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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, very mature way to tell your your your

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Speaker 1: God. She didn't even care about how much she had

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Speaker 1: Oh God, this is so devious. I suggested that we

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Speaker 2: I'm reporting my sister in law to the police for

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Speaker 2: child endangerment. But I was not ready for what my

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Speaker 1: What can the man eat? Ye let me eat. I

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Speaker 1: Now I'm an a hole for not agreeing to help her. Okay,

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Speaker 2: You know, his lack of food will will build a

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yeah, he's intermittent fasting. Yeah, very very good

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Speaker 2: So everyone thinks I'm an a hole for not helping her.

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Speaker 2: So I told Jack that he's the one that knocked

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Speaker 1: I mean true, this is true. He's pitting facts.

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Speaker 2: I stood my ground, and in the end, Jill's cousin

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Speaker 2: Damn right, it's been it's been a tense. This baby

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Speaker 2: He's like so just like man is so anti baby

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Speaker 1: She broke down and screamed what a horrible human being

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Speaker 2: When Jack and my parents came home, we had the

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Speaker 1: Oh sound fucking crazy.

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Speaker 2: You sound crazy, bro. My parents told me enough is enough,

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Speaker 2: I am thinking the second option.

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Speaker 2: I work from home and pay for fifty percent of

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Speaker 2: Take that money that you're contributing and get yourself an apartment.

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Speaker 1: Like, what are we doing here?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? What are we doing is for sure the ahole

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Speaker 2: right point? Yes, okay, eight thousand percent?

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Speaker 1: what do you think it's like? Like? For sure?

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Speaker 2: Right? We got to see what you guys say on this. So,

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Speaker 2: based on Op's response, Jill do doesn't want a parent

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Speaker 2: refusing outright, as long as this has been made clear

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Speaker 1: I think. I think I think opis being I think

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Speaker 1: of an a hole. Yeah yeah, yeah, my brother slept

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Speaker 2: So on canceling my daughter's wedding, I'm forty six Mail

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Speaker 2: just invite him, as I'm the one giving the ultimatum.

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Speaker 1: That's fair.

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Speaker 3: I think if you're going to be like unreasonable and

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Speaker 2: My daughter is getting married in spring next year, and

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Speaker 2: in our culture, both parents are paying for the wedding

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Speaker 1: Brother and his family. He married my cheating x oh.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I didn't realize that he married the cheating x Oh.

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Speaker 3: God, so that means that he would always have to

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Speaker 1: That makes so much more sense. God, that's like a

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Speaker 2: It's like one thing to cheat, and then it just

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Speaker 3: Bad yikes, because then you know, like it's not like

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Speaker 3: It's like the double attraction. Yeah literally, yeah, like a

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, it was a one time thing whatever. Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like I didn't love you.

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Speaker 2: I loved your brother, like the better version of the Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Now, apparently my daughter was seeing them for the last

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Speaker 3: Part of me thinks, though, that kids shouldn't be punished

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Speaker 1: True, true, but then then.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of messed up. I'm like, absolutely hold grudge

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Speaker 2: Needless to say, I was pissed, and I told her

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Speaker 3: She has a point, that's yeah, because you got to

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Speaker 3: they're getting married.

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Speaker 1: It's it's been a while, Like, can.

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Speaker 3: You just like like even if she was trying to

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Speaker 3: get married right at eighteen, it's twenty six years past. Oh, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say, it's got twenty six years.

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Speaker 1: Get over it.

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Speaker 1: This is her day.

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Speaker 2: She can invite who she wants and you don't have

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Speaker 1: And it's been twenty six years.

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Speaker 2: I mean, is there like like twenty six years feels

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Speaker 2: the family's sake, Yeah, like try to mend things. What's

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Speaker 3: I think he probably like could have easily gotten away

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's very easily. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think like a little over an election cycle

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Speaker 2: and then you should be over it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah? At this point twenty six I don't know.

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Speaker 2: So my ex wife called me screaming and told me

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Speaker 2: My girlfriend told me to reconsider and apologize, but I said,

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Speaker 1: Who wants this.

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Speaker 2: She said that by not paying and attending, I will

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Speaker 1: So true.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think my boundaries should be respected.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for that? What do we think?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Absolutely? Like my dad could get in a serious

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Speaker 3: Yet it would be to me to have my mom

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Speaker 3: I mean my dad and my mom and like most

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I totally agree. Like, maybe let it go

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Speaker 3: Find some covert andlear revenge and just do that. Never

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Speaker 1: And then put a story on nuclear revenge, And do

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Speaker 1: you read that I accidentally revealed that my boyfriend's mom

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Speaker 1: How does it get worse? Obligatory? This story actually happened

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Speaker 1: about a year ago. I eighteen female at the time,

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Speaker 1: His father early sixties was a mechanic and his mom

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Speaker 1: was chatting about my volunteer work at my college's blood drive,

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Speaker 1: You just walked into some family drama that you can't

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Speaker 1: Oh God, older brother, what do you mean biological father? Me?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I didn't mean anything by it. Jacob's dad

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Speaker 1: He knew instantly. I look over to Jacob, who I

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Speaker 2: Ah, Jacob's mom, I would never cheat on your sister

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Speaker 2: and older brother are your kids, Jacob's dad, Opie, why

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Speaker 2: do you think they're not my kids? And honestly, blood

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Speaker 2: just used public data check honestly, like you can see

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00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:15,920
Speaker 2: people's real name, court wreckords and even other family members.

438
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so if you want to look someone up

439
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 1: that's a little suspicious, go to public data check dot

440
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 1: com stay safe, or check our Lincoln bio. So what

441
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:26,959
Speaker 1: happened next? So this is what Opie says. I tried

442
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:30,119
Speaker 1: to excuse myself because it was very clear that the

443
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 1: cat was out of the bag joints and with a

444
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 1: quick Google search for my boyfriend, he starts cussing out

445
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 1: his mom. Dude, this dinner is like nice little family

446
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:40,679
Speaker 1: dinner as unraveled.

447
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,920
Speaker 2: Can you imagine you're you're like an eighteen year old kid,

448
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:44,919
Speaker 2: Like it's already nerve wracking meeting the.

449
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:50,159
Speaker 1: Parents and then you cause this the divorce? Literally oh my,

450
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,240
Speaker 1: so you know how like it's like the parents like, hey, like, child,

451
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 1: you're not the reason for our divorce, you know, mommy

452
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,639
Speaker 1: and daddy just has some issues. Oh he's the reason.

453
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 1: You're the reason. I tried to excuse myself because it

454
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:03,359
Speaker 1: was very clear that the cot was out a bag,

455
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 1: and with a quick Google search from my boyfriend, he

456
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 1: starts cussing out his mom. She starts to sob and

457
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 1: apologize over and over again, and I am forced to

458
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,880
Speaker 1: explain ninth grade biology to his father about the fact

459
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: that the only kids he could have produced were with

460
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 1: the blood type O A or B, but absolutely not Aby.

461
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,120
Speaker 1: Jacob was the only one with the possibility of being

462
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 1: his son, and the possibility I know only you're sad.

463
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 1: They all start screaming at one another. Older sister eventually

464
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 1: leaves because her newborn is screaming too as his kid.

465
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 2: Oh, hopefully it's hers. His mom goes and locks herself

466
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:44,120
Speaker 2: in the bedroom. His older brother follows her, screaming asking

467
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 2: who is the real father. My boyfriend is trying to

468
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 2: figure out if his dad still wants to be their father.

469
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: I eventually have a friend come pick me up. We

470
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 2: broke up shortly after, but not after figuring out.

471
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Speaker 1: That none of the kids produced from the marriage for

472
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 1: his Oh, they found out viapportunity tests for sure kids

473
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: and they were divorced happily ever after.

474
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 2: Wow, I mean, that's just so upsetting to your eighteen

475
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 2: year old kid, you realized that your dad was not

476
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,919
Speaker 2: your real dad. I guess, So, I mean, would you

477
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: would you break up with.

478
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: Someone for causing my parents divorce? It's not her fault.

479
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: It's not her fault if she's great, Like I don't,

480
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 1: I don't think I would. I mean, also, this puts

481
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,440
Speaker 1: stress on a relationship for sure. Yeah, and I can't

482
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Speaker 1: imagine like the girlfriend would have a great relationship with

483
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 1: a mom after like you literally cracked up my whole life.

484
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm bull and dodged. Honestly, my wife was too fat,

485
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 2: so I'm divorcing her. But as I was leaving her,

486
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 2: I couldn't believe what she said. So before I get

487
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 2: called an a hole, let me explain. See, I love

488
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 2: my wife. I think she's incredibly beautiful, even more so

489
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 2: after she gave birth to our sons three years ago.

490
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 2: The problem is that she has put on a good

491
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 2: amount of baby weight and never lost it. She instead

492
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 2: started to gain more weight and was overall pretty depressed.

493
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 2: I initially assumed it was postpartum depression and suggested.

494
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:03,159
Speaker 1: She go to therapy for it.

495
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 2: She went to therapy and got some anti depressants, and

496
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 2: it took her a while to find the right ones,

497
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 2: and she's been fine mentally since she found them. Physically,

498
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 2: it's a different story. She continued over the past three

499
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 2: years to gain weight. The problem isn't any more than

500
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 2: I'm not attracted to her, but that she will pass

501
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 2: away if she continues to gain weight. She's currently five

502
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 2: two and about two hundred and sixty pounds and as

503
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 2: a BMI of close to fifty five two. I don't

504
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 2: know what I can do. I feel like I've tried everything.

505
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 2: I've asked her to go with a gym with me,

506
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 2: gone and die with me, not buy his fast food,

507
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 2: have some active hobbies. She's turned down every single one

508
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:36,719
Speaker 2: of these ideas.

509
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: But I got a really great, big idea.

510
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,919
Speaker 2: Let's go and eat celery sticks on a five on

511
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 2: a five K.

512
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Speaker 1: Babe, Oh my.

513
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 2: Gosh, babe, Let's go to the grocery store, but carry

514
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 2: me ond your back. Oh my gosh, that's David Goggins. Yeah,

515
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 2: if his wife is ever fo five two and six

516
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 2: twenty pounds. I feel like I don't have any choice

517
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 2: but to give her an ultimatum. Yike, good gravy either.

518
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 2: She genuinely tries to lose weight or I leave. I

519
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 2: can't watch the woman I love and mother of my

520
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 2: child slowly kill herself. I don't want to be the

521
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,479
Speaker 2: dude who gives an ultimatum, but I see no other choice.

522
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 2: I guess I just want to ask if I'm being

523
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 2: an a hole, if there's any other way I could

524
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 2: go about this. There is so many other ways to go.

525
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,640
Speaker 1: I have like a legit conversation, literally a.

526
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 2: Legit like like that's numero uno. I have a legit

527
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 2: like hints, you know, yeah, just be like, in all honesty,

528
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 2: I am worried, and like I think you should say

529
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 2: like I'm worried, but like I don't know, like you're

530
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 2: not a doctor.

531
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: I would be like, hey, this is how I feel like.

532
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 2: I know this could come off of like me being

533
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 2: an a hole, but like, is there any possibility we

534
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 2: could just like you know, check it out and see,

535
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,679
Speaker 2: like I'm just worried, you know, I think that's a

536
00:26:55,720 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 2: way more reasonable place to come from. Then just be like, hey, baby,

537
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 2: you want to like go in and diet or something

538
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 2: like I don't know, just like lose a few dozen pounds. Yeah,

539
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 2: And there's an update for everyone in the comments telling

540
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 2: me that you can be overweight and healthy, You're right,

541
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 2: but no, you can't be obese and healthy, at least

542
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 2: not long term. Heart disease runs in my wife's family,

543
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 2: and while your weight might not affect you, being overweight

544
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 2: is directly linked to heart disease. I understand weight loss

545
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 2: isn't easy. I used to be overweight, But my concern

546
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 2: isn't that she's not the same way she looked when

547
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 2: we got together. It's that she might not live to

548
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 2: see our son become a teenager. So I made a

549
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 2: post about five months ago because I couldn't get to

550
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 2: pass the point of no return with my wife's weight. Now, expectedly,

551
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 2: I got called an a hole and every name in

552
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 2: the book for even mentioning it, but I also got

553
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 2: some real good feedback and decided before I make any

554
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 2: real decision, I would sit her down and let her

555
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 2: know how I.

556
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: Was truly feeling. He's from the beginning.

557
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 2: Because at this point we had multiple conversations addressing it,

558
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 2: but none of them lead anywhere. So after we put

559
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 2: my son to sleep, I asked my wife if we

560
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 2: could talk for a minute in the kitchen.

561
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 1: Now, I'm not gonna lie.

562
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 2: The conversation was probably the hardest one I've ever had,

563
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 2: because despite what.

564
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 1: Everyone believed, I do love my wife. Now.

565
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 2: I don't want to get into every detail, but the

566
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 2: basis of our conversation was that I needed her to

567
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 2: at least try to be healthier. I also think she

568
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,360
Speaker 2: needed to hear how serious I was about this, and

569
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,199
Speaker 2: when I told her I was even thinking about separating,

570
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 2: I think it really put the nail in the coffin.

571
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 2: It's been about five months since then, and I'm proud

572
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 2: to say that my wife has lost thirty five pounds.

573
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: That's a lot.

