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Speaker 1: Speaks to the planet, Charlamagne to God here and as

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Speaker 1: we come closer to the closing out this year, I

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Speaker 1: just want to say thank you for tuning into the

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Speaker 1: Black Podcast Network. There have been so many great moments

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Speaker 1: over the past year. Take a listen to some of

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Speaker 1: those captivating moments in this special best of episode.

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Speaker 2: Now listen, we got some listener commentary whatnot I'm going

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Speaker 2: to read one.

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Speaker 3: Right now, see trick. What is how do you pronounce

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Speaker 3: that name?

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Speaker 4: Keltric?

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Speaker 5: Keltric?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, Rod Jerries, Hello, and it is The subject

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Speaker 2: is I eat soft bacon Keltric eats soft bacon. Hi,

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Speaker 2: my name's Keltric. I'm twenty nine in Monroe, Louisiana. So

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Speaker 2: sorry to scream at you in the subject. But because

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Speaker 2: in the subject says I eat soft bacon, it's all

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Speaker 2: cats caps, Caltric stops screaming at me.

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Speaker 3: All right, he says.

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Speaker 2: Budgeselle said that the email had seemed threatening for you

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Speaker 2: to read it. Oh did I say that? Yes, We're

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Speaker 2: only going to read emails that are threatening.

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Speaker 4: You said, if you like threaten us well to read

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Speaker 4: the email, then then we'll read it. Really, Yeah, why

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Speaker 4: did I say that? Because you eat blueberry.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't eating them at the time, so.

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Speaker 2: All right, So if you gonna read it anyway, I know,

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Speaker 2: I just want you to know that I love soft bacon.

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Speaker 2: It's not chewy bacon. I'm sure there aren't many of us,

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Speaker 2: Love you guys on RHL, P Robin I will be

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Speaker 2: Robin will be missed, and I love the podcast. Ps Gaselle,

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Speaker 2: you are the best housewife there is. Oh in my opinion,

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Speaker 2: I love you forever. Okay, thank you Kelcher. Okay, but

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Speaker 2: soft bacon is disgusting.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I think there's a level of soft bacon because

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Speaker 4: there's some crispy bacon that is too crispy. I can

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, so not burnt crispy, but like but also

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Speaker 4: I like that, really, Yes, it's.

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Speaker 3: All breaking up in my mouth. That's so good. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Want all the pieces to break up. She just wouldn't

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Speaker 4: be like a little little Chris.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but not soft soft is like not cooked almost right,

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Speaker 2: So Celtrier get yourself together.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I have something from.

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Speaker 2: The the Ali Ali Hawkins family, my favorite folks.

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Speaker 3: High ladies.

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Speaker 2: I'm currently in the bathroom with my earbuds and listening

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Speaker 2: So if y'all don't know, we discussed previously, what do

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Speaker 3: Is that needed in order to go?

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Speaker 4: I only wipe with my right hand.

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Speaker 2: Hi ladies, this is from to stop it. Okay, So

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Speaker 2: Raquel not Rachel, this is then actually the last time

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Speaker 2: that you can email us, because we're going through our

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Speaker 3: Hi, ladies, love the show.

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Speaker 2: Robin gave a shout out to the producer for editing

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Speaker 2: how amazing producers are. And she's right, that is very true.

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Speaker 2: Producers are amazing. Yes, you guys have no clue. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: That I do a podcast with my friend called R

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Speaker 2: and R Experience and I am the one who edits

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Speaker 2: our show. Editing has been the most challenging aspect of podcasting,

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Speaker 2: And then she, of course she wants this is her

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Speaker 2: known as not Rachel, this is your last email to

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Speaker 2: You guys, you got to definitely stay consistent. You don't

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Speaker 2: your listeners like with nothing. I'm not the person because

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Speaker 2: I've done that.

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Speaker 4: It's you can get into it, it's staying in it

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Speaker 4: You know, we already talked about wanting to move, so

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Speaker 4: I don't know, California. L'said that the weather, you know.

