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Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janne Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast. Hi,

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Speaker 1: Happy wine Down Day. I missed you. I miss you too,

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Speaker 1: You're sick you three. Hey, Mike, we have a special

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Speaker 1: guest in studio with producer John and I my husband Michael.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Um So should we get to or should

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Speaker 1: we just like you know, make people wait a little

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Speaker 1: bit longer talk about our weekend. Well, I'm confused because

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Speaker 1: I listened to last week's and you said you had

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Speaker 1: a big announcement. I don't even know what's going on. Well,

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Speaker 1: then we're in a boy, we're in lots of trouble.

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Speaker 1: Then you don't know what my announcement is bad? I

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Speaker 1: have an idea, but an idea. Did I land my

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Speaker 1: first big major role post one Tree Hill? Would be great?

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Speaker 1: And I can pursue my golf dream would be great.

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Speaker 1: What do you think it is? Producer Gen? While I

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Speaker 1: was reading the comments Monday night, and I was thinking,

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Speaker 1: everyone has their own idea of what it is, and

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Speaker 1: I've been sitting next to you for like six weeks

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Speaker 1: now and I have no clue. I really, I really

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Speaker 1: don't know. It could be acting, it could be a

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Speaker 1: new album. I know that you're performing at the forum

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Speaker 1: coming up. So I was thinking maybe new music, new album.

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Speaker 1: Hm oh. There were so many different There was album,

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Speaker 1: there was pregnancy, there was acting, there was divorce, I

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Speaker 1: mean everything, and it was like all of the above. Um.

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Speaker 1: But actually I do have an EP that I'm going

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Speaker 1: to be releasing later this year. That's not the announcement. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I am doing that then this year. Awesome. I'm

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Speaker 1: still auditioning, but I've yet to land the role that

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Speaker 1: will come yeah, um okay, but I'm just gonna put

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Speaker 1: it out there. So Mike and I have decided that wait,

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Speaker 1: what we're calling it quits? Jenna really wants you talked

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Speaker 1: so highly about him, Jenn, this is actually all your fault.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna blame you, thank you my fault. She wants Wednesdays,

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Speaker 1: I do. So we just wanted to be happy about

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Speaker 1: it because you know, so in the midst of all that,

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Speaker 1: we decided that we are going to also have Wait

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Speaker 1: but we're actually not though, let's just wait. We don't

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Speaker 1: want to start off actually no, no, no, no, we're great.

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Speaker 1: We're happy. Um we are. I'm gonna cry, like almost crying.

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Speaker 1: I'm yes, we're having a baby. Oh my God, when's

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Speaker 1: the due date? Um, it's a November November baby, I'm crying,

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Speaker 1: are you? I'm so happy for you guys. Are you excited? Michael.

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Speaker 1: It's been a tough. It's been a tough journey. I

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Speaker 1: mean we um, I've I've we have lost our last

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Speaker 1: so I've have we've both had a really hard time

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Speaker 1: we lost in October. Last October was um was that

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Speaker 1: we went to our ten ten week culture sound and

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Speaker 1: it was gone, just breaking, Yeah, and we had already

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Speaker 1: was just really hard. And then we did IVF and

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Speaker 1: it worked and then I ended up having chemical loss,

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Speaker 1: And I've I've actually took a bunch of videos that

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Speaker 1: YouTube channel, so I'm gonna share those on my youtubes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so because I just want people to know that, like

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Speaker 1: But this is exactly what happened with our last pregnancy.

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Speaker 1: We did IVF. It worked, and then I had a

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Speaker 1: chemical loss, and then the next time I ovulated, I

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Speaker 1: like I wonder if it has something to do with it.

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Speaker 1: it's such it's a true miracle, like we were saying,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying, I'm trying to think positive. It's just like

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Speaker 1: it's hard. Well, your experience, your past experience, is creating

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Speaker 1: what you feel right now. So it's but the thing

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Speaker 1: is is it is scary. Even when you're healthy and

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Speaker 1: Well like if they're not kicking, do remember that you're

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Speaker 1: she just had that mother's intuition. She's like, I have

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Speaker 1: So there's so many things that go along with it.

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Speaker 1: It's like super freaky. But at the same time we're

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Speaker 1: sounds like, you guys know what's the sexes, Well, we do,

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Speaker 1: sorry you're having a girl. You're like what I always

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Speaker 1: have to learn that they have to work for it.

423
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 1: They have to. But like even just like a little

424
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 1: teenage trophy gives them an edge. We did not get

425
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:46,639
Speaker 1: trophies unless we won. But I feel like in this

426
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 1: day and age, a lot of people don't think they're

427
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,360
Speaker 1: good enough, so that would maybe help with the good

428
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 1: enough thing. Now, yes, you're enabling feeling step here. No,

429
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:00,679
Speaker 1: I mean I get what you guys are saying at

430
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 1: the same time, like she's two and a half, Like

431
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 1: maybe it can stop at like six, but we used

432
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: to get a sticker, not even you know, what should

433
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 1: be good enough is our appreciation and our reaction to

434
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 1: it and our love and like excitement about what she

435
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 1: just did. Like that should be enough as opposed to

436
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 1: like giving them something to validate it. Right, did you

437
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,640
Speaker 1: try your hardest? Did you work your hardest? She's two

438
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: and a half, she has no idea and she ran

439
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: around in a circle time, but she did. And the

440
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 1: way you react, like what Mike sane is you did

441
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 1: such a good job. We're so proud of you, and

442
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 1: that should validate her enough, right, I mean, yeah, I

443
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 1: get that, but I just I've always been the person

444
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 1: that I I want everybody to win. I challenge that,

445
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry all of my friends in Nashville just

446
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: called a major BS to that, because when it comes

447
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 1: to me playing games, I want to win and I

448
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: want to like especially like if you're on my UKRO team,

449
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: Like I'm a big Like I grew up playing cards

450
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 1: card did you play because you're from like yours is

451
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 1: my game and I'm taking my girlfriend? Yeah, not DT

452
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 1: you know, I hate it. I still called pine up um.

453
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: But like I've I taught every single one of my

454
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,879
Speaker 1: girlfriends in Nashville how to play, and I mean, and

455
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 1: they're still scared of me because I'm But it's just

456
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,239
Speaker 1: I'm very competitive. So when it comes to me, yes,

457
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: I'd like to win, but at the same time, like,

458
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 1: I still want to be encouraging to my child because

459
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 1: I don't want her to feel disappointed. Well, I agree

460
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,880
Speaker 1: with that. You have to encourage her to be good

461
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 1: and better and do her best. But it doesn't always

462
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:48,479
Speaker 1: have to include a trophy. No. Can you imagine if

463
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 1: they handed out trophies to every football player. No, and

464
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 1: that's no. If she if she starts playing like soccer

465
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: and she's like five, she gets a trophy, I'm gonna

466
00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: take and throwing the carbon Michael absolutely and be like, hey,

467
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: you guys didn't win. You're gonna throw it in the trash.

