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Speaker 1: For good. Don't laugh at your credits, Saturday Night Live. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and his very own podcast, Las Culturistas It's Bowen Yank.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you that I have a question.

444
00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:58,639
Speaker 1: I'll tell you. But do you do you have? Do

445
00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:00,880
Speaker 1: you have? Are you in a family plan with yourself?

446
00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:04,840
Speaker 2: Yes? Up until very recently, I defected.

447
00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:07,880
Speaker 1: You defected from your family family plan? So now your

448
00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:10,159
Speaker 1: family plan is just your both your just it's just

449
00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:12,000
Speaker 1: my two numbers. I have a nine one seven. My

450
00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,600
Speaker 1: nine to one seven number is not real, but I

451
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 1: have it, got it twist.

452
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:17,160
Speaker 2: What do you mean not real?

453
00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:19,760
Speaker 1: Like it's it's like it's an app on my phone.

454
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:21,560
Speaker 2: Oh great, yes, so that like.

455
00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:24,959
Speaker 1: Everyone doesn't have to have the number.

456
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,119
Speaker 2: But I'm this is do you ever think about this

457
00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:31,639
Speaker 2: with phone numbers, area codes aside, there's only what seven digits,

458
00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:34,400
Speaker 2: so there's only math. Come on, come on, math, there's

459
00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:38,000
Speaker 2: only like a million numbers, and a million's not like

460
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:39,600
Speaker 2: like a million's not that much.

461
00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:42,240
Speaker 1: And he's talking about money.

462
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,479
Speaker 2: We're buying up all the internets. We're buying up all

463
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 2: the verizons.

464
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,239
Speaker 1: That I know. Well, it was like even having to

465
00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,600
Speaker 1: get I remember when the Baltimore area code was like

466
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 1: split because it was like there's too many four one oh's,

467
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:57,720
Speaker 1: And it was like, well, first we got area codes

468
00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,480
Speaker 1: because they were we were using up all the numbers.

469
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:01,439
Speaker 1: We got area codes for that reason. And then the

470
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:04,640
Speaker 1: Baltimore area code split, and I was like, oh my gosh,

471
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 1: my house number is authentic, and then my cell is

472
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 1: part of the split, really authentic. I'm like O G

473
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 1: G authentic.

474
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and and how do you and you and you

475
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 2: have like the nine one seven will always be fake

476
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:19,640
Speaker 2: in the app, I know.

477
00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,639
Speaker 1: But then I think about getting another one. Because to

478
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,879
Speaker 1: your point about towers being down, there was a day

479
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:26,879
Speaker 1: and we're talking about the cell towers.

480
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:29,480
Speaker 2: The cell towers. Oh my god, you took it there.

481
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 1: I didn't.

482
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:31,680
Speaker 2: I'm sorry you did.

483
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:34,920
Speaker 1: I set him up to take it there. Maybe you

484
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 1: didn't take the prey, maybe don't take the baby, don't no,

485
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 1: but I the towers were. I don't know what the

486
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:44,919
Speaker 1: fuck happened. I don't know if you know about this,

487
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 1: because I don't Verizon.

488
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:53,639
Speaker 2: Shut I can tell you about what happened.

489
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 1: What happened, what happened? Well, the towers were knocked down.

490
00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:05,919
Speaker 1: We're gonna cut my part. Well, good, you go. Oh

491
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 1: my god, So the towers, the cells, the cell towers

492
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 1: for Verizon went down in Baltimore, just honey, in New York,

493
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 1: in New York, Gotham City, no joke, I'm not kidding.

494
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:21,680
Speaker 1: This was okay, right now, the month is March. I'm

495
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,919
Speaker 1: my concept of time is really fucked right now. So

496
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, I'm gonna say it was January of this year,

497
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 1: of this year.

498
00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 2: Okay, yes, I remember that day, honey.

499
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:35,040
Speaker 1: Yes, the cell phones they stopped working, the variety, all

500
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 1: of Horizon, the most reliable networks, supposedly supposed No, my

501
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: phone just stopped working. It went into SOS. It kind

502
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:43,919
Speaker 1: of does that. I got the new phone and it

503
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 1: was doing that already. I was like, oh, okay, I have

504
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 1: to shut it down. Like I got this new phone

505
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,120
Speaker 1: that gives me problems. But I turn it off, turn

506
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 1: it on, and I'm doing that for like twenty minutes

507
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 1: in my kitchen. I have errands meetings to get to YEP,

508
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,199
Speaker 1: and I was like, well, okay, I guess I have

509
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 1: to try to remember the map route or take what

510
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:00,880
Speaker 1: have I have? I find my house, so I get

511
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 1: there route and I take screenshots because I'm like, the

512
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 1: phone's not working. And then I get where I'm going,

513
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: and well, first I was like, I'm gonna go to Verizon,

514
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,439
Speaker 1: because that's gonna there's one right by my meeting. I

515
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 1: go to Verizon. It is in fact Gotham City. The

516
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 1: staff standing in a line at the Verizon in Soho

517
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,120
Speaker 1: and a bunch just mayhem in the store, a bunch

518
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 1: of people, and I could see the staff basically dead

519
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,400
Speaker 1: pen yeah, dissociated and being like there's nothing we can do,

520
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 1: There's nothing we can do in people being like I

521
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 1: thought it was just my phone, and I was like,

522
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 1: I thought it was just mine. And then everywhere I

523
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 1: go I could hear people I'm passing and so hoping

524
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 1: like my phone's not working. The phone's not working, and

525
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:36,399
Speaker 1: I was like, this is crazy. It was like that

526
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 1: until ten pm. So it started at noon earlier, earlier,

527
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 1: and it was like that until after ten fifteen pm.

528
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:44,719
Speaker 2: Rid is not stable.

529
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 1: It's not And it was just weird to see how

530
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 1: much I rely on the phone. So when you talk

531
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 1: about the towers being down, no, no, genuinely, I'm not

532
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: trying to be funny funny.

533
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:54,120
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

534
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to be funny.

535
00:23:55,320 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 2: When and and so, yes and yes, and does that

536
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,920
Speaker 2: attitudinally change anything for you about having the nine ones?

537
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 2: I don't think that makes it.

538
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:06,400
Speaker 1: It doesn't make a difference because if I got another

539
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: phone number, it would be on Verizon. It's just because

540
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not going to change providers because that

541
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: one day. But also they had no explanation. They're like

542
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: they sent a tweet out at like or threads or

543
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 1: tweet out at like one pm, be like we're aware

544
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,640
Speaker 1: and we're working on it. And then we didn't hear

545
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,919
Speaker 1: from them for the rest of the day. And then

546
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 1: it was just like my cell service started working at

547
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,959
Speaker 1: ten fifteen. We don't know what happened. No, no, there

548
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,959
Speaker 1: was not like this is what happened. No, just all

549
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: of crazy. Yeah, so good to have two numbers.

550
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,719
Speaker 2: What would be in your like prepper cut if that

551
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 2: were to happen again, and like, oh if this, like

552
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 2: the towers going down with it fell society.

553
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: It felt like apocalyptic a touch truly walking through SOHO

554
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 1: and being like it was so weird. I'm like, none

555
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,479
Speaker 1: of us can you can't use them map. I couldn't

556
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: call it uber to get to I was like, oh,

557
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. So it is a bit disorienting. I

558
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 1: think it can be. I think a hot spot. I

559
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: keep thinking, yeah, okay, I want a hot spot. Okay,

560
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 1: I want a hotspot, I want chief.

561
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,919
Speaker 2: But the hotspot also goes down with the towers like

562
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 2: like that the hot spot is just brickted.

563
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: Are you calling me stupid on my whole podcast? You

564
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: can't do that? On my podcast. Okay, so, okay, I

565
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,120
Speaker 1: forget it. I need to just disconnect. That's what you're saying.

566
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: I go, do I need to disconnect? I'm getting pen

567
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 1: and paper.

568
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 2: Yes, stamps because the post office will be open to the.

569
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 1: Rain and sleep snow, sell towers down. The post office

570
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 1: is open. My dog. Yes, my photos from my high

571
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 1: school prom. Oh, I have the album. That's the physical.

572
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,479
Speaker 1: They have not been digitized. They're in my apartment in

573
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 1: New York. I have no storage space, but I have those.

574
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 2: What's have we talked about? What? Like? What problem? What? What

575
00:25:59,240 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: made prom? Says best?

576
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 1: No? But I do want to know from you first?

577
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: Sure made so special?

578
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 2: I went with junior year, I went with Laura Lockwood.

579
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 2: Senior year, I went with Alex Town and they were

580
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:12,400
Speaker 2: both both girls.

581
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: I did we try not to say last names on

582
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 1: this podcast, you said, okay, sorry, just to protect me.

583
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:22,199
Speaker 1: I did.

