Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to this episode of Keep It Positive, Sweetie.
Speaker 1: This edition is positive Tea where you ask the questions
Speaker 1: and I provide the answer and a little tea. So
Speaker 1: let's get into it, shall we. So our first question
Speaker 1: is how do you feel knowing that people travel and
Speaker 1: come to church hoping that they will meet you, and
Speaker 1: that some people have even followed you after church. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say this. I do not feel like church is
Speaker 1: the place for anybody to be coming to see anybody
Speaker 1: except for Good. That's the only person you need to
Speaker 1: be coming to see when you come to the church house.
Speaker 1: And I feel like, in a way, it's playing with God,
Speaker 1: like I don't play it. That's that's my sacred time
Speaker 1: with him, you know. And people don't understand like when
Speaker 1: when people do stuff like that, especially to people in
Speaker 1: my situation, it can make people not want to come
Speaker 1: to church. I know a lot of celebrities that don't
Speaker 1: come because of those very reasons. They don't feel safe.
Speaker 1: And I did hear about that. I heard that somebody
Speaker 1: followed me after church, and it was very disturbing. And
Speaker 1: I don't want anybody. I want people to come because
Speaker 1: they see a light on me. And they want to
Speaker 1: be fed where I'm being fed. Eva Marcella and I
Speaker 1: had an episode together and she'd asked me, I want
Speaker 1: to come to church with you. I was like, absolutely,
Speaker 1: but what made you ask me to come to church?
Speaker 1: And she was like, you just got a light on
Speaker 1: you and I wanted to be fed where you were
Speaker 1: being fed. That's what I want, Like, I don't want
Speaker 1: to hide where I'm going to church because I want
Speaker 1: to bring as many people as I can to guide,
Speaker 1: but I don't want people coming just so they can
Speaker 1: meet me. And that is such a vulnerable space. When
Speaker 1: I'm in church, I'm at one with God. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to draw closer to Him, and I've had people come
Speaker 1: up to me asking me questions, want to take pictures,
Speaker 1: telling me how much the podcast means to them. And
Speaker 1: sometimes you don't know what a person's going through spiritually,
Speaker 1: And even when I'm leaving church, sometimes hours after church,
Speaker 1: I'm still encountering God and sometimes that's an interruption of
Speaker 1: that moment. And I say this because I appreciate every
Speaker 1: single one of you that watch me, that support me,
Speaker 1: that watch this podcast, that watch anything that I do.
Speaker 1: When I say with my whole heart. I love you
Speaker 1: guys so much, and I know that none of this
Speaker 1: will be possible without your love and support. And I
Speaker 1: don't take that for granted. But at the time, I
Speaker 1: don't take my walk with God lightly. And when I'm
Speaker 1: in that vulnerable space and sub submitting myself to Him
Speaker 1: and trying to really hear his word and what he
Speaker 1: says me from whatever Pasaderius Daniels is preaching, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: I'm literally like right there with God. And I've had
Speaker 1: I've been in tears. You witnessed this. I remember that
Speaker 1: literally in tears, like having a whole moment. It's like
Speaker 1: church is just it was amazing. It's every every sun
Speaker 1: is amazing. But this day I was having an encounter
Speaker 1: with God and a girl came up to Genora and
Speaker 1: was like what's said? Like is that Crystal or can
Speaker 1: I tell her?
Speaker 2: She just went up to you Like we turned around
Speaker 2: cause I was covering.
Speaker 1: You recover me yes, like we finishes, yes, and and
Speaker 1: you are like we're vitible to our seats.
Speaker 2: Yes, Like she just stops you and it's like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, can I get all Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was like a hey girl, and I'm like, you
Speaker 1: see like it's read the room. Like it's some moments
Speaker 1: where I just don't feel like people read the room.
Speaker 1: And I just want to say, like, when it comes
Speaker 1: to church, I do not play about that. I don't
Speaker 1: play about my relationship. I don't play about my my
Speaker 1: where I'm trying to get with God and I'm really
Speaker 1: on this journey'll where I am fragile, I'm vulnerable. God
Speaker 1: is breaking down walls in me. And when that is happening,
Speaker 1: I just feel like there's a boundary that needs to
Speaker 1: be kept, you know what I'm saying. And it's scary,
Speaker 1: you know, Like cause now I had to literally like think, Okay,
Speaker 1: do I need to lead church earlier? Do I need
Speaker 1: to drive a different car? Now I'm like thinking of
Speaker 1: like security things when I just want to go to church,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like thinking about, Okay, if
Speaker 1: I go to brunch, I wanted there's a black old
Speaker 1: brunch spot that's like right down the street that I
Speaker 1: love to go to and I like to support people,
Speaker 1: you know, But now I have to think, Okay, if
Speaker 1: I post where I am, then they're gonna start coming here,
Speaker 1: you know. And it's just crazy. So that even goes
Speaker 1: back to somebody asking you, asking me, is it different
Speaker 1: when I go out in public now? When they said
Speaker 1: that people were coming to church just to see me
Speaker 1: and hoping to that they would sit out in the
Speaker 1: parking lot and if I posted that I was in church,
Speaker 1: then they would come in hoping to get a picture
Speaker 1: with me. Don't do that, don't an and even like
Speaker 1: asking people to take pictures in church, I just don't
Speaker 1: feel like that's the place for that.
Speaker 2: It's just not the place. I think that like people
Speaker 2: that there's I it's like this to your point, like
Speaker 2: I we love and appreciate Yes, you love and appreciate you, right,
Speaker 2: and that you mean so much, and that to your point,
Speaker 2: the platform this what this podcast means.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, So there has to be sort.
Speaker 2: Of like over s respect for what church is in general,
Speaker 2: like this is a place where the week come to
Speaker 2: get strong. This is a place where you go to
Speaker 2: be replenished. And you said it so beautifully when you
Speaker 2: said you are interrupting a moment where God could be
Speaker 2: like could you imagine so being in the midst of
Speaker 2: receiving revelation and being put into and getting a word
Speaker 2: from God and getting the hum the spiritual hum that
Speaker 2: she did it from her father and you come up
Speaker 2: and you're like, can I get a picture?
Speaker 1: It's crazy, Like you just have to.
