WEBVTT - HARRY CONNICK, JR

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<v Speaker 1>So lovesome with love Today's edition of Love Someone with

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<v Speaker 1>heart throbs. He is a beautiful singer, such a talented

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<v Speaker 1>singer and musician. He's a gifted actor. And he's not

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<v Speaker 1>so hard on the eyes either. Let's be honest, such

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<v Speaker 1>a handsome man. Mr Harry Connick Jr. Is joining us

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about a whole lot of stuff that he

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<v Speaker 1>has got going on. Uh music and giving back. Will

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<v Speaker 1>be back to hear all about what Harrick Connick Jr.

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<v Speaker 1>does a lot for others. A big, huge welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>my friend, the incredibly talented raconic Jr. As I just mentioned.

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<v Speaker 1>His talent is massive, his heart is even bigger. You're

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<v Speaker 1>so nice. Thank you. So tell me about this trip

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<v Speaker 1>that you took with your daughter. My sister was telling

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<v Speaker 1>me that your daughter is a filmmaker. Yeah, so she

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<v Speaker 1>This is Georgia. She's the oldest of our three girls.

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<v Speaker 1>She's twenty four, and she studied filmmaking and has been, um,

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<v Speaker 1>really kind of making a name for herself in the

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<v Speaker 1>in the business. And we've worked together before, and we

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<v Speaker 1>were sitting at home during quarantine when it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>first started. I said, Georgia, let's um, let's take a

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<v Speaker 1>road trip and go thank some essential everyday heroes for

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<v Speaker 1>all the stuff they're doing to help us out. People

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<v Speaker 1>like sanitation workers, um, people who were on the Boys

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<v Speaker 1>and Girls clubs, truck drivers, grocery store clerks, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and just just go say thanks and um, and you

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<v Speaker 1>can film it and we can put something together. And

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<v Speaker 1>she said, that sounds that's was great. So um, we

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<v Speaker 1>rented an RV and uh, CBS followed us around and

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<v Speaker 1>filmed it, filmed her filming me, and we put a

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<v Speaker 1>special together UM called United We Sing a Grammy tribute

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<v Speaker 1>to the Unsung Heroes, and it came out on CBS

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<v Speaker 1>about three weeks ago and now it's streaming on CBS

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<v Speaker 1>All Access. And it was just an incredible opportunity for

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<v Speaker 1>us to thank and pay tribute to these amazing folks

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<v Speaker 1>who keep our lives going every day. So how many

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<v Speaker 1>of the comics went in the motor home? Was it

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<v Speaker 1>just you and Georgia? Was it the whole family? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if it were up to me, I would have brought everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>but Jill wasn't able to go. Neither were Kate or Sar,

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<v Speaker 1>which was probably best because we were working so much,

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<v Speaker 1>like we ended up driving thirty five miles and Georgia

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<v Speaker 1>when not filming, was editing, so we weren't the most

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<v Speaker 1>social because we were really trying to get a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of footage. UM, so it probably worked out best. But

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't really like a like a vacation where everybody

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<v Speaker 1>could have come along, so you didn't get to stop

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<v Speaker 1>at all the roadside attractions you didn't well they were

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<v Speaker 1>probably closed anyway, with COVID, everything was closed. But when

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<v Speaker 1>we stopped, like we would go and we weren't staying

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<v Speaker 1>in hotels because we were being really cautious about social distancing.

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<v Speaker 1>So we would pull into these campground sites and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we stayed in you know, Tennessee and Virginia and Alabama,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was it was just awesome. You know, we

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<v Speaker 1>got some R and R at night and then we

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<v Speaker 1>pick up the next day and go, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>stopping you know, Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, Casisco, Mississippi, or Memphis or wherever.

