WEBVTT - Asking For A Friend 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.159 Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:04.080 and The Black Effect. 0:00:17.200 --> 0:00:18.560 Oh shit, we on a air. 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:21.320 Welcome back to you another carefully reckless episode. 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:22.079 What's Your Girl? 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:25.600 Just hilarious. I do have my producer here, Taylor. She 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:29.680 is going to be reading y'all because listen, I'm eight 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:33.879 months and three weeks pregnant, and so one thing I 0:00:33.920 --> 0:00:34.360 can't do. 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:36.760 Is no. 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:38.440 That's going to sound crazy. One thing I can't do 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:38.880 is read. 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:42.199 No, So listen, no, no, because y'all about to be 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:44.319 fucking coming from me. I can read, and I can 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:46.760 read better than when I first started Breakfast Club. 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:48.400 Don't play with me, and I don't read with my 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:49.000 finger no more. 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:55.200 However, sometimes y'all punctuation is off and I'm just starting 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:59.120 to read well, so I need great punctuation. 0:00:59.280 --> 0:00:59.880 You know what I'm saying. 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.560 I'll be typing, fiddling them little thumbs and y'all be 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:04.240 like writing like Meek mil on. 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.640 Twitter, and I can decipher through it. 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:09.440 Also, I don't pre read the stories, guys, because I 0:01:09.440 --> 0:01:11.199 wanted to pop up on y'all just like it pop 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:14.039 up on me, all right, So we're gonna get straight 0:01:14.080 --> 0:01:17.560 into it. Unfortunately, we have no voice memos because you' 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:21.880 all scared of niggas knowing y'all voices. So we're gonna 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:25.640 read the stories. So let's say, hey, hey, y'all, what's up? 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:28.440 All right? Now here we go. First story. This is 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:29.160 a man, old woman. 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:30.320 That's a man. 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:33.240 That's a man. Okay, what's up, hey, Jess. 0:01:33.440 --> 0:01:36.840 I love women on a physical, emotional, spiritual and sexual level, 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:40.160 kissing second titties and tools while I'm inside her. 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:43.679 Oh yeah, damn, just give it to me straight the fuck? 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:48.880 How I got pregnant? Go ahead, city and sold sucking? 0:01:49.560 --> 0:01:50.279 All right, go ahead? 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:52.880 I love sucking dick. 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:57.880 What the fuck is wrong with people? Excuse me? 0:01:59.320 --> 0:02:02.960 Look, I love second dick and catch nut in my mouth. 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:06.360 Nothing about a man is attractive in my eyes though, 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:11.360 except a pretty dick, black, white, Latino, Asian, Indian. It 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:13.400 don't matter the race. Just give me the dick and 0:02:13.440 --> 0:02:15.840 give me that nut. 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:17.960 This nigga is wild. 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:22.240 When that dick pulsates in my mouth, that's such. It 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:25.160 turns me on a few times I've swallowed it. Felt 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:29.200 so good to taste that nut. Internet. Okay, all right, 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:34.160 So I don't kiss men. There's no intimate touching caressing 0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:38.040 or none of that sensual shit, even though dick slurping 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:41.480 is probably one of the most intimate. The thought of 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:44.799 kissing a man makes me want a gag. But I'll 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:46.040 definitely gag on that dick. 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:49.160 What is it this one of your friends? 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:53.120 Oh no, because every time the story is fucking crazy 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:54.400 to somebody you went to college with. 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:56.840 So I'm like, what's going on? 0:02:57.320 --> 0:03:01.960 Okay, go ahead, but seriously, this is bothering me because 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:02.959 I don't think I'm gay. 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:07.040 What makes a man? What makes a man. 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:10.320 To consider himself gay? Because I'll tell you, as a teenager, 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:12.600 the first time I gave a guy had I fucking 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:14.040 loved it, especially when. 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:17.000 As a teenager the first time I gave in to 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:18.200 ga head, I loved it. 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:19.040 But I'm not gay? 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:23.200 What especially when he came in my mouth by accident. 