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Speaker 4: Very true, yes, very true. So this email came from

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Speaker 4: Ben Dover.

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Speaker 2: I kid you not, that's the person's name, Ben, Ben Dover. Yes,

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Speaker 4: And even their email address incorporates Ben Dover in it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, So she says, Dear Robin and Jaselle really

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Speaker 4: On your podcast that aired the week of June third,

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Speaker 4: so sure, good skincare is great and fine. But to

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Speaker 4: Paulina Portsakova. Pooritzakova. She's a supermodel who has had no surgery,

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Speaker 5: Okay, I did love that.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, y'all, I'd hate for both of you to end

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Speaker 4: I don't remember ever pushing botox on people. Well, right, we.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to change the way I look, right totally.

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Speaker 2: Right, That's but who did she say? It hasn't gotten

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Speaker 2: I don't want anyone to think that there's probably one

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Speaker 3: So shut up, bend over. We don't like you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, go away, bend Over, bend somewhere else.

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Speaker 2: And Bendover is definitely a woman, because no man is

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Speaker 2: goodbye the worst, You're the worst, bend.

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Speaker 3: Over, Bendover that wants the menu over. Okay, not in.

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Speaker 2: Okay, totally not in a good way. Asia sent us,

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Speaker 5: Is she coming to Philly? Asia? Asia? Asia?

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Speaker 5: Oh, I like that thirty years loved. Happy Birthday.

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Speaker 2: It would mean the world to me for my favorite

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Speaker 4: She can't be talking about us because somebody in this

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Speaker 2: So can't be Yeah, and which listen the first class

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Speaker 4: So, first of all, happy thirtieth birthday, Asia, Yes, thirty

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Speaker 5: A right, forty is good.

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Speaker 3: But oh happy birthday?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So thirty is awesome. So my thirtieth birthday.

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Speaker 3: I share.

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Speaker 4: Okay. I have a group of friends college friends, and

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Speaker 4: I can't remember how many of us, it's like probably

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Speaker 4: like ten of us. So we're going to Miami doing

445
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Speaker 4: the Miami thing. We had activities planned, you know, dinner, clubs,

446
00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:59,520
Speaker 4: yacht all this type of stuff, right, all these activities.

447
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Speaker 4: Everyone we're all on Gosh, when I was thirty, I

448
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:03,600
Speaker 4: don't even know if it was like a group. I

449
00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,680
Speaker 4: don't know how we communicated, but emails whatever. Everyone got

450
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:10,840
Speaker 4: the itinerary. Everyone knew where we're staying, what we're paying,

451
00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:14,159
Speaker 4: what we're doing, blah blah blah blah blah blah. So

452
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Speaker 4: my best friend from college at the time.

453
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Speaker 5: Was going.

454
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Speaker 4: But she was notorious for always wanting a hookup.

455
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Speaker 5: Oh god, I hate those people.

456
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Speaker 4: Yes, notorious, and she would do it wherever we went.

457
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Speaker 4: We would always, you know, go to NBA All Star

458
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:38,399
Speaker 4: weekends and Londes of Morning weekend and Miami, like we

459
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:41,320
Speaker 4: would just always be going places, and she always wanted

460
00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:43,879
Speaker 4: a hook up from for anything. She didn't want to

461
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Speaker 4: pay for anything. Now she has a great job, she

462
00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 4: makes good money, she saves her money. It's good with

463
00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:51,640
Speaker 4: her money, like you know, it's she's not broke by

464
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Speaker 4: any means. And I had seen her do it over

465
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Speaker 4: and over and over to other people, but she had

466
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Speaker 4: never really done it to me because I was always

467
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Speaker 4: in a position like.

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Speaker 3: Wan was in the NBA.

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Speaker 4: You know, I didn't I would always treat everyone, you know,

470
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Speaker 4: So I never asked anyone for anything. But when it

471
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,360
Speaker 4: came to this trip, people have to contribute. Like, if

472
00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 4: you wanna, we're gonna go to the club. Everyone contribute

473
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:16,920
Speaker 4: to go to the you know, to get the table.

