WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Smells Like A Hamster 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.240 All right, let's do it. Brand new second Date and update. 0:00:02.440 --> 0:00:05.720 And yeah, man, this is one of those where the 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:09.680 first part where we're just talking to him seems so normal. 0:00:09.920 --> 0:00:15.360 Did I like, yeah, key, keep coming bye? Yeah, my goodness. 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:18.320 So you're in for a real treat, a real schmortsport 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:20.360 of things that have went wrong on this one. 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:23.160 But before we get to that, let's go to comments. 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:26.760 Yes, someone said, OMG, I'm getting so close to completing 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:28.520 the entire podcast. 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:30.680 This is the all I listen to now. 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:33.919 Thanks for making my twelve and a half hour workshifts bearable. 0:00:34.280 --> 0:00:36.720 Much love from kan A Kiwi living in Australia. 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:39.040 See, I get anxiety. 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:41.000 This is what I do with breaking bad. I binge. 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:42.720 The whole thing took me months and then I came 0:00:42.760 --> 0:00:44.440 down to the last few episodes I couldn't do it. 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:47.040 Well, here's the thing. This is never ending. Yeah, yeah, 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:50.239 that's true. Literally, we have a new episode. Okay, Monday through. 0:00:50.440 --> 0:00:52.400 You're going to quit on us before we quit on you. 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:55.440 That's right, Yeah, that's right. That is actually the mantra here. 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:59.280 Oh don't worry, it will never end. Okay, your brand 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:01.680 new second Date starts right now. Brook and Jeffrey in 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:03.639 the morning Second date updates. 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:07.960 It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, Second Date Update time, 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:13.560 and we got I'm excited. What's wrong with that? It's 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:15.120 time for the second date update? 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:15.720 Fam. 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:18.560 Well, we got an email from one of our listeners. 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:22.120 His name is Charles, and he says he's figured out 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:24.840 the one question that you should always ask on a 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:28.120 first date to uncover a potential red flag. 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:31.559 Oh, okay, does this work for bed and women? 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:34.160 I hope I think so, all right, because that question 0:01:34.360 --> 0:01:40.520 is thumb or no thumb? Well, actually that's my question. 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:44.760 I don't know which one Charles uses, but I don't. 0:01:44.520 --> 0:01:48.000 Want to know why, So let's just move forward. 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:52.880 I'll show you later. But let's ask Charles since he's 0:01:52.920 --> 0:01:55.279 on the phone right now. Charles, was that the question? 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:57.080 Did I guess it right? I thought you were going 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:03.200 to say, Charles, that's good, you can still Yeah. Do 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:04.360 you have a preference, Charles? 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:06.880 Oh, I guess I prefer song. 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:10.880 Okay, that's my man. I knew I liked you all right. 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:11.400 Now. 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:13.720 What is the question that you always ask on a 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:15.440 first date to uncover red flags? 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:19.600 Oh? For first dates, I always ask what did you 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:21.480 learn from your last relationship? 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:24.640 Interesting? 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:27.600 Why so I hope that they're not trying to like 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:31.760 bad talk their X because that's kind of an immature thing. 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:33.440 It's like, you know, oh they were so there were 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:33.800 the worst. 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:35.120 They treat me so bad, charls. 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:36.920 Have you never had a bad ex? Is that what's 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:39.280 going on? Because let me tell you there's some out 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:40.920 there that deserve a little smack talk. 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:44.160 Well, why so Brooke is disagreeing with you? Why does 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:46.120 that send off red flags for you? 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:48.839 Well, because it says they're the type of person who 0:02:48.840 --> 0:02:51.519 blames someone else for their problems and a lot of 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:52.760 negativity comes out. 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:53.919 Okay, I mean I. 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:55.320 Can see that. I mean you are the one that 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:57.400 asked the question about the ex. But yes, I can 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:59.160 see that. I can see that. 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:01.600 Like maybe depending how long they go off about their export, 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:02.880 you could tell if they're not over them. 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:07.880 Like they cheated on me and this and this' But 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:09.679 you I gave to your fairness. 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:12.360 You're not asking about who you dated. You're asking about 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:13.320 what you learned. 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:17.639 Right, Are you able to move forward from using that's 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:20.240 an interesting question. I'm assuming you had this conversation with 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:22.360 the woman that we're going to be trying to call today. 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:25.480 Yeah, her name is Maggie. We met on the app. 