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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the colo.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: This is from Darius and South Haven. Darius rights.

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Speaker 3: I'm a country boy and I've had a roofing company

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Speaker 3: for about ten years. I make good money, and I

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Speaker 3: think that is why women want to date me. My

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Speaker 3: mom said, I'm dating out of my league. How do

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Speaker 3: I figure out if they like me or if they

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Speaker 3: like my money?

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Speaker 2: No, they like your money and you happen to come

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Speaker 2: with it.

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Speaker 4: Bruh. Look, that's why you went to make the money.

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Speaker 4: Let's start playing this game. A man goes to make

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Speaker 4: money to be more attractive to the female species. That's

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Speaker 4: why you go to make more money. You don't need

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Speaker 4: no more money. You just need apartment, flashcreen, TV, refrigerator

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Speaker 4: on bed, all the rest of this stuff. It's for

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Speaker 4: somebody daughter, don't so. Look man, listen to me, young man,

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Speaker 4: stop pretending like that was not your intent in the

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Speaker 4: first place to go out here and make all this money.

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Speaker 4: So now it is accomplishing the mission. Now, don't stare

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Speaker 4: the gift horse in the mouth and get mad at it.

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Speaker 4: That's what you do. Now, how do you determine if

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Speaker 4: it's more you than the money. You have to make

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Speaker 4: a tight package so now this is what you do

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Speaker 4: in order to get the money through me. I have

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Speaker 4: a series of requirements. If the requirements can be met

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Speaker 4: over a course of time, then we can put this

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Speaker 4: thing together.

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Speaker 2: Number one, will you help me make more of it?

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Speaker 2: Or do you just want to take? Do you bring

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Speaker 2: assets along with you that are very important to a man?

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Speaker 2: And the few assets that are most important to a

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Speaker 2: man is loyalty, respect?

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Speaker 4: Those are the two top Number one love. The only

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Speaker 4: way we know you love us is if you respect us,

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Speaker 4: protect us, honor us, and are loyal to us. That's

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Speaker 4: what we think love is. Now ken about you talking

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Speaker 4: about hooks and kisses though, Well, where you're going to

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Speaker 4: and once you get your requirements met, then that's the

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Speaker 4: exchange and another thing you might have to come to

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Speaker 4: terms with. You may not be that cute. You have

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Speaker 4: to understand. Yeah, yes, Mama know it.

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Speaker 1: Mama know it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that is you got.

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Speaker 4: You gotta come to terms with this brother and that

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Speaker 4: money at that roughing company.

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Speaker 2: That helped you. So brother, this ain't all bad. Now

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Speaker 2: let's let's play the game.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a win is a wind to just go out

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Speaker 1: with him?

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Speaker 4: Yo, Mama said you out your leave and you ugly

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Speaker 4: though she done seen who you done bought over to

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Speaker 4: that house, just don't.

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Speaker 3: Moving on to Rachel Rachel and Landover, Rachel writes, I'm

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Speaker 3: twenty seven and my boyfriend is twenty nine. His parents

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Speaker 3: are pressuring him to propose. His sister told me that

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Speaker 3: they gave my boyfriend his mother's first engagement ring.

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Speaker 1: I don't want that tiny diamond. What do I do

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Speaker 1: if he proposes with that antique ring?

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Speaker 2: Eh, that's gonna be hard, right then?

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Speaker 4: Let me see, I think, well, you can't use the

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Speaker 4: sister as an ally, because that's what I was trying

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Speaker 4: to think. Try to get his sister to go and

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Speaker 4: talk to him about it. But I think before it

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Speaker 4: has weas you could have a conversation with him and says, look,

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Speaker 4: when I get married, this has always been my dream

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Speaker 4: to have this and make sure that the ring that's

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Speaker 4: in your dream is the direct opposite or that little

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Speaker 4: uh that look and taka that lit bity li chip,

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Speaker 4: that diamond chip that he's proposing. And I think you

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Speaker 4: could start it that way, you know, or he could

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Speaker 4: propose with it as a gesture and present you with

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Speaker 4: the real ring.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right?

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Speaker 2: You could have. You could have a double ring ceremony

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Speaker 2: or something like that. You know you need to talk

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Speaker 2: to him. He need But I'm gonna tell you right now,

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Speaker 2: she don't want you, Mama Ray, Let's just let's be clear.

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Speaker 1: About that, you know, all right?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: Moving on to Harrison and Poughkeepsie, Harrison writes, as a

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Speaker 3: grandfather of three girls, I've taught them how to carry

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Speaker 3: themselves like respectful, respectful ladies. Their mom my daughter told

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Speaker 3: me to mind my business. These girls don't.

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Speaker 1: Have a father figure.

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Speaker 3: Should I keep applying pressure or leave it alone?

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Speaker 4: Well, you're in a horrible situation because you're going over

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Speaker 4: the head of the mother. Why the mother don't want

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Speaker 4: her daughters to know the right way is beyond me.

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Speaker 4: And also, ladies, don't rebuff a man who loves your

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Speaker 4: daughter with the information he has because he has some

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Speaker 4: information about men that obviously you don't. And your mama

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Speaker 4: didn't listen, which is why she telling him this mine

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Speaker 4: is business, because you know she ain't listened.

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Speaker 2: But men have valuable.

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Speaker 4: Information for their daughters, and they have information that the

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Speaker 4: mother can't have, just like a mother has information for

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Speaker 4: the daughter that the man can't have.

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Speaker 2: They know how to be women.

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Speaker 4: Now, I don't know how you outraised them over the

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Speaker 4: mother that.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea how you did that.

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Speaker 4: How you've turned them into respect for women and they

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Speaker 4: mama didn't.

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Speaker 2: That's a little backwards to me.

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Speaker 4: So I, hey, man, just just just keep being the

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Speaker 4: right example of what a good man is. That's all

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Speaker 4: you can do. And maybe the granddaughters will get it

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Speaker 4: and say, you know, I want somebody like my granddaddy,

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Speaker 4: because where they daddy at is always the question I

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Speaker 4: have for rebellious. Where is your daddy? You name my daddy?

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Speaker 3: Okay, where is it you ain't my daddy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: But I like, like you said, Steve, that he stepped

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Speaker 3: up and you know, and is trying to help them

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Speaker 3: out of love. Definitely all right. Moving on to Alma

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Speaker 3: and Toledo. Alma says, my neighbor called and asked if

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Speaker 3: I had a red shirt she could borrow. I barely

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Speaker 3: know her, but it's but she said it was for

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Speaker 3: our first date. So I gave her one of my

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Speaker 3: newer shirts. She returned it without cleaning it. Do I

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Speaker 3: tell her to dry clean it or use this as

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Speaker 3: a big lesson?

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Speaker 2: This is this is your lesson stop loading your clothes out.

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Speaker 4: If somebody come here and say, Steve, can I use

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Speaker 4: your black shirt, I'm gonna say I ain't got.

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Speaker 1: No black shirt.

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Speaker 4: I'm all over the internet with black shirts. Lie right,

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Speaker 4: he'll hire you over feel

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