 on with your money, how you be investing your money? 1:00:01.920 --> 1:00:04.120 Do you be saving how much money? Because even my 1:00:04.200 --> 1:00:06.120 uncles and stuff don't asks me stuff like that. When 1:00:06.160 --> 1:00:10.400 I was younger, like invasive you all of it my business. 1:00:10.840 --> 1:00:13.360 But I do think this as black people, we need 1:00:13.400 --> 1:00:15.120 to stop being scared talking about money. 1:00:15.120 --> 1:00:17.560 Though no we do, but I think that, and I 1:00:17.640 --> 1:00:20.000 know that it comes from a place of love. But 1:00:20.080 --> 1:00:22.640 I guess the point that I'm getting at is I 1:00:22.720 --> 1:00:24.600 just feel like a lot of the time, the older 1:00:24.640 --> 1:00:27.120 generations in our family, I feel like it comes from 1:00:27.120 --> 1:00:31.160 a loving place, but it's just very invasive and. 1:00:31.120 --> 1:00:34.040 It's not and the way that it's. 1:00:35.520 --> 1:00:38.400 Put out maybe it's not how you want it to 1:00:38.440 --> 1:00:40.520 come off, but that's how you putting it out. 1:00:40.560 --> 1:00:42.480 And now I'm like, I don't want to talk to 1:00:42.560 --> 1:00:43.040 you about this. 1:00:43.520 --> 1:00:46.080 So the reason I say this because we have another cousin. 1:00:45.880 --> 1:00:48.800 And I never want to make my younger cousins feel 1:00:49.160 --> 1:00:51.040 the way that I feel like some of my family 1:00:51.320 --> 1:00:54.960 have made me feel in having conversations with me. So 1:00:55.040 --> 1:00:57.200 I would rather you come to me, like know that 1:00:58.000 --> 1:01:00.600 whatever you want to talk about, I'm here for you. 1:01:01.240 --> 1:01:02.360 I'm a little older than you. 1:01:02.400 --> 1:01:05.480 If you got questions, you want to talk to somebody 1:01:05.480 --> 1:01:07.840 who you feel to have a little bit more life experience, 1:01:07.960 --> 1:01:08.520 I'm here. 1:01:08.920 --> 1:01:10.560 We could discuss see. 1:01:10.400 --> 1:01:13.840 But I'm never going to like just be overly abrasive 1:01:13.920 --> 1:01:17.120 and in your business if you don't want me any right, 1:01:18.520 --> 1:01:18.960 So I'll. 1:01:18.840 --> 1:01:22.000 Say this the reason with me, this is how the 1:01:22.000 --> 1:01:25.400 conversation started. I'm like all my family business. So I 1:01:25.440 --> 1:01:28.200 had another cousin, she's closer to Arianna in age, and 1:01:28.600 --> 1:01:31.240 she had a boyfriend at the time, and he came 1:01:31.280 --> 1:01:33.440 to the house. We really didn't like him. We really 1:01:33.480 --> 1:01:37.360 didn't approve everybody was being friendly. Now my cousin Arianna, 1:01:37.480 --> 1:01:38.800 like I said, I can shout at her out. She 1:01:39.280 --> 1:01:44.480 don't love this shit. She was really like not feeling him, 1:01:44.520 --> 1:01:49.480 asking him questions. And my older aunt, my aunt, my 1:01:49.520 --> 1:01:52.400 mom's sister, had to tell her like Arianna, like calm down, 1:01:52.440 --> 1:01:54.280 like you you know what I'm saying, and she was 1:01:54.320 --> 1:01:56.120 like no, because I want to know. And then so 1:01:56.280 --> 1:01:59.000 she had when I came, she put me up on 1:01:59.160 --> 1:02:02.200 tea and she was like, this is what's going on? 1:02:02.360 --> 1:02:02.600 Girl? 1:02:02.720 --> 1:02:07.120 Like So the reason I felt comfortable because it's like 1:02:07.160 --> 1:02:10.000 you being vocal, So let me be vocal to you. 1:02:10.880 --> 1:02:13.120 I just want you to be smart because. 1:02:14.400 --> 1:02:16.600 But she's twenty, Like a twenty year old don't know 1:02:16.640 --> 1:02:21.400 they place she don't. But I also feel like if 1:02:21.480 --> 1:02:22.440 I at. 1:02:22.360 --> 1:02:26.880 Twenty, the woman that I am now, not. 1:02:26.720 --> 1:02:27.520 Time trying to get it. 1:02:28.680 --> 1:02:31.840 No, bro, come get a cookie. No, you gotta get 1:02:31.840 --> 1:02:35.200 that me. So with the seeds on them, come. 1:02:34.760 --> 1:02:36.520 Get it, TI, come get it. 1:02:36.920 --> 1:02:38.600 And when you get over there, you gotta talk about 1:02:38.600 --> 1:02:40.200 it because I'm gonna be finished and we gonna move. 1:02:41.000 --> 1:02:46.000 All I say is this, if you can guide your 1:02:46.080 --> 1:02:49.439 younger youth, but do it in a good way that's 1:02:49.480 --> 1:02:50.160 received well. 1:02:50.200 --> 1:02:52.160 We have to change the generations. 1:02:52.400 --> 1:02:55.440 Our aunts, I think, our aunts, our grandmother's grandmother. They 1:02:55.440 --> 1:02:59.400 were trying to warn us and tell us about things, 1:02:59.480 --> 1:03:02.120 but they don't know how to say it. So I'll 1:03:02.120 --> 1:03:06.000 give them that grace. Now I'm thirty five. Now, if 1:03:06.080 --> 1:03:08.560 I go home for Christmas next week, don't talk to 1:03:08.600 --> 1:03:09.920 me about nothing. I got this. 1:03:11.080 --> 1:03:12.200 But I feel like. 1:03:12.400 --> 1:03:13.800 We are the aunties. Now. 1:03:15.000 --> 1:03:17.919 We're not old, but we are old enough to tell 1:03:17.960 --> 1:03:20.400 these twenty twenty one, twenty two year olds, even the 1:03:20.400 --> 1:03:23.640 girls that are listening to the show, y'all my nieces, y'all, 1:03:23.640 --> 1:03:27.520 my nephews. Because I'll talk to the boys too, because 1:03:27.520 --> 1:03:30.200 it be girls out here. They be trying to do 1:03:30.520 --> 1:03:33.560 X y Z. You know what I'm saying. So I 1:03:33.600 --> 1:03:36.720 feel like it's not about what you say, it's how 1:03:36.840 --> 1:03:37.720 you say it. 1:03:38.520 --> 1:03:39.840 Yep, that's fair. 1:03:40.200 --> 1:03:40.640 I don't know. 1:03:40.720 --> 1:03:42.680 I think I just always been the type of person 1:03:42.800 --> 1:03:45.320 I will tell I'm gonna tell people what I would do, 1:03:46.760 --> 1:03:50.800 but I'm not necessarily gonna tell you what to do right, 1:03:51.480 --> 1:03:56.280 just because we different, and the older that I get, 1:03:56.560 --> 1:04:00.280 the more and more I realize even my granny ain't know. 1:04:00.280 --> 1:04:01.400 What the fuck she was doing. 1:04:01.920 --> 1:04:02.520 None of us do. 1:04:03.440 --> 1:04:06.439 Like my Grinny didn't know, My mama still don't know, 1:04:06.680 --> 1:04:10.720 my daddy didn't know, like everybody is like navigating life, 1:04:10.760 --> 1:04:13.440 and life is all about choices. Like some people are 1:04:13.440 --> 1:04:16.360 gonna make certain decisions that will end up putting them 1:04:16.400 --> 1:04:18.200 in a better position. Some people are gonna make certain 1:04:18.240 --> 1:04:19.280 decisions that are gonna. 1:04:19.160 --> 1:04:20.680 End up putting them in a fuck clup position. 1:04:21.080 --> 1:04:23.840 It's really all about choices, and it's no right or 1:04:23.880 --> 1:04:27.960 wrong choice. Nobody got it all the way completely figured out, 1:04:28.000 --> 1:04:31.480 because it's no right or wrong way to do these sheat. 1:04:31.680 --> 1:04:35.880 So I just I don't know, like I even try to, 1:04:36.160 --> 1:04:39.400 Like I said, unless someone comes and asks me, I 1:04:39.440 --> 1:04:41.680 really don't be trying to give people advice like that, 1:04:41.760 --> 1:04:45.360 because I don't know. I don't know. I don't even 1:04:45.400 --> 1:04:47.640 know how I ended up here. To be honest, yes 1:04:47.800 --> 1:04:50.040 the fuck you do what I'm saying. No, I don't, 1:04:50.080 --> 1:04:53.240 though I really don't, because when I was in my twenties, 1:04:53.280 --> 1:04:55.720 I was very much a person who I did what 1:04:55.760 --> 1:04:57.640 the fuck I wanted to do when I wanted to 1:04:57.640 --> 1:04:59.280 do it. If I didn't want to fucking work a job, 1:04:59.400 --> 1:05:01.880 no more, I was gonna quig and I was just 1:05:01.880 --> 1:05:03.560 gonna take a leap of faith and be like, you 1:05:03.600 --> 1:05:06.200 know what, I'm gonna try something else. Okay, this didn't work, 1:05:06.280 --> 1:05:07.920 let me try this, Let me try this. If we're 1:05:07.920 --> 1:05:11.560 really being honest, that's not conducive to being successful. That's 1:05:11.560 --> 1:05:14.640 not the habits of a successful person at a younger age. 1:05:14.760 --> 1:05:17.280 If we're being honest. 