WEBVTT - Man Code Decoded 0:00:01.200 --> 0:00:08.959 This is and and I hear radio podcast. Here we 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:14.000 go so excited to finally get this podcast going. My 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:15.960 name is Brooks, like I am one of your co 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:21.200 hosts along with my man to my left. It there 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.920 he is my dude. Good to see you two. And 0:00:23.960 --> 0:00:25.800 we have a couple other gentlemen here at the table 0:00:25.840 --> 0:00:29.200 as well that I quickly want to introduce. We have Dmitri, 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:32.360 we have Rick, and we have Ryan. And we'll get 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:35.000 to these good sirs in a second. I want to 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:37.040 start with you, my friend. You just got off the 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:40.360 plane for the for the people in our community, Mr 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:43.720 Gavin Degrock. Can you that do not know who you are? Um? 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:45.839 Can you please give us a little bit about yourself 0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:48.840 and what you're excited for for this podcast? Man? Boy, 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:53.920 um my favorite topic. Thank you so much? Me? Or 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:58.240 do you want to uh? Well, uh, I sang and 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:01.720 write songs and stuff. And you probably know me since 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:03.920 your hockey man for falling on the ice during the 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:08.319 national anthem recently. Soody it's slick. Yes, I wore the 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:13.560 wrong shoes. Yeah, let me just blaming at that. Um. 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:15.520 And that's it man, It's it's good to be here. 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:18.600 I I hopped on a one of those great flights 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:20.720 today where feels like you're riding a public bus. You know. 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:25.600 There was somebody heavy breathing on my neck because they 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.800 were as they were reading the directions of if the 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:31.240 plane were to go down, like I can save somebody. 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:34.120 She was looking across me and like heavy breathing in 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:36.679 my ear, and I was like, I can get out 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:40.400 of your way right now. It's like, really, I can 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:42.960 get at anyway. So you're coming in happier, You're coming 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.640 in house. It's great, it's great to be here. That's exciting. 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:48.560 Man's been looking forward to it. By the way, thanks 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:50.840 for following me on Instagram, man, because we've just been 0:01:50.920 --> 0:01:54.640 liking your pictures for quite some time now, have you. Yeah, Man, 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:56.440 I said, like, I probably like to three of your 0:01:56.440 --> 0:02:00.160 pictures because you exercise a lot. I was like, those techniques, right, 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:06.400 his vacation pictures are his exercise workout. Yeah. But what 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:08.360 I will say that, so you've been on Dance with 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:11.400 the Stars. My wife, My wife raved about you. She 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:14.919 was so excited and she says to say hi, and everybody, um, 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:17.240 everybody in my community that I know that knows you. 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.800 And Dmitri echoed this too. He said, everybody that he 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:23.720 knows that knows you, raves about you to a disgusting degree, like, oh, 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:26.800 Gavin Degraan, Like, oh my god, he's the nicest guys. 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:32.359 Like all right, well, there's other nice people. So I've 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:36.320 not met anyone who likes you so at all. Okay, 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.799 let's leave to that. We'll go to Ryan here next. 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:40.440 So we'll go to Ryan. I'm gonna run down a 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:44.639 little a little uh bio of Ryan. Born in Memphis, Tennessee, 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:50.000 raised in Philly, is a long time suffering Philly sports fan. Okay, 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:54.080 we'll get to that. TV executive writer, political consultant. He's 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:56.120 got an eighteen month old boy, he's got another one 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:58.160 on the way, so he's in it. His mom and 0:02:58.200 --> 0:03:00.800 dad were both FBI agents. He played soccer in college, 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:04.880 and he is self described as handsome, humble, and ironic 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:09.280 self describe I don't see where the humble comes in. 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:13.760 That's the irony. That's then, by the way, we have 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:16.560 a bone because on the way here, Brooks told me 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:19.640 that the worst fan base he ever faced while in 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:21.880 the NHL was the Philly fans. You asked me which 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:24.280 were the rudest ones? And I wear that as a 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:27.160 batch of honor. I mean, I mean, I can't call 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:29.080 somebody polite. When I'm walking into the Green I get 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:31.639 spit on by thirty people from up above in the walkway. 