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:27.440 It could have just been an experiment thing, though, but 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:30.760 I cantfront. I got caught by a few ex girlfriends 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:33.560 when they went in my email that I usually delete, 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:36.960 but of course I was slipping. Also throughout the years, 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:40.040 while in a relationship, I occasionally suck some random dick. 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:46.720 It's ridiculous. Only a few people know about my teenage 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:49.240 dick sucking. Why is he talking like that? 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:49.960 Yes? 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:52.840 Like, come on, yo, is this real? Stop playing with me? 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:55.880 Because I got real mess to fixed, bitch, I can't 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:56.320 be up here. 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:58.320 Oh go ahead, girl. 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:02.880 But my gay sibling knows about the randoms, because of 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:03.920 course he does the same. 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:07.760 I know a brother like, no, why am I in it? Bitch? 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:09.040 I'm out? 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:13.920 Yeah. We both suck at random dicks, like come on, like, 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:15.680 don't play him out there like that. 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:20.680 Ahead even gave me tips on not to be swallowing 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:25.279 randoms and how to hit more hits on these apps. 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:29.599 I'm mad picky, though, because if a dick is ugly, 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:32.840 I'll pass. All my dick guzzling has been on the 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:36.520 d O via these gay apps I've been doing. I've 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:39.200 been doing it since the chat Lion days, like the 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:40.440 new Jersey Brooklyn. 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:44.240 Okay, oh so he from up here? 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:45.040 Yeah? 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:47.720 Okay, good. 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:54.880 So many different fancies I like to do. Suck out 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:58.480 a gloryhole, have a dick sucking gorgy with different dicks. 0:04:58.960 --> 0:05:05.599 Have what's a M three M with me and a 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:12.320 woman sucking a dick together? Okay, no anal pitching or catching. 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:15.599 If these don't even happen, I'll be okay with just 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:16.600 one dick at a time. 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:20.480 L O, l okay. 0:05:20.520 --> 0:05:26.880 After all that, I still consider myself straight and I 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:29.120 want to be married to a woman. But I know 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:32.320 I'm a piece of shit and that I love that 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:35.000 I have to stop and make a choice. Cheating ain't 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:39.039 shit regardless of sexuality. Although a loud gay men don't 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:45.520 consider second Dick gay, bye or any other LGBTQ member. 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:47.160 I don't think I should come out to a bunch 0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:50.200 of people since I don't like men like that. All 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:53.200 my friends don't need to know I like second dick. 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:55.520 Should I find a woman who is cool with my 0:05:55.560 --> 0:06:00.400 past and potential sucking dick cravings. Dick is like a drug. 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:04.640 All that has sucked dick before knows how good it tastes. 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.520 All right, I know I need your I need your help. 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:13.120 I kind of think, deep down I will be considered 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:15.720 gay by most straight people. It's because I'm. 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:18.440 The oh b it's not deep down you gay outside 0:06:18.480 --> 0:06:20.560 on the surface, that the fuck wrong with you. 0:06:20.920 --> 0:06:23.279 Just because I'm the one sucking the dick and taking 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:26.640 the nut. Especially women, Even a lot of bibe women 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:29.200 think men who suck one dick is gay. I really 0:06:29.200 --> 0:06:32.599 do consider myself straight. I know you're confused. I'm just 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:35.560 as confused. Only once in the blue moon. Well, I 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:36.960 let a guy suck my dick. 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:38.960 You just said. 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:41.919 To all of us, dick sucking. 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:44.240 Hold up, Hold up, I know the ship getting good. 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:46.600 But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:47.760 If you love me, you'll listen. 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:52.080 So what is the motherfucking question. 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:57.080 To know what he should he tell? I think he 0:06:57.279 --> 0:06:58.480 needs to know, like should. 