1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:06,439 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all bay. 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: At all at all. So don't give a. 4 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:28,319 Speaker 2: Busy listening to show to. 5 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 3: Join. Yah. 6 00:00:50,040 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, Joy, you know you love you. 7 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: You gotta turn. You got to turn the mouth. 8 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 5: Turn. 9 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: You probably got to turn the mouth. Mount a wad 10 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 2: of the money up. 11 00:01:55,840 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 6: Come come on, you think, uh. 12 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 5: Huh, I sure will. 13 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 7: Good morning everybody you are listening to the voice, Come 14 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:11,959 Speaker 7: on now, digny one and only Steve Harvey got the 15 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 7: radio show. Thank God for it all the time too. Well, 16 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 7: here we go today. I want to share something with 17 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 7: you that will help you because it's helped me. 18 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 6: You know. 19 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 3: I was. 20 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:31,079 Speaker 7: Telling the story once that in this magazine called Rob Report, 21 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 7: that there was a statue I used to see for years. 22 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 7: I started buying Rob Report magazines years ago. So I 23 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 7: just wanted to see what affluent people did, you know, 24 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 7: just wanted to see what people with means did, what 25 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 7: type of investments they did, what they bought, you know, 26 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 7: where they traveled to the Rob Report. It's just like 27 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 7: a it's like a big boy toy magazine. You can 28 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 7: see what cars is out. And I didn't have money 29 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 7: for none of it. Just I was dreaming, though, you know, 30 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 7: I just wanted to see. And there's a statue inside 31 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 7: this magazine of this man who was coming out of 32 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 7: this bronze rock. And he was completely bronzed, and he 33 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 7: was muscular, and you know, he didn't look nothing like me, 34 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 7: but he was a man coming up out of a rock. 35 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 7: And he had a huge hammer and a chisel in 36 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 7: his hand. And as his body from the waist up 37 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 7: was coming out of this huge piece of stone, you 38 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 7: could see where it was him who had been chiseling 39 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 7: informing himself. So the name of the statue was self 40 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 7: made Man. And for years man I said, Man, I'm 41 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 7: gonna get a big house one day, and I'm gonna 42 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 7: put that statue in the backyard in the corner. That's 43 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 7: gonna be my little spot where I go chill, because 44 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 7: I'm a self made man. Well, after years of working 45 00:03:55,000 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 7: at becoming somebody and having reached a degree of success, 46 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 7: I would have nothing to do with that statue. There's 47 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 7: nothing about that statue that appeals to me anymore, because 48 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 7: on my journey and in my quest to become what 49 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 7: I thought would be this self made man, where I 50 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 7: could put this statue and had this statue in the 51 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 7: corner be kind of cold symbolizing it. 52 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 5: I made it. 53 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 7: I realized on my journey there's no such thing as 54 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 7: a self made man. That we all need help, and 55 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 7: that God places people in our paths along the way 56 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 7: that benefit us oftentimes. And it's the most unlikely person 57 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 7: often times, and it's the most unlikely way that He 58 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 7: presents these people in front of you. It's crazy how 59 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 7: he does it. 60 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 3: Man. 61 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 7: And so this is a statue now that I look 62 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 7: at and I go, I see what the creator was saying. 63 00:04:56,200 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 7: And that's cool, but not not for me, because because 64 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 7: I needed help, and I've learned a lot of things 65 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 7: like this along the way. And the part I wanted 66 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 7: to share with you all about this is you've got 67 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 7: to develop You've got to develop a sense of purpose. 68 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 7: You have to develop a sense of purpose that's different. See, 69 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 7: your purpose is created for you by God because when 70 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 7: He created you as an individual from whatever two parents 71 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 7: you may have, that's not important here. When he created you, 72 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 7: he had something in mind for you, and it was 73 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 7: a purpose. God has not created a single soul to 74 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 7: become a criminal. God has never created a single soul 75 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 7: to be a drug dealer. This came about through some 76 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 7: decisions we made as sinners, and we stayed. 77 00:05:56,720 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 2: In that place. But see what he created us. He 78 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 2: has a wonderful idea for us. 79 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 7: But God gives us human beings this thing called choice, 80 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 7: and we have the power to decide. So you can 81 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 7: decide if you're gonna adhere to the purpose that God 82 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 7: created you and made you for, or you can go 83 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 7: ahead and make some choices on your own. So like, 84 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 7: if God wanted to give you a life and give 85 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 7: it to come to you and give you life more abundantly, 86 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 7: and that's his promise if you come to him, if 87 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 7: you choose him, then cool. But if you say, well 88 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 7: this ain't moving along fast enough, I'm gonna get my 89 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 7: own life of abundance, I'm gonna start slinging. 90 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 2: Well, guess what now, Tada. 91 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 7: You made a decision and seek God's decisions and choices. 92 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 7: The one thing I learned about them, God's decisions, choices, 93 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 7: his voice, It has no sin in it. And it 94 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 7: amazing how many people it came up to you and said, 95 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 7: the Lord wanted me to do this to you, and 96 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 7: I'm doing it. That God is punishing you and I'm 97 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 7: doing this to you because God gonna see that you 98 00:06:59,400 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 7: get your day. 99 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 2: Who is this person? 100 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 7: Who is this person that God all of a sudden 101 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 7: gave this authority and power to God didn't get at 102 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 7: the nobody, Man, nobody, this person don't have the right 103 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 7: to hold you to your past, the right to make 104 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 7: you pay. So who makes them pay when they make mistakes? 105 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 7: Because they all make them. So when I say you 106 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 7: have to have a sense of you have to develop 107 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 7: a strong sense of purpose. That means you have to 108 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 7: strongly get in touch with your creator to find out 109 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 7: what the purpose you were created for. See, it's two 110 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 7: things that I had to learn along the way. My 111 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 7: career was what I was paid for. My calling is 112 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 7: what I was made for. See, it's two different things, folks. 113 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 7: It took me a long time to learn it. Some 114 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 7: people think that they calling is to be a performer. Well, 115 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 7: that's what you paid for, and a big part of 116 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 7: your life is your performance. It's tied directly to your 117 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 7: But what you made for, though, what you made for 118 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 7: is to bring about some significant change in another human 119 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 7: beings lives because we are all linked together in this chain. 120 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 2: That's what you are here for. 121 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 7: Everybody has a purpose to do something wonderful, meaningful, or 122 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 7: impactful for another person. You think the God that invented 123 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 7: the airplane was merely inventing the airplane so he could fly. Now, 124 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 7: his purpose was to become an inventor, to come up 125 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:35,719 Speaker 7: with this invention so he could fly and we all fly. 126 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 5: See. 127 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 7: Sometimes God will make you successful so you can become successful, 128 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 7: so you can turn around to teach other people how 129 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 7: to become successful. God save people, so you can turn 130 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 7: around it tell other people how wonderful it is to 131 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 7: be saved. You see how this thing work. That's what 132 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 7: we have to do as people. And it's nothing that 133 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 7: we have to go and discover. We have to go 134 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:00,079 Speaker 7: and develop it. But if you have a discovery with 135 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 7: your purpose, it's simply because here's it. If you haven't 136 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 7: discovered your purpose, it's simply because you have not contacted 137 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:15,599 Speaker 7: the creator and maker of your soul to ask and 138 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:22,199 Speaker 7: find out why you were created. It's as simple as that. 139 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 7: If you buy a toyota, there's an owner's manual on 140 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 7: the inside that will tell you everything you know how 141 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 7: to best operate your toyota, how to make it work, 142 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 7: what to do. 143 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 2: They got a trouble shooting section. 144 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 7: Your faith is the same thing as an owner's manual 145 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 7: in your car. Open up that book, man, find out 146 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:51,559 Speaker 7: how to jumpstart your life, how to troubleshoot it and 147 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 7: get on with your life, and find out your purpose 148 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 7: and develop a strong sense of purpose. 149 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: All right, Okay, you're listening. 150 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 7: Show ladies, gentlemen, truck drivers, bosses, warner bees, people in construction, 151 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 7: bridge workers, school crossing guards. You know, man, I had 152 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 7: a school crossing guard one time. I never met a 153 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 7: person more evil. Why are you a hateful person leading 154 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 7: the kids cross the street? All of us felt in 155 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 7: endangered every time she put the stop sign up because 156 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 7: I felt like she was trying to kill us. I 157 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 7: really did, man, she was an evil crossing God cars 158 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 7: be coming. 159 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 2: She waited the. 160 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:47,559 Speaker 7: Last minute throw that sign out. You here, everybody in 161 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:50,719 Speaker 7: the crosswalks started crying and running. I was just I 162 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 7: don't know why I thought of that just now, but 163 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 7: that's how my mind was. Just thought I'd let y'all 164 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 7: in there. This is Steve Harvey Martin show. Be Grateful today. 165 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 7: Y'all had long conversation with God. Really spent some time 166 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 7: thanking him in some morning to do the same thing. 167 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 7: Just take a couple of minutes, man out to day. 168 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 7: Close your eyes. You ain't got to just thinking you 169 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 7: can do that with your eyes open. I ain't telling 170 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 7: to tell you how to do it. I'm just asking 171 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 7: you to do it. 172 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 2: That's all. 173 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 5: Here we go. 174 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:16,439 Speaker 7: Shirlie Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica Jr. Better known 175 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 7: as KLS, which stands for kill Lwan's space. 176 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 2: It's the lauwan for me kill. I didn't get that 177 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 2: at first. I don't know. 178 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 7: That's when black people started naming their kids Spanish names kill. 179 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:32,319 Speaker 7: I don't know where that came from. That is not 180 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 7: black though, killer. 181 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 2: But lawan no. 182 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, oh yeah, they made up for kill and 183 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 7: the legend that is nephew Tommy Jr. 184 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 6: Yeah. 185 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 8: Let me ask you, uh, you know our family decided 186 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 8: this year we're gonna do that gift exchange. Have you 187 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 8: done that before with your family when you do the 188 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 8: gift exchange? Yeah, of course, yeah, because I know I 189 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 8: saw who pulled my name. I know my gift things 190 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 8: can be nothing. But Monael pulled my name and he 191 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 8: missing the two, so I know I ain't finna get money. 192 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 9: The one in the front. 193 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. 194 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 8: See, if he don't care about hisself, I know, damn 195 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 8: what henna care about my gift? 196 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 3: I know that. 197 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 7: Well, if you won't buy a tooth, I can promise 198 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 7: you your gift ain't gonna be worth it. That help 199 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 7: because first of all, he don't see nothing wrong. When 200 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 7: a person is shopping for you that don't see nothing wrong. 201 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 7: The tooth in the front of your head is missing. Yeah, dog, 202 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 7: And what I got to do? Pop bottles copper. Why 203 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 7: you know, I go work down at the trap house 204 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 7: for a couple of days. I got to get some 205 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 7: money for this tooth. It's no way, dog, I'm down 206 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 7: at the grocery store. I'm bagging groceries. I'm doing whatever 207 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 7: I got to do. I got to get some money 208 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 7: for this tooth. 209 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 210 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 2: Your uncle to set that for years. 211 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 5: Yeah missing. 212 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, man, your gift ain't gonna be nothing. 