WEBVTT - The Distant Wife

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just looking at some of the things that we

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<v Speaker 1>get it update little informational things. Today is a day.

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<v Speaker 1>Every day is the day. I don't know where that started,

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<v Speaker 1>but every day is a national day, Peanut butter day,

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<v Speaker 1>hot dog day, whatever day, some of which are just dumb.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think today is so dumb. What is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Today is National Manny Petty Day, Manny Petty Day. And

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't understand what a manicure petticure meant to me,

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<v Speaker 1>to my hygiene, to my happiness until someone I was

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<v Speaker 1>dating explain, Hey, bro, listen, you gotta get your nails

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<v Speaker 1>clean and done too. It's not a one way street,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. And once you do it, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>there are a lot of some of the guys that

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<v Speaker 1>aren't into it, but once you do it, you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of realized that it is important to do. And the

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<v Speaker 1>only thing I just don't like going I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>like the process of it. You know. I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>sitting in that space chair. I don't find it relaxing

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<v Speaker 1>sitting in that space chair. I try. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be in and out of there as fast as possible

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<v Speaker 1>with all things, though, I'm just saying, with old things, haircuts, everything,

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<v Speaker 1>how fast can we do this? Not impatient? Efficient? It's

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<v Speaker 1>efficient to be impatient to you. No, not a missal

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<v Speaker 1>want that forever. But all the maintenance things. But I

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<v Speaker 1>just saying like we should be expected and accountable for

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<v Speaker 1>the same kind of maintenance that anybody else should before. Right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, so celebrate this stay tubs. You ever had

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<v Speaker 1>a manicure, pedicure on those dojo toes? No, but I

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<v Speaker 1>need it. That's not good. You're not You're not a freshman. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a little travel packet's got everything in it

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<v Speaker 1>that I can clip. Yeah, Tubbs trims himself. But when

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<v Speaker 1>you're out there, you know, and you're planting your plants

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<v Speaker 1>and you're in the soil that gets under your nails,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta clean that out tome al right, guys. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's happening today. Sunshine also high is in the mid eighties.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be hot, be low nineties Inland, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably the hottest day of the week. The rest of

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<v Speaker 1>the week gonna cool off a little bit. So this

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<v Speaker 1>morning we have Whango Tango tickets every hour that's big news.

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<v Speaker 1>Wango Tango tickets every single hour. I'll tell you how

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<v Speaker 1>to get those thirty five past the hour. Now, the

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<v Speaker 1>other thing that we're into and it looks like this

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna happen at seven forty is Ryan's Roses, and

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<v Speaker 1>he says that his wife has been acting very differently

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<v Speaker 1>and isn't interested in doing anything together intimately or socially.

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<v Speaker 1>So why why is that? Now? It could be a

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<v Speaker 1>million different things, but he thinks he knows why. So

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<v Speaker 1>what why is she giving him that treatment? He thinks

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<v Speaker 1>she knows that's coming up seven forty this morning. Hello, Nicole,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing good? How are you June? Well? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>So you're calling about a question here? When do I

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<v Speaker 1>post a picture of your boyfriend on the grid? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you reveal? Yes? Exactly? Like it's kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>a hard launch, Like I've already posted him on my

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<v Speaker 1>story a couple of times. Um, And that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like I just like it's very subtle. People only see

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<v Speaker 1>for twenty four hours, not all my followers see it.

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<v Speaker 1>But like posting on the grid is like that's commitment,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like the next big step. And also like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really want to be that obnoxious couple that's only

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<v Speaker 1>posting if you're if you're with him, If you're with

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<v Speaker 1>him and you're happy with him, why the question? Who can't?

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<v Speaker 1>Why not post it? Yeah? I mean back, Do you

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<v Speaker 1>think it's only been four months? Though? Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that's too soon? Guys? Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys. Guy.

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<v Speaker 1>If you feel good in the relationship, there's no such

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<v Speaker 1>thing as too soon or not too soon? Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>never really Ryan? Yeah, do you ever feel good in

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<v Speaker 1>their relationship? I just don't like to throw in people's faces.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm trying to avoid though, Like, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying like it's a different situation, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it is. You know how long I've been with somebody?

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<v Speaker 1>She she's got four months in Yeah, And you're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>post if you feel it, post if you feel it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just am less personal with my post and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>more like more and more personal here than our posts.

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<v Speaker 1>But Carrie, seems like you use your post to tell

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<v Speaker 1>about your life, right, yes, but if you're doubting it,

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<v Speaker 1>then don't do it. You see what I'm saying, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's a question for you then there's something in

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<v Speaker 1>your head making you think you shouldn't for some reason, right,

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<v Speaker 1>do you month five, it's going to dissolve. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>think she's saying like, once you open that door, you

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<v Speaker 1>just keep posting all these photos of you and your

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<v Speaker 1>significant other and then to be obnoxious. I know, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's a slippery slope once you start. It's like, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>mine's good. I've been really good. But there was a

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<v Speaker 1>moment where I was just posting me and Robbie for it.

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<v Speaker 1>You just need to post when you feel like it,

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<v Speaker 1>Tanya rad Let's take a look. Yeah, all right, it's

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<v Speaker 1>very Tanya. Not a lot of my boyfriend on there. Right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the reason there, because you're very not like that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>because for a moment, like if you scroll a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit down further, all I was posting was photos of

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<v Speaker 1>me and him, and I was like, I'm not that girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I have my own identity. I am more than my

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<v Speaker 1>every say to you walk I'm not I'm not featured. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he does not care. Yeah, let's just find a good balance.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's literally just there's me before anybody else. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you keep scrolling, then you'll see just like

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of him. Are we dancing? Oh? It was

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<v Speaker 1>one of It was one of our photo shoots. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just coming the three of us are dancing somewhere. Carrie,

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<v Speaker 1>go with wherever the wind takes you on this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Good luck. See. I think Carrie thinks something's gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>wrong in month five or six, and that's why she's

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<v Speaker 1>questioning that, not Tanya. It maybe too much Tanya to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you. Well, it's my page, it should be.

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<v Speaker 1>It's her instagram. Yeah, but I keep scrolling, keep going,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're just say all him, it's just all

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<v Speaker 1>me and him. I haven't gotten that far. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of Tanya. It's it's her instagram. If I go

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<v Speaker 1>on your Instagram, every single one of your post is you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not. It should other people. What's my name? Ran? Right? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>It's you and Georgia. Okay, Well, first of all, no,

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<v Speaker 1>the first picture is me and the Idle Cast. He

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<v Speaker 1>has a lot of me. Yeah, but it's your page.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why people. Maybe that's why I don't look at

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<v Speaker 1>me on my page because I don't want to see me, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like now I wish I saw Tanya. I don't see

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<v Speaker 1>her anywhere. Um, does anybody here have an unknown number

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<v Speaker 1>when they call? Um? You're the only one I have it? Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So if I call you, it says unknown right like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I know it's you. For that reason, should

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<v Speaker 1>I change the backfires? You don't be sure it's me, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure you sure you're the only unknown number

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<v Speaker 1>that calls me? All right, Well, there are still unknown

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<v Speaker 1>numbers circulating, so they say, because now with all the

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<v Speaker 1>spam calls that we get these days, we rarely answer

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<v Speaker 1>something that we don't know. But if you numbers look

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<v Speaker 1>like your number, well that they do, and that's trickery

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<v Speaker 1>dequary doc. But if you do, don't say the word.

