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Speaker 1: It's topic times called eight hundred five eight five one

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Speaker 1: oh five. Want to join it to the discussion with

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club talk about it? Wanting everybody in DJ

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Speaker 1: Envy Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now

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Speaker 1: if you just joined us, we're asking what is the

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Speaker 1: longest time you went without talking to your spouse, your boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: your girlfriend. Maybe you were beefing, maybe I were fighting,

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Speaker 1: and what's the longest period of time you went without

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Speaker 1: talking to him? This actually came from our producer that's

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Speaker 1: going through it now. Um, I'm not gonna lie. Me

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Speaker 1: and my wife get mad at each other, but when

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Speaker 1: you got kids, you gotta talk, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It's it's this you stop. It's not like you can't. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean me and my wife we've been together twenty

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Speaker 1: five years. We've been married since two thousand fourteen. But

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Speaker 1: the longest I remember us not going to talking, not

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Speaker 1: talking MC when in college she had when she was

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Speaker 1: in college, she had broke up from me for like

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Speaker 1: a year. I don't remember what, Yeah, this was. This

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Speaker 1: had to be like h old old three old four.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I don't remember what year it was. We was

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Speaker 1: broke up for a year and like, yeah, I didn't.

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Speaker 1: She wasn't answering the phone for me nothing, So that

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Speaker 1: had to be win. I don't remember how long we

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Speaker 1: didn't talk four, but I though it had to be

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Speaker 1: within that year span. Boy, that was tort you man.

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Speaker 1: That brings up all kind of triggers to me. Huh,

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Speaker 1: that was the worst part. That was a terrible time

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Speaker 1: in my life. Yeah, I was thinking about I think

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Speaker 1: maybe a day and I was traveling and we were

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Speaker 1: arguing about something, and then you realize that, damn, I

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Speaker 1: gotta call off for something. You always gotta call your

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Speaker 1: wife for something, call your girl for something. But also,

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Speaker 1: I don't even play like that because life is short,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And you don't ever want

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Speaker 1: to be in a position where something bad happens. And y'all,

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Speaker 1: y'all not speaking over something petty, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: And then you think in yourself, damn, the last thing

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Speaker 1: we spoke about was stupid, something stupid trinking and made

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Speaker 1: us not talk like you don't want to ever want

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Speaker 1: to be in that position. So you know, I tend

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Speaker 1: to get over things quite fast in regard to them,

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Speaker 1: not not even just my wife, but just people I

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Speaker 1: love in general. You know, Oh, I haven't got there yet.

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Speaker 1: I get over things fast because to my wife and

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Speaker 1: family other people was taken all the time. But right

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Speaker 1: I was lying. You know what I'm saying. I was.

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Speaker 1: I'm still working through that in therapy. I'm not gonna see.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit here and I did lie to y'all.

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Speaker 1: Just now you know what I'm saying. But that's I'm

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Speaker 1: with v like you know, if it ain't my wife,

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Speaker 1: ain't too many of y'all I care about not talking

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Speaker 1: to you no more. I'm letting you know that right now.

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Speaker 1: Damn it. Man, All right, let's go to the phone line. Hello,

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Speaker 1: what's this? Hey, this is Brian from Detroit. What's happening? Brian?

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Speaker 1: What I'm telling? What's happening? My ampho kind of old brothers.

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Speaker 1: We'll see, Brian. See. I'm gonna be in Detroit this Friday. Brian,

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Speaker 1: you got a white Brian on boyfriend? Yo? You sound crazy?

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Speaker 1: Got Brian? First of all? First of all, m you

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Speaker 1: gotta start putting comments in between those statements that man said,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in I'm gonna be in Detroit this weekend.

