1 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: Oh Man, Charlamagne, you've given Dunky a day to who 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: now were not you buster? 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 2: Okay unless the assistant tells us something else. But Donkey 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 2: today for Friday, January seventeenth goes to twenty two year 5 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 2: old Malaysia Lee and Malaysia is from Charlotte, North Carolina. 6 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 2: Salute to the seven oh four dropping the clues bombs 7 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 2: for Charlotte Mack. 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: One of the reasons, one of the reasons. 9 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 2: That I've chosen to be a mental health advocate is 10 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 2: because I want us as humans to learn how to. 11 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: Control our emotions. 12 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 2: Easier said than done, I know, but today's Donkey is 13 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 2: a prime example of it's not what happens to you, 14 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 2: but how you react to it that matters. That's why 15 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 2: you know, going to do that internal work on yourself matters, okay, 16 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 2: because you can get to that place where you realize 17 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 2: you don't have to match energies baby, and you realize 18 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 2: you don't have to take everything personally. Because, as Don 19 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 2: Miguel Rowie says in one of my favorite books, to 20 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 2: four Agreements, whatever happens around you, don't take it personally. 21 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 2: Nothing other people do is because of you. It is 22 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: because of themselves. Malaysia could have used that advice. See 23 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 2: she could have used that second agreement because Malaysia was 24 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 2: an employee at Wendy's in the seven oh four and 25 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 2: according to store manager's a thirty one year old homeless 26 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 2: man named Alandro Alandro, Yeah, Alandro Romero Santos came in 27 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 2: the restaurant requesting free food. Okay, the news report said 28 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 2: he was homeless, so clearly he wasn't having the best day. 29 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 2: After the manager provided him with a cup of water, 30 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 2: Santos allegedly used the cup to fill it up with soda. 31 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 1: Instead Pepsi coke, sprite fanta. 32 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 2: I don't know what his soda a choice was, but 33 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:33,839 Speaker 2: when Santos went to the restroom, the manager threw. 34 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 3: The cup away. 35 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 1: Why okay, I don't know. 36 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 2: Let the man have his cup if he wants, you know, 37 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 2: to get free refills. 38 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: Who cares? 39 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 2: In fact, give him some of those hot fries in 40 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 2: the cheeseburger and tell him keep it moving. 41 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: The man was homeless. 42 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,559 Speaker 2: Now, granted, you can't make a habit of that because 43 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 2: you will have people coming to the store doing that 44 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 2: all the time. But if you see someone in need, 45 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 2: at least attempt to help. In this case, you didn't help. 46 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: In fact, you're clearly hurt because when Santos came out 47 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: the bathroom, he got mad. He got upset because the 48 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 2: manager threw the cup aways. So he went to the 49 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 2: parking lot, found another cup, and returned to the store 50 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:08,959 Speaker 2: to fill it with soda once again. Now, of course 51 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 2: the manager didn't like that you went outside and found 52 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 2: a cup in the parking lot to fill it back 53 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 2: up with soda. By the way, that's nasty, okay, that 54 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 2: is disgusting, all right. That's how you know desperate times 55 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 2: called a desperate message. Somebody might have have to have 56 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 2: spit fliming that cup, okay, and tossed it before they 57 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 2: left the parking lot. Might have been rolling a blunt, 58 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 2: you know how it is sometimes when you're out somewhere 59 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 2: and you sitting in the. 60 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: Car, roll it up. 61 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 2: You know, you got a little cup from the from 62 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 2: a fat food restaurant. You put the blunt guts in 63 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 2: that cup, spitting it, you know, toss it. That's why 64 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 2: using a cup he found in the parking lot as gross. 65 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 2: But according to this article, he's also homeless, so I'm 66 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 2: not judging. But Santos got mad at the manager. So 67 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 2: then Santo's threw the soda at Malaysia, who is sitting 68 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: in the restaurant with the manager. Now, when I heard 69 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 2: this story, I said to myself, I think that's the soap. 70 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 2: I'm not the highest grade weed in the dispensary, noring 71 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 2: am I illegal expert, But that feels like in a soat. 72 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 2: It's not punch, a slap, a push, but it is 73 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 2: an attack. Okay, there's a reason Sprite Rhymes would fight. Okay, 74 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 2: that is a man throwing a drink on a woman. 