1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 2: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: Dating apps in AI they're they're now merging. 4 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 2: At first it was simple. 5 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 3: There was things were like back in twenty nineteen, bumble 6 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 3: with blur uh inappropriate photos, things like that. Cut to 7 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 3: Tinder now recently announcing an AI photos selector tool that 8 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 3: scans your photos and picks the best picks for your profile. 9 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 3: So it's kind of like a helper things like that. 10 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 3: But check this out. Have you heard of the riz app? 11 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 3: I'm sure you haven't, because you're kind of riz. So 12 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 3: you can upload a screenshot of the DM conversation that 13 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,639 Speaker 3: you're having in whatever other dating app that you're on, 14 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 3: and it'll suggest ways for you to respond to those dms, 15 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 3: kind of like what Sierra and I did for Tanya 16 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 3: when she was first dming Robbie Bluss and she didn't 17 00:00:58,320 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 3: know what to say, so we that was an AI 18 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 3: that was like friend intelligence. So I think that this 19 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 3: is a great tool when you're kind of stuck in 20 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 3: that beginning, like what do I say? I don't want 21 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 3: to blow it? What's a good thing to say? 22 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: But you're not showing who you are, or your personality, 23 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: your sense of humor. 24 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 4: But that's fine because you meet someone on a dating app, 25 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 4: you talk to them for like a couple hours, and 26 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 4: you meet in real life and you have to be yourself. 27 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 28 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 3: M It could be it could be a slippery slope 29 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 3: because then you if you continue this with every single 30 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: DM conversation, then you are essentially talking to the AI 31 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 3: version of yourself. 32 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: Like the AI vers is going to be better than 33 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: I am anyway, So maybe I should take some lessons. 34 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 2: I'm saying, it's a tool. 35 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,639 Speaker 3: We're already kind of using it with our everyday lives 36 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 3: when we ask it suggestions things that we should do 37 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:47,559 Speaker 3: for the week. 38 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: End, spitball here. You know, I'm not getting any younger. 39 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: Which one would you say I should go on? If 40 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: I were to go on a dating app, Rya, Raya. 41 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: Or maybe Hinge? I hear, I hear great things. 42 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, Robbie and Tanya. Apparently they're getting married in 43 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: like a day. 44 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:09,519 Speaker 3: I know a lot of people I feel have long 45 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 3: lasting relationships with Hinge. I think you should get on. 46 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 3: My brother and his now met on Hinge. 47 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: Can you get on both? 48 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 4: Yes, you can get on both. You can get on 49 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 4: all the dating apps if you wanted. 50 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: I love fun. So you did want? You ever did 51 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: one of these dating apps? 52 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 5: No, but my friends are trying to get me to 53 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 5: do it because I. 54 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: Have mine to Yeah, which I mean, if you do it, 55 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: I'll do it. Well. I'm not trying to date you. 56 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: I just want to know if you take the plunge, 57 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 1: then which one? Which one would we want? 58 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:42,519 Speaker 5: I've heard good things about Hinge. 59 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 1: That's because Tiny's getting married off well. 60 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 5: And then there's another one called Coffee meets Bagel that 61 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 5: like fo yeah, friends, Coffee meets Yeah, they I know 62 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:56,399 Speaker 5: at least two or three like actual marriages from that. 63 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: What about Bacon? Is that any good? 64 00:02:58,720 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 3: Any? 65 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 2: Is that you should a real app. 66 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: Like keish Me's Bacon? All right, FINSI we'll talk about 67 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 1: this separately in the pre show post show meeting. 68 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 5: I think it'll be fun. 69 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: Ryan. Wait, no, this is interesting, Montabello. Lorena brings it 70 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: to our attention. Is there a difference in saying to 71 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: your significant other I love you versus love you? Go ahead, Lorena. 72 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, my boyfriend and I got in a huge fight 73 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 6: over that last night, and it seemed silly, but I 74 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 6: feel like I don't know. I always try to say 75 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 6: I love you, and he just says love you, which 76 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 6: feels like dismisses and casual to me. And I've heard 77 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 6: him say love you is to like his friends and 78 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 6: his family. 79 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: Thank you with a sister. 