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<v Speaker 1>If you answer an unknow number, don't say the word yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes a person calling will say can you hear me

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<v Speaker 1>to coax you into saying the word yes. And once

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<v Speaker 1>the scammera has a recording of your voice saying yes,

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<v Speaker 1>they can authorize all kinds of charges. Oh it's terrible,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the world we are in, and they can

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<v Speaker 1>just take they can just edit that yes up and

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<v Speaker 1>use it. Just be aware of that. Don't answer the

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<v Speaker 1>unknown number. Know you will never answer my call. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that your phone now tell you spam risk. How

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<v Speaker 1>about when it says might be somebody? I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>how do they know it might be them? Oh? Because

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<v Speaker 1>it's like in your email or something. So because it

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<v Speaker 1>might be Tanya not okay? Linked to a number and

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<v Speaker 1>an email like it scans like your whole phone and

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<v Speaker 1>it knows. Can I be honest with you guys about something? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been thinking about your tongues for the last I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know how many minutes. What took you so long? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking about like how gross tongues are, and

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<v Speaker 1>like I was thinking, like, I like my boyfriend's tongue,

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<v Speaker 1>but your tongues like really gross me out. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>really seen our tongues? I don't think so, but like

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about like licking your tongues makes me feel really weird.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't think about right, you should stop that immediately,

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<v Speaker 1>go back to thinking about Robbie's tongue and not ours.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I don't know, it's where my brain went. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>and we like for its harassment that I was more

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable talking about scammers than that. Right, here's the here's

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<v Speaker 1>a quote, don't let fear trick you into leading a

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<v Speaker 1>boring life. Go for it on air with Ryan Segrez. Alright,

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<v Speaker 1>m Ryan's rose is coming up after seven sist me

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<v Speaker 1>with the headlines. So Twitter is said to be nearing

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<v Speaker 1>a deal to sell itself to Elon Musk, according to

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<v Speaker 1>The New York Times and other outlets, eleven days after

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<v Speaker 1>he shocked the industry by offering to buy the company,

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<v Speaker 1>and a deal value in more than forty one billion dollars,

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<v Speaker 1>a deal could be finalized as soon as today, according

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<v Speaker 1>to The Wall Street Journal. Now moving over to Coachella,

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<v Speaker 1>Harry styles Man he brought a Lizzo on stage for

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend two of his headlining Coachella set. The crowd

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<v Speaker 1>in India went wild as they sang one directions what

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<v Speaker 1>makes You Beautiful and I Will Survive while twinning in

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<v Speaker 1>feather embellished Gucci coats. They looked incredible. And if you're

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<v Speaker 1>a RAMS fan, l a. Rams fans are getting a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to see the Vince Lombardi Trophy in person can

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<v Speaker 1>pose for pictures as it goes on tour all over

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<v Speaker 1>so Cal I didn't even know that this was a thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but yes, apparently the trophy is going on tour, an

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<v Speaker 1>eleven stop tour to be exact, all over southern California

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<v Speaker 1>and even Mexico. Yesterday it was in Inglewood and the

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<v Speaker 1>next stop is going to be the Santa Monica pre

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<v Speaker 1>on Saturday, April. So this coming week the tour is

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<v Speaker 1>free and it's open to the general public. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you're a RAMS fan, you have your chance to go

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<v Speaker 1>take a picture with a Vince Lambartie Trophy this weekend

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<v Speaker 1>on the Santa Monica Pere on air with Ryan Seacrest.

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<v Speaker 1>We're getting into Ryan's roses. So it's the husband writing

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<v Speaker 1>into a saying I think my wife's cheating. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>happening at seven this morning, we're about to give you

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<v Speaker 1>five in spring cash and the bonus of winning a

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<v Speaker 1>for Broncos Sport. First, Melissa here on this Monday. Melissa,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning, how you doing Hi? Good morning, Ryan, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing well? So you have a question for us? Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so I am. I don't know if you would be

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<v Speaker 1>the best to answer this, so like I that could

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<v Speaker 1>be wrong. I love my my my boyfriend's family. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to really like them, UM, but ever since

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<v Speaker 1>his sister has gotten um engaged and they've been planning

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<v Speaker 1>her wedding. I have just met the complete office that

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<v Speaker 1>they are monsters. So you don't like your boyfriend's family.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate saying that, but I don't. I don't. It's

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, they're just the complete opposite of how I

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<v Speaker 1>it's when I met them for the first time. So

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<v Speaker 1>I may have gone back and forth on this over

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<v Speaker 1>my time, but it's a deal breaker for me. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a deal breaker for me because you know you you

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<v Speaker 1>are your family, right, so you are you are with

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<v Speaker 1>their family, and whatever is going on with the family

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<v Speaker 1>most likely is going to come to fruition with your boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just too much agony to have to avoid

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<v Speaker 1>an entire family in a relationship have been life. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just too much. So I think I've I've become clear

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<v Speaker 1>on this deal breaker. Families everything, and if it's not working.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus I like big long lunches with the family, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so now that's not gonna happen. No, but you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>she said she's liked them up until this point. This

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a pressure situation. I think they're monsters. Well, weddings

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<v Speaker 1>bring up the worst than people. This is your boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not married, no, they're planning a wedding. Yea. So,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know if it's just because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're you know, anxious, or the sister's wedding. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>sister's wedding, their planning, right, yeah, okay, So I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I'm clear if you don't, I don't know what the

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<v Speaker 1>extent of the not like or the monster ish is.

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<v Speaker 1>But for me, the family's got to be in mhm.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't want to hear that. Well, then maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>was the wrong person to ask. I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a deal breaker, um there there, it's just at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, they're just they give you know, um

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<v Speaker 1>the very maniputalist. And I don't know if it's just

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, weddings do this to people. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not like this, and I hate to punish him,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because he's not He's not like that yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I mean, have you ever heard the apple

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't far off fall far from the tree. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>we have, an apple on a tree. We're in a forest. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't have to repeat the cycle. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>your parents are a certain ways. I mean, you're the

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<v Speaker 1>you got you gotta decide for you the severity. For me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a deal breaker, Relissa, right now, alright, maybe it's fixable.

