WEBVTT - BEST OF 2024: Shady Mailbag #1 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:05.200 Speaks to the planet, Charlamagne to God here and as 0:00:05.200 --> 0:00:07.440 we come closer to the closing out this year, I 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:09.280 just want to say thank you for tuning into the 0:00:09.280 --> 0:00:12.120 Black Podcast Network. There have been so many great moments 0:00:12.160 --> 0:00:13.960 over the past year. Take a listen to some of 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:16.760 those captivating moments in this special best of episode. 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:22.160 Now listen, we got some listener commentary whatnot I'm going 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:23.040 to read one. 0:00:22.960 --> 0:00:25.360 Right now, see trick. What is how do you pronounce 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:25.759 that name? 0:00:26.160 --> 0:00:26.680 Keltric? 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:27.360 Keltric? 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:32.760 Okay, Hello, Rod Jerries, Hello, and it is The subject 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:38.760 is I eat soft bacon Keltric eats soft bacon. Hi, 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:42.599 my name's Keltric. I'm twenty nine in Monroe, Louisiana. So 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.920 sorry to scream at you in the subject. But because 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:48.400 in the subject says I eat soft bacon, it's all 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:50.839 cats caps, Caltric stops screaming at me. 0:00:51.400 --> 0:00:52.560 All right, he says. 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:57.920 Budgeselle said that the email had seemed threatening for you 0:00:57.960 --> 0:01:01.520 to read it. Oh did I say that? Yes, We're 0:01:01.520 --> 0:01:03.680 only going to read emails that are threatening. 0:01:03.840 --> 0:01:05.880 You said, if you like threaten us well to read 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:08.640 the email, then then we'll read it. Really, Yeah, why 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:10.960 did I say that? Because you eat blueberry. 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:12.919 I wasn't eating them at the time, so. 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:17.600 All right, So if you gonna read it anyway, I know, 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:20.080 I just want you to know that I love soft bacon. 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:25.080 It's not chewy bacon. I'm sure there aren't many of us, 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:26.800 but we are out here. 0:01:28.360 --> 0:01:28.840 Anyway. 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:31.280 Love you guys on RHL, P Robin I will be 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:34.959 Robin will be missed, and I love the podcast. Ps Gaselle, 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:38.000 you are the best housewife there is. Oh in my opinion, 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:40.520 I love you forever. Okay, thank you Kelcher. Okay, but 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:41.759 soft bacon is disgusting. 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:47.880 Okay, I think there's a level of soft bacon because 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:51.400 there's some crispy bacon that is too crispy. I can 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:54.320 see where the crispy can go overboard if it's burnt. 0:01:54.520 --> 0:01:59.600 Yeah yeah, so not burnt crispy, but like but also 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:02.840 not crispy where it's like all the pieces are breaking up. 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:04.960 I like that, really, Yes, it's. 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:07.800 All breaking up in my mouth. That's so good. Yeah, 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:08.560 Like I don't. 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:10.920 Want all the pieces to break up. She just wouldn't 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:12.560 be like a little little Chris. 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:16.480 Okay, but not soft soft is like not cooked almost right, 0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:19.320 So Celtrier get yourself together. 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:21.040 Okay, I have something from. 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:26.080 The the Ali Ali Hawkins family, my favorite folks. 0:02:26.600 --> 0:02:27.160 High ladies. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:30.520 I'm currently in the bathroom with my earbuds and listening 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:33.720 to reasonably shady and scrolling on my phone. So yes, 0:02:34.280 --> 0:02:36.840 the cell phone is in the bathroom. 0:02:36.960 --> 0:02:39.000 Yep lol, yep. 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:42.960 So if y'all don't know, we discussed previously, what do 0:02:43.000 --> 0:02:45.000 you do when you go number two? Yeah, and I 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:47.840 just go in there and go. Yeah, Robin goes in there. 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:50.480 She takes her phone, she takes the Bible, she takes 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:51.280 all kinds of things. 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:54.520 I used to have a stack of magazines before Instagram 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:58.080 was a thing. Yeah, she takes everything because not because 0:02:58.080 --> 0:02:58.760 that's needed? 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:00.400 Is that needed in order to go? 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:01.120 Uh? 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:06.320 Yeah, Like I don't unfortunately for the I mean sometimes 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:08.880 I'm like, okay, in and out right, but unfortunately I'm 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:12.080 not always in and out. It's just it like takes 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:12.839 a minute. 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:14.960 Okay, and that you don't want to just be sitting 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:16.520 there with your own personal. 