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Speaker 1: On a two point seven Kiss FM, It's time or

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Speaker 1: Ryan's Roses. So, dear Ryan, Sisney Tanya. My husband was

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Speaker 1: on his way out the door to watch the Lakers

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Speaker 1: game with his friends when he texted me a movie ticket.

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Speaker 1: I think he meant to send that to the woman

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Speaker 1: he was going to meet. Uh, let me grab Marissa

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Speaker 1: on the line here, Marissa, thanks for coming on. So

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Speaker 1: what do you think you think he texted you a

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Speaker 1: movie ticket for a on a like he's going on

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Speaker 1: a date with another woman and mistakenly send it to you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: why do you think that?

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Speaker 2: So well, he's all like, Okay, I'm going to coaches

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Speaker 2: to watch the game with Alex and p Jay and Rocco.

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Speaker 2: Like it seemed like too much detail at the time,

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Speaker 2: but I said, okay, see you later, and like maybe

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Speaker 2: ninety seconds later, I get this ticket texted to me

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Speaker 2: and it's a movie ticket for that night, that same night,

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Speaker 2: to see Wonka and so like I got distracted by

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Speaker 2: my son crime and I went back to check it,

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Speaker 2: and then when I did, he deleted it. I didn't

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Speaker 2: confront him about it or anything like that. I played dumb.

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Speaker 2: So like, when he gets home, I'm like, did the

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Speaker 2: Lakers win, and he answered again just way too much detail.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I think he's related, and I think he

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Speaker 2: thinks that I didn't see the ticket.

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Speaker 1: How long you been married?

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Speaker 2: Four years?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Right? And you have not addressed this in any

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Speaker 1: real way.

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Speaker 2: No, I've been playing dumb with it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hold on one second, Marissa, it is Ryan's Rosies.

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Speaker 1: I see. We can find out you've seen m Wonka

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Speaker 1: with another woman. Hey, not what you should be doing

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Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Seacrest. On Air with Ryan Seacret.

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Speaker 1: We're in the Ryan's Roses call right now. So this

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Speaker 1: is Marissa on the phone. She's been married four years.

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Speaker 1: She thinks her husband took another woman out to see Wonka.

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Speaker 1: He mistakenly sent the text to her about his wife

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Speaker 1: about it, and so the question is did he is

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Speaker 1: he seeing somebody else? Is he taking somebody else to

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Speaker 1: the movies? What's he doing? He didn't take her? Nope,

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Speaker 1: and clearly he was going. So Marisa, I need you

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Speaker 1: to say, Ryan, you my permission to call, and then

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Speaker 1: your husband's name.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna do that. Now, be very quiet. Let's

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Speaker 1: see what we can find out. You have any idea

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Speaker 1: who this other woman's what her name is?

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Speaker 2: I have no idea?

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Speaker 1: All right, be very quiet, let's see we can find out.

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Speaker 1: We will tell him he's on the air, and then

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Speaker 1: we'll bring you in.

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Speaker 3: Here we go, Hello, Hi, there, can I speak to Nate?

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Speaker 2: Who's calling?

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Speaker 3: My name is Janelle. I'm calling from JJ's Flowers. How

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Speaker 3: are you doing this morning?

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Speaker 2: I'm all right? How can I help you?

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Speaker 3: Great?

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Speaker 4: So we deliver mainly in Lancaster, and we're offering a

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Speaker 4: promotion for local residents. And since you're in the area,

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Speaker 4: it's a three dozen red roses that you can send

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Speaker 4: to anybody that you'd like.

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Speaker 3: I don't need cash from you, or billion info or

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Speaker 3: anything like that.

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Speaker 4: We're just trying to promote our business and if you'd

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Speaker 4: be interested, we just need the name of the person

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Speaker 4: and a note.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks, thank you very much. I'm good.

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Speaker 4: Are you sure they're not at This won't cost you

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Speaker 4: any money. I'm just again trying to promote my business.

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Speaker 4: If you're pleased with my arrangements, and maybe you can

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Speaker 4: refer to friends and family.

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Speaker 3: But I don't need any.

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Speaker 2: Before you I've heard that before.

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Speaker 3: Is there anybody that you'd want to send flowers to.

