WEBVTT - Ep. 8 Big News 0:00:01.760 --> 0:00:07.760 Wine Down with Janne Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast. Hi, 0:00:09.480 --> 0:00:13.600 Happy wine Down Day. I missed you. I miss you too, 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:20.040 You're sick you three. Hey, Mike, we have a special 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:24.640 guest in studio with producer John and I my husband Michael. 0:00:26.400 --> 0:00:29.320 Thank you. Um So should we get to or should 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:31.000 we just like you know, make people wait a little 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:34.519 bit longer talk about our weekend. Well, I'm confused because 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:36.760 I listened to last week's and you said you had 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:40.519 a big announcement. I don't even know what's going on. Well, 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:43.920 then we're in a boy, we're in lots of trouble. 0:00:43.960 --> 0:00:47.760 Then you don't know what my announcement is bad? I 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:51.159 have an idea, but an idea. Did I land my 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:56.720 first big major role post one Tree Hill? Would be great? 0:00:57.280 --> 0:01:00.640 And I can pursue my golf dream would be great. 0:01:00.800 --> 0:01:04.640 What do you think it is? Producer Gen? While I 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:09.720 was reading the comments Monday night, and I was thinking, 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:14.679 everyone has their own idea of what it is, and 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:17.399 I've been sitting next to you for like six weeks 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:23.880 now and I have no clue. I really, I really 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:26.360 don't know. It could be acting, it could be a 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:29.600 new album. I know that you're performing at the forum 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:35.080 coming up. So I was thinking maybe new music, new album. 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:43.600 Hm oh. There were so many different There was album, 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:52.560 there was pregnancy, there was acting, there was divorce, I 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:58.280 mean everything, and it was like all of the above. Um. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:00.680 But actually I do have an EP that I'm going 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:05.240 to be releasing later this year. That's not the announcement. Yeah, 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:09.760 so I am doing that then this year. Awesome. I'm 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:13.160 still auditioning, but I've yet to land the role that 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:18.320 will come yeah, um okay, but I'm just gonna put 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:24.680 it out there. So Mike and I have decided that wait, 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:30.960 what we're calling it quits? Jenna really wants you talked 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:33.480 so highly about him, Jenn, this is actually all your fault. 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:37.880 I'm gonna blame you, thank you my fault. She wants Wednesdays, 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:39.960 I do. So we just wanted to be happy about 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:43.560 it because you know, so in the midst of all that, 0:02:43.639 --> 0:02:47.120 we decided that we are going to also have Wait 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:49.320 but we're actually not though, let's just wait. We don't 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:54.440 want to start off actually no, no, no, no, we're great. 0:02:54.480 --> 0:03:03.080 We're happy. Um we are. I'm gonna cry, like almost crying. 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:15.280 I'm yes, we're having a baby. Oh my God, when's 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:20.600 the due date? Um, it's a November November baby, I'm crying, 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:26.959 are you? I'm so happy for you guys. Are you excited? Michael. 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:30.639 It's been a tough. It's been a tough journey. I 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:35.600 mean we um, I've I've we have lost our last 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:41.560 two pregnancy, so it's been it's been really rough. And UM, 0:03:41.640 --> 0:03:44.280 so I've have we've both had a really hard time 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:48.120 with this one because you know, the last the one 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:52.200 we lost in October. Last October was um was that 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:54.760 we went to our ten ten week culture sound and 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:58.680 it was gone, just breaking, Yeah, and we had already 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:01.120 heard the heartbeat and I was it and so that 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:03.800 was just really hard. And then we did IVF and 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:07.160 it worked and then I ended up having chemical loss, 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:10.160 but just like going through like IVF again and then 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:15.680 being so like it's just it's it was just really hard. Um. 