574
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 2: Seriously, I'm so proud of her, it's effing ridiculous. The

575
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,679
Speaker 2: first month was an effing hurdle and a half, but

576
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 2: now she's going steady and losing weight at a healthy,

577
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 2: moderate rate. Recently, she started exercising with me in the morning.

578
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 2: I usually jog, but since her knees are somewhat shot,

579
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 2: three days a week we balk about a mile or

580
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 2: two together and talk and listen to music. I know

581
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 2: it sounds corny to say, but she even seems happier

582
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: and her confidence is coming back as well.

583
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: Well.

584
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,959
Speaker 2: This was my little update, and I wanted to finish.

585
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 2: Thanks to anyone who gave advice on my first post,

586
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,959
Speaker 2: Awesome happy ending. It's great and I can see how

587
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 2: this is like a tough one to have that conversation on,

588
00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 2: so I'm glad it.

589
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: Is sensitive topic. But like it, you know, if you

590
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: actually care about that person's health, which it seems like

591
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: he does, Like I think, it's a bit.

592
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 2: Sit down, explain yourself and then figured out from there. Bingo, Bengo, give.

593
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: Me half of your inheritance. Because I'm your brother, we're related.

594
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: We should be share blood. Yeah, that's we should share money, Bingo,

595
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: because blood is thicker than gold. Ooh, it sounds like

596
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: some game thrown.

597
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 2: We came from the same sack, so give me a

598
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 2: sack of money. When my brother was sixteen and I

599
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 2: was four, my grandmother set aside a share portfolio for us,

600
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 2: so we're talking big money them stunkstonks baby. As soon

601
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 2: as we were old enough, it was transferred into our

602
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 2: own accounts, and it was only four years later that

603
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 2: my brother dipped heavily into his to buy.

604
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: A new Hanta. Yo. He spent all his inheritance on

605
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 1: a freaking hoa bro.

606
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 2: Oh man. That is Carien, you gotta love it now.

607
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 2: I knew about mine for much longer than he did

608
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 2: before it became mine, and I watched it grow since

609
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 2: I understood what it was.

610
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: Stocks. Hey, make those stocks turning the big bucks man investing.

611
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: It's called Wall Street bets. That's right. Throw it all

612
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: into options. Leverage those options.

613
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 2: Make a billy boom done easy, yes, or being dead

614
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 2: at billy and yeah, yeah, okay, and then going then

615
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 2: you just do another, you do it again, yeah, until

616
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 2: you get back and you go back zero. By the

617
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 2: time I was given full control, it was already worth

618
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 2: a ridiculous amount because a big portion of it was

619
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:41,719
Speaker 2: invested in Apple.

620
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 1: Wait, so wait, this was he bought it four years

621
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: after how many years have passed?

622
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 2: So here's the thing. They both got their their portfolios

623
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 2: at the same time. Op was four years old and

624
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 2: his brother was sixteen. Oh, so he had twelve more

625
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: years for it appreciate to appreciate before he even had

626
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 2: access to it. Yo. So that's that's why basically, wow,

627
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 2: and he's now it's present day. Now we're at present day.

628
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 2: Apple has gone crazy. Right for the twelve years, bro, twelve.

629
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 1: Year probably like forty fifty k it's probably worth hundreds

630
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 1: of thousands.

631
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 2: Hundreds of thousands now, yeah, and I'm torn on using

632
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: the funds locked up as they are, because my dad

633
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 2: drilled it into me to leave them in and grow.

634
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: Until I'm forty or something.

635
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 3: Now.

636
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: I don't talk much with my brother.

637
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 2: He said some stupid things to the family over the years,

638
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 2: and I didn't really grow up with him, so all

639
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 2: usually hear about his life comes to my dad. But

640
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 2: his new girlfriend works in law and I've received a

641
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 2: formal letter from them both that the investments my grandmother

642
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 2: made were designed to be for the both of us,

643
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 2: not just me, and that his was only around fifteen

644
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 2: thousand dollars. The number is right, but mine was only

645
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 2: worth that at the time he spent it too. So

646
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 2: the kicker is they want half of the value of

647
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 2: my portfolio today, and his girlfriend has informed me if

648
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 2: I don't give them access, then the legal fees and

649
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 2: fines would eat up my half and I'd be left

650
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 2: with nothing. Wow. Can you actual dude, what? Yes, that's

651
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 2: so shitty. Yeah, I can't believe the girlfriend is like

652
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 2: in on it too.

653
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: Oh, like she's like ooh my, I mean they actually

654
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Speaker 1: don't have a case, right, because like they each got

655
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Speaker 1: fifteen k. One of them decided to put it on

656
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: brand new Honda and the other decided to actually keep

657
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: the investment. Like what, there's literally nothing you can do.

658
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, you both got to equal them out fifteen k

659
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 2: each and then if you spend day's done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's over. It's how money we're titled to her half?

661
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 1: Because I kind of want to calculate, like how much

662
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Speaker 1: that is worth? Really quick said it was majority Apple stock.

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Speaker 2: I can guess he's twenty two now, which means he

664
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Speaker 2: was born in two thousand, gotten the stocks in two

665
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 2: thousand and four. Okay, so what is Apple stock in

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00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 2: two thousand and four? Thirty eight cents? Apple stock was

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00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 2: thirty eight cents in two thousand and four. That means

668
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 2: you would have forty four thousand, one hundred and seventeen

669
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 2: shares of Apple and then wow, what is Apple worth

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00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 2: right now?

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Speaker 1: Twe hundred and forty three dollars and seventy five cents?

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00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 2: Yo?

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Speaker 1: Okay, that fifteen thousand dollars that was invested in two

674
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 1: thousand and four is now worth six point three million dollars.

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00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: Oh oh my.

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00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 2: Jo yo, wow? Right, that is absolutely I see why

677
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 2: the brothers coming after it, like, holy shit, im fucked up.

678
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Speaker 1: I have this.

679
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 2: Dip and you have six point four million dollars.

680
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 1: Invest kids invest. Oh my gosh. Wow.

681
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 2: The dividends alone support a huge part of my life,

682
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 2: and they've saved me a few times. I can't imagine, dude,

683
00:33:56,320 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 2: I can't imagine the dividends of six point four million dollar.

684
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 2: If half of that disappeared, it had set me back

685
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 2: a few years. It probably would retire. It probably would

686
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,800
Speaker 2: bro set you back a few years from what having

687
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:14,280
Speaker 2: six million three Dude, I need to invest.

688
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 1: Bro, we really need to get That's why.

689
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 2: You should invest in. Yeah, hey, hey the sponsor, come on, this.

690
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: Is your moment. Perfect segment. Now.

691
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Speaker 2: I know it sounds selfish, but I'm really used to

692
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 2: having the extra income to back me up when I've

693
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 2: wanted to move.

694
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 1: It's your money.

695
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 2: I've lived in four states by my own choice, and

696
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 2: I want to move and taken more before I settle down.

697
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 2: If I ever do, how likely is it that they'll

698
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 2: win and leave me with nothing? As far as I know,

699
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:46,359
Speaker 2: there was no paperwork or will, just my grandmother's word.

700
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 2: That sucks. It sucks very bad because then they can say, well,

701
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,360
Speaker 2: Grandma told me that I can get half of whatever

702
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 2: he has. Boom, what can you say? My grandmother set

703
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 2: up the bank accounts for my than me at the

704
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 2: same time when my brother was in nineteen, but she

705
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 2: gave mine to my dad, and my dad gave me

706
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 2: my whole share six years ago. For my share, I

707
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,280
Speaker 2: have all the logins, the trading accounts and bank accounts

708
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 2: that are all in my name, and the shares are

709
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 2: solely in my name as well. Should I find my

710
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 2: own lawyer? And if I need one, what kind do

711
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 2: I need?

712
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 1: I have an.

713
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 2: Account and I've used for years, But this doesn't seem

714
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 2: like an account's problem, but a law one. And there's

715
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 2: an update, mostly good news. I worked with my dad

716
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 2: and got my own lawyer. I got the timeline of

717
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 2: my shares wrong, but it comes out to the same amount.

718
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 2: What my brother and I inherited from my grandmother was

719
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 2: originally part of my grandfather's portfolio.

720
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Speaker 1: He was the one that was savvy with money.

721
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 2: My grandmother looked after it after he died, and she

722
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 2: personally set up my brother's account and gave him control

723
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 2: of his portion.

724
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: She did not do the same with mine. Before she died.

725
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 2: I thought she had already set aside the accounts and

726
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 2: given up control before passing. Instead, the shares were in

727
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 2: her will and she left everything to my dad with

728
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 2: the instruction that we both received fifteen thousand dollars worth,

729
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 2: and I get it when I'm old enough to take

730
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 2: care of it, and I get my portion when I'm

731
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 2: old enough to take care of it. She simply trusted

732
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 2: my dad, and my dad did the right thing and

733
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 2: set up all the accounts for me and gave me

734
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 2: control six years ago. My dad put some of his

735
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 2: own shares in there as well for an extra leg up.

736
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:21,479
Speaker 2: My dad said he chewed out my brother last year

737
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:24,399
Speaker 2: when he asked my dad for money, and Dad had

738
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 2: supported him several times throughout the years and got to

739
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,359
Speaker 2: the point where he'd had enough. My brother found out

740
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 2: that I still had my investments because my dad used

741
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 2: me as an example of how he should handle his money.

742
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 2: So Dad accidentally ratted him out, and then he started

743
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 2: this whole scheme to like.

744
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: Come after him. Wow.

745
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 2: Crazy. According to all the info, my lawyer tells me,

746
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 2: I'm in the clear. Well, hey, And we won't even

747
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 2: get to court because my brother's girlfriend was only a

748
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 2: legal secretary yo, I say was because the firm she

749
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 2: worked for apology and informed my lawyer.

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00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: She was terminated immediately. So not only is it like

751
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:12,240
Speaker 1: completely just for nothing, she even got fired. Wow, dude,

752
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: totally life here.

753
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 2: The letter I received from them had edited to put

754
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 2: her name in a position higher up than it should

755
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: have been, and some contact info that had been changed.

756
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 2: A week after she was fired, my brother visited me

757
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 2: begging for money. His girlfriend is in serious debt and

758
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 2: took a chance on scamming cash for me and lost.

759
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 2: I feel awful rejecting my own brother over and over.

760
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 2: And if he hadn't involved his girlfriend needing the amount

761
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 2: of money well into five figures, I would have given

762
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 2: him some money. The next morning I found all my

763
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 2: tires had been slashed.

764
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: Screw him.

765
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 2: I don't feel bad anymore. He Oh my god, this

766
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 2: brother sucks. He clearly just like he doesn't care. He

767
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 2: doesn't care. He's he's living a completely irresponsible life, and

768
00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 2: he just he just is selfish.

769
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: And just wants what an he thinks anythings. Everyone will

770
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: pick up the slab. I'm still blown away on the

771
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:07,720
Speaker 1: apple Stock thing. Yeah, invested apple Man absolutely insane.

772
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 2: Nephew dead's my car, So I get him arrested while

773
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 2: he was at work? Should I put him in prison?

774
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,320
Speaker 2: I twenty two mail, am the product of an affair.

775
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,320
Speaker 1: We're starting off hot today. My dad is about twenty

776
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: five years older than my mom. That's way too much.

777
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 1: I felt old th I was hanging out with eighteen.

778
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 2: Year old so all three of my siblings from him

779
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,479
Speaker 2: are more than seventeen years older than me. I didn't

780
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 2: have a relationship with that side of the family for

781
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 2: the majority of my childhood, but my dad and my

782
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 2: grandparents often send money, holiday cars, birthday gifts, et cetera.

783
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 2: I'm a lot closer to them now, and I have

784
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,400
Speaker 2: a good relationship with all my siblings, nieces and nephews.

785
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: Until this happens. Oh gosh, what happened.

786
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:49,240
Speaker 2: I own a nineteen seventy six Corvette Sting right baby

787
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 2: Ooh that was gifted to me by my maternal grandpa

788
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 2: when I turned seventeen. I've built this car up from

789
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 2: a roller and now it's my.

790
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: Most prized possession.

791
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:00,799
Speaker 2: I went out of town for two two weeks for work,

792
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 2: and I left my car at my paternal grandparents' garage.

793
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 2: I don't like keeping it up my place while I'm

794
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 2: away too long because I don't live in the best area.

795
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 2: And I've done this since my freshman year of college,

796
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 2: and there's never been any.

797
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 1: Issues until now. We always have to do until now.

798
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 1: There's always until now.

799
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 2: When I get back in town, I immediately went to

800
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 2: my grandparents' house to pick up my car, and there

801
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 2: was a giant dent and a lot of paint missing

802
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 2: on the side of the car.

803
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: Oh no, I mean that's been pretty bad paint. That's

804
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: like like, like I can understand maybe you dent someone's

805
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 1: car you don't even realize it.

806
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you dent and scratch scratch, paint like

807
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 2: causes some noise, especially on the old cars. Like that's

808
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 2: not like fiberglass, that's the metal. That's the thing here.