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<v Speaker 1>And so it was intense, but it was really really cool. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how many miles again did you put on the r

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<v Speaker 1>V and I'm taking that you were driving while Georgia

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<v Speaker 1>was editing. Yeah, we drove thirty five miles in total. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>what inspired you to do that? Like, you know, sitting

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<v Speaker 1>around thinking about everybody getting sick and what was going

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<v Speaker 1>on because back when a first hit we were hearing

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<v Speaker 1>we were hearing the stories out of Wuhan. What made

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<v Speaker 1>you think, you know, what, we can we can do

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<v Speaker 1>some good, we can we can be a blessing, we

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<v Speaker 1>can be an inspiration, Like, how did that thought come up?

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting tired of watching the news as as

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<v Speaker 1>I am now actually with with just so much bad

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<v Speaker 1>news and contradictory information. In fact, the song that I

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<v Speaker 1>wrote that I'm promoting Stars Still Shine the very first

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<v Speaker 1>line as all this news is getting old, and it

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<v Speaker 1>it really was. And I'm thinking, you know, we're seeing

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of who we should see on the news,

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<v Speaker 1>healthcare workers, firemen and women, e ms, you know, police officers, um.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're not seeing a lot of the people who

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<v Speaker 1>do a lot of the lot of the you know

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<v Speaker 1>work that is going on. Um. Who who really deserves

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of recognition. And so that was that was

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<v Speaker 1>the idea to just to go say thanks to him

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<v Speaker 1>and just to to you know, look at them, and

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I couldn't shake their hand or anything, but

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<v Speaker 1>just in the eyes and say we we see you,

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<v Speaker 1>and we love you and we appreciate you. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I had the idea of having celebrities zoom in and

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be holding an iPad and the street car operator

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<v Speaker 1>in New Orleans, you know, would see Sandy Bullocks saying

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<v Speaker 1>thank you or um, the the trucker, husband, wife, couple, um,

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<v Speaker 1>who are you know are putting themselves at risk every

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<v Speaker 1>day to keep our supply chain going. Tim McGraw was

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<v Speaker 1>on the iPad and saying them a song. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was really, you know, it was just about let's not

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<v Speaker 1>do a news piece. That's you know, real heavy. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>let's just bring these folks some entertainment and some joy

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<v Speaker 1>and nothing nothing, nothing, nothing lives your heart or your

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<v Speaker 1>spirit as hearing thank you. Yeah, I think I think

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, you know. I mean, when I play a

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<v Speaker 1>show or I do something and somebody comes up to

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<v Speaker 1>me on the street and says, you know, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for what you do, that that that is you know

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<v Speaker 1>what it's like. I mean, you're giving people arrestite from

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<v Speaker 1>from all of this craziness. I mean, that's what you

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<v Speaker 1>do for a living. And what an honor it is

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to do what you love and actually

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<v Speaker 1>have it, you know, help someone. So man, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>a no brainer for for me to go out and

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, look these people in the eye and

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<v Speaker 1>tell them thank you so much, and every one of

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<v Speaker 1>them except maybe one, so like, why do you why

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to talk to us? I'm like, because

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<v Speaker 1>you are the cleaning crew of the hospital at the

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<v Speaker 1>University of Alabama and you have husbands and wives and

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<v Speaker 1>children and you can't sit home in quarantine. You are

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<v Speaker 1>giving me chills. You know that the chicken skin My

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<v Speaker 1>kids call it when you get excited, goose bumps. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's true, and it's true now. It's true now, and

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<v Speaker 1>people are forgetting that. Okay, that was four months ago.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true now. Yeah. Well it's it's worse now. It's

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<v Speaker 1>far worse now. Yeah. And so while all of this,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, stuff is going on like that, that guy

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<v Speaker 1>who collects the trash every day at four o'clock in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning said, why you aren't talk to me? I said,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm asleep. When you come you pick up my trash,

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<v Speaker 1>you're exposing yourself to this virus far more than I am.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't, you know, take four months off work, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and he has to come home and you know, take

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<v Speaker 1>extra precaution with his clothes and stuff. I said, do