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:18.159 And I've I've actually took a bunch of videos that 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:22.359 I'm going to share, um probably I'm starting my my 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:25.640 YouTube channel, so I'm gonna share those on my youtubes. Yeah, 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:27.279 so because I just want people to know that, like 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:30.960 they're not alone. And um, but when we found out 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:32.880 we were pregnant, I mean it was a total shock. 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:35.640 But this is exactly what happened with our last pregnancy. 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:38.080 We did IVF. It worked, and then I had a 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:42.320 chemical loss, and then the next time I ovulated, I 0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:47.080 got pregnant with Jolie, and before that we so every 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:49.960 time was after an IVF cycle. So I don't know if, 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:52.200 like I wonder if it has something to do with it. 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:53.919 I don't know, Like I don't know if my body 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:57.800 just needs that extra progesterone or if it needs it. Yeah, 0:04:57.839 --> 0:05:00.400 I have I have no clue, but I mean, you know, 0:05:00.480 --> 0:05:03.520 every appointment though, I was just like and we we 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:07.480 kept passing because the the baby after Jolie we lost 0:05:07.720 --> 0:05:11.080 around like seven weeks and so I've had like three 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:14.480 miscarriages too, chemical so three miscarriage and then so five 0:05:14.560 --> 0:05:18.120 total and two chemicals. So it's just been like it's 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:22.120 been tough because we've wanted to tell people, but at 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:25.920 the same time, it's also that hard thing of being 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:30.120 like and we lost it, right, But we're so far. 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:34.760 I mean, we're past the we're past the like scary point. 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:36.800 But it's all it's all scary, that's the thing. Like, 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.360 I'm so excited, we're so excited, but at the same point, 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:43.159 it's just like it's all just in God's hands, and 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:47.240 which is just it's just such a scary process. Really, 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:49.520 it's such it's a true miracle, like we were saying, 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:52.360 like to to have a baby, it's a real it's 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:55.599 it's truly a miracle. I mean, it seems so easy 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:58.279 when you look at some people, but then other times 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:00.560 it's like it's a miracle like having to go through 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:03.000 I mean, because there's still things that could happen. But 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:05.040 I'm trying, I'm trying to think positive. It's just like 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:10.920 it's hard. Well, your experience, your past experience, is creating 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:14.080 what you feel right now. So it's but the thing 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:17.360 is is it is scary. Even when you're healthy and 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:22.560 you've had really healthy pregnancies, it's still scary. It's terrifying. 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:27.200 Well like if they're not kicking, do remember that you're 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:31.960 sitting there and it's like even felt them for And 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:36.039 so my girlfriend Lisa she Um when she was pregnant 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:38.880 with her first daughter, Raylan, she didn't feel kicks and 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:41.200 she just had that mother's intuition. She's like, I have 0:06:41.240 --> 0:06:42.800 to put the hospital and if she would have waited 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:45.359 thirty minutes her daughter would have died. So it's just 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:47.400 like things like that. It's like even on top of it. 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:50.480 So there's so many things that go along with it. 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:52.520 It's like super freaky. But at the same time we're 0:06:52.520 --> 0:07:00.520 so excited. We're very excited to bring h sibling. It 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:04.240 sounds like, you guys know what's the sexes, Well, we do, 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:07.239 but we want to be a sure so we haven't 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:10.840 had that. Um you know, I'm sixteen and a half 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:15.480 a week, so we haven't had the the gender ultrasound yet. 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:17.680 So I just want to be sure of that first. 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:19.240 Because we've had a few friends that have gotten the 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:21.320 blood work like we did, and it actually was wrong. 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:24.000 I had a friend that happened to and how is 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:26.800 the blood work wrong? I don't understand that. It's so crazy. 