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Speaker 1: The French Show is on. Well, hello everyone, Good morning. Monday,

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Speaker 1: March thirty, first of frend Show is on. Caleb's back

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Speaker 1: from Vegas. Hello, Hello, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina, Hey, Kiki,

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Speaker 1: good morning. Bella's out, got rid of the norovirus and

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Speaker 1: the hives and the whatever else, and then made her

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Speaker 1: way to Nashville for a bachelorette party and looked thriving. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: She went on a journey last week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, from the bottom to the top. Now we're here,

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Speaker 1: you can considered Nashville at a bachelorette party the top.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I do. Shelley still had a baby,

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Speaker 1: which means Shewby's keky again today.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: And by today I mean like the next two and

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Speaker 1: a half months. So yeah, yeah you. Eleven and one

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Speaker 1: is your record in our pop culture game five questions.

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Speaker 1: Normally it's our pop culture expert Showbiz Shelley, she had

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Speaker 1: a baby. Kiki's filling in eleven and one three hundred

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Speaker 1: bucks game wind streak. If you don't lose before Shelley

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Speaker 1: comes back, and you only wind up with one loss

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Speaker 1: and you get to keep the money whatever that money is.

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Speaker 2: I'm scared.

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Speaker 1: I'm so scared. It's a lot of anxiety and I

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Speaker 1: had to kill them for the last baby. I had

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Speaker 1: to do it. I'm not doing it again, I said no.

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Speaker 1: I put my foot down. I said absolutely not not

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Speaker 1: having Kiki's doing it.

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Speaker 4: Yep, And I'm shaking in my boots. I don't know

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Speaker 4: something about Monday's. They just make me more nervous, like

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Speaker 4: I haven't seen Kaylen in a couple of days.

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Speaker 3: She's feeling dangerous. I don't know terrified.

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Speaker 1: Well, because Kaylen writes the question. So if she's feeling dangerous, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so much power, right, I know who knew? You're wielding

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Speaker 1: all the power of the Friend show waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 1: Why didn't somebody get ghosted new? We'll do that this morning.

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Speaker 1: Kiki's Court also a Monday tradition. By I'm bump girl.

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Speaker 3: It's just the name.

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Speaker 1: It's just a name, just a name, just.

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Speaker 3: A name, till it's not be wild to call.

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Speaker 1: You rights today. There's no place like Vegas. There's no

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Speaker 1: higher achy there Archie. Oops, it's just a bunch of

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Speaker 1: degenerates with the same common goal. Well, I don't know, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think there are a lot of goals in Vegas.

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Speaker 1: I mean there's the drunk goal, there's the gambling goal,

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Speaker 1: there's the drug goal, there's the maybe the ladies.

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Speaker 5: To be a degenerate though, like everyone has a nefarious goal,

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Speaker 5: and like I was talking about this with Jason, and

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Speaker 5: there's just there's no one's better than the other.

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Speaker 2: We're all just, you know, we want to just have

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Speaker 2: a bad good time. The land of the equal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, except that's true.

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Speaker 3: They go for shows.

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Speaker 4: I feel like they think they're better than every.

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Speaker 1: I just go for the shows in the eating. Y's

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Speaker 1: your way of saying, like, I'm not like the rest

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Speaker 1: of you, you're better.

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Speaker 3: Than Yes, yeah that's true, that's true.

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Speaker 1: I agree, I agree. I just I just go to

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Speaker 1: eating for the shows. That's that's the people saying to you,

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Speaker 1: I'm not like you. I don't gamble, I'll go to

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Speaker 1: the club. I don't you know what. You're right, You're

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Speaker 1: exactly right.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I turned into that. Yeah that is me. I

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Speaker 3: am the person.

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Speaker 5: I am the one you go to your shows because

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Speaker 5: we're trying to be degenerates.

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Speaker 6: Okay, roller Coaster in Vegas for my wedding, Like, yeah.

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Speaker 4: It's a lot going on Kaeln was changing outfish.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, listen, I love it. It's a beautiful place.

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Speaker 7: I we do.

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Speaker 2: I have one tear going down my face right now.

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Speaker 2: It's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: I mean it is that place, right it's you know,

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Speaker 1: anything goes what happened in Vegas? So yeah, I had

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Speaker 1: the extra drink, you know, have the extra food. What

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Speaker 1: I was Vegas? Man, you know that's what you're supposed

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Speaker 1: to when you're there. How was the trip you were

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Speaker 1: going Thursday through yesterday? How was the trip? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: And I went Wednesday night, So like that's a long

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Speaker 5: time to be in vague, you know.

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Speaker 8: It was a.

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Speaker 2: It was a difficult adventure.

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Speaker 5: I decided to embark on going to Vegas for four

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Speaker 5: nights in a row.

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Speaker 2: That's a little bit too much.

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Speaker 5: But it was fun, lots of I don't know, basketball,

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Speaker 5: but then that ended sadly for me. I didn't really

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Speaker 5: gamble as one would think I would, but yeah, just

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Speaker 1: I guess, lay degenerate gambler. Why didn't you gamble in Vegas?

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Speaker 1: Is it just not as appealing when it's just you know,

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Speaker 1: everywhere you look, It's it's a little better when it's

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Speaker 1: just on your phone and it feels a little.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it feels like naughtier that way or something.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: And then I tried to use my app but it

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Speaker 5: says because I wasn't in Illinois, I couldn't use it

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Speaker 2: But I don't know, just yeah, it wasn't the vibe.

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Speaker 1: Jason's contribution This morning, A spider was hanging from the

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Speaker 1: ceiling in my kitchen today. Yes, now they have gone

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Speaker 1: too far. This is a bathroom insect. What are you

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Speaker 1: doing in the kitchen.

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Speaker 9: Exactly by my food? How dare you? Like?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 10: I hate seeing a spider in the shower. But at

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Speaker 10: this point, okay, if you're gonna be anywhere, like that's

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Speaker 10: an except doable spots, right, Like, I'm vulnerable, I'm naked,

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Speaker 10: I'm wet, there's water everywhere, right, but like, okay, if

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Speaker 10: I'm going to see you anywhere in my home, then like,

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Speaker 10: oh my.

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Speaker 1: God, I had a sip of coffee in my mouth

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Speaker 1: when you said that, just get it everywhere. The text

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for on a Friday night isolate.

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Speaker 5: That was hands and my god, I'm naked, I'm wet,

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Speaker 5: I'm in the shower, I mean, it's me.

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Speaker 10: There is a lot going on, but like, Okay, I

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Speaker 10: can avoid the spider in the shower, right, of course,

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Speaker 10: But for it to be hanging from my ceiling in

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Speaker 10: the kitchen to a point where I almost walked right

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Speaker 10: into it like in the walkway, Like, no, bro, you gotta.

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Speaker 9: Chill, like you got to chose. You're doing too much.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, take several seats, And so I took a lot

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Speaker 10: of pleasure in squashing him. I had to do it.

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Speaker 10: How dare I to set you know, a lesson or whatever?

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Speaker 10: An example? Yeah, it's I tell your friends first, and

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Speaker 10: now I'm gonna kill you.

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Speaker 1: And he's talking, will tell his friends back in the

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Speaker 1: he's no longer with us. Yeah, I mean, what was

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Speaker 1: he thinking? Everyone knows. Everyone knows that spiders only belong

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Speaker 10: Right, what's next? The bedroom? Absolutely not. You got to

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Speaker 10: stop it here, exactly.

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Speaker 1: No, But as we learn, your fear of spiders was not.

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Speaker 1: In fact, you learned that over time for whatever reason,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, a spider bit you or if someone

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Speaker 1: told you to be afraid of spiders because in the

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Speaker 1: fun fact that last week of the week before, we

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Speaker 1: learned that what is it the fear of falling and

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Speaker 1: something else fears, yeah, but but not not the fear

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Speaker 1: of spiders. So you taught yourself that.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, that seems about It was probably like impression, you know,

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Speaker 10: it's an impression from others. So I feel like that's

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Speaker 10: a common fear, right, But spiders, I've never had a

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Speaker 10: spider bit bite me, like Spider.

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Speaker 2: Man, Spider Man.

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Speaker 10: I just don't like, like, I just don't like how

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Speaker 1: They never had a spider bite me. Okay, like just

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Speaker 1: a guy on in Boystown dress like Spider Man. One.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but you asked, but you wanted that. That

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Speaker 9: And that spiders can be in any room that they

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Speaker 1: Is ond Friend's biggest stories of the day. Ay, So,

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Speaker 1: the final four has been set. Every team that entered

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Speaker 1: the twenty twenty five NCAA Men's basketball Tournament with the

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Speaker 1: top seed will play in the Final Four in San

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Speaker 1: Antonio this weekend. All four number one seeds in the

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Speaker 1: bracket made it to the Final four, which is rare.

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Speaker 1: It's been seventeen years since that has happened in tournament.

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Speaker 1: I guess in the history of the tournament has been

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Speaker 1: seventeen years. Number one Auburn survived against the second seed.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Michigan State Spartan, sorry, I apologize, apologized, Caman.

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Speaker 1: Let's see Houston routed Tennessee, Florida, held off Texas Tech,

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Speaker 1: and then Duke took care of business against Alabama, so

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Speaker 1: you get the final four number one seeds. This weekend,

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Speaker 1: a United Airlines plane made contact with a kite while

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Speaker 1: it was attempting to land at Reagan National Airport on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Airlines to the aircraft landed safely, customers did plane normally,

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Speaker 1: and upon inspection there was no damage to the aircraft.

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Speaker 1: The Metropolitan Washington Airport's authority rolls off the tongue so

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Speaker 1: that officers warned about some individuals flying kites in an

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Speaker 1: after the Delta Airlines plane another one nearly crashed with

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Speaker 1: don't know if this is all really just all happening

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Speaker 1: Because I think this kind of stuff is probably happening,

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Speaker 1: or we didn't know, we weren't necessarily paying attention looking

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Speaker 1: for I think this kind of stuff has been happening,

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Speaker 3: So why you flying your kite near the airport?

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Speaker 2: My first question, I've never thought to do that one time.

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Speaker 2: You know, why are we doing.

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Speaker 3: Stuff like this?

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Speaker 1: Is cool? I mean, I agree, but I guess if

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Speaker 1: you're just a normal kite flyer and you don't know

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Speaker 1: much about it, and you just a normal right, Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, you're just out there and

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Speaker 1: flying a kite your kid or something.

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Speaker 9: Why.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure who flies a kite except somebody with

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Speaker 1: a kid. But maybe the kid wanted to fly the

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Speaker 1: kite and here you are.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that same you fuck.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's been some time, but I have to

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Speaker 1: admit it's been quite a while, perhaps many many years.

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Speaker 1: I who know exactly, But yeah, maybe maybe we don't

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Speaker 1: fly our like really our kites with very long strings

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Speaker 1: near the airport. I don't know. Come, man, is that?

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Speaker 1: Hey it's kiky for nine flying a kite netar the airport?

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Speaker 1: How are we doing with that? Flights have the airport?

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Speaker 1: Go fly your kite. But there should be a rule

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Speaker 1: Or you could fly kite if you want to tip

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Speaker 1: tape is today as well. The Entertainer Report will do

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone is new? What if somebody get

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Speaker 1: ghosted three hundred bucks to show this kik kiky scord?

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Speaker 1: the Pread Show.

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Speaker 5: Morgan Wallin was the musical guest on snl Over the Weekend.

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Speaker 5: Apparently she was invited because she's close with his family,

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Speaker 1: Did you lie to you growing up? Because I've had

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Speaker 1: I'll see in therapy. No, but I've had this on

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Speaker 1: talk about the ones that I think are probably more

437
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Speaker 1: common for people. But or maybe you're the parent and

438
00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,880
Speaker 1: you're doing the lying now. I would love to hear

439
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:51,639
Speaker 1: about it, because you probably like you were like I

440
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:53,560
Speaker 1: would never do that to my kids, and then you're

441
00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:57,400
Speaker 1: doing it now because it's just easier. I think sometimes

442
00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,680
Speaker 1: my sister lies to my niece because it's it's just easier,

443
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,879
Speaker 1: and it's a lie. You know, the toy store is closed,

444
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 1: the ice cream stores out of ice cream or whatever.