809
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,399
Speaker 2: If this, if this was my box with wheels, then

810
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 2: I honestly I dent mind all the time, and I

811
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 2: literally don't care. But this is like a really nice

812
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 2: car that he's spent his entire life working on. Yeah,

813
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: it's kind of rough, dude, It's like it's like a

814
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 2: piece of art. To Lisa, I asked my my grandparents

815
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 2: what happened, Like I'm hard. I hear him, Sonny and

816
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,879
Speaker 2: I can barely see. I don't know what happened, yeah,

817
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 2: Obi said, Apparently they were confused.

818
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: When I showed them, they were as shocked as I was.

819
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 2: They told me that my nephew, Kevin, twenty five male,

820
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 2: the worst age.

821
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 1: Everyone.

822
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 2: Everyone who is a twenty five and a male. I mean,

823
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 2: they deserve to die. Oh yeah, for sure, it just

824
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 2: is what it is. Well, I mean, essentially you're one

825
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 2: year away from basically being dead meet because you'll have

826
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 2: no health insurance exactly. They told me that my nephew, Kevin,

827
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 2: twenty five mail had been messing around in the garage

828
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 2: the previous weekend, but they didn't see him take out

829
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 2: the car at all.

830
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: Would you be messing around in the garage?

831
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 2: So we checked their camera system and sure enough, Kevin

832
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 2: had taken the car.

833
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 1: Kevin caught red handed.

834
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 2: I tried to call Kevin, but my number was blocked,

835
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 2: so I called my brother and told him, oh, Kevin

836
00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:00,399
Speaker 2: knows what he Devin knows what he Kevin's last It's

837
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 2: a dumb bro. He said he'll ask him about it,

838
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 2: and recommended to go to a body shop to get

839
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 2: an estimate.

840
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: For the repair. When I got the estimate back, there

841
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: was three thousand, seven hundred dollars worth of damages on

842
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: the car. That's a lot.

843
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 2: So I told my brother the estimate and he said

844
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:19,240
Speaker 2: that that estimate was ridiculous and that the damages.

845
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: Weren't that bad. What if he has to replace a

846
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: whole door, and like, where do you find nineteen seventy

847
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,240
Speaker 1: six doors? Then don't grow on trees. I love John's

848
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 1: like metaphors for things. One of my favorite metaphors for

849
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 1: how he explained hondas is they're like big lego sets. Yeah,

850
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,320
Speaker 1: you could just take him out and it's really easy

851
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 1: to replace things.

852
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,720
Speaker 2: My short story is I ran over like a fence

853
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 2: peg and literally my entire bumper was was like this.

854
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 1: It was just half screw or like this. It was

855
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:47,959
Speaker 1: just half pulled off.

856
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 2: Someone came out yelling at me like I'm like, bro,

857
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,359
Speaker 2: your fence stub is fine, My entire bumpers off.

858
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: So anyways, I got back home.

859
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 2: I drove home twenty minutes and the bumper was literally

860
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 2: sticking out like that's how how bent it was.

861
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 1: And then I got home and I looked at it

862
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 1: and it's just clips. You just bend it. It's plastic.

863
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 2: You bend it back and you just clip it in

864
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 2: and then it was fine. I literally have done nothing

865
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 2: to it since. And have you noticed it.

866
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: I haven't noticed your Carlo's fine.

867
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,359
Speaker 2: I told my brother, either here Kevin had to pay

868
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,879
Speaker 2: for it to get it fixed, or I would call

869
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 2: the police on them. I mean, get him officers. I

870
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 2: gave him three days.

871
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: Bro. This guy is like from the Godfather or something.

872
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: I'll break you. Yeah, he says, I'm gonna make cue

873
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: it off. But you can't refuse. You have seventy two hours.

874
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 2: I still haven't finished the movie. By the way, I

875
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 2: watched I watched half of it.

876
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 1: It's terrible. What I love telling me the same, but

877
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 1: it's it's terrible because it's one of the best movies

878
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,240
Speaker 1: of all time. But I can't talk because I watched

879
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 1: half of Rocky and still haven't finished it. See.

880
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,839
Speaker 2: So the three days past Sam Kevin and his dad.

881
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 2: They didn't pay. They didn't pay.

882
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 1: Ope, yo, they didn't hit his ultimatum. They didn't hit

883
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,720
Speaker 1: the ultimatum. So he shot him. No, I'm just kidding.

884
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: So so he cut off a horse's head put it

885
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 1: in his bed.

886
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 2: So I filed the police reports, and I gave the

887
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 2: police the videos of Kevin taking my car. Kevin's frank

888
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:17,959
Speaker 2: he is because next Kevin was arrested at his workplace.

889
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: Yo.

890
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 2: Crazy right to arrest him from a car from car damage.

891
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 2: That's way over the top for thirty seven hundred dollars.

892
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:31,879
Speaker 1: Of car damage. But I come on, I mean, yes,

893
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:35,200
Speaker 1: that's over the top. But like I mean, Kevin, Kevin

894
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 1: was is it? You know, Kevin wasn't at first, But

895
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 1: all right, first of all, three days, you get like

896
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 1: that's that's like like a small amount of time. I

897
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 1: understand that for the ultimatum. Yeah, but like try to

898
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 1: get in contact with him like a little bit more

899
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:50,760
Speaker 1: like show up at like show up at his workplace.

900
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: Give him be like where my money? Yeah, just be

901
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 1: like a tiger iron twenty four hours, forty eight hours,

902
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: so you know, give him where is it?

903
00:43:58,200 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, just like be in his face a little bit

904
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:01,240
Speaker 2: more and then get the police involved.

905
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 1: That Yeah, Wow, this is okay, it's crazy, it's insane.

906
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 2: And as you might imagine, my brother was foddiest, got

907
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 2: his own son arrested. Wow, he's calling me going off

908
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 2: about how I ruined Kevin's life over a car or

909
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 2: just some simple threats.

910
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I mean I it was okay to

911
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 1: do that.

912
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, my sisters and dad have been calling and texting

913
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 2: me asking me to just put the family first and

914
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 2: drop the charges.

915
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 1: But I don't want to. Yeah, I want that thirty

916
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: seven hundred bucks. Am I the a hole? I think

917
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 1: you went too far. Yeah, you went too far.

918
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 2: Like, I don't blame you for doing some sort of

919
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 2: ultimatum or whatever, like maybe okay calling the police, but like,

920
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 2: if I found out that they were going to arrest him,

921
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 2: I would immediately tell the police.

922
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 1: Okay, it's not that serious.

923
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I would at least do what the Kevin's

924
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 2: on the lamb from the police, I would at least communicate.

925
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 1: That's the bare minimum of what he could do, if that.

926
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 2: To be fair, he did communicate. He said, if you

927
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 2: don't do this, I am going to call the police.

928
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 1: But he didn't say he'd get arrested. Though. What happens

929
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:01,920
Speaker 1: when you call the police?

930
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 2: John, Maybe I'm unfamiliar with like the police law. Yeah,

931
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:07,439
Speaker 2: John's never been arrested in his life.

932
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 1: The moral of the story Kevin Twite has over, Yeah,

933
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: don't like break people's cars. Don't mess with op bro.

934
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: This guy is not playing around. My husband told all

935
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 1: his friends that he knows I'm bought ugly. What he

936
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: said next made it so much worse. I am an

937
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 1: unattractive woman. Damn Quean pulled your head up. Hi. Objectively,

938
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 1: I'm unattractive. I've always been this way, and while I

939
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: have accustomed myself to it, it nonetheless remains a daily

940
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 1: fact that being an ugly woman sucks. I met my

941
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 1: husband four years ago, and he is the greatest thing

942
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 1: that's ever happened to me. He has always and frequently

943
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: told me, honey, you're beautiful. That's great, and somehow sounded

944
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: honest without sounding like my mother, like someone without an option.

945
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 1: Last night Saturday, he had a group of friends over

946
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: to our home. They meet several times a month to

947
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: hang out, catch up, and play games. He has known

948
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 1: most of these guys since high school, and I was

949
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:58,280
Speaker 1: upstairs in the kitchen preparing them some drinks and snacks

950
00:45:58,320 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 1: when I was able to hear them in the base.

951
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,320
Speaker 1: Then it began the eavesdrop, which I know is rude,

952
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: but it really wasn't intentional. I realized they were talking

953
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 1: about what's going on there? A couple of the guys

954
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 1: were teasing my husband about me, specifically my looks. I'm sorry,

955
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 1: but what kind of friend is that?

956
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 3: Yo?

957
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 2: And also like she's getting you guys snacks and drinks

958
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 2: and you're gonna be like, yo, your wife Your wife

959
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:26,439
Speaker 2: is uh, it's like, YO, invited you to my home.

960
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 2: We're playing some games. You're calling life.

961
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 1: Literally, get the fuck out. They were specifically talking about

962
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 1: my looks, and I could tell it was supposed to

963
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 1: be funny and it was not. Oh my god. There

964
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: was a point where one of them referred to me

965
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: as a troll. What that is?

966
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 2: This was already like over the line, but that's yo, God,

967
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 2: God stop, and my husband blew up. We started shouting, listen,

968
00:46:55,800 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 2: shut the fuck up. I know that Op is ugly,

969
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:05,800
Speaker 2: but shut up, which is tough, he told her ugly,

970
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 2: but he redeems himself a little bit.

971
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: She makes me happy. Does your bimbo of the week

972
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 1: do that? Jim Dave? How long has it been since

973
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 1: we hung out? I haven't bitched about your wife? He

974
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: went on for a while, defending me, quote unquote, yeah.

975
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: All I could hear ringing through my head is I

976
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,399
Speaker 1: know she's ugly. I know she's ugly. I know she's

977
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: ugly again and again and again in my head, and

978
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:31,720
Speaker 1: it just broke me. I don't know why. I've always

979
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:35,279
Speaker 1: known I'm unattractive, but he isn't supposed to know too.

980
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 1: He tells me I'm beautiful, so sincerely, so consistently, and

981
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 1: I started to believe he thought that. I started to cry,

982
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: and I ran to the shower. No one could hear

983
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,839
Speaker 1: me when I came out an hour later, everyone had

984
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 1: gone home far earlier than normal. I went to bed

985
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: and then haven't spoken to him all day today. But

986
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: I think I've been able to avoid letting him know

987
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: I'm upset or avoiding him. I know rationally that what

988
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 1: he said is true and it's sweet, and that I

989
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 1: should be happy that he loves me and not my body,

990
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: but it doesn't seem to matter. I just want to

991
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 1: be pretty. God, I feel so shallow. I've been crying

992
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: all day. What do I say for him? What do

993
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 1: I say to him? Part of me wants to call

994
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 1: him a liar, to scream, yell and cry. Well. The

995
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: other party was just run away and never talk to

996
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,839
Speaker 1: him again and acknowledge that the greatest man I will

997
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 1: ever meet. Can't find me attractive? Gosh, what do you

998
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 1: think she does? Dang? What should he do? What should

999
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 1: she do? Plastic Shorers are like Kylie Jenner, No, I'm

1000
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 1: just kidding.

1001
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 2: Yea, but I've heard there's this like quote where it's like,

1002
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 2: no woman is unattractive, she's just poor.

1003
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: Ah. That's kind of hilarious. God. When you look at

1004
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 1: the transformations of the jannits, holy shit, it's crazy insane,

1005
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 1: especially especially Kylie, Like her face looks so like Kim.

1006
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 2: I feel like the basic thing was kind of there,

1007
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 2: like sick. But yeah, Kylie literally just a different person,

1008
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 2: Like who are you?

1009
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: How? What shoes she do? I think you gott to say, Yeah,

1010
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: I gotta tell husband, how do you feel? That's it?

1011
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all you can do. Yeah, that's all you

1012
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 2: can do. And so there is an update.

1013
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: Oh. First off, I'd just like to say thanks, just wow.

1014
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 1: Over the last two days, I've had literally hundreds of

1015
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 1: messages and private messages. You guys rock. Thank you. Seriously,

1016
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 1: look at that thread. That's got to be one of

1017
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: the most best positivity and sweetness to meanness and jerks

1018
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: ratio of all time on Reddit like, Hey, you guys

1019
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:37,760
Speaker 1: knocked it out of the park. Let's go. So yesterday,

1020
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: after getting a barrage to support from you guys, I

1021
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,959
Speaker 1: decided to try to confront my husband over what I heard.

1022
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: After we were both home. I told him, Hey, we

1023
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: need to talk. Yeah, you do. I told him I'd

1024
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,799
Speaker 1: overheard what his friends said, and he immediately started to

1025
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 1: apologize for them saying what they were saying. And he

1026
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: was saying they were jerks and assholes and that I

1027
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 1: should have told him what i'd heard. Okay, that's that's

1028
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 1: probably a pretty good response. I had to stop him

1029
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,399
Speaker 1: to let me get a word him, to tell him

1030
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 1: it wasn't his friend so much as it was what

1031
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:11,439
Speaker 1: he said. Right when I told them what he said,

1032
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: his tone changed. I could tell he wasn't expecting to

1033
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:17,279
Speaker 1: be blamed. This whole conversation planned out. I wanted to

1034
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: explain how it made me feel, how I thought he

1035
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 1: really was attracted to me, and how betrayed it made

1036
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 1: me feel to hear him say that behind my back,

1037
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: but I just started to cry and I just couldn't

1038
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 1: communicate what I really wanted to say. He was awesome, though,

1039
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,800
Speaker 1: He just held me and then after a minute, started

1040
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 1: to speak like he was reading right out of the

1041
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 1: nicest comments in the original thread, telling me he was

1042
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 1: angry and didn't speak very well, that he really does

1043
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:44,359
Speaker 1: find me attractive even though the world doesn't, and his

1044
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 1: friends dot I calmed down pretty quick. I basically cried

1045
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 1: myself out the day before. He took me to his

1046
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 1: computer and showed me an email he sent to all

1047
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,439
Speaker 1: of his friends on Sunday. I wish I could copy

1048
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:58,319
Speaker 1: paste it now, but he basically called his friend's assholes,

1049
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 1: said they crossed the line from good natured trash talk

1050
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 1: to just being assholes, and then continued going far beyond.