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:29.680 And you know what's the hardest part about that is 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:33.280 you get so excited and attached to the thigh like, oh, 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:35.920 I'm having a boy, I'm having a boy. Oh they're 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:39.320 out buying blue stuff, they're you know, the dad's thinking 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:42.320 about what sports he's going to play. And then you 0:07:42.400 --> 0:07:45.080 go back in and they say, oh God, I'm so 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:50.320 sorry you're having a girl. You're like what I always 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:53.960 knew Rocko was a boy? You did? I did? I 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:56.400 always thought I was going to have a girl, had 0:07:56.440 --> 0:08:00.760 the name picked out everything, like first name, middle name. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:04.200 I knew. That's awesome. And then they told me I 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:06.080 was having a boy and I had to have an 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:11.280 already got the name. That's not right A boy? What 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.560 do I name him? I have no idea? Like I 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:17.040 had no idea, So I just started flipping through, um 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:20.600 sane boy. The boy names are hard. Boy names are yeah, 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:23.000 like we have we have both picked out for each, 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:26.600 but we had way more trouble with the boy name. Yeah, 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:31.760 how long was the list? We already knew our girl name? 0:08:32.160 --> 0:08:34.440 We had our two. We had two girl names from 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:37.920 like the time we met. I was like, Hi, my 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:39.760 name is Jenna. We're gonna date, we're gonna get married 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:42.560 in these are my kids names, and like literally like 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:44.240 we were in the early stages and we were just 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:47.320 messing around, like writing down names. And the two girl 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:49.840 names that we wrote down, one of them was Jolie 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:52.400 Ray and the other one which we won't say in 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:57.079 case the girl we don't want to take it true, 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:01.719 Like I don't know people they know, like I'm like, hey, 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:06.120 these are the names. Yeah, but so like we know 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:08.480 what this one is and so you know, once we 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:10.800 confirm that it's a girl or what or a boy 0:09:10.920 --> 0:09:12.520 or whatever it may be, then that would be a 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:15.280 girl name. And with a boy, if it's a boy, 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:20.880 then we'll just be like, well, how are you how 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:23.760 are you feel? Like, are you excited about the pregnancy? 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:27.120 How are you feeling? I'm super excited because we've tried 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:29.679 really hard and it's been a long road for us 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:32.800 to you know, get this second child that we both 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:37.800 so you know, eagerly wanted. Um. I just think it's 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:41.840 we have a greater appreciation for the miracle of having 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:43.760 a baby because of what we've been through and what 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:47.120 you've been through with miscarriages. And I think anyone that's 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:49.600 been through that definitely can relate. You know, there are 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:52.280 some fortunate couples out there that bang, bang, they have 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:56.000 their kids, no issues, and that's amazing. UM. I think 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:58.600 because of the road that we've had trying to get pregnant, 0:09:58.640 --> 0:10:01.240 not only with Jolie, but the second child, you know, 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:05.960 is why Janna is so kind of by the book 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:08.680 when it comes to you know, because there's pregnant women 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:11.480 that might have a drink or so mody sushi or 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:14.720 Deli meat and stuff like that. And because we've experienced 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:17.680 that loss more than we really wanted to. It's like 0:10:18.000 --> 0:10:20.200 you do excuse me, you don't want to go back 0:10:20.240 --> 0:10:23.079 and say, and your mind's gonna start playing tricks that 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:24.959 if you do live, oh, maybe I shouldn't have that 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:27.400 glass of wine, or maybe I shouldn't have done this, 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:30.400 and then you have that reason that they could eat 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:33.040 at you forever. And so Jane has been great, super 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:35.560 strong with as much as she loves wine, right, I 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:40.679 mean she just stops cold turkey for you know, wonder woman. 