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:21.200 Thoughts, no, Like I want to catch up on light. 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:23.480 Like, Okay, I. 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:25.280 Do some of my best thinking, I feel like I do. 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:28.560 I come up with my best ideas in the shower. Yeah, 0:03:28.639 --> 0:03:29.760 like you know, I'll be in the shower and I 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:33.280 have like this great idea and I'll of course forget it. 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:35.640 But you know, sometimes I'll remember to like get out 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:37.280 the shower and put it down on my notes before 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:38.760 I forget. But I don't know why I feel like 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:41.040 I come with my best ideas in the shower. Yeah, 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:44.040 but back to the toilet, yeah, I mean, it's just 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:47.640 it's just like and then it's also like, I mean, 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:48.960 I guess you could do the same thing like on 0:03:49.040 --> 0:03:51.240 the couch, but you know, if you live in a 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:54.440 house with people, like this is your your private time, 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:59.680 right hopefully to just sit in blacks, yeah, be by 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:03.160 your and scroll Instagram and not be interrupted. 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:05.440 I just okay, So, like when you go to wipe, 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:06.880 where do you put the phone? 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:09.840 So I have a ledge. So first of all, I 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:14.120 only use my left hand to hold my phone. 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:14.960 Okay, got it. 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:17.119 I only wipe with my right hand. 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:17.559 Okay. 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:20.280 But still it's like cross contamination. Okay, So I have 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:24.520 a ledge. Do you ever see those toilet roll holders 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:27.440 toilet paper holders and it has like a ledge on top. 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:27.760 Yeah? 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:31.080 Yeah, so my phone goes on the ledge, oh okay, yeah. 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:32.120 And then you go wash your hands and you come 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:32.680 back and get it. 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:34.680 Yes. Wow, that's a lot. 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:38.720 Okay, I don't ever, I dad say, I don't ever 0:04:38.760 --> 0:04:42.680 bring my phone in the bathroom at all. Yeah, yeah, okay, okay, 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:45.880 Hi ladies, this is from to stop it. Okay, So 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:50.320 Raquel not Rachel, this is then actually the last time 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:53.960 that you can email us, because we're going through our 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:56.680 emails and you've probably emailed us like twenty times back 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:59.360 to back. Yeah, two different Okay, So this is it 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:01.280 for you, Raquel not Rachel. 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:01.920 This is it. 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:04.039 Hi, ladies, love the show. 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:07.200 Robin gave a shout out to the producer for editing 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:09.640 something she wanted out of the show and raved about 0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:12.960 how amazing producers are. And she's right, that is very true. 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:16.159 Producers are amazing. Yes, you guys have no clue. Yeah, 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:17.440 how amazing they are. 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:18.800 Hey, Taylor, hello. 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:21.200 That I do a podcast with my friend called R 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:24.559 and R Experience and I am the one who edits 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:27.839 our show. Editing has been the most challenging aspect of podcasting, 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:31.160 from Wi Fi disruptions, Mike's not working, random glitches, and 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:33.840 all the talkative guests who overshare I. 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:35.800 Have to fix it all. I love it and I 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:38.440 hate it. It's definitely a complicated relationship. 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:38.920 Lol. 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:42.800 What has been the hardest part of podcasting for you guys? 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:43.559 That's our question. 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:46.599 And then she, of course she wants this is her 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:51.440 publicizing her podcast R and R Experience, but Raquel also 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:54.760 known as not Rachel, this is your last email to 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:58.039 us SIS. Okay, so everybody check out her podcast. But 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:01.400 I think it None of this podcast for us, for 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:04.400 me has been hard, right, So there is no hardest. 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:04.560 Part for me. 