1051
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: He said that for an indefinite amount of time, they'd

1052
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 1: have to find another host, and they were no longer

1053
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 1: welcome in my home. He actually said, oh, oh P's home. Wow.

1054
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 1: I thought that would make it sound like I was

1055
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,040
Speaker 1: ordering him around being a bitch, but he said he

1056
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: wanted to emphasize how wrong what they were doing was.

1057
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,320
Speaker 1: Seeing him stand up for me again made me happy,

1058
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 1: especially seeing him do it without talking bad about me,

1059
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: helping me believe it really was just the heat of

1060
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:31,760
Speaker 1: the moment in a bad word choice.

1061
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 2: And this was before he sent it before or he

1062
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 2: even knew right before he knew that she knew.

1063
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow. He told me to wait in the room

1064
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 1: and left, coming back with a folder. He said he

1065
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 1: was going to give me this for Christmas, but that

1066
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,279
Speaker 1: he'd get me something else. I tried to say no,

1067
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: but he insisted. It was plane tickets and brochures. He

1068
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: set up a trip early January to a SPA hotel

1069
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:55,800
Speaker 1: resort thing in British Columbia, and it was mind blowing.

1070
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 1: I realized he probably spent like several thousand dollars on it,

1071
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 1: and we budget pretty thorough and he shouldn't have been

1072
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 1: able to spend that without me noticing. And I asked

1073
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: where he got the money, and he said he'd been

1074
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: planning this for more than a year and saving all

1075
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: the money assigned to his weekly spending money and collecting

1076
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:12,399
Speaker 1: where I would notice change for groceries, et cetera.

1077
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:14,360
Speaker 2: What if he said like, oh, that came from my

1078
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 2: second family's.

1079
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: It's my mistress's money. The alternative story. When I say that,

1080
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm not sure I deserve him. Understand that I'm

1081
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 1: not having a crisis I need help dealing with. He's

1082
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:27,839
Speaker 1: just amazingly awesome. He's taking me out for dinner, so

1083
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: I have to go, but I'll be on again tonight.

1084
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 1: Wholesome ending. I was waiting for the floor to drop out,

1085
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: but amazing on the husband to like.

1086
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 2: The fact that he did it before she said anything

1087
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:42,440
Speaker 2: like when after them that hard is like, okay, that's

1088
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 2: you know, he really he really means it.

1089
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 1: It shows that it's actually coming from a really good place. Yes,

1090
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: that beard stalker will not leave me alone. And I

1091
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:52,760
Speaker 1: can't believe what he said when we were playing chess.

1092
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 1: Player one is me Lady Saber sixteen at the time.

1093
00:52:56,680 --> 00:53:00,720
Speaker 1: I'm finished, but grew up in Belgium here in America

1094
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: on a two year exchange program, and this I was

1095
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 1: still new to the country, you know, school, going through

1096
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 1: a culture shock. I'm heavy in defensing, though it's been

1097
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 1: my sport for something like ten years. And for neckbeards,

1098
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 1: this seems to make me the katana wielding milady of

1099
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 1: their wet dreams. A plus for the descriptive.

1100
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 2: Player two is a smooth, cheek neck beard. We'll call

1101
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 2: him saund Tarlie.

1102
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: Fat is all get out, wears cargo shorts, a Bazinga shirt, sandals,

1103
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: and yes, the not the dog. He also smells like

1104
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: sweat and old spaghetti.

1105
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 2: Sauce and as a really high pitched nasily voice that

1106
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:40,360
Speaker 2: sounds like a whiny dom. Player three is John. Uh oh,

1107
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 2: Sam versus John. I just want to say, I just

1108
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 2: want to say, I have like these are the names

1109
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 2: in the actual story.

1110
00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not true. Was this listener submitted?

1111
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 2: Though?

1112
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: This is listener submitted. Yeah, so oh yeah. Also this

1113
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 1: is recommended by Santiago venegas a shout out Santiago the

1114
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: I'm on Instagram. Yeah, that's right. We're pretty reachable on Instagram.

1115
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 1: That's right.

1116
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 2: And if you have other stories, so you can throw

1117
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:08,479
Speaker 2: it in our subreddit. Yeah, you've been looking at those.

1118
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 2: Player three is John. He shares half of my courses

1119
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 2: and is really good at chess. Put that pun in,

1120
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 2: my queen. Let me ride that horse right into your bishop.

1121
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 2: Let me polish that bishop. Ooh you can check my mate.

1122
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:32,359
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you can mate me and check republic. He's

1123
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 2: really good at chess and as a Southern accident that

1124
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:39,360
Speaker 2: could listen to out darn dash damn nay. I'm keeping

1125
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 2: his description limited so that I don't sound like an

1126
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 2: obsessive biac. I'm at Samuel at chess club. I'm pretty

1127
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 2: aware that it's a neck beard spawn point by now,

1128
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 2: but I go because.

1129
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 1: I like to play chess. Wow, there are some good

1130
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: apples like John, so I was mostly there to talk

1131
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: to him today. However, he's run a bit late and

1132
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 1: gets upstaged by Samuell. Uh oh, I'm setting up the

1133
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 1: board and the seat across from me is empty. So

1134
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 1: Samuel asks to play. Yeah, he did. I tried to

1135
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 1: politely turn him down, like, hey, no, I don't want to.

1136
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 1: I don't want to play with you, telling him I'm

1137
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: waiting for someone else. Sam replies with well I don't

1138
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 1: see him, and I grind my teeth a little at

1139
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: his whiny bitch boy boys. Same Samuell plops into the

1140
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: chair and it introduces himself with a tip of the fedora.

1141
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 1: I wish I was kidding, but she is not. No,

1142
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm not aware of the neck beard's stereotype at this point,

1143
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 1: Otherwise I probably would have lost it right then and there.

1144
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 1: I play with Samuel though, rather than excuse myself, and

1145
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 1: it quickly becomes clear that he's not familiar with most

1146
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 1: of the special rules in chess. He accuses me of

1147
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:53,399
Speaker 1: cheating on more than one occasion. First, when I make

1148
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 1: an ample camp sir an old before I actually just

1149
00:55:57,520 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 1: looked that up. I didn't even know that was a

1150
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 1: chess move. I've do not help play chess. So basically,

1151
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 1: when you move the pond too, you can move upon

1152
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 1: two spaces at the beginning, but if there is I'm

1153
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 1: not going to explain who cares. Then when I try

1154
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 1: to castle his queen's side, Oh yeah, baby, you can

1155
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: cast what queen said anytime you want. He also tries

1156
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:25,360
Speaker 1: to castle out of check. It's ridiculous. It's profoundly annoying.

1157
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 1: Not because of what he's doing. I'm perfectly willing to

1158
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 1: teach a new player the rules, but because he's certain

1159
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: that he's right about it. Ough barf. He reminds me

1160
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 1: a lot of Michael Scott from the Office, just generally

1161
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 1: throwing a fit and winding like a child when he's wrong,

1162
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 1: except more annoying and cringey. Wow, sam Well is trying

1163
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: to make a conversation with me. I'm not really sure

1164
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:47,320
Speaker 1: what about, because.

1165
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 2: I can't stand listen to his voice. He's swearing like

1166
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 2: a sailor. I guess trying to sound edgy with his voice.

1167
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:58,399
Speaker 2: He just sounds like another kid on Xbox Live. I'm

1168
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 2: able to tune out his voice to certain degree, but

1169
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 2: I'm not able to tune out the food. In the

1170
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 2: middle of our game, he breaks out this all you

1171
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 2: can eat buffet of pasta raviolis and god knows what

1172
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 2: else is packaged up and that tup aware he just

1173
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 2: has like a whole like pasta pasta buffetes. Yeah, I

1174
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 2: mean he's a big boy. He's gotta get those calories.

1175
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 2: That's right, I gotta eat my food.

1176
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 1: Etiquette, it is probably a little uptight compared to most Americans,

1177
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: but this was just obscene. He's shoveling it mid sentence,

1178
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 1: chewing and smacking with his mouth open, feeling stuff all

1179
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 1: over himself. Oh God, the food by itself, this is

1180
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 1: like death. And his face whole wasn't making things any better.

1181
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 1: Meat sauce residue moves from spoon tour face does spinger

1182
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: the chest pieces with alarming speed. We get closer and

1183
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 1: closer at the end of the game, and Samuel takes

1184
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 1: longer and longer to move, even when he only has

1185
00:57:56,360 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 1: one possible move to make. Enter John Finally, he sees

1186
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 1: me playing with sam Well and looks a little hurt

1187
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:07,320
Speaker 1: that he's been upstaged, but he's content to just watch us.

1188
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 1: I can tell John is put off by the smell too.

1189
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 1: John and I get into some small side conversation and

1190
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 1: Samuell is eyeing us back and forth. Samuel asked, is

1191
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 1: Johnny your boyfriend awkward? This is only going to go

1192
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,960
Speaker 1: one of two ways. Yes, we are dating and you're

1193
00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:29,439
Speaker 1: a third wheel, or we aren't dating an awkward John

1194
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: and I laughed nervously, and I tell him no. Chivalry ensues, Oh,

1195
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 1: I don't even have a boyfriend. Well, I haven't been

1196
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 1: here for very long. Oh well, when you do, make

1197
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 1: sure to watch out for those assholes and douchebags at

1198
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 1: this school who don't know how to treat a real lady.

1199
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 1: For the record, I was already well acquainted with a

1200
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: nice guy mentality. Call it morbid curiosity, but I decided

1201
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: to press the topic with Samuell. What do you mean, Samuel.

1202
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 2: Well, A lot of guys, unlike myself. I feel like

1203
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 2: it's going into joker territory. A lot of guys unlike

1204
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 2: myself treat women like objects.

1205
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:20,080
Speaker 1: But women have never been Most women have never been

1206
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 1: treated like a woman by a good guy. I'm not

1207
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: exaggerating this quote by an inch. It's forever etched in

1208
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 1: my memory like a spaghetti stain on white pants. John

1209
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 1: is standing to the side and slightly behind Samuel, cocking

1210
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 1: his head a bit, giving me is this a guy

1211
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 1: for real eyes? I can see the train coming down

1212
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 1: the tracks, so I try to change the subject. But

1213
00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 1: my good gentle sir cannot neglect to impose upon milady

1214
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 1: with his philosophies.

1215
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 2: Most girls don't realize how beautiful they are, especially without makeup,

1216
00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 2: so they degrade themselves to get attention of guys who

1217
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 2: don't anyway, Like I bet if you don't wear much makeup,

1218
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 2: you can get a boyfriend.

1219
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: And just like that, put a smile on that face.

1220
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:15,600
Speaker 1: It's really devaulted in the love it. Three ties later

1221
01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 1: he just says, and just like that, But he's like

1222
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 1: trying to snap, but the grease is too greasy because

1223
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 1: the kids snapped his fingers. Oh my god, I went

1224
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 1: from cringe to rage pretty quickly. I ended up making

1225
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 1: a stupid mistake, and then the game ended in a stalemate,

1226
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 1: which he treated like a world championed victory. Oh my god,

1227
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:38,480
Speaker 1: there's not quite enough time left to play another game

1228
01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 1: with John, but too much time to leave early. I

1229
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:46,440
Speaker 1: politely decline a greasy, sweaty handshake with Samuel and stand

1230
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:49,760
Speaker 1: to talk to John. Samuel, sensing that he has needed

1231
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:53,640
Speaker 1: in our conversation, hauls himself from the seat. There's really one.

1232
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 1: There's really only a narrow lane between the chest tables

1233
01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:59,919
Speaker 1: and the computers. Two people can stand face to face,

1234
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:03,439
Speaker 1: but three people of normal girth would have trouble talk

1235
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 1: about the elephant in the roof. Literally, Samuel slides up

1236
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 1: next to me, mouth breathing, sweating.

1237
01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 2: Injecting himself into our conversation like a bad batch of

1238
01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 2: hair wish.

1239
01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 1: I don't quite remember how, but fencing comes up, and

1240
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 1: Samuell's eyes go big. Whow you fence? Like? Was sort?

1241
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 1: That's so cool? What do you fence at? I get

1242
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:34,800
Speaker 1: this question a lot, much more than you think. Most

1243
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 1: people don't really know about the sport in the US,

1244
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 1: so this is a pretty harmless way of stimulating conversation.

1245
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 1: I didn't think much of it, and eventually gave him

1246
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 1: the contact info of the gym I go too. I

1247
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 1: doubted he'd ever go past googling it. At most maybe

1248
01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:54,480
Speaker 1: he'd give it to someone else. But holy RAVIOLI, was

1249
01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:57,600
Speaker 1: I in for a shock because when I went to

1250
01:01:57,680 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 1: fencing class the next day, who should I see but

1251
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 1: mister Neckbeard. No, that's the end.