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:42.760 But I mean it was also because I was this 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:47.439 was way harder than the first pregnancy. I was so sick. 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:50.760 Oh yeah, I mean I was, like I thought I 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:52.679 was sick with Jolie. But go ahead of what is 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:55.760 saying it was bad. It was bad. We thought Jolie 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:59.760 was bad. She was literally, no exaggerating, like bedridden for 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:03.560 the for six weeks, yeah, I mean bedridden. And Julie 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:06.920 forced me like you know, mama, I'm like no, baby, 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:09.680 Like yeah, mom is in the room, like we can't 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:12.120 bother her, and like so Julie. We know she's in there, 0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:14.920 but you know she can't get to her. So she 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:17.000 got used to his good bonding time for Julie and I. 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:19.080 That's you know what I mean. And by the end 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:21.120 of it, that was it's true that you guys had 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:23.400 some great bonding time because you know, Mike's gone at 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:25.240 work all the time, and now that since I don't 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:28.319 have a a steady job, I'm with Jolie at home 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:30.920 and so you know, I'm she's my ride or die 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:33.240 right now. And like it's just but he was really 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:36.199 able to, like, you know, she'd come in the room 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:38.320 and say no, no no, mamma, love you, and he put 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:41.080 her to bed. So they started this like awesome routine together. 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:44.079 And I cried the first mom's coming back and messing 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:49.920 it up, but like I definitely, um, I definitely cried, 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:52.480 you know about it because I felt like I wasn't 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:55.280 doing a good job. I felt like I was being 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:57.840 a bad mom and I wasn't able, but I mean, 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:00.640 truly I could not keep anything down. So it was 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:03.560 it was just, it was definitely tough and I felt 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:07.800 like but Mike, I will say, was way more hands 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:11.120 on this pregnancy and was just so um and I 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:13.040 think just because of kind of where we're at in 0:12:13.040 --> 0:12:15.880 our relationship and where he's at personally just in a 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:19.360 different headspace and who he is now is he was 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:21.520 just so much more present with me, and I didn't 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:26.080 feel guilty, like laying in bed, I felt like he 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:28.120 wasn't gonna like hold it against he was just he 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:29.880 just was there for me, and it felt so nice 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:32.520 to be supported. So thank you for doing that when 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:38.560 I really really truly needed you. I had been prescribed 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:43.040 dic legius, doxillamine succinate and paradoxine hydrochloride delayed released tablets 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:44.760 when I was pregnant with Jolie, but this time we 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:49.880 talked about bone Jesta, dexillamine succinate and paradoxine hydrochloride extended 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:52.360 released tablets, a new f d A approoved treatment for 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.360 morning sickness, designed to be fast acting and long lasting 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:58.720 when diet and lifestyle changes don't work. Because this new 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:01.520 product is an exten did release formulation of the same 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:04.240 ingredients and diplegias, I only need to take one pill 0:13:04.280 --> 0:13:07.400 at bedtime only if I am still having symptoms. 