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Come celebrate 9 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: Mother's Day at Whole Foods Market. 10 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 2: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 11 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 2: Rod and Karen are hot. 12 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 3: One day, I was trying to be myself. 13 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 4: The same day this Doug said, you gotta come hard 14 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 4: nigga times. 15 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 3: It's hard. 16 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 4: I'm trying hard to make it. It ain't hard to tell. 17 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 4: It's hard for me to fake it. Plus it's hard 18 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 4: to be me. It's hard to stop drinking. I guess 19 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 4: it's hard for you hard niggas to start thinking put 20 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 4: the MC's thinking so I can't get hard. Some niggas 21 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 4: become MC's because it's hard to get a job, hard 22 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 4: for you to trust people. You don't trust in God 23 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 4: even harder to be the gods we created to be. 24 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 4: The Western way of life ain't native to me. Put 25 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 4: what nigga in your pop fish and that's related to me. 26 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 4: I hated that we the only race they call out women. 27 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 4: Holes niggas be too hard to say ho at the shows. Hey, 28 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 4: welcome to the Blackout Tips podcast, your host. 29 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 5: Rod and Karen. 30 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 4: We're in the house or a late and night edition 31 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 4: of the feedback show. 32 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 3: I was tired lazy Saturday, but uh yeah, we uh 33 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 3: still about to do this thing. 34 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 4: Thank you everybody that right send lead's voicemails, votes and 35 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,199 Speaker 4: the holes leaves comments on the blackouttists dot com. We 36 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 4: like to cover all that stuff, and you know, go 37 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 4: ahead and tell you guys what we think about the 38 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,680 Speaker 4: things that you send in. As always, we have to 39 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 4: start by giving props to the people that gave to 40 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 4: the show via donations on the website. Oh wait, I 41 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 4: forgot the Fisher weaponar tota an unofficial sport. 42 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:14,839 Speaker 3: String depression to Let's go ahead. 43 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 4: And here are the people that hooked us up this week. 44 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 4: Brina h recurring donator, Thank you, Brina. Christopher de recurrent 45 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 4: donation Maurice November David S. Recurring donation. UH Film Press 46 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 4: Comics recurrent domator. We got a one time donation from Kalicia. 47 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 3: Thank you very much. 48 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:39,679 Speaker 5: Calicia, Thank you. 49 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 3: Anthony Van d recurrent donation. 50 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 5: Pete B. 51 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 3: Recurrent donator. I hope I said this right. 52 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 4: Verna te him recurring donator, Thank you very much. Olivia, 53 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 4: who you guys know is film underscored Esquire. 54 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 3: From Chicago from the shop. 55 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 4: Bomani Jones recurring donator. Nemesis of Jason Whitlock. Apparently he 56 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 4: saw that coming. Nobody the biggest thing, so Jason Woodlock, 57 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 4: half of OMNEI was you like Tannahsee coach and all 58 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 4: black people ever went. 59 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 3: Okay, let's row with that. Yeah. Cary G. 60 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 4: Recurring donator, Thank you. Cary ridom Ay C recurring donations. 61 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 3: Rock from the Black Astronauts podcast, Thank you very much. 62 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 5: Thank you. 63 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 6: We glad your pastor allow you to come and visit 64 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 6: us today. Tell them we send our love. 65 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 4: Pasta Air Monica B. Recurring donator. J Sarge recurring donator. 66 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 4: Just started a new monation thing, so thank you very much. 67 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 3: We appreciate you. Jordan L. 68 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 4: Recurring donator, Thank you very much Connor kay Uh. Brand 69 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 4: new recurrent donator Larry B. 70 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 3: Thank you Larry, Hey, Lary, and uh that's it for 71 00:03:57,960 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 3: this week. 72 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 4: So thank you everybody that became a new donating all 73 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 4: the old people and uh all of you continue to 74 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 4: support us. 75 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 7: Smile even though my man would I smile, smile it's 76 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 7: so hard to look up when you're on the down show. 77 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 2: You give. 78 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 8: So much better when you smile. 79 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 5: For me. Can you just smile for me? 80 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 3: Whatever you're in right now, smile. 81 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 8: For me? 82 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 5: Smile? Can you just smile. 83 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 4: For me? 84 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 3: And the people say. 85 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 5: You the so much better when your. 86 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 8: You live so much better when your oh you live 87 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 8: so much better when you're, oh you live so much 88 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 8: better when you. 89 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 5: You look so much better when your. 90 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 3: You look so much better when your and you look 91 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 3: so much better where your. 92 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 5: You look so much better when you're smile. 93 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 6: All right, Okay, got a lifestyle you live it that's 94 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 6: a made me happy. Mm. 95 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 4: We live with five stars. We got five star reviews 96 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 4: on iTunes, ascher. Let's go ahead and read those. If 97 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 4: you're outside the US, let us know on iTunes because 98 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 4: we have to go look by your country code. 99 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 5: So I told it's like we United States only. 100 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 4: Being Carson Worthy five Stars, says jacqu La Flair Being 101 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 4: Carson Worthy. 102 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:59,559 Speaker 3: Good day Riding, Karen love the show, guys. 103 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 4: I just of your impressions of the world's most sumnolent 104 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 4: politician in the world. I think he should nominate you 105 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 4: as his running make lo hell. Y'all have been a 106 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:11,039 Speaker 4: part of my daily routine for the past few months, 107 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 4: and I don't. 108 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 3: See that changing at all. Keep up the great work. 109 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 9: We need you. 110 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 4: The Homie Creates, says wonderful podcast five stars with three 111 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 4: heart emojis. 112 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 5: That's all we need. 113 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 4: Oh the humanity by for Loose Underscore Brown and your 114 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 4: being Carson voice. Oh I have to say, Okay, my 115 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 4: dear brother riding hand on had I need to hear 116 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 4: him hond on a right, My dear brother Rod and 117 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 4: sister Karen, a long time listener. I just wanted to 118 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:47,720 Speaker 4: another review for a great show, especially episode ten fifty five. 119 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 4: But alast I asked, if Tipping goes away, whatever will 120 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 4: we call your show? Were still called the black Out Tips, 121 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 4: So yep, we bought the domain. I don't know what 122 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 4: to tell you, guys, Shana writes in Double Up ten Stars, 123 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 4: The Black Guy who Tips is the best podcast out there. 124 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 3: The chemistry that this merry duo exemple fiss top notch. 125 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 4: The dedication rider Karen Devo to their craft is a 126 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 4: force to be reckoned with. You can always depend on 127 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 4: them for high quality content covering newsworthy topics as well 128 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 4: as regular segments that are sure to leave you in stitches. 129 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 4: This podcast is a mainstay in my podcast rotation, garnering 130 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 4: a victory celebration dance every time a new episode is 131 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 4: ready for our listening pleasure. Keep giving the people what 132 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 4: they won't we shall and the last five star of 133 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 4: you constantly laughing by c A twelve. This is a 134 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 4: ridiculous and funny that timing is on a professional level 135 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 4: and the amount of weekly content is deep. 136 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 3: But dare I say we may be good at this? 137 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 4: I'm just saying we might apparently, Yeah, we might be professional. 138 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 5: Care might be. I don't know. 139 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 4: Now five years of this might that might be enough. 140 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 4: I hope they are getting paid for this, because they should. 141 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 4: But we kind of are telling the friends about this 142 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 4: now they recording Charlotte. 143 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 3: Yes we do. C A twelve. 144 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 4: Yeah. 145 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 5: I think a lot of people are shocked. They were 146 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 5: like y'all down South, Yes we are. 147 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 3: I appreciate it. 148 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 4: Thank you so much for leaving us a five star 149 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 4: review and your comments, because that's dope and it helps 150 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 4: to show out tremendously and it moves us up in 151 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 4: the rankings and all that stuff. 152 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 3: All right. 153 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 4: We also got these on Stitcher Judy TVGWT, which I 154 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 4: can only assume is my mom. 155 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 3: Leaves us a five star review. Wouldn't that be fucked up? 156 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,199 Speaker 3: If she had left us like. 157 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 4: Four stars or something, I wouldn't have read it. By 158 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 4: the way, I don't care. Just so she knows, I'm like, well, 159 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 4: we don't really know. 160 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 5: Yes, my mama's uh ready today. 161 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,679 Speaker 3: She said, parental privilege. What's up? Family. 162 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 4: I enjoyed the podcast immensely each week. I love riding 163 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 4: Karen's depending on a variety of topics. I listened to 164 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 4: the podcast while the work. It helps the time passed 165 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 4: by quickly while being informed, entertained, and laughing so hard 166 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 4: at the cover my mouth. 167 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 3: Keep up the great work. I'm so happy to be 168 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 3: able to do that. Mom will and we will keep 169 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 3: up the great work. 170 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 5: Thank you. 171 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 3: Raining Black says five stars. 172 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 4: Rod is definitely a bitter woman. Sorry, I was looking for. 173 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 4: I was looking through your most recent it tunes reviews 174 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 4: and found that one. 175 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 8: Yes, so. 176 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 4: We know we don't read reviews less than five stars. 177 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 4: If someone have rot rod is a bitter woman and 178 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 4: this other dude is right, And I was like, oh, 179 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 4: so you're that dude creating a new account, got it right? 180 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 4: But yeah, Also, why would that be an insult to me? 181 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 4: Like right, just saying I'm bitter would be just fine, 182 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 4: being like, you're a bitter woman. 183 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 5: I like, so, like, men can't be bitter. 184 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 6: I don't know why a lot of men act like 185 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 6: they can't have any range of emotions like women. You 186 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 6: get sad, depressed, mad, bitter, angry, jealous y'all. 187 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 5: Deal with these forms of emotions too. 188 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 4: All these dudes killing their wives for leaving them and shit, 189 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 4: that's not angry in bitterness. Come only women can possess 190 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 4: that quality anyway, Sorry, I was looking for through your 191 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 4: most recent iTunes reviews and found that one and thought 192 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 4: it was funny. 193 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 3: We're those stay mad. 194 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 4: I know this took five ever, but I had the 195 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 4: hardest time trying to figure out how to review the 196 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 4: podcast on Stitcher. But that's not a good excuse, so 197 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 4: I'll blame Obama an AnyWho. I found my old iTunes 198 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 4: review on this show from February twenty twelve and reread it. 199 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 4: That was back when I wasn't sure you two were 200 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 4: actually married or just really compatible co hosts. 201 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:36,479 Speaker 3: Like a lot of people, I found TVGWT. 202 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 4: Through Ryde calling in blacking it up, and I'm really 203 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 4: glad I wandered over here. Your show has to come 204 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 4: one of my favorite podcasts, and as others have said, 205 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 4: I found a bunch of awesome people just through the 206 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 4: guests you invite on the show. I'm not really sure 207 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 4: how to summarize why I love the show in a 208 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 4: few sentences. 209 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 3: There are too many things to list. 210 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 4: You've gotten me through numerous work days through listening to 211 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 4: this secretly at work, though listening to this secretly at 212 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 4: work is risky. Every now then I have to start covering, 213 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 4: covering to cover up my laugh back in the bathroom 214 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 4: and walk into the bathroom or rip out my earbub 215 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 4: because it's all too much. 216 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 3: I'll have to do all those things while I worked before. 217 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 4: I have to be careful while eating or doing dishes, too, 218 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 4: And I can't laugh too hard around my family and 219 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 4: they'll Oh, they'll look at me weird and explain and 220 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 4: explaining the messed up stuff I'm laughing at will just 221 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 4: make it worse. 222 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 3: This show is just special. That's the best way I 223 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 3: can put it. 224 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 4: I've yet to hear anyone else replicate what you've created, 225 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:31,199 Speaker 4: and that's what makes it so great. 226 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 3: No one else has a chemistry like you two have. 227 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:35,319 Speaker 4: No one else can discuss light and dark topics, or 228 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 4: create original segments like you've done, all wrapped into one show. 229 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 4: That's not to say I don't love other podcasts. I do, 230 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 4: but this one is unique and if people can't appreciate it, 231 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:44,199 Speaker 4: there missing out. 232 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 3: And the community you've built surrounding. 233 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 4: The show really is the coolest, clearly a reflection of 234 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 4: the content you put out into the world. Yeah, I 235 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 4: think of all the things I'm the most proudest of 236 00:11:56,520 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 4: is that, Like our Facebook group is composed of a 237 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 4: lot of people that you know, it's like they are 238 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 4: the cool people, Like you know, you never really know 239 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 4: for sure that you're getting just mostly the cool people 240 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 4: until you know you can kind of interact with them. 241 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 4: And I just feel like our fans are just fucking 242 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 4: so awesome. 243 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 5: Yes, yes they are, and they get our sense of humor. 244 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not even saying that, like panderin is just 245 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 4: you know, you go in there. It's like, you know, 246 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 4: I don't got to kick a bunch of niggas out. 247 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 4: It's not a bunch of harassment. It's not you know, 248 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 4: a bunch of It's like a bunch of people that 249 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:31,839 Speaker 4: are just kind of like enjoying their way in the world, 250 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 4: and they get humor, they get jokes. 251 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 3: They don't gang up on people like we don't. 252 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 4: I haven't had to kick anybody out for like shaming 253 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 4: people for their bodies or call you know, calling people 254 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 4: faggots or niggers or whatever other despicable shit people do 255 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 4: on the internet. Like that hasn't happened like we like, 256 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 4: especially since we made it where only certain people get 257 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 4: approved to post that they've kind of proven that they're okay. 258 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:03,839 Speaker 3: Now, we don't have any problems. 259 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 4: I don't had to kick anybody out that wasn't like 260 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:08,839 Speaker 4: spam or something in months now. 261 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's a cool. 262 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 4: That's a cool thing to have where I don't have 263 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 4: to go into our forum every day and be like, 264 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 4: who acted up today, Who's gotta go? 265 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 6: Because everybody is an adult, and I love the fact that, 266 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,439 Speaker 6: like you say, for a lot of people and I've 267 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 6: heard them say it, this was like the Adupe place 268 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 6: on Facebook. You know where they can go and not 269 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 6: have to worry about being judged and not to wear 270 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 6: about family. It could be very, very open with each other. 271 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 4: I've been a Premium member for a while now. It's 272 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 4: definitely worth the money. He'll never hear this, but I 273 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 4: love listening to Justin drag ride down with him. 274 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 3: On the sports show. He does its best. That alone 275 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 3: is worth the extra costs. Yeah. Yeah, it was pretty 276 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 3: reprehensible yesterday. Well you know what it is. 277 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:55,719 Speaker 4: I'm not above making any crash joke, right. I was 278 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,200 Speaker 4: actually talking to Justin about this morning. I was like, 279 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 4: the thing for me is I always feel like part 280 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 4: of the gig is I have to like I always 281 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 4: want to separate that you can laugh at something without 282 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 4: believing it or thinking it's okay. So like like like 283 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 4: say a Cosby rape joke, I'm not above making those 284 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 4: jokes or laughing at one of those jokes, but in 285 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 4: no uncertain circumstances do I don't want people to understand 286 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 4: that that's not okay for him to be raving people right, like, 287 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 4: and I think people conflate the too, and a lot 288 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 4: of times comedians conflate the too where they'll be like, 289 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 4: it's my freedom of speech to say these things, and 290 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 4: if you. 291 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 3: Don't like it, it's like, nah, it's like that. You know. 292 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 4: There's also people that aren't gonna like the jokes, Like, 293 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 4: there's people that I'm sure that think there's a lot 294 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 4: of people that have listened our show, heard us do. 295 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 3: Guests the race and went, yeah, this is a reprehensible show. 296 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 3: Fuck them, you. 297 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 4: Know, because that's where they draw the line. And I 298 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 4: understand that that's the risk you take when you make 299 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 4: those jokes, but uh yeah, I'm not above. 300 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 3: Making any joke. 301 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 4: This show and your premium content has got me through 302 00:14:58,120 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 4: a lot in life, and I know I'm not the 303 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 4: only one helped, and I really appreciate that. All in all, 304 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 4: I'm really proud of everything you've accomplished, and I hope 305 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 4: you have even more success in the future. 306 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 3: Thank you, Karen and rod Well, thank. 307 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 4: You Raining Black. Yes, and we also got we got 308 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 4: our shirts this week too, and we took pictures of them. 309 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 4: Oh wait, we already talked about it on the show. 310 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 4: Didn't we anyway, No, we didn't. I award it on 311 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 4: the show. 312 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, we wore them, but we didn't talk about them. Yeah. 313 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 3: Man, we got some shirts. 