468
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: I'll do something with it. That's so mean. Come on,

469
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 1: that's mean, like you guys, you guys. Then she's gonna

470
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: be like, oh, because so Dad's not happy with me,

471
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: because I know my reaction won't be disappointment in the

472
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 1: trash and so you didn't win. Sit in the corner,

473
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 1: you didn't win. Oh, I'm not saying that. I'm just yeah,

474
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 1: I'm exaggerating a little bit to the I don't know

475
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 1: what I'll do, but I know I'll try to articulate

476
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: and explain that to them that like, hey, we want

477
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 1: like this isn't something that we're gonna do in this

478
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: household because that's not how our generation was raised. And

479
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: I think there's certain things that why these generations from

480
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: now on are going to be soft in that aspect,

481
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: because everyone has these expectations that they deserve something that

482
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,959
Speaker 1: they didn't learn. And so that's where the whole that's

483
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: what I'm nervous about, is raising kids now with a boy,

484
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 1: girl or whatever, to have those same values but also

485
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: be more mindful and caring about feelings because I don't

486
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:03,639
Speaker 1: think you know, our parents and parents before them. You know,

487
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: every set of parents does the best that they can.

488
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 1: We're doing the best that we can. So our parents

489
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: did the best that they can. But times change. So

490
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 1: how can we take the positive values that we learned

491
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:17,160
Speaker 1: from our parents and parents before them, but also kind

492
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 1: of working in a way where it's still you know,

493
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 1: understanding of what kids need now to grow, you know,

494
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 1: mentally and emotionally and stuff. So it's gonna be tough, yes,

495
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,400
Speaker 1: But I think it's gonna be tougher is that we're

496
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: going to be like man on man coverage now. And

497
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: I have a feeling that one of us might get

498
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 1: each both both people will get frustrated because it's like,

499
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: what if it's like two on or three on one,

500
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 1: you know, and the two kids getting up against Mike.

501
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: It's just like where I feel like I'm like getting

502
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: no help or or him, like if you know, if

503
00:27:58,040 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: I'm gone on a movie set or whatever, and he's

504
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 1: like taking care of both kids. It's just like or

505
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: the baby's screaming, Like you get so frustrated. When Julie

506
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: is screaming in the back seat of the car, it's

507
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: like just the more he talks to her when she

508
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: she screams louder, It's like you do that too. We

509
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:17,360
Speaker 1: both have our more though, just everyone has their days. Yeah,

510
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: it happens when both kids are screaming, It's going to

511
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 1: happen that I know. It gives me anxiety because I

512
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: feel like it's I feel like you're gonna You're gonna

513
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: be you need to like, because I'm finding my like

514
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 1: with her scream because Jolie scream is getting real like

515
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: intense now, and the more we say Julie, stop screaming,

516
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 1: she pitches it higher. So my fear is that we're

517
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 1: gonna have both kids screaming. Mike's going to be like

518
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: by shut up, like like getting so upset that my

519
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: fuse is going to go, and then it's just gonna

520
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 1: be like I just I foresee that happening. It's a

521
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: very unfair picture that's been painted the visual. What I

522
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 1: just had was because I've also had moments where you're frustrated,

523
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: you can't handle it, and I go to only when

524
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: she's crying screaming, and I talked to herself and say, hey, honey,

525
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: come here and do daddy, and she's done that. I

526
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: think we don't have Don't you rap at that? Don't

527
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: you laugh at that? I'm sorry that was when you're

528
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: in you know, in bed for six eight weeks bed.

529
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: Get me a slpy um. We have a psyche here today,

530
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 1: and I'm pumped, but I'm also scared because the last

531
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: time I talked to a psychic, I was actually pregnant

532
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: and she said the pregnancy was going to be fine.

533
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 1: Well that was a bad psychic. Yeah, and now we

534
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: have a really really good psychic. Have you seen his

535
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: stuff before? Yeah? I have, and I'm super excited. I

536
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 1: have all kinds of questions and I want to know

537
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: what's going on in your life? In my life? Is

538
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 1: Mike staying for the psychic dose? My cup? Questions your life?

539
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: Are you going to be golfing? Talked to a psychic?

540
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: To my psychic told me that I should leave my husband. Well,

541
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: that's really wrong. Let's hope that isn't on the docket

542
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: today for her. And because I'm actually very skeptical stuff

543
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,239
Speaker 1: and I always come home and I'm like, I got

544
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 1: a reading state. And this guy he knew all this stuff.

545
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: And I even told him like my fake name, and

546
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: he's just like h And I'm like, how would he

547
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 1: know that? Right? Yeah, I don't. I don't bite hard

548
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 1: on that this kind of stuff. So I'll be interested

549
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: to see at live and see what he has to say,

550
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: because needs to get the first righting them, because I

551
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 1: feel like, because you are the biggest skeptic, Oh for sure, yeah,

552
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 1: you get the first question. Yeah, I have to tell you.

553
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: I went to see a psychic about seventeen or eighteen

554
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: years ago in Detroit and she told me I had

555
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: just gotten engaged and so know, it was about eighteen

556
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: years ago, and she said, you are going to have

557
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 1: two rings and it was like, absolutely not. I don't

558
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about. You are the worst psychic

559
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: on the planet. And then she said, you're going to

560
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 1: move west and then you're to move what's again, who

561
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: are you going to Hawaii? That's what I thought, take

562
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: me with you. I moved. I ended up moving to

563
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: Phoenix and then I moved here. Interesting, and I'm not

564
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 1: wearing my first ring, not that I'm planning and getting

565
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: married again, but well I'm saying, you never know. Okay,

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Speaker 1: already has a look of just like skepticism across his face.

587
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: He came in, they had to go to the bathroom,

588
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: so he's doing his process and now he's gonna come

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00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: back in and we're gonna give the first question sometimes

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Speaker 1: like the biggest. There's a new TV series, Seatbelts Psychic

591
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Speaker 1: with Psychic Thomas Sean, and it's going to be on Lifetime.

592
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Speaker 1: I love Lifetime. I do too. I want Lifetime. You

593
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Speaker 1: have to hire me again, please please store my work.

594
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 1: It premieres on Wednesday, July eleven at ten nine central Um.

595
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: I am so I'm obsessed with psychics. You know. I

596
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: have all kinds of tarot cards and guide cards and

597
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: weirdo kind of crystals and candles and everything at my house.

598
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: I love you. I just used my intuition that I

599
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 1: have no idea how to really read tarot cards, but

600
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: I just used my intuition. Yeah. Julie tried to read

601
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: my tarot cards the other day and she was like,

602
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: just tarot cards. I'll bring my cards over, Julie. This

603
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: is just what if you shuffled them differently? Who would

604
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: have read something that was the way it was meant

605
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 1: to be shuffled. And then she brought our crystal and

606
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going home. I put crystals all

607
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: over people's homes. Hey, did you ever put it in

608
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 1: your who? Yeah? No, I got I've got an Amazon

609
00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: and I was going to order one, and then I

610
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 1: was like, what am I doing? Yeah, aport mission. I

611
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: was like, I think I'll keep the coastals out of

612
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: the body up there, Lola, only I want Lola. I

613
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 1: just got my just got my package. We're not doing

614
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,879
Speaker 1: me add this time. But shoot, oh, I just felt

615
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 1: a wave come on in the studio psychic wave. So,

616
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 1: Hi Thomas. Hello, I'm Jannah. This is producer jam This

617
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: is my husband Michael um. So, I don't know how

618
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 1: how how you work, like if you just like kind

619
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: of feel what do you like? What do you just

620
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 1: feel the room? Do you feel intuition? What is like?

621
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 1: What's your first Well, I'm a psychic method. I'm a

622
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: psychic in a medium, So I communicate with people that

623
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 1: have passed away, and then you know, I also get

624
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:51,280
Speaker 1: feelings about things. Sense is about things, um just around people.