Speaker 2: I think that there's a part of you and your
Speaker 2: faith that you have to allow to believe that God
Speaker 2: will create an opportunity, an appropriate opportunity for you guys
Speaker 2: to meet. Yeah, Like, trust me, we're going to do
Speaker 2: a life show soon that is in the works, and
Speaker 2: meeting Greeks will absolutely happen that.
Speaker 1: The appropriate Yes, And even if you see me out
Speaker 1: like I and y'all, I'm the type of person and
Speaker 1: this is how I know it's I just don't play
Speaker 1: about God. You can see me anywhere else. You can
Speaker 1: tell me, oh my god, my mama loves you. I'm
Speaker 1: like collar. I'm that type of person. I'm black collar.
Speaker 1: And then your mama answered the phone. Like I've literally
Speaker 1: had people call their mom. I do it all the
Speaker 1: time because they're such a fan of Like my mom
Speaker 1: just loves you, or can I get a picture? I
Speaker 1: don't anywhere else. I'm going to give it to you
Speaker 1: because I appreciate you guys so much. Just have respect
Speaker 1: for the House of the Lord, because in that space
Speaker 1: it is not about Crystal. It is about God, and
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want it to even be about me.
Speaker 1: Don't like if you come, it's because you want to.
Speaker 1: I want to see where she's getting fed. I actually
Speaker 1: love the way Pastor Darius Daniels preaches to me. I
Speaker 1: love how I feel when I walk into Change Church.
Speaker 1: That's what I want you to come forward, not in
Speaker 1: hopes to see or meet me. And I hope this
Speaker 1: is received in the right way, because if you see
Speaker 1: me anywhere else, I d by all means please come up.
Speaker 1: But when I'm at church, just respect that that is
Speaker 1: a moment where I am really actively pursuing God. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yes, Like getting up and
Speaker 1: driving to church is me saying God, I'm gonna get up.
Speaker 1: I can easayly watch it from home and I have
Speaker 1: to worry about none of that. Yes, but it's not
Speaker 1: the same, not the same forsake and assembly, I gotta
Speaker 1: get into the house.
Speaker 2: It's not the same. And I think I think that
Speaker 2: there's something to be said about when you admire and
Speaker 2: respect someone. I think part of that admiration is respect,
Speaker 2: is respect of their boundaries. M and so you're not
Speaker 2: saying don't ever come up to me.
Speaker 1: Mm mm. You're just saying respec Yeah, that's not the place. Yeah, right, And.
Speaker 2: If that's what you're coming for, you have to check
Speaker 2: your intention. M You have to check if you're coming
Speaker 2: into the house.
Speaker 1: Of the Lord. Mm that woo oh yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 2: If you won't come into the house of the Little
Speaker 2: cause you wants to be Crystal, you have made Crystal
Speaker 2: your idol.
Speaker 1: Mm uh. And don't do that, child, And what does that?
Speaker 2: What does guy say about that?
Speaker 1: Mm mm? Have no other idols it for me? Do
Speaker 1: not do that? W y. I'm a jealous gud. He
Speaker 1: don't play about that. Yeah, and I ain't the perch.
Speaker 1: I'm'a look you, dick, which was closer to this one,
Speaker 1: did d do not idolize me? Yeah? Mm mm. You
Speaker 1: can look up to me, you can be inspired by me,
Speaker 1: but do not idolize me. Right, I'm telling you right now,
Speaker 1: don't do that, cause I'm human. I might let you down,
Speaker 1: but he won't. And i'm'a say that, do not do that.
Speaker 1: Mm mm. What conclusion the space? M my space? You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying that we if I cause I
Speaker 1: I went to fire night and I'm up there with everybody.
Speaker 1: I ain't know who I was next, I'm high five
Speaker 1: and people looking me in the eye. Talk to your
Speaker 1: neighbor like i'm'a do that. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm not where I'm like, I'm not gonna touch, don't touch.
Speaker 1: I'm not that girl like I'm gonna engage with people.
Speaker 1: But it's the right space and the right time. Also
Speaker 1: the humanity that we love about you, right that, Like, this.
Speaker 2: Is your moment where you're.
Speaker 1: Not Crystal from I got two of my own shows.
Speaker 1: Mm mm right, you're not Crystal has a significant platform
Speaker 1: with kids.
Speaker 2: You're not Crystal who you see on your favorite television shows.
Speaker 1: Do get interview. I'm Crystal, just God's baby, Crystal God's Yeah,
Speaker 1: the same way that you have come to be bad.
Speaker 1: I just wanted that's it. Who talk about like, oh.
Speaker 2: Celebrities, they act so stuck up normal, they don't do this,
Speaker 2: they don't I'm showing up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, as mean literally as me. Yeah. I wanted to
Speaker 1: walk out red, Yes, dying daily trying to get ready
Speaker 1: for the next week. Like come on now, that was
Speaker 1: good cause you're making Crystal your idol. Yes, that's scary.
Speaker 2: That is scary. That's scary. That's scary.
Speaker 1: Mm my goodness, could.
Speaker 2: You acknowledge it?
Speaker 1: Ugh? Hold you wake up with you attention of going
Speaker 1: to the House of God to.
Speaker 2: Meet someone on television?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Mm mm no, it's crazy.
Speaker 2: The House of God.
Speaker 1: Cause if you tell like, I wouldn't even be mad
Speaker 1: at you if you were like.
Speaker 2: Yo, I saw Crystal Pools.
Speaker 1: If that you was that whatever restaurant took, Yeah good,
Speaker 1: she likes to way. I'm'a go to helpful maybe ever
Speaker 1: that I run into it, that's different. With the house
Speaker 1: so good and then follow me from the House of
Speaker 1: God to lunch that is brave and small Scott's Scot's scary, Yeah, scary.
Speaker 1: So I'm grateful for my church buddies Marquise and Ryhanda, Keith,
Speaker 1: Keith high on me and m just make sure I
Speaker 1: feel safe. They saw me running out of church once
Speaker 1: and they were like, girl, you jetted out of here,
Speaker 1: And I was like, cause it's uncomfortable. It's really uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: Like I wanna to stay in this space and knowing
Speaker 1: like somebody is running up from the back to try
Speaker 1: to get to me, It's it's scary. Yeah, Wow. I
Speaker 1: know you do not mm, but inside you are Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you might be able to do some damage like
Speaker 1: a six five period the Real Network. Oh my god. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's get to the next question. I'll be twenty eight
Speaker 1: on twelve one. Dating has been terrible. I'm at a
Speaker 1: point where I wanna give up. Need advice. Ut, you're
Speaker 1: twenty eight, Listen. I think I was twenty six when
Speaker 1: I thought it was all over and I'd given up
Speaker 1: on love. But you have so much more living to do,
Speaker 1: so don't get caught up on the dating world. It's hard,
Speaker 1: and the older you get, it's gonna get even harder.
