Speaker 1: Talk talk talk to We're just two unapologetically black women
Speaker 1: with an opinion.
Speaker 2: Who talks back, right because it's be like this is
Speaker 2: like heavy in the topic of like dating and relationships
Speaker 2: and all of that right now and this Eric, But
Speaker 2: what are your thoughts on, Like.
Speaker 3: Where do they be calling like like you know, when
Speaker 3: people be splitting everything splitting. Yeah, yeah, I'm not I'm
Speaker 3: not into that, but I'm not into that. But I
Speaker 3: definitely wanted to know your thoughts on me.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want no man that want me
Speaker 1: to split fifty to fifty. I want a man who
Speaker 1: wants to be the leader and he feels like a
Speaker 1: man by providing, Like I want to provide for my woman.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 1: Now, if it gets to a place where, you know,
Speaker 1: we're going through a financial struggle and I have to
Speaker 1: chip in fifty fifty, I don't have.
Speaker 5: A problem with that, you know, absolutely.
Speaker 1: Like my last relationship long time ago, Uh, the guy
Speaker 1: he you know, he provided pretty much everything because we
Speaker 1: just moved to a new city and I had to
Speaker 1: I'm a hairstyling, so I had to build my clientele, right, so, uh,
Speaker 1: he had to provide everything at the time, and then
Speaker 1: we kind of went.
Speaker 5: He had like a.
Speaker 1: Little money struggle, and we wanted to go out, and
Speaker 1: he didn't have no money. He didn't have no money,
Speaker 1: so I gave him the money. I gave him my
Speaker 1: card to pay for stuff while we were out, so
Speaker 1: he could still pay for it and be the man.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and be the man.
Speaker 1: But it was my money, you know.
Speaker 4: That's fine.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so we got no struggle love now, Okay.
Speaker 4: But what doot? What are your thoughts on it? Black?
Speaker 6: I mean, from you're gonna have ups and downs, right,
Speaker 6: there's gonna be your time where I'm up and you up. Right,
Speaker 6: It's like, but it's as long as we were embarrassing them
Speaker 6: when it especially when the chuck comes, it's like, yo, yeah,
Speaker 6: that's that's a good that's a good tactic. A real
Speaker 6: nigga fuck with you on something like that all day long,
Speaker 6: right because it's only a matter of time. He's gonna
Speaker 6: be back up again, you know, I mean, is what
Speaker 6: we do. So it's like, but yeah, the Evan flows
Speaker 6: and I can handle that because that's the real relationship
Speaker 6: that EBB and flows. You go, whether that then you be,
Speaker 6: I'll tell you everything will just be Pcpeach right, and I.
Speaker 5: Think that what's that? What was I about to say?
Speaker 7: Some men feed their ego by fucking every woman they
Speaker 7: come in contact with, and other men feed their ego
Speaker 7: by how many people they can take care of.
Speaker 5: That's the type of man I want, yeah, right, exactly,
Speaker 5: that's the type of man I deserve.
Speaker 4: I like that, Yeah right, I like that.
Speaker 6: And that's that's That's one thing I like keeping my
Speaker 6: circle even small, even though you know, down to my
Speaker 6: wife and just people I hang out.
Speaker 8: Right, we all got to be solid, right.
Speaker 6: I get nervous around nervous people, right because I'm a
Speaker 6: calm dude, right, and I'm always problem solving.
Speaker 8: So anybody I wrote is like my team, females or.
Speaker 6: Male whatever, we all got to be like, I won't
Speaker 6: we know what's going on, but with strong individuals and
Speaker 6: we're all like, you know, just popping.
Speaker 5: That's what a man is to me, A problem solving.
Speaker 8: Yeah, all day, all day.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, But sometimes you get missed because sometimes a
Speaker 1: man will try to like a woman just wants you
Speaker 1: to listen.
Speaker 5: I just want you to hear what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You're hearing it to like, Okay, how can I fix it?
Speaker 1: Just trying to talk to you invent so you can hear.
Speaker 4: But see that's why I listen.
Speaker 3: That's why communication is Bible, like in a relationship with
Speaker 3: like in my last marriage. The number one thing that
Speaker 3: I took from that that, like like my brother said,
Speaker 3: when we went to marriage counsel and then we went
Speaker 3: to a lot of marriage council counseling at churches, so
Speaker 3: we would go to like church marriage councilors. Now it
Speaker 3: was fire fire now they were well the we the
Speaker 3: ones we went to, like because we kept going to
Speaker 3: staying when it was this black church in LA but
Speaker 3: it was nothing but like older married couples, it was
Speaker 3: crazy you know too because some of them would.
