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Speaker 1: you nephew. Subject he's hiding money in our raggedy house.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty nine year old married

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Speaker 1: woman and my husband is fifty nine. We've been married

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Speaker 1: for six years and this is my first marriage and

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Speaker 1: his second. We dated a good while before he asked

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Speaker 1: me to marry him, and when I accepted his proposal,

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Speaker 1: I told him that I didn't want to live in

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Speaker 1: the house that he and his wife and kids lived in.

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Speaker 1: He rented out his house and we bought a fixer

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Speaker 1: upper house in a great neighborhood. I wanted a new house,

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Speaker 1: or at least one that was in great condition. He

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Speaker 1: that we still have linoleum taught linoleum tiles on the

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Speaker 1: countertops in the kitchens. It had been six years, and

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Speaker 1: I saved up money to do a few little things.

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Speaker 1: He hemmed and hawed, but he eventually helped me pick

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Speaker 1: out our flooring. He didn't offer to help me pay

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Speaker 1: for anything, because he said it was my impatience that

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Speaker 1: led to the renovation. A few weeks later, we were

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Speaker 1: packing up to go to my parents' home temporarily while

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Speaker 1: our floors are getting installed, and I just happened to

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Speaker 1: be peeking in at him in the bedroom. He carefully

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Speaker 1: of a shoe box, and I saw hundreds of dollars.

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Speaker 1: I ran into the room and tackled him and grabbed

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Speaker 1: the envelope. All he could say is that he had

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Speaker 1: to keep a stash because I love spending his money.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how he thought it was okay to

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Speaker 1: hide this large sum of money from me. I'm wondering

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Speaker 1: if you plan to leave me in this raggedy house?

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Speaker 1: Is that why he's not interested in doing any upgrades?

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Speaker 1: What is he up to? Well, before we get to that,

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Speaker 1: I just gotta say the visual of you busting in

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Speaker 1: the bedroom and tackling your huff but it's just a

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Speaker 1: little funny, Okay, that visual is funny, And I mean

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Speaker 1: you ask the question, what is he up to? Who

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Speaker 1: knows what mister secretive is up to? And why is

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Speaker 1: he being so shady with this money. I'm all for

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Speaker 1: having all for having your own money and not having

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Speaker 1: to always ask someone your husband in this case, for cash,

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Speaker 1: and of course there's also the house money and the

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Speaker 1: bill money. But just something about this doesn't sit well

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Speaker 1: with me. I mean, first, you say it's been six

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Speaker 1: has been stop And didn't you also say that you

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Speaker 1: saved the money yourself with no help from your husband.

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Speaker 1: He said it was your impatience that led to the renovation.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand that statement. What is he talking about.

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Speaker 1: It's been six years since you guys have been in

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Speaker 1: that house and nothing has been done. I mean, as

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Speaker 1: his house too. He seems like he would want to remodel.

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Speaker 1: I mean, especially the linoleum floors. You know, the only

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Speaker 1: explanation he had for stashing is that you love to

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Speaker 1: spend his money. His money, I mean, it's our money

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Speaker 1: you got. You guys are married. You know you're spending

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Speaker 1: money on the house. You saved the money for the house.

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Speaker 1: Is he trying to say, if you knew he had

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Speaker 1: the secret money, you would have spent that on the

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Speaker 1: house or something else. I'm so confused with that statement.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what is his stash money for if it's

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Speaker 1: not for the house. He sounds just very cheap to me,

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Speaker 1: very selfish to me, And he doesn't have any intentions

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Speaker 1: after six years of fixing this house up, I don't

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Speaker 1: see that. So, so now that you know you've caught

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Speaker 1: him with this money, you need you need to find

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Speaker 1: out what he's up to. We don't know what he's

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Speaker 1: up to. Insist you know, if you guys are gonna

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Speaker 1: stay married on a joint bank account for the house,

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Speaker 1: for the renovations. It's been six years, let's go. You know,

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Speaker 1: both of you should be contributing, not just you. It's

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Speaker 1: his house too, and it's his chiefment, is his cheapness?

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Speaker 1: Why his first marriage fails. These are some of the

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Speaker 1: questions you need to ask him. If you find out

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Speaker 1: the answers to this, maybe you'll find out what you

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Speaker 1: know the money he stashed is all about. Other than that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. This is crazy. You know he needs

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Speaker 1: your you need his help, Steve. I don't know about

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Speaker 1: this letter right here. I'm a little bit thrown off.

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Speaker 1: See he's had money in our raggedy house. But the

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Speaker 1: name of this letter to me is somebody life slash.

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Speaker 1: We ain't hid the whole truth. See, we're just not

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Speaker 1: hearing this whole story. I don't think because something is

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Speaker 1: But you know, one of us Uncle Steve's favorite things

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Speaker 1: to do, and one of my skills sets is to

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Speaker 1: dig under the circus to find out what's really going on.

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, let's go under the skinnon to find

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Speaker 1: out what's going on. Now. She forty nine. She her

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Speaker 1: husband is fifty nine. That's a ten year difference. Been

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Speaker 1: married six years, my first marriage, his second m that's

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Speaker 1: a little tale tale right there. This yr first time

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Speaker 1: he hadn't done this before. He's seen the movie before.

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Speaker 1: In other words, we dated a good while before he

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Speaker 1: so guess what he did? He rented out his house.