Speaker 1: So I would say focus on yourself right now. Love
Speaker 1: is gonna come. The right guy is gonna come. I
Speaker 1: think the more that you put attention on finding the
Speaker 1: right guy and being in a relationship, the hard is
Speaker 1: going to be to find it. So just focus on
Speaker 1: the things that you love, your passions and things that
Speaker 1: make you happy, and the right man'll come along. Okay.
Speaker 1: When Crystal isn't feeling her best? What is your go
Speaker 1: to gospel song? Huge fan? Right now? My favorite gospel
Speaker 1: song is kareinne Hawthorne's Look at God. I literally play
Speaker 1: this song at least once a day. My brother and
Speaker 1: I did a car chronicles on this song because I
Speaker 1: just love it so much. It reminds me of God's faithfulness.
Speaker 1: It reminds me that He's never left me alone, and
Speaker 1: every time I turn around, as the song says, there's
Speaker 1: more blessings and look at God. So that would definitely
Speaker 1: be my favorite song right now. What did you study
Speaker 1: in college? I studied mass communications with an emphasis in
Speaker 1: public relations and a minor in sociology. Let's see, how
Speaker 1: do you feel about dating someone younger than you and
Speaker 1: he's already matured child? I must say for the past
Speaker 1: five years I've dated younger than me. I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's just something about a mature younger guy keeps me youthful,
Speaker 1: So I definitely am not against it. But what I
Speaker 1: have found is that eventually their age catches up to you,
Speaker 1: so you'll start to realize they may be mature in
Speaker 1: certain areas, but they're not mature in all areas. Is
Speaker 1: there anything you would tell your younger self to be
Speaker 1: more patient with? Good question? I think I would tell
Speaker 1: my younger self, don't rush trying to get where you
Speaker 1: feel like you want to go enjoy the moment, be present.
Speaker 1: I think I missed out in so many moments because
Speaker 1: I was in such a rush to get to my
Speaker 1: dreams or to get married or find the right guy.
Speaker 1: I had all these different ideas of where I wanted
Speaker 1: to be that I wasn't being present. So that's one
Speaker 1: thing I would definitely tell my younger self, and to
Speaker 1: be patient with yourself. How does your days out differ
Speaker 1: now that more people recognize who you are? Oh my goodness, y'all.
Speaker 1: So it took me a minute to realize that I
Speaker 1: was famous and that people recognize me. My manager, do Nora,
Speaker 1: I'll tell her, Hey, I'm had to run into the
Speaker 1: story Cooks. She's like, You're not going in there by yourself,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, why not, Like nobody's gonna bother me.
Speaker 1: And then we get in the story and it's like
Speaker 1: people are like peeking behind shells, like can we get
Speaker 1: a picture with you? So it definitely is awkward at
Speaker 1: times because I forget. I think I'm just crystal. You know,
Speaker 1: I've lived my whole life moving the way I move,
Speaker 1: and to have to start making adjustments is definitely different.
Speaker 1: What is your favorite color and food? My favorite color
Speaker 1: is black. Y'all make so much fun of me because
Speaker 1: I wear black all the time. I love the color
Speaker 1: black because it goes with everything. And my favorite food
Speaker 1: would have to be Italian food. I love Italian food.
Speaker 1: I'm not a big leftovers person, but I will eat
Speaker 1: Italian food leftovers. It's always good the second day. How
Speaker 1: many tattoos do you have? So I have this angel
Speaker 1: tattoo right here. It is actually a cover up. It
Speaker 1: was my first tattoo. I had gotten my mother's name
Speaker 1: Helen in my handwriting tattooed on my wrist and I
Speaker 1: jumped because it hurts. So this is a very tender
Speaker 1: area to get a tattoo, so I end up getting
Speaker 1: it covered up with angel wings in a halo. I
Speaker 1: lost my mother's the age of two, so this is
Speaker 1: something that I look at daily and remember her. So
Speaker 1: that's one. I have music knows behind my ear. I
Speaker 1: have love on my middle finger. This was initially inspired
Speaker 1: by Rihanna when she had the love tattoo, and it
Speaker 1: means peace and love or f love just depending on
Speaker 1: the day, just being honest. And then I have carpe
Speaker 1: dim and Arabic on my side. I have tattoos I
Speaker 1: think are like six or seven tattoos in total. Let's see,
Speaker 1: do you want children? If so, have you considered freezing
Speaker 1: your eggs? So I have a friend that like literally
Speaker 1: hits me every birthday and reminds me that I'm getting
Speaker 1: old and that I need to freeze my eggs. I'm like, girl,
Speaker 1: if you don't leave me alone, I'll do it when
Speaker 1: I feel like doing it. I used to put so
Speaker 1: much pressure on myself about having children because I felt
Speaker 1: like I was getting older. Society like literally pushes it
Speaker 1: down your throat that you're getting older, and the older
Speaker 1: you get, you're not gonna be able to have children.
Speaker 1: So for a long time I did put a lot
Speaker 1: of pressure on myself. I have not gotten my eggs
Speaker 1: frozen yet. It is something I think about, but I
Speaker 1: also want to keep hope that if it's in the
Speaker 1: cars me, God will let it happen naturally. So at
Speaker 1: this point in my life, I'm not focused on it.
Speaker 1: It's not something I'm like, Ooh, I want to have
Speaker 1: kids and that I'm in a hurry to do. But
Speaker 1: the thought has crossed my mind to freeze my eggs.
Speaker 1: How do did you deal with body dysmorphia. I'm struggling
Speaker 1: to love and accept myself. For me, this is good.
Speaker 1: I struggle with it. It was mainly because of this phone. Really,
Speaker 1: it was mainly because of this phone that I had
Speaker 1: body this more feel because I was getting on Instagram
Speaker 1: every day and seeing all these girls with a perfect
Speaker 1: body that wasn't real. But you couldn't tell me that.