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:08.800 Yeah, we definitely are blessed because I've had people reach 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:10.640 out and say, oh, can you give us advice on 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:13.640 starting a podcast all the time? You know, what do 0:06:13.680 --> 0:06:17.080 you do? And I'm like, to be honest, we are 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:21.840 blessed to have already been on a public platform so 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:26.560 that our experience getting into podcasting was very seamless. We 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:31.800 already had an audience, We already have the support, you 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:35.680 know from the producers and the editors and the you know, 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:37.600 the people who upload, Like, I can't tell you how 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:38.600 to upload an episode. 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:39.320 I can't tell. 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:41.520 You you know what I mean, I can't tell you the thing, No, 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:44.120 I can't you know, all of that type of stuff. 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:48.560 So we've been really blessed. But I know for people 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:51.360 who do start a podcast on their own from scratch, 0:06:51.720 --> 0:06:55.880 it is a grind, and I think the hardest part 0:06:56.080 --> 0:07:03.040 probably for those people are probably being consistent, yeah, while 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:06.480 not necessarily having an audience just yet. Yes, you know, 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:11.880 so you're you're recording these these episodes and of course 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:15.440 hopefully your friends and family and people listen, but you 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:17.360 don't know how to get other people to listen. So 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:21.000 I would think for people unlike us, the hardest part 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:23.119 would be just building it and growing it and staying 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:25.520 consistent and staying in the game without quitting. 0:07:25.560 --> 0:07:27.680 You guys, you got to definitely stay consistent. You don't 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.440 ever want to, like because there have been times when 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:33.040 we're been extra extra busy and we could have like 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:35.400 not had an episode that week, but we always try 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:36.720 to get it in because you never want to leave 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:39.720 your listeners like with nothing. I'm not the person because 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:42.240 a lot of people have asked me to critique their podcast. 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:44.520 Oh wow, I'm so not the person to do that. 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:47.800 Yeah, because I have had to have given feedback that 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:51.160 was like, stick with their data, don't do this. 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:52.360 You sound terrible. 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:55.560 Your voice is monotone, Like nobody wants to listen to this, 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:56.240 I've done that. 0:07:56.400 --> 0:07:57.160 I've been that friend. 0:07:57.320 --> 0:08:02.400 Oh no, So like also also be realistic, Yeah, because 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:04.240 I don't want you spinning your wheels or feeling like 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:07.040 this is great and everybody's telling you that it's not. 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:09.440 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think a lot of people think 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:11.840 it's easy. I mean we you know, there's we always 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:15.720 hear about somebody getting into podcasting, whether they're whether it's 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:17.920 whether they're celebrities or even your friends, like, hey, we're 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:19.080 gonna start a podcasting thinking. 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:19.600 Of Scherisa has one? 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:20.400 Now is do it? Well? 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:22.160 By the way, listen to it. I need to listen 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:22.320 to it. 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:24.520 I tried to listen to it and for whatever reason, 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:27.520 my Apple podcasts wouldn't play it. But I'm gonna I'm 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:28.200 gonna try again. 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:30.840 But yeah, so. 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:34.760 It's you can get into it, it's staying in it 0:08:34.920 --> 0:08:37.960 that is really the challenge. Absolutely absolutely. 0:08:38.080 --> 0:08:39.440 And try to get a deal, even though they're not 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:42.040 really giving out podcast deals these days. Like, try to 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:43.720 get a deal because that means that you'll have like 0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:47.080 potentially a producer and they'll take care of the back end. 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:47.400 Right. 