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Speaker 1: Second date Update. A girl name Amy is on the phone.
Speaker 1: She wants to do a second date update with us.
Speaker 1: She sent an email in her email was interesting. I'll
Speaker 1: tell you a little bit more about that in a second.
Speaker 1: But my favorite thing about her email. At one point,
Speaker 1: in all caps, it said this, I did not go
Speaker 1: all the way with him. We just fooled around. Three
Speaker 1: exclamation points. All right, Amy, get the points. So you
Speaker 1: you you met a guy, it says at a movie theater,
Speaker 1: and then you did not go all the way with it.
Speaker 1: That's correct, Okay, Why why is that so important for you?
Speaker 1: Didn't put in all caps, Amy, because I'm not that
Speaker 1: kind of girl. I mean, we just met that night
Speaker 1: and we just hold her. We did not go all
Speaker 1: the way. My guess is that at some point in
Speaker 1: your life that you've been called all the way Amy.
Speaker 1: All right, let's find out a little bit about your
Speaker 1: date before we get into the specifics of how far
Speaker 1: you went. Because I want to know everything now, now
Speaker 1: that you put it out there part of the way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so your email says that you met this guy at
Speaker 1: a movie theater. Yeah, me and my friend we went
Speaker 1: to see a movie and these guys sat down next
Speaker 1: to me. One of them his name was Marcus, and
Speaker 1: he was off tattooed and just had this bad boy vibe.
Speaker 1: I love bad boys. I think that's the problem. A
Speaker 1: lot of ladies love bad boys, really rough around the edges,
Speaker 1: kind of too cool for school vibe. Yeah, you can't
Speaker 1: stop thinking about him, can you? I can't. And after
Speaker 1: the movie, he was like, do you guys want to
Speaker 1: come to a bar of Sish? And my friend really
Speaker 1: didn't want to go, but I convinced her to because
Speaker 1: you just had to get more a Marcus. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well yeah, So how much convincing did it take to
Speaker 1: get your friend to go to the bar with these guys?
Speaker 1: She owed me one put it that way. Did she
Speaker 1: not want to go because she didn't like like the dudes?
Speaker 1: Or did she like had to work the next morning?
Speaker 1: I mean, the other guy just wasn't that appealing. Okay,
Speaker 1: why do you get Marcus friend? I guess I was
Speaker 1: lucky so you obviously went to the bar. How did
Speaker 1: that whole thing play out? It was great, I mean
Speaker 1: well for me anyway, Hamia and Marcus, we we hit
Speaker 1: it off, I thought, I mean, there was some chemistry there,
Speaker 1: and we kind of started making out of before that.
Speaker 1: I'd say, that's a good sign if you have chemistry,
Speaker 1: if someone's making out with you, that you're getting along. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And my friend at that point was pretty over the
Speaker 1: whole thing and wanted to go, so she ended up
Speaker 1: leaving and left you with Marcus and his friend. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and me and Marcus we wound up hanging out a
Speaker 1: little longer, had maybe like one more drink, and then
Speaker 1: I went to Marcus's apartment, all right. And that brings
Speaker 1: us to the part of your email where you said
Speaker 1: I did not go all the way with him. We
Speaker 1: just fooled around, right, true? Did you end up staying
Speaker 1: the night at his house or did you bail that night? No?
Speaker 1: I had to work early in the morning, and after
Speaker 1: a while I was like, you know, you don't want
Speaker 1: to give the prize away the first day. I mean,
Speaker 1: he'll never call me if I sleep with him, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but now you didn't sleep with him and he's not
Speaker 1: calling you anyway, so you should have done it. Hindsight
Speaker 1: is And how did the evening end? Well, the me ended.
Speaker 1: I basically was like, let's call it a night, and
Speaker 1: he didn't want to at first, but I mean I
Speaker 1: wanted to say, really I did, but I made myself leave.
