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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with a

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Speaker 1: Ryan Secret. So I'm just kind of it's gone by fast.

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Speaker 1: Patty made her announcement that she's gonna leave to go

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Speaker 1: run six or seven different companies, and since then, it's

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Speaker 1: kind of gone fast. I mean, it felt like a

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Speaker 1: long time, but it's at the end of this week, Patty, Right,

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Speaker 1: this is your last Friday coming up? It is. It

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Speaker 1: just goes by so fast. No, seventeen years. Just like that,

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Speaker 1: It does go by fast when you start looking back

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Speaker 1: at time, And the longer you're on the planet, the

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Speaker 1: more time there is to look back at, which makes

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Speaker 1: it even faster in a weird way. But let me

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Speaker 1: not confuse myself. Do you have a bunch of things

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Speaker 1: here that you've got to pack up? Uh? No? Um,

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Speaker 1: Actually I don't know. You don't know if you have

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Speaker 1: things here. I'm sure I do. I have to. Uh.

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Speaker 1: I got a call from corporate and we're going over

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Speaker 1: some things together. I think I have what what what

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Speaker 1: you gotta call? You gotta call from corporate and you

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Speaker 1: going over things? What kind of things corporate going over

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Speaker 1: with you? What's that dude with packing up your boxes? Well?

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Speaker 1: I have to go drop off some equipment that would

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Speaker 1: belongs so a heart. But it's like it's like the

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Speaker 1: library book. It's like you checked it out for a

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Speaker 1: long time and that the librarian wants it all back exactly, like,

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Speaker 1: oh you know you have that? Well from do you

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Speaker 1: have computers and phones? That are the companies? I don't

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Speaker 1: have computers and phones, but I have a microphone. Oh,

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Speaker 1: and they want that back. Those things are easton is

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Speaker 1: here Eastern. These all microphones that they passed out during

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Speaker 1: COVID and putting everybody's homes. These are pretty penny, aren't

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Speaker 1: they right? I mean these are really like a coveted mechanism,

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Speaker 1: aren't they. Yeah, And you would think that they might

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Speaker 1: just forget about it and you could have kept it

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Speaker 1: from podcasting. Oh no, they call me, how how are

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Speaker 1: you gonna do your podcasting? I will do it in studio.

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Speaker 1: That's where I'm doing it most of most. So you're

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Speaker 1: keeping your key card, m Yeah, I keep you looking hard.

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Speaker 1: I'm keeping my parking spot. Well not what about your desk? Uh,

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Speaker 1: my desk is mine. Hold on the desks. The desk

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Speaker 1: right here, that's like a that's that's a utility room.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's a that's the phone up the counter.

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Speaker 1: What about that you have a great patty is a gray.

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Speaker 1: It is interesting when you accumulate so much stuff in

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Speaker 1: your home or also at your office. I know that

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Speaker 1: any time that I've had to move, I go through

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Speaker 1: drawers of things that are I don't know how I

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Speaker 1: have a G I. Joe action figure still in a

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Speaker 1: drawer at my age. But you have a great puffer jacket.

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Speaker 1: It's been in the back room, Patty for two years.

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Speaker 1: It's a good Yeah, I'm picking that one up. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for um. You have a thing of olive oil

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Speaker 1: right there as well. Yeah, it's not fresh. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: not supposed to keep that in the warm temperatures of

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Speaker 1: that room. And lotion. I was supposed to go in

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Speaker 1: a cool, dark place. Yeah. I'm gonna be there tomorrow

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Speaker 1: to throw things away. And if anybody wants anything, any

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Speaker 1: any relics, any any photographs, you know, I'll be sharing that.

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Speaker 1: Does he have any posters up anymore? Is that just utanya?

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Speaker 1: That's me? I have a whole vang. You know. There

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Speaker 1: are a handful of times I can think back each

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Speaker 1: year where the phone switchboard system has an overload surge,

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Speaker 1: and that's a that's a good thing because everybody has

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Speaker 1: one thought or one reaction that they have to get

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Speaker 1: to us immediately after something that has happened or talked about.

