WEBVTT - Cliff Notes: Is Marriage a Business Decision?

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<v Speaker 2>Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>talk about marriage. Yes, I do put a post up.

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<v Speaker 2>They got a lot of traction, very controversial. Marriage is

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<v Speaker 2>a business decision. A successful marriage can be extremely fruitful.

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<v Speaker 2>A bad marriage can be extremely painful. Choose your partner wisely.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't plan for an exit, it may be

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<v Speaker 2>difficult and costly when the time comes.

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<v Speaker 3>And in the comments, I'm sure I got a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of backlash and I said women investors are better than me,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I know they was at your head over this.

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<v Speaker 4>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of the comments were that you know, you're taking

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<v Speaker 2>the romance out of it, you're taking the secrecy out

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<v Speaker 2>of it. It's a covenant by God. All the posts

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<v Speaker 2>said was that it's a contract. Now, correct me if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm wrong, But I don't believe even any religious texts

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<v Speaker 2>it's talked about having a contract in marriage. So once

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<v Speaker 2>you add a contract to it, now it becomes a

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<v Speaker 2>business agreement that I'm not even saying that that is

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<v Speaker 2>that that's a bad thing. But we just have to

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<v Speaker 2>not go back to the apen. You just got the

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<v Speaker 2>knowledge that it is what it is. Right. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>like if you sign paperwork, and this is why you

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<v Speaker 2>just can't get a divorce. Like it's just you can't

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<v Speaker 2>just say, Okay, the relationship is not working out, it's over,

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<v Speaker 2>we're done. You have to go through the court system

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<v Speaker 2>to get a divorce. It's not it's you. Just even

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<v Speaker 2>if it's amblicable, you still it still takes some time

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<v Speaker 2>to get a divorce. If it was just done how

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<v Speaker 2>it was done two thousand years ago, you would just

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<v Speaker 2>have a witness say we're no longer married, it's over.

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<v Speaker 2>Or you want to get married, you have a witness,

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<v Speaker 2>you say you're married. I do you. You you make

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<v Speaker 2>your your vows and the eyes of God, and now

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<v Speaker 2>you're a union. So I'm not saying that marriage is

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<v Speaker 2>a bad thing. I'm not saying that even the contract

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<v Speaker 2>is a bad thing. But there is a contract. So

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<v Speaker 2>when you enter a contract, you should be fully informed.

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<v Speaker 2>Before you sign a contract, It's just like it's just

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<v Speaker 2>like a record deal anything else. Right before you sign something,

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<v Speaker 2>you should be fully informed of what you're signing. The

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<v Speaker 2>marriage license, yeah, because that is not like you can

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<v Speaker 2>just get out of that easily. It just doesn't work

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<v Speaker 2>like that, and there's a lot that comes with it.

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<v Speaker 4>True so much, I want to stay, but I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Why not? Why not? This is a safe place. YouTube

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<v Speaker 2>chime in? How do you YouTube chime in? What are

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<v Speaker 2>your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, man, I've enjoyed the show.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean yes, Trader in investment has sitable risks, So

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<v Speaker 3>this marriage, I think there needs to be protecting them

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<v Speaker 3>both sides.

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<v Speaker 4>The game is not fair.

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<v Speaker 3>You got a load up, you know, be fair like

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<v Speaker 3>once the court is get involved, that's a different ball

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<v Speaker 3>game altogether.

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<v Speaker 5>So try to a rocket. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I think everybody should sign two years and then the

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<v Speaker 3>third year be a player option.

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<v Speaker 6>See if you want to renew player option. Well played there,

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<v Speaker 6>I like that player option.

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<v Speaker 2>What's this?

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<v Speaker 6>I was on the side that it can be very fruitful.

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<v Speaker 6>Money does come into it, but the union is the

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<v Speaker 6>most important part. First, Uh, license or not? And so

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<v Speaker 6>I think that.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no license or not. You let me have a license,

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<v Speaker 2>but you're not married.

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<v Speaker 6>I think everybody needs to look at their own circumstances

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<v Speaker 6>and make a wise decision for themselves. Marriage isn't for everyone,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm noticing that the more and more we travel

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<v Speaker 6>that their opinion of marriage has changed. It's changed, and

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<v Speaker 6>I think that might be a generational thing. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>we grew up, I could speak for us, like we

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<v Speaker 6>grew up and we watched marriag in our households, growing

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<v Speaker 6>up for better or for worse, and so there was

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<v Speaker 6>that mindset of what marriage is supposed to be. But

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<v Speaker 6>over the course of a generation that has changed, and

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<v Speaker 6>I've become more over minded to the way that people

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<v Speaker 6>are viewing what union is and whether it has.