314 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 5: I need to take a picture of mine. I ain't 315 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 5: put mine up yet. 316 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 4: From somebody you might know Raining Black, Rain love them. 317 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 5: Thank you mind, said nap Queen. 318 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 4: Yes, mine, said got introvert, And I was like, this 319 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 4: is the perfect shirt to wear around the house. I'm 320 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 4: never what it's outside. I'm not gonna argue with people 321 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 4: about being an introvert. And I'm not going to talk 322 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 4: to him about it. 323 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 6: Right because because for some reason, it's like my shirt 324 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 6: is telling you to be like, oh let's talk. 325 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 5: No no, no, no, no no. The shirt tells you 326 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 5: I don't want to talk. 327 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 3: But it was. 328 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 4: But it was a really cool shirt, and we thank 329 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 4: you so much for what we do. Rain Love of 330 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 4: eighty two. I believe it's a name on our Twitter 331 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 4: and you might. 332 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 3: Know him Raining Black. I don't know. I don't know. 333 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 3: Anthony Mackie right saying make Daddy sandwich. 334 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 5: Sandwich, saying some more ignorant shit, rank Dad is sandwich. 335 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 4: Tvgd T is awesome. You just you just don't listen. 336 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 4: If you don't have a sense of humor. If you're 337 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 4: sensitive Bernie Supporter, I'm sick and tired of being sick 338 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 4: and tired, or listen to karate can't kill you on 339 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 4: these mics. 340 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 3: Five stars my point. Thank you Anthony Mackie, and we 341 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 3: will make daddy sandwich. 342 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 5: Uh, thank you very much. 343 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 6: And before you move on to leave us saying, if 344 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 6: you on iTunes, use any Apple device and go into 345 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 6: iTunes to tap into black ay tips and up in 346 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 6: the top left hand corner there's five stars. You could 347 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 6: leave us a five star views. 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The poe was 383 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 4: do you believe the jail COVID groupie tail? Yes it 384 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 4: sounds true or no, it's probably a lie. Fifty five 385 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:30,959 Speaker 4: percent of you guys believe it is probably a lie, 386 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 4: so only forty five percent of you guys think it's true. 387 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 4: One comment up says, everyone vote yes. Don't you want 388 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 4: jail to be happy? Some of these groupie. 389 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 3: Holes could change the game for jail. You know, don't 390 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:44,439 Speaker 3: you want this groupye story to be real? I know 391 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 3: I do. 392 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 4: I want to hear more group of tales of JL 393 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 4: and his two foot slung on Battle of Alert. Maybe 394 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 4: if we support this story, JL will find the courage 395 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 4: of continent is to conquer. 396 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 3: These group is. We can do it? 397 00:18:56,640 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 6: All rights projs. 398 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 3: We had ever so ten fifty four. 399 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:08,679 Speaker 4: And it was well man Chris Lambert of the Monday 400 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 4: Festival Podcast no comments, but we did have a comment 401 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 4: on the pole. The poll was have you tried McDonald's 402 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 4: all day breakfast? Yes it's breakfast all day or no, 403 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 4: no big deal? Eighty percent said no, no big deal. 404 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 4: Twenty percent said yes, it's breakfast all day. 405 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 3: Karen, have you tried it? 406 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 5: No? 407 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:29,640 Speaker 3: I haven't either. 408 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,360 Speaker 4: Vince says, what I'm baffled by this by is this 409 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:37,439 Speaker 4: Why are the franchises, Why are the franchisees mad? They 410 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:38,919 Speaker 4: had a chance to vote on this a couple of 411 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:42,119 Speaker 4: months ago through their council on the board and voted 412 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 4: to approve this plan. This after testing it in at 413 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,680 Speaker 4: least three markets over the summer and spring. Maybe it 414 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 4: wasn't fully explain fully to the franchise ease how it 415 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:52,119 Speaker 4: was going to work. Maybe the CEO just sold them 416 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,119 Speaker 4: on the potential of increase sales over a set period 417 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 4: of time. It seemed to me if they tested it 418 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 4: in these markets for months, the data a logistical challenges 419 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 4: would be there for them to see that this would 420 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,920 Speaker 4: lower the average purchase amount and increase service times. Either 421 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,640 Speaker 4: they ignore that data thinking only of the profit game, 422 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 4: or they bowed to the pressure from the corporate and 423 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,679 Speaker 4: consumer demand to do it when they weren't ready to 424 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 4: take on the logistics of it. I agree at any rate, 425 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 4: I haven't gone out to get it because I'm not pressed. 426 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 3: It's fine. I know it's there if I wanted. But 427 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 3: one they put. 428 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 4: NC in the damn biscuit market. Right, That's when I 429 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 4: said this is outrage. 430 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 6: Right, because like if Dada had to egg me muffin 431 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 6: out of been cool. 432 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:31,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, I drove off of the like I was in 433 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 4: line and I saw biscuits. I knew I was gonna 434 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:35,479 Speaker 4: see biscuits. I just wanted to see. And as soon 435 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,920 Speaker 4: as I saw her and said I don't want anything, right, 436 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 4: they said, Sarah, can I help you with your order? 437 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:41,360 Speaker 3: I said, egg McMuffin. 438 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 5: Aha, yeah, what about the people up north that won't biscuits? 439 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 6: And then then the muffin market. It's one of those 440 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 6: things where, like I said, they lied, if you're gonna 441 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,400 Speaker 6: have breakfast out, they have a full fledged meu jack 442 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:55,880 Speaker 6: in the box. 443 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:57,640 Speaker 5: Does it? Bo Jangles? Does it? 444 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 6: Anybody else's have a full fledged breakfast They got everything 445 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:04,640 Speaker 6: on their menu is open to you all game number two. 446 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:06,959 Speaker 4: There's not an egg to be seen on any of 447 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,880 Speaker 4: them biscuits. When I could go to both Jangles out 448 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 4: on Woodline or South and get any of theirs with 449 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 4: egg and cheese, fuck that that's pretty much the end 450 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:17,640 Speaker 4: all be all here. You can just drive up bout 451 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 4: Jangles and get an actual biscuit, a real biscuit. 452 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 3: But uh, anyway, thank you for right man. 453 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:27,680 Speaker 4: I also love that he broke it down to logistics 454 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 4: and uh, the corporate structure and shit. 455 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 3: That was hilarious. 456 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:31,880 Speaker 5: But that's true though. 457 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 6: That was and then they got that ship. It was like, 458 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 6: now it takes us an average of seven minutes. 459 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 4: Come on, It's just I like that. He just went 460 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 4: like very you know, high brow, you know a hi, 461 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 4: not low bro like us. It's like, logistically, considering the 462 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:51,120 Speaker 4: factors time, demand and opportunity calls, you have to consider that. 463 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 4: You know, we had ever so ten fifty five my 464 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 4: gay husband VC three rights in riding. Karen, I really 465 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 4: love what you had to say about tipping and wages 466 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 4: paid the servers and bartenders. What I did not know 467 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 4: is that the front of the house servers were asked 468 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,439 Speaker 4: the pool tips and share them with the back of 469 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 4: the house workers who are paid a full base wage 470 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,880 Speaker 4: my comparison, the idea pooling tips isn't new, but generally 471 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 4: that's if everyone is getting paid the same and I'd 472 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,639 Speaker 4: understand that if it were just service. That's how I 473 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 4: understood it to be done at Starbucks, where I worked 474 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 4: and even made the full vetereral minimum wage. 475 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:25,680 Speaker 3: The idea of service. 476 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 4: Made the tip making the tip making the tip fed 477 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 4: minimum would then have to share those tips with the 478 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 4: back of the house workers making four to six times 479 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 4: or more than the front of the house makes. 480 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 3: It makes in base wages is ridiculous on his. 481 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 6: Face, yes it is, and also that for me, this 482 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,919 Speaker 6: is another reason why for me personally, I do not 483 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,440 Speaker 6: tip a lot of times at Starbucks and Jersey Mike's 484 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 6: not these other places. I do not tip because I 485 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 6: know that you do not make twenty thirteen cents an hour. 486 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 5: I know you make a flat rate. 487 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,439 Speaker 6: That's why I and I do not even know if 488 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 6: y'all take these tips and if you are taxed on them. 489 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,359 Speaker 6: If y'all take these tips, sup limiting them in a 490 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 6: night and just go blow on them. But waitresses have 491 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:11,880 Speaker 6: to put their tips and their taxed on it, which 492 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 6: is a completely different. I know if I don't put 493 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 6: this money in here, yo two weeks and every week 494 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 6: a boy week, whatever you get paid, it's not gonna 495 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 6: fall short because I didn't put an extra dollar in 496 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 6: the drawer. 497 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 5: So most of the time when it comes to that, 498 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:23,879 Speaker 5: I don't tip. 499 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 6: And you stress people out, like everybody feels like everywhere 500 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 6: they go, they feel like they're being aked to separate 501 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 6: from more of their money, and it makes lotic consumers 502 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 6: man and lot of consumers out of their ignorances. Won't 503 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 6: tip anybody because they feel like they're not made of 504 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 6: unlimited money. 505 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just think when it comes to splitting with 506 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,679 Speaker 4: the front of the house back of the house, that's ridiculous, 507 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 4: and I don't think any service should be forced to 508 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 4: do that. 509 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,360 Speaker 3: I also don't think further service should be forced to. 510 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 4: Pay for broken dishes or people that dine and dash 511 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,679 Speaker 4: or whatever. I'm sick and tired of that shit, and 512 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:05,919 Speaker 4: I think people need to stop being so fucking greedy 513 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:07,640 Speaker 4: about it. Like I was talking to somebody that worked 514 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 4: in the back of the house and she was saying 515 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 4: how she didn't like that she felt that the servers 516 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 4: weren't giving them the right amount of money and shit. 517 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 4: But I'm like, they don't owe you shit. Right, you 518 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 4: did your job. If you don't like it, be a 519 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 4: waiter or tell the you know. Get like, first of all, 520 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 4: the company is turning you guys against each other. But 521 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,640 Speaker 4: the company should change the policy then where maybe half 522 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,160 Speaker 4: the time you work back at the house, half time 523 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:31,679 Speaker 4: you work front of the house, if that's really. 524 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 3: What you think. But what they shouldn't be doing is 525 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 3: off the books. 526 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 4: I need to pay you out of what I made 527 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,200 Speaker 4: for doing my fucking job, and then you don't pay 528 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 4: me shit, So if I have a slow day, you 529 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 4: don't go, Well, here's twenty dollars for my paycheck, right, 530 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,639 Speaker 4: so what the fuck? Well, this is a one way relationship. 531 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,159 Speaker 4: Everybody thinks they can get through the server, get to 532 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 4: distrover's money. 533 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 3: They do this to everybody gets paid in tips. 534 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 4: They do this to strippers, Like, just because I'm getting 535 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 4: paid in cash, doesn't mean you're fucking entitled to a 536 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 4: you greedy son of. 537 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,719 Speaker 5: A bitch, right, And I agree with that. 538 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,400 Speaker 6: And I've never worked at places like that. And if 539 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:10,159 Speaker 6: I find out you did, I won't work there like 540 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 6: I might. Nope, I I am out there, they see me. 541 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 6: I'm the one getting cussed out if you don't do 542 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 6: your job. I'm the one that has to deal with 543 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 6: angry customers. I have to deal with that, not you 544 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:21,880 Speaker 6: at the back of the house. 545 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 5: You don't. 546 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 6: You don't come out and have to deal with the 547 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,119 Speaker 6: customers and have to put on a happy face and 548 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:27,640 Speaker 6: all that shit. 549 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 5: You're in the back of the house. People don't see 550 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 5: you the buck. 551 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 3: Well, it's not even about whether their job is easier 552 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:33,960 Speaker 3: or not. 553 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:37,439 Speaker 4: It's just different, right, And they get paid in a 554 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 4: wage that is reliable. 555 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 3: That's the point. 556 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 4: It's not even about I have to do this and 557 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,880 Speaker 4: you don't have to do that. It's just that you 558 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 4: are actually fairly conversated for your job. My conversation is 559 00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,360 Speaker 4: based on something different. That doesn't make you entitled to anything. 560 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 4: As for the idea of tipping itself, it's not that 561 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 4: it's wrong, but the way it's done. The way it's 562 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 4: done here is the consumer is in fact subsidizing the 563 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:05,120 Speaker 4: restaurants profit margins. That's why you won't see most restaurants change, 564 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 4: do do away with tipping un less laws and change. 565 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 4: They benefit from paying all the service two thirteen cent 566 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 4: an hour, not having to cover anything except maybe cold. 567 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 4: Oh I got kicked out. Oh so okay, it happened 568 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 4: in here. Oh, but I'm still in there for some reason. 569 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 4: Let me see. 570 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 5: Oh, y'all is doing the stuff. 571 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,640 Speaker 6: Pap did the same thing. Baby, what what you're doing 572 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 6: right now? 573 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 5: Right there? Got kicked out, but you still see yourself? 574 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:32,960 Speaker 3: Oh I couldn't see myself. 575 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,400 Speaker 4: Oh, I just up on the side, right all right, 576 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 4: Let me refresh and come back. Thank you for staying 577 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 4: on top of that, because I've been trying to stay 578 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:43,879 Speaker 4: on top of it in my tab. 579 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 3: There we go. 580 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 4: All right, So back to this email. Yeah, the consumers 581 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 4: subsidizing the profit margin for the restaurant. 582 00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 3: They don't have to cover anything. 583 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,160 Speaker 4: Maybe workers comp and more mother than likely pay less 584 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 4: than federal state taxes as a result. How else can 585 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,399 Speaker 4: red lobster and olive garden get away with endless pasta and. 586 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 3: All you can eat rab lag specials. 587 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 4: They don't have to pay the person serving you the 588 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 4: food that much, and they're counting on you, the consumer, 589 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 4: to cover the rest of the gap. Not that the 590 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 4: establishment cares whether you do so, just so they don't 591 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,680 Speaker 4: have to. That's a lot of commentary out there's a 592 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 4: lot of commentary out there why tipping is an integral 593 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 4: part of the dyning experience. That according to Daniel Levinson Wilk, 594 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 4: who wrote for Our Jazeera arguing that eliminating tips wouldn't 595 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,919 Speaker 4: make things fair for workers. That's true, eliminating tips by 596 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 4: themselves wouldn't paying them a fair way full wage benefits would, 597 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 4: plus benefits would, and also would eliminate all the social 598 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 4: political bullshit that to me, makes the dying experience of 599 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 4: paying the ads for many It would require workers to 600 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 4: do their fucking jobs without regard to how much more 601 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 4: or less they can make my service to certain customers. 602 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 3: Right, That's the thing. 603 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 4: People don't understand the implicit bias on both sides. 604 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 3: Customers who come. 605 00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:01,399 Speaker 4: In and they racially and sexually and sexual orientation wise 606 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,399 Speaker 4: pick and choose that favors. So there's certain services that 607 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 4: just prone to give more money because that's what society 608 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 4: says is more valuable. Oh a white woman, let's give 609 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 4: her more money. Oh I don't like gay people. I 610 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 4: don't want to pay till this person. I don't like 611 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 4: black people. 612 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:16,439 Speaker 3: I don't want to tip this person. 613 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,879 Speaker 4: Oh a gay black I want this person. Yeah, well 614 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,919 Speaker 4: that less so that but yeah, I'm sure that happens. 615 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 4: And you know, oh a gay black person. No, I'm 616 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 4: not giving them shit, you know whatever. You know, segments 617 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 4: they decide they don't fuck with number two. It works 618 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 4: the other way restaurant workers. The waiters now give preferential 619 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 4: treatment to the customers they assume will tip them more, 620 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 4: which is kind of a self fulfilling prophecy. I give 621 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 4: you good service, you're probably gonna tip me. I give 622 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 4: you bad service, you're probably not gonna tip me as much. 623 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 3: You know, there's some people that. 624 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 4: Are you know, like I've just I've been there when 625 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,640 Speaker 4: people and it's funny because all waiters probably think they 626 00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 4: give the same service to everybody. But I've been there, 627 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 4: I've seen it with my own eyes, and I've also 628 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 4: been a customer. I felt it with my own feelings. 629 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 4: You're not always treated the same. And even if they think, well, 630 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 4: I treat everybody like shit, no they don't. There's people 631 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 4: that they treat won't respectful. They say certain shit too. 632 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 4: They get there on time, they care about their job 633 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 4: because there's an assumption that they will get a tip 634 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 4: because they look a certain way, and that is part 635 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 4: of the problem with the doning experience. 636 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 6: Right, And like you said, we've been on both side. Men, 637 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 6: you have both been there. Wh people will quote unquote 638 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 6: give us the table and the table all the tables. 639 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 5: You having to give us always be black. 