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Speaker 1: And most recently we had a surge uh come in

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Speaker 1: after we talked about the Ryan's Roses. That was the

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Speaker 1: open marriage Ryan's Roses and how uh it was a

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Speaker 1: situation where he was not supposed to see but they

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Speaker 1: weren't supposed to see anybody else more than once, and

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Speaker 1: they had to approve the person that we're gonna go

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Speaker 1: out with once and then they would move On's just

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Speaker 1: so dangerous and slippery, and so everybody was playing by

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Speaker 1: the rules until he the husband in the Rhines Roses,

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Speaker 1: the flowers. But I think Sisney, you were saying, look,

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Speaker 1: I think so too, Like that's the life that you chose,

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Speaker 1: your relationships. Human nature is that you become attached to people, right,

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Speaker 1: So it's so hard when you have an open relationship.

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Speaker 1: They set these rules as to have an open relationship.

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Speaker 1: Do you need strength or weakness? Is it weak or strong? No?

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Speaker 1: It doesn't the wheels. How does that over time, frequency

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Speaker 1: as we talked about and Anna is on West Hollyway, Anna, Hi,

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Speaker 1: good morning. You practice a non monogamy relationship? Correct? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I've been doing um ethical non monogamy for seven years.

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Speaker 1: So what does that mean? Um? It just means that

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Speaker 1: You're transparent, you communicate and obviously if any issue rises,

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Speaker 1: you openly discuss it and see if you need to

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Speaker 1: make any um tweaks in the relationship to you know,

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Speaker 1: to have it be UM, be ethical and fulfilling. And

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Speaker 1: and what are the ground rules in your situation? Um,

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Speaker 1: every person is going to be different, So as the couple,

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Speaker 1: you have to decide what your ground rules are. But

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Speaker 1: There are ground rules just like a person, like a

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Speaker 1: ask you, Sandy, you say, it's just like being in

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Speaker 1: You're still going to become jealous. It's just you know,

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Speaker 1: it's something else. Look, you have to think about the

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Speaker 1: probably right now and walk in Atlanta. So Mom, just

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Speaker 1: asking the questions that Tanya and Patty and as sistey

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Speaker 1: woman to ask. Anna, thank you very much for listening

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Speaker 1: to us. You take good care, Okay, thank you, Okay bye.

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Speaker 1: You have to give credit to the honesty and transparency

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Speaker 1: if they can do that regularly, because so many people

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Speaker 1: that's toxic. M got I got Eastern the engineer up

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Speaker 1: on his feet during that conversation for a happy and

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Speaker 1: long relationship. This is a word you should never use

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Speaker 1: Should is the word should? Should should you using in

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Speaker 1: used should to express how we want we want our

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Speaker 1: You should yeah, because it says if you know better

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Speaker 1: and you're telling someone what to do, you should have

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Speaker 1: done that, meaning wow, Now I don't know because I

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Speaker 1: I don't. Maybe that's wrong. I don't know. If there's

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Speaker 1: I think it should be. Let me help. Let me

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Speaker 1: I feel. Can I tell you how I feel? You

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Speaker 1: It's almost like let me let me put your shoes on,

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Speaker 1: give me your shoes, give me your shoes. In that situation,

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying you should give me your shoes, but

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Speaker 1: process as to why you did that. It's hard, but

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Speaker 1: it's hard to get there, isn't it? Knew should was

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Speaker 1: so powerful? I had no idea. That's why I came

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Speaker 1: in this morning to figure today's quote. A year ago,

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't have made the decisions you're making. Now celebrate

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Speaker 1: your growth with Ryan Secrets, Tony. I'm going to talk

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Speaker 1: about the second date update here in a second, but first,

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Speaker 1: What are we focusing on for this trending report? I

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Speaker 1: you while you're dating someone new. Is it a bad

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Speaker 1: idea or does it just not mean anything. There's optics

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Speaker 1: To me, Okay, so the second date update in just

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Speaker 1: a few minutes. It's a second date friendship update. Two mothers.

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Speaker 1: Two moms met at a mutual friends party and they

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Speaker 1: hit it off. They became fast friends, and then things

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Speaker 1: slowed down. And so, just like in any other relationship,

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Speaker 1: you might want to know, well, why did you start

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Speaker 1: defriending me? A little bit? Oh, this is interesting, Like

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Speaker 1: why did I leave the rotation? I used to get

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Speaker 1: invited to this stuff and now I'm not in the

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Speaker 1: rotation of imitation. Well, it's clear she doesn't like her.