0:06:58.200 --> 0:07:05.159 He tell women women like openly or well? One thing 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:08.279 that he was right about through all that dick sucking 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:14.240 passage was that cheating is wrong, no matter the sexuality. 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:17.000 But if you want to what a woman, so goddamn 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:20.440 bed but you have a passion. I'm talking about a 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:25.680 dying needs to suck dick. You are bisexual, honey, and 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:28.040 there are women who will accept you like you are. 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:30.480 You know what I'm saying. So I think you have 0:07:30.640 --> 0:07:35.520 to come clean. I know it doesn't sound embarrassing to you, because, baby, 0:07:35.560 --> 0:07:39.000 the way you just ran it down to me and 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:41.840 Taylor and the rest of these listeners in their car, 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:43.840 I don't think that's something that you should ever be 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:45.840 afraid of. I'm talking about you are more proud to 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:49.200 Saucy Santana about sucking some dick, okay, the way you 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:53.720 described it. So I think if you walk around loving yourself, 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:57.080 living in your motherfucking pride, you will be fine because, 0:07:57.080 --> 0:08:01.040 like I said, now, some women you gotta be you 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:05.160 gotta be open to the backlash, all right, because if baby, 0:08:05.200 --> 0:08:09.440 you make that sound like, oh lord, like I want 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:11.960 to go suck my boyfriend dick right now just because 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:13.520 how good he made that shit. 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:15.240 Sound, I'm like, hoh, the fuck up? What's going on? 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:18.600 I ain't slipping a minute, but yeah, because I'm pregnant 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:21.240 that I don't got time of that shit right now. Yeah, 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:25.800 but this shit is crazy, sir, h And the reason 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:27.960 why I'm saying it's crazy, it's not crazy that that's 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:33.440 your preference. It's crazy that you you don't think you're gay, like, 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:37.040 because you went from just sucking dick, only suckingd dick 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:38.079 that's the only thing I like to do up and 0:08:38.080 --> 0:08:39.360 doing it since I was a teenager, me and my 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:41.040 brother do it together, like you went from all of 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:46.839 that to I'll occasionally let a nigga suck my dick, baby, either, 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:52.720 that's a really, really distinctive fetish that you have or yes, 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:56.079 you are gay, you're just not you know you're bisexual. 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:59.480 You're just because you're still attracted to women sexually emotionally 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:04.199 like you said it. No, it's actually platonically whatever. You're 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:08.400 attracted to both and you are bisexual. But if that's 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:12.000 the case, then that's just what you are. You get 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:14.160 what I'm saying, like you can't beat well, I can't 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:16.480 say you can't be confused about it, But where is 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:19.000 the confusion setting If that's what you like to do, 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:21.520 you like to do that. I think guys, though, in general, 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:25.120 I think they do just see straight or gay. 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:29.800 They don't see by because I know I have a 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:32.320 friend that's gay, and he was trying to tell me, 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:37.120 like he's messed with the guys, yeah, but saying because 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:41.600 he doesn't, he hasn't messed with him. And that guy 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:45.400 claims that he's the only gay guy that he's messed with. 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:52.240 That even my friend like doesn't consider him gay because 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:54.719 because you haven't messed around or. 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:58.679 So your friend, so your gay friend does not classify 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:01.560 the straight got the d guy is gay. 0:10:01.840 --> 0:10:04.520 Not necessari saily he more so I guess he does 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:07.520 consider he says he's bisexual in a way. Okay, the 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:11.840 the d young guy hasn't basically accepted that of himself. 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:15.280 So that don't mean he's not gay. That means he's 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:15.720 not out. 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:18.280 And I was like, he's still mess with a guy before. 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:20.920 Yeah, that just means he's not out, you know what 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:27.199 I mean, he's not publicly gay. But yeah, yeah, that's why, 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:28.920 And that's what I'm trying to tell his nigga. 