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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and The Black Effect.

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, we on a air.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to you another carefully reckless episode.

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Speaker 2: What's Your Girl?

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Speaker 1: Just hilarious. I do have my producer here, Taylor. She

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Speaker 1: is going to be reading y'all because listen, I'm eight

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Speaker 1: months and three weeks pregnant, and so one thing I

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Speaker 1: can't do.

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Speaker 3: Is no.

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Speaker 2: That's going to sound crazy. One thing I can't do

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Speaker 2: is read.

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Speaker 1: No, So listen, no, no, because y'all about to be

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Speaker 1: fucking coming from me. I can read, and I can

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Speaker 1: read better than when I first started Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: Don't play with me, and I don't read with my

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Speaker 2: finger no more.

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Speaker 1: However, sometimes y'all punctuation is off and I'm just starting

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Speaker 1: to read well, so I need great punctuation.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I'll be typing, fiddling them little thumbs and y'all be

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Speaker 1: like writing like Meek mil on.

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Speaker 2: Twitter, and I can decipher through it.

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Speaker 1: Also, I don't pre read the stories, guys, because I

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Speaker 1: wanted to pop up on y'all just like it pop

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Speaker 1: up on me, all right, So we're gonna get straight

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Speaker 1: into it. Unfortunately, we have no voice memos because you'

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Speaker 1: all scared of niggas knowing y'all voices. So we're gonna

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Speaker 1: read the stories. So let's say, hey, hey, y'all, what's up?

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Speaker 2: All right? Now here we go. First story. This is

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Speaker 2: a man, old woman.

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Speaker 3: That's a man.

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Speaker 2: That's a man. Okay, what's up, hey, Jess.

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Speaker 3: I love women on a physical, emotional, spiritual and sexual level,

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Speaker 3: kissing second titties and tools while I'm inside her.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, damn, just give it to me straight the fuck?

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Speaker 2: How I got pregnant? Go ahead, city and sold sucking?

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Speaker 2: All right, go ahead?

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Speaker 3: I love sucking dick.

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Speaker 2: What the fuck is wrong with people? Excuse me?

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Speaker 3: Look, I love second dick and catch nut in my mouth.

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Speaker 3: Nothing about a man is attractive in my eyes though,

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Speaker 3: except a pretty dick, black, white, Latino, Asian, Indian. It

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Speaker 3: don't matter the race. Just give me the dick and

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Speaker 3: give me that nut.

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Speaker 2: This nigga is wild.

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Speaker 3: When that dick pulsates in my mouth, that's such. It

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Speaker 3: turns me on a few times I've swallowed it. Felt

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Speaker 3: so good to taste that nut. Internet. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 3: So I don't kiss men. There's no intimate touching caressing

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Speaker 3: or none of that sensual shit, even though dick slurping

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Speaker 3: is probably one of the most intimate. The thought of

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Speaker 3: kissing a man makes me want a gag. But I'll

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Speaker 3: definitely gag on that dick.

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Speaker 2: What is it this one of your friends?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, because every time the story is fucking crazy

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Speaker 1: to somebody you went to college with.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead, but seriously, this is bothering me because

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Speaker 3: I don't think I'm gay.

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Speaker 2: What makes a man? What makes a man.

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Speaker 3: To consider himself gay? Because I'll tell you, as a teenager,

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Speaker 3: the first time I gave a guy had I fucking

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Speaker 3: loved it, especially when.

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Speaker 1: As a teenager the first time I gave in to

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Speaker 2: But I'm not gay?

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Speaker 3: What especially when he came in my mouth by accident.

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Speaker 3: It could have just been an experiment thing, though, but

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Speaker 3: I cantfront. I got caught by a few ex girlfriends

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Speaker 3: when they went in my email that I usually delete,

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Speaker 3: but of course I was slipping. Also throughout the years,

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Speaker 3: while in a relationship, I occasionally suck some random dick.

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Speaker 3: It's ridiculous. Only a few people know about my teenage

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Speaker 3: dick sucking. Why is he talking like that?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Like, come on, yo, is this real? Stop playing with me?

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Speaker 1: Because I got real mess to fixed, bitch, I can't

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Speaker 2: Oh go ahead, girl.