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<v Speaker 2>A contract or not.

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<v Speaker 6>A lot of people say, we don't need that, we

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<v Speaker 6>have love and that is not the most important thing.

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<v Speaker 6>But there are business ramifications, right, and I know people

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<v Speaker 6>don't want to think about it. I think people view

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<v Speaker 6>it almost like we think about life insurance in a

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<v Speaker 6>sense where it's like we don't we don't want to

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<v Speaker 6>think about dying, but it's something that we have to

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<v Speaker 6>prepare for. And marriage, I feel like it could be

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<v Speaker 6>looked at the same way, like nobody wants to be divorced,

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<v Speaker 6>but we should prepare if that day comes, and you

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<v Speaker 6>can do that before you sign the paper. You can

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<v Speaker 6>figure that out after. But marriage has changed, man, And

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<v Speaker 6>I pray for my brothers and all my sisters out

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<v Speaker 6>there that are looking for that absolute and apply anybody

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<v Speaker 6>that's not looking for that and finding other ways to

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<v Speaker 6>find companionship and union outside of legally being married.

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<v Speaker 2>But is it a business decision or not?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, said that, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't understand the feedback why it.

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<v Speaker 5>Was I didn't even see any of that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, marriage is a business decision. It's extremely awkward

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<v Speaker 2>to have a conversation about breaking up when you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm honest, I'm saying, somebody put that if you are,

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's it's awkward to have a conversation about prenup

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<v Speaker 2>or or the end of your relationship at the beginning

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<v Speaker 2>of your relationship. That's an awful conversation. Now, it's extremely awkward,

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<v Speaker 2>just to be honest, how many people really feel People

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<v Speaker 2>say it all the time, but but like people not

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<v Speaker 2>really even they Most people are not going to have

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<v Speaker 2>a conversation of Okay, we're going to get married now

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<v Speaker 2>if this marriage doesn't work out, this it's you better.

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<v Speaker 4>Kanye did all the heavy lifting.

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<v Speaker 5>We won't pre and up.

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<v Speaker 7>We won't pre up.

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<v Speaker 5>How many people do you know and have one though,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know two.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know any exactly. I don't know any bro exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>One of these things that's talked about a lot. Nobody

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<v Speaker 2>has a pre nup. Very few, probably one percent of

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<v Speaker 2>the population has a pre nup. Probably one percent. Because

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<v Speaker 2>it's awkward, most people know and a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>are just not even in the finance. But you should

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<v Speaker 2>you this, this is the thing. You don't even have

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<v Speaker 2>to be rich, Like at some point we got to

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<v Speaker 2>have a divorced lawyer on here because like when I

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<v Speaker 2>was a financial advisor, like talking about a quadro. A

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<v Speaker 2>quadro is like when the court, you know, uh makes

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<v Speaker 2>a judgment on all your financial situation. So your four

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<v Speaker 2>one k people don't understand even your four one k.

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<v Speaker 2>You might have a half a million dollars in your

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<v Speaker 2>four to one k half.

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<v Speaker 7>Do you think.

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<v Speaker 4>Scotty Picken should have talked about that pre nup? Or no?

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<v Speaker 2>Should he have?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that's the real lass dance Lars of Pippen undefeated

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<v Speaker 3>because you want to have a conversation.

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<v Speaker 6>Mike said he don't approve of it here markets doing

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<v Speaker 6>what he's doing or though does not prove he's not supportive.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, like like four one k half bank account half.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm just nobody thinks the average person. The average

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<v Speaker 2>person thinking like I'm not a millionaire or I'm not rich,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have to worry about a prenup. Nobody's thinking

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<v Speaker 2>in this era.

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<v Speaker 3>The women need to be way more concerned about the

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<v Speaker 3>prenup because most of the complaints be from men, bruh.

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<v Speaker 3>For the women who getting into it, y'all better protect yourselves.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't everybody go quiet at once?

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<v Speaker 3>Listen and some of them are gonna be lurking at

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<v Speaker 3>the best that's trying to come up on you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I watched Market Mondays and all the uy l we

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<v Speaker 3>we got similar minds.

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<v Speaker 4>They don't fall for it. Told me I would find

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<v Speaker 4>a like minded spouse here you tom me preing up

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<v Speaker 4>day one.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me see your TV in Marrior Trade check is

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<v Speaker 3>and the Savors and if we sign a print up,

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<v Speaker 3>if we get married, you better tell them off top.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you gonna be crying up like Kelly Clarkson?

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes you have to have an uncomfortable earners.

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<v Speaker 1>An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child

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<v Speaker 1>Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border

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<v Speaker 1>crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you

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<v Speaker 1>Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump America's laws

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<v Speaker 1>border and families will.

