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Speaker 1: Welcome back, Happy our listeners. I'm ready to be here

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Speaker 1: for another week with you again, and I'm flying solo today. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: week because I'm sure by now most of you have

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Speaker 1: all read or heard the news that, unfortunately Michelle and

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Speaker 1: to be taking a little bit of a breather, taking

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Speaker 1: I'm sure it's a lot right now, and so we

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Speaker 1: here on Bachelor Happy how we're going to hope all

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Speaker 1: of you listeners can just extend so much support and

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Speaker 1: love to her and to Nate too. They I can

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Speaker 1: take it day by day. So whenever Michelle is ready

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Speaker 1: to come back, I will be here for her. And

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Speaker 1: if she is ready to share how she's been with

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Speaker 1: the meantime, let's just send her in Nate so much love,

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Speaker 1: so much support and well wishes during this time to

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Speaker 1: No breakups are never an easy thing, So Michelle, my

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Speaker 1: of that being said, we still have a fun episode

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Speaker 1: for you coming today. Later in the episode, we are

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Speaker 1: talking to two very fun, cool women, Rishia Skidmore Williams

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Speaker 1: a very popular podcast called The Rich and Daily and

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Speaker 1: Even the Rich and as a cherry on top, they

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Speaker 1: are also huge Bachelor fans, so it'll be a fun

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Speaker 1: episode with the two of them. But in the meantime,

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Speaker 1: I have called in reinforcements to back me up today

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Speaker 1: and I'm excited to have Thomas joined Happy Hour once

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Speaker 1: again for a little bit, just to catch everyone up

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Speaker 1: on life and what we've had going on. So please

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Speaker 1: welcome Thomas once again. Thomas, Welcome back to Happy Hour.

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Speaker 1: It's glad to be here. I told everyone that you

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Speaker 1: for life, but hey, for life, I guess podcast does follow. Well.

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Speaker 1: see how well you do fair enough. I have to

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Speaker 1: tell of our listeners to Thomas is very sweaty right now,

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Speaker 1: and I can't tell if it's because he's nervous to

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Speaker 1: This got weird. Oh, it's got weird real now, this

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Speaker 1: is this is actually us, though we're just weirdos um, Thomas.

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Speaker 1: We have some exciting news, well a lot of We

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Speaker 1: have so much shit that's happening, good things that are

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Speaker 1: been a year, it's been three hundred and sixty five days. Well,

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Speaker 1: that's what I was going to say. We just, Thomas,

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Speaker 1: to the day that I literally could not have imagined

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Speaker 1: He goes out and he gets, well, it wasn't beautiful

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Speaker 1: more that's not just our fun we happened. Well about

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Speaker 1: Thomas and I bought a house in San Diego. We

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Speaker 1: we are very soon going to be official co homeowners together.

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Speaker 1: love supporting other podcasts, but especially supporting our fellow women

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Speaker 1: in the podcasting space. And so you have both hosted

427
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Speaker 1: two podcasts together, Rich and Daily and even The Rich.

428
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 1: So fill all of the listeners in who don't know.

429
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,399
Speaker 1: How did you two meet? How did you decide to

430
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 1: start podcasting together in the first place. So we met

431
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:29,680
Speaker 1: doing valet parking for like rich people celebrities, and we

432
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,400
Speaker 1: hit it off right away, and then we became roommates

433
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 1: and ironically enough, Becca, the first time we podcasted together

434
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 1: was a Bachelor podcast? Really and what season was it? Mine?

435
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,199
Speaker 1: It wasn't yours, but it was the season where you

436
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Speaker 1: were introduced to where we were all in dury season

437
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Speaker 1: yeah who must not be named correct. I was like,

438
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Speaker 1: how can I say this without saying sorry? So that

439
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,120
Speaker 1: it's really crazy that we're now on your podcast. It's

440
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 1: just really yeah. So that was our first journey into podcasting,

441
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 1: and of course we ad spectacularly. We still do. I know.

442
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,920
Speaker 1: We were such fans. If you can, you should listen

443
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 1: to it. It's so good. And I am being as

444
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: sarcastic as god. I don't even remember what we said.

445
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: But so we did one season of The Bachelor, and

446
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,959
Speaker 1: then we saw posting in a Facebook group but they

447
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 1: were looking for comedic duos to talk about rich families

448
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: and dynasties, and we were like, oh my god, this

449
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: is us. We already do this for free, we already

450
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:42,119
Speaker 1: do this. So we sent in an audition and thrust

451
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Speaker 1: as history. I love that. So I want to ask

452
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Speaker 1: you both this then, because I mean I can kind

453
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 1: of relate. I'm a lot newer in the podcasting space

454
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Speaker 1: because I've just been doing this for a couple of

455
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,360
Speaker 1: years now, But what have you learned or what would

456
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,679
Speaker 1: you have told yourself or what advice would you have

457
00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:01,400
Speaker 1: given yourself five six years ago when first started podcasting?

458
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 1: To get you to where you are today? Where to start? Becca?