Speaker 1: I didn't know at that point. I didn't know that
Speaker 1: there was apps that you could like cometo your body
Speaker 1: and make you look perfect till you start seeing people
Speaker 1: in real life and be like, oh, you don't look
Speaker 1: anything like you doing your pictures. And then that's when
Speaker 1: I realized this wasn't a real thing. And a lot
Speaker 1: of times body dys morphia comes from comparison, or for
Speaker 1: me at least, that's what it was. I was comparing
Speaker 1: myself to other women for what I thought men wanted,
Speaker 1: and looking at myself thinking well, I don't look like
Speaker 1: these girls, and you start to feel bad about yourself.
Speaker 1: What I would do is look at yourself every morning
Speaker 1: and say that I'm beautiful the way I am, and
Speaker 1: I love myself the way God made me. Now there
Speaker 1: are things that you could do, you know, to look
Speaker 1: better by working out or eating a healthier diet. You know,
Speaker 1: there's things that you could do to make your body
Speaker 1: look the best that it can look. But never feel
Speaker 1: like your body isn't good enough the way God created,
Speaker 1: because if everybody looked the same, then it'd be a
Speaker 1: very boring world. It's like you the perfect the way
Speaker 1: you are. How do you chase dreams if you have
Speaker 1: very very low self esteem? What steps or advice would
Speaker 1: you give? This is a really good question. Honestly, you can't.
Speaker 1: I feel like until you have the confidence to know
Speaker 1: that you can do what you set your mind to,
Speaker 1: you won't be able to set out and do it.
Speaker 1: So you have to work on yourself first, do the
Speaker 1: self work, and then figure out what it is that
Speaker 1: you want to work towards. And once you build that
Speaker 1: confidence up to know that, hey, this is what I
Speaker 1: want to do and I can do it, you're gonna
Speaker 1: be fun. Is it normal to feel nervous about starting therapy.
Speaker 1: I'm on an emotional rollercoaster, ma'am. Yes, I'm telling you
Speaker 1: right now. I started therapy last year and it didn't
Speaker 1: work out for me. I was like, this isn't for me.
Speaker 1: And because I was scared to open up. I wasn't
Speaker 1: being honest with the therapist because I really didn't feel
Speaker 1: that trust with her. It wasn't until this year that
Speaker 1: I found someone that I can completely let my guard
Speaker 1: down with and just be honest with. And that's when
Speaker 1: I started to get help. So I would say, the
Speaker 1: first thing you need to do is find somebody that
Speaker 1: you trust, talk to you try. I mean you can
Speaker 1: date therapists, not date them, but like you can literally
Speaker 1: like see, okay, who fits me? Like who do I
Speaker 1: connect the most with? Find that person and then stick
Speaker 1: with that person, because if you don't have that connection
Speaker 1: with them, you're never gonna grow the way you need to,
Speaker 1: at least to the maximum potential that you have to grow.
Speaker 1: I want to know what helps you with your walk
Speaker 1: with God and reading the Bible. Honestly, the thing that
Speaker 1: helps me with my walk with God is knowing and
Speaker 1: experiencing the mercy of God and his grace. I have
Speaker 1: done things that I've been ashamed of, things that I've
Speaker 1: been guilty of, and carry that guilt and shame, and
Speaker 1: to see how God continues to show his love just
Speaker 1: draws me closer to him and as far as reading
Speaker 1: the Bible. I had talked about this on my one
Speaker 1: of my stories that Country Wayne, when I did an
Speaker 1: episode with him. He had talked about how he had
Speaker 1: read the Bible seven times and he was on his
Speaker 1: eighth trip through the Bible, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: my goodness, I hadn't made through it one time. So
Speaker 1: I was going through a really dark season, and I
Speaker 1: think sometimes in those seasons is when God really tugs
Speaker 1: at you. And I had just had this conversation and
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, I want to read
Speaker 1: the Bible. I don't want to just talk to God.
Speaker 1: I don't want to just walk with him. I really
Speaker 1: want to know and live his word. So that's what
Speaker 1: inspired me. And the thing that keeps me going is
Speaker 1: his grace and mercy. Hey, my lever says, tell me
Speaker 1: what you use on your skin, it's always glowing. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you, miss Robinson. Well, I used Keels facial wash.
Speaker 1: I use this serum by land Coombe at night time,
Speaker 1: end of the daytime. I'm telling you I'm gonna post
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Speaker 1: It is so good. It has hieronic acid in it,
Speaker 1: game changer. I use Tacha's Rice Polish, which is a
Speaker 1: really light exfoliant that I love to use, which helps
Speaker 1: give you the glow that you want. And I use
Speaker 1: Sunday Raleigh Ceo Glow so those be like my top things.
Speaker 1: And moisturize, moisturized morsturize. I use Kills Ultra Facial moisturizer.
Speaker 1: I just wanna check in on you. How have you
Speaker 1: been coping recently? I love you? Oh you know what.
Speaker 1: Only a few people ask me how I am doing,
Speaker 1: and I appreciate that. Thank you so much. Mercy Lee.
Speaker 1: You know I'm doing good. I'm doing good and I
Speaker 1: am taking things one day at a time, letting God
Speaker 1: take the lead, just following him and letting him order
Speaker 1: my steps, learning to let go of being in control
Speaker 1: of everything. I'm in a season where I'm not in control,
Speaker 1: so I have no no choice but to let God
Speaker 1: take the lead in this season. So that's how I'm doing.
Speaker 1: I'm doing good, though, thank you for asking. How do
Speaker 1: you deal with negative vibes from close friends? We don't
Speaker 1: do bad vibes over here. That's it's non negotiable. But no,
Speaker 1: I don't deal with it for me. If I'm feeling
Speaker 1: some negativity coming on. I do like to ask people, Hey,
Speaker 1: what's going on? I'm sensing this, how are you feeling?
