1 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 1: Brooking jewels. Second d Update. All right, this is one 2 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: of the biggest surprises I've ever had on the show. 3 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: Today's second day update involves a woman who didn't really 4 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: end things on good terms in a previous second date update. Oh, 5 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna play a clip for you right now to 6 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: remind everybody, and then we'll talk to her. And the 7 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: fact that the men they are sitting laughing, cracking up. 8 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: I find it revolting when a woman gives herself it 9 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: is very meaningful. And for a stupid guy, a frat boy. No, less, 10 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: I never thought you were Now I see you are. Hey, Randy, 11 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: we haven't heard from you. Was this the same Sarah 12 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: you hung out with that night? No, I wasn't angry 13 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: that night, of course not. He only saw one part 14 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,480 Speaker 1: of me. But I'm many many, I'm a multi fast 15 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: of this person, and I have to stand up Sarah. 16 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: I believe that, Sarah. I believe you wholeheartedly, that you 17 00:00:53,320 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: are a bunch of different people people all Sarah, I 18 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: have been Sarah hung up on us. What's the film? 19 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: Was that? If you forgot about that little clip that 20 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: was from the second Date where Sarah called a guy 21 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: that she hooked up with He didn't call her back 22 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: because she talked to him while she was on the 23 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: toilet the next morning going to the bathroom and it 24 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: turned him off, so she got really really angry. Sarah, 25 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: how are you doing now? Um? I used to say, 26 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and I'm embarrassed as well. I mean, I 27 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:30,119 Speaker 1: shouldn't have used the profanity and I have to take 28 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: responsibility for that. And I wanted to tell you I 29 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: started taking anger management classes and I'm trying to better 30 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,559 Speaker 1: understand how my behavior can have a negative sess on others. 31 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: And I'm sorry. That's for you. That is the nicest 32 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: thing I've ever heard from anyone who has told me 33 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: to look off before like that is. I mean, that 34 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: takes a lot to be able to admit when you're 35 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: wrong and they obviously, we totally accept your apology. Thank you, 36 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: Thank you very much, thank you. I'm working on it. 37 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: We also have very low standards how we're treated here, 38 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: so oh no, I'm kidding all take jokes well, Sarah. So, 39 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: so after all that, you decided to do another second 40 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 1: date update with us? Yeah, I feel guys will have 41 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: me absolutely. Why don't you tell us a little bit 42 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: about the date you went on, Well, we put out 43 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,639 Speaker 1: two friends and he had tickets for a Mariner's game, 44 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: so we went and we had great chemistry. We talked 45 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: so much. We missed us with the game. He's just 46 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 1: so appable and I don't even think he knows how 47 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: good looking he is, which is I think really rare. 48 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: And I find a lot of women think the same 49 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: thing about me. I have no clue how good looking 50 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: I am, and it seems to be much of a 51 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: turn on to them. I think you have no clue 52 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 1: what you look like or what humility is, but I 53 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: don't understand that word. How did date end? He walked 54 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: me to my car and he kissed me, and that 55 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 1: was all. It was a really nice, really sweet, nice kiss. 56 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: And then he waited while I got in a car 57 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: and locked my door and drove away, and it was 58 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: just really sweet. No, he hasn't called you. Have you 59 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: asked your friends if they know anything? Well, yeah, my 60 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: girlfriend who knew his friend. But it's not like I'm 61 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 1: really close with someone who he might have provided in 62 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: because that's not the case. I see what you're saying. 63 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. So what do you think? 64 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: Do you have any guesses onto why he hasn't called you. No, 65 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 1: I don't not when I just you know, try to 66 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 1: look at it objectively. No, all right, well you know 67 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: how the drill goes. We're gonna play a song, come back, 68 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: call him and get your second date update. You're prepared 69 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: to hear whatever it is and not completely freak out 70 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: on us this time. Yes, okay? Right after this brooking 71 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: Jubil in the Morning update, all the HiT's moving on 72 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: to two point five is brooking Jewil in the morning 73 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: in the middle of the second date update. If anybody's unclear, 74 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: Sarah has done a second day update with us before. 