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<v Speaker 1>So Tony, if you didn't like Robbie's family, that wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be a deal breaker for you. No, I like his family,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm not in this situation. But I think that

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<v Speaker 1>planning weddings brings out the worst in people. And she's

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<v Speaker 1>saying that they she's liked them up to this point points,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's like, why should planning weddings bring out the

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<v Speaker 1>worst in people? To that's weird, massive celebration. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>a good statement either. No, but I think it does

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<v Speaker 1>because people want their way and everybody wants to do

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<v Speaker 1>what they want. It's become yeah, hello, all right, situation

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't bring up the worst in people? No, it can.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you planned the wedding? No, but do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what many calls we have of everybody saying like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so brought up the best of my sister and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a happy time planning our wedding. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have one. Like, situation's stressful, that's all. Something's gone wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's that stressful now where it's like people are

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<v Speaker 1>having to seek advice for the mother people because parents

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<v Speaker 1>are so bad, Like it was never anything like that

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<v Speaker 1>on air with Ryan Seacres. All right, so listen to this.

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<v Speaker 1>A husband wrote to us wanting us to call his wife.

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<v Speaker 1>He thinks his wife is cheating because she's not there.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just totally withdrawn. So that's minutes away. First, I

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<v Speaker 1>really have a streaming overflow fatigue, right like I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of do too. I agree, I have subscription fatigue. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what it is, like. I can't subscribe to another thing, right.

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<v Speaker 1>The only thing I used to subscribe to was National

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<v Speaker 1>Geographic and Sports Illustrated when I was a kid. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta subscribe to everything, and so I'm having sub fatigue,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess happens. And with more apps for us to get,

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<v Speaker 1>there's just two freeze these are really good. Is a subscription,

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<v Speaker 1>but the other one free our subscription. Okay, my Netflix

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<v Speaker 1>is a sub This is going to make their their

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<v Speaker 1>stuff cheaper with with ads, so there you go. Um okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I recently discovered out of Office or simply oh I

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<v Speaker 1>like that if you lookay. So it's essentially an app

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<v Speaker 1>that recommends places to travel or um restaurants to eat

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<v Speaker 1>at in certain cities, and these are based off of

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<v Speaker 1>people like influencers or people that you eventually start following,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you guys joined, then you would put your

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<v Speaker 1>recommendations on there and I would follow you, and like

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan recommends this restaurant in whatever city, and it wos

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<v Speaker 1>been really good for you, Ryan, because you've traveled so

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<v Speaker 1>like across the whole United States, like you probably have

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<v Speaker 1>like such cool restaurants that you've been to. So for example,

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<v Speaker 1>I went on there and I put my favorite sousial

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<v Speaker 1>restaurants here in l A to places that I've eaten

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<v Speaker 1>in Hawaii. Um, the place that I honeymooned at in St. Lucia,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've never been to to Loom, so I searched

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<v Speaker 1>to Loom and then all of a sudden, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a curated itinerary essentially of these are the best resorts

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<v Speaker 1>to stay at, or this is the best place to

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<v Speaker 1>get cheap tacos, or this is you know what I mean. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's really like curated to whatever vacation you want

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<v Speaker 1>to take, and it's ad and it's all user generated

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<v Speaker 1>based on people that have actually been there and experienced

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<v Speaker 1>these restaurants, hotels. What Britain maybe you said out of

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<v Speaker 1>office app or whatever. I thought it was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a way that my text will respond I'm out

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<v Speaker 1>of the office and not available. I need that Where's

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<v Speaker 1>that app? But what that comes between this app and

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<v Speaker 1>like Google? If I go to Google and say like

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<v Speaker 1>best restaurants, Because when you do Google, it gives you

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<v Speaker 1>like it's like overload. It's like you go to like

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<v Speaker 1>a company advisors and like all this stuff. Yeah, like

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<v Speaker 1>this is a little bit more manicured and it's and

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like when you go on Instagram and

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<v Speaker 1>you see like all these influencers that post like amazing

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<v Speaker 1>photos from these are the people that they targeted first.

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<v Speaker 1>It's them putting all this stuff. So it's like really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>like cute places to go to. Dude. Okay. The second

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<v Speaker 1>one is called clean Up And this one is very simple.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know how you have duplicate pictures, like I

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<v Speaker 1>have twenty of the same pictures, you get on this

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<v Speaker 1>app and it it scans your photos and it's right,

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<v Speaker 1>it s it shows you a choice, so it gives

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<v Speaker 1>you like, here are your twenty dupes. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>one you want to keep. These are the ones that

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<v Speaker 1>I've checked off for you to delete, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>can scan it and say okay delete And is easy

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<v Speaker 1>with my phone too by just going because if you

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<v Speaker 1>go with your finger and you go through whatever, it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to take you time to like really make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that you're deleting which ones you want to delete. And

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<v Speaker 1>then after you delete, let's say a two D pictures

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<v Speaker 1>at once, it tells you this just saved you ten

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<v Speaker 1>minutes of scrolling because you just use this app, and

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<v Speaker 1>it does it with your contacts. If you have duplicate contacts,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, sometimes I have likes, it'll merge everything onto

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<v Speaker 1>one person for you. It's really cool. Wait, which one

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<v Speaker 1>is the one you have to pay for clean up?

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<v Speaker 1>So clean up as a free trial. Otherwise I'll charge

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<v Speaker 1>you like five bucks a month or a year or

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<v Speaker 1>something like fo I'm gonna do out of office? Do

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<v Speaker 1>out of office? Really? Can you guys find me the

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<v Speaker 1>one that will send an automatic text reply that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>out of the office. You have my email does that,

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<v Speaker 1>but the text doesn't do that, so that we need that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it exists. I'm seeing it. It's time for Ryan's roses.

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<v Speaker 1>Here on kids, let me pull up Stephen who wrote

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<v Speaker 1>to us in Northridge. He says, my wife's been acting

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<v Speaker 1>more withdrawn. I don't want to do anything at all,

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<v Speaker 1>socially physically. So what do you think is going on? Stephen?

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<v Speaker 1>You think you have a hunch. What do you think? Well, so,

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<v Speaker 1>her friend Gloria has this brother named Mike, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>Glory and I have never really gotten in the long

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<v Speaker 1>and Glory has always been trying to get Mike and together.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, I just know he got out of

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship and he's hanging around a bit more. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not usually the Jost type, but this is bothering me.

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<v Speaker 1>So hold on, let me understand. Gloria is who to you?

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<v Speaker 1>She's my wife's friend, all right, and she's always been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to set your wife up with another dude. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>her brother. It's just so weird. So why did your

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<v Speaker 1>wife stay friend with her? She's been trying to sabotage

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship. Well, I mean, I don't know, they've been

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<v Speaker 1>friends forever. I it's not worth like we fight about

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<v Speaker 1>this all the time, and I'm and I'm done fighting

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<v Speaker 1>about it, except like you know, he was in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship for a while and now he's not, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm over it. It's I don't know, maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>likes it, flirting with him or something. Do you understand

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening here? Do you know all the players you've got?

