Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States
Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly
Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will
Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
Speaker 1: Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws,
Speaker 1: border and families will be protected.
Speaker 2: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security. Let's
Speaker 2: talk about marriage. Yes, I do put a post up.
Speaker 2: They got a lot of traction, very controversial. Marriage is
Speaker 2: a business decision. A successful marriage can be extremely fruitful.
Speaker 2: A bad marriage can be extremely painful. Choose your partner wisely.
Speaker 2: If you don't plan for an exit, it may be
Speaker 2: difficult and costly when the time comes.
Speaker 3: And in the comments, I'm sure I got a lot
Speaker 3: of backlash and I said women investors are better than me,
Speaker 3: and so I know they was at your head over this.
Speaker 4: Well.
Speaker 2: Some of the comments were that you know, you're taking
Speaker 2: the romance out of it, you're taking the secrecy out
Speaker 2: of it. It's a covenant by God. All the posts
Speaker 2: said was that it's a contract. Now, correct me if
Speaker 2: I'm wrong, But I don't believe even any religious texts
Speaker 2: it's talked about having a contract in marriage. So once
Speaker 2: you add a contract to it, now it becomes a
Speaker 2: business agreement that I'm not even saying that that is
Speaker 2: that that's a bad thing. But we just have to
Speaker 2: not go back to the apen. You just got the
Speaker 2: knowledge that it is what it is. Right. So it's
Speaker 2: like if you sign paperwork, and this is why you
Speaker 2: just can't get a divorce. Like it's just you can't
Speaker 2: just say, Okay, the relationship is not working out, it's over,
Speaker 2: we're done. You have to go through the court system
Speaker 2: to get a divorce. It's not it's you. Just even
Speaker 2: if it's amblicable, you still it still takes some time
Speaker 2: to get a divorce. If it was just done how
Speaker 2: it was done two thousand years ago, you would just
Speaker 2: have a witness say we're no longer married, it's over.
Speaker 2: Or you want to get married, you have a witness,
Speaker 2: you say you're married. I do you. You you make
Speaker 2: your your vows and the eyes of God, and now
Speaker 2: you're a union. So I'm not saying that marriage is
Speaker 2: a bad thing. I'm not saying that even the contract
Speaker 2: is a bad thing. But there is a contract. So
Speaker 2: when you enter a contract, you should be fully informed.
Speaker 2: Before you sign a contract, It's just like it's just
Speaker 2: like a record deal anything else. Right before you sign something,
Speaker 2: you should be fully informed of what you're signing. The
Speaker 2: marriage license, yeah, because that is not like you can
Speaker 2: just get out of that easily. It just doesn't work
Speaker 2: like that, and there's a lot that comes with it.
Speaker 4: True so much, I want to stay, but I'm not.
Speaker 4: I do.
Speaker 2: Why not? Why not? This is a safe place. YouTube
Speaker 2: chime in? How do you YouTube chime in? What are
Speaker 2: your thoughts?
Speaker 4: Hey, man, I've enjoyed the show.
Speaker 3: I mean yes, Trader in investment has sitable risks, So
Speaker 3: this marriage, I think there needs to be protecting them
Speaker 3: both sides.
Speaker 4: The game is not fair.
Speaker 3: You got a load up, you know, be fair like
Speaker 3: once the court is get involved, that's a different ball
Speaker 3: game altogether.
Speaker 5: So try to a rocket. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I think everybody should sign two years and then the
Speaker 3: third year be a player option.
Speaker 6: See if you want to renew player option. Well played there,
Speaker 6: I like that player option.
Speaker 2: What's this?
Speaker 6: I was on the side that it can be very fruitful.
Speaker 6: Money does come into it, but the union is the
Speaker 6: most important part. First, Uh, license or not? And so
Speaker 6: I think that.
Speaker 2: There's no license or not. You let me have a license,
Speaker 2: but you're not married.
Speaker 6: I think everybody needs to look at their own circumstances
Speaker 6: and make a wise decision for themselves. Marriage isn't for everyone,
Speaker 6: and I'm noticing that the more and more we travel
Speaker 6: that their opinion of marriage has changed. It's changed, and
Speaker 6: I think that might be a generational thing. I mean,
Speaker 6: we grew up, I could speak for us, like we
Speaker 6: grew up and we watched marriag in our households, growing
Speaker 6: up for better or for worse, and so there was
Speaker 6: that mindset of what marriage is supposed to be. But
Speaker 6: over the course of a generation that has changed, and
Speaker 6: I've become more over minded to the way that people
Speaker 6: are viewing what union is and whether it has.
