WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Earlobe Madness

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jew bowls. Second date update. A lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>in life you get caught up in the moment and

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<v Speaker 1>then you do something later on you think about and

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<v Speaker 1>you go, I'm a dumbass. Probably should not have done that.

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan is on the phone with us right now for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, and that's sort of what happened

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<v Speaker 1>on his date. Nathan. How you doing, I'm doing all right,

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<v Speaker 1>You're exactly right. Thank you for your email, appreciate it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll let you kind of explain the story of what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was hilarious actually, just picturing what you

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<v Speaker 1>said in your email. But first of all, how did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet the girl that you want us to call today?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Maggie. Yeah, okay, how did you meet Maggie?

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<v Speaker 1>I met here on okay Cupid. I know, like sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it's just people look at that in a hook up site,

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<v Speaker 1>but um, but I figured that she was worth you know,

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<v Speaker 1>getting to know a little bit. All right, So normally

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<v Speaker 1>you hook up with all the other girls, this one

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<v Speaker 1>was special. You liked Maggie. How so how long are

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<v Speaker 1>you chat for a couple of weeks and then decided

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<v Speaker 1>to go out? Yeah, we set up a date for

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<v Speaker 1>a dinner date. And what'd you do at your dinner date?

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<v Speaker 1>Where'd you go? We went to this really great restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>that I wanted to try. It had just a great

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<v Speaker 1>water view. Oh fancy. I called ahead to let them

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<v Speaker 1>know if I could reserve one of the best seats,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like with with the best view right by

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<v Speaker 1>the water, and they gave that to you. Yeah, drop

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<v Speaker 1>a name or anything else, because next time, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>having a problem with that, I will allow you to

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<v Speaker 1>drop Rose's name and you can do that. Will set

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<v Speaker 1>you by the bag at the kitchen. So you got

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<v Speaker 1>the table that you wanted, buy the water. That's cool. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were still excited about this date because everything

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<v Speaker 1>had panned out in person, right. She didn't turn out

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<v Speaker 1>to be someone who I don't know, looked more like

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<v Speaker 1>job of the Hut or something. No exactly. She looked

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<v Speaker 1>like her photo, which is rare. It's impressive. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>how was dinner? Dinner was great, The conversation went well,

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<v Speaker 1>the food was good. Um, tell us about the part

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<v Speaker 1>that you think is the reason that you might not

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<v Speaker 1>be getting a call back today. It's so embarrassing. And

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<v Speaker 1>again I thought of this after the date, I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out, you know, just sort of playing

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<v Speaker 1>it through my head and realized that we're having conversation

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I'm looking at her and taking her

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<v Speaker 1>in and sort of looking at her face. Yeah, yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>And I noticed that her ear lobes are really not

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<v Speaker 1>just are like sort of barely connected. Now, some people

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<v Speaker 1>have those ear lobes that are Yeah, some people's ear

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<v Speaker 1>lobes go like straight into their cheek and then the

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<v Speaker 1>other ones kind of have like a big lobe on

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<v Speaker 1>its exactly, and it's such a silly thing. But I

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<v Speaker 1>was just caught up in it and it is like

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<v Speaker 1>really kind of dangle, you know. And she had kind

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<v Speaker 1>of big earrings on, and I thought they were cute.

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<v Speaker 1>It was it was just me like getting caught up

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<v Speaker 1>in it and we were talking and I thought they

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<v Speaker 1>were cute. And I reached across the table and I

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<v Speaker 1>played with her earlobe. Yeah that is gonna be so

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<v Speaker 1>weird on a first day, just like while she's stock

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<v Speaker 1>were you guys touching it all before you played with

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<v Speaker 1>her ear lobe? Okay, said, that's what I wanted, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I wanted to know because when you put

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<v Speaker 1>it in your email, I was like, Okay, if they

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<v Speaker 1>were holding hands or something before, maybe I could see it.