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<v Speaker 1>you think what you're doing is He goes, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually do, and it was you know, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>love these people, man, This is there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>goodness out there. We just need to focus on that.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so much goodness out there. I'm so sick of

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<v Speaker 1>the bad news. I'm so sick of the divisiveness. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sick of it, of the bitterness and the negativity

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<v Speaker 1>when there's so much goodness out there. Thank you. It

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<v Speaker 1>was my honor, really was, Harry. It is my absolute

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<v Speaker 1>honor to be speaking with you. We are going to

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<v Speaker 1>take a brief pause right now to share a message

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<v Speaker 1>from some folks who make this podcast possible. I am

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<v Speaker 1>so excited to have my friend Harry Connick Jr. Joining

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<v Speaker 1>us today. Harry, tell me more about your beautiful daughter, Georgia,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to work with her. You know, this was not,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like a pleasure trip. I mean she was

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<v Speaker 1>really you know, burn the midnight all trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>these edits, you know, uploaded to CVS. She was working really,

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<v Speaker 1>really hard, and then she would go out and film

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<v Speaker 1>these people, and she was listening to you know, Asia,

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<v Speaker 1>the twenty something year old school teacher who has a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of elementary school kids who don't have computers to

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<v Speaker 1>do online learning, and they don't have access to the

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<v Speaker 1>internet because they can't afford it to do online learning.

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<v Speaker 1>So what does she do? She goes to their house

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<v Speaker 1>every day and drives by with candy and throws it

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<v Speaker 1>out the window and checks on them. I mean, this,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what I'm talking about. And you know that

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<v Speaker 1>these are the There's a line I keep coming back

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<v Speaker 1>to in the song and says, thank God for you,

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<v Speaker 1>thank God for you. These aren't lyrics that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you write down because you need lyrics. These are lyrics

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<v Speaker 1>that I said, how can I say thank you? And

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know what it boiled down to, thank God

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Um, you know we could not do this

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<v Speaker 1>without you, and you need to hear it. And and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what the song is all about. I'm sorry, you're

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<v Speaker 1>making me cry. Oh well they listen, they make they

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<v Speaker 1>make me cry and and and like like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's in this time for me that that's what gets

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<v Speaker 1>me through, um with with all of the vitriol and

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<v Speaker 1>all the divisiveness and bitterness. Um, you know, I I

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<v Speaker 1>look at you know, the good the good ones, and

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<v Speaker 1>there's there's a lot of there's a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>out there that are that are making as possible and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I keep my eye on that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just know we'll be okay, Mr Rogers. Look for the helpers.

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<v Speaker 1>Look for the helpers. There's so many helpers. Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>and it's funny how the noise dissipates and disappears when

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<v Speaker 1>when my focus is on that. I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>things that would you know, normally, you know, make my

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<v Speaker 1>heart rate go up or worry me or stress me out.

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<v Speaker 1>They it's funny how they just dissolve when a slight

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<v Speaker 1>change in perspective or gratitude or humility is really all

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<v Speaker 1>all that it takes. And um, I mean it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's something that I have to remind myself of. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but when I do, it's just it's it's funny how

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<v Speaker 1>much brier the world looks. So your girls, your wife

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<v Speaker 1>and your girls. Are you guys are all at home

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<v Speaker 1>now that that project is done? Are you still together?

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<v Speaker 1>We're all home. Um, everybody's just kind of kind of

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<v Speaker 1>on stand by, you know. Uh, Georgia, you know, can't

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<v Speaker 1>really do a whole lot in terms of going out

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<v Speaker 1>and filming. My daughter Kate has a clothing line. She's

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<v Speaker 1>doing her best to kind of run the business from home.