Speaker 1: Because I'm big on energy, so I can I clock
Speaker 1: it immediately when something's not right with people that especially
Speaker 1: people I care about. So if you're my friend, I'm
Speaker 1: already gonna be in tune with you and how you
Speaker 1: normally are, so I'm gonna ask you first. But if
Speaker 1: it's something that continues to happen and you can't shake it,
Speaker 1: then I may start to put some distance between us
Speaker 1: until you can figure that out on your own. Because
Speaker 1: life is too short, you know, and everybody's going through something,
Speaker 1: but your mindset and could maintaining a positive attitude is
Speaker 1: what's going to help push you through. So yeah, no
Speaker 1: bad vibes over here. Hi, Chris, I'm moving for the
Speaker 1: first time by myself out of state. What advice would
Speaker 1: you give me? This is good because I did this
Speaker 1: when I graduated college. I left Martin, Tennessee. I went
Speaker 1: to Washington, d C. Which is a huge move night
Speaker 1: and day from where I'm from. Like literally we speak
Speaker 1: and we wave at people when we pass them in
Speaker 1: the car. Like we can literally be driving down the
Speaker 1: road and you wave with people, we walk past some
Speaker 1: when you speak, you get to DC and I'm like,
Speaker 1: you would have thought I had horns grown out of
Speaker 1: my head because I spoke to somebody. So it was
Speaker 1: a big adjustment. So what I would say is, when
Speaker 1: you move, learn to learn your environment. You know, that's
Speaker 1: the first thing I would say. Keep your head on
Speaker 1: a swivel. I'm not sure where you're moving from and
Speaker 1: where you're moving to, but know your surroundings. Find a
Speaker 1: good community, find a good church home, and I would
Speaker 1: say to make sure that wherever you go that you
Speaker 1: have a good foundation and stay in touch with your family.
Speaker 1: For me, it was always going back home and keeping
Speaker 1: my roots intact and making sure that I didn't forget
Speaker 1: where I came from. So that would be the advice
Speaker 1: that I would give you, and best of luck. How
Speaker 1: do you balance pouring into people without draining your cup dry? Who? Child?
Speaker 1: This is good? You know what. I honestly feel like
Speaker 1: there was a point in my life where I felt
Speaker 1: like my cup was being dried because I was looking
Speaker 1: for reciprocation from the people that I was pouring into.
Speaker 1: But once I realized that it's not always about who
Speaker 1: you're pouring into, You're gonna it's gonna come back. It
Speaker 1: always comes out. When you put out good and give
Speaker 1: for others, it's going to come back. But sometimes you
Speaker 1: can think your cup is running dry and you're running
Speaker 1: low because of the people that you're poured into. You're
Speaker 1: not seeing that giving back to you. So I'm not
Speaker 1: sure if that's your situation, but I would say that
Speaker 1: continue to give out the goodness of your heart. If
Speaker 1: you do feel like people are taking advantage of you,
Speaker 1: then you have to be cognizant of that. But I
Speaker 1: would continue to give and know that it's always going
Speaker 1: to come back to you, and your code will always
Speaker 1: be full and it'll always flow over. Do you have
Speaker 1: a favorite book of the Bible? If so, which one
Speaker 1: is it and why exactly that book? I was just
Speaker 1: telling Tonor this. I love the Book of James. It
Speaker 1: gives so many life lessons, especially when you're going through
Speaker 1: trials and tribulations. It's such a good book to go to.
Speaker 1: I went to this church. I was going to Passion City.
Speaker 1: I was going to Passion City at the time, and
Speaker 1: Pastor Louis Giglio had us do a whole study the
Speaker 1: whole church had to literally study the Book of James
Speaker 1: and we broke it down and it was such a
Speaker 1: life changing month for us. But I would have to
Speaker 1: say the Book of James, let's see, why is your
Speaker 1: faith walk with Christ so important to you? Especially with
Speaker 1: many not willing to acknowledge God publicly. Great question, Crystal Tash,
Speaker 1: good question. You know what? For me, like you said,
Speaker 1: people are not willing to acknowledge Him publicly. For me,
Speaker 1: especially in my industry, a lot of people don't acknowledge him,
Speaker 1: you know, behind closed doors. They have faith and they
Speaker 1: have a religion and they believe in whatever they believe in,
Speaker 1: but they don't talk about it publicly. For me, God
Speaker 1: has been too good for me not to talk about it,
Speaker 1: you know, Like I just I'm telling you, like where
Speaker 1: I come from, and just to look around and see
Speaker 1: everything that God is doing in my life and the
Speaker 1: people that I'm close to in their lives. Who am
Speaker 1: I not to give Him the praise? Who are not
Speaker 1: to talk about him? This is like the best thing
Speaker 1: that's ever happened to me. When you in a relationship
Speaker 1: and you meet somebody, what's the first thing you gonna do?
Speaker 1: You can be telling everybody, right exactly, you meet this
Speaker 1: fine man like you wanna tell everybody you can see
Speaker 1: the people you don't even know. Girl, I met this
Speaker 1: guy and I really think he the one. Why wouldn't
Speaker 1: I do that about the God who's been cons the
Speaker 1: most consistent person in my life? So that's why I
Speaker 1: think it's important. I don't know why people shy away
Speaker 1: from it, but I definitely am not the one to
Speaker 1: do that. I'm gonna let you know. Book recommendations. One
Speaker 1: of my favorite books is The Alchemist. I'd be remiss
Speaker 1: if I didn't say Activate Your Greatness by my friend
Speaker 1: Alex Tucsont. What's another book I love? Will by Will Smith?
Speaker 1: That was a great book. I love reading books that
Speaker 1: tell stories about people who I admire, just to learn
Speaker 1: what they went through to get to where they are today.
Speaker 1: The Four Agreement was a good book, and Five Love
Speaker 1: Languages that was a good one because especially when your
Speaker 1: relationships are trying to find love, it's important to know
Speaker 1: how to love your partner, and sometimes that doesn't look
Speaker 1: like the type of love that you want. So that
Speaker 1: was a really good book as well. How do you
Speaker 1: find the time for yourself when everybody is always needing
Speaker 1: you for something good question. You know what. I think
Speaker 1: it's important to carve out time for yourself because you
Speaker 1: can get burned out really quick if all you're doing
Speaker 1: is making sure everybody else is good. You have to
Speaker 1: make sure you're good as well. For me, I go
Speaker 1: to the gym, I work out. That's my time. I
Speaker 1: put my headphones on and listen to my music and
Speaker 1: I don't even want to be interrupted. Like it really
Speaker 1: bothers me when people come up to me in the
Speaker 1: gym and you see I got my headphones on, but
Speaker 1: you want to have a conversation like this is my time.
Speaker 1: It's a part of my therapy as well, outside of
Speaker 1: my actually therapy sessions with my therapist. I love hot yoga.
Speaker 1: That's another way for me to disconnect cause you can't
Speaker 1: have phones in there, and for that hour, I know
Speaker 1: that I can just focus on Crystal and my well being.