640 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 6: And we've also been the table where we sit there 641 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 6: and we've seen people pass us. And I understand, you know, 642 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 6: we're not in people's sections and shit like that, because 643 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 6: I understand the dynamics of how a floor is cut. 644 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 6: But at the same time, if we sit there for 645 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 6: so long, I'm under the assumption that y'all back there 646 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 6: trying to figure out who gonna get the black table, 647 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 6: And a lot of times my assumption is probably true, 648 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 6: And a lot of times about the time the person 649 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 6: gets out there, they don't really know how to respond 650 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 6: because they don't know if we're upset because everybody has 651 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 6: seen us sitting out there, and so a lot of 652 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 6: times you end up making people mad and then they 653 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 6: don't want to tip. But a lot of times we 654 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 6: kind of combat that by tipping you anyway, because we 655 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 6: understand that a lot of times you might have been 656 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 6: the person to say, fucking I'll take the table because y'all. 657 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 5: Don't want to deal with these people. 658 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. 659 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 4: I mean, like I said, I don't recommend the way 660 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 4: that I tip to anybody, to be honest, because I 661 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:22,479 Speaker 4: tip out of just like my own insecurities about it, 662 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So that's how the showcame. 663 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 4: Title came. It's like I always tip, even when it's like, 664 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 4: oh man, that services kind of sucked, well, I definitely 665 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 4: want to continue to tip. I don't want that. I 666 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 4: hate that stereo type. And it's a bad way to 667 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 4: think about it, because if you gave me bad service. 668 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 3: You don't deserve shit. But it's definitely a hurtle. 669 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 4: Mentally, I'm just not over yet and I don't know 670 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 4: if i'll ever be over it. And also I used 671 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,160 Speaker 4: to be a waiter, so I'll probably never be over 672 00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 4: the idea of not over tipping. I think people who 673 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 4: are being waiters over tip because they understand the struggle. 674 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 3: Right that being said, uh. 675 00:30:55,960 --> 00:31:00,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's eliminating tips won't solve everything, but it's a 676 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 4: good start because companies need to be responsible. 677 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 3: For this stuff. 678 00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 4: So in the chatter said, well, they don't really pay 679 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 4: back at the house people in a fair a fair 680 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,960 Speaker 4: wage and a lot of times because they expect the 681 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 4: servers to give them their tips. That's also the companies 682 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 4: fall and wrong, right, they're turning people against each other 683 00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 4: for a little for scraps while they're the ones who 684 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,840 Speaker 4: make out like a fucking bandit. And the company and 685 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 4: the and the and the restaurants that are doing this, 686 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 4: they're not only prospering, but they're able to provide wages 687 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:36,959 Speaker 4: for their for their servers that are beyond fair, you know, 688 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 4: and they get health care and stuff that they weren't 689 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 4: getting before, right. 690 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 6: Which which which is which is uh to piggyback on 691 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 6: that comment. If they do this, this will increase more 692 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 6: people because a lot of the times, all these laws 693 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 6: and ship they're passing. Let me tell you what's the 694 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 6: part of the industry that a lot of times is exception. 695 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 6: It is food services a lot of times, yeah, fifteen hour, 696 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 6: but food services, you know, versus paint everybody of fair 697 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 6: ways and you would have thousands. 698 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 5: A lot of times. 699 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,239 Speaker 4: You can be a waiter and you can work like 700 00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 4: sixty hours in a week and they still won't cover. 701 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:15,720 Speaker 3: Your health care. 702 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 4: Rock come on now, I mean, there's too many loopholes 703 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 4: and it should be closed. And part of that is 704 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 4: because people like the idea of tipping, whether they want 705 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 4: to go into a restaurant and weld their power over 706 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 4: somebody who makes less than them because the one place 707 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 4: they have control over shit, but or whether you know, 708 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 4: just for the benefit of the people that work that 709 00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 4: they're like, we have to get rid of it, because 710 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 4: it's just not people ain't shit. And if you believe 711 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 4: people ain't shit, then you should not think that we 712 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 4: should leave all this in their hands, right. 713 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 6: And the thing about it is that most waitress or waitresses. 714 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,760 Speaker 5: You have people of all ILKs. 715 00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,000 Speaker 6: Are in the industry, but the bulk of them are 716 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 6: single moms. So you would have a single women household, 717 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 6: and so you would have women have health care for themselves, 718 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 6: have health care for them kids. A lot of people 719 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 6: fed to realize waitresses and most of the food industry. 720 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 6: You do not get paid the day off. If you're off, 721 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 6: you do not get paid a lot of the times. 722 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 6: A lot of times you get no vacation days, no holidays, 723 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 6: a lot of times. 724 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 4: Oh, eight to two dollars and thirteen cents an hour 725 00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 4: is not money you're gonna see. 726 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 5: By the oh no, oh no, you're not. 727 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 4: Like a lot of people don't even understand that you 728 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:28,640 Speaker 4: will not get a check. 729 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 5: Right, You won't get a check if you I was in. 730 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 4: A restaurant where I actually did not make minimum wage. 731 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 3: When you added my. 732 00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,960 Speaker 4: Tips to my two dollars and thirteen cent they told 733 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 4: me to foul for the amount that would keep them 734 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 4: from writing me a check, even though I was not 735 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 4: physically making. 736 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 5: That amount, right, because they don't want to pay you. 737 00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 4: They were like just fouled for if they look, if 738 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 4: you work six hours and you know men on wages 739 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 4: seven dollars an hour you need or five hours. Let's 740 00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 4: say you work five hours or seven hour, you need 741 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 4: to foulwenty five dollars in tips, so that we will 742 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 4: not even if you didn't make thirty five dollars because 743 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 4: we just don't want to write you a check. 744 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:09,320 Speaker 3: And that's okay in that industry. 745 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 4: And you do it because if not, they just go 746 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 4: get somebody else that that has to change, right, So, yeah, 747 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 4: what else did he say? There's a lot of commentary 748 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 4: out there about Okay, Yeah, well that's true. Eliminate tips 749 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 4: won't fix everything, okay, but yeah, it will require workers 750 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,000 Speaker 4: to do to fucking do their jobs without regard to 751 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 4: how much more or less they can make by service 752 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:36,440 Speaker 4: to certain customers. It no longer allows consumer to subsidize 753 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 4: the restaurant or arbitrarily determine the individuals pay for the night. 754 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 4: It will cut down on racial and sexual discrimination from 755 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 4: either side, including eliminated these past aggressive tip notes on receipts. 756 00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 4: The donners get to eat, the service get to serve, 757 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,640 Speaker 4: and nobody's thinking about how much money to add or 758 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:51,840 Speaker 4: deduct on the tip line. 759 00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 760 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 4: And the thing is also service just becomes part of 761 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 4: the job as opposed, it becomes an expectation like you're 762 00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:00,440 Speaker 4: a server, you should know what the fuck you is doing. 763 00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 4: This is now a valuable job to thirty five thousand 764 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:07,160 Speaker 4: dollars a year plus benefits. Do the job, you know 765 00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 4: as opposing now where it's like and if you want 766 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 4: to make money, then you'll do a good job, you 767 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 4: know what I mean. 768 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:17,239 Speaker 6: And you get more out of everybody in general. And 769 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,560 Speaker 6: also something else they don't tell you is that these 770 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,840 Speaker 6: quote unquote side work because I said a lot of 771 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 6: people don't serve. So a lot of times when the 772 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,879 Speaker 6: way when you when you leave your job, you clock out, 773 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 6: you know, them to go home. Nah, when most services 774 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,880 Speaker 6: get off of their jobs unless they have find or 775 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 6: donnie where other people do this job? Which I've worked 776 00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 6: at places like that. Most of the time you have side 777 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 6: where it was me you have to clean the table, 778 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 6: sweep the floor, do this. And then a lot of 779 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 6: times they want you to do this quote unquote deep cleaning. 780 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 6: And it's just one of those things. Well I'm like this, 781 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,480 Speaker 6: but you pack me two theou thirteenth an hour. I'm 782 00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 6: not deep cleaning. Go hire somebody. 783 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 3: Cams just having flashbacks y'all. 784 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,360 Speaker 5: I am, I'm sorry, work work with me people. 785 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:55,160 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Yeah, this is just a server trauma. 786 00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 5: I haven't traumatized. 787 00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,840 Speaker 3: It's not even at this point, it's not even about 788 00:35:58,840 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 3: the topic. 789 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 5: No, it's not my bad, my bad. 790 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,800 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sorry. You're gonna get through this, I hope. 791 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:04,040 Speaker 5: So. 792 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 4: Okay, you're not You're not a servace. You don't have 793 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,239 Speaker 4: to work those tables anymore, Karen, I'm glad. I'm here 794 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 4: for you. 795 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 3: Okay, thank you. You have a nine to five and 796 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 3: hours and stuff. I surf for so long. You don't 797 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,080 Speaker 3: have to. You don't have to wrap any more. Silvil. 798 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,640 Speaker 5: Well, I'm so fucking glad. I turned. I turned some 799 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 5: wever right now. 800 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 3: You don't have to smell like syrup. 801 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:26,680 Speaker 5: Oh pancakes? 802 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:31,880 Speaker 4: Uh so, well, pancakes smell like syrup. There's no pancakes. 803 00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:35,080 Speaker 3: Smell what is that? Bacon smell like pancakes? 804 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 4: I have to work in smell like fucking syrup, bacon, coffee, 805 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:43,760 Speaker 4: fries and ship. But yeah, so uh anyway, I think, 806 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:47,520 Speaker 4: you know, I think that we should do away with 807 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:51,319 Speaker 4: tipping because it doesn't I think it makes people feel better, 808 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:55,399 Speaker 4: but it doesn't actually help and you know that that's 809 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 4: an actual you know, that's a huge issue, you know, 810 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 4: and especially because it makes you very very very replaceable 811 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 4: to a point that it's almost stupid, you know what 812 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 4: I mean. Like, of course they're gonna treat you like shit. 813 00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 4: Of course you're gonna have rampant sexual harassment. Of course 814 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,879 Speaker 4: you're gonna have uh, you know, racism and shit like that. 815 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 4: They expect it to be tolerated because you're it's free 816 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 4: to replace you pretty much. But uh yeah, I would 817 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:24,200 Speaker 4: love to see them do away with it too, yeah. 818 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 3: Uh oh. 819 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 4: And also, yes, food would be more expensive, but you 820 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 4: don't have to tip, Like it's just like that's the 821 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 4: thing people are like, well, restaurants will raise their prices. 822 00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:36,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, but then you don't have to tip. 823 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 4: Right, so you already you know, if you were eating, 824 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,840 Speaker 4: say a fifty dollars meal and then turned around and 825 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,440 Speaker 4: giving them a tenor on top of that, so now 826 00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 4: it's really a sixty dollars meal. Nothing in the restaurant 827 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,360 Speaker 4: is what it costs if you tip, So you like, 828 00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,359 Speaker 4: just throw the fucking ten dollars already on the meal. 829 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 3: Let's just get this over with, you know. 830 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,280 Speaker 4: Uh seems to me that most people arguing in favor 831 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 4: of it continue in this unfair system, or people who 832 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,680 Speaker 4: either never had to work in food services for a living, 833 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,880 Speaker 4: or people who don't care about and or have no 834 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 4: respect for these workers and enjoy the intrinsic benefit of 835 00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,720 Speaker 4: making somebody earn their pay by serving them for forty 836 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:10,280 Speaker 4: five minutes. 837 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:11,000 Speaker 3: Right. 838 00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,279 Speaker 4: Could you imagine if we treated any other profession like this? 839 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 4: Could you imagine we were like, yeah, Doc, I'm gonna 840 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:18,359 Speaker 4: be honest. You left me waiting in the weight room 841 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,920 Speaker 4: a little too long for the cancer screen, and I'm 842 00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 4: only gonna have. 843 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 3: To be able to give you twenty percent. Okay, they 844 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:27,359 Speaker 3: won't full pay. 845 00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 4: Yeah that Hey, no, no, I think you'll do a 846 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,640 Speaker 4: better job doctoring if we make this, say, however the 847 00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,120 Speaker 4: fuck I feel type of business. 848 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,160 Speaker 3: Let's just do that, Oh. 849 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,680 Speaker 4: Carl mechanic, I don't like how long it took to 850 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:43,359 Speaker 4: get my breaks working. Ah, I think I think I'm 851 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,759 Speaker 4: only gonna pay thirty percent of what the breaks are worth. 852 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:48,319 Speaker 4: A service wage that should not be dependent on it, 853 00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:51,000 Speaker 4: and the restaurant business should not ask to consumer to 854 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:52,759 Speaker 4: subsidize the responsibility of. 855 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:54,240 Speaker 3: Making sure those services are paid fairly. 856 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,719 Speaker 4: Could you imagine if someone worked on your car and 857 00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,879 Speaker 4: then you know how they have labor and part parts 858 00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:02,680 Speaker 4: of labor. If you were like, yeah, I'm gonna pay 859 00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:04,920 Speaker 4: for the parts, not gonna pay for the labor. I 860 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 4: just didn't was not a fan of their attitude when 861 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 4: I came in and I know you just spent five 862 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,440 Speaker 4: hours fixing my carburetor, but you know. 863 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 5: What's gonna happen. You won't get your fucking car. 864 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 4: Right only and that's the only industry we think we 865 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 4: can do that with co. I'll pay for the flu shot, 866 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:23,720 Speaker 4: but I will not pay for your wages. 867 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 3: Doctor. 868 00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:29,319 Speaker 4: Your bedside man is terrible. It's quite leaves a lot 869 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:34,080 Speaker 4: to be desired. Here's five dollars. That's all I got. Sorry, 870 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:39,040 Speaker 4: and I'm on down and dash on this flue shot. 871 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 4: So age's coming out of your pay, right, I'll need you. 872 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,160 Speaker 4: It's coming out of the five hours I just gave you. 873 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 4: Laws change Essentially, we must get rid of the tip 874 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:50,440 Speaker 4: minimum wage. 875 00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 3: Change that law and make all service jobs subject. 876 00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,239 Speaker 4: To the standard federal federal minimum or seven twenty five 877 00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,520 Speaker 4: or whatever the state local minimum is and cut this 878 00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 4: bullshit out. Uh Eve says, I would like to sincesarily 879 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,520 Speaker 4: apologize for not taking you seriously, Rid, I laughed and 880 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 4: mocked you, But I've seen the light free Bobby schmurder. 881 00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,520 Speaker 4: What is happening to this brother? Is an injustice? Who 882 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:16,040 Speaker 4: will they lock up next? Fetti walk the Migos? Where 883 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,680 Speaker 4: will it end? La Reid ought to be ashamed of 884 00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 4: himself for not bailing out that boy out. He had 885 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 4: no problem making money off of Bobby. Now he can't 886 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,640 Speaker 4: help a brother out. But are we really surprised that 887 00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,279 Speaker 4: la Reid is a snake in the grass? Where do 888 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 4: you think his ex white peoples learned to uh, oh 889 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:36,239 Speaker 4: your pebbles, is it ain't pebbles? Yeah, pebbles learn how 890 00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 4: to be shady in this business from him. La Reid 891 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 4: is treating Bobby worse than pebbles. Pebbles treated tlcreciate free Bobby, 892 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,279 Speaker 4: mm hmm. And the pall was have you ever had 893 00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,319 Speaker 4: a meltdown in the office, because we was like, that's 894 00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:51,919 Speaker 4: some white shit. 895 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 3: Yes or no? Thirty eight percent of our audience said yes, sixty. 896 00:40:56,320 --> 00:41:00,720 Speaker 4: Three those numbers don't add right, showed up okay, thirty 897 00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:05,120 Speaker 4: eight percent said yes, sixty two percent said no, you 898 00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,319 Speaker 4: ain't got the answer said, I almost had a melt down. 899 00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,279 Speaker 4: But thanks to you guys, I call me nerves and 900 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,440 Speaker 4: ignore that dumb ass questions about my love life of 901 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,959 Speaker 4: my uterus. Thanks for keeping a sister in check because 902 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:17,760 Speaker 4: these bills are real. Lol, Love you guys. So Jordan 903 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 4: Brown says, when I voted, I was thinking of the 904 00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:23,560 Speaker 4: time as an expertiter in a very popular restaurant that's 905 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 4: different than the office I work in now. I would 906 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,440 Speaker 4: let people know immediately if they were on bullshit in 907 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,799 Speaker 4: the kitchen and office. Yeah, I'm I'm black and can't 908 00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 4: do that. Scott Jama said, Yeah, man, y'all all got 909 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,440 Speaker 4: up in my feelings on that genuine song so anxious. 910 00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 3: Can I please, please please. 911 00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,760 Speaker 4: Get just a little bit of Karen singing that again, 912 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:45,680 Speaker 4: no disrespect, I just can't be listening to a man 913 00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:51,399 Speaker 4: singing that all up in my feelings lol. All well, yes, 914 00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:55,400 Speaker 4: we're a package deal, so you don't get anything because 915 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,840 Speaker 4: you only want a Karen. 916 00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 3: There you go. 917 00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:02,920 Speaker 4: We're a band and even even though Karen might be 918 00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:06,759 Speaker 4: the lead singer, I feel too. 919 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 3: Tricks are for adults. 920 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 4: Where we talked about all kinds of stuff touching the 921 00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:14,719 Speaker 4: black woman's hair, car commercial with that dude look like 922 00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:18,040 Speaker 4: he didn't pay for that car. No comments, but we 923 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:19,919 Speaker 4: did have a poll. Do you think Amy Schumer stole 924 00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 4: Patris O'Neill's jokes? 