625
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: You know. I might just get like a message for

626
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 1: someone and somebody will say, yeah, I'm going through that,

627
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 1: or yeah I'm I'm dealing with that, And sometimes I

628
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: don't even know necessarily like who's telling him me if

629
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 1: that's something that I'll hear really strongly. So, is there

630
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: any way that you could start with my husband because

631
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: he's he's never had a reading before and he's like

632
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: the biggest skeptic ever. Because I've had a couple of

633
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 1: readings and I'll go home and I'll tell him and

634
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: he'll be like that's such bs and blah blah blah,

635
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 1: So yes, yes, don't. I'll just I'll just kind of

636
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: roll my eyes a little bit, because yeah, I am

637
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 1: a skeptic and I own that. And you know, people

638
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: can believe and believe what they want. That's fine. I'm

639
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: not going to discriminate, but he's about to lay them

640
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 1: Mike down, might be walking out of your tears or yeah.

641
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: I mean, we can start with what comes through it.

642
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: It depends who what will come through for each person.

643
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 1: But if you you know, if you if you're open

644
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: to that, that's fine. Um I UM, so, I mean,

645
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: I just want to say first off that UM, I'm

646
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 1: I'm hearing the name Sylvia. So I don't know who

647
00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: that connects with, UM, but I feel like it's a

648
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,439
Speaker 1: relative that's passed that would be coming through. I don't

649
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: know if it's really somebody. I can't tell if it's

650
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: somebody that you were really close to or not. But

651
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: it does feel recent, so recent to me, like as

652
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: in the last few years. So does that connect with somebody?

653
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: My grandma Sylvia, her name is Sylvia, and so you

654
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 1: and you you she passed in the last five years, Okay, UM,

655
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: and she's talking about UM. She's definitely talking about also

656
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 1: a new UM. There's a baby that she's talking about

657
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 1: that she's I felt like, I don't know if this

658
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 1: is connected to you or somebody else, but I like

659
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: it would be somebody that she would be bringing up. So, um,

660
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: I keep hearing this, so I feel, um, she raised

661
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:50,479
Speaker 1: my sisters, Okay, And who's the letter? Who's the letter?

662
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: H Is there somebody that she's referencing with the letter?

663
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 1: Was she close to her at all? Yes? Okay. But

664
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 1: she's also talking about that she missed a baby, So

665
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 1: I don't know if there's a baby that came like

666
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: after she passed um, but I feel like she keeps

667
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,760
Speaker 1: talking about this, so I feel And she's also talking

668
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:13,359
Speaker 1: about um all the boys, so I don't know if

669
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,359
Speaker 1: she had like a group of boys at one point.

670
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: Is this on your dad's side? Yeah? Is this on

671
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: your dad's side? Okay? So um. You know. The other

672
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 1: thing I just will tell you too is when I

673
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 1: connected with you, I felt like you have a very

674
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: open energy. You know, I feel like your energy is UM.

675
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 1: I just can feel that you're a very energetically open

676
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: um and I feel like you have UM abilities yourself.

677
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: So I don't know if you if you've ever tapped

678
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 1: into that. I mean, I think that we're all intuitive,

679
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 1: but I just was getting the message that you you

680
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:51,280
Speaker 1: do have abilities yourself. Um, and you could probably tune

681
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: into them more if you wanted to, Like I feel

682
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: you could. You could connect more with them if you did,

683
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: if you wanted to, if you were open to it,

684
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: you could connect more to them. UM. And I mean,

685
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 1: have you ever felt that that you are well? Yeah,

686
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 1: because I just feel like you. Um. Now, your grandmother

687
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,800
Speaker 1: that passed, she's also having me reference December, so this

688
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: would be either a birthday connected to her when she passed, um,

689
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: but she's having me referenced December. Do you understand that connection.

690
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 1: It's definitely coming from her. So it would be like

691
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: somebody she would bring up that's a birthday, or could

692
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 1: be like when she died or I'm seeing December though. Okay,

693
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: Well she showed me December, so there must be there's

694
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,479
Speaker 1: some significant date in that month, um, that she would

695
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: be bringing up that's connected to her. It wouldn't be

696
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,759
Speaker 1: like the other side of your family. UM. It would

697
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: be somebody that she and who's alan uncle? Okay? Is

698
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 1: that connected to her too? Okay? Um? For some reason

699
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:52,280
Speaker 1: she's talking about Like again, sometimes they will give advice

700
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 1: or things like that. So, Um, what I'm hearing about

701
00:38:56,080 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 1: is is um, Um, you know what I'm hearing about

702
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 1: is just that, um, there is How do I want

703
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 1: to say this to you? But I don't know if

704
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 1: there's like a separation with the side of the family

705
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: or you're you're not as close to that side right

706
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:16,760
Speaker 1: now or something. Um, but I feel, um, it's interesting

707
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 1: because your your grandmother keeps talking about two granddaughters that

708
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,479
Speaker 1: she was really close to. So I don't know, maybe

709
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,320
Speaker 1: you said so, you said there was a sister of

710
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 1: yours that she was really close to. Oh, two sisters, Okay,

711
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,479
Speaker 1: so yeah, because it kind of feels like they feel

712
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: separate from you guys. So that makes sense to me.

713
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 1: If you're telling me that she kind of helps she

714
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 1: helped with them a lot more than yeah, so that

715
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: makes sense, and she kind of she keeps watching over them.

716
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: I feel, Um, who's the r that I'm seeing that's

717
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: around you? Is that one of your kids? Okay? Um,

718
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: And she's telling me that she she got to know

719
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 1: that person or she met that person. Okay. Um. The

720
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,320
Speaker 1: other thing I'm hearing about is um, yeah, so we

721
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:01,359
Speaker 1: can you know, we can see who there's other people

722
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,359
Speaker 1: coming through. So um, if if you're opening hearing from

723
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 1: other people too. So I did want to start more.

724
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: I was getting some more psychic stuff for for um,

725
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, what's your first name again? Mike? Okay, I

726
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 1: was getting more some more psychic stuff from Mike. UM.

727
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 1: So let's just kind of connect there. But UM, I

728
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: did want to talk about. First off, well, there's two

729
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 1: things coming through. First off, when I sat in the room, UM, well,

730
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 1: hold on one okay, perfect, So, UM, so this is

731
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: coming up for you, UM, A couple of things. First

732
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 1: off is UM, well, when when I came into the room,

733
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: and you know, if I if I hug people or

734
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:46,439
Speaker 1: shake their hands or if I'm in their proximity, I'll

735
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 1: start to hear things about them. So uh. One of

736
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 1: the things I was hearing is, UM, I feel like

737
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: there's a lot of new beginnings around you this year.

738
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: So I I don't know if there's like new projects

739
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: you're starting or it feels like new things with your career,

740
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,319
Speaker 1: but I do feel like there's like new I feel

741
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:07,720
Speaker 1: a lot of new energy around you. UM. Spirits showing

742
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 1: me my sign for I actually see UM, I actually

743
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 1: see UM. The the image that I'm being shown is

744
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 1: like an anchor, UM that's kind of holding you back.

745
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: And now it feels like kind of breaks. So I

746
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 1: didn't know if you're you know, if there is like

747
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: new things you're trying to work on or new beginnings

748
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: for you. But I felt like this was a lot

749
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 1: with like maybe with your with business stuff, for professional stuff.