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Speaker 3: But my gay sibling knows about the randoms, because of

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Speaker 3: course he does the same.

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Speaker 2: I know a brother like, no, why am I in it? Bitch?

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Speaker 2: I'm out?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. We both suck at random dicks, like come on, like,

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Speaker 3: Ahead even gave me tips on not to be swallowing

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Speaker 3: randoms and how to hit more hits on these apps.

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Speaker 3: I'm mad picky, though, because if a dick is ugly,

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Speaker 3: I'll pass. All my dick guzzling has been on the

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Speaker 3: d O via these gay apps I've been doing. I've

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Speaker 3: new Jersey Brooklyn.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh so he from up here?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, good.

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Speaker 3: So many different fancies I like to do. Suck out

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Speaker 3: a gloryhole, have a dick sucking gorgy with different dicks.

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Speaker 3: Have what's a M three M with me and a

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Speaker 3: woman sucking a dick together? Okay, no anal pitching or catching.

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Speaker 3: If these don't even happen, I'll be okay with just

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Speaker 3: After all that, I still consider myself straight and I

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Speaker 3: want to be married to a woman. But I know

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Speaker 3: I'm a piece of shit and that I love that

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Speaker 3: I have to stop and make a choice. Cheating ain't

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Speaker 3: shit regardless of sexuality. Although a loud gay men don't

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Speaker 3: consider second Dick gay, bye or any other LGBTQ member.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I should come out to a bunch

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Speaker 3: of people since I don't like men like that. All

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Speaker 3: my friends don't need to know I like second dick.

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Speaker 3: Should I find a woman who is cool with my

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Speaker 3: past and potential sucking dick cravings. Dick is like a drug.

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Speaker 3: All that has sucked dick before knows how good it tastes.

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Speaker 3: All right, I know I need your I need your help.

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Speaker 3: I kind of think, deep down I will be considered

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Speaker 3: gay by most straight people. It's because I'm.

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Speaker 1: The oh b it's not deep down you gay outside

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Speaker 1: on the surface, that the fuck wrong with you.

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Speaker 3: Just because I'm the one sucking the dick and taking

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Speaker 3: the nut. Especially women, Even a lot of bibe women

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Speaker 3: think men who suck one dick is gay. I really

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Speaker 3: do consider myself straight. I know you're confused. I'm just

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Speaker 3: as confused. Only once in the blue moon. Well, I

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Speaker 3: let a guy suck my dick.

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Speaker 2: You just said.

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Speaker 3: To all of us, dick sucking.

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Speaker 1: Hold up, Hold up, I know the ship getting good.

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Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.

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Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen.

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Speaker 2: So what is the motherfucking question.

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Speaker 3: To know what he should he tell? I think he

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Speaker 3: needs to know, like should.

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Speaker 1: He tell women women like openly or well? One thing

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Speaker 1: that he was right about through all that dick sucking

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Speaker 1: passage was that cheating is wrong, no matter the sexuality.

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Speaker 1: But if you want to what a woman, so goddamn

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Speaker 1: dying needs to suck dick. You are bisexual, honey, and

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Speaker 1: there are women who will accept you like you are.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So I think you have

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Speaker 1: to come clean. I know it doesn't sound embarrassing to you, because, baby,

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Speaker 1: the way you just ran it down to me and

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Speaker 1: Taylor and the rest of these listeners in their car,

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's something that you should ever be

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Speaker 1: afraid of. I'm talking about you are more proud to

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Speaker 1: Saucy Santana about sucking some dick, okay, the way you

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Speaker 1: described it. So I think if you walk around loving yourself,

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Speaker 1: living in your motherfucking pride, you will be fine because,

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Speaker 1: like I said, now, some women you gotta be you

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Speaker 1: gotta be open to the backlash, all right, because if baby,

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Speaker 1: you make that sound like, oh lord, like I want

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Speaker 1: to go suck my boyfriend dick right now just because

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Speaker 1: how good he made that shit.