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<v Speaker 1>So there's Stephen, there's the friend Gloria, there's his wife,

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<v Speaker 1>and then there's this other guy, Mike, who is Mike

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<v Speaker 1>her brother. Mike is Gloria's brother. All right, this is

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<v Speaker 1>like the kid who hung out, you know, when they

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<v Speaker 1>were growing up. So there's probably some deep down rooted feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, just follow me on this, make sure I

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<v Speaker 1>set this up right. But Stephen reached out dust and said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>my wife is withdrawn. She's completely withdrawn. There's nothing going

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<v Speaker 1>on here. There's no no physical, no social And I

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<v Speaker 1>think what's happening is um her friend Gloria is trying

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<v Speaker 1>to set her up with Gloria's brother Mike. Why would

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<v Speaker 1>your wife be interested in that? Though? I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I just know that like I try to

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<v Speaker 1>make her happy. I try to do all these things,

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<v Speaker 1>and she doesn't want to hang out with me. But

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<v Speaker 1>like every now and then she's talking with Gloria and Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's got plans with Glory and Mike, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't know. I think something is going on.

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<v Speaker 1>How long you guys get married? Just like four years?

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<v Speaker 1>And how long have they known each other? I meant, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do this. We're gonna call it. Just I need

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<v Speaker 1>you to say, Ryan, you have my permission to call,

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<v Speaker 1>and then her name on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>you have my permission to call. We're gonna do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Be very quiet until we find out what's going on

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<v Speaker 1>with her. Okay, okay, here we go, says you have

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<v Speaker 1>a plan. Yes, I do. All right, well we'll see

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<v Speaker 1>it on fall. Here we go. Hello, his is Natalie.

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<v Speaker 1>It is hi Natalie. My name is Phoebe. I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>from the fabulous floorst. How are you doing this morning?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine, I'm fine. How are you? I'm good. So

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<v Speaker 1>we have a delivery for you in Northridge today. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a beautiful arrangement. Um, but I don't have the

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<v Speaker 1>actual art systems went down this morning, so I just

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<v Speaker 1>have your your number and the city, and for whatever reason,

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<v Speaker 1>the address is not popping up. But these are gorgeous flowers.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get out to you by lunchtime if

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<v Speaker 1>you can just confirm that we can get them to you.

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<v Speaker 1>My drivers already in the vehicle. They are from Let

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<v Speaker 1>me see if I can let me see. Yes, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>they are from Mike. Oh oh um, yeah, sure, so

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<v Speaker 1>you just seen my address? Correct? Um? Okay? Sure? Um. Natalie,

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<v Speaker 1>your voice, Natalie, hold on, your voice is being broadcast

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio. We have your husband Stephen on the line.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would Mike be sending you flowers? And then you'd

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<v Speaker 1>be excited about it? Mm hmmm um oh wait, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>your voice is on the radio. We have your husband,

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<v Speaker 1>Stephen on the line. You were just receiving flowers from

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<v Speaker 1>Mike with a lot of enthusiasm. Steven's wondering why and

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on with Mike? Um, nothing's going on with Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is Mike? Natalie, who is Mike? Who is he?

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<v Speaker 1>He's just a friend. Why would he be flowers? God's

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<v Speaker 1>UM's friend? And even you tell Natalie what you think

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<v Speaker 1>is going on? Well, I mean, I'm calling her out

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<v Speaker 1>right now on the radio because she's Mike, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just think everyone should know. So I figure if I've

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<v Speaker 1>walked in and had to see that in my own house,

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<v Speaker 1>then everyone deserves to know. Wow. Wait eat in your

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<v Speaker 1>own house. Yeah. I came home, I saw you and

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<v Speaker 1>Mike together. I left. That was hard. I didn't say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So you should be grateful that this is my reaction.

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<v Speaker 1>And I hope that they replay this all the time

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<v Speaker 1>for years so people always remember what a horrible, hurtful

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<v Speaker 1>person you are. Not. I'm sorry. Oh, I'm sorry because

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<v Speaker 1>one time I totally was going to cut it off.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm really sorry run by it. I don't buy it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't buy So Stephen, you obviously knew this was happening,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is your way of exposing it. Natalie. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what to say. So you admit

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<v Speaker 1>to it, Natalie obviously, and you say you're cutting it off.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that that does any good to say

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<v Speaker 1>you're cutting it off. You're not cutting it off. You're

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<v Speaker 1>excited for the flower exactly cutting it off. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's it. Case is closed on this, Stephen. Good luck, man,

0:26:31.080 --> 0:26:34.119
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for reaching out. Yeah. Thanks, We're gonna let

0:26:34.160 --> 0:26:41.920
<v Speaker 1>you both go here. I'm sorry, she's not cutting it off,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Ryan's so this I don't have a real

0:26:46.359 --> 0:26:49.000
<v Speaker 1>issue with what Stephen did. Honestly, so, but basically Stephen

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<v Speaker 1>Wrights does and says, I think my wife' cheating on me. Well,

0:26:51.560 --> 0:26:54.240
<v Speaker 1>he already knew she was because he walked in on

0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:59.880
<v Speaker 1>his wife with another man named Mike, and he didn't

0:27:00.160 --> 0:27:02.639
<v Speaker 1>was that till we found out after the call. But

0:27:03.680 --> 0:27:06.960
<v Speaker 1>he said, hey, I saw you with Mike. I left,

0:27:07.040 --> 0:27:09.480
<v Speaker 1>and this is how I'm exposing it. You should be

0:27:09.520 --> 0:27:11.719
<v Speaker 1>glad I'm doing it this way, not there in person.

0:27:12.480 --> 0:27:14.600
<v Speaker 1>And then he said, I hope you know this plays

0:27:14.640 --> 0:27:16.560
<v Speaker 1>over and over again so people can hear what a horrible,

0:27:16.640 --> 0:27:22.120
<v Speaker 1>hurtful person you are. I really don't have a big

0:27:22.440 --> 0:27:25.920
<v Speaker 1>problem with what Stephen did. And she, his wife, said,

0:27:26.320 --> 0:27:29.280
<v Speaker 1>but honey, I'm so sorry. I'm cutting it off. It

0:27:29.400 --> 0:27:32.600
<v Speaker 1>was a one time thing, so that's what happened, right,

0:27:32.720 --> 0:27:34.719
<v Speaker 1>She's not cleaning it off because she was very excited

0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:36.800
<v Speaker 1>for the flowers. She was like, oh my god, it's

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:41.920
<v Speaker 1>so sweet. Yeah, that blows up that theory. But Tony,

0:27:41.960 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 1>you don't like what Stephen did, No, because I don't

0:27:44.040 --> 0:27:46.879
<v Speaker 1>think two wrongs make a right, and I think it's petty.