750
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 1: But they're even telling me that it might be more

751
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:39,319
Speaker 1: holistically so it could carry over into relationships, friendships, other things.

752
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: Like it kind of feels like when you look back

753
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 1: on your life, they're saying that this year it's going

754
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: to be a really, um, a really important year for you.

755
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 1: It's gonna you know, when you look back on your life,

756
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 1: this is a year that's going to be a big

757
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 1: there's a big shift for you. UM. And I do

758
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 1: feel like you're going to become more open and more

759
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:58,799
Speaker 1: aware in your life. So I just I just feel

760
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 1: that that there's a lot of shifts for you that

761
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 1: are really positive. And UM, you know, they're just telling me,

762
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: they're they're kind of like they're celebrating this, so they're

763
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:11,320
Speaker 1: they're telling me that, um, you know, this is something

764
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: that is going to be a role positive for you.

765
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: UM and I'm getting like entrepreneurial stuff too, so I

766
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: don't know if you've thought about going more in that direction. Um,

767
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 1: but they kind of keep bringing that that that up.

768
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,879
Speaker 1: It's interesting because now I'm hearing your name again, so um.

769
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: Usually when I hear that, um um. Usually when I

770
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: hear that, it means that there would be So are

771
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:40,799
Speaker 1: you named after somebody? Um? Okay, I don't know why.

772
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 1: It's weird because I'm hearing your name again and so

773
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: so you already said your name's Mike. So it's weird

774
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: because I'm hearing Mike Michael again. So it's like it's

775
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 1: like it has nothing to do with that. It's like,

776
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 1: and I have to reference that name again. Um. So

777
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 1: you're not named after somebody? Huh. Um Okay, well I'm

778
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: just going to keep that here because maybe that something

779
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: that will connect with somebody else. But I keep hearing

780
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: your name again, um, which makes me feel like, I

781
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: don't know it's I'm hearing that name again, so there

782
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 1: must there's another Michael that I'm supposed to reference or

783
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,399
Speaker 1: I don't know how it connects. Um. I will tell

784
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 1: you it's kind of distracting. So if it's a Michael

785
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: to him or a Mike too, Maybe is it a

786
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 1: deceased Mike. Well, since you're all sitting together, it's kind

787
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: of hard, you know what I'm saying, So I will

788
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 1: tell you like it it's a little hard to you know,

789
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: because it could be for you because you're right in

790
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 1: the proximity of that person. So, UM, you know, I'll

791
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: see if I get more information, because that's obviously like

792
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 1: it's a common name, you know, um so UM, but

793
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: I am. I feel like there's a distinct other reference

794
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: that I have to make to Michael or Mike. Could

795
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: be Michael, Michael, Mike, it's the same thing, but I

796
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: just feel like there's another there's another name that I

797
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 1: have to connect with that. Um. I'm also hearing um

798
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:56,359
Speaker 1: that And I just want to say this too. When

799
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 1: I when I felt when I came in here too,

800
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: I was all so feeling, um, there is a I

801
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: feel a grandfather that's coming through to now this person

802
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: was kind of Um it's interesting because I kind of

803
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 1: felt like this person was more connected to you. But um,

804
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: it's interesting because I do feel like they have a

805
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 1: connection to Mike here too. So it's almost like even

806
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: though I feel like they're more connected to you. Um,

807
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: they are more. I feel like they kind of guide

808
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 1: both of you. But there there's this grandfather. So sometimes

809
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 1: if people are married or things like that, you know

810
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 1: there there can be connections and stuff. Um. I'm also

811
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: getting a male energy that's coming through that pass very suddenly.

812
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: So I'm getting somebody that passed really suddenly feels very abrupt. Um.

813
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 1: It's like it feels like an abrupt thing. Um. And um,

814
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: does anybody connect also to this name James or it

815
00:44:56,640 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: could be Jim or Jimmy. Um, but um, there's a

816
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 1: version of that name. Does that make sense? Jim James? Okay? Um?

817
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 1: And so is that on your is that on your

818
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: mom's side? Okay? Um. I did want to tell you

819
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: also that I'm feeling, Um, however, this is connected. But

820
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 1: there there's somebody on your paternal side that I'm feeling, um,

821
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 1: that watches over you a lot. So did you know

822
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 1: your dad's dad? Okay, because they're they're definitely feeling that

823
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: there's somebody on your dad's side. Um, because it's on

824
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:38,399
Speaker 1: the left of you. When I'm looking at you, you're

825
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 1: right my left. So when I see so it feels

826
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: like very much like a grandfather, father figure. But there's

827
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:47,800
Speaker 1: a really strong soul energy with you in this person

828
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 1: I feel, um. And and also, um, do you understand

829
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: the name Barbara? Okay? Um, so he's talking about being

830
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 1: with Barbara. So I don't know if that's somebody that

831
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: you would know, um, that he would connect with. Does

832
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,800
Speaker 1: that make sense to you at all? Barbara your great grandmother? Okay,

833
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: so how is that connected to him? That's um? That

834
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 1: was so my grandpa Martin was married to is Mary

835
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 1: what was married to my grandma Denise, and that was

836
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: her mom and she was abused as a kid and

837
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: they had a really close relationship. Okay, So it could

838
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: be somebody that would come through too. Um. The other

839
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 1: thing I'm feeling about, by the way, are you guys collectively,

840
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: like as a couple, are you guys moving, Like are

841
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: you are you looking at houses or something? Because they're

842
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 1: just telling me this, you may want to I'm just

843
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 1: hearing this, you may want to wait or something. Um.

844
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 1: I'm just feeling like, Um, it's not like I definitely

845
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,879
Speaker 1: do see you moving, but I'm feeling like, maybe wait

846
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 1: a little bit, or there's there's something where you need

847
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: to kind of hold off a little bit, um, but

848
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 1: I'm feeling that you you are to move there, definitely

849
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 1: there show me that you you definitely will move. Um.

850
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 1: The other thing I want to say to you too

851
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 1: is um and I am feeling this um that your grandfather, Um,

852
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 1: you know, just the one that was coming through on

853
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 1: your dad's side. Um, So that is your grand okay.

854
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 1: And also I want to where is there like a

855
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 1: junior senior. There's like two people with the same name

856
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:31,879
Speaker 1: that's on my that's Michael's side. Okay, that's Michael's dad

857
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:35,839
Speaker 1: and grandpa. Okay. See. I think also it was weird

858
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: because I was getting something about you be named after somebody,

859
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 1: but maybe I'm sort of confusing it a little bit. Maybe,

860
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 1: so you're not named after somebody, but your your dad

861
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 1: and your grandfather have the same name. Okay. Um, and

862
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 1: were you were you close to your grandfather? Okay? Uh,

863
00:47:56,640 --> 00:48:01,799
Speaker 1: there's I just want to ask that. But I feel

864
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:04,319
Speaker 1: like I have two people coming through with the same name,

865
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: so I don't know it is so your your grandfather's

866
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: passed and your grandfather's My grandfather's alive, he passed. My

867
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 1: grandfather and my father have the same name. So my

868
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: dad's a junior. Okay, and then we are considering a

869
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 1: name for our soon to be next child that has

870
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 1: the same initials as both my grandfather and my father.