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:35.240 So that could have been Ryan, it could have been Um. 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.400 But can you give us? Can you give everybody listening 0:03:37.440 --> 0:03:40.200 like something? You're super excited about to be on this podcast. 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:43.680 I'm super excited because I think what's really interesting to 0:03:43.680 --> 0:03:46.520 me is that we all have our unique perspectives. We 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:48.880 all are at a different stage in our lives. You know, 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:52.600 you're married, kids, probably soon. I have one kid, a 0:03:52.600 --> 0:03:56.360 second along on the way. Dmitri has twelve kids. I 0:03:56.400 --> 0:04:03.720 think Gavin is perpetually scared of commitment whatsoever. So it's 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:14.600 a good thanks, Um, But that's exciting. We're happy to 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:17.520 have you. Kay. We'll lead to going teeing up Dmitri here. 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:21.080 He doesn't have twelve, but he has four kids. He's 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:24.159 a writer and a comedy consultant. Avid sports fan comes 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:28.080 from a big Greek family, owns a mandarin orange farm, 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:30.839 the most random stat in the world and it doesn't 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:36.400 love a good halo, and also is described as extremely handsome. 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:39.279 We have a very handsome panel. Well, yeah, well my 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:40.839 mom said that when I was young, so I figured 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:44.080 it's good for life. So I'm um, yeah, so I 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:49.320 have four kids, ten, eight, six and almost three. Um, 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:51.479 and I think you know it's it's funny. As Ryan 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:53.120 was saying, I think we all bring something different to 0:04:53.160 --> 0:04:55.640 the table, which I'm excited about. I will mention that 0:04:55.880 --> 0:05:00.359 obviously Brooks, you're married. Ryan's married, uh to almost two kids. 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:02.760 Rick's married two kids. I have four kids. I'm married, 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:05.479 and Gavin walks in the room, he goes, so, wait, 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:11.240 everybody here's married, so I think we know his stance 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:14.679 on marriage, so that's not really I just was like, wow, 0:05:14.960 --> 0:05:16.920 so I'm the only not married person in the room. 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:20.560 You look at you that have a you know, a teammate, 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:22.800 somebody who you know it was in the same boat 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:27.800 as me. Hey, you guys looked at each other like 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:30.360 what were we thinking? This guy's get the smile on 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:32.960 his face. Well, and I think the good news is 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:36.320 that we're here to help you out. Okay, let's go 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:39.080 to you and you're kind of guiding. This is not 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:47.120 a podcast, it's an intervention down what if he's the 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:48.359 other way and all of a sudden He's like what 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.960 We're like, Yeah, wait are we married? We're all five 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:54.000 single guys. Um, well let's go to the guiding light. 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:57.680 Rick uh Rick two kids. He's a thirteen year old, 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:00.480 a ten year old. He's a coach uh Technology Life 0:06:00.760 --> 0:06:04.200 Life Cycle Solutions. I T Management SoCal living in North 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:08.240 North cal um just joined Netflix and I agree with this. 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:11.159 One man plays the toughest sport in the world water polo. 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:13.800 I agree without a hunt. Well, thank you very much 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:15.880 that that's very polite coming from a hockey player. Yeah, 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:17.960 but dude, I swam this morning. I swim on Thursday 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:19.680 as part of my workout. Swimming is the hardest thing 0:06:19.680 --> 0:06:22.080 in the world to me. Yeah, no, it's uh, it's 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:23.760 it's fun and it's good to get out there, and 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:26.039 it's it's I think overall, you know. And part of 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:28.120 this whole you know, how men think is talking about 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:31.440 exercise and health and wellness and and you know, using 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:34.200 swimming as as part of an exercise to get an 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:38.200 over like an all body you know, movement. So I 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:40.960 get I get crutinely crushed in the pool by like 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:44.560 middle aged women. They just go down and back story, 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:46.800 true story, they go down and back down and back. 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:48.240 I'll go down and back down and back and I'm 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:50.480 like just huffing and puffing. They just keep going swimming 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:53.159 as an art man, so do I do? I tip 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:55.240 my cap to you. Anybody that plays water polo is 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:57.919 an intense athlete, So I tip my cap to appreciate it. 0:06:58.040 --> 0:07:00.800 Thank you. Um, what's one thing you're super excited for 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:03.520 to be on the podcast? Uh? You know, honestly, it's 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:06.240 just to talk about all of all the the aspects 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:08.080 that we're going to go over today and and kind 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:17.440 of help you know, Gavin out and when I'm gonna 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:20.600 be a grandpa when it's over, don't worry. But yeah, 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:24.680 just to kind of you know, talk about certain things. 