Speaker 1: Rooking jew bowls. Second date update. A lot of times
Speaker 1: in life you get caught up in the moment and
Speaker 1: then you do something later on you think about and
Speaker 1: you go, I'm a dumbass. Probably should not have done that.
Speaker 1: Nathan is on the phone with us right now for
Speaker 1: a second date update, and that's sort of what happened
Speaker 1: on his date. Nathan. How you doing, I'm doing all right,
Speaker 1: You're exactly right. Thank you for your email, appreciate it. Well,
Speaker 1: we'll let you kind of explain the story of what happened.
Speaker 1: I thought it was hilarious actually, just picturing what you
Speaker 1: said in your email. But first of all, how did
Speaker 1: you meet the girl that you want us to call today?
Speaker 1: Her name is Maggie. Yeah, okay, how did you meet Maggie?
Speaker 1: I met here on okay Cupid. I know, like sometimes
Speaker 1: it's just people look at that in a hook up site,
Speaker 1: but um, but I figured that she was worth you know,
Speaker 1: getting to know a little bit. All right, So normally
Speaker 1: you hook up with all the other girls, this one
Speaker 1: was special. You liked Maggie. How so how long are
Speaker 1: you chat for a couple of weeks and then decided
Speaker 1: to go out? Yeah, we set up a date for
Speaker 1: a dinner date. And what'd you do at your dinner date?
Speaker 1: Where'd you go? We went to this really great restaurant
Speaker 1: that I wanted to try. It had just a great
Speaker 1: water view. Oh fancy. I called ahead to let them
Speaker 1: know if I could reserve one of the best seats,
Speaker 1: you know, like with with the best view right by
Speaker 1: the water, and they gave that to you. Yeah, drop
Speaker 1: a name or anything else, because next time, if you're
Speaker 1: having a problem with that, I will allow you to
Speaker 1: drop Rose's name and you can do that. Will set
Speaker 1: you by the bag at the kitchen. So you got
Speaker 1: the table that you wanted, buy the water. That's cool. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you were still excited about this date because everything
Speaker 1: had panned out in person, right. She didn't turn out
Speaker 1: to be someone who I don't know, looked more like
Speaker 1: job of the Hut or something. No exactly. She looked
Speaker 1: like her photo, which is rare. It's impressive. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: how was dinner? Dinner was great, The conversation went well,
Speaker 1: the food was good. Um, tell us about the part
Speaker 1: that you think is the reason that you might not
Speaker 1: be getting a call back today. It's so embarrassing. And
Speaker 1: again I thought of this after the date, I was
Speaker 1: trying to figure out, you know, just sort of playing
Speaker 1: it through my head and realized that we're having conversation
Speaker 1: and you know, I'm looking at her and taking her
Speaker 1: in and sort of looking at her face. Yeah, yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: And I noticed that her ear lobes are really not
Speaker 1: just are like sort of barely connected. Now, some people
Speaker 1: have those ear lobes that are Yeah, some people's ear
Speaker 1: lobes go like straight into their cheek and then the
Speaker 1: other ones kind of have like a big lobe on
Speaker 1: its exactly, and it's such a silly thing. But I
Speaker 1: was just caught up in it and it is like
Speaker 1: really kind of dangle, you know. And she had kind
Speaker 1: of big earrings on, and I thought they were cute.
Speaker 1: It was it was just me like getting caught up
Speaker 1: in it and we were talking and I thought they
Speaker 1: were cute. And I reached across the table and I
Speaker 1: played with her earlobe. Yeah that is gonna be so
Speaker 1: weird on a first day, just like while she's stock
Speaker 1: were you guys touching it all before you played with
Speaker 1: her ear lobe? Okay, said, that's what I wanted, and
Speaker 1: that's what I wanted to know because when you put
Speaker 1: it in your email, I was like, Okay, if they
Speaker 1: were holding hands or something before, maybe I could see it.
Speaker 1: But if she's just in mid conversation and you slowly
Speaker 1: this is how I picture Nadan slowly reached across the
Speaker 1: table while gazing into her eye and then just start
Speaker 1: flicking her ear lobe. That's gonna be weird. It maybe
Speaker 1: even worse than that. I mean, it wasn't even like
Speaker 1: we were gazing. She was in the middle of a conversation.
Speaker 1: She was in the middle of what did you caress
Speaker 1: the I mean, what did you do with the ear lobe? No,
Speaker 1: it wasn't a caress. It was more like he was intriguing,
Speaker 1: like to see what was her reaction, Like immediately she flinched.