871
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so you're naming somebody here okay. Um I'm

872
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: feeling that. Um oh interesting, yeah, okay. So you are

873
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 1: having another child okay, yeah, and then you're going to

874
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 1: have another child they said, so yeah, I feel like

875
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: I'm feeling like there's, yeah, there's another child after that. Um,

876
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: it's not twins, right okay, yeah, no, because they're saying

877
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,440
Speaker 1: there's another child that I say, that's like one more

878
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 1: and then there's going to be another more. Um. I

879
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: do feel also though that went one second hold on

880
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 1: Uh okay, I understand, so give us the badness. Um.

881
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: I'm just feeling also that, um with you with your

882
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: grandfather that passed it, I don't feel like he passed recently, right,

883
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 1: it's it's yeah, it's been a while. And do you

884
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:24,439
Speaker 1: ever have dreams with him? Okay? Yeah, because he's making

885
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 1: me feel like he he actually does come in your

886
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:30,759
Speaker 1: dreams or he he's done that before, he pops in

887
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: your dreams or something. Um. And I feel like when

888
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 1: I'm connecting with him that you know, that's that's just

889
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: one of the things that he's telling me that he

890
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 1: you know, he likes to do. Um. And it's just

891
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: a way for him to stay you know, connected to you.

892
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 1: He's able to stay connected to you. And um, you

893
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: know watch over you that way, Um, we have you know,

894
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 1: people will have dreams or visitations or things like that. Um.

895
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: And a lot of times that is just a way

896
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 1: for loved ones to let us know I am with you,

897
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,879
Speaker 1: I see you, I'm I'm visiting you and stuff like that. Um.

898
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: I'm also yeah, um now I'm also getting a message

899
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: about interesting. Also, somebody keeps showing me more of the South.

900
00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 1: I don't know, is there are the people from the

901
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 1: South or people that live more in the South. We

902
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:26,359
Speaker 1: were wanting to move back to the South? Okay um.

903
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 1: And another thing I'm hearing about, Hold on one second,

904
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 1: okay um. They yeah, your grandfather that I was connecting

905
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 1: with on your dad's side, the one in the Barbara.

906
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:49,759
Speaker 1: But I'm getting this from your grandfather. Um. He's they

907
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:52,479
Speaker 1: keep telling me it's time you for you to write

908
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 1: your book. UM. So I don't know if you have

909
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 1: a book idea and you just keep putting it off

910
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 1: for something. On it feels I'm seeing like I see

911
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 1: things that are already written, so maybe it's stuff that

912
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: you just have to kind of put together. But I

913
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:08,800
Speaker 1: keep getting that that you're supposed there's a books that

914
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: you're supposed to work on, and it's like you're supposed

915
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 1: to complete it. I feel so it feels to me

916
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: like if you're if you're open to that and if

917
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 1: that's something that you'd like to do, um, I feel

918
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: like there's going to be a big opportunity with that,

919
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,399
Speaker 1: or just it feels more like they're, you know, they're

920
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 1: encouraging you with that and stuff. So um, I feel

921
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,839
Speaker 1: like if you're you know, you're, if you have thought

922
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: about doing that, then it's something that I feel. I

923
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 1: just feel there's a lot of momentum around it. So

924
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 1: thank yousiate it felt psychic Wednesday's July eleven at ten

925
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 1: nine Central on Lifetime. Oh my god. Okay, so by

926
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 1: the way, Mike just left, by the way, but I

927
00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: think he like, he definitely got some stuff out of it.

928
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: I think because he looked at me a couple of

929
00:51:56,400 --> 00:52:00,439
Speaker 1: times and was like, whoa, whoa, I do see me crying,

930
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 1: I did. I I just have I have. I had

931
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: the best relationship with my um, with my dad's dad,

932
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: my Grandpa Martin. And so the very first time I

933
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 1: ever had a psychic reading, UM, the psychic had told

934
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 1: me that my grandpa was basically my angel. And he

935
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 1: I mean, my Grandpa Martin was I've always said as

936
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 1: my angel. Like when I was sick, basically dying in Romania. UM,

937
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 1: it's a long story, but you know, I kind of

938
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,439
Speaker 1: like what he was saying, like the dreams. My mom

939
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 1: was sitting in the hospital room with me in Bucharest, Romania,

940
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 1: and when I woke up, she's like, do you remember

941
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,800
Speaker 1: your conversation? And I was like what conversation? She's like,

942
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 1: you were talking to Grandpa Martin. And it's like I

943
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 1: have like those things where like I just he appears

944
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: and I talked to him, but I don't remember it,

945
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: like I just know that like he was there. Um,

946
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 1: and sometimes I vividly remember like having him in my dreams.

947
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: But so I've always just like and ever since that

948
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 1: psychic my first Seychick reading, when they said that you know,

949
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: my dad's dad was my angel, I just have always

950
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 1: felt it. So That's why I like and I know

951
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:11,000
Speaker 1: that too because when I prayed to my grandpa just

952
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 1: to basically take me away, because that was when I

953
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 1: was in the abusive relationship with Mike, and so when

954
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: he kept saying, Mike, I was just like and basically

955
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 1: remember he kept saying and I said, because it was

956
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 1: like he was like it was a bad situation. And

957
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: and he said that your grandpa kept trying to like

958
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 1: shoot him away, because my grandpa was basically who in

959
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 1: my opinion, and what I've always believed is that, you know,

960
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 1: the night before my ex tried to kill me, he

961
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 1: I prayed to my grandpa and I said, Grandpa, please

962
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,240
Speaker 1: just take me away. I don't want to be here anymore.

963
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:49,160
Speaker 1: And I'll never forget, like when Mike was trying to

964
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 1: kill me, like I saw my Grandpa and I basically

965
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 1: saw him like watching over me. And then you know,

966
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:58,360
Speaker 1: I obviously lived, but like he's always been my angel.

967
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 1: And so every time like someone brings up my grandmama,

968
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 1: and I get so like, bless you, I get so emotional,

969
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 1: and um, I had a reading from another psychic like

970
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 1: a while ago, and my Grandpa didn't come in, and

971
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 1: I was really sad. I was like, all right, well,

972
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 1: I guess like he just knows that, like he's here,

973
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 1: and I don't like need to like you need the validation.

974
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 1: I don't need the validation anymore. But then when that

975
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 1: came up, I mean, Mike immediately looked at me and

976
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,160
Speaker 1: I was just like flooded with tears because I just like,

977
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 1: we just had such an incredible connection. So and then

978
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,280
Speaker 1: he had passed the same year my parents got divorced,

979
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:31,399
Speaker 1: so it was just like it was a tough year.

980
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: It was ninth grade good times. But yeah, so that

981
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 1: was that, and then the whole mic thing. I was like, man,

982
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 1: Mike was trying to come in stark energy, but that's

983
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 1: never happened. So but I mean he got a lot

984
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 1: of stuff out of you too, Yeah, which is like

985
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: such a random name too. I was going, can't make

986
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:50,920
Speaker 1: that up, You can't, you can't make that up. And

987
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 1: it was actually her birthday June that it was just recent. Yeah,

988
00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:01,359
Speaker 1: but it was just fascinating that she was the first

989
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 1: person to come through. Yeah, it's like you just can't

990
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: make that kind of stuff. I was like blown away. Yeah,

991
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 1: I mean it's like, how how can someone again, I

992
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 1: understand people to have skepticisms, and sometimes I do too,

993
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: But how do you just randomly come up with that name?