445
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 1: And by the way, probably and I had a very

446
00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 1: long talk yesterday about and she just kept asking the

447
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,360
Speaker 1: same question over and over again, and I kept answering

448
00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 1: the same question. But apparently she's having a hard time

449
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,879
Speaker 1: being a big sister because because May who was one

450
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 1: Polly's for Mayve is one Polly's maybe is boring? Oh yeah,

451
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 1: and I guess Polly tries to body slammer all the time.

452
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 1: It's like wwe except Maybe is not, you know, really

453
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 1: able to move her let limb. So so it's an

454
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Speaker 1: unfair advantage. And my sister and brother in law are like, hey,

455
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,359
Speaker 1: you gotta like chill out. And then she's like, well,

456
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 1: this is boring, and then my sister says, well, why

457
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Speaker 1: don't you call Bubba? She calls me Bubba, why do

458
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,359
Speaker 1: you call bubb and asked him what it was like

459
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 1: to be a big sibling? But she calls me what's

460
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 1: it like to be a big sibling? And then I

461
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 1: tell her and then she asked me the same question

462
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 1: again and I'm like why, I just told you, And

463
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 1: then she'd but Bubba, and it was almost like she

464
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Speaker 1: was proud she did the sentence, which she should because

465
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 1: she's brilliant, but it was no, but what's it like

466
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,879
Speaker 1: to be a big sibling. I'm like, Poully, I just

467
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 1: told you. So yeah, so you know what, Now there's

468
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 1: a reception issue with the phone. Go figure it out.

469
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,280
Speaker 1: By nobody slam the kid. I don't care. That's what

470
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Speaker 1: it's like. You know what it's like. Being a big

471
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,680
Speaker 1: sibling is like body slamming somebody all the time. That's

472
00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 1: that's what being a big sibling is like. Nonetheless, here

473
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,399
Speaker 1: are the lies that you were told growing up, and

474
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 1: if you believe them. According to this author, your parents

475
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:32,199
Speaker 1: did a great job. Number one, you can do anything

476
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: you want. Why A big, old lie, complete and total lie. However,

477
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,439
Speaker 1: parenting experts are saying that if you believed that that

478
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,960
Speaker 1: your parents did a nice job, telling that your kids

479
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 1: that they can do anything is a classic parenting technique.

480
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,440
Speaker 1: It might be deceptive, but it serves a noble purpose.

481
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,919
Speaker 1: It's meant to inspire hope, encouraging kids to embrace the

482
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 1: world instead of counting themselves out Of all the lies

483
00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,400
Speaker 1: you can tell your kids, of all the lies I

484
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Speaker 1: was told, that is not the worst. Sure, why not?

485
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: You cant do anything you put your mind to. Okay, great,

486
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,199
Speaker 1: even if it's a lie. You got to eat your

487
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,199
Speaker 1: vegetables to grow up big and strong. Not sure if

488
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 1: there's really even any proof of that, but yeah, you're

489
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 1: supposed to eat your vegetables. However, if you were able

490
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Speaker 1: to convince your kids that was a good idea and

491
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 1: they like broccoli and asparagus. Now, then I guess you

492
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,959
Speaker 1: were a good parent. I won't be specific here, but

493
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 1: if your kids believed, or if you believe as a kid,

494
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 1: that certain things that aren't real were real, are you

495
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Speaker 1: picking up what I'm putting down?

496
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Speaker 7: Oh?

497
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,959
Speaker 1: Yes, if you believe that's certain things that are not

498
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Speaker 1: actually real or real, that means that you were raised

499
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Speaker 1: by good parents, because it means that the parents were

500
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Speaker 1: able to keep their kids' sense of wonder alive.

501
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Speaker 3: Yes, I agree with that.

502
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 1: So why don't you even a lie?

503
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Speaker 11: Like?

504
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Speaker 1: I know they say white lie, but is it even

505
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 1: is that even a lie if you tell your kids

506
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Speaker 1: that certain things are real when they or not, when

507
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Speaker 1: you're just trying to get them to be excited about

508
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, holidays and that kind of

509
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,640
Speaker 1: thing doesn't hurt anybody.

510
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Speaker 13: No, And it's like given that magic, you know, like

511
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 13: that holiday magic for kids, because once you grow up, buddy,

512
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 13: it's over.

513
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:09,399
Speaker 2: Yeah it's not.

514
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Speaker 3: It's not magical.

515
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 2: This is anything but magical.

516
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Speaker 4: It's always a miserable kid that ruins it for the

517
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Speaker 4: happy kid.

518
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Speaker 12: Yeah.

519
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Speaker 1: Oh, I remember the kid that went around running around

520
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,120
Speaker 1: telling everybody about this, and that I remember, and I'm

521
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Speaker 1: being careful because about.

522
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Speaker 2: This and that.

523
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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, just like just like Canlin's being careful

524
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Speaker 1: with the words she's using this early in the entertainment report,

525
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 1: I'm being early about the things that I've ruined for anybody.

526
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: These are the are lies that if you believed, if

527
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 1: your parents told you them, and you believe them, then

528
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Speaker 1: your parents did a good job. You're the smartest kid

529
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Speaker 1: in school. My parents never told me that, and they

530
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Speaker 1: never that would have been a lie, So that's nice.

531
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Speaker 1: They didn't tell me that if you work hard, all

532
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Speaker 1: of your dreams will come true.

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Speaker 14: That's the one I'm like, mom My dreams, Like, I

534
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Speaker 14: get it. I get it you should work hard and

535
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Speaker 14: like do your best, But I don't think it always

536
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Speaker 14: pays off in that way, you know what I means?

537
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Speaker 14: That makes sense because like be life, and that's not

538
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 14: like anyone's fault, it's just how life works.

539
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,680
Speaker 1: I would argue that you have no shot at anything

540
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: if you don't you know, have a dream and then

541
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Speaker 1: work really hard to trying to inspire the dream. So

542
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: it's possible that it won't come true. But I mean,

543
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 1: I guess as a parent. That's why would tell my

544
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,960
Speaker 1: kid too, because if I'm like, nah, it ain't happening, well,

545
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: then you know, then what's the point of even attempting it?

546
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: So yeah, I guess I don't have I mean, what

547
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Speaker 1: do you what are you supposed to say? I guess

548
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Speaker 1: there's a I mean, no, you're not going to go

549
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 1: to the NBA. I remember I thought I was going

550
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Speaker 1: to the NBA when I was in like middle school,

551
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Speaker 1: even though I was absolutely completely and totally uncoordinated in

552
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: average like two points a game in my basketball games.

553
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: But I remember I'm like, I'm going, I'm going to

554
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: the NBA, and my parents had to be like, you

555
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 1: were absolutely not going to the NBA, So like do

556
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: your homework because you're not getting bailed out. So I

557
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: guess there's a there's realism. But then like not crushing

558
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: a kid's dream, Yes, right, so there's more here. You know,

559
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: your art is good. You know you're good at singing

560
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: at the recitals when you really weren't. Oh good, Now,

561
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: how do you do that as a parent, do you think?

562
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 12: Now?

563
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Speaker 1: I mean, the only one who's a parent is Paulina

564
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: and Gigi's just not one. But how do you do that,

565
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 1: Like if your kid is terrible at something like really

566
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: bad and really there's not a whole lot of hope

567
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: and I don't know how you know that. Like, if

568
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 1: your kid's a bad singer at like ten but wants

569
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: to be a professional singer, can you tell your kid like, eh,

570
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: maybe we should try something else. Or do you let

571
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Speaker 1: them do it and keep telling them that they're good

572
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: at it even when they're not, because they might get

573
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Speaker 1: good at it, or do you like steer them towards

574
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Speaker 1: something else, Like if they're terrible with soccer but they

575
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:46,439
Speaker 1: think they're going to be the next David Beckham or whatever,

576
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: then do you say, like, yeah, at what point do

577
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Speaker 1: you tell them like I don't think so.

578
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm all for like re routing.

579
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Speaker 13: Obviously Ggi's only one, but I think about this all

580
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Speaker 13: the time because I'm like, well, if she sucks at this,

581
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Speaker 13: like I don't want encourage her, and I'm all for

582
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,439
Speaker 13: like a Delulu mindset because sometimes I feel like that

583
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 13: works out for people. But I also don't want her

584
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 13: to like walk around thinking she's that girl and she's not, you.

585
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 1: Know what I mean.

586
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 3: No, like in the sense of like, oh I can sing.

587
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 13: Listen to me sing, guys, and everybody makes fun of her,

588
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 13: Like then I'm being a bad parent, right, Like I'm

589
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 13: not doing her any good with that, in my opinion,

590
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Speaker 13: So I feel like re routing maybe, like lean into

591
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,199
Speaker 13: her strengths, whatever those are gonna be. But my kid

592
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 13: of kind has an attitude already. She's only one, so

593
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 13: she might fight me. Imagine that I birth myself.

594
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Speaker 1: I birth myself, Yeah, my sister instead to a lot

595
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: of people, and I'm I'm I'm sorry, Hovey. I love

596
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 1: you deeply, Paulina, but two of you. Oh, same with

597
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: my brother in law. I love my sister, but three

598
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 1: of them, Oh my god. I can only hope that

599
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,120
Speaker 1: Maye is like a complete and total opposite, like a pothead.

600
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 1: And uh, you know, I don't know only ye honestly,

601
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 1: because Paulie is going to be a print a man

602
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 1: is kind of a princess. I think, you know, Colla

603
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 1: needs the other end of the spectrum, like some going

604
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: to listen to death metal with and smoke a joint

605
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: as early as possible. I don't know if that's a

606
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 1: nice thing to say. Hey, Jessica, good morning, Jessica.

607
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Speaker 15: How are you him good morning night.

608
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,719
Speaker 1: Okay, So let's get to the real eye. Like, okay,

609
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 1: so your parents told you, oh, you're gonna be great

610
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 1: in life, and you believed it. Well, that's a good thing.

611
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 1: If you're a parent, you can convince your kids of

612
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: that now. But there were a whole series of lies

613
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: that we were told growing up that were simply a

614
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:36,199
Speaker 1: matter of convenience. For example, Jessica.

615
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Speaker 16: My parents told me that if we turned on the

616
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Speaker 16: lights in.

617
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 17: The backseat of the car that we would go to jail.

618
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Speaker 1: The immediate SA, yes, yes, with the same thing. Now,

619
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Speaker 1: we weren't toild we're gonna go to jail, Jessica. But

620
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: we were told that it was against the law. I

621
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: guess something about it. I don't know why. Like, and

622
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Speaker 1: if you turn the dome lights on in the car

623
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Speaker 1: while you were driving at night, that that was against

624
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: the law. I honestly believe you weren't allowed to do

625
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: that until not that long ago.

626
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Speaker 18: Made me wonder why they existed.

627
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 11: If it's against the law, why do they exist?

628
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I agree. Now, if you ever tried

629
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 1: to drive with the dome lights on at night, it

630
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 1: does change the visibility a little bit. But like it's

631
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: not against the law, but I think it was mainly

632
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: because as a kid, when you figured out that light

633
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: was there, you were just turning it on and off,

634
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: and it was probably really annoying. So that was the

635
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: reason why. But it turns out, Jessica, you won't go

636
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 1: to jail for that.

637
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 18: Yeah, well now I know. Now I have my own

638
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 18: kids that had me to jail.

639
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: Do you tell that you tell them the same thing?

640
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: I assume yep. So yeah, Jessica, thank you, thanks for listening.

641
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 1: Have a great day. You're too glad you call uh

642
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: heinikoll good.

643
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 2: Morning, Hi, good morning, good How are you guys?

644
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 16: Now?

645
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 1: Is this your parents lied to you about this?

646
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 5: Yeah?

647
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 19: So my parents lied to me for years to tell

648
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Speaker 19: me that I was allergic to dogs and cats because

649
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 19: they did not want the responsibility of taking care of them.

650
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 19: And as I got older in grammar school and was

651
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 19: around like friends' houses and animals, and I was like,

652
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Speaker 19: something seems a little suspicious. And then I got a

653
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Speaker 19: dog in my twenties and found out I wasn't allergic, so.

654
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 2: Damn I had to call them out.

655
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, they told you had a health condition.