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:49.000 But I think in order to get a deal, you 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:51.640 either a have to be like us and already have 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:55.560 some sort of public platform, you know, or some sort 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:59.079 of be a public figure or be have a podcast 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:02.200 that you've started that you can show the you know, 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:06.959 the numbers for. Yeah, so that's easy. Yeah, so just 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:10.559 don't start a podcast. I don't know, I mean podcasting 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:13.240 to me and Robin, right, if you do it, do 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:15.640 it because you love it. Yes, but yeah, I know, 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:16.880 I know there's a lot of people like, oh, we 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:19.280 should start a podcast, right, what should I do? And 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:20.960 I'm like, I don't want to like sell you a 0:09:21.040 --> 0:09:24.679 dream because my experience is different. 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:27.800 Right, but I can say, like I have loved doing it. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.040 Yeah, Like you know, this is our fourth season. 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:32.360 There's there's never been a time where I'm like, ah, 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:35.439 I'm dreading it, right, or like I can't believe we 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:36.880 have to do reasons to be shaded tomorrow and be 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:39.360 like pissed about it because there's other jobs that I've 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:43.760 had that I've felt that way, right, Yeah, but like, yeah, no, 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:44.600 this has been a joy. 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:47.320 Yeah, yeah, absolutely, Yeah, So I don't have I don't 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:50.520 have a negative either. But I think the most challenging 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:52.359 part was just the consistency. 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:54.640 I would say, Okay, so this says where do you 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:57.959 both see yourself? This is from images or something I 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:01.280 don't know. Thank you for writing. Where do you both 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:02.760 see yourselves? In ten years? 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:03.240 Oh? 0:10:03.280 --> 0:10:03.679 Wow? 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:06.199 So ten years for me, like all my kids will 0:10:06.240 --> 0:10:09.040 be out of college. Yeah, I might even have a 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:13.400 grandchild by then, right, yes, yeah, and I'm gonna be 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:15.680 Oh my gosh, they're gonna be on my knee. 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:16.760 I'm rocking them to sleep. 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:17.360 That's why. 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:19.040 That's what I'm gonna be doing your ten years. 0:10:19.120 --> 0:10:20.080 Can you envision that? 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:20.520 Why? 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:24.000 Now, I totally cam like a cute little grand baby. Yes, 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:25.240 I would be so happy. 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:28.520 Oh yeah, that's so crazy to think. Ten years. Okay, 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:31.200 so in ten years, I'm forty five. Now, ten years i'll. 0:10:31.120 --> 0:10:32.240 Be fifty five. 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:36.040 I will be in the club with my kids. 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:36.720 Yeah. 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:38.960 Wait, I will be partying in the club with my 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:39.360 kid and. 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:42.040 I'm gonna be there too, y'all at gonna leave me behind. 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:42.520 Yes. 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:46.160 So recently I was joking with one of my daughters 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.800 because she's going to my where I went to college. 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:50.960 I went to Hampton. She's going doors going to Hampton. 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:54.839 And so because I know Hampton, I was like, I'm 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:56.440 gonna meet you in the club. Yeah, And so she 0:10:56.559 --> 0:11:00.040 was like, what, monn't say that because she knows I 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:00.600 who will meet her? 0:11:00.640 --> 0:11:03.800 Right, I'm gonna beat you to the club before you 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:05.280 get gonna be at the club at eight o'clock. 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:09.400 Yes, when the clubs, And I'm gonna get the the 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:11.120 the what do you call him? Not the bar service bottle. 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:12.679 I'm gonna get the bottle service. I'm gonna get the 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:16.280 booth like she don't have no money to get no bottle. So, yes, 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:17.600 I'm gonna take care of the clubs. 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:18.120 Yeah. 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:21.920 So I recently asked my kids. I said, when y'all 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:24.280 turn twenty one, will you let me go to the 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:24.760 club with you? 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:25.800 And they both were. 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:29.440 Like yes, yes, And Carter was like, yeah, I'm gonna 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:32.080 be following you around. I'm all right, remember y'all said that. 