1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARVEFM dot com 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:19,479 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Michael Up, hold on tight, we 9 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 2: got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject, it is a problem 11 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: when I do it. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm sick of 12 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: my husband controlling stuff when it comes to me and 13 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:41,279 Speaker 1: my happiness. But he never deprives himself of anything, not 14 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 1: even other women. We've been together for seven years and 15 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: married for four years. He paid off all three of 16 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: my major credit cards, and we got a credit card 17 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: together that we plan to use for trips and major purchases. 18 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: He has been ordering limited edition Jordan's on the card 19 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: whenever he wants to, but if I use the card 20 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: to order, hey, he has a fit. My hair is 21 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: just as important, if not more important, than the latest shoes. 22 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 1: He tries to justify everything if it's something he wants. 23 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: He always compares me to women on TV and pictures 24 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: on social media. He thinks he's being helpful if he 25 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: tells me that I should visit a popular dermatologist that 26 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: he saw on social media. If I ask him what's 27 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 1: wrong with my face, he says that he didn't mean 28 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: any harm. One day, I decided to pay him back, 29 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 1: and I pointed out a man that had a big, 30 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: huge bulge, big bulge in the front of his khakis. 31 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 1: I told my husband he should ask the guy what 32 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: kind of pants he was wearing, because they fit him 33 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: very nicely. My husband said that I was implying that 34 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: he was a small man down there and his feelings 35 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: were so hurt. He can't take it when I treat 36 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: him as bad as he treats me. I've found screenshots 37 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: of other women saved on his phone, and he talks 38 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: to his female friends in my presence, although we had 39 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: agreed that we shouldn't talk to our old friends of 40 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: the opposite sex. He does so many other things that 41 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: prove that our marriage is one sided. He said, he's 42 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: the king, but this queen has had enough. Why is 43 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: my husband so comfortable doing what he wants to do 44 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 1: because he just is. That's all I mean. He's a 45 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: typical dish it but can't take it type person. He's 46 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: living in his perfect world and he thinks he's too 47 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:29,239 Speaker 1: good to deal with your flaws. In other words, he's 48 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: too busy criticizing you to see himself in a different 49 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:38,839 Speaker 1: lighter to get himself together. He's playing a dangerous game, though, 50 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: because his ego is very fragile. We know that fragile egos, 51 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: they can't take it when you he can't definitely take it. 52 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: When you mentioned the other man's pants and how good 53 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: the other man looked in them, he was crushed by that. 54 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: He was crushed. But I got to tell you that 55 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: this tit for tat stuff that you guys are doing, 56 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,959 Speaker 1: it could get really, really ugly. And I can't understand 57 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: how you let this go this far. You guys have 58 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: known each other for seven years, married for four, especially 59 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: the cheating. You wrote it like you know, it was 60 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: so matter of factly. After seven years of marriage, I 61 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:18,399 Speaker 1: think you should be able to say anything and everything 62 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: to your husband, you know, including exactly how you feel 63 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: about his criticisms and put downs. 64 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 3: Steve, Wow, this whole letter to me is about a 65 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 3: person who doesn't and understand their power, because I want 66 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 3: to encourage women, and a lot of women don't need 67 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 3: what I'm about to say because they do it anyway. 68 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 3: But you got to understand your power. The subject is 69 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 3: this problem when I do it. This lady said that 70 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 3: she's sick of her husband controlling everything when it comes 71 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 3: to me and my happiness. But he don't deprive self 72 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 3: of any gun, not even other women. 73 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: Now, let's stop right here. 74 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 3: He don't deprive himself of nothing, not even other women. 