80 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I Santa into a buddy in mine named 81 00:03:56,240 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: Bobby Kotik BK. So I'm at dinner on Friday night 82 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: out in the in the wood the Hollywood look great, 83 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: and I came up and I hugged him. I said, 84 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: it's been a minute. And when I walked away to 85 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: sit down on my table, I said, love you, bro, 86 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 1: love you. So I did. That's what we say now. 87 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 1: I also have from one recently say I love you, 88 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: and then I just kind of go, this is great, 89 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: isn't it? Because I don't want to say it back. 90 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,799 Speaker 2: I love you is way more intimate, for sure. 91 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,599 Speaker 4: But how do you not say, like I say love 92 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 4: you to you guys, like I'm leaving and I'll be like, bye, 93 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 4: I love you guys? 94 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: Is I love you and you don't want to say 95 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 1: that back? What do you say? 96 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 7: Love? 97 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: Love a Friday? I love green, bye, I love pastries. 98 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: I'm with you. It's more intimate now what he needs 99 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: to do. And I try and remind myself regularly to 100 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: do this beginning of the week and of the week. Hey, Tanya, Yes, 101 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 1: let's put to put down your back okay, before you 102 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 1: go to work. I just want to tell you how 103 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 1: much I love you. I just want to say it 104 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: and just think about that and feel that to take 105 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 1: it bag that also work. You gotta like make it 106 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: a thing so sweet. Hey, I'm sweet, I'm sweet, Like 107 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: this is it? This is sweet. 108 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 2: That's cute. 109 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 1: But like you got to like stop in your tracks, 110 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: like ause if it's going to be something dramatic and 111 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: all of you. 112 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 2: Can't tell him to love her like that. He needs 113 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 2: to just do it. 114 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, And I can't ask him to say that. 115 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: I mean, yes, I mean we know the guy loves you, 116 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 1: just don't like saying it. Some guy's getting a little 117 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: weirded about saying it. 118 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 3: Just saying more than almost like h like brainwash him 119 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 3: to say I love you. 120 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,480 Speaker 1: Never you ever been like in a moment with somebody 121 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: and they're like, I love you. I mean I don't 122 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: mean like that, but I just said it in a moment. 123 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: No, I feel like back in the day for sure. 124 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 1: It happens to me sometimes. 125 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think my husband after the first date it 126 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 2: was like they're. 127 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: Loving a moment, but then I love you, but then 128 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: they're like, you know what I mean, so funny, so 129 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: fun All right, well, Lourena, we love you. Get this 130 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 1: guy to thank you. Tell him you he loves you. 131 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: All right, good luck, thank you. I do a lot 132 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: of you know, when people text you, I do miss 133 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 1: you love us. I don't read the text. I just 134 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:42,239 Speaker 1: respond with miss. 135 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 2: You love us, miss you love us. 136 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: Like for dudes, my bros, I love us, I love 137 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: our relationships. Miss you love us. 138 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 2: I like your your big hugs. 139 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, big hugs. 140 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 2: I do that A good one, solid Courtney, Good. 141 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 1: Morning, thanks for listening. 142 00:06:57,760 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 8: All right, good morning, good morning. 143 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 1: I love this. Anybody that works with somebody that smells 144 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: bad listen. So your coworker has a bad smelling perfume. 145 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, sadly it sounds silly, but yes. 146 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: How is it bad? Perfumes are meant to be pleasant. 147 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 8: It's it's not even that it's like an awful sense. 148 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 8: It's that it's just so strong, like and it kind 149 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 8: of just overpowers any room that you're in and it's 150 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 8: so strong that it lingers. So even if she's not 151 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 8: in the room, if her stuff is in the room, 152 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 8: or if she was just in there like you, it's 153 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 8: still there. 154 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 6: And so. 155 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 8: Yeah, it's it's it's a weird situation, but it I 156 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 8: feel like it's overtaking a lot of my mental space, 157 00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 8: to be honest. 158 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: Oh wow, I've you asked her to have you just 159 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: it in a very subtle way that maybe it's too strong. 