Speaker 1: I made myself like was it one of those things
Speaker 1: where you're like, Okay, if I don't leave, then I
Speaker 1: am gonna go all the way and I'm gonna regret it,
Speaker 1: absolutely task And I do not ever want to put
Speaker 1: myself in that position. That's such an internal struggle too,
Speaker 1: Like you have the full conversation with yourself in your head. Oh, absolutely,
Speaker 1: like the devil on one shoulder and the angel I mean,
Speaker 1: and we slowed down and he said he would call
Speaker 1: me and we'd have a proper date and take it
Speaker 1: from there. And you haven't heard anything from him. No,
Speaker 1: it's been a week. A week okay texting and calling him? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I texted him a few times, but I mean, what
Speaker 1: am I gonna do start calling him? He said he
Speaker 1: would call me. I don't want to look desperate. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you've already sent three texts. I think you're good, and
Speaker 1: I think it's obvious that he's purposely not getting back
Speaker 1: to you at that point. Yeah, like the first time,
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, maybe he didn't get the tech sect
Speaker 1: but yeah, yeah, he definitely got them. So you guys
Speaker 1: hit it off. Why do you think he's not calling
Speaker 1: you back? Then? I seriously, I have no idea why
Speaker 1: he's not calling you back. All Right, we're gonna play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, call him and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. Okay, okay, thank you, all right, hang on
Speaker 1: frooking Jubil in the morning, Sate. Hey, Amy, Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: decided I'm not gonna make the phone call for your
Speaker 1: second date update today. I'm not doing it. Really what,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing your stupid phone call. I'm doing whatever
Speaker 1: the guy want. Amy. You know why, because I'm a
Speaker 1: bad boy. I don't give it about rules, right, can't
Speaker 1: tell me what to do? Oh? Yeah, Amy? You like that,
Speaker 1: don't you? Amy? Amy? What? I was just trying to
Speaker 1: be a bad boy there because he said in the
Speaker 1: first part of the second day update, how you really
Speaker 1: like bad boys? And the guy that we're about to
Speaker 1: call gave off that bad boy vibe. So apparently I
Speaker 1: didn't pull it off as well. As he did. Oh well,
Speaker 1: just refresh everybody's memory. Amy met this dude in a
Speaker 1: movie theater. He sat down next to her. They talked
Speaker 1: and then agreed to go out to a bar afterwards.
Speaker 1: They ended up making out at the bar and then
Speaker 1: went back to his place and messed around a little bit,
Speaker 1: but they did not go all the way. Amy wants
Speaker 1: us to be very clear about that. All right, Amy,
Speaker 1: I'm on a dollar phone right now. See if we
Speaker 1: can get him on the phone and find out if
Speaker 1: there is a particular reason that he's not calling you back. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe maybe it's because he's a bad way. He doesn't
Speaker 1: pay his cell phone bill. Who cares? Right, Maybe his
Speaker 1: phone pull off his motorcycle. Actually he a lot of
Speaker 1: his motorcycle. He threw his phone off. He doesn't care.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna dollar phone right now, Amy, Here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, I can I speak to Marcus please?
Speaker 1: This is Marcus. Hey, Marcus, how are you doing? This
Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Jewel
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio Show.
Speaker 1: Is there something I can do for you? Yes? There is.
Speaker 1: Actually I'm calling you because we recently got an email
Speaker 1: from somebody that you went on a date with. Her
Speaker 1: name is Amy, and she's a listener to our show,
Speaker 1: and she told us about an evening that you guys
Speaker 1: shared together. But now she's not getting a call back
Speaker 1: from you. So she wanted me to call and see
Speaker 1: if I could find out if she did something wrong.
Speaker 1: Who are you talking about? Amy? You apparently met her
Speaker 1: at a movie theater and then went back to your
Speaker 1: place and messed around. Oh yeah, okay, yeah, remember we
Speaker 1: talked to her about you know, you're you're the time
Speaker 1: that you hung out. I guess I can't really call
Speaker 1: it a date because it's kind of like you guys
Speaker 1: met and then went to hang out and had drinks.
Speaker 1: But she's wondering why you're not calling her back because
Speaker 1: she's also told us that she tried to text you
Speaker 1: two or three times and you haven't responded. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know about it, Amy, you know, like, just uh,
Speaker 1: are you just not interested? Yeah? Like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's my thing. I come, I'm pretty busy dude, you know. Okay,
Speaker 1: So there's no specific reason. Um, well, like when I
Speaker 1: met her, she seemed pretty cool and pretty open to whatever,
Speaker 1: you know, and like we went out and had a
Speaker 1: good time, and I thought she was DTW, you know,
Speaker 1: and she just I think maybe some people need to
Speaker 1: explain d w W. Yeah, I know, I know DTF.
Speaker 1: I don't know dt W. It's down to whatever, you know.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, So okay, are you not calling
Speaker 1: her back because she didn't sleep with you that night?