213 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 10: Yeah. 214 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:01,439 Speaker 1: I promise you. 215 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 9: This gift coming out of dollarsto, I know it is. 216 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 5: Well, you should buy my two baying mato. I didn't 217 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 5: pull his name. I didn't pull. 218 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 2: Okay to help them. 219 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 7: If I'm buying a tooth crush, hey, Junior, I'll buy 220 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 7: him a toothbrush and cut half the bristles off. 221 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 2: Mean evil all right, the brushes. 222 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 7: Concentrated where they be, because you don't want your brushes 223 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 7: hitting that gun. 224 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 10: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we 225 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:40,719 Speaker 10: will hear from the nephew. 226 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:44,199 Speaker 1: As he runs that prank back right after this. You're 227 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: listening morning show. 228 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:49,319 Speaker 10: All right, it's time now to start your morning off 229 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 10: with the nephew and run that prank back. 230 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 2: What you got for us, nep job awful? 231 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 5: Everybody looking for one? 232 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:56,559 Speaker 2: You never know? 233 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 5: Cat dog, Let's go. 234 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 6: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach you, William William Please, Yes, 235 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 6: this William, I William. My name is Daniel. I'm with 236 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 6: deployment agency. 237 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 4: Oh yes, how's it doing? 238 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 6: Okay, I'm pretty good. You You actually came in a 239 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 6: couple of weeks and filled out some forms. 240 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah I did. I did. 241 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,839 Speaker 6: You're you're seeking ployment right, yes, sir? I am okay, okay, 242 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 6: Well listen, I got a few things here i'd like 243 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 6: to go over if you don't. If you have the time, 244 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 6: I'd like to get a couple of questions from you. 245 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 6: I think I actually have something I could send you 246 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:30,239 Speaker 6: out on on Monday. If you actually fit the criterias. 247 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 4: Okay, oh okay, well hold one, let me grab a 248 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 4: pin real fast, hold on. Okay, all right, I'm ready. 249 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 6: All right. Are you used to physical labor at all? 250 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 4: Yes? Yes I am. 251 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 6: Okay, so I got out a problem health wise or physical. 252 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 6: You're you're you're able to handle that kind of stuff. 253 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 3: Yes. 254 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 6: Okay. About how tall are you, William? 255 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 3: Eight? 256 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 4: Eight? 257 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 6: Okay? And how much do you weigh? 258 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 4: About one? 259 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 6: One fifty? Okay, all right, let's do this now. Have 260 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 6: you done any singing at all? Uh? 261 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 3: Not? 262 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 6: Not. 263 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 4: I can sing a little bit, not and I'm not 264 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 4: a singer. Singer, but you know I could. 265 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 3: I could. 266 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 4: I could blow a little bit, but not professionally. 267 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 6: But you know, but you're pretty good at holding a 268 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 6: note at least though, right. 269 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, I can hold a note. 270 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 6: Uh huh okay, not bad, not bad at all. Are 271 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 6: you good working out in the heat? Is that okay? 272 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah? At this point, man, I'm willing to take anything. Yeah, 273 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 4: I'm cool with that. 274 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 6: Okay. How long have you been out of work? 275 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 3: Ah? 276 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 4: Man, it's about a good about a year and a half. 277 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 6: Now, okay, Well man, we're going to try to fix 278 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 6: that for you. I know, Uh, with the way economy is, 279 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 6: you know, I know how people can be out of 280 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 6: work and not be able to find what they're looking for. 281 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 6: But I think we've got something up right Alley. Now, 282 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:46,359 Speaker 6: let me ask you this question. Are you good working barefooted? 283 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 4: Barefooted? 284 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, without without shoes on it all? 285 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 4: Well, I mean I guess if the jobs required it, 286 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 4: then I mean, yeah, I can do that. 287 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 6: Okay. Now we're gonna start Monday morning right at sunrise, 288 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 6: so we're talking about five point thirty six o'clock here. 289 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 6: We're gonna need you, uh to report to the field 290 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 6: to actually get ready. Okay, what kind of job is this? 291 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 6: I mean, what you're gonna be doing, William, is you're 292 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 6: gonna what you're gonna be doing is actually picking cotton, 293 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 6: and we want you to do it barefooted, and we'd 294 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 6: like for you to actually sing while you're doing it. 295 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 4: Well, you gotta be kidding, And man, are you serious? 296 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 6: I'm that serious. The jape's ten bucks an hour. You 297 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 6: know we're gonna get you some good hours out there. 298 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 4: I know it's wedding man, man, I mean with all 299 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 4: this this thing, man, I mean that, I mean, he's 300 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 4: not my picking cotton and bare feet and ten thousand hour. 301 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 6: Man, I don't, you're gonna don't forget. I do need 302 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 6: you singing. It's gonna be a Do you know any 303 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 6: Negro spirituals? 304 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 4: No, I don't, and I don't. 305 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 3: I don't. 306 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 4: I don't think. Who's this again? 307 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 6: Like I said, I'm Daniel. I wanted the employees here. 308 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 6: I work at employment agency. You know, I pulled up 309 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 6: your file and saw how long you've been out of work, 310 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 6: and you know, I've got something that I think you'll 311 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 6: be perfect for. 312 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 4: Okay, but what I mean, what is this job really about? 313 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,119 Speaker 4: I mean, you talk, you're talking about picking cotton. 314 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:22,919 Speaker 6: Well, you know, basically, it's kind of like you're getting paid. 315 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 6: You know, the ten bucks an hour, you're probably gonna 316 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 6: get about ten hours in a day, so so you 317 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 6: know you're gonna make a hundred bucks a day. It's 318 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 6: it's a it's kind of like slavery, but it's not. 319 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:37,359 Speaker 4: It's hold up, hold up, brot, hold up, man. I 320 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 4: didn't sign on for nothing like this. Man, I mean, 321 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 4: I'm thinking you guys are supposed to be helping me 322 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:45,120 Speaker 4: with a up today job. I mean, slavery don't even 323 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 4: exist no more. 324 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 6: Man, I mean I mean, we are going to pay you, 325 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 6: you understand, but we do want you barefoot. 326 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 4: You are telling me I gotta I gotta sing and 327 00:17:55,200 --> 00:18:00,159 Speaker 4: walk barefooted picking cotton, singing some some slavery songs. Bro, 328 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 4: I don't do anything like that. 329 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 3: Man. 330 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:06,160 Speaker 4: I'm voting tuesday. Man that slavery is a fool with man. 331 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:07,640 Speaker 4: Whatever are you talking about? 332 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 6: I can't what did you say? 333 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 3: Man? 334 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 4: I'm thinking that you guys are going to be finding 335 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:13,160 Speaker 4: me at a job. 336 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 6: A job, job, definite job in regardless of how you 337 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 6: like it. It's a job. Now. I need you to 338 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 6: report one in the morning out in the field with 339 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 6: no shoes and ready to see me. 340 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 4: Man, I am not reporting, no damn weear at five 341 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning at no damn field. Brother, I mean, 342 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:35,159 Speaker 4: I don't know why why you even calling me with 343 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 4: this matter of fact matter of fact? You know what, 344 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 4: Go ahead and send my dog because I'll go over 345 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 4: there and talk to these people in the beginning, because 346 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:45,400 Speaker 4: y'all need to be reported. 347 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 6: Like I said, five o'clock in the morning. Report you know, 348 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 6: if you can wear your shoes. Man, listen, fuck fuck 349 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 6: listen to me. 350 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 4: No not my name ain't buck as matter of fact? 351 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 4: What's your name? Because you know what. I will be 352 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 4: at the tomorrow just to meet your because this don't 353 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 4: make no sense. Man, you calling my phone talking about 354 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 4: some slavery work. Man, you must be out of your 355 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 4: mind talking to. 356 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 6: Are you looking for work? Are you not looking for work? 357 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 3: Now? 358 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 4: I'm not looking for that kind of work, dude. I 359 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,640 Speaker 4: mean you calling my phone telling me about some slaves work. 360 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 6: It's work though, you get matter of fact? 361 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 4: What what is your name? What is your name? 362 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 6: Daniel? 363 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:26,040 Speaker 4: You can kiss my okay. 364 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 6: I don't want to go back, and I'm not doing no. 365 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:33,120 Speaker 4: Type like that matter. You can lose all my information. 366 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 6: You're gonna get your black I mean, hang on, you're 367 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 6: gonna get your butt out there and you're gonna do 368 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 6: with you. 369 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 4: You just get my black. Well, you know what. I 370 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 4: will be there putting my down. 371 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 6: Can I can I say one more thing? What the 372 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 6: what the else you gotta say? 373 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:46,959 Speaker 3: Man? 374 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 4: You just said a mouth full already. 375 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 6: I gotta say this. This is Nephew tom Me from 376 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 6: Steve Harby morning. Sure your wife Katrin have gotten me 377 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 6: to break phone call you? What the who. 378 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 3: Will you? 379 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 6: This is nephew Timmy man from the Steve Harvey Morning This. 380 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 4: I believe she could do something like that, man, And 381 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 4: you know I'm looking for Yoah man, I bet you 382 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 4: won't be saying that when the bills come in next month. 383 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 4: Hey man, I'm five for it, eight one hundred and 384 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 4: fifty pounds. But when I'm ready to get in your 385 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 4: get all in your I mean, and she know that, 386 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 4: she know that. I mean, I'm gonna get high. Oh man. 387 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 6: I got one more thing I gotta ask you, man, 388 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 6: what is what is the baddest and I mean the 389 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 6: baddest radio show in the land. 390 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,679 Speaker 4: Oh man, The Steve Harvey Morning. 391 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 5: Show lit a't never hurt nobody? 392 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you. 393 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 10: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO, our chief 394 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 10: Love Officer, Steve Harvey. 395 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:57,120 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 396 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 10: Time now for us the c l oh, the chief 397 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,719 Speaker 10: love opposite of the Cloe, as a nephew calls him, 398 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,840 Speaker 10: you ready, Clo Stavid? 399 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 2: All right? 400 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 10: This one is from Marcus, an iHeartRadio app listener. Marcus says, 401 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 10: I've been married for four years, but I think my 402 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 10: wife had sex with a guy from my gym. I 403 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 10: was working out one morning and there were only two 404 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 10: other people in the gym. One of the guys came 405 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,119 Speaker 10: over and said he recognized me from a picture on 406 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 10: social media. 407 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 1: He asked if I knew a guy named Bo. I 408 00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 1: told him that Bo is a relative. 409 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 10: He said he messed around with Bo's sister a few 410 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:34,679 Speaker 10: months ago, but he hasn't seen or. 411 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:38,719 Speaker 1: Talked to Bo lately. Well, Bo's sister is my wife. 412 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 10: My wife denied everything, and Bo wouldn't confirm or deny 413 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 10: what I need answers. 414 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: So how should I handle this? Clo woo? 415 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,440 Speaker 7: Well, you could just pull in with ass whoop it, 416 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:55,159 Speaker 7: stop it. Dotta get somebody to talk it. 417 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 2: Uh huh, hold on, man, hold what wait a minute? 418 00:21:58,400 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 5: What you doing? 419 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,119 Speaker 2: So Shirley explain it to me again? 420 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 1: Okay? 421 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 10: So he was at the gym working out one one morning. 422 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 10: There were only two other people in the gym. One 423 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,640 Speaker 10: of the guys came over and said he recognized him 424 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 10: from a picture on social media. 425 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 2: He recognized Marcus. 426 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 10: Yes, yes, yes, okay. He asked if I knew a 427 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 10: guy named Bo. I told him that Bo is a relative. 428 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 10: He said he messed around with Bo's sister a few 429 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 10: months ago, but he hasn't seen or talked to Bo lately. Well, 430 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,359 Speaker 10: Bo's sister is my wife. My wife denied everything. Bo 431 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,640 Speaker 10: wouldn't confirm or deny what happened, and I need answers. 