1252
01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 2: Wow, she has a whole series actually of this neckbeard

1253
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 2: gut call in here.

1254
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 1: But that's the end of part one. Yeah, yeah, do

1255
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 1: they not like read stigma on next stigma?

1256
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 2: Maybe they think it's cool, like when they read it

1257
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 2: and be like, oh, women are turned off by it

1258
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 2: and let me do something else to like try not to.

1259
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is so well written. It was a way

1260
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:27,720
Speaker 1: too descriptive, too descriptive. I have cancer, but my professor

1261
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:30,919
Speaker 1: demands I turn on my zoom camera. Fine, I'll show

1262
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 1: her something she'll never forget. So there are two important

1263
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 1: background things to know before the story. Yes, one, I

1264
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:38,800
Speaker 1: was diagnosed with a rare ovarian cancer at the beginning

1265
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 1: of this year. I had surgery and some chemo and

1266
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:42,880
Speaker 1: mostly and recovered. Now I still have to go in

1267
01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:45,120
Speaker 1: for frequent testing and occasional monitoring.

1268
01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 2: I'm a private person to the extent that I have

1269
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 2: data people for years without telling my parents. So you

1270
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 2: best believe my co workers and bosses are unaware of

1271
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 2: my medical history. No, but I attend a university that

1272
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 2: has an ambassador program. Basically, if you have a high

1273
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 2: enough GPA, you were able to interview with the program,

1274
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:02,920
Speaker 2: and if we get in, they pay you your tuition.

1275
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 2: During the time you're an ambassador, in exchange, you work

1276
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:08,400
Speaker 2: five hours a week in work, graduation, slash, other events.

1277
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 2: I am one of the ambassadors and this is my story.

1278
01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 1: My supervisor for the ambassador program, Miss Sam has spent

1279
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 1: the majority of our time together. Literally, mate, As I

1280
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 1: sit here about to type about her, I find myself

1281
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 1: already exasperated thinking about reliving some of these details. So

1282
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:26,439
Speaker 1: I will be short suitees for both your sake and mind.

1283
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 2: She follows every rule to the letter and leaves no

1284
01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 2: room for collaboration or discussion.

1285
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:33,880
Speaker 1: Is essentially like a freakin' robot.

1286
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:38,200
Speaker 2: Here is your paper. You have written words, Hey, goodie,

1287
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:41,120
Speaker 2: do shoes? Take those shoes off? Yes, that's right, donate

1288
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 2: them to good Will. Ye, let the homeless wear them.

1289
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 1: As an example, we use Microsoft teams for communication, and

1290
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 1: she has this clock in and out in a group

1291
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 1: of twenty people by saying I'm here and I'm leaving,

1292
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 1: So every day you have to scroll through dozens of

1293
01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 1: messages to find anything of import and listen to notifications

1294
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 1: sounds every time time someone so much as takes a

1295
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:03,400
Speaker 1: lunch break. Oh my gosh.

1296
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 2: I suggest using the time clock function on teams and

1297
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 2: where there's a time clock function on teams, wow wow,

1298
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 2: and even offered to set it up for us, but

1299
01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 2: was told I was deliberately undermining her position.

1300
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, you idiots. How dare you have a good idea?

1301
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: She sounds like Professor Umbridge from Harry Potter. Yeah. Another

1302
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:23,320
Speaker 1: example is her vehmiance. When I told her I didn't

1303
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: have any social media to advertise the college. She was

1304
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 1: certain I was lying and went so far as to

1305
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:31,880
Speaker 1: ask the other ambassadors to try and find me. That's

1306
01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 1: to be like breaking some kind of code. That's freaking weirdo.

1307
01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 1: God they didn't. There's nothing to find. Crazy concept. I've

1308
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:41,600
Speaker 1: challenged her a couple of junctures, but ultimately realized I

1309
01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 1: was fighting a losing battle and I'd be better just

1310
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:46,400
Speaker 1: keeping my head down. Yeah. Fast forward to four days

1311
01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: ago Friday. There's a mandatory virtual event in three days Monday,

1312
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 1: where the dean of the college would talk to the ambassadors,

1313
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 1: as well as live stream the event to the college's

1314
01:04:56,600 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 1: website and YouTube page. I see Miss em sent out

1315
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 1: a message that I will copy and paste here because

1316
01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 1: the information is so dramatic that it makes me truckle,

1317
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 1: and I quote.

1318
01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 2: Students must have their cameras on and phones off.

1319
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 1: Repeat, phones off, cameras on, Like, come on, lady, bold

1320
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:19,240
Speaker 1: caps or italics or email. Gave me a stroke. I

1321
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 1: follow up the same day, Miss M. Unfortunately, I will

1322
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 1: be at a doctor's appointment at the time and will

1323
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:28,000
Speaker 1: be unable to turn my camera on during the events.

1324
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:30,600
Speaker 1: So not that I have a doctor appointment and I

1325
01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:32,920
Speaker 1: can't they can't make it. I have a doctor's appointment

1326
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 1: and I can't turn on my Like, ohp, he's already

1327
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:39,040
Speaker 1: going way above and beyond. And no response. I send

1328
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:42,040
Speaker 1: another email to follow up, no response either. The day

1329
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 1: of the event rolls around and I direct message her

1330
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 1: through Microsoft Teams. This seems like an ad for Microsoft Teams. Yeah.

1331
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 1: Ten minutes before I see that she's seen the message

1332
01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:54,200
Speaker 1: with re proceipts and still nothing. What are you doing well?

1333
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 1: The video chat starts and several students join the session

1334
01:05:57,000 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 1: with their cameras on. Then the dean joins. He gets

1335
01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:03,400
Speaker 1: halfway to introducing himself and Miss M interrupts him, and

1336
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:06,840
Speaker 1: he takes a brief pause and says, excuse me, can

1337
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:10,120
Speaker 1: we please have all of the students turn their cameras on?

1338
01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 2: Oh A, why?

1339
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 1: I say nothing, but put a quick message. I have

1340
01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 1: already typed in anticipation in the group chat, saying, and

1341
01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:19,320
Speaker 1: I quote Miss M, I have a private situation that

1342
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:22,080
Speaker 1: bars me from turning on my camera. I have contacted

1343
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:25,919
Speaker 1: you individually, very reasonable not but a few seconds after

1344
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 1: I send it, I get called out by name no,

1345
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 1: and I respond audibly, missus M, I cannot turn on

1346
01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:36,960
Speaker 1: my camera at this time, and she responds, the expectations

1347
01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 1: wire clear, and you were told multiple times about this.

1348
01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:42,920
Speaker 1: Every other student has managed to do it, and I

1349
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 1: expect the same from you.

1350
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 2: God.

1351
01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:49,919
Speaker 1: One of the cool things about having cancer is become

1352
01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:52,400
Speaker 1: very familiar with the hospital staff, and if you're lucky,

1353
01:06:52,440 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 1: they're very funny talk to. During COVID, my nurses were

1354
01:06:55,400 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 1: my tethers to sanity because no one would visit me

1355
01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: while I had an impatient infusion. So I told one

1356
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 1: of the nurses, Amy about the situation beforehand. She joked

1357
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 1: that if I was told to turn my camera on,

1358
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 1: I should really play up my illness. In any other situation,

1359
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 1: I would have been entirely opposed, but sweet revenge was

1360
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 1: insight and I couldn't resist taste it. When I replay

1361
01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 1: it in my head, I imagine the anime fist clenching

1362
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:24,520
Speaker 1: thing when the protagonist resolved to get his revenge. I

1363
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:27,960
Speaker 1: set my laptop back a bit further from myself on

1364
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:30,720
Speaker 1: my legs so you can see the entirety of me

1365
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:35,920
Speaker 1: in my hospital Reggaea. Teams will display the person currently

1366
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:39,240
Speaker 1: talking as the largest image in the chat. Everyone had

1367
01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 1: their audio off except me, the Dean, and Missus M,

1368
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 1: so when I turned my camera on, I was displayed

1369
01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:49,640
Speaker 1: as the EKG loudly thrummed away on Max's volume thanks

1370
01:07:49,680 --> 01:07:53,400
Speaker 1: to Amy silence me. I asked Missus M through email

1371
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:55,720
Speaker 1: and teams if I could opt out of having camera on,

1372
01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 1: but she insisted. I waited a beat to see if

1373
01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:02,920
Speaker 1: anyone would say anything, and then continued with my special

1374
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:07,000
Speaker 1: vocal blend of melodramatic gratitude and illness, late and shaking it.

1375
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 1: Virtual engagement is so important for this new era of learning.

1376
01:08:11,480 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 1: I can see why having on the camera is important,

1377
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:16,879
Speaker 1: though I was hoping I might be granted an exception

1378
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 1: for my situation. This is amazing.

1379
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:23,720
Speaker 2: Then the dean responds, Miss R, you are more than

1380
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:25,439
Speaker 2: welcome to turn your camera off.

1381
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:28,880
Speaker 1: I am so sorry for the misunderstanding me. Thank you

1382
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 1: so much for making this special exception for me. It's

1383
01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 1: been a difficult week, but I feel grateful to be here.

1384
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 1: Then two people leave the call. One was missus M

1385
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:38,360
Speaker 1: and the other with Anthony, who was Missus M's boss.

1386
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 1: Oh I haven't heard from either of them yet, but

1387
01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:45,839
Speaker 1: I'm waiting with anticipation to find out what happens next. Damn,

1388
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 1: shout out to op is that is delicious? Delicious? I

1389
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 1: hope miss Adam got some reprimanding the very least. I

1390
01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: don't care if you have a drinking problem. Get out

1391
01:08:57,400 --> 01:09:01,919
Speaker 1: of my wedding. I thought weddings are drinking problems. Flourish

1392
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:06,439
Speaker 1: Uh that is typically I think. I think I've actually

1393
01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 1: heard that weddings are a safe space for you to

1394
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:13,559
Speaker 1: get edge drunk. Is it get off your rocker? Celem

1395
01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 1: love with smooching a bottle of whiskey.

1396
01:09:17,760 --> 01:09:20,799
Speaker 2: I have, I have a have a semi wedding story

1397
01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:24,280
Speaker 2: that I will save all all you that stick around

1398
01:09:24,280 --> 01:09:24,639
Speaker 2: to the.

1399
01:09:24,640 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 1: End, all of you ones. That's right.

1400
01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:33,839
Speaker 2: So I twenty five female and getting married Cora, congrats. Ope,

1401
01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:37,040
Speaker 2: my fiance twenty five male, and I have decided on

1402
01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:39,639
Speaker 2: dry weddings since we don't drink and see no point

1403
01:09:39,640 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 2: in spending money for alcohol.

1404
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:45,720
Speaker 1: Makes sense, makes sense. There is an expectation, I think

1405
01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:50,280
Speaker 1: from some folk of alcohol at weddings doesn't mean you

1406
01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:51,080
Speaker 1: have to indulge him.

1407
01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:55,479
Speaker 2: Though, yes it does. You are filthy, disgusting human beings.

1408
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:57,519
Speaker 2: How hare you you think.

1409
01:09:57,360 --> 01:10:03,640
Speaker 1: There is so much better than everyone else? We don't drink. No.

1410
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:06,760
Speaker 2: Now, we were debating about getting a cash bar, but

1411
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:11,000
Speaker 2: then decided to do nok alcohol at all. Oh so

1412
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:13,200
Speaker 2: a cash bar where people have to pay, People can

1413
01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:14,400
Speaker 2: if they want to.

1414
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:18,519
Speaker 1: But I think that would be worse. Really, I think.

1415
01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:20,920
Speaker 1: I think having a cash bar where people have to pay.

1416
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:23,160
Speaker 2: Like just the feeling of yeah, you go up and

1417
01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 2: you're like hey, and he's like, that'll.

1418
01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:28,320
Speaker 1: Be thirty dollars. Yeah, yeah, that does suck. You're right,

1419
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 1: I would be. I would. I would punch somebody for sure. Yeah,

1420
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 1: what the hell?

1421
01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 2: There will be a wide range of other drinks, not

1422
01:10:35,560 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 2: just juice and soda.

1423
01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:39,280
Speaker 1: Provided. I love how they're like, well, we'll have more

1424
01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:41,920
Speaker 1: than juice and soda, Like what else? What else? Hot chok?

1425
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1426
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:46,479
Speaker 1: Name it? I would love hot chocolate. That'd be great.

1427
01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:50,280
Speaker 1: You better spend it, like an equal amount then on

1428
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:55,479
Speaker 1: a crazy drinks like Peruvian starfruit juice or like a

1429
01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 1: guava yrbamate very fermented. Now we're talking.

1430
01:11:01,160 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 2: We informed guests via invitations with something the el, with

1431
01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 2: something along the lines of you don't have to be

1432
01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 2: worried about choosing a driver or paying a taxi since

1433
01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:11,639
Speaker 2: everyone will be able to drive.

1434
01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:14,640
Speaker 1: It's kind of funny. It's funny.

1435
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:18,639
Speaker 2: So a friend, twenty six male called me and asked

1436
01:11:18,840 --> 01:11:21,679
Speaker 2: if I was joking about doing the dry wedding.

1437
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:23,760
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me?