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Speaker 1: It's not clear nothing, it's clear in a relationship. Nothing

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Speaker 1: you while dating someone new. Initially I think it's probably

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Speaker 1: not the most thoughtful thing to do, But then there

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Speaker 1: are situations where you just get over somebody and you

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Speaker 1: like the object and you want the object, right, And

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Speaker 1: my question to you is kind of like, is it

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Speaker 1: just jewelry? Is it meaningful jewelry? What if it's clothing?

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Speaker 1: So the reason why I started thinking about this was

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Speaker 1: because Kim Kardashian and Pete Davidson were photographed on their

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Speaker 1: this really beautiful offits of silver outfit, but this really big,

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Speaker 1: Kanye posted on his Instagram saying that he bought that

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Speaker 1: M hmm. Let me grab Jackie on Monty Jackie, Good morning,

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Speaker 1: We understand that you met a woman named Jackie a

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Speaker 1: Yeah you know, alright, no, like there's defensiveness. It's all

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Speaker 1: use a little butter. Yeah. So how are you catching

423
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Speaker 1: me up? Calvin? What your Calvin is a sophomore. He's

424
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Speaker 1: at Stanford. He's loving it. I can't believe. Yes, that

425
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 1: flew by and he is, um, let's see computer science.

426
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:02,879
Speaker 1: So he's what you want to do? What he wants

427
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: the computer human interface. So you know, I don't know

428
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 1: what you would call that, but what is that? Some

429
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 1: kind of like systems? But director of finance, So does

430
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Speaker 1: he understand n F T s and bitcoin does. Yes, right, Yeah,

431
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: he's trying to explain it to me. He he actually

432
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 1: did binary art for charities so he could take he

433
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: could take on air with Ryan Seacrist your logo or

434
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: for your the foundation, and then he can turn it

435
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 1: into binary art. What does that mean? Well, it's like quits.

436
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 1: They turn it into the little pixel thing and then

437
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 1: it takes your colors, but it's in a whole different

438
00:26:56,320 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: shape and there are no words. People buy the said

439
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 1: people well, and what's so what they do is then

440
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: the auction it for charity and then you have your

441
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: like your n f T of binary art. Have you

442
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: have you had him explained to you the metaverse and

443
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: how people houses, So people are buying houses at the

444
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: parts of real houses inside this AI universe and dating

445
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 1: to write, I'm playing games. You need to start hosting

446
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,640
Speaker 1: stuff in the metaverse. That's what we need to get in. Yeah,

447
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 1: because it's just so much. Well, please tell him, I say,

448
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 1: I can't believe spacial Hair had it for a while

449
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: to me, to me, he's always five years old. You

450
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 1: know he's knowing you all his life. Yeah, well, listen,

451
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 1: we have news here. Ellen. I know that you heard

452
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 1: and you came down the hallway to say to Patty,

453
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: who you spent so much of your life with Patty,

454
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: to her certainly all of her life here at kiss

455
00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 1: practically with us, and she's going on to run the world. Patty,

456
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: You're gonna be so great. You're gonna do so great.

457
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: You're gonna do all the things you're doing now and

458
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: and more you're gonna I love you so much. I

459
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: know it looks like you've been having an emotional um

460
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 1: goodbye Weeken shows. But you know, here's what I'll say

461
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: to you. Kids will always be home. Ryan will always

462
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 1: be there to welcome you with open arms. I remember

463
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: you know, leaving it's very sad, it's hard, it's scary,

464
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 1: but just knowing that you know everyone's here and will

465
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 1: always be here. I I see you know you'll still

466
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 1: have that that connection forever, all the things you know.