Speaker 2: A contract or not.
Speaker 6: A lot of people say, we don't need that, we
Speaker 6: have love and that is not the most important thing.
Speaker 6: But there are business ramifications, right, and I know people
Speaker 6: don't want to think about it. I think people view
Speaker 6: it almost like we think about life insurance in a
Speaker 6: sense where it's like we don't we don't want to
Speaker 6: think about dying, but it's something that we have to
Speaker 6: prepare for. And marriage, I feel like it could be
Speaker 6: looked at the same way, like nobody wants to be divorced,
Speaker 6: but we should prepare if that day comes, and you
Speaker 6: can do that before you sign the paper. You can
Speaker 6: figure that out after. But marriage has changed, man, And
Speaker 6: I pray for my brothers and all my sisters out
Speaker 6: there that are looking for that absolute and apply anybody
Speaker 6: that's not looking for that and finding other ways to
Speaker 6: find companionship and union outside of legally being married.
Speaker 2: But is it a business decision or not?
Speaker 5: Yes, said that, Yeah.
Speaker 2: So I don't understand the feedback why it.
Speaker 5: Was I didn't even see any of that.
Speaker 2: I mean, marriage is a business decision. It's extremely awkward
Speaker 2: to have a conversation about breaking up when you know,
Speaker 2: I'm honest, I'm saying, somebody put that if you are,
Speaker 2: it's it's it's awkward to have a conversation about prenup
Speaker 2: or or the end of your relationship at the beginning
Speaker 2: of your relationship. That's an awful conversation. Now, it's extremely awkward,
Speaker 2: just to be honest, how many people really feel People
Speaker 2: say it all the time, but but like people not
Speaker 2: really even they Most people are not going to have
Speaker 2: a conversation of Okay, we're going to get married now
Speaker 2: if this marriage doesn't work out, this it's you better.
Speaker 4: Kanye did all the heavy lifting.
Speaker 5: We won't pre and up.
Speaker 7: We won't pre up.
Speaker 5: How many people do you know and have one though,
Speaker 5: I don't know two.
Speaker 2: I don't know any exactly. I don't know any bro exactly.
Speaker 2: One of these things that's talked about a lot. Nobody
Speaker 2: has a pre nup. Very few, probably one percent of
Speaker 2: the population has a pre nup. Probably one percent. Because
Speaker 2: it's awkward, most people know and a lot of people
Speaker 2: are just not even in the finance. But you should
Speaker 2: you this, this is the thing. You don't even have
Speaker 2: to be rich, Like at some point we got to
Speaker 2: have a divorced lawyer on here because like when I
Speaker 2: was a financial advisor, like talking about a quadro. A
Speaker 2: quadro is like when the court, you know, uh makes
Speaker 2: a judgment on all your financial situation. So your four
Speaker 2: one k people don't understand even your four one k.
Speaker 2: You might have a half a million dollars in your
Speaker 2: four to one k half.
Speaker 7: Do you think.
Speaker 4: Scotty Picken should have talked about that pre nup? Or no?
Speaker 2: Should he have?
Speaker 3: Yes, that's the real lass dance Lars of Pippen undefeated
Speaker 3: because you want to have a conversation.
Speaker 6: Mike said he don't approve of it here markets doing
Speaker 6: what he's doing or though does not prove he's not supportive.
Speaker 2: But yeah, like like four one k half bank account half.
Speaker 2: But I'm just nobody thinks the average person. The average
Speaker 2: person thinking like I'm not a millionaire or I'm not rich,
Speaker 2: I don't have to worry about a prenup. Nobody's thinking
Speaker 2: in this era.
Speaker 3: The women need to be way more concerned about the
Speaker 3: prenup because most of the complaints be from men, bruh.
Speaker 3: For the women who getting into it, y'all better protect yourselves.
Speaker 4: Don't everybody go quiet at once?
Speaker 3: Listen and some of them are gonna be lurking at
Speaker 3: the best that's trying to come up on you. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I watched Market Mondays and all the uy l we
Speaker 3: we got similar minds.
Speaker 4: They don't fall for it. Told me I would find
Speaker 4: a like minded spouse here you tom me preing up
Speaker 4: day one.
Speaker 3: Let me see your TV in Marrior Trade check is
Speaker 3: and the Savors and if we sign a print up,
Speaker 3: if we get married, you better tell them off top.
Speaker 4: Are you gonna be crying up like Kelly Clarkson?
Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta have on. This is one thing I
Speaker 2: learned in business. Nobody wants to have uncomfortable conversations, but
Speaker 2: sometimes you have to have an uncomfortable earners.
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Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States
Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly
Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will
Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
Speaker 1: Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump America's laws
Speaker 1: border and families will.
Speaker 2: Be protected sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland
Speaker 2: Security cosation. So it's one of these things. I think
Speaker 2: it's important, even if you don't have a prenup, at
Speaker 2: least have a conversation of like, what's your expectations. Let's
Speaker 2: say this doesn't work out. What do you what do
Speaker 2: you what do you expect to get out of this?
Speaker 2: You might you might be surprised, might be surprised. I
Speaker 2: might say I expect nothing, I expect everything, and then
Speaker 2: sometimes people say things and then they change their mind.
Speaker 2: That happens all the time as well. But I I
Speaker 2: do think that marriage is extremely beneficial, and I think
Speaker 2: that from an economy stanoint. No, I'm just saying from
Speaker 2: a family standpoint. From an economic standpoint. Also, obviously two
Speaker 2: incomes are better than one income. You know, it helps,
Speaker 2: it helps a lot, even tax benefits. So I am pro.
Speaker 2: I'm pro marriage. I'm not. I don't want people to
Speaker 2: think that I'm anti the situation. I think question, I
Speaker 2: want to ask it, but I think I think it's
Speaker 2: extremely beneficial. But it's a probability, A high probability is
Speaker 2: not going to work out. So just all I'm saying
Speaker 2: is just be prepared. That's all preparation. Preparation because because
Speaker 2: on the flip side to it, when they don't talk
Speaker 2: about it, just like marriage can be beneficial, a bad
Speaker 2: marriage can can sink your ship. The force child support
Speaker 2: at some point we got to have a real tax
Speaker 2: evasion we talked about with some people. At some point
Speaker 2: we got to have a real conversation about child support.
Speaker 2: This this, this is the this is this is the
Speaker 2: tax on black men unproportionately. That's disproportionately, that's crippling people economically.
Speaker 5: That's a real conversation.
Speaker 2: It's a it's a very real conversation. Nobody, nobody wants
Speaker 2: to talk about that. That's a conversation. I would love.
Speaker 6: I would like to like moderate that conversation. We're yeah,
Speaker 6: I would I would.
Speaker 5: Because I like, I have peers who are that pay
Speaker 5: child support.
Speaker 6: And it's a conversation that, like like you said, is
Speaker 6: disproportionately catered to affecting men, and we need to get
Speaker 6: to the bottle of why, like from a legality standpoint,
Speaker 6: economic standpoint, what that.
Speaker 3: It goes back to that conversation on Okay, I'll ask
Speaker 3: a question if every parent had an agreement to pay
Speaker 3: each other. Or let's say dad pays mom child support
Speaker 3: and they didn't go through the state. How much in
Speaker 3: that revenue with the state lose as a result because
Speaker 3: they're investing the money that comes into child support pool.
Speaker 4: Mess up the in floid the funds. If you're going
Speaker 4: to invest the funds.
Speaker 2: Yeah, child support is is a very bad it's a
Speaker 2: very bad system, extremely extremely flawed. Nobody wins, that's the
Speaker 2: thing about it. Nobody wins in the child support. Just
Speaker 2: the state wins. Well, yeah, that's probably the only person.
Speaker 2: But it creates such division and such animosity between men
Speaker 2: and women. Most of the time, the women are not
Speaker 2: getting enough money to even make a difference in their life.
Speaker 2: The men the money is actually life so the woman.
Speaker 2: The money that the women get most of the time
Speaker 2: is not life changing. The money that is taken from
Speaker 2: a man's check life is life changing. So nobody wins.
Speaker 2: That's a spread. Nobody wins. You can't even you can't,
Speaker 2: you can't even live somewhere because seven hundred dollars a month,
Speaker 2: like six hundred dollars a month is like now, that's
Speaker 2: crippling you. And then in the grand scheme of things.
Speaker 2: Six hundred dollars a month is is not gonna like
Speaker 2: it's not It helps raise a child, but if you
Speaker 2: got a child, that's not gonna change your life. You
Speaker 2: still gotta work your job, you still gotta work over time,
Speaker 2: you still gotta do every so you're still doing every
Speaker 2: single thing. So it doesn't really necessarily change your life,
Speaker 2: but it cripple somebody else's life. And if you don't
Speaker 2: pay it, you go to jail, and then when you
Speaker 2: come out or they take your license, all kinds of
Speaker 2: different things.