0:27:47.520 --> 0:27:50.520
<v Speaker 1>I think that the good is going to come to

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:52.560
<v Speaker 1>him and his next relationship, and he's going to find

0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:55.280
<v Speaker 1>somebody that treats him right and is super loyal, and

0:27:55.400 --> 0:27:58.639
<v Speaker 1>I think she's gonna end up with either Mike or

0:27:58.680 --> 0:28:01.680
<v Speaker 1>somebody that's going to be what she deserves. And I

0:28:01.720 --> 0:28:03.639
<v Speaker 1>don't think he needed to come on here and do this,

0:28:03.840 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 1>but to each their own. I just think character is everything.

0:28:07.680 --> 0:28:12.159
<v Speaker 1>So I think that Stephen should not except it's just

0:28:12.280 --> 0:28:14.720
<v Speaker 1>a one time thing and like it didn't happen, and

0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:18.600
<v Speaker 1>the depth of their situation. But it seems like you

0:28:18.680 --> 0:28:22.200
<v Speaker 1>gotta cut your losses, cut your losses. And it was

0:28:22.520 --> 0:28:25.399
<v Speaker 1>it was revenge. He was hurt. He did something to

0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:29.200
<v Speaker 1>hurt her back by publicly humiliating her. But that's not miice,

0:28:30.520 --> 0:28:38.280
<v Speaker 1>she cheated. That's not right. Yeah, if you cheat on

0:28:38.360 --> 0:28:44.400
<v Speaker 1>me out here comes the fing like good morning and

0:28:44.440 --> 0:28:47.640
<v Speaker 1>then eyes, what do you think I mean? I was

0:28:47.760 --> 0:28:50.840
<v Speaker 1>taken back. I mean you can never regain that jug back,

0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:53.720
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Like right, I was the

0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 1>first time I was baffled by the situation that like

0:28:57.200 --> 0:28:59.520
<v Speaker 1>she I did it in their home and then like

0:28:59.680 --> 0:29:02.200
<v Speaker 1>he knew about it and even held his composure because

0:29:02.200 --> 0:29:07.760
<v Speaker 1>I tried for years with my head. Yeah, and I honestly,

0:29:07.840 --> 0:29:10.120
<v Speaker 1>you just can't go back to like you and you

0:29:10.240 --> 0:29:13.760
<v Speaker 1>think you can, but you really can't because it eats

0:29:13.800 --> 0:29:17.760
<v Speaker 1>you alive all the time. Once that that toxic voice

0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:20.360
<v Speaker 1>is set off, it doesn't stop. I'm with you, Willa. Well,

0:29:20.400 --> 0:29:23.400
<v Speaker 1>thank you very much for calling you. Take care all right,

0:29:23.480 --> 0:29:30.320
<v Speaker 1>thank you. On air with Ryan Seacrest, Hey, it's true,

0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:32.720
<v Speaker 1>we do have your Wango Tango tickets. In a second,

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<v Speaker 1>Batania was saying in this trending report, your phone background

0:29:36.800 --> 0:29:41.239
<v Speaker 1>says a lot about you. Often I forget to check

0:29:41.320 --> 0:29:43.720
<v Speaker 1>my background. I have a feeling I know what yours

0:29:43.840 --> 0:29:46.680
<v Speaker 1>is and it's so on brand. Wait you talk about

0:29:46.680 --> 0:29:52.080
<v Speaker 1>my my animated background or general background, your phone background

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:57.560
<v Speaker 1>like background on your phone. Don't show me yet, because

0:29:57.560 --> 0:29:59.680
<v Speaker 1>I want to tell you why. I want to tell

0:29:59.680 --> 0:30:03.800
<v Speaker 1>you why I thought about this. Okay. So Gwyneth Paltrow,

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<v Speaker 1>she was talking about how her kids made her change

0:30:07.800 --> 0:30:10.240
<v Speaker 1>her home screen from her phone because what she had

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:14.400
<v Speaker 1>was a shirtless photo of her husband, Brad Fault Chuck

0:30:15.000 --> 0:30:17.240
<v Speaker 1>and so it's just like a shirtless picture of him,

0:30:17.240 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 1>and her kids basically said, like change this. They took

0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:23.360
<v Speaker 1>a selfie of themselves and she took that selfie and

0:30:23.440 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 1>made that her home screen background. But first of all,

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I do want to say that I'm just like obsessed

0:30:29.120 --> 0:30:31.720
<v Speaker 1>with Jyneth Paltrow and Brad Fault Chuck. I don't know

0:30:31.840 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 1>them personally, but I just subscribed to that relationship. I

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<v Speaker 1>love them. And then I started thinking about home screens,

0:30:40.400 --> 0:30:42.400
<v Speaker 1>lock screens, and I feel like they say a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about you. So I wanted to go around the room

0:30:45.480 --> 0:30:50.680
<v Speaker 1>and share ours. Heay cicity. So the lock screen not

0:30:51.320 --> 0:30:53.240
<v Speaker 1>not when you open up your do you have different mine?

0:30:53.240 --> 0:30:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Are the same? Mine? Is? I have different ones? So

0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:57.840
<v Speaker 1>that's my lock screen. Okay, So it's a picture of

0:30:57.880 --> 0:31:01.720
<v Speaker 1>your kids and then um, when you go inside my phone,

0:31:01.920 --> 0:31:06.400
<v Speaker 1>it is like a background of like an ocean. Oh unexpected.

0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:09.440
<v Speaker 1>I thought would be more kids twist, yeah, plot twist.

0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:11.960
<v Speaker 1>Why is that? I don't know. I thought it would

0:31:11.960 --> 0:31:14.160
<v Speaker 1>be more. I thought it would just be all your kids. Yeah,

0:31:15.160 --> 0:31:16.160
<v Speaker 1>how do you said? Do you think you know what

0:31:16.240 --> 0:31:18.280
<v Speaker 1>mine is? Yes? Okay, what do you think it is?

0:31:18.520 --> 0:31:20.960
<v Speaker 1>I think your's is the standard lock screen that has

0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:24.800
<v Speaker 1>like the starry stars or like whatever, the standard one,

0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:29.320
<v Speaker 1>which is the lock screen? This one trees? What is that?

0:31:29.480 --> 0:31:33.440
<v Speaker 1>It's olive trees and a wine vineyard. Yeah, you got it.

0:31:34.920 --> 0:31:39.160
<v Speaker 1>It's it's olives and grapes. You know you're not you

0:31:39.360 --> 0:31:41.800
<v Speaker 1>know you're unmarried with kids who we have alives and

0:31:41.840 --> 0:31:45.120
<v Speaker 1>grapes as your whole locks tree. I knew it was

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:47.239
<v Speaker 1>going to be a Hey, guys, I'm telling you right

0:31:47.280 --> 0:31:50.479
<v Speaker 1>now the future is in my olive oil business. Honestly,

0:31:50.560 --> 0:31:53.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm more impressed that you actually have like a like

0:31:53.680 --> 0:31:56.320
<v Speaker 1>he knows how to do that with respect. I didn't

0:31:56.360 --> 0:31:58.080
<v Speaker 1>do this myself. Someone how to help me, I know.