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:27.080 And what did she say about her ex? 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:30.880 She gave like a really mature answer. She needs more 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:33.600 personal space for herself and it's healthy to have a 0:03:33.680 --> 0:03:36.560 couple of times and also you know alone time. 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:40.920 Yeah, aka, that guy was clingy. 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:45.760 But she framed it the right way. But I hear Maggie, 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:49.880 all right, green flag for her, and I'm assuming you 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:51.560 went on a date with her. Tell us about it. 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:54.240 Yeah, I wanted to be a gentleman, so I went 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:55.240 and picked her from work. 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:58.720 From her work, Please tell me she knew you were 0:03:58.760 --> 0:03:59.320 picking her up. 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:03.120 Yeah, yeah, she knew I was going to come to 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:05.080 figure her up. I drew up a little early, but 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:05.480 you know. 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:07.520 I just typically you like to look your best, and 0:04:07.840 --> 0:04:10.480 coming right off an eight hour shift is not going 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:10.800 to be. 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:12.360 Kind of smarter her part, because you could pull the 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:13.000 I'm tired. 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:14.520 I got. 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:19.080 What was it like the first time you guys meet 0:04:19.120 --> 0:04:19.680 in person? 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:22.760 She was nice. I liked her a lot. She had 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:25.080 a warm presence. I got to see her work a 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:27.640 little bit and help customers do her thing with the animals. 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:29.919 She will hang it out that she wasn't done with 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:31.280 her shift. When you got there, you. 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:32.359 Said you got there a little early. 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:33.760 Yeah, yeah, I got there early. 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:36.520 Where'd you stand? You didn't wait in the car. 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:38.800 It was a big store. There was a lot of 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:39.600 stuff to look at. 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:42.760 Yeah, okay, you're just wandering around. 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:48.080 My date's wandering around the aisles of my workplace and. 0:04:49.640 --> 0:04:53.479 Okay, but eventually her shift must end and you go 0:04:53.600 --> 0:04:55.840 out for whatever the date is. What'd you do? 0:04:57.200 --> 0:05:00.800 I drove her uh to eat and the date didn't perfectly. 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:04.200 I did have to use the restroom multiple times because 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:06.640 my allergies were acting up when. 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:08.320 You were at the restaurant eating. 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:10.440 Yeah, was it enough. 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:13.120 Where it bothered her? Did she indicate that in any way? 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:15.800 I don't think so. But I wasn't at the table 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:17.440 for part of the time. I just wanted to be 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:18.800 more present for her. 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:21.800 Well, remember she said she wanted some space from the 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:25.840 last guy, So maybe this isn't a bad mood seeing 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:26.279 a bunch of. 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:31.120 Okay, so you're accidentally giving her some alone time that 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:34.560 she asked for and some couple time. But you said 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:37.080 it didn't go perfect. Why do you mention that? 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:40.200 Well, after the meal, I had some car trouble, but 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:41.599 I got that figure it out. 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:43.279 What do you mean car car trouble. 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:46.320 Yeah, well it was just a weird thing. The car 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:48.599 wasn't starting right, but it took like ten minutes to 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:49.120 figure out. 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:52.400 Okay, so you're a car guy, you're able to fix it. 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:53.480 Oh maybe that shows. 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:55.640 Where you're kind to a handyman. Yeah. Yeah. And as 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:58.039 we were driving, I thought, let's go through something else, 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:01.479 passed by an outdoor mall, and she said she didn't 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:04.040 feel like staying out. I got the vibe that nothing 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:08.039 was going well, so dropped her back off. I know 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:10.720 this didn't end well, but self awareness, good job. 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:12.320 A lot of guys here. 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:13.839 At least you knew it wasn't going well. 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:16.360 You cut your losses. You didn't keep trying to extend 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:16.600 a bat. 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:18.600 I feel like just suggesting Outdromal in the first place 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:19.599 was not getting the vibe. 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:22.920 I mean, maybe she was tired from working all day 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:24.480 and just needed a break. 0:06:24.640 --> 0:06:26.480 Not to mention, she probably felt like she smelled like 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:30.440 a hamster, you know, like hamsters are what those pet 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:33.840 stores smell like. He stuck on the smell, Well, I do, 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:37.040 I just picturing him dropping her back off at work. 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:40.080 I assume that's what happened because her car was probably 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:41.000 is that what happened? 