459
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 1: So much knowledge up here? I think, I mean the

460
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 1: most important thing and I think it applies across the spectrum,

461
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 1: whether you're doing independent podcasts professionally produced podcasts, is to

462
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 1: do something you actually enjoy talking about because it's it

463
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: can get so tiring if you don't like your subject,

464
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,399
Speaker 1: like it. I mean, it's exhausting, and it's your it

465
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 1: becomes your job, and even if you're not actually getting paid,

466
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 1: it's so kind of like a job. So I think

467
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: having passion and it focus less on like what is

468
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 1: everyone else going to want to hear or see? And

469
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 1: focus on like what what story do I want to tell?

470
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,159
Speaker 1: And how do I want to tell it? Yeah. I

471
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 1: feel like if you're like authentically into what you're doing

472
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: and you are yourself, the listeners will come and they'll stay. Yeah,

473
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: and also, don't look at review I was gonna say, Hey,

474
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Speaker 1: anything learned or that I could tell people from a

475
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: show from a podcast from anything is don't don't read

476
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 1: the fine print. Yeah, it's dicey out there. Yeah, what

477
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 1: people think of you is none of your business. I

478
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 1: don't even love well and you both probably know this

479
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 1: and I've experienced this, But you can do anything. You

480
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 1: could do the most amazing thing or say the most

481
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: incredible thing on this planet, and you will get haters

482
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: and drolled on like crazy. You know, there's just really

483
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 1: no winning, especially being in the public eye and like

484
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: on social media and having such a platform that it's

485
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 1: just like none of our business, right exactly? Oh my gosh. Well,

486
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 1: so for anyone that enjoys pop culture, even the rich,

487
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: is such a must listen. And you both have done

488
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 1: what is it, twenty eight seasons now you're on the

489
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 1: twenty eighth. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's absolutely incredible. Foes to

490
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,400
Speaker 1: you both for sticking with it and loving with it.

491
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 1: It's such a fun thing to listen to. Um, what

492
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 1: has been your favorite seasons that you've done? I so,

493
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 1: for the longest time, my favorite was Versacchi, and it's

494
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: shifted twice now in the last two arcs it went

495
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 1: to Maryland and then it went to Dolly. So currently

496
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: my favorite is Dolly okay? Yeah, but I think that's

497
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,160
Speaker 1: just because I love I've always been like, oh yeah,

498
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 1: Dolly's cool, but I've never been as huge of a

499
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: Dolly stand as Dolly stands are. But after like learning

500
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: about her, it's like, yeah, this woman slaps Yeah, wow,

501
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:41,439
Speaker 1: you are so hip. I know. Um yeah, same as

502
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: a Reachia. I've always loved Versacchi. And then we recently

503
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: did Patty Hurst, which was I didn't know a lot

504
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: about and I love cults. I'm so interested in calls,

505
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: so that was like a nice mix of our show

506
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 1: and also like someone trapped in a cult. I was like, Okay,

507
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 1: I think my new favorite history action. Yeah. Yeah. I

508
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: like when we can kind of bring in some like

509
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 1: true crime and other stuff. It's fine. I love that.

510
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: So for listeners who haven't yet checked it out, is

511
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 1: there one also standout season that you'd be like, this

512
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 1: is the one you have to start with, the one

513
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,920
Speaker 1: that you have to listen to. I'd say, don't start

514
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: at the beginning. No. It's so funny because I think

515
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: the most feedback I get about people's favorite seasons is

516
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: the first one, which is so weird to me because

517
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 1: if you listen to the first season versus now it's

518
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: a it sounds like a different show. Yeah, yeah, I'm sure,

519
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: But so I don't know what I feel like. Free

520
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 1: Brittany is probably the season that I don't want to

521
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 1: say like got us any notoriety, but it got us

522
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: to the listener account we're at now, Like that was

523
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 1: a very because it was during her conservatorship. It was

524
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 1: a very publicized thing. Yeah, and I think that's probably

525
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:57,199
Speaker 1: the one. I think it has the most downloads, So

526
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a safe one to start with.

527
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 1: What are some seasons that you've worked on that have

528
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: really surprised you or like where it took a turn

529
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: and you're like, holy crap, I did not expect this. Well,

530
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: this isn't really in the even the rich rich in

531
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 1: Daily Realm. But we did a mini series called in

532
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: God We Lust with Wondery also, and that one took

533
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: a turn for me because it started like about like

534
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: this religious university and just all the stuff that was

535
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: going on. But then it took like a dark turn

536
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 1: at the end and I was like whoa, Okay, a

537
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,439
Speaker 1: lot of like sexual assault allegations things like that, and

538
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, this took a really big turn

539
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: for me. But in terms of like Even the Rich,

540
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: I'd say Paris Hilton probably surprised me the most, just

541
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: because we all have this view of Paris Hilton and

542
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: we learned so much about her doing the show, and like,

543
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: you know, she was in Provocanyon School when she was

544
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: a kid, and she was like abused. She was trapped there,

545
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: she couldn't get out, and it really changed my opinion

546
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: of her in my view of her one that I think, Yeah,

547
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: and also just she you know, has this persona about

548
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: her where people think she's just like this entitled heiress

549
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 1: and you know, maybe to an extent that exists, but

550
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: she also works really hard and I never realized like

551
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: how hard she worked. So I think that that's something

552
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: that came out in that arc. Interesting. Oh my gosh.