Speaker 4: Be in there argument. Like I didn't say that like
Speaker 4: you know, to be going down there.
Speaker 3: But it was a lot of like elder black married
Speaker 3: couples been married for forty years you know, you know
Speaker 3: people that we could get some game from it. And
Speaker 3: the number one thing that they all said in comment
Speaker 3: everywhere we went any marriage couple I ever talked to,
Speaker 3: the two things they always said was make sure you
Speaker 3: always communicate effectively and keep people out your business at all,
Speaker 3: Like don't keep people out your business like literally every
Speaker 3: single couple always said those same two things. You feel me,
Speaker 3: and so I'm gonna get on the communicating shit first.
Speaker 3: That's why communication is so important, because me, I'm a
Speaker 3: type of person. Now I'll ask you before you even
Speaker 3: start going on your tangent.
Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, do you want me to just listen?
Speaker 3: Or am I like ifm I supposed to be kind
Speaker 3: of like sharpening your sword with this shit?
Speaker 4: Okay, you want me to listen?
Speaker 3: Perfect, let me just sit you know, now I could
Speaker 3: cool out because I am like that, like I do
Speaker 3: be wanting to kind of help you figure out solutions
Speaker 3: and things for whatever it is you might be going through.
Speaker 3: But I also would just shut the fuck up and
Speaker 3: listen and let you just get it off and talk
Speaker 3: about your home girls doing this and that or whatever
Speaker 3: the fuck You know.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, Like yeah, because sometimes I'll get mad
Speaker 1: if you just go straight into attacking the like my ship,
Speaker 1: like just listen.
Speaker 5: Niggas like like I want to lose weight. How many
Speaker 5: times did I tell this nigga you wanna lose weight?
Speaker 5: You ain't did it yet?
Speaker 1: Now?
Speaker 8: He like, Okay, I don't.
Speaker 5: Need I need you to listen right, let me trying
Speaker 5: to give me the motherfucker.
Speaker 4: You need.
Speaker 3: You need the man that's go or just even a
Speaker 3: partner period like because even as me and with these
Speaker 3: type of ships, you need somebody who gonna just lead
Speaker 3: by example and do affective ship.
Speaker 4: Like so if your partner keep talking about how much
Speaker 4: they want to lose weight, just.
Speaker 3: Start working out, like fucking let's go to the gym today,
Speaker 3: let's you know whatever the fuck you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 3: because just doing this all day, you ain't finna do
Speaker 3: nothing but put somebody off, turn them off, whatever the
Speaker 3: fuck versus like if you if you sound what you
Speaker 3: want to lose weight and you to watch me go
Speaker 3: to the gym four days in a row, and I
Speaker 3: might not be a gym nigga even like that, or
Speaker 3: even if you is just figuring out ways to create
Speaker 3: like a space where I.
Speaker 4: Ain't pushing you.
Speaker 3: I ain't, but it's it's im lean by example, like
Speaker 3: because you don't want to be a person that's just
Speaker 3: talking either.
Speaker 4: I hate the motherfucker who just.
Speaker 1: Do that.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 7: I lean more towards like finding somebody who comprehends me,
Speaker 7: not just communicate with me. You got to be able
Speaker 7: to understand what the person is saying, So I, like,
Speaker 7: you don't ever understand what the fuck I'm saying?
Speaker 5: Like it got to be a like minded comprehension is key.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like that.
Speaker 5: Comprehension is key.
Speaker 3: Look and then the other gym too for the people
Speaker 3: listening to whoever else like that keep people out your
Speaker 3: business ship.
Speaker 4: That was probably the most important part that they told me.
Speaker 1: I honestly believe that Keiky Palmer and her baby daddy
Speaker 1: will still be together now? Have they not let let
Speaker 1: social media get into their business?
Speaker 9: And I wait for this drop that crazy right, it's crazy,
Speaker 9: she's wild crazy.
Speaker 4: But it's it's a real thing. Y'all.