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<v Speaker 1>But if she's just in mid conversation and you slowly

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<v Speaker 1>this is how I picture Nadan slowly reached across the

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<v Speaker 1>table while gazing into her eye and then just start

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<v Speaker 1>flicking her ear lobe. That's gonna be weird. It maybe

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<v Speaker 1>even worse than that. I mean, it wasn't even like

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<v Speaker 1>we were gazing. She was in the middle of a conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>She was in the middle of what did you caress

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<v Speaker 1>the I mean, what did you do with the ear lobe? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a caress. It was more like he was intriguing,

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<v Speaker 1>like to see what was her reaction, Like immediately she flinched.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was a yeah, it was inappropriate me.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she stop talking after that? Did you just like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of look at you like what did you just do? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>She did kind of like a like can I help

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of a thing. And then I just started

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<v Speaker 1>talking and I was like, you were saying with genetic

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<v Speaker 1>and I was saying, well, everyone in my family are

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<v Speaker 1>there attached, and I just you know, so you started

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<v Speaker 1>talking about her ear after you play her exactly all right.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, I don't even know if there's a

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<v Speaker 1>move you could have done to make that better, if

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<v Speaker 1>you would have just been like, sorry, I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>had nice lobes. Hey, this is why I did that.

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<v Speaker 1>How did the rest of the evening go after that happened?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it seemingly that didn't seem to ruin anything.

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<v Speaker 1>We continued on. But then looking back, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>asked her if she wanted to dessert. This place has

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<v Speaker 1>they bring out a beautiful dessert selection you can stick from,

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<v Speaker 1>And she was like, no, I'm not hungry, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's a sign. And then at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the date, I walked her to her door, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would have wanted to go in for the kiss, and

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<v Speaker 1>then it just it didn't feel right. So I gave

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<v Speaker 1>her a hug. And you should have given her one

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<v Speaker 1>last flick on the earlobe for the road. So you

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<v Speaker 1>went in for a hug. And at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night did she say that she wanted to see

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<v Speaker 1>you again? I said, I'd love to do something like

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<v Speaker 1>this sometime, you know, Can I give you a call?

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<v Speaker 1>And she said sure? But you know then I think

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<v Speaker 1>it speaks more that I haven't been able to get

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with her for the last two weeks. I've

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<v Speaker 1>you know, sent her a text here and there, and

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<v Speaker 1>it just I haven't really you haven't gotten anything back

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Yeah, all right, Well, we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call her, see if we can get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone, See if we can get her pressed

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<v Speaker 1>those beautiful ear lobes up to the phone and answer,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll get your second date up date. Okay, alright,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang the brooking jubil in the morning date. Hey, Nathan, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I figured out what the problem is with

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<v Speaker 1>the date that you went on. Nathan wants us to

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<v Speaker 1>call this girl named Maggie. On their date. Nathan got

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<v Speaker 1>a little wrapped up in the moment, noticed her ear

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<v Speaker 1>lobes and did something that he knows is weird. He

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<v Speaker 1>reached over and started playing with her ear lobe and

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<v Speaker 1>it and it's set a really weird thing for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of the day because that's an awkward thing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>But Nathan, I think I figured out the problem. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not the fact that you played with their ear lobe.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the fact that you didn't play with her ear

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<v Speaker 1>lobe enough. Everybody in here knows, Nathan. As soon as

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<v Speaker 1>you'd go for the ear on a lady, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>go all the way. You know what I mean by that? Nathan? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't commit. Yeah? Did you only play with one side?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you should have gone for two? Yeah, nobody likes

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<v Speaker 1>a lobe. Team's a very good point. All right, Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>We're about to give Maggie a call and see if

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<v Speaker 1>the ear lobe fiasco killed your chances at a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready? Yeah, I'm ready. Okay, I'm gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>he right now. Hello, Hi, can I speak to mag

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<v Speaker 1>He please? Hi? Maggie? How are you? This is Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Sorry, can I

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<v Speaker 1>help you with something? You recently went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with one of our listeners, but you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back. So he emailed us to give you a

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<v Speaker 1>call and find out if he did something wrong on

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<v Speaker 1>the date. Now, the guy that wanted us to call

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<v Speaker 1>you today knows that he did something a little strange

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<v Speaker 1>on your date. His name is Nathan. Okay. Nathan says

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<v Speaker 1>that he's tried to text you a few times since

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<v Speaker 1>your date, and so he called a radio station. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so he called us to see if we could get

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<v Speaker 1>you on the phone. Since you're not answering his phone

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<v Speaker 1>calls and ask you why seriously? Yes? Is it because

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<v Speaker 1>he played with your ear lobe on the date? He

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<v Speaker 1>told us about it? Oh? Did Yeah, he told us

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<v Speaker 1>all about your date. He said that he met you

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<v Speaker 1>on okay Cupid and he liked you a lot. Thought

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are getting on very nicely until in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of dinner he reached over and played with your

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<v Speaker 1>ear lobe. I'm assuming that's probably the issue. The earlobe

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<v Speaker 1>thing was definitely part of it, part of it, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not the entirety of it. Because as soon as Maggie,

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<v Speaker 1>if I was on a date with someone and they

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<v Speaker 1>reached across and just started jiggling my earlobe back and

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<v Speaker 1>forth while I was talking, if they were hot, there'd

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<v Speaker 1>be a second date, but most people would not want

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<v Speaker 1>to call anybody back after that. I assumed that it

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<v Speaker 1>was just the earlobe. What else did you not think

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<v Speaker 1>was so great about Nathan? Um? It just it seems

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<v Speaker 1>like he's not somebody who goes out on dates a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he just really awkward like the ear lobe thing?

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe the earlobe thing was a little inappropriate. But

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<v Speaker 1>he also he kept making like really out of date

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<v Speaker 1>pop culture references. Hey, there is nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna just pump in and defend it right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Woo woo is fine. What do you mean? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean out of date pop culture references? Well, it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of seemed like he went out and memorized a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of stuff that he thought would be like relevant

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<v Speaker 1>to like have a conversation. Like at one point he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, my gosh, did you hear that Katie

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<v Speaker 1>Holmes broke up with Tom Cruise? That happened? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I was like, yeah, that that happened a

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<v Speaker 1>while ago. And he's like, oh really, because I just

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<v Speaker 1>it's so fucking like ten years ago. Yeah, And he

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<v Speaker 1>made a reference at one point, he's like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>have you seen this new music video dogman style style?

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<v Speaker 1>He was trying to talk about Gongnom style, which was

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<v Speaker 1>also not very relevant. Yeah, how did this come up

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<v Speaker 1>in conversation? Were you guys talking about pop culture type things?

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<v Speaker 1>And No? That's that's why it kind of felt like

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<v Speaker 1>he memorized a bunch of stuff or something, because it

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<v Speaker 1>was like these little kidbits he would kind of just

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<v Speaker 1>like throw into the conversation and so so you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>talking about something completely different he would just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>spout off like I know this pop culture of fact hage.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it felt like. Yeah, it's like going on

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<v Speaker 1>pop up video, but which is also another relevant reference.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that show has been on the air

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<v Speaker 1>end about fifteen years. Yeah, okay, so I obviously felt

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<v Speaker 1>like he must have been a little weird. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he seemed really sweet, and I felt really bad, and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think it would benefit anybody to like tell

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<v Speaker 1>him I didn't want to see him. Aren't you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of curious though? Why the out of date pop culture

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<v Speaker 1>references during your date? I just figured he was really nervous,

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't. Aren't you curious about the earlobe play

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<v Speaker 1>that you got? What'd you want to hear? Him? Kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just chocked it up to him being nervous, So

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<v Speaker 1>don't you want to hear the reasoning behind India that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, maybe, but not enough to want to hurt

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<v Speaker 1>his feelings. I figured, you know, just maybe just not

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<v Speaker 1>calling him backwards. Well, I know how to get your answer, though,

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<v Speaker 1>You said, maybe you'd like to hear the reason on that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can get you an answer because he's on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone right now listening. Maggie. Hey, Maggie, here is Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm listening. Why didn't nobody tell me this? I forgot, Maggie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad I got to hear what you had to say.

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<v Speaker 1>And I wanted to make a good impression, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was nervous. I'm sorry, I'm not you know, mister pop culture.

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<v Speaker 1>But men and women like different things, and I have

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<v Speaker 1>to admit I did a little online research. Nathan. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that she's miss pop culture like you were thinking. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and men and women are different, that's true, But did

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<v Speaker 1>you just start reading things online too? Well? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that the video didn't just come out, but

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<v Speaker 1>how I don't know how you pronounced that word. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>style all right, whatever it is, and it's still the

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<v Speaker 1>most watch video on YouTube. It's true. Yeah, the stale

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<v Speaker 1>is so that's a relatable. I was trying to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to and Tom Cruise has a new movie coming out,

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<v Speaker 1>and so, all right, people like Tom Cruise movies. But Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you think she'd want to hear about your hobbies

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<v Speaker 1>or talk about your introu I mean, you're interesting people.

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<v Speaker 1>You can talk about that. Aren't you supposed to relate

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<v Speaker 1>to people? Yeah? But again yeah, but you're just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like to see if you guys naturally get along.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I have to say something really quickly. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually a little offended that you think that all

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<v Speaker 1>girls are just kind of really into pop culture, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm the kind of person that like to relax.

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<v Speaker 1>I watch like documentaries, and I go to art sy

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<v Speaker 1>foreign films and stuff. And the fact that you would

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<v Speaker 1>sort of assume that the way to all women's heart

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<v Speaker 1>is by People magazine is that actually is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>offensive to me. I'm casting a broad neet. We're just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to find anything relatable. I wasn't casting a broad

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<v Speaker 1>net that was trying to impress me with a very

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<v Speaker 1>limited frame of reference. Well, Maggie, at least he put

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<v Speaker 1>effort into it. He tried, he read, he prepared, Like

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<v Speaker 1>girls are on guys, a lot of times, we're not

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<v Speaker 1>putting enough effort in well, but I would have preferred

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<v Speaker 1>for him to put effort in getting to know me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I was asking him a lot of questions

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<v Speaker 1>about him. You know, I didn't feel like I needed

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<v Speaker 1>to go bone up on football and Playboy to impress.

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<v Speaker 1>But I wouldn't have been I wouldn't have been offended

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<v Speaker 1>if we talked about who won the World Series two

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. I was like, why are you reading up

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<v Speaker 1>on guy stuff? Trying you are? Look, Maggie, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just nervous, all right. I would like to get to

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<v Speaker 1>know you, and I would love a few made a

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<v Speaker 1>suggestion for a second date, whatever kind of thing appeals

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<v Speaker 1>to you, beauty salon or whatever. I don't know the

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<v Speaker 1>truth be told, I might have just chalked the first

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<v Speaker 1>one up to nerves and tried it again. But after

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<v Speaker 1>this conversation, I really have no desire. Really, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think that everything Nathan has said to you is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of nice. I mean, he's apologize. He did not apologize

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<v Speaker 1>for the ear lobe thing yet, but I guess that

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<v Speaker 1>was not the biggest issue with you. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>just sounds like Nathan was nervous. I think I was

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<v Speaker 1>most nervous because we had such a good rapport back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth to set the date up. You know, That's

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<v Speaker 1>what got me nervous to the data is because I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that was going so well. Okay, Maggie, let me

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask Nathan. Let me ask you a question,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'll decide. Other than the fact, I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 1>that you find me somewhat attractive or you wouldn't really

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out another date with me? What is

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<v Speaker 1>it about me that makes you want to go on

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<v Speaker 1>another date? Well, I mean, first attraction is important, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're passionate. I did like that you talked about things passionately.

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<v Speaker 1>That you do seem intelligent and well read, Maggie, would

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<v Speaker 1>you seem passionate about specifically? I'm going to try not

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<v Speaker 1>to let it get there, Maggie, will you go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date with Nathan? We will pay for it,

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<v Speaker 1>and Nathan can tell you in person what he likes

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<v Speaker 1>about you and what do he thinks is good about

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<v Speaker 1>your passion and whatever. I promise it's just going to

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<v Speaker 1>be you and I talking about you, and I I

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<v Speaker 1>won't I won't watch any housewive, and I promise I

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<v Speaker 1>won't flick your ear lobe. I forgot all about that. Nathan.

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<v Speaker 1>You do seem like a nice person, and I understand

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<v Speaker 1>what it's like being really nervous on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>So I will go out on another date with you

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<v Speaker 1>if we can agree to just not try to impress

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<v Speaker 1>and just really try to legitimately get to know each other,

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<v Speaker 1>no no pressure or anything. Right, Yeah, alright, sweet, that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds great, and I won't be so awkward next time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay. I understand what that's like. So it's all right.

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<v Speaker 1>We got you guys a second date. Maggie, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for being understanding. Thank you for being on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it. Nathan, Yeah, you are right. I can

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<v Speaker 1>hear through the phone that Maggie has fabulous. Your logo

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<v Speaker 1>broken juwel in the morning.