584
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 2: But you were saying something really interesting, which was there

585
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 2: was an era of reality television where we weren't saying yes,

586
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 2: I was talking about this.

587
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, we just weren't and it was like so

588
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: and so h or so and so last, but now

589
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 1: it's like whatever, it's all out there.

590
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 2: Now because you're right, because of social media. Yeah, it's

591
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 2: like we want to look them up first and last.

592
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,399
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, okay, but you went with these I went.

593
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 2: With these girls. Just the big draw was that it

594
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 2: was at Invesco Field, my my high stadium, like the

595
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 2: big Arena or the big Stadium, I should say. But

596
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,439
Speaker 2: it was just like in like a conference room. It

597
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 2: wasn't like out in the field, and there was a

598
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 2: chocolate fountain and people freakingly.

599
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,160
Speaker 1: Went crazy for that crazy. Were you nervous to ask

600
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 1: either of them? Did you have nerves asking?

601
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 2: No? Because it was it was very out of the close.

602
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:06,640
Speaker 2: It was so like when you're when you're a gay guy,

603
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 2: it's just like there's no you're not. There's not, at

604
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 2: least in my when we were in high school, was

605
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 2: like you're not going with another guy unless you're like

606
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:15,360
Speaker 2: coupled up.

607
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 1: Okay.

608
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 2: So it's like you're just gonna go. You're basically going staged,

609
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 2: but your date is like an ally girl okay, basically okay,

610
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 2: And that's what it was. Okay, okay, So what was

611
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:26,640
Speaker 2: so special that problem?

612
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: My I stayed out. I like went to parties like,

613
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: which was a twist because I didn't party in high school,

614
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 1: so like I did the like I asked a friend

615
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 1: and I was like, he had graduated I think the

616
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: year before, and I'm gonna cough, and so that's why

617
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: I sound like this spot you know this.

618
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: Yes, they're bad right now.

619
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: Allergies are fucking me.

620
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

621
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: Do you see my eyes? Do you maybe can't see

622
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:55,440
Speaker 1: Do you hear my voice?

623
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 2: I hear your voice. I can't see your eyes? What

624
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 2: do you What do you mean you can't see my eye? No,

625
00:27:58,960 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 2: I'm there.

626
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: I know you're not baby blue, but you can see

627
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: my mouth, you can see my Okay. I don't know

628
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 1: if we're going to cut that out because I do

629
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 1: say we're sponsored by allergies, because ballergies are real, and

630
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 1: I genuinely.

631
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 2: Don't cut out.

632
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,119
Speaker 1: We have to let people know that none of this

633
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 1: is perfect. I'm passionate about it, passion of the j

634
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: I c okay, Jesus okay. So I asked, I asked

635
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,160
Speaker 1: a friend. He had graduated. I was like, I'll pay

636
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: for your tux rental whatever, just come with me for yeah,

637
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: because he did. He didn't. We I don't even know

638
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: we even knew each other well, like we knew each

639
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: other in passing and he was like a nice guy,

640
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: and I go, oh my gosh, I don't have a date.

641
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: I didn't even think about this because I was so

642
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: I was so not boy crazy in high school at all,

643
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: and so I was like should I didn't think about this,

644
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: but I do need to ask someone? And I asked

645
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: him and I think he worked at Anian's Pretzels and

646
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: I lived by the mall, and I think one Friday

647
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: we got dropped off at the mall or I did,

648
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: he's working, and I was like, oh, Robert, do you

649
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: want to go to the go to prom with me?

650
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah, i'll go. And I was like yeah,

651
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: I'll pay for the stuff. And so he came to

652
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: prom with me, but it was like so platonic. And

653
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 1: then I like went out and partied with my friends.

654
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, my drinking smeared off

655
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: ice ice. It was coke, weed, catamine, hero and oxy.

656
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: Imagine me, yeah, imagine, I don't know, imagine me. I like,

657
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm like I'll have a headache and be like no,

658
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: I think my body can beat this. It's ridiculous, but

659
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: that's what I think that was but it was it

660
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: was it was very cute, see and it was like, Okay,

661
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: it's come and it's gone and it doesn't matter.

662
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 2: The photos are going out Kioto.

663
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 1: Because I'm like, I loved my dress. I thought I

664
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: was j Lo with the Versace green. I had a

665
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: red dress. Oh, just a red gown and a deep cut.

666
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: It's a deep cut to but it was like classy

667
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: because then there was this little like rhyinstone situation keeping

668
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: the sides together. I'm yeah, I'm just like, oh, because

669
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: I feel I don't have so many memories from from

670
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: that high school, middle school, Like I just feel like

671
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: I don't Yeah, I don't have what happened? Do you

672
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: think trauma made us forget or just life got busy?

673
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 1: They swear it's trauma.

674
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 2: They swear they but then does the trauma like and

675
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 2: the trauma is of the time.

676
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: Apparently, Yeah, that's like why you don't remember a period. Supposedly.

677
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 1: I'm not a scientist. I mean I guess technically you

678
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: are both these degrees. Would you yeah, yeah, would you

679
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: have described high school as a bit traumatic?

680
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:49,239
Speaker 2: I think so, you know what, the lovely people at

681
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 2: my school, In fact, one staff member who is now retiring.

682
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 2: His name is Scott Cohen. He was like the activities director.

683
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 2: He like was kind of the sponsor of like the

684
00:30:58,240 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 2: student government and all that. I was like the guy

685
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: like all like all like the squeaky clean I'll say,

686
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 2: like kids like really like bonded with him. And he

687
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 2: was a swim coach. He was great, wonderful, upstanding, honorable staff.

688
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 2: Perry's retiring now and then he in his retirement act.

689
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,479
Speaker 2: I guess is doing like a hall of Fame for

690
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 2: the Smoky Hill High School sort of legacy. Yeah, and

691
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 2: it's me and I believe I'm gonna say not Mark Norman.

692
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 2: It was like it's like some other like Browie or

693
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 2: stand up guy, which is so funny. But they're doing

694
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 2: a hall of Fame and they want to They're asking

695
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 2: me if I can go, and I was like I can.

696
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 2: I have like I'm in production that week and and

697
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 2: I almos. I'm also kind of like it just seems

698
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 2: just ingenuous to go back to my high school and

699
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,719
Speaker 2: be like thank you, this is this was great, this

700
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 2: is great. It wasn't and that's okay, and that is okay,

701
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 2: that's fine. Yeah, Like I had oh my god, dam

702
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 2: like my one teacher who I love and adore and

703
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 2: like all changed the course of my life and like

704
00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 2: it's it's a wonderful example of like teachers in general

705
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 2: and just public school teachers just like being wonderful sort

706
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 2: of community members and whatever. Texted me this this past

707
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 2: week and being like, so, your old teacher is in

708
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: town and would love if you reached out and like

709
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 2: said hi to the students. This old teacher was like

710
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 2: terrible to me. I'm like, no, yeah, freaking way. Yeah,

711
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 2: So I don't know, Yeah, yes, I guess that's I'm describing.

712
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 2: It was like not lowercase tea, lowercase T.

713
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 1: Is that helpful? Lowercast team? Maybe yes, Sometimes I'm like

714
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: something was traumatic, but I'm like that feels so dramatic

715
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: to call it traumatic, Like it's not that it was,

716
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: it's not.

717
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 2: There's a spectrum.

718
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a spectrum.

719
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 2: Lowercase tea, lowercase tea, but like the top is a

720
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 2: little short. Well I don't know, So it's like like

721
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 2: lowercase tea with a long top. Long top is like

722
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 2: the lowest case and then as it gets shortened, starts

723
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 2: to resemble up like everyercase.

724
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: So where do so yours falls on? It's as we're

725
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 1: talking high school long top.

726
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 2: I think it's like Jesus Christ, like perfect crucifix.

727
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: Got it? Okay, okay, got it right in the middle there,

728
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 1: not even the middle. It's a little bit above middle. Yes,

729
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: it's a little bit above middle. Got it.

730
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 2: I have a visionary where the stigmatic go, where the

731
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: hands go.

732
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I now know I see it.

733
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 2: Of Okay, what about you?

734
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: High school lowercase? No tea. I don't feel I have

735
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 1: no tea.

736
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 2: I know you walked me to calling my high school

737
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 2: experience traumatic.

738
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: You see, that's called journalism. That's called journalism. I hope

739
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: I hope the press picks it up, clip it, run

740
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: with it. No, No, genuinely, I don't know. I think

741
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 1: I had more college tea. But it was also just

742
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: like such culture shock going to l A in Baltimore.

743
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: I was so like, it's okay, life isn't meant to

744
00:33:54,440 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: be happy, like like every day and so it's more that,

745
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 1: But it was also like just I chose the major.