75 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 4: Now. 76 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 3: I was really expecting to hear more in this letter 77 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 3: about that, because that's like crazy that you married but 78 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:28,159 Speaker 3: you don't have to deprive yourself of other women. I'm 79 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 3: very interested in this theory, very interested in knowing more 80 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 3: about this, because how does this work? We being together 81 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 3: seven married for folk, paid off all three of my 82 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 3: major credit cards, and y'all got a credit card together 83 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 3: that were planning on using for trips and major purchases. 84 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 3: All right, But he been ordering limited edition Jordan's on 85 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:57,919 Speaker 3: the card whenever he wants. But if I use the 86 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 3: card to order hair, he gotta fit. My hair is 87 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 3: just as important, if not more important. Than the latest shoe. 88 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 3: Let's stop right here. I must agree you have my full, 89 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 3: undivided one support. Hair is way more important than some Jordan's, right, 90 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 3: Ain't no doubt about it. 91 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 2: I ain't seen no Jordan's look better than a woman's hair. 92 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: I ain't seen the pair yet. 93 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 3: Now I must uh what you say when you are clarify, 94 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 3: I want to love, stipulate, point out, reate, reiterate, org 95 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 3: say this with the stipulation, I don't know the proper 96 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 3: word to use. And the dude that's listening to the 97 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 3: show that criticizes me, you know, I don't know what 98 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 3: the word is. 99 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 2: So he it is. 100 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 3: Anyway, I don't own a single pair of Jordan's. 101 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 2: Let me just put that out there. I don't have any. 102 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 3: Hair, so I have I'm not biased, yeah, in any way, 103 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 3: I ain't got no Jordan's and I ain't got no hair, 104 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 3: so I am totally totally impartial to this letter. But 105 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 3: I must agree that if I had to pick Jordan's 106 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 3: a half dog going it, I'm gonna have some hell, 107 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 3: and especially on my woman. 108 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 2: So let's just get. 109 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 3: That out the way and we'll be back with how 110 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 3: I really feel about this letter. 111 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Steve will have part two of your 112 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 113 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject it's the problem when I do it. 114 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 115 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 116 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 3: You can't let the urge to sing your favorite songs 117 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 3: while you're driving distract you from that truck drifting toward 118 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 3: your lane or that lane splitting biker creeping up beside you. Fortunately, 119 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 3: every Honday offers advanced safety features that can alert you 120 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 3: to potential dangers around you. 121 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 4: That's right, because Hondai is always working to ensure the 122 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 4: road doesn't get you. 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But then when 139 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 3: you order hair, he got a problem with that. You 140 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 3: saying your hair is just as important. I agree with 141 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 3: you now to let you know how impartial I am 142 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 3: in this letter. Let's be clear about this. Let me 143 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 3: set this straight for the record, so you know I'm 144 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 3: not on one side or the other. I ain't got 145 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 3: no Jordan's and I ain't got no. 146 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 1: Hair, So he's straight down the middle of Ooh, I. 147 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 3: Can speak on it. I think the hair is more 148 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 3: important now. He tries to justify everything if it's important 149 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,719 Speaker 3: to something that he wants. He always compares me to 150 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 3: women on TV and pictures on social media. He thinks 151 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 3: he's being helpful if he tells me I should visit 152 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 3: a popular dermatologist that he saw on social media, Well, 153 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 3: why don't you flip it? Why don't you carry your 154 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 3: little bumpy face down there too, because I'm pretty sure 155 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 3: your skin is more smooth than here. See you not 156 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 3: exacting your power. Now, he said something in this letter. 157 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 3: Let me just go to the last line and then 158 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 3: read this letter. The last line, he says, he is 159 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 3: the king. That's why he doing what he want to do. 160 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 3: But you're saying, but his queen has had enough. Why 161 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 3: is my husband so comfortable doing what he wants to do? 162 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 3: Because you ask the queen, are not exacting your power? Lady, 163 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 3: if you understood the game of chest a little bit, 164 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 3: maybe you can understand where I'm coming from. The most 165 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 3: powerful peace on the board is the queen. When you 166 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 3: lose your queen, you're making the game hard on you. 167 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 3: You can still be the king, but you don't have 168 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 3: the ultimate protector because the queen is gone. The queen 169 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 3: can move parallel, well horizontal. The queen can move diagonally. 