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Speaker 3: They're free roses. It's a free dozen red roses.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, yeah, sounds good.

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Speaker 2: Send them to uh Gina?

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Speaker 3: G I n A And what would you like to

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Speaker 2: Suld to say?

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Speaker 1: Yolo yolo? Nate. Your voice is being broadcast in the radio.

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Speaker 1: I've got your wife Marissa on the line. You want

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Speaker 1: to tell her why you're sending red roses to Gina?

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Speaker 1: With you only live once once? Wow, Nate, speak, speak

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Speaker 1: directly to your wife. What is going on on the radio.

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Speaker 1: Your voice is on the radio. I didn't put you on.

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Speaker 1: Your wife puts you on, and she wants to know

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Speaker 1: why you're sending Gina roses. Who's Gina?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Maria. I'm not saying that I'm sleeping

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Speaker 2: with her, but thank you for coming to that assumption.

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Speaker 1: Well what are you doing with Gina?

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Speaker 2: What does it matter?

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Speaker 1: The questions because he's not hearing me.

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Speaker 2: Are you sleeping with her?

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Speaker 1: Just tell them he's a friend of mine.

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying I am or am not.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, it's not.

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Speaker 2: Like you and I have done anything recently.

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Speaker 4: What it's not like there's been a lot of I'm

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Speaker 4: not even gonna go.

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Speaker 1: There, Nate, Who cares? Are you married to Marissa? Did

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Speaker 1: you marry her?

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Speaker 2: Yes? I married Marissa?

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Speaker 1: Okay? And why this attitude and this chip in this tone?

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Speaker 1: What's the problem we we we talked about this, like

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Speaker 1: we haven't done anything intimate in ages, Like, so, who's like?

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Speaker 3: Am I wrong?

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Speaker 2: Interesting?

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Speaker 1: Nate? Nate, I'm not interested in the calendar of your intimacy.

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Speaker 1: Are you married or not to Marissa? And why do

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Speaker 1: you think that justifies you to go take Gina to

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Speaker 1: the movies or sender roses or even more? Can you

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Speaker 1: explain that.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I'm unjustified to go hang out with

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Speaker 2: a friend of the opposite sex.

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Speaker 1: Are you You're done? You're done, You're done. You're done

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Speaker 1: with me, Nate, Marissa, I'm gonna put you on the

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Speaker 1: phone just he's gone. What can you help shed some

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Speaker 1: light on what's going on there with him? Why is

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Speaker 2: He's talking like like like he's been clear about about

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Speaker 2: his frustrations, but like that doesn't mean that doesn't give

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Speaker 2: him the right to cheat on me, Like he's not

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Speaker 2: been interested in him lately. Yeah, but I'm spending all

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Speaker 2: day every day with a case. I'm tired, Like he

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Speaker 2: doesn't get Why doesn't he get that? That makes no sense?

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Speaker 1: Well, he's speaking awfully like he's is. It's not it's

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Speaker 1: speaking in a terrible way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't deserve.

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Speaker 2: Me.

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Speaker 1: Well it sounds like he that's the way he feels.

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Speaker 1: But uh, I mean there's some real rooted problems here,

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Speaker 1: real rooted problems. I mean the fact that he thinks

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Speaker 1: it's just okay because for whatever reason, it's not happening there.

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Speaker 1: It's a real problem. It's a real problem. So I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna let you go. Marissa. I wish you luck,

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Speaker 1: but that is not a healthy dynamic at all.

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Speaker 2: He just wants to throw it away over this.

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Speaker 1: Can you find can you find a way to speak

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Speaker 1: like he's not? He's not speaking with any sort of

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Speaker 1: compassion or or any sort of like empathy at all.

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Speaker 1: That's like a partner.

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Speaker 3: Does he always speak to you this way?

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's he is very dismissive, but like the

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Speaker 2: demeaning thing. I think it's because he got h.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna let you go. I think you have enough

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Speaker 1: that you need to talk about. Thank you for reaching

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Speaker 1: out to US merism. Not nice, No, not nice. All right.

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Speaker 1: So that's Ryan's Rose, he said me. You know, he's

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Speaker 1: basically so she's busy. They've been together a while and

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Speaker 1: so they're not intimate for a minute, and he thinks

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Speaker 1: it's fine to just go outside of that