467
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: Look you guys, you you get up so early together,

468
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 1: You laugh, you cry, you share everything, and that in

469
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: many ways, Ryan and I feel this after, you know,

470
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: after I went down the hall, I felt closer to

471
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: you in so many ways, and to you too, Tony,

472
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: because then when you do see each other, it's like

473
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: you have these great me in catch up times. Yeah, yeah,

474
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: it's been. It's been challenging. And we've been texting and

475
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: I've been telling you how I feel and you you

476
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: were my first mentor here um in this show, and

477
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: I am forever grateful for that, um you. I learned

478
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: so much from you, and to have a woman in

479
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: this space that one can look up to, it's priceless

480
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: and it's in and it's you know, you were so

481
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: you are. You are an incredible human being and there's

482
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 1: just because of you you have we have learned so

483
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: much and we have been able to grow the way

484
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 1: we've grown. And I speak for Cecidi an Tania as well,

485
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: because you took us in with so much love and

486
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: you gave us the opportunity to become our own selves

487
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: and give us that room to do that alongside with you,

488
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: not behind you, but alongside with you, and that is

489
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 1: so special. You are an incredible human being and I

490
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 1: will always thank you forever. Oh my god, Well this

491
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,719
Speaker 1: is so not about me. Thank you, Patty, and I

492
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 1: love you, and I love you Taiasis and Ryan and

493
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 1: and here's what I'll say, you know, watching the Rams

494
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: win and then talk about their team and how it's

495
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: everything to care for each other and that's what that's

496
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: what we all do. You know, we all do that.

497
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: I mean Ryan, you you look. Look who you're surrounded

498
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 1: by every day. You know these it's it's just an

499
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 1: amazing family and team and Patty. Um, you'll be so missed,

500
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: but you are so loved and you have so many

501
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 1: incredible things ahead of you. Um. And I know that

502
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 1: there's some fear. I just read this quote randomly and

503
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 1: right before I walked in. Um, you know, great things

504
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: happen beyond fear, the edge of fear, something like that.

505
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 1: I just totally botched it, but it was it was

506
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: on the other side of fear. There you go. Yeah,

507
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 1: it was scary to let go. Yeah, I bet big

508
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: hugs to you. It's not over yet because Friday is

509
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: your last day here and you'll continue to come back

510
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: in the building. But Ellen, thank you for coming. Thank you.

511
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: It's so much fun to come. It's so much fun

512
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:39,479
Speaker 1: to come home. Yeah, there really is. I love you guys.

513
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: And speaking at home, guess what we're doing in one minute,

514
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: Ellen on the tents. You are going to be giving

515
00:31:44,920 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: away at home? Too ambitious, just like oh my gosh, theys.

516
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 1: So we're paying your bills this morning and I've got

517
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: those sold out Bad Bunny tickets. But you're talking about

518
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 1: a side effect from COVID. I was actually just reading

519
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: something like, really big in the medical world that is

520
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 1: has come from COVID is early detection in cancer. Right,

521
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 1: So people were not going to see their doctors for

522
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 1: routine checkups for a while when early detection would happen

523
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 1: for different cancers, and many people are paying the price

524
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: of that because there was not that opportunity as much

525
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: opportunity in terms of the regular checkup. I didn't think

526
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Speaker 1: that because well, because you weren't making those appointments, you

527
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: weren't going near a hospital, and not that you were

528
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: going in for that reason. But you know how many

529
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: people do you know that they were in for something

530
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 1: else and the cancer was detected, serious impact to COVID nineteen,

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Speaker 1: But you're talking about something separate. What's that? Well, this

532
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: sounds silly compared to what you just said, But um,

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Speaker 1: I'm experiencing and I don't know if it's like a

534
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Speaker 1: circulation problem, but it's I have cold feet at all times,

535
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Speaker 1: freezing feet. Literally, literally my feet are freezing. I can

536
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: put three layers of socks on. I have to. I

537
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: never sleep with socks, and I have to sleep with

538
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 1: socks at night because and right I mean right now

539
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: I'm wearing flipop so that it doesn't really help. But

540
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: even if I was, no, I've never, like I noticed

541
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: that my feet were abnormally cold, like it was right now,

542
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: Like they're icicles like free, like I feel like there's

543
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 1: no circulation going down there, and what is it? And

544
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 1: that you noticed since you had COVID. I've noticed it

545
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 1: since COVID. And Erica, who works here as well, she

546
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: is experiencing the exact same thing we had COVID about

547
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Speaker 1: a week off. No, not really do that. That's the

548
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: worst thing we ever do, that stuff because yeah, then

549
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: you go down a rabbit hole. That's like second, let

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Speaker 1: me hear, let me tell no, please don't make him

551
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: touch your feet. But my hands, your hands are cold,