553
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: I feel like Even the Rich has something for everyone,

554
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: Like like anyone could take a listen and pick a

555
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: certain season and find it intriguing and learned something new,

556
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: which I absolutely love that. And so the most current season,

557
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: the twentieth season now, is the story of Elton John.

558
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: I actually just did an ad for this for our podcast,

559
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: yes before y'all joined. Yeah, but what is one of

560
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: the craziest things that you've learned about Elton because even

561
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: reading the ad, I didn't realize he had such a

562
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: dark upbringing and there was, you know, more skeletons in

563
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: his closet. So even knowing that, I'm like, oh my gosh,

564
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: I definitely need to give this a listen to now. Yeah, So,

565
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: what's the craziest thing that you've learned about him? In

566
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: the research? In this season? I realized the only thing

567
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: that I really knew about him was that he was

568
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: Reginald Dwight. Like that's like the only fact that I

569
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: can procure other than like the songs that he sings.

570
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: So I'm constantly just like, oh wow, oh shit, oh

571
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: my god. And I mean I've like I've always been

572
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: a big fan of his. I grew up and I

573
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: had a friend who was obsessed with him. But I

574
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: don't know, I guess his upbringing definitely as well as

575
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: that I didn't know he had been married to a woman. Yeah,

576
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: I had no idea that was something that happened in

577
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: his life. Yeah, I don't think I realized how dark

578
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: it was for him, like growing up and early in

579
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: his career, Like I just know him as like who

580
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: he is now just out and proud and love and

581
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 1: life and like making amazing songs. So really his whole story,

582
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, it's been kind of surprising the whole way.

583
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: I'm like a resh, I'm like, oh, okay, yeah, I

584
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: think it'll I think it'll definitely throw not our listeners

585
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: because I'm not training with you, but your visteners for

586
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 1: a loop. And definitely. I mean so my fancy Thomas

587
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: is a huge Elton John fan, and so now knowing

588
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 1: a bit more, I'm like, oh damn, like he's been

589
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: through some shit. Yeah, And I also love too that

590
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: it's coming out at this point during Pride month. What

591
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: does that mean to you both to be telling his

592
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: story during this month. It's important because we pushed for

593
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: Elton for so long, like he was one on our

594
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 1: list where like can we please do Elton? Can we

595
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 1: please do Elton? And we were talking about wanting to

596
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: do like a queer icon during Pride and there was

597
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 1: some other names tossed around, and I was like, come on,

598
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: like this is time to do Elton. And it's like

599
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: he's just such an icon and he's the first male

600
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: that we've done in a while, Like a lot of

601
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: our stories have been about women. So yeah, yeah, it's

602
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: really nice and like very important I think to tell

603
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 1: his story right now. So it's it's amazing. I love it.

604
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 1: I love that. So is there a topic or somebody

605
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: that you hope to do that so on your bucket

606
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: list to come up in one of the upcoming seasons.

607
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: I have been begging for the Olds and Twins. I

608
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: I they are like I grew up with them. I

609
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: felt connected to them because I liked twins. That's the

610
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 1: only connection that I had with them. Um, which is enough,

611
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: I would think, but it hasn't happened yet, and I'm

612
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: holding out. I love that. Yeah, did you did you

613
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: grow up watching like old school Old School Mary Kay

614
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:49,959
Speaker 1: and Nashley where they were like six or seven and

615
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: they did like their mystery. Yeah, The Adventures of Mary

616
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: Kay and nash Yeah. I saw that. I saw. I

617
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: know their theme song. Brooke questioned whether I'd see so

618
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: little time I have one season of it. Yeah, it

619
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: was like such a short lived sitcom. Oh I saw it. Um,

620
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 1: I think it Takes two was recently on Netflix. I'm

621
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 1: pretty sure it was. Yeah, I watched it. It was

622
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 1: like it was a few months ago, right, yeah, I

623
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: mean I probably watched it with I mean for sure

624
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: within the past year, I want to say, definitely. Oh

625
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: my gosh, I still love their style too, like even

626
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 1: you know how the nineties is kind of coming back,

627
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: y yeah, Like I just bought sunglasses like the Oval,

628
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: like bright red ones like what they used to wear

629
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: with the Oh yeah, I like and they would have

630
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 1: the like butterfly clips in their hair, which I tried

631
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: to emulate. It's very hard when you have curly hair.

632
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, I haven't seen it. I haven't

633
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: seen any butterclips, butterlips, any butterfly clips lately, so I

634
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't know if those are coming back.

635
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: But I did just buy some nineties style jeans. Was amazing.

636
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 1: Do they like the patches? They don't have patches, they're

637
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: just like kind of ripped. But they're like boyfriend jeans

638
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 1: that they're little loose from Abercrombie, which is very nineties.

639
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 1: Really saying seriously buying jeans from Abercrombie right now. But

640
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: they came highly recommended and they're amazing. Okay, So I

641
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 1: do want to get into because you said that you

642
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: first started up podcasting with the Bachelor franchise and covering that.