170 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 3: Can the queen move diagonal? Now I'm not diagon A 171 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 3: queen can move, yeah, a queen can move diagonal. 172 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 2: A queen can move parallel, horizontal, vertical. 173 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 3: A queen can move forward back, which she can capture 174 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 3: in any direction. That's the only piece on the board 175 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 3: that has that power. Because the queen is the most 176 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 3: powerful piece on the board. You since to have given 177 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 3: up your power, so you let him tell you he 178 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 3: the king, but without the. 179 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:36,119 Speaker 2: Queen, his chances of winning are hampered. 180 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 3: You need your power back. He compares you to women 181 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 3: on TV and pictures on social media. Then go get 182 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 3: you one of you. 183 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 2: See, I'm gonna teach you how to talk like a queen. 184 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 2: He thinks he's being helpful. 185 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 3: He tempts you, tell me all to visit the popular 186 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 3: dermatologists he saw on TV. Eat you take your bumpy 187 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:59,599 Speaker 3: face down there too, And he always comparing you to 188 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 3: women on TV and social media. Bring up one of them. 189 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 3: Help us one more time and see what happened to you. 190 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 3: Then you decided to pay him back. One day you 191 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 3: showed a man that had a big bulge in front 192 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 3: of his khakis. I told my husband he should have 193 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 3: asked that guy what kind of pants he's wearing, because 194 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 3: it fit him very nicely. My husband said, I was 195 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,199 Speaker 3: implying that he's a small man down there, and. 196 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 2: His feelings were so hurt. The truth hurts. 197 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 3: Going to church hurts sometimes, especially when you think that 198 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 3: the sermon is about you. Then you asked the queen 199 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 3: should have said, well, I ain't saying you small, but 200 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 3: you ain't him though, ah swinging thinking, oh yes, switchy, twitchy, 201 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 3: oh yeah, get it, got it. You gotta start acting 202 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 3: like the queen. You got to let him know you 203 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 3: got some moves too. My husband said that I was 204 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 3: applying that he's a man down there and this fields hurt. 205 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 3: He can't take it when I treat him as bad 206 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 3: as he treats me. Stop accepting bad treatment, Ladies, I 207 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 3: say this to you all the time. You can train 208 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 3: a man how to treat you. All you got to 209 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 3: do is stop accepting bad behavior. Martin Luther King said, 210 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 3: a man can't ride your back like unless you bend over. 211 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 3: Stop bending over? What's wrong with you? You're the queen. I 212 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 3: found screenshots of other women saved on his phone. Take 213 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 3: his phone, take the SIM card out, throw it in 214 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:34,199 Speaker 3: the fireplace, crack the phone and give it back to him. 215 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 3: And you know why you did that, because I'm tired 216 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 3: of seeing these other women on your phone. That gets 217 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 3: you a better phone than ain't got all. 218 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 2: These women on this one, Okay, And. 219 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 3: Then show him your phone. 220 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 1: What's on her phone? 221 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 2: Men? 222 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 1: Men? 223 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, pictures of men muscular because he he ain't all 224 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 3: that I'm tell you that right now, he talks to 225 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 3: female friends in my presence. See you letting too much happen. Yeah, 226 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 3: you're allowing too much to happen. You're not talking nobody 227 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 3: in my face. What is wrong with you? You don't 228 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 3: command no respect, demand no respect, So you gets no respect. 229 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 3: When are you gonna start commanding and demanding. I'm telling 230 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 3: you you have to exact your power as a queen, period. 231 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 3: And we agree that we shouldn't talk to our old 232 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 3: friends of the opposite second, all right, he said, he 233 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:33,200 Speaker 3: the king and I'm the queen. 234 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 2: When you're gonna act. 235 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: Like Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve 236 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,719 Speaker 1: Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the 237 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app where free 238 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: never sounded so good, and you can download it. Today 239 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show