552
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: just a bit cold. My hands are cold, yeah, yeah,

553
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 1: just a bit feels nice. Yeah. Uh, all right, So

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00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 1: I think I've always had cold hands and feet. Patty,

555
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 1: you've had the same thing. No, it's funny that you

556
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: mentioned it, because after COVID a few times I've had

557
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 1: these episodes where my entire body feels really really cold,

558
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: and I'm thinking, do I have a cold? Do I

559
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 1: have a fever? And I check and my temperature is normal,

560
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: but my entire body feels cold, and I'm wearing like

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Speaker 1: a jacket. Uh, Kobe has covers on top of me,

562
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 1: and I still feel like I'm freezing. Like now that

563
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 1: you're you're mentioning this, I'm gonna google it because it does.

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00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 1: Has it happened? My feet feel like I just took

565
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 1: like an ice bath or something like I've been. I've

566
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: put my feet in a nice bucket and that's how

567
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 1: cold they feel right now. Dr Vic it's going to

568
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: join us in a second. I just got word that

569
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 1: Dr Vic has been listening and Dr Vick is going

570
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,919
Speaker 1: to give you some feedback. Why are you getting cold feet?

571
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: Isn't he literally all right? Sny was saying that after

572
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 1: COVID she notices that her feet are always cold. Her

573
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: feet are always cold. Never had really cold extremities. But

574
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 1: after the COVID runs, you had a couple of runs. Well, no,

575
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: I had one, but then the the domino effect with

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00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 1: the family, Yeah, the family, So a couple of runs

577
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: in the family, there and does that pack your circulation? Now,

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00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: I've always had cold fingers and cold toes, and so

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I always have had them. I mean,

580
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: maybe he should get that checked out. Have you ever

581
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: thought about it? But is it bothering me? But has Guys?

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Speaker 1: It has to be like a circulation. You're like, the

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00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 1: blood is not circulating properly to your feet. But get

584
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: my physicals and my doc says metabolism fine, blood fine?

585
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 1: And have you told him that you can't feel? His

586
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 1: job to detect things that are so I just googled

587
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 1: it and it looks like it's it's a mystery of

588
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 1: long covid. Dr Vic is on with us right now.

589
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 1: Dr Vic, thank you for coming on. How are you

590
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: I'm doing great, Ryan, how are you all good? Good

591
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,240
Speaker 1: to have you with us. And no shortage of questions

592
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: I'm sure in your world, but one of which is

593
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 1: Sistey was just telling us that she is noticing that

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Speaker 1: her feet are constantly cold after she's noticed this since

595
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: she has had COVID nineteen What can you tell us

596
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: this is something that can happen. Um. It's been noted

597
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:41,839
Speaker 1: in the medical literature frequently. JOHNS. Hopkins actually identified UH

598
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: something like this With individuals that have either have COVID

599
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 1: or have had COVID UH, they tend to get circulatory

600
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: issues and that has to do with the UH, the

601
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 1: infection itself causing damage to some of the blood vessels

602
00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: that go to the extremities. People have reported, you know,

603
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: circulation issues with heart attacks and strokes. UM Johns Hopkins

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00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 1: actually identifies an extremity problem particularly in the FEAT exactly

605
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: what says in problems, and they call it blue toe

606
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 1: syndrome and it's typical of just for circulation that occurs

607
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 1: after COVID infection, and it could result in some cold extremities.

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00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 1: Sometimes people will say that there's some rash and itching

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00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 1: or pain in the extremity other than discomfort. Is there

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00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 1: any real issue with it? It can, yes, because once

611
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: you cut off blood supply to tissue, that tissue doesn't

612
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 1: have good circulation and ultimately can end up having some

613
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 1: tissue death as a result. I've always had cold fingers

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00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 1: and cold toes. Is that a problem? Probably not, Ryan,

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00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,959
Speaker 1: I'm the same way as you. I have cold hands

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00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: and cold speed. But most notably is those individuals that

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00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: have had COVID UH really want to probably get those

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00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: things checked out. Scary. Yeah, I didn't mean to scare you.