643
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: So were you fans of the show since the beginning

644
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 1: or when did you get involved in Bachelor Nation. I

645
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 1: think I'm trying to remember what my first season was,

646
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 1: not the beginning, but I know I was watching very

647
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:42,760
Speaker 1: early on, like maybe season like three of The Bachelor,

648
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 1: and then I was watching it a lot. I think

649
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: Richia came in later. Yeah, I can't remember what my

650
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: first season was. I think it was it was when

651
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 1: I was working at the talent agency because they did

652
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: uh one of those called were you like like what

653
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:06,839
Speaker 1: they do for sports? Oh? Yes, oh wows yeah sports?

654
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,320
Speaker 1: Such a fan? I love them all. Um. But he

655
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 1: did a bracket and I was like, oh, this is

656
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,879
Speaker 1: fun the bracket part um. And I was terrible because

657
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: I didn't know what I was doing. But I the

658
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,400
Speaker 1: only yours is actually the only season I might have

659
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:27,240
Speaker 1: seen two where I've watched. I watched like every single episode. Okay, so, um,

660
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 1: so from what you've seen, are there any iconic moments

661
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 1: that stick out to either of you from any of

662
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 1: the seasons? I mean, unfortunately, Becca, how do we answer

663
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:48,479
Speaker 1: this question? I was so used to it, like that's

664
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 1: even how people refer to me as still to this

665
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: day is like the one who got broken up. So

666
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 1: well yeah, and like wait, wait, I was referring to

667
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,360
Speaker 1: calling this guy pillow lips. That was the most memorable

668
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,399
Speaker 1: was pillow lips? Ari? Everyone called him pillow lips for

669
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: some reason, did they? Yes? Unfortunately, and we yeah forgot.

670
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: Becca's reaction suggest that it's false advertising. Wait, I'm trying

671
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 1: to think. I mean, I've never rewatched that season, so

672
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: I could be the wrong understands. Yeah, but was it

673
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 1: was it the girls on his season or was it

674
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,720
Speaker 1: when he was a contestant, like the five years prior.

675
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 1: I want to say it started when he was a contestant,

676
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: But the girls on his season, we're talking about it.

677
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,760
Speaker 1: We're calling him pillow lips when he was a contestant.

678
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 1: We're like, look at this guy's lips, they're like pillows.

679
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: So but all I remember is that one of the

680
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 1: girls on Ari season she called him needle on the season.

681
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:54,879
Speaker 1: And so when it was my season, he actually came

682
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,800
Speaker 1: to the Maldives for like a thirty minute conversation that

683
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 1: never aired. But I just remember there's a bunch of

684
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: needlefish down below where I was staying and there was

685
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 1: like a glass bottom and you could just see them

686
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 1: floating around and the cameramen would just zonate on this.

687
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 1: My god, that's amazing. We're getting from this? Is I

688
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: need to get on this show so I can get

689
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 1: flown to Maldives for thirty minutes and then I'll just say, hey,

690
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: tack on a vacation to the end of it. Well,

691
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 1: or you could kill two birds with one stone, come

692
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 1: to paradise next, You're be part of vat nation, bartend

693
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: kickoff a date, whatever, and you'll do it all. Yeah.

694
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:41,839
Speaker 1: I a bartenders sot out. She had her own company.

695
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: More about this. Yeah, so I was poor and I

696
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: was like, I gotta make money and so classic scenario. Yeah,

697
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:50,879
Speaker 1: but the real struggle is do I want to work

698
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 1: for other people? Because that's a nightmare. Um. So I

699
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I'm going to start a

700
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: private event bartending company. And so Arisha worked for me.

701
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 1: My husband were events and we like really built the

702
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: business pretty big. We had like a very nice client

703
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 1: roster and we were doing events on weekends, a lot

704
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: of weddings, a lot of crazy parties. It was really fun. Yeah,

705
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 1: it was fun. Yeah, I feel like you are both

706
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 1: jacks of all trades. A jack of all trades like

707
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:28,320
Speaker 1: valet where you met, to this private bartending job, to podcasting.

708
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 1: So did podcasts just kind of take over? Because because

709
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 1: you do have the two, I can imagine it takes

710
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: up most of your time. Now, yeah, podcasting, it would

711
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: have been real rough, Like I, I can't have magic

712
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,919
Speaker 1: going through the pandemic. If I didn't have even the rich,

713
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: yes star like, I would have been oh who knows where? Yeah? Yeah,

714
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 1: I know. Besides like, besides going through the pandemic and

715
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:55,720
Speaker 1: being like, Okay, when can I take a nap today?

716
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 1: What am I going to make for dinner? Oh? It's five,

717
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: I can have a margarita. I stop looking to the

718
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 1: weekly podcast just to keep me yea somewhat sane? Yeah,

719
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: I can. I can totally relate. Okay, So I need

720
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:12,400
Speaker 1: to ask you both this because it's big news in

721
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,919
Speaker 1: the world of Bachelor Nation because we've never had two leads. Yeah,

722
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: seems at the same time. So how do you both

723
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 1: feel about that? Are you excited about seeing the two women?