1:05:17.680 --> 1:05:24.240 But it worked for me, Yeah, But to be completely honest, 1:05:24.520 --> 1:05:30.240 that's like some anomaly. She it's not gonna work for everybody. So, 1:05:30.920 --> 1:05:33.280 and to be honest, I did not like, Yeah, I 1:05:33.320 --> 1:05:36.160 knew poor, I knew we had a good idea. I 1:05:36.200 --> 1:05:38.080 knew it was gonna be a good show because we're 1:05:38.080 --> 1:05:40.160 funny on camera, we have great bands, or we have 1:05:40.200 --> 1:05:44.560 great chemistry, whatever. But like the opportunities that we are getting, 1:05:44.560 --> 1:05:47.480 the things that we're doing. When I was like twenty 1:05:47.480 --> 1:05:49.640 six and I decided to twenty five, my man, because 1:05:49.640 --> 1:05:50.840 I moved here when I was twenty five. When I 1:05:50.880 --> 1:05:53.160 was twenty five and I decided to move to Atlanta, I. 1:05:53.120 --> 1:05:55.120 Didn't know that I was gonna end up doing this. 1:05:55.800 --> 1:05:58.320 So it's like, I just don't be liking to like 1:05:58.480 --> 1:06:02.200 tell people what to do based off of my experiences 1:06:02.280 --> 1:06:05.440 because it's not no right or wrong way to do 1:06:05.480 --> 1:06:08.720 this shit because by other people's standards and what people 1:06:08.760 --> 1:06:11.360 were advising me to do. If I wouldn't listen to them, 1:06:11.440 --> 1:06:13.880 I wouldn't be here because so many people advise me, 1:06:13.960 --> 1:06:15.560 you need to go back to you need to go 1:06:15.600 --> 1:06:18.200 back to working your corporate job. These doesn't make any sense. 1:06:18.520 --> 1:06:21.200 You're not gonna be successful doing these, but I kept 1:06:21.200 --> 1:06:21.760 doing these. 1:06:22.560 --> 1:06:29.160 I think my thing is hard work beats talent. Every 1:06:29.240 --> 1:06:33.640 time there is a lot of people who are making 1:06:33.680 --> 1:06:36.640 a lot of money that y'all be like, how cause 1:06:36.680 --> 1:06:40.120 they gonna outwork you. So the reason I feel like 1:06:40.280 --> 1:06:43.320 it's my duty to sit on this couch and tell 1:06:43.320 --> 1:06:45.920 you young people, because I swear to God, if I 1:06:46.040 --> 1:06:49.240 had a lex P to look up to, because nobody 1:06:49.280 --> 1:06:53.440 sat me down and said, work, put out the content, 1:06:53.680 --> 1:06:56.840 or go do this, focus on this. I was focused 1:06:56.880 --> 1:07:00.400 on party, now have fun. But if I would have 1:07:00.400 --> 1:07:04.960 went hard, maybe I would have had my oscar by now. 1:07:06.000 --> 1:07:09.320 I would have been I would have been like, So 1:07:09.480 --> 1:07:11.680 what I'm saying. 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I don't give a 1:09:23.840 --> 1:09:26.120 fuck if we met yesterday. I don't care if we 1:09:26.200 --> 1:09:29.200 met two hours before Christmas. I want a gift. 1:09:29.439 --> 1:09:33.240 If y'all met yesterday, y'all met on December twenty third, 1:09:33.320 --> 1:09:36.400 and y'all had a fire date. What kind of gift 1:09:36.479 --> 1:09:39.719 do you expect, though? Give me a little gift card? 1:09:40.560 --> 1:09:41.200 How much on it? 1:09:41.280 --> 1:09:46.800 Little spy spat dight, I don't know, like two hundred dollars, 1:09:46.840 --> 1:09:48.479 three hundred dollars. You can give me like an Amazon 1:09:48.640 --> 1:09:50.840 gift card. I could find some shit on Amazon for 1:09:50.920 --> 1:09:55.559 two hundred and three hundred dollars. But something, Yeah, yeah, 1:09:55.800 --> 1:09:57.280 you need to give me something. You can give me 1:09:57.280 --> 1:10:00.320 a bottle of wine and a card. Okay, don't even 1:10:00.320 --> 1:10:01.560 gotta be a gift card. You can give me a 1:10:01.680 --> 1:10:05.920 nice bottle of wine, a little fifty fifty dollars sixty 1:10:05.960 --> 1:10:08.760 dollars bottle of wine and a gift I mean, not 1:10:08.840 --> 1:10:09.559 a gift card. 1:10:09.520 --> 1:10:13.719 A Christmas card. Yeah, it's the thought that count. 1:10:14.280 --> 1:10:16.800 I don't care if I met you and I we 1:10:16.960 --> 1:10:19.360 had a fire date, nigga, I grace your present. 1:10:20.560 --> 1:10:24.160 Give me a motherfucking present. I feel like we are 1:10:24.200 --> 1:10:26.880 in a time where people just don't want to be nice. 1:10:28.360 --> 1:10:30.240 Why don't y'all want to be nice to people? 1:10:30.479 --> 1:10:32.599 Yeah, like, I don't see nothing wrong with that. If 1:10:32.640 --> 1:10:34.960 we had a fire date. We met on the twenty third, 1:10:35.120 --> 1:10:38.400 Christmas is two days from now, why would you not want. 1:10:38.320 --> 1:10:38.800 To get me. 1:10:39.960 --> 1:10:41.720 You can uber eat I say this all the time. 1:10:41.760 --> 1:10:45.679 You can uber eats roses literally, or some jerk chickens, 1:10:46.120 --> 1:10:49.639 anything anything. If I said, on the day, oh my god, 1:10:49.760 --> 1:10:52.439 jerk chicken is my favorite food, and then on Christmas Day, 1:10:53.080 --> 1:10:55.559 now you know I'm eating, but don't send no jerk 1:10:55.640 --> 1:10:56.840 chicken for real, because you know we're eating. 1:10:56.880 --> 1:11:00.240 But if you just sent some flowers or shit, you 1:11:00.320 --> 1:11:01.360 can still see me some. 1:11:01.680 --> 1:11:05.120 Anything, though, because I feel like I'm gonna get you 1:11:05.240 --> 1:11:08.040 a card. Let me tell you one thing about memories 1:11:08.080 --> 1:11:12.880 that are so good. If you sat down and bought 1:11:12.920 --> 1:11:16.040 a card, a Hallmark card or whatever card, and wrote 1:11:16.080 --> 1:11:16.840 a pair. Hey. 1:11:17.640 --> 1:11:20.840 I know this is early, but we had an amazing date. 1:11:21.520 --> 1:11:23.040 And no matter where this goes. 1:11:22.880 --> 1:11:24.960 Whereas its leads, I just know we had a fire 1:11:25.040 --> 1:11:28.200 first date. You're special to me and I hope you 1:11:28.280 --> 1:11:31.439 have an amazing Christmas. Now say y'all end up. Five 1:11:31.560 --> 1:11:41.800 years six years that card, his cards, so much love 1:11:42.320 --> 1:11:45.479 to you and your spouse. This is something that you 1:11:45.560 --> 1:11:50.439 could look back on forever. Memories, sentimental gifts. 1:11:50.880 --> 1:11:53.600 I don't care if it's the first date, take pictures. 1:11:53.640 --> 1:11:58.759 Have a good time, because you know what I already 1:11:58.800 --> 1:11:59.640 what we're gonna say. You. 1:12:05.240 --> 1:12:20.680 I pray for someone like you, and think, pray for 1:12:20.880 --> 1:12:22.320 someone like you. 1:12:24.880 --> 1:12:33.960 That's you, dude, love me to That's what I'm saying. 1:12:34.720 --> 1:12:44.439 Just think about it. I'm not mad. That was good. 1:12:44.960 --> 1:12:45.360 Thanks. 1:12:46.040 --> 1:12:49.160 I working, I can work my range. But yeah, I 1:12:49.240 --> 1:12:51.360 think that you should. I think if you just started 1:12:51.360 --> 1:12:54.120 talking to somebody. We need to get out of this 1:12:54.320 --> 1:12:56.759 era of feeling like, oh, this is corny, this is corny. 1:12:56.800 --> 1:12:59.760 There was a little guy who went viral the other day, 1:12:59.800 --> 1:13:01.320 but because he was like, oh I got a first 1:13:01.400 --> 1:13:03.639 date tonight, I bought flowers, and it was so many 1:13:03.720 --> 1:13:07.679 men calling him corny for getting her flowers. It's okay 1:13:07.760 --> 1:13:09.960 to court women, but women, it's okay to be nice 1:13:09.960 --> 1:13:11.840 to men too, and friends too. 1:13:12.040 --> 1:13:14.360 Like you can meet a friend on like the twenty 1:13:14.400 --> 1:13:17.479 eighth and then it's Christmy. You can send your friend 1:13:17.600 --> 1:13:20.880 a little car, a little You know how happy I 1:13:20.920 --> 1:13:23.120 would be if events sent me aboux the cookies. 1:13:22.760 --> 1:13:23.479 And I just met her. 1:13:23.840 --> 1:13:24.080 Event. 1:13:24.240 --> 1:13:25.040 Let me tell you something. 1:13:25.400 --> 1:13:29.760 I'm just saying some shepherd's pie once home, and I 1:13:30.080 --> 1:13:33.240 ate on that bitch for two three days, and somebody 1:13:33.320 --> 1:13:33.600 try to. 1:13:33.560 --> 1:13:35.799 Call me on the comments. They said, because you like peas, 1:13:36.120 --> 1:13:40.439 I don't. Event exactly, I said that. I said, Event 1:13:40.640 --> 1:13:44.519 doesn't put peas in her shepherd's pie because I don't eat. 1:13:44.439 --> 1:13:47.160 Peas past the peas like you used to do. I 1:13:47.479 --> 1:13:48.160 passed the peace. 1:13:48.200 --> 1:13:50.280 But anyway, I said that because I was like, oh 1:13:50.360 --> 1:13:52.519 my god, she took the time out and she did 1:13:52.600 --> 1:13:55.120 that for me. Be sentimental with your gifts. But I 1:13:55.280 --> 1:13:57.760 absolutely believe I don't care if you met me a 1:13:57.880 --> 1:14:02.559 day before. I don't care your car. It's four oh, 1:14:02.720 --> 1:14:06.840 I said, four three four dollars, get a car. 1:14:07.000 --> 1:14:09.280 The hypnotic Canaladay. 