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:26.880 And uh, that's what I'm looking forward to, you know, 0:07:27.040 --> 0:07:29.520 sharing our experiences. Awesome. I love it. Can I see 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:31.760 a quick question? When you said you just joined Netflix, 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:33.840 do you mean like working or like you just signed 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:36.520 up for Netflix like twenty years after everybody else. No, 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:39.760 although you know, I I just signed up about three 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:42.960 weeks ago. I have a log in and a password, 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:45.160 and you know, I'm actually watching a show every once 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:47.280 in a while, and it's pretty interesting. First show you 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:51.480 watched what is it, Uh, Murder Mountain was on a 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:54.120 recommendation or you just like No, I had heard it 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:59.160 from only from a friend. Only from a friend? Is 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:06.080 a picture? Well, we're gonna have some fun on this show, guys. UM, 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:07.920 and my name is Brooks like and I was a 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:11.600 professional hockey player playing in the NHL for fourteen years. 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:15.080 Live in Los Angeles, UM, and I'm I'm married, have 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:19.360 three dogs. Hopefully I have kids here someday soon. UM. 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:21.200 Don't have any on the way, but definitely want kids 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:24.440 and look up to you gentlemen for being fathers. UM. 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:27.840 But I'm super excited about this podcast. UM. Since I've 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:29.240 been out of the sport, I feel like I have 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:31.440 a lot to say. I really want to make an 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:33.880 impact in the world. UM. I think I've learned a 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:37.240 lot of lessons through sport, through high pressure environments. UM, 0:08:37.240 --> 0:08:39.800 through team which is why I love doing this podcast 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:43.320 with other people as well. UM. And really be of 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:45.440 service to our listeners, to you guys that are listening, 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:47.320 whether it's in your car, at home, whatever it is. 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.520 We are really a vessel to serve you guys. So 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:53.800 I want you to engage with us, interact with us. 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:56.200 We have an email men at I Heart Radio. If 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:59.040 you want to comment or send questions or feedback insight 0:08:59.120 --> 0:09:02.480 on the show, please do that. Um. But with that said, 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:04.880 we will now get into what this show is going 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:09.120 to be, what it's about, how men think, gentlemen take 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:15.079 it away? Okay, Oh, he couldn't have done that any better. 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:18.000 So not a lot going upstairs? Is that the first 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:22.720 thing did you say? When men think, well, here's here's 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:25.360 our here's our promise to our listeners is we're going 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:36.240 to dive into many issues to that that men deal with, UM, lifestyle, health, fitness, relationship, career, opportunity, fears, 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:38.080 a little bit of vulnerability. We're not gonna sit here 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:40.240 and cry, but we're gonna dig into some emotions. We're 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:43.040 gonna we're gonna try and promise is not gonna be tears. 0:09:43.240 --> 0:09:49.160 Who do you think christ first? Oh yeah, I'm about 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:57.959 rid of now on rock stars they're all the same. 0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:03.640 So in a room full of dude But for everybody listening, 0:10:03.640 --> 0:10:05.439 it's going to for guys that are listening, we want 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:07.320 to provide value to you. Are also gonna have some 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:09.600 funny stories share, so there's gonna be a lot of laughter. 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:12.400 That's for certain, Um, but we want to provide value 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:14.319 to you and be a value add to your life 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:17.160 and hopefully give you some insight to some things maybe 0:10:17.200 --> 0:10:19.320 you're dealing with or some things you might be dealing 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:21.800 with upcoming in your life. That's maybe some of these 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:24.720 guys have have been through. UM. And then on the 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:29.440 flip side for our female listeners, fire away, what do 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:31.360 you want to know? That? We will be an open 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:33.000 book and open source for you guys? What do you 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:34.960 want to know? How men think? What we think about 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:39.080 our thought process behind things, how we approach relationship, life, career, 0:10:39.160 --> 0:10:42.679 anything like that. Um, We've already had some fascinating discussions. 