746
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 1: I had to kind of chose it, like yes, and

747
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 1: again the culture shock of moving from Baltimore to la

748
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 1: which is just a very different kind of place, and

749
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: so and then also private school. And I did go

750
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 1: to public school my whole life, so shout out to

751
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:16,839
Speaker 1: public school.

752
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 2: I want to say thanks to them, thanks to them.

753
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 1: Thanks to public school. But yeah, I high school was

754
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: kind of like whatever, I couldn't. I just always remember

755
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:27,839
Speaker 1: just being I can't wait to grow up, can't wait

756
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 1: to move. That was always my vibe, like can't wait

757
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 1: to move one of the city, the big cities.

758
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, well it always I remember my right about right

759
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 2: around graduation. We were just out doing something, some activity,

760
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 2: and there were parents there and then one of them

761
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: was talking to someone else about their call, like they

762
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,360
Speaker 2: were going to like SeeU Bould or whatever. And then

763
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:53,919
Speaker 2: I remember this because it's sent a chill down my spine.

764
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 2: It sounded it felt so wrong at the time and

765
00:34:55,960 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 2: still does. But it was this parent going I will

766
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,879
Speaker 2: enjoy college because they're the best years of your life.

767
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 2: And I was like, that can't be true.

768
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 1: Like I refuse for that to be I love that

769
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: you do that, though in real time you're like, that's

770
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: dark because even when people say that about high school,

771
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 1: I used to hear it about high school. This is

772
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: the best years of your life. Now, honey, up by

773
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: a long shot, not by a long shot, thus far far,

774
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 1: and I've lived some life now and I'm like wrong,

775
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: and I knew that was wrong, and I wasn't even

776
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 1: experiencing any crazy. I was like, this is fine, this

777
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 1: is fine. These are the best years of my life.

778
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 2: Huh uh huh No way, yeah, now we have to

779
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,919
Speaker 2: apply this to SNL. No, we don't.

780
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 1: Okay, the best years of your life? When people say that,

781
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 1: would you say.

782
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 2: Well, not enough time has passed for us to discern,

783
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:50,399
Speaker 2: to discern I had I had a wonderful time. Yeah

784
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 2: that's all I'll say. Yeah, okay, So no, no, I

785
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,959
Speaker 2: had a complicated time and that oh god, that's gonna

786
00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 2: get clipped. That's clipped.

787
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 1: No, isn't it is that you can't just talk to

788
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: your friend on a podcast in front of microphones and

789
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 1: not have it be cleared. Why do I halfway believe that.

790
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, guys, it's not that, it's not that they

791
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: got to fill their quota of articles and are like

792
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 1: Bowen said.

793
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 2: And like it's it's it's fine, it's fine, it's normal.

794
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 1: I really want to be like, guys, it's fine, they're.

795
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 2: Not gonna put that in. But they're not put that

796
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 2: in the article though.

797
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 1: They're not going to say that part. They're not going

798
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:25,439
Speaker 1: to go where he says it's a job.

799
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 2: But why won't you say it?

800
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,280
Speaker 1: Because I want to ask you how you.

801
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 2: Because I you see, I always take the bait and

802
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 2: you are so media trained.

803
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 1: I'm media trade, honey. I media training classes at USC

804
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: they offered. No, I was a bio major, but I'm

805
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,839
Speaker 1: taking media training. I think I'm gonna be famous one

806
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: day and I'm in media training. I'm sure there's some

807
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: some of course, Yeah, but I want I did want

808
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: to ask you. You're like, you're really pivoted. I like

809
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 1: it of its city. I did want to ask you

810
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: if you knew from Colorado your's time.

811
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 2: I'm I'm hanging on this laughing at me, laughing.

812
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: He's like, who is this version of her? I love her?

813
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: She love more? Who do you love more of all

814
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: the versions of me? Honest? Go crazy? Of all the

815
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,240
Speaker 1: question I was gonna ask what we digress?

816
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 2: I love I got to see wedding version of you. Oh,

817
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 2: I've We've been at two weddings now we have. Yeah,

818
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 2: I love you at what you at a wedding is

819
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 2: a great time, Okay, and not even like it's it's

820
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 2: and like, I hope this doesn't put pressure on you

821
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 2: to like in the future be like I guess I

822
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 2: gotta turn to be on at a wedding. You're I

823
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 2: think you are the perfect sort of like frequency at

824
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 2: a wedding where it's like you show up, you look

825
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 2: great again. Showing up with the perfect amount of detachment

826
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 2: and attackment is even like not the right word. Yeah,

827
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 2: I show up and you're like, I know my place here,

828
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 2: I'm a guest. I'm gonna like hang back, I have

829
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 2: a good time.

830
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 1: Thank you for that's very sweet. You know. I will

831
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,280
Speaker 1: say when people go to someone's wedding or their birthday

832
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: party and they're doing too much, I'm always like, you

833
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 1: don't need to do all of that. It's kind of

834
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,399
Speaker 1: like this is about someone else. I've told this story

835
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 1: on the podcast before, but I flew from a SNLP

836
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: my first he who in my episode in my first

837
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: season from Interest. Yeah, my birthday, flew to LA for

838
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: my friend's wedding, which was on the Sunday, which is

839
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: technically when the episode was done. So people got me drinks,

840
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: which is very nice to drink too much go to

841
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: La for my friend's wedding and she and her husband

842
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: who just celebrated and it coincides with my birthday. Their

843
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: like seventh year. They were like, do you want to say?

844
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 2: Yeah?

845
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 1: Have people thank you? Thank you, thank you so much. No,

846
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: I know, I'm like thank you.

847
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't.

848
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 1: Do you have anything you want to say?

849
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 2: No?

850
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: Besides that, what was happening? Where were you? I had

851
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 1: a party?

852
00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 2: I know you did.

853
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: I didn't have a party. Look at him, he's kidding,

854
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 1: my love.

855
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 2: I can't keep up with power anymore.

856
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 1: No. No, I didn't have a part of my love. I

857
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: didn't have I didn't do get in. I didn't keep

858
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 1: it in.

859
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 2: Keep it in, keep that in. Okay, wait your friend.

860
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 1: So my friend in Las, they were like, do you

861
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 1: want us to sing happy birthday? And I was like

862
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: at your wedding, No, absolutely not, and then like we'll

863
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 1: sing it. I was like no, And then I felt

864
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 1: we were going back and forth with the like, well

865
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 1: we will.

866
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 2: They wanted it more than you.

867
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 1: So then I that's kind of what I started feel like.

868
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, well if you and I

869
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 1: was like, if you want to for you, just know

870
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: that I don't need that that's not at all. Imagine

871
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: I'm on SNL at your wedding and you're singing me

872
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: Happy Birthday. I'm like, I'm not a maniac. And so

873
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: I was like, if you really want to sing me

874
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,760
Speaker 1: happy birthday, I feel like for you, guys will feel whatever,

875
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,399
Speaker 1: but I'm like, please don't. And then my friend who

876
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 1: was with me was like, that is so sweet of you,

877
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: and I was like, so you would have let them

878
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: sing happy birthday? I was like, I have so many

879
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 1: of these, God will it?

880
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:57,879
Speaker 2: Of course you have one wedding. Do you think they

881
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,399
Speaker 2: just felt bad that you were flying in like on the.

882
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 1: Very sweet like, yeah, I'm sure it was some like

883
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 1: oh my goodness, you were just but I'm like, I

884
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 1: am so happy to be here to support your union,

885
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 1: beautiful couple, beautiful friends. But yeah, people doing too much

886
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: at someone else's thing, like let people have their.

887
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 2: People have their thing. Can I ask you something and

888
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 2: we can we can leave this out. I remember it

889
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 2: was like your second week at SNL. Oh, yeah, and

890
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 2: I feel like this is this a wedding sort of

891
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 2: small lowercase te M trauma. You know, we don't have

892
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 2: to hide, we don't know.

893
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 1: No, No, it's it can stay in. It's staying in.

894
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,760
Speaker 1: It's no. I've said this before. I missed my brother's

895
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: wedding for my second week of me crying in my

896
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: dressing room, like but it was but it wasn't like bawling.

897
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:45,800
Speaker 1: It just called him and they were They were so supportive,

898
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: he and his wife, and I was like, you look

899
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 1: so handsome, and I was like, and I'm not gonna

900
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: and then I just try to cry. But like, yeah,

901
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: that I think. But going into SNL, I was like

902
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: I had not a great manager at the time that

903
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 1: I still and I had said, well, this is tough

904
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 1: in terms of like potentially getting this job. My brother's

905
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,320
Speaker 1: wedding is October six, and I still remember, but I

906
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 1: was like, my brother's wedding is October six, and he's

907
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 1: like normal and getting married and the others of us,

908
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: of the siblings are like questionable.

909
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 2: And I was like, you were you include yourself the

910
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 2: questionable one.