Speaker 5: Supports forwards, Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: Microsoft CEO expects for their revenue to double by twenty thirty,
Speaker 3: so for everyone invests in the Apple and Microsoft Satia
Speaker 3: is on a war path as well, so he'll be
Speaker 3: able to make his child support that down moment hanging
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's that situation.
Speaker 2: So just be mindful for all the young all the
Speaker 2: young people watching women and men, just be mindful of
Speaker 2: that because sometimes you know, you do things and you
Speaker 2: can't really reverse the course of action. It's one of
Speaker 2: these things unfortunately that can set you back in life,
Speaker 2: you know. Being like I said, that's why I'm pro marriage,
Speaker 2: because being a single parent is not beneficial for anybody.
Speaker 2: It's not it's not beneficial for anybody to be a
Speaker 2: single parent and including the child. So this is an
Speaker 2: economic problem that affects everybody and hurts every single person.
Speaker 2: It hurts the child, hurts the mother to follow, and
Speaker 2: it's something that when you talk about finances and you
Speaker 2: know generational wealth, this is one of the things that
Speaker 2: can clip that early and you sometimes you can never
Speaker 2: recover from it. So definitely, yeah, we have a special.
Speaker 2: Maybe we have like a like a dateline special, we
Speaker 2: have like a special special relationships special. We'll talk about alimony,
Speaker 2: we'll talk about divorce, we'll talk about child support. Then
Speaker 2: we'll talk about the benefits as well. We'll talk about
Speaker 2: the tax benefits that you get for being married. We'll
Speaker 2: talk about different programs that's beneficial. But even like when
Speaker 2: you sign up to daycare, like you know that you
Speaker 2: get you get hurt. If it's two incomes, sometimes it's
Speaker 2: like you gotta the one income is more beneficial than
Speaker 2: two incomes one alone.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. That Yeah.
Speaker 3: One day I'm gonna do like maybe an episode all
Speaker 3: the ways that America takes money away from us while
Speaker 3: they tell us not to invest. We went through five
Speaker 3: streams right there. Let's not even talk about private school
Speaker 3: or education for kids. Like the multiople on that business
Speaker 3: alone has went up fifteen hundred percent in the last
Speaker 3: twelve thirteen years.
Speaker 5: The daycare play is insane, insane, insane. If you have it,
Speaker 5: you're gonna pay. If you don't, it's subsidized, that's somebody's
Speaker 5: gonna pay.
Speaker 4: Yep.
Speaker 5: So yeah, well, they said to earn your alimony.
Speaker 2: Earn your alimony.
Speaker 4: That's funny. Say listen, crazy, how does y'all gotta watch out?
Speaker 7: Because that's the play too.
Speaker 4: Help you build something up.
Speaker 7: This is the real player.
Speaker 4: You gotta watch out.
Speaker 3: You don't have anything, you rad you find somebody to
Speaker 3: help you build it and takes seventy percent on the
Speaker 3: back end.
Speaker 4: Oh, that's the other venture capital. That's the other b capital.
Speaker 2: The ear your alimony place easy you go to, you
Speaker 2: go to South Beach, you go to West Hollywood, you
Speaker 2: go to you know all of these different places.
Speaker 4: You love socer serious man, but that isn't that's the strategy.
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about. I'm talking about Sandy Springs. Sandy
Speaker 2: Springs and you just wait. It's like it's like fishing.
Speaker 2: Just wait, stay out, stay out long enough. You gonna catch.
Speaker 2: You're gonna catch. You're gonna catch a fish.
Speaker 7: Fish some suckers on the vestment. You just wait, you
Speaker 7: just wait.
Speaker 4: You'll apply too much pressure.
Speaker 2: The fact you go to all these offens that you
Speaker 2: see your leisure and just go to the clubs see
Speaker 2: the same people facts intentionally, intentionally. He's not lying, bro, intentionally,
Speaker 2: he's not lying. This is all over the world, back
Speaker 2: world twiceide of the world to I can't wait to
Speaker 2: go back. All you need is one one somebody, somebody
Speaker 2: that's it.
Speaker 6: He needs one flawless one's victory, the shooting guard for
Speaker 6: the you name it, somebody on the team, you name it, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States
Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security under President Trump. Attempted illegal border
Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
Speaker 1: were here illegally, your next you will be fine nearly
Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will
Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
Speaker 1: Do what's right, leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws,
Speaker 1: border and families will be protected.
Speaker 2: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security,