474
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Speaker 4: If you want to, we're gonna go go on the yacht.

475
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Speaker 4: You gotta contribute this to go on the yacht. Yes,

476
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 4: blah blah blah. So when it came time for her

477
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Speaker 4: to contribute, she was like, Oh, no, I have a

478
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Speaker 4: friend there and I'm just gonna you know, my friend

479
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 4: is gonna get me in what And then like yeah,

480
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,239
Speaker 4: it was just every little thing. It was, Oh, I

481
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 4: have someone someone down there, and she's gonna she knows

482
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Speaker 4: people at that club, and we're gonna do this. And

483
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 4: this friend here, she's going to do this. And I

484
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 4: was so angry with her because I'm like, you do

485
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,879
Speaker 4: this to everyone, now you're doing it to me. I've

486
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 4: never made you pay for anything a day in your

487
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 4: life and now and then you're bringing strangers around to

488
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Speaker 4: our birthday celebration. Oh yeah, that's and no, we were

489
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 4: at Prime one twelve and this old, nasty ass bitch

490
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Speaker 4: walked up in a restaurant to because to meet my friends. Yeah,

491
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Speaker 4: but my friend was there for us, and she's all

492
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Speaker 4: and we're all looking at her like who the fuck

493
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Speaker 4: are you? You know what I'm saying. And then and

494
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Speaker 4: so then my friend's like, oh, well, I'm gonna go.

495
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Speaker 4: And she was her older so war older chapter so war,

496
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Speaker 4: I'm I'm own this bitch. So then she's like, I'm

497
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Speaker 4: gonna I'm gonna go with her because she's gonna get

498
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 4: us in. It was a whole fall out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, so it was like, oh my god.

500
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:36,479
Speaker 4: And one of the other friend that was celebrating her

501
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 4: thirtieth birthday was her line sister. So she not only

502
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Speaker 4: did it to me, her best friend, she also did

503
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Speaker 4: it to her line sister. So we didn't talk for

504
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 4: three years. What yes, three years. I didn't want to

505
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 4: say one word to her. I was like, I'm I can't.

506
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 4: Like it was just like you're done, No, you're done.

507
00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 4: You always want to hook up and top first bringing

508
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 4: strangers around that are giving us the evil eye, and

509
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. I mean, oh my god,

510
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 4: that this story keeps going. I was pregnant, like six

511
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 4: months pregnant, maybe not six months, maybe four months whatever,

512
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Speaker 4: six months. And the girl that my friend brought around

513
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 4: that we didn't know, so we so I'm in the

514
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 4: club with my friends.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we left her.

516
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 4: And then they walk in the club and she walks

517
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Speaker 4: up to one of my friends and says something and

518
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Speaker 4: it rolls out like what, So I asked her for her.

519
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 4: I said, what she said to you? And she was like,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I can't remember what she said. She said,

521
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Speaker 4: whatever she said, I turned my pregnant ass around and

522
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 4: like ran after the girl. The girl runs out.

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Speaker 3: The damn club. But I mean, it was just it

524
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Speaker 3: was a man being pregnant.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it was a mess, and it was just it

526
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Speaker 4: was just mayhem. So I was just so mad. I

527
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 4: was like, this is my thirtieth birthday, yeah, and you

528
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 4: ruined it and you over here wearying about a damn hookup.

529
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 4: You can't just take one for the team and go

530
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Speaker 4: with the flow and be with the group, and you

531
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Speaker 4: gotta So that was my thirtieth birthday experience.

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Speaker 2: So did she apologize after we talked to her thirty

533
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 2: years I mean three years later, Yeah she did.

534
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 4: We're good now, Like, okay, we're good now.

535
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Speaker 3: Do I know who this person is?

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Speaker 4: You've met her? Joy?

537
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Speaker 5: Joy?

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00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:16,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I didn't want to say her name.