911
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, we're weird. The other three of us.

912
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:24,360
Speaker 1: I was like, he's so normal. And it's so funny

913
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 1: because then after like the wedding, I did take a

914
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: train down to Maryland after and like the whole family

915
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: is there and everyone was like it was magic, it

916
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,240
Speaker 1: was pure. I'm like so happy to see everyone together,

917
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: like my cousin's from London. Everyone was there. But I

918
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:39,919
Speaker 1: was like, okay, so I missed that and I said

919
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: one line in the show last night, which doesn't upset

920
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 1: me like that. It was more just like i'd ask

921
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,439
Speaker 1: I'd asked my manager to like can you ask them

922
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: to like just we can flag it now, we can

923
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: flag it, but like before I even get the job,

924
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:53,359
Speaker 1: we can flag it. And he was just so like

925
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: SNL is Mecca that he wouldn't even he wouldn't. He's like,

926
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: we can't, and I was like, I feel like we probably.

927
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 2: Now in hindsight, you're like knowing what you know now.

928
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 2: It's like he absolutely, oh.

929
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 1: And even like week four, one of someone who worked

930
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: there was like, I just I heard it was your

931
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: brother's wedding or it was like week three. They were like, here,

932
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: it was your brother's wedding this week, and we could

933
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: have asked, and they're like, we don't know what would

934
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:14,399
Speaker 1: have been the answer, but I think we could ask.

935
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 1: I think if we asked, the answer would have been yes.

936
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 2: I think so, And this is not us like sort

937
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 2: of like keeping like that institutional reputation squeaky clean. It's

938
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 2: just like, no, they absolutely would have been like, of course.

939
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 1: You can go ye wed or second episode. We're not

940
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: gonna yeah, and we know this well in advance. I

941
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 1: have my dress, I have my shoes, my little gold shoes.

942
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:40,239
Speaker 1: So but I think what it is is like there

943
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: are people's weddings who I love and a door and

944
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: I have missed, but I do try. I do like

945
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm low key not getting invited to Like I don't

946
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: know if this is the case for you, but I'm

947
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: not getting invited to weddings where I'm like, Okay, I

948
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,720
Speaker 1: kind of know you. I feel like you just invited

949
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: me because it you're like kind of inviting everyone. Sure,

950
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 1: all the weddings I'm getting invited to him like I

951
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 1: really love and care about you, and if I can

952
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: be there, I want to be there.

953
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 2: The beauty of weddings, yeah, Like it's it is an

954
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 2: informational about like the people in your life who like

955
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,320
Speaker 2: mean something, whether or not you're like, oh, we barely

956
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 2: know each other, Yeah, should I show up? Or it's

957
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 2: like You're one of the closest people in my life,

958
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 2: Like yeah, no, matter what like it's it's a profound thing.

959
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:24,919
Speaker 1: Have you been a groomsman? Grooms man man, I'm your sister's.

960
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:29,760
Speaker 2: Wedding, sister's wedding and then Adulkan Booster's wedding in December.

961
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: Did you give a speech, Eddie?

962
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 2: Yes, gave a speech at the rehearsal dinner for my

963
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 2: sisters and Crush.

964
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,280
Speaker 1: Of course you did. Were we reading from paper from phone?

965
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 2: I was off off book.

966
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: That's the way to do it. I don't know that

967
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 1: I'll ever be able to, but that's the way you

968
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: can for a living. When I saw Autumn accepting the

969
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: Oscar for Best Cinematography, and I was like, she's off

970
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 1: book and it's so it's I feel I'd be so

971
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:58,959
Speaker 1: nervous and I'd be so like disoriented by the whole

972
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: day and every thing. So her calmly speaking up there,

973
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:07,359
Speaker 1: hot so hot. I was just like, how do they

974
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 1: do it? I'm like, I would have to surely have

975
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,320
Speaker 1: written something. So you were off book? Okay, okay?

976
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 2: And and uh for Joel's wedding, I think it was

977
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 2: me that was a two hand, or was me and

978
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 2: Matt Ronders And when we're reading off of phone.

979
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:25,399
Speaker 1: Okay, phone, Okay, the phone and stuff just visually, it's

980
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 1: just it's the visual of the you know, it's the

981
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: visual of the phone that I think. Sometimes I'm like,

982
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 1: oh no, maybe paper, But then I'm like, the phone

983
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:34,760
Speaker 1: is just so easy.

984
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 2: It's just so easy. Paper feels paper, Paper makes sound.

985
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 1: Yes, paper makes sound into the mic.

986
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 2: I think best option, unfortunately, is being ob.

987
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 1: O b o B do. I I know, I do

988
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: think all book is good. I yeah, that.

989
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 2: We talked about and podcast brother, Oh.

990
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's okay. I genuinely it was just like a

991
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: crazy but I've spoken about it and it's just such

992
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: a like, oh my goodness, I want to be there.

993
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 1: And the whole family is that they're all there in

994
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: Maryland right now, and the pictures look amazing, but they were.

995
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: My brother and sister in law were so sweet and

996
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 1: so supportive, and I I am very grateful for that,

997
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 1: and everyone in my life generally has been by and large,

998
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 1: like understand that, like we work on we worked on Saturdays.

999
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: We worked on Saturdays, and that's a tough way. And

1000
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: we worked on we worked six days, yeah, and technically

1001
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:35,760
Speaker 1: seven because you're like you're still working on Sunday pictures.

1002
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, But would you understand it if they were

1003
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 2: like for your wedding, they were like, we're not going

1004
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 2: to come because oh, it's only fair.

1005
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: Okay, I would understand if it was not. Ever they

1006
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 1: would never do that, but I would understand it because

1007
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 1: here's my thing. My dream wedding is forty people total

1008
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: between me and the groom.

1009
00:45:58,040 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 2: Perfect.

1010
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan. So that means a slaughterhouse record.

1011
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,439
Speaker 1: That means people are getting slashed left and right.

1012
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 2: I'm not getting no.

1013
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 1: I just in my mind, but it's like so romantic

1014
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: to me, you should just I'm not gonna do it.

1015
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 2: It's not a loop.

1016
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: I've thought about elerping, but then I'm like, but I

1017
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 1: want to throw a party. It's very twisted. So I'm like,

1018
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: I am.

1019
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 2: I think we're we're in a world now where you

1020
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 2: can be like, no one showed for the ceremony, it's

1021
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 2: gonna be forty people, but we're throwing a huge bash afterwards.

1022
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: That is true. Well, I have two of my friends

1023
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: just got engaged and I was like, what's the plan

1024
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: for the wedding? And they're like, we've been They've been

1025
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 1: to so many weddings. They're always at a wedding and

1026
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 1: every every country, every so they're they're like, we just

1027
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:44,240
Speaker 1: want to gather our loved ones for like a extended weekend,

1028
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: and like that's to them. They're like, we that's our vibe.

1029
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: We have discovered from our experience and from talking to

1030
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 1: grooms and brides over the years, that they don't remember

1031
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: anything from the day because it's so stressful, and they're like,

1032
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: neither of us is religious, and so this is what

1033
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,720
Speaker 1: we want to do. Do you ever want to get married?

1034
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 1: That's something you desire? I don't know.

1035
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have not been. I have not been in

1036
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,240
Speaker 2: uh presented that situation.

1037
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:13,360
Speaker 1: Okay, what I mean, I understand.

1038
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:15,319
Speaker 2: Imagine if you can only answer that question, I.

1039
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: Think so. But it just sounded depend imagine that question,

1040
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 1: of course, But it's not something where like if you

1041
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 1: didn't get married, you'd be like, oh, this thing was

1042
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 1: missing from my life. You don't think. Okay, that's clear. Yeah,

1043
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 1: do I want to get married? I do. I don't

1044
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: know why I say it like that. No, I'm saying

1045
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 1: it like that's not for shame. I'm just like a

1046
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: girl who had like never envisioned her wedding. Someone asked me,

1047
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: what kind of ring would you want? I'm like, I

1048
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: don't know anything about rings, and but there's some women

1049
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:53,399
Speaker 1: who know and they know and they know the cut

1050
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 1: and the princess and the pair and then and I

1051
00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 1: don't know anything. I don't know, and I know that's

1052
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,799
Speaker 1: not what getting married is, but like it's just.

1053
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 2: Gratitude, like I.

1054
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: Do want to yeah, if it makes sense. But also

1055
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,959
Speaker 1: when like guys answer that question that way straight guys

1056
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 1: go like yeah, I do, I feel like they're like

1057
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: trying to buy time and be like I want to

1058
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 1: get married, but not to you. And so it's this

1059
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,240
Speaker 1: very big like yeah, if I meet the right person.