724
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 1: I am? I? Yeah, I'm I'm mostly excited because I'm

725
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: always excited when I think an ideas original because I

726
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: feel like there's so few in this day and age,

727
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 1: and I was like, why is no one thought to

728
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: make it too? Like that seems genius to me. Yeah,

729
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: I mean I feel like the Bachelor needs it a

730
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: shake up. Yeah, so I think this will be like

731
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: a fun shake up. I mean, I'm I love Paradise

732
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 1: like Bachelor in Paradise is my jam, Like it is

733
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,399
Speaker 1: to me the superior Bachelor show because it's just so

734
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 1: good and it's like it really is. Seeing multiple people

735
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: look for love I think is more interesting. So I

736
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: think it's going to be more exciting to have two bachelorettes. Yeah. Well,

737
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: and yeah, like to play into Paradise. There's so many

738
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: different love stories, there's so many different bits of drama

739
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 1: that I think it just hooks viewers better. You know,

740
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 1: if you just have one or two storylines week after week,

741
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,800
Speaker 1: it kind of gets repetitive and bold. And so I

742
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 1: think this season will definitely deliver more than we've ever seen.

743
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 1: I was actually asked this question the other day, and

744
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: I want to ask you both it now too, because

745
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 1: I think it was a good one. So obviously we'll

746
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 1: have two baud Shurettes. How would you feel about having

747
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: two male leads at the same time. For some reason,

748
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 1: I feel like it would be more dramatic. I don't

749
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 1: know why, but it's probably well women fighting over two

750
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: men now, not just why. I feel like a group

751
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 1: of female contestants brings better drama than a group of

752
00:40:52,680 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: male contestants. Male contestant drama isn't as interesting to me. Yeah,

753
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 1: like I don't shorter live it is. With women, it's like, well,

754
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 1: like I'm really into this person, and oh I might

755
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend. It just feels like the drama is

756
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: like I'm more drawn out and more I'm more engaged

757
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: with it than I am with the men. They really

758
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:20,720
Speaker 1: need to up their game, honestly, they stan the show. Well,

759
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,720
Speaker 1: So have you noticed a shift in recent seasons where

760
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: the drama has been more extreme, more catty, just more

761
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 1: dramatic in general to make for a better TV. Yeah,

762
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 1: it does feel like that, like especially, and I hate

763
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 1: that it's like the women because like, of course, like

764
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: we're just catty or we're just more talented. Well that's

765
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: what I was gonna say. I was actually going to

766
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: compliment the women, like I feel like we're smarter and

767
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:52,959
Speaker 1: more cunning. That comes out more. It's like a group

768
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: of women. So I just think, I don't know, it's

769
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 1: just better drama for some reason. And yeah, I do

770
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 1: feel like it's been upped a little in the last

771
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: couple of seasons. I don't know what that's about. Definitely

772
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: some of the stuff that is said and done, I'm like, what,

773
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: how is this even a thing? Or who thinks of this?

774
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 1: It just I you know, I feel like I can't

775
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 1: be shocked being in the world of reality television anymore

776
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 1: because we see and hear so much. But I'm still

777
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: shocked season by season. Have you either of you seen

778
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: the cast come out for the new season of The

779
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: of the Men. Yes, I haven't looked through it fully,

780
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 1: but I keep seeing all the social media posts about

781
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: the man. I need to look at that better. Do

782
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 1: you have any initial thoughts anyone that caught your eye? No,

783
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: we need the drama for somebody to stand out. I

784
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: don't bother to learn their names until halfway through this season. Oh,

785
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, hometowns. Give me four people that. Yeah, I'm

786
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 1: honestly surprised. I'm surprised that to female bachelottes aren't both

787
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: named Lauren like that seemed like a lost opportunity. They've

788
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:08,240
Speaker 1: done it. They've found two people not named Lauren. Finally, Hudo,

789
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: you don't need last name, last name initials with Susan.

790
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 1: If you could see a celebrity on the show as

791
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: either a lead or contestant, who would it be. I

792
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 1: feel like, although I guess she's engaged now, but I

793
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: feel like Lizzo would be such a fun bachelorette. Engaged. Yeah,

794
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 1: I guess she's engaged or something. I don't think. Maybe

795
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 1: she had relationships without telling you. She was on a

796
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: red carpet and she had like this ring on her

797
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 1: ring finger. Maybe maybe it's a promise ring. I don't know.

798
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: But there's some guy she's been Is it somebody from

799
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 1: the Minnesota Vikings? Oh my god, I wish better be

800
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 1: otherwise I don't. I don't support this otherwise redo red. Yeah,

801
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 1: that's like my one thing because I'm from Minnesota. I'm like,

802
00:43:55,560 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 1: Lizzo knows Minnesota. Put on the man. My husband lived

803
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: in Minnesota for really years. Yeah. Area Apple Valley. Oh yeah,

804
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: that's where my own uncle lives. Apple Valley sounds so

805
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: kind and just quaint. Yeah, fall well, Becca, didn't you

806
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:22,760
Speaker 1: take someone apple picking. I did, yes, he who shall

807
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 1: not be named. Um, I don't remember it was your

808
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 1: season or it was my ye, and there was I

809
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,720
Speaker 1: mean because we went to Minnesota in November. I was like, Mmm,

810
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 1: what can we do here? And it was definitely not

811
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 1: the right time to go because I don't even think

812
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 1: there was apples on the trees. They were all dead

813
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 1: and it was crazy and I was like, this is

814
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: the worst idea ever, Becca, But um, yes, but they

815
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: made the most of it. We had whiskey in the

816
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: apple cider, which was great. So well, I think I

817
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 1: saw a pa in the background just hanging up fake

818
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: apples in the tree. Probably. I love that though. That's

819
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:56,919
Speaker 1: like such a fall. I mean obviously not was snow,

820
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,760
Speaker 1: but that's such a fall activity. Yeah, it's like so cute.