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Speaker 1: You got a wife for our girlfriend now, because I'm

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Speaker 1: DJ and you ain't say that. That's what I'm going

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Speaker 1: to get to it. I'm DJ and something and I

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Speaker 1: was gonna fight you and your wife. You got these

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Speaker 1: crazy run on sentences. Yeah, I was gonna fighte you

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Speaker 1: and your wife out. I got a DJ, the four Back,

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Speaker 1: fall Back in Love, Comedy, jam It trade songs as

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Speaker 1: Monica is, Uh, marry old Jack queez. If you want

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Speaker 1: to go, little Duvall, I'll set you up. Hey, that's

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Speaker 1: that's what's ups hell. Yeah, I want to go. Just

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Speaker 1: just stay on the line. After we finished talking, I

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Speaker 1: get you some tickets, brother, for sure. So what's the

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Speaker 1: longest you've been without talking to your your your wife?

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Speaker 1: About eighteen days? Man? It was a sweetest day. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and the sweetest day, bro, I had caught. I had

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Speaker 1: me for like eighteen days. You know, I'm Paddy, I'm

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Speaker 1: a brother though, so I'm look, so I'm coming the

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Speaker 1: days and I'm like, you ain't talking to me in

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Speaker 1: around and hoods on the dude, No, it ain't gonna work.

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Speaker 1: First of all, you weren't concerned, y'all. Y'all weren't concerned

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Speaker 1: about each other, Like where was where was she? After

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Speaker 1: eighteen days? Where was you at? Because are you alive?

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Speaker 1: You in the hopel? No? We we you know, we

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Speaker 1: the work. We come home. We just didn't say nothing. Man,

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Speaker 1: we had kids, so we kind of time that way. Damn, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was. It was rough. All right, We'll staying alone.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you those tickets, bro, see you'll see

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Speaker 1: you on Friday. Appreciate you. Hello, who's this? My name

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Speaker 1: is day Tisha. What's the longest you went without talking

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Speaker 1: to your spouse? I know it times unbelievable, but I'm

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Speaker 1: We live in the same house. That is so stupid.

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Speaker 1: I say the reason. First of all, I don't even

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Speaker 1: care what the reason is. If y'all live in the

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Speaker 1: is so stupid, because what if something happens to either

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Speaker 1: one of your God forbid? And that's that's that's my argument.

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Speaker 1: But I think I'm so stubborn and he's so stubborn.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he really bothers. He one of us.

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Speaker 1: He worked that night. I worked in the day. Were

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Speaker 1: you from. I'm in Georgia. What's the reason y'all not talking?

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Speaker 1: Tell me the reason we're not talking because my fiance

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Speaker 1: say things that he don't really mean, get angry, and

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Speaker 1: he likes to make up with gilt money, date trills. Um,

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Speaker 1: we have most to make up. You know, I'm the

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Speaker 1: type of person you can't do that. You just can't

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Speaker 1: knows that. So his birthday was last week. We didn't

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Speaker 1: birthday on this birthday. I need to know what he said.

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Speaker 1: What did he say to you? He said, I'm stick

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Speaker 1: going through this every other day? Okay, what she was

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Speaker 1: talking about? I have no idea. I don't even know

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Speaker 1: what what the argument was. But because I have no

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Speaker 1: idea that he didn't want to explain. Until you're ready

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Speaker 1: to explain, we won't talk to get play sixty week.

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Speaker 1: Everybody got another to me, So why don't you ask him?

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Speaker 1: That doesn't seems like a cry for help. Just ask him, like, yo, bull,

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Speaker 1: what's going on? What's what's up with you? Something going

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Speaker 1: on in your life? Let's have a conversation right now.

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Speaker 1: You see how easy he said that, and the response

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Speaker 1: you have been an easy a cun Yes, it's not

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Speaker 1: going to be the response I want. So instead of

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Speaker 1: we can have it. But until then, I'm gonna keep

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Speaker 1: having my fun. I go out, he go out. We

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Speaker 1: still a live set for lives. So well, either y'all

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Speaker 1: need to go to therapy or you need to tell him. Look, man,

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Speaker 1: you got two more weeks because after thirty days or

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Speaker 1: of this card, this card not being claimed saying you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean, I've already made that. I've already

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Speaker 1: made that conclusion we got. We really got another couple

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Speaker 1: of days. Once this week is lever, we're not speaking.