1060
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: And so that's that's what gets on my nerves when

1061
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 1: I ask that question, not just the guys to ask

1062
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: that question anyone, and it's largely guys. So and I go,

1063
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: I go, do you want to get married? And they go,

1064
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 1: if I serve to the right person, yeah, Like that's

1065
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 1: kind of the given of the question, that.

1066
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 2: Is, you have to marry this child.

1067
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm like, what do you? And it's and by

1068
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,760
Speaker 1: the way, most of the time I'm not even romantically

1069
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 1: involved with the guy they answer that way. I'm like, yeah,

1070
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 1: that's of course, that's that is to be assumed yes

1071
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: as part of the question.

1072
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:55,399
Speaker 2: And so I feel like I kind of just did that.

1073
00:48:55,800 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: The gay guy version was I'm just that, like, is

1074
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: it a desire of yours? Do you think that would

1075
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: sound nice for you?

1076
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 2: I I told I have more foresight, not forced. I

1077
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 2: have more of a vision of that than I do

1078
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 2: having a child. Okay, yeah, you don't ask all of

1079
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 2: your questions, but are you asking the non parent guests

1080
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 2: these questions?

1081
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: Not always?

1082
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 2: Not always?

1083
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 1: Do you hate my questions?

1084
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 2: I love these questions because I feel like I don't

1085
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 2: get it. I don't really talk about.

1086
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 1: That because everyone wants to know this one question I

1087
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: do have right now to ask you that we like

1088
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 1: we moved from and it's not family related. Was you're

1089
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 1: going to m YU? Yes, you were in doing comedy?

1090
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: Did you know before you got to n YU You're like,

1091
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: I want to be in this comedy troop or this

1092
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: sketch team that exists, Like I know that you did

1093
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 1: know that? Okay.

1094
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 2: I researched every single comedy group at all of the

1095
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 2: schools that are like I was interested in or that,

1096
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 2: and then like you know, things fell off once like

1097
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:54,920
Speaker 2: I got rejected from schools. I was like, okay, I'm

1098
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:59,720
Speaker 2: not I got I'm not going to Northwestern like Titanic Players. Okay, okay, closer,

1099
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 2: But I did. Oh god, it's so pathetic. And then

1100
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 2: I researched the groups at NYU, Hammercats and Danger Box.

1101
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh, like the Boys of

1102
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,280
Speaker 2: Derek Comedy. This guy Donald Clover was in this group,

1103
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 2: and then also he was he helped And I went

1104
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 2: to the Danger Box website and there were names like

1105
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:23,959
Speaker 2: friend Gillespie and a dressin like like all these people

1106
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 2: and like now like they're all wonderful friends and like

1107
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 2: now they're getting married and it's it's but it was yeah,

1108
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 2: I like researched it, and even at the time I

1109
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 2: was kidding myself. I was like, I'm only doing it

1110
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:36,880
Speaker 2: as a hobby.

1111
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: Oh, but you were so clear on like all that research.

1112
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 1: It's so telling. But you have to be like, is

1113
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 1: this going to be supported when I say that this

1114
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: is what I want to do professionally, Like in no,

1115
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: largely in no way.

1116
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 2: Because you've said this right. It's like we would say

1117
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 2: that we wanted to go into medicine because the reaction

1118
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 2: it would get from like the people we were around,

1119
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:00,439
Speaker 2: the adults we were around, would be like, oh my gosh,

1120
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:00,919
Speaker 2: good friend.

1121
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:04,319
Speaker 1: Great, Yes, that's right, good good, that's right. Even I

1122
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: had like a friend I was in LA. I said,

1123
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,320
Speaker 1: let's say I'd been out of college like three years

1124
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: and he's like white dude from Baltimore. But he sent

1125
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 1: me we text He's like, what happened to being a doctor?

1126
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 1: And I was like, what do you care? I was like,

1127
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 1: what are you like? And he wasn't doing it to

1128
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 1: be mean, he was just like, but what happened to that?

1129
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 1: I go, You're not your parents are? I get meant

1130
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 1: it from a good place, but I'm like, wow, everyone's

1131
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 1: like really on board for this doctor thing.

1132
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 2: So he asked you that like as a way to

1133
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 2: be like what do you like, what are you up to?

1134
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 2: What are you up to? And but like it's like

1135
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 2: it's like if you asked him like what happened to

1136
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 2: international affairs?

1137
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:44,720
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1138
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, why aren't you a diplomat?

1139
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1140
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Like, no one's hold their major.

1141
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 1: No, And in fact, I don't even know why they're

1142
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: making us pig majors at that age unless you feel

1143
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 1: so strongly.

1144
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, which, God blessed, you're one of the lucky ones

1145
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:00,800
Speaker 2: if you have that conviction.

1146
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: Yes. At that age, honey, I signed up for all

1147
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:06,240
Speaker 1: kinds of student loans, thinking like, this is fake money.

1148
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:09,359
Speaker 1: That was real money. That was real money. Someone had

1149
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 1: to pay back.

1150
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 2: Absolutely I did not.

1151
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 1: Someone did. I didn't mind.

1152
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 2: This is why the text he said.

1153
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: There, I have court documents for her. No, what it

1154
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 1: is that company like that had my loans actually like

1155
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: was sued by the government and then my loans disappeared.

1156
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 2: Are you serious?

1157
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 1: I am as serious as a heart attack.

1158
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 2: You. I love this.

1159
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,280
Speaker 1: The power of prayer power.

1160
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:44,279
Speaker 2: Ji, prayer warriors rise to debate it. How are the

1161
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 2: prayer warriors? I feel like you don't. You don't mobilize,

1162
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 2: You don't call on them as much I.

1163
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 1: Used to have you. I haven't been on the gram

1164
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: in the same way.

1165
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 2: God blessed, have you been on the Gram? I'm not

1166
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 2: in the same way. I feel like something, there's something

1167
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,399
Speaker 2: is really turned in the last couple of months.

1168
00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: Right, and it doesn't feel right. No, no, but it doesn't. Also,

1169
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 1: so here's I had like gotten it off my phone altogether,

1170
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm not tripping genuinely started playing

1171
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: my New York Times games even more trade in an

1172
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 1: addiction for an addiction, but I was like, kind of

1173
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: don't miss this not being on my phone, And then

1174
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 1: I was like, but why do I also get the

1175
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 1: vibe that like, we're not using this the same way anymore.

1176
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 1: But but but it feels misinformed because I'm like, or

1177
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:25,879
Speaker 1: it's uninformed because I'm like I feel like people are

1178
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: but for whatever reason, I'm like in my orbit, some

1179
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 1: people that I like, really respect are just kind of

1180
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 1: like not on it. They have it. It's not I

1181
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 1: do respect you.

1182
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 2: That's all because no, there there was someone was saying like,

1183
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 2: it's no longer social media, it's engagement media, which has

1184
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:49,880
Speaker 2: always been true, but in like an especially severe way recently,

1185
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:53,839
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, it's it's really just about whatever. Like

1186
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 2: even all the things you're you're getting served in the

1187
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 2: algorithm are like things that already have like forty thousand likes.

1188
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 2: You're not You're not I'm not seeing things that are like, hey,

1189
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 2: this is something you would like and it has like

1190
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 2: twenty likes and yeah, and.

1191
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: That's what I gain. I feel like every once in

1192
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: a while, I have this like existential feeling of like

1193
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 1: I'm in a machine and all the things I'm mindlessly

1194
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: engaging with and I don't just mean like engaging on

1195
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 1: social I'm like, what is I'm just kind of going

1196
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: through the motion touch phone and more like in morning

1197
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't like that. That can't be.

1198
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 2: So are you doing phone in the other room during bad.

1199
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:28,360
Speaker 1: I need to get to that point. I need a

1200
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 1: new alarm clock. So I have this Phillips sun thing

1201
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:34,759
Speaker 1: I bought when I got here that mimics the sun,

1202
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: and it's old and they have new models, not any

1203
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: new one. I do want phone in the other room.

1204
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 2: You were very in on the ground floor. You introduced

1205
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 2: me to the happy.

1206
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 1: Light, the happy light, the sad light. Oh yeah, sad lights,

1207
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 1: sad light, because I was like, my I when I

1208
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,439
Speaker 1: moved here, I was like, where's the sun. And I'm

1209
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: so sensitive. I say I'm a plant and I'm like

1210
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: so remarkably sensitive.

1211
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 2: Yeah too, monsterra Yeah, No, what plant are you?

1212
00:54:58,040 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 1: I want to say, I'm a birds of Paradise?

1213
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 2: Oh, love, of course you are.

1214
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 1: What are you? Don't be mean?

1215
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 2: No, I'm about to because I've murdered too many plants

1216
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 2: to claim to.

1217
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 1: Don't say you're a succulent.

1218
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 2: No, that's that's I've killed succulents.

1219
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: You've killed succulents.