160 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 2: I'm sure she can't do that. 161 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: Well, Tanya, you might be able to because she can't 162 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: smell her own perfume after a while, you don't smell 163 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: your set. 164 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 6: You know. 165 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 8: I cannot say that I have said anything. I have 166 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 8: said something to our manager and just like mentioned it 167 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 8: and they sort of just brushed it off. Which it's like, 168 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 8: it's a weird situation, Like how do you how do 169 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 8: you even handle that? Because it's just. 170 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 3: Maybe you maybe you start blowing your nose a lot 171 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 3: around her, I mean like I must be allergic to 172 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 3: something in here. 173 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 2: I don't know what, and then maybe she'll just maybe. 174 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 8: Maybe. I mean I I have been getting a lot 175 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 8: of headaches since she's been. 176 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 1: Oh there you go, Yeah, I lay that headache car migraines, right, yeah. 177 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 8: Like maybe that is something? 178 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:00,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 179 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 3: How do you. 180 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 8: Approach that, Like, okay, like do you say, hey, you know, 181 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 8: ever since you've been working here, I have migraines because you. 182 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 1: Basically basically say, I hate to say this, but I'm 183 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: not I'm not sure what it is. Something I've been 184 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: getting these crazy atics. It might be and it can 185 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: be set off by the most random things. It's possible 186 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: it's your perfume. I just want to test this theory out. 187 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: Maybe you could just wear a little less or don't 188 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: wear a couple of days, let me see if it 189 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: if my headache goes away. 190 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 8: I mean yeah, yeah, that could work. And maybe maybe 191 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 8: even say something like my aunt, this is was a 192 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,679 Speaker 8: thing with her and so then you know she had 193 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 8: she can't wear perfume when I'm around her or something 194 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 8: like that. 195 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, you say your former aunt died of somebody 196 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: where he runs in a family, somebody wearing too much 197 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: perfumes extreme and then yeah, you're morbid, so sad to 198 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: lose ang gladys, but you know, somebody's aroma. 199 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 3: It is interesting how these people that wear these strong 200 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 3: perfumes and colognes. 201 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 2: Don't notice that it's that strong because you. 202 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: Get used to it. And let me tell something. If 203 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,079 Speaker 1: you come over to my house, I usually spray people 204 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:19,080 Speaker 1: with my scent on their way out, So uh, I 205 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 1: have spray bottles by the door, and yeah, yeah, I'll 206 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 1: just give you because I used two spray I combined 207 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 1: two coloones to make my own sense. 208 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 2: It's not overpowered. No, he hasn't been wearing that for years. 209 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 1: This is rose and sand the wood, two different bottles. 210 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: But I'm happy to spray with my scent on the 211 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 1: way out. Just it's all there by the door. It's 212 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:41,839 Speaker 1: all there by the door. It's just the party. 213 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 8: I mean you, you and my coworker have a lot 214 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 8: in common then, because everyone leaves smelling like her as well. 215 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 8: So maybe maybe people are this. 216 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: Is not bo All right, well, I think there's ways 217 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: to address this with Finasse. Good luck on it, and 218 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: thanks for calling. You know, he smells the prettiest today 219 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: that I'm told. It's in the back room. It's that 220 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 1: Fondso he smells pretty today. He does what's he smelling? 221 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 2: I don't know actually what it is. 222 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 3: But he also has like puts on a lotion or 223 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:15,199 Speaker 3: hand sanitizer and it just smells delicious so good. 224 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: That's up. What are you wearing? Uh, let's see. 225 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 5: So I think today was clean No, yeah, clean slate 226 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 5: from Beth and Body Works. It's like a colone that 227 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 5: they sell now. Because I got it for Christmas, but 228 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 5: then ever since then, I was just like, oh, dang, 229 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 5: I actually like this. And then I saw how much 230 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 5: like my uncle spent on it, and I was like, wow, okay, 231 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 5: I spent a little more, but like, you know, it's 232 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 5: not bad, actually not bad. 233 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: No, some of the cheapest stuff's the best. I did 234 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 1: this like two dollars thallium for years until I couldn't 235 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: find it anymore. 