656
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 19: Yeah, I guess now I have a dog who's thirteen,

657
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 19: and my mom's obsessed with him. So it's kind of

658
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 19: it's kind of funny.

659
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 1: Take the dog over there, just rub it all over

660
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: your face and be like, hey, look see everything.

661
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I still call her out all the time.

662
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: Thank you to Cole. Have a good day you too.

663
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: I remember a lot of years ago I had a

664
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: friend speaking of the pet thing and the lies you

665
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: tell your kids. They got like a fish at a

666
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: pet store or whatever, or I don't even think it

667
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: was a fancy fish. It was just a fish. Maybe

668
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: it was a carnival or something. I don't know. It

669
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: was a little tank, and I don't think there was

670
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: a lot of investment made in preserving the fish, Like

671
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: I don't think they went and got the proper tank

672
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: and the aerration, and I think it was kind of

673
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 1: just like, okay, look it was in a bowl. It

674
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: died and the kid, and their kid was young, and

675
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: so they went to the store and they got another

676
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: fish that looked just like it and dump that in

677
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: there because they just weren't they weren't in the mood,

678
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: nor were they ready to have to explain to their

679
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: child what happened and that you know, fish go to heaven.

680
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: Sometimes they just weren't in the mood to have to

681
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: do this, so they just kept replacing the fish until

682
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 1: finally the kid was no longer interested in the fish,

683
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: and then the fish just kind of, I don't know,

684
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: was given away or something, but I remember I was like, no,

685
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: you can't use this as a teachable moment like it

686
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: you know we're gonna lie. I mean, how long are

687
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: we going to keep this? Does not fish alive, not

688
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: the same fish alive before we actually made like seventeen

689
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: eighteen twenty, I mean, how long you had to be

690
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 1: before we actually explained like, yeah, fish don't live forever,

691
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 1: and it's sad, but you know, this is life and

692
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: this is what happens. I don't know, when do you

693
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: teach a kid about that.

694
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 3: That's a good question.

695
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,479
Speaker 4: I would just replace that fish because it was kind

696
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 4: of traumatizing once you figured out what happens after the

697
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 4: fish died. I will never forget that, watching spin spin.

698
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 2: In the toilet.

699
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I never had to do the disposal of the

700
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 1: dead animals. That was my dad's job. Poor guy that

701
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 1: is that that that continues to be his job. He

702
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: has to do all the all the hard stuff in

703
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: the family. I'm not doing it. I refuse. Hey, Samantha, Hi,

704
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: this is a good one. So this is uh, you

705
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: lie to your kid about this?

706
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 15: Yeah, so I lie to her saying that Chuck E

707
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 15: Cheese has to invite us. We can't just go whenever

708
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 15: we want to.

709
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: I've heard that. No, I've heard that. I've heard that.

710
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: Don't think you can just pull up on a Chuck

711
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: E Cheese and walk in. Absolutely not. That's not how

712
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 1: it works. You got to know somebody. You got to

713
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: talk to mister cheese man, and he's got to be like,

714
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 1: all right, Samantha's kids can come this week, but not

715
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: all the time.

716
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 7: Yep, I tell her.

717
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 12: Oh, he called me.

718
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: He said we can come this weekend. He's amazing. That

719
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: is a that's a really good one. Thank you, Samantha.

720
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: Have a good day.

721
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 2: Thank you too.

722
00:32:58,560 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: I love this.

723
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 14: Ya.

724
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: He said we can go this week, but you better

725
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: be a good girl because you know you want to

726
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: get in by IRAQ. Right, he gets to decide. Hey, Shannon,

727
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: good morning, good morning.

728
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 12: Hi.

729
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: Okay, so this is a lie. That is it what

730
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,719
Speaker 1: you were told or what you tell your kids that

731
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: I was told.

732
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 17: My whole life by my parents and my grandpa. So

733
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 17: my grandpa came here from Croatia when he was twenty

734
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 17: years old. And every time when you're learning, like when

735
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 17: you're in second grade learning about immigrants and you know, Elis,

736
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 17: I would everyone would tell me and my family, oh,

737
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 17: Papa swam here from.

738
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 11: Croatia, that's how he got here.

739
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 17: So why would I ever think that my strong Croatian

740
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 17: grandfather would ever lie to me. So it wasn't until

741
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 17: I was twenty years old that I was swimming in

742
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 17: the Adriatic Seat with my cousins and I thought, hmmm,

743
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 17: I don't think Papa actually swam and no one knew

744
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 17: that I was still believing. Yeah, no one, No one

745
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 17: knew I was still believing this tale.

746
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: Yeah wow, yeah I know. He Yeah, he in fact

747
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: did not swim from Croatia, but that would have been

748
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: quite a few exactly.

749
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 17: He still calls himself the Adriatic Seat champ.

750
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: So there you go. Let him have it. Have a

751
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: good good morning, Yeah, you too, appreciate you. Hey's Steve, Well,

752
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: good morning Steve. You a lot of your kids about this?

753
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:23,879
Speaker 1: What is it?

754
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 20: Well, we used to tell him that if they told

755
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 20: us a lot a dot would trap on their tongues.

756
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 16: But only adults could see it. Well, they couldn't lie

757
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 16: to each other, but that way we could touch them

758
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 16: and they are.

759
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,240
Speaker 1: I see, yeah, our eyes in the back of the head.

760
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of some of the other ones

761
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 1: that had to do with lies. Yeah, right, but your

762
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: parents had lie to detector ability. Yeah. Well, do you

763
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: think they still lie to you or no? Oh yeah,

764
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 1: definitely they didn't believe you. Thank you, Steve. Have a

765
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: good day. Okay, wait a minute, Nicole, Hey, Nikole, good morning.

766
00:34:58,360 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 7: Hello, good morning.

767
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:01,439
Speaker 1: What did your.

768
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 9: Parents tell you?

769
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: This is a lie? Your parents told you?

770
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, so, like it was ever like an event going

771
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 7: on or anything, and the weather it was like really

772
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 7: bad or it was raining, like it always forecasted, like

773
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 7: rain on my birthdays. My dad would always say, Oh.

774
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 11: They don't worry about it.

775
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 7: I called the weatherman, like the weather's going to be perfect.

776
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 7: And I seriously thought that the weatherman could control the

777
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 7: weather when.

778
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: I was younger and so sweet.

779
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,399
Speaker 7: But lo and behold, my dad just kind of looked

780
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 7: at the forecast and like he knew it was going to.

781
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:27,919
Speaker 9: Be sunny later.

782
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, he didn't call the weathering man. He didn't call

783
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 1: Chuckie Cheese, didn't call anybody, did he?

784
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 20: No, I don't think so.

785
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 1: I don't think he did. On Nicole, thank you, have

786
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: a good day.

787
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:39,359
Speaker 7: Thank you too.

788
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 20: Bye.

789
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: Here's some of the other, like more classic ones that

790
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: I think we were probably all told at one point

791
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: or another, as kids reading in the dark will ruin

792
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 1: your eyes. Not true. According to eye doctors at Harvard.

793
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 1: It might cause a headache because it causes strain, but

794
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:54,919
Speaker 1: I guess it does not actually damage your eyesight, which

795
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,839
Speaker 1: I can tell you. I was today years old when

796
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 1: I learned that, because I read in dim light all

797
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: the time, and I'm can advanced that that's why my

798
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: eyesight's going if it is, and I just now learned

799
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:05,240
Speaker 1: that's not true.

800
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 9: Oh wow.

801
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:12,800
Speaker 1: Knuckle cracking leads to arthritis, it does not. Apparently. Swallowing

802
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: gum takes seven years to digest, Apparently it does not.

803
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: In fact, your parents didn't want you to chew that

804
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 1: chocolate milk come or just swallow it. Rather, chocolate milk

805
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: comes from brown cows. Never believe that cross eyes crossed

806
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 1: eyes will get stuck that way. They won't. In case

807
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 1: you're wondering, swim too soon after eating, and you'll cramp

808
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:37,240
Speaker 1: up and drown. By the drowned part, no one ever.

809
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 2: Told me that.

810
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: They did say you have to wait ninety minutes after

811
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: chowing down or something might happen. But according to the

812
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Red Cross, that

813
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 1: is not true. If you finish swallowing at least before

814
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: jumping in, then you'll be okay. The hour weight was

815
00:36:55,680 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: just made up completely. Watermelons will grow in your stomach

816
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 1: if you swallow the seeds not true. Sitting too close

817
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 1: to the TV will cause eye damage not true. Apparently,

818
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: touch a toad you'll get warts. Not true. I'm trying

819
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 1: to think of some I'm skipping over some of these.

820
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: I don't. It's too early for this. Keep your eyes

821
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: open when sneezing, and they'll fall out.

822
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 2: It's terrifying.

823
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 1: What parent was teaching their kid that? That is terrifying? Oh,

824
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 1: the family pen's living happily on a farm up stair? Yea, yeah,

825
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:32,240
Speaker 1: that one goes back to the uh. Sometimes it's just easier.

826
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: I guess drinking coffee will sunt your growth. It won't

827
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 1: the toy. The candy story is closed. Eating carries will

828
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: let you see in the dark. Really. Oh and here's

829
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: the most classic one. And I grew up in Arizona

830
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: where everybody had a pool. If you pee in the pool,

831
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: the water will turn blue. The water will turn red.

832
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 1: There's some kind of a chemical in there that will

833
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: make it so people can tell if you pee in

834
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 1: the pool or not. That is not true, and in fact, okay,

835
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: ca u's true. Fredshell.

836
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 16: Next, you've ever been left waiting by the phone?

837
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,880
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Hey, Abby, good morning, Welcome to

838
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: the show. How are you?

839
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 11: I'm good, guys, how are you doing?

840
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 1: Great? Welcome to waiting by the phone. So we're trying

841
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: to figure out what happened with this guy Patrick, uh,

842
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: and we got to have the backstory. So how did

843
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: you meet? Tell us about any dates you've been on

844
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: and uh and how those went, and then where things

845
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: are now?

846
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 11: All right? So first I met Patrick at a Saint

847
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 11: Patrick's Day party, the irony there, and we just we

848
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 11: just talked for like hours. We both have kids, and

849
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 11: we bonded over that, like we're both single parents, you know,

850
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 11: just talking about like the funny stories that our that

851
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 11: our kids, you know, do, So we just like really

852
00:38:56,760 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 11: clicked right away. It was like instant connection. Then we

853
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 11: like the more we talk, like he was asking, like,

854
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 11: you know whereabouts I lived. We found out that we

855
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 11: lived pretty close to each other, and he asked for

856
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 11: my number before he left, which was like, you know,

857
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:12,959
Speaker 11: I was excited because like I thought he was really

858
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 11: cute and we feel like I felt like there was

859
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 11: definitely connection there. So we had been kind of texting

860
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 11: back and forth after he got my number, and then

861
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 11: a few days later it was a really nice day

862
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 11: and Patrick was like, hey, you know, like I'm going

863
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 11: to take my son to the park, which was not

864
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 11: too far from my house because I said it was

865
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 11: pretty close to his, and like I said, we lived

866
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 11: pretty close, and he was like, hey, do you like

867
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 11: want to come and join. It's like I felt comfortable

868
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 11: because it's like a big thing, like introducing your children

869
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 11: to any other adult that you had, Like even if

870
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 11: he's like not my boyfriend, it's just a lot to

871
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 11: introduce to anybody coming into our lives. So I really

872
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 11: appreciated him saying like if I felt comfortable like bringing

873
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 11: my kids over, so I grat So I have two daughters,

874
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 11: and I said, sure, you know what like what why not.

875
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 11: You know, it's it's innocent. It's not a date. You know,

876
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 11: it's just kind of meeting up and kind of getting

877
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 11: to know us better. And you know, we had like

878
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 11: a real like it was a really it was really

879
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 11: nice to see him again. We tried a lot, the

880
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 11: kids had a lot of fun playing. But after that,

881
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 11: like I never heard from him again, Like it was

882
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 11: very weird, Like he didn't tell like I turned him

883
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,720
Speaker 11: a text afterwards, they said, hey, like, you know, thanks

884
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 11: for inviting us. We had a great time. You know,

885
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 11: talk to you soon or like love to see you again,

886
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 11: you know, let me know. And it was just cricket.