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:41.440 Charles? 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:43.120 Yeah, that's where her car was. 0:06:43.480 --> 0:06:45.720 And how did you two leave? It was there like 0:06:45.760 --> 0:06:49.360 a hug or a kiss or I don't think anyway, 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:53.280 a hamster nuzzle? How do you end a date with her? 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:55.839 I tried to get out of the car and opened 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:57.680 the door for her, you know, to be a gentleman, 0:06:58.200 --> 0:06:59.440 but she was already out the door. 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:01.440 And or oh oh whoa. 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:03.520 She did wave at me while she left the parking 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:05.280 lot wave. 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:12.080 Okay, okay, so maybe you're reading it right. The date 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:14.480 wasn't going that great. What's happened since then? 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.960 I tried to ask her out for another tang and 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:19.520 she's not responding. 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:22.560 Okay, Okay. Before we go, can I just ask you 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:26.400 your question? What have you learned from this first day? 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:31.400 Maybe I should have taken some flow naves before the date. 0:07:34.880 --> 0:07:38.120 Let's see what's going on with Maggie here, because like 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:40.640 you said, it didn't go perfectly, but I think there's 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:42.680 enough to salvage it. We'll see if we can make 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:44.360 it happen when we come back and do your second 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:44.960 date update. 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:48.080 Right after hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:49.520 Second Date Updates. 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:53.600 It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Time to recap 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:58.120 part one of the Second Date Update with our listener Charles. 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:00.000 Yes, it is time, Jeffrey. 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:01.960 I do think it was kind of funny that Brooke 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:05.320 found it so odd that Charles pulled a gentleman move 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:08.360 and arrived early to pick her up for the date. 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:10.239 Well, it's just it's not odd. 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:12.400 It's just that a girl wants to like freshen up 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:14.760 after work, but he was in the store waiting for her, 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:16.880 so she had to go meeting Like it's it's not 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:18.840 where I would want to be seen for the first 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:19.760 time by a person. 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:20.520 I'm just meeting. 0:08:20.600 --> 0:08:21.880 I get that. I get that. 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:24.200 Yeah, he was just trying to be timely. 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:24.760 Uh huh. 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:26.880 So I don't think he meant to make her uncomfortable 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:29.440 on anything but that they went out to eat, and 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:33.120 he admits it wasn't a perfect date. His allergies were 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:36.360 acting up, he had car trouble, and in the end 0:08:36.400 --> 0:08:37.800 he didn't even have a chance to give her a 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:40.880 proper goodbye, probably because she wanted to wash that hamster 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:44.400 smell off that Brooke was talking about. And now he's 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:46.880 having trouble even arranging a second meetup. 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:49.280 Yeah, she gave him a wave from her car. 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:53.920 Yeah, but at least she acknowledged you on the way out, Charles, 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:55.000 and that's got to feel good. 0:08:55.080 --> 0:08:57.600 Yes, right, Yeah, maybe I should have a shower first 0:08:57.679 --> 0:08:58.040 or something. 0:08:58.320 --> 0:09:01.320 Yeah, you shouldn't encourage that as soon as she gets 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:06.120 in the car, you know. Yeah, there we go, just 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:08.520 a car wash. They get on top of. 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:11.400 The vehicle, driving through, roll the windows down. 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:14.200 I really just like to know what happened. Maybe I 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:16.600 could learn something from this. Maybe I got red flags 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:18.000 I don't know about. 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:20.920 You're a guy who loves some self improvement and we 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:22.040 can definitely appreciate. 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:27.000 But okay, lets try it. I'm gonna don Maggie and 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:37.280 we'll see if she answers. Here we go. Hello, Hey 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:38.040 is this Maggie? 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:41.920 Yeah? Who's this? 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:44.760 Hey, Maggie. This is a radio show called Brook and 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:45.679 Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:48.440 It's a radio show. 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:53.000 M hm, Yes, Welcome to the big time, Maggie. 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:58.920 We are proud to say we're all over this country international, 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:03.120 haven't been ca yet, so we're doing this segment we do. 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:05.240 It's called a second Date Update, and we'd like you 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:05.839 to be on it. 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:10.719 How about no, wait, wait, wait, don't you want to 0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:12.120 hear what it's all about? 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.200 I mean, yeah, I really shouldn't have even asked you 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:15.719 the question because you're already on it. 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:16.480 Yeah. 0:10:16.520 --> 0:10:19.400 One of our listeners, Charles asked us to reach out 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:19.680 to you. 