236 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 6: Yeah. 237 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 5: No, but yeah, So I got a compliment from Mark 238 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 5: today and I was like, oh dude, I'm blushing. 239 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: What do you say to you? 240 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 2: What? 241 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 1: Mark sadio? He's like, you smell great? Mark? Did you 242 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: say that? 243 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:57,840 Speaker 6: I did? 244 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: Look at you two. I want to book you at 245 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:08,959 Speaker 1: table this weekend. Fastest growing Top three jobs Artificial intelligence engineer, 246 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: physical therapist, and travel advisor. I picked a third shift 247 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: travel advisors. 248 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 3: Travel advisor a travel agent different? What's what's the difference? 249 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 4: A travel agent books your trip, A travel advisor advises 250 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:29,359 Speaker 4: your trip. 251 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: Is that I mean, Tanya, That doesn't define it when 252 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: you use the word, right, that's. 253 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:38,320 Speaker 2: The word an agent. I understand what agent. I understand 254 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 2: advice is. 255 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 3: So they they're just giving you Advisor, not helping you 256 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 3: book it. 257 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: It seems like it seems like a great gig. 258 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:46,559 Speaker 2: Nah, it seems like they're not helping helping you at all. 259 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 1: I think they curate the experience. Oh like they you know, 260 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: if you're going to go to Lima, they're going to 261 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 1: set up your hike to that was it, Machipichu. 262 00:12:57,920 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, but they're not going to set it up up 263 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,679 Speaker 2: another travel agent. Well, we're gonna call it other sound 264 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 2: bath sound bath. 265 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 1: Instead of the best Savichi restaurant. 266 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 2: It's no different than just following a blogger on you. 267 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: Yeah advisor, come right? All right? The three most disappearing 268 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 1: jobs on the planet cashiers, oh. 269 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 2: Bank tellers yeah. 270 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 1: And postal service clerks. 271 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:26,839 Speaker 2: Wow. 272 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 1: So there you go. Today's quote, are you ready? A 273 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 1: secret to happiness is to be as weird as you like. 274 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 1: The wrong people will leave the party, but the right 275 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 1: ones will join. The day Man FM headlines Gonzalez. 276 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 9: All right, the jury in the Diddy trial is resuming 277 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 9: deliberations today after reaching a yet to be disclosed verdict 278 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 9: on all but one of the five charges. The University 279 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 9: of California is considering adopting a semester system across all campuses. 280 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,679 Speaker 9: Less than a month after thousands of National Guard troops 281 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 9: were deployed to LA Department of Defense that one hundred 282 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 9: and fifty troops will be released and returned to their 283 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 9: wildfire protection assignments and BTS will reunite in twenty twenty 284 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 9: six for a new album and World War featuring all 285 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 9: seven members. 286 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: So, on social media, a lot of people talking about, hey, 287 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: how is your mental health not great? Why? Because of 288 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 1: my social media? And so they put a list of things, 289 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: a bunch of things you can do that are sort 290 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: of non therapy things to improve your mental health. I 291 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 1: want to run through these and see what you think. Okay, 292 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 1: So I want to Avon says, I do little favors 293 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: for myself. Future me will love waking up to a 294 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 1: clean room, fresh leftovers, fresh laundry. So she does little 295 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 1: things for herself. Fine, she feels good. 296 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 2: So just chores. 297 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, chores, right, page, I like this. One page doesn't 298 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 1: say I'm sorry for everything, like I'm always I'm sorry. 299 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I right, I'm sorry, Miny Way, I'm sorry. 300 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: Can I get it? I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry. 301 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: Are you using that bench track? I'm so sorry using. 302 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 2: That with stop it? 303 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 1: Well, I'm going to because Page says, not apologizing for 304 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: things is a game changer. You don't have to be 305 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: sorry for everything. 306 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right. 307 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 1: Louis says, all those things I've been saving for a 308 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: special occasion. I do him now. Good for your mental health? 309 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can see that. 310 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 1: Complimenting a random person, Zoe says, I made my room 311 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 1: comfortable with warm and lightning. I like that. Becca says, 312 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 1: saying no. Saying though is so powerful for mental health. Right, 313 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 1: stop watching the news. That's another one that's better for 314 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: mental health. Ken Dole says, saying I'm so brave before 315 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: doing anything that makes me nervous. 