75 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: She ended up going off on us the last time, 76 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 1: telling us to f off hanging up on us. She 77 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: wants to do another second date update. You're going to 78 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: behave yourself this time and try to like listen what 79 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: you say and like actually have a conversation with him 80 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: this time. Well, yeah, okay, and it could not even 81 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: be something bad, all right, I don't think it will 82 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: be a lot of people ask me about the second 83 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 1: date updates when we're out and about doing things, and 84 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 1: they say, why do people want to do this? Since 85 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 1: you've done this now twice. Maybe you could give the 86 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: best answer onto why you want to do this. Everyone 87 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: wants to find their match. Not easy, and it's worth 88 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: putting in the extra effort to understand, like why why 89 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: why did people just not call back? Yeah? Okay, all right, 90 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 1: we're gonna call him right now. His name is John, right, yes, Okay, Remember, 91 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 1: stay on the line, be quiet until we get the 92 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: answer out of him, and then you can calmly talk 93 00:04:46,040 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 1: to John. All right, Okay, Hello, Hi is John there? Yeah, 94 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 1: this is John. Hey, what's up man? How are you? 95 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: This is Jewel from brook and Jewel in the Morning. 96 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five. Okay. What I'm calling 97 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: because I wanted to ask you about a mutual friend 98 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 1: that you and I have. Okay, it's a friend of mine. 99 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 1: Her name is Sarah, and you went out on a 100 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 1: date with her, but you haven't gotten back to her 101 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: since the date, so I wanted to know what the 102 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 1: reason behind that was. That's weird, I know it is, 103 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 1: but it's a second we do on our show called 104 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 1: the second dight up date. Basically, like, if you go 105 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: out on date with someone and blow them off, they 106 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 1: email us to call you and ask why that's why 107 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: we're calling you. Okay, okay, So would you mind telling 108 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:45,839 Speaker 1: us this is on the radio? Right, you guys are 109 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: if you're hesitant at all. Remember she's the one that's asking, 110 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: so she's willing to hear whatever it is. I mean, 111 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: if she really wants to know. I mean, we we 112 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,359 Speaker 1: only went on the one date, so it wasn't that 113 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: big a deal. Okay, John, she told her that your 114 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: date ended in a really sweet kiss. Yeah, I mean 115 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: in a nice way. I felt like, yeah, you could 116 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: see why she's confused. Why I mean, if you also 117 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 1: thought it ended lovely, why you wouldn't call her back? 118 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: It's it's not her, that's the thing. It's like, it's 119 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: not anything she did or didn't do. It's my thing. 120 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: So something about her turns you off. Again, it's not 121 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: anything she did, it's my own issues. Like, so she 122 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: is a sales rep right, like a sales manager, Okay, 123 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: you know, fairly high powered, like you know, makes a 124 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: good deal of money job. Yeah, and I have, you know, 125 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: not as good a job. And it just felt weird 126 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: to me, you know, if that were to go forward 127 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: to not be kind of on the same level as 128 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 1: far as that sort of stuff. Okay, so you don't 129 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: feel like you're not in her league. Basically, I would 130 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: feel more comfortable dating someone to sort of on my 131 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 1: level as far as all that goes, you know what 132 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 1: I mean, we're like the opposite. I'm looking for a 133 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: woman that makes a ton of cash that would take 134 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 1: care of me. I have no problem with that at all. 135 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of dudes that feel the 136 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: same way. But did you like her personality and everything? 