887
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 11: So I just don't know, like what happened if I

888
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,439
Speaker 11: said something, you know, it's just I'm just sitting here

889
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 11: trying to figure it out.

890
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: Yeah that's interesting because you guys, you did meet in

891
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 1: the wild per se, you met in person, so this

892
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: guy wasn't a total stranger. And you have kids and

893
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,799
Speaker 1: he has kids, so you know, getting them together and

894
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,720
Speaker 1: figuring out, you know, if they're going to get along

895
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: and stuff. I suppose I've seen a sense enough and

896
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 1: since things went well in your opinion, then it's like,

897
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 1: well wait, a minute. Uh, what's going on? Why wouldn't

898
00:40:58,960 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: this guy call me again?

899
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 11: Yeah, it was just very strange, Like I feel like

900
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 11: both interactions like the first and the second, you know,

901
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 11: like you know, hanging out. We're fine, like total you know,

902
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 11: innocent but fun, and you know, there was no awkwardness

903
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 11: at all. So I'm just I'm kind of stumped of

904
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:15,760
Speaker 11: what could have happened.

905
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's call this guy Patrick, see if we

906
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: can get him on the phone. We'll ask these questions

907
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 1: for you. You'll be on the phone, of course, at

908
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 1: the same time. At some point you're welcome to the

909
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 1: jump in after we get you some phone. And the

910
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: hope is always is that we can figure out what

911
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 1: happened or what's going on. Set you guys up on

912
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 1: another day and we'll pay for this. All right, let's

913
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: find I was going on for too waiting by the

914
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: phone right after Lola Young back in two minutes, stay

915
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 1: around in your commercial dase the Fred Show on the

916
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 1: radio and the iHeart app check you in live and

917
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,280
Speaker 1: then anytime get caught up and make us a preset

918
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: search for the Fred Show on demand. Hey haveby Hello,

919
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: Hi Abby, Let's call Patrick. You guys met at the

920
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: Saint Patrick's party. You talked for a long time. You

921
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: thought it went really well. You bonded over the fact

922
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: that you both are single parents and you have kids,

923
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:01,239
Speaker 1: and so you decided collect lee to get together at

924
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 1: a park or a playground or whatever with the kids.

925
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 1: And it wasn't really a date per se, but you know,

926
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 1: the kids got to meet each other and you guys

927
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: got to talk some morning, and you thought everything went

928
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 1: really well. Except you have not heard from Patrick since then,

929
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: and you want.

930
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 11: To know why exactly. So I'm just kind of racking

931
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 11: my brain. What's happening? So I don't know, Like at

932
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 11: this point, I need some help. I need some intervention.

933
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 1: Look at mom multitasking over there. I got the kids

934
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 1: in the background still try to figure out. Yeah, you know,

935
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: I mean you got needs or I understand. Let's call

936
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 1: this guy now, Good luck, Abby.

937
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 11: Thank you.

938
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:44,800
Speaker 12: Hello.

939
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: Hi is this Patrick?

940
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 16: Yes?

941
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 1: This is he? Hey Patrick, good morning. My name is Fred.

942
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,

943
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

944
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:56,280
Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

945
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Is uh? Is it? Copef?

946
00:42:58,680 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: We talk for just a second.

947
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:02,760
Speaker 16: Yeah, yeah, that's that's fine.

948
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you for calling on behalf of a

949
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: woman who reached out to us. Her name is Abby.

950
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: I guess you guys met at at a party recently

951
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 1: and went on a date. I guess it was kind

952
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:12,959
Speaker 1: of more of like a like an outing with your kids.

953
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 1: Do you remember this woman?

954
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:14,479
Speaker 11: Uh?

955
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I remember Abby?

956
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So what happened? Because she we just talked

957
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: to her a second ago and she was talking about

958
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 1: how she met you at the party and you guys

959
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: bonded over being parents and and you know, she thought

960
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: everything went great. You guys apparently decided to meet up

961
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 1: with your kids, and she hasn't heard from you since.

962
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,280
Speaker 1: So what what happened?

963
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 7: Yeah?

964
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 8: Yeah, I was I was gonna take my son out

965
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 8: to a park and just called her up to see

966
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 8: if she wanted to join.

967
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 21: You know, nothing serious, but yeah, we met up.

968
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 16: She's she was great. You know, she's really fun to

969
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 16: be around.

970
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 8: Honestly, her her two kids were just paris.

971
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: Her kids. Yeah, okay, Well.

972
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 21: I'm just in the.

973
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 8: In the way that they terrorized my son and I

974
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 8: guess me I do want to say though, you know,

975
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 8: I'm I'm a dad, I'm a single dad. I understand

976
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 8: how kids can.

977
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 1: Be, but her her two kids were just next level.

978
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 8: I mean they they spent most of the afternoon just

979
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 8: double teaming on my son, taking his toys, pushing him.

980
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 8: One of her daughters sneezed at one point, you know,

981
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 8: I said, God, bless you, and she just made a

982
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 8: bee line straight for me and wiped her nose and

983
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 8: just wiped it all over my jeans.

984
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 16: You know, we kind of laughed, but I was thinking,

985
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 16: this is this is really.

986
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 8: Out of line, and so I tried to get him

987
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,359
Speaker 8: to play some games. They just didn't want to listen

988
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 8: to me. One of them just straight up told me

989
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 8: I was.

990
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 16: Ugly and then just took off running.

991
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 8: And okay, I mean that that hurts the ego a

992
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 8: little bit, and I'm like, all right, whatever. But you

993
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 8: know the worst part of it, they they're bitiers. Both

994
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 8: of her kids bite like, one of them literally bit me.

995
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 8: I don't know if you've ever been bit by a kid,

996
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 8: but that hurts.

997
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to laugh, but I mean, okay, so well, yeah, Robin,

998
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: germs on you. They're biting you, they're calling you ugly,

999
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 1: they're roasting you, and what is amazing during all of this? Like,

1000
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: what what is she just watching this and laughing? Is

1001
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: she enabling it? Is she? Is she trying to correct them?

1002
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:22,359
Speaker 1: I mean, what's happening? What is her?

1003
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 16: Well, no, she wasn't trying to correct them. I don't

1004
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 16: know that she was enabling other than just not stepping in.

1005
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 16: But it just seemed like they ran the show. I

1006
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:33,720
Speaker 16: could tell that there's probably.

1007
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 8: No consequences at home, you know, if they get in trouble.

1008
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 16: It just felt like they were in charge. So I

1009
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 16: don't know, it was.

1010
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 21: It was just a lot for me for an afternoon.

1011
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:46,479
Speaker 8: She never really told them to stop, and I didn't

1012
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 8: really feel like it was my place.

1013
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:49,760
Speaker 16: To do that. So I thought, I'll just remove myself

1014
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 16: from the situation. After this afternoon, we can kind of

1015
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 16: be done with it.

1016
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:52,879
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1017
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't like that much either. But let me bring

1018
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: Abby in. I forgot you mentioned that Abby is here?

1019
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 20: Abby?

1020
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 1: You didn't You didn't say so? Was that your kids

1021
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 1: were biting this man?

1022
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 11: Okay, so my two year old, because like we are

1023
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 11: working on it. I told her to apologize. Like, first

1024
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 11: of all, terrorist is like really extreme and like I

1025
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,800
Speaker 11: really don't like that word, especially associated with my children.

1026
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 11: So I really hate that, Like that's just for me,

1027
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 11: Like if he's turned off by me, that's fine. Like

1028
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 11: him using that word to describe my children, that's a

1029
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 11: huge turn off by for him, like for me towards him,

1030
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 11: they're not. They obviously were like a little more on

1031
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 11: the excited side obviously to like meet new people, meet

1032
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 11: a new kids. Like they weren't ganging up on his son.

1033
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 11: I did try to interject, there's just so much like

1034
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 11: it's hard to be a single parent, like you know,

1035
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 11: like it's kind of hard since he like I divoted

1036
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 11: some issues like with my act, like I don't have

1037
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 11: much of support from my child's father, so it's me

1038
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,839
Speaker 11: doing it all. So it's like really hard that he's

1039
00:46:56,880 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 11: like blasting me as a mother. It is very hurtful

1040
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 11: because I was trying so like he's kind of going

1041
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 11: to the stream. But I did nothing.

1042
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean my mom, my sister and I were

1043
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: raised by my mom primarily and she was a single

1044
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 1: parent for a while. And I commiserate with what you're saying.

1045
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 1: I think though you know, your kids can act up,

1046
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 1: but just from my perspective, if it were me and

1047
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: I'm Patrick. I guess what I would have been looking

1048
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 1: for is less about what a two year old's doing

1049
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: and more about maybe what you're doing about it, because

1050
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: he certainly couldn't discipline the kids. That would have been unexcittable.

1051
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 11: But that's what I'm saying. So you're listening to what

1052
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 11: he's saying that I didn't discsten my childrend Well.

1053
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 1: I'm asking you if, okay, I'm not criticiaging you. I

1054
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,399
Speaker 1: started the something out by not criticizing you, but I'm

1055
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 1: saying if I was.

1056
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 11: But I had already I had already explained that when

1057
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:52,800
Speaker 11: she did go to bite him, I put her aside

1058
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 11: and said, you cannot be doing that and you need

1059
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:55,720
Speaker 11: to apologize.

1060
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 1: Is that what happened? Patrick?

1061
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 16: Did?

1062
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 1: She did? She was Are you not giving her enough

1063
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,720
Speaker 1: credit for her trying to manage her kids?

1064
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 16: Well? No, no, she did. She did step in. I mean,

1065
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:05,800
Speaker 16: it's not like she didn't do anything.

1066
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 8: It's just that I didn't see necessarily the results coming

1067
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 8: out of.

1068
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,399
Speaker 21: Her telling her her kids what to do. I mean,

1069
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:14,359
Speaker 21: it's not like.

1070
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 16: They just continue doing it. They would stop, but then

1071
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 16: it would they would amp back up.

1072
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 21: So and again I have percent support for her.

1073
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 8: For single moms, and and I do apologize for using

1074
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 8: the word terrorists. That may have been a little harsh.

1075
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 8: That's not necessarily what I meant. It just it was

1076
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 8: a lot for me and my boy. We're just not

1077
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:33,280
Speaker 8: used to that kind of energy.

1078
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 16: So it was just a lot.

1079
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 11: And that's fine. But like also I feel like he's

1080
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 11: trying to come off at like their boat says like

1081
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 11: his son, Yes, his son has behaved, but his son

1082
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 11: also like through stand at my daughter's a few times

1083
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,879
Speaker 11: they weren't biting the child like by like I said,

1084
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 11: only my two year old bit him, and like again

1085
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 11: I disciplined them, were working on it, like she's too

1086
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 11: so like maybe she got scared, you know, like we're

1087
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 11: trying to communicate with her. We're trying to explain that

1088
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 11: that's not okay. Sometimes her older sister will get upset

1089
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 11: and bite her back, but other my older daughter does

1090
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,480
Speaker 11: not bite other people. Like it's a it's a sibling

1091
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 11: thing between them that like we're trying to work on.

1092
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,360
Speaker 11: So the fact that like it's all coming down on me,

1093
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 11: it's just like really hard, Like I'm trying my best,

1094
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 11: and I know he's trying his best, like I would

1095
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 11: never have used that, like, you know, feeling that he

1096
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 11: didn't disciplined his son enough or that his son was

1097
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 11: doing things like I give everybody like I give everybody

1098
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 11: like the greatest ault I give everybody like you know,

1099
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 11: I feel for I feel for every single parent out

1100
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 11: there trying the best they can.

1101
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, we all feel for you.

1102
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 4: We are not trying to criticize you. We are not

1103
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 4: trying to criticize you at all. But I think we

1104
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,319
Speaker 4: have to respect his decision to not want to be

1105
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:49,239
Speaker 4: a part of that right now. It was a lot

1106
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 4: for him and that right fine, you can admit that.

1107
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 11: Totally fine, That is totally fine. I can admit that.

1108
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 11: The whole thing is is just like be a man

1109
00:49:58,120 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 11: and say, you know what, I feel like this is

1110
00:49:59,880 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 11: not working and like, you know, like it's better off

1111
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:03,399
Speaker 11: exactly we see.