432 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:39,920 Speaker 2: He said, hold hold of dog. 433 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 7: You let a dude come up to you in a 434 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 7: gym with some social media mess to ask you, did 435 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,800 Speaker 7: you know a guy named Bo? Because he messed around 436 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,440 Speaker 7: with his sister and he ain't seen him in a while. 437 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 7: So now the throwaway line is he messed around with 438 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 7: Bo's sisters now that happens to be your wife. First 439 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 7: of all, he could be lying, and number two, which 440 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 7: I think he is, because ain't no way in the 441 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 7: hell this dude would come up to a man's wife 442 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 7: and make this statement if he thought it were true. 443 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 7: So I would be very careful man, before you go 444 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 7: at your wife with all this hocus pokers from this 445 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 7: guy at the GM on social media. 446 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 10: But what if what if the guy didn't know that 447 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 10: Bo's sister was his wife? Well, I'm pretty sure he 448 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 10: would he wouldn't know that. 449 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 6: But what. 450 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 7: First of all, if you just trying to meet both, 451 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,879 Speaker 7: why would you go up to a dude and go 452 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 7: I used to mess with his sister. 453 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 2: Now you're just trying to find both. 454 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 7: Man, can we whoop his hands and apologize if it 455 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,160 Speaker 7: went wrong? See if you pull in on his ass. 456 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 7: It's like what I said in the beginning, We're gonna 457 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 7: get your truth a lot quicker exactly, because all you 458 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,879 Speaker 7: got to do is just start whooping his ass because 459 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 7: he said he slept with your wife, so you had 460 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 7: a right to whoop somebody asked who come up to 461 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 7: you and say that? And then we can get down 462 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 7: to the bottom of the truth. We find out if 463 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 7: he really know bold he trying to let you know 464 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 7: he slept with your wife? 465 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 2: What if that's what you're trying to let me know? 466 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 5: Thank you? 467 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 2: And here's this ass woman. 468 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on. 469 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 10: Tanisha and Charlotte's yeah, bon nose Tanisha and Charlotte clo 470 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 10: says I was free and fold. 471 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 2: Why don't we do this? 472 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:49,359 Speaker 1: Why don't you just asked bowl Bog. 473 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 7: He's supposed to be his cousin. Why don't you just 474 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 7: go ask both did his boy sleep with his sister? 475 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 7: And if he slept with him before y'all got married, dog, it. 476 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:02,399 Speaker 1: Might not be a problem few months ago. Okay, Well 477 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 1: they've been married for four years. 478 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, well else, I ass now, I only know 479 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:07,680 Speaker 7: how you didn't issue it at the gym? What wasn't 480 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:08,719 Speaker 7: number three people in there? 481 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 1: Truth? 482 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 2: All a lot? 483 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:15,680 Speaker 10: Yeah right, all right? Tanisha and Charlotte says. I was 484 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 10: free and single, living my best life till a man 485 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 10: came along and swept me off my feet. He's from 486 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 10: a small town and he has very traditional ways, and 487 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 10: I thought it was cute at first, but now it's weird. 488 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 10: He has set bedtime and he expects me to go 489 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 10: to bed at ten thirty every night too. Saturday night, 490 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 10: I waited for him to drift off to sleep, and 491 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 10: I woke him up with a little surprise under the covers. 492 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 10: He pushed me away and said he needed sleep, and 493 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 10: there's time and a place for everything. We're both only 494 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 10: twenty eight, so why is he such a prude? Is 495 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,640 Speaker 10: this something that can be changed? 496 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 2: What well he got on the schedule? 497 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:54,719 Speaker 7: You couldn't have an unhappy life now, yeah, right now, 498 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 7: you couldn't have a very very unhappy answer life. 499 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 2: There's a time and place for everything. When I was 500 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 2: twenty eight, the time and place for sex was now. 501 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:06,200 Speaker 1: What's now? Right now? 502 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 5: Always? 503 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 3: Now? 504 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 2: Every now, I don't give a damn when you bought 505 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 2: it up. 506 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 7: We could be fully dressed all the way out the 507 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,679 Speaker 7: dough for church and look at the start of. 508 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 1: It in church. 509 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:27,360 Speaker 11: I would what yeah, yeah, yeah, this is boy right here, 510 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 11: This is craziness. Yeah said thirty boy to go ahead, yeah, ten. 511 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 1: Under the covers and just the two of you. 512 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 3: What now? 513 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 10: All right, we don't have time for another one, Steve, 514 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 10: but if you have any. 515 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: More advice for bo okay go or both's cousin. 516 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 2: The dude at the Jimney. I asked. 517 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 7: First of all, for either telling the truth that it 518 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 7: was your wife, Yeah, lying on your wife, one. 519 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 4: Of the two. 520 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 10: Either the truth, Yeah, you think it was the truth. 521 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 10: I think it was the truth, because he didn't. I mean, 522 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 10: was he just being messy? Was he just being a 523 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:13,480 Speaker 10: messy dude? 524 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,359 Speaker 7: You can't take unless you was at the gym and 525 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,879 Speaker 7: the dude is big and buff and you a little scrowny, 526 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:19,640 Speaker 7: little pok ash. 527 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 12: Yeah. 528 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,159 Speaker 7: But either way, I'm gonna pick up this ten pounds 529 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,119 Speaker 7: weight and we're gonna see how I stroke Your eye is. 530 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's the one thing that ain't got no muscles, 531 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:31,640 Speaker 2: your eye. 532 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:39,440 Speaker 1: You're listening Morning Show. This is holiday phrases at the Christmas. 533 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 2: Holiday phrases at the Christmas party. 534 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,720 Speaker 13: Well, I'm gonna go to these Christmas parties inside the 535 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:47,200 Speaker 13: friend's house or relatives house. Well, we're gonna just make 536 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,360 Speaker 13: the setting. We're gonna play some music for you. You're 537 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,399 Speaker 13: in a real Christmas party. And these are some of 538 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 13: the phrases that you're here at your average black Christmas party. 539 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 1: Key word black. 540 00:27:58,480 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 4: I heard that. 541 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 10: All right, here we go, and now we take you 542 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 10: to every holiday Christmas gathering and we give you sounds 543 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:10,200 Speaker 10: of a black Christmas party. 544 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 14: I don't know, Hey, can I can I get some 545 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,360 Speaker 14: of y'all to help me put an earl in the car? 546 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 5: Somebody just. 547 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 1: Well, I'd like to laugh too. So what did she say? 548 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 3: That was? 549 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 1: So anybody seeing my purse? 550 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,400 Speaker 10: It was right there on the kitchen table, right there. 551 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 1: I put it right there. 552 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 2: Hey, y'alla cares not that in my mama house. 553 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 5: And y'all out of tarlet paper? 554 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 2: Where y'all keep it from the whooper? I'm gonna need 555 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 2: that prod hold up, don't go in there? 556 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: So what so what the girl like girls? 557 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 2: Tell me. 558 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 1: What they got to do with you? 559 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 5: Girls? You ain't saying nothing. We take all this outside. 560 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, right now, that's real like that. I love 561 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 1: y'all in all, but y'all me just stay out of 562 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: my bedroom right there. No, it's not a weed. This 563 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 1: is my real hair. 564 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, my real hair. 565 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 7: Hey. Look, if I was young, I stay out there 566 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 7: bathroom for about le forty five minutes. 567 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,520 Speaker 2: No, no, no, he don't know. You'll know. I ain't know. 568 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 6: It was out. 569 00:29:54,840 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 5: The hell made this age. That's why I tell you 570 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 5: I needed help to get him in. 571 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 6: The cup. 572 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,480 Speaker 1: Went in heavy. 573 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 5: I need. 574 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 2: Breaking another ornament on that tree. We ain't gonna have 575 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 2: nothing to hang on it next year. 576 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,640 Speaker 14: I know you ain't out there peeing in my mama backyard. 577 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 14: Come on, man, come on, dog. 578 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,959 Speaker 2: Stop stop balling that Christmas pipe, balk. We're gonna use 579 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 2: it next year. 580 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 1: Oh she knew he was married. She knew he was married. 581 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 1: Uh huh huh, that's him. 582 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:46,640 Speaker 2: Well went a white woman. 583 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:54,720 Speaker 1: It just sounds you here at a black Yes, I'll 584 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 1: accept the charge. Tell me coming watch a person. 585 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 14: They uh, they don't let him preach you a church. 586 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 14: But he wanted to come over here and pray for 587 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 14: thirty minutes. It's just too much right that. 588 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, she had enough by. 589 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 13: Hey, y'all, it's long distance from the prison. 590 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 2: Everybody won't say yes. 591 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 1: Yes, my next. 592 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 2: Hey, Robert, what's up, y'all? What's up? What's up? 593 00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 5: Fair man? 594 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:29,560 Speaker 2: I wish I could be there with y'all. 595 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 5: All over there, everybody. 596 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 9: Past the floor? 597 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 2: Right, everybody? 598 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 5: What about me? 599 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 4: That man? 600 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 1: Huh? 601 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 2: Let me talk to brinit Hey, Bernita, Uh, Robert on 602 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 2: the phone. I ain't say nothbody you know, well, go ahead, 603 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 2: just talk to you. I can't believe Samite that don't 604 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 2: bring a damn thing. Take the most home. 605 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 5: Look at me, were about to eat. 606 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 6: The game is on. 607 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:21,360 Speaker 2: Hold on a good prayers, lads, this isn't gotten late. 608 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 14: We probably gonna have to stay to night. I don't 609 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 14: I don't know how that drive now you know claires 610 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 14: don't like to drive at night. Why we can't eat 611 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 14: to lands? 612 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 2: Get here? 613 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 9: Did y'all go in the living room and speak to 614 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 9: his Birdie's in the hospital? 615 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 2: Man, God's gonna walk right by. 616 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 1: What y'all doing? A Hey, I'm here in the black crep. 617 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 1: We're trying to get up break because the party. 618 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 5: Oh no, we've been out to christ. 619 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 2: House, Black house. 620 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 14: Go out there and tell Davonte to to bring that 621 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 14: walker back in here so mister Sill can get to 622 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 14: the table. 623 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,480 Speaker 2: You mean, timmy, you ain't got no flat screens. 624 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 7: Gives from from the hospital field, your grandmama from the 625 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 7: hospital bench and turn them. 626 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 2: Greens down, smell them in here. Hey, can anybody give 627 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 2: me a jump? I'm trying to go to woods. 628 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 1: Chansgiving and he worked. 629 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 2: He get it. 630 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 5: They get get paid double tonight. 631 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:44,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, get that over time. 632 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 1: Get that seals like my hand feel like, well, that's. 633 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 2: How get out of here. Watch this game, y'all. Y'all, ay, y'all, 634 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 2: TV be cutting off. We go to the house so 635 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 2: I can see this day. 636 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 4: You fool. 637 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:05,280 Speaker 1: You're talking. 638 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,320 Speaker 14: Somebody that took them down falling chaiirs. I know we 639 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:14,319 Speaker 14: had eight poling chails. No damn, who took that fall 640 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 14: off the table? 641 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 4: Just a fall? 642 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:17,760 Speaker 2: That's my fault. 643 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:20,320 Speaker 6: All right, we gotta go. 644 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:25,279 Speaker 10: You're listening hard morning show and it's time now for 645 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 10: a round of would you rather? Would you rather spend 646 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:32,160 Speaker 10: New Year's Eve without your phone or without someone to 647 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 10: kiss at midnight? 648 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:35,240 Speaker 2: Which was phone? 649 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 5: He didn't had that phone? 650 00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 2: Yeah you had it? 651 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 1: You got somebody, Uh I need to get it at 652 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:51,800 Speaker 1: twelve oh one. Now, yeah, in the new year. Wow, okay, Steve, 653 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:52,880 Speaker 1: you didn't answer. 