1220
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 2: I am right over there, bamboo, bamboo, plastic.

1221
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: Don't tell people that the plants in here are not real.

1222
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: You and Al Roker telling people the plants. These are

1223
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:34,680
Speaker 1: real plants. They have been watered down.

1224
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:39,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's got it's got the like ramen noodle, like

1225
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 2: busen filler, like, it's got that stuff.

1226
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:44,399
Speaker 1: A bamboo, but a bamboo. We make things out of you.

1227
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 2: Yes, you do you?

1228
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: Yes? Yeah? Okay, I like you as bamboo. Thank you

1229
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 1: and thank you.

1230
00:55:53,719 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 2: Yeah. Like I'm I'm there, I'm on Fire Island. It's

1231
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 2: it's there everywhere in Fire Island. Yeah, okay, we'll take it.

1232
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,360
Speaker 1: We'll take it. I feel like I'm not mad. Aesthetically,

1233
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 1: I think a real bamboo plant, not this fake one.

1234
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 1: I'm going to say that. I'm going to just clarify.

1235
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 1: I think that that fits for us. Now now for

1236
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:22,440
Speaker 1: some serious, real talk. I want to confront something that happened,

1237
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 1: and I'm.

1238
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 2: Kidding, this is the this is the place to do it.

1239
00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:30,720
Speaker 1: So I wanted to talk to you about something that happened. No, Okay,

1240
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 1: how are you feeling post show? Because I do think

1241
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:37,400
Speaker 1: that people want to know honest answer, how are you feeling?

1242
00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 1: Is it disorienting in any way or real talk? Yeah?

1243
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 2: Have well I can? I can I answer your question

1244
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 2: with a question. Yes, Well, then that will then like

1245
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 2: maybe either bind us together or separate, separate us. I

1246
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:53,760
Speaker 2: haven't really been able to watch the show.

1247
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 1: You haven't. Have you actively been avoid you mean.

1248
00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:00,839
Speaker 2: Like I'm not avoiding it. But this last week we're

1249
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:08,520
Speaker 2: in March, like I kind of like inundated myself, fire

1250
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:13,760
Speaker 2: hose myself with like new sensory experiences I eat travel.

1251
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 2: So it was like Christmas then right into and that

1252
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 2: was just like really you know, busy and sort of

1253
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 2: hairy because of Christmas and we're buying gifts and we're

1254
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 2: doing all the all these things. Then it was New

1255
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 2: Year's right into this Japan. I took like eight of

1256
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 2: my friends, seven of my friends to Japan as like

1257
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 2: I couldn't have done the past seven years without you,

1258
00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 2: like let's let's like please come come with me. And

1259
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 2: that was two weeks. And then after that was Milan

1260
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 2: for work for for this, for this network, and Milan

1261
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 2: was wonderful, once in a lifetime experience to go to

1262
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 2: the Olympics. It was still the Olympics. It was crazy, Yeah,

1263
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 2: just logistically and you know, stimulating. And then this antarct

1264
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 2: trit trip because it was my parents' is like it's

1265
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 2: like my parents bucketlest strip and I was like, I'll

1266
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 2: go with you, the three of us, and I'm fine.

1267
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,000
Speaker 2: I got back like a week and a half ago,

1268
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 2: and so I'm so last week was the first show

1269
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:11,840
Speaker 2: where I was like, oh, I'm in I'm here and

1270
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 2: the show's happening like you're not there, and I'm not

1271
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 2: there where I'm like across the river and I'm like

1272
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:22,480
Speaker 2: spatially kind of relatively close. And that was weird. Yeah.

1273
00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 1: Eight years of eight years seven seven total years.

1274
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 2: Of seven and a half of doing that.

1275
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is what I do every Saturday during this time.

1276
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 2: During this time in New York City, and that was

1277
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 2: so I guess I don't know yet, but so first

1278
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 2: so good. I feel like it's it'll it'll all be okay.

1279
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 2: Like it just I feel like I it all happened

1280
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 2: the way it was supposed to, and like, but it

1281
00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 2: was a thing where it was like, oh, I've lived

1282
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 2: through not literal seasons, but like and like the in

1283
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 2: like metaphorical seasons here where I'm like, oh, I remember

1284
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 2: when it was defined by a time when these people

1285
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 2: were here and then they left, and then these people

1286
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 2: here were here and then they left, and like I

1287
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 2: think I should just very consciously with love like make

1288
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 2: way and like not take up too much error and here. Yeah,

1289
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 2: and like, honest to god, it was and like I

1290
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 2: hope you receive this. It was like, oh man, like

1291
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 2: King isn't here, and like my close friends, the people

1292
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:38,280
Speaker 2: I laughed the most with have have moved on, and

1293
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 2: it just it just felt kind of the winds were

1294
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 2: blowing in that direction different.

1295
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I can imagine. Yeah. It is interesting that

1296
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 1: when you come in you're so like, I'm you here,

1297
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 1: this is so crazy, I'm here, and then you get

1298
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 1: so accustomed to it and so in a flow and

1299
00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:58,520
Speaker 1: so entrenched in it, and then you're like, wait, I'm

1300
00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: the senior. Now that ship was when you're like, oh,

1301
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 1: I'm the seedor now when did that happen?

1302
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:05,920
Speaker 2: It's not like school and systems that we are used to.

1303
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 2: It's like it's delineated by year. Yeah.

1304
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so it's like that happens and then you're like, okay,

1305
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 1: am how am I? Am I still the same zeal?

1306
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:17,040
Speaker 1: Do I still have the same zeal for it? And

1307
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 1: you have to check yourself there. It's like am I

1308
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 1: just taking up space? Am I taking up space because

1309
01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: I feel I can? And am I? Am I feeling

1310
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 1: inspired still? I mean coming up with pitches, I was like,

1311
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't.

1312
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 2: Know, I don't have it.

1313
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 1: I don't have it this week or next week or

1314
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 1: this week. And then there's a pattern, so yeah, it

1315
01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 1: makes it makes sense that you're like, oh, these people

1316
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:42,479
Speaker 1: were gone too, and it just felt like the winds

1317
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 1: were blowing in that that way.

1318
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 2: Like you were very I'm sure you've heard this from

1319
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 2: many different people, but like in the fall, it was

1320
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 2: like you were very missed. Thank you for me especially,

1321
01:00:52,160 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, like it just it is so important,

1322
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 2: and then it informs something about this place, like the

1323
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:07,680
Speaker 2: way that place is populated is very very important.

1324
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I do actually, which I feel

1325
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 1: like I hope we're not speaking in code or something

1326
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 1: like yeah, and I okay, because I'm like that is

1327
01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:19,919
Speaker 1: so accurate and I hadn't thought of it that way,

1328
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 1: like the way this place is populated is so important.

1329
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 1: It is like it so informs your experience. And I

1330
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 1: think about our crew and like our stage managers and

1331
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:32,840
Speaker 1: head of hair and tom and wardrobe, and I'm like,

1332
01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 1: they've seen this happen like a thousand times over I know.

1333
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 1: So I'm like, are they totally immune to it? And

1334
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 1: we send like love you and miss you text but

1335
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, are they I believe they love and miss me,

1336
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: But I'm like, you've done this before. I've done this

1337
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 1: one time leaving, but you've had so many people leave

1338
01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 1: over the years that you've grown attached to for years

1339
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 1: at a time. I'm like, I don't know how they

1340
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: do it.

1341
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 2: I think they just know that it's like a beautiful

1342
01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 2: gilded that is just gonna keep moving and like everyone's

1343
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 2: getting off at different stops and but they know. Yeah,

1344
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 2: but it was I was, oh my god, I'm gonna

1345
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 2: put him on blast. But Ken Tola, like I've never

1346
01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 2: seen this man like besides like be jovial and great

1347
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 2: and whatever, and like Ken Ken Sublet like legendary writer

1348
01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 2: and he's he's normally just like pretty like you know,

1349
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 2: just it all just like I would say, like lovably,

1350
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:34,920
Speaker 2: charmingly surly sometimes just and he and we were just

1351
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 2: saying goodbye at my last show and he started he

1352
01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 2: like was tearing up and I was like, Kent, I

1353
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:43,280
Speaker 2: was like, I never it was just people like that

1354
01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 2: that is something that like I remember where It's like, oh,

1355
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 2: like these are the things that I will always cherish

1356
01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 2: about this place. It was again so beautiful and it

1357
01:02:53,560 --> 01:03:00,120
Speaker 2: was a really like stimulating job. But like the thing

1358
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 2: that I will kind of take away from it, and

1359
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 2: I'm sure you feel the same. It's like the people,

1360
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 2: the way that that place is populated is the thing

1361
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 2: that I.

1362
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you have anything you like? This is not

1363
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 1: meant to be funny, like any like regrets there?