Speaker 1: You know what. Things were getting hot and we were
Speaker 1: like trying some things and I pulled out syrup just
Speaker 1: to you know, play around. And I don't know if
Speaker 1: she got weird about it or what, but she didn't
Speaker 1: want to do it. And what do you mean what
Speaker 1: do you mean syrup? Like, uh, like pancakes syrup you
Speaker 1: had to reserve before just regular serrup, Like it's not
Speaker 1: one of my signature moves, Marcus. Yeah, well you should
Speaker 1: try it? Did she say? Just like no, She kind
Speaker 1: of just like everything kind of stopped. Then you could
Speaker 1: tell she wasn't into it. And like, I'm definitely not
Speaker 1: have a guy to force syrup on somebody. I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna dump syrup all over her head. That's good, That's
Speaker 1: I think that's a good way to be Marcus. Most
Speaker 1: people just don't want syrup dumped all over their body
Speaker 1: unless they're willing participant. So you think that she's like
Speaker 1: just not a good time. I just think, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe she she's a little close minded or whatever, she
Speaker 1: just hasn't experienced. Did you at least give her like
Speaker 1: a warning before you went to the kitchen and got
Speaker 1: the syrup? Well, yeah, I got up left, I came
Speaker 1: back with syrup, and like I started to undo the top,
Speaker 1: you know, and like it's pretty obvious what's gonna go
Speaker 1: down after that. Yeah, you could tell she was just
Speaker 1: getting real awkward about it, and like she wasn't kissing
Speaker 1: me anymore or anything. So I was like, whatever, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna put syrup. Ways, I think she's close
Speaker 1: minded and kind of brutish. She wouldn't let you pour
Speaker 1: syrup on her body the first time you hung out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's just you know, she's just conservative. But it's not
Speaker 1: for me, Like, you know, I like experimenting and doing
Speaker 1: different stuff. It's just my thing and it's not everything.
Speaker 1: So yeah, but it's different if you like to have
Speaker 1: a conversation maybe leading up to it, like hey, you
Speaker 1: want to try something, and then you go into it,
Speaker 1: like the surprise syrup is a little much I think
Speaker 1: for anybody to handle. Well, let me put it this way.
Speaker 1: I've been with girls that are into syrup before, and
Speaker 1: you just know, you could tell a girl that's in
Speaker 1: the syrup from a mile away. Hey, Marcus, Marcus, let
Speaker 1: me ask you this. If she was down to have
Speaker 1: syrup poured on her body, which is apparently your thing,
Speaker 1: would you be willing to go out with her again? Like,
Speaker 1: would I hang out with her again? Yeah? Maybe, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't want it to be all
Speaker 1: about the syrup. Oh, now she wants syrup on her
Speaker 1: and now it expectations. I think it would be good
Speaker 1: for us to find out from Amy. Yeah, well, I
Speaker 1: don't know, Like I don't know if I'm gonna call
Speaker 1: her back. You know, you don't have to because she's
Speaker 1: actually on the phone listening. She on the phone right now. Yep,
Speaker 1: Hey Marcus, what up? Yeah? I didn't know. I didn't
Speaker 1: know you were. I'm sorry, surprise. I'm just I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm really shocked. I it's not that I'm approved or anything,
Speaker 1: but I didn't even want to go all the way.
Speaker 1: I kind of syrup isn't going all the way. But
Speaker 1: like I just don't want to have to worry about like, hey,
Speaker 1: is this okay? And then is that okay? And then
Speaker 1: like I just kind of want to go with the
Speaker 1: field and wherever, you know, what the experience takes us,
Speaker 1: we just go with it, you know. Yeah, totally I'm
Speaker 1: like that too, But it's just it kind of threw
Speaker 1: me for a loop since we first met. You know,
Speaker 1: like I don't even know where you went to high school, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: usually you want to find out where someone with to
Speaker 1: high school, and then you bring the syrup into the mix. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean like I don't really know you that well.
Speaker 1: It's not that I'm closed off to experiences, but I
Speaker 1: want to be comfortable with the person i'm with. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but all I did was pull out a little syrup,
Speaker 1: and you seem to get like real closed off, real quick.
Speaker 1: And how else do you want me to read that? Like, okay,
Speaker 1: just not into this dust, not in the syrup. Got
Speaker 1: it moving on. I'm open minded. I'm not conservative because
Speaker 1: I've got marshfellow fluff. Hello, Wow, I told you finding
Speaker 1: out a lot about you too. I don't know, I
Speaker 1: thought you're cool. I mean, like you're cool. It's totally cool.
Speaker 1: If you get to know me, maybe a little more,
Speaker 1: then we can bring out the syrup, Marcus, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out with Amy again? I will pay
Speaker 1: for a second date for you, guys. I'm not paying
Speaker 1: for your syrup. You buy your own syrup for the stake,
Speaker 1: don't worry. I always have something stock. Believe it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds to me like you probably do. Would you
Speaker 1: like to go out with Amy again? We'll pay for
Speaker 1: a second date. You'll pay for it. I'm done. I'm
Speaker 1: downe to hang out again Amy. All right, Um, they're
Speaker 1: gonna have a really good time. Yeah, I bet you
Speaker 1: guys are