654 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I need somebody. I don't care about that phone. 655 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,440 Speaker 1: Oh that's so sweet. 656 00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:01,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what long flights you know. I don't ask 657 00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 2: the flight attendant. Do you have WiFi? 658 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:03,279 Speaker 3: No? 659 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,320 Speaker 2: Hell no, nobody call me? 660 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 6: No? 661 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 662 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 1: Would you rather a real Christmas tree or an artificial one? 663 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,799 Speaker 2: Real trees? I love real tree? 664 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:17,879 Speaker 5: What about you, guys? 665 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 9: I ain't never had no real tree in my life. 666 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:22,319 Speaker 9: Uh uh, I ain't even get them. 667 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 1: Oh you always have faith faith. Oh yes, well they're 668 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:27,839 Speaker 1: pretty right. 669 00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 5: The decor. 670 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:31,480 Speaker 9: Made it feel like it was real. 671 00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 8: He said he bought it. It was real when he 672 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 8: bought it. So definitely told me. Yeah't play that. 673 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:42,399 Speaker 4: But high high? 674 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 2: Some fake tree? What is you looking at? 675 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 14: Right? 676 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 2: You think that tree in your imagination? 677 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 6: All right? 678 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 10: When your spouse is leaving the house, would you rather 679 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:59,240 Speaker 10: be kissed goodbye or left to sleep? 680 00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,320 Speaker 1: Which one? When she's leaving? 681 00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:01,839 Speaker 3: Oh? 682 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,279 Speaker 5: If I'm sleep, you want her to It's gonna do 683 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 5: what you got to do. I kiss you. 684 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: Oh, don't wake you. 685 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,880 Speaker 9: I'm not gonna say nothing. I recuse myself from this question. 686 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 5: Trial. 687 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 8: So I heard Steve said yesterday, I recuse myself. Yeah 688 00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 8: you rather, Oh yes I can. 689 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,719 Speaker 9: I'll her people listening. Oh no, I'm not gonna say 690 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:28,400 Speaker 9: what I'd rather do? 691 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,759 Speaker 1: No, you rather? It's just simple. Would you rather for 692 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:35,080 Speaker 1: her to let you sleep? Or I rather let me sleep? 693 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,840 Speaker 9: But she wakes me up every morning to kiss me 694 00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 9: when she going to work? 695 00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 3: For that? 696 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 5: All right? 697 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,520 Speaker 10: Would you rather know what you're gonna get for Christmas? 698 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,279 Speaker 10: Or would you rather be surprised? 699 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:48,400 Speaker 5: I'm not going to get a damn thing. 700 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,719 Speaker 1: Surprise, surprise, that's your surprise? 701 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:57,960 Speaker 5: May wake me up for that. Either you think I 702 00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 5: didn't know that bike was wrapped? 703 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 2: Ask me what I won't so I don't be hurt? 704 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, exactly. 705 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,439 Speaker 2: It's real simple. What I want? 706 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:12,839 Speaker 5: What do you want? 707 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 6: What you want? 708 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 2: We watch. 709 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:16,279 Speaker 4: All? 710 00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 2: I want to watch? 711 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 5: Different thought? Give no watch? 712 00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,880 Speaker 7: Well, Margie know what to do though she ain't never missed. 713 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 7: She did too much though sometimes I'll go ahead. 714 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,920 Speaker 1: All right, thanks guys, that's today's round of would you 715 00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:38,359 Speaker 1: rather you're listening? Morning show? 716 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 5: All right? 717 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 10: We promised to talk about holiday traditions, especially Christmas traditions, 718 00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 10: and while time honored holiday traditions are important, they've also 719 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 10: evolved over the generations. Now, this is according to a survey, 720 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 10: family activities and writing to Santa are still among the 721 00:37:55,360 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 10: most popular holiday traditions. That is interesting, even though I've 722 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 10: never written to Santa. Even though we live in a 723 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,879 Speaker 10: tech savvy world, three out of four parents say their 724 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 10: children still hand write letters to Santa, as opposed to 725 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:15,359 Speaker 10: a more modern approach like email. And really, and what's 726 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:19,799 Speaker 10: the most popular family activity in twenty seventeen this year? Well, 727 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:23,879 Speaker 10: according to most households, it's decorating the Christmas tree as 728 00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 10: a family. 729 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,759 Speaker 1: Now that I like, I can, I can relate to that. 730 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 2: Do this, we do that. Yeah. 731 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 10: So let's so, Steve, we got to start with you here. 732 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:36,400 Speaker 10: What are the family traditions that your family keeps that 733 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:37,239 Speaker 10: you definitely. 734 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:41,360 Speaker 2: First of all, let me get this trae voodle. 735 00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:47,640 Speaker 1: Your grandson ale, Noah and Rose. 736 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 2: Grandchildren. 737 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 7: I'm not telling them that Santa Claus is coming down 738 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 7: the chimney. Okay, nay, Mom and Daddy might. But if 739 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:05,920 Speaker 7: they come over Papa's house, m hm, Papa bought all this. Okay, 740 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 7: let's be straight about that. Give down here this yard 741 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 7: and Propa, Papa paid. Okay, all the little figure hairs snow, 742 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 7: I bought all that in here. I had that tree 743 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 7: in the in the in the in the foyer that 744 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:21,160 Speaker 7: Papa bought that. 745 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 10: So that's a new tradition really, because you weren't you 746 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,080 Speaker 10: brought up with thinking Santa Claus did it for a 747 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:29,040 Speaker 10: while when you were little. 748 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:33,040 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so you're usually as young as your grandchildren are. 749 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:33,399 Speaker 4: Yeah. 750 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,600 Speaker 6: Well you know my. 751 00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 7: Kids take their kids to see Santa Claus. Uh, yeah, 752 00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:42,080 Speaker 7: they're thinking it's a Santa Claus. I'm just telling don't 753 00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 7: bring them over here. 754 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:46,440 Speaker 2: Why you gotta call so real with it right now? Well, no, 755 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,120 Speaker 2: Papa house all is paid for by the big ball. 756 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:50,399 Speaker 5: Har does you work? 757 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:51,240 Speaker 1: You want some credit? 758 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,279 Speaker 7: Yeah, the white man didn't bought nothing up in here. 759 00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 7: The bald head black man that's in that office down 760 00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:58,359 Speaker 7: there at the front of the house. 761 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:02,719 Speaker 2: You going that dash Santa cl matter of fact, don't 762 00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 2: bring him up when you come in. 763 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,800 Speaker 7: Here, because he had none to do and everything on 764 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,280 Speaker 7: this side of the gate, Santa Claus had. 765 00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:09,719 Speaker 5: Damn thing to do. 766 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:14,040 Speaker 1: Okay. So that's one. That's one that's me that you 767 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:15,880 Speaker 1: burst wide open. 768 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:16,400 Speaker 2: Okay. 769 00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 7: Secondly, if you tag up your toy on Christmas? You 770 00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 7: get your ass whooped on? 771 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:24,439 Speaker 1: Chris? 772 00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:28,520 Speaker 5: What man? That it's a tradition. 773 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 9: That tradition standards. 774 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 4: Man, How I. 775 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 2: Had this lay away and you just broke it. 776 00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:43,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, he opened it at five and it's broken. 777 00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 3: Ned. 778 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:52,560 Speaker 2: I had a nephew named Pogo. All did every toy 779 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:53,360 Speaker 2: he got. 780 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 5: He took it apart. 781 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:57,680 Speaker 2: Wow, But then you know what he put it all 782 00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 2: back together. That's all he wanted to do. 783 00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:03,279 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, that's like girls, we used to take our 784 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:04,439 Speaker 1: dolls clothes off. 785 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, right now. 786 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:08,800 Speaker 4: That's what you do. 787 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,400 Speaker 10: He's a mechanic right now because see yeah, so that 788 00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,080 Speaker 10: was some good. But did he get in trouble for 789 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:15,000 Speaker 10: doing it when. 790 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:15,359 Speaker 5: He was a kid? 791 00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:19,960 Speaker 7: Dog because my daddy sought the toy toe up? But 792 00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,239 Speaker 7: he would ask though after the second year, is that 793 00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:24,879 Speaker 7: toy we'll leave alone? 794 00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:25,040 Speaker 3: There? 795 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:27,839 Speaker 7: Oh? 796 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 1: He wasn't too mad, all right? What else? So so, 797 00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,959 Speaker 1: no Santa, but whoopings? If you broke your toys? What else? 798 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,320 Speaker 10: These are some traditions, Steve, I want to hear some 799 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 10: of junior staff. I know, sounds like he got his butt. 800 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 5: Oh man. Absolutely. 801 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 1: One tradition was you going to bed at seven on Christmas? 802 00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 1: Eve or Christmas Day on Christmas Eve. Oh, I could 803 00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:58,560 Speaker 1: never sleep on Christmas Eve. I could never do that. 804 00:41:58,680 --> 00:41:59,960 Speaker 9: Because Sannah was coming. 805 00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 1: Oh what said it? 806 00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:04,240 Speaker 9: Don't show up till nine in the morning. 807 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:06,080 Speaker 1: We gotta go back to. 808 00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:07,440 Speaker 2: B nine. 809 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,840 Speaker 5: That we'll running late at y'all go. 810 00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 9: Back in there and go back to Ben. 811 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 2: He ain't made it here yet, y'all go in there 812 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:21,360 Speaker 2: and go. 813 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 9: Back to Bee. 814 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:24,520 Speaker 1: Lien. 815 00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:25,279 Speaker 12: Yeah. 816 00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:29,279 Speaker 10: Coming up next, nephew's prank phone call right afterday he's 817 00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,799 Speaker 10: a drinking all night You're listening. 818 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:33,600 Speaker 1: Morning show. 819 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,399 Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 820 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:39,040 Speaker 10: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, the 821 00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:44,320 Speaker 10: subject I am emotionally drained. We'll get into that in 822 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,799 Speaker 10: just a few because right now the nephew is here 823 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:48,160 Speaker 10: with today's prank phone call. 824 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 5: What you got for us? 825 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:49,279 Speaker 4: Now? 826 00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,719 Speaker 5: Your husband's prescription? 827 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:56,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, the husband's you always for script with these people. 828 00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:58,280 Speaker 1: We got to listen. 829 00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:03,720 Speaker 5: Listen, listen, listen, Linda. Some people need a prescription. Okay, 830 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,359 Speaker 5: I'm just calling it. That's all I'm doing. 831 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:09,399 Speaker 14: I'm just calling it. And the man got ailment or something. 832 00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,200 Speaker 14: So we got to get some get the man of 833 00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 14: medicine now let's husband's prescription. 834 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,359 Speaker 3: Come on, Hello, Hello, how you doing? 835 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:18,480 Speaker 6: This? 836 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,799 Speaker 3: Is uh pharmacy. My name is Brian on the tech here. 837 00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:27,279 Speaker 3: Uh is mister? Is it Donovan? Donovan? Is he available? Now? 838 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:28,080 Speaker 4: What can I help you? 839 00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:31,640 Speaker 3: Live? Well, he dropped his prescription off about an hour ago. 840 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:33,600 Speaker 3: I wanted to we wanted to call let you guys 841 00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:37,279 Speaker 3: know that the prescription is ready. Prescription for wait, well, 842 00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:40,319 Speaker 3: he he dropped off a prescription. I'm assuming he must 843 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 3: have looked like the doctor just wrote this prescription today, 844 00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:46,560 Speaker 3: so I'm assuming he seems like he would probably need 845 00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,839 Speaker 3: this pretty soon. So I wanted to let you guys 846 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:49,439 Speaker 3: know it's ready. 847 00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:52,400 Speaker 12: Okay, and what exactly did he get a prescription for him? 848 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:58,280 Speaker 3: It's a mock Sicilian, a maza cilian, a Mantracilian. We've 849 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,799 Speaker 3: got him at least fifteen tablets if he could take 850 00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:07,239 Speaker 3: two tablets today. Brian, right, my name is Brian. Yes, 851 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:08,840 Speaker 3: I'm the technician here at the pharmacy. 852 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:12,040 Speaker 12: Okay, well let me okay, Donna, that's my husband. Let 853 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:13,600 Speaker 12: me make sure you have the right down of them, 854 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,600 Speaker 12: because well, let me can we check the birthdays? Are 855 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:17,719 Speaker 12: you allowed to do that with me? 856 00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:22,560 Speaker 3: Definitely definitely, it's seventy four. Is that correct? Yes? 857 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:23,480 Speaker 4: Okay? 858 00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 12: And so what exactly is a mon sicilian for Montasillian. 