994
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 1: You don't it's exactly Sylvia, Sylvia Sylvia, Like it's not

995
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:26,880
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996
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:29,960
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997
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:34,600
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998
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 1: to say, though, um, now that he told you that

999
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1001
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1050
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Speaker 1: And I give him a ton of credit for being

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00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:38,440
Speaker 1: aware in present and then sharing what he's learned. I

1052
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: think that's you know, it's great because so many people

1053
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 1: can just be like, oh, I didn't grow up with

1054
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 1: you know, and just kind of play the victim exactly.

1055
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 1: But now he's he's making a change and he's I

1056
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:54,439
Speaker 1: think that's great. He's he's fantasticus. Hi um, okay, I'm

1057
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 1: like super super super stoked right now because we have

1058
00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:00,800
Speaker 1: the incredible Omar Epps in to deal with us today,

1059
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 1: you guys, um, and I'm I brought my my husband

1060
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 1: and because I really wanted him to talk to you too,

1061
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 1: because um, we have a daughter, but we have another

1062
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 1: one on the way. And thanks. But I'm really excited

1063
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 1: about your book because and I literally left it on

1064
00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: the side table. He's like, honey, is this a hint?

1065
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yes, you're gonna read it and you're

1066
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 1: gonna ask your questions. And because it's like I just

1067
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 1: because fatherhood there's I mean it's for me and it's

1068
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: like motherhood. I know, it's differently. He's got his own

1069
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 1: fears with so I'm just like curious your journey with

1070
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 1: through everything that you've gone through. I mean it's it's uh,

1071
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 1: it's a never ending journey, right, Kids get older and

1072
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: go through different phases. Um, but yeah, I mean I

1073
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 1: just felt I had a moment with my son a

1074
00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:52,680
Speaker 1: few years ago that caused me to reflect on my life,

1075
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 1: you know, having grown up without a father and a

1076
00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 1: question had growing up without a father, had that some

1077
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: crept into my fatherhood, you know, And and just that

1078
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 1: I thought, just made me reflect and you know, and

1079
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 1: then I ended up writing this stuff out because ultimately

1080
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 1: I want to use my story as a tool of inspiration. Um.

1081
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: I think it's it's time. It's a timely thing when

1082
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:18,680
Speaker 1: we see how, you know, what's going on in society

1083
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: right now now in terms of you know, in terms

1084
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 1: of the black community. You know, yeah, we've we've made

1085
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 1: a lot of strides, you know, but in terms of

1086
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 1: family and fatherhood. But you know, I'm out there in

1087
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 1: the streets and with the eye test this it's we

1088
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 1: got a lot more work to do, you know what

1089
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: I mean. So, how does your son? Okay, what's the

1090
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:42,640
Speaker 1: biggest thing that you've like, what what's the biggest thing

1091
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 1: for you that you're teaching him right now? Especially attend

1092
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:53,400
Speaker 1: such an impressionable age. The biggest thing what? Um, just

1093
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 1: get Well, I mean, you know, he's a he's a

1094
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 1: great kid, and and just getting him the um you know,

1095
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 1: I want him to find his passion, which I think

1096
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:05,960
Speaker 1: he kind of knows what he you know, saying what

1097
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 1: he wants to do with air quotes, but like find

1098
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 1: that thing that anchors him, you know, that that that

1099
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:13,800
Speaker 1: he truly feels connected to, because you can start building out,

1100
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 1: you know, from there. And like for me, I've been

1101
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 1: dreaming about what I do since I was twelve, you

1102
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 1: know what I mean, And and I sort of my

1103
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: life structured itself towards that. So that's I mean, that's

1104
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 1: one of the main things. Um. And just you know,

1105
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 1: to be a good person, you know, clean up after yourself.

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01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 1: You know, when did you realize that you were missing

1107
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:38,200
Speaker 1: though from your childhood, not having that father figure around

1108
01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 1: that you thought you needed to really like make sure

1109
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 1: it was there for your son. I feel like, um,

1110
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:48,880
Speaker 1: I missed that sort of familial structure, you know what

1111
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:52,720
Speaker 1: I mean in terms of you can have holidays, thanksgives

1112
01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 1: and all that, but like you know, um, some people

1113
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,800
Speaker 1: do movie nights, you know, Friday and stuff like that.

1114
01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 1: Like this stuff that I had to catch up to

1115
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 1: to realize it's long term worth. Um, because you know,

1116
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 1: we work a lot of hours with grinding. You know,

1117
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 1: you get home, you're just tired sometimes, you know what

1118
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 1: I mean. It's like, no, you gotta you gotta put

1119
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 1: it in with your kids as much as you can.

1120
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 1: Because a nineteen year old fortsen year old ten year old.

1121
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 1: The years go back quickly. It's like, WHOA, I have

1122
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 1: a question. I like what you said about your like

1123
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 1: your ten year old, like allowing him to find his passion.

1124
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 1: You know, that's something where you know, obviously I feel

1125
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 1: like in the world that you're in the entertainment world,

1126
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:37,280
Speaker 1: it's kind of like that's your plan eight through Z right.

1127
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:39,960
Speaker 1: You kind of gotta put all all in to get

1128
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 1: going to get successful. Um. At least that was my mindset.

1129
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 1: I played in the NFL for for a little while,

1130
01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:48,280
Speaker 1: so my mindset was like NFL or nothing. So when

1131
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: you're you know, raising your your children and you want

1132
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 1: them to follow their dreams and their passion. But then

1133
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 1: that logic of just life in the back of your

1134
01:02:56,720 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 1: mind about going through experiences of being like, well, I

1135
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,439
Speaker 1: still want you to get your degree here, I still

1136
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:03,680
Speaker 1: want it, Like how are you finding that with like

1137
01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 1: follow your passion, but also kind of be safe in

1138
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 1: that sense, Like how how are you supporting because we disagree.

1139
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 1: Come Like, I didn't go to college. I didn't want

1140
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 1: to fall back. I don't want to plan be And

1141
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 1: he's like, no, our children are going to college. I'm like,

1142
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 1: well they're gonna be like more mom didn't and she's successful.

1143
01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:22,919
Speaker 1: So it's like but but I mean, well, I think

1144
01:03:23,120 --> 01:03:26,960
Speaker 1: you know they still have to build um. I mean

1145
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 1: I'm really focused on education, you know what I mean

1146
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 1: with them when it comes to that. To me, that's

1147
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 1: sort of the that balances it out. You know, you

1148
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:36,840
Speaker 1: got to get education, you know, and don't just go

1149
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 1: to college, Like what do you want to do? You know,

1150
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 1: really getting them and there and there's so many things

1151
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 1: around that, right Like it's like, for you play in

1152
01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:47,840
Speaker 1: the NFL, you're one of how many people are gonna

1153
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 1: get to play in the NFL compared to how many

1154
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 1: kids play Pop Warner playing high school, playing college, Like

1155
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 1: so that's a chosen few. But even within that, there's

1156
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: so many other things you can do. You know, if

1157
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:00,480
Speaker 1: you don't make it as a play or maybe you

1158
01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 1: could be a coach, maybe you can be a training

1159
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 1: making you can actually build a life around this. Thing

1160
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:07,439
Speaker 1: that you love, you know what I mean. So it's

1161
01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 1: whatever genre that is whatever, not genre, but sector my

1162
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 1: kids would want to go into, like you know, one

1163
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 1: of them, the oldest one, she wants to be an educator.

1164
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:19,959
Speaker 1: The next youngest she wants to be a triple threat.

1165
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 1: Beyont that and then for now at least, you know,

1166
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: my son he wants to I think he wants to

1167
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 1: be an engineer, like he's you know, bill roller coasters.