0:10:28.960 --> 0:10:33.840 Just because he loved women and you don't think he's gay. 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:35.160 Clearly he wants transgender. 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.200 Then yeah, what if he'd be like, now, hold up, 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:38.360 bit because I ain't say all. 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:40.840 That because look, if you want you love. 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:42.280 Women, because that's a whole another lane. 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:48.000 If you love women, I'm just saying, and they transition 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:51.240 a man trans to a woman, got the dick already, 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:52.760 and then you got the. 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:55.800 Woman or transsexual because transgender is when they don't have 0:10:55.920 --> 0:11:01.000 the dick anymore. Oh her, So he would like trans actuals. 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:02.880 Get you one. 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:07.600 But what if he like a straight nigga, Like what 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:11.040 if he like to suck the buff niggas dicks, like 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:14.440 the ones that don't even look like that game, like 0:11:14.440 --> 0:11:18.840 a like a nigga like luj or fucking fifty. 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:21.800 I don't think, but I don't think he's judging off 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:25.440 of you think he's judging off of the faith because. 0:11:25.200 --> 0:11:27.560 He because doesn't make sense then oh yeah, because he 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:31.199 did say but he's lying to me. 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:34.679 I felt like, I just feel like, you don't want 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:37.200 to be in a relationship with a man, but something 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:40.400 about that man turns you on before you see his dick, 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:44.680 because Nigga's not just walking around with their dicks hanging 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:47.840 out like you had. Something about the man has to 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:50.920 be attractive to you to where you want to see 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:53.560 his dick to suck it and let him not near 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:57.120 your mouth because he was like ugly dicks, but it 0:11:57.200 --> 0:11:59.200 was something. How did you get there to see the 0:11:59.240 --> 0:12:02.480 dick was ugly? He's a trades attracted some more than 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:02.840 the dick. 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:09.040 He's just I know, his little mouth is disgusting. I 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:10.920 just the nut. 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.040 And then and then you're going suck some bitch toes 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:18.640 and titties and oh. 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:23.160 Yeah, I wonder if you has to swallow. 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:26.400 Yeah, all their mouth condoms. I need to know because 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:32.880 people out here they know they don't. I'm like, uh, 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:37.720 you can't. You just can't trust that that was rather disgusting, sir, 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:40.240 But I think you need to be honest with your 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:41.040 goddamn self. 0:12:41.280 --> 0:12:44.520 You are attracted to both sexist. That's just what it is. 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:49.680 And until you really looking in the mirror and be like, Okay, 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:53.120 look this is who I am, it's gonna be harder 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:54.240 for you to move forward. 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:57.040 Like you said, I don't know, I'm confused you. 0:12:57.160 --> 0:12:59.440 You admitted it at the end of your passage, like 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:03.280 I'm confused myself. You know, you ain't too confused about 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:05.679 sucking dick. You're not confused about loving women, you know 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:08.200 what I mean. You're not confused about being attracted the guys. 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:09.120 You already got a brother. 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:09.640 That's gay. 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:10.240 Shit. 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:12.120 If that shit in you is in you, you feel 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:15.840 me like bus sorry because I know you ain't gonna 0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:16.440 say you took no dick. 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:17.600 I ain't talking about dick being in you. 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:22.640 I'm talking about if that same sex, sexuality, same sex agenda, 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:25.000 whatever the fuck. If that's in you, that shit is 0:13:25.040 --> 0:13:27.559 in you, you know, and you can't run from it 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:31.120 because that's what you're comfortable doing. Like you're more comfortable 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:34.400 talking about sucking dick than eating Busy Like that's you, 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:37.200 that's all you soon as I think of a dick, 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:43.520 I'm a thinking about you every time, super it motherfucker. 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:46.000 So I just think you need. 