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:33.200 So that's why I say I'm gonna be in the 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:36.000 club with my kids in ten years. We're going to 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:39.640 be having fun and partying and chilling that because yeah, 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:42.080 we just I don't know my kids. I made it 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:44.199 into cool mom status. I'm gonna stay there. 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:44.880 You want to stay there? 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:46.480 So do you think you could go to a strip 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:48.160 club with your kids? Yeah? 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:48.640 Wow? 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:49.439 Did we talk about this? 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:51.600 Did I talk about how Wiz Khalifa said that he 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:53.080 goes to the strip club with his mom. Did we 0:11:53.080 --> 0:11:54.120 talk about Oh yeah we did. 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:54.640 We did. 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:57.680 Yeah, but I can't because I know your kids, and 0:11:57.760 --> 0:12:00.320 I can't release and you and y'all's dying nam make 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:02.719 like y'all in the strip blod together. Yeah, I can't 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:04.640 really see that right now, but I'm sure it'll happen. 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:05.959 Yeah, I think, I mean. 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:06.160 I don't know. 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:09.000 I think in ten years, like when they're Corey's twenty 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:13.079 six and yeah whatever, I think I could for sure casino, 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:16.600 strip club wherever, wherever we're gonna hang out, not the casino. 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:19.000 Y'all not taking my money, I know. 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:23.080 Yeah that's true. But on a serious note, in ten years, 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:29.000 I definitely envision having more businesses, like more like I'm 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:32.400 opening the Glow Dirty Skincare studio, but I also want 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:35.560 I'm also already looking at other franchises that I could 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:38.240 possibly open, So I'm looking at, like, you know, having 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:41.520 multiple different types of businesses that I can open at 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:41.960 one time. 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:43.880 I like that. 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:45.240 Yeah, yeah, I like that. 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:48.080 You know, we already talked about wanting to move, so 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:48.920 we'll see. 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:52.120 Oh yeah, you're gonna move. But like where could you move. 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:54.080 Did you feel like you'd be happy? 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:57.439 I don't know, California. L'said that the weather, you know. 0:12:57.720 --> 0:13:00.600 Yeah, yeah, so if it's nice the time, you don't 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:02.200 appreciate it. Just keep that in mind. 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:09.800 Very true, yes, very true. So this email came from 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:10.480 Ben Dover. 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:16.480 I kid you not, that's the person's name, Ben, Ben Dover. Yes, 0:13:16.880 --> 0:13:18.760 you think that's his real name? No, I do not, 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:20.000 I do not. 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:21.280 I do not. 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:24.000 Ben Dover. 0:13:24.160 --> 0:13:25.160 You know Dover? 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:25.520 Yes? 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:30.000 And even their email address incorporates Ben Dover in it. 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:32.480 Okay, So no, that's not his real name. Yes, yes, 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:34.800 and if it is changing, right, well, I actually think 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:38.040 this is from a female, so Ben be eaten. So okay, 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:41.400 you think it's from my female. Dover is the last name, Yeah, okay, 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:45.600 Ben Dover. That's made up, all right? And she just 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:46.920 bent us over in this email. 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:49.840 Okay, okay, So she says, Dear Robin and Jaselle really 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:52.079 enjoy the show. I actually love the fact that, unlike 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:54.840 every podcast in the world, you don't have guests. It's 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:58.360 just you two talking about whatever. It's refreshing and entertaining. 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:01.080 On your podcast that aired the week of June third, 0:14:01.679 --> 0:14:04.679 you both were pushing somewhat hard on ladies. You should 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:07.600 get botox and do the enhancements to your face. Robin 0:14:07.640 --> 0:14:09.559 went on to state how it's all about preserving your 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:12.240 youthful looks. While that is all well in Dandy, there 0:14:12.320 --> 0:14:15.360 also is a population that feels that aging gracefully and 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:19.320 naturally is still a thing. Okay, life is about balance, 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:21.560 so sure, good skincare is great and fine. But to 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:25.000 encourage others to inject botox regularly in an attempt to 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:27.720 mask the fact that, yes, we are aging, it's something 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:31.040 I don't agree with. Many people see beauties like Vanessa Williams, 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:33.680 halle Berry and even at seventy eight years old Helen 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:37.200 Mirren as still being extremely gorgeous, but having aged naturally 0:14:37.600 --> 0:14:40.400 and not succumbing to social media pressure of following the crowd. 