925 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:21,920 Speaker 3: Yes or no? 926 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 4: Sixty three percent of our audience says yes, she stole 927 00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:27,840 Speaker 4: that joke, and thirty seven said said no. Tony Taker 928 00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 4: said shaking my damn head. Parents need to be shot. 929 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 4: They bring their kids. Raising Brand and Anina voice from 930 00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 4: podcast fandom you ain't shit, can They're great? 931 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,960 Speaker 3: I didn't know, Uh No, Raisin Bran, any fans out there. 932 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:47,359 Speaker 3: Good for you guys, uh, Raising Bran. We had our 933 00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:48,480 Speaker 3: girl Adrian A. K. 934 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,800 Speaker 4: Brown and Bella Arms for episode ten fifty seven, Hands 935 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,880 Speaker 4: My Biscuits, and we had two comments. Woga says, I 936 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,760 Speaker 4: like the part when Denise says she's the new doctor 937 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,000 Speaker 4: and Eugene says you're a doctor and she snaps back 938 00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,960 Speaker 4: in him argue, And when Eugene turns and looks at 939 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,720 Speaker 4: Terror as she shrugs her shoulders. Denise says, I'm sorry 940 00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,440 Speaker 4: I heard that story, and Eugene says fair play. 941 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:10,279 Speaker 3: And nods his head. 942 00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:14,400 Speaker 4: Also, you're right that part where Carol came in with 943 00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:16,680 Speaker 4: the cool story. Bro and shot dude in the head 944 00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:20,360 Speaker 4: was gold. This season's been really good so far. Heroja 945 00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:24,919 Speaker 4: Shad says superior hashtag Superior black Man hashtag ghost Dog. 946 00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:28,720 Speaker 4: Morgan has fallen a couple notches with no kill policies 947 00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:31,320 Speaker 4: with this no kill policy, which is not a problem 948 00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:36,759 Speaker 4: for hashtag Stuart Carrol aka Cod Carroll, who has racked 949 00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:38,880 Speaker 4: up quite a lot of kills and use experience points 950 00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:42,279 Speaker 4: to the max in the Battle of Alexandria. This is 951 00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,720 Speaker 4: for the TVGWT nation. Anyone who has great photoshot kills. 952 00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:48,359 Speaker 4: Should we have a Carroll turned into a super saim 953 00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:51,360 Speaker 4: Pick or Jiff That would be great. Otherwise, have a 954 00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:55,840 Speaker 4: great Saturday thanks to road shot And oh shit, I 955 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 4: forgot to make a poll for this episode. 956 00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:01,080 Speaker 3: Well there you go. No, that is a first. 957 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:04,239 Speaker 5: Oh you didn't trying to get it up. 958 00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess I don't know what I would have 959 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,600 Speaker 4: made the pole anyway, the more I think about it, right, like, 960 00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:11,719 Speaker 4: what would the pole have been? 961 00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:12,279 Speaker 6: Like? 962 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,919 Speaker 3: Some about walking down? I guess right? Anyway, you want 963 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,719 Speaker 3: biscuits ham hand if I know? 964 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:19,319 Speaker 4: Right? 965 00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,520 Speaker 3: All right, we got a couple of voicemails to get 966 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:23,479 Speaker 3: to That was real quick. 967 00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 10: Hey, guys, It's just Jada. I was just calling a 968 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,480 Speaker 10: comment about being the kind of like black friend in 969 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 10: a group. I haven't had that exact exeriense, but like 970 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:39,360 Speaker 10: I can definitely identify in some ways. So, like I 971 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 10: was undergrad, there weren't a lot of black like students 972 00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:48,360 Speaker 10: who were in my particular major. So the ones that 973 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,520 Speaker 10: you know were we you know, we're pretty close and tight, 974 00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:56,719 Speaker 10: and we for one particim class, we like had noticed, 975 00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:00,440 Speaker 10: uh that, like you know, some of the whites students 976 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,279 Speaker 10: had like the study guide or whatever that they had 977 00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:07,480 Speaker 10: got from like previous years or whatever, and we just 978 00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:11,960 Speaker 10: so happened to get it from like somebody in their 979 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 10: group or whatever. But the majority of the group like 980 00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:18,680 Speaker 10: didn't know and that we had got like the rest 981 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 10: of the sthetic guys. And then so I found it 982 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,840 Speaker 10: kind of funny that, like when the final came around 983 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:27,799 Speaker 10: that these saying groups of people who like had never 984 00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,480 Speaker 10: mentioned anything, you know, to me about it in particular, 985 00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,440 Speaker 10: they didn't have one for the final, so they were 986 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,880 Speaker 10: asking me like, did I have any extra notes or 987 00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:40,279 Speaker 10: anything that I knew? And the petty side of me 988 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 10: was like, well, I wish i'd dig would give it to, 989 00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:45,880 Speaker 10: you know, and like one of my other friends actually, 990 00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:49,279 Speaker 10: you know, kind of made a joke about them not 991 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,160 Speaker 10: kind of sharing the wealth. And one of the people 992 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 10: actually commented us like, well, you know, if you guys 993 00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:57,880 Speaker 10: didn't isolate yourselves, and you know, so it was just 994 00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 10: kind of like, well, if that's on you, because you 995 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 10: see us as isolating ourselves where because we're hanging out 996 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,160 Speaker 10: with the other black people in the class, but you're 997 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,000 Speaker 10: aren't you doing the same thing because you're hanging out 998 00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:11,400 Speaker 10: with the white people in the class. So it's just 999 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:15,319 Speaker 10: always like you already had this idea of like why 1000 00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,799 Speaker 10: is the default? And we have to fit in, you know, 1001 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,120 Speaker 10: and we have to reach out to your groups, you know, 1002 00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,799 Speaker 10: and not the other way around. And you know, I've 1003 00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:28,839 Speaker 10: had friends before who who have dated you know, white Well, 1004 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 10: I had a friend who dated a white guy and 1005 00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 10: they broke up because of she started to realize that 1006 00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:39,320 Speaker 10: like his conservative political views actually mirrored views that he 1007 00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:44,919 Speaker 10: had about you know, her per particular race. And I've 1008 00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 10: had another friend who was a white girl and she 1009 00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 10: viewed like the people in Katrina as uh, you know, 1010 00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:59,319 Speaker 10: beggars and like lazy or whatever. And it was kind 1011 00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,360 Speaker 10: of like she had view of like, oh, no, but 1012 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:04,799 Speaker 10: you're one of the good you know, black people, you know, 1013 00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,239 Speaker 10: but the rest of them, you know whatever. That's what 1014 00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:09,760 Speaker 10: I mean. So I'm not, of course, I'm not saying 1015 00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,920 Speaker 10: all white people, you know whatever, but yeah, I've just 1016 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:19,320 Speaker 10: kind of had different experiences where yeah, like it's just 1017 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,239 Speaker 10: kind of funny and like how you can kind of 1018 00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,239 Speaker 10: be associates with people will be cool, but then you know, 1019 00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:27,000 Speaker 10: when important things kind of come up, you start to 1020 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,040 Speaker 10: realize like, oh, okay, you're not you know what I mean, 1021 00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:31,360 Speaker 10: Like you're not really down. 1022 00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 2: For the call. 1023 00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,480 Speaker 10: So I mean, I've always been open to, you know, 1024 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:38,320 Speaker 10: interracial relationships with myself, but I just know for myself 1025 00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:39,799 Speaker 10: that like it would have to be a person who, 1026 00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:42,799 Speaker 10: you know, Who'm not saying that we couldn't disagree, but 1027 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,600 Speaker 10: that you know, was very open minded when it came 1028 00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,440 Speaker 10: to some and stuff like that, because that's not just 1029 00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:52,200 Speaker 10: going it's something that's not just fixed me personally, but 1030 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:56,080 Speaker 10: you know, my whole race of people, the future generations 1031 00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:58,279 Speaker 10: to come, you know whatever, Like you know, when I 1032 00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:01,080 Speaker 10: have kids, So if I had kids with this person, 1033 00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:06,200 Speaker 10: you know, so yeah, I could definitely identify with you know, 1034 00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:10,080 Speaker 10: looking at people one way and then kind of realizing 1035 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,319 Speaker 10: that you know, they have this view about you that 1036 00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:15,719 Speaker 10: did you you know that you didn't even realize, or 1037 00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:16,400 Speaker 10: or about. 1038 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:17,760 Speaker 9: Your people that you even realized. 1039 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,360 Speaker 10: So but all right, guys, love the show. 1040 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:25,319 Speaker 4: Thank you for calling, Thank you, and uh, yeah, man, 1041 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,160 Speaker 4: I think a lot of times you get that wake 1042 00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:30,520 Speaker 4: up call, you know what I mean. 1043 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,000 Speaker 3: And the thing is, I'm not one of those. 1044 00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 4: People that ever believed in or accepted this idea that well, 1045 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,160 Speaker 4: I'm in a white space, so I have to accept 1046 00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:44,440 Speaker 4: certain things like I've always challenged that, I've always spoken out. 1047 00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:48,919 Speaker 4: I've always been, uh the kind of person who's like, yeah, 1048 00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:50,879 Speaker 4: I'm you know, I actually am going to say something 1049 00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:55,120 Speaker 4: about this. So to me, it wasn't even like, oh 1050 00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 4: they tricked me or something like that. 1051 00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:00,279 Speaker 3: It was just a matter of, you know, I. 1052 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 4: Feel like these people changed over my lifetime. And I 1053 00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:06,879 Speaker 4: think that's the part that I really want to nail home. 1054 00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,880 Speaker 4: Because I was talking to somebody who's younger and she 1055 00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:11,360 Speaker 4: was like, I have a white friend. He's like my 1056 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:14,080 Speaker 4: best friend, and you know, he has some some views 1057 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:15,959 Speaker 4: that I thought were kind of racist. But we talked 1058 00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,399 Speaker 4: about him and you know, he's really cool and we're tight, 1059 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 4: and I said, that's cool too. 1060 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 3: But at that age they were cool, right. 1061 00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:26,239 Speaker 4: So what this isn't like I'm saying, oh, all white 1062 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:31,800 Speaker 4: people are secretly harboring this racist shit. I'm saying people change, 1063 00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:35,560 Speaker 4: and they do for white culture is not really considered 1064 00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:39,000 Speaker 4: it like to white people growing up, especially white men, 1065 00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:41,680 Speaker 4: growing up is becoming conservative. 1066 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:45,000 Speaker 3: That's just what it's considered. Like you're now a. 1067 00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 4: Social outcast if you're older and you're not conservative, Whereas 1068 00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,239 Speaker 4: if you're young and you're conservative, you would still be 1069 00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,320 Speaker 4: kind of a social outcast as a white person because 1070 00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:56,319 Speaker 4: you know, hey, you're out there actively fucking drinking and 1071 00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,960 Speaker 4: drugging and shit like that. But once you get a 1072 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,680 Speaker 4: bit older, it's easier to be like, well, Bill, o'reiley's 1073 00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,920 Speaker 4: not talking about me. So I think that's what it 1074 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:08,760 Speaker 4: was for I want people to realize. And like I said, 1075 00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:11,719 Speaker 4: for me, it's kind of weird because I always kind 1076 00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:17,320 Speaker 4: of kept my distance as a bit. Matter of fact, 1077 00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:19,439 Speaker 4: just the other day, one of my friends who they 1078 00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,160 Speaker 4: I call all my white friends, my white friends, but 1079 00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,400 Speaker 4: one of the white friends who's kind of out of 1080 00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,920 Speaker 4: the group, and he's out of the group because partially 1081 00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,840 Speaker 4: because of he's a very liberal political type person and 1082 00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:34,799 Speaker 4: they probably kicked him out of the group a few 1083 00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:39,400 Speaker 4: years ago. But even before he had his altercation with them, philosophically, 1084 00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:41,279 Speaker 4: he was just always kind of opposed to a lot 1085 00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:44,840 Speaker 4: of the bullshit they were saying. So he made a 1086 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,640 Speaker 4: post about, man, I hate to see my friends or 1087 00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:51,240 Speaker 4: former friends in this case, posted shit from Fox News 1088 00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,600 Speaker 4: like it's the truth about Ben Guys and Hilly Clinton 1089 00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:57,680 Speaker 4: and what the dude who said, quote unquote, I had 1090 00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:01,600 Speaker 4: a job posted moron on his thread. So apparently that 1091 00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,200 Speaker 4: on social media. Now that's on social media as well. 1092 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:09,879 Speaker 4: But that's fine. That was fine everybody for everybody. Then 1093 00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,879 Speaker 4: somebody else came through and called him a sheep. And 1094 00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:14,759 Speaker 4: the guy calling him a sheep is a guy who 1095 00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:20,200 Speaker 4: literally was a weed smoking surfer boy who played volleyball five. 1096 00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:21,239 Speaker 3: Years ago, you know what I mean? 1097 00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:23,920 Speaker 4: Like this like this isn't like he came down to 1098 00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:25,439 Speaker 4: Charlotte and was acting this way. 1099 00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 3: He's just a huge hypocrite. 1100 00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,800 Speaker 4: Now he now he has a pickup truck and chewing 1101 00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:33,520 Speaker 4: tobacco and this everything is fucking uh. You know, whatever 1102 00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:37,480 Speaker 4: Fox News says is right. And Hillary Clinton is the worst, right, Like, 1103 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:40,360 Speaker 4: like this shit just happened in a few short years 1104 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:45,200 Speaker 4: hanging out with these people, and our friendship has become 1105 00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:49,600 Speaker 4: you know, strained at best, untenable at times. You know, 1106 00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:53,120 Speaker 4: like uh, at this rate, it's not even a matter 1107 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:57,919 Speaker 4: of like, well, I because like now I'm not even 1108 00:51:57,920 --> 00:51:59,719 Speaker 4: mad anymore. Because when I first brought this up, I 1109 00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:02,440 Speaker 4: still was angry, but now it's just kind of like 1110 00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:05,680 Speaker 4: I'm not even mad, and I just don't want to deal. 1111 00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:06,040 Speaker 3: With this shit. 1112 00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:09,959 Speaker 4: Like, if anything, I'll come around every fucking blue moon 1113 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:13,960 Speaker 4: because it's just not worth. The proximity of being around 1114 00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:17,319 Speaker 4: a bunch of lame ass old white conservatives is whack 1115 00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:18,640 Speaker 4: to me, you know what I mean. 1116 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,319 Speaker 6: It will probably go to zero because you know, as 1117 00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:23,560 Speaker 6: they get older, those opinions change. 1118 00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, So it's you know, it was just one 1119 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:29,040 Speaker 4: of those things where you know, I'm sure, I'm sure 1120 00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:31,000 Speaker 4: that's cool white people, and shit, I'm not, you know, 1121 00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,879 Speaker 4: because some people are like, well, don't let it so funny. 1122 00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:35,480 Speaker 4: It's like, don't let it turn you off for all 1123 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:37,719 Speaker 4: white people, and all white people aren't like that was 1124 00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:41,160 Speaker 4: like I didn't say that they were, but too I'm 1125 00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:43,520 Speaker 4: talking specifically about this group of people that I know, 1126 00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:46,879 Speaker 4: and I'm not the kind of person that just goes 1127 00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:48,759 Speaker 4: out and just tries to make friends with just any 1128 00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:52,680 Speaker 4: and everybody, right, So it's like, yeah, if this is 1129 00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,680 Speaker 4: the thing where we just don't kick it anymore, then 1130 00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,320 Speaker 4: that's just what it is. You know, it'll be okay. 1131 00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,719 Speaker 4: So yeah, it was just that. I think that was 1132 00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:07,239 Speaker 4: the empathus of what started out. The shit for me 1133 00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,920 Speaker 4: is just watching them change because like I said, I 1134 00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:11,560 Speaker 4: don't like. 1135 00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:14,279 Speaker 3: I don't and honestly like it's not about an. 1136 00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:19,480 Speaker 4: Iter racial dating relationship and shit, because a lot like 1137 00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:23,480 Speaker 4: you're in that person's life intimately, you'll be the first 1138 00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:24,920 Speaker 4: person to know when they start changing. 1139 00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:27,799 Speaker 3: I'm not in these people's lives every single day. They're 1140 00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:28,600 Speaker 3: not coming home to me. 1141 00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:32,200 Speaker 4: I don't know how people do it if they're with 1142 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:35,280 Speaker 4: a person of a different race to see shit completely. 1143 00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:36,240 Speaker 3: Opposite to them. 1144 00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:39,000 Speaker 4: I don't know what that life is like because I 1145 00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:42,560 Speaker 4: just can't imagine anybody doing that. There's black people that 1146 00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:45,640 Speaker 4: see stuff racially opposite from other black people that I 1147 00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:47,960 Speaker 4: couldn't imagine. I don't know how black people date like 1148 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:51,720 Speaker 4: another person, Like, how does a black woman date herman Kane, 1149 00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:55,279 Speaker 4: Like what does she believe? Like, like, what is being 1150 00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:58,920 Speaker 4: Carson's wife? Personal believes fucking with a nigga like being Carson. 1151 00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 4: I have no idea how those two kind of people 1152 00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:05,560 Speaker 4: find each other. But at any rate, Uh, I don't 1153 00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:09,799 Speaker 4: think it's just about well, this person is white and 1154 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,480 Speaker 4: that's why they're this way. I think it's these people 1155 00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:15,000 Speaker 4: are white and they and it's peer pressure. They don't 1156 00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 4: want to be Like the irony of him calling the 1157 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:23,040 Speaker 4: lone vocal white liberal in the group a sheep is amazing, cause, 1158 00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:26,479 Speaker 4: like these guys are sheep. They all believe the same shit, 1159 00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:29,359 Speaker 4: like not like they all sit around and they all 1160 00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:33,040 Speaker 4: agree all Democrats are their words. All we all need 1161 00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,520 Speaker 4: to get pickup trucks, we all need to get houses, 1162 00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:37,520 Speaker 4: we all need to have two point five kids. They're 1163 00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:40,160 Speaker 4: all the fucking same guy. But Yah, they call the 1164 00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:43,120 Speaker 4: one guy who's like, uh, he's a stay at home dad, 1165 00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:44,840 Speaker 4: and they like clowned him for being a stay at 1166 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 4: home dad on. 1167 00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:46,320 Speaker 3: The email list. 1168 00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:46,960 Speaker 5: Wow. 1169 00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, like that, Like they think that they're the ones 1170 00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:52,839 Speaker 4: who are so fucking bold and individual and it's like, no, 1171 00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:55,520 Speaker 4: you're just all backing each other up, and I don't 1172 00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:56,759 Speaker 4: want to be friends with people. 1173 00:54:56,520 --> 00:55:01,960 Speaker 6: Like that, right, Yeah, this is just me speaking from 1174 00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:06,680 Speaker 6: my opinion. I just think that eventually, like I said, 1175 00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,760 Speaker 6: it will be to the point where it's just gonna 1176 00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,560 Speaker 6: be no communication because you know, it's just you and 1177 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,360 Speaker 6: your personality and it's just one of those things where 1178 00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:18,200 Speaker 6: there are people out there that are cool, but it's 1179 00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:20,000 Speaker 6: just one of those things. But like you say, they 1180 00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:24,400 Speaker 6: feel that pressure mhm, and that pressure matters to a 1181 00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:25,160 Speaker 6: lot of them. 1182 00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:29,480 Speaker 3: We'll see, we'll see. Last voicemail. 1183 00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:36,520 Speaker 9: Anyone and Karen, longtime listening, long time follower. So as 1184 00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,000 Speaker 9: I share some love, say yeah, I appreciate what y'all doing. 