0:31:58.280 --> 0:32:00.480
<v Speaker 1>But the fact that you did it, I am. I

0:32:00.640 --> 0:32:04.200
<v Speaker 1>am joking. I was wrong. Yeah, what's yours? Mine is

0:32:04.280 --> 0:32:06.560
<v Speaker 1>a It's like a thing um that a scrubbing in

0:32:06.640 --> 0:32:09.000
<v Speaker 1>sister made me. And it says I'm a modern woman.

0:32:10.480 --> 0:32:12.040
<v Speaker 1>It's like pink with like the words I'm a modern

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:13.959
<v Speaker 1>woman on and do you ever change it to Robbie

0:32:14.240 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 1>or a scene like I like to look at a

0:32:16.400 --> 0:32:18.880
<v Speaker 1>scene to take me away. No, I've never changed it

0:32:18.960 --> 0:32:23.080
<v Speaker 1>in many, many years. Tops, is you're still a shirtless

0:32:23.120 --> 0:32:27.120
<v Speaker 1>picture of Brad fault chick got me? I like the

0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:29.080
<v Speaker 1>shirtless pain. Maybe I should put that as my home

0:32:29.120 --> 0:32:34.719
<v Speaker 1>screen the beach yesh see that's it? Yes? Maybe it's

0:32:34.760 --> 0:32:37.520
<v Speaker 1>a Is it a? Is it a usting. I think

0:32:37.800 --> 0:32:42.320
<v Speaker 1>I have scenery, our scenery. He has scenery, right, Yeah,

0:32:42.320 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 1>I have scenery. Went inside. I have kids. So if

0:32:45.440 --> 0:32:50.320
<v Speaker 1>we are kids who have kids up there, yeah I would.

0:32:50.680 --> 0:32:52.520
<v Speaker 1>But until then it's going to be like the Corona Ad,

0:32:53.160 --> 0:32:55.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, the beach and the curs of your dogs

0:32:55.200 --> 0:32:57.600
<v Speaker 1>on your I did for a while, but then I

0:32:57.680 --> 0:33:06.800
<v Speaker 1>decided that I rotate seasonally. M Nice. A lot of

0:33:06.880 --> 0:33:08.959
<v Speaker 1>layers to the onion here that you've yet to discover

0:33:09.040 --> 0:33:13.000
<v Speaker 1>in fifteen years. No Wango Tango. We're gonna be hosting

0:33:13.040 --> 0:33:17.160
<v Speaker 1>that in person Live with You June four, Dignity Health

0:33:18.440 --> 0:33:24.080
<v Speaker 1>Sports Park. It's a big, big title on air with

0:33:24.440 --> 0:33:28.320
<v Speaker 1>Ryan Secrets. You know, this job comes with a lot

0:33:28.400 --> 0:33:31.840
<v Speaker 1>of responsibilities, duties and pressures. One or two point seven

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<v Speaker 1>kiss FM, one of which is about to happen here

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<v Speaker 1>syson me meet Jackie Martinez and sent to Anna. Hi Jackie, Hi,

0:33:41.480 --> 0:33:46.000
<v Speaker 1>how are you? It's me and Michael, Jackie and Michael.

0:33:47.000 --> 0:33:53.040
<v Speaker 1>Good time, K I S S I N G. First

0:33:53.120 --> 0:33:57.920
<v Speaker 1>comes love, then comes marriage, when there comes the baby,

0:33:58.000 --> 0:34:01.560
<v Speaker 1>and then marriage the baby car comes eventually to all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So is it true you you want Sissy to name

0:34:04.600 --> 0:34:09.239
<v Speaker 1>your baby? I do I would love that. I've been thinking, well,

0:34:09.320 --> 0:34:11.759
<v Speaker 1>we've been thinking of names, and you know, we like

0:34:11.960 --> 0:34:15.239
<v Speaker 1>a couple, but um, nothing is really cooling at my

0:34:15.320 --> 0:34:18.480
<v Speaker 1>heart strings yet. All right, So now I guess to

0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 1>get started here. What you were talking about? That person

0:34:21.200 --> 0:34:25.400
<v Speaker 1>that charges to name people's babies. There's a woman that

0:34:25.480 --> 0:34:28.120
<v Speaker 1>charges anywhere from a thousand to ten thousand, depending on

0:34:28.239 --> 0:34:30.840
<v Speaker 1>how involved she is. So it's like, I mean, I

0:34:30.880 --> 0:34:33.080
<v Speaker 1>think she was actually a duelah, so if she becomes

0:34:33.120 --> 0:34:35.560
<v Speaker 1>your duel, that's like a whole other thing. But um,

0:34:35.719 --> 0:34:37.719
<v Speaker 1>so I thought, well, why don't I do this? But

0:34:37.840 --> 0:34:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I will. I will charge nothing because I'm just getting

0:34:41.120 --> 0:34:44.120
<v Speaker 1>started in my baby naming business, and I will do

0:34:44.200 --> 0:34:46.640
<v Speaker 1>it for free for a few lucky listeners. So how

0:34:46.680 --> 0:34:49.040
<v Speaker 1>do you, even, Jackie, how do we start the process?

0:34:50.360 --> 0:34:54.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I am well, I have a one

0:34:54.440 --> 0:34:59.319
<v Speaker 1>sheet that I already have prepared for this, for this instant, yes,

0:34:59.680 --> 0:35:02.800
<v Speaker 1>and for like anybody that calls in, For anybody that

0:35:02.880 --> 0:35:05.080
<v Speaker 1>calls in, I had a template. You like, if you

0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:07.440
<v Speaker 1>need to spend some time with Jackie and Michael before

0:35:07.480 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 1>you just ran up names for their baby. No, I

0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:12.120
<v Speaker 1>definitely do. I don't. We're not going to get to

0:35:12.200 --> 0:35:15.880
<v Speaker 1>the name on this call Michael for a second, I

0:35:16.000 --> 0:35:18.960
<v Speaker 1>hear Michael, I hear Jackie there. Now let's just say

0:35:19.040 --> 0:35:23.440
<v Speaker 1>that Sisson E the name Crusader gets to know you.

0:35:23.480 --> 0:35:25.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, she almost needs to be embedded for a

0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:28.040
<v Speaker 1>little while to understand your whole vibe. Yeah, tell us

0:35:28.080 --> 0:35:29.960
<v Speaker 1>about your vibe. What do you guys do? What do

0:35:30.040 --> 0:35:32.440
<v Speaker 1>you like? Well, these are my questions. Just wait, you're

0:35:32.520 --> 0:35:39.960
<v Speaker 1>you're getting into Okay, where did you guys meet? Where

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:44.600
<v Speaker 1>did you guys meet? We met online dating? Actually, yeah,

0:35:44.760 --> 0:35:50.440
<v Speaker 1>two years ago. Okay, and then where was your first date?