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<v Speaker 2>Be protected sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland

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<v Speaker 2>Security cosation. So it's one of these things. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's important, even if you don't have a prenup, at

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<v Speaker 2>least have a conversation of like, what's your expectations. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>say this doesn't work out. What do you what do

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<v Speaker 2>you what do you expect to get out of this?

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<v Speaker 2>You might you might be surprised, might be surprised. I

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<v Speaker 2>might say I expect nothing, I expect everything, and then

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes people say things and then they change their mind.

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<v Speaker 2>That happens all the time as well. But I I

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<v Speaker 2>do think that marriage is extremely beneficial, and I think

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<v Speaker 2>that from an economy stanoint. No, I'm just saying from

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<v Speaker 2>a family standpoint. From an economic standpoint. Also, obviously two

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<v Speaker 2>incomes are better than one income. You know, it helps,

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<v Speaker 2>it helps a lot, even tax benefits. So I am pro.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pro marriage. I'm not. I don't want people to

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<v Speaker 2>think that I'm anti the situation. I think question, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to ask it, but I think I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>extremely beneficial. But it's a probability, A high probability is

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<v Speaker 2>not going to work out. So just all I'm saying

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<v Speaker 2>is just be prepared. That's all preparation. Preparation because because

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<v Speaker 2>on the flip side to it, when they don't talk

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<v Speaker 2>about it, just like marriage can be beneficial, a bad

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<v Speaker 2>marriage can can sink your ship. The force child support

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<v Speaker 2>at some point we got to have a real tax

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<v Speaker 2>evasion we talked about with some people. At some point

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<v Speaker 2>we got to have a real conversation about child support.

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<v Speaker 2>This this, this is the this is this is the

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<v Speaker 2>tax on black men unproportionately. That's disproportionately, that's crippling people economically.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a real conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a it's a very real conversation. Nobody, nobody wants

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about that. That's a conversation. I would love.

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<v Speaker 6>I would like to like moderate that conversation. We're yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I would I would.

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<v Speaker 5>Because I like, I have peers who are that pay

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<v Speaker 5>child support.

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<v Speaker 6>And it's a conversation that, like like you said, is

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<v Speaker 6>disproportionately catered to affecting men, and we need to get

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<v Speaker 6>to the bottle of why, like from a legality standpoint,

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<v Speaker 6>economic standpoint, what that.

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<v Speaker 3>It goes back to that conversation on Okay, I'll ask

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<v Speaker 3>a question if every parent had an agreement to pay

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<v Speaker 3>each other. Or let's say dad pays mom child support

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<v Speaker 3>and they didn't go through the state. How much in

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<v Speaker 3>that revenue with the state lose as a result because

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<v Speaker 3>they're investing the money that comes into child support pool.

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<v Speaker 4>Mess up the in floid the funds. If you're going

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<v Speaker 4>to invest the funds.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, child support is is a very bad it's a

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<v Speaker 2>very bad system, extremely extremely flawed. Nobody wins, that's the

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<v Speaker 2>thing about it. Nobody wins in the child support. Just

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<v Speaker 2>the state wins. Well, yeah, that's probably the only person.

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<v Speaker 2>But it creates such division and such animosity between men

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<v Speaker 2>and women. Most of the time, the women are not

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<v Speaker 2>getting enough money to even make a difference in their life.

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<v Speaker 2>The men the money is actually life so the woman.

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<v Speaker 2>The money that the women get most of the time

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<v Speaker 2>is not life changing. The money that is taken from

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<v Speaker 2>a man's check life is life changing. So nobody wins.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a spread. Nobody wins. You can't even you can't,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't even live somewhere because seven hundred dollars a month,

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<v Speaker 2>like six hundred dollars a month is like now, that's

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<v Speaker 2>crippling you. And then in the grand scheme of things.

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<v Speaker 2>Six hundred dollars a month is is not gonna like

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<v Speaker 2>it's not It helps raise a child, but if you

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<v Speaker 2>got a child, that's not gonna change your life. You

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<v Speaker 2>still gotta work your job, you still gotta work over time,

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<v Speaker 2>you still gotta do every so you're still doing every

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<v Speaker 2>single thing. So it doesn't really necessarily change your life,

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<v Speaker 2>but it cripple somebody else's life. And if you don't

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<v Speaker 2>pay it, you go to jail, and then when you

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<v Speaker 2>come out or they take your license, all kinds of

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<v Speaker 2>different things.