1185 00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:42,719 Speaker 9: Keep doing your thing. I'm just trying to get back 1186 00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:45,400 Speaker 9: on my feet so I can get some money in 1187 00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:49,000 Speaker 9: y'all's pocket and go premium. Anyways, this is like I said, 1188 00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:53,000 Speaker 9: This is Malcolm from from Twitter to Houston Astro. Anyways, 1189 00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:57,880 Speaker 9: much love to y'all, Love love everything y'all do. Anyways, 1190 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,160 Speaker 9: be blessed and take care of keep doing. 1191 00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:05,320 Speaker 3: All right. Thank you, appreciate you listening, and thanks for calling. 1192 00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:08,560 Speaker 3: Let's talk. Let's know your name. I didn't even get 1193 00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:10,440 Speaker 3: your name on that did you. Did you say his name? 1194 00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:11,760 Speaker 5: He said, somebody from Houston. 1195 00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:14,440 Speaker 3: All right, yeah, say say that slowed down. I think 1196 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:15,600 Speaker 3: Houston astro. 1197 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:16,640 Speaker 5: Yes, that's it. 1198 00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:18,520 Speaker 4: Okay, all right, I think I know him on Twitter, 1199 00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:20,440 Speaker 4: but thank you to thank you. 1200 00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:23,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he's the Houston astro on Twitter. 1201 00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:24,600 Speaker 5: I thin, yes, I think it is. 1202 00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:25,600 Speaker 3: Yes, all right. 1203 00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:28,560 Speaker 4: Here is the emails and phone lines open seven O 1204 00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,000 Speaker 4: four five five seven zero one a six. That's seven 1205 00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:34,520 Speaker 4: O four five five seven zero one a six. Shay 1206 00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:37,960 Speaker 4: writs in birth control the key words that got me 1207 00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:41,840 Speaker 4: were without parental consent, So I was assuming the children 1208 00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:43,520 Speaker 4: being discussed had parents. 1209 00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:46,640 Speaker 3: Now it's the cams response about what about kids without parents? 1210 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 4: Despite a good mother, I had abusive men in my 1211 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:52,480 Speaker 4: life and was in the street at fourteen, and also 1212 00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:54,480 Speaker 4: no longer a virgin. I got no birth I got 1213 00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:57,360 Speaker 4: on birth control at that age. Hold on, let me 1214 00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,800 Speaker 4: answer this yo. You're on with the black guy tips. 1215 00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,120 Speaker 3: Oh shit, what happened? That was? That was the end 1216 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:02,920 Speaker 3: of that call. Okay. 1217 00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,080 Speaker 4: All of all of my first response last week, all 1218 00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:12,360 Speaker 4: of it was based on the ten years old without 1219 00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:14,520 Speaker 4: all ten years olds with parents? 1220 00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:16,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I hear you. 1221 00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:20,040 Speaker 4: Here's the other thing, though, that you have to consider 1222 00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:23,320 Speaker 4: on that shake, what about ten year olds with abusive, 1223 00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:27,520 Speaker 4: fucked up parents, right, you know, like it's still no, 1224 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,400 Speaker 4: you know, there's still no right answer like this. They're 1225 00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:33,480 Speaker 4: trying to solve a problem that is just ugly and 1226 00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:37,160 Speaker 4: fucked up, right, and we can judge them all they want. 1227 00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:40,080 Speaker 4: But if you had to make the rule for what 1228 00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:43,760 Speaker 4: do we do for these these girls that you know 1229 00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:49,120 Speaker 4: may be sexually active or may you know at this age, yeah, 1230 00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,000 Speaker 4: or you know, can possibly get pregnant through whatever's going 1231 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,480 Speaker 4: on in their life. It's hard to come up with 1232 00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:57,240 Speaker 4: a hard fast rule that catches everything. 1233 00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:59,320 Speaker 5: Oh stay, voicemailers picking up? 1234 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:07,000 Speaker 4: Oh okay, oh yeah, okay, let's see okay now try 1235 00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,480 Speaker 4: it should be should be good now. I don't know 1236 00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:13,120 Speaker 4: what that was, guys. I'm sorry Skype was fucking up. 1237 00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:16,120 Speaker 4: Uh but calling back now? 1238 00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:16,440 Speaker 9: All right? 1239 00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:19,560 Speaker 3: Ownership with my kids say says your children are not 1240 00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:23,880 Speaker 3: your children. They come through you, but are not for you. 1241 00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:26,280 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, all right, not a call it yo. 1242 00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:29,040 Speaker 4: You're on with the blackout tips? 1243 00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:33,959 Speaker 2: Hey Rod, Hey, Harris, Leslie, Max, how are you? I'm 1244 00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:37,240 Speaker 2: doing good? I have been meetings to call for a 1245 00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:40,560 Speaker 2: couple of weeks. Because I've just been like getting my 1246 00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:44,280 Speaker 2: life on these most recent shows, and so thank you 1247 00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,960 Speaker 2: guys for that. I wanted to speak real quick about 1248 00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:50,320 Speaker 2: the whole restaurant thing because I was a restaurant manager 1249 00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:52,760 Speaker 2: for about ten years. I was a restaurant general manager 1250 00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:56,720 Speaker 2: and went through all of the various areas that you 1251 00:58:56,720 --> 00:59:00,360 Speaker 2: guys were talking about, and one of the reasons why 1252 00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:02,800 Speaker 2: I got out of it was because of the atmosphere 1253 00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 2: and like what the expectation is of restaurant managers, which 1254 00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:10,120 Speaker 2: is like control costs at all above everything else, yes, 1255 00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:16,760 Speaker 2: and like tying people's monetary compensation to things like making 1256 00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:21,200 Speaker 2: sure nobody goes into overtime no matter what, right, even 1257 00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,920 Speaker 2: if you needed them, even if it was a detriment 1258 00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,920 Speaker 2: to the guests, a detriment to the rest of the staff. 1259 00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:30,560 Speaker 2: Like that's the kind of stuff that is valued in 1260 00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 2: that industry. And it's really just horrible all the way around, 1261 00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:39,160 Speaker 2: and a lot needs to be done about it. And 1262 00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:41,160 Speaker 2: it's funny because I have been trying to think of 1263 00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:45,320 Speaker 2: like how it got this way, because you know, in 1264 00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:48,160 Speaker 2: fine dining, let's talk about that for a little bit. 1265 00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:54,040 Speaker 2: It's a very different animal. The expectation is that you're 1266 00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:57,040 Speaker 2: a professional person, that you're treated as such. And it 1267 00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:59,320 Speaker 2: used to be like that for all service jobs, but 1268 01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:05,800 Speaker 2: much like the airlines, once it got considered mainstreamed or 1269 01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:09,960 Speaker 2: that the average person was interacting with these individuals or 1270 01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:15,360 Speaker 2: this job function, it s flipped and into menial tasks 1271 01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:19,760 Speaker 2: and that just goes into also like a lot of 1272 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,120 Speaker 2: other problems with kind of like people looking down on 1273 01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,240 Speaker 2: the work that other people do. But I just look 1274 01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:27,480 Speaker 2: a voice that you know, it's definitely something that comes 1275 01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:32,120 Speaker 2: from bad operators, bad owners, which contribute to a bad industry. 1276 01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:35,440 Speaker 2: The reason why the wage has never been raised is 1277 01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:39,640 Speaker 2: because the National Restaurant Association made a deal with Congress 1278 01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:42,760 Speaker 2: and they said it will be okay, we'll go along 1279 01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:46,240 Speaker 2: with you raising these the minimum wage whenever you want to, 1280 01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:50,520 Speaker 2: but you have to freeze this stuff for our tipps labor. 1281 01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:53,480 Speaker 2: And it was a deal with the devil and our 1282 01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:56,120 Speaker 2: lawmaker sold us out to this industry that had a 1283 01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 2: lot of pull. It spent a lot of money lobbying them, 1284 01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:01,240 Speaker 2: and that's where we sit today, and it's really shitty. 1285 01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:05,280 Speaker 2: And I agree that the time is comfort to change, yeah, 1286 01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:06,360 Speaker 2: but hopefully. 1287 01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:09,200 Speaker 4: It's like it's one of those things too, where like 1288 01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:13,560 Speaker 4: it fe's into so many different parts of different people's egos, 1289 01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:19,640 Speaker 4: because people do feel some type of like release having 1290 01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:21,760 Speaker 4: control over somebody when they go out to eat. Like 1291 01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:24,880 Speaker 4: it's like I've seen people have these really weird debates 1292 01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:29,080 Speaker 4: where it's like, wait a minute, you get off on 1293 01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,840 Speaker 4: running people around, you know, Like and if you've been 1294 01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:33,960 Speaker 4: a waiter or you worked in the service industry, you've 1295 01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,960 Speaker 4: seen those type of customers that do stuff like put 1296 01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:39,160 Speaker 4: ten dollars on the table in ones and they're like, 1297 01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:41,760 Speaker 4: every time you make a mistake, I'm gonna take one 1298 01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:42,520 Speaker 4: of these ones off. 1299 01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:44,480 Speaker 3: And you're like, what the asshole does that? 1300 01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:47,600 Speaker 4: Like keep that talent in your motherfucking head or the 1301 01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 4: you know, hey, I'm gonna tell you right now, I 1302 01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:54,000 Speaker 4: like my tee fool now if it gets below this line, 1303 01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:56,200 Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know what's gonna happen. 1304 01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:58,400 Speaker 3: You're like, just could you just keep could you just 1305 01:01:58,480 --> 01:01:59,400 Speaker 3: not right? 1306 01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:00,480 Speaker 5: For me? 1307 01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:02,280 Speaker 6: If I go out to eat with you and your 1308 01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:05,200 Speaker 6: like that we will never go out to eat again. Yeah, 1309 01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,920 Speaker 6: because I'm not. I don't deal with that. And I 1310 01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:11,880 Speaker 6: remember me and one of my good friends once a 1311 01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:15,160 Speaker 6: year we get up and we normally go wherever we 1312 01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:17,400 Speaker 6: wance a year because her schedule is busy, my schedule busy. 1313 01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:18,360 Speaker 5: Normally, whenever we go. 1314 01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:22,760 Speaker 6: Out to eat, we normally tip the a person, sometimes 1315 01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:25,040 Speaker 6: more than the meal because we will sit and talk 1316 01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:28,240 Speaker 6: for like four to five hours sometimes like because we 1317 01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:31,920 Speaker 6: haven't seen each other and like forever, and so me serving, 1318 01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:35,240 Speaker 6: I understand, we got your table tied up. So guess what, 1319 01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:37,320 Speaker 6: You're not getting a turn A lot of people don't 1320 01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:40,560 Speaker 6: understand this. You're not getting a turnover. The average person 1321 01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,400 Speaker 6: eats between twenty to thirty minutes, maybe forty five to 1322 01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:45,560 Speaker 6: maybe in an hour at the longest, and they get 1323 01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:46,280 Speaker 6: up and they leave. 1324 01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:47,640 Speaker 5: If I'm sitting there. 1325 01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:49,840 Speaker 6: For five hours, it's probably four or five tables that 1326 01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:53,080 Speaker 6: you're not getting. So I compensate you that and sipping 1327 01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:55,960 Speaker 6: on the backside. I know a lot of times I 1328 01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:58,480 Speaker 6: don't tell them that, and most servants don't. You know, 1329 01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:01,200 Speaker 6: they don't really you don't to get an attitude with them. 1330 01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,240 Speaker 6: I mean, they don't give you an attitude. But me 1331 01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:07,400 Speaker 6: from understanding how the industry goes, I compensate them for. 1332 01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:12,800 Speaker 2: That, right absolutely. So Anyways, I just wanted to mention 1333 01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:15,760 Speaker 2: that and I'm hoping that this fight for fifteen and 1334 01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:18,840 Speaker 2: just push on the minimum wage will trickle into a 1335 01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:23,040 Speaker 2: broader conversation about compensation or society and what it means 1336 01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:25,920 Speaker 2: to people and value of them and the work that 1337 01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:27,680 Speaker 2: they do. So, yeah, it's. 1338 01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:28,120 Speaker 3: Good to see. 1339 01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:31,640 Speaker 4: It's good to see restaurants taking it upon themselves too, right, 1340 01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:33,800 Speaker 4: Like some people are being really forward thinking. And I 1341 01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:36,640 Speaker 4: actually have a couple of articles saved to read later 1342 01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:40,600 Speaker 4: this week about companies that are restaurants that are just 1343 01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:44,000 Speaker 4: being like, effic we'll do it ourselves, like it actually 1344 01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:46,160 Speaker 4: makes for a better business model for us as well, 1345 01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:49,120 Speaker 4: you know, So I would like to see more. 1346 01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:51,360 Speaker 3: Companies doing and if those companies. 1347 01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:54,640 Speaker 4: Can get it done, I don't know why, you know, 1348 01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:56,800 Speaker 4: we couldn't just pass a lot to be like, let's 1349 01:03:56,840 --> 01:04:00,440 Speaker 4: cut this shit out and stop letting they such as 1350 01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:05,160 Speaker 4: racism and bigotry and preference rule, like how much people 1351 01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:07,080 Speaker 4: get to make that's so stupid. 1352 01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:10,400 Speaker 2: Absolutely, And it's just another one of those situations where 1353 01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:12,960 Speaker 2: like it doesn't make any sense all around because it 1354 01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:15,400 Speaker 2: doesn't make sense to the government. You have people not 1355 01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:19,320 Speaker 2: being compensated or not paying their taxes correctly one way 1356 01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:22,640 Speaker 2: or the other, So right there, that's stupid, And if 1357 01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:25,720 Speaker 2: people were paid and compensated in a normal salary way, 1358 01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:29,560 Speaker 2: they'd be able to have that part that loop closed. 1359 01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:33,000 Speaker 2: And I also just think that these businesses like you 1360 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,960 Speaker 2: were saying how it's easy to replace servers, and I 1361 01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:38,360 Speaker 2: think that is true. There's always more service to have, 1362 01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:41,040 Speaker 2: But the biggest cost you have as an operator is turnover. 1363 01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:43,320 Speaker 2: It costs a lot of money to retrain someone. You 1364 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:46,560 Speaker 2: lose time of somebody just being there on the clock 1365 01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:47,960 Speaker 2: because you do have to pay them more than a 1366 01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:49,680 Speaker 2: minimum You have to pay them at least minimum wage 1367 01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:51,960 Speaker 2: when they're training, right, And there's a lot that goes 1368 01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,360 Speaker 2: into like the hiring process and time you spend training them, 1369 01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:58,000 Speaker 2: materials you spend training them. It fly makes the best 1370 01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:00,320 Speaker 2: sense as an operator to keep your toneover as low 1371 01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:02,960 Speaker 2: as possible. So it completely makes sense to me when 1372 01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:04,840 Speaker 2: you see these restaurants like, no, we want to keep 1373 01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:06,800 Speaker 2: our good service. We want to keep them happy and 1374 01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:08,480 Speaker 2: make sure that we have a solid team that we 1375 01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:11,480 Speaker 2: back up our employees correctly. So I think it. 1376 01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:14,240 Speaker 4: Makes h But you know, once you get the job, 1377 01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:17,840 Speaker 4: they do Like I knew that being a server was 1378 01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:21,160 Speaker 4: pretty much like depending on where you're at obviously right, 1379 01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:24,560 Speaker 4: But for like how I knew it just didn't matter 1380 01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,840 Speaker 4: because they were like, oh, can you just work a 1381 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:27,440 Speaker 4: double to day? 1382 01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:29,520 Speaker 3: Like I had plans, I had things to do. 1383 01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:33,000 Speaker 4: But then when you're like, no, I can't, then it's like, oh, well, 1384 01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:34,520 Speaker 4: maybe we need to get rid of you. And you're like, 1385 01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:39,400 Speaker 4: so basically it cost you nothing to say this, like Okay, 1386 01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:41,640 Speaker 4: instead of eight hours, I need you to work sixteen 1387 01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:43,040 Speaker 4: because fuck it, you know what I. 1388 01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:45,600 Speaker 3: Mean, It's not cost of a thing. So it really 1389 01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:47,640 Speaker 3: lets you know. And I wish everybody. 1390 01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:50,880 Speaker 4: I wish it was mandatory that everybody in America had 1391 01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:53,720 Speaker 4: to work in the food service industry for just like 1392 01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:56,840 Speaker 4: a summer, just so they can understand. 1393 01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:58,000 Speaker 3: Because it teaches people a lot. 1394 01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:00,400 Speaker 4: And you can really tell the people that have been 1395 01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:02,240 Speaker 4: on both sides of it a lot of times because 1396 01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,240 Speaker 4: you're like, oh, okay, that's yeah. 1397 01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:06,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, you're the person who has who has all who 1398 01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:09,760 Speaker 6: has the dumb ass philosophy that the customer is always 1399 01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:12,360 Speaker 6: right when that bullshit is a lot of times, depending 1400 01:06:12,360 --> 01:06:15,040 Speaker 6: on what it is, is not true. And it's just 1401 01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,200 Speaker 6: one of those things where when you're talking about it 1402 01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:21,680 Speaker 6: from the manager perspective. A lot of times when you 1403 01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:24,120 Speaker 6: calculate a manager's paid because they are like the manager, 1404 01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:27,760 Speaker 6: they get paid salary a lot of times in those industries, 1405 01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:29,560 Speaker 6: and by the time you calculate it out, some of 1406 01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:31,160 Speaker 6: them make less than service per hour. 1407 01:06:31,320 --> 01:06:33,040 Speaker 5: Because I've seen managers. 1408 01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:36,960 Speaker 6: Open closed, open closed, open closed, seven six twenty days. 1409 01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:40,120 Speaker 2: Out of the life. It's like ridiculous. The expectations are 1410 01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:43,560 Speaker 2: insane and you don't have a life at all whatsoever. 1411 01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:47,360 Speaker 2: So but I do agree with the whole, Like everybody, 1412 01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:49,640 Speaker 2: you can just tell when somebody has when somebody hasn't. 1413 01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:51,720 Speaker 2: Even when you go out with them, you can tell, yeap, oh, 1414 01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:55,280 Speaker 2: you're one of those people. Cool or not cool actually 1415 01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:57,560 Speaker 2: because right now cool? 1416 01:06:58,960 --> 01:06:59,160 Speaker 4: Right. 1417 01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:01,480 Speaker 2: So I don't want to take up too much more time, 1418 01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:03,439 Speaker 2: but I do want to touch on the whole being 1419 01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:06,000 Speaker 2: the only black friend thing that you have been talking 1420 01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:08,440 Speaker 2: about kind of ongoing this last week. I know I 1421 01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:11,360 Speaker 2: tweeted it out, but Drew and I are just like, 1422 01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:14,200 Speaker 2: really were feeling your discussion about it, Rob and like 1423 01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:17,040 Speaker 2: how difficult it is to have that moment with people 1424 01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,080 Speaker 2: that I'm not going to say that you are close to, 1425 01:07:19,200 --> 01:07:22,880 Speaker 2: but people that you were acquaintances with and thought a 1426 01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:25,120 Speaker 2: certain way about and how it can slip so quickly. 1427 01:07:25,160 --> 01:07:27,720 Speaker 2: And then Drew mentioned this, this quote I've never heard 1428 01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:29,680 Speaker 2: in my life, and he said that white people say it. 1429 01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:32,280 Speaker 2: I wrote it down. He says, if you aren't a 1430 01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:35,720 Speaker 2: Democrat when you're young, you don't have a heart, and 1431 01:07:35,800 --> 01:07:39,040 Speaker 2: if you aren't a Republican when you're old, you have 1432 01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:39,880 Speaker 2: a bank account. 1433 01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:42,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he said that. I actually remember that too. 1434 01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:46,840 Speaker 4: I listened to that episode and I was it's kind 1435 01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:49,400 Speaker 4: of like the other day, white people say the whole 1436 01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:55,760 Speaker 4: like democrat is just a Republican, has never a Republican's 1437 01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:57,680 Speaker 4: just a Democrat that's been robbed or something like that, 1438 01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:00,360 Speaker 4: where you're just like, you're like, man, why you've got 1439 01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:03,280 Speaker 4: some fucked up sayings. But it's you know, when we 1440 01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:07,960 Speaker 4: ain't around the shit. But in general, though, that is whiteness. 