1:14:10.479 --> 1:14:14.600 Blame it on that, but now I agree, friend, like, 1:14:15.400 --> 1:14:17.800 because I would send if I met a man and 1:14:17.920 --> 1:14:22.879 we had an amazing date. It's two days before Christie's. 1:14:22.920 --> 1:14:26.800 Our date was phenomenal. I'm looking forward to going into 1:14:26.880 --> 1:14:30.320 the next year talking to you, going on more dates. 1:14:30.920 --> 1:14:32.400 I would send you again. 1:14:33.360 --> 1:14:35.920 And like I said, we just met, So it's not 1:14:36.160 --> 1:14:38.519 like about a war of who could spend more money. 1:14:38.560 --> 1:14:40.240 It's not like now, if you want to send the 1:14:40.320 --> 1:14:47.479 Shanelle big By all means do you, but you don't 1:14:47.640 --> 1:14:50.559 have to do that, Like it could be something small, 1:14:51.120 --> 1:14:53.880 because most likely I'm gonna send you something small. 1:14:56.880 --> 1:14:57.519 So it's cool. 1:14:57.800 --> 1:15:00.559 I agree, I agree, I think do something. 1:15:04.760 --> 1:15:07.439 I'm not sitting you know, Cardier bracelet, right, but. 1:15:07.520 --> 1:15:10.160 I think we should get back to being nice and 1:15:10.320 --> 1:15:13.200 doing nice things for people. It's so funny. Let me 1:15:13.280 --> 1:15:15.439 tell you all a story. Let me tell y'all a 1:15:15.560 --> 1:15:20.040 story about how I was dating this guy and I 1:15:20.160 --> 1:15:22.559 didn't have no money at the time, and he did right. 1:15:23.080 --> 1:15:24.400 And I don't care if he see this or not, 1:15:24.520 --> 1:15:27.240 because I will never forgive him to this day because 1:15:27.240 --> 1:15:31.320 you weird to this day, Like okay, he used to like, 1:15:31.400 --> 1:15:33.360 you know, find me out whatever, but he knew I 1:15:33.400 --> 1:15:35.280 didn't have no money. I was always very honest with 1:15:35.360 --> 1:15:37.400 the guys at the time I used to date. So 1:15:37.560 --> 1:15:41.920 his birthday came around. I didn't have no money, y'all. Nothing, No, 1:15:42.160 --> 1:15:45.320 I didn't zero. I mean I had a little one too, 1:15:45.439 --> 1:15:48.560 but it wasn't enough to do nothing big. So I 1:15:48.680 --> 1:15:51.839 sent him like this little basket of like his favorite 1:15:51.920 --> 1:15:56.519 candies and little things like that. So he decides to 1:15:56.600 --> 1:15:59.960 get on the internet and was like, out of bought 1:16:00.160 --> 1:16:02.880 this girl, x y Z send her this amount of money, 1:16:03.560 --> 1:16:06.320 did this and that, and she sent me a basket 1:16:06.400 --> 1:16:08.600 full of candy and it made me so man, it 1:16:08.720 --> 1:16:10.240 hurt my feelings. I was like, that's all I had 1:16:10.280 --> 1:16:12.240 the money for. And I sent him a message. I said, 1:16:12.240 --> 1:16:14.280 you know what, I said, this is fucked up because 1:16:14.280 --> 1:16:15.560 this is all I had at the moment. I was 1:16:15.600 --> 1:16:18.080 trying to be sentimental and be nice and give you something. 1:16:18.120 --> 1:16:19.120 But you know what, it's cool. 1:16:19.600 --> 1:16:23.840 It's cool to this day, to this day, this nigga 1:16:23.880 --> 1:16:26.679 fell off. Nigga went to jail for scamming. 1:16:26.840 --> 1:16:29.520 He probably still eating the candy still because. 1:16:29.240 --> 1:16:31.559 He has to now because that's how you got to eat. 1:16:32.160 --> 1:16:34.360 And to this day, this man still dms me. But 1:16:34.520 --> 1:16:35.439 I'm so out of you. 1:16:36.360 --> 1:16:37.720 You should have did me right though. 1:16:37.840 --> 1:16:40.120 You should have been thankful for that basket I sent you, 1:16:40.160 --> 1:16:42.920 because now I really could see you a General gy 1:16:43.040 --> 1:16:45.880 Gone or the Bentley. But you ain't never getting okay, 1:16:45.880 --> 1:16:47.519 I'm not sending on it still, but you know what 1:16:47.600 --> 1:16:51.280 I mean, you know, eating because I'm up now. That's 1:16:51.280 --> 1:16:54.080 why you don't treat people like that. Because all the 1:16:54.400 --> 1:16:56.880 all the girls, all the baddies you was messing with, 1:16:57.360 --> 1:16:59.400 probably none of them may never got you nothing. At 1:16:59.479 --> 1:17:01.200 least I tried to go out of my way to 1:17:01.360 --> 1:17:02.240 get you something. 1:17:02.360 --> 1:17:04.439 They sharing them sweet toys, y'all eating. 1:17:04.280 --> 1:17:08.719 Them sweet tarts together, whole ad Nikka you. I swear 1:17:08.760 --> 1:17:10.800 to God that happened so long ago, and I will 1:17:10.880 --> 1:17:11.600 never forget about it. 1:17:11.640 --> 1:17:12.800 Because that's so ungrateful. 1:17:12.960 --> 1:17:15.920 I feel like, Yeah, I just feel like when it 1:17:16.000 --> 1:17:19.720 comes to gifts, it's okay for people to do what's 1:17:19.720 --> 1:17:25.760 in their heart unless you know. 1:17:27.520 --> 1:17:28.200 That he got it. 1:17:28.280 --> 1:17:31.160 And y'all been dating for a long time, Okay, that's different. 1:17:31.240 --> 1:17:35.040 That's different. Like if that's show Men and you know 1:17:35.120 --> 1:17:37.599 what the fuck going on, it's okay. I'm not gonna 1:17:37.640 --> 1:17:39.120 lie though, if I haven't made Like, if you'll. 1:17:38.920 --> 1:17:41.320 Send me a basket of candy, I'm like, I might 1:17:41.360 --> 1:17:42.400 feel some type of way you. 1:17:45.600 --> 1:17:49.200 Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, don't do that. 1:17:49.880 --> 1:17:54.000 I'm clocking it tea. No, you can't clock my tea because. 1:17:53.800 --> 1:17:56.880 I feel like when y'all birthday rolls around, I give 1:17:56.920 --> 1:17:59.519 you whatever you want. So if it's a different holiday 1:17:59.640 --> 1:18:02.120 like a and I send you a basket of candy. 1:18:01.920 --> 1:18:05.479 Or no, wow, because I don't even eat candy. But 1:18:05.760 --> 1:18:07.719 if I send you a basket of orange, I thought 1:18:07.800 --> 1:18:10.120 that count. If I send you some oranges and something, 1:18:10.160 --> 1:18:12.280 it's the thought that count. You need to send me 1:18:12.360 --> 1:18:14.679 something that I like. Don't send me no basket of candy. 1:18:14.720 --> 1:18:15.400 I don't even eat. 1:18:15.439 --> 1:18:16.800 Can you like oranges? 1:18:17.320 --> 1:18:19.240 I like oranges, but don't see me there. I can 1:18:19.280 --> 1:18:20.040 go to Whole Food. 1:18:20.479 --> 1:18:22.400 It's the thought that counts. Now you don't gotta go 1:18:22.479 --> 1:18:23.080 to Now you. 1:18:23.200 --> 1:18:26.280 Can send me what you could send me for Christmas. 1:18:27.680 --> 1:18:30.800 You could buy me something from my house. I might 1:18:30.960 --> 1:18:33.120 want a new little centerpiece or something. 1:18:33.680 --> 1:18:36.439 You have everything in the house that you need. 1:18:36.640 --> 1:18:40.000 I don't what if I want to switch up my decord? Okay, 1:18:40.240 --> 1:18:43.439 I'll do that now, That's what I'm saying. And that's 1:18:43.479 --> 1:18:45.240 not but that's very expensive. Like I would send you 1:18:45.360 --> 1:18:48.559 something like a little centerpiece bowl or something like, nothing 1:18:48.640 --> 1:18:50.360 too crazy, but I feel like you do need you. 1:18:51.000 --> 1:18:54.840 You should get somebody with they like right, but like 1:18:54.920 --> 1:18:57.360 if you know them, if it's somebody you just met, 1:18:57.520 --> 1:18:59.320 it's the thought that the thought that counts. 1:18:59.360 --> 1:19:01.000 But also you sent me some candy. 1:19:01.040 --> 1:19:03.160 I'm on your eggs, right, but if you send me 1:19:03.240 --> 1:19:06.000 some candy, and I know you don't have much. At 1:19:06.040 --> 1:19:07.439 the time, I didn't have much, and it. 1:19:07.520 --> 1:19:10.560 Was you sent me candy. You wouldn't send me no vegetables. Well, no, 1:19:10.960 --> 1:19:12.879 you adn't send me a little salmon. 1:19:13.120 --> 1:19:13.519 It was a. 1:19:15.640 --> 1:19:19.519 Furlow basket and it was wrapped up and it had 1:19:19.560 --> 1:19:21.040 a bunch of different stuff. 1:19:21.760 --> 1:19:23.680 It was cute, it was thoughtful. 1:19:23.960 --> 1:19:26.000 Yeah, I want some Hershey kisses for dinner. And I 1:19:26.040 --> 1:19:29.639 don't got no fucking food. You got food, and I'll 1:19:30.840 --> 1:19:34.559 talk about you said you knew he didn't have nothing. 1:19:34.640 --> 1:19:38.040 So you see I sent him candy. He had money 1:19:38.080 --> 1:19:41.000 at the time. Oh he had money. He was so 1:19:41.160 --> 1:19:42.640 he thought it was funny, Like, bitch, why are you 1:19:42.680 --> 1:19:43.000 send me this? 1:19:43.080 --> 1:19:44.160 And what your other bitches sent you? 1:19:44.200 --> 1:19:44.240 On? 1:19:44.280 --> 1:19:46.679 What the mother bitches got now? Because while you blowing 1:19:46.680 --> 1:19:48.280 on my phone, stop talking to me. I don't have 1:19:48.360 --> 1:19:50.240 nothing to say to you because you try to play 1:19:50.320 --> 1:19:51.519 me when I had three dollars. 