316 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 2: I can see that. Stop talk, little pep. 317 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: Talk, Mackenzie. These are people that are tapping in a 318 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 1: helm for mental health out therapy. Mackenzie says, do not 319 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: disturb Lily twenty four to seven. 320 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 2: Oh, like, she has her do not disturb on her phone. 321 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: She's wearing around her head. Yeah, and Wells just says, 322 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: don't rush, slow it down. Oh yeah, I am a rusher. 323 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: I am a full time rusher, so I want to 324 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 1: slow it down it that's all stress. I want a 325 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: two seven. If you want to add to this or 326 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 1: send us a talk back inside the EET radio. I 327 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: you know how you knew that. I was thinking about, 328 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 1: you know, do I want kids? People want to ask 329 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 1: me this. Strangers every day went into shake Shack. The 330 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 1: guy goes, hey, up, guys, your question. You're Ryan? Yeah, 331 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: are you gona have kids? I mean, wow, get my 332 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 1: chake shocky thingy. 333 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 2: I name a burger man. 334 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 1: They's getting us a good burger. 335 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 2: It's a good burger. Not's better. 336 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: So I don't know that i'd say better. They're different 337 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: different sure yeah. So uh Anyway, I started thinking, you know, 338 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: are kids like yes, they're pain in the neck, they're annoying, 339 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:01,359 Speaker 1: their aggriv they screamed. 340 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:09,639 Speaker 2: Positive first, it's unconditional lot. Brian's right. Other people's kids 341 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 2: can be those things. 342 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 1: No, mine will be that too. But then there are 343 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 1: these moments right where you dress them up for the 344 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 1: Christmas photo, you take them to play volleyball at the beach, 345 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 1: or they play the next episode on piano for the 346 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: first time. 347 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 2: Kids can do cute things, they really can. 348 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 1: So your son did what? 349 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:39,439 Speaker 3: So Maxon performed at his talent show and it was 350 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 3: one classic into another classic. He did the song called 351 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 3: Musette and which is by Bach I believe, and then 352 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:49,920 Speaker 3: at the very end of it, he just remixed a 353 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:53,400 Speaker 3: little tease of next episode as well, which also comes 354 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:54,400 Speaker 3: from a very old song. 355 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:57,400 Speaker 1: So he performed this in front of faculty, the. 356 00:17:57,400 --> 00:17:58,679 Speaker 2: Entire school and parents. 357 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: Did he get keep nervous? 358 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 2: No, he doesn't get nervous. 359 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:04,399 Speaker 3: I mean he maybe he actually he did say he 360 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 3: was a little nervous at first, but he doesn't look it. 361 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 2: He doesn't. Went and crushed it all right. 362 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: So here is the original holding we saw. I mean, 363 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 1: we know this if you're from these parts, it's a 364 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 1: class and yet it's a theme. I hope you're ready 365 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:37,119 Speaker 1: for the Now that's the original. How old is Maxon? 366 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 2: He is six years old. 367 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: Here's the six year old version making it his own. 368 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 2: That's so good, that's amazing. 369 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:04,440 Speaker 1: Did you the crowd? 370 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 2: I know? It was so cute. Then he does a 371 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 2: little bow at the end, and he did bow. 372 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:11,359 Speaker 1: But were you so proud? 373 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 2: So proud. Yeah, that's hard. 374 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 1: Oh, I couldn't do it the same. I mean, that's 375 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like, so, having kids it's not all bad. No, 376 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 1: it's not the do they do. Everyone to do cute 377 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 1: little things like that, and that's the reason to have them. Right. 378 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 3: Well, Also, if you want kids, if you see it 379 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:33,920 Speaker 3: in your future, I think. 380 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 1: I gotta have some around after I am not. 381 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 2: I think so too. 382 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 1: Right, little legacy. 383 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 2: Program, right, the Seacrest name needs to live on. 384 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, what's up? Could you want Seacrest could do this? 385 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 1: I just take I'll just do this till he can 386 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:53,480 Speaker 1: do it or she I guess. Yeah, I can't plan that. 387 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:56,920 Speaker 2: Well these days, technically you probably. 