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:23.360 Oh my, oh my god. 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:24.120 Okay. 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:28.240 Now that type of response indicates that there may be 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:29.680 something Charles can learn from you. 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:32.760 Yeah, and he's eager to find out what that might 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:35.640 be because when we spoke to Charles before this, he 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:38.080 admitted he felt like your date wasn't perfect. 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:40.920 Uh yeah, you could probably say that. 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:43.480 Okay, so you guys are on the same page. That's great. 0:10:43.720 --> 0:10:44.000 Yep. 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:48.880 He's wondering if there's anything specific that happened that was 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:51.320 a turn off to you, because he'd like to learn 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:51.640 from it. 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:55.680 H Okay, I don't even know where to start. 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:57.160 I have an idea, Maggie. 0:10:57.240 --> 0:11:00.800 Can you just start where you're at work and Charles 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:02.600 walks through the door at the pet store. 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:04.959 Oh so he told you that part? 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:08.440 Yeah, what was going through your mind? Well? 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:11.280 Okay, first of all, he was supposed to pick me 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:15.079 up for our date after my work, right, he showed 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:17.960 up before my ships had even started and stayed there 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:18.600 all day. 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:23.800 We wait started hold up, he said he got there 0:11:23.840 --> 0:11:24.480 a little early. 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:28.520 We had assumed fifteen minutes literally hours early. 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:29.720 He showed up for our dates. 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:32.000 Oh my god, are you telling all of your coworkers? 0:11:32.280 --> 0:11:34.160 What's he doing to just walking the aisles? 0:11:34.280 --> 0:11:37.560 Like literally he just walked up and down the aisles 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:40.480 of the pet store for like four hours? Oh? 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:41.280 Oh wow? 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:43.320 Okay, weird. 0:11:43.640 --> 0:11:45.680 You know what, if he would have started the story 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:48.520 more specifically, we would have not had to make this call. 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:50.920 I feel like, yes, but you do. We heard you 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:52.839 do end up going on the date with him. How 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:53.320 does that go? 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:56.240 Yeah? I mean, you don't need a waffle house. 0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:01.080 Oh and it wasn't in the morning and you weren't intoxicated. 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:02.480 So are you not a breakfast for dinner? 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:02.680 Fan? 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:03.840 Is that how I'm reading this? 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:06.640 I mean, I mean it's not like your typical date 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:07.559 night restaurant. 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:10.000 You know, you should you should? 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:14.320 Okay, So what happens at waffle house? 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:17.920 Well, mostly he just like blew his nose repeatedly. 0:12:18.520 --> 0:12:21.320 Oh now, I will say he did bring that up. 0:12:21.320 --> 0:12:22.920 That wasn't his fault. He had allergies. 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:25.520 So I mean, you don't do it at the table, 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:28.240 just like, excuse yourself, go to the bathroom. 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:30.200 I mean I think he had already felt like he 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:31.040 was going to the bathroom. 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:34.120 Yeah, he didn't want to leave you alone for two longs. 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:36.559 So that's definitely on him. 0:12:37.000 --> 0:12:39.760 Like you've already spent six hours together at this point 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:41.840 because he was at your job for so long. 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:42.880 Yes, so well. 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:45.040 I mean the most embarrassing thing is what happened when 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:49.040 we tried to leave. His car completely broke down in 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:50.440 the parking lot at the waffle house. 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:53.960 Oh right, Okay, that's not embarrassing. That happens. Yeah, he 0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:55.160 can't control his car. 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:57.559 I will say, there's a lot of other things that 0:12:57.600 --> 0:13:00.120 I don't agree with him on, but the allergies in 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:01.000 the car stuff, I. 0:13:01.000 --> 0:13:01.760 Mean, what do you do? 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:04.040 I get it. That kind of stuff happens, you know. 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:06.360 But our waitress had to come outside and give him 0:13:06.400 --> 0:13:08.360 a jump. And this is the waitress that he literally 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:10.040 tipped in loose coins. 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:13.440 Oh wait, the waitress from the restaurant had to fix 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:13.800 his car. 0:13:14.320 --> 0:13:17.079 Yes, it was so embarrassing, Like, I mean, he didn't 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:19.320 even kip this waitress. Well, and now she has to 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:21.960 come outside and get like. 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:25.600 Guys, what the economy is not great. It's hard for 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:26.520 people out there. 0:13:27.200 --> 0:13:29.840 Yeah, hey, guys, I'm here. I'd like to say a 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:30.360 few things. 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:32.000 I think that's why. 