Speaker 3: Let everybody, y'all business a couple of people, y'all, let
Speaker 3: everyone in the midx. Which that's just a ground for destruction,
Speaker 3: because that's why they say, don't let nobody in your business,
Speaker 3: because guess what what if? Like I can talk about
Speaker 3: how my ex had niggas in the pool and all
Speaker 3: that now because we've done and over with.
Speaker 4: But at the time I was ready to take that
Speaker 4: ship to the grade. It wasn't nobody to go hear
Speaker 4: about that because.
Speaker 3: I don't want to have to deal with other people's expectations,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, like that if I want
Speaker 3: to go back, yes you feel me? Or like that
Speaker 3: that plays such a big role, like girls that tell
Speaker 3: their homegirls.
Speaker 7: And I'm never telling my home leave her nigga unless
Speaker 7: he beating her or like blatantly being just disrespectful like
Speaker 7: one of my we ain't even friends no more.
Speaker 5: He would be in the car like saying, shut the
Speaker 5: fuck up.
Speaker 7: Why I'm gonna speaker phone, motherfucker, shut the fuck up,
Speaker 7: Like don't talk to my friend like that, Like yes,
Speaker 7: leave that that guy. But yeah, like I'm never trying
Speaker 7: to tell something cause I'm staying, bitch. I might tell
Speaker 7: you I'm leaving tomorrow and I'm be right back here
Speaker 7: until I get tired of this nigga for real.
Speaker 5: And I talked about him all week and we just
Speaker 5: be on the phone, like.
Speaker 7: Right and told me two years to break up with
Speaker 7: my last nigga, two years to bring up with that
Speaker 7: Nigga's real?
Speaker 4: And was it? Did you have homegirls? Though?
Speaker 3: That was kind of like pushing because you're the home
Speaker 3: girl that don't tell people to leave, But did you
Speaker 3: have homegirls?
Speaker 7: No, nobody well, nobody really told me to leave. I
Speaker 7: would be I know I've been the fuck out of
Speaker 7: TAM's air a lot of my friends because I really
Speaker 7: was trying to talk myself into staying a lot of
Speaker 7: the time, right, I was talking about and knowing I
Speaker 7: need to get the fuck up out of there.
Speaker 5: But that's why I said, I.
Speaker 7: Have a very high tolerance for a bullshit and I
Speaker 7: just need somebody who want tolerate my ship the same way.
Speaker 3: Like that's just it, Like what's some of your.
Speaker 5: You told you up? I've be flirting and I don't
Speaker 5: like chatty patty ass niggas. No I need. I need
Speaker 5: my nigga to be very serious. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I do.
Speaker 7: I like to have I like to be with somebody
Speaker 7: I can have a conversation with. I'm a conversationalist, right,
Speaker 7: I want to have somebody.
Speaker 5: We could do a meeting out of minds. We in
Speaker 5: the best smoking.
Speaker 7: Weed, we're talking about, esoteric ship we're talking about and
Speaker 7: a knocky we talk about all the things, right, I
Speaker 7: want that type of That's what kept me with my ex,
Speaker 7: like conspiracy share all the things like we're like, oh,
Speaker 7: this should go down we got the food truck, we
Speaker 7: got a hold stove in this bitch, and we got
Speaker 7: to run whatever we got to do.
Speaker 5: Like that's what kept me there because I know he
Speaker 5: would would protect me.
Speaker 4: Right, that's fine.
Speaker 8: But a lot of a lot of dudes sliding your
Speaker 8: DMO just for that alone.
Speaker 5: Hold on, let me put this discussion.
Speaker 7: I don't fuck with them niggas in the conscious community
Speaker 7: because they be conscious pimping.
Speaker 5: They be out here for and that'sing women with words.
Speaker 7: And I'm so small these two smart bitches okay on
Speaker 7: this podcast cannot be easily finessed with words.
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Speaker 5: And no money.
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Speaker 1: be like, okay, you know what, anyone I like, You're
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Speaker 3: Until I started hearing some of the lamest most like
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Speaker 5: But even.
Speaker 7: Good morning, even the world, whole tap has been sucked
Speaker 7: up because whole tap literally means I come in peace.
Speaker 5: So I can't even I.
Speaker 7: Can't even be a whole tap because y'all holds out here.
Speaker 5: A whole bunch of women.
Speaker 4: Nah niggas, They niggas. The antainted so much it ain't
Speaker 4: even fucking funny. Sh