821
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: It was a month prior it would have been perfect

822
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 1: and beautiful and the apples would have actually been ripe

823
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: and edible. But I mean it worked. It worked either Yeah.

824
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 1: I mean you know, it's foreshadowing for that relationship. So yeah,

825
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:19,879
Speaker 1: I go exactly. Um, Way, Deresia, who would be your

826
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:25,800
Speaker 1: dream celebrity cast or lead? Well, I'm I'm really on

827
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: a Chris Evans kick right now. So only if I

828
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: get to be a contestant that gets put up to win.

829
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:36,279
Speaker 1: So I have to have some kind of contract, did

830
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 1: Neil Lane ring at the end, Yeah, Yeah, I have

831
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 1: been trying to. I've been commenting. I was telling Bark,

832
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm commenting on his posts as if I'm already dating him.

833
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: And I have now four messages from Chris Evans, four

834
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 1: different accounts. Obviously they're all him saying hello, So I

835
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: don't know what he's messaged you back. Well, people that

836
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:01,359
Speaker 1: are that think they're him. So I'm like one step

837
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:08,919
Speaker 1: closer fake accounts, but yet I don't want I want

838
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,399
Speaker 1: it like our first message needs to be cute because

839
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: it's going to be referenced at our wedding obviously. Okay, Um,

840
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: so I'm thinking on that right now, and just you know,

841
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 1: work working things out with these fake for sevens, getting

842
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: all the kinks out before really cute that you think

843
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 1: the first thing that will be mentioned is your first

844
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 1: DM and not that you've been commenting like a crazy

845
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,399
Speaker 1: person on his post as if you're a couple. Well,

846
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,800
Speaker 1: I want to ask you this so because this is

847
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: a Bachelor podcast and you are fans um and I

848
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: will get into a rosen thorn with you both, but

849
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: put me in the hot seat, And is there anything

850
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 1: that you want to ask me? And I wish Michelle

851
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: is here too to answer, But is there anything that

852
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 1: you want to ask or know that you've just been

853
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: dying to find out, whether it's bachelor related as a contestant,

854
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 1: as a lead, or from paradise? How much time do

855
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 1: we have? Um? Okay, first question, why aren't you guys

856
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: allowed to eat the food? I knew. I was like,

857
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 1: it's going to be with that, that's like continuity. Well,

858
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,839
Speaker 1: so that's actually like the number one question we always get.

859
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 1: So when you're filming, the camera crew and team will

860
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: go and set up all of everything early before the

861
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 1: couple of ring gets to wherever they're filming, and so

862
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 1: they'll grab still shots of the table with the food

863
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: and they really don't want you to move it around.

864
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,840
Speaker 1: So usually before each date they'll have I mean like

865
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: because we're getting ready in the rooms, they'll have food

866
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 1: for you so you can order come service if you're

867
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: at a hotel, whatever. So they'll always feed us beforehand.

868
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 1: But yeah, on the actual dates, it's like like a

869
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,319
Speaker 1: full fish ballet with the eyeballs and the mouth still there,

870
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:53,760
Speaker 1: and it just like is sitting there to look farm.

871
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: There was one time I think I ate food on

872
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 1: a date and it's because it was mac and cheese

873
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 1: and it didn't look half bad. But yeah, otherwise they'll

874
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:05,479
Speaker 1: feed you before and after. I mean, we're constantly eating

875
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: on the show. We really are. It's just those like

876
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:11,400
Speaker 1: plated meals rather than the pretty shots. And that's what

877
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 1: I figured. But I was like, you know what, I

878
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 1: got back a right here in front of me. Yeah. Yeah,

879
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:18,399
Speaker 1: I really wish they would get close ups of them

880
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: sometimes because like before they look lovely, it's like this

881
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,879
Speaker 1: full meal with all the sides and everything, but then

882
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 1: close up you're like, don't, yeah, don't don't. Yeah, all right, yeah,

883
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: what about you, Grisham, So we can ask anything, right, yes,

884
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:36,280
Speaker 1: I think so this is not even an exciting question,

885
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: but I feel like it's become more and more obvious

886
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 1: that people are going on this show less about finding

887
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,959
Speaker 1: love and more about getting that follow account up, because

888
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,239
Speaker 1: that's really our only way to judge anybody's worth in

889
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 1: this world now. So I want to know what was

890
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 1: your reason? Were you genuinely on this show to find

891
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:03,280
Speaker 1: love or was it mostly if I love a little

892
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 1: bit to get into wherever you wanted to get into.