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:48.520 To be honest with yourself. That's how I feel about it. 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:51.120 Be honest with yourself and live in your truth. Baby, 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:54.440 You're bisexual, and there are women and men both who 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:57.600 will accept you the way that you are. And if 0:13:57.640 --> 0:14:00.360 nobody ever told you not, even the random, strangest dick 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:01.520 should be second that. 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:04.800 They love you. I love you. If you love me, 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:07.440 you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back. 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:12.480 Move on, Please, this is crazy. I was eating a 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:13.600 whole fucking sandwich. 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.960 Oh hey, Jess, So I need help from my friend. 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:20.600 I have a friend who's an educated woman with a 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:24.240 doctorate degree and great person. She adopted a young black 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:27.960 male from a dysfunctional family. She dated her now husband 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:31.800 for five years before he proposed. He proposed, They got married, 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:35.200 and he too adopted her son. He's a black male 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:38.520 who makes close to six figures. She also makes close 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:42.040 to six figures. The parents from the outside is they 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:44.640 are a power couple. They built this home in the 0:14:44.720 --> 0:14:48.640 area where we live for approximately worth a quarter of 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:51.920 a million dollars. She's between the ages of forty and 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.720 forty two. He's between the age of forty nine fifty one. 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:58.600 She's five nine, which approximately one fifty. She's a beautiful woman. 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:02.600 He's six y two in good shit as well. To me. 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:05.640 He's a good person. But he does not have sex 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:08.360 with his wife. He makes a lot of excuses for 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:12.160 not having sex. Also Mary, for approximately for four years, 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:16.000 they've had sex two and a half times. She's ready 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:19.120 to leave. Her patience is wearing thin. What do you think? 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:20.280 So wait a minute. 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:23.680 Okay, So they have this beautiful little boy that they adopted. 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:27.520 They're both black, right, okay, and they've been married for 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:28.400 four years. 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:29.680 She looks good. 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:32.240 He looks good, you know, as far as body build, 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:37.200 the parents, whatever. And in the course of their four 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:40.440 year marriage, they've only had sex two and a half times. 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:44.400 Yeah, but you know what though, she's not really saying 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:47.440 if her friend is black or not. She just says 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:48.640 that she's a beautiful woman. 0:15:49.040 --> 0:15:49.600 He's six too. 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:51.320 She never said anything about her race. 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:55.440 So she's sixteen and the man is fibably no, no, no, 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:56.880 you know he's six two. Oh. 0:15:56.920 --> 0:15:58.880 I was gonna say what dad goes right there. 0:15:59.160 --> 0:16:01.440 But she's between the ages of forty four two. He's 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:03.440 between the age of forty nine fifty one. 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:07.360 Oh, he's up there a little bit. And she's how old. 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:10.720 She's between forty and forty two? So just say here, 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:14.960 you're forty one, okay, okay, forty nine to fifty one, Okay, 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:15.480 so he's. 0:16:15.360 --> 0:16:18.320 Fifty, well, goofy. 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:24.280 What I think is it's really her, This is her 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:29.120 writing me and it's not it's not, no goddamn friend, 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:33.360 because what the hell, girl, I don't know that sound 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:35.320 like they got a whole bunch of problems, a whole 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:38.760 bunch of And then look, if you are the friend, 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:42.720 how do you know that it's not a reason for that? 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:44.760 It has to be It's no reason I'm going to 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:50.520 stay married to somebody for four years, four years and 0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:54.280 I only had sex within that four years two and 0:16:54.360 --> 0:16:54.960 a half times. 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:55.880 And then what is the half? 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:56.600 Right? 