0:35:50.560 --> 0:35:53.600
<v Speaker 1>Like city wise or even the place? It was in

0:35:53.640 --> 0:35:56.040
<v Speaker 1>the l A at a park. Yeah, so he actually

0:35:56.120 --> 0:35:58.960
<v Speaker 1>flew out because he's a pilot, so he flew out

0:35:59.160 --> 0:36:00.800
<v Speaker 1>to go see me in l A. He lived in

0:36:00.920 --> 0:36:05.480
<v Speaker 1>where he lived in Orange County and um yeah, and yeah,

0:36:06.160 --> 0:36:08.080
<v Speaker 1>a little picnic basket. So we had a picnic at

0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:11.279
<v Speaker 1>a park for our first take. Mike, what kind of

0:36:11.320 --> 0:36:15.759
<v Speaker 1>equipment do you fly? Aircraft? So, A fly aircraft. So

0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:19.400
<v Speaker 1>I flew up to the airport and unfortunately the airport

0:36:19.440 --> 0:36:21.600
<v Speaker 1>gives you like free rental cars or free cars to

0:36:21.719 --> 0:36:23.960
<v Speaker 1>use when you get there. So they gave me a

0:36:24.040 --> 0:36:30.040
<v Speaker 1>creeper van when I first met her to pop in

0:36:30.200 --> 0:36:37.760
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, uh my, mom, Okay, what cities

0:36:37.800 --> 0:36:41.400
<v Speaker 1>have you guys traveled to outside of l A standard?

0:36:41.840 --> 0:36:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean everywhere? I mean, so don't I mean every

0:36:45.040 --> 0:36:46.719
<v Speaker 1>city in the US. I mean, I'm a pilot, so

0:36:46.800 --> 0:36:51.560
<v Speaker 1>I traveled quite awesome. Okay about Countrylado is one of

0:36:51.640 --> 0:36:57.480
<v Speaker 1>our favorite places, happy place, happy friend. You guys are

0:36:57.520 --> 0:37:01.840
<v Speaker 1>super cute, happy place, Thank you. And then anything outside

0:37:01.880 --> 0:37:05.880
<v Speaker 1>of the US favorite countries. Well, I was born in Japan,

0:37:06.040 --> 0:37:09.799
<v Speaker 1>so I mean, I love Japan. So Michael born. Now

0:37:10.600 --> 0:37:11.960
<v Speaker 1>this could go on forever, but what do you do

0:37:12.080 --> 0:37:13.680
<v Speaker 1>now with these answers to come up with a name

0:37:13.719 --> 0:37:16.520
<v Speaker 1>that you would recommend for their child? And it's just

0:37:16.719 --> 0:37:19.200
<v Speaker 1>things that I'm going to morph from, like the fact

0:37:19.239 --> 0:37:20.960
<v Speaker 1>that he was born in Japan. That opens up a

0:37:21.040 --> 0:37:23.520
<v Speaker 1>whole can of worms of like Japanese words and names

0:37:23.560 --> 0:37:26.120
<v Speaker 1>and things that we can intertwine with them. You love that,

0:37:26.880 --> 0:37:30.080
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean that I feel uncomfortable and

0:37:30.239 --> 0:37:32.759
<v Speaker 1>I have so many more questions for you guys, not

0:37:32.920 --> 0:37:35.120
<v Speaker 1>for us. Let me just let me just wrap it

0:37:35.160 --> 0:37:36.480
<v Speaker 1>up real quick, and then we're gonna have to take

0:37:36.520 --> 0:37:37.800
<v Speaker 1>some of these off air, because I think they're a

0:37:37.800 --> 0:37:43.440
<v Speaker 1>little personal, like your mom's name. Okay, okay, but for now, um,

0:37:43.760 --> 0:37:49.120
<v Speaker 1>do you have a favorite sports team or teams? Not really?

0:37:52.000 --> 0:37:55.120
<v Speaker 1>All right, listen, we're gonna let you guys connect and

0:37:55.719 --> 0:38:01.759
<v Speaker 1>in twenty four hours, Sisney will create a list and

0:38:01.880 --> 0:38:05.600
<v Speaker 1>we'll create a list, and she will run them by

0:38:05.640 --> 0:38:06.960
<v Speaker 1>and we'll see what you think. But this is a

0:38:07.360 --> 0:38:10.839
<v Speaker 1>very interesting challenge here. Don't hang up. You're gonna talk

0:38:10.920 --> 0:38:13.759
<v Speaker 1>to collect and she's gonna ask you. She's going to

0:38:13.840 --> 0:38:17.880
<v Speaker 1>ask you some more questions and then we'll call you. Okay,

0:38:18.200 --> 0:38:21.040
<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on, thank you. What a great story.

0:38:21.200 --> 0:38:24.440
<v Speaker 1>Kind of like love those two. If I was a pilot,

0:38:24.480 --> 0:38:30.320
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like Maverick Wing or something. Wings cute. No,

0:38:30.520 --> 0:38:35.880
<v Speaker 1>it's not is it's original wing? Yeah that sounds like

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:38.560
<v Speaker 1>something you'll regret later. Like yeah, I think wings bad,

0:38:38.920 --> 0:38:43.320
<v Speaker 1>wings fly, wings sore? Through this are in sauce and

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:48.160
<v Speaker 1>blue cheese. I mean, it's not right. Call me up next.

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:50.440
<v Speaker 1>Tell me something good. Eight five to one or two

0:38:50.520 --> 0:38:58.279
<v Speaker 1>seven with Ryan Seagret, it's tell me something good. This

0:38:58.440 --> 0:39:01.239
<v Speaker 1>is really simple. We're gonna do some good. That's enough

0:39:01.360 --> 0:39:04.440
<v Speaker 1>of everything else. So tell me something good. Good morning.

0:39:04.440 --> 0:39:08.600
<v Speaker 1>Who's this Hi, Ryan, This is Teresa Press from Marino Valley.

0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:14.080
<v Speaker 1>Give us some goodness? Hi? Yes, like, uh, you know,

0:39:14.440 --> 0:39:18.200
<v Speaker 1>growing up, I never knew my biological father. Um um.

0:39:18.600 --> 0:39:20.440
<v Speaker 1>In fourth grade, my friend told me that I was

0:39:20.480 --> 0:39:22.759
<v Speaker 1>adopted because I was different. My whole family's white and

0:39:22.800 --> 0:39:25.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm Latina, And so I asked my mom, and my

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<v Speaker 1>mom told me that my dad I grew up were

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<v Speaker 1>just not my real dad. Well he never My real

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<v Speaker 1>dad never knew I existed, and I never knew he was.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the oldest. Um, I'm Latina. My whole family's white.