388 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 1: Go on air with Seacrest. Oh, I like it. 389 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:02,200 Speaker 2: I like it. 390 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 1: Don't take that name. 391 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 2: I'm done. 392 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,120 Speaker 1: Talk to Tanya while I'm talking to everybody listening. Don't 393 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 1: take Sienna because I like it. 394 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 2: I like it too. 395 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 4: Actually, list Sienna Seacrest, you do Ryan, I'm calling. 396 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 1: I called Dibbs. 397 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:20,479 Speaker 2: I can't call. 398 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 1: Yes, you can on the air, you can. I just 399 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 1: did it. 400 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 2: Sienna. 401 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 4: Yadagar sounds sound like, yeah, it doesn't. 402 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:32,159 Speaker 2: You can have it. 403 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 1: You can have it, Yolanda Yadagar. 404 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 2: I was thinking, oh, why, yeah, you need like a 405 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:37,479 Speaker 2: two syllable name. 406 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:41,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you don't need it. Sienna. Sienna's for me. 407 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 3: Wait, I'm getting a little fomo that like, I'm not 408 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 3: gonna have any more kids. 409 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: I'm not saying I haven't it. I'm just thinking about it. 410 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, but still I'm dumb. 411 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,920 Speaker 1: Well, I'll get something and you'll have some fun. Watch them. 412 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: You get it all over the world on iHeart radio. 413 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:01,399 Speaker 1: But it originates from Los Angeles, the entertainment capital, the 414 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 1: mosaic of cultures, best restaurants, food. 415 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 2: That's just where we are people. 416 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:17,359 Speaker 1: Those two. So there's a new trend that I'm reading about. 417 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 1: I didn't read the whole thing, but basically they're calling 418 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:24,360 Speaker 1: it micro retiring, right, micro retiring. 419 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 3: Yes, it's having a moment right now. It's exactly what 420 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 3: it kind of sounds like. It's stepping away from your career, 421 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 3: your job for an extended break and then eventually going 422 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 3: back to it when you're ready or when you're done 423 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 3: with your micro retirement. If you take a hiatus, yes, 424 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 3: sabbatical or something like that. It's kind of like, right 425 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 3: now we are grinding and working and essentially you retire 426 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 3: when you're sixty five. Right, Oh, so people are thinking, 427 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 3: why wait until we're sixty five to kind of do 428 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,919 Speaker 3: some of the things on our bucket list that we 429 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,479 Speaker 3: want to do, whether it's traveling and this, you know, 430 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 3: maybe starting a family, but like not having that crazy 431 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 3: work life. So it's a micro retirement and then eventually 432 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 3: you go back to your career. 433 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,959 Speaker 2: When you're ready, assuming that you can jump right back in. 434 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 1: And it's not an I'm just playing this out here. 435 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: So if we took a micro retirement for a year, 436 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 1: I think they'd replaced. 437 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 2: It, I would think. 438 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:30,119 Speaker 8: So. 439 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 2: I don't think this works for every job for sure. 440 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 1: People forget about us in about a week. 441 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 2: Uh huh. 442 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:46,439 Speaker 1: So what if we micro retire and just do like 443 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 1: the eight o'clock hour or something, you know, it's like 444 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:49,919 Speaker 1: just do one hour at microtime. 445 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 3: But that's not really like retiring, because I think the 446 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 3: whole point is to have days and weeks and months 447 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:56,640 Speaker 3: where you just. 448 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:58,360 Speaker 2: Are not doing your job. 449 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,440 Speaker 1: You guys, fine, perfect, I got And why do you 450 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: guys do three weeks and I'll do one a month 451 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: and I'll micro time. I'm you know, I'm up there. 452 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 2: I feel like that's not gonna work. 453 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 3: I don't know that it would work, but I mean 454 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 3: it's the whole thing of like breaking the cycle of burnout. 455 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 3: Does everyone feel that eventually at some point in their lives? 456 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:20,360 Speaker 6: Oh? 457 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. 458 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,719 Speaker 3: And then by the time we all are supposed to retire, 459 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 3: are we going to be too tired to do. 460 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:28,679 Speaker 1: The things we wanted to do? 461 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 6: Why? 462 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: Wait? 463 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's an interesting take on it. But if 464 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,399 Speaker 3: I guess, if you can have the flexibility to do this. 465 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 2: By all means, yeah, what. 466 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 1: Do you call? This is interesting? I mean I call anybody, 467 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 1: anybody on updating, Babe, I just go to babe, Yeah, 468 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:52,120 Speaker 1: I'm with you or right in a babe, Babe is easy. Babe. 469 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 1: What do you keep Michael in your contacts under? 