1112
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 1: Okay, but hold on, hold on, I mean just one

1113
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 1: a second. This is not an indictment on parents as

1114
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 1: parents as a whole. And I also understand we're talking

1115
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 1: about your children, and so understandably you have emotion about

1116
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 1: this and you should and that is fair. But that's

1117
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 1: probably why he chose not to say anything and just

1118
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 1: sort of fade away because he probably didn't want to

1119
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:26,920
Speaker 1: have to tell a woman who he just met, I

1120
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 1: think your kids were unruly and then get into this

1121
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: sort of conversation because I understand why you're defensive. I

1122
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:35,839
Speaker 1: totally do, but I also think you need to understand

1123
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: from the other side that it's a difficult conversation to

1124
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 1: have with someone when you're talking about their kids.

1125
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 11: Well, sure, but he didn't even have to bring up

1126
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 11: the kids. He could have just said, you know what,

1127
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 11: I'm just not feeling the vibe, like I think, you know,

1128
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 11: I'm not really a relationship, you know what, honestly, like

1129
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:54,840
Speaker 11: just say something like don't leave somebody on red, like

1130
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 11: just be respectful. Like I've had to end things. They're

1131
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 11: not they're uncomfortable. They're uncomfortable when you have to tell

1132
00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 11: someone yeah, you know, like I'm not feeling it, or

1133
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 11: like you could. There's a respectful way to end things

1134
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 11: without ghosting. That's all I'm saying, Like, I just feel

1135
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 11: like I deserved a little bit more respect than that.

1136
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 11: After I feel like we really didn't have a connection.

1137
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:16,720
Speaker 11: But that's fine.

1138
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:20,479
Speaker 1: That's I think I think that's fair. I think that's fair.

1139
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 1: I think that your you know, your your emotion and

1140
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 1: defensiveness about this is also fair. But I also think

1141
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 1: that it's possible that when we're talking about our own

1142
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 1: kids and our own families and our own especially when

1143
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,280
Speaker 1: they're our own kids, that maybe you're a little blinded

1144
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: by how that experience may have been for someone else

1145
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 1: and why that may not be for them. I also

1146
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:42,959
Speaker 1: understand the communication part of this. So look, no one's

1147
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 1: coming down on you, no one's criticizing you. It's not

1148
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 1: for him. He has that right that is dating. But Patrick,

1149
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: I'll ask the question, I mean, would you like to

1150
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,919
Speaker 1: go out with her again? Maybe we you know, don't

1151
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 1: bring the kids this time, and then slowly work on

1152
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 1: that whole thing. Uh, you know another time.

1153
00:51:59,680 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 11: You know.

1154
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:04,760
Speaker 8: Honestly, had we had this conversation, I may have understood

1155
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:07,840
Speaker 8: a little more. We we kind of kept it pretty surface.

1156
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,399
Speaker 8: But I really dig the fire that she has, that

1157
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 8: she's representing standing up her kids. I see that she's

1158
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:21,240
Speaker 8: working on it. I'm I'm absolutely not opposed to going

1159
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 8: out again.

1160
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 1: Oh this, I did not see this coming. So you

1161
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:28,439
Speaker 1: have no problem being a human Kleenex again.

1162
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:30,760
Speaker 21: Well, I don't think.

1163
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 16: It's going to be that way.

1164
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:33,160
Speaker 8: I think I just have a bit more of an

1165
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 8: understanding of what she's going through, and I like her passion.

1166
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: All right. I mean, look, I'm a little surprised, but Abby,

1167
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 1: I I understand where you're coming from. Patrick, I I

1168
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 1: didn't expect this. But great, So it'll be an adult date.

1169
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: You guys go out again. We'll pay for it and

1170
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: then uh, you know, maybe we'll check in down the road.

1171
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: But Abby, I appreciate your perspective, and I hope that

1172
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,399
Speaker 1: you can see his and maybe see where we're coming

1173
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 1: from as observers, and and I hope you guys have

1174
00:52:59,320 --> 00:52:59,839
Speaker 1: a great day.

1175
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 7: I can.

1176
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 11: I mean, I appreciate it, and obviously, like maybe we

1177
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:04,880
Speaker 11: do have some stuff to talk about, so I do

1178
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 11: appreciate it. Like Patrick being honest, I can respect the

1179
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:11,279
Speaker 11: honesty here, so I can so hopefully, you know, if

1180
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 11: it doesn't work, it doesn't work, Like Patrick, you can

1181
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 11: be honest with me. We don't have to do this

1182
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 11: with the radio. If it doesn't work.

1183
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: Yeah you did. You did kind of chew us out

1184
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:20,399
Speaker 1: a little bit. So I'm a little afraid of I'm

1185
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 1: a little afraid of that we're talking about your kids.

1186
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: I get it.

1187
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:32,440
Speaker 11: Yeah, I've had a rough go and I do stand up.

1188
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:35,320
Speaker 11: So I mean, I really wasn't trying to bite anybody's

1189
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 11: head off. But like when you start talking about my

1190
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:39,320
Speaker 11: kids and me as a parent, like you know, obviously,

1191
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 11: I'm always going to defend what I believe is right.

1192
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 11: So it wasn't anything against you guys, because we all

1193
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 11: we all don't know each other.

1194
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:51,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, I think he's a little turned on over there.

1195
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 1: So that's right. You guys, go up as adults. Have

1196
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 1: a great cent. We'll pay for it and we'll check

1197
00:53:55,800 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 1: you later, and good luck to both of you. Three

1198
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 1: hundred bucks show boys. He's on the Fred Show.

1199
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 5: Singer Sean Kingston and his mom, Janice Turner were found

1200
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 5: guilty on all five counts that they were facing in

1201
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,879
Speaker 5: their faederal wire fraud case.

1202
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:14,720
Speaker 2: Jason, are you okay?

1203
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 8: Sorry?

1204
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:20,799
Speaker 2: Just sit Jason going around and spinning my chair if

1205
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 2: you forgot.

1206
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:25,399
Speaker 5: They were accused of defrauding businesses out of more than

1207
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 5: one million in jewelry, luxury cars, and more.

1208
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:30,719
Speaker 2: I just can't get over that it's a mother son duo.

1209
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 2: The judge says that.

1210
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,440
Speaker 1: Sewn sit on my Bengal card for this year. Sean

1211
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:40,400
Speaker 1: Kingston and mom indicted on I guess, convicted of wire fraud.

1212
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 2: Like it's crazy out here.

1213
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:44,879
Speaker 5: The judge said that Shawn's mom is a flight risk,

1214
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 5: so they can't even let her out of custody, but Sean.

1215
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 2: Is on house arrest, so she's more wild than he is.

1216
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 5: There're gonna be sentenced on July eleventh and face up

1217
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:56,360
Speaker 5: to twenty years in prison on each of the five charges.

1218
00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:59,760
Speaker 5: They were, of course arrested last May after their home

1219
00:54:59,880 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 5: was rated by the fence.

1220
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 2: So keep it in the family, I guess.

1221
00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:06,320
Speaker 5: And while we're talking about Sean, I guess I should

1222
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:09,760
Speaker 5: also mention that he and former NFL player Antonio Brown

1223
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 5: collaborated on a.

1224
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 2: New song called Elon Musk.

1225
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:16,359
Speaker 5: For some reason, the single dropped on Friday, the same

1226
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 5: day that Sean was also or elsewhere, I should say,

1227
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:22,360
Speaker 5: in court being found guilty, you know, for what he

1228
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 5: was accused of with his mom.

1229
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 2: But they have a song about Elon Musk.

1230
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: I guess I haven't heard it yet. I'm sure it's

1231
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: not clean, so I won't. I won't just go road normally,

1232
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 1: which is just play it off of YouTube. That's what

1233
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: that's my you know, normal tactic. But I think maybe

1234
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 1: this time I'll preview it, so.

1235
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 2: It's probably for the best.

1236
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't know.

1237
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 2: I will we can find a edited version and then

1238
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 2: play it later, but really quick.

1239
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 5: A highly coveted show, Hey Otani car just sold for

1240
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:54,359
Speaker 5: over one million dollars, just over the one on one

1241
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:57,400
Speaker 5: autographed card, which features a piece of his pants that

1242
00:55:57,440 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 5: he had on when he reached the fifty to fifty club.

1243
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 5: By the way, his fifty to fifty ball sold at

1244
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 5: auction for four point three million dollars.

1245
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 2: I just feel like you have too much money if

1246
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 2: you're buying this stuff. But what do I know.

1247
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:13,399
Speaker 5: His Miurakami Fanatics collab also sold out in minutes when

1248
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 5: the Dodgers were in Japan for the Tokyo Series to

1249
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:19,520
Speaker 5: start the season. So he is the most expensive and

1250
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:22,399
Speaker 5: already regarded Fred Wright as one of the best players ever.

1251
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:27,359
Speaker 1: Oh well yeah with the richest Well wow, there you go. Yeah,

1252
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 1: but yeah, but he got paid all that money and

1253
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: then he went out and want to help them win

1254
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:33,359
Speaker 1: a World series. So yeah, he's pretty dope.

1255
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's worth it, I guess.

1256
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 5: By the way, if you missed any part of our

1257
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 5: show to type the Fred Show on demand on our

1258
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:42,400
Speaker 5: free iHeartRadio app and to set us as a preset.

1259
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:43,800
Speaker 1: Ray Jason, he's pretty dope, right.

1260
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,480
Speaker 9: Yeah, I think he's pretty dope. He's my favorite player.

1261
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 2: Are you buying the stuff that just sold?

1262
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: Yeah? What's his name again? Who's your favorite player again? Right?

1263
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:55,960
Speaker 7: Yes?

1264
00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, all right, we'll go with that. Yeah yeah,

1265
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:01,640
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah that was more. I thought you were.

1266
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 1: I didn't. You're paying attention at all, quite frankly, So yeah, I.

1267
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:07,840
Speaker 9: Told you's my favorite player. I have all the jerseys

1268
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 9: and you.

1269
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 1: Have what you k with the kitty.

1270
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 3: I know that's right.

1271
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 1: Okay, now we take a moment to appreciate it. And okay,

1272
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 1: let's welcome Katie. Hi, Katie, how you doing?

1273
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 22: Hi?

1274
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 16: How are you?

1275
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: Katie? Welcome to the program. Tell us all about you.

1276
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 17: My name is Katie.

1277
00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 13: I work for a school districts.

1278
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 22: I'm on my way to work right now. Okay, I'm

1279
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 22: getting married November.

1280
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 2: That's my fun fact.

1281
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations. What's the lucky guy or girl's name?

1282
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 11: Max?

1283
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know, you know, I don't want to.

1284
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 1: If I say guy, then it's a girl. If I

1285
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: say girl, it's a guy. So I's the guy. I mean,

1286
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:04,200
Speaker 1: I say, you know, you just never know these days

1287
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 1: to you, but it's all good. Three hundred bucks is

1288
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 1: the prize, which could be our wedding gift to you.

1289
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 1: Eleven O one is Kiki's record filling in for the

1290
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: showby is Shelley four straight wins or at least four

1291
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 1: You're on a four game win streak, maybe some times

1292
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but let's play the game. Five question

1293
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 1: let's go, all right, good luck, good luck Kiki? All right,

1294
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 1: with all due respect, keeky, get the heck out off,

1295
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 1: She goes at a sound boof poof. Okay, here we go.

1296
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 1: Question number one bridge a Ton actress Simone Ashley turned

1297
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 1: thirty over the weekend on witch streaming service. Which you

1298
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 1: find that show?

1299
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 10: I think Netflix?

1300
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 1: Which actress was foun at hanging out with her anyone

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Speaker 1: but you? Co star Glenn Powell amid breakup rumors with

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Speaker 1: her fiance I know, okay, all right, Cardi B said

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Speaker 1: her ex husband is using bloggers to spread rumors about

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Speaker 1: her name her ex.

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Speaker 21: Uh, Cardy, go.

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Speaker 11: Oh, this is so hard.

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Speaker 1: I know, No, it's order to actually do it. All right,

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Speaker 1: two questions left. We got this. We're going to rebound

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Speaker 1: right here. Sexy Red was gifted five thousand a five

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars Lubiton cowboy boot than cowboy boots shoes from

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Speaker 1: country singer Caldwell. Lubaitons are famous for having what color bottoms?