0:39:36.680 --> 0:39:39.600
<v Speaker 1>I always felt a void. And my cousins paid for

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<v Speaker 1>a DNA test online like two months ago, and we

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<v Speaker 1>found my biological father. He's seventy five years old. He's

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<v Speaker 1>still alive. My mom lives in Picarrivera. He lives and

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<v Speaker 1>Wittier and I have family and brothers, and we met

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<v Speaker 1>like three times, and for Easter we all met, and

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<v Speaker 1>my kids and their kids, and it's just a whole

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<v Speaker 1>new chapter and a whole new book, and it's just so,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm did so, did you meet your biological father? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I did, Yes, I did. Was the first, tell me

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<v Speaker 1>what the first meeting felt like. Oh my gosh. I

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<v Speaker 1>went to his house in Whittier and I walked in

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<v Speaker 1>and my brother met me there, my brother Angel, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just and I have a little brother there,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's an adult. He lives with my dad. And

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<v Speaker 1>if I look so, I look more like him than

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<v Speaker 1>any of them, I believe. And um, it's just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the oldest. And my brother Angel thought he was the oldest,

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<v Speaker 1>is two years under than me. And I have like

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<v Speaker 1>five or six brothers and sisters from their side, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>I just have a whole complete new family. And my

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<v Speaker 1>mom died like seven years ago. My family's falling apart.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, the blessings, I'm so overpaid today and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm just and I'm so in awe over this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just unreal for me. It's I'm so blessed. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that is amazing. We are just feeling a just a

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<v Speaker 1>warm spirit from that. Thank you for calling to you

0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:08.800
<v Speaker 1>or so I'm glad. My my brother's daughter did a

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<v Speaker 1>DNA to a year and a half ago. So if

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<v Speaker 1>I would have did this sooner, I wouldn't have found him.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just didn't mind all from d an a

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<v Speaker 1>A flag in the mouth meant to be well, thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for your care with Ryan Seacrest. Let's grab John John.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me your friends started seeing this guy and what happened? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So they met on Bumble and they've gone on a

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<v Speaker 1>few dates. And the guy told her he didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>any social media and she claimed she couldn't find anything

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<v Speaker 1>when she went looking for him, and she was really

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<v Speaker 1>just curious to find out more about him, especially when

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<v Speaker 1>social media can be so telling nowadays. So I went

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and started looking around to see if I could

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<v Speaker 1>find anything, and unfortunately I did find some stuff. So

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<v Speaker 1>he has a Twitter account and it's very active. I

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<v Speaker 1>saw some very controversial tweets. So now I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what to do. So is your friend is your friend?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying understand that your friend is dating this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>You saw bad tweets and you don't know whether or

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<v Speaker 1>I should tell your friend. Yeah, And I only say

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<v Speaker 1>this because you know. There were some unsavory political tweets. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but the worst ones were about transgender athletes and reacting

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<v Speaker 1>to some recent news stories. And I won't repeat what

0:42:36.960 --> 0:42:40.800
<v Speaker 1>was said, but it was extremely offensive. Um, And I

0:42:40.920 --> 0:42:43.359
<v Speaker 1>want to tell her about them. But I also feel

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<v Speaker 1>feel weird. This is the first time she's dated someone

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<v Speaker 1>in a long time, so I feel like, here's the thing.

0:42:52.239 --> 0:42:56.000
<v Speaker 1>I he said he was not active at all on

0:42:56.080 --> 0:43:01.560
<v Speaker 1>social media, right, Okay? So I mean I think if

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<v Speaker 1>it were me, I would say, hey, I know that

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<v Speaker 1>he told you this. I want to tell you that

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<v Speaker 1>I found tweets and here they are, and you've done

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<v Speaker 1>you don't you need to do? I mean, right, wohld

0:43:13.840 --> 0:43:17.680
<v Speaker 1>you suggest that? I don't think you let it disappear?

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<v Speaker 1>Does he know that you got these tweets or didn't

0:43:25.280 --> 0:43:29.080
<v Speaker 1>like that you were going to investigate? No, And that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. I was clearly just stalking this guy. I

0:43:31.400 --> 0:43:34.400
<v Speaker 1>don't meddle on your own. But you found something that

0:43:34.480 --> 0:43:36.560
<v Speaker 1>he said didn't exist. You should can that over to

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<v Speaker 1>your friend, right, But what if he hands it over

0:43:40.400 --> 0:43:42.799
<v Speaker 1>and the friends like, I don't care, and then now

0:43:42.960 --> 0:43:47.600
<v Speaker 1>there's this big like mess of a thing, and like

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<v Speaker 1>that new boy from the New Guys, It's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I feel I don't think your friends going

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<v Speaker 1>to be upset for you handing over what you just said.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that's true, and you know, John, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you know what you feel like you should really do,

0:43:59.640 --> 0:44:02.279
<v Speaker 1>and and I would I don't I would take I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't think there's a okay, I have an idea.

0:44:05.000 --> 0:44:08.719
<v Speaker 1>I have an idea. Scared, you can make up a

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<v Speaker 1>fake email account and email that guy's Twitter account to

0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:18.480
<v Speaker 1>your friends so it's anonymous. So when his friend finds

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<v Speaker 1>out that he did that later in life, that's not

0:44:20.840 --> 0:44:25.399
<v Speaker 1>good either. That's even that's okay. Give it to your

0:44:25.480 --> 0:44:30.040
<v Speaker 1>roommate to send it via email to your friend. I mean, John,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think you just handed over he

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<v Speaker 1>just said. Look, I know that he told you doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have it. He does. I found it here. You go

0:44:36.440 --> 0:44:40.800
<v Speaker 1>and walk away a good friend. But then you're getting

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle. M That's that's my opinion. John. Alright,

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<v Speaker 1>good luck, sorry you in this predicament, all right, see

0:44:51.320 --> 0:44:58.400
<v Speaker 1>you later, weird. I would certainly what any friend of

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<v Speaker 1>mind that discover heard something that I was told didn't

0:45:01.000 --> 0:45:05.120
<v Speaker 1>exist to tell me to exists for sure. But your

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<v Speaker 1>reaction would be like, okay, by like I don't need

0:45:07.800 --> 0:45:09.920
<v Speaker 1>to have this person in my life if that's what

0:45:10.000 --> 0:45:12.000
<v Speaker 1>they said way back in the day, you know, but

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<v Speaker 1>maybe in this case they were not going to think

0:45:14.080 --> 0:45:17.520
<v Speaker 1>that way and not could cause I just to John John.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like John knows who needs to do. He's

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<v Speaker 1>just it's it's a tricky one there with Ryan Seacrest.

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<v Speaker 1>That's gonna wrap it up for us. But the Scdy

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<v Speaker 1>hour is next. What's your finger healing? Tany just saw

0:45:31.480 --> 0:45:35.040
<v Speaker 1>you point it's healing. I mean she's still you know.

0:45:35.160 --> 0:45:38.000
<v Speaker 1>Thanks for caring about my finger. Well, you pointed it

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<v Speaker 1>right at me and I want to put neo sporn

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<v Speaker 1>on it. Hey, tomorrow we're back with a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>here on Kissing. Thanks for listening so on Air with

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