75 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 2: So I did some research, and by research, I mean 76 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 2: I asked chat GPT it. 77 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: Is throwing a drink on a woman considered assault? 78 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: And chat GPT said yes, throwing a drink on someone, 79 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 2: including a woman, is generally considered assault our battery under 80 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 2: the law, depending on the jurisdiction. Well, we need to 81 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 2: lock up everyone on reality TV. Okay, from Loving Hip 82 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,799 Speaker 2: Hop the Real Housewives, round them all up, all right, Yes, 83 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 2: Malaysia was assaulted, and Malaysia did what a lot of 84 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 2: people doing the Carolina's North for South. Okay, when they 85 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 2: get assaulted, she went to her car. Okay, she didn't 86 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 2: have an honors she went and got her pistol. Now, 87 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: I don't know why the dude Santo stood there and 88 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 2: waited for her to come back, but I guess he 89 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 2: didn't expect this young lady to have a pistol, but 90 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 2: she did. And Malaysia came back in the store, chased 91 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 2: Islandro outside and shot at him three times, hit him 92 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 2: once in the head while he was driving. Yes, this 93 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 2: homeless man had a car, okay, and Malaysia shot the 94 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: car up and hit him in the head. And she 95 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 2: was charged with a sault with deadly weapon would intent 96 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 2: to kill and discharging the firearm into occupied property. 97 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: And she is in custody. 98 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: And she's in custody at the Mecklenburg County Jail under 99 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 2: a quarter million dollar bond. Now, I tell you folks 100 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 2: all the time, you cannot tell someone how to react. Okay, 101 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 2: I might push you and your response might be to 102 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 2: pull out a gun and pop me. Well guess what, 103 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 2: I shouldn't have pushed you. There is cause and effect 104 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 2: to everything. But your uncle Shawla also tells you that 105 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 2: when faced with certain situations, you have to start doing. 106 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 1: Jail math in your head. 107 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: Okay, you literally have to calculate how much time you 108 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 2: could possibly get if you do said crime. You have 109 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 2: to calculate in your head if you can afford to 110 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 2: do what it is you're about to do. See Malaysia. 111 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: I'm not mad at you for going to get your pistol. 112 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 2: He was assaulted. I feel like owning a legal firearm 113 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 2: in this country and knowing how to use it as 114 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 2: a form of self care. But here's my issue and 115 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 2: why you're getting the biggest he hall. It's because you 116 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 2: didn't do your jail math Malaysia. You had plenty of 117 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 2: time to think about your choice. I understanding this man 118 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: threw sold on you, and I'm glad you were able 119 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 2: to go to your car to get your gun, But 120 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 2: the gun should have been there to protect you from 121 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 2: the situation escalating further. 122 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: Are maybe even the whole demand water Cops. 123 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,720 Speaker 2: I'm not expecting you to be a vigilante hero in 124 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 2: this situation, but I just wanted you to move with 125 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 2: a little less emotion. 126 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: Okay, you gotta be strategic. 127 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 2: I understand you were upset because he threw a drink 128 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 2: on you, and who knows what else you know what's 129 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: going on in his life or even in your life, 130 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 2: But you went and got that pistol, he saw you coming, 131 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 2: he hauled ass, got this car, and you let off shots. 132 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 2: I can even understand that to a certain extent, because 133 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 2: he might have been going to his car to get 134 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 2: his weapon. 135 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: But in this case, according to reports, he was driving off. 136 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:27,479 Speaker 1: Let him go. 137 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 2: I know, hindsight is twenty twenty, and it's easy for 138 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 2: me to say because I wasn't in this situation, but 139 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 2: let him go. Hell, you could even let one off 140 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 2: in the air, just to let him know you will 141 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 2: bust your gun. But shooting in his car three shots, gunshot, 142 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 2: warning to the head while he's driving off. 143 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 1: You should have started doing that jail math in your head. Man. 144 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: Luckily he's not deceased. 