470 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 2: That's exactly what he is, babe with a heart. 471 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 1: So when BEB calls, it comes up with BEB. 472 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 473 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 3: And I have a picture of him holding Surveyor when 474 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 3: she was a baby and a baby Bjorn. 475 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 1: What about you? What's his contact name? 476 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 2: I think I'm literally Sisney via Clara in his name. 477 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how he put it in when he met 478 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 1: my contact card, Tony, what's Robbie in your phone? 479 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 2: He is fiance in my phone. 480 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 1: You got to update that soon. I know, how does 481 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 1: he have you in his phone? 482 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 2: He has me as tea? 483 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 4: Well that's just tea, just tea, I mean kind of cute, 484 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 4: kind of yeah, it's totally cute. 485 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:41,679 Speaker 1: Mister T, missus T, mister T, mister T. Okay, Ruby, 486 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 1: What is David your husband have as your contact? 487 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 2: Mine is actually husband. Oh you can't see it, but yeah, 488 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 2: it's cute. I can't hear this baby photo? 489 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 1: And what what are you and his? 490 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 2: He changed me? 491 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:58,640 Speaker 9: We did it together actually to wifey wifey, Yeah, doorle. 492 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 1: I like it. So I have a couple in there 493 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 1: that I just haven't erased. 494 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,879 Speaker 3: So I've got how many babes do you have on 495 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 3: your phone? 496 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: Just you know, you know, I don't go through and 497 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 1: delete everybody. 498 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:21,360 Speaker 2: You don't you to go to your b section? How 499 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 2: many babes might be? 500 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 1: No babes, No, it's just their nicknames. Like I have 501 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 1: won cutie pie mixed macie pants is cute. You don't 502 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 1: know that I mix Oh man emoji's have an emoji 503 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 1: in there for Yeah, that's cute, that's it. Thunderbear. I 504 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 1: think I have a thunderbear as well. 505 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:46,400 Speaker 2: Who was this Thunderbear? 506 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 1: Oh you don't you wish? 507 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 8: Wow? 508 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:50,439 Speaker 1: You piece it all together? 509 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 2: Do you leave them as that? Or do you go 510 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 2: back and add X? 511 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 6: Well? 512 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 1: Actually, sometimes after it's been while and I can't remember 513 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,600 Speaker 1: their name. I mean I can't remember their name, but 514 00:25:58,640 --> 00:25:59,879 Speaker 1: I'm like, which was Thunderbear? 515 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be tough to. 516 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 1: Thunderp I do, but I do remember because I've been 517 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 1: in there. 518 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 6: Yeah. 519 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 1: No, I don't change. I don't put it back, like, yeah, 520 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 1: they're all there there. I thought that was a fun 521 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:14,920 Speaker 1: little conversation. Fonsie, what is your Are you single? Right? 522 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 2: He is currently on the phone. 523 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 1: He's always on the phone. Sorry, uh in a relationship? 524 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: What is your other half call you? Oh? 525 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,120 Speaker 5: Oh, I'm single. So I call myself handsome. 526 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: Self esteem. 527 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 6: I like it. 528 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,400 Speaker 2: Good morning handsome. 529 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,440 Speaker 1: So sneak. What did your neighbors ask you to do? Okay? 530 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 3: And I feel like it's something that maybe a lot 531 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 3: of neighbors just gonna say in passing, but it really 532 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 3: stuck with me all week. So last week they're back 533 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 3: now and everything's fine, but I'm coming home from school 534 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 3: with the kids and they're like, hey, so you know 535 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:50,879 Speaker 3: we're going to be gone for a few days to 536 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 3: go visit our daughter, and this, can you keep an eye. 537 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 2: On the house. I was like sure, that would say. 538 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:57,880 Speaker 1: What does that mean? 539 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 2: And so like the whole week I was just like panic. 540 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 2: I was like, what car is that? 541 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:03,399 Speaker 1: Like? 542 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 3: I was literally like if something happens to their house. 543 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 2: That I feel responsible, but it's on you. I don't 544 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:09,919 Speaker 2: have a tee say. 545 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:12,640 Speaker 1: To guard the house. 546 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:13,960 Speaker 2: Literally just like keeping out in the house. 