859 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 3: Is an antibiotic man. So any type of small infections 860 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 3: of some sort, diseases or whatever, is it pretty much 861 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:35,440 Speaker 3: cures it. 862 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 12: So you're telling me this nasty then got something winning 863 00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,239 Speaker 12: got it on my funst oft He want to seem 864 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 12: the doctor ain't got a prescription under my interest. This 865 00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 12: tries and he want to got some you know what? 866 00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,160 Speaker 12: You know what that Brian, I'm coming down there. I'll 867 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,200 Speaker 12: pick up the medicine. I'll get it and if people 868 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 12: want that medicine, he'll check in with me at my counter. 869 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:57,840 Speaker 12: Because I got a check and he done wrote that 870 00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,960 Speaker 12: his not cast. I'm gonna beat the hell out. He 871 00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:03,520 Speaker 12: does not know, he does not even you know what 872 00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 12: we brought it under year. 873 00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, you're you're uh miss what? 874 00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:08,840 Speaker 6: What? 875 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:10,680 Speaker 3: What can I call you about? Your first name? What's 876 00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:10,960 Speaker 3: your name? 877 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:15,120 Speaker 12: No communist? That's fine, just communist, No communist? 878 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 6: Okay. 879 00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:19,719 Speaker 3: H First of all, I want to apologize. I had 880 00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,040 Speaker 3: no idea that you were not aware of the actual 881 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,800 Speaker 3: prescription that he's that we've just filed for him, you know, 882 00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,719 Speaker 3: just just on a personal note. I'm just curious. Is 883 00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 3: there a possibility maybe maybe you could have given it 884 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:32,440 Speaker 3: to him? 885 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:36,279 Speaker 12: Brian Noble, you did you the lost so of my Now, 886 00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:38,640 Speaker 12: first off, you don't call my phone. First off, no you. 887 00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:40,799 Speaker 12: I'm glad you called my phone to tell me it's 888 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:42,080 Speaker 12: my interns. 889 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:42,960 Speaker 4: That's why. 890 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:46,279 Speaker 12: And then anyone excuse me given that, n are you 891 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:50,719 Speaker 12: going here? Don't you ever in your life call somebody's soul? 892 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,960 Speaker 12: And this is a courty caller. None of your business? 893 00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 12: What's going on in my okay, none of your business? 894 00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 12: You don't get out of my way. That ain't none 895 00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:01,879 Speaker 12: of your business? And now nothing to answer you, no question. 896 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,920 Speaker 12: I've got something for ya. And he want to come 897 00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:06,520 Speaker 12: home with STDs And you want to ask me if 898 00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:09,360 Speaker 12: I gave him s CDs? Oh okay, was the manager? 899 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:11,520 Speaker 12: Let me speak to your managers, ma'am. 900 00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:13,919 Speaker 3: I was just I was you know, I'm not trying 901 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 3: to be unprofessional. I was just asking a personal question. 902 00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:19,400 Speaker 3: I should not have asked you something like that, and 903 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 3: I do apologize. Should we expect someone to pick up 904 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:25,440 Speaker 3: the description I just told you. 905 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,960 Speaker 12: I'm gonna be picking up up I'm a coming up. 906 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,359 Speaker 12: You know what, Bland, You'll know who I am because 907 00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,640 Speaker 12: I got a couple of words for y'all, and I 908 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 12: still want to speak to your manager. You did you 909 00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:37,640 Speaker 12: were very unprofessional and I don't appreciate you coming at me. 910 00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 12: I'm going to eat you called me telling me he 911 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,359 Speaker 12: didn't gotten you a s CD, didn't ask me? Did 912 00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,000 Speaker 12: I give it a help? And you all up and 913 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:44,680 Speaker 12: the play mountain. 914 00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:48,919 Speaker 3: No, I'm not trying to get all in between your legs, ma'am. 915 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,600 Speaker 3: Apparently that's not the place to be considering you guys. 916 00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,040 Speaker 3: Neil MAXI Zilla, you know, but. 917 00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:55,640 Speaker 12: You getting in loss shop? 918 00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:56,400 Speaker 3: He like? 919 00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,800 Speaker 12: You know what, Brian, I still got some stock like 920 00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 12: a rough from the front and get when I'm gonna 921 00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 12: life from yo. You don't play games with me. You 922 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:04,200 Speaker 12: do not even know. 923 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:05,160 Speaker 4: You do not know me. 924 00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:06,920 Speaker 12: You don't know who I am. You don't know who 925 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:08,080 Speaker 12: I know and what I got. 926 00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:12,120 Speaker 4: I got something for y'all. What does this prescription? 927 00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 3: Ask? 928 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:14,360 Speaker 12: Because I know it's nothing want by a house? I 929 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,399 Speaker 12: know it's not what did he take his trife where? 930 00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,600 Speaker 3: You asked? Because I'm on my way here, I'm uh 931 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,080 Speaker 3: uh would you like my managers here. Would you like 932 00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:22,719 Speaker 3: to speak with him? 933 00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:22,920 Speaker 2: Man? 934 00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:25,560 Speaker 12: Yeah, put the manager on. Put your manager on. I 935 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:26,560 Speaker 12: want to speak to him now. 936 00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 3: Ain't gonna say uh huh uh hello, Hello, Yes, you're 937 00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,760 Speaker 3: the manager. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby 938 00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:42,440 Speaker 3: Morning the Show. When you just got prayed by your husband, Donovan. 939 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:51,440 Speaker 12: I'm gonna share him and you what plays all? I 940 00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:53,040 Speaker 12: mean he needs to be out looking for a job, 941 00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,680 Speaker 12: saying worse than three months go play with me like that? 942 00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:56,759 Speaker 12: Got my blood pless? 943 00:47:57,840 --> 00:47:58,239 Speaker 3: You right? 944 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:02,000 Speaker 12: Oh no, I'm coming down and I'm still coming to 945 00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:02,400 Speaker 12: get you. 946 00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:06,120 Speaker 3: I'm not a baby. You can't come get me. 947 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:07,839 Speaker 12: I'm going to be glad. 948 00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:08,600 Speaker 4: I love your show. 949 00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,280 Speaker 12: Oh my god, oh. 950 00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:12,680 Speaker 6: My my wife. 951 00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:14,400 Speaker 3: Don't tolerate no cheating. 952 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:19,480 Speaker 12: You know, you know crazy? You ain't right, you w 953 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:20,479 Speaker 12: I got one. 954 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,000 Speaker 3: More thing to ask. You know, what is the baddest 955 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,560 Speaker 3: and I mean the baddest radio show in the latest 956 00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,120 Speaker 3: Steve Morning Show. 957 00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:31,879 Speaker 5: Stupid enough? Wow? Huh? 958 00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:34,560 Speaker 1: Always is that? 959 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:37,000 Speaker 5: Geniusly? Stupid enough? 960 00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,600 Speaker 1: And all I can say that's say too much. 961 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:40,359 Speaker 2: You went too far. 962 00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:45,879 Speaker 14: Apparently that's not the place to be since that ain't 963 00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:47,239 Speaker 14: way I want to be there. 964 00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,759 Speaker 5: It's crazy, Go hard in the Paine, baby, that's how 965 00:48:58,760 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 5: you do it. 966 00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:03,799 Speaker 14: You'm pain New York City, New York, New York, Big 967 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:04,720 Speaker 14: city of dreams. 968 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:05,520 Speaker 5: Get ready, baby. 969 00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,919 Speaker 14: February to third, The Nephew was coming to the ny CEA, 970 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 14: the City Winery. You heard what I said. Tickets are 971 00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,839 Speaker 14: on sale right now. February third, Saturday night, New York City. 972 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:16,520 Speaker 14: If you can make it New York, you can make 973 00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,480 Speaker 14: it anywhere. Tickets on sale right now, all right. 974 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,360 Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is a Strawberry letter. Subject is 975 00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,719 Speaker 1: I am emotionally drained. We'll get into it right after this. 976 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:32,320 Speaker 10: You're listening Stave Hardy Morning Show. Time now for today's 977 00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:36,640 Speaker 10: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 978 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:40,000 Speaker 10: and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve BARBFM 979 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,279 Speaker 10: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 980 00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:45,239 Speaker 10: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 981 00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,759 Speaker 10: going to read this one right here. Ah, you hear 982 00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:48,839 Speaker 10: that right now. 983 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,320 Speaker 1: You never know. It could be yours. 984 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,360 Speaker 5: It could be Buckle up and hold on tight. We 985 00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,400 Speaker 5: got it for you here. It is to straw every. 986 00:49:55,320 --> 00:50:00,200 Speaker 10: Letter, subject I am emotionally drained. Just Stephen Shureley. I'm 987 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,520 Speaker 10: a forty two year old single mother of a son 988 00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:06,520 Speaker 10: that is twenty years old. My son's girlfriend just had 989 00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:10,400 Speaker 10: a baby that is fair skinned, and they both are chocolate. 990 00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,360 Speaker 10: The girl is twenty one and a dancer at a 991 00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:16,600 Speaker 10: bar across town. She says she's not a stripper, but 992 00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,680 Speaker 10: that's all she says. My son is afraid to ask 993 00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,799 Speaker 10: the girl for a paternity test, so I did. When 994 00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,480 Speaker 10: my son went to visit the baby, she jumped on 995 00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 10: him and then called me and said, if I keep 996 00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:31,279 Speaker 10: putting my son up to this foolishness, I would be next. 997 00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:33,919 Speaker 10: I called her mother, who happens to go to church 998 00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:37,400 Speaker 10: with me, and I told her that her daughter is disrespectful. 999 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,399 Speaker 10: She was not happy about the phone call and asked 1000 00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:43,439 Speaker 10: if we could talk in person, so I invited her over. 1001 00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,239 Speaker 10: She pulled up and ran up to my door and 1002 00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:49,440 Speaker 10: yelled for me to come outside. She jumped on me 1003 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:52,320 Speaker 10: when I got in the front yard. I'm not a fighter, 1004 00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,680 Speaker 10: so we rolled around in the yard while I kept 1005 00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:58,080 Speaker 10: begging her to stop pulling my hair. My neighbor broke 1006 00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:01,560 Speaker 10: us up and I ran in. I called my son 1007 00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:03,880 Speaker 10: and he called his girlfriend on a three way and 1008 00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,960 Speaker 10: she said that I deserved to be beat up. I 1009 00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,040 Speaker 10: reported the incident to the police, and they wouldn't come 1010 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,360 Speaker 10: out to do a report because it was between my 1011 00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:15,359 Speaker 10: son and his girlfriend. I just don't want my son 1012 00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:17,279 Speaker 10: to be caught up with a baby that isn't his. 1013 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,640 Speaker 10: I told my son that we'll just get the baby 1014 00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:24,160 Speaker 10: one day and do a paternity test ourselves. Now it's 1015 00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,360 Speaker 10: like my son is turning against me and telling me 1016 00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:27,680 Speaker 10: to stay out of his business. 1017 00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:30,120 Speaker 2: I got beat up for him, and this. 1018 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:31,320 Speaker 1: Is how he repays me. 1019 00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:35,839 Speaker 10: It's emotionally draining, and I only want what's best for him. 1020 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,640 Speaker 10: Now he's planning to move in with this abusive woman 1021 00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:41,720 Speaker 10: and ruin his life. Am I supposed to step aside 1022 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,120 Speaker 10: and let this girl and her mother make a fool 1023 00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,879 Speaker 10: out of my son? What can I do to shake 1024 00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:51,479 Speaker 10: some sense into him? Well, I don't know that there's 1025 00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:54,560 Speaker 10: anything you can do. You know, much more than what 1026 00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 10: you've been doing right now, you know, unless you bring 1027 00:51:57,239 --> 00:51:59,439 Speaker 10: his dad into it or something. But you already said 1028 00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:02,920 Speaker 10: you're a single mother of this son. I know as 1029 00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 10: a mom this is hard, and it's going to continue 1030 00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,600 Speaker 10: to be hard to watch your son get sucked in 1031 00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:11,360 Speaker 10: like this, but that's exactly what you're going to have 1032 00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:15,160 Speaker 10: to do. Step aside. You've tried everything, You've tried everything else. 1033 00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:18,360 Speaker 10: Nothing has worked for you. So unless you want to 1034 00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,600 Speaker 10: get another beat down from his crazy girlfriend and like 1035 00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:24,480 Speaker 10: you say, her and her mother make a fool out 1036 00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:26,000 Speaker 10: of you and all of that, you're going to have 1037 00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:27,279 Speaker 10: to do just what they say. 1038 00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:28,720 Speaker 1: Mind your own business. 1039 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:31,600 Speaker 10: At this point, we know you love your son and 1040 00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:34,120 Speaker 10: you only want the best for him, that's quite obvious. 1041 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:38,120 Speaker 1: But right now the stripper is his world. 1042 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:41,120 Speaker 10: He's sprung, he's whipped all of the above, and he's 1043 00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:45,239 Speaker 10: trying not to hear anything you his mom have to say. 1044 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:48,200 Speaker 10: And as much as this hurts, sometimes you just have 1045 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:52,160 Speaker 10: to let go and let people learn their lessons themselves, 1046 00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:55,400 Speaker 10: because he's not listening right now to you. He's not 1047 00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:59,280 Speaker 10: listening to what you have to say. Experience is always 1048 00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:02,400 Speaker 10: the best teacher. Later on, if he finds out that 1049 00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:05,000 Speaker 10: the baby's not his and he's being played by this girl, 1050 00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:06,719 Speaker 10: I mean, so we don't even know that. 1051 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,440 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, he he might still want to 1052 00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,480 Speaker 1: be with her, you know, that's the other thing. 