145 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 2: But now you're sitting in the county with a quarter 146 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 2: million dollar baill. I'm not counting your pockets, but you're 147 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 2: twenty two in work at Windy's. I doubt you got 148 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 2: a quarter million all the twenty five thousand, because most 149 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 2: bonds are ten percent. 150 00:05:58,960 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: I doubt you have either. 151 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 2: But that's why jail math works, and you have to 152 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 2: calculate these scenarios in your head before you make decisions. Addition, subtraction, multiplication, division, 153 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 2: how long will I be gone if I do this? 154 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 2: How much money will it cost me if I do this? 155 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 2: Subtract your emotion from things and ask yourself, is it 156 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 2: worth it if I do this? 157 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: The answer is no. 158 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 2: You are in jail right now simply because a man 159 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 2: wanted a free soda. 160 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 1: Let him have it. 161 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 2: It is not worth ending up in jail over a 162 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 2: free soda in free fast food. I mean, come on, like, 163 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 2: who who would go to jail for a free soda 164 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 2: and free fast food? 165 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:39,119 Speaker 3: Wow? Play steam music? 166 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 2: Okay, guys here, mid size Mac is here, mid size 167 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 2: Mac is here? 168 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,039 Speaker 1: How are you? How are you? Mid size Mac? Hungry? 169 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 1: What Mac? 170 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 3: I know? 171 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 1: I knew as soon as I said something about foods 172 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: was gonna walk in here. 173 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 4: This is I don't understand how I'll keep telling you 174 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 4: all that the big bags of biting back. Nothing is 175 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 4: worth any of this, and not even just because, like 176 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 4: you said, the jail mask. 177 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 3: Every black person knows we all have the. 178 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 4: Same matra at work. I don't get paid enough for this. Yeah, 179 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 4: I'm with you, defending that I don't get paid enough 180 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 4: for this. You want to steal from home depot. I 181 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 4: don't get paid enough for this. You gotta keep you 182 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 4: just got to tell yourself in the back of your 183 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 4: mind constantly because that will prevent you from having to 184 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 4: do the jail mask. 185 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 2: So even if they throw the food on you with 186 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 2: a soda on you, you still like, well, I'm the 187 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 2: wrong person asked that somebody throw food at. 188 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 3: Me and this is a game. What else you got? 189 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 2: Please give Malaysia Lea the biggest he huhed Jesus. 190 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 3: Trying many glazy catch. 191 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: That I said, somebody throw it at him? What else 192 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: you got? 193 00:07:53,480 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 3: God? A party in your four plays? 194 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 4: Crazy? 195 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 3: That's like you hr here. They did get paid enough 196 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 3: for this, all right? Thank you Glzzy ketches showing me 197 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 3: think you that dog? 198 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 5: Indeed, now, speaking of guzzy ketches, oh my. 199 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 1: God, how I've been waiting for this day. Listen. 200 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: First of all, one of our favorite guests here in 201 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club is coming back to the Breakfast Club 202 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 2: because Dave Chappelle is performing this weekend at Radio at 203 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 2: Saturday Night night Life, and so he'll he'll probably be 204 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 2: there with him. 205 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: Ye, And they performed this week at Radio City Music. 206 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: Call now, Lauren. 207 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 2: You was at the show, and several other people at 208 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 2: the show told me Donnell had a lot of smoke 209 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 2: from me on that stage. 210 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: I wasn't there. 211 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 2: He was mad that you inserted that photo of him 212 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 2: sitting between did these legs on that boat, and he 213 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 2: talked about it. 214 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: He made it real funny too, made it real funny. 215 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: Huh oh, so funny. Well, guess what was his stage? 216 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 5: This radio was my all right, I'm looking for yes, 217 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:50,719 Speaker 5: all right, we're gonna talk to him when we come back, 218 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 5: so don't move. 219 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 3: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, The Breakfast Club.