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<v Speaker 5>Supports forwards, Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Microsoft CEO expects for their revenue to double by twenty thirty,

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<v Speaker 3>so for everyone invests in the Apple and Microsoft Satia

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<v Speaker 3>is on a war path as well, so he'll be

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<v Speaker 3>able to make his child support that down moment hanging

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes it's that situation.

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<v Speaker 2>So just be mindful for all the young all the

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<v Speaker 2>young people watching women and men, just be mindful of

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<v Speaker 2>that because sometimes you know, you do things and you

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<v Speaker 2>can't really reverse the course of action. It's one of

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<v Speaker 2>these things unfortunately that can set you back in life,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. Being like I said, that's why I'm pro marriage,

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<v Speaker 2>because being a single parent is not beneficial for anybody.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not it's not beneficial for anybody to be a

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<v Speaker 2>single parent and including the child. So this is an

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<v Speaker 2>economic problem that affects everybody and hurts every single person.

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<v Speaker 2>It hurts the child, hurts the mother to follow, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's something that when you talk about finances and you

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<v Speaker 2>know generational wealth, this is one of the things that

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<v Speaker 2>can clip that early and you sometimes you can never

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<v Speaker 2>recover from it. So definitely, yeah, we have a special.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe we have like a like a dateline special, we

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<v Speaker 2>have like a special special relationships special. We'll talk about alimony,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll talk about divorce, we'll talk about child support. Then

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<v Speaker 2>we'll talk about the benefits as well. We'll talk about

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<v Speaker 2>the tax benefits that you get for being married. We'll

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<v Speaker 2>talk about different programs that's beneficial. But even like when

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<v Speaker 2>you sign up to daycare, like you know that you

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<v Speaker 2>get you get hurt. If it's two incomes, sometimes it's

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<v Speaker 2>like you gotta the one income is more beneficial than

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<v Speaker 2>two incomes one alone.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh. That Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>One day I'm gonna do like maybe an episode all

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<v Speaker 3>the ways that America takes money away from us while

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<v Speaker 3>they tell us not to invest. We went through five

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<v Speaker 3>streams right there. Let's not even talk about private school

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<v Speaker 3>or education for kids. Like the multiople on that business

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<v Speaker 3>alone has went up fifteen hundred percent in the last

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<v Speaker 3>twelve thirteen years.

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<v Speaker 5>The daycare play is insane, insane, insane. If you have it,

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<v Speaker 5>you're gonna pay. If you don't, it's subsidized, that's somebody's

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<v Speaker 5>gonna pay.

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<v Speaker 4>Yep.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, well, they said to earn your alimony.

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<v Speaker 2>Earn your alimony.

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<v Speaker 4>That's funny. Say listen, crazy, how does y'all gotta watch out?

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<v Speaker 7>Because that's the play too.

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<v Speaker 4>Help you build something up.

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<v Speaker 7>This is the real player.

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<v Speaker 4>You gotta watch out.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have anything, you rad you find somebody to

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<v Speaker 3>help you build it and takes seventy percent on the

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<v Speaker 3>back end.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, that's the other venture capital. That's the other b capital.

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<v Speaker 2>The ear your alimony place easy you go to, you

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<v Speaker 2>go to South Beach, you go to West Hollywood, you

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<v Speaker 2>go to you know all of these different places.

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<v Speaker 4>You love socer serious man, but that isn't that's the strategy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not talking about. I'm talking about Sandy Springs. Sandy

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<v Speaker 2>Springs and you just wait. It's like it's like fishing.

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<v Speaker 2>Just wait, stay out, stay out long enough. You gonna catch.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna catch. You're gonna catch a fish.

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<v Speaker 7>Fish some suckers on the vestment. You just wait, you

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<v Speaker 7>just wait.

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<v Speaker 4>You'll apply too much pressure.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact you go to all these offens that you

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<v Speaker 2>see your leisure and just go to the clubs see

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<v Speaker 2>the same people facts intentionally, intentionally. He's not lying, bro, intentionally,

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<v Speaker 2>he's not lying. This is all over the world, back

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<v Speaker 2>world twiceide of the world to I can't wait to

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<v Speaker 2>go back. All you need is one one somebody, somebody

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<v Speaker 2>that's it.

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<v Speaker 6>He needs one flawless one's victory, the shooting guard for

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<v Speaker 6>the you name it, somebody on the team, you name it, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>fill in the blank.

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<v Speaker 1>An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child

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<v Speaker 1>filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just

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<v Speaker 1>some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President

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<v Speaker 1>Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States

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<v Speaker 1>Secretary of Homeland Security under President Trump. Attempted illegal border

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you

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<v Speaker 1>were here illegally, your next you will be fine nearly

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<v Speaker 1>one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will

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<v Speaker 1>Do what's right, leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws,

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