1053 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:14,640 Speaker 10: He might still want to be with her and help 1054 00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:18,680 Speaker 10: her raise the child, and yes, you could get the 1055 00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,480 Speaker 10: baby and get the paternity test on your own. You 1056 00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:23,640 Speaker 10: could do all of that, but you might lose your 1057 00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,880 Speaker 10: son and the process. But you've lost him already to 1058 00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:31,040 Speaker 10: this girl for right now anyway. So yeah, mom, I 1059 00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,880 Speaker 10: think you've done all you can. And your son didn't 1060 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,360 Speaker 10: even defend you when his girlfriend beat you up, and 1061 00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:38,839 Speaker 10: that's really messed up. 1062 00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:46,000 Speaker 7: See, well, I read a different letter, seems like so. 1063 00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:48,120 Speaker 7: I guess I always see some ignans. So so I 1064 00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:51,760 Speaker 7: have a couple of questions. Nah, she's he mostly drained. 1065 00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:54,560 Speaker 7: It's a forty two year old single mother's son is twenty. 1066 00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:58,520 Speaker 7: Your son's girlfriend just had a baby that's fast skin, 1067 00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:03,120 Speaker 7: and they both ought you chak. Now, listen, we all 1068 00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:06,880 Speaker 7: know that, you know, through the chromosomes and all that stuff, 1069 00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:10,000 Speaker 7: that you can skip a generation and look like a 1070 00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,480 Speaker 7: grandmother or on or something and different colors. But we 1071 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:17,839 Speaker 7: got to look into this though, two chocolate people having 1072 00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:19,160 Speaker 7: a light skinned baby. 1073 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,879 Speaker 2: We need to look into this. I understand the girl 1074 00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:27,080 Speaker 2: is twenty one and a huh you don't add up on? 1075 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:29,480 Speaker 2: I know, we got to look into it. 1076 00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:29,719 Speaker 3: Now. 1077 00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,520 Speaker 2: This girl is twenty one and a dancer at a 1078 00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,759 Speaker 2: bar across town. She says she's not a stripper. Let's 1079 00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:37,360 Speaker 2: discuss this for a minute. 1080 00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:41,640 Speaker 7: If you're a dancer at a bar, I think they 1081 00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:45,319 Speaker 7: stopped go go dancing a long time ago. 1082 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,160 Speaker 2: You know where you be up in a cage on 1083 00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:51,600 Speaker 2: the end of the bar. I think they stopped at 1084 00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,080 Speaker 2: a long time ago. 1085 00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:59,200 Speaker 7: So if you're a dancer at a bar in today's society, 1086 00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,359 Speaker 7: you I said, take your clothes off, because I ain't 1087 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:04,880 Speaker 7: go go boots. I ain't seen him in stores no 1088 00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:08,680 Speaker 7: more with the mini skirts, So I'm pretty show you 1089 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:12,600 Speaker 7: a stripper. My son is afraid to ask this girl 1090 00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:16,279 Speaker 7: for a paternity test, so I did. Then, when your 1091 00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,520 Speaker 7: son went to visit the baby, she jumped on him 1092 00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:20,320 Speaker 7: and then called me and said, I keep putting my 1093 00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:23,720 Speaker 7: son up to this foolishness. I would be next. Okay, 1094 00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:28,040 Speaker 7: so she jumped on it. Okay, she's abusive. I called 1095 00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:29,879 Speaker 7: her mother and to hit a good part, I called 1096 00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,040 Speaker 7: his mother, who happened to go to church with me, 1097 00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:35,680 Speaker 7: and I told her that her daughter is disrespectful. Now see, 1098 00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:38,280 Speaker 7: listen to me. This is why I have a question, 1099 00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:42,600 Speaker 7: because it could go two ways. After he called the lady, 1100 00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:44,520 Speaker 7: she called the lady to go to church with her 1101 00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:46,000 Speaker 7: and told her that her. 1102 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:47,520 Speaker 2: Daughter is disrespectful. 1103 00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:51,640 Speaker 7: She was not happy about the phone call and asked 1104 00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 7: if we can talk in person, so I invited her over. 1105 00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 7: Now I'm thinking right here, she's talking about the girl's mother. 1106 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:03,000 Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. 1107 00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:07,040 Speaker 7: That she was talking about the girl's mother. She called 1108 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,000 Speaker 7: on the phone and talked to him person. So when 1109 00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:10,960 Speaker 7: I come back, I'm gonna tell you what I think happened. 1110 00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:13,879 Speaker 10: All right, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming 1111 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:18,279 Speaker 10: up twenty three minutes after Strawberry letter, subject I am 1112 00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:22,279 Speaker 10: emotionally drained. We'll get back into it right after this. 1113 00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:27,600 Speaker 1: You're listening hard Morning show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's. 1114 00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 10: Recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject I am emotionally drained. 1115 00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:34,359 Speaker 7: All right, we got a forty two year old ladies, 1116 00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:37,400 Speaker 7: got a twenty year old son that's dating a stripper 1117 00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:40,480 Speaker 7: who says she's not a stripple, she's a dancer at 1118 00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:43,320 Speaker 7: a ball. I don't know who keep their clothes on 1119 00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:47,239 Speaker 7: anymore these days? Why they dancing in bars? But hell, 1120 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,719 Speaker 7: most of the women that go to balls is halfnked 1121 00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:50,480 Speaker 7: when they get there. 1122 00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:52,000 Speaker 2: So I already know. 1123 00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:55,360 Speaker 7: If you are dancer, you got to be stripping anyway. 1124 00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:59,040 Speaker 7: She says, she's not a stripper. Son is afraid to ask. 1125 00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:02,640 Speaker 7: They had a life and both of them child. Your 1126 00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:04,880 Speaker 7: son afraid to ask her the paternity test. So you 1127 00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:07,279 Speaker 7: asked the girl for a paternity test. When your son 1128 00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:08,920 Speaker 7: went over there to pick up the baby, the girl 1129 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,560 Speaker 7: jumped on him and said, couldn't letting your mama put 1130 00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,359 Speaker 7: stuff like this in your head, And then told the mama, 1131 00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:15,600 Speaker 7: if you keep interfeit. 1132 00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:16,880 Speaker 2: In my business, you're gonna be next. 1133 00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:21,920 Speaker 7: So the lady who's forty two called her mother, the 1134 00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:25,120 Speaker 7: stripper's mama, who happens to go to church with me, 1135 00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:28,920 Speaker 7: and I told her that her daughter's disrespectful. She was 1136 00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,720 Speaker 7: not happy about the phone call and asked if we 1137 00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:32,840 Speaker 7: can talk in person. 1138 00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:34,000 Speaker 2: So I invited her over. 1139 00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:37,240 Speaker 7: Now right here, I'm thinking this is all she's talking 1140 00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:38,439 Speaker 7: to the stripper's mother. 1141 00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 2: She pulled up, ran to my door and yelled for 1142 00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:43,200 Speaker 2: me to come outside. 1143 00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:44,200 Speaker 10: Now. 1144 00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:47,440 Speaker 2: If this is not the mother, if this is the stripper, 1145 00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:48,880 Speaker 2: then we're dealing with the people. 1146 00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:52,720 Speaker 7: That person that don't know how to tell stories, because 1147 00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:57,040 Speaker 7: we have some information that's confusing. 1148 00:57:58,360 --> 00:57:59,600 Speaker 5: No I think. 1149 00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:03,240 Speaker 7: See, I'm thinking she's talking about the girl's mother according 1150 00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:06,160 Speaker 7: to this letter so far, but then later on she 1151 00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:08,360 Speaker 7: changes and it makes it sound like it was a 1152 00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:11,959 Speaker 7: little girl that jumped on her. So I'm confused about 1153 00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,240 Speaker 7: the lady writing a letter anyway, That's all I'm saying. 1154 00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:18,120 Speaker 7: So when she came, she told you to yelling for 1155 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,440 Speaker 7: you to come outside. She jumped on me when I 1156 00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:22,720 Speaker 7: got in the front yard. Now I'm not a fighter, 1157 00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,000 Speaker 7: so we rolled around in the yard. Well, I kept 1158 00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:27,200 Speaker 7: begging her to stop pulling my hair. Now, let me 1159 00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:31,360 Speaker 7: teach you something, man. Begging is not a good fight technique. 1160 00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:39,320 Speaker 7: It usually does not work out for the begar because 1161 00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:45,680 Speaker 7: it empowers the person that's issueing the ass whipping. So 1162 00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:49,920 Speaker 7: it's best not to empower then with please please stop 1163 00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:53,720 Speaker 7: you kicking me. You whipping my ass too good? This 1164 00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:55,880 Speaker 7: is about this is not what I do. I'm not 1165 00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:59,400 Speaker 7: a fighter. So it makes them go harder because they, oh, yeah, 1166 00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,080 Speaker 7: I'm not in the hands I know. So I would 1167 00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:04,720 Speaker 7: just suggest that next time you get in the fight. 1168 00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:10,040 Speaker 2: Please do not beg. It don't look good. It ain't 1169 00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:12,200 Speaker 2: no need to beg. An ant take the ass whoop. 1170 00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:14,760 Speaker 1: One of the other picks one. 1171 00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:16,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, you. 1172 00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:23,560 Speaker 7: Get your ass whoop and stop this begging quietly, not 1173 00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 7: finn do this to be shame me and bass me 1174 00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:28,800 Speaker 7: and believe me, and be sure to be while you 1175 00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:32,280 Speaker 7: beating my asss just make it look like you trying. 1176 00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,439 Speaker 7: She got here too. She grabbing your hair, you grab 1177 00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:40,480 Speaker 7: her hair. Anyway, my neighbor broke us up and I 1178 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:43,440 Speaker 7: ran inside. I called my son and he called his 1179 00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:46,680 Speaker 7: girlfriend on the threeway and she said that I deserve 1180 00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:47,520 Speaker 7: to be beat up. 1181 00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,280 Speaker 2: See I'm thinking when she ran in the. 1182 00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:53,520 Speaker 7: House and called her son, he called his girlfriend on 1183 00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:55,680 Speaker 7: the three way and she said I deserve to be 1184 00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:58,440 Speaker 7: beat up, which made me think it was the girl's 1185 00:59:58,520 --> 00:59:59,160 Speaker 7: mama that was. 1186 00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:01,920 Speaker 2: In the yard fight the whole time. Because we ran 1187 01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:02,840 Speaker 2: in the house and got the. 1188 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:05,800 Speaker 7: Girl on the three way, the girl would have been 1189 01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:07,520 Speaker 7: in the yard still fighting the mama. 1190 01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:07,800 Speaker 5: See. 1191 01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:10,880 Speaker 2: So I reported the incident to the police, and. 1192 01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:12,840 Speaker 7: They wouldn't come out to do a report because of 1193 01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:14,520 Speaker 7: between my son and his girlfriend. 1194 01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 2: This is another piece of important information. 1195 01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:19,920 Speaker 7: Anytime you call the police and they don't come out 1196 01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:23,280 Speaker 7: to handle a domestic dispute that was a fight. 1197 01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:27,520 Speaker 2: You must live deep, deep, deep, in the hood. 1198 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:34,200 Speaker 7: Because police have to come out to investigate any domestic violence, 1199 01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:36,720 Speaker 7: especially if neighbors involved breaking up fight. 1200 01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:39,840 Speaker 2: So now we already know the police ain't coming. That's 1201 01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:41,520 Speaker 2: a hood, thank you very much. 1202 01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:46,479 Speaker 7: And then she says, and they wouldn't come out because 1203 01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:47,880 Speaker 7: of between my son and his girlfriend. 1204 01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:49,720 Speaker 2: I just don't want son to be caught up with 1205 01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,840 Speaker 2: a baby that isn't his. I understand that. I told 1206 01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:53,440 Speaker 2: my son. 1207 01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:55,120 Speaker 7: Would just get the baby one day and do the 1208 01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:58,520 Speaker 7: paternity test ourselves. Now it's like my son is turning 1209 01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:00,560 Speaker 7: against me and telling me to stay out. 1210 01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:01,200 Speaker 2: Of his business. 1211 01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:04,400 Speaker 7: Well you should. I got beat up for him, and 1212 01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:06,720 Speaker 7: this is how he repays me. No, you got beat 1213 01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:09,600 Speaker 7: up because you went out the house. See when people 1214 01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:13,480 Speaker 7: call you out, you said you're not a fighter. See 1215 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,960 Speaker 7: when people drive up to your house and say come outside. 1216 01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:20,360 Speaker 2: Come out here, No, no, meet me in the front them. 1217 01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:23,200 Speaker 2: It's fighting words. Why did you take your non fighting 1218 01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:23,920 Speaker 2: ass out there? 1219 01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:26,760 Speaker 1: She would never think that the girl would jump on. 1220 01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:30,479 Speaker 7: Her set with girl mama that go to her church, 1221 01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:33,920 Speaker 7: whooped her ass. Shirley stops saying the girl that's what 1222 01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:36,760 Speaker 7: I got. Now he's planning to move in with this 1223 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:40,760 Speaker 7: abusive woman and ruin his life. Am I supposed to 1224 01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:42,840 Speaker 7: step aside and let this girl and her mother make 1225 01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:44,520 Speaker 7: a fool out of myself? What can I do to 1226 01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:45,040 Speaker 7: shake something? 1227 01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:45,320 Speaker 2: All right? 1228 01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,480 Speaker 7: First of all, to me explain some t. This is 1229 01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:51,000 Speaker 7: not going to ruin your son's life. This is a 1230 01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:53,160 Speaker 7: lesson that both of you. You're gonna have to let 1231 01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:56,680 Speaker 7: him learn. Like Shirley said, the best lesson is a 1232 01:01:56,760 --> 01:01:59,800 Speaker 7: bout lesson. You're gonna let him have to buy this way, 1233 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:04,360 Speaker 7: let him go move in with the girl. You be 1234 01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:08,120 Speaker 7: a loving grandmother. When the baby come over, swab the 1235 01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:12,720 Speaker 7: baby mouth, put the swab in a plastic bag and 1236 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:14,360 Speaker 7: get a damn DNA test. 1237 01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:17,919 Speaker 2: Then when the result come back, don't say nothing, kill sir. 1238 01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:19,400 Speaker 3: Just leave. 