137 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: I mean, was everything cool except for that, you know? 138 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: To tell the truth, she there was times where she 139 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: kind of came off a little intense, I think, and 140 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: I think maybe that's the sort of part of her job, 141 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: sort of stuff bleeding into her life for whateverybody don't 142 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: get this a little bit intense. But looking God, hey, John, Yeah, 143 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: Sarah's actually on the phone now, I mean there you 144 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: got you guys. Did you just catch that? He just 145 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: doesn't listen? Sarah's on the phone with us right now. John. 146 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: If you haven't figured that out, okay, I don't know. 147 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: I mean, like I mean, I think you're not much 148 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: of a man if you can't mean it's not how much, 149 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: it's how you feel about yourself. That's what makes for nan. 150 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: And and then call a woman intense. You're just like 151 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: a child. Wow, we talked about this. I agree with 152 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: what you're saying. It wasn't if I wasn't sure of 153 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: my decision before. I certainly am now. Well, thank god, 154 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 1: thank god, I've just been done a big favor. I 155 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: know you were such a jerk. Wow. Yeah, And then 156 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: really I make more money. I mean, first of all, 157 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: I never spoke about money, so you don't really know 158 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: how much money I make. But you know I'm not 159 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: superficial like you. I mean, I don't care. I'm looking 160 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 1: for a good man. I don't care about money. If 161 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 1: you want some stupid little who cares about money, you're 162 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: not gonna have any chance for a lasting relationship. It's 163 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: unbelievable how stupid you are. Really, you think she's too intense. 164 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 1: I mean, really, American men suck. I think I haven't 165 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: find a man of Italy who understands is Sarah Sarah 166 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: let John let John respond to here? Maybe what it's 167 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: true though he doesn't like intend like he's passionate and 168 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: doesn't like sis to money for money to heat it. 169 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 1: I mean, it's on nineteen fifty you know, Sarah, Sarah 170 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 1: does not appreciate a crazy ask well, wrong, I'm not crazy, 171 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,559 Speaker 1: and I don't asked? Who just said that, Sarah? Is 172 00:08:55,559 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: that's abuse? Is Sarah so abuse? Sarah? Sarah said that, Sarah, 173 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 1: this is jewel, this is jewil. You said you called 174 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 1: me a crazy? No, No, I didn't, Sarah Sarah, Sarah Sarah, John, 175 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 1: hang on one second. H my gosh, Sarah Sarah, it 176 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: was John. Answer me. I'm answering you right now. I'm 177 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 1: trying to answer you. I'm trying to answer you. John 178 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: said that, okay, but actually like men either Sarah a 179 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: woman that he makes more money because he's passionate. You 180 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,679 Speaker 1: guys really disappoint me. Now, Sarah, you're so cool. But 181 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 1: about your anger management technique anymore? Oh God again, think 182 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: all of you right now, Judge, I can't believe that happened. 183 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 1: You know, she called us back. She was so excited. John, 184 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: how do you feel now, because the problem is is 185 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 1: I actually agree with her appoints. I just don't agree 186 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 1: with her delivery. I mean, can you kind of see 187 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:10,079 Speaker 1: what she's saying? John? Yeah, I mean I get that, 188 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: and I think it was sort of that combined with 189 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: the kind of intensity she had that Hey, John, what 190 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: are you hang on one second for me? Yeah, okay, 191 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: I just gonna do something. I don't know what are 192 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: you doing? Don't don't do that and it's something different, John, 193 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: don't worry about it. Hello. Hey, Sarah, it's Jebil from 194 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the morning. I don't want to 195 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 1: talk that piece of you know what is on the phone, Sarah. Hey, 196 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you go because I didn't like the 197 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 1: way you hung up on us last time. I want 198 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: to say goodbye to you. Well, I don't like how 199 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 1: I don't like this situation right now that you don't. 200 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 1: I have to ask you. I have to ask you 201 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:53,559 Speaker 1: one thing. I just have to ask you one thing. 202 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:57,959 Speaker 1: Why I want to say on the phone when he's there, Okay, okay, 203 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: just real quick. What I'd love to send you two 204 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: out on a second day. We will pay for it, Sarah, 205 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: would you like to go with Johnny Gay? Apparently that's enough.