1168
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,800
Speaker 1: But he's serious and I'm like, you know, when he

1169
01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 1: was young, I'm like, okay, you can You're gonna be

1170
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,040
Speaker 1: an engineer and he's like, nah, I want to do this.

1171
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 1: Does he like riding them? Riding them? We we have

1172
01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 1: a thing where we're go on the front and back

1173
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 1: just to feel that okay, but he's really interested in, Wow,

1174
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:51,840
Speaker 1: why how come it felt more like this at that turn?

1175
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 1: But when we're on the back, it feels like that

1176
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 1: process right there exactly. I think. What I'm curious now too,

1177
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,160
Speaker 1: is um, you know from Michael, like if we were

1178
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:03,920
Speaker 1: to have a boy, um, you know, because he's gotta go.

1179
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 1: We got the girl thing down, like we have a

1180
01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 1: two year old daughter. But for if we do have

1181
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 1: a boy, It's like, where's the line between between being

1182
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 1: too hard and then also letting the boys show emotion too,

1183
01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: because I sometimes fear that like he's going to be

1184
01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 1: you know, that real tough, like you don't show emotion.

1185
01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 1: But it's like I want my child to be sensitive

1186
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 1: and to have so I would just love like your

1187
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:28,040
Speaker 1: take on. I mean, you can't stop a child from

1188
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 1: showing emotion even if you try to. Who they will

1189
01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:35,040
Speaker 1: and guys usually say stop crying your your boy, Like yeah,

1190
01:05:35,120 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 1: but they need you know, they kind of need that.

1191
01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:39,600
Speaker 1: Just want them to be, you know, a little tough

1192
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:42,480
Speaker 1: because I think, like right now, and it's just my opinion,

1193
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:47,040
Speaker 1: like we live in a really overly sensitive society. And

1194
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: I'm not saying we got to go back to like

1195
01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 1: super old school, like when we didn't wear seatbelts bring yeah,

1196
01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:57,800
Speaker 1: but I'm like, you know, you're putting all the pads

1197
01:05:57,880 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 1: and the thing, and it's just is that just to

1198
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: let the key go outside. It's like, you know, we're

1199
01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:05,080
Speaker 1: we baby these kids too much because and I tell

1200
01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:07,920
Speaker 1: my kids, I'm like, look, life is harsh, and all

1201
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:10,320
Speaker 1: my discipline is coming from love, you know what I mean?

1202
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 1: And you you know you might not like it in

1203
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: certain moments, but that's how you learn. I will always

1204
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 1: have your best interests at heart. The world don't care

1205
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 1: about you. So by the time you grow up and

1206
01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 1: you know, especially the young black kids, Hey, you're getting

1207
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 1: pulled over by the cop. You don't even know. You know,

1208
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:28,880
Speaker 1: we see what's going on. So we have to teach

1209
01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:31,320
Speaker 1: the kids at home. It all starts at home so

1210
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:33,960
Speaker 1: that they don't make mistakes they can't come back from

1211
01:06:34,040 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: once they're out in the world, you know what I mean. See,

1212
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:38,800
Speaker 1: that's that's so tough. Like I know, I'm getting ahead

1213
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 1: of myself. You have kids that are of age that

1214
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 1: it might that probably are dealing with this the difference

1215
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:49,520
Speaker 1: between political correctness but also expressing their their own point

1216
01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:52,480
Speaker 1: of view or their feelings around something. It's like knowing

1217
01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:54,560
Speaker 1: when to teach them, like hey, when to follow the

1218
01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: rules right and just kind of like keep your mouth shut.

1219
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:58,160
Speaker 1: I know you might have feelings. I know you might

1220
01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:00,960
Speaker 1: have an opinion about this, but then also there's other

1221
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 1: times where it's like no, speak your mind right, you know,

1222
01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 1: telling how you feel right. So have you had to

1223
01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 1: deal with that, especially with you, like your nineteen year

1224
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 1: old maybe experience in life a little bit more. Is

1225
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 1: there anything around that? I mean, that's a that's a

1226
01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 1: great question to um. I think it's it's knowing, it's

1227
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:18,800
Speaker 1: knowing the playing field. I mean with these kids, now,

1228
01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:22,040
Speaker 1: there's when they're speaking out, you know, against social injustice

1229
01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:24,000
Speaker 1: or what have you. They're doing it from what I see,

1230
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 1: mostly as a collective, you know what I mean. So

1231
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:28,040
Speaker 1: if they want to bring an issue to their school,

1232
01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:31,600
Speaker 1: they come together and sort of voice that point. Whereas

1233
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 1: you know, if you're just in the supermarket, you know,

1234
01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 1: and some random things happened, that's probably not the place

1235
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: you shoot that, you know what I mean. Just keep

1236
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 1: it moving. Um. But we I mean, it's a it

1237
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 1: ebbs and flows. The ebbs and flows, and I think

1238
01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 1: it's at least what I'm discovering it. It is. It's

1239
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 1: like different phases because the fourteen year old is more

1240
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 1: in tune with certain things. The nineteen year old was thinking,

1241
01:07:56,880 --> 01:07:58,439
Speaker 1: you know, and then the ten year olds thinking about

1242
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 1: what he's thinking about. You know, how do you handle

1243
01:08:02,560 --> 01:08:07,560
Speaker 1: technology and social media in your house? Man? Can you

1244
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 1: even handle it? Can't handle it? Them? Thirty four years old?

1245
01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 1: I mean, we just try, you know, that's definitely the

1246
01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:22,559
Speaker 1: first thing for punishment, and it really affects them. It's crazy.

1247
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:24,799
Speaker 1: If you take one of their phones, it's like withdrawal,

1248
01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:29,759
Speaker 1: you know what i mean. I mean we're all getting

1249
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 1: that hit from our phones every day. Yeah, I mean

1250
01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:36,240
Speaker 1: the the nineteen year old is like whatever because she's

1251
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 1: a little older, so you know, it's just mostly texting stuff.

1252
01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 1: But the fourteen year old is like Instagram snapshot. Yeah,

1253
01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:45,720
Speaker 1: it's like, yo, but don't text me when you're down

1254
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 1: the hallway. We're not doing that. Come down the hallway

1255
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 1: and talk to me. And then my son. It's interesting

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Speaker 1: my son really it's just YouTube, that's just in games.

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Speaker 1: Does he play games? He's not. None of them are

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Speaker 1: really into like video games, which I'm like, all right,

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Speaker 1: we got we got one that way because you know,

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Speaker 1: I got friends with it. Kids. Literally it just stuck

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Speaker 1: for like hours upon the hours of an hour. So

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Speaker 1: in that way, we kind of that's good because we

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01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 1: like to engage your kids. We do a lot of

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Speaker 1: creative stuff with him. So they like to do things

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Speaker 1: like physically handle lying, handle lying. Yeah, Like if your

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Speaker 1: kids lie to you, like do you or do you

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01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:24,720
Speaker 1: give them every opportunity to tell you the truth and

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Speaker 1: maybe like a lesser punishment or do you or like

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Speaker 1: if you find out that you catch them in a lie,

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Speaker 1: like is it It kind of depends on It depends

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Speaker 1: on the situation, because like, like my wife, she's gonna

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Speaker 1: let you play yourself. She's gonna keep stringing you along

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01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:48,280
Speaker 1: and along and then bam you get you know. But

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Speaker 1: really I just talked to them like why, like what

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01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:54,720
Speaker 1: was it? We were all kids once, Like most of

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01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 1: the time, it's so stupid. It's like not some big

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Speaker 1: conspiracy thing that they were doing something. It's just like

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Speaker 1: why would you lie about that? You know? And I'm

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Speaker 1: kind of like that, like to save the good ones

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Speaker 1: when you really need. That's where I'm going a problem,

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01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 1: the line of walking between being friends and also being

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01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:14,960
Speaker 1: a parent, Like because you want to be their friend,

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01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 1: you want them to come to you and say like

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Speaker 1: I screwed up, you know, But then they're also scared.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. So it's such a good mind to walk.