539
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, Joy, you were wrong for that, Yes, but

540
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:21,959
Speaker 4: I really was just like I cannot talk to you

541
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 4: anymore because like that, you just don't do that ship

542
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 4: for a friend, like you're so selfish. But she she

543
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 4: has realized that about herself and she has. Yes, she

544
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 4: has changed her ways good big times. Okay she stops

545
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 4: all that and yeah, so good.

546
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well advice for I can't remember my thirtieth birthday

548
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Speaker 2: at all. I'm sure I was doing something on a

549
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 2: table or something. I don't know anyway, But like when

550
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 2: you get into your thirties, it's like, okay, it's now

551
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 2: time to be an adult, right, So that goes to Joy,

552
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 2: like you you're playing little girl games and you're doing

553
00:24:56,280 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 2: immature nonsense like being an adult, right, figure out what

554
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,719
Speaker 2: makes you happy and what makes you sad and living happy?

555
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah for sure. Yeah, I say, like like I said,

556
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Speaker 4: for your thirties. It's definitely a time I think of

557
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 4: lots of change. Yeah, a lot of people, I know,

558
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 4: my thirties were.

559
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:17,639
Speaker 3: I had some kids, I had three kids.

560
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I had kids. We went you know, I went

561
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Speaker 4: through a divorce, We went through you know, financial challenges.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

563
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 4: I had to kind of like you know, figure shit

564
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Speaker 4: out and work. I was working multiple jobs at a point,

565
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 4: began the house. I was a potomac in my thirties,

566
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 4: you know. So it was just like so much and

567
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 4: I just kept telling myself like it's okay, Like whatever

568
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 4: it was that I was going through, I knew I

569
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 4: would be okay. So I'm gonna say, like, your thirties

570
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 4: aren't always going to be beautiful, but just know that

571
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 4: what you go through during your thirties is building you

572
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Speaker 4: into becoming a much better person person, a more well

573
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,640
Speaker 4: rounded person. It's just shaping your experiences.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I agree with all of that. Robin Dixon.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So sometimes people write as things and they're nasty

576
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 2: and we don't read them. But I decided we're gonna

577
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Speaker 2: read one today. Oh okay, Okay, So this is.

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Speaker 3: From Linda Martin.

579
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Speaker 4: What's up, Linda?

580
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Speaker 5: Are we really saying hi? To Linda.

581
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 2: She says, it is shameful that you gloated over leaving

582
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 2: a poor broken deer, possibly withering in pain until he

583
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 2: or she he or she succumbed to its injuries.

584
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Speaker 3: Where is your like? What's insane? Where is your compassion?

585
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 3: Forty miles an hour?

586
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 2: It's too fast to be driving. Where you know living

587
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 2: things are crossing? It's thirty miles. Yeah, it's thirty in

588
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 2: New York and they're trying to get it down to twenty.

589
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 2: People want to live around nature and then disregard, and

590
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 2: you disregarded. I'm done with this ship that promotes this

591
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 2: bad behavior. And you're bad English. I don't know about that.

592
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 2: I feel yeah, she said, I feel you represent everything

593
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Speaker 2: wrong in our nation.

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00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,880
Speaker 4: Oh, everything wrong, everything wrong, she said, I really want

595
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 4: to get my point across.

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00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 2: I thought you guys were decent people rather than shallow narcissis.

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00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 3: Listen, this was a comedy.

598
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:41,919
Speaker 2: Read's funny as shit, Like, what are you talking about, lady?

599
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 3: I had fifteen thousand dollars worth damages to my car?

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00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 2: What are you saying?

601
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 3: She could have died?

602
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 5: Does would have died?

603
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 4: Affording that poor dear withering in pain? Are you kidding me.

604
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 3: Yes, have my kids hit it, they would be dead?

605
00:27:56,520 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 4: Are you little kidding? Okay, but thank you for yes. Yeah,

606
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 4: sometimes we gotta we gotta read the haters.

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00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 2: So and she says she's not now mind you, she

609
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 2: should be listening because you know we gave her.

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00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 4: I hope she is.

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00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 3: If anyone knows, Linda, listen, lend her to listen.

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Speaker 1: Once again, thank you for tuning into the Black Effect

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