1:19:51.720 --> 1:19:54.360 Now, he would be grateful if you a little basket 1:19:54.439 --> 1:19:56.920 of green canned green beans and corn corn. 1:19:57.439 --> 1:19:58.640 He want them pict. 1:20:00.960 --> 1:20:02.040 I get the exclusive. 1:20:02.240 --> 1:20:04.000 You know how they be sending them boxes every month. 1:20:04.040 --> 1:20:05.320 And you got a subscription service. 1:20:05.360 --> 1:20:07.640 You can't send a canpinto beans. You gotta send the 1:20:07.720 --> 1:20:08.439 drawa man. 1:20:08.640 --> 1:20:11.720 I got a subscription service to a bean company, so 1:20:11.880 --> 1:20:15.439 I get a basket of beans with assortments. You have 1:20:15.520 --> 1:20:19.519 a you're lying, hey, mind business all I got? You 1:20:19.600 --> 1:20:23.479 have a subscription to a bean company? You were my business? 1:20:23.560 --> 1:20:25.040 Do you like assortment of beans? 1:20:25.080 --> 1:20:25.760 Have you ever had? 1:20:26.240 --> 1:20:28.360 It's like something It's called like twelve bean. 1:20:28.240 --> 1:20:32.639 Soup, bitch, twelve beans is bean twelve? That's that's eleven 1:20:32.760 --> 1:20:35.960 beans too, mini beans. I only need one bean in 1:20:36.080 --> 1:20:38.640 my sul It's like a soup and it has is 1:20:38.720 --> 1:20:39.920 in twelve beans. 1:20:40.680 --> 1:20:44.400 It got bean green. All I need. All I need 1:20:44.560 --> 1:20:50.599 is a little pinto a red alma. You can't put 1:20:50.960 --> 1:20:55.000 you gottas one. Lima is not the same. That's categories. 1:20:55.200 --> 1:20:56.559 You can't put lama beans. 1:20:57.000 --> 1:20:59.920 Lima beans and butter beans are the same thing, right, Yeah, 1:21:00.880 --> 1:21:03.519 But I'm saying in a in the soup, why the 1:21:03.600 --> 1:21:05.839 fuck do I want twelve different beans? 1:21:05.920 --> 1:21:09.960 And I was like white beans, black beans and so beans, 1:21:10.640 --> 1:21:12.679 red beans, chili beans. 1:21:13.600 --> 1:21:22.200 That fart's about to be astronomical, literally, ass because what 1:21:23.120 --> 1:21:25.880 you twelve beans, bitch, all of. 1:21:26.000 --> 1:21:29.560 Them twelve on the twelve Christmas. 1:21:29.680 --> 1:21:31.240 My nigga, get to me. 1:21:34.880 --> 1:21:35.639 Of bean. 1:21:41.720 --> 1:21:45.120 Now that's what les he gave to a men. She 1:21:45.200 --> 1:21:46.960 got a fucking bean subscription. 1:21:48.520 --> 1:21:52.040 Okay, bitch, let's move on. Now it's time to get 1:21:52.360 --> 1:21:58.559 into the big bowl. The big bowl about bow bow 1:21:58.760 --> 1:22:03.680 bow bow. So the topic for the bed today is 1:22:04.439 --> 1:22:07.559 sneaking away from the holiday party to have six How 1:22:07.600 --> 1:22:08.400 do you feel about that? 1:22:08.479 --> 1:22:09.639 I love sneak dicky. 1:22:11.360 --> 1:22:12.559 You a little sneak dicker? 1:22:13.200 --> 1:22:16.439 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think for sure. 1:22:16.720 --> 1:22:20.559 I think sneak dickens should be reserved for like seasoned 1:22:20.640 --> 1:22:23.920 couples to keep it exciting and fun. I think, like, 1:22:24.080 --> 1:22:26.080 if you're at a holiday party and this is like 1:22:26.160 --> 1:22:28.680 the second or third day, and y'all are just now 1:22:28.720 --> 1:22:31.400 getting to know each other, that man might be too 1:22:31.560 --> 1:22:34.519 lustful because this is only our second or third day. 1:22:34.560 --> 1:22:35.960 Why are you trying to like get away from the 1:22:36.000 --> 1:22:38.519 party and go have sex. But now, if we've been 1:22:38.600 --> 1:22:41.400 in a relationship for like over a year and a half, 1:22:41.600 --> 1:22:46.439 two years, Oh, it's exciting, it's fun, but it gotta 1:22:46.479 --> 1:22:50.200 be quick. See this is the problem with sneak dicken 1:22:50.680 --> 1:22:54.920 in the party. You cannot want to go all out 1:22:55.280 --> 1:22:57.680 and be doing. You gotta be able to slide in 1:22:57.760 --> 1:23:00.880 the bathroom. Mind you, it's a half bathroom. If you 1:23:00.960 --> 1:23:03.559 at a house party, it's a half bathroom, right. They 1:23:03.720 --> 1:23:06.040 just got a toilet and the sink in there. 1:23:06.200 --> 1:23:07.040 That's all we need. 1:23:07.600 --> 1:23:10.000 You gotta be able to bend over the sink, lift 1:23:10.040 --> 1:23:12.720 your dress up. You gotta do your quick pumps if 1:23:12.720 --> 1:23:14.799 you know, you ain't finna if you've been drinking Hennessy 1:23:14.880 --> 1:23:18.519 all night. I hate Hennancy Dick, I hate. I don't 1:23:18.560 --> 1:23:21.839 really like drunk sticks though I like it, but sometimes 1:23:21.880 --> 1:23:26.920 when men get too drunk, they can't nothing the holiday party, Dick. 1:23:27.439 --> 1:23:29.320 It needs to be quick. So if you ain't finna, 1:23:29.400 --> 1:23:31.479 not we ain't finna sneak away from the party. 1:23:31.680 --> 1:23:34.000 We ain't finna FuG we ain't a bity Welcome to 1:23:34.080 --> 1:23:34.760 the party. 1:23:34.600 --> 1:23:35.200 Not that one. 1:23:35.680 --> 1:23:40.800 Yeah, I just feel like it definitely needs to be 1:23:41.840 --> 1:23:46.040 a quikie. But you know, it's not just reserved for 1:23:46.120 --> 1:23:49.560 holiday parties. It's not, but it's the holidays. But it 1:23:49.760 --> 1:23:53.680 is the holidays. I think it also is depending on 1:23:53.920 --> 1:23:59.000 where you are. I'm not sneak dickon at my grandma hose. 1:23:59.560 --> 1:24:02.600 I'm not sneak dickon at my aunty hose. That's just 1:24:02.680 --> 1:24:06.920 a disrespectul for the work party. That's disrespectful. I'm not 1:24:07.040 --> 1:24:10.200 sneak dickon in my aunty bathroom. Yeah, I agree. 1:24:11.040 --> 1:24:11.559 I agree. 1:24:11.840 --> 1:24:16.519 Now, hello, plaid towel accent on the floor, You wiping 1:24:16.560 --> 1:24:16.880 it with you. 1:24:19.640 --> 1:24:23.720 The whole whole hole. Merry Christmas, rag, Come on now, 1:24:23.920 --> 1:24:26.480 be respectful, have some des. 1:24:26.200 --> 1:24:27.840 They're gonna go in the restroom the next day. 1:24:27.880 --> 1:24:35.000 Why is so skew? Now? Who the hair got? Who? 1:24:35.360 --> 1:24:36.800 Now that that ship? 1:24:37.560 --> 1:24:40.080 I gotta throw my damn rag or white? Now she 1:24:40.240 --> 1:24:40.960 just gotta wash you. 1:24:42.160 --> 1:24:45.519 But but I think too in the work, if it's 1:24:45.560 --> 1:24:48.760 a work party, your coworkers do not want to hear 1:24:48.800 --> 1:24:52.759 that either, because well, let's say this first. You gotta 1:24:52.800 --> 1:24:56.719 be quiet. Sometimes the coucie be loud. Now it's getting 1:24:56.800 --> 1:24:59.960 too loud. Don't stop beating it up in a ba 1:25:00.000 --> 1:25:03.639 ath and we're supposed to be quiet. They the cheeks 1:25:03.640 --> 1:25:04.759 should not be clapping. 1:25:05.360 --> 1:25:07.280 Well, what if you can't healthy, then. 1:25:07.640 --> 1:25:09.960 Spread them cheeks and tell him to slow down. 1:25:11.240 --> 1:25:12.280 Spread them cheeks. 1:25:12.400 --> 1:25:15.040 They can't clap if they spread, you. 1:25:15.080 --> 1:25:17.040 Gotta But it's still gonna be there. 1:25:18.680 --> 1:25:21.479 No, that's the Now that's a different sound you're talking about. 1:25:23.920 --> 1:25:26.120 That's not as loud the music. I'm not talking about 1:25:26.160 --> 1:25:31.559 that and cheese. We gotta get technical. We gotta get 1:25:31.680 --> 1:25:34.320 technical so we can tell them how to have sex 1:25:34.439 --> 1:25:38.600 at the hollow, spread the cheek. Now that mac and 1:25:38.720 --> 1:25:41.840 cheese sound gonna happen, that's when you play. They might 1:25:42.840 --> 1:25:45.679 act like you're on your phone scrolling all I'm taking 1:25:45.720 --> 1:25:52.120 the ship. Whatever. What kind of couchie you got? Me? 1:25:52.560 --> 1:25:52.760 Yeah? 1:25:53.840 --> 1:25:57.639 Me, yeah? Compared to what kind of mac and cheese? 1:25:57.720 --> 1:25:59.160 What kind of not mac and cheese? What kind of 1:25:59.200 --> 1:26:01.519 cootie you got? Compared to the Christmas food? What kind 1:26:01.560 --> 1:26:02.280 of coochie you got? 1:26:03.080 --> 1:26:05.320 I think if you're comparing it to Christmas food, the 1:26:05.439 --> 1:26:07.439 only thing you should be comparing it to is mag 1:26:07.560 --> 1:26:10.840 and cheese. What other kind of couchie would you have? 1:26:11.360 --> 1:26:14.439 You could have corn bread dressing. 1:26:14.600 --> 1:26:15.719 Oh that's a little. 