893
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 1: That's a good question. So when I went on, it

894
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 1: was in twenty seventeen, and so that was before TikTok,

895
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:19,760
Speaker 1: Like I barely knew how to use Twitter. I believe

896
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 1: when I left for The Bachelor, I probably had like

897
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: four hundred and thirty eight followers and so, and it

898
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 1: was before and I think it was like at the

899
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:33,240
Speaker 1: time when like brand deals and collaborations, like we're starting,

900
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 1: so we really didn't know where it was going to go.

901
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 1: So when I personally left, I was in the mindframe

902
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 1: of I had been like working at my same job

903
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 1: for five six years. I was over it. I wanted

904
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: to change, and I was like I'm single now, why not?

905
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 1: Like I was more so for the adventure, like I

906
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 1: really actually was most extended to travel, like that's what

907
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: I wanted to do. Yeah, And so I left thinking

908
00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 1: I was going to be gone for two weeks, being

909
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,400
Speaker 1: like I'm going to t travel, I'll hopefully meet some

910
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: cool girls and you know, have some l seen friendships yea,

911
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:09,359
Speaker 1: and so um that's kind of my mindset. And then

912
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: it wasn't because I went straight from basically straight from

913
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:17,280
Speaker 1: ri season as a contestant to right after filming my season,

914
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: And it wasn't until I got off of my season

915
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:24,240
Speaker 1: where there was like all of the extra fun stuff

916
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: on social media, like brand collaborations, and I was getting

917
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,360
Speaker 1: able to get paid off of that, And so that

918
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,360
Speaker 1: to me at that point was just an added bonus

919
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,479
Speaker 1: because I was like, oh, this is cool. I didn't

920
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:35,319
Speaker 1: know what to expect. I just thought I was going

921
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,919
Speaker 1: to go back to my old nine to five PR job.

922
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, when I went on, I was so naive,

923
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:46,239
Speaker 1: so naive, like, yeah, yeah, you have no idea what

924
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 1: you're gonna get. But don't you think it's kind of

925
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 1: better that way where it's like you're just excited about

926
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 1: it to see what would happen if it fails or

927
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 1: goes to ship. You know, at least you gave it

928
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 1: a shot. Yeah, so that's why I kind of like that,

929
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: you know, I kind of like that I went in

930
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 1: back in twenty seventeen where it wasn't a major thing

931
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: at that point. Yeah, I also kind of feel like, granted,

932
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 1: you're literally the only person on this show that I've

933
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: ever talked to, but I feel like the ones that

934
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:15,760
Speaker 1: do make it far and have the kind of success

935
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: that you've had came in with that mindset, Like it

936
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 1: wasn't like I just feel like because I think that's

937
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: a really healthy mindset, because it's I think it's kind

938
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 1: of naive to be like I'm going to meet the

939
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 1: love of my life, like maybe, but like I'm doing

940
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 1: this because I want to have fun and maybe like

941
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:33,880
Speaker 1: see some cool places, make some friends. I feel like

942
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:41,240
Speaker 1: that's the healthiest way to approach this kind of show. Yeah, yeah, well, yeah, exactly.

943
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 1: There's so many unknowns. You have no idea what a

944
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:46,919
Speaker 1: relationship with the lead is going to be, like any

945
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 1: relationship with cast members will be like, and so you

946
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: kind of like just go up with no expectations' That's

947
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 1: like what I tell people going in Paradise, like, don't

948
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 1: have a set plan. Don't be like I'm going to

949
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 1: find a partner or I'm gonna leave with the ring

950
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 1: on my finger, or I'm gonna build my following with

951
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand extra followers. Like we've seen that with

952
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:10,839
Speaker 1: people in the past, and it's truly never worked out

953
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: for anyone in that part. If that's the case, Yeah,

954
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:16,760
Speaker 1: so yeah, do you feel Becca like it was easier

955
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:21,840
Speaker 1: to be a contestant the Bachelorette or on Paradise Paradise

956
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 1: one thousand, Well, and actually as a contestant on the Bachelor,

957
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 1: because again I had no idea what I was in for.

958
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: I was like, hopefully I'll have some free food, meet

959
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:33,319
Speaker 1: some cole people, and travel. You only you stick around

960
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:35,839
Speaker 1: long enough to like make it some more fun. Yeah,

961
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 1: but and so that part was so much fun. But

962
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: Paradise I kind of had a better understanding of just

963
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: how things were filmed. And but Paradise already knew some

964
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 1: of my friends that were going to be down there too,

965
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 1: so I already want to be like, it's gonna be

966
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: a fun summer. I had zero expectations because I kept

967
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 1: saying no to it. So I was like, well, I'm

968
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: you know, so I'm going to go back to my

969
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 1: life that I love after this. But Paradise was such

970
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: a black It's like summer camp for adult switch alcoholic

971
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 1: and like hot people to book it on the beach. Yeah,

972
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:09,800
Speaker 1: they need to make that like not just for the

973
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 1: thirty people in the Bachelor Nation, open for everyone, like

974
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:18,479
Speaker 1: a Norm's version. Yeah, wis they I wish they would

975
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,879
Speaker 1: have more people, I say on the beach because it's

976
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: so much fun. It's just yeah, yeah, it's just like

977
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:28,359
Speaker 1: a mumflong vacation. It's yeah. It was as blast all

978
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: write you two. It has been so much fun. But

979
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: before we let you both go, we do this with

980
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 1: all of our listeners all sorry, all of our guests

981
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 1: where we asked them the rose and thorn of their week,

982
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 1: so highlight favorite moment and then low light or least

983
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 1: favorite worst moment of the week. So all started to

984
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 1: make it easy. Okay, I'm gonna start with my thorn.