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:44.240 I also want to send a thank you before we 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:47.040 really get into it, Miss Amy Sugarman right here for 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:52.199 putting this whole thing together. Fell around of applause. This 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:54.720 is Amy's concept, this is her baby that we're only 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:58.040 here because of you, So sincere, thank you for She 0:10:58.760 --> 0:11:00.360 really wants to know what men thanks. So she's like, 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:02.280 this is the easiest way to find out that that 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:04.600 is true? I think so far getting to know where 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:07.880 I think that is the truth. Want to think Danielle 0:11:07.960 --> 0:11:12.199 right here for her help. Our producer and Eastern our 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:15.720 engineer and Eastern there's a good flax. You guys can't 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:21.400 see it, biceps Eastern does. Um, but let's dig into it. 0:11:21.960 --> 0:11:26.560 How men think. Um, we're gonna dig into many different 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:29.680 issues in how men think on this podcast. There's gonna 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:32.040 be a variety of them. Uh, Rick, why don't you 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:34.400 give us one? My friend, what is going on in 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:37.160 your life? Yeah? Well, you know, my son just turned 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:41.040 thirteen last week, So that was that was a blessing, interesting, exciting. Yeah, 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:44.280 and uh, you know, as part of that obviously is 0:11:44.320 --> 0:11:46.720 kind of when they start hitting puberty, and you know, 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:49.720 he is definitely starting to cross that line a little bit, 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:52.480 and you know, as as being a parent, and I 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:54.160 sort of backed off of it for a while. He 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:56.440 had his own cell phone. Um, you know, I used 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:59.000 to check his cell phone occasionally and I was like, 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:01.320 he was wasn't being very nice, you know to me. 0:12:01.360 --> 0:12:02.880 So I was like, Okay, he's gonna go to bed 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:06.000 and I'll check a cell phone. So check a cell phone. 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:08.360 Start going through it, just making sure. The reason I'm 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:10.600 checking a cell phone making sure his communication to his 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:14.960 friends or girls and guys is proper and nice and whatnot. 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:17.400 And so in doing. So I go through and I 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:19.280 check out his web browser. So I pull up his 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:21.199 web browser and like, you know what, I'm gonna actually 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:24.439 search this, I'm gonna look what he's watching looking at 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:30.360 and I pull it up and the videos sorry, dirt bikes. Well, 0:12:30.400 --> 0:12:34.000 it used to be like, you know, basketball videos, all 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:38.240 of basketball videos, baseball videos, comebacks, game of the year, 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:40.360 those are those are the headlines back and when he 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:43.160 was ten, eleven, twelve. Well, now I pull it up 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:46.000 and it's where he needs to go to his baseball practice. 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:50.760 And then it's things that I don't necessarily well I 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:54.080 shouldn't say I can't agree with it, but I'm not 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:56.600 really appropriate for a thirteen year old? Give us the 0:12:56.600 --> 0:13:00.640 heavy what is it? Video? So it was like, not 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:02.480 quite the sports you were looking at. It was not 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:06.720 basketball videos, yeah, top ten, you know, highlights them. So 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:08.120 you were sad that it was on his phone, but 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:10.960 thrilled that you found it. I was thinking to myself, 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:14.600 I mean, yes, I have not seen these. I was like, wow, 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:20.120 this is an amazing collection. He subscribes to the same 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:22.280 and I was like, what is that My logging is 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:25.880 that we could get a discount, Hey, you're on the 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:30.080 same iCloud account that breaks up. So the first two had, 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:32.079 you know, our Google searches for wearing easy to go 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:34.640 to baseball practice, which we clearly take him because he 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:40.280 can't drive, and that's real, that's not The next one 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:47.679 is hot blonde mill for me to suck cute. He 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:52.880 gets her tiny hole hammered. I don't know, so, you know, 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:55.560 as his father, I'm sort of given a couple of 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:57.800 fist pumps, you know. I'm like, yeah, this is killer, 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:01.400 kind of like your flow here, bro, you know. So 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:03.160 it sounds to me like you would have preferred he 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:05.360 dipped his toe in the water instead of just cannonballing 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:09.319 into porn very much. Don't sound very like starter level 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:13.319 or this is not the five playboy that I used 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.880 from at my friend's house. So so how do you 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:17.760 handle that? Do you have you talked to your boy 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:20.800 about that? We've talked already, yes, So what was the conversation. 