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Speaker 1: But you know what I'm I tell my kids all

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Speaker 1: the time, I'm like, look, I'm figuring this thing out

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Speaker 1: just like you are. You know. I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I've never really had that we're infallible because I don't

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Speaker 1: have all that, you know, And I tell them like, look,

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Speaker 1: I've never been the father of the nineteenyear rule for

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Speaker 1: you know, so I'm human like you. You know, I

1293
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:44,200
Speaker 1: might make mistakes too, you know, but I know, I

1294
01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:46,960
Speaker 1: know I have the blueprint to certain things because I

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01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,320
Speaker 1: built it. Now, this might not work for you, and

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Speaker 1: you'll find your way, but I have forty four years

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01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 1: of life to show you this works. You know, these

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01:10:56,479 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 1: these you know, these tools work. So at least take

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01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:01,240
Speaker 1: that and take where you get from your mom and

1300
01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 1: you figure out your own system, you know what I mean.

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01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:08,000
Speaker 1: But again, going back to my you know, it's always

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01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:10,680
Speaker 1: coming from love. I'm like, no one's ever gonna love

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01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:13,200
Speaker 1: you like I love you because I'm the father, you know.

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Speaker 1: But at the same token, no matter how much I

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Speaker 1: love you, I can't walk in your shoes, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. So I try to empower them that way,

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Speaker 1: like lead yourself. I like that. I like the transparency

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Speaker 1: you're talking about, about, you know, admitting to your kids like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I don't have all the answers, And I think that

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Speaker 1: goes farther than maybe it might sound, because I feel

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Speaker 1: like that creates safety like for them, right, because I know,

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Speaker 1: like my biggest thing is like my parents always seemed

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Speaker 1: like they had every all the answers and everything was right,

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Speaker 1: And so if I didn't do things the way they wanted,

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Speaker 1: maybe I would lie about it because I was in

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Speaker 1: fear of the consequences or because it wasn't the way

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Speaker 1: they did things. But knowing that you're being like transparent

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Speaker 1: and vulnerable with them, I make up that it has

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01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:55,080
Speaker 1: to show like you know that then that they can

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Speaker 1: be okay with coming to you and talking about it.

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Speaker 1: And what what made you? I mean, obviously of an

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Speaker 1: incredible story, but for your book? What was that you

1323
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:03,680
Speaker 1: just you just knew you had to write a book too,

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Speaker 1: to get your story out and to kind of inspire others.

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Speaker 1: And no, I just I came home and this is

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Speaker 1: in the introduction of book, but I could just tell

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Speaker 1: you here. You know, I came home one day at

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Speaker 1: worked for like fourteen I was so tired. Yeah I'm

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Speaker 1: on shooting now, but this is yea um, but this

1330
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Speaker 1: was what I was doing house and you know, it

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Speaker 1: was just one of those nights I'm just tired. I

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Speaker 1: just want to turn on the television, vegi out and

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Speaker 1: go to sleep, and my son was about to then,

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Speaker 1: and so, you know, my wife was like, you go

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Speaker 1: play with him. He's still up, Like I'm here, right,

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Speaker 1: I'm literally I thought like, at least he has And

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying this, I'm just saying this is real,

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Speaker 1: Like I'm here physically your present, but you weren't completely

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Speaker 1: president and that that moment, you know, I you know,

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01:12:57,840 --> 01:13:00,360
Speaker 1: obviously went upstairs and played with him, but I started reflected.

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Speaker 1: I was just like, why did I How did I

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Speaker 1: have that thought? Like I love myself more than anything

1343
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Speaker 1: as well, right, And I just was like, what is

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01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:11,760
Speaker 1: that about? And that's such a cool like it just

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01:13:11,880 --> 01:13:15,719
Speaker 1: spurred this whole Oh wow, maybe I'm missing certain things

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Speaker 1: about fatherhood because I grew up without a father, you know,

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Speaker 1: and as I started to explore my own story, it

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Speaker 1: just sort of came about until I'm writing a book. Now.

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Speaker 1: Well it's amazing. I thank you Omar so much for

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Speaker 1: coming in and you know, sharing this with us. He's

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Speaker 1: got his book out, from Fatherless to Fatherhood, and yeah,

1352
01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:38,400
Speaker 1: you can get a lot of good stuff out of it,

1353
01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 1: so great read, inspirational for sure, at least for me

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Speaker 1: as a new father and stuff like that. So I

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Speaker 1: appreciate you put it out there, man, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Really think it makes you think about what you have

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Speaker 1: in your toolbox yourself. Well it's a good thing too,

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Speaker 1: because I come home and it's like, you know, we

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Speaker 1: can we get lost in our phones sometimes it's like

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Speaker 1: our daughters right there. It's like to be present, be

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Speaker 1: you know, be there. So thank you, thank you, thank

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Speaker 1: we're taking a little break. I hope everyone has an

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Speaker 1: amazing Fourth of July. I'm going to be up on

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Speaker 1: the lake with my family in Michigan. It's my favorite

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Speaker 1: place in the whole entire world to be so I'm

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Speaker 1: super excited. Yeah. So, um, I hope everyone has an

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Speaker 1: amazing Fourth of July. But when we get back from

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Speaker 1: the break, um, we are going to answer answer some

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Speaker 1: more emails. UM. Some of the ones we have from

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Speaker 1: Sarah Struggles with Infertility, Emily Battles of infertility, UM, Savannah

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Speaker 1: my first husband is gained, my second as a cheater, um,

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Speaker 1: and then Jenny three episodes of Lots of Infidelity, which,

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Speaker 1: by the way, I'm going to be sharing that journey

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Speaker 1: with you guys to let you guys know, I mean,

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Speaker 1: there is there is light at the end of the tunnel.

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Speaker 1: I know it's tough, and i know it's super hard

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Speaker 1: to see. I've been there. So um, I'm I'm looking

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Speaker 1: forward to having an episode talking about that and especially

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Speaker 1: answering some of those emails, because it's really hard when

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Speaker 1: you're in that position. But I I just can't even imagine.

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Speaker 1: I know it's tough and you but you guys put

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Speaker 1: in so much work and you're on the other side

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Speaker 1: and you have this huge announcement. So I know, I

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Speaker 1: know I need to just because I know I need

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Speaker 1: to just be like, yeah, but it's so much happiness.

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Speaker 1: Journey it is it's it's a journey, and now you

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Speaker 1: can help women who are experiencing it and going through this,

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01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:28,439
Speaker 1: and you are way further down the you know, in

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Speaker 1: your journey than they are, and it's just it's, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's so incredible to have somebody who understands. Thanks. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're welcome. Well, I cannot wait to chat with you guys.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for wanting down with me. I

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Speaker 1: love you guys so much, and I'll see you July nine.