1239 01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:26,600 Speaker 2: Get copies of it and post it on Facebook. Let 1240 01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:31,240 Speaker 2: the church many may man, Thank you for calling. 1241 01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:35,160 Speaker 10: Thank you Steve on Today's Strawberry Letter. Steve Harve FM 1242 01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:38,960 Speaker 10: on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast 1243 01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:39,640 Speaker 10: on demand. 1244 01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:44,840 Speaker 1: You're listening morning show? All right, Come on, Steve introduc 1245 01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:47,440 Speaker 1: your your your best friend. Let's go. 1246 01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:50,520 Speaker 2: Is j Anthony Brown just got here? 1247 01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:55,000 Speaker 13: No, no, no, no no, You're going to do better 1248 01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:58,160 Speaker 13: than that. We've been friends for way too long. Put 1249 01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:00,800 Speaker 13: some put some sauce in that. Put some sauce on 1250 01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:02,640 Speaker 13: my name, some sauce on my na. 1251 01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:10,640 Speaker 7: Thank you without further ado, the living myth and legend 1252 01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:15,120 Speaker 7: that damn Jay Anthony the Brown. 1253 01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:17,960 Speaker 13: Okay, can we just run that every week because I 1254 01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:19,440 Speaker 13: know I'm not gonna be able to get you to 1255 01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:25,800 Speaker 13: say again, Okay, yeah, say that because I said, Dave 1256 01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:29,320 Speaker 13: marked that and save that. Okay, because all right here 1257 01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:31,680 Speaker 13: we go. What's in the mind of yours truly, j 1258 01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:32,439 Speaker 13: Anthony Brown? 1259 01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:34,240 Speaker 1: It is the holidays. 1260 01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:36,200 Speaker 2: I'm talking to the grandparents. 1261 01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:39,400 Speaker 13: I'm talking to the aunts, the uncles, the aunties, the 1262 01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:42,480 Speaker 13: older people who are buying gifts for these kids, probably 1263 01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:43,919 Speaker 13: the very first time. 1264 01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:44,360 Speaker 3: Now. 1265 01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:47,280 Speaker 13: A lot of us will give cash. That's cool, and 1266 01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:49,880 Speaker 13: a lot of us don't know what to buy. I 1267 01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:51,680 Speaker 13: don't know what to buy, but I know. 1268 01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:53,000 Speaker 2: What not to buy. 1269 01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:55,760 Speaker 13: I know what You shouldn't try to give a child 1270 01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,600 Speaker 13: because they ain't gonna want it. If your ass is 1271 01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,480 Speaker 13: wrapping up a yo yo right now? 1272 01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:02,680 Speaker 1: Stop what should do it? 1273 01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:03,120 Speaker 2: Okay? 1274 01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:04,640 Speaker 1: Stop it? 1275 01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:10,280 Speaker 13: Don't nobody stop it. Don't nobody want to damn yo yo? Okay, 1276 01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:14,160 Speaker 13: nobody wants that. If you went out and purchased a 1277 01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:18,400 Speaker 13: hula hoop with good intentions, a hula hoop, they don't 1278 01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:21,120 Speaker 13: know what the hell it is as soon as you 1279 01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:23,120 Speaker 13: wrap that damn thing up. 1280 01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:24,680 Speaker 2: And they don't want it. 1281 01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:28,880 Speaker 13: Okay, you can keep all these old ass board games, sorry, 1282 01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:36,760 Speaker 13: Monopoly operation. Don't nobody want them damn games. Okay, think 1283 01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:39,560 Speaker 13: about it. When the last time yo ass played Monopoly, 1284 01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:43,680 Speaker 13: you ain't played a long damn time. Why would you 1285 01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:47,720 Speaker 13: give it to the child and hear something very important? 1286 01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:53,240 Speaker 13: Don't make a damn thing, don't make any And you're 1287 01:04:53,360 --> 01:04:57,120 Speaker 13: knitting knit one pro two knit one pro two knit one. 1288 01:04:57,520 --> 01:04:58,320 Speaker 1: Stop knitting. 1289 01:04:58,560 --> 01:04:59,400 Speaker 2: Don't nobody want them? 1290 01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:00,680 Speaker 1: Thick ass the mittons. 1291 01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:03,480 Speaker 13: Don't nobody with that thick ass sweater and that stop 1292 01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:06,320 Speaker 13: running neck and you get a cramp in your damn neck. 1293 01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:10,760 Speaker 13: Don't nobody want that? Stop knitting, Stop right now. Don't 1294 01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:14,040 Speaker 13: bake a damn thing to send those things. Don't hold 1295 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:17,040 Speaker 13: up in the mill. And last, but not leave. If 1296 01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:20,040 Speaker 13: you're building a dollhouse, damn. 1297 01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:20,600 Speaker 2: It, stop it. 1298 01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:22,160 Speaker 3: You stop right now. 1299 01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:26,880 Speaker 2: You build a seven hundred pounds doll house, you ain't 1300 01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:28,120 Speaker 2: got no floors in it. 1301 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,240 Speaker 6: The ceiling is like so high. 1302 01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:32,440 Speaker 13: All you got is stuff down on the bottom, the 1303 01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:36,080 Speaker 13: windows away at the top. Don't no child want that? 1304 01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:41,560 Speaker 13: Stop building. Okay, these are my holiday tips. Don't build 1305 01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:42,680 Speaker 13: a damn thing. 1306 01:05:43,160 --> 01:05:44,200 Speaker 5: He's just a doghouse. 1307 01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:49,560 Speaker 2: That's what you're building, a damn doghouse. I'm done. I'm finished, all. 1308 01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:55,760 Speaker 10: Right, thank you, Jay, Merry Christmas. You're listening Hard Morning 1309 01:05:55,840 --> 01:06:02,680 Speaker 10: Show Rich on Facebook, Steve Hey, Steve. About two years ago, 1310 01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:06,480 Speaker 10: my mom passed away and that was devastating for all 1311 01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:09,560 Speaker 10: of us. Now, however, it sure looks like my pops 1312 01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:12,840 Speaker 10: has bounced back as of late. He's been out and 1313 01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:16,200 Speaker 10: about with a way younger, fine woman that can't be 1314 01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:18,880 Speaker 10: more than twenty five years old at the age of 1315 01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:21,880 Speaker 10: sixty eight. I can't blame my pops for shooting his 1316 01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:24,960 Speaker 10: shot and scoring, and he's done pretty well taking care 1317 01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:28,480 Speaker 10: of his money. All that said, Pop said he's bringing 1318 01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:32,080 Speaker 10: over his new boot for Christmas. Now, my sisters are 1319 01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,800 Speaker 10: not happy about her, and they said she is going 1320 01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:38,120 Speaker 10: to blank around and find out. 1321 01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:40,160 Speaker 1: But I just want to keep you. 1322 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:42,800 Speaker 10: But I just want to keep the peace for Christmas. 1323 01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:45,480 Speaker 10: And oh what gift should I give her? 1324 01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:51,320 Speaker 2: Well, probably need to get a helmet. 1325 01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:57,840 Speaker 14: Because the sister this big daddy proud though, now don't 1326 01:06:57,920 --> 01:06:59,240 Speaker 14: hurt daddy finnis. 1327 01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:04,240 Speaker 7: Well, don't care the girls. First of all, two problems 1328 01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:08,440 Speaker 7: here you ain't they mama? And number two, why do 1329 01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:10,600 Speaker 7: you want our daddy and you younger than us? 1330 01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:11,439 Speaker 3: Yes? 1331 01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:15,280 Speaker 7: Sact they probably gonna be about the same age because 1332 01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:17,240 Speaker 7: you know he's forty. 1333 01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:21,960 Speaker 2: Three years older, so chances are these kids is older 1334 01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:22,400 Speaker 2: than her. 1335 01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:23,160 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1336 01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:26,960 Speaker 2: The girl, she gonna feel. 1337 01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:31,480 Speaker 14: The raft man, yeah, all the people his age is sick. Yeah, 1338 01:07:32,040 --> 01:07:32,680 Speaker 14: he wants something. 1339 01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:35,000 Speaker 1: And what does she want with him? 1340 01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:36,240 Speaker 2: His money? 1341 01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:40,520 Speaker 7: M m yeah, because he's even have done good by 1342 01:07:40,560 --> 01:07:43,640 Speaker 7: hisself and you know he probably kept himself in shape, 1343 01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:46,960 Speaker 7: and you know he gonna bring the girl buy for Christmas. 1344 01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:48,240 Speaker 7: Ain't nothing y'all can do about it. 1345 01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:51,200 Speaker 5: They just gotta be yeah. 1346 01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:53,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, but you're gonna mess up your relationship with your 1347 01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:55,600 Speaker 7: father because you're gonna make him have to pick between 1348 01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:57,200 Speaker 7: y'all and he gonna go with this young girl. 1349 01:07:57,280 --> 01:08:00,560 Speaker 2: Now m h ooh, all you got do his treat 1350 01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:02,120 Speaker 2: a pleasant? Yeah? 1351 01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:03,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, just be kind. 1352 01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:08,520 Speaker 2: You do look like if you want to get a gift, 1353 01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:10,000 Speaker 2: get us some get up. 1354 01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:16,040 Speaker 6: What kind of. 1355 01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:19,720 Speaker 5: Well it's just. 1356 01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:26,080 Speaker 7: Wonder woman. You don't get us some character. Give us 1357 01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:36,160 Speaker 7: some sneakers with some lights on them. All right, some 1358 01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:37,320 Speaker 7: fresh notebooks? 1359 01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:43,000 Speaker 10: I think we might have time for one more. My 1360 01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:45,840 Speaker 10: parents always encouraged me to work hard for what I wanted. 1361 01:08:46,040 --> 01:08:48,240 Speaker 10: Over the weekend, my sister and I were talking about 1362 01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:52,160 Speaker 10: Christmas plans and talking about tightened budgets for the holidays 1363 01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:55,080 Speaker 10: when she blurted out, thank god Mom and Dad took 1364 01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:58,760 Speaker 10: care of school for me. I was like, what, While, 1365 01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:01,920 Speaker 10: I'm not hurting finance and am happy where I am 1366 01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:05,920 Speaker 10: in life, but but come on, I worked my behind 1367 01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:09,280 Speaker 10: off to go to college, got loans and and finally 1368 01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:12,040 Speaker 10: close to paying them off, and my parents just paid 1369 01:09:12,080 --> 01:09:15,640 Speaker 10: for my sister's college education. I'm mad about this, So, 1370 01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,639 Speaker 10: Uncle Steve, I can't decide if it makes me angry 1371 01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:20,280 Speaker 10: or hurts my feelings more. 1372 01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:21,640 Speaker 1: Do I bring it up? 1373 01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:24,360 Speaker 7: No, you don't have to bring it up. Your parents 1374 01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:28,160 Speaker 7: knew that your sister wasn't you. If your parents treated 1375 01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:31,639 Speaker 7: all their children equally and the same, your sister probably 1376 01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:34,560 Speaker 7: wouldn't even be in college because your sister don't have 1377 01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:37,080 Speaker 7: the same makeup that you have, and they recognize that, 1378 01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:41,599 Speaker 7: And so they're paying for it. You know, just understand 1379 01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:44,720 Speaker 7: and thank God that you are who you are, and 1380 01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:47,000 Speaker 7: don't and don't and don't and and don't get mad 1381 01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:49,320 Speaker 7: because your blessing is you. You had the skill set 1382 01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:51,599 Speaker 7: in the mindset to do it. Now you're gonna block 1383 01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:54,760 Speaker 7: your blessing by Hayden because she got because because they 1384 01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:55,360 Speaker 7: paid for her. 1385 01:09:55,520 --> 01:10:01,800 Speaker 2: What so mm hmm, she is not you and that's 1386 01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:02,680 Speaker 2: recognized it. 1387 01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:08,320 Speaker 1: They both have a college education. Yeah, that's the blessing too. 1388 01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:13,280 Speaker 7: You know, you almost got these loans paid off and 1389 01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:16,600 Speaker 7: you did it yourself. That's an accompanient. So instead of 1390 01:10:16,640 --> 01:10:19,519 Speaker 7: being mad at your parents, be proud of yourself. Thank 1391 01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:23,240 Speaker 7: God Daddy brought you through. Wow, so amazing how people 1392 01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:25,840 Speaker 7: block the blessing by looking at Instead of looking at 1393 01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:27,680 Speaker 7: what you have, you focus on what you don't have. 1394 01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:31,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, good point. 1395 01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:34,880 Speaker 1: All right, great advice. Thank you, So don't bring it up. Please. 1396 01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:37,720 Speaker 10: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have 1397 01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:40,439 Speaker 10: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1398 01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:46,880 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, so you 1399 01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:48,000 Speaker 1: know winter weather. 1400 01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:53,400 Speaker 5: Is here, it's here, and that one baby, you better 1401 01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:57,840 Speaker 5: say that, go ahead, sure, but it. 1402 01:10:57,880 --> 01:10:59,840 Speaker 10: Can leave your nose a little red, you know, if 1403 01:10:59,840 --> 01:11:02,280 Speaker 10: you have the sniffles or a cough or whatever, you know, 1404 01:11:02,320 --> 01:11:06,360 Speaker 10: a little red like Rudolph. But guess what Puffs lotion 1405 01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:10,840 Speaker 10: provides soothing relief instead. How about that Puffs has lotion 1406 01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:15,280 Speaker 10: to help soothe your blows and pillowy softness. I love 1407 01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:18,479 Speaker 10: that pillowy softness to help rescue your nose. 1408 01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:19,640 Speaker 1: So when cold and. 1409 01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:23,200 Speaker 10: Flu season give your nose the blues, make sure you 1410 01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:27,120 Speaker 10: reach for Puffs Plus Lotion tissues, okay, because the nose 1411 01:11:27,200 --> 01:11:31,920 Speaker 10: and need deserves Puffs. Indeed, it is sponsored by Puffs 1412 01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:37,360 Speaker 10: plus Lotion Tissue. I know. 1413 01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:40,960 Speaker 1: I like that pillowy softness. Yeah, it's so soft on 1414 01:11:41,040 --> 01:11:42,960 Speaker 1: your nose. Yeah. 1415 01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:45,920 Speaker 5: Can I put it on my elbows to like if 1416 01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:48,840 Speaker 5: they ask you that I do. 1417 01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:50,839 Speaker 1: Your elbows get cold and blues? 1418 01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:51,759 Speaker 6: Hell? 1419 01:11:51,920 --> 01:11:52,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1420 01:11:57,200 --> 01:12:00,320 Speaker 1: But you know what else is good to allergy? Geez 1421 01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:06,080 Speaker 1: allergies not just winter allergy. So huh that's a good look. 1422 01:12:06,240 --> 01:12:15,040 Speaker 1: Thank you? Yeah, Hills, all right, thank you guys. 1423 01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:17,280 Speaker 5: I'm a pillow type. 1424 01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:20,800 Speaker 1: Of person, softness type of guy. Yeah, all right, coming 1425 01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:25,120 Speaker 1: up next, we'll play around it. Would you rather right 1426 01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:30,240 Speaker 1: after this? You're listening hard morning show, and it's time 1427 01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:31,800 Speaker 1: now for a rounded. Would you rather? 