1364
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:17,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, totally.

1365
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 1: Do you care to share any like yeah.

1366
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I just I give I give myself

1367
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 2: and everybody honestly a lot of grace because it's such

1368
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 2: a high pressure job and every week feels like it's

1369
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 2: the most important week. I sometimes mostly this is honest

1370
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 2: to God, I'm like I should have worked harder. I

1371
01:03:39,120 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 2: should have Like especially I've watched sketches of the of

1372
01:03:45,040 --> 01:03:48,160
Speaker 2: the shows that I've since I've left, and I'm like, Oh,

1373
01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:50,000
Speaker 2: this person's doing such a great job and hitting all

1374
01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:54,440
Speaker 2: these marks and doing all these things, and I do

1375
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 2: start to retroactively go like, oh, I should have really

1376
01:03:57,720 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 2: like put more work into these sketches and really like

1377
01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 2: delivered this clean lay or something. But then you remember

1378
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 2: that like that show is so at the mercy of

1379
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:13,680
Speaker 2: the collective mood of like the audience that sits down,

1380
01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:17,280
Speaker 2: and the audience will change as you know, to address

1381
01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 2: an air between Wednesday and draft, but like so many

1382
01:04:20,240 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 2: stage gates of either complete approval or complete rejection, and

1383
01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 2: it is very hard to not be at the mercy

1384
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:35,920
Speaker 2: of that. My regrets are mostly like I could have

1385
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 2: I don't know. This is like the science student in US,

1386
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 2: where I'm like, I could have worked harder, I could

1387
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 2: have the report card, could have come back even better.

1388
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,080
Speaker 1: I think the audience is gonna go, what the hell

1389
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:47,000
Speaker 1: is he talking? No?

1390
01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 2: Okay, I I like not being totally am I being

1391
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 2: a little bit like.

1392
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 1: Because I do think people are gonna be like, what

1393
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 1: he did great? What it like?

1394
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 2: No? No, no, go back and watch any sketch. I'm

1395
01:04:57,760 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 2: like tripping on my line. I don't know where to

1396
01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 2: look like it.

1397
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 1: I think it's part of the dance. I don't know.

1398
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 1: I think we worked really hard and I think there's

1399
01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 1: a reason there's only been so many people on that

1400
01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:11,680
Speaker 1: show in so many years. It's like it's a really

1401
01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 1: hard job. And as much as people critique the work

1402
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 1: that's done there, I low key want to be like, honey,

1403
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 1: you're not in the arena and you like and I

1404
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 1: said it with love, and maybe before I got here,

1405
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:25,880
Speaker 1: I might have been a keyboard warrior with all kinds

1406
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 1: of opinions. But then when you my big my, my

1407
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 1: big thing. I did say this on on Caleb Parent's

1408
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:34,200
Speaker 1: podcast once just in general, like anyone's take about like

1409
01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:37,520
Speaker 1: someone should have they didn't. This is not as funny

1410
01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 1: as that you have no idea? So what I what

1411
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:43,840
Speaker 1: I you have no idea? I was, like I said

1412
01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: on this podcast, I was like, in general, would love

1413
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:49,240
Speaker 1: to see people just have a little more. Perhaps empathy

1414
01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 1: is the word, but it's namely to be like, you

1415
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:53,240
Speaker 1: might not have all the information, and chances are you

1416
01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 1: probably don't have all the information, and so like when

1417
01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:58,680
Speaker 1: I see these really hot and strong takes, I'm like,

1418
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 1: number one, baby, you're not in the arena. Another way

1419
01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 1: for me to say that is you could never with

1420
01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:08,280
Speaker 1: all due love and respect, you could never love you. You

1421
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:11,080
Speaker 1: probably have your strengths, You probably have your strengths, but

1422
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:13,920
Speaker 1: I mean like you, yeah exactly, I couldn't do what

1423
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:16,560
Speaker 1: you do. But the notion like you have no idea

1424
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 1: how many moving parts. Even when I see people be

1425
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:20,760
Speaker 1: like that person's not funny, that person's not talented, and

1426
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:25,640
Speaker 1: that person I'm like, this show respectfully, it was not

1427
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:28,080
Speaker 1: like a meritocracy. It wasn't like the fun you we

1428
01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 1: There's so many sketches I saw at table read that

1429
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:32,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is the funniest thing I've ever heard read.

1430
01:06:32,920 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 1: We haven't even seen costumes yet, we haven't even seen

1431
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,040
Speaker 1: a set. This is the funniest thing. And it's not

1432
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 1: gonna go for a myriad of reasons that are beyond it.

1433
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:43,880
Speaker 1: We weren't always putting the funniest thing or person up.

1434
01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:47,919
Speaker 1: That's just not how it works. And I'm like, oh god,

1435
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:49,720
Speaker 1: that's I thank you. No, no, no, But it wasn't about

1436
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 1: It's not about me with Asha Ward but it's but

1437
01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 1: but also not even about me. I'm talking like things

1438
01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:58,919
Speaker 1: like Sam jay I saw right Gary right, No, yeah,

1439
01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 1: So I'm like, it's just it's not that I know,

1440
01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 1: but it does serve a purpose the show, and it's

1441
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 1: it speaks to its audience and it knows its audience

1442
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 1: and so but then I feel like at some point

1443
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: in the show I got I used to get very protective.

1444
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:12,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, but you're not there, you don't know, so

1445
01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: the whole like this person's this, this person's not this.

1446
01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:17,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, you don't know, and you could never.

1447
01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 2: My well, yes, I completely agree with you. And my

1448
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:25,200
Speaker 2: sort of sort of a companion take that I always

1449
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 2: say is it's a sketch show. Yeah, it's it is

1450
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 2: not going to like unearth some like societal truth that

1451
01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:43,120
Speaker 2: shatters your sort of concept of like what comedy can

1452
01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:45,760
Speaker 2: be and what it should be. Sometimes it is just

1453
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 2: frivolous and yeah, like and on that note, it's like

1454
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 2: it's really hard to sort of like come. It's like,

1455
01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:58,360
Speaker 2: my favorite thing about comedy, and I say this all

1456
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:00,520
Speaker 2: the time, is that there's no universal definite of what

1457
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 2: funny is. It is always an experiment. You never know

1458
01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:06,960
Speaker 2: what's going to work until it's in front of an audience,

1459
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:12,040
Speaker 2: and then when it does work, it's the best thing ever.

1460
01:08:12,920 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 2: I will always say I will. I've said this many

1461
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:20,160
Speaker 2: times before on the record, Like I had to fly

1462
01:08:20,240 --> 01:08:22,960
Speaker 2: to London right after the first lease it from Temecula Show,

1463
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 2: right after that Paper Pascal show, and I just and

1464
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 2: I was like in a very like dissociated place in

1465
01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 2: that time because it was just a lot of back

1466
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,680
Speaker 2: and forth. But I remember landing in London and it

1467
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:35,200
Speaker 2: like it just steadily growing and growing and growing in

1468
01:08:35,200 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 2: the way that like people were like, oh my god,

1469
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:40,160
Speaker 2: this is like the funniest thing ever. And I was

1470
01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:43,200
Speaker 2: like this. I was like I told myself, I was like,

1471
01:08:43,280 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 2: this just made so many hard things worth it.

1472
01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:50,519
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you. That was a very wow.

1473
01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:53,000
Speaker 2: That is one of the that's there's just so many

1474
01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:55,640
Speaker 2: things about that sketch and that show in particular.

1475
01:08:55,920 --> 01:09:00,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, the energy Pedrobot brought to the show and me

1476
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:03,080
Speaker 1: saying it was such like sadness no, but I'm just like, man,

1477
01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:05,760
Speaker 1: it's it's pretty That was thank you first of all,

1478
01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 1: but it was so cool getting to do that stupid, stupid, stupid,

1479
01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:13,680
Speaker 1: silly thing and the amount of joy it brought me.

1480
01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:19,080
Speaker 1: And it sounds like you like, there's nothing like that feeling.

1481
01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:21,960
Speaker 1: There's nothing like that feeling and sometimes it does just

1482
01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:25,040
Speaker 1: go that well. And then sometimes it's like, yeah, this

1483
01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 1: is pretty funny, and somebody else is gonna think this

1484
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:29,120
Speaker 1: thing and that you think is mid is hilarious, Like

1485
01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:30,360
Speaker 1: it's so, yeah.

1486
01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:32,760
Speaker 2: What's it? What's an underappreciated you?

1487
01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna throw that back to you. Yes, I'm

1488
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:39,559
Speaker 1: gonna say, hold on, hold on.

1489
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:42,720
Speaker 2: Are appropriately appreciated for the most part, I.