1441 01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,640 Speaker 4: And I don't think I think because white stream whiteness 1442 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:15,320 Speaker 4: is mainstream in America, we don't necessarily consider that peer pressure, 1443 01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:19,760 Speaker 4: but it is. It's absolutely peer pressure on white men, especially, 1444 01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:23,680 Speaker 4: but I'm sure white women too, to become more conservative. 1445 01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:27,559 Speaker 4: It's just hey, you're a certain age, have these kids 1446 01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:32,880 Speaker 4: get this house? Stop voting democrat, start thinking about just yourself. 1447 01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:37,080 Speaker 4: And I've watched it happen to these guys, and like 1448 01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:40,960 Speaker 4: I said, like to me, it feels like a huge 1449 01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:45,479 Speaker 4: hypocrisy because I know the ship they got into when 1450 01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:48,520 Speaker 4: they were younger, and I'm like, how could you possibly 1451 01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:50,639 Speaker 4: be okay with this other shit? 1452 01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:51,439 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 1453 01:08:51,520 --> 01:08:55,080 Speaker 4: And and by extension, how could you possibly be okay 1454 01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:55,320 Speaker 4: with me? 1455 01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:59,280 Speaker 5: Right right? It makes you question a lot of things. 1456 01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:03,040 Speaker 6: Now, listen to that show two and one thing Drew 1457 01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:05,680 Speaker 6: said that really stood out to me when he was 1458 01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:08,160 Speaker 6: talking about his friend that came over to you guys 1459 01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:10,320 Speaker 6: house and y'all was talking to him, and now he said, 1460 01:09:10,360 --> 01:09:13,760 Speaker 6: he called and texting the person won't respond. That relationship 1461 01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:16,480 Speaker 6: is over, you know, and the other person has decided 1462 01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:20,160 Speaker 6: that they cannot deal with you and the white men, 1463 01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:23,519 Speaker 6: and just like everybody else, they want to be included also. 1464 01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:27,000 Speaker 6: So it's very hard for somebody with Jew's perspective because 1465 01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:28,800 Speaker 6: they look at Drew the same way they look at me. 1466 01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:30,280 Speaker 5: Why you keep bringing up race? 1467 01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:32,559 Speaker 6: Grow And it's just one of those things where when 1468 01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:35,880 Speaker 6: you make white people, particularly white men, think about race, 1469 01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:38,599 Speaker 6: you make them think about how fucked up society is, 1470 01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:41,120 Speaker 6: and a lot of that white guilt kind of settles 1471 01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:43,880 Speaker 6: in and it's one of those things where they feel like, well, 1472 01:09:43,920 --> 01:09:46,960 Speaker 6: I'm not responsible. Know you as an individual may not, 1473 01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:49,240 Speaker 6: but the culture in general is. 1474 01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:51,960 Speaker 4: And well, if you want to be in the social circle, 1475 01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:55,080 Speaker 4: you're gonna have to give those things up. It's just 1476 01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:58,080 Speaker 4: what it is like if you they're like, it's funny 1477 01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:01,479 Speaker 4: because it's been days now, people still tweeting me. I 1478 01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:04,120 Speaker 4: had a friend that someone told me today. I had 1479 01:10:04,160 --> 01:10:07,320 Speaker 4: a friend who, in order to stop being ostracized from 1480 01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:10,080 Speaker 4: his family, had to start being conservative. 1481 01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:12,880 Speaker 3: Like that's how deep it is. 1482 01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:14,639 Speaker 4: And like I said about the Chick fil A, shit, 1483 01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:19,840 Speaker 4: I'm so sick of people who are right having to 1484 01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:22,320 Speaker 4: give up and just deal with people that are biggest 1485 01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:26,160 Speaker 4: and shit because they are there's more of them, and 1486 01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:29,160 Speaker 4: we just our society just treats it like it's normal, 1487 01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:33,479 Speaker 4: Like it's actually not okay to be homophobic. And if 1488 01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:37,200 Speaker 4: your grandma is being super homophobic, I don't understand why 1489 01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:39,759 Speaker 4: you need to let her ostracize you from the family. 1490 01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:41,880 Speaker 4: Why can't we be like I'm not going down your house. 1491 01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:44,800 Speaker 4: You want to see the grandkids, don't you like all 1492 01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:46,920 Speaker 4: you care about is the fucking grandkids anyway, Well, how 1493 01:10:46,920 --> 01:10:49,280 Speaker 4: about you change your views or how about you learn 1494 01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:51,639 Speaker 4: to at least hold your tongue when my kids are around, 1495 01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:53,120 Speaker 4: because I don't want to be and raised around that 1496 01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:55,040 Speaker 4: bullshit and I don't want to have it in my 1497 01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:57,639 Speaker 4: fucking life as well. And that's how I feel about this, 1498 01:10:57,720 --> 01:11:00,680 Speaker 4: Where I didn't mean for this would come like some 1499 01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:03,680 Speaker 4: militant stance, but I feel like that's where I'm at, 1500 01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:06,400 Speaker 4: where I'm like, no, I'm not dealing with this shit anymore, 1501 01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:08,080 Speaker 4: and I don't have to because. 1502 01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:10,400 Speaker 3: I respect my fucking self right. 1503 01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:13,080 Speaker 6: And to piggyback on what you were saying, that's a 1504 01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:15,880 Speaker 6: hard stance because it's just one of those things where 1505 01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:19,759 Speaker 6: if you make that stance, everybody makes you feel bad, 1506 01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:23,040 Speaker 6: you know, even on social media, like for some reason 1507 01:11:23,080 --> 01:11:26,080 Speaker 6: people put parents on a pedestal like parents can't be 1508 01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:29,640 Speaker 6: wrong and parents can't make mistakes, and parents are the 1509 01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:32,479 Speaker 6: these perfect entities. When parents have put fucked up views 1510 01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:35,120 Speaker 6: because of human beings, when parents have fucked up opinions 1511 01:11:35,120 --> 01:11:37,880 Speaker 6: because of human beings, when parents can be manipulative also, 1512 01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:41,040 Speaker 6: and you as an adult can make an adult decision 1513 01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:43,520 Speaker 6: about your parents, and that's very hard to do sometimes. 1514 01:11:45,200 --> 01:11:47,800 Speaker 2: Definitely, something that I've been also talking with a lot 1515 01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:51,000 Speaker 2: of people about is like the need for like white 1516 01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:55,960 Speaker 2: identity development. Like that's something that white folks don't talk 1517 01:11:56,000 --> 01:12:00,400 Speaker 2: about because their identity is considered the norm. But the 1518 01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:03,920 Speaker 2: second layer to kind of like the idea that black 1519 01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:09,559 Speaker 2: lives matter and being unapologetically black is this internal shift 1520 01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:12,040 Speaker 2: of kind of like being okay with who you are. 1521 01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:14,600 Speaker 2: And I think white people never have to get to 1522 01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:18,559 Speaker 2: that place because their identity is considered norm and so 1523 01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:21,280 Speaker 2: they never actually have to confront what it means, what 1524 01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:24,479 Speaker 2: the identity entails, and what it means in the world, 1525 01:12:24,479 --> 01:12:26,679 Speaker 2: and what it should mean to them. It's a really 1526 01:12:26,840 --> 01:12:30,720 Speaker 2: like fucked up thing that happens in white culture, and 1527 01:12:30,880 --> 01:12:34,080 Speaker 2: this peer pressure that Rob has been highlighting this last 1528 01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:36,960 Speaker 2: couple of weeks is a big part of it, because 1529 01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:39,639 Speaker 2: it's easy for them to think that it's right because 1530 01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:42,479 Speaker 2: everybody else is doing it, and because it's the norm 1531 01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:45,440 Speaker 2: and they have so much power, they never have to 1532 01:12:45,439 --> 01:12:47,720 Speaker 2: confront the realities of those decisions. 1533 01:12:47,760 --> 01:12:52,960 Speaker 4: So yeah, actually I'm sorry this segments going on, but 1534 01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:56,280 Speaker 4: I don't care neither. Actually, this morning I was playing 1535 01:12:56,320 --> 01:12:58,719 Speaker 4: basketball and I was talking to three other black dudes, 1536 01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:01,320 Speaker 4: Justin being one of them, and we were talking about 1537 01:13:01,320 --> 01:13:04,599 Speaker 4: who we're gonna vote for in the election and kind 1538 01:13:04,600 --> 01:13:07,840 Speaker 4: of mocking the candidates, and this older black dude named 1539 01:13:07,880 --> 01:13:10,280 Speaker 4: Dave was like giving me a Justin a hard time, 1540 01:13:10,439 --> 01:13:12,120 Speaker 4: like making a joke that we were gonna vote for 1541 01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:17,000 Speaker 4: being Carson. You know, he's like, y'all from being Carson 1542 01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:18,719 Speaker 4: and he always calls me Rotney. 1543 01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:20,280 Speaker 3: It is not my name, but. 1544 01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:25,040 Speaker 4: So he'll be like Roten, You're like you are being 1545 01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:27,720 Speaker 4: Carson voter, you gonna vote for them? And I'm like no, 1546 01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:30,880 Speaker 4: and Justin and he started voth trolling back, being like, yeah, 1547 01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:33,320 Speaker 4: we all gonna vote for him, and you know, we 1548 01:13:33,360 --> 01:13:36,280 Speaker 4: agree with his policies Obamacare and slavery, but it was 1549 01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:39,599 Speaker 4: all mocking, like we were basically making fun of how 1550 01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:42,640 Speaker 4: stupid that shit sounded. So uh and and Dave was 1551 01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:44,280 Speaker 4: in on the joke. He was sucking with us back 1552 01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:46,160 Speaker 4: and all this stuff. And then we had kind of 1553 01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:50,240 Speaker 4: a serious discussion about like this guy Gary, he has 1554 01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:53,880 Speaker 4: a child and he's like, you know, my child is like, 1555 01:13:54,080 --> 01:13:56,400 Speaker 4: you know, going to a private school that's mostly white, 1556 01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:58,879 Speaker 4: and he kind of hates it because of that pressure 1557 01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:03,120 Speaker 4: from white kids is and he's like, you know, now 1558 01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:06,240 Speaker 4: it's like right, since the quote unquote racism is over, 1559 01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:08,559 Speaker 4: it's like the kid, his kid has to deal with 1560 01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:13,599 Speaker 4: openly blatant infractions of racial shit all the time because hey, 1561 01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:16,040 Speaker 4: it's over. So I you know, as a white kid, 1562 01:14:16,160 --> 01:14:19,000 Speaker 4: if we're on the football team together and there's fucking 1563 01:14:19,240 --> 01:14:22,960 Speaker 4: twenty seven white kids and five black ones and we 1564 01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:24,680 Speaker 4: want to play music that has the N word in 1565 01:14:24,680 --> 01:14:26,360 Speaker 4: the locker room, we're gonna say the N word too, 1566 01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:29,640 Speaker 4: and it's like that, you know, the black kids just 1567 01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:32,240 Speaker 4: feel like, oh, that's terrible, but they don't say shit, 1568 01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:35,720 Speaker 4: you know. So anyway, we're having this discussion and this 1569 01:14:35,800 --> 01:14:38,920 Speaker 4: white dude comes over trying to get in discussion, and 1570 01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:42,760 Speaker 4: he's like, yeah, man, well cause you know, I'm just like, 1571 01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:44,640 Speaker 4: you know, I'm not voting for no Republican. 1572 01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:45,160 Speaker 3: Fuck it. 1573 01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:46,960 Speaker 4: I can't think of any one of them I would 1574 01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:50,040 Speaker 4: vote for. And he's like, yeah, man, well, you know, 1575 01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:52,599 Speaker 4: well I when the Mexicans come, I mean, they taking 1576 01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:55,040 Speaker 4: all the jobs and they're doing this, and you know 1577 01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:55,680 Speaker 4: they're doing that. 1578 01:14:55,720 --> 01:14:56,919 Speaker 3: And I'm just like looking. 1579 01:14:56,720 --> 01:15:01,439 Speaker 4: At him, like, wait, you think right that I would 1580 01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:05,920 Speaker 4: go like he was actually legitimately shocked that. I was like, 1581 01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:12,680 Speaker 4: I don't hate Mexicans, this ain't your country and that 1582 01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:15,639 Speaker 4: and not just that, but I wouldn't agree with you 1583 01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:19,080 Speaker 4: on anything racist because when I'm not around, you're just 1584 01:15:19,080 --> 01:15:20,599 Speaker 4: gonna say that shit about black people. 1585 01:15:20,760 --> 01:15:23,080 Speaker 3: Like I'm not stupid, man, you know what I mean. 1586 01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:26,400 Speaker 4: But he was actually shocked, which means he's talked to 1587 01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:31,760 Speaker 4: enough black people have co signed that, Yeah, who were 1588 01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:35,280 Speaker 4: able to be like, Okay, I wouldn't vote for Republicans 1589 01:15:35,320 --> 01:15:38,840 Speaker 4: because of what they say about us, but the ship 1590 01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:41,639 Speaker 4: they say about anybody else, Okay, you know what I mean. 1591 01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,639 Speaker 4: And I'm like, nah, that divided conquer shit isn't gonna work. 1592 01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:47,320 Speaker 4: I mean, I started trolling back. He was like, cause, 1593 01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:50,240 Speaker 4: you know, Mexicans gonna come and have a lot of kids. 1594 01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:52,680 Speaker 4: I was like, well, they women is fun. It's like 1595 01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:55,479 Speaker 4: it costs a lot of money to have them. And 1596 01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:57,320 Speaker 4: I was like, but their food is so delicious and 1597 01:15:57,360 --> 01:15:59,960 Speaker 4: it's it. It doesn't even cost much. They can see 1598 01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:03,280 Speaker 4: like like I was just using stereotypes to go back 1599 01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:06,040 Speaker 4: at his stereotypes, and shit's they're gonna take our jobs. 1600 01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:08,519 Speaker 3: I was like, well, they are very industrious workers. I mean, 1601 01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:09,679 Speaker 3: can we just be honest. 1602 01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:11,680 Speaker 4: I don't want to do that shit you're gonna get 1603 01:16:11,680 --> 01:16:14,400 Speaker 4: on the roof, you know, shit like that where but 1604 01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:16,920 Speaker 4: it was but it was this idea, and I hate 1605 01:16:16,960 --> 01:16:20,040 Speaker 4: this idea, especially from white people, that I would somehow 1606 01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:26,120 Speaker 4: be okay with being racist against brown people and not 1607 01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:28,400 Speaker 4: think it's gonna trickle back down to my black ass 1608 01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:31,240 Speaker 4: at some point, Like we're not we're not allies in that. 1609 01:16:31,840 --> 01:16:34,080 Speaker 4: Once they're gone and we're next, that's all that all 1610 01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:39,240 Speaker 4: it's gonna happen. And it was funny because he was like, 1611 01:16:39,320 --> 01:16:42,040 Speaker 4: you know, cause immigration, and I was like, actually, you 1612 01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:45,440 Speaker 4: know what, I noticed a radical. 1613 01:16:45,120 --> 01:16:47,519 Speaker 3: Thing to say. I don't give a fuck. Let them 1614 01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:49,439 Speaker 3: all in. I don't give a fuck anymore. I feel 1615 01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:52,439 Speaker 3: like that too, Like it's like, honestly, you're it's so 1616 01:16:52,680 --> 01:16:54,920 Speaker 3: ridiculous the things that are happening to people that. 1617 01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:57,280 Speaker 4: It's kind of like the gun debate where it just 1618 01:16:57,280 --> 01:16:59,080 Speaker 4: had to I just got to the point where I'm like, yeah, 1619 01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:00,000 Speaker 4: that's fine, just let them out. 1620 01:17:00,640 --> 01:17:03,160 Speaker 5: I feel like a citizens it. 1621 01:17:04,160 --> 01:17:07,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's such a like obnoxious thing because one, 1622 01:17:07,240 --> 01:17:10,320 Speaker 2: there are black Mexicans, so that's number one like, right 1623 01:17:10,360 --> 01:17:12,200 Speaker 2: off the bat, that's the stupid thing to say. And 1624 01:17:12,280 --> 01:17:16,679 Speaker 2: it's also this idea of connection through degrading other people, 1625 01:17:16,760 --> 01:17:21,080 Speaker 2: like that's where you go. Why right, that's not that's 1626 01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:23,880 Speaker 2: not a base level emotion that I need to connect 1627 01:17:23,880 --> 01:17:26,880 Speaker 2: with you on. But it is a common denominator in 1628 01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:28,960 Speaker 2: white culture, which goes back to the other thing I 1629 01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:31,680 Speaker 2: was saying for sure. Anyways, this has gone on a 1630 01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:33,960 Speaker 2: long time and I'm sorry, but like literally I had 1631 01:17:34,000 --> 01:17:35,600 Speaker 2: all this tends up for a couple of weeks that 1632 01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:38,000 Speaker 2: wanted to just talk with you guys about him, all 1633 01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:40,160 Speaker 2: the guys. You guys are awesome and thanks as always. 1634 01:17:40,320 --> 01:17:42,920 Speaker 4: Yea man, thank you so much, Leslie and shout out 1635 01:17:42,920 --> 01:17:46,000 Speaker 4: to Drew as well at the interracial job. 1636 01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:47,000 Speaker 3: Man, We're talking to you soon. 1637 01:17:47,800 --> 01:17:51,679 Speaker 2: All right, thanks I guys, peace, So. 1638 01:17:51,640 --> 01:17:53,960 Speaker 3: We got more. What was that right with this email? 1639 01:17:54,000 --> 01:17:54,280 Speaker 3: All right? 1640 01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:58,000 Speaker 4: Let me get back to this email, say says, uh, yeah, 1641 01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:00,479 Speaker 4: your children are not your children. They come through you, 1642 01:18:00,560 --> 01:18:04,960 Speaker 4: but are not of you. Author Khalil grib Ron, I 1643 01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:07,439 Speaker 4: so understand that grew with so many of your points. 1644 01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:09,080 Speaker 3: I was just hot about it. Love you guys. 1645 01:18:09,160 --> 01:18:10,640 Speaker 5: Oh, I understand, baby. 1646 01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:14,599 Speaker 3: Thank you, say She also says gay husband. 1647 01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:17,360 Speaker 4: The only hand I would have needed to convince me 1648 01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:19,439 Speaker 4: he wasn't gay is his parents taking the time to 1649 01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:21,720 Speaker 4: sit down and convince me that he wasn't. I mean, 1650 01:18:21,840 --> 01:18:24,320 Speaker 4: come on, out of all the stories you've ever heard 1651 01:18:24,360 --> 01:18:27,040 Speaker 4: hanging around talking with your girlfriends, have you ever heard 1652 01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:29,559 Speaker 4: any of them say, yeah, I had to talk with 1653 01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:30,639 Speaker 4: his parents last night. 1654 01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:33,000 Speaker 3: They swear he's not gay. So what's set? We said, 1655 01:18:33,000 --> 01:18:33,360 Speaker 3: a date? 1656 01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:35,920 Speaker 4: Out of all the chick flicks you have ever watched, 1657 01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:40,360 Speaker 4: has that ever been the plot? No, bitch, No, that's 1658 01:18:40,400 --> 01:18:45,639 Speaker 4: a very unique situation. M m, she says Amy Schumer. 1659 01:18:46,080 --> 01:18:48,000 Speaker 4: I think she didn't steal the joke for the simple 1660 01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:50,639 Speaker 4: fact that sex physicians and what they are called, belong 1661 01:18:50,760 --> 01:18:55,439 Speaker 4: to no one. I'm I'm eleven years old than any 1662 01:18:55,520 --> 01:18:57,519 Speaker 4: it had turned and had heard of some of them 1663 01:18:57,560 --> 01:19:01,080 Speaker 4: in school and heard of some she didn't mention those 1664 01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:03,000 Speaker 4: types of jokes in universe are subject to change of 1665 01:19:03,000 --> 01:19:05,200 Speaker 4: the delivery due to the place you live, your race, 1666 01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:07,519 Speaker 4: your culture. Yeah, I don't think she stole that joke either. 1667 01:19:07,560 --> 01:19:09,320 Speaker 4: I think I already said she stole that joke because 1668 01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:12,360 Speaker 4: they don't like Amy Shumar. It's also the same, it's 1669 01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:13,479 Speaker 4: also the same kind of joke. 1670 01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:17,679 Speaker 3: Ass. What's grosser than gross? Everybody tells them and delivery varies. 1671 01:19:17,920 --> 01:19:21,040 Speaker 4: You know, hey, I think people just are not very 1672 01:19:21,080 --> 01:19:22,559 Speaker 4: impartial when it comes to shit like that. 1673 01:19:23,560 --> 01:19:26,679 Speaker 3: Shay also says episode ten fifty six, what the fuck? 1674 01:19:26,840 --> 01:19:29,080 Speaker 4: I don't know what It's hard to believe that a 1675 01:19:29,160 --> 01:19:31,200 Speaker 4: high school would play that racist ass song in a 1676 01:19:31,200 --> 01:19:32,439 Speaker 4: football game, or that. 1677 01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:34,479 Speaker 3: They expect us to believe as an accident. 1678 01:19:34,720 --> 01:19:36,920 Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not sure what stereo system they're using 1679 01:19:37,000 --> 01:19:39,360 Speaker 4: at that stupid ass school, but I'm pretty sure every 1680 01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:41,439 Speaker 4: stereo may has a stop button right next to the 1681 01:19:41,439 --> 01:19:44,880 Speaker 4: play button. Try push, Try pushing it, dumb ass. If 1682 01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:47,479 Speaker 4: it was an accident, then why was it played in 1683 01:19:47,520 --> 01:19:50,160 Speaker 4: its entirety moments when I hate being white? 1684 01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:54,799 Speaker 3: Maybe even here human? Mary Rising? 1685 01:19:55,640 --> 01:19:59,519 Speaker 4: Oh wait, I'm sorry, Brian Rice In first Saturday feedback, 1686 01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:01,320 Speaker 4: I just listen of the episode in the Monday Festival 1687 01:20:01,360 --> 01:20:03,759 Speaker 4: where Chris had you on. You mentioned your white friends 1688 01:20:03,760 --> 01:20:07,519 Speaker 4: being friends for life? Is that still true? I don't know, Brian, 1689 01:20:08,160 --> 01:20:10,600 Speaker 4: to be honest with you. Also, you mentioned how you 1690 01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:12,680 Speaker 4: don't dream. How long have you been like this as 1691 01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:15,360 Speaker 4: a weed smoker? Whenever I go sleep to sleep hot. 1692 01:20:15,439 --> 01:20:17,760 Speaker 4: I don't dream, but I know you don't smoke. Maybe 1693 01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:20,360 Speaker 4: it's the booze peace y'all. Well, I don't drink every night, niggas. 1694 01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:24,719 Speaker 4: But no, I don't know why I don't dream. 1695 01:20:24,720 --> 01:20:25,960 Speaker 3: And it's not that I don't dream. 1696 01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:30,960 Speaker 4: I dream infrequently, but in general, I would say I 1697 01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:33,719 Speaker 4: don't dream most of the time. You know, very rarely 1698 01:20:33,760 --> 01:20:37,160 Speaker 4: do I have a dream, and that I can recall anyway. 1699 01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:38,679 Speaker 5: I do and they get weird. 1700 01:20:40,000 --> 01:20:42,599 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I don't know. I don't have very many dreams. 1701 01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:47,760 Speaker 4: When I do, I remember a few intense dreams. And 1702 01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:50,640 Speaker 4: then also I think when I'm stretched out, I have nightmares. 1703 01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:53,960 Speaker 4: Like when I was stressed out, when I was getting 1704 01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:56,080 Speaker 4: harassed over that Bernie Sanders shit, I was waking up 1705 01:20:56,080 --> 01:20:56,600 Speaker 4: in the middle of. 1706 01:20:56,560 --> 01:20:59,400 Speaker 5: The night all the time, like. 1707 01:20:58,880 --> 01:21:00,080 Speaker 3: I don't have sweats. 1708 01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:02,400 Speaker 6: It was, yeah, that's what thing with no joke, cause 1709 01:21:02,439 --> 01:21:04,040 Speaker 6: I mean you like, I would literally wake up in 1710 01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:06,120 Speaker 6: the night and your skin would literally be on fire. 1711 01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:06,519 Speaker 8: It was. 1712 01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:09,000 Speaker 3: It was crazy, man, Harassment is real, you know what 1713 01:21:09,080 --> 01:21:12,719 Speaker 3: I mean? Like, don't it really does have mental health. 