547 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,639 Speaker 1: I was like, I think they're just saying a FYI 548 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 1: were rolling out. 549 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was total. It was totally that. 550 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:20,879 Speaker 3: But I took it like as if I needed to 551 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 3: be like a soldier outside. 552 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: Of the home. I need to put a spotlight on 553 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 1: their house, yeah, guard shack. 554 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:29,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean any little thing. They kind of threw 555 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,159 Speaker 3: me off, like they're they were filming down on my 556 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 3: street and so they put those like filming notices on 557 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 3: everyone's like front door, and like I took theirs and 558 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 3: I kind of put it away so it didn't look 559 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 3: like it was sitting there for a few days and. 560 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 1: Yeah walk over turned lights on and off. 561 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 2: No I didn't. I didn't have keys of their house. 562 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,199 Speaker 1: Stop the paper so it doesn't stack up. 563 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 2: Nobody gets papers anymore. 564 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:49,560 Speaker 3: But you know, a little things like that, and it 565 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 3: just kind of was like a stress all last week. 566 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 3: I'm glad they're home now because I'm like, I don't 567 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:54,400 Speaker 3: need that respond. 568 00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: So in my book, then if they threw that on you, 569 00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,200 Speaker 1: they should bring you something back from their trip. 570 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 3: You know what they always do. They are they are 571 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,119 Speaker 3: not me for the kids. They'll bring something back for that. 572 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,760 Speaker 1: It's like their own. 573 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 2: Kids, they have grandkids. 574 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 3: It's I live on like the best street in America. 575 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 3: Like our neighbors are so nice, everyone's so kind. 576 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 2: So that's why I didn't want to blow up so 577 00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 2: shocked that they bring your kids get I know, and 578 00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 2: like all the. 579 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 7: Neighbors do, why don't you stay at their house? Then, 580 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:29,440 Speaker 7: I mean, really take this seriously, get in there next time. 581 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,239 Speaker 7: Maybe explain this one to me so I can make 582 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 7: sense of it. Flood Lighting it's a new toxic dating trend. 583 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 7: Flood lighting. 584 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:34,880 Speaker 1: What was it mean? 585 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 2: Flood lighting? 586 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 3: Okay, so it is almost a manipulative tactic, like a 587 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 3: dating tactic that you would do at the very early 588 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 3: stages of a relationship or getting to know somebody. So 589 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 3: let me give you a few examples just to kind 590 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 3: of like paint the picture for you, Okay, someone saying 591 00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 3: I've never felt this way about anyone. I have a 592 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 3: history of abandonment, and I just kind of need to 593 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 3: know that you're not going. 594 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 2: To leave me. 595 00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. 596 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 3: So it's heavy and it puts pressure on you to commit. 597 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 3: But you might be into dp might be already emotionally 598 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 3: kind of connected to that person and they say something 599 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 3: like this, and you're like, well, of course I want 600 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 3: to Well how soon. 601 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 1: I don't think you should use the word abandonment soon, 602 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 1: I mean think. 603 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 2: About maybe the first few dates, probably early on. 604 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 3: Another example would be like someone you just met suddenly 605 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 3: shares details about a painful breakup or family issues. They 606 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 3: start unloading past traumas on you things like that just 607 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 3: to kind of make you feel obligated to comfort them, 608 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 3: and then you become this like comforter all the time. 609 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 3: That's how your relationship kind of like sets the tone 610 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 3: is by you being the comforter and them always be 611 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 3: having the crisis. 612 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 1: Oh I don't love that. 613 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 2: But you get trapped in this. 614 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 3: You don't realize that you're in a relationship like this 615 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 3: because they're hot or like you have a connection Otherwise 616 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:47,160 Speaker 3: or things like that, and. 617 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 2: You get you know, blinded, blinded by love, so just 618 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 2: kind of be aware of it. 619 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 1: So Brene Brown has talked about this before. 620 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 3: Yes, Oh I love she Brene Brown saying that, you know, 621 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 3: it often leads to it's emotional imbalance and it's just 622 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 3: flat out manipulative. 623 00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: I don't love any of that conversation. 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