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<v Speaker 1>And Charlotte is about to be a senior in high

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<v Speaker 1>school and we're still waiting to find out, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>whether the public school will you know, go on a schedule,

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<v Speaker 1>whether they'll do like a flex thing, you know, all

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<v Speaker 1>about that with the two or three days a week,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So we're just kind of waiting, and and Jill,

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<v Speaker 1>who happens to be a unbelievable chef, is spoiling us

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<v Speaker 1>with a lot of home cooked meals. So it's been

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<v Speaker 1>that part of it has been great. I gotta say,

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<v Speaker 1>as as much stress and heartache and frustrations and school

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<v Speaker 1>and all that stuff, dinner time has been a huge

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<v Speaker 1>blessing to be together with my family. Yeah. I remember

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to somebody the other day and they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh God, you know, I can't wait till all this

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<v Speaker 1>is over our kids can go back to school. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking, yeah, I mean that that we need that

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<v Speaker 1>to happen. But man, I'm loving every second of having

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<v Speaker 1>my girls here. I am loving it of the time,

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<v Speaker 1>the intimacy, the conversations. Um, we started doing this thing

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<v Speaker 1>at dinner time, and if if you've not done it,

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<v Speaker 1>I would suggest you do it because it'll blow your

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<v Speaker 1>mind with what your girls come up with. But every night,

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<v Speaker 1>one of us comes up with a question, and uh

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<v Speaker 1>So we've been sheltering and play up until last Thursday

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<v Speaker 1>with my outlaws, my ex husband's parents who were in

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<v Speaker 1>their eighties, and me and my husband and five of

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<v Speaker 1>our kids that are still at home. And the questions

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<v Speaker 1>are just phenomenal that the kids have been coming up with.

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<v Speaker 1>And that so questions like if you could go back

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<v Speaker 1>in time and change one event in your life, what

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<v Speaker 1>would it be? And why? Man, that's great, you know

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<v Speaker 1>why that's great because it gives your kids a chance,

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<v Speaker 1>all of all of you, a chance to come up

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<v Speaker 1>with something substantive. Like we play a game called Awkward

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<v Speaker 1>Dinner where we go on the table and say, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>name three people that you would never want to have

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<v Speaker 1>dinner with at the same time. And you'd pick like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like your ex ex boyfriend, and like a

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<v Speaker 1>third grade teacher who they don't know, and like some politicians.

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<v Speaker 1>You just like just people you just would never never

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<v Speaker 1>put together. But the thing of your game is that

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's um something that they've had a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>think about um, which would make it, you know, more meaningful.

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<v Speaker 1>So I love that we're gonna do that. There have

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<v Speaker 1>been so many blessings come out of the shutdown, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not I'm not negating the financial hardships and and

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<v Speaker 1>all the people we've lost and and all that. But

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<v Speaker 1>in the midst of that, there have been so many

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<v Speaker 1>moments of pure joy with me and my kids, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I try to focus on. Yeah, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's life is I tell my kids, like, a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good day is a blessing because in the course

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<v Speaker 1>of a day, you know, you may have heartbreak and

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<v Speaker 1>great joy, you know, so if you can get through

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<v Speaker 1>the day and have it be pretty good, that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's all right. And life is complicated, right, It's it's

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<v Speaker 1>all of those things. It's hardship and tragedy and joy

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<v Speaker 1>and everything. So there there is joy here, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're smart to embrace it. That's what we try

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<v Speaker 1>to do too. Well, tell me about the projects that

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<v Speaker 1>that a your your video, your your program is helping,

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<v Speaker 1>because I know there's some really cool charities. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the show United We Sing. People can see that now

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<v Speaker 1>on CBS All Access streaming if they want to see

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<v Speaker 1>the whole show. But the finale of the show is

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<v Speaker 1>I'm writing this down CBS All access. You can stream

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<v Speaker 1>it okay, yep, and then um, the song Stars Still Shine,

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<v Speaker 1>you can download that anywhere you would normally download songs

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<v Speaker 1>and all of the proceeds to that. You can just

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<v Speaker 1>listen to the Delilah show. You just do that. That

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<v Speaker 1>would be the favorite way to do it, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you can look up online. The Ellis Marsalis Center for Music,

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<v Speaker 1>It's something I started with Branford Marsalis. It's in one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most underserved neighborhoods in New Orleans, the ninth Ward.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a community center that offers you know, after school

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<v Speaker 1>help for kids and it teaches them how to code

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<v Speaker 1>and has a recording studio and a community center. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And we just lost Ellis from COVID. He was our

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<v Speaker 1>teacher and Bramford's father, So, um, we want to keep

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<v Speaker 1>this center going. It's been going since not long after Katrina.