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Speaker 1: Oh Red and Drew Taggard once again had an unwanted

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Speaker 1: visitors show up to his home claiming to be his wife.

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Speaker 1: Which EDM group is Drew one half of.

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Speaker 20: The chokers.

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Speaker 1: All right, it's a three, so you did get the

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Speaker 1: last two? Nice job? All right? Get Kiki back from

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Speaker 1: the booth. Food answer within three score to beat? Are

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Speaker 1: you ready?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 1: You got this? I feel good about this for you.

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Speaker 1: Question number one Brigaton actress Simone Ashley turned thirty over

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Speaker 1: the weekend. On which streaming service? Which you find that show?

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Speaker 9: Netflix?

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Speaker 1: That is correct? Which actress was spotted hanging out with

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Speaker 1: her Anyone but You co star Glenn Powell amid break

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Speaker 1: up rumors with her fiance Sydney Sweeney. Yeah, Cardi B

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Speaker 1: said her ex husband's using bloggers to spread rumors about

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Speaker 1: her name her ex offset. Sexy Red was gifted five

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars Lubatan cowboy boots from Country singer Caldwell. Lubatons

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Speaker 1: are famous for having what color bottoms? Red and roadstaggered

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Speaker 1: once again had an unwonted visitors show up to his

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Speaker 1: home claiming to be his wife. Which EDM group is

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Speaker 1: Drew one.

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Speaker 3: Half of now hold on it?

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Speaker 4: Oh three, Drew Drew two half group Marshmallows one person, yes,

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Speaker 4: giving you that one?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Smoker smoke? Wait wait, wait, what kind of you're.

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Speaker 9: Judging the chainsaw music?

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Speaker 1: Are they call that technically? But I think EDM fans

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Speaker 1: might kick them out. But anyway, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, and I would not call the Chinese

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Speaker 3: smokers a.

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Speaker 8: Right.

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Speaker 5: But all the groups that Drew Taggart is in, there's

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Speaker 5: only one and it's that one.

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Speaker 2: So that's how you could figure.

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Speaker 3: I would take the four. I'm gonna take.

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Speaker 1: That is a win, Katie. I'm sorry. Three is a

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Speaker 1: good score and you did clean it up. But you're

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Speaker 1: gonna have to say, my name is Katie. I got

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Speaker 1: showed up on a showdown, and you know the rest,

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Speaker 1: all right.

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Speaker 2: My name is Katie.

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Speaker 22: I got showed up on the showdown and I can't

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Speaker 22: hang with the kike.

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Speaker 1: That was you, Katie, Who's getting married to a dude,

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Speaker 1: not a chick named Max. Can't hang with a kik

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Speaker 1: can't cat, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Can't cash shout out to you.

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Speaker 5: Can't cat, can't cat cat cat cat shout.

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Speaker 1: Was gonna run out of breath first, Katie, Am I

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Speaker 1: gonna run out of birth? You're gonna run out of breath.

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Speaker 1: That's what I want to know everyone. I haven't heard

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Speaker 1: you guys. You guys are starting to get a little

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Speaker 1: like Hoffy with it. To help me, Katie, hang on

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Speaker 1: one second, have a great day. Thank you for listening,

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Speaker 1: and congratulations on the wedding.

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Speaker 7: Awesome, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Okay, stay right there, all right, cakes, Yes, well the

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Speaker 1: job three fitty nice, twelve and one five straight for

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Speaker 1: the show biz Kiki.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, man, I live to find another day twelve and one.

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Speaker 1: That is really that's way better than I did when

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Speaker 1: I was felling in so excellent work. I remember who.

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Speaker 2: Believed in you? Yes, yes, that's right.

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Speaker 1: From the start, I always I've been saying how much

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Speaker 1: I believe in you. I'm constantly saying I can't get

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Speaker 1: enough of how much I believe it, right, right, So

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Speaker 1: it's three fifty tomorrow and all right, all right, the

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Speaker 1: honor ble kik Ahlik is here, Judge Kiki, if you would.

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Speaker 4: Yes, let's get into it. The case says, Hey, Kiki,

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Speaker 4: my name is Lauren. I'm a longtime listener of the show.

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Speaker 4: My husband and I have three kids. I have one

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Speaker 4: daughter from a previous relationship, and we have two kids together.

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Speaker 4: My oldest daughter has never met her biological father, so

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Speaker 4: my husband is the only father that she knows. For

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Speaker 4: her sixteenth birthday, she thought it would be a sweet

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Speaker 4: thing to ask my husband to finally adopt her. She's

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Speaker 4: always wanted to have the same last name as my

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Speaker 4: other kids, and I always wanted it to be her decision.

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Speaker 4: So at her birthday party, she acts my husband in

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Speaker 4: front of all of our family and friends, and he

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Speaker 4: said yes. Well, a week later, my husband came back

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Speaker 4: to me and said that after thinking about it and

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Speaker 4: talking to over with his mom, he's had a change

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Speaker 4: of heart. Oh my god, he doesn't want to complicate

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Speaker 4: things by legally adopting my daughter.

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Speaker 3: I'm heartbroken.

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Speaker 4: His excuse was that he already plays the father role

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Speaker 4: for her and it's no need to get the courts involved.

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Speaker 4: I told him, there's no way I'm telling my daughter

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Speaker 4: that you've changed your mind. He has to adopt her

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Speaker 4: or I will leave. Am I wrong forgiving him an ultimatum?

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Speaker 1: Damn baby? What say you judge?

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Speaker 4: This is one that I really needed thirteen to weigh

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Speaker 4: in on because it's really been bothering me all weekend.

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Speaker 4: Because my issue really comes in is that you went

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Speaker 4: and spoke with your mother. What happened in that conversation

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Speaker 4: between him and his mother that made him change his

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Speaker 4: mind to come back and say he doesn't want to

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Speaker 4: legally adopt my kid. And I don't want to tell

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Speaker 4: her to leave her husband because it's easy to say

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Speaker 4: blow up your family when you're not the one in

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Speaker 4: the situation. Obviously, he's a good guy, a good father.

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Speaker 4: He's raised her other children and alone. You know, he's

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Speaker 4: taken the girl into be her father, but not legally.

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Speaker 4: What is stopping him? It makes me think of like,

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Speaker 4: is he worried about if they ever divorced, then maybe

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Speaker 4: he's going to be responsible for child support or something,

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01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 4: or you know, is there some type of legal thing

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Speaker 4: that he's scared of getting the courts involved.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like there has to.

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Speaker 4: Be more to it, and I would love to know

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Speaker 4: the conversation between him and his mother, but for him

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Speaker 4: to renegue on the original agreement and he promised this

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Speaker 4: girl this in front of the entire family. He is

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Speaker 4: so dead wrong, Like he's so wrong, And I feel

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Speaker 4: for you, Lauren Kiki.

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Speaker 1: I lived this like this is I was adopted by

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Speaker 1: I guess quote unquote my stepfather. So is my sister. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and I we turned eighteen, we went to court and

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Speaker 1: did it. And I cannot imagine because that was we

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Speaker 1: were never like it was ever, this is what's going

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Speaker 1: to happen, or it was always do you want this

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Speaker 1: to happen? And it was kind of I don't know it.

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Speaker 1: It was a very special thing between each of us

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Speaker 1: and this guy who raised us, and it's I just

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Speaker 1: can't imagine how I would feel if all of a

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Speaker 1: sudden he were like not, yeah, I'm not into this anymore.

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Speaker 1: Like it almost makes me wonder if there's that something

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01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: that's heartbreaking going on in the in the primary relationship,

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Speaker 1: like between he and the mom or something like maybe

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Speaker 1: I don't know, because why would he I can't imagine

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Speaker 1: that he goes to talk to his mom and mom says, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you don't want that kid it's almost like giving that no,

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Speaker 1: but it's it's well maybe, but it's almost like it's

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Speaker 1: almost like mom doesn't like the wife or girlfriend or

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Speaker 1: whatever and doesn't know if that's going to last, So

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Speaker 1: then don't adopt the guy. I don't know, because I

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Speaker 1: can't imagine that my mom would talk me out of

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Speaker 1: adopting somewhat a child that I helped raise over the child, correct,

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Speaker 1: I would think it would be something something else.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, can I say an unpopular opinion? So why is

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Speaker 13: he consulting with his mother?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 13: This is a grown ass man and this is his family,

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Speaker 13: his mother, his mother is his family. It's his mother.

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Speaker 3: I'm very aware of that.

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Speaker 2: But this man creates to his own family.

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Speaker 13: So I'm just really confused as to why we're consulting

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Speaker 13: mom about your family dynamic and what you're going to

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Speaker 13: do in adoption. You know what I'm saying, Like to me,

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Speaker 13: I don't like that. That that's too much. This is

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Speaker 13: your family, You're a grown ass man.

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Speaker 1: This is from the woman who calls Hobby's mom. Absolutely

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Speaker 1: was not doing what you want him to do.

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Speaker 2: He didn't watch the dishes I call his mother. This

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Speaker 2: is true, But we when come to our family.

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Speaker 13: But when it comes to our family dynamic, we're not

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Speaker 13: going to consult our mommies.

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Speaker 1: Like that's we're not doing. No, you console his mom.

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01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:32,360
Speaker 1: So what you're saying is his mom has influence, and

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's unfair. I don't think it's unfair

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Speaker 1: to have your mom be someone that you you can

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01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:38,160
Speaker 1: you can talk.

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Speaker 3: To her, of course, but at the end of the day,

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Speaker 3: I still feel.

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Speaker 2: Like, this is your family. When you get married, you

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Speaker 2: create your own family.

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Speaker 13: You guys know that we've been preaching this on this

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01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:47,320
Speaker 13: radio for years, Like I'm learning not too I consult

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Speaker 13: my mom for.

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Speaker 1: The littlest things.

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Speaker 13: I admit it. I'll say, hey, Ma, you know I

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Speaker 13: want to do this, what should I do? I want

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Speaker 13: to get a tattoo. I'm still like, oh, should I

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Speaker 13: ask my mom? I like, yeah, I think these things.

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Speaker 13: But at the end of the day, it's like, no,

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Speaker 13: I'm a grown ass woman. I'm thirty two years old,

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Speaker 13: I have a family now, child, and I have a husband.

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Speaker 2: This is now my family. We're making all decisions.

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Speaker 1: But Pete, we don't know that that she's the one

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01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 1: who said don't do it, or he may have gone

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01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:12,720
Speaker 1: to her with this, with this idea anyway, and she

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Speaker 1: may have reinforced it. So no, I mean, mom shouldn't

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Speaker 1: be running the family, But I don't think that consulting

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Speaker 1: family who are important to you when it comes to

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01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:23,200
Speaker 1: making big decisions. Isn't that what family's for to help

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Speaker 1: you sort of work through those kind of things.

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Speaker 13: It sounds like you got doubts though, if you're going

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01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 13: to go to your mom too, I would call my mom,

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01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:30,639
Speaker 13: or in this case, this man called his mom and say, hey,

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01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 13: guess what, Mom, I'm going to adopt Firth. I don't

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01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 13: know her name, oh that's any whatever, I'm going to

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01:08:37,200 --> 01:08:39,920
Speaker 13: adopt her. Like this is what we're doing in Beautifulaily

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Speaker 13: birth Gay beautiful birth up.

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Speaker 1: And we're going to change her. We're going to change yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I got to. I mean, no, Bertha Frederick out there,

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01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:51,920
Speaker 1: We'll changing up. So that's my bigger, my bigger issue

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Speaker 1: here is right.

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Speaker 3: My goodness.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I love the name birth It's beautiful, said

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Speaker 1: I hear. It's making a comeback.

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01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:02,760
Speaker 4: Actually enough, you know, and to play devil advocate like

1516
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 4: it all happened at the girl's birthday party, so she

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01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 4: asked him in front of the family, So I'm sure

1518
01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:11,320
Speaker 4: his mom was there and his family and her family

1519
01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:13,439
Speaker 4: were there, So of course that opens it up for

1520
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 4: people to have opinions. However, you're in a marriage and

1521
01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:20,679
Speaker 4: you've raised this girl. I couldn't imagine telling a kid

1522
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 4: I don't want to adopt you, like it could be

1523
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 4: a kid I just met yesterday if they asked me

1524
01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 4: to adopt him. Yes, you know what I'm saying, Like,

1525
01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:30,280
Speaker 4: how could you tell somebody living in your house that

1526
01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:32,680
Speaker 4: you raised that you don't want to take on that

1527
01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:35,280
Speaker 4: responsibility for them.