1714 01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:15,639 Speaker 4: Effects and you do, like I think it's just very 1715 01:21:15,880 --> 01:21:18,880 Speaker 4: cool and casual for people to haven't experienced it or 1716 01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:22,439 Speaker 4: really aren't at the center focus of anything to just 1717 01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:25,120 Speaker 4: say simply like, well, just don't care about shit. But 1718 01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:28,559 Speaker 4: when you're constantly being harassed about something, it does fuck 1719 01:21:28,600 --> 01:21:28,840 Speaker 4: with you. 1720 01:21:29,240 --> 01:21:33,280 Speaker 6: That and you bought up a good point. People have 1721 01:21:33,400 --> 01:21:36,760 Speaker 6: defense mechanisms and don't care. It's a defense mechanism. But 1722 01:21:36,800 --> 01:21:39,680 Speaker 6: you know what, you have got to allow yourself. 1723 01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:42,479 Speaker 5: To feel because people snap, people snap. 1724 01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:45,599 Speaker 6: You got to go through the filling process in order 1725 01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:48,320 Speaker 6: to get to the point where it doesn't hurt as much. 1726 01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:52,439 Speaker 6: And a lot of men, I've realized that feel part 1727 01:21:52,439 --> 01:21:54,760 Speaker 6: of them. They throw up these barriers, they throw up 1728 01:21:54,800 --> 01:21:56,960 Speaker 6: these walls. They don't want to get into it. Some 1729 01:21:57,040 --> 01:21:59,479 Speaker 6: men do as they get older, but a lot of 1730 01:21:59,560 --> 01:22:01,200 Speaker 6: men I got be odd. I got to be this, 1731 01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:02,760 Speaker 6: I got to be that. A lot of times your 1732 01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:05,559 Speaker 6: boys ain't no fucking help because a lot of times 1733 01:22:05,720 --> 01:22:08,160 Speaker 6: they doing the same thing instead of allowing you to 1734 01:22:08,280 --> 01:22:09,679 Speaker 6: feel your human being. 1735 01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:13,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I just think it's it's a big 1736 01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:14,519 Speaker 3: part of. 1737 01:22:17,000 --> 01:22:20,800 Speaker 4: The experience that most people don't know about, so they 1738 01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:23,960 Speaker 4: don't even know what they're talking about, you know what 1739 01:22:24,000 --> 01:22:27,200 Speaker 4: I mean, Like whenever I hear somebody say something so casual, 1740 01:22:27,240 --> 01:22:28,960 Speaker 4: like we'll just do this. It's like yeah, because you 1741 01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:31,320 Speaker 4: just don't know what you're talking about. Like it happens 1742 01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:33,320 Speaker 4: all the time. Will you hear a relationship advice and like, 1743 01:22:33,400 --> 01:22:35,200 Speaker 4: this person doesn't know what the fuck they're talking about, 1744 01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:38,920 Speaker 4: so it's bad advice, you know, podcast advice, Hey you 1745 01:22:38,920 --> 01:22:40,880 Speaker 4: should do this. That person don't know what the fuck 1746 01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:42,960 Speaker 4: they're talking about, right, so you just have to be 1747 01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:47,639 Speaker 4: like I, you know, brush it off like whatever. But yeah, 1748 01:22:47,680 --> 01:22:50,080 Speaker 4: when it come to being harassed about that Bernie Sanders shit, 1749 01:22:50,120 --> 01:22:52,960 Speaker 4: it was twenty four to seven every morning, waking up, 1750 01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:57,400 Speaker 4: the multiple emails throughout the night, you know, multiple tweets Facebook, 1751 01:22:57,520 --> 01:23:00,240 Speaker 4: like people would coming to find me to talk about 1752 01:23:00,280 --> 01:23:04,120 Speaker 4: this shit, and yeah, it was. It definitely fucked me up, 1753 01:23:04,280 --> 01:23:07,519 Speaker 4: you know, Episode ten fifty six tricks off for the dotes. 1754 01:23:07,880 --> 01:23:09,880 Speaker 4: Thank you for your random thought regard to nice guy 1755 01:23:09,920 --> 01:23:11,000 Speaker 4: slash good guys. 1756 01:23:11,200 --> 01:23:11,880 Speaker 3: It's from Mary. 1757 01:23:12,640 --> 01:23:15,040 Speaker 4: I thought nice guy is the most meaningless term ever. 1758 01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:17,360 Speaker 4: Even though your point was that people describe themselves in 1759 01:23:17,360 --> 01:23:19,720 Speaker 4: this way, I mostly hear when people describe others, like 1760 01:23:19,960 --> 01:23:22,280 Speaker 4: when I hear a person say that someone did something questionable, 1761 01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:24,120 Speaker 4: but they always had to qualify, but he's such a 1762 01:23:24,200 --> 01:23:26,680 Speaker 4: nice guy. Mostly when they use the phrase he or 1763 01:23:26,760 --> 01:23:29,839 Speaker 4: she is a nice person, I think why just because 1764 01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:31,680 Speaker 4: they don't walk up to your face and call you 1765 01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:32,160 Speaker 4: a bitch. 1766 01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:34,200 Speaker 3: Right, All that means is that they know how to. 1767 01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:36,799 Speaker 4: Behave in a social setting, like in your limited interaction 1768 01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:37,320 Speaker 4: with them. 1769 01:23:37,479 --> 01:23:39,000 Speaker 3: They're not gonna go off the rails. 1770 01:23:39,240 --> 01:23:42,120 Speaker 4: But that's just like basic level human expectation of behavior. 1771 01:23:42,320 --> 01:23:44,759 Speaker 4: People need to up their standards about what that means 1772 01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:46,880 Speaker 4: and use better ways to describe people instead of the 1773 01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:50,920 Speaker 4: term nice and good, which will become meaning which would 1774 01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:53,599 Speaker 4: come to me nothing nothing. How about are they consider 1775 01:23:53,640 --> 01:23:55,160 Speaker 4: it kind, dependable, empathetic? 1776 01:23:55,520 --> 01:23:56,280 Speaker 3: I don't think. 1777 01:23:56,920 --> 01:23:59,040 Speaker 4: I don't like to throw nice and good around and 1778 01:23:59,120 --> 01:24:01,800 Speaker 4: get annoy when someone uses it to describe a person 1779 01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:03,720 Speaker 4: who I know is mostly a jerk, but for some 1780 01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:05,200 Speaker 4: reason it can hold it together for a for like 1781 01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:07,120 Speaker 4: two minute conversation at the cotton machine. 1782 01:24:07,360 --> 01:24:09,240 Speaker 3: Anyway, this is just a giant pet peeve of mine. 1783 01:24:09,240 --> 01:24:11,280 Speaker 3: I love the show, thanks Mane. 1784 01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:15,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, it does suck, and I guess the way I 1785 01:24:15,160 --> 01:24:18,200 Speaker 4: was looking at it is a lot of men use 1786 01:24:18,280 --> 01:24:21,240 Speaker 4: the term in dating, and that's that's why I was 1787 01:24:21,240 --> 01:24:23,400 Speaker 4: saying they refer to himself like I've seen so many 1788 01:24:23,400 --> 01:24:26,840 Speaker 4: times when people just like job man, So you know 1789 01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:29,080 Speaker 4: I'm a good guy. You know, I think I'm a 1790 01:24:29,120 --> 01:24:31,040 Speaker 4: good guy. I was like, everyone thinks they're a good guy, 1791 01:24:31,960 --> 01:24:33,280 Speaker 4: but that's not that's not quality. 1792 01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:35,760 Speaker 3: That means shit. It literally means shit. 1793 01:24:36,560 --> 01:24:39,080 Speaker 4: Jerry Johnny Manziel would tell you right now he's a 1794 01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:42,080 Speaker 4: good guy, despite his girlfriend saying he hit her a 1795 01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:44,519 Speaker 4: couple of times and grabbed her Like no, like the 1796 01:24:44,600 --> 01:24:47,400 Speaker 4: second even in the midst of its ship that they're 1797 01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:49,120 Speaker 4: doing fucked up, they think that's okay. 1798 01:24:49,240 --> 01:24:51,479 Speaker 3: So no, no, that you don't get to be the judge. 1799 01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:54,559 Speaker 3: And you're right. 1800 01:24:54,720 --> 01:24:57,000 Speaker 4: I do hate when i'm talking to somebody and especially 1801 01:24:57,000 --> 01:24:59,360 Speaker 4: somebody just did something fucked up and I'm like, yo, 1802 01:24:59,439 --> 01:25:00,840 Speaker 4: what they did was fucked up, and they're like, well, 1803 01:25:00,840 --> 01:25:01,479 Speaker 4: he's a good guy. 1804 01:25:01,640 --> 01:25:03,280 Speaker 3: Like no, you just haven't had a bad. 1805 01:25:03,160 --> 01:25:06,280 Speaker 4: Experience with them yet, right, because they That's what happened 1806 01:25:06,360 --> 01:25:09,439 Speaker 4: with one of the guys where I was like, yo, 1807 01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:10,000 Speaker 4: I think. 1808 01:25:09,840 --> 01:25:12,040 Speaker 3: This dude is a straight up racist. Well he's a 1809 01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:13,880 Speaker 3: good guy. I mean he comes around and he does 1810 01:25:13,960 --> 01:25:17,479 Speaker 3: I'm like, no, he's fucking racist. And you can't be 1811 01:25:17,640 --> 01:25:20,800 Speaker 3: good with that. I'm not good with that at all. 1812 01:25:20,840 --> 01:25:23,840 Speaker 4: He's not a good guy to me. Shay write, saying, 1813 01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:27,360 Speaker 4: recap boy, how do you got to stop generalizing? I'm 1814 01:25:27,400 --> 01:25:29,599 Speaker 4: white and I have more seasonings in my kitchen than 1815 01:25:29,600 --> 01:25:33,160 Speaker 4: you can imagine. I use I sincere it, doubt more 1816 01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:36,280 Speaker 4: than I can imagine. Shaye, I'm calling bullshit. Pix or 1817 01:25:36,280 --> 01:25:40,120 Speaker 4: it didn't happen. You gotta seeing in pictures of your 1818 01:25:40,160 --> 01:25:44,120 Speaker 4: pantry right now? I bet it's see some paper Rika, Well, 1819 01:25:44,160 --> 01:25:44,960 Speaker 4: I know she got it. 1820 01:25:45,000 --> 01:25:46,719 Speaker 3: I just want to see. I don't. 1821 01:25:47,200 --> 01:25:49,920 Speaker 4: I want to see more than I can imagine. That's 1822 01:25:49,920 --> 01:25:50,599 Speaker 4: what I'm saying. 1823 01:25:51,280 --> 01:25:54,360 Speaker 3: I'll do my mama. Now, you fucked up. You don't. 1824 01:25:54,400 --> 01:25:57,080 Speaker 3: You don't know how much I can't imagine. I'm crazy. 1825 01:25:58,320 --> 01:26:01,519 Speaker 4: I use Union powder and God Garlic powder and Tony's 1826 01:26:01,520 --> 01:26:04,040 Speaker 4: in most everything at A deviled egg is ready to 1827 01:26:04,080 --> 01:26:05,679 Speaker 4: eat till it's been sprinkled with pepper. 1828 01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:07,680 Speaker 3: Isn't ready to eat to it's a sprinkle with Peprika. 1829 01:26:07,840 --> 01:26:08,479 Speaker 3: That's the truth. 1830 01:26:08,880 --> 01:26:11,479 Speaker 4: Hell, My whole diet plan is to sweat while I 1831 01:26:11,560 --> 01:26:15,599 Speaker 4: eat lol. From my scrambled eggs to my gumbo, from 1832 01:26:15,640 --> 01:26:19,200 Speaker 4: my French toast to my apasta sauce. It's filled with flavor, buttery, sweet, 1833 01:26:19,200 --> 01:26:22,200 Speaker 4: savory spice. It depends on what I'm cooking. I can 1834 01:26:22,240 --> 01:26:25,000 Speaker 4: assure you the whole time i'm cooking, I'm thinking about 1835 01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:27,040 Speaker 4: how I hope it's not it's not just feels the 1836 01:26:27,080 --> 01:26:29,800 Speaker 4: belly of my families, but makes them smile. My husband 1837 01:26:29,840 --> 01:26:31,840 Speaker 4: sounds like he's having sex when he eats my chicken 1838 01:26:31,840 --> 01:26:32,320 Speaker 4: and biscuits. 1839 01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:35,759 Speaker 5: Haha, smack yourn ass. 1840 01:26:35,760 --> 01:26:38,880 Speaker 4: Though wish I could send y'all some well, listen, Shay. 1841 01:26:39,920 --> 01:26:43,040 Speaker 4: First of all, you can't send us some we have 1842 01:26:43,080 --> 01:26:46,439 Speaker 4: an address. But more importantly than all of this, I 1843 01:26:46,439 --> 01:26:49,800 Speaker 4: will never stop generalizing. I'm not gonna do this show 1844 01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:53,599 Speaker 4: and learn every individual white person's name, and I'm gonna 1845 01:26:53,640 --> 01:26:57,360 Speaker 4: always make jokes about generalizing. So if the jokes is 1846 01:26:57,600 --> 01:27:00,920 Speaker 4: white people don't spice they food up enough, you just 1847 01:27:00,960 --> 01:27:01,760 Speaker 4: gonna have to accept it. 1848 01:27:01,760 --> 01:27:05,880 Speaker 3: You the exception with your humble, bragging ass right up. 1849 01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:09,640 Speaker 5: And you too know you got that friend with you 1850 01:27:09,800 --> 01:27:11,280 Speaker 5: like girl, I I won't eat your shit. 1851 01:27:12,000 --> 01:27:14,160 Speaker 6: Or you try to be nice and sprinkles is like 1852 01:27:14,240 --> 01:27:17,000 Speaker 6: sneaky and sprinkle your sprinkle your spices in her food. 1853 01:27:17,120 --> 01:27:18,640 Speaker 5: Come on, now, come on. 1854 01:27:19,200 --> 01:27:22,559 Speaker 4: Like, I haven't like my generalizations, and all the black 1855 01:27:22,560 --> 01:27:25,559 Speaker 4: people's generalizations about white people cooking don't come from years 1856 01:27:25,560 --> 01:27:26,560 Speaker 4: of potlucks. 1857 01:27:27,479 --> 01:27:29,160 Speaker 5: Right of nasty ass plot. 1858 01:27:28,960 --> 01:27:32,679 Speaker 4: Louk, we know episode ten fifty four about white friends. 1859 01:27:33,000 --> 01:27:36,519 Speaker 4: It's from I believe Sandry. She says that story really 1860 01:27:36,600 --> 01:27:38,680 Speaker 4: hit home. I'm a freelance artist. Because the nature of 1861 01:27:38,720 --> 01:27:40,880 Speaker 4: my work, I don't get to socialize as much as 1862 01:27:40,920 --> 01:27:43,360 Speaker 4: I like. Usually I get my interactions through skype chats. 1863 01:27:43,479 --> 01:27:45,640 Speaker 4: Imagine my surprise when I go read the backlog of 1864 01:27:45,720 --> 01:27:48,120 Speaker 4: what I missed and find a racist rant. I'll spell 1865 01:27:48,120 --> 01:27:50,839 Speaker 4: you the details, but the amountitude kill all niggas and immigrants, 1866 01:27:51,320 --> 01:27:53,800 Speaker 4: Well shit, all right, got straight to the point. 1867 01:27:54,080 --> 01:27:56,599 Speaker 3: I will say this. My white friends ain't never said that. 1868 01:27:56,640 --> 01:27:57,600 Speaker 3: I'm not saying that. 1869 01:27:58,080 --> 01:28:00,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, I would look at Roger you put like this, 1870 01:28:01,360 --> 01:28:04,040 Speaker 6: and I don't say shit. But if it got to 1871 01:28:04,080 --> 01:28:07,439 Speaker 6: that point, I would be like, nigger, this is the 1872 01:28:07,520 --> 01:28:09,280 Speaker 6: end of the friendship. I don't care what you say, 1873 01:28:10,479 --> 01:28:12,280 Speaker 6: and I'll be like, you can't tell me what to do. 1874 01:28:13,080 --> 01:28:17,479 Speaker 3: They're my white friend, my loon ah. They followed me home. 1875 01:28:17,760 --> 01:28:19,439 Speaker 5: I would smack you until you get together. 1876 01:28:20,000 --> 01:28:23,120 Speaker 4: I was fucking blindsided. But not really surprised that it happened, 1877 01:28:23,280 --> 01:28:25,920 Speaker 4: as I've had left other chats for the same reason. 1878 01:28:26,000 --> 01:28:29,200 Speaker 4: It just frustrated. It's just frustrating because I either have 1879 01:28:29,320 --> 01:28:32,759 Speaker 4: to have a fruitless argument with belligerent racist while troll's 1880 01:28:32,840 --> 01:28:36,160 Speaker 4: jeer and apathetic, or the apathetic do nothing, or find 1881 01:28:36,240 --> 01:28:38,320 Speaker 4: yet another place to hopefully get decent discussion. 1882 01:28:38,400 --> 01:28:39,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, that sucks, man. 1883 01:28:40,200 --> 01:28:42,120 Speaker 4: I wanted to say something in the moment and just thought, 1884 01:28:42,120 --> 01:28:45,040 Speaker 4: why bother. It's a terrible feeling also, right, That's the 1885 01:28:45,120 --> 01:28:47,360 Speaker 4: other thing Like that was when I was like, I 1886 01:28:47,439 --> 01:28:49,280 Speaker 4: just gotta get off the list because that would read shit. 1887 01:28:49,360 --> 01:28:51,760 Speaker 4: And I'm just like, if I say something and I 1888 01:28:51,840 --> 01:28:54,720 Speaker 4: get treated like the one guy who doesn't agree, it's like, 1889 01:28:55,560 --> 01:28:59,200 Speaker 4: y'all don't even have the fucking common sense to realize 1890 01:28:59,360 --> 01:29:01,479 Speaker 4: what this is is what you're saying is wrong or 1891 01:29:01,520 --> 01:29:04,040 Speaker 4: horrible or what this person said needs to at least 1892 01:29:04,080 --> 01:29:04,720 Speaker 4: be called out. 1893 01:29:05,200 --> 01:29:07,360 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, then we can't be friends, right. 1894 01:29:07,240 --> 01:29:11,160 Speaker 6: Because there's no respect. There's no respect for them as 1895 01:29:11,160 --> 01:29:13,120 Speaker 6: individual and it's no respect for you. 1896 01:29:13,680 --> 01:29:14,559 Speaker 3: It's a terrible feeling. 1897 01:29:14,560 --> 01:29:17,800 Speaker 4: I also feel guilty because I almost want to go 1898 01:29:17,840 --> 01:29:20,599 Speaker 4: along and get along, to get along and be solid 1899 01:29:20,600 --> 01:29:23,800 Speaker 4: to and ignore what's happening to preserve my sanity, maybe 1900 01:29:23,840 --> 01:29:25,320 Speaker 4: salvage something from the situation. 1901 01:29:25,600 --> 01:29:28,040 Speaker 3: Yep. Yeah, And I just couldn't be that guy. 1902 01:29:28,439 --> 01:29:32,560 Speaker 4: So I'm sure there's other people that will be willing. 1903 01:29:32,280 --> 01:29:33,120 Speaker 3: To be that guy. 1904 01:29:33,360 --> 01:29:34,240 Speaker 5: That's true. 1905 01:29:34,360 --> 01:29:36,479 Speaker 6: And I've said this before and I say this again. 1906 01:29:37,160 --> 01:29:41,719 Speaker 6: When I'm not on the fucking clock, I'm not gonna 1907 01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:44,040 Speaker 6: deal with that. There's a lot of bullshit that people 1908 01:29:44,040 --> 01:29:46,439 Speaker 6: put up every day. It's particularly in corporate America and 1909 01:29:46,439 --> 01:29:49,080 Speaker 6: in the working environment, and shit, being black, you put 1910 01:29:49,120 --> 01:29:51,080 Speaker 6: up a shit and you smile because you know that 1911 01:29:51,120 --> 01:29:52,799 Speaker 6: you need this money to pay your bills. 1912 01:29:53,000 --> 01:29:55,280 Speaker 5: But on your free time, no serve. 1913 01:29:55,640 --> 01:29:56,160 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1914 01:29:56,240 --> 01:29:57,800 Speaker 4: I wish there was a space where I could talk 1915 01:29:57,840 --> 01:30:00,000 Speaker 4: about art and work and I have to fit off, idiot. 1916 01:30:00,400 --> 01:30:02,679 Speaker 4: I appreciate the Facebook group in places like it. Thanks 1917 01:30:02,680 --> 01:30:04,919 Speaker 4: for reading, Thanks for what you do. Yeah, I understand, 1918 01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:09,800 Speaker 4: And yeah, man, I think one thing I did realize 1919 01:30:10,000 --> 01:30:14,040 Speaker 4: through all this that was that I gotta start kicking 1920 01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:16,800 Speaker 4: it with some of my other friends that I don't 1921 01:30:16,840 --> 01:30:19,360 Speaker 4: get to kick it with as much A little bit more, 1922 01:30:19,560 --> 01:30:20,200 Speaker 4: you know what I mean. 1923 01:30:20,280 --> 01:30:21,960 Speaker 3: Like I'm not really a go out every week type 1924 01:30:22,000 --> 01:30:22,639 Speaker 3: of guy anyway. 1925 01:30:22,760 --> 01:30:27,680 Speaker 4: But I do need to like make sure that the 1926 01:30:27,720 --> 01:30:30,840 Speaker 4: relationships that I do have with people that I truly 1927 01:30:30,880 --> 01:30:34,439 Speaker 4: do enjoy being around are more solidified. And that means 1928 01:30:34,439 --> 01:30:37,400 Speaker 4: I have to start making an effort. Because we unite 1929 01:30:37,520 --> 01:30:40,040 Speaker 4: was easy. It's the same night, same place, same time, 1930 01:30:40,120 --> 01:30:42,599 Speaker 4: every week. But you know, I need to start making 1931 01:30:42,600 --> 01:30:44,920 Speaker 4: an effort to be like, hey man, let's go, you know, 1932 01:30:45,080 --> 01:30:47,240 Speaker 4: first week in November, let's take it, take a trip 1933 01:30:47,320 --> 01:30:53,040 Speaker 4: up to fucking what was that place, daved Busters, and 1934 01:30:53,120 --> 01:30:56,680 Speaker 4: we'll fucking kick it with Justin and Damon and Ray and. 1935 01:30:56,600 --> 01:30:58,960 Speaker 3: All these people that I don't get to see as often. 1936 01:30:59,000 --> 01:31:03,480 Speaker 4: But I also don't have to worry about not being respected, 1937 01:31:03,680 --> 01:31:05,559 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, So that you know that 1938 01:31:05,640 --> 01:31:06,400 Speaker 4: matters more to me. 1939 01:31:08,000 --> 01:31:11,760 Speaker 3: Hate nash Rod, Please could you read? 1940 01:31:11,800 --> 01:31:16,800 Speaker 4: My name is el Quamino pronounced el Camino mixed in 1941 01:31:16,840 --> 01:31:20,479 Speaker 4: with my real name Kwame. Hey, guys, loved the show, 1942 01:31:20,760 --> 01:31:24,160 Speaker 4: been listening since, uh since for years in. 1943 01:31:24,200 --> 01:31:26,840 Speaker 3: Iurn premium worth every penny. 1944 01:31:26,880 --> 01:31:28,519 Speaker 4: I discover you back in the day when I was 1945 01:31:28,560 --> 01:31:31,160 Speaker 4: working in the oil and gas industrys around about rednecks 1946 01:31:31,160 --> 01:31:33,280 Speaker 4: and the light. You guys are my only anchor for 1947 01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:36,320 Speaker 4: sanity and comic relief from that shitty reality. I've since 1948 01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:38,599 Speaker 4: moved to an office position in San Diego, which I 1949 01:31:38,640 --> 01:31:40,800 Speaker 4: love and often look forward to task that require I 1950 01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:43,519 Speaker 4: sit still so I can sneak in the earphone to 1951 01:31:43,600 --> 01:31:45,840 Speaker 4: listen to the show. Now to the matter that's been 1952 01:31:45,840 --> 01:31:48,360 Speaker 4: heavy on my conscious at the much stop prayer with 1953 01:31:48,439 --> 01:31:51,599 Speaker 4: my atheist ass meditating and fast, and the truth has 1954 01:31:51,640 --> 01:31:52,360 Speaker 4: been revealed to me. 1955 01:31:52,479 --> 01:31:54,519 Speaker 3: Rod must be hating Astarel Jones. 1956 01:31:55,000 --> 01:31:57,639 Speaker 4: It's his alter ego, like some doctor Jacko and mister 1957 01:31:57,720 --> 01:31:58,559 Speaker 4: hoydeeshit Ah. 1958 01:31:58,880 --> 01:32:01,439 Speaker 3: If I'm lying, there's only one way to prove this. 1959 01:32:01,520 --> 01:32:04,000 Speaker 4: You need to invite hate Nasteril on a live show, 1960 01:32:04,439 --> 01:32:07,080 Speaker 4: at least not at least for a cameo. Here's the thing, 1961 01:32:08,120 --> 01:32:13,479 Speaker 4: I'm not letting that nigga anywhere near anything. If Mike 1962 01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:18,000 Speaker 4: Burn you can't put pay Nashterrell Jones near microphone? Is 1963 01:32:18,040 --> 01:32:18,519 Speaker 4: it a driver? 1964 01:32:19,760 --> 01:32:22,040 Speaker 3: Drivers? All insane? And then y'all would be like, well, 1965 01:32:22,040 --> 01:32:24,360 Speaker 3: I didn't let that nigga come on the show. Second 1966 01:32:24,360 --> 01:32:26,160 Speaker 3: of all, I don't know if he listened to the show. 1967 01:32:26,200 --> 01:32:27,840 Speaker 3: Oh what how does he he is? 1968 01:32:27,920 --> 01:32:28,120 Speaker 5: Now? 1969 01:32:28,320 --> 01:32:30,720 Speaker 4: He's comments on every fucking post just about and he 1970 01:32:30,920 --> 01:32:35,320 Speaker 4: always is at ten now, Like, there's no more take. 1971 01:32:35,400 --> 01:32:37,720 Speaker 4: I've never seen hate Nasterrell Jones at a three or 1972 01:32:37,760 --> 01:32:38,360 Speaker 4: five anymore. 1973 01:32:38,360 --> 01:32:38,800 Speaker 3: It's all. 1974 01:32:41,200 --> 01:32:43,639 Speaker 5: He's like, I'm a full flass member now right. 1975 01:32:43,680 --> 01:32:46,400 Speaker 4: And also it can't be me because if you've ever 1976 01:32:46,439 --> 01:32:49,559 Speaker 4: tried to register the ball alert, you'll find out, Nigga, 1977 01:32:49,640 --> 01:32:53,760 Speaker 4: you can't. You can't fake the phone like that. You 1978 01:32:53,840 --> 01:32:56,559 Speaker 4: gotta go through an application process. Tell him who your 1979 01:32:56,640 --> 01:32:58,439 Speaker 4: favorite ball is and all this shit. 1980 01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:00,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, Roger, you already remember. 1981 01:33:00,280 --> 01:33:02,880 Speaker 4: It's a lot, at least for a cameo. We want 1982 01:33:02,880 --> 01:33:04,760 Speaker 4: to hear some of the fly hate to prove that 1983 01:33:04,840 --> 01:33:07,160 Speaker 4: he's a real deal. Also, I'm sure I'm not the 1984 01:33:07,200 --> 01:33:09,880 Speaker 4: only one who believes this. Could you poll the audience? No, 1985 01:33:09,960 --> 01:33:12,960 Speaker 4: I'm not, No, no, trying to take over my. 1986 01:33:15,000 --> 01:33:15,360 Speaker 3: Anyway. 1987 01:33:15,520 --> 01:33:18,439 Speaker 4: Just wanted to say thanks, keep up doing the Lawd's work. 1988 01:33:18,479 --> 01:33:24,320 Speaker 4: Lord five for teen that is vibe man, it's hilarious, 1989 01:33:24,840 --> 01:33:29,240 Speaker 4: uh Aris right saying And instead of giving and leaving 1990 01:33:29,280 --> 01:33:31,280 Speaker 4: long comments on separate episodes, I just wanted to send 1991 01:33:31,280 --> 01:33:34,120 Speaker 4: one long message. Great week of shows as usual. Can't 1992 01:33:34,160 --> 01:33:37,280 Speaker 4: get enough of TVGWT. My only request for my birthday 1993 01:33:37,320 --> 01:33:39,080 Speaker 4: this year is a premium membership so I could bring 1994 01:33:39,120 --> 01:33:42,800 Speaker 4: in the new year, right. I hope you get Anyways, 1995 01:33:42,840 --> 01:33:45,080 Speaker 4: on to my thoughts on a couple of things. On 1996 01:33:45,120 --> 01:33:47,160 Speaker 4: the My Gay Husband episode, the lady spent a lot 1997 01:33:47,160 --> 01:33:48,800 Speaker 4: of time at the now for no reason at all. 1998 01:33:48,880 --> 01:33:51,040 Speaker 4: In my opinion, if you think someone you're in an 1999 01:33:51,040 --> 01:33:54,320 Speaker 4: intimate relationship with its gay, they probably are. Who thinks 2000 01:33:54,360 --> 01:33:56,680 Speaker 4: to themselves, my boyfriend might be gay, then marries them 2001 01:33:56,760 --> 01:33:57,559 Speaker 4: just makes no sense. 2002 01:33:58,240 --> 01:34:00,120 Speaker 5: A lot of women do that. 2003 01:34:00,320 --> 01:34:03,880 Speaker 6: What happens that because the pressure getting married, right, it's 2004 01:34:03,880 --> 01:34:06,920 Speaker 6: about being married, it's about a lot. A lot of 2005 01:34:06,920 --> 01:34:09,679 Speaker 6: women have children with these men and all this stuff 2006 01:34:09,720 --> 01:34:12,040 Speaker 6: when honestly, a lot of times they knowing their hard 2007 01:34:12,240 --> 01:34:16,000 Speaker 6: they should not marry this person, but pressure from his family, 2008 01:34:16,040 --> 01:34:18,639 Speaker 6: pressure from her family. They feel like you done got old, 2009 01:34:18,840 --> 01:34:21,000 Speaker 6: you know, And some a lot of times men feel, 2010 01:34:21,040 --> 01:34:23,040 Speaker 6: you know, you get the pressure from getting older too, 2011 01:34:23,080 --> 01:34:26,240 Speaker 6: and you ain't settled down, and you know, and you know, 2012 01:34:26,320 --> 01:34:28,800 Speaker 6: and grandparents won't grandchildren, but they ain't got fuck to 2013 01:34:28,840 --> 01:34:30,800 Speaker 6: do with your sexual life, but you know they want 2014 01:34:30,840 --> 01:34:32,240 Speaker 6: you to have grandkids. 2015 01:34:32,680 --> 01:34:33,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 2016 01:34:33,360 --> 01:34:37,679 Speaker 4: Also, you know, people want that wedding day and who's 2017 01:34:37,680 --> 01:34:39,760 Speaker 4: gonna give you a better perfect wedding day than their 2018 01:34:39,760 --> 01:34:40,479 Speaker 4: gay husband. 2019 01:34:40,760 --> 01:34:40,960 Speaker 2: Right. 2020 01:34:41,080 --> 01:34:42,479 Speaker 5: I bet you that wedding was lit. 2021 01:34:42,680 --> 01:34:45,559 Speaker 4: Probably get a discount when he was having sex with 2022 01:34:45,640 --> 01:34:47,479 Speaker 4: the person organizing the wedding. 2023 01:34:47,520 --> 01:34:49,080 Speaker 3: I mean, it's a lot of benefits. 2024 01:34:49,080 --> 01:34:51,840 Speaker 6: Okay, got the cake off half price, got the being 2025 01:34:51,920 --> 01:34:53,360 Speaker 6: you full twenty five percent off. 2026 01:34:53,800 --> 01:34:57,000 Speaker 4: My main feedback is how you address the Kardashian hatred, 2027 01:34:57,160 --> 01:34:59,920 Speaker 4: haters and the venture all that has stirred around Lamar's can. 2028 01:35:00,720 --> 01:35:02,800 Speaker 4: I wasn't a fan of the Kardashian simply because they 2029 01:35:02,880 --> 01:35:05,320 Speaker 4: seen to saturate every aspect of pop culture, and I 2030 01:35:05,360 --> 01:35:08,200 Speaker 4: got tired of having them shlves down my throat. Meanwhile, 2031 01:35:08,320 --> 01:35:11,040 Speaker 4: the people doing the shovy were always bashing or mocking 2032 01:35:11,040 --> 01:35:14,240 Speaker 4: them for being attention horse since conflict never did. 2033 01:35:14,080 --> 01:35:15,400 Speaker 3: And still doesn't make sense to me. 2034 01:35:15,439 --> 01:35:17,040 Speaker 4: I used to think I hated them, but then I 2035 01:35:17,080 --> 01:35:19,000 Speaker 4: realized I just hate the people who work to keep 2036 01:35:19,040 --> 01:35:22,599 Speaker 4: them relevant, all while low key undercutting and implying they sucked. 2037 01:35:23,000 --> 01:35:25,080 Speaker 4: As soon as I checked out on that BS, I 2038 01:35:25,120 --> 01:35:28,280 Speaker 4: found myself way less irritated as seeing them on three 2039 01:35:28,320 --> 01:35:30,559 Speaker 4: covers while in the line at the grocery store, I 2040 01:35:30,560 --> 01:35:32,400 Speaker 4: could appreciate the picture of the little ones on the 2041 01:35:32,400 --> 01:35:35,679 Speaker 4: gospel sites enjoy Kanye's fuckery, and could happily keep scrolling 2042 01:35:35,720 --> 01:35:39,240 Speaker 4: down my timeline when like thirty people angrily shared Kanye's 2043 01:35:39,520 --> 01:35:43,439 Speaker 4: Kim Ye selfie with Hillary. Yeah, I don't even For 2044 01:35:43,479 --> 01:35:46,559 Speaker 4: the record, I don't even see shit like this either. 