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:24.640 The conversation delayed a couple of weeks, so it was like, 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:26.000 you know, I was trying to figure out what is that, 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:28.280 you know, because you had to watch everything because my 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:31.840 thought was you're not in trouble, like you're all gonna 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:33.480 you're gonna find it no matter what, whether it's on 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:37.200 your phone, your friends, wherever, the home computer, my log 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:42.760 in was. When I approached him, we were My wife 0:14:42.760 --> 0:14:44.560 and I both sat him down and he was kind 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:46.280 of being at the time, and we were like, look, 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:48.400 we need to talk, like you're using your phone for 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:51.040 certain things and here's what they are, you know, And 0:14:51.080 --> 0:14:52.960 we didn't go back and tell them that. And we 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:58.600 don't have that much data on your plan. That's a 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:01.360 huge download right now on I would go instead of 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:04.080 eight videos, I would married down to five. Yet, can 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:08.280 I What was your wife's reaction to this? Oh my gosh, 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:10.800 you know, she was surprised. She was wondering what was 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:12.760 going Was she like, oh my gosh, I failed as 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:15.400 a mom, or this is your fault or he's no, 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:17.280 I don't. We didn't really look at each other that way. 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:19.120 Dmitri was more along the lines of like, how are 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:21.720 we going to have this conversation? You know, on you 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:25.520 as the father, because it's it's your son that you're 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:28.680 to be the one to have that conversation like birds 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:30.880 and the be style. Yeah, I sort of felt that way, 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:32.960 and we haven't had that conversation yet. Either and so 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:35.080 obviously that's next. But I'm trying to plant a fishing 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:39.880 trip around that, although from the necessary the titles of 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:43.200 these are way beyond Okay, here's a quick question. Have 0:15:43.440 --> 0:15:46.560 any of you guys had that conversation with your dad 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:50.920 or parents at all? I never had that conversation. Yeah, 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:52.520 so the conversation I had with my son will basically 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:54.960 set him down. And you know, it's not how did 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:57.360 you find this? You're being punished. It's more along the 0:15:57.360 --> 0:16:01.760 lines of, like, what you're watching isn't necessarily age appropriate 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:04.280 for what what your age right now? You know, I mean, 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:07.200 there's a reason movies or rated are there NC seventeen 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:09.480 or or G or whatever you want to call it. 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:11.800 But you know, it was more along the lines of, look, 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:15.520 you're not mentally ready there from what you found, Like 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:18.800 maybe he should have subscribed to Playboy, but he did 0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:20.960 mention the word hammered. Do you think maybe he was 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:23.080 just trying to look up a construction site of some 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:26.520 kind of like that goes to home depot a lot. 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:29.160 Let me see what this is about. The interesting part 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:32.040 about that the name of his baseball team is called 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:36.160 head First Baseball, So maybe he was searching head first 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:43.200 and then everything else. He's thirteen, he's a boy. As 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:45.560 his lawyer, nice cover up, but that's not gonna want Yeah, 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:48.000 so yeah, it was. It was more about the long 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:50.840 along the lines of like, look, be careful what you're watching. 