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I think there's like moments where she says, like, 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:03.200 you know, baby, and we're big. You want a brother, 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:08.000 She's like, or a sister and she's like yeah, But 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:11.320 I don't think she like really knows, Like I think, 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:14.600 you know, I'm not really sure, but what do you think? Then? 0:15:14.880 --> 0:15:17.040 I think she'll embrace it because we've had friends with 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:19.040 babies and she's always kind of like wanting to hold 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:21.560 the baby, and we have little babies for her, this 0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:26.560 realistic one that so terrifying. We actually it's really sad 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:30.480 I got this realistic looking baby because the last last 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:33.000 October she's like baby and my mommy, and I wanted 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:36.360 to get her like a real like a baby that 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:39.400 looks real. And it came like two days after I 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:41.840 found out I miscarried, and I was like I put 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:44.080 this in the closet, um, and then I was like, oh, 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:47.160 I remember that the real life baby look alike was 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:50.480 in the closet. So we took it out and she's 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:56.360 like baby. So but Mike came home, it was like Jesus, yeah, 0:15:56.440 --> 0:16:00.560 I know. Even then Nanny was like, um, real baby, 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:04.440 but no, it was it was a fake baby. But um. 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:07.520 The hardest thing is going to be, especially with Janna 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:12.240 with the new baby, is that attachment that Julie has 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:15.120 with her, because anytime like Janna will hold like our 0:16:15.200 --> 0:16:18.520 friends babies or something like that, she's like Mama, like 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:21.360 let's go basically put that thing down. I'm yours, like 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:23.520 pick me up. Yeah. Our friends actually and Chad have 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:27.320 a eight month old baby boy and I'm always holding him, 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:30.000 and the second Jolie sees me, she just starts screaming 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:31.640 and wants me to then pick her up and put 0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:37.320 baby down. She's like down, down, down. Uh. So you 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:41.640 will have to set her up as your helper, yes, exactly, 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:44.120 and she give her a role so she feels like 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:46.440 she's part of it. And I've already started to like 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:49.600 kind of read into things about like you the second child, 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:51.480 and you know, things to do, like you know when 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:54.280 we do have the baby, like, um, that we shouldn't 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:57.840 be the ones holding our new baby when Julie first 0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:01.080 sees us, so um, like someone else should be holding 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:03.480 the baby. Um and then kind of introduced. And then 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:07.200 also the baby gives Joli a gift. So just things 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:11.040 like that to kind of like maker feel like she's 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:16.000 not being her places and being taken um. But I 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:19.080 mean there were definitely things that helps, you know, with 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:23.680 this pregnancy. I UM, I had started taking diclegias with 0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:25.600 my last pregnancy and it worked with then I started 0:17:25.600 --> 0:17:28.680 taking bone jesta um and it really really really helps 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:32.800 the morning sickness. So it doesn't do so it's it's 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:38.200 a vitamin B and then um, oh there's another technical 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:41.119 term that you know I'll get into, but it's um, 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:47.119 it's basically just helps you helps the nausea. UM so UM, 0:17:48.040 --> 0:17:49.840 you know, I just it's it's just great because I 0:17:49.920 --> 0:17:52.920 feel like once I started like taking it and the 0:17:52.960 --> 0:17:56.840 bone Jessa, it was just it made me just be 0:17:56.960 --> 0:17:59.200 able to kind of go back to my daily activities 0:17:59.240 --> 0:18:01.359 and I was still but I was able to function, 0:18:01.520 --> 0:18:05.160 which was like huge, and that made me like game changer. 0:18:05.280 --> 0:18:07.560 And then, UM, I also want to give it a 0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:10.080 shout out just to say thank you too for helping me. 0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:13.560 But the reason I truly think I got pregnant was 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:15.560 because I was wearing the Ava bracelet and I had 0:18:15.600 --> 0:18:19.080 gotten it from like my branding manager, um, and I 0:18:19.119 --> 0:18:21.000 was like, yeah, I'll try it. I never knew I 0:18:21.080 --> 0:18:23.960 ovulated like I always thought I ovulated in the thirteen 0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:27.160 fourteen day and I so I was wearing this bracelet 0:18:27.280 --> 0:18:29.440 and it um it told me that I ovulated in 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:32.080 the sixteen seventeen and boom, the next month we got pregnant. 