1490
01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 1: Think properly appreciated. I'm gonna I this is right before COVID,

1491
01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:52,559
Speaker 1: this is right before I really enjoyed this me as

1492
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:58,840
Speaker 1: Cookie Laflue Daniel Craig, last episode before COVID, Don't Eat

1493
01:09:58,840 --> 01:10:01,120
Speaker 1: the Foil, And I I know the take on that

1494
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 1: sketch looks as though we are making fun of No,

1495
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with Patty for not dropping the paper on

1496
01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:10,799
Speaker 1: the cupcake thing. I'm obsessed with it. So I recognize

1497
01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:12,720
Speaker 1: that the take looks like that. It's more than I

1498
01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 1: just think. I think it's funny to not drop it.

1499
01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:17,600
Speaker 2: I'm not laughing trying. You're not laughing at PA.

1500
01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:20,639
Speaker 1: I'm laughing with you. And I love that You're like, No,

1501
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,719
Speaker 1: I'm not letting this shit go because that was crazy.

1502
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 1: I was gonna eat the paper, the hell paper bad.

1503
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, who are you talking to? Like,

1504
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:33,320
Speaker 1: why are you talking? It's a grown woman's the legend,

1505
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:36,640
Speaker 1: that's probably. But I'm like, the world shut down. I

1506
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 1: mean not that I think that would have been anyway

1507
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:40,720
Speaker 1: gone viral, but I'm like, I loved that sketch. I

1508
01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:43,759
Speaker 1: loved my collar, my outfit. And then the world shut

1509
01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:45,840
Speaker 1: down days later, and we were doing sketches in our home.

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Speaker 2: But then, didn't you think like I think I had?

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01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 2: I did a just a crazy fucking update feature that show.

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01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 2: I was bottle boy. Oh I remember why I spoken

1513
01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:06,559
Speaker 2: of like Asians. But I was like, and that was

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01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:10,400
Speaker 2: the last ever week take featured, and.

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01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 1: I and that's the last thing. I feel like so

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01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:17,320
Speaker 1: many times I felt that though, being like, the last

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01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:19,880
Speaker 1: thing people saw me was this thing that I'm not

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01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:23,360
Speaker 1: I'm not proud of and any on any given on

1519
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:25,920
Speaker 1: any given week, being like, I'm not proud of this thing,

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01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 1: and it's been they're just I mean, there's sketches people

1521
01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:33,040
Speaker 1: were like that Obviously people have been upset about and

1522
01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, yea, the intention there was not that,

1523
01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:39,559
Speaker 1: and and I see why you're upset but like also

1524
01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 1: so much happens between dressing and that's out of my contrust. No, no,

1525
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 1: but I'm like that's the last thing they'll see of me.

1526
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:47,880
Speaker 1: There's so much of that. And like we would have

1527
01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: a show and then go into three way hiatus and

1528
01:11:50,560 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 1: you'd be like, well, that was it. That's Do you

1529
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:57,240
Speaker 1: have anything that you think was underappreciated besides bottle Boy, bottle.

1530
01:11:58,000 --> 01:12:08,839
Speaker 2: Maybe over appreciate. I think I really love even though

1531
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:12,920
Speaker 2: like the audience and the studio is like huh, I

1532
01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:15,519
Speaker 2: like the Garrett from Hinges, Yeah, just because they were

1533
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:18,600
Speaker 2: it was that and that was like me and like

1534
01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:21,320
Speaker 2: the the police An't destroyed boys kind of like trying

1535
01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:25,479
Speaker 2: to come up with like the most disgusting type of

1536
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:29,559
Speaker 2: like Inselly Boy, there is yeah, just but of course

1537
01:12:29,560 --> 01:12:31,280
Speaker 2: that doesn't play. That's not gonna be like a knee

1538
01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:34,800
Speaker 2: slapper in an age like no one knows, yes, Like

1539
01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:37,400
Speaker 2: it's it's just like this is an uncomfortable person.

1540
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:39,720
Speaker 1: It's like, no matter what you do, you can't kill

1541
01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 1: you can't.

1542
01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 2: You can't kill these people. Or he's just barging into

1543
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:45,120
Speaker 2: people's bedrooms. He's like showing up at people's weddings. And

1544
01:12:45,280 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 2: like he's he's like, so you want we were supposed

1545
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:51,280
Speaker 2: to go on a date. But like, I think that's

1546
01:12:51,400 --> 01:12:55,479
Speaker 2: that's something that I it's not underappreciate. I think it happened.

1547
01:12:55,520 --> 01:12:57,679
Speaker 1: No, you love it more than I feel like it was.

1548
01:12:57,960 --> 01:12:59,120
Speaker 1: Is that fair? Yeah?

1549
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 2: Sure, but I think that's totally normal. Yeah, And like,

1550
01:13:02,439 --> 01:13:06,400
Speaker 2: isn't it wonderful to just even talk about this? In hindsight,

1551
01:13:06,960 --> 01:13:07,680
Speaker 2: I think it is.

1552
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:09,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it is.

1553
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:14,639
Speaker 2: Clip that clip that has it been like two hours?

1554
01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:15,120
Speaker 2: I could do this?

1555
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:20,559
Speaker 1: You want to go home? So polite that he's like, okay, bitch.

1556
01:13:20,520 --> 01:13:22,800
Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no. And this is this is

1557
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:23,840
Speaker 2: something I learned in Japan.

1558
01:13:23,960 --> 01:13:24,200
Speaker 1: Okay.

1559
01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:26,679
Speaker 2: So the difference between like Tokyo people and Kyoto people

1560
01:13:26,800 --> 01:13:30,040
Speaker 2: is if you're at someone's house in Tokyo and they

1561
01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:32,000
Speaker 2: want you to leave, they'll be like, well, I've got

1562
01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:33,080
Speaker 2: an early morning.

1563
01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 1: Normal guys do too.

1564
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:37,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, totally in Kyoto this is I think this is

1565
01:13:37,840 --> 01:13:40,680
Speaker 2: so cheek and I think I encourage everyone to adopt this.

1566
01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:44,960
Speaker 2: It's just to be like so anyway, oh, that's such

1567
01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:47,600
Speaker 2: a nice watch. And then you get the person to

1568
01:13:47,640 --> 01:13:50,040
Speaker 2: look at the thank you and then they go oh

1569
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:51,400
Speaker 2: and oh it's late.

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01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:55,120
Speaker 1: They don't what if you don't have what if you

1571
01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:57,800
Speaker 1: don't have a watch. So like in this room, you

1572
01:13:57,880 --> 01:13:59,720
Speaker 1: just did the Kyoto thing to me, be like, oh my.

1573
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:01,200
Speaker 2: God, oh no, no, I didn't.

1574
01:14:01,280 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 1: This has been two hours. I can do this all day.

1575
01:14:05,120 --> 01:14:06,719
Speaker 1: Do you want to do this all? David?

1576
01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:08,599
Speaker 2: Is supposed to be one hour?

1577
01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm not.

1578
01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:13,559
Speaker 2: That's a beautiful digital talk.

1579
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:16,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you were talking about alarm clocks, ego

1580
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:18,559
Speaker 1: and how you wanted to I'm sorry. I was having

1581
01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:20,840
Speaker 1: fun talking to my friend and this was Bow and Yang.

1582
01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:22,920
Speaker 1: Thanks okay, I love you, Thank you for doing this.

1583
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:35,200
Speaker 1: That was my discussion with Bow and Yang. Wow, all right,

1584
01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:37,880
Speaker 1: that was a good one, wasn't it. I I think

1585
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:40,160
Speaker 1: so you think they're gonna clip it? I bet they will,

1586
01:14:40,240 --> 01:14:42,160
Speaker 1: Bet they will. He's still here. That is it?

1587
01:14:42,240 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 2: Weird experience weird? Did I use that word? And you

1588
01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:46,600
Speaker 2: can use it?

1589
01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:49,880
Speaker 1: You can? And he rolls his eyes. If they clip that,

1590
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:52,679
Speaker 1: we'll clip this all right? Anyway, if you want advice

1591
01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:54,599
Speaker 1: from me and my guests, next time, I was gonna

1592
01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:56,439
Speaker 1: ask boone to give advice to someone, but I was like,

1593
01:14:56,479 --> 01:14:58,719
Speaker 1: he's gotta go. No, I'm just Kidding'm kidding, I' kidding

1594
01:14:58,720 --> 01:15:00,840
Speaker 1: you do it. We don't have anyone, Okay call five

1595
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 1: zero two eight four nine three two three seven five

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01:15:03,240 --> 01:15:05,840
Speaker 1: zero two eight four nine three two three seven Bye Bye.

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Speaker 1: Thanks Dad. Is a production of Will Ferrell's Big Money

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Speaker 1: Players and iHeart Podcasts. I'm your host Aego wodem Our

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Speaker 1: producer is Kevin Bartelt and our executive producer is Matt

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