Speaker 1: I mean it was a yeah, it was inappropriate me.
Speaker 1: Did she stop talking after that? Did you just like
Speaker 1: kind of look at you like what did you just do? Yeah?
Speaker 1: She did kind of like a like can I help
Speaker 1: you kind of a thing. And then I just started
Speaker 1: talking and I was like, you were saying with genetic
Speaker 1: and I was saying, well, everyone in my family are
Speaker 1: there attached, and I just you know, so you started
Speaker 1: talking about her ear after you play her exactly all right.
Speaker 1: You know what, I don't even know if there's a
Speaker 1: move you could have done to make that better, if
Speaker 1: you would have just been like, sorry, I thought you
Speaker 1: had nice lobes. Hey, this is why I did that.
Speaker 1: How did the rest of the evening go after that happened?
Speaker 1: I mean it seemingly that didn't seem to ruin anything.
Speaker 1: We continued on. But then looking back, you know, I
Speaker 1: asked her if she wanted to dessert. This place has
Speaker 1: they bring out a beautiful dessert selection you can stick from,
Speaker 1: And she was like, no, I'm not hungry, you know,
Speaker 1: so that's a sign. And then at the end of
Speaker 1: the date, I walked her to her door, and I
Speaker 1: would have wanted to go in for the kiss, and
Speaker 1: then it just it didn't feel right. So I gave
Speaker 1: her a hug. And you should have given her one
Speaker 1: last flick on the earlobe for the road. So you
Speaker 1: went in for a hug. And at the end of
Speaker 1: the night did she say that she wanted to see
Speaker 1: you again? I said, I'd love to do something like
Speaker 1: this sometime, you know, Can I give you a call?
Speaker 1: And she said sure? But you know then I think
Speaker 1: it speaks more that I haven't been able to get
Speaker 1: in touch with her for the last two weeks. I've
Speaker 1: you know, sent her a text here and there, and
Speaker 1: it just I haven't really you haven't gotten anything back
Speaker 1: at all. Yeah, all right, Well, we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call her, see if we can get her
Speaker 1: on the phone, See if we can get her pressed
Speaker 1: those beautiful ear lobes up to the phone and answer,
Speaker 1: and we'll get your second date up date. Okay, alright,
Speaker 1: all right, hang the brooking jubil in the morning date. Hey, Nathan, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think I figured out what the problem is with
Speaker 1: the date that you went on. Nathan wants us to
Speaker 1: call this girl named Maggie. On their date. Nathan got
Speaker 1: a little wrapped up in the moment, noticed her ear
Speaker 1: lobes and did something that he knows is weird. He
Speaker 1: reached over and started playing with her ear lobe and
Speaker 1: it and it's set a really weird thing for the
Speaker 1: rest of the day because that's an awkward thing to do.
Speaker 1: But Nathan, I think I figured out the problem. It's
Speaker 1: not the fact that you played with their ear lobe.
Speaker 1: It's the fact that you didn't play with her ear
Speaker 1: lobe enough. Everybody in here knows, Nathan. As soon as
Speaker 1: you'd go for the ear on a lady, you gotta
Speaker 1: go all the way. You know what I mean by that? Nathan? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't commit. Yeah? Did you only play with one side?
Speaker 1: Maybe you should have gone for two? Yeah, nobody likes
Speaker 1: a lobe. Team's a very good point. All right, Nathan,
Speaker 1: We're about to give Maggie a call and see if
Speaker 1: the ear lobe fiasco killed your chances at a second date.
Speaker 1: Are you ready? Yeah, I'm ready. Okay, I'm gonna call
Speaker 1: he right now. Hello, Hi, can I speak to mag
Speaker 1: He please? Hi? Maggie? How are you? This is Jewel
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Sorry, can I
Speaker 1: help you with something? You recently went out on a
Speaker 1: date with one of our listeners, but you're not calling
Speaker 1: him back. So he emailed us to give you a
Speaker 1: call and find out if he did something wrong on
Speaker 1: the date. Now, the guy that wanted us to call
Speaker 1: you today knows that he did something a little strange
Speaker 1: on your date. His name is Nathan. Okay. Nathan says
Speaker 1: that he's tried to text you a few times since
Speaker 1: your date, and so he called a radio station. Yes,
Speaker 1: so he called us to see if we could get
Speaker 1: you on the phone. Since you're not answering his phone
Speaker 1: calls and ask you why seriously? Yes? Is it because
Speaker 1: he played with your ear lobe on the date? He
Speaker 1: told us about it? Oh? Did Yeah, he told us
Speaker 1: all about your date. He said that he met you
Speaker 1: on okay Cupid and he liked you a lot. Thought
Speaker 1: you guys are getting on very nicely until in the
Speaker 1: middle of dinner he reached over and played with your
Speaker 1: ear lobe. I'm assuming that's probably the issue. The earlobe
Speaker 1: thing was definitely part of it, part of it, that's
Speaker 1: not the entirety of it. Because as soon as Maggie,
Speaker 1: if I was on a date with someone and they
Speaker 1: reached across and just started jiggling my earlobe back and
Speaker 1: forth while I was talking, if they were hot, there'd
Speaker 1: be a second date, but most people would not want
Speaker 1: to call anybody back after that. I assumed that it
Speaker 1: was just the earlobe. What else did you not think
Speaker 1: was so great about Nathan? Um? It just it seems
Speaker 1: like he's not somebody who goes out on dates a lot.