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Speaker 2: Sound, I'm like, hoh, the fuck up? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: I ain't slipping a minute, but yeah, because I'm pregnant

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Speaker 1: that I don't got time of that shit right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but this shit is crazy, sir, h And the reason

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Speaker 1: why I'm saying it's crazy, it's not crazy that that's

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Speaker 1: your preference. It's crazy that you you don't think you're gay, like,

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Speaker 1: because you went from just sucking dick, only suckingd dick

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Speaker 1: that's the only thing I like to do up and

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Speaker 1: doing it since I was a teenager, me and my

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Speaker 1: that to I'll occasionally let a nigga suck my dick, baby, either,

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Speaker 1: that's a really, really distinctive fetish that you have or yes,

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Speaker 1: you are gay, you're just not you know you're bisexual.

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Speaker 1: You're just because you're still attracted to women sexually emotionally

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Speaker 1: like you said it. No, it's actually platonically whatever. You're

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Speaker 1: attracted to both and you are bisexual. But if that's

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like you can't beat well, I can't

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Speaker 1: say you can't be confused about it, But where is

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Speaker 1: the confusion setting If that's what you like to do,

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Speaker 1: I think they do just see straight or gay.

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Speaker 3: They don't see by because I know I have a

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Speaker 3: like he's messed with the guys, yeah, but saying because

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Speaker 3: he doesn't, he hasn't messed with him. And that guy

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Speaker 3: That even my friend like doesn't consider him gay because

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Speaker 1: So your friend, so your gay friend does not classify

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Speaker 3: Not necessari saily he more so I guess he does

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Speaker 3: the d young guy hasn't basically accepted that of himself.

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Speaker 2: So that don't mean he's not gay. That means he's

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Speaker 3: And I was like, he's still mess with a guy before.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that just means he's not out, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's not publicly gay. But yeah, yeah, that's why,

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Speaker 1: And that's what I'm trying to tell his nigga.

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Speaker 2: Just because he loved women and you don't think he's gay.

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Speaker 3: Clearly he wants transgender.

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Speaker 2: Then yeah, what if he'd be like, now, hold up,

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Speaker 3: That because look, if you want you love.

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Speaker 2: Women, because that's a whole another lane.

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Speaker 3: If you love women, I'm just saying, and they transition

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Speaker 3: a man trans to a woman, got the dick already,

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Speaker 3: and then you got the.

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Speaker 1: Woman or transsexual because transgender is when they don't have

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Speaker 1: the dick anymore. Oh her, So he would like trans actuals.

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Speaker 2: Get you one.

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Speaker 1: But what if he like a straight nigga, Like what

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Speaker 1: if he like to suck the buff niggas dicks, like

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Speaker 1: the ones that don't even look like that game, like

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Speaker 1: a like a nigga like luj or fucking fifty.

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Speaker 3: I don't think, but I don't think he's judging off

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Speaker 3: of you think he's judging off of the faith because.

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Speaker 2: He because doesn't make sense then oh yeah, because he

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Speaker 2: did say but he's lying to me.

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Speaker 1: I felt like, I just feel like, you don't want

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wonder if you has to swallow.

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Speaker 2: You are attracted to both sexist. That's just what it is.

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Speaker 2: Like you said, I don't know, I'm confused you.

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Speaker 1: You already got a brother.

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Speaker 1: If that shit in you is in you, you feel

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Speaker 1: To be honest with yourself. That's how I feel about it.

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Speaker 1: You're bisexual, and there are women and men both who

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Speaker 2: They love you. I love you. If you love me,

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Speaker 1: Move on, Please, this is crazy. I was eating a

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Speaker 3: Oh hey, Jess, So I need help from my friend.

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Speaker 3: I have a friend who's an educated woman with a

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Speaker 3: forty two. He's between the age of forty nine fifty one.

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Speaker 3: She's five nine, which approximately one fifty. She's a beautiful woman.

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Speaker 3: He's six y two in good shit as well. To me.

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Speaker 3: He's a good person. But he does not have sex

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Speaker 2: So wait a minute.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So they have this beautiful little boy that they adopted.

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Speaker 1: They're both black, right, okay, and they've been married for

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Speaker 2: She looks good.

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Speaker 1: He looks good, you know, as far as body build,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know what though, she's not really saying

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Speaker 2: He's six too.

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Speaker 3: She never said anything about her race.