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:54.960 You know what you are watching. Obviously it's great for us, 0:16:55.320 --> 0:16:58.560 but maybe not appropriate for that. There is there is 0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:01.200 something that I that I read recently. It said boys 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:03.760 that age, kids that boys especially at that age, are 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:07.280 getting they target them with porn and they try and 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:11.040 get them hooked because it's the way to to really influence, 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:13.000 like to to bring in the money of the industry, 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:16.000 and hence the industry and what it's doing, yes exactly, 0:17:16.000 --> 0:17:19.240 and what it's doing is it's ruining that because then 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:23.080 they are to some extent they're they're losing their never 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:25.119 learning the site of like romance or this is not 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:27.159 so when they start hooking up, they just think, oh my, 0:17:27.280 --> 0:17:29.840 it's got to jump to this point and it's and 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:32.880 it's not obviously, I mean I have three daughters. It's 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:36.359 it's not the way to go about romance is not 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:37.680 the way to go about dating. And the set to 0:17:37.720 --> 0:17:39.280 think that, oh my god, it's supposed to jump to 0:17:39.320 --> 0:17:42.280 this otherwise it's a failure otherwise. So they they say 0:17:42.320 --> 0:17:44.840 that it's it's causing a big problem with with kids. 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:48.960 Well that that makes total sense, complete sense. I mean 0:17:49.680 --> 0:17:56.960 just really listen those titles kids, even American Pie. And 0:17:57.080 --> 0:18:02.800 it hasn't seen American pie. Um does anybody else have 0:18:02.880 --> 0:18:05.280 anything like that going on? Your kids are too young? 0:18:05.720 --> 0:18:07.760 Your kids obviously too young? But what what about? No? 0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:10.120 But that's horrifying. I mean it's a fear of mind. 0:18:10.359 --> 0:18:11.680 You know. I have a two year old son and 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:15.399 another on the way, a boy, and so the thought 0:18:15.520 --> 0:18:19.800 of how far will technology advance between now and when 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:21.800 he is of the age that he's going to be 0:18:21.840 --> 0:18:25.240 looking at porn or I have a question, I mean 0:18:25.280 --> 0:18:28.520 they have. I don't understand why the technology, the technology 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:32.119 certainly seems to be there for uh, fingerprint identity for 0:18:32.160 --> 0:18:34.320 accessing the phone. You think that it would be a 0:18:34.400 --> 0:18:37.840 necessary technology for kids having their own personal phones that 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:41.639 could access the Internet, that it would require a fingerprint, 0:18:41.680 --> 0:18:44.600 and therefore it would automatically limit some of the I 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:46.920 think there is that technology. I mean, it would be identified. 0:18:49.280 --> 0:18:54.320 You know what I'm saying, It was my phone. He's saying. 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:56.280 He's saying, there is that there is that feature on 0:18:56.280 --> 0:18:58.280 phones where if it's a family plan, the parent can 0:18:58.520 --> 0:19:01.639 can put in locks of what the kids can see that. 0:19:01.840 --> 0:19:03.879 But he's saying Ryan saying that Rick has just failed 0:19:03.880 --> 0:19:06.560 to do that. I'm just saying, we all have our 0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:11.400 identities in our in our our fingerprint, and therefore he's 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:14.399 probably already documented his fingerprint at some point. Why doesn't 0:19:14.400 --> 0:19:17.639 it automatically limit his access to the Internet. Yeah, you 0:19:17.720 --> 0:19:19.399 can't go in and you can you can limit all 0:19:19.440 --> 0:19:24.000 the access automatically limiting his access because at the beginning 0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:25.720 of it, I decided not to do it because I 0:19:25.720 --> 0:19:28.080 want him to go watch Steph Curry's highlights, you know, 0:19:28.119 --> 0:19:30.439 over the last three seasons or like he he was 0:19:30.440 --> 0:19:33.120 watching things that weren't necessarily at that point yet. Right, 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:35.879 So it's like obviously glad we caught it, right or 0:19:35.880 --> 0:19:40.720 whatever I mean again, like to be honest, also to me, 0:19:40.840 --> 0:19:44.399 it's actually opened up a conversation with him about that, right, 0:19:44.440 --> 0:19:46.280 you know. So it's not a force subject. It's not 0:19:46.320 --> 0:19:48.159 a bird's in the bees sit down, It's not that 0:19:48.200 --> 0:19:50.880 it's I will say this in fairness to what you said, 0:19:51.040 --> 0:19:54.000 This opened up the opportunity to um to speak to 0:19:54.000 --> 0:19:56.000 your son about this, and I think not to sound appreachy, 0:19:56.040 --> 0:19:57.480 but I think that's kind of what we're doing here, 0:19:57.560 --> 0:20:00.240 is we're talking about this because this is a even 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:01.919 though we're having fun with it, I think this is 0:20:01.960 --> 0:20:05.439 obviously an issue that's happening. And I think just like 0:20:05.480 --> 0:20:07.280 you spoke to your son about it and when you 0:20:07.280 --> 0:20:08.879 found out about I think this is something that we 0:20:08.880 --> 0:20:11.040 needed to talk about because I think people can realize 0:20:11.040 --> 0:20:13.000 that you don't realize that it's happening. It's not like 0:20:13.000 --> 0:20:14.480 they're gonna come home and be like, hey, I'm looking 0:20:14.520 --> 0:20:16.520 up stuff I shouldn't be looking up. So I think 0:20:16.520 --> 0:20:19.760 it's nice that we're talking about that because these are things. Listen, 0:20:20.000 --> 0:20:22.960 like I said, four kids, it's like but first kid, 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:24.720 but I didn't know, Like you don't know what you're 0:20:24.720 --> 0:20:26.280 doing when you become a parent. So I think it's 0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:28.359 like you have to lean on others and you have 0:20:28.400 --> 0:20:31.560 to talk to friends and realize these things happen. Because nowadays, 0:20:31.640 --> 0:20:33.440 they got phones in their pockets and they're taking around 0:20:33.440 --> 0:20:34.840 they can look up anything. So I think we need 0:20:34.880 --> 0:20:38.120 to have these discussions so that you know it can 0:20:38.119 --> 0:20:41.440 be addressed like that because we're just as blind to 0:20:41.520 --> 0:20:43.720 stuff like that. And good on you for not shaming 0:20:43.800 --> 0:20:45.920 him either like that. What he wasn't in trouble. I 0:20:45.960 --> 0:20:48.320 mean it might have been. He might have been duped 0:20:48.320 --> 0:20:50.119 into it by buddies, but I mean, you don't know 0:20:50.200 --> 0:20:52.320