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:43.160 Trust me when I say many men still feel like 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:48.480 Paulina Portsakova. Pooritzakova. She's a supermodel who has had no surgery, 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:52.280 no fillers, no botox, could get it now today. So 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:54.640 I said, you both, who have the benefit of natural, 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:58.200 genetic based beauty, please support the natural aging process and 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:01.360 beauty and stop attempting to come heat with all of 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:05.880 the other housewives who have almost become unrecognizable, like someone 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:12.280 that rhymes with Baron Booker. I hate I had loved 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:17.440 at y'all, not Baron Booker. 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:21.560 Okay, I did love that. 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:26.200 Sorry, y'all, I'd hate for both of you to end 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:30.160 up looking like green eyed versions of the current Little Kim. Okay. 0:15:30.240 --> 0:15:35.000 I don't remember ever pushing botox on people. Well, right, we. 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:35.720 Weren't pushing it. 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:38.760 I was, so remember we talked about we were talking 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:39.680 about the lip flip. 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:41.120 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, then we. 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:43.400 Were talking about we started talking about botox, and I 0:15:43.440 --> 0:15:46.200 was saying how I think both for me, botox is 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:48.720 not about changing the way I look, but about just 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:51.520 kind of preventing your wrinkles from getting deeper. Right, So 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:55.920 I'm not pushing it on anyone by any means, but 0:15:56.120 --> 0:15:59.200 I personally just if I can prevent my wrinkles from 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:01.760 getting deeper from then That's what I'm going to do. 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:06.440 I don't want to change the way I look, right totally. 0:16:06.480 --> 0:16:09.280 I'm not trying to turn my face into someone else's 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:12.360 face or I'm not trying to you know. So, so yes, 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:15.080 I I and I am a very natural person. I'm 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:17.640 sitting here with no makeup on like I you know, 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:21.360 so I'm I would definitely prefer to be more natural 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:26.200 than not. However, I just you know, for me personally, 0:16:27.160 --> 0:16:29.800 if I can stop my wrinkles from getting deeper, then 0:16:29.840 --> 0:16:31.560 that's what I'm going to do. So so and I'm 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:34.080 not going to judge anyone that's not doing that. I'm 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:36.200 not going to you know, but if people and it 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:40.520 was more for people who think botox is about changing 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:42.520 the way you look, and it was just just letting 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:44.840 you all know it's not necessarily to change the way 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:47.920 you look. It's more about just preventing your wrinkles from 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:48.520 getting deeper. 0:16:48.640 --> 0:16:51.800 Right, That's but who did she say? It hasn't gotten 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:53.359 is a natural and hasn't gotten. 0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:58.480 Said Halle Berry, Vanessa Williams, and Paulina Portzakova. 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:01.280 So she feels like they haven't because of the way 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:02.840 their face looks or because they've. 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:05.879 Said that, I don't know. Okay, So all of those. 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:08.040 People have gotten work done, right, period. 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:12.160 I don't want anyone to think that there's probably one 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:15.080 percent of people that are in front of a camera 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:19.000 that haven't gotten anything done to their face, body, whatever. 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:22.320 So shut up, bend over. We don't like you. 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:26.040 Okay, go away, bend Over, bend somewhere else. 0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:30.840 And Bendover is definitely a woman, because no man is 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:33.560 even thinking about this like that. So yeah, bend Over, 0:17:33.600 --> 0:17:36.640 goodbye the worst, You're the worst, bend. 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:39.640 Over, Bendover that wants the menu over. Okay, not in. 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:40.080 A good way. 0:17:40.280 --> 0:17:43.800 Okay, totally not in a good way. Asia sent us, 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:45.040