Speaker 1: In the morning, I take time, I pray, I read
Speaker 1: my Bible, I meditate a journal. These are all things
Speaker 1: that I can that you as well can do to
Speaker 1: make time for yourself. So you can't pour from an
Speaker 1: empty cups, so you gotta definitely pour into yourself one day,
Speaker 1: Can we get an album for you guys. Everybody keeps
Speaker 1: asking me this. I love music. I love to sing.
Speaker 1: I'm singing all day like anybody who's around me, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be singing. But when I moved to Atlanta, I
Speaker 1: was pursuing music and I feel like I'm finally living
Speaker 1: out my true passion in acting. And I love music.
Speaker 1: I would love to do musical. I would love to
Speaker 1: do Broadway maybe one day, but I don't want to,
Speaker 1: like actually do an album. I thought about it even
Speaker 1: in the strike. I was like, maybe I should put
Speaker 1: out a little EP or something, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I just I've had people
Speaker 1: call me and asked me, let's do some work. But
Speaker 1: it has to really be the right moment. It has
Speaker 1: to be with people that I'm inspired by, has to
Speaker 1: be good energy. So I'm not gonna say never, but
Speaker 1: it would have to be on my terms, and it
Speaker 1: would definitely be like an independent route. I would want
Speaker 1: to have full control of it and have fun with it,
Speaker 1: because sometimes when you get under these big labels, you
Speaker 1: lose the creativity and then it's not fun anymore. So
Speaker 1: I'll never say never, but not today. We'll see if
Speaker 1: you could redo any moment of your healing journey, what
Speaker 1: would it be. That's a good question. I guess it
Speaker 1: would be when I first started therapy, if I could
Speaker 1: redo that part, and maybe not redo it because now
Speaker 1: I'm with the right therapist, but I would have been
Speaker 1: more honest because I was not honest with her, Like
Speaker 1: there was so many things that I was not willing
Speaker 1: to share because I just didn't feel comfortable sharing it.
Speaker 1: But I do feel like if I had to change anything,
Speaker 1: I would have tried to be more honest in that
Speaker 1: moment to possibly get further in my healing process. What's
Speaker 1: your go to strategy for fighting self doubt? It's been
Speaker 1: a major block in my productivity. Uh, you know what.
Speaker 1: I did a movie where I played the first Lady
Speaker 1: and I sang. Can't talk about it, but you know
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. And there was so many amazing
Speaker 1: singers in this film, and I was recording with the
Speaker 1: CEO of the recording Academy grabbed me winning producers, and
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I'm the best singer in the
Speaker 1: you know, I know I can sing, but like you
Speaker 1: put me up against some other people and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I can't do what they can do. And I remember
Speaker 1: walking into the studio really kind of doubting myself and
Speaker 1: just like we were just having me. Let me hit
Speaker 1: the notes, let me sound good, let me impress them.
Speaker 1: I hope they like me. I hope I do a
Speaker 1: good job. I hope I don't get cut and ended
Speaker 1: up being one of the producers and the actual producers
Speaker 1: of the movie. It ended up being one of their
Speaker 1: favorite songs of the soundtrack. And I remember that moment.
Speaker 1: I really I knew I could sing, and I walked
Speaker 1: in and did the job. And it had been so
Speaker 1: long since I had been in the studio, so I
Speaker 1: had all these feelings of self doubt going through my head.
Speaker 1: But once I got in there and they were like excited,
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, Chris, so you got this. Stop
Speaker 1: thinking that. Don't compare yourself to anybody. And that's what
Speaker 1: I was doing. I was literally comparing myself to all
Speaker 1: these amazing singers that were also in the film, and
Speaker 1: that was stealing the joy in that moment. So I
Speaker 1: had to put that out and it was such an
Speaker 1: a experience after I let go of that self doubt.
Speaker 1: When dating, how do you know when his concerns about
Speaker 1: me are valid or when he is insecured. Hmm, that's good. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I feel like insecurities show up in how they present
Speaker 1: it to you. You know, you can kind of tell,
Speaker 1: like the way a man if he continues to bring
Speaker 1: up something, whether it's really about how it made him feel,
Speaker 1: or if it's something that he's really not comfortable or
Speaker 1: insecure about with his own situation. I have had situations
Speaker 1: where I've dated a guy and my success may have
Speaker 1: been an insecurity where it wasn't in the beginning, but
Speaker 1: eventually it ended up being one. But then you have
Speaker 1: situations where your guy expresses and communicates you healthy way
Speaker 1: and says, hey, babe, this is bothering me, or hey babe,
Speaker 1: you think we can do this a little different. That's
Speaker 1: not an insecurity, that's him letting you know, hey, this
Speaker 1: bothers me. Because we all have those situations where something
Speaker 1: bothers us and we want to express it to our
Speaker 1: significant other. But I feel like it's a way to
Speaker 1: tell your partner what's bothering you. But you can tell
Speaker 1: between when it's like a valid point or it's coming
Speaker 1: up because it's an insecurity at least for me. I
Speaker 1: can you said, this year on a healing journey, what
Speaker 1: was the painful yet beautiful thing that you had to do? Ooh,
Speaker 1: that's a good question, hey, Jade, I just realized to
Speaker 1: roth this hijade on this journey, I feel like being
Speaker 1: honest with myself, being transparent about my past with my
Speaker 1: therapist has been the hardest yet most beautiful thing, because
Speaker 1: when you start unpacking what you've been through a lot
Speaker 1: of times as a child, you don't even realize the
Speaker 1: Dutchman and how like bad some of these things were
Speaker 1: that you went through until someone starts to explain it
Speaker 1: to you. So I feel like that's the hardest part,
Speaker 1: but the most beautiful part is realizing that you are
Speaker 1: healing past it and that you're able to forgive those
Speaker 1: people you know without holding on to some of those memories.
Speaker 1: That was a really good question, Jake. I lost a
Speaker 1: parent when I was six months. It affects me. Did
Speaker 1: your mom passing affect you? It did. I was two
Speaker 1: years old when my mom passed, and I at that
Speaker 1: age you don't really remember, just like you you were
Speaker 1: six months, You don't remember the moments, You just hear
Speaker 1: the memories of what people have told you, But as
Speaker 1: you grow up, there is something about having your biological
Speaker 1: mother or father in your life and you start to wonder, mm,
Speaker 1: I wonder what this would be like if they were here.