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Speaker 1: We're definitely gonna be speaking, but it's not gonna be

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Speaker 1: about what he wants to be damn damn all right, well,

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Speaker 1: happy birthday to him. I hope he's listening. Maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: he knows. My boy can hear this? In it together?

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Speaker 1: What's his name? Just tell him, tell him right, and

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Speaker 1: tell him you want him to get it together. Say

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Speaker 1: it tall, I really need for you to get it together, okay,

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Speaker 1: gotta get it together. If you really love this woman,

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Speaker 1: know it's difficult sometimes to get it off your chest,

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Speaker 1: move on and be happy and then get back in

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Speaker 1: that that that sat away you need to be. And

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Speaker 1: if y'all need a mediator, go to a therapist. Go

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Speaker 1: sit down with a therapist. A couple of therapists, and

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Speaker 1: y'all sit down and you know, get everything out. But

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Speaker 1: house that is wildly unhealthy for no damn reason. And

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Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be in my house not talking to

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Speaker 1: me for no, damn two weeks. That ain't your house.

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Speaker 1: It's their house, you know what I mean? Right there,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Mama, ap Jesus, and you're having sex. No, no,

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Speaker 1: ain't nobody got time for that. Eight hundred five eight

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Speaker 1: you've been without talking to your spouse? Call us now,

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Speaker 1: it's the Breakfast Club the morning. Call me your opinions

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Speaker 1: to the Breakfast Club to get five one five one morning.

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Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Charlemagne the guy. We are the

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us with asking

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Speaker 1: Maybe after an argument, maybe after a disagreement, whatever it

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Speaker 1: may be, what's the longest you've been me, it's probably

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Speaker 1: been not even a day. You know, I'm virgo, so

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Speaker 1: I get upset, I get attitudes and gets to the

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Speaker 1: point I'm gonna always need my wife something or not.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, you know, me and my wife been

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Speaker 1: married in twenty fourteen, but we've been together since you know,

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Speaker 1: ninety eight, so we've been together to be twenty five

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Speaker 1: with me for a year, and like I think it

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Speaker 1: definitely was not talking to me, like she definitely had

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Speaker 1: didn't talk a lot. Yeah, somebody always told me if

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Speaker 1: you if you're having a problem with your wife or

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Speaker 1: your husband, the worst thing you do is not talk,

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Speaker 1: and the second worst thing you could do is leave

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Speaker 1: the house. Bro. The worst thing you can do if

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Speaker 1: anybody you're having a problem with it not communicate. Like ya,

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Speaker 1: I really truly believe that most situations can be resolved

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Speaker 1: if people just communicate. Nobody likes to communicate with each other.

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Speaker 1: We either don't talk, or when we do talk to

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Speaker 1: each other, we don't tell each other the truth about

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Speaker 1: what we're mad at. We'd be all passive aggressive with it,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, just lay it out

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Speaker 1: on the lay it out on the table, don't worry

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Speaker 1: about hurting other person of feelings. Just get it out.

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Speaker 1: That's the only way you can, actually, I believe have

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Speaker 1: healthy relationships and to communicate. Hello, who's this Hey? From Jersey.

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Speaker 1: We're part of Jersey, not no, all right, what's the

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Speaker 1: longest you've been without talking to you? Boo um. Me

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Speaker 1: and my husband we probably went like four hours, he

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Speaker 1: Dj envy to see that? How are you doing? Hey?

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Speaker 1: That where you calling from? I'm from Columbia. I'm not

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Speaker 1: A week and a half? Why so long? That is

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Speaker 1: The mall of the story is communication is the key man.

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Speaker 1: We gotta tell you about Travis Scott. Seems like he's

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