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Speaker 1: Just doctors can be Why do I do I go

620
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 1: to a foot doctor? So ultimately, what I would do

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00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 1: is start off with your primary care physician. Position will

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Speaker 1: possibly run some tests. It will include some lab work,

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Speaker 1: possibly UH an ultrason of the lower extremity um to

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00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: identify if there's any problems in the blood vessels themselves.

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00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: They may do something called an A B I or

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00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 1: an ANKI brachial index, which basically gives them a sense

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00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: of how well your circulation is running throughout your entire extremities,

628
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 1: and then if that shows anything that, obviously the treatment

629
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,479
Speaker 1: will will ensue after that. I mean, look, I guess

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Speaker 1: the good news is you've got some feedback, have it

631
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 1: checked out, and then you have it monitored to see

632
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 1: if it's a real issue or not. But there are

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Speaker 1: people like Dr Vick and I who live with called

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Speaker 1: beating fingers and seemingly we're fine. Definitely, Dr Vick, thank

635
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Speaker 1: you very much for your insight, your thank you for

636
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Speaker 1: going to med school, graduating and giving us all the

637
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,720
Speaker 1: good feedback today. You take good care, Okay, my pleasure?

638
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Speaker 1: Can I give up congratulations to the Rams. Thank you, alright,

639
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 1: congratulations to the Rams. Were very proud of Matthew Stafford,

640
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,959
Speaker 1: especially being from Detroit. Oh that's right. He by the way,

641
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: we put up the mortgage on him, brought him in,

642
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 1: brought the players in, build this team for the Super

643
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 1: Bowl win, and they did it. I watched Sean mcveigh's

644
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 1: press conference on YouTube after the game in its entirety.

645
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 1: I love this guy. I first, first, super smart. You

646
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 1: know you guys play fantasy football. I want to play

647
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 1: fantasy friend friends. Fantasy friends. Yeah, where I just have

648
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: fantasy friends and he's one of my fantasy friends. And

649
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 1: we were like, we could go do stuff and you

650
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Speaker 1: come down on it if you want some to create

651
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 1: on my own without a lot of coding. All right,

652
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Speaker 1: thank you, dr By, Thank you. Friendships in their fantasy

653
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Speaker 1: friendships leagu Why don't we start that fun like who

654
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Speaker 1: would be in your fantasy friendship league? I guess like celebrities.

655
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Speaker 1: You're right, well, Sean McVeigh is the world champion coach celebrities.

656
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 1: I kind of did that in the beginning of the pandemic. Remember,

657
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: it was like who would you want to be quarantine with? Celebrities.

658
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 1: It was like your quarantine house, right right, But like

659
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: we need to come up with a board and some activity.

660
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 1: But I think that he can. He would actually be

661
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 1: your friend. Well I've tried a second. Yeah, you have

662
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 1: not tried. And it's a busy week for him. I've

663
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 1: gushed about him year. That's not personal. It's totally personal.

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Speaker 1: It's not no, it's I'm fortunate to have this looked

665
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Speaker 1: into my wall and busy, so he's probably even listening,

666
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 1: would know, I know. But this is way before. This

667
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,319
Speaker 1: is even before the season. This was during when they

668
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: did the doctor series on the Rams. So what do

669
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 1: you want? You want to hang out with him and

670
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: like have him come to your house? I do. I

671
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 1: want to barbecue. So why don't you say, hey, I

672
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Speaker 1: want to throw you a barbecue, bring a couple of

673
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Speaker 1: the players over to the house. I don't need everybody.

674
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: I just want to get to know it. And then

675
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 1: you have to let us know too, because we you know,

676
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: you may need help. Yeah, I don't need any help.

677
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 1: I can a friendship on my own. We can, we

678
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: can help with you. Well, I'm just fine. If I'm

679
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 1: if if someone walks through the door, I can handle it.

680
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 1: I gotta get him through the door. Was the last

681
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 1: time you made a friend? Oh? How do you make

682
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: a friend as an adult? I'm just trying to think.

683
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: I actually don't know the answer to that, because they

684
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: see so many of the same people every day. You know,

685
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: our days are very the same. It's routine. It's not

686
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: like we're out in about in the world exploring different

687
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: things every week. Like it's a long time for me.

688
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:59,919
Speaker 1: I think it's like five years, four years maybe, trying

689
00:41:59,920 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 1: to when have I seen anybody other than you guys

690
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: in Kelly Rippo. Been a long time, So it's time.