1:26:16.520 --> 1:26:17.439 That's a little dry. 1:26:17.760 --> 1:26:19.960 But when you add that ghibli gravy, it's a little 1:26:20.000 --> 1:26:20.560 more you can have. 1:26:21.120 --> 1:26:23.439 But you can have that. You can have that ham. 1:26:24.080 --> 1:26:27.160 That ham be juicy and meaty. I got a ham, 1:26:28.560 --> 1:26:30.720 I got a hand out of hem. It's juicy and 1:26:30.800 --> 1:26:33.639 it's meaty. Oh you know what I might got, yams 1:26:34.120 --> 1:26:37.000 you it's a little sweet. It's a little sweet and 1:26:37.240 --> 1:26:38.840 juice and juice. That's what I'm saying. 1:26:39.479 --> 1:26:41.559 My ship is, if you. 1:26:48.200 --> 1:26:51.280 Know what I'm saying. Some of y'all got dinner rolls. 1:26:52.400 --> 1:26:58.000 You ain't got ship going on. I really don't need 1:26:58.080 --> 1:27:02.360 to eat, Madam Schupert, I don't need to eat it. 1:27:02.439 --> 1:27:06.720 But I take you y'all got the I'm gonna put 1:27:06.760 --> 1:27:08.920 it on my plate because you feel like you're supposed 1:27:09.000 --> 1:27:11.200 to have a role. But I really don't need this shit. 1:27:11.479 --> 1:27:12.400 It ain't that good. 1:27:12.760 --> 1:27:15.280 Yeah, I don't need a roll. Y'all got that cranberry 1:27:15.320 --> 1:27:16.719 sauce because I don't need that neither. 1:27:18.080 --> 1:27:20.800 But cranberry sauce, it ain't wet, it ain't dry, but 1:27:20.920 --> 1:27:24.719 it's like it's cool, the cranberry sauce. 1:27:24.800 --> 1:27:27.800 I don't know though, because every time I ever go 1:27:27.920 --> 1:27:30.080 to a holiday of eat and they have cranberry sauce, 1:27:30.120 --> 1:27:33.240 it's it's still there and it's always still there. 1:27:35.200 --> 1:27:37.479 Cranberry. And this is coming from a bitch. 1:27:37.560 --> 1:27:38.800 You love cranberry. 1:27:39.080 --> 1:27:40.000 You don't eat creamery. 1:27:40.080 --> 1:27:43.200 I don't. It's I will take a little bite sometimes. 1:27:43.280 --> 1:27:47.000 But I'll say this, I've had cranberry sauce one time, 1:27:47.040 --> 1:27:49.519 but it was homemade and it was really fucking good. 1:27:49.680 --> 1:27:51.160 But most of the time people get it from the 1:27:51.240 --> 1:27:54.479 can and they could eat and like, yeah, a lot 1:27:54.520 --> 1:27:56.000 of y'all got that cranberry sauce. 1:27:56.439 --> 1:27:57.280 Cranberry sauce. 1:27:57.320 --> 1:28:02.719 It's wet and its juicy. Green bean cast role getting 1:28:02.880 --> 1:28:08.880 ate thanks though, But that's see. This is how when 1:28:08.920 --> 1:28:12.800 you're trying to get in an interracial relationship. Green the 1:28:12.880 --> 1:28:15.960 black girls who got the green bean cast role is 1:28:16.040 --> 1:28:18.360 the one with the bad wigs because they could pull 1:28:18.400 --> 1:28:20.000 the other ones. You know, they say they only date 1:28:20.120 --> 1:28:23.559 us when we got bad wigs, get green bean cast role. 1:28:23.640 --> 1:28:27.360 Kuchie God, they going on the ATV rise they in Dubai. 1:28:28.320 --> 1:28:29.680 They thatsagreed. 1:28:30.280 --> 1:28:32.679 I'm telling you that Greeban castro couchie. 1:28:32.720 --> 1:28:34.720 I think the girls with the bad wigs, I think 1:28:34.760 --> 1:28:38.960 they got that helm m. What you're trying to say, 1:28:39.720 --> 1:28:43.320 I not you, but I'm saying I think the girls 1:28:43.360 --> 1:28:44.800 with the bad wigs got their hem. 1:28:45.120 --> 1:28:48.240 Nah. White white men don't know nothing about good couchie. 1:28:48.760 --> 1:28:50.879 Don't they just think white women got good Kucie. 1:28:51.200 --> 1:28:52.360 No, y'all. 1:28:52.400 --> 1:28:54.120 Don't think none of them got good kouchie. 1:28:54.760 --> 1:28:54.920 Y'all. 1:28:54.920 --> 1:28:56.760 Don't they know how to put that dang, y'all, don't 1:28:56.760 --> 1:28:59.679 think Okay, but this is the thing we've talked about 1:28:59.720 --> 1:29:04.559 this for. It's a difference between good sex and good kouchie. 1:29:05.040 --> 1:29:07.479 You could very much be a woman who have good 1:29:07.640 --> 1:29:10.880 KOUCHI that doesn't mean you have good sex, because good 1:29:11.000 --> 1:29:14.280 sex entels knowing what to do in the bed right, 1:29:14.439 --> 1:29:16.280 knowing what to do with that thing. I think they 1:29:16.600 --> 1:29:20.000 more of them have good sex, y'all. Don't think they 1:29:20.120 --> 1:29:23.240 got good cool y'all, don't think they just got later. 1:29:26.520 --> 1:29:27.439 Because sometimes I. 1:29:27.520 --> 1:29:32.040 Know what I got. I got that. I'm not gonna 1:29:32.040 --> 1:29:32.840 talk to you them on that. 1:29:33.479 --> 1:29:37.640 Please, yeah saying I got that. Please you know I 1:29:37.720 --> 1:29:41.240 got that for me. 1:29:41.320 --> 1:29:44.680 I'm telling you you gotta have that, baby, baby, Please. 1:29:44.560 --> 1:29:44.960 Why. 1:29:47.360 --> 1:29:48.800 That's what I'm saying. 1:29:49.160 --> 1:29:54.760 I do not think and this is was please. All 1:29:54.800 --> 1:29:57.640 I'm saying is this is not I. 1:29:57.840 --> 1:30:00.040 Swear, y'all less Please. 1:30:06.240 --> 1:30:09.280 Wait, I'm trying to tell I'm trying to tell them. 1:30:09.200 --> 1:30:12.160 What the if not? I got the video in my phone. 1:30:12.640 --> 1:30:18.280 All I'm saying is all I'm saying is y'all have 1:30:18.439 --> 1:30:21.400 to understand. It's a difference, like she said, But I 1:30:21.560 --> 1:30:24.519 do not think that the women that they outside, I 1:30:24.560 --> 1:30:27.040 don't think they got that ham. I think they got 1:30:27.280 --> 1:30:31.840 that green bean castrole and the green bean casserole is 1:30:32.600 --> 1:30:34.200 it's green bean casserole. 1:30:34.439 --> 1:30:35.400 I like green bean. 1:30:35.280 --> 1:30:38.040 Castrole, so I can speak because I'm an expert. But 1:30:38.280 --> 1:30:41.479 niggas who like green bean casserole they green. So you 1:30:41.600 --> 1:30:43.960 might gonna find a nigga that like green bean casserole. 1:30:44.000 --> 1:30:46.880 But he a square ass nigga. He don't know about 1:30:46.920 --> 1:30:50.360 them yams. He ain't had that good ham, he ain't 1:30:50.439 --> 1:30:53.280 had that mac and cheese, so he like, oh, this 1:30:53.439 --> 1:30:57.840 green bean casserole busting, But will he don't know nothing 1:30:57.880 --> 1:31:02.200 if he liked it. But because you know, while through 1:31:02.280 --> 1:31:04.800 it's very few people that really make green bean cast 1:31:04.840 --> 1:31:11.639 throw with a real were not. But we are using 1:31:11.720 --> 1:31:15.120 a can mushroom and a can. You gotta if somebody 1:31:15.160 --> 1:31:17.639 can make green bean cast role with the real ship 1:31:18.320 --> 1:31:20.760 and buzzing it down, they making it with the rule 1:31:20.800 --> 1:31:24.120 with the flower, and they're doing it with the chicken stock, 1:31:24.560 --> 1:31:27.040 and they're actually cutting up the mushrooms and adding it 1:31:27.120 --> 1:31:28.720 in there. That's how you really make a green bean 1:31:28.760 --> 1:31:30.400 cast throw. They don't know about that. 1:31:34.720 --> 1:31:37.560 It's okay, we can keeping. 1:31:37.760 --> 1:31:39.360 But what I'm saying, but I. 1:31:39.400 --> 1:31:43.760 Think that's crazy that y'all think a whole population of 1:31:43.920 --> 1:31:45.840 people nobody got good. 1:31:46.960 --> 1:31:49.280 Oh, they were gonna get canceled right because of that. 1:31:49.520 --> 1:31:54.160 I'm gonna get canceled. Okay, I'll say who I think 1:31:54.200 --> 1:31:55.360 I get kuchi from them? 1:31:57.680 --> 1:31:58.160 From them? 1:32:00.600 --> 1:32:07.080 I think Sabrina Carpenter got good coaching. She said that 1:32:07.280 --> 1:32:12.680 expressed all she missed it. I said, oh baby, you're 1:32:12.720 --> 1:32:19.240 doing something on that thing. Yeah, she said. Queen Elizabeth 1:32:19.360 --> 1:32:23.679 had that wop. She did that bitch ran a whole month, 1:32:24.000 --> 1:32:26.360 fourteen mother different countries. 1:32:27.040 --> 1:32:28.560 That was a tourist queen. 1:32:29.960 --> 1:32:30.240 About it. 1:32:30.600 --> 1:32:34.200 Miss don't matter it got the job done. She probably 1:32:34.280 --> 1:32:37.360 had that green bean cast role. It don't gotta be good, 1:32:37.439 --> 1:32:41.120 it gotta be edible. It don't gotta be good. Is 1:32:41.200 --> 1:32:47.080 it edible? I'm telling you that is why y'all get 1:32:47.200 --> 1:32:50.639 caught up and all this good coaches ship? Is it edible? 1:32:51.000 --> 1:32:54.880 Do we get the job done? She outlived her nigga. 1:32:55.800 --> 1:32:56.200 She did. 1:32:56.479 --> 1:33:02.120 She you know how bad, You know how stressful men are. 1:33:02.479 --> 1:33:05.840 To outlive a man is a feat These men will 1:33:05.920 --> 1:33:09.080 always outlive. These men are stressful. They be running the 1:33:09.160 --> 1:33:13.439 women into their grave. Okay, you know who? They do 1:33:13.560 --> 1:33:16.160 that to us? Though I'm talking about us, I'm not 1:33:16.200 --> 1:33:17.640 talking about them. They outlive them. 1:33:18.120 --> 1:33:19.920 Why they kuchie? 