1528
01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,719
Speaker 1: Well, and I obviously don't know. These people can judge Kiki,

1529
01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:41,160
Speaker 1: but these things, in my experience, at least in my

1530
01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 1: personal experience, they don't just happen. There's normally some discussion. Now,

1531
01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:48,920
Speaker 1: she may have surprised him, my guess a viral because

1532
01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:51,599
Speaker 1: these things go viral sometimes. Who knows. Maybe she just

1533
01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 1: sprung it on him, but I doubt it because yeah,

1534
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 1: I mean, like in our family was discussed for a

1535
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:02,360
Speaker 1: very long time for it happened, and everybody was comfortable

1536
01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:03,840
Speaker 1: with it. So I don't know. I mean, maybe if

1537
01:10:03,840 --> 01:10:05,800
Speaker 1: she surprised him, I mean, and there are some things

1538
01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 1: we don't know. How long is the relationship. Do we

1539
01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 1: know how long they've been together.

1540
01:10:09,200 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 4: No, but she said that her daughter is sixteen and

1541
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 4: he's the only father that she's known, So.

1542
01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:18,680
Speaker 1: Okay, well then yeah, I don't know. Most in my experience,

1543
01:10:19,000 --> 01:10:22,599
Speaker 1: most adults, when the child that they raise that isn't

1544
01:10:22,720 --> 01:10:26,400
Speaker 1: technically their blood child, when that kid wants them to

1545
01:10:26,439 --> 01:10:30,000
Speaker 1: be their legal father, that is normally the biggest honor

1546
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:32,880
Speaker 1: that you can bestow on someone. Oh, because it's a choice,

1547
01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:35,560
Speaker 1: you know, it's I mean, I love my parents, and

1548
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:39,120
Speaker 1: I love my mom and my mom I got so

1549
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:41,479
Speaker 1: lucky I won the mom lottery with mom of Fred,

1550
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:44,639
Speaker 1: but not everybody did. Not everybody won the family lottery.

1551
01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:46,679
Speaker 1: And so a lot of times we hear people say

1552
01:10:46,680 --> 01:10:49,600
Speaker 1: that friends are the family that you choose. Well, in

1553
01:10:49,640 --> 01:10:52,280
Speaker 1: this case, he's the dad that she gets to pick,

1554
01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 1: because they could go on. I mean, how many stepparents

1555
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:56,960
Speaker 1: do you know that are just kind of there, you know,

1556
01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:59,800
Speaker 1: and they're nice and they're they're not bad people, but

1557
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:01,960
Speaker 1: you're not necessarily running out to go to court and

1558
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 1: have them adopt you. So I can't imagine a world

1559
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:10,759
Speaker 1: where this guy would be shunning this child that he raised.

1560
01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:17,839
Speaker 1: It's got to be something more. Yeah five, it's crazy

1561
01:11:17,880 --> 01:11:22,439
Speaker 1: to me. Yvonne HWYV on the morning, Good morning, Hey

1562
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 1: you heard this whole thing? What say you?

1563
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:26,040
Speaker 21: So?

1564
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 15: I've been with my husband for fourteen years now. He

1565
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:33,160
Speaker 15: came into the picture when my daughters were seven and four,

1566
01:11:33,840 --> 01:11:36,759
Speaker 15: and he I know, would adopt them in a heartbeat

1567
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:40,640
Speaker 15: if he had the chance. And so the fact that

1568
01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:44,400
Speaker 15: he changed his mind, not only is that heartbreaking for

1569
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 15: the mom because she's been a second guest, you know, like,

1570
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:50,559
Speaker 15: how does he really feel about my daughter if he's

1571
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:54,040
Speaker 15: second guessing this, but also the daughter. I couldn't imagine

1572
01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 15: having to go back and tell her like, hey, he

1573
01:11:56,520 --> 01:12:01,599
Speaker 15: changed his mind. It's just really sad and coming from

1574
01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 15: like someone in a blended family. If I had any

1575
01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 15: doubts on the way my husband felt about my kids,

1576
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:11,680
Speaker 15: I'd be out, I believe ye. I mean it's just

1577
01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:15,920
Speaker 15: you've raised this kid, I mean, her whole life. I

1578
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:19,680
Speaker 15: don't know why he would like have any reservations or

1579
01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 15: have changed his mind.

1580
01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:24,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, this this doesn't sound like a snap decision. I

1581
01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:28,080
Speaker 1: mean maybe I don't know. It's it's really crazy to

1582
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 1: raise a child and then this happens, and then have

1583
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 1: you go never mind. I don't I don't really want

1584
01:12:32,520 --> 01:12:34,760
Speaker 1: that obligation anymore because you took it off already, you

1585
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:35,360
Speaker 1: already did it.

1586
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:37,520
Speaker 4: And it sounds like he still don't for the obligation.

1587
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:39,600
Speaker 4: He just doesn't want to make it legal. And to me,

1588
01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:41,560
Speaker 4: there's something crazy causing that.

1589
01:12:41,880 --> 01:12:43,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

1590
01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:44,599
Speaker 15: I don't know.

1591
01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:47,559
Speaker 1: I know it's it's it's puzzling, isn't it. Thank you

1592
01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:49,439
Speaker 1: so much for listening, for calling. Have a great day.

1593
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 15: Thank you, guys.

1594
01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:55,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I Mike, good morning, Mike. How you doing.

1595
01:12:55,840 --> 01:12:58,760
Speaker 20: Hey you guys, good morning, How are you doing great?

1596
01:12:58,760 --> 01:13:00,720
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening, Thanks for calling. So Keiky, this makes

1597
01:13:00,720 --> 01:13:02,599
Speaker 1: sure I have this right. Guy and a girl been

1598
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:06,760
Speaker 1: together for a while. Dude raises his stepdaughter and we're

1599
01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:09,559
Speaker 1: kind of putting this together. But if he's the only

1600
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:11,719
Speaker 1: dad she ever knew, then let's just say an extended

1601
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 1: period of time that the stepdad's been raising this woman's daughter.

1602
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:19,080
Speaker 1: And so there was discussion about him adopting her legally,

1603
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 1: and they said let's do it, and he said yes,

1604
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:23,720
Speaker 1: and then he went back now and has said to

1605
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:26,880
Speaker 1: the woman, to his girlfriend or wife, whatever, no, I

1606
01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 1: don't want it anymore, which is crazy to me, Mike,

1607
01:13:30,400 --> 01:13:30,960
Speaker 1: what do you think?

1608
01:13:32,160 --> 01:13:35,639
Speaker 20: So, I'm I was kind of put in that kind

1609
01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:39,000
Speaker 20: of same situation. I've been with my wife now eleven

1610
01:13:39,080 --> 01:13:41,599
Speaker 20: years today, actually, so i've.

1611
01:13:41,400 --> 01:13:43,639
Speaker 1: Known congratulations fourteen, Thank you.

1612
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:46,559
Speaker 20: I've been with I've known my fourteen year old she'll

1613
01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:50,040
Speaker 20: be fifteen here in July, since basically she was three.

1614
01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:56,679
Speaker 20: So her father now is a deceased But after we

1615
01:13:56,800 --> 01:14:00,320
Speaker 20: had our second child, that we have three girls including her,

1616
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:06,200
Speaker 20: that she felt left out. So my wife, instead of

1617
01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:11,160
Speaker 20: going through the adoption process, we actually petitioned the court

1618
01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:16,720
Speaker 20: to her legally take my last name. My family loved her,

1619
01:14:17,000 --> 01:14:21,240
Speaker 20: they thought that she you know, she's the world to

1620
01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:25,040
Speaker 20: all of us. But yeah, even after was it last months,

1621
01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:29,760
Speaker 20: we actually mentioned, hey, you know, we know you have

1622
01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:33,880
Speaker 20: my last name. Would you like for me to adopt you?

1623
01:14:34,000 --> 01:14:37,280
Speaker 20: And she's like no, I'm saying, I'm okay that you

1624
01:14:37,280 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 20: know I have your last name. I love you, and

1625
01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:43,720
Speaker 20: that doesn't change anything. She doesn't wanted to have the

1626
01:14:43,760 --> 01:14:47,320
Speaker 20: same last name as her sisters and the rest of

1627
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:49,479
Speaker 20: my family because I come from a very big family.

1628
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:51,960
Speaker 20: So that was kind of the gist with.

1629
01:14:53,600 --> 01:14:53,680
Speaker 12: That.

1630
01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:57,480
Speaker 20: So I mean, yes, adoption is awesome. It's very expensive,

1631
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:00,280
Speaker 20: but we just petitioned the court. We had a should

1632
01:15:00,520 --> 01:15:02,719
Speaker 20: jump through a couple of hoops for it to happen

1633
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 20: because he is deceased. But other than that, I mean,

1634
01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:08,120
Speaker 20: it was kind of easy, peasy.

1635
01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:10,960
Speaker 1: Well, it's a nice Mike, it's a great story, and

1636
01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:13,080
Speaker 1: and that you guys talked about it and that she's

1637
01:15:13,120 --> 01:15:15,759
Speaker 1: comfortable with it or whatever. I just I can't imagine

1638
01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:18,880
Speaker 1: for if you had said it offered her that, or

1639
01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:21,599
Speaker 1: if she asked you and you say yeah, and then

1640
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:23,719
Speaker 1: you come back a little while later and go, Actually,

1641
01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:26,360
Speaker 1: I thought about it, and I definitely don't want to

1642
01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:28,240
Speaker 1: be legally attached to you in any way, even though

1643
01:15:28,240 --> 01:15:30,719
Speaker 1: I've done everything else in the role of your father.

1644
01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:31,920
Speaker 1: It's I don't get it.

1645
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:35,120
Speaker 20: I don't get it either, don't understand. I mean there

1646
01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:38,040
Speaker 20: could be I mean, there could be so other like

1647
01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:41,760
Speaker 20: factors that she didn't mention. But I mean, yeah, it

1648
01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:46,240
Speaker 20: is kind of, you know, crappy that he did that.

1649
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:50,439
Speaker 20: But I'm sure there's other reasons that we don't know of,

1650
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:53,960
Speaker 20: you know of why?

1651
01:15:54,120 --> 01:15:57,559
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, Mike, Mike, thanks for sharing that. By

1652
01:15:57,560 --> 01:15:59,840
Speaker 1: the way, I have a great day. Thanks you too.

1653
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:02,400
Speaker 1: Have a good one. Glad, Yeah, glad you called KB?

1654
01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:04,200
Speaker 1: Hi KB, how you doing.

1655
01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:05,759
Speaker 15: I'm wonderful.

1656
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:06,799
Speaker 18: How are you guys this morning?

1657
01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:09,719
Speaker 1: KB? Thanks for listening, Thanks for calling. So you heard

1658
01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:13,360
Speaker 1: you heard the case in Kiki's court? What say you?

1659
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:14,439
Speaker 18: Oh, this is a mess.

1660
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:15,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, mess.

1661
01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:19,160
Speaker 18: I would definitely say divorced. But here's my reason why.

1662
01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:22,760
Speaker 18: So you're legally taught to me, you made that declaration,

1663
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:25,040
Speaker 18: that obligation, but you don't want to do it for

1664
01:16:25,120 --> 01:16:25,679
Speaker 18: my children.

1665
01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:29,519
Speaker 6: And then you make it, you know, very loud at

1666
01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:30,400
Speaker 6: the birthday party.

1667
01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 18: Then you go back on that. No, we're not going

1668
01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:35,559
Speaker 18: to create that type of heart within our children. We're

1669
01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:37,680
Speaker 18: just not We're just not in Your mom needs to

1670
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:40,240
Speaker 18: go sit down and enjoy her own life because you

1671
01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:40,760
Speaker 18: have your own.

1672
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 1: Oh I just I got to think there's something very

1673
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 1: adult going on here because it can't be about the child.