Speaker 1: I wonder what she would be like. I wonder what
Speaker 1: my life would be like. I wonder what our relationship
Speaker 1: would be like. You grow up with so many questions
Speaker 1: that she'll never have the answer to because you never
Speaker 1: get to experience them. And for me, I definitely deal
Speaker 1: with that. It's crazy because people like, well, you were young,
Speaker 1: you don't remember that. Like if I could t, I
Speaker 1: could understand it. If you were older and lost your mom,
Speaker 1: then that's different, but it's not. You know, it's not
Speaker 1: any different to lose your mother or father at a
Speaker 1: younger age or an older age. It's still a loss,
Speaker 1: you know. And sometimes I feel like at least you
Speaker 1: got to experience your mother or father for the kids
Speaker 1: who actually got to experience them for the time that
Speaker 1: they were here, versus never getting to experience them. So
Speaker 1: I'm praying for you because I know that is difficult.
Speaker 1: And some days you're good, and then other days you
Speaker 1: start to have questions when feeling down, what are some
Speaker 1: things you do to help yourself get out of that space.
Speaker 1: I have a good friend Nina. Nina someone right, She
Speaker 1: is a hoot y'all. Like, I can call this girl
Speaker 1: anytime any day and she's gonna make me laugh. So
Speaker 1: any time feeling down, that's one thing that I can do.
Speaker 1: I also like to go sit at the bar at
Speaker 1: one of my favorite restaurants. I'tna let y'all know, cause
Speaker 1: y'all be trying to pop up where I'll be. Let
Speaker 1: me sip some tea, you know, But I like to
Speaker 1: go eat by myself sometimes, drink my favorite little lemon
Speaker 1: drop martini. Drake my little limon drop martini and enjoin
Speaker 1: me a nice steak, and you know, just sit with
Speaker 1: my other single friends at the bar. That's something I
Speaker 1: like to do. And I call my nephew. I have
Speaker 1: a he's about two years old. I call him, and
Speaker 1: that little boy, he doesn't pay me any attention when
Speaker 1: I FaceTime him. He's running around trying to show off.
Speaker 1: Look if I can shoot the ball. But talking to him,
Speaker 1: I pretty much talked to him every day and he
Speaker 1: lists my spirits so much. Shout out Hendricks. How do
Speaker 1: you patiently wait for the mate? God? Designed for you.
Speaker 1: That's good. That's your name, Shae, Shae, that's a really
Speaker 1: good question. I had said this before you. Sometimes we
Speaker 1: get so caught up in God, when are you gonna
Speaker 1: bring my man? Like, I'm so tired of doing this
Speaker 1: by myself. I want to be with somebody. I want
Speaker 1: a companion. I'm not supposed to be in this alone.
Speaker 1: And I finally reached a point in my life where
Speaker 1: I'm okay with whatever God has for me. I am,
Speaker 1: I genuinely am, and I've learned to be okay with
Speaker 1: being by myself. But if God does bring someone, I
Speaker 1: know with everything that I've had to go through, Lord,
Speaker 1: please let him be designed for me, because as long
Speaker 1: as I've had to wait, I need you to bring
Speaker 1: him ready. Okay, that is what I am praying for
Speaker 1: in this day, And Shay, I hope that happens for
Speaker 1: you too, But I would say just stay patient and
Speaker 1: know that if it's in the car show, it's gonna happen.
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you, the longer you just focus on that,
Speaker 1: it's only gonna drive you crazy. I know it did
Speaker 1: for me because I would be in here sad, like
Speaker 1: for real, sad thinking God where is my man, So
Speaker 1: just don't fixate on that right now. Just enjoy your life.
Speaker 1: You are a beautiful girl or a woman, and God's
Speaker 1: gonna bring somebody just for you. I know he will
Speaker 1: on a first date. And do you drive your own
Speaker 1: car or do you let him pick you up? Honestly,
Speaker 1: it depends on who it is. I know on a
Speaker 1: one first date that I had, it was he was
Speaker 1: out of town guy, so I had my driver get
Speaker 1: him and then he got me cause I'm we're gonna
Speaker 1: go out to eating. I don't do drinking and driving.
Speaker 1: I do not. I don't promote that at all, so
Speaker 1: I always like to make sure I have safety first.
Speaker 1: But most of the time I would say meet them
Speaker 1: there in my own car. Cause if it's a bad day, girl,
Speaker 1: you want to leave, So yeah, I would say drive
Speaker 1: your own car. And then you just don't want anybody
Speaker 1: knowing where you live either, So drive your own car,
Speaker 1: meet him there, see how it goes, and then eventually,
Speaker 1: if you feel safe enough, then you can have him
Speaker 1: come pick you up like an honorable man should. But yeah,
Speaker 1: meet him there, girl, because if it's bad, you want
Speaker 1: to be able to dip. How do you navigate your
Speaker 1: anxiety through this strike. That's a good question. I've had
Speaker 1: my moments and I've shared it with Genora, my manager.
Speaker 1: She'll call me and like, oh girl, I almost slipped today.
Speaker 1: Like I have my moments, so like, oh God, when
Speaker 1: is this gonna be over? You know? And every time
Speaker 1: I have a moment of day out, God provides or
Speaker 1: he sends a sign that hey, I got you. What
Speaker 1: are you worried about? And one thing that the Denoor
Speaker 1: I mean Delena, Delana denor Delena, my therapist told me,
Speaker 1: is that you have everything you need and you lack nothing.
Speaker 1: And when I took on that mantra, and then just
Speaker 1: to know that as I'm studying the Word of God,
Speaker 1: that everything God promised to me, no matter what, He's
Speaker 1: going to keep his promise, So why am I worried?
Speaker 1: So I started to actually practice the scriptures that I'm
Speaker 1: studying every day and that has helped me through my anxiety.
Speaker 1: I'm happy to say that I have not had any
Speaker 1: anxiety attacks since I started therapy because I expressed to
Speaker 1: you guys my first one and I haven't had another
Speaker 1: one since then. So I'm grateful for that. But thank
Speaker 1: you for asking that what advice do you have for
Speaker 1: someone who self sabotages Listen. I feel like self sabotaging
Speaker 1: comes from a feeling of unworthiness and well, you don't
Speaker 1: feel like you deserve something, you'll mess it up yourself,
Speaker 1: you know, And we've got to get out of that mindset.