1:33:20.520 --> 1:33:23.920 No, it's edible, it's edible. 1:33:24.760 --> 1:33:25.360 It ain't good. 1:33:25.720 --> 1:33:26.519 It's edible. 1:33:27.280 --> 1:33:29.599 Okay, but I was good. 1:33:29.800 --> 1:33:32.200 So too much. 1:33:32.600 --> 1:33:35.040 We be doing too much, and we put too much 1:33:35.240 --> 1:33:36.599 value on that koachie. 1:33:38.120 --> 1:33:41.559 That ham is good. Ham is good. But sometimes people 1:33:41.640 --> 1:33:44.160 be like, I don't want ham. I don't know. 1:33:44.320 --> 1:33:48.799 I think kuchie is good. Currency. Cucci is valuable. 1:33:49.000 --> 1:33:51.280 It is valuable, but it ain't the only thing you 1:33:51.320 --> 1:33:52.719 can get your nigga for Christmas. 1:33:53.080 --> 1:33:57.360 It ain't. It ain't stopped and bringing it back, circling back. 1:33:57.840 --> 1:33:59.759 Stop giving your niggaskouchi for Christmas. 1:34:00.080 --> 1:34:02.439 Can't give that nigga couci every Christmas. He done got 1:34:02.520 --> 1:34:04.439 that same cucie eighteen years in a row. 1:34:04.600 --> 1:34:06.240 And then you still not even mixing up. 1:34:06.479 --> 1:34:07.840 You don't put a little bow on it. 1:34:08.560 --> 1:34:09.519 You don't do nothing. 1:34:10.240 --> 1:34:11.479 You do nothing nothing. 1:34:14.680 --> 1:34:16.599 But I feel like men y'all need to start making 1:34:16.640 --> 1:34:19.840 y'all women come. Maybe that'll solve some problems too. Y'all 1:34:19.920 --> 1:34:22.200 not making y'all women come enough, and they lying to y'all. 1:34:23.280 --> 1:34:26.120 I promise you that girl didn't come. I don't care 1:34:26.560 --> 1:34:27.040 she didn't. 1:34:27.760 --> 1:34:29.840 I feel like niggas don't really know when girls be 1:34:29.920 --> 1:34:32.679 coming over. I learned that from watching porn. 1:34:33.560 --> 1:34:34.679 The girls be faking. 1:34:34.960 --> 1:34:35.000 No. 1:34:35.200 --> 1:34:38.519 Well, first of all, niggas be like, oh yeah, it's creaming, 1:34:38.640 --> 1:34:39.960 and that be yeast. 1:34:42.080 --> 1:34:45.439 The rolls, the rolls that be, the rolls that they 1:34:45.600 --> 1:34:46.040 be baking. 1:34:47.320 --> 1:34:49.560 I'd be like, that is not no cream. But I 1:34:49.640 --> 1:34:51.639 will say this, I think it should be more black 1:34:51.680 --> 1:34:54.280 women too, since we talking about the right thing, it should. 1:34:54.000 --> 1:34:55.799 Be more black women than these awards. 1:34:56.720 --> 1:34:59.200 Because the white girls they be, you can tell when 1:34:59.200 --> 1:35:01.240 they faking, you can ain't really the black girls they be, 1:35:02.000 --> 1:35:04.800 they be seeing more real. The white girls be like 1:35:05.200 --> 1:35:08.040 a god so good. 1:35:09.040 --> 1:35:12.559 I'm not oh yeah, yeah, yeah. 1:35:14.040 --> 1:35:17.479 Come on, becky, that's like girls. 1:35:17.800 --> 1:35:19.679 No, it's a different variation. 1:35:19.800 --> 1:35:26.439 They'd be like, yeh, who watch watching Get in there 1:35:26.880 --> 1:35:29.040 because that's what we say though, get in there, daddy, 1:35:29.200 --> 1:35:31.320 that's what we be saying. Though we do definitely, but 1:35:31.400 --> 1:35:37.040 it'd be softer. It be like, you know, yeah, that's 1:35:37.080 --> 1:35:42.280 why I didn't do That's why I did. We changing 1:35:42.320 --> 1:35:57.679 this stuff. Time to move on to the babe the bye. Okay, 1:35:59.080 --> 1:36:00.479 we got a special guest, Jack. 1:36:03.280 --> 1:36:03.920 We love us. 1:36:04.000 --> 1:36:04.960 I'm Jack Thriller. 1:36:07.080 --> 1:36:08.439 You know what you right? 1:36:08.600 --> 1:36:11.479 We see you, We see you. 1:36:14.240 --> 1:36:15.679 I did I did. 1:36:17.280 --> 1:36:17.519 I know. 1:36:17.880 --> 1:36:21.080 I've been scared, not just I'm shame. 1:36:23.040 --> 1:36:26.519 Okay, so y'all gus. I know y'all probably can't hear Jack. 1:36:26.560 --> 1:36:29.719 I just started my acting classes and I'm not gonna 1:36:29.800 --> 1:36:32.160 lie like I guess. I'm just used to being like 1:36:32.320 --> 1:36:36.120 good at things like I played volleyball growing up. I 1:36:36.320 --> 1:36:38.479 was doing this and that. I was in quiet. I 1:36:38.600 --> 1:36:39.080 used to do all. 1:36:39.720 --> 1:36:41.400 So when I went to the first act class, I 1:36:41.439 --> 1:36:42.519 was like, oh, I'm about to kill this ship. 1:36:42.520 --> 1:36:45.000 I'm about to eat it up. And I'm big, not good. 1:36:46.400 --> 1:36:48.400 I know y'all be like, Lex need to do stand up, 1:36:48.439 --> 1:36:49.600 but she need to do it. I'm gonna do it. 1:36:49.800 --> 1:36:51.719 I'm getting there, but I have a lot of work 1:36:51.800 --> 1:36:59.760 to do. So the Jack Okay, I'm it's called the 1:36:59.800 --> 1:37:04.639 one Jack Off. Okay, I'm gonna pull up. I'm coming 1:37:04.680 --> 1:37:05.479 to this one this month. 1:37:10.880 --> 1:37:11.799 It's Brent Faz. 1:37:15.000 --> 1:37:22.120 Yeah, you text you how dare her dre? 1:37:22.800 --> 1:37:25.520 Why were you text Jack that sidetracked. 1:37:25.640 --> 1:37:28.960 I was at the gym so nasty. 1:37:28.680 --> 1:37:32.960 And so rad. I mean, you know he is. 1:37:34.439 --> 1:37:35.040 A liar. 1:37:35.439 --> 1:37:41.040 Okay, so now it's to get into the bop aid 1:37:41.640 --> 1:37:47.120 the Bye the Bow Bow. I have completely messed up this. 1:37:47.520 --> 1:37:49.559 That's why we need the cards back. I'm gonna get 1:37:49.600 --> 1:37:50.479 some cards made. 1:37:50.560 --> 1:37:51.920 What is Christmas? 1:37:52.600 --> 1:37:52.720 Oh? 1:37:52.880 --> 1:37:54.439 So you're gonna do a Christmas song? Because I'm not? 1:37:54.680 --> 1:37:54.960 I am? 1:37:55.080 --> 1:37:56.280 Okay, what's your Christmas song? 1:37:56.600 --> 1:37:57.200 Of course? 1:37:57.680 --> 1:38:02.280 It's that was good? 1:38:03.040 --> 1:38:07.040 It was good. She's been practicing. I don't gotta practice. 1:38:07.840 --> 1:38:13.600 But what you saying of it? 1:38:18.280 --> 1:38:22.559 And we'll okay, But okay, my Christmas song, I mean, 1:38:22.600 --> 1:38:25.000 well my song. It's All I Want for Christmas by 1:38:25.080 --> 1:38:28.120 Mariah Carey. Like y'all, first of all, let's really chat 1:38:28.200 --> 1:38:33.080 about that song because she's a billion number one year, 1:38:33.200 --> 1:38:35.759 won the charts every December. 1:38:38.080 --> 1:38:38.720 That see that. 1:38:38.840 --> 1:38:40.560 I know it was tard. I know you. I know 1:38:40.640 --> 1:38:43.759 you want to be like, no, I don't this tastes 1:38:43.800 --> 1:38:44.679 like the juice I drink. 1:38:45.880 --> 1:38:50.599 Let me taste mine. But anyways, it's been number one 1:38:50.920 --> 1:38:52.679 for like twenty years. 1:38:53.439 --> 1:38:56.600 She's a millionaire already. Because you gotta realize this is 1:38:56.680 --> 1:39:00.560 Misshaken off this is Miss Honey, but off of that 1:39:00.720 --> 1:39:04.040 one song alone. Yeah, he makes so much money and. 1:39:04.240 --> 1:39:07.080 Every every imagine knowing every year. 1:39:07.479 --> 1:39:12.320 But you know, the new generation gets it. One thing 1:39:12.360 --> 1:39:12.640 about it. 1:39:12.760 --> 1:39:16.720 The new generation loves to disrespect people. And I say 1:39:16.800 --> 1:39:19.519 this because Llokoj, since we were talking about him earlier, 1:39:20.240 --> 1:39:22.439 did an interview and he was like, I'm one of 1:39:22.479 --> 1:39:25.560 the top rappers of all time, and people was like, 1:39:25.840 --> 1:39:32.600 what what if you really know, if you really know 1:39:32.760 --> 1:39:34.440 hip hop and rap music. 1:39:34.439 --> 1:39:38.599 You're not. It's not hard. It's missing in my drink. 1:39:38.880 --> 1:39:43.240 You lie, it's hard. Yeah, all right, But. 1:39:43.320 --> 1:39:45.519 Anyways, if you're a fan of hip hop music and 1:39:45.600 --> 1:39:48.040 rap music, you know that llokuj is literally one of 1:39:48.080 --> 1:39:50.479 the pioneers. He's one of the first, so he should 1:39:50.600 --> 1:39:51.200 feel that way. 1:39:51.240 --> 1:39:53.760 Then it's like us when he comes to surgery. 1:39:54.360 --> 1:39:57.599 When I say, I'm the BBO pieeer, put some respect 1:39:57.680 --> 1:40:01.439 on my motherfucking name. Y'all se no ass sit naturally 1:40:01.640 --> 1:40:03.800 like this, and you didn't know is it is? It? 1:40:04.240 --> 1:40:06.200 Is it? Y'all wasn't asking that till. 1:40:07.040 --> 1:40:10.360 They wasn't asking, And again. 1:40:12.040 --> 1:40:14.320 You want one, they still asking. 