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Speaker 1: So she's sixteen and the man is fibably no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you know he's six two. Oh.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say what dad goes right there.

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Speaker 3: But she's between the ages of forty four two. He's

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Speaker 3: She's between forty and forty two? So just say here,

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Speaker 2: Fifty, well, goofy.

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Speaker 1: What I think is it's really her, This is her

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Speaker 1: because what the hell, girl, I don't know that sound

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Speaker 1: like they got a whole bunch of problems, a whole

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Speaker 1: how do you know that it's not a reason for that?

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Speaker 1: It has to be It's no reason I'm going to

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Speaker 1: I only had sex within that four years two and

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Speaker 2: And then what is the half?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 2: Did he not finish? Was it only oral?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: What the hell? I don't like this one? So what

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Speaker 3: She's ready to leave appaci'ss rngthen should she stay?

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Speaker 2: Basically the patients are wearing thing.

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Speaker 1: You basically have a fucking virgin again, baby, Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: definitely leave but I just want to know that something

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Speaker 3: It might be it might be that because I.

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Speaker 1: Know, yeah, because that's even for him. He has sexual

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Speaker 2: I mean, is she is your friend checking on that, Like.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she don't want to tell you all of the

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Speaker 1: that she's sexually frustrated because she hasn't been able to

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Speaker 1: much cheating into my fucking world to only fuck your

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Speaker 2: One of them.

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Speaker 1: And there's your friend being honest with you, because it

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 1: I think that that sounds more of a medical issue

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Speaker 1: something that them too need to that's way beyond just

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Speaker 1: fix my mess.

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Speaker 2: Baby.

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Speaker 1: I can't fix nobody, Dick, I can't fix nobody. Plus

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Speaker 1: see I can't fix nobody.

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Speaker 3: I wonder why she also put like, you know, she's

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Speaker 1: Because in her mind, it's sound like she's selling this

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: They look good together, like image wise, that's what it

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Speaker 3: But and that's where she says, she goes, he's six

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Speaker 1: As well, to me, to you, but you're talking about

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Speaker 1: you don't know, like maybe yeah, maybe there's having so

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Speaker 1: he makes a lot of excuses. Do your homegirl, know

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Speaker 1: you telling me all this shit? Because this sounds this

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Speaker 1: sound likes something that you shouldn't even fucking know to

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Speaker 1: be honest, But yeah, I may. I understand that girls

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Speaker 1: Of course your friend is a woman. She needs to

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Speaker 1: vent what are the excuses? Yeah, that he may be gay.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's also another thing as well. But if

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Speaker 1: like shit, seriously, now, listen, there are DL marriages, DL relationships.

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Speaker 1: Do you'd be surprised how long a nigga can fake

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Speaker 1: four years you didn't know at all. That's why I

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Speaker 1: think it's medical. But does she give an example of

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Speaker 1: It's like how you going to tell a business but

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Speaker 1: So you need to write me because I don't even

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Speaker 1: know how to help. I'm trying to send a nigga

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Speaker 1: to the doctor. Taylor City Gay. I don't know what's

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Speaker 1: going so you need to let us know. All right,

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Speaker 1: And just like that, we've come to the end of

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Speaker 1: yet another carefully reckless episode with your Carol J just

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Speaker 1: hilarious and your girl Taylor. Say by to the people

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Speaker 1: tailor and say thank you, thank thank yeah you I'm

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Speaker 1: saying you, say thank you to the people for listening,

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Speaker 1: you for writing, and let's ever mind y'all.

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Speaker 2: All right, We'll just see y'all next week.

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Speaker 1: I love y'all, and tune in each and every Wednesday, y'all,

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Speaker 1: and also turn into the Breakfast Club I'll be fixing

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Speaker 1: mess own Thursdays.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how much more long I can do it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this baby is trying to crawl up

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Speaker 1: out of me right now, Lord, and I'll be so happy,

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Speaker 1: so I can smoke a blunt, you know, and just

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Speaker 1: go out in the streets, give this baby to her

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Speaker 1: father and be like, hey, y'all, what I miss So

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Speaker 1: we'll be back next week. And in my deepest painful

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Speaker 1: oh no, I'll do that peace, no more. Bye bye.

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