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<v Speaker 1>It's expensive to operate and all the all the money

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<v Speaker 1>that we used to do that comes from donation, So

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<v Speaker 1>all of the proceeds from Stars Still Shine will go

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<v Speaker 1>to benefit that. It takes a village. It takes a

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<v Speaker 1>village to inspire a child, to keep a child protected

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<v Speaker 1>and safe during these crazy times. And how cool that

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<v Speaker 1>kids can can go there and be safe and be

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<v Speaker 1>taught and express themselves musically. Yeah, and to feel like

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<v Speaker 1>they have ownership and something. You know, that's so much

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<v Speaker 1>of it. You know, when when when they go back

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<v Speaker 1>to their homes in the Musicians Village, their their parents

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<v Speaker 1>own those homes. That's part of the whole Habits after

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<v Speaker 1>humanity process when we started Musicians Village, those kids own

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<v Speaker 1>those homes and they they have keys to the kingdom.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean when you don't have to worry about that,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how how available are you to learn? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's infinite because you you feel like you Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is mine, the best recording studio in New Orleans.

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<v Speaker 1>I can go in here whenever I want because this

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<v Speaker 1>this belongs to me. And I'm telling you just takes

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<v Speaker 1>a teeny bit of opportunity that and you could you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's the future superstars of music coming out of

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<v Speaker 1>New Orleans and they just need a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity and hopefully, you know, the Ellis Marsala Center will

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<v Speaker 1>give them that. Wow again with the goose bumps. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sitting here with the goose bumps again. That's good. We

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<v Speaker 1>like goose bumps. I'm so proud of you. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanna weren't for COVID and and the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that we're not face to face. I would just give

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<v Speaker 1>you the biggest Mama Delilah hug. So I'm so proud

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<v Speaker 1>of you of what you do. I would take that

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<v Speaker 1>in a second, and one day I we'll be able

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<v Speaker 1>to hug each other again. For sure. For sure. We

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<v Speaker 1>just got to get through this and we gotta come

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<v Speaker 1>out stronger, and um, we'll do it. Thank you, Thank you, Harry.

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<v Speaker 1>It's great hearing your voice again as always. Thank you, sweetheart.

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<v Speaker 1>Give my love to your family, and do that thing

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<v Speaker 1>around the dinner table, ask the really weird questions and

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<v Speaker 1>and let your kids, let the girls come up with

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<v Speaker 1>the questions. Oh yeah, I love it. I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>a great idea. We're gonna do that tonight and have

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<v Speaker 1>Jill big sour dough bread, sour dough bread tipped in

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<v Speaker 1>olive oil, with the questions. Nothing like it in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm coming over to your house. I'll sit outside. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Harry Connick Jr. Stars still shine. We'll talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you soon, honey. All right, Bye, Harry Connick Jr.

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<v Speaker 1>We are so fortunate to have your music, You're acting talents,

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<v Speaker 1>your love, your kindness, your family values, and your adorable nous.

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<v Speaker 1>One more entertainer who models care and compassion. One more

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<v Speaker 1>person using their gifts, their talents, their skills to change

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<v Speaker 1>the world for good. On Heart at a Time, you

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<v Speaker 1>can download Harry Connick Jr's new single, Stars Still Shine.

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<v Speaker 1>You can watch his CBS special at CBS All Access,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can help out kids who need your love.

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<v Speaker 1>All that you can do. Thank you for joining me

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<v Speaker 1>today on Love Someone with Delilah, and stay tuned to

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<v Speaker 1>my radio show every single night. God bless you and

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<v Speaker 1>take care.