0:18:32.320 --> 0:18:35.200 But I would have never known. You would have never Yeah, 0:18:35.240 --> 0:18:36.480 I know. So I just wanted to give a shout 0:18:36.480 --> 0:18:38.000 out to them too and just say thank you because 0:18:38.359 --> 0:18:39.840 you know, a lot of times when we do these 0:18:39.920 --> 0:18:41.919 ads and stuff on Instagram, you never really know if 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:44.200 like if it really really works. But I'm like no, 0:18:44.280 --> 0:18:46.600 I mean a month later it worked, So it was 0:18:47.320 --> 0:18:49.760 It's crucial when you're trying to get pregnant to know 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:51.320 it is. I mean, like when you're peeing on like 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:53.200 CVS sticks and I'm like, you know, so it's like 0:18:53.320 --> 0:18:57.720 invest in something that's good and it's pregnant helped me really, 0:18:57.880 --> 0:18:59.920 not by the Ava bracelet, but I used a digit 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:03.399 oh digitally and those are better and I am a 0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:06.080 late ovulator. Had no idea. I don't know if like 0:19:06.119 --> 0:19:08.359 my cycle just got like sorry, honey, I don't know 0:19:08.359 --> 0:19:10.240 if my cycle just got like messed up or not. 0:19:10.400 --> 0:19:14.000 But um, but anyways, but we're really excited. I'm just trying. 0:19:14.040 --> 0:19:16.159 We're trying to stay positive. And again, I feel like 0:19:16.520 --> 0:19:18.000 by the way, I can't believe you didn't know, Like 0:19:18.119 --> 0:19:20.920 I was walking in slurpees, Like what normal person drinks 0:19:20.920 --> 0:19:25.800 from Detroit. That's true. I used to drink every day 0:19:25.800 --> 0:19:29.679 and I'm from Detroit. To people, it was like, well 0:19:29.760 --> 0:19:32.720 she's a slurpy girl. Seven eleven. I mean, I've made 0:19:32.840 --> 0:19:38.399 my you know, the guy at seven eleve. Now, literally 0:19:38.440 --> 0:19:40.080 I walked in. I know, it's like a buck eighty five. 0:19:41.040 --> 0:19:43.119 She wants, right, it's like a two dollars in cash. 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:45.639 So I walked in a Cracker slurpy. There's the other 0:19:45.760 --> 0:19:48.240 day there's literally a line of like eight people. For 0:19:48.359 --> 0:19:50.359 whatever reason, everyone want to go to seven eleven at 0:19:50.400 --> 0:19:52.680 that time. He just kind of waved me for in 0:19:52.760 --> 0:19:54.639 front of them, grabbed my two dollars and I always 0:19:54.680 --> 0:19:56.399 just leave the change with him, and I walked out 0:19:56.440 --> 0:19:59.920 the door. I'm a regular at seven eleven. OK. Great. 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:02.880 For some reason, the coke like, because I can't drink water. 0:20:03.160 --> 0:20:05.480 For some reason, water makes me puke, So like I 0:20:05.560 --> 0:20:08.200 started drinking like Perry, which I found out because that 0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:10.399 was that was why I was getting sick, was because 0:20:10.480 --> 0:20:12.680 I couldn't drink water, so I'd get super de hydrated. 0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:15.879 So I would have this amazing lady come over and um, 0:20:16.200 --> 0:20:19.520 they would give me an ivy which would hydrate me. 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:22.359 But those only thing I could keep down was a 0:20:22.400 --> 0:20:25.520 freaking coke slurpy. For some reason, the coke like settled 0:20:25.600 --> 0:20:29.320 my stomach. But yeah, everyone's like, I mean, a slurpy 0:20:29.440 --> 0:20:30.959 to me was like a dead give away, and then 0:20:30.960 --> 0:20:33.720 people on my Instagram were like, you're not posting about wine, 0:20:33.800 --> 0:20:37.720 and I'm like, I know, I know. I was like, 0:20:38.359 --> 0:20:40.399 I know because it makes me sick to my stomach. 0:20:40.480 --> 0:20:43.119 But I tell you what, December one, I'm having a 0:20:43.200 --> 0:20:46.280 big old glass. I'm bringing it over, bringing over to 0:20:46.320 --> 0:20:49.840 my hospital, but I'm bringing over the sugar. And this 0:20:50.000 --> 0:20:52.240 is We're done. After this one. You're gonna go snip snap, 0:20:52.280 --> 0:20:57.040 snip snap? Are you I'm making him snip snap. We 0:20:57.119 --> 0:21:00.600 haven't really officially talked about right now, so I guess 0:21:00.760 --> 0:21:03.600 now a better place than on her podcast to talking 0:21:03.640 --> 0:21:08.080 about our intimate life behind the scene. So I guess 0:21:08.119 --> 0:21:11.040 I'm getting snapped said Okay, I mean unless you're like 0:21:11.080 --> 0:21:16.040 planning on having kids with somebody else. No, I just 0:21:16.359 --> 0:21:19.120 you know, we haven't really really talked about it. Yeah. 0:21:19.280 --> 0:21:22.560 Oh it's reversible. That's exactly what I say. Like, I'm like, 0:21:22.720 --> 0:21:24.240 that seems like, well, why don't you eat your tubes, tad. 0:21:24.280 --> 0:21:27.760 I'm like, because that's like that's done, that's like done, done, done. 0:21:27.880 --> 0:21:29.280 So if you want to have kids with somebody else, 0:21:30.119 --> 0:21:36.399 maybe double edged. I'm kidding. I'm just it's just so 0:21:36.720 --> 0:21:39.120 final for the girl, like I just knowing that it's 0:21:39.160 --> 0:21:41.879 like reversible for you. I personally, you know, I'm going 0:21:41.920 --> 0:21:45.200 to be thirty five this year, and I would like 0:21:45.400 --> 0:21:48.200 to be done with kids. Um. You know, we've always 0:21:48.359 --> 0:21:50.919 talked about adopting. That's something that Mike and I have always, 0:21:51.200 --> 0:21:53.800 especially BEAUTI when we first met, I was trying to 0:21:53.840 --> 0:21:55.639 adopt a girl and then it end up not working. 0:21:55.800 --> 0:21:58.600 But I mean, you know, we've always talked about that 0:21:58.760 --> 0:22:01.040 in the future. I did bring it up the other 0:22:01.119 --> 0:22:02.879 day though, I said, should we just adopt a baby? 0:22:04.160 --> 0:22:05.800 We're having a baby, and She's like, should we just 0:22:05.840 --> 0:22:10.879 put in the paperwork now? Like, well, because I figured, 0:22:10.920 --> 0:22:12.080 just like get you know what I mean, like just 0:22:12.359 --> 0:22:14.879 like to like two babies or you know, what are 0:22:14.920 --> 0:22:21.040