1:40:14.600 --> 1:40:17.120 I know I'm still asking and. 1:40:17.200 --> 1:40:24.639 I noticed, Hey see, okay, okay, all right, So my song, 1:40:24.720 --> 1:40:27.640 so your song is Mariah Carey City great Christmas song. 1:40:27.880 --> 1:40:29.080 I don't have a Christmas song. 1:40:29.120 --> 1:40:31.320 This is from my This is for my sad bitches, 1:40:32.840 --> 1:40:35.920 This is for my this pussy the press bitches, Jesus 1:40:37.320 --> 1:40:39.880 far my country girl bitches. Though, if you love a 1:40:40.000 --> 1:40:44.280 country a good country sad tune, there is this song 1:40:44.439 --> 1:40:48.040 called Indigo by an artist's name is Sam Barber and 1:40:48.120 --> 1:40:52.320 it's featuring Avery An. Now, I was more in tune 1:40:52.400 --> 1:40:55.840 with Avery before it because she's an amazing like country artist. 1:40:56.080 --> 1:41:00.479 And I'll say it's not necessarily just country. I'll say 1:41:01.120 --> 1:41:07.160 it is alternative country. And this is a song about 1:41:07.880 --> 1:41:10.680 how when you see yourself and you used to be 1:41:10.880 --> 1:41:12.840 so happy and then like you're kind of going through 1:41:12.920 --> 1:41:16.040 like a dark, dark phase. And I think that's relatable 1:41:16.080 --> 1:41:18.320 because a lot of times we can look at ourselves 1:41:18.400 --> 1:41:20.559 like maybe a year ago or six months ago, be like, man, 1:41:20.600 --> 1:41:23.040 I was so happy. What happened to me right now? 1:41:23.240 --> 1:41:27.160 But it's also like it don't rain forever. You getting 1:41:27.160 --> 1:41:29.280 on the other side, you know what I'm saying. So 1:41:29.479 --> 1:41:32.840 it is such a good song. It's called Indigo by 1:41:32.920 --> 1:41:36.200 Sam Barber featuring Avery Enna. Cause I feel like that's 1:41:36.240 --> 1:41:39.360 been me, Like I've been kind of like I every 1:41:39.439 --> 1:41:44.479 year that seasonal depression hit me like some jingle balls 1:41:44.760 --> 1:41:49.639 bills like yeah, and you know I'm now I'm getting 1:41:49.680 --> 1:41:50.640 on the other side of it. 1:41:50.880 --> 1:41:52.800 You know, I'm crawling out. 1:41:54.240 --> 1:41:59.320 So what is that? So that's my bop of the week. 1:41:59.400 --> 1:42:01.840 I the Mother We hair has been provided. 1:42:01.479 --> 1:42:03.920 By Easy to Snow Men and I make you win 1:42:04.040 --> 1:42:05.800 the time heard the street tongue? 1:42:06.200 --> 1:42:08.320 Yes, then remember we walked out to that song. 1:42:08.920 --> 1:42:12.000 Yes, Gucci Man, he's so good. 1:42:12.040 --> 1:42:13.720 Old you were so good. It was Gucci Man. 1:42:13.760 --> 1:42:15.200 It was dashing through this. 1:42:15.600 --> 1:42:17.559 Oh my god. 1:42:17.640 --> 1:42:20.439 We was cutting up so bad last year for the Christmas. 1:42:20.880 --> 1:42:23.840 Oh we didn't do a Christmas show this year. That 1:42:24.000 --> 1:42:26.439 was a year time. That was when I was on 1:42:26.600 --> 1:42:29.280 stage with us. We had a time. 1:42:29.600 --> 1:42:30.320 It was a good time. 1:42:30.479 --> 1:42:34.599 It was the week. This week is Crowns of Love hair. 1:42:35.080 --> 1:42:38.360 Make sure y'all buy y'all bundles. Y'all know if you 1:42:38.400 --> 1:42:40.519 buy a bundles, she donates a bundles so it helps 1:42:40.520 --> 1:42:42.880 a good cause. And it's some cute hair, you know, 1:42:42.920 --> 1:42:43.679 a little one. 1:42:43.600 --> 1:42:46.360 Two, So yes, I saw y'all. 1:42:46.680 --> 1:42:48.600 Second item of the week, make sure you go to 1:42:48.680 --> 1:42:51.519 Music Beauty Collection dot com. 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Maybe next year will edge 1:43:22.760 --> 1:43:23.360 you to the marketing. 1:43:23.720 --> 1:43:25.880 I'm telling you I can get do some, Okay. 1:43:27.000 --> 1:43:29.519 So now it's time to our favorite signing of the show, 1:43:29.840 --> 1:43:32.080 which is pour your Heart Out. If you have any 1:43:32.200 --> 1:43:35.800 questions or testimonials, make sure you send them to ask 1:43:36.040 --> 1:43:39.479 poor Minds at gmail dot com. That's a s kp O. 1:43:39.640 --> 1:43:44.800 You are in my NDAs at gmail dot com. RT 1:43:44.960 --> 1:43:47.400 is so cute, y'all like shave out us these little. 1:43:47.360 --> 1:43:50.439 Yeah, but they didn't have our initials. So my name 1:43:50.520 --> 1:43:51.000 is mix. 1:43:51.600 --> 1:43:52.360 Your name is mixed. 1:43:52.400 --> 1:43:55.280 My name is Raya ray, that's cute. 1:43:56.200 --> 1:43:57.960 Mix is like, I mean, all I gotta do is 1:43:58.000 --> 1:43:58.959 take the d y'all. 1:44:00.280 --> 1:44:00.639 Period? 1:44:00.800 --> 1:44:06.000 All right, go ahead, go ahead. My nail broke and 1:44:06.080 --> 1:44:06.559 he hurt. 1:44:21.080 --> 1:44:25.080 You snatched it all. It was already sore, now it 1:44:25.280 --> 1:44:26.280 hurt here. 1:44:27.680 --> 1:44:30.040 I'm sorry. I don't need you to nothing. 1:44:33.920 --> 1:44:35.280 We just say too much. 1:44:36.920 --> 1:44:38.519 Yes, okay, I'm sorry. 1:44:39.200 --> 1:44:40.840 Heylcks and dress. 1:44:42.560 --> 1:44:42.840 First. 1:44:42.960 --> 1:44:45.280 I love you both, and watch the show faithfully. 1:44:45.680 --> 1:44:48.160 My fiance and I have been engaged for a year 1:44:48.240 --> 1:44:51.600 and a half, dating for ten high school sweethearts, and 1:44:51.720 --> 1:44:54.360 our wedding is next year. I've always known him to 1:44:54.400 --> 1:44:56.800 be a mama's boy, and in my opinion, his mother 1:44:56.920 --> 1:44:59.960 treats him and his older brothers like kids. Keep in mind, 1:45:00.040 --> 1:45:01.920 and they are all about to be in their thirties. 1:45:02.240 --> 1:45:05.080 As a girlfriend, I felt it wasn't really my place 1:45:05.200 --> 1:45:07.519 to speak on his mother's actions. But now that we 1:45:07.640 --> 1:45:10.360 are engaged to be married, I have been expressing to 1:45:10.479 --> 1:45:12.719 him more about how I feel about his baby mama. 1:45:12.800 --> 1:45:15.640 I mean about how his mama baby waite about his 1:45:15.760 --> 1:45:16.880 mama's baby. 1:45:17.520 --> 1:45:18.400 His mama's baby. 1:45:18.479 --> 1:45:24.479 He's a mama baby, grandma's his mama's baby's him. Okay, girl, 1:45:24.960 --> 1:45:27.400 it ain't really make no sense, but we gonna keep reading. 1:45:28.280 --> 1:45:31.000 And I feel like she's the number one woman in 1:45:31.040 --> 1:45:33.599 his life and I met. For example, she calls him 1:45:33.600 --> 1:45:35.920 every morning to make sure he's up for work. He's 1:45:36.000 --> 1:45:38.120 on the phone with her after every shift until he 1:45:38.200 --> 1:45:42.200 makes it home, runs her earrings, and picks up her food. Yes, 1:45:42.280 --> 1:45:44.800 she has a husband and there are literally only five 1:45:44.880 --> 1:45:47.680 minutes away from us. When I voice my opinion, he 1:45:47.760 --> 1:45:50.360 basically tells me nothing is really going on to change 1:45:50.680 --> 1:45:54.000 because that's his mama. Of course, I want him to 1:45:54.040 --> 1:45:56.200 be close with his mom. But am I wrong for 1:45:56.320 --> 1:45:58.400 wanting to feel like I'm the number one woman in 1:45:58.479 --> 1:45:59.840 his life? Am I overreacting? 1:46:00.080 --> 1:46:00.439 Thoughts? 1:46:01.160 --> 1:46:04.240 Oh, I hate Mama's boys, I hate my pool. 1:46:04.479 --> 1:46:06.680 I don't fuck with it. I don't like it. And 1:46:06.800 --> 1:46:10.519 I also think like it's an important though to whenever 1:46:10.560 --> 1:46:13.840 you're dating somebody and y'all are serious, just from my 1:46:14.000 --> 1:46:16.800 personal experience, Like I like having a close relationship with 1:46:16.880 --> 1:46:20.040 a guy I'm dating mother, Like, so I can go, girl, 1:46:20.120 --> 1:46:22.880 I got these, let me do these I got or 1:46:23.000 --> 1:46:25.200 so they feel comfortable, Like I know you're gonna take 1:46:25.240 --> 1:46:27.760 care of my son and Da da dah. But I 1:46:27.800 --> 1:46:30.200 don't want no real relationship because I also feel like 1:46:30.320 --> 1:46:32.960 mothers that do too much in their son's life are weird. 