Speaker 1: Was he just really awkward like the ear lobe thing?
Speaker 1: And maybe the earlobe thing was a little inappropriate. But
Speaker 1: he also he kept making like really out of date
Speaker 1: pop culture references. Hey, there is nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just pump in and defend it right now.
Speaker 1: Woo woo is fine. What do you mean? What do
Speaker 1: you mean out of date pop culture references? Well, it
Speaker 1: kind of seemed like he went out and memorized a
Speaker 1: bunch of stuff that he thought would be like relevant
Speaker 1: to like have a conversation. Like at one point he
Speaker 1: was like, oh, my gosh, did you hear that Katie
Speaker 1: Holmes broke up with Tom Cruise? That happened? And I
Speaker 1: was like, I was like, yeah, that that happened a
Speaker 1: while ago. And he's like, oh really, because I just
Speaker 1: it's so fucking like ten years ago. Yeah, And he
Speaker 1: made a reference at one point, he's like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: have you seen this new music video dogman style style?
Speaker 1: He was trying to talk about Gongnom style, which was
Speaker 1: also not very relevant. Yeah, how did this come up
Speaker 1: in conversation? Were you guys talking about pop culture type things?
Speaker 1: And No? That's that's why it kind of felt like
Speaker 1: he memorized a bunch of stuff or something, because it
Speaker 1: was like these little kidbits he would kind of just
Speaker 1: like throw into the conversation and so so you'd be
Speaker 1: talking about something completely different he would just kind of
Speaker 1: spout off like I know this pop culture of fact hage.
Speaker 1: That's what it felt like. Yeah, it's like going on
Speaker 1: pop up video, but which is also another relevant reference.
Speaker 1: I don't think that show has been on the air
Speaker 1: end about fifteen years. Yeah, okay, so I obviously felt
Speaker 1: like he must have been a little weird. I mean,
Speaker 1: he seemed really sweet, and I felt really bad, and
Speaker 1: I didn't think it would benefit anybody to like tell
Speaker 1: him I didn't want to see him. Aren't you kind
Speaker 1: of curious though? Why the out of date pop culture
Speaker 1: references during your date? I just figured he was really nervous,
Speaker 1: and you don't. Aren't you curious about the earlobe play
Speaker 1: that you got? What'd you want to hear? Him? Kind
Speaker 1: of just chocked it up to him being nervous, So
Speaker 1: don't you want to hear the reasoning behind India that?
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe, but not enough to want to hurt
Speaker 1: his feelings. I figured, you know, just maybe just not
Speaker 1: calling him backwards. Well, I know how to get your answer, though,
Speaker 1: You said, maybe you'd like to hear the reason on that.
Speaker 1: I can get you an answer because he's on the
Speaker 1: phone right now listening. Maggie. Hey, Maggie, here is Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm listening. Why didn't nobody tell me this? I forgot, Maggie.
Speaker 1: I'm glad I got to hear what you had to say.
Speaker 1: And I wanted to make a good impression, and I
Speaker 1: was nervous. I'm sorry, I'm not you know, mister pop culture.
Speaker 1: But men and women like different things, and I have
Speaker 1: to admit I did a little online research. Nathan. I
Speaker 1: don't think that she's miss pop culture like you were thinking. Okay,
Speaker 1: and men and women are different, that's true, But did
Speaker 1: you just start reading things online too? Well? You know,
Speaker 1: I know that the video didn't just come out, but
Speaker 1: how I don't know how you pronounced that word. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: style all right, whatever it is, and it's still the
Speaker 1: most watch video on YouTube. It's true. Yeah, the stale
Speaker 1: is so that's a relatable. I was trying to, you know,
Speaker 1: trying to and Tom Cruise has a new movie coming out,
Speaker 1: and so, all right, people like Tom Cruise movies. But Nathan,
Speaker 1: don't you think she'd want to hear about your hobbies
Speaker 1: or talk about your introu I mean, you're interesting people.