985
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, oh shit, I don't even know if

986
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: I have a thorn. To be honest, um brag, um

987
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 1: a thorn would be wow. I like really need to

988
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 1: put some thought into this. Um, I'm just gonna give

989
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 1: a rose this week, and I mean, so many fun

990
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 1: things have happened, but Thomas and I celebrated our one

991
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: year anniversary and his dirty thirty birthday. So that's it's

992
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: just been a good week. I don't even want to

993
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 1: taint it with a thing. You know we covered on

994
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: an episode of Richard Daily Engagement. Oh yeah, yeah yeah.

995
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:39,319
Speaker 1: So wait, what were your thoughts. I mean, we loved it. Yeah,

996
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 1: we were all so here for it. And I even said,

997
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: I think on the show, like I loved you guys

998
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,719
Speaker 1: in Paradise. I was like, we finally got to see

999
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 1: a different side of Thomas, and I'm here for it. Yeah.

1000
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 1: So I'm good it's working out. We'll check that one out.

1001
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 1: Thank you. He'll be thrilled, He'll he'll appreciate that so much.

1002
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 1: We assume that this will be enough to get invites

1003
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,439
Speaker 1: to the wedding. Yeah, just we pushed our producer's last

1004
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 1: cover it or at least end well, dust off the barket. No,

1005
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,719
Speaker 1: I want you all to have fun too, so don't.

1006
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm not going to put you to work. Okay, We're

1007
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:13,279
Speaker 1: gonna have a good time, all right, Okay, who wants

1008
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 1: to take it away? Rose? And Thorne? Do you have one?

1009
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 1: I can go? Okay, so Thorne would probably be So

1010
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 1: this air AIRPNB that we rented our friend that's in

1011
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 1: from Canada literally went to this TV premiere yesterday for

1012
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: like six hours or like, we drove five minutes from

1013
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 1: our apartments to hang out with you at this apartment

1014
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:39,360
Speaker 1: and you're us yeah, yeah, yeah, um, and the rose

1015
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,759
Speaker 1: I gotta say meeting you Becca because we love you.

1016
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 1: Thank you. This has been such a fun padast. Yeah,

1017
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 1: thank you. Try and top that, Arisha. I know I'm

1018
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 1: an asshole if I don't say the same shit. Um.

1019
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:55,920
Speaker 1: I mean my thorn is going to be the laundry.

1020
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,840
Speaker 1: Talk about beginning and ending. This is a perfect book end.

1021
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 1: You're this episode or um just doing full circle? Um?

1022
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: And since I god forbid, I say the same thing

1023
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,399
Speaker 1: as Brooke. This is absolutely a rose. But my other

1024
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 1: rose is despite our one friend leaving us yesterday, our

1025
00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:19,280
Speaker 1: original producer on Even the Rich when we first started,

1026
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: the guy who actually technically i'll say discovered us. He

1027
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 1: was the one who listened to the audition tapes. He

1028
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 1: we still talked to him and he came over and

1029
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 1: we hung out for pop some champagne and it was

1030
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:32,840
Speaker 1: just it's always fun to see him. So that was

1031
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 1: that was my rose and being on this show, but

1032
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 1: especially yes right well, thank you both. It has been

1033
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: such a fun one. I just love, like I said

1034
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 1: at the top, like not only fellow podcasters, but just

1035
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: like badass women. It doesn't feel like a job, ro

1036
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 1: like work right now, like it just like, it's a

1037
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 1: good I wish we could do this in person, so

1038
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 1: we could just drink some wine and you know, catch

1039
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 1: it more one day. One day, we will definitely have

1040
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:02,839
Speaker 1: to have you back and pop some champagne to celebrate. Yeah,

1041
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: but before you both leave, please give all of our

1042
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:07,759
Speaker 1: listeners a little tidbit of where they can find you

1043
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: on social media and where they can check out the podcasts. Okay,

1044
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 1: I'm on Instagram and Twitter at Arisha skid Dubs Ski

1045
00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 1: d Dubs. Having two last names is a nightmare. Let

1046
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 1: me tell you, um and then do it too. I

1047
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 1: love it. I love I mean it was what I

1048
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: got by names, what I was bored. It was uncommon

1049
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 1: and it's more and more common this day and age

1050
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 1: to have, like I have both my parents last names.

1051
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 1: But yeah, filling out those scantrons my last name out. Oh,

1052
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 1: I did never think about that. But other than that,

1053
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: it's great And it's too long for a Twitter handle,

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