0:16:56.760 --> 0:17:00.440 Did he not finish? Was it only oral? 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:00.880 Like? 0:17:00.960 --> 0:17:03.760 What the hell? I don't like this one? So what 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:04.560 is she asking me? 0:17:05.840 --> 0:17:09.480 She's ready to leave appaci'ss rngthen should she stay? 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:11.920 Basically the patients are wearing thing. 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:16.920 You basically have a fucking virgin again, baby, Yeah, I mean, 0:17:18.119 --> 0:17:20.879 definitely leave but I just want to know that something 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:21.520 not work. 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:23.720 It might be it might be that because I. 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:26.439 Know, yeah, because that's even for him. He has sexual 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:29.359 needs as well. A man has sexual needs just like 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:31.880 a woman. And two and a half times within four 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:34.720 years is crazy, Like it may be something and maybe 0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:36.040 a medical issue that he has. 0:17:36.200 --> 0:17:39.480 I mean, is she is your friend checking on that, Like. 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:42.280 Maybe she don't want to tell you all of the 0:17:42.359 --> 0:17:45.200 business and she's just venting to you as a homegirl 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:48.639 that she's sexually frustrated because she hasn't been able to 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:51.080 have sex with her husband. But you know, ain't that 0:17:51.200 --> 0:17:54.000 much cheating into my fucking world to only fuck your 0:17:54.000 --> 0:17:57.000 wife for four years two and a half times. I 0:17:57.000 --> 0:17:58.679 think maybe it doesn't work. What was the reason for 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:01.399 them adopting, Like can not have children, you know what 0:18:01.440 --> 0:18:03.640 I'm saying. So it's either. 0:18:03.480 --> 0:18:03.920 One of them. 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:05.639 And there's your friend being honest with you, because it 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:07.320 could be her too, you know what I'm saying. 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:08.240 I'm not sure. 0:18:08.280 --> 0:18:10.560 I think that that sounds more of a medical issue 0:18:10.760 --> 0:18:13.959 something that them too need to that's way beyond just 0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:14.640 fix my mess. 0:18:14.680 --> 0:18:15.000 Baby. 0:18:15.320 --> 0:18:18.360 I can't fix nobody, Dick, I can't fix nobody. Plus 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:19.800 see I can't fix nobody. 0:18:21.080 --> 0:18:23.480 I wonder why she also put like, you know, she's 0:18:23.480 --> 0:18:26.080 a doctor, she has a doctor's degree. He makes six figures, like. 0:18:26.880 --> 0:18:29.000 Because in her mind, it's sound like she's selling this 0:18:29.080 --> 0:18:32.680 couple as a dream couple, like they are the perfect couple. 0:18:33.440 --> 0:18:34.080 You know what I'm saying. 0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:37.639 They look good together, like image wise, that's what it 0:18:37.680 --> 0:18:40.440 sounds like, image and status. 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:42.840 But and that's where she says, she goes, he's six 0:18:42.960 --> 0:18:44.119 two in good shape. 0:18:43.920 --> 0:18:49.520 As well, to me, to you, but you're talking about 0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:51.920 to you, Yeah, from the outside looking at the man 0:18:51.960 --> 0:18:54.119 inside is probably fucked up as the day is long, 0:18:54.240 --> 0:18:59.840 you don't know, like maybe yeah, maybe there's having so 0:19:01.040 --> 0:19:04.240 he makes a lot of excuses. Do your homegirl, know 0:19:04.280 --> 0:19:08.480 you telling me all this shit? Because this sounds this 0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:11.640 sound likes something that you shouldn't even fucking know to 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:14.159 be honest, But yeah, I may. I understand that girls 0:19:14.240 --> 0:19:16.640 talk and girls talk to each other all the time. 0:19:16.680 --> 0:19:19.199 Of course your friend is a woman. She needs to 0:19:19.280 --> 0:19:23.359 vent what are the excuses? Yeah, that he may be gay. 0:19:23.560 --> 0:19:27.080 I mean that's also another thing as well. But if 0:19:27.080 --> 0:19:29.600 you didn't know that and can't see that in four years, 0:19:30.520 --> 0:19:35.360 like shit, seriously, now, listen, there are DL marriages, DL relationships. 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:37.880 Do you'd be surprised how long a nigga can fake 0:19:37.960 --> 0:19:41.480 that he's gay or pretend that he isn't gay. But 0:19:43.040 --> 0:19:47.000 four years you didn't know at all. That's why I 0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:50.159 think it's medical. But does she give an example of 0:19:50.200 --> 0:19:53.160 an excuse? Like, give us an example of an excuse? 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:55.800 It's like how you going to tell a business but 0:19:56.000 --> 0:19:59.040 not enough tell they goddamn business? What do he say? 0:19:59.160 --> 0:20:00.680 So you need to write me because I don't even 0:20:00.720 --> 0:20:02.639 know how to help. I'm trying to send a nigga 0:20:02.680 --> 0:20:05.000 to the doctor. Taylor City Gay. I don't know what's 0:20:05.040 --> 0:20:08.920 going so you need to let us know. All right, 0:20:09.280 --> 0:20:11.119 And just like that, we've come to the end of 0:20:11.200 --> 0:20:13.320 yet another carefully reckless episode with your Carol J just 0:20:13.480 --> 0:20:16.080 hilarious and your girl Taylor. Say by to the people 0:20:16.119 --> 0:20:20.320 tailor and say thank you, thank thank yeah you I'm 0:20:20.359 --> 0:20:23.040 saying you, say thank you to the people for listening, 0:20:23.080 --> 0:20:27.760 you for writing, and let's ever mind y'all. 0:20:27.760 --> 0:20:29.560 All right, We'll just see y'all next week. 0:20:30.080 --> 0:20:35.760