1438
01:11:24,520 --> 01:11:29,720
Speaker 2: Uh, I'm a frat star broh and I need that

1439
01:11:29,880 --> 01:11:32,880
Speaker 2: alcohol to get my frat star energy to make sure

1440
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:37,840
Speaker 2: this party is moving. Yeah, I said I wasn't joking.

1441
01:11:38,400 --> 01:11:41,800
Speaker 2: He asked two more times and I still said I

1442
01:11:41,800 --> 01:11:45,439
Speaker 2: ain't joking. Then he asked what was wrong with me?

1443
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:49,320
Speaker 2: And how is he supposed to have fun without any drinks?

1444
01:11:49,439 --> 01:11:52,880
Speaker 2: And how is he supposed to function that night. Yoh,

1445
01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 2: it sounds like you've got a problem, mate. How am

1446
01:11:55,320 --> 01:12:00,640
Speaker 2: I supposed to function that night? And he added that

1447
01:12:00,760 --> 01:12:03,719
Speaker 2: it was not okay to choose a dry wedding.

1448
01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 1: Yo, they are wedding. They could do whatever they want

1449
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 1: bad and if it really means so much for you,

1450
01:12:10,439 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 1: get one of those you know, you know those tiny

1451
01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 1: bottles called flask. No, no, not the flask like people

1452
01:12:16,400 --> 01:12:20,400
Speaker 1: call him, They call him flas nipples. I've recently learned

1453
01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:21,679
Speaker 1: that some people call them that. Yeah.

1454
01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:24,160
Speaker 2: I was like, what, yeah, I know, bring some nipples

1455
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:25,959
Speaker 2: with you them.

1456
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:30,880
Speaker 1: I'm right touch those areolas?

1457
01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:35,160
Speaker 2: Oh my, now this is where I might have been

1458
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:38,040
Speaker 2: the a hole. I told him that I was not

1459
01:12:38,160 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 2: obligated to provide any drinks to him just because he's

1460
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:45,080
Speaker 2: not able to have fun without it, and that if

1461
01:12:45,120 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 2: he needed drinks so badly and cannot function without it

1462
01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 2: for even one night with people, he knew that he

1463
01:12:52,120 --> 01:12:55,720
Speaker 2: might have a drinking problem and should consider therapy to

1464
01:12:55,840 --> 01:12:56,320
Speaker 2: treat it.

1465
01:12:56,760 --> 01:13:00,439
Speaker 1: Yo. That's catch twenty two kind of set up there.

1466
01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:03,839
Speaker 1: It's like, hey, either you're you have a drinking problem

1467
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:07,639
Speaker 1: or suck it up. But ba shots have been fired

1468
01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:09,120
Speaker 1: in both directions. Ladies and gentlemen.

1469
01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:15,000
Speaker 2: He flipped out on me and I took his invitation

1470
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:18,920
Speaker 2: back until he apologized because he used many slurs on me.

1471
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:22,440
Speaker 1: Jeez, what is this friend? What is this friendship?

1472
01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:28,880
Speaker 2: Friendship dude? Oh my goodness, slurs, dude. Our friends are

1473
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 2: divided about me being the ahole. Some say I was

1474
01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:36,240
Speaker 2: right and others say I was not right. So reddit,

1475
01:13:37,000 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 2: am I the ahole? I want to hear what you

1476
01:13:39,320 --> 01:13:42,760
Speaker 2: guys think too, But like Opia is definitely in the right,

1477
01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:45,679
Speaker 2: I would say it depends on how.

1478
01:13:45,560 --> 01:13:49,920
Speaker 1: The guy delivered. The friend delivered what he's saying. He's

1479
01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:52,960
Speaker 1: an asshole for sure, because it's it's their wedding, so

1480
01:13:53,200 --> 01:13:54,040
Speaker 1: they can do it there. Yeah.

1481
01:13:54,040 --> 01:13:55,800
Speaker 2: Ohp he gets to control whatever they want to do.

1482
01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:58,160
Speaker 2: And it probably sounds like it's a drinking problem.

1483
01:13:58,200 --> 01:14:02,680
Speaker 1: Props to Ope for pointing out a the problem so

1484
01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:05,280
Speaker 1: the friend could possibly find the solution. Yeah.

1485
01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:08,160
Speaker 2: I call the police on my fiance. She's furious and

1486
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:09,640
Speaker 2: now I think she's cheating on me.

1487
01:14:10,280 --> 01:14:12,680
Speaker 1: Maybe she's mad because when the police officers came in,

1488
01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:16,720
Speaker 1: she realized she was cheating with the police officer. I'm

1489
01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:20,640
Speaker 1: so sorry, officer, don't don't do it. Please, pie me

1490
01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:23,679
Speaker 1: up against the bed officer. But a bad girl.

1491
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:27,360
Speaker 2: Last night, my thirty five male fiance thirty eight female

1492
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:30,439
Speaker 2: left in the evening to give a friend's son a

1493
01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:36,640
Speaker 2: ride back to his home, supposedly, allegedly allegedly sad is

1494
01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:38,719
Speaker 2: like she's cheating, yeah, with.

1495
01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:46,639
Speaker 1: The friend's sun what she implied she'd be home before nine,

1496
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:52,240
Speaker 1: because she left around seven forty five pm. How much

1497
01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 1: time do you need to pick up someone? How much

1498
01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 1: time do you need? Show me the distance, show me

1499
01:14:56,960 --> 01:15:00,400
Speaker 1: the Google maps. Yeah, there we go. Give me the et. Yeah,

1500
01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:02,000
Speaker 1: I want to see that. I want to see where

1501
01:15:02,000 --> 01:15:04,479
Speaker 1: it's located. I want to pictures with the kid. Yep.

1502
01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 2: So here's the thing. Ten fifteen rolls around. She was

1503
01:15:08,240 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 2: supposed to come home by nine. Ten fifteen rolled around,

1504
01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 2: and she still wasn't home.

1505
01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 1: It's not good. That's like many hours past.

1506
01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:21,240
Speaker 2: Well, she was supposed to be home at nine, so

1507
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:24,200
Speaker 2: an hour an hour of fifteen? Okay, an she left

1508
01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:28,920
Speaker 2: at seven forty five. Now I texted and she apologized

1509
01:15:28,960 --> 01:15:31,599
Speaker 2: to me, saying her friend's son was actually in the

1510
01:15:31,640 --> 01:15:35,760
Speaker 2: next town over, maybe thirty minutes away, and now.

1511
01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:37,600
Speaker 1: She was coming home suspicious.

1512
01:15:38,200 --> 01:15:42,400
Speaker 2: Now, eleven forty five rolls around and she still hadn't

1513
01:15:42,520 --> 01:15:49,040
Speaker 2: come home, So I called her to no answer, So specious.

1514
01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:51,560
Speaker 1: Why you pick it up, y'all? Phone?

1515
01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:55,439
Speaker 2: I texted her, no response At this point, I was

1516
01:15:55,479 --> 01:16:01,599
Speaker 2: getting very upset. H Twelve thirty year around and she's

1517
01:16:01,640 --> 01:16:03,480
Speaker 2: not back by twelve thirty.

1518
01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:06,400
Speaker 1: Three and a half hours late.

1519
01:16:06,960 --> 01:16:10,320
Speaker 2: My god, from dropping a friend off, like and it's

1520
01:16:10,360 --> 01:16:11,680
Speaker 2: not like it was like, oh, I'm going to some

1521
01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:15,360
Speaker 2: event or something. Yeah, you're dropping, So there's a defined

1522
01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:17,080
Speaker 2: point of of you're done.

1523
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:19,720
Speaker 1: Also, like give updates if you say you're going to

1524
01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:20,760
Speaker 1: be back at a certain time.

1525
01:16:20,720 --> 01:16:23,880
Speaker 2: Truly, like like like oh, oh gosh, I got huge

1526
01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:25,679
Speaker 2: crash or whatever, I'm stuck.

1527
01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:27,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, in like two hours, here's my new ETA.

1528
01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:30,759
Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's very easy to give updates unless

1529
01:16:30,760 --> 01:16:39,280
Speaker 2: you're occupied using them, hance for something else. Could you

1530
01:16:39,320 --> 01:16:42,439
Speaker 2: imagine if she like went to some like you know,

1531
01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:45,120
Speaker 2: five star girl mat Kitchen to b to like surprise

1532
01:16:45,200 --> 01:16:47,360
Speaker 2: him with like a birthday ca like something.

1533
01:16:47,120 --> 01:16:50,000
Speaker 1: Like that, she's actually about to propose. Yeah, yeah, double propose.

1534
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's just planning a Yeah. Twelve thirty rolls around

1535
01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:57,840
Speaker 2: and still no response, no answer to the phone call.

1536
01:16:58,160 --> 01:17:01,519
Speaker 1: I'm angry. Won thirty rolls.

1537
01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:05,600
Speaker 2: Around and my anger has completely transformed into worry, not

1538
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:08,639
Speaker 2: answering my calls and my texts are not being read.

1539
01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:11,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, would You're like, dude, is everything okay?

1540
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:14,840
Speaker 2: It's weird that, like, you know, four over four hours later,

1541
01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 2: I'm getting nothing. Yeah, in the night, in the night,

1542
01:17:18,800 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 2: around one forty five in the morning, I called the police.

1543
01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:23,680
Speaker 2: I've always heard that the first twenty four hours of

1544
01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:26,160
Speaker 2: someone being missing is the most important, so I didn't

1545
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:28,360
Speaker 2: want to delay. I asked them to let me know

1546
01:17:28,400 --> 01:17:31,840
Speaker 2: if there had been any traffic accidents involving her exact car,

1547
01:17:32,080 --> 01:17:33,960
Speaker 2: and the operator told me that they would put out

1548
01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:36,000
Speaker 2: the word and send some cops to check along the

1549
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:38,240
Speaker 2: route that she would be traveling the.

1550
01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:40,720
Speaker 1: First twenty four So, but like, you can't actually call

1551
01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:43,200
Speaker 1: it a missing person until forty eight hours, right, I

1552
01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:46,599
Speaker 1: twenty four is what I've heard. You can call someone

1553
01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:48,240
Speaker 1: a missing person after twenty four hours.

1554
01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:50,760
Speaker 2: That's what I heard from the film Bridesmaids, which I

1555
01:17:50,800 --> 01:17:51,639
Speaker 2: recently launched.

1556
01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:55,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that may or may not be the most accurate

1557
01:17:55,040 --> 01:17:59,080
Speaker 1: so of information. Yeah, let's let's consult the internet here,

1558
01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:04,000
Speaker 1: just way a common misconception is that a person must

1559
01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:07,879
Speaker 1: be absent for at least twenty four hours before legally

1560
01:18:07,920 --> 01:18:13,720
Speaker 1: classified as missing twelve hours forty eight. If you feel that,

1561
01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:15,920
Speaker 1: it just says to do it as soon as possible.

1562
01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:18,040
Speaker 1: So I guess there's no can do it. So it's

1563
01:18:18,040 --> 01:18:19,960
Speaker 1: a misconception that you have to wait twenty four hours.

1564
01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:23,280
Speaker 2: Face. Yeah, I called all the hospitals in the area

1565
01:18:23,360 --> 01:18:25,439
Speaker 2: to check if she had been checked in, and I

1566
01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:27,240
Speaker 2: waited outside watching.

1567
01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:30,599
Speaker 1: The road for her car for three more hours. Good.

1568
01:18:30,960 --> 01:18:34,040
Speaker 2: It's like three am now, yeah, literally like three four

1569
01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:34,880
Speaker 2: am in the morning.

1570
01:18:35,040 --> 01:18:37,080
Speaker 1: She hasn't updated him at all. Nothing.

1571
01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 2: Partially because I didn't want the kids to hear me

1572
01:18:40,439 --> 01:18:41,920
Speaker 2: on the phone with hospitals.

1573
01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:45,280
Speaker 1: Oh they have kids. They That makes it a lot worse.

1574
01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 1: That makes it damn, bro.

1575
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:53,240
Speaker 2: And secondly because I was sick with worry. At seven

1576
01:18:53,280 --> 01:18:59,519
Speaker 2: am in the morning, after dropping off a friend one

1577
01:18:59,640 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 2: down over, she left twelve hour It took her twelve.

1578
01:19:04,000 --> 01:19:05,880
Speaker 1: Hours, bro.

1579
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:09,640
Speaker 2: She went across state lines to deliver like the military

1580
01:19:09,720 --> 01:19:12,400
Speaker 2: must have caught like like Joe Biden is like, ma'am,

1581
01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:15,360
Speaker 2: we need your son delivered to this military base. Three

1582
01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:19,080
Speaker 2: is two states over fronto She's like, I'm on it, Staf,

1583
01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:23,840
Speaker 2: You're the only one she has, and yeah, it comes

1584
01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:25,080
Speaker 2: out of like a secret closet.

1585
01:19:25,600 --> 01:19:26,799
Speaker 1: We need you right now.

1586
01:19:26,880 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's me sleepy Joe, but I'm awake tonight, ma'am.

1587
01:19:34,040 --> 01:19:36,960
Speaker 2: So at seven am she comes home. She apologized for

1588
01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:39,080
Speaker 2: being out and said she had no excuse.

1589
01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:44,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't. You don't just say what happened.