2045 01:35:46,920 --> 01:35:47,880 Speaker 3: I just don't like. 2046 01:35:47,920 --> 01:35:52,320 Speaker 4: I'm so removed and don't care that the only time 2047 01:35:52,400 --> 01:35:55,479 Speaker 4: you're right, The only time I see stuff about Kanye 2048 01:35:55,520 --> 01:35:57,679 Speaker 4: and Kim is when I'm reading somebody hating on them. 2049 01:35:58,040 --> 01:36:01,280 Speaker 4: I just don't see that they're not a problem. Not 2050 01:36:01,360 --> 01:36:03,679 Speaker 4: to be like, you have to be in a certain 2051 01:36:03,720 --> 01:36:06,720 Speaker 4: circle of people that already enjoy fucking hating. 2052 01:36:06,439 --> 01:36:09,800 Speaker 3: Them to even be up on their latest moves. I don't. 2053 01:36:09,840 --> 01:36:12,599 Speaker 4: I don't get anything by that. And then the other 2054 01:36:12,680 --> 01:36:18,680 Speaker 4: thing about it is, especially watching the sports media ship 2055 01:36:18,840 --> 01:36:23,040 Speaker 4: on the Kardashians and over lamar Odom. If you don't 2056 01:36:23,080 --> 01:36:29,160 Speaker 4: get the fuck I have watched ESPN become reality TV. 2057 01:36:30,040 --> 01:36:32,760 Speaker 4: They had a Rachel Nichols has a job because they 2058 01:36:32,800 --> 01:36:35,760 Speaker 4: had a reality TV show on Sports Center about Who's 2059 01:36:35,760 --> 01:36:36,799 Speaker 4: the next Sports Center Anchor? 2060 01:36:37,400 --> 01:36:40,680 Speaker 3: Okay, I like the shows they do. 2061 01:36:40,800 --> 01:36:47,840 Speaker 4: PTI first take around the Horn highly questionable. You're telling 2062 01:36:47,880 --> 01:36:51,680 Speaker 4: me that we need seven different shows that take the 2063 01:36:51,760 --> 01:36:54,160 Speaker 4: same five to six happenings per day in. 2064 01:36:54,120 --> 01:36:55,800 Speaker 3: Sports and discuss them. 2065 01:36:56,160 --> 01:36:58,840 Speaker 4: And it's not about celebrity, and it's not about having 2066 01:36:58,880 --> 01:37:02,960 Speaker 4: fun with it. It's not sports analysts and analysis anymore. 2067 01:37:02,960 --> 01:37:05,880 Speaker 4: It's not like everybody's breaking down the numbers. It's like, hey, 2068 01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:08,479 Speaker 4: look at this guy, he fucking fumbled and it was funny. 2069 01:37:08,680 --> 01:37:10,439 Speaker 4: Look at this guy who got a concussion and it 2070 01:37:10,520 --> 01:37:13,280 Speaker 4: was funny. Or let's talk about the serious. 2071 01:37:13,000 --> 01:37:16,719 Speaker 3: Epidemic of this, like it's not People try to act. 2072 01:37:16,520 --> 01:37:20,280 Speaker 4: Like they're above it, and a lot of it is misogyny. 2073 01:37:20,960 --> 01:37:23,400 Speaker 4: A lot of it is women are the ones who 2074 01:37:23,439 --> 01:37:26,640 Speaker 4: are in control of the reality TV and the reality 2075 01:37:26,680 --> 01:37:30,680 Speaker 4: world and the gossip blogs and the gossip mags. And 2076 01:37:31,080 --> 01:37:34,200 Speaker 4: because that's not the men who watch sports, that's not 2077 01:37:34,280 --> 01:37:37,200 Speaker 4: their shit. They don't have any stake in that world. 2078 01:37:37,520 --> 01:37:39,920 Speaker 4: They feel like they're very comfortable hating on it. But 2079 01:37:39,960 --> 01:37:41,600 Speaker 4: it comes from the same place that tells women to 2080 01:37:41,600 --> 01:37:43,400 Speaker 4: get in the kitchen when they call a radio show 2081 01:37:43,680 --> 01:37:46,719 Speaker 4: about sports. It comes from the same place that tells 2082 01:37:46,720 --> 01:37:50,040 Speaker 4: women to shut up whenever talking about being harassed online 2083 01:37:50,040 --> 01:37:53,120 Speaker 4: for talking about sports. That like all that shit comes 2084 01:37:53,160 --> 01:37:56,040 Speaker 4: to the same place. So I can't get with anybody 2085 01:37:56,080 --> 01:37:59,600 Speaker 4: who's on some well, Lamar Oldham is bigger than a 2086 01:37:59,640 --> 01:38:04,080 Speaker 4: car thing. First of all, he's not he willfully got 2087 01:38:04,120 --> 01:38:07,759 Speaker 4: into that deal, and he's probably not nearly as famous 2088 01:38:07,760 --> 01:38:09,599 Speaker 4: as Kim Kardashian and Harry Elk. 2089 01:38:10,240 --> 01:38:14,160 Speaker 3: But secondly, there's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong 2090 01:38:14,200 --> 01:38:14,519 Speaker 3: with that. 2091 01:38:15,120 --> 01:38:18,800 Speaker 4: There's nothing wrong with being the husband of Chloe Kardashian 2092 01:38:19,920 --> 01:38:20,559 Speaker 4: to the world. 2093 01:38:20,600 --> 01:38:21,479 Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with. 2094 01:38:21,439 --> 01:38:24,120 Speaker 4: That, because we do that all the time the other 2095 01:38:24,160 --> 01:38:28,640 Speaker 4: way around. You know what, Tony Parker was dating Eva Longoria. 2096 01:38:29,200 --> 01:38:32,760 Speaker 4: We weren't doing that. We weren't doing this. Oh he's 2097 01:38:32,800 --> 01:38:36,920 Speaker 4: Eva Longoria's husband. You know, he is the MVP of 2098 01:38:36,960 --> 01:38:39,040 Speaker 4: the finals, he won three rings. 2099 01:38:39,040 --> 01:38:44,559 Speaker 3: We weren't doing this, So can we stop please? Anyway. 2100 01:38:44,600 --> 01:38:45,800 Speaker 4: I say all that to make the point that I 2101 01:38:45,840 --> 01:38:48,360 Speaker 4: don't think most people actually hate the Kardashians. That dynasty 2102 01:38:48,439 --> 01:38:50,040 Speaker 4: is like a decade there and it shows no sign 2103 01:38:50,080 --> 01:38:51,679 Speaker 4: of stoppings, so someone is. 2104 01:38:51,560 --> 01:38:53,640 Speaker 3: Buying into it, even if they already meitting it. 2105 01:38:53,920 --> 01:38:55,519 Speaker 4: I just think that people have a problem with these 2106 01:38:55,520 --> 01:38:57,280 Speaker 4: women being so rich and famous because they don't quote 2107 01:38:57,320 --> 01:38:59,720 Speaker 4: unquote deserve it. But Mardi Jones made a great point 2108 01:38:59,760 --> 01:39:02,479 Speaker 4: on It shows on paraphrase, but basically asked, who's to 2109 01:39:02,520 --> 01:39:05,439 Speaker 4: say that someone should be famous for being a really 2110 01:39:05,439 --> 01:39:09,320 Speaker 4: talented athlete versus anything else? That's a great point. Yeah, yeah, 2111 01:39:09,400 --> 01:39:12,720 Speaker 4: all this shit is arbitrary. Sports is a reality TV show, guys, Yes, 2112 01:39:13,400 --> 01:39:16,000 Speaker 4: and you know it because the average story in sports 2113 01:39:16,080 --> 01:39:18,479 Speaker 4: now is not what happened on the field, is what 2114 01:39:18,560 --> 01:39:22,000 Speaker 4: happens off the field. Johnny Manziel might be suspended for 2115 01:39:22,080 --> 01:39:25,720 Speaker 4: hitting this woman, you know what I mean? So and 2116 01:39:25,800 --> 01:39:30,000 Speaker 4: so Geno Smith got punched in the face, Like these 2117 01:39:30,040 --> 01:39:32,880 Speaker 4: are the stories we don't care just about on the field, 2118 01:39:33,280 --> 01:39:36,559 Speaker 4: you know we Kevin Durant gets threatened by a fucking 2119 01:39:36,560 --> 01:39:40,519 Speaker 4: reporter like this is these are the stories that's reality TV? 2120 01:39:40,720 --> 01:39:42,000 Speaker 5: Man, Yes, yeah it is. 2121 01:39:42,160 --> 01:39:44,519 Speaker 6: But you let dudes tell it. We don't give a 2122 01:39:44,560 --> 01:39:45,679 Speaker 6: fuck about reality TV. 2123 01:39:45,840 --> 01:39:46,600 Speaker 3: Yes you do. 2124 01:39:46,920 --> 01:39:47,960 Speaker 5: Y'all watch this shit. 2125 01:39:48,080 --> 01:39:50,360 Speaker 3: Also, sports is the biggest soap opera going. 2126 01:39:50,360 --> 01:39:53,519 Speaker 4: How many people have talked about Kevin Durant and they 2127 01:39:53,600 --> 01:39:55,679 Speaker 4: can't help but be like and Russell Westbrook. 2128 01:39:55,680 --> 01:39:57,479 Speaker 3: They don't they like, they don't even like each other. 2129 01:39:57,600 --> 01:39:59,519 Speaker 4: They can't even watch the game and just be like 2130 01:40:00,240 --> 01:40:02,320 Speaker 4: Russell Westbrook had this many points. Kevin dur ain't had 2131 01:40:02,320 --> 01:40:03,880 Speaker 4: that many points, and this is why they won or 2132 01:40:03,920 --> 01:40:04,719 Speaker 4: this is why they lost. 2133 01:40:04,920 --> 01:40:06,760 Speaker 3: They have to be put emotion into it. 2134 01:40:06,840 --> 01:40:08,640 Speaker 4: Well, you know, Kevin Durant is the real leader of 2135 01:40:08,640 --> 01:40:10,720 Speaker 4: the team and Russell Westbrook is just And then you 2136 01:40:10,800 --> 01:40:12,880 Speaker 4: know that it looked like he was jealous when he 2137 01:40:12,880 --> 01:40:14,479 Speaker 4: got interviewed. I mean, look at the way he looked 2138 01:40:14,479 --> 01:40:17,080 Speaker 4: at that trophy. That's some fucking soap opera shit. 2139 01:40:17,000 --> 01:40:19,880 Speaker 6: Man, right, And they say that instead of girl have 2140 01:40:20,040 --> 01:40:23,080 Speaker 6: you heard, like they might not go girl, have you heard, 2141 01:40:23,720 --> 01:40:27,479 Speaker 6: but you frame it in a way where you're actually 2142 01:40:27,600 --> 01:40:29,800 Speaker 6: dropping shit and the other person be like, well I 2143 01:40:29,840 --> 01:40:32,639 Speaker 6: heard this, or you know, will such such such such 2144 01:40:32,880 --> 01:40:35,439 Speaker 6: a so y'all having the same conversation that y'all claim 2145 01:40:35,479 --> 01:40:37,080 Speaker 6: that y'all hate these females having. 2146 01:40:37,240 --> 01:40:37,920 Speaker 5: But because it's. 2147 01:40:37,840 --> 01:40:41,040 Speaker 6: Quote unquote males and bowls and sweat and football, all 2148 01:40:41,040 --> 01:40:42,519 Speaker 6: of a sudden, it's not the same thing, when in 2149 01:40:42,600 --> 01:40:43,360 Speaker 6: reality it is. 2150 01:40:43,439 --> 01:40:45,800 Speaker 4: It's no different than Empire, rather different than watching love 2151 01:40:45,800 --> 01:40:46,200 Speaker 4: and hip hop. 2152 01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:48,840 Speaker 3: I don't hear that shit. If you have a problem 2153 01:40:48,880 --> 01:40:53,240 Speaker 3: with it, then don't don't watch they shit. That's it. Yeah, 2154 01:40:53,280 --> 01:40:53,880 Speaker 3: that's a great point. 2155 01:40:53,920 --> 01:40:56,080 Speaker 4: How is the Kardashian fame less worthy than a person 2156 01:40:56,080 --> 01:40:58,400 Speaker 4: you considered to be quote unquote talented And what does 2157 01:40:58,400 --> 01:41:00,400 Speaker 4: that have to do with Lamar nearly died in them 2158 01:41:00,439 --> 01:41:02,760 Speaker 4: caring enough to go be with him. I've always been 2159 01:41:02,760 --> 01:41:04,800 Speaker 4: a fan of Lamar as he's bounced around the league 2160 01:41:04,800 --> 01:41:07,240 Speaker 4: and even rue the first relationship to Chloe because who's 2161 01:41:07,240 --> 01:41:09,840 Speaker 4: against love for no reason? Because of this, I also 2162 01:41:09,960 --> 01:41:11,840 Speaker 4: know a little about his background, all the challenges that 2163 01:41:11,840 --> 01:41:13,720 Speaker 4: have been nothing to do with his in laws, and 2164 01:41:13,760 --> 01:41:15,800 Speaker 4: on top of that, he's an addict that seems to 2165 01:41:15,880 --> 01:41:18,559 Speaker 4: go under mentioned a lot. He's suffered from the same 2166 01:41:18,600 --> 01:41:22,160 Speaker 4: condition that Brittany Murphy, Seymour Hoffman and tons of others 2167 01:41:22,200 --> 01:41:25,400 Speaker 4: suffer from and actually died of, but he's not being 2168 01:41:25,439 --> 01:41:28,000 Speaker 4: treated as sick like them. The basic lack of him 2169 01:41:28,040 --> 01:41:30,439 Speaker 4: and humanity and the general coverage of his situation is 2170 01:41:30,520 --> 01:41:33,080 Speaker 4: very shocking when compared to other high profile drug addicts. 2171 01:41:33,160 --> 01:41:35,760 Speaker 4: Charlie Sheen got more positive being during his bench tour. 2172 01:41:36,200 --> 01:41:39,320 Speaker 4: Not sure if it's the NPA or the critics or theicism, 2173 01:41:39,680 --> 01:41:43,400 Speaker 4: but something's very shady about it. Your ran to the haters, 2174 01:41:43,400 --> 01:41:46,320 Speaker 4: epic by the way the best sense telling the standards 2175 01:41:46,400 --> 01:41:48,920 Speaker 4: not to try. You child erics have a great kay 2176 01:41:49,040 --> 01:41:51,280 Speaker 4: thanks man or man or woman. I don't know what 2177 01:41:51,520 --> 01:41:54,840 Speaker 4: ers is as a pronoun, but thank you ers. Chuck 2178 01:41:54,920 --> 01:41:58,360 Speaker 4: p says, saying what up what rodder Karen's been loan? 2179 01:41:58,840 --> 01:42:01,040 Speaker 4: It's a long loan on Chuck P. Here in the 2180 01:42:01,120 --> 01:42:04,400 Speaker 4: Southwest Louisiana. Only two things I want to say. One 2181 01:42:04,520 --> 01:42:07,280 Speaker 4: but listening to TVGWT SIS episode sixty Q or the 2182 01:42:07,320 --> 01:42:10,200 Speaker 4: great work, please keep it up because it's so soothing 2183 01:42:10,280 --> 01:42:12,759 Speaker 4: to the mind and the soul to see that there 2184 01:42:12,800 --> 01:42:14,960 Speaker 4: are more people that have similar opinions to me. 2185 01:42:15,080 --> 01:42:16,320 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Number two. 2186 01:42:16,760 --> 01:42:18,439 Speaker 4: I went to vote early and I thought about the 2187 01:42:18,439 --> 01:42:20,479 Speaker 4: feedback show a few weeks ago. So after I cast 2188 01:42:20,560 --> 01:42:23,439 Speaker 4: my vallet omitting anyone who I remember had a commercial 2189 01:42:23,439 --> 01:42:26,000 Speaker 4: stadium there, our gun loving Christian, I proceeded to get 2190 01:42:26,040 --> 01:42:29,000 Speaker 4: in my car and turn up tell me something good 2191 01:42:29,000 --> 01:42:32,439 Speaker 4: about UGK by UGK. The best part was the old 2192 01:42:32,479 --> 01:42:36,479 Speaker 4: lady singing at me as Pimpsy spat classic bars. I 2193 01:42:36,520 --> 01:42:39,200 Speaker 4: don't figure that it's worth getting hurt just because your 2194 01:42:39,200 --> 01:42:41,679 Speaker 4: gal want to give me that skirt, but it feels 2195 01:42:41,680 --> 01:42:44,160 Speaker 4: funny when you're doing sixty nine knowing you slipping on 2196 01:42:44,160 --> 01:42:45,160 Speaker 4: that Jimmy Wine. 2197 01:42:45,479 --> 01:42:48,599 Speaker 3: Thanks and love for your country. Can't fok Chuck Pee, 2198 01:42:48,600 --> 01:42:49,160 Speaker 3: Thanks Chuck. 2199 01:42:51,080 --> 01:42:54,880 Speaker 4: Michelle writes in need advice running the website and podcast. 2200 01:42:55,680 --> 01:42:56,639 Speaker 3: Hello, Rod and Karen. 2201 01:42:56,720 --> 01:42:58,280 Speaker 4: Just wanted to let you know that I've been listening 2202 01:42:58,280 --> 01:43:00,200 Speaker 4: to podcasts for years and you have helped let me 2203 01:43:00,280 --> 01:43:02,519 Speaker 4: get through some really difficult times with the medicine of 2204 01:43:02,560 --> 01:43:05,120 Speaker 4: laughter and the sense of community. I've decided that I 2205 01:43:05,120 --> 01:43:07,559 Speaker 4: would like to embark on a similar journey and bring 2206 01:43:07,600 --> 01:43:10,920 Speaker 4: that to someone else. But I'm having a little difficulty. 2207 01:43:11,160 --> 01:43:12,760 Speaker 4: I have no idea what I'm doing, and I do 2208 01:43:12,840 --> 01:43:14,599 Speaker 4: not know how to get people to my website Open 2209 01:43:14,720 --> 01:43:18,400 Speaker 4: entertainment dot net to listen to the podcast, or or follow. 2210 01:43:18,160 --> 01:43:18,839 Speaker 3: Us on Twitter. 2211 01:43:19,080 --> 01:43:21,439 Speaker 4: We're really early in on this, so I'm not expecting 2212 01:43:21,439 --> 01:43:23,720 Speaker 4: people to bombard our website, but I would like to 2213 01:43:23,720 --> 01:43:26,479 Speaker 4: create a steady increase. I know that it all all 2214 01:43:26,520 --> 01:43:28,200 Speaker 4: just takes time. So is that any advice you can 2215 01:43:28,240 --> 01:43:29,400 Speaker 4: give I will really appreciate it. 2216 01:43:29,520 --> 01:43:34,400 Speaker 3: Thanks? All right? The general advice I would give. 2217 01:43:35,920 --> 01:43:40,600 Speaker 4: You gotta go on social media. You have to be interactive. 2218 01:43:42,640 --> 01:43:46,880 Speaker 4: You're gonna have to like encourage and respond to feedback. 2219 01:43:47,280 --> 01:43:50,040 Speaker 4: You know, I think not enough shows do a good 2220 01:43:50,120 --> 01:43:54,840 Speaker 4: job of that. You're also gonna probably have to think 2221 01:43:54,840 --> 01:43:58,599 Speaker 4: about what it is that you provided your website that 2222 01:43:58,880 --> 01:44:02,040 Speaker 4: can be translated too a podcast, so it looks like 2223 01:44:02,080 --> 01:44:06,960 Speaker 4: you do show reviews and stuff. Start mimicking. Looking at 2224 01:44:06,960 --> 01:44:11,000 Speaker 4: some people who are being successful doing it. I've noticed, like, 2225 01:44:11,200 --> 01:44:14,560 Speaker 4: like Nina Project fandom is so good, you know what 2226 01:44:14,600 --> 01:44:17,880 Speaker 4: I mean, Maybe even email her. I mean, if you 2227 01:44:17,920 --> 01:44:20,439 Speaker 4: have time to talk to her. She doesn't, that's fine, 2228 01:44:20,439 --> 01:44:22,560 Speaker 4: but at least look at the things, the habits that 2229 01:44:22,600 --> 01:44:25,679 Speaker 4: make her successful and try to adopt what you can 2230 01:44:26,040 --> 01:44:29,679 Speaker 4: that fits your schedule and your style that. 2231 01:44:29,600 --> 01:44:31,960 Speaker 3: Doesn't just copy off of her. The other thing you 2232 01:44:32,000 --> 01:44:36,120 Speaker 3: have to realize is that nothing you do is going to. 2233 01:44:36,160 --> 01:44:38,880 Speaker 4: Be the first type of person that's done it or 2234 01:44:39,040 --> 01:44:42,360 Speaker 4: that unique. What makes it unique is whatever your opinions are, 2235 01:44:42,720 --> 01:44:46,320 Speaker 4: whatever your skill set is, whatever your talents are, bring those. 2236 01:44:46,080 --> 01:44:49,960 Speaker 3: To the forefront. You need to be consistent. 2237 01:44:50,040 --> 01:44:52,160 Speaker 4: I know people hate hearing that, but because there's no 2238 01:44:52,560 --> 01:44:56,960 Speaker 4: I don't like, there's no real shortcuts. But consistency is 2239 01:44:57,000 --> 01:45:00,160 Speaker 4: the most overlooked part of all this shits ch. Many 2240 01:45:00,240 --> 01:45:03,760 Speaker 4: people start off, they do twenty episodes. Next thing, you know, 2241 01:45:03,800 --> 01:45:07,479 Speaker 4: they're skipping weeks. They put out two one week none, 2242 01:45:07,560 --> 01:45:10,240 Speaker 4: the next they put out three one week none for 2243 01:45:10,360 --> 01:45:13,280 Speaker 4: a month, you know, And it makes sense. Other things 2244 01:45:13,320 --> 01:45:16,120 Speaker 4: are more important to those people. They're not putting doing 2245 01:45:16,240 --> 01:45:18,400 Speaker 4: like it's kind of like a thing that's a. 2246 01:45:18,360 --> 01:45:20,679 Speaker 3: Hobby to them, but they wanted to be a job. 2247 01:45:21,280 --> 01:45:22,960 Speaker 4: We were treating this like a job when it was 2248 01:45:23,000 --> 01:45:25,400 Speaker 4: a hobby, right, And that's kind of how you have 2249 01:45:25,479 --> 01:45:27,440 Speaker 4: to do it if you're serious. 2250 01:45:27,160 --> 01:45:29,759 Speaker 3: About it, and you might not be. And that's also okay. 2251 01:45:29,880 --> 01:45:35,280 Speaker 4: So finding the level you're comfortable contributing, Like, you know, 2252 01:45:35,840 --> 01:45:37,679 Speaker 4: maybe you don't want to put in an eight hour 2253 01:45:37,760 --> 01:45:40,880 Speaker 4: day at work, come home and put another six hours 2254 01:45:40,920 --> 01:45:46,200 Speaker 4: into podcast, website management and all this shit, or maybe 2255 01:45:46,200 --> 01:45:48,839 Speaker 4: you do, you know what I mean, whatever, but whichever 2256 01:45:48,880 --> 01:45:50,920 Speaker 4: one it is, you have to like commit to that 2257 01:45:51,200 --> 01:45:53,320 Speaker 4: because what you can't be doing is like, oh, well, 2258 01:45:53,360 --> 01:45:55,400 Speaker 4: my kids in school now, so I got to change 2259 01:45:55,400 --> 01:45:58,080 Speaker 4: this up And then look back at your numbers and 2260 01:45:58,080 --> 01:45:59,960 Speaker 4: be like, why why are my numbers increasing? 2261 01:46:00,600 --> 01:46:04,240 Speaker 3: Because the audience can feel that, you know, and. 2262 01:46:04,560 --> 01:46:06,720 Speaker 6: As a podcast listener, a lot of people fail to 2263 01:46:06,760 --> 01:46:08,840 Speaker 6: realize people will and can and do move on. 2264 01:46:09,000 --> 01:46:10,760 Speaker 5: I've done it to a lot of shows. 2265 01:46:11,080 --> 01:46:13,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I think you have to look at all 2266 01:46:13,760 --> 01:46:18,839 Speaker 4: that stuff. You know, you gotta be try to be creative. 2267 01:46:18,960 --> 01:46:24,000 Speaker 4: Push your boundaries that of what's creative for you, don't, 2268 01:46:24,160 --> 01:46:26,840 Speaker 4: you know, like, don't get caught up looking at what 2269 01:46:26,880 --> 01:46:29,760 Speaker 4: other people are doing. I think a lot of podcasts 2270 01:46:29,840 --> 01:46:34,320 Speaker 4: do that, and they and it's really it's not. Everybody's 2271 01:46:34,360 --> 01:46:36,960 Speaker 4: path is different and everybody has different luck, and everybody 2272 01:46:36,960 --> 01:46:39,400 Speaker 4: has different skill sets. And I think a lot of 2273 01:46:39,400 --> 01:46:43,599 Speaker 4: people pull that move like the way they're just like, oh, 2274 01:46:43,920 --> 01:46:47,040 Speaker 4: this should work for me because it worked for so 2275 01:46:47,080 --> 01:46:51,360 Speaker 4: and so. It might not you know, Uh, these people 2276 01:46:51,439 --> 01:46:54,080 Speaker 4: have this many people in their Facebook group. Yeah, but 2277 01:46:54,320 --> 01:46:56,240 Speaker 4: you might not have that many listeners. Maybe what you 2278 01:46:56,280 --> 01:46:58,840 Speaker 4: talk about isn't that that versutile. Maybe you haven't been 2279 01:46:58,840 --> 01:47:01,680 Speaker 4: doing it as long, maybe haven't been as consistent. So 2280 01:47:02,160 --> 01:47:04,720 Speaker 4: you have to think about the progress for you. So 2281 01:47:05,040 --> 01:47:07,960 Speaker 4: when you have twenty listeners, the goal should be how. 2282 01:47:07,800 --> 01:47:09,599 Speaker 3: Do I get thirty? You know what I mean? 2283 01:47:09,720 --> 01:47:11,800 Speaker 4: Rather than how do I get three thousand? Because we 2284 01:47:11,800 --> 01:47:14,840 Speaker 4: didn't start with all these listeners. It was it was 2285 01:47:15,400 --> 01:47:19,000 Speaker 4: oh Shirley Wan heard it that was cool, right, you know, 2286 01:47:19,240 --> 01:47:22,080 Speaker 4: now next week, let's get two people, right, you know, 2287 01:47:22,640 --> 01:47:25,439 Speaker 4: our schedules adjusted. It was a time we were doing 2288 01:47:25,560 --> 01:47:29,760 Speaker 4: the show once a week, you know, so things, you know, 2289 01:47:29,960 --> 01:47:32,479 Speaker 4: And the thing I've liked the most about our plan 2290 01:47:32,680 --> 01:47:34,360 Speaker 4: is that has been very organic. A lot of people 2291 01:47:34,360 --> 01:47:37,200 Speaker 4: are not very organic. They're very because they're different types 2292 01:47:37,240 --> 01:47:40,320 Speaker 4: of personalities. Mine is one of the more laid back. Hey, 2293 01:47:40,479 --> 01:47:42,479 Speaker 4: I would much rather my shit grow in a cool 2294 01:47:42,520 --> 01:47:46,720 Speaker 4: way that's organic than a more structured way that maybe 2295 01:47:46,760 --> 01:47:49,559 Speaker 4: you bite off more than you can chew, or maybe 2296 01:47:49,880 --> 01:47:52,880 Speaker 4: you know it feels contrived. Those things are important to me. 2297 01:47:53,640 --> 01:47:56,840 Speaker 4: But you know, I think you have to bite off 2298 01:47:57,000 --> 01:47:59,640 Speaker 4: what you can chew. So those are the things I 2299 01:47:59,680 --> 01:48:02,880 Speaker 4: would say say, And don't be afraid to try some 2300 01:48:02,960 --> 01:48:08,920 Speaker 4: different shit. Try try advertising, you know, definitely, once you 2301 01:48:09,040 --> 01:48:12,439 Speaker 4: get your feet under you, Try having podcasters on if 2302 01:48:12,479 --> 01:48:16,080 Speaker 4: that's something the equipment you have, or try getting guessed 2303 01:48:16,120 --> 01:48:19,920 Speaker 4: if that's something that you can do with your show. 2304 01:48:20,160 --> 01:48:21,679 Speaker 3: It's not a full. 2305 01:48:21,520 --> 01:48:23,560 Speaker 4: Proof way, and it's not something that happens overnight, and 2306 01:48:23,640 --> 01:48:26,360 Speaker 4: it definitely doesn't just like translate to so and so 2307 01:48:26,640 --> 01:48:28,680 Speaker 4: was on our show and now everybody's a fan of 2308 01:48:28,720 --> 01:48:31,160 Speaker 4: our show, because there's been shows that we've been on 2309 01:48:31,280 --> 01:48:32,800 Speaker 4: that tell us like all the time, like we get 2310 01:48:32,840 --> 01:48:34,719 Speaker 4: a lot of listeners from you, but there's other shows 2311 01:48:34,760 --> 01:48:36,840 Speaker 4: we've been on that people are like, yeah, I don't 2312 01:48:36,960 --> 01:48:39,200 Speaker 4: like what compared to what you do and what they do, 2313 01:48:39,840 --> 01:48:41,320 Speaker 4: I'm not a fan of what they do. 2314 01:48:41,760 --> 01:48:43,640 Speaker 3: Right, So you know, you just never know. 2315 01:48:43,800 --> 01:48:46,360 Speaker 4: Only quality keeps people, and the key is to get 2316 01:48:46,600 --> 01:48:49,720 Speaker 4: as many people listening as possible. 2317 01:48:49,479 --> 01:48:52,719 Speaker 6: You know. And my thing is that just just truth 2318 01:48:52,800 --> 01:48:55,559 Speaker 6: be told when you knew. It's a slow process. It's 2319 01:48:55,680 --> 01:48:58,439 Speaker 6: just a slow process that everybody learns and adapts, and 2320 01:48:58,479 --> 01:49:01,559 Speaker 6: it's just at their own rates. And I think, like, right, 2321 01:49:01,640 --> 01:49:04,240 Speaker 6: you say, sometimes people try to grow bigger than they 2322 01:49:04,320 --> 01:49:08,240 Speaker 6: are or then they should be, and that ends up, 2323 01:49:08,600 --> 01:49:10,519 Speaker 6: like you say, you end up biting got more than 2324 01:49:10,560 --> 01:49:10,840 Speaker 6: you can. 2325 01:49:10,920 --> 01:49:11,160 Speaker 5: True. 2326 01:49:11,560 --> 01:49:14,320 Speaker 6: If you just want to do once a month, let 2327 01:49:14,400 --> 01:49:16,320 Speaker 6: that be your schedule. Once a week, let that be 2328 01:49:16,400 --> 01:49:18,920 Speaker 6: your schedule. And I know, like a lot of times 2329 01:49:18,960 --> 01:49:21,120 Speaker 6: people look at other people and they get discouraged. But 2330 01:49:21,280 --> 01:49:23,479 Speaker 6: like you say, when people have put years in it 2331 01:49:23,560 --> 01:49:25,519 Speaker 6: and you just starting, I'm not trying to fund it. 2332 01:49:25,560 --> 01:49:28,519 Speaker 6: You're not at the same level. And that's you know, 2333 01:49:28,640 --> 01:49:29,439 Speaker 6: that's just the fact. 2334 01:49:29,680 --> 01:49:32,479 Speaker 5: And you don't know what a lot of. 2335 01:49:32,439 --> 01:49:34,519 Speaker 6: People have to do to get their audience to where 2336 01:49:34,560 --> 01:49:38,280 Speaker 6: it is today, because everybody wants the results. But it's 2337 01:49:38,360 --> 01:49:40,439 Speaker 6: hard work if you want to do it to the 2338 01:49:40,520 --> 01:49:42,800 Speaker 6: point where it is bigger than a hobby to you. 2339 01:49:43,360 --> 01:49:44,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, but good luck. 2340 01:49:44,840 --> 01:49:45,880 Speaker 5: Man, yes ma'am. 2341 01:49:46,640 --> 01:49:49,919 Speaker 4: And you know, believe in yourself and you can accomplish 2342 01:49:49,960 --> 01:49:53,679 Speaker 4: your dreams and if nothing else, enjoy the journey because 2343 01:49:53,680 --> 01:49:56,439 Speaker 4: even if it's shit, I mean, the podcast matter is. 2344 01:49:56,479 --> 01:49:59,280 Speaker 3: So saturated now saying it's like the dude blogging. 2345 01:49:59,400 --> 01:50:02,960 Speaker 4: Every week, I see people that used to ship on podcasts, 2346 01:50:04,040 --> 01:50:06,560 Speaker 4: people that were like part of cool popular Twitter that 2347 01:50:06,640 --> 01:50:10,639 Speaker 4: were just like, you know, yeah, like this ship whack 2348 01:50:10,800 --> 01:50:13,519 Speaker 4: And now all of a sudden, you know, hey, what 2349 01:50:13,680 --> 01:50:14,679 Speaker 4: if I started a podcast? 2350 01:50:14,840 --> 01:50:17,080 Speaker 3: You guys, listen, it's like the new blogging. You know, 2351 01:50:17,200 --> 01:50:19,719 Speaker 3: it's like this is just going through this phase. 2352 01:50:19,800 --> 01:50:22,120 Speaker 4: And I think the people that tried and true will 2353 01:50:22,439 --> 01:50:25,560 Speaker 4: continue to do good job and they'll make it, and 2354 01:50:25,920 --> 01:50:28,479 Speaker 4: people that aren't will fall off and. 2355 01:50:30,600 --> 01:50:32,760 Speaker 3: More people getting in. It's never a bad thing. It 2356 01:50:32,880 --> 01:50:34,560 Speaker 3: just spreads awareness to everybody. 2357 01:50:35,120 --> 01:50:37,719 Speaker 5: And diversity is good because we're not a monolist. 2358 01:50:38,240 --> 01:50:39,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I think the more the better. 2359 01:50:39,960 --> 01:50:43,800 Speaker 4: But just understanding that also means, you know, the odds 2360 01:50:43,840 --> 01:50:46,479 Speaker 4: of someone listening to your stuff over somebody else, it's 2361 01:50:46,560 --> 01:50:50,519 Speaker 4: becomes lower and lower, you know, So just you know, 2362 01:50:50,680 --> 01:50:52,360 Speaker 4: I would look at it like that, like do it 2363 01:50:52,479 --> 01:50:55,040 Speaker 4: for yourself first and everybody else second. 2364 01:50:56,160 --> 01:50:56,880 Speaker 3: Last thing. 2365 01:50:58,439 --> 01:51:01,560 Speaker 4: Learn in Pittsburgh's send us a picture of all the 2366 01:51:01,640 --> 01:51:02,679 Speaker 4: sauces in her pantry. 2367 01:51:03,479 --> 01:51:03,959 Speaker 5: Spices. 2368 01:51:04,200 --> 01:51:07,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, and all her spices and stuff. Not bad, not bad, 2369 01:51:07,320 --> 01:51:10,800 Speaker 3: not more than I can imagine, no, ha, but. 2370 01:51:10,880 --> 01:51:15,040 Speaker 5: It's pretty pretty good. Yeah, pretty pretty good. I see 2371 01:51:15,160 --> 01:51:20,679 Speaker 5: some carrine, I see some Italian seasoning. I got my eye. 2372 01:51:20,720 --> 01:51:23,640 Speaker 6: See some hot soft dog I'm in. I'm in the 2373 01:51:23,720 --> 01:51:25,559 Speaker 6: back rafters, so I can't get them all. 2374 01:51:25,479 --> 01:51:28,200 Speaker 3: But I see paprika. I see it. 2375 01:51:29,520 --> 01:51:32,640 Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean, nothing wrong with that. But we 2376 01:51:32,760 --> 01:51:35,440 Speaker 4: all know all white people don't use spices because I generalize. 2377 01:51:35,960 --> 01:51:36,879 Speaker 3: Look you guys. 2378 01:51:36,720 --> 01:51:40,640 Speaker 4: Tomorrow morning at ten am ish and uh, you know, 2379 01:51:40,920 --> 01:51:43,760 Speaker 4: enjoy the rest of your Saturday night until then. I 2380 01:51:43,960 --> 01:51:44,240 Speaker 4: love you. 2381 01:51:44,400 --> 01:51:44,960 Speaker 5: I love you too. 2382 01:51:45,240 --> 01:51:45,439 Speaker 2: Wh