691
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 1: It's time open up the door. I mean, look at

692
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 1: Jackie and Elizabeth, right, I mean, now there's a whole

693
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: other situation. But they were trying. Though they were trying,

694
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:19,240
Speaker 1: but it's just tough out there. Okay, you haven't tried.

695
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 1: I'm trying now. Yeah, take your energy and elsewhere. I'm

696
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 1: just saying, lavam the text. I don't have his number,

697
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Speaker 1: Amy Sugarman. I keep invite him on the show. Well

698
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Speaker 1: that's not working, so we need to plan b he

699
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 1: should come on. Yeah, I think he's pretty resting. I

700
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Speaker 1: feel like now is the time to have him, he's

701
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 1: not stressed out all right, Well, Amie Sugarman, I've asked.

702
00:42:54,560 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 1: Amy Sugarman's on air with Ryan Secrets. Good morning, megany

703
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Speaker 1: Stallion celebrating a birthday today. YouTube debuted seventeen years ago.

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Speaker 1: M that a mic stand but it's actually very fitting

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Speaker 1: to talk about. Did you steamboat? That's more like its powerful? Wow?

706
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Speaker 1: It was just a few days ago We're Tanya revealed

707
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Speaker 1: to us that her my friend Robbie has given her

708
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 1: steamboat as a nickname because of that sounded tragic. It's

709
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 1: not tragic, It's not. It gets worse. No, no, it's

710
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Speaker 1: getting worse. How can it get worse? I know? Well,

711
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 1: so you know, you guys all know I have Okay,

712
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Speaker 1: well you know I have issues. So every night when

713
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Speaker 1: I go to sleep, describe your issues more clear. I

714
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: don't go to the bathroom regularly, so um at night,

715
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:19,359
Speaker 1: I take magnesium and I've been really good with that.

716
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Speaker 1: But be careful with that because I take that sometimes

717
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 1: and if you get too much of it, yes, okay,

718
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: so not in a good stomach camp. I've been in

719
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Speaker 1: a good I've been in a good word with this. Right,

720
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 1: So I go to get updating all my supplements because

721
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm really trying to get like really good supplements. Right.

722
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 1: So this guy is telling me this is the if

723
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Speaker 1: the bathroom is what the issue is, these are the

724
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Speaker 1: best ones. I'm gonna give you a sample. The pharmacist

725
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 1: at the pharmacy. It's not just the guy, he's actually

726
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Speaker 1: the pharmacy, right, he's studied in this area correct theory, said,

727
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a sample for a week so

728
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 1: you can try them. I you're gonna love them so much,

729
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 1: you're gonna come back and buy them. I'm like, okay, great,

730
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 1: this is so wonderful. So I try them. The next day,

731
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: I am running errands and all of a sudden, out

732
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: of nowhere, I start getting like hot flashes. I'm having

733
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:22,280
Speaker 1: like I didn't know what to do, so I text

734
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,759
Speaker 1: my boyfriend's closer to his house than I was to mind,

735
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 1: and I was like, bear unlock the front door because mom,

736
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Speaker 1: and need's a straight shot to the bathroom, to the

737
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 1: point where I was like meditating in the car, like

738
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,919
Speaker 1: I had to meditate to calm myself down. It was

739
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 1: so awful. I had to like run into the house.

740
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm pretty surely self induced because I've had those flashes

741
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Speaker 1: up my spine before, and that's because you're over supplementing

742
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: yourself for regularity and need to be very careful those situations,

743
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:58,400
Speaker 1: a lap of off sneeze could really be tragic. I

744
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: was panicked, I was gonna go in my are. I

745
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: was just like, could you imagine? And I just want

746
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 1: I just give you a little advice. It's fine to

747
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: have indigestion and go the bathroom and have gas in

748
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 1: front of your boyfriend. There are limitations to it, though, right.

749
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: There are thresholds to everything. There are levels, and I

750
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 1: think that over doing magnesium combined with other supplements for

751
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: an extreme result isn't something you want to always discuss.