1590
01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:46,920
Speaker 2: Seriously, you don't have an excuse, but you gotta tell

1591
01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:49,719
Speaker 2: me what happened. She was driving home and she felt tired,

1592
01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:52,080
Speaker 2: as if she was falling asleep at the wheel, so

1593
01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 2: she said she pulled over to the.

1594
01:19:53,520 --> 01:19:56,680
Speaker 1: Side of the road to sleep. Is that all you're

1595
01:19:56,680 --> 01:19:58,439
Speaker 1: doing for a long ass sleep.

1596
01:19:59,040 --> 01:20:01,679
Speaker 2: When she did that, she found that her brand new

1597
01:20:01,760 --> 01:20:10,040
Speaker 2: phone had conveniently stopped working. Nice your face, Your face,

1598
01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:11,880
Speaker 2: I also love that.

1599
01:20:12,439 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 1: Doesn't believe it. He's like, brand new phone stop working.

1600
01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:19,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, she says, she napped anyway because it was a

1601
01:20:19,360 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 2: responsible thing to do, and then came home at seven

1602
01:20:22,640 --> 01:20:24,720
Speaker 2: am to bring the kids to school and then get

1603
01:20:24,760 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 2: to work on time. Huh, why wouldn't she call him

1604
01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:32,360
Speaker 2: unless this brand new phone is so broken?

1605
01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:34,000
Speaker 1: Baby, it was just dead.

1606
01:20:34,439 --> 01:20:36,519
Speaker 2: I immediately called the police and told them that she

1607
01:20:36,560 --> 01:20:38,759
Speaker 2: had come home safely, and gave them the case number

1608
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:41,840
Speaker 2: and told them to stop searching, which they did. My

1609
01:20:41,920 --> 01:20:44,360
Speaker 2: fiance brought the kids to school and left for work.

1610
01:20:44,560 --> 01:20:47,599
Speaker 2: I set out to start cleaning. Clean distresses me sometimes,

1611
01:20:48,000 --> 01:20:50,800
Speaker 2: and I got a call from the policeman asking where

1612
01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:53,920
Speaker 2: she worked. I told him, and I asked why, and

1613
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:56,240
Speaker 2: I was informed that it was policy to check on

1614
01:20:56,280 --> 01:21:00,280
Speaker 2: the person's wellness after a missing person is found. Ask

1615
01:21:00,360 --> 01:21:02,280
Speaker 2: them not to go buy her work, but to give

1616
01:21:02,280 --> 01:21:06,000
Speaker 2: her a call instead. He said he couldn't make any promises.

1617
01:21:06,760 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 1: Really that have to do that? Yeah, that sucks. Why

1618
01:21:11,880 --> 01:21:13,639
Speaker 1: would you have to go to their place of work?

1619
01:21:13,680 --> 01:21:15,920
Speaker 1: That seems like yeah, he disruptive.

1620
01:21:16,040 --> 01:21:19,000
Speaker 2: I see, yeah, I see like a check in period,

1621
01:21:19,040 --> 01:21:20,880
Speaker 2: like okay, it's a good like standard, pauls like it.

1622
01:21:20,920 --> 01:21:22,000
Speaker 1: It's policy, like it's good.

1623
01:21:22,160 --> 01:21:25,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, my fiance is relatively new to her job. A

1624
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:31,080
Speaker 2: police officer really bad. Yeah, a police officer showed up

1625
01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 2: and asked.

1626
01:21:32,080 --> 01:21:33,120
Speaker 1: To speak with her.

1627
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:38,679
Speaker 2: Really, excuse me, little lady, come over here. I'm looking

1628
01:21:38,840 --> 01:21:40,439
Speaker 2: for Darlene.

1629
01:21:40,080 --> 01:21:43,360
Speaker 1: X y Z. Like they must know how bad that

1630
01:21:43,439 --> 01:21:48,559
Speaker 1: looks for especially for someone like like is that is

1631
01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:52,200
Speaker 1: that true. That's is that really what happens? I guess

1632
01:21:52,280 --> 01:21:54,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like why can't they I guess they

1633
01:21:54,120 --> 01:21:56,160
Speaker 1: can't check up on home in case, like you know,

1634
01:21:56,800 --> 01:22:00,400
Speaker 1: that's actually even better then if there's like domestic islence

1635
01:22:00,479 --> 01:22:01,680
Speaker 1: kind of thing. I don't know.

1636
01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:05,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that is because I do see a check in. Yeah,

1637
01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:06,200
Speaker 2: because the person.

1638
01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:08,800
Speaker 1: Makes sense, but it could be I just it's just, man,

1639
01:22:08,880 --> 01:22:11,040
Speaker 1: that's really disruptive. Yeah.

1640
01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:14,679
Speaker 2: She is now enraged at me for calling the police

1641
01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:17,960
Speaker 2: and sending a cop to her work and making her

1642
01:22:18,040 --> 01:22:19,120
Speaker 2: look bad.

1643
01:22:19,840 --> 01:22:22,400
Speaker 1: She I mean, like, all right, let's let's had it

1644
01:22:22,520 --> 01:22:27,320
Speaker 1: for a second that she wasn't cheating and everything she

1645
01:22:27,400 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 1: said was true. But like I would understand being mad

1646
01:22:33,040 --> 01:22:35,479
Speaker 1: like that would make sense. I would probably be mad

1647
01:22:35,520 --> 01:22:37,800
Speaker 1: about that. Where ye where It'd be like, Bro, you

1648
01:22:37,840 --> 01:22:40,040
Speaker 1: said a cop to my work. I just started this job.

1649
01:22:40,040 --> 01:22:43,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to like make a good impression on Joey

1650
01:22:43,920 --> 01:22:47,080
Speaker 1: the Boss and and Jay and and all.

1651
01:22:47,680 --> 01:22:50,200
Speaker 2: Maybe she's making too good of an impression on Joey

1652
01:22:50,200 --> 01:22:50,599
Speaker 2: the Boss.

1653
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:53,400
Speaker 1: She's making the best of Maybe Joey the Boss is

1654
01:22:53,439 --> 01:23:01,600
Speaker 1: making impression in her. I would say it, but I won't.

1655
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:05,519
Speaker 2: She is saying I overreacted, and that she wasn't missing,

1656
01:23:05,680 --> 01:23:08,400
Speaker 2: and I was punishing her for doing the responsible thing

1657
01:23:08,720 --> 01:23:14,920
Speaker 2: and not driving wild drowsy. You know what's responsible, not

1658
01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:19,760
Speaker 2: a stranger when your children are waiting at home. She

1659
01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:21,960
Speaker 2: is saying that she's never going to leave the house

1660
01:23:22,080 --> 01:23:25,360
Speaker 2: again ever, except for work, because she is so afraid

1661
01:23:25,400 --> 01:23:27,120
Speaker 2: I'm going to call the cops on her again.

1662
01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:30,920
Speaker 1: So good outcome now she has.

1663
01:23:31,000 --> 01:23:34,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no choice. So did I overreact? She should

1664
01:23:34,720 --> 01:23:37,240
Speaker 2: I have waited two days like she suggested.

1665
01:23:37,400 --> 01:23:39,120
Speaker 1: I mean two days is a long time.

1666
01:23:39,240 --> 01:23:42,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I would probably text them a couple of times,

1667
01:23:42,040 --> 01:23:44,680
Speaker 2: and then maybe that following night, then I would be

1668
01:23:44,720 --> 01:23:46,720
Speaker 2: probably pretty well. Yeah yeah, the fall, Yeah, once it

1669
01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:48,559
Speaker 2: reaches the next night, I would give a bunch of calls.

1670
01:23:48,600 --> 01:23:51,840
Speaker 2: But there is a very interesting comment. Uh No, her

1671
01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:54,720
Speaker 2: whole story is a big fat lie. She told you

1672
01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:57,280
Speaker 2: she would be home by nine, but somehow was wrong

1673
01:23:57,320 --> 01:23:58,559
Speaker 2: about where the kid lived.

1674
01:23:58,640 --> 01:24:00,400
Speaker 1: Did she not know the town before hand?

1675
01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:02,880
Speaker 2: Did she start driving thirty minutes in and then the

1676
01:24:02,960 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 2: kid goes, oh no, wait, I live here, not there.

1677
01:24:06,439 --> 01:24:08,479
Speaker 2: That part of the story doesn't even make any sense.

1678
01:24:08,720 --> 01:24:11,400
Speaker 2: So she ended up changing the time. Then she got

1679
01:24:11,479 --> 01:24:13,720
Speaker 2: tired and pulled over to nap on the side of

1680
01:24:13,720 --> 01:24:16,519
Speaker 2: the road. You do realize that if the police were

1681
01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:19,719
Speaker 2: sent to her route looking for her on the roads

1682
01:24:19,720 --> 01:24:22,000
Speaker 2: she claimed she would be on, then she would be

1683
01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 2: napping in her car on the side of that road

1684
01:24:24,680 --> 01:24:26,599
Speaker 2: and they would have found her right Like, they had

1685
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:29,200
Speaker 2: the description of her car because he mentioned it for

1686
01:24:29,200 --> 01:24:31,719
Speaker 2: the accidents and the exact roads.

1687
01:24:32,040 --> 01:24:35,719
Speaker 1: That's they went to the roads. So the first point

1688
01:24:35,800 --> 01:24:38,280
Speaker 1: in the case, like I actually feasible. I mean, I

1689
01:24:38,280 --> 01:24:42,000
Speaker 1: don't necessarily agree with where it's Like yesterday, my friend

1690
01:24:42,479 --> 01:24:45,840
Speaker 1: was picking up some audio equipment and he accidentally drove

1691
01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:47,800
Speaker 1: to a different address and once he got there he

1692
01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:49,680
Speaker 1: realized it wasn't the address. He's like, oh, dude, I'm

1693
01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:53,280
Speaker 1: gonna be late. You know that that happens. I find

1694
01:24:53,320 --> 01:24:56,120
Speaker 1: that fairly believable. The pulling to the side of the road.

1695
01:24:56,200 --> 01:25:00,480
Speaker 1: They for like hours hours.

1696
01:24:59,760 --> 01:25:03,040
Speaker 2: Like even if my phone is acting funky, I would

1697
01:25:03,040 --> 01:25:07,040
Speaker 2: call my partner and be like call someone something, do

1698
01:25:07,880 --> 01:25:11,000
Speaker 2: something like yeah, And then her new phone just happened

1699
01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:13,679
Speaker 2: to be not working despite the fact that simply does

1700
01:25:13,720 --> 01:25:16,240
Speaker 2: not happen. And even if it was working properly, she

1701
01:25:16,439 --> 01:25:19,000
Speaker 2: still could have called nine one one. That's not even

1702
01:25:19,000 --> 01:25:20,880
Speaker 2: mentioning the fact that I don't know a single woman

1703
01:25:20,960 --> 01:25:23,200
Speaker 2: myself included, who would pull over on the side of

1704
01:25:23,200 --> 01:25:25,919
Speaker 2: the rope and just sleep in her car with no phone.

1705
01:25:25,960 --> 01:25:28,639
Speaker 1: It seems a little suspect, Like, what do you guys think,

1706
01:25:28,720 --> 01:25:31,960
Speaker 1: like items, let us know what? Yeah, I know. I'm like,

1707
01:25:32,400 --> 01:25:37,719
Speaker 1: I'm inclined to think it's suspicious. The seven hour thing, Yeah,

1708
01:25:37,760 --> 01:25:42,040
Speaker 1: a little suspicious. Yeah. Does she start like leaving more often? Yeah?

1709
01:25:42,080 --> 01:25:44,720
Speaker 1: Does she start spending nights other places?

1710
01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:47,920
Speaker 2: So either way, that's she's spending like at least five

1711
01:25:47,960 --> 01:25:49,479
Speaker 2: hours just sleeping in her car.

1712
01:25:50,000 --> 01:25:50,920
Speaker 1: Strange. Strange.

1713
01:25:51,160 --> 01:25:56,480
Speaker 2: My own parents dissooned my children, and now I'm getting revenge.

1714
01:25:56,680 --> 01:25:59,400
Speaker 1: What did the children do? I'm like, like, what is

1715
01:25:59,479 --> 01:26:00,840
Speaker 1: worthy of being disowned?

1716
01:26:01,040 --> 01:26:04,559
Speaker 2: You know, you spilt your juice on Grandma's special chair,

1717
01:26:05,040 --> 01:26:07,559
Speaker 2: so now you're it was a special chair, It was eighteen,

1718
01:26:08,040 --> 01:26:11,400
Speaker 2: it was in the family, was grandma generations? You dropped

1719
01:26:11,400 --> 01:26:13,800
Speaker 2: one of my vintage plates. I don't even know if

1720
01:26:13,840 --> 01:26:15,040
Speaker 2: plates are vintage.

1721
01:26:14,640 --> 01:26:18,400
Speaker 1: But I think the kids stop listening to Andrew Tait

1722
01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:20,240
Speaker 1: and Grandma is a big taite taint.

1723
01:26:20,560 --> 01:26:24,280
Speaker 2: WHOA that is a plot twist plot twist. That's the

1724
01:26:24,360 --> 01:26:25,280
Speaker 2: right a story I would read.

1725
01:26:26,600 --> 01:26:29,080
Speaker 1: I thirty two female, have been with my wife Ava

1726
01:26:29,200 --> 01:26:32,280
Speaker 1: thirty four female for eight years now, but we've been

1727
01:26:32,280 --> 01:26:32,920
Speaker 1: married for five.