Speaker 1: We have to know that we are worthy, that we
Speaker 1: deserve whatever it is that we're going for. But sometimes
Speaker 1: we miss out on a really good thing, whether it's
Speaker 1: relationships with good friends, whether it's relationships with significant others
Speaker 1: that you're maybe dating, or opportunities. You kind of sabotage
Speaker 1: yourself out of it because you don't feel like you're
Speaker 1: good enough. If we get outside of that, you'll realize
Speaker 1: that you'll probably stop self sabotaging yourself. What's been your
Speaker 1: favorite episode to record? Ooh, are so many. It would
Speaker 1: have to be the Country Wayne episode. That was a
Speaker 1: good episode. Wayne is very insightful, he's funny and and
Speaker 1: I think we all saw a side of Way that
Speaker 1: we had never seen before. At least you guys commented
Speaker 1: that you had, so I would definitely say that's my
Speaker 1: favorite one so far. A very make sure you go
Speaker 1: back and watch it if you haven't I watch all
Speaker 1: of them. They're all great. What has changed about you
Speaker 1: since you've gotten closer to God. That's a great question.
Speaker 1: I think the biggest thing that has changed about me is, honestly,
Speaker 1: a lot of things have changed, the type of music
Speaker 1: I listened to. I'm really conscious of what I allowed
Speaker 1: into my body. We don't even realize that the things
Speaker 1: that we see, the things that we hear, how much
Speaker 1: they influence us in our decisions. And sometimes we don't
Speaker 1: even know that it's influencing us so much. So I
Speaker 1: would say that it's also allowed me to be more
Speaker 1: allowed me to give more grace to people. You know,
Speaker 1: and my friend Nina, who I just talked about earlier,
Speaker 1: she said to me, She's like, girl, you so patient
Speaker 1: with people. And I think I have gained an ability
Speaker 1: to see people for where they are, and sometimes you
Speaker 1: can tell like you're not a bad person, you're just
Speaker 1: in a bad space right now, or I actually know
Speaker 1: where you are because I've been there, and that allows
Speaker 1: me to give people grace to find their own way.
Speaker 1: So I think that's the one thing that's happened to
Speaker 1: me since I've grown close to to God. Let's see,
Speaker 1: how do you forgive people when you haven't received an apology. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a sip on it, because my pastor
Speaker 1: just preached on this and he said, go on and
Speaker 1: forgive them, you know why, cause sometimes you're not gonna
Speaker 1: get that apology and that's okay. And a lot of
Speaker 1: times forgiveness is not about the other person. It's about
Speaker 1: your own self healing. And when he said that, I said, ah, yes,
Speaker 1: Shad told by Yata baby mom. I said, that's it.
Speaker 1: It's about your own self healing and when you can
Speaker 1: get over whatever the person did without receiving an apology.
Speaker 1: Cause some people are just not gonna own up to
Speaker 1: what they've done, and that is okay, nothing do. But
Speaker 1: don't allow that to ruin your heart for other people.
Speaker 1: Don't allow that to even harden your heart towards them,
Speaker 1: you know, pray for them, wish them well, forgive. You
Speaker 1: don't have to forget, cause you're not gonna forget. You're
Speaker 1: never forgnna. You're never gonna forget what someone did to you.
Speaker 1: But you can always forgive them for your own heart.
Speaker 1: And that's what I would say, because a lot of
Speaker 1: times we don't know we're doing ourselves more damage than
Speaker 1: they are cause they're not thinking about you. They hurt.
Speaker 1: I've hurt the next person that they're not gonna apologize to.
Speaker 1: So I would say, make sure you just forgive so
Speaker 1: that you can move on with a pure heart. Y'all. Funny, y'all,
Speaker 1: so nosy, But I did tell y'all to ask me anything.
Speaker 1: So this one says, who am I dating at the
Speaker 1: present moment? I am single. And what I want to
Speaker 1: say is that we film these episodes, farty, miss, I
Speaker 1: don't know what I'm gonna be doing by the time
Speaker 1: you watch this. I might be a relationship. You don't say,
Speaker 1: we don't know, So like people like, well, she was single,
Speaker 1: now she's not, Now she in a relationship. It's kind
Speaker 1: of confusing, y'all, but don't worry about it. It ain't
Speaker 1: your business. It ain't your business. But yeah, I just
Speaker 1: know that I'm happy, you know, and I love that
Speaker 1: y'all care so much about who I'm in a relationship with.
Speaker 1: And it's not something that I will ever hide. But
Speaker 1: it also isn't something that I may overly share, you know,
Speaker 1: because I share so much of my life with you guys.
Speaker 1: There's some things that I do want to keep to
Speaker 1: myself until the time is right, and I'm really big
Speaker 1: on until you're my husband. I'm I'm not gonna share
Speaker 1: that platform with just anybody. So when y'all see me
Speaker 1: walk down at aisle, then y'all know, okay. But in
Speaker 1: the meantime, in between times, it ain't none of your business,
Speaker 1: all right, because they do be like cause I'll say
Speaker 1: this and then like I may like be a relationship
Speaker 1: and they're like, wait what you just said? Production, Yes,
Speaker 1: get it together. Thank you guys so much for tuning
Speaker 1: into this episode of Keep It Positive. Sweety, I really
Speaker 1: enjoyed this. One of you guys did too. This is
Speaker 1: actually Denoor's idea to have you guys ask questions and
Speaker 1: me answer them, and y'all someone in questions y'all was
Speaker 1: asking mm hm, y'all, fuddy boy, y'all real fun. I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna tell y'all everything, but we went through them
Speaker 1: and there was some really really good questions. So I'm
Speaker 1: happy we got to do this, and I think I
Speaker 1: want to do this again. So if you guys want
Speaker 1: to write into our Positive Outcomes listening letter, you can
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Speaker 1: are amazing. They always hit home. Make sure you check
Speaker 1: her out in the meantime in between times, you guys
Speaker 1: know what to do. Keep it positive, sweet tea, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep drinking my positive the t M I
Speaker 1: d Ort said, y'all get into it? Do you or
Speaker 1: respond to me?
Speaker 2: Reach out to brother.
Speaker 1: Christal Ebondega s heaping knock gone but not for real
Speaker 1: reminds me cause yeah, I'll take him if you adore me?
Speaker 1: Do you or me? Come on the York, Come on now,