1428 01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:35,160 Speaker 10: Would you rather spend New Year's Eve without your phone 1429 01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:37,960 Speaker 10: or without someone to kiss? 1430 01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:38,919 Speaker 1: At midnight? 1431 01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:40,639 Speaker 2: Which one phone? 1432 01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:42,040 Speaker 5: Had a phone? 1433 01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:42,679 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1434 01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:46,280 Speaker 1: What had you got somebody? 1435 01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:46,720 Speaker 4: Uh? 1436 01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:48,800 Speaker 5: I need to get it at twelve oh one? 1437 01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:58,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, in the New Year. See you didn't answer. 1438 01:12:58,920 --> 01:13:00,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I need somebody. Don't care about that. 1439 01:13:02,320 --> 01:13:03,120 Speaker 1: That's so sweet. 1440 01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:06,320 Speaker 7: That's what when you're in long flights, you know, I 1441 01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:08,559 Speaker 7: don't ask the flight attendant do you have Wi Fi? 1442 01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:09,000 Speaker 6: No? 1443 01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:12,080 Speaker 2: Hell no? Nobody called me? 1444 01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:12,280 Speaker 3: No? 1445 01:13:12,560 --> 01:13:12,760 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1446 01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:18,400 Speaker 1: Would you rather a real Christmas tree or an artificial one? 1447 01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:20,240 Speaker 5: Real tree? 1448 01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:21,679 Speaker 2: I love real tree? 1449 01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:24,719 Speaker 1: What about you, guys Jr? 1450 01:13:25,240 --> 01:13:26,920 Speaker 9: I ain't never had no real tree in my life. 1451 01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:28,280 Speaker 9: I ain't get them. 1452 01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:29,840 Speaker 5: Oh you always have fake? 1453 01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:33,840 Speaker 1: Yes, but they're pretty right. 1454 01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:37,960 Speaker 8: Made it feel like it was real. He said he 1455 01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:39,680 Speaker 8: bought it. It was real when he bought it, so 1456 01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:48,360 Speaker 8: definitely told me. Yeah, I didn't play that, but high. 1457 01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:50,320 Speaker 2: High some fake tree? What is you looking at? 1458 01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:53,519 Speaker 10: Right? 1459 01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:54,479 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1460 01:13:54,520 --> 01:13:56,200 Speaker 2: You think that tree in your imagination? 1461 01:13:58,439 --> 01:13:58,800 Speaker 5: All right? 1462 01:13:59,400 --> 01:14:02,000 Speaker 10: When you your spouse is leaving the house, would you 1463 01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:05,599 Speaker 10: rather be kissed goodbye or left to sleep? 1464 01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:07,679 Speaker 1: Which one? When she's leaving? 1465 01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:08,240 Speaker 3: Oh? 1466 01:14:08,360 --> 01:14:11,720 Speaker 5: If I'm sleep you want her to. It's gonna do 1467 01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:12,880 Speaker 5: what you got to do. I kiss you. 1468 01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:15,280 Speaker 1: Oh, don't wake you with me. 1469 01:14:17,120 --> 01:14:20,400 Speaker 9: I'm not gonna say nothing. I recuse myself from this question. 1470 01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:23,240 Speaker 4: Trial. 1471 01:14:23,800 --> 01:14:26,799 Speaker 9: So I heard Steve said yesterday. I recuse myself. 1472 01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:30,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, what you rather? 1473 01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:30,640 Speaker 3: Oh? 1474 01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:33,920 Speaker 9: Yes, I can I help people listening? Oh no, I'm 1475 01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:35,080 Speaker 9: not gonna say what I'd rather do? 1476 01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:38,519 Speaker 1: No, you rather? It's just simple. Would you rather for 1477 01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:41,840 Speaker 1: her to let you sleep? Or I rather let me sleep? 1478 01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:43,800 Speaker 9: But she wakes me up every morning? Kiss me when 1479 01:14:43,840 --> 01:14:44,360 Speaker 9: she's going to work? 1480 01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:47,840 Speaker 5: All right? 1481 01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:51,400 Speaker 10: Would you rather know what you're gonna get for Christmas? 1482 01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:53,200 Speaker 10: Or would you rather be surprised. 1483 01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:55,679 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna get a damn pint. 1484 01:14:56,840 --> 01:14:59,720 Speaker 1: Surprise surprise, that's your surprise. 1485 01:15:00,880 --> 01:15:02,519 Speaker 5: I don't wake me up for that either. 1486 01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:10,000 Speaker 2: You think I didn't know that bike was wrapped? Ask 1487 01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:15,000 Speaker 2: me what I want so I don't be hurt? Yeah, exactly, 1488 01:15:16,200 --> 01:15:17,639 Speaker 2: it's real simple. What I want? 1489 01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:20,800 Speaker 5: What do you want? What you want? 1490 01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:21,040 Speaker 3: Well? 1491 01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:23,519 Speaker 2: Watch you all? 1492 01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:31,280 Speaker 7: I want your watch different though, don't give me no watch. Well, 1493 01:15:31,640 --> 01:15:34,240 Speaker 7: Margie know what to do, though she ain't never missed. 1494 01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:37,120 Speaker 7: She do too much stuff. 1495 01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:42,040 Speaker 10: Sometimes I'll be ahead, all right, Thanks, guys. That's today's rounded. 1496 01:15:42,080 --> 01:15:44,400 Speaker 10: Would you rather coming up in forty nine minutes after? 1497 01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:46,880 Speaker 10: It's our last break and we'll close out the show 1498 01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:49,400 Speaker 10: with the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. 1499 01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:54,519 Speaker 1: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, here we are, guys, 1500 01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:58,680 Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Tuesday. Steve, you 1501 01:15:58,800 --> 01:15:59,879 Speaker 1: have some closing remarks. 1502 01:16:00,560 --> 01:16:01,080 Speaker 6: I know you do. 1503 01:16:01,360 --> 01:16:01,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know. 1504 01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:06,240 Speaker 7: I want to remind everybody of something that God created 1505 01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:11,880 Speaker 7: us all for greatness. All of us were created in 1506 01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:17,679 Speaker 7: his likeness. All of us were created to be an 1507 01:16:17,800 --> 01:16:21,240 Speaker 7: example of what God can do in people's lives. 1508 01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:22,479 Speaker 2: We were all created for this. 1509 01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:26,559 Speaker 7: What happens along the way is we make decisions because 1510 01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:29,800 Speaker 7: God gave us the power of choice, we make decisions 1511 01:16:29,880 --> 01:16:34,240 Speaker 7: that people as people that counter act what God really 1512 01:16:34,320 --> 01:16:35,120 Speaker 7: intended for us. 1513 01:16:36,160 --> 01:16:38,280 Speaker 2: And one of the reasons we counteract. 1514 01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:40,639 Speaker 7: What God intended for us is because the devil's main 1515 01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:44,000 Speaker 7: job the opposition is to not allow you to reach 1516 01:16:44,080 --> 01:16:47,240 Speaker 7: your potential. See, the devil don't ever want you to 1517 01:16:47,320 --> 01:16:50,040 Speaker 7: reach your potential, because then he'll have another child of 1518 01:16:50,080 --> 01:16:53,160 Speaker 7: God out there spreading the word and showing off and 1519 01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:55,840 Speaker 7: be an example of what light can do and what 1520 01:16:56,040 --> 01:16:58,519 Speaker 7: love can do, and what the power of prayer can do. 1521 01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:01,479 Speaker 7: So his job to make each and every one of 1522 01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:05,400 Speaker 7: us fall by the wayside. That's his constant mission in life. 1523 01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:08,320 Speaker 7: To make us think we're not worthy, to make us 1524 01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:11,360 Speaker 7: think we can't, to make us think it ain't possible, 1525 01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:14,559 Speaker 7: to make us look at our environment, to make us 1526 01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:16,960 Speaker 7: feel like, well, it's because I'm this, I. 1527 01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:20,800 Speaker 2: Can't be that. Ain't none of that true? None of 1528 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:21,559 Speaker 2: that is true. 1529 01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:25,440 Speaker 7: I bought a book the other day by Joel Oldstein 1530 01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:28,800 Speaker 7: because I was listening to him over the weekend and 1531 01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:30,280 Speaker 7: he since this. 1532 01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:33,599 Speaker 2: He was talking about his new book called Next Level Thinking, 1533 01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:36,080 Speaker 2: and I bought the book. 1534 01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:42,160 Speaker 7: And because I constantly try to reinforce myself. As successful 1535 01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:44,680 Speaker 7: as you may think I am, I still have a 1536 01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:49,400 Speaker 7: ways to go and I will always try to improve myself. 1537 01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:53,479 Speaker 7: And people like Joel Olstein, Bishop Jake's, Bishop Almah, Bishop 1538 01:17:53,560 --> 01:17:56,760 Speaker 7: Getty's down there in North Carolina. My boy, you know, 1539 01:17:56,800 --> 01:18:00,320 Speaker 7: it's a lot Charles Jenkins up in Chicago. It's a 1540 01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:02,880 Speaker 7: lot of dudes. Man that called me to make sure 1541 01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:07,720 Speaker 7: I'm okay. Check in on me, Tyler, check in on me, 1542 01:18:07,840 --> 01:18:10,599 Speaker 7: Doctor Phil, check in on me. I got a lot 1543 01:18:11,000 --> 01:18:13,439 Speaker 7: of people check in on me, man, make sure I'm okay. 1544 01:18:15,240 --> 01:18:20,880 Speaker 7: I was reading his book because it's just I just 1545 01:18:21,200 --> 01:18:25,880 Speaker 7: needed some more information. And one of the things I 1546 01:18:25,960 --> 01:18:30,720 Speaker 7: had learned from his book in the first chapter, the 1547 01:18:30,840 --> 01:18:34,040 Speaker 7: title of his chapter is be a barrier Breaker. Be 1548 01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:36,880 Speaker 7: a barrier Breaker, And throughout the book it just talks 1549 01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:40,640 Speaker 7: about your surroundings, your environment. That because you're from a 1550 01:18:40,720 --> 01:18:43,559 Speaker 7: family where ain't nobody never made it out, don't mean 1551 01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:45,760 Speaker 7: that you have to not be one of them, that 1552 01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:47,280 Speaker 7: you have to be one of those and not make 1553 01:18:47,360 --> 01:18:49,559 Speaker 7: it out. Because you come from a hood that don't 1554 01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:51,960 Speaker 7: have a whole lot of millionaires made from that hood. 1555 01:18:52,320 --> 01:18:54,519 Speaker 7: That don't mean that you can't be a barrier breaker 1556 01:18:54,760 --> 01:18:56,960 Speaker 7: and be one of the millionaires from the hood. Just 1557 01:18:57,040 --> 01:18:59,559 Speaker 7: because nobody on your block ever went to college, don't 1558 01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:02,120 Speaker 7: mean you be the first world. Maybe nobody in your 1559 01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:04,360 Speaker 7: family ever went to school, you're the first world. 1560 01:19:04,400 --> 01:19:05,120 Speaker 5: Maybe nobody in. 1561 01:19:05,120 --> 01:19:08,320 Speaker 7: Your family ever became a supervisor at a post office 1562 01:19:08,479 --> 01:19:13,040 Speaker 7: or the FedEx or UPS or anyplace else. Don't mean 1563 01:19:13,160 --> 01:19:17,880 Speaker 7: that you can't You can become a barrier breaker. But 1564 01:19:18,040 --> 01:19:21,400 Speaker 7: see what a lot of us do is we get 1565 01:19:22,160 --> 01:19:27,000 Speaker 7: so immersed in our environment that we adapt to our environment, 1566 01:19:27,160 --> 01:19:29,160 Speaker 7: and we must we act like this is it? 1567 01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:31,920 Speaker 2: Well, if God had wanted me to be rich, I'd 1568 01:19:31,960 --> 01:19:32,880 Speaker 2: have been born rich. 1569 01:19:33,160 --> 01:19:35,599 Speaker 5: What what did you say? 1570 01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:38,479 Speaker 7: I heard of God say that if God had wanted 1571 01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:40,800 Speaker 7: me to be rich, I would have been born rich. 1572 01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:45,040 Speaker 7: So let me ask you something, brother, all these people 1573 01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:48,559 Speaker 7: that have gone from poverty to richest, what was their 1574 01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:54,280 Speaker 7: excuse or what mindset that they use to become a 1575 01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:58,000 Speaker 7: barrier breaker, to break the barrier of poverty to become 1576 01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:03,040 Speaker 7: well off. I chose to be a barrier breaker. I 1577 01:20:03,160 --> 01:20:06,280 Speaker 7: knew what my family was. I loved my family dearly 1578 01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:10,400 Speaker 7: and still do. But what my family had I didn't want. 1579 01:20:12,560 --> 01:20:14,360 Speaker 7: As much as I loved my mother. 1580 01:20:14,280 --> 01:20:16,920 Speaker 1: And father, what my father was and how hard I 1581 01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:17,599 Speaker 1: saw him. 1582 01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:21,840 Speaker 7: Work, I didn't want that. I wanted something else. Now, 1583 01:20:21,960 --> 01:20:24,040 Speaker 7: do I appreciate the work after Keith put in me? 1584 01:20:24,360 --> 01:20:27,560 Speaker 7: Most certainly do that I appreciate the faith and the 1585 01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:29,720 Speaker 7: fear of God that my mama put in me, or 1586 01:20:29,800 --> 01:20:33,519 Speaker 7: I most certainly do. But I didn't want to be 1587 01:20:33,600 --> 01:20:35,760 Speaker 7: the one sitting at the church on the usher board. 1588 01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:39,680 Speaker 7: I didn't want that. I didn't want to work as 1589 01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:41,760 Speaker 7: hard as my father and make the same money as 1590 01:20:41,800 --> 01:20:44,000 Speaker 7: my father. I wanted to something else. I wanted to 1591 01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:47,960 Speaker 7: be a barrier breaker. A barrier breaker. And one of 1592 01:20:48,040 --> 01:20:51,680 Speaker 7: the things he talked about in the book is that 1593 01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:54,720 Speaker 7: so often we let our environment and how we were 1594 01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:59,760 Speaker 7: raised and other people's expectation of us set limits in 1595 01:20:59,840 --> 01:21:04,000 Speaker 7: our life. He was saying that we adapt to what's 1596 01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:07,160 Speaker 7: around us. So what he said in the book I 1597 01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:08,599 Speaker 7: wanted to share with you all. 1598 01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:10,559 Speaker 2: In the book, he. 1599 01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:16,080 Speaker 7: Said that if you take an oak tree seed, the 1600 01:21:16,200 --> 01:21:19,679 Speaker 7: seed of an oak tree, and you plant this seed 1601 01:21:19,840 --> 01:21:24,040 Speaker 7: from this oak tree in a two foot pot, that 1602 01:21:24,520 --> 01:21:27,640 Speaker 7: oak tree will never become what it. 1603 01:21:27,800 --> 01:21:30,679 Speaker 2: Was created to be if you leave it in that pot, 1604 01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:32,759 Speaker 2: not because there's. 1605 01:21:32,640 --> 01:21:36,720 Speaker 7: Something wrong with the seed, but because of the environment 1606 01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:41,519 Speaker 7: is in. Did you hear what I just said. There 1607 01:21:41,640 --> 01:21:46,440 Speaker 7: is nothing wrong with you. The problem is your environment. 1608 01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:50,200 Speaker 7: If you stay in the environment, you'll never grow. But 1609 01:21:50,400 --> 01:21:53,400 Speaker 7: you can choose to become a barrier breaker and get 1610 01:21:53,439 --> 01:21:57,439 Speaker 7: out of any environment that you in. You can escape poverty, 1611 01:21:57,640 --> 01:22:01,200 Speaker 7: you can escape the hood, you can escape bad thinking people, 1612 01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:02,920 Speaker 7: you can escape the dope game. 1613 01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:06,200 Speaker 2: You can become non addicted to drugs. 1614 01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:09,400 Speaker 7: You can stop being an alcoholic, you can stop with 1615 01:22:09,560 --> 01:22:10,200 Speaker 7: God's help. 1616 01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:11,040 Speaker 2: If you take an. 1617 01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:13,280 Speaker 7: Oak tree seed and you plant it in a two 1618 01:22:13,360 --> 01:22:15,800 Speaker 7: foot pot, that tree will never become what it was 1619 01:22:15,840 --> 01:22:17,439 Speaker 7: created to be if you leave it in the pot, 1620 01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:20,479 Speaker 7: not because there's something wrong with the seed, but because 1621 01:22:20,520 --> 01:22:23,320 Speaker 7: of the environment is in. You got to change your environment. 1622 01:22:23,560 --> 01:22:25,680 Speaker 7: You fine, you got to see you got everything you 1623 01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:26,320 Speaker 7: need to grow? 1624 01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:27,120 Speaker 5: You did? 1625 01:22:27,400 --> 01:22:28,360 Speaker 2: Those are my closing room. 1626 01:22:28,680 --> 01:22:29,760 Speaker 1: Drop it, baby, drop it. 1627 01:22:30,439 --> 01:22:32,839 Speaker 2: Yes, sir, get out that environment. 1628 01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:33,120 Speaker 4: Man. 1629 01:22:42,080 --> 01:22:45,520 Speaker 10: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void were prohibited. 1630 01:22:45,560 --> 01:22:49,080 Speaker 10: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1631 01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:52,960 Speaker 10: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1632 01:22:53,200 --> 01:22:57,120 Speaker 10: FM dot com. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.