1674
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:50,600
Speaker 1: I mean, sixteen, she's a kid like any raiser supposedly,

1675
01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:52,559
Speaker 1: so it can't be about the kid.

1676
01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:56,280
Speaker 18: So then he makes di rectify that within himself. And

1677
01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:59,000
Speaker 18: if he does have conversations with his mom, then he

1678
01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:01,760
Speaker 18: needs to talk to his wife before and say, you

1679
01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:03,600
Speaker 18: know what my mom said this, My mom said that

1680
01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 18: it's not a flat out no, but how let's puffed

1681
01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 18: through it. But to just say a flat out no,

1682
01:17:08,720 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 18: that's a problem. Like the previous gentleman he said they

1683
01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:13,920
Speaker 18: went through were out of the name change. I mean,

1684
01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:16,040
Speaker 18: that's also an option, but to flat out no.

1685
01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:19,240
Speaker 1: The answer for me is not yeah, yeah, thank you kV.

1686
01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 1: Have a great date, thanks for listening. Appreciate you. Alicia, Hi, Alicia, Hi, Hey,

1687
01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:30,920
Speaker 1: good morning, welcome. What do you think you're the jury here?

1688
01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 1: Teky scored.

1689
01:17:33,479 --> 01:17:37,280
Speaker 22: So kind of a little similar situation. My parents have

1690
01:17:37,280 --> 01:17:40,320
Speaker 22: been together, which was my mom and my stepdad twenty

1691
01:17:40,320 --> 01:17:43,040
Speaker 22: seven years now. Came into our life when my sister

1692
01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:46,280
Speaker 22: was six and I was two. My sister asked, when

1693
01:17:46,280 --> 01:17:49,040
Speaker 22: she was like thirteen fourteen, for him to adopt her.

1694
01:17:49,479 --> 01:17:50,639
Speaker 22: He flat out said no.

1695
01:17:51,280 --> 01:17:52,960
Speaker 12: He said no, he wouldn't.

1696
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:55,559
Speaker 22: Do it, even though he is our parent, He's on

1697
01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:58,840
Speaker 22: all of our you know, emergency contacts, he has whatever,

1698
01:17:58,920 --> 01:17:59,719
Speaker 22: he's our stepdad.

1699
01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 1: What was actually words?

1700
01:18:02,920 --> 01:18:06,040
Speaker 22: I don't really know because I was so young and

1701
01:18:06,080 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 22: I've never really like asked exactly. I just know my

1702
01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:12,160
Speaker 22: sister still feels.

1703
01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:13,960
Speaker 16: Hurt by it, and actually, like.

1704
01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 22: Fast forward to quarantine time, my mom finds out that

1705
01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:22,680
Speaker 22: he's been messaging some lady like the love of his life.

1706
01:18:22,880 --> 01:18:25,280
Speaker 22: And he also in those messages was like, I'm not

1707
01:18:25,320 --> 01:18:26,960
Speaker 22: a dad to these two girls.

1708
01:18:27,320 --> 01:18:30,800
Speaker 2: See, you can't trust a man who See he didn't know.

1709
01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:33,360
Speaker 1: My gut tells me there's something going on at the

1710
01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:37,559
Speaker 1: relationship level, at the romantic relationship level that's making this. Now.

1711
01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 1: That said that said that, even if they were to

1712
01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:43,800
Speaker 1: break up, like if my parents were to break up,

1713
01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:46,720
Speaker 1: my dad's my dad, my mom's my mom, they're still

1714
01:18:46,760 --> 01:18:48,280
Speaker 1: going to be in my life. They don't have to

1715
01:18:48,280 --> 01:18:51,240
Speaker 1: be together. So that's weird too. But maybe he just

1716
01:18:51,280 --> 01:18:53,040
Speaker 1: doesn't want to go through all this if he knows

1717
01:18:53,080 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 1: they're going to break up.

1718
01:18:55,160 --> 01:18:57,760
Speaker 22: It could be, you know, maybe he's saving feelings later on.

1719
01:18:58,080 --> 01:18:58,479
Speaker 18: I don't know.

1720
01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy. See uh well see there you go.

1721
01:19:03,000 --> 01:19:05,800
Speaker 1: This dude was there was There was nefarious niss going

1722
01:19:05,840 --> 01:19:06,240
Speaker 1: on here.

1723
01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:08,720
Speaker 3: It always is, it always.

1724
01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:15,760
Speaker 13: Is, you know, yeah, you go.

1725
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 1: I don't know if nefarious niss is a word, but

1726
01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:21,720
Speaker 1: it sounds good to me. Hey Winter, Hi, welcome to

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Speaker 1: the Friend Show. How are you good morning?

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Speaker 21: How are you guys?

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Speaker 1: Winter? So Kiki's court, I'm just trying to make this

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Speaker 1: as simple as possible, But it's it's it's the woman

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Speaker 1: writing in right. Yes, so she is? And is she

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Speaker 1: married to this guy or they just together?

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Speaker 4: No, she's married to him and they shared two other

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Speaker 4: kids biologically together. But she had a daughter from a

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Speaker 4: previous relationship, and this man has been in her daughter's

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Speaker 4: life forever.

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Speaker 3: She's the only he's the only dad that she knows.

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Speaker 4: And the girl asked him to adopt her, and he agreed,

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Speaker 4: but then later a week later, came back and renigged

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Speaker 4: on it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you think? Winter?

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Speaker 6: So I was in a really very similar situation. I

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Speaker 6: was raised when my stepdad. My parents got married when

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Speaker 6: I was two or three, so my stepdad is my dad.

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Speaker 6: When I was sixteen, I asked my dad to adopt me,

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Speaker 6: And now at twenty eight, I have taken that back

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Speaker 6: where now I do have a relationship with my dad

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Speaker 6: full into adulthood. But I was the same way and

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Speaker 6: I was like, no, I won't really want my stepdad

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Speaker 6: to adopt me. But coming into adulthood, I'm like, I

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Speaker 6: really wish I would have regretted my stepdad adopting me,

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Speaker 6: because there's still an opportunity for her to have that

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Speaker 6: relationship with her dad that might be where he is

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Speaker 6: coming from, where the mom is coming from, Like hold on,

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Speaker 6: because if the dad really wants to reach out in adulthood,

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Speaker 6: he doesn't have any right. Again, he shouldn't have a

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Speaker 6: right because he wasn't there her entire life. So I

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Speaker 6: see that part. But there is more sides to the

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Speaker 6: story because she is just a teenager. She wants these

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Speaker 6: decisions like yes, having that parental figure in your life,

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Speaker 6: your entire life, and being like.

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Speaker 11: No, that is my dad.

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Speaker 6: That's how I feel about my stepdad. But I would

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Speaker 6: have regretted it at sixteen had I asked him to

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Speaker 6: adopt me and not been able to have that relationship

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Speaker 6: with my biological father.

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Speaker 20: So there's there's a little bit.

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Speaker 7: More to it.

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Speaker 6: But I see everybody's point where like if the step

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Speaker 6: dad came back to me was like, no, I don't

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Speaker 6: want to adopt you. I get that point.

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Speaker 1: Too, man. I mean the kind I mean, the abandonment

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Speaker 1: ceiling that you I mean, that's the kind of stuff

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Speaker 1: that lives with you. It would stay with you your

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Speaker 1: whole life. Like this guy that raised me doesn't want me,

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Speaker 1: and I just can't imagine a world where it's about

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Speaker 1: the kid. But you know, we don't know everything. But wow, Winter,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling. You have a good day.

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Speaker 6: Thank you guys. Love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love you. So you just can't you can't

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Speaker 1: play with this stuff.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, I was gonna just say when we turn eighteen though,

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Speaker 13: you're technically an adult, right, so like you can do

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Speaker 13: and whatever as you please. So like, if you're by

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Speaker 13: allowed to a dad does come around and knocks on

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Speaker 13: your door, you're legally able to talk to him and

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Speaker 13: have a relationship with him right after eighteen or am

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Speaker 13: I making this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean it's a legal thing. And if he's

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Speaker 1: raised her and the other guy hasn't been around, then

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Speaker 1: I don't know why anybody would be surprised that's the

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Speaker 1: way this went. But they wouldn't preclude you from having

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Speaker 1: a relationship with your birth father. I mean I could

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Speaker 1: still do that if I chose to, you know, and

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Speaker 1: again I didn't. I didn't. Well they didn't get adopted.

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, because he went for cigarettes. Both of our

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Speaker 1: dads went for cigarettes. Ever came back. But I I'm yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, if my birth father wanted to have a

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Speaker 1: relationship with me or whatever. Then that that's very that's

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Speaker 1: still possible. And the fact of the matter is my

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Speaker 1: dad who adopted me, the guy who raised me. I

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Speaker 1: mean that's it was that was appropriate for our relationship

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Speaker 1: because well he was he's been the guy exactly. So

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Speaker 1: that doesn't mean you can't have a relationship with your

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Speaker 1: birth father. He's not even around. So what indicasion do

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Speaker 1: we have that's gonna happen? I don't know. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: all right, well, Ki Ki, yeah, man, I think we're

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Speaker 1: headed to divorce courts. I think we are.

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Speaker 3: Lauren, sorry girl, Yeah, yeah, I know it is.

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Speaker 1: The Entertainer Report will do it in two minutes after

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Speaker 1: ventro Gold Movies Cawin's Entertainer Report, he is on the fread.

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Speaker 2: Show Ms Chapel.

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Speaker 5: Roone's comments about parenthood have sparked some sort of debate online,

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Speaker 5: with some moms taking it as an attack on motherhood.

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Speaker 5: Chapel was on the most recent episode of Call Her

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Speaker 5: Daddy and talked about whole bunch of stuff, including the

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Speaker 5: prospect of marriage and children. She told Alex, all of

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Speaker 5: my friends who have kids are in hell. I don't

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Speaker 5: know anyone who's happy and has children at this age.

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Speaker 5: The twenty seven year old singer from Missouri was referencing

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Speaker 5: exhausted friends with children under five, saying that she hasn't

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Speaker 5: met any parent who is happy, well.

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Speaker 2: Rested, or who has light in their eyes.

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Speaker 5: The comments divided people on social Some agree, some see

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Speaker 5: it as a dismiss a view of motherhood. There's now

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Speaker 5: a trend of moms on TikTok also dancing to her

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Speaker 5: music to show that they are fun and have light

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Speaker 5: in their eyes.

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Speaker 3: Light and show.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I think you would.

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Speaker 1: I'm starting to interrupt you, k But I now have a

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Speaker 1: lot of peers who are parents, and most of them,

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Speaker 1: in like honest conversation, will tell you I love my kids.

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Speaker 1: I don't necessarily love this life, this lifestyle, I should say,

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Speaker 1: especially when they're young. Most people I know, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean, if that's her observation, and that's her observation, we

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Speaker 5: can't try to control what somebody else feels they observe.

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Speaker 13: That's what I said. I was like, listen, I'm in hell.

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Speaker 13: Someome names, okay, and it's some of it's.

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Speaker 2: My kids, some of it's not.

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Speaker 13: But at the end of the day, it's like it's hard,

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Speaker 13: like parenting is hard period. Like, yes, there are days

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Speaker 13: that are so difficult that I don't have.

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Speaker 2: Light in my eyes.

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Speaker 13: But I think, to be honest, that's just life period, right,

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Speaker 13: different stages. Like you said, Fred, the kids are young.

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Speaker 13: When they get older, yeah, it gets a little easier.

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Speaker 2: But this is Chapel Roone's opinion.

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Speaker 13: Let me just be everybody wants to paint her out

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Speaker 13: to be like this means scary lesbian lady like she is.

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Speaker 5: She's a nice lesbian lady.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she's a lesbian lady with right right, right.

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Speaker 2: You know she's got a tinge of something going on.

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Speaker 5: But hey, don't be all by the way, have you

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Speaker 5: missed any part of our show? Just type the French

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Speaker 5: show on Demands on the free excuse me getting choked

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Speaker 5: up about Chapel on the Free.

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Speaker 2: iHeartRadio had show is on.

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Speaker 1: child hare Yeah, yuh yeah, yuh so it's like, hey, baby,

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Speaker 1: hold on a second, let me go grab you know

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Speaker 1: the stuff, and then that's what it is. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I would have.

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Speaker 2: Had a lot of kids.

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