1728
01:26:33,560 --> 01:26:35,240
Speaker 2: She was a single mom of three kids when we

1729
01:26:35,240 --> 01:26:37,880
Speaker 2: started dating. She had two daughters now ten and twelve,

1730
01:26:37,960 --> 01:26:40,960
Speaker 2: and a son now sixteen. Okay, now I've watched these

1731
01:26:41,040 --> 01:26:43,839
Speaker 2: kids grow up. I read them bedtime stories, do bathtime,

1732
01:26:43,920 --> 01:26:46,320
Speaker 2: first day of school, pta meetings, all of it. But

1733
01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:49,919
Speaker 2: is she doing bedtime stories with the voices? That's important,

1734
01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:53,000
Speaker 2: you know. I think if you don't do the voices,

1735
01:26:53,479 --> 01:26:55,880
Speaker 2: you basically not reading the story. You're not and you're

1736
01:26:55,880 --> 01:26:59,479
Speaker 2: basically not family. You're not family grounds for something. It's

1737
01:26:59,520 --> 01:27:04,639
Speaker 2: in the con the family contract. Now, I very much

1738
01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:06,920
Speaker 2: consider them to be my kids. And they've been calling

1739
01:27:06,920 --> 01:27:08,920
Speaker 2: me mom for almost six years.

1740
01:27:09,600 --> 01:27:12,559
Speaker 1: It's a long time now, my brother, I you know,

1741
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:15,439
Speaker 1: when when the when the girl you're dating calls you

1742
01:27:15,520 --> 01:27:20,200
Speaker 1: daddy for at least six months, that means something. How

1743
01:27:20,640 --> 01:27:24,200
Speaker 1: kids call you mommy for six years that means something too.

1744
01:27:24,600 --> 01:27:29,680
Speaker 1: I mean that jump though, if if you.

1745
01:27:32,479 --> 01:27:38,960
Speaker 2: If you're yeah, you said that they were family. Yeah,

1746
01:27:39,400 --> 01:27:42,599
Speaker 2: need need to be marked as it dependent on my taxes.

1747
01:27:42,800 --> 01:27:43,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1748
01:27:46,520 --> 01:27:48,680
Speaker 2: My brother I've been twenty eight male, just had a

1749
01:27:48,680 --> 01:27:52,200
Speaker 2: baby girl with his fiance, Sarah twenty seven female. I

1750
01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:54,760
Speaker 2: love my niece and my kids adore their cousin. My

1751
01:27:54,840 --> 01:27:57,320
Speaker 2: kids have been the only grandchildren of the family since

1752
01:27:57,320 --> 01:27:59,920
Speaker 2: even I got together, and there's never been a moment

1753
01:28:00,240 --> 01:28:02,400
Speaker 2: where the kids and my wife were treated like they

1754
01:28:02,439 --> 01:28:03,000
Speaker 2: don't belong.

1755
01:28:03,320 --> 01:28:05,599
Speaker 1: My brother is their uncle, My mom and dad are

1756
01:28:05,640 --> 01:28:06,639
Speaker 1: their nana and pop.

1757
01:28:06,840 --> 01:28:09,760
Speaker 2: The kids see my family as their family, and I

1758
01:28:09,840 --> 01:28:11,960
Speaker 2: always thought they felt the same way.

1759
01:28:12,439 --> 01:28:14,639
Speaker 1: Okay, so I thought like everything was good.

1760
01:28:14,640 --> 01:28:20,160
Speaker 2: But maybe not, Maybe they want to sacrifice them like

1761
01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:24,519
Speaker 2: in three hundred Yes you are you strong enough?

1762
01:28:24,640 --> 01:28:27,800
Speaker 1: Or like the Aztecs, I want your heart, you know.

1763
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:34,000
Speaker 2: That was another great impression of the session, the heartbeat.

1764
01:28:34,040 --> 01:28:37,640
Speaker 2: I never would have predicted that. One the kids and

1765
01:28:37,680 --> 01:28:39,960
Speaker 2: I were over at my brother's house just hanging out,

1766
01:28:40,200 --> 01:28:42,639
Speaker 2: and my parents ended up dropping by with some gifts

1767
01:28:42,640 --> 01:28:43,240
Speaker 2: for my niece.

1768
01:28:44,120 --> 01:28:46,639
Speaker 1: For my new baby niece, I even.

1769
01:28:46,479 --> 01:28:48,760
Speaker 2: Laughed when he saw the toys and told our mom

1770
01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:51,639
Speaker 2: and dad that they were gonna end up spoiling her rotten.

1771
01:28:52,640 --> 01:28:56,120
Speaker 2: My mom said, since my niece was their first grandchild,

1772
01:28:56,640 --> 01:29:02,240
Speaker 2: of course they would spoil her.

1773
01:29:02,040 --> 01:29:05,240
Speaker 1: Curious, right, you're you're debating.

1774
01:29:05,320 --> 01:29:10,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean just the way the way it's said, though,

1775
01:29:11,360 --> 01:29:17,560
Speaker 2: is kind of wild. First grandchild child by blood though, yeah,

1776
01:29:17,600 --> 01:29:21,479
Speaker 2: by blood. But it's like, would you say it like

1777
01:29:21,479 --> 01:29:23,439
Speaker 2: like if these kids I've been in the family for

1778
01:29:23,520 --> 01:29:30,280
Speaker 2: six years, basically like, yeah, I guess it's weird. I

1779
01:29:30,360 --> 01:29:33,720
Speaker 2: don't know, Sam is pro grandparents on this one. I'm

1780
01:29:33,760 --> 01:29:38,439
Speaker 2: not like, yeah, yeah, pro bro Yeah, but it doesn't

1781
01:29:38,479 --> 01:29:42,000
Speaker 2: feel like a huge like slight to me. Yeah, yeah,

1782
01:29:42,040 --> 01:29:44,040
Speaker 2: at least at this point. Well, we'll see how it

1783
01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:47,760
Speaker 2: goes down. Yeah, my kids and I were sitting in

1784
01:29:47,840 --> 01:29:50,519
Speaker 2: the living room, and all of us, including my youngest daughter,

1785
01:29:50,800 --> 01:29:53,599
Speaker 2: looked hurt when she realized what my mom had said.

1786
01:29:54,240 --> 01:29:56,679
Speaker 2: My son and my twelve year old didn't fully react

1787
01:29:56,680 --> 01:29:58,519
Speaker 2: to it, but I could tell that it bothered the

1788
01:29:58,560 --> 01:30:02,400
Speaker 2: both of them too. Sarah spoke up and said, oh,

1789
01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:05,640
Speaker 2: you mean first grandbaby. Oh you mean first grandbaby, not

1790
01:30:05,680 --> 01:30:09,640
Speaker 2: first grandchild. But then my dad shook his head and

1791
01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:13,960
Speaker 2: replied that my niece was their true first grandchild.

1792
01:30:14,680 --> 01:30:20,559
Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's true. That's true. First. I mean, I

1793
01:30:20,600 --> 01:30:24,439
Speaker 1: think that's that's crossing the line. Yeah, yeah, it's like

1794
01:30:24,479 --> 01:30:28,360
Speaker 1: a kid. Yeah. Yeah. Also also with them in the

1795
01:30:28,479 --> 01:30:28,960
Speaker 1: room too.

1796
01:30:29,080 --> 01:30:31,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why it's like, I don't know about you,

1797
01:30:31,320 --> 01:30:37,680
Speaker 2: but yeah.

1798
01:30:35,360 --> 01:30:37,200
Speaker 1: It's a blood baby, blood baby.

1799
01:30:37,439 --> 01:30:39,599
Speaker 2: I didn't want my kids to listen to any more

1800
01:30:39,600 --> 01:30:41,800
Speaker 2: of this, so I hated my son the keys and

1801
01:30:41,840 --> 01:30:43,719
Speaker 2: told him to wait in the car with his sisters.

1802
01:30:44,200 --> 01:30:47,160
Speaker 2: When they were gone. I asked my parents why the

1803
01:30:47,320 --> 01:30:51,120
Speaker 2: hell they said my kids were not their grandchildren. Yeah,

1804
01:30:51,920 --> 01:30:56,960
Speaker 2: good question, good question. And my mom replied that they

1805
01:30:57,000 --> 01:31:00,799
Speaker 2: couldn't be their grandchildren because they weren't really my children.

1806
01:31:04,360 --> 01:31:06,360
Speaker 1: Would you say that about an adopted kid?

1807
01:31:07,160 --> 01:31:09,479
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like, if someone is adopted, it's like,

1808
01:31:09,520 --> 01:31:14,160
Speaker 2: oh that's my kid, it's like, oh that's my adopted guardian.

1809
01:31:14,840 --> 01:31:18,439
Speaker 1: If I tiny human, are they a dido? P adopt

1810
01:31:18,439 --> 01:31:19,639
Speaker 1: the kids? I believe.

1811
01:31:20,360 --> 01:31:25,200
Speaker 2: I don't know a hundred percent if they're officially like

1812
01:31:25,400 --> 01:31:27,760
Speaker 2: legally adopted, but definitely like.

1813
01:31:28,360 --> 01:31:30,200
Speaker 1: They've been calling her mom for six years.

1814
01:31:30,439 --> 01:31:34,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I mean, that's that's pretty that's pretty good.

1815
01:31:36,680 --> 01:31:38,879
Speaker 2: My wife and I were going to be hosting Thanksgiving

1816
01:31:38,920 --> 01:31:41,240
Speaker 2: at our house. I told my parents if they didn't

1817
01:31:41,320 --> 01:31:44,120
Speaker 2: view my kids as family, then they could just host

1818
01:31:44,160 --> 01:31:46,880
Speaker 2: a meal. At their own house where their real family

1819
01:31:46,880 --> 01:31:48,559
Speaker 2: could spend a holiday with them.

1820
01:31:49,360 --> 01:31:52,640
Speaker 1: Yo, damn ultimatum.

1821
01:31:52,920 --> 01:31:56,120
Speaker 2: Yeah got to get stuff like this turkey crany that

1822
01:31:56,240 --> 01:31:59,360
Speaker 2: came out the wrong way. I left before they could

1823
01:31:59,360 --> 01:32:02,240
Speaker 2: say anything to me and my wife and I reiterated

1824
01:32:02,280 --> 01:32:04,599
Speaker 2: to the children that they will always be my kids

1825
01:32:04,600 --> 01:32:07,240
Speaker 2: and I will always be their mom, regardless of DNA.

1826
01:32:07,960 --> 01:32:10,840
Speaker 2: My brother is pissed at me now because he thinks

1827
01:32:10,960 --> 01:32:14,040
Speaker 2: I reacted too harshly and that I should try to

1828
01:32:14,080 --> 01:32:16,120
Speaker 2: see where my parents are coming from.

1829
01:32:16,360 --> 01:32:21,080
Speaker 1: Where are they coming from? It's easy. I'm okay with

1830
01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:24,440
Speaker 1: them saying, oh, it's our first like yo, grandchild, yea,

1831
01:32:24,800 --> 01:32:27,760
Speaker 1: or or you know, or grandbaby or whatever. Right, But

1832
01:32:27,880 --> 01:32:29,760
Speaker 1: like when the kid says, oh you being grand baby,

1833
01:32:29,800 --> 01:32:31,680
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, sorry, that's what we meant. That's what

1834
01:32:31,720 --> 01:32:33,360
Speaker 1: you say. You don't double down and be like you're

1835
01:32:33,400 --> 01:32:36,080
Speaker 1: not our kid. Yeah, yeah, you're not family. You're just

1836
01:32:36,120 --> 01:32:39,000
Speaker 1: a I understand, like the slip of the tongue, or yeah,

1837
01:32:39,120 --> 01:32:41,040
Speaker 1: you're just a meat bag that shows up to my house.

1838
01:32:41,240 --> 01:32:43,799
Speaker 2: My mom texted me saying that she and my dad

1839
01:32:44,080 --> 01:32:48,160
Speaker 2: love the kids, but they still aren't their grandchildren, and

1840
01:32:48,200 --> 01:32:50,439
Speaker 2: she hopes that we could come to understand because she

1841
01:32:50,479 --> 01:32:56,320
Speaker 2: doesn't want to ruin my niece's first Thanksgiving. I've a

1842
01:32:56,360 --> 01:32:59,599
Speaker 2: replied back, I meant what I said, but I'm worried

1843
01:32:59,680 --> 01:33:02,040
Speaker 2: that I'm might be reacting too harshly.

1844
01:33:02,439 --> 01:33:04,720
Speaker 1: Am I the A hole? No? I don't. I don't

1845
01:33:04,760 --> 01:33:07,479
Speaker 1: think op's the A hole. Yeah, I think I like

1846
01:33:07,720 --> 01:33:10,960
Speaker 1: honest mistake with like oh, our first grandchild, the double

1847
01:33:11,040 --> 01:33:12,360
Speaker 1: down and the quadruple down.

1848
01:33:12,439 --> 01:33:14,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does not make it keep doing it, which

1849
01:33:14,600 --> 01:33:18,880
Speaker 2: is like the crazy part literally like what, Yeah, I

1850
01:33:18,880 --> 01:33:19,240
Speaker 2: don't know