1:46:34.080 --> 1:46:36.920 Are weird as hell? You weird as fuck? And I've never, 1:46:37.240 --> 1:46:38.880 like I had one situation like that. 1:46:39.320 --> 1:46:40.559 You're sixty five. 1:46:40.600 --> 1:46:42.920 Like, girl, a, you got a husband, Like take care 1:46:42.920 --> 1:46:44.840 of your man so I can take care of mine. 1:46:45.640 --> 1:46:48.120 You know what I'm saying. But also that's why I 1:46:48.160 --> 1:46:51.040 think it's important to have communication, because I feel like 1:46:52.479 --> 1:46:55.760 if I felt weird in the situation like I'm in 1:46:55.880 --> 1:46:58.280 now and like where his mom was like doing too much, 1:46:58.320 --> 1:47:01.639 I would be like, oh, so can I You gonna 1:47:01.680 --> 1:47:04.479 let me? Like I feel comfortable talking to her about 1:47:04.520 --> 1:47:07.000 stuff like that. But that's why I think it's important 1:47:07.040 --> 1:47:10.240 for like communication, and not everybody's gonna be in that 1:47:10.320 --> 1:47:13.519 situation where they feel that comfortable. But I also think 1:47:13.600 --> 1:47:16.640 that you should tell, you know, your spouse that you're uncomfortable, 1:47:16.680 --> 1:47:18.840 and if he really cares about you, he'll have a 1:47:18.880 --> 1:47:21.960 conversation with her. But I also think it's natural like, Okay, 1:47:22.400 --> 1:47:24.439 my mom used to do this, but my woman can 1:47:24.479 --> 1:47:27.080 do this now, you know, and vice versa, Oh for 1:47:27.160 --> 1:47:29.200 a woman, my dad used to do this, but now 1:47:29.400 --> 1:47:31.680 you can do this now. So I think that's a 1:47:31.760 --> 1:47:34.599 part of growing and starting your own family. So if 1:47:34.640 --> 1:47:37.360 he's not leaning on you or she's not leaning on you, 1:47:38.360 --> 1:47:40.160 maybe they don't see a future with you like you 1:47:40.240 --> 1:47:42.479 think they are. Because one thing we know, men will 1:47:42.640 --> 1:47:46.240 and women people in general will have a placeholder to 1:47:46.360 --> 1:47:48.320 that real person that they want to start a family 1:47:48.400 --> 1:47:50.880 with comes along. So I think maybe you should probably 1:47:51.000 --> 1:47:54.120 look deeper and understand why he's not leaning on you 1:47:55.320 --> 1:47:57.000 like he should. 1:47:58.800 --> 1:48:00.960 Gotta be willing to go to war about it, and 1:48:01.120 --> 1:48:03.479 war with anybody, including your mama. 1:48:03.960 --> 1:48:06.280 Yeah, agreed, That's just how I feel. 1:48:07.320 --> 1:48:10.439 Not to say you gotta be disrespectful towards your mama, 1:48:10.520 --> 1:48:13.360 But I think that when you decide to get a partner, 1:48:13.800 --> 1:48:15.960 when you decide to be in a relationship with somebody, 1:48:16.160 --> 1:48:22.120 especially like marry somebody, your mom is no longer the 1:48:22.240 --> 1:48:23.200 number one in your life. 1:48:23.400 --> 1:48:26.599 Absolutely, your wife or your girlfriend is the number one. 1:48:26.680 --> 1:48:28.880 The person that you have a family with, the person 1:48:28.960 --> 1:48:31.719 that you're creating a legacy, that's the number one person 1:48:31.760 --> 1:48:33.280 in your life. And if you're not willing to put 1:48:33.320 --> 1:48:37.080 them over everybody else, then you're not ready for real partnership. 1:48:37.320 --> 1:48:40.160 And yeah, you should just speak on it. 1:48:40.360 --> 1:48:43.479 You should just let that situation go because I'm sorry, 1:48:44.560 --> 1:48:46.840 but whoever I'm with, he gotta litly be known to 1:48:47.000 --> 1:48:52.400 people like it's me. Yeah, And it's not even about 1:48:52.479 --> 1:48:56.080 an ultimatum. It's not even about choosing someone over other people. 1:48:56.200 --> 1:48:58.840 But like, if your family is making it difficult for 1:48:58.920 --> 1:49:00.160 you and your man to be to get that. 1:49:00.240 --> 1:49:04.200 He has to set boundaries. Yeah, absolutely that Like this 1:49:04.280 --> 1:49:05.440 is my groties. 1:49:05.040 --> 1:49:06.920 Who I'm rocking we And I think it's just a 1:49:07.000 --> 1:49:09.920 maturity thing because I've dated people that my For example, 1:49:10.000 --> 1:49:13.879 my sister didn't like, but she wouldn't overstep those boundaries. 1:49:14.000 --> 1:49:16.559 She's like, Okay, she's finna be with him. I'm gonna 1:49:16.640 --> 1:49:18.160 let her do her things. So she decided what she 1:49:18.200 --> 1:49:20.320 wants to do as long as he not hurting her 1:49:20.400 --> 1:49:22.479 and making her whatever, I'm gonna let them do it, 1:49:22.479 --> 1:49:24.599 and I'm gonna let the ship play out. Let ship 1:49:24.680 --> 1:49:28.640 play out. Leave people alone. Because what y'all don't realize 1:49:29.840 --> 1:49:33.719 this is for everybody who out there be dirty, macking, hating. 1:49:34.280 --> 1:49:36.640 The more you try to split people apart, the more 1:49:36.680 --> 1:49:38.080 that's gonna draw them to get more. 1:49:38.160 --> 1:49:40.200 They draw closer together because they be wanting to prove 1:49:40.240 --> 1:49:41.360 people wrong, I think. 1:49:41.400 --> 1:49:47.840 And not only that, because it's just like, okay, but no, 1:49:47.920 --> 1:49:49.559 you're not gonna tell me what to do because people 1:49:49.600 --> 1:49:50.479 hate being told. 1:49:50.320 --> 1:49:53.800 With the more they talk about I love the more 1:49:53.840 --> 1:49:54.479 they make it. 1:49:54.880 --> 1:50:05.679 I guess, so really hate that down her head. Yeah speak, yeah, 1:50:06.560 --> 1:50:11.080 I know somebody. It's always something. 1:50:12.120 --> 1:50:13.360 Joke, cousin. 1:50:14.720 --> 1:50:15.160 Something. 1:50:15.479 --> 1:50:17.519 And now the whole hooks buzz. 1:50:17.560 --> 1:50:19.800 It can listen to a crewler. Don't want to men 1:50:21.240 --> 1:50:21.519 to me? 1:50:21.680 --> 1:50:22.200 Is it the truth? 1:50:22.280 --> 1:50:23.280 Brace you want to men? 1:50:25.560 --> 1:50:29.760 Said to the mic. Okay, thank y'all so much to me. 1:50:30.640 --> 1:50:32.599 I said, I was gonna keep this at an hour 1:50:32.720 --> 1:50:36.160 long and I did it. Cookies, Uh, even where can 1:50:36.200 --> 1:50:44.000 they find these cookies at? In the drawer? W w 1:50:44.880 --> 1:50:48.679 W dot get the goods at l dot com. I'm 1:50:48.720 --> 1:50:51.640 not lying, y'all. These cookies are fire. Have that that 1:50:51.800 --> 1:50:54.519 made me some shepherd's pie and it's if it can 1:50:54.560 --> 1:50:57.680 cook for real. And these cookies are so good, these 1:50:57.840 --> 1:51:00.360 me sol cookies. I ain't never have to me so 1:51:00.960 --> 1:51:01.639 so horny. 1:51:12.760 --> 1:51:19.519 No more hypnotic on the show, no more Christmas. 1:51:24.479 --> 1:51:30.160 As I sit around the fire place watching the are 1:51:30.200 --> 1:51:30.559 we ready? 1:51:30.600 --> 1:51:30.760 Well? 1:51:30.760 --> 1:51:31.840 We can start from the beginning we. 1:51:31.920 --> 1:51:35.799 Ready cookies known, that's crazy. 1:51:35.840 --> 1:51:36.799 It's one loft. 1:51:38.439 --> 1:51:42.960 Me so one good you tripping all right, we ready, 1:51:43.000 --> 1:51:48.040 we ready we okay it started a little bit. No way, 1:51:48.080 --> 1:51:54.200 don't have started from the beginning, no hobby, okay, we're 1:51:54.240 --> 1:51:59.879 ready you ready for rayah. It's Christmas time and we're finishing. 1:52:00.080 --> 1:52:04.000 Yoursely nice. 1:52:05.960 --> 1:52:09.200 O holy nice. 1:52:11.320 --> 1:52:13.840 Oh holy. 1:52:18.800 --> 1:52:39.080 Holy jet raw huganly bets so to. 1:52:40.840 --> 1:52:41.840 Do and my. 1:52:44.640 --> 1:52:47.160 Sleep sleep pa. 1:52:50.040 --> 1:53:01.200 Pee sleep, sleep heavy the leap. 1:53:10.240 --> 1:53:16.519 Riche who. 1:53:19.439 --> 1:53:20.480 In heavenly. 1:53:26.240 --> 1:53:27.080 Vallaen nie. 1:53:28.600 --> 1:53:37.200 Fly night holy night. 1:53:39.320 --> 1:53:42.960 Ship but coy. 1:53:47.160 --> 1:53:48.360 The sun. 1:53:50.400 --> 1:53:55.720 Coloristree round. 1:53:57.760 --> 1:53:59.160 Vana fall. 1:54:01.479 --> 1:54:10.440 Hey ho see halluia. 1:54:12.320 --> 1:54:15.400 Cras sa. 1:54:23.240 --> 1:54:28.400 Cry cry, says the seals. 1:54:30.160 --> 1:54:40.760 Oh oh oh oh lulu, oh my. 1:54:40.840 --> 1:54:53.240 Hat fell off. Indeed this right, I kind of ate 1:54:53.320 --> 1:54:53.680 that home. 1:54:54.600 --> 1:54:59.880 Sia you. 1:55:01.400 --> 1:55:02.920 Oh, you gotta talk those words. 1:55:03.040 --> 1:55:07.720 You gotta talk. You're supposed to be talking, you Okay. 1:55:08.720 --> 1:55:14.080 If I had one wish in this world, it would 1:55:14.120 --> 1:55:20.280 be that all men would be free. Let's all hold hands, 1:55:21.760 --> 1:55:31.680 oh and celebrate the Savior's birth. Let's give sax. 1:55:32.920 --> 1:55:37.600 Onto the world Jesus and his birth. 1:55:41.240 --> 1:55:45.480 Sleep sleep, I say. 1:55:49.160 --> 1:56:00.600 Sleep airly, sleeping air a deep. 1:56:03.640 --> 1:56:08.560 Oh uh uh uh uh oh. 1:56:09.440 --> 1:56:14.000 Amen sister, hallelujah, Christ the Savior was born. 1:56:15.640 --> 1:56:15.960 Amen. 1:56:16.080 --> 1:56:16.680 Praise God. 1:56:16.960 --> 1:56:23.720 Y'all gotta remember Christmas is about the day Jesus was born, good. 1:56:26.040 --> 1:56:26.680 And good. 1:56:29.120 --> 1:56:31.520 I'm not done, Oh God. 1:56:36.000 --> 1:56:37.960 Every Christmas baby 1:56:40.080 --> 1:56:40.600 Mm hmmm