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Speaker 1: He honored that request. That was a big one. This

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Speaker 1: man already owned the house, but you didn't want to

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Speaker 1: leave it, he said. Cool. He rented out the house

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Speaker 1: and he bought a fixer up. Our house in a

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Speaker 1: great neighborhood. I wanted a new house, or at least one.

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Speaker 1: Dad was in great condition. He promised me he has

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Speaker 1: some great contractors and he would make my dreams of reality.

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Speaker 1: The house is so old. We got linoleum tiles on

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Speaker 1: what happened. Why you ain't gotten a kitchen yet? All right,

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Speaker 1: Steve hold On, Part two of your responses coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry Letters

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Speaker 1: subject He's hiding money in our raggedy house. We'll get

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Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening show, all right,

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject. He's

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Speaker 1: fighting money in our raggedy house. Yeah, you're having money

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Speaker 1: your raggedy house. Because we don't know the whole story.

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Speaker 1: But you've been married now for six years. He's rented

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Speaker 1: out the house. She told him you didn't want to

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Speaker 1: live in with his former wife and kids had, so

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Speaker 1: he rented it out as a good husband would doing.

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Speaker 1: He bought a fixer upper. You kind of wanted a

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Speaker 1: new house. He told you that he had some friends

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Speaker 1: and stuff and he'd get it fixed up. Well, you

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Speaker 1: wanted a new house. He said he had some contractors,

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Speaker 1: and the house is so old that y'all got linolean

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Speaker 1: floors on the kitchen, so you contacted professional come to

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Speaker 1: all the laminate countertops. It's been six years. I've saved

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Speaker 1: up money to do a few little things. He hemmed

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Speaker 1: He didn't offer to help me to pay for anything,

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Speaker 1: because he said it was my impatience that led to

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Speaker 1: the renovation. Now, unless it's where the letter gets tricky,

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Speaker 1: it's your impatience that led to the renovation or was

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Speaker 1: it his lie that led to you having to save

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Speaker 1: up to get the renovation? To See, now we're about

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Speaker 1: to peel back somebody skin on this onion right here

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Speaker 1: and put tears in your ass. I think it's because

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Speaker 1: of the fact that he's been married before and you ain't.

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Speaker 1: He's seen this movie before. Now you're telling me that

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Speaker 1: you've been saving up a little bit of money for

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Speaker 1: this laminated float, right and he wasn't gonna go for it.

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Speaker 1: Whose kitchen is that? Being? How much that flow costs?

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Speaker 1: So I don't know how much you had to save,

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Speaker 1: but it's a kitchen float. I don't know what you saved.

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Speaker 1: I'm not passive judgment. I don't like to do that,

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Speaker 1: but you saved up your little bit of money. But

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Speaker 1: we're talking six years though, So what have you been

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Speaker 1: doing and what have y'all been doing with the money

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Speaker 1: for six years? See, you've been buying something and I

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Speaker 1: think you may be buying some stuff that ain't got

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Speaker 1: nothing to do nothing? And he saw his money slipping

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Speaker 1: started stashing money before she get our hands on this

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Speaker 1: right here too, That's what I think happened, you know,

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Speaker 1: And then I see, here's here's what led me to

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Speaker 1: say that. A few weeks later, we were packing up

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Speaker 1: to go to my parents' home temporarily while your floors

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Speaker 1: process of getting done, right. I just happened to be

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Speaker 1: a big envelope out of a shoe box, and I

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Speaker 1: saw hundreds of dollars. You, being a gold digger that

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Speaker 1: the envelope. Dove on the man. Now, he was surprised

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Speaker 1: You make his head jerk, back, slob or wrapped around

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Speaker 1: because you tackled him in his lower back because he

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Speaker 1: I love spending his money. That's the key. See, for

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Speaker 1: six years he'd been watching you spend money on all

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Speaker 1: a floor. Now this man going away? Minute, man, hold on,

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Speaker 1: I've been chipping in. We've been doing this here. You

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Speaker 1: got me written out this house that I already paid for.

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Speaker 1: Now you over here. We were trying to do something else,

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Speaker 1: but you just spending money. You mess around after six

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Speaker 1: now you in't here tackling me for cash. See how

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Speaker 1: that look He thought it was okay. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how he thought it was okay to hide this large

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Speaker 1: want you to spend it. That's why he was hiding.

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering if he planned to leave me in this

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Speaker 1: think you're gonna spend it all. Every man I know

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Speaker 1: hasn't done. But what about the line about her impatience

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Speaker 1: led to the renovation. What does that mean. They've been

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Speaker 1: gotten it renovated. I said when I read the letter,

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's her impatience that's led to the renovation. Bore,

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Speaker 1: people come over your house and your house save rights.

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Speaker 1: The woman takes the blame for that, not the man.

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Speaker 1: Thank you know what she in here doing, how she

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Speaker 1: got all this food, and how she who decorated this

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Speaker 1: right here? What's she I understand it. That's not her fault.

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Speaker 1: He lied and said he's gonna fix the house up.

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Speaker 1: But what happened was as he was trying to save,

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Speaker 1: he was just watching her spending. So now, hold up,

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Speaker 1: I can't take what I'm saving and renovate this house

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Speaker 1: because she's spending all other money. Let me save some

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Speaker 1: we ain't gonna have no damn money. That's how she

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Speaker 1: what happened here is we have a spending problem, which

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Speaker 1: is leads to more divorces finance than even infidelity. And

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Speaker 1: y'all will get you will get left in that ragged

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Speaker 1: damn letters your fault. He needs to help her fix

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