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:35.480 Yeah, we probably need to hear from you, because Maggie, 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:38.000 you might not realize this, but Charles has been on 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:39.600 the line for this entire call. 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:42.679 Oh he was waiting like he likes to do before 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:43.760 you were ever on the call. 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:45.880 He was here three time. 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:46.360 God. 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:50.439 Okay, Charles, dude. 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:54.480 First of all, I borrowed that car. It wasn't mind 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:56.680 that broke down. It belonged to my cousin. 0:13:57.920 --> 0:13:59.199 Okay, does that help anything? 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:06.520 Get close in the mouth here and blame the cousins. 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:07.040 I mean, Charles, according to your theory, that's a red 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:10.400 flag to blame other people for your own problems. 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:13.000 Yes, if my cousin, I'm not dating him. 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:18.200 Oh, you're not romantically evolved likelies to exes. 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:21.040 Okay, But so that that car wasn't yours and the 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:24.160 problems it had weren't your fault. Do you actually own 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:24.800 your own car? 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:27.720 No? People that own cars are stupid. 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:30.160 Oh oh okay, so yours is also dumb. 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:34.920 But you can't say a lot of things are stupid, 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:38.320 like he asked me what the last two books I 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:40.920 read were, and I told him The Hunger Games and Twilight. 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:43.680 He told me those books are for stupid people. 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:48.720 Oh, oh, god, Arlo, why would you say that? 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:52.240 Yeah, I prefer the Daventry code. That's just a personal preference. 0:14:53.960 --> 0:15:00.280 Dan Brown is going to talk about like high literature, Harry, 0:15:00.720 --> 0:15:01.840 that's all on the same. 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:05.800 Level, my man. Well, okay, books and stupid people and 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:09.000 car owners aside. Can we go back to the pet store? 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:12.000 Oh he's got to skip over the change tip? All right. 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:14.720 I want to know, Charles, why would you be there 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:17.600 before her shift even started that day and. 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:22.360 Assume me I'm early to things. God, get a. 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:24.920 Little defensive, which does not sound like a man who's 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:26.800 learning from past relationships. 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:29.240 You know what. Another thing that you guys should know. 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:31.360 He stole stuff from my work? 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:32.600 What what? 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:34.200 Why didn't you start with that? 0:15:34.640 --> 0:15:34.880 Yeah? 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:36.720 So what what did he steal? 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:39.560 They have these pet key chains that are hanging up 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:42.240 by the register. There's literally a video of him taking one. 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:46.560 He stole a bro he's still a key change Charles, Well, 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:50.240 I thought they were free. They look cheap. 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:53.920 He stole a cheap looking thing. 0:15:54.000 --> 0:16:00.160 You don't even have a car key to put on it. 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:03.200 Care well, all right, so if we just look at 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:06.960 the overview of this date, Charles shows up a little 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:11.280 bit early to it, accidentally steals stuff from the store. 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:13.360 You're gonna recap right before you ask her if she 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:13.680 wants to. 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:16.160 Just to make sure we have all the facts straight. 0:16:16.240 --> 0:16:19.600 And then then he thoughtfully plans a very nice date 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:26.920 to an iconic American establishment. We ride hard for them, 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:30.720 but then his borrowed car breaks down in the parking 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.440 lot and the waitress who he tipped and change to 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:36.440 jump it, has to come out and do it for him. Man, 0:16:36.800 --> 0:16:39.880 So some positives and negatives, for sure, But if we 0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:43.880 just focus on the positives, Maggie, we think Charles could 0:16:43.880 --> 0:16:46.920 be a great fixer up, doesn't we Yeah. 0:16:46.800 --> 0:16:48.960 Because every person deserves a fixer upper. 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:51.480 Yeah, like the car that he was driving. And so 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:53.600 we would like to offer to send you out on 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:56.200 another date with him, and if you would agree to it, 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:57.120 we'd pay for it. 0:16:57.200 --> 0:16:58.960 Now we do have to check on the cousin's car 0:16:59.000 --> 0:16:59.800 if it's available. 0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:04.960 What do you think, Maggie, You know, I think I'm 0:17:04.960 --> 0:17:06.840 good because you also forgot about the part where he 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:08.680 said it's the books that I read were stupid. 0:17:09.880 --> 0:17:11.840 That was a lot, Charles, Charles, do you feel like 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:13.320 you learned what you came here to learn? 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:16.879 I feel like she just doesn't understand things from my perspective. 0:17:18.520 --> 0:17:19.719 Yes, there we go. 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:27.120 Yeah, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:29.720 I kind of blame you on this one, Brook, what 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:32.120 I gotta be honest. What I mean when the guy 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:34.560