752
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 1: I mean, there's some things you just want to do

753
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: in private, you know, not not here, but with your

754
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 1: relation to you. I don't mind here, but with your relationship. Yeah,

755
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: I know. He's always very concerned about my bathroom issues,

756
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 1: like you don't want you, you don't want me to

757
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,239
Speaker 1: come in like I did today, and they now have

758
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: Nick has put up six different sound effects for your

759
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 1: steamboat nickname. That's just not that's just not great, right,

760
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:02,839
Speaker 1: not no, But you're doing it to yourself, so you

761
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: can curb it, you can't control it otherwise. Haven't you

762
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 1: ever been out on a run? Oh? Yeah? And then

763
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 1: what happens? And then then what happens? I usually have

764
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 1: to use the public bathroom. It's not a problem there everywhere,

765
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: but you just you know, that's what I have to do.

766
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:25,399
Speaker 1: Does it happen often? Like I can't remember one time. Yes,

767
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:30,240
Speaker 1: if I'm magnesium scoop, Yeah, it happens. That's what happens.

768
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:32,879
Speaker 1: Have we had it? I mean, how do we get

769
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 1: in this conversation? What happened? I tried to avoid it?

770
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: Remember I said, did we ask? Did we ask? And

771
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:43,840
Speaker 1: no one wanted to hear on air with Ryan's secrets.

772
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 1: Rams are world champions now fresh off that Super Bowl win.

773
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 1: It's time to celebrate. So did they go to Disneyland?

774
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: And when's the parade? They went to Disneyland yesterday? So

775
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: what a treat if you were already planning on going

776
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: to Disney in that day and you see all the

777
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 1: champs they're getting honored on Main Street. Of course, um

778
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: Cooper Cup super Bowl m v P was there. This

779
00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,880
Speaker 1: teammates Matthew Stafford and Aaron Donald, so very cool. They

780
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: all went to Disneyland to celebrate yesterday, and then of

781
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,399
Speaker 1: course l A is just like I feel like we're

782
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 1: there's different buildings that are changing their colors to Ram colors,

783
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 1: and uh there's a huge display for them. And by huge,

784
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: I mean the Hollywood sign has been taken over. It

785
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 1: says Ram's House. I know. It's crazy to see that,

786
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: I know. And they say it's only going to be

787
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: up through tomorrow, which they we saw them building that

788
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 1: they were ktl A was doing like a live footage

789
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 1: of them like switching this over the same Ram's house.

790
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 1: And it just feels like they put in so much

791
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: work for it to be taken down so soon, So

792
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:52,879
Speaker 1: maybe it stays a little longer. I mean, Elsie when

793
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,960
Speaker 1: he recorded his five years ago, he had no idea

794
00:48:56,040 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: be used as the World Championship Rammit track will be

795
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Speaker 1: rocking in La So let's ramed today. It's Ramed. It

796
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 1: comes the F bomb, everybody. We'll be rocking all to

797
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:30,279
Speaker 1: the Rams today and rammed Rammed, Rammed Elton John with

798
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Speaker 1: the Ramnit anthem classic. Alright, the parade looks like it's

799
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: all set for tomorrow in downtown l A. It's gonna

800
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Speaker 1: start at the Shrine Auditorium and end up at the Coliseum,

801
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: where a rally will be held in the plaza outside

802
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,879
Speaker 1: the stadium. Some are saying that maybe we can make

803
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 1: this Omega parade with the Los Angeles Dodgers and Los

804
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: Angeles Lakers as well, because they won titles but did

805
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 1: not get to celebrate and they did not get a parade. Well,

806
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: Justin Turner and Braun have both tweeted in support of

807
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: that idea, So there's two sides to it. Because the

808
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 1: Rams probably want their moment, But what a great think

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Speaker 1: of all of our teams celebrating. What if you could

810
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,919
Speaker 1: do versions of it? I know I'm here for it.

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Speaker 1: The more the merrier I say on Air with Ryan Seacrest,

812
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Speaker 1: then that's gonna do it for us today tomorrow on

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Speaker 1: the show, I got a morning hacked. If you're looking

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Speaker 1: for a job, three words to use on a resume

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Speaker 1: him gone from a musicians still musician, but also nominated

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Speaker 1: the movie Liquorice Pizza nominated for Best Motion Picture at

818
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Speaker 1: the Academy Awards. Gonna check in with her. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: listening so On Air with Ryan Seacrest, make sure to

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