Speaker 1: You can talk about that. Aren't you supposed to relate
Speaker 1: to people? Yeah? But again yeah, but you're just kind
Speaker 1: of like to see if you guys naturally get along.
Speaker 1: You know, I have to say something really quickly. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm actually a little offended that you think that all
Speaker 1: girls are just kind of really into pop culture, because
Speaker 1: you know, I'm the kind of person that like to relax.
Speaker 1: I watch like documentaries, and I go to art sy
Speaker 1: foreign films and stuff. And the fact that you would
Speaker 1: sort of assume that the way to all women's heart
Speaker 1: is by People magazine is that actually is kind of
Speaker 1: offensive to me. I'm casting a broad neet. We're just
Speaker 1: trying to find anything relatable. I wasn't casting a broad
Speaker 1: net that was trying to impress me with a very
Speaker 1: limited frame of reference. Well, Maggie, at least he put
Speaker 1: effort into it. He tried, he read, he prepared, Like
Speaker 1: girls are on guys, a lot of times, we're not
Speaker 1: putting enough effort in well, but I would have preferred
Speaker 1: for him to put effort in getting to know me.
Speaker 1: I mean, I was asking him a lot of questions
Speaker 1: about him. You know, I didn't feel like I needed
Speaker 1: to go bone up on football and Playboy to impress.
Speaker 1: But I wouldn't have been I wouldn't have been offended
Speaker 1: if we talked about who won the World Series two
Speaker 1: years ago. I was like, why are you reading up
Speaker 1: on guy stuff? Trying you are? Look, Maggie, I was
Speaker 1: just nervous, all right. I would like to get to
Speaker 1: know you, and I would love a few made a
Speaker 1: suggestion for a second date, whatever kind of thing appeals
Speaker 1: to you, beauty salon or whatever. I don't know the
Speaker 1: truth be told, I might have just chalked the first
Speaker 1: one up to nerves and tried it again. But after
Speaker 1: this conversation, I really have no desire. Really, but I
Speaker 1: think that everything Nathan has said to you is kind
Speaker 1: of nice. I mean, he's apologize. He did not apologize
Speaker 1: for the ear lobe thing yet, but I guess that
Speaker 1: was not the biggest issue with you. I mean, it
Speaker 1: just sounds like Nathan was nervous. I think I was
Speaker 1: most nervous because we had such a good rapport back
Speaker 1: and forth to set the date up. You know, That's
Speaker 1: what got me nervous to the data is because I
Speaker 1: thought that was going so well. Okay, Maggie, let me
Speaker 1: let me ask Nathan. Let me ask you a question,
Speaker 1: and then I'll decide. Other than the fact, I'm assuming
Speaker 1: that you find me somewhat attractive or you wouldn't really
Speaker 1: want to go out another date with me? What is
Speaker 1: it about me that makes you want to go on
Speaker 1: another date? Well, I mean, first attraction is important, and
Speaker 1: you're passionate. I did like that you talked about things passionately.
Speaker 1: That you do seem intelligent and well read, Maggie, would
Speaker 1: you seem passionate about specifically? I'm going to try not
Speaker 1: to let it get there, Maggie, will you go out
Speaker 1: on a second date with Nathan? We will pay for it,
Speaker 1: and Nathan can tell you in person what he likes
Speaker 1: about you and what do he thinks is good about
Speaker 1: your passion and whatever. I promise it's just going to
Speaker 1: be you and I talking about you, and I I
Speaker 1: won't I won't watch any housewive, and I promise I
Speaker 1: won't flick your ear lobe. I forgot all about that. Nathan.
Speaker 1: You do seem like a nice person, and I understand
Speaker 1: what it's like being really nervous on a first date.
Speaker 1: So I will go out on another date with you
Speaker 1: if we can agree to just not try to impress
Speaker 1: and just really try to legitimately get to know each other,
Speaker 1: no no pressure or anything. Right, Yeah, alright, sweet, that
Speaker 1: sounds great, and I won't be so awkward next time.
Speaker 1: It's okay. I understand what that's like. So it's all right.
Speaker 1: We got you guys a second date. Maggie